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The Murderous Heart (Matthew 5:21-26)- Dalton D. Vetter

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  1. Good evening. As Pastor Kenny mentioned, we are

  2. beginning a new sermon series tonight. And due

  3. to a mystery white substance that myself and

  4. my fellow Midwesterners like to call snow, I

  5. have the honor and privilege of beginning it

  6. tonight. And as Kenny and I began talking through

  7. the sermon series and what he had in mind for

  8. it and dealing with issues of I thought back

  9. on my own life and I looked at society. And I

  10. realized that more than anything else, the sin

  11. of anger unfortunately defines the life of many

  12. Christians and the life of many non -believers.

  13. And it's one we can see so commonly, even in

  14. the interactions with our spouses. Maybe you

  15. men have been gone for a long day of work, you've

  16. been gone for... nine or 10 hours and you come

  17. home and the first thing your wife asks you to

  18. do is take out the garbage. Or wives, maybe you've

  19. had a long day with the children, they've been

  20. sick, they've been throwing up, they got into

  21. too much Valentine's Day candy and they have

  22. been running rampant all over the house. And

  23. you just need some help but your husband comes

  24. home and he collapses tired and he wakes up the

  25. next day ready for you to yell at him. And it's

  26. one that we can see amongst believers online

  27. as they argue theology, or even in person when

  28. they argue theology. They are quick to throw

  29. insults. This sin, the sin of anger, is ultimately

  30. defined as murder. And Christian, you need to

  31. face it, you are a murderer. At least that is

  32. how Jesus defines it. In our text tonight, Matthew

    Matthew 5:21–26

  33. 5 verses 21 through 26. Again the the text that

  34. Jesus uses to define anger is found in Matthew

    Matthew 5:21–26

  35. 5 verse 21 through 26 You have heard it said

  36. You heard that it was said to those of old you

  37. shall not murder and whoever murders will be

  38. liable to judgment But I say to you that everyone

  39. who is angry with his brother will be liable

  40. to judgment Whoever insults his brother will

  41. be liable to counsel and whoever says you fool

  42. will be liable to the hell of fire. So if you

  43. are offering your gift at the altar and there

  44. you remember that your brother has something

  45. against you, leave your gift there before the

  46. altar and go. First, be reconciled to your brother

  47. and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms

  48. quickly with your accuser while you are going

  49. with him to court. Least your accuser hand you

  50. over to the judge and the judge to the guard

  51. and you be put in prison. Truly I say to you,

  52. you will never get out until you have paid the

  53. last penny." Now if we are going to understand

  54. this text, I think it is first right and proper

  55. to go to God in prayer and ask for help and understanding.

  56. Our Lord and our God, we ask you as we examine

  57. the words of your son tonight that you would

  58. open our eyes to see and our ears to hear that

  59. we would understand. what you would like us to,

  60. that we would understand how great of God we

  61. have because we are great sinners, and we have

  62. failed on so many accounts. And we need your

  63. help, Lord. Help us tonight through your Holy

  64. Spirit to understand what is in this text. And

  65. I pray all of this in Jesus' name, amen. Now

  66. as we move into this text, I think it's important

  67. to understand where we are at to have some background.

  68. because this sermon is right at the start of

  69. Jesus' ministry. It comes after his baptism.

  70. It comes after his 40 days in the wilderness

  71. where he was let out and tested by Satan. At

  72. this point, he has called his disciples and he

  73. has began to teach. He started in the region

  74. of Galilee as he gathered people around him from

  75. Jerusalem and Judea and the Decapolis, really

  76. the central and southern parts of Israel. and

  77. he has taken them north to Galilee. And he takes

  78. them up on this mountain to preach because Jesus

  79. did not have the convenience of having a microphone

  80. like we have this evening. He had to get above

  81. the crowd. So he takes them up to the mountain

  82. and he begins to preach. And he begins with the

  83. Beatitudes, explaining the types of characteristics

  84. that should mark believers in the kingdom of

  85. God. Then he moves into how he fulfills the law

  86. and the true meaning of it. And he begins, actually,

  87. with the sixth commandment of the law, which

  88. is, thou shall not murder. And he recounts this

  89. in verse 21. You have heard it said that those

  90. of old you shall not murder, and whoever murders

  91. will be liable to judgment. Jesus, in this statement,

  92. he's doing two things. He's quoting the sixth

  93. commandment from Exodus chapter 20, but he's

    Exodus 20 chapter mention

  94. also counting the scribes and the Pharisees.

  95. the people that were deemed more righteous than

  96. everyone else. These were the Billy Grahams of

  97. your day, your R .C. Sproul, your John MacArthur,

  98. your Pastor Kennes. But unfortunately, they did

  99. not have the same level of grace that any of

  100. those men have or had. They had their Pharisaical

  101. view. It was very literal, it was very wooden.

  102. And I don't even think... literal is the right

  103. definition. It was literalistic. They made it

  104. so literal, it forced any other meaning out of

  105. the text. And so as the scribes and Pharisees

  106. approached the issue of murder, they just said,

  107. well, as long as I keep my hands clean, and I

  108. do not lay my hand upon my wife or another man,

  109. and I do not take their life and cold blooded

  110. murder, then I'm okay. This verse is not referring

  111. to killing in self -defense or killing in a time

  112. of war, but this is cold, and this is a cold

  113. -blooded murder, murder in the first degree.

  114. And Jesus rightly explains that anyone who murders

  115. will be liable to judgment. This is the idea

  116. of eye for the eye, which actually comes from

  117. Leviticus 24, 17, which states, whoever takes

  118. a human life shall surely be put to death. It

  119. is just in the eyes of God that those who murder

  120. in cold blood, they should also have their life

  121. taken. But Jesus does not want to stay on this

  122. wooden understanding of the law. He wants to

  123. get at the heart of it, what is behind it, to

  124. the heart of the believer. The law was never

  125. meant to be a box to live in. It was meant to

  126. be a convicting sight that stood before believers

  127. that made them look inward. That made them understand

  128. their sin and the weight of it and that was meant

  129. to drive them to a holy God to a holy Savior

  130. and Jesus goes on to explain it says I say to

  131. you to you Now it's important to understand that

  132. Jesus is not adding something new to the law

  133. He is doing he is explaining what the law always

  134. meant That it was meant to get at the heart.

  135. I love how pastor Adriel Sanchez puts it in this

  136. passage, the law of God has jurisdiction over

  137. our hearts just as much as he has it over our

  138. hands. The law was always meant to guide the

  139. heart just as much as it did our hands. And this

  140. is where we will have our great accusation from

  141. Christ that we are murderers. Because he begins

  142. to say, whoever becomes angry with his brother

  143. is liable to judgment. He takes the words from

  144. the law, from the wooden understanding of it,

  145. and he puts it into practice at the heart level.

  146. He talks about anger. Now this anger is not a

  147. holy and righteous anger. We know from Ephesians

  148. 4 that you can be angry and you cannot sin. We

  149. see Jesus even execute this type of anger when

  150. he goes into the temple to cleanse it out. He

  151. goes into the temple and he sees the tax collectors

  152. and the money changers exchanging money and selling

  153. goods and selling things to sacrifice. But this

  154. was not the place to do sale. This was the place

  155. to sacrifice, to come and worship. And Jesus

  156. and his anger drove them out, flipping the tables,

  157. even forming a whip as he began to chase them.

  158. This is a holy and righteous anger. And you might

  159. not think, well, forming a whip and chasing people

  160. out is not very righteous. But you are dealing

  161. with the Son of God, someone who knew and knows

  162. the law perfectly. And the mercy that he showed

  163. in that forming of a whip and the flipping of

  164. the tables was one that was designed to keep

  165. those men, those people from eternal judgment.

  166. That maybe in this one action of Christ, they

  167. would repent and turn to God, that they would

  168. come to worship instead of coming to sell. This

  169. is a type of anger that many believers struggle

  170. with. There's maybe one time in my life where

  171. I could say I was genuinely angry in a righteous

  172. way. Because usually our anger comes from a sense

  173. of pride. It comes from a sense of self -righteousness.

  174. It's the same exact sin that the serpent committed

  175. in the garden. He put himself above God. And

  176. that is what we are quick to do. We do not need

  177. provocation. We do not need anyone calling us

  178. a name or doing anything. We just need One action,

  179. maybe they just look at us wrong. They don't

  180. have to get to calling us a name. Maybe our neighbor

  181. looks at us funny one morning as we were walking

  182. up to the car and we do not like the way that

  183. they look at us. So we decide to take vengeance

  184. upon them. We decide to go over to their garden

  185. and pull up all of their daisies and leave it

  186. as a dirt bed. There's no reasonableness to our

  187. anger. Our anger will make us punch holes in

  188. walls, throw our keys out the window of our cars,

  189. curse at people going down the street. And I

  190. think for me, the perfect example of this comes

  191. from freshman year in high school when I played

  192. football. And I know many of the women are really

  193. a football analogy. You're just going to have

  194. to bear with me. I'll do my best to explain the

  195. terms of the game. When I played football freshman

  196. year, I was third string. As third string that

  197. meant I was not the primary people. I was not

  198. the backup to the primary people. I was the backup

  199. to the backup. Which meant in rivalry games I

  200. never got a chance to play. And we were playing

  201. one of our main rivals one evening and I had

  202. sat through about three quarters of the game.

  203. Well enough people were tired from this bitter

  204. rivalry taking place that I had the opportunity

  205. to go in at kick return. Now kick return happens

  206. when the game is progressing. and the other team

  207. is not making it far enough up the field so you

  208. get to go in and someone gets to catch the ball

  209. as it gets kicked off and your job or my job

  210. at the time was to protect the guy running up

  211. the field. While I had sat there on the bench

  212. being filled with more anger because we were

  213. not doing well in the game I was not getting

  214. a chance to go out there and fight alongside

  215. of my brothers and I decided as we took off down

  216. the field before the guy I was meant to defend

  217. even got to the running back, I decided to hit

  218. him with all my force and with all my might.

  219. And if you know football, you know that would

  220. be a massive personal foul and would result in

  221. time on the bench if it was not for high school.

  222. But what happened in that instance is he got

  223. thrown on his back and I got thrown on my back

  224. and I think we both stood up with a concussion

  225. not knowing what just happened. And that is the

  226. type of anger that Jesus is challenging here.

  227. It came out of my own pride. Our anger comes

  228. out of our own pride, and it makes us do ridiculous

  229. things that often get us hurt, and most definitely

  230. hurts those around us. And this type of anger

  231. leaves us liable to judgment. It leaves us liable

  232. to go before a local council, and this time it

  233. would have been seven elders or seven religious

  234. leaders that had the ability to pronounce a prison

  235. sentence, or at worst even a quick death penalty,

  236. something like a beheading, something that happened

  237. instantaneously. they were able to handle unjustified

  238. murder. And so in this case, they would be able

  239. to handle our unjustified anger. Now this anger

  240. does not usually stand on its own, it usually

  241. progresses as Jesus progresses in the text. And

  242. he said, whoever insults his brother will be

  243. liable to counsel. Now if you have a different

  244. translation, you might see the word, call his

  245. brother Raka. It is a Greek term. And it's most

  246. similar to the German word Doomkopf, which just

  247. means dumb head if you translate it literally.

  248. Empty headed, stupid, airhead, any of those types

  249. of words that you can think of. It is a full

  250. insult. It was really a cultural word that you

  251. were not meant to say. It would be equivalent

  252. to one of the curse words that we have today

  253. because it even tied into the idea of The word

  254. raka would be used with heretics as Jewish leaders

  255. spit upon a heretic that was espousing theology

  256. or things about God that were not true. The Jews

  257. today actually have maintained this practice

  258. in Israel. They will, as they walk down the street,

  259. they will spit upon Christians as they tried

  260. to proclaim the gospel and to proclaim the Messiah.

  261. This is what the word raka is getting at. It

  262. is a full insult. And I think most commonly that

  263. happens most often to us in road rage. We are

  264. driving down the street or trying to get onto

  265. the interstate and someone drives around us in

  266. their little car at a speed that is not necessary

  267. or appropriate. And then they get in front of

  268. us and they slam on their brakes for some reason.

  269. And usually the thing that comes out of our mouth

  270. is something to the extent of, you idiot, I cannot

  271. believe you would do that. I have a place to

  272. go and things to do and You could have hurt me

  273. or someone else. It is a quick anger. It is an

  274. insult. This also, as I mentioned, can come out

  275. with our spouses as we get frustrated or we get

  276. upset. We may have a way of doing things, and

  277. then our wife or our husband comes in and tries

  278. to do it some way else, in a different way than

  279. how we would do. And we think, how stupid can

  280. you be? Why would you clean the dishes that way?

  281. Why would you clean the blinds that way? Why

  282. would you vacuum the floors that way? And this

  283. type of anger, as it progresses, leaves us liable

  284. to counsel. This would be liable to the Sanhedrin,

  285. the counsel of 71. It was designed to handle

  286. the worst cases of heresy. This is the counsel

  287. that Jesus had to go through and was spat upon

  288. as he faced. the wrath of God on the cross, the

  289. righteous anger of God on the cross. They could

  290. pronounce stoning. They could put people up for

  291. crucifixion. And this is the type of death that

  292. Jesus says we deserve if we are willing to insult

  293. people, if we are quick with our tongue. And

  294. this continues to progress because often we do

  295. not just stop at calling people stupid. We need

  296. to attack them morally. We need to believe that

  297. they are godless. And so Jesus gives us a warning.

  298. And he says, whoever says you fool will be liable

  299. to the hell of fire. And the word fool here is

  300. often used in scripture. God uses fool in scripture.

  301. Psalm 14 .1, for instance, says, the fool says

  302. in his heart, there is no God. They are corrupt.

  303. They do abominable deeds. There is none who does

  304. good. So the word fool is a moral condemnation.

  305. If you call someone a fool, what you are saying

  306. is they are without God. They have no knowledge

  307. of God. They are far from him. You are excommunicating

  308. people with your words and your thoughts and

  309. your deeds when you call someone fool. The type

  310. of fool that God wants us, or the word. fool

  311. that God wants us to be able to use is the same

  312. way he uses it in Psalm 14. There is an element

  313. of grace to it. We can acknowledge that someone

  314. is without God while also acknowledging that

  315. they need great grace. Because we too were once

  316. fools. We were blind to our sin. We were dead

  317. in our trespasses. We were without God and the

  318. wisdom of him. But it is out of his great grace

  319. that he has called us to his mercy. He has called

  320. us to know him. We are no longer fools, but we

  321. have the wisdom of God because of his spirit

  322. working in our lives. And if we are willing to

  323. call someone a fool and morally condemn them,

  324. there is only one punishment that Jesus lays

  325. out, the hell of fire. And this is the word for

  326. hell. This is the word Gehenna. It is not the

  327. word that we see King David use in the Psalms

  328. where he says, which is the place that people

  329. would go as an intermediate state, the place

  330. of death. This is the place of weeping and gnashing

  331. of teeth. This is not a place of a little red

  332. devil where there's just some fire around us

  333. and we get to walk down a lane as we be punished.

  334. No, this is a place of condemnation. And to understand

  335. the picture that Jesus is laying here, we must

  336. understand this word, Gehenna. The word comes

  337. from the Valley of Heman. This is a place of

  338. apostasy. Solomon would use the Valley of Heman

  339. to set up places of Moloch worship. Moloch was

  340. the god of child sacrifice. King Josiah, when

  341. he took the throne and second king, he would

  342. come in and he would destroy these places of

  343. worship. And then he would use it not for pagan

  344. worship or even just to throw away and things

  345. that belonged to the pagans, he would use it

  346. to dump bodies after a war, bodies that had died

  347. that were unbelieving, and they would be burned

  348. up. They would light the pile on fire, and there

  349. would be condemnation for it. The Jews even continued

  350. this practice in the Jesus' day, and they did

  351. not use it to dump bodies, but they would use

  352. it to burn their trash. So this is a place from

  353. the Old Testament all the way into the new. that

  354. was a place of condemnation, of apostasy, a place

  355. of unbelief that was meant to burn the worst

  356. trash. And this is the condemnation that we all

  357. deserved when we walked without the wisdom of

  358. God. This is the condemnation we deserve when

  359. we are quick to look at people on the highway

  360. as we drive down it and we see them holding up

  361. their political signs of different messages and

  362. we think, you fool, how can you think any of

  363. those things? Or maybe you're having a Bible

  364. conversation with one of your brothers or sisters,

  365. and you start to think, you fool, how can you

  366. not believe in infant baptism? Or maybe how could

  367. you believe in infant baptism? We are quick to

  368. do this condemnation. As we look through each

  369. one of these, the gradation gets worse and worse

  370. and worse in terms of punishment, but the sins

  371. themselves become more and more common. Nowadays

  372. it is so easy to see people, quick to say, you

  373. fool, to claim that they are without God and

  374. show them no grace. We are a little slower, but

  375. not by much to call them stupid. And we are slower

  376. yet to just pull off and use our fist, use our

  377. hands to cause harm. And this should make us

  378. ask ourselves as we reflect on this text, why

  379. are you holding onto your anger? What is beneath

  380. the surface? I understand that maybe you have

  381. some sort of physical ailment that makes it hard

  382. to get out of bed in the morning. I understand

  383. that people abort children and those children

  384. do not deserve it. But why are you holding on

  385. to your anger? Why are you angry at God? Why

  386. are you angry at your friend who tried to give

  387. you good advice? Or at your wife who just wanted

  388. your help? Or at your husband? who all he needed

  389. was a hug himself. And we as Christians should

  390. be quick to let go of this anger. We should be

  391. willing to trade in this heart of anger, and

  392. we should trade it in for the heart of Christ.

  393. Ephesians 4, 31 and 32 tells us, let all bitterness

  394. and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be

  395. put away from you, along with all malice. Be

  396. kind to one another, tender -hearted, forgiving

  397. one another as God and Christ forgave you. Just

  398. as God has shown us grace, we should be quick

  399. to show grace. We even sing this or we pray this

  400. when we pray the Lord's Prayer. Forgive us our

  401. debts as we forgive our debtors. We need to forgive

  402. in the same way that Christ forgave. We need

  403. to take radical steps. to fix our relationships

  404. and to have relationships. And so we move on

  405. from these three condemnations of murder, of

  406. anger, to two demonstrations of how we should

  407. be rectified with our neighbors, with our spouses,

  408. with our friends. The first one comes when you're

  409. going to worship. Worship, when you're approaching

  410. it, is always a time where you're meditating

  411. on the week before. You're thinking of of the

  412. sin that you committed. You're thinking of the

  413. fact you just got angry at your wife as you loaded

  414. the children into the car. You're maybe thinking

  415. of the time you cursed someone out at work and

  416. they did not deserve it. And we should reflect

  417. on these sins. And maybe you do it as you're

  418. coming in or maybe you do it while we're praying

  419. our prayer confession during that time of silent

  420. prayer. Hopefully you're doing it during this

  421. sermon. Right now you're reflecting. on these

  422. times. But Christ tells us if you're coming in

  423. to worship and you have a sacrifice to offer,

  424. you have prayers to pray and hymns to sing, but

  425. if you are still angry with your brother, do

  426. not come. You do not have a worship. You do not

  427. have a sacrifice that can truly approach the

  428. Lord. The Lord wants a perfect sacrifice. In

  429. the Psalms we were told, for you will not delight

  430. in sacrifice, or I will give it. You will not

  431. be pleased with a burnt offering. The sacrifices

  432. of God are a broken spirit, a broken and contrite

  433. heart. O God, you will not despise. God wants

  434. us to come and to worship with a broken heart,

  435. a heart of repentance, one that seeks to have

  436. right relationships with him and with others.

  437. And we cannot come and offer our sacrifices unless

  438. we have come repentant of all of our sins. And

  439. as Jesus is giving this command, everyone in

  440. the crowd would have been thinking, well, this

  441. is preposterous. The trip from Galilee to Jerusalem

  442. was an 80 mile trip. It was a four or five day

  443. trip. And so they're in one way. And so they

  444. have already come to Galilee. Now they need to

  445. go back to Jerusalem. If they get there and they

  446. have a sacrifice to give, but they have had a

  447. fight with their spouse, if they have had a fight

  448. with a friend who tried to give them good advice,

  449. they need to leave their sacrifice, go back,

  450. take another four or five days, make reconciliation,

  451. and then come back to worship. Because only then

  452. they can come with a pure sacrifice. As one commentator

  453. ultimately put it, if you are unfit, for worship,

  454. you are unfit to die. And so God wants us to

  455. come before him with a broken and contrite heart

  456. so that we can be worshiped, that he can be worshiped

  457. properly, that we can be ready for the Lord to

  458. come back as we sung this morning, as we talked

  459. about this morning. And Jesus gives us a second

  460. demonstration of how do we seek reconciliation.

  461. And he talks about... Come to terms quickly with

  462. your accuser while you are going with them to

  463. court. Least your accuser hands you over to a

  464. judge and the judge to the guard and you be put

  465. in prison. Now this accuser has two different

  466. meanings. There is the real life meaning where

  467. a legal crime was committed. Maybe someone insulted

  468. you and you thought the only just punishment

  469. for them was to pick up your fist and press it

  470. against their cheek. or maybe you had a coworker

  471. who you thought he was lazy and maybe a glutton

  472. and you decided to make it known before the whole

  473. office. You decided to call him a liar and maybe

  474. even pronounced sins on him that he did not even

  475. commit. And now he's looking for a restoration.

  476. He sues you for defamation or he gets sued for

  477. assault. And before you even get to court the

  478. commandment that God gives us, is to go and make

  479. reconciliation. Go apologize in repentance. Pay

  480. the hospital bill that the man needed to have

  481. after being assaulted by you. Go to your boss

  482. and say, hey, this coworker, there are times

  483. he is lazy, but I am lazy, too, and most of what

  484. I said was not true. You need to go before you

  485. ever get to the court date. You need to go before

  486. you even go to talk with a lawyer. The first

  487. step you should take is to go and seek reconciliation

  488. with this person because if it gets to court,

  489. you will justly owe him everything. They could

  490. take everything you have, all of your savings.

  491. If there's not enough there, they could come

  492. after your car or your house or anything you

  493. own. They could take it and they are right to

  494. do so because you have attacked them. You have

  495. murdered their name. You have done great wrong.

  496. against them, and it needs to be reconciled.

  497. But then there's a second meaning to this. There

  498. is a spiritual meaning that we must remember.

  499. Because throughout this whole passage, Jesus

  500. does not want to just deal with physical actions,

  501. not just with the hands. He wants to deal with

  502. the heart. The spiritual side of this is that

  503. if we get to heaven and we have been unfit to

  504. die, we have been unrepentant, we have Jesus

  505. not as a mediator, not as a friend, but as an

  506. accuser, and justly so. If we stand before God

  507. with unrepentant sin, it does not matter how

  508. loudly we proclaim Christ, we show ourselves

  509. to be unbelievers if we are unrepentant with

  510. our sin. Now, this does not mean that we can

  511. never get angry. Even unjustly, the Lord knows,

  512. Paul tells us in the scripture that we will still

  513. wrestle against the flesh. But as John Owen puts

  514. it we must be killing sin or it will be killing

  515. you and especially when it comes to anger because

  516. anger destroys relationships it destroys marriages

  517. it destroys friendships and Often it is blasphemous

  518. against God because as we dwell in our anger

  519. We almost cease being angry at our spouse or

  520. with our friend and we begin to be angry at God

  521. especially if we're facing the loss of a loved

  522. one or a medical issue. We start to wonder why

  523. God would put us in this place, why God would

  524. allow us to exist here. Why has he abandoned

  525. us? It's very similar to the Israelites in Numbers

  526. 21. As they're pulled through the wilderness,

  527. they begin to doubt God for the food and the

  528. manna that he has provided, and they call it

  529. worthless. That is often what we do to God with

  530. our anger. We forget all of the blessings and

  531. the graces that he has given us and we get angry

  532. at him. Anger is a radical sin and you must take

  533. radical steps to repent of it and have right

  534. relationships. Let me say that one more time

  535. because if there's anything you get from the

  536. sermon, this is it. Anger is a radical sin and

  537. you must take radical steps to repent of it.

  538. and have right relationships. Maybe, Christian,

  539. you are sitting here and you're thinking that

  540. these things that I have described, described

  541. yourself. Maybe you realize that you have forgotten

  542. the grace of your good God who gave His Son in

  543. your place, who took upon the wrath of God, the

  544. righteous anger of God in your place. He was

  545. spat upon for you. Reflect on your Savior. Turn

  546. back. You do not have to be a slave to your anger

  547. any longer. You can be a slave to righteousness.

  548. You are an heir, a child of God. Take on the

  549. heart of Christ. Take on a tender heart. Take

  550. on a forgiving heart. Follow your savior. He

  551. has given you the example. Now follow him. Leave

  552. here seeking forgiveness. Leave here seeking

  553. reconciliation and restoration. with your friend

  554. or with your spouse. Now maybe you are here tonight

  555. and you do not know this Christ that I've talked

  556. about, but you do know that your life has been

  557. one filled with bitterness and with strife, with

  558. fighting, with yelling, with maybe broken marriages,

  559. divorces out of it. You can turn to Christ. Christ

  560. is the only Savior you can have. He died for

  561. sinners. He died in the place of sinners, and

  562. you can turn to him. Now, maybe you fit none

  563. of these categories, but next time you get angry,

  564. you should stop and say, does this represent

  565. Christ? And if it does not, seek repentance.

  566. Seek the radical steps to have right relationships.

  567. Let's pray.