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Luke 19:1-10 - The Mission

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  1. You are listening to a message from Southwood Presbyterian Church in Huntsville, Alabama.

  2. Our passion is to experience and express grace. Join us.

  3. Ray Cortese is our guest speaker this weekend for the conference.

  4. He's the senior pastor of Seven Rivers Presbyterian Church in Lakanto, Florida.

  5. He started that church 33 years ago.

  6. But he's very, very young, which I failed to clarify last night.

  7. And we're really glad that Ray and Diane have traveled up here to be with us this weekend.

  8. Thank you all so much.

  9. All right. Thank you, sir.

  10. There are people who come to Sunday school on time.

  11. And then there are people who have a life, right?

  12. So, all right.

  13. There we go.

  14. If you have a Bible, we're going to look at a passage from Luke chapter 14.

    Luke 14 chapter mention

  15. So, I'll give you a minute to find your way there.

  16. It's an experience grace, express grace.

  17. I love it.

  18. I love the clarity of the mission.

  19. I love the content of your mission.

  20. The challenge, of course, is to get any group of people on mission, to get a church on mission, stay on mission,

  21. particularly in areas that are significantly churched areas or people that are significantly churched people,

  22. to be on mission.

  23. And something we did in our community that's kind of had a pretty radical and dramatic effect is that we changed the mission statement of our Christian school,

  24. changed the stated missional purpose,

  25. so that we were what was typically called a covenant school.

  26. That is, one parent had to profess faith and be a member of a local church, you know, for their child to be admitted to our school.

  27. And we took away that, and we took a more what we called missional approach.

  28. And, of course, there was some disagreement with that decision.

  29. And part of my argument was, if you went to, say, India to start a Christian school,

  30. and you were a missionary, and you believe that starting a Christian school could be a viable option for impacting that community for the gospel,

  31. advancing the kingdom of God, would you require one of the parents of any potential student to be a Christian?

  32. And what do people say?

  33. No.

  34. And then, well, why not?

  35. Because there aren't any, right?

  36. So, our argument is that if you went to Crystal River, Florida,

  37. and you thought that starting a Christian school would be a viable and perhaps effective way to influence the community,

  38. advance the kingdom of God, would you require one parent of any potential student to be a Christian?

  39. And the answer should be no, because there aren't any.

  40. And so, there are still pockets in our country where there are Christians,

  41. and you can pull perhaps enough professing Christians together to do some things.

  42. But until the North American church realizes that the answer is,

  43. why wouldn't you do that?

  44. No, you know, because there aren't any.

  45. Until we realize that there aren't any Christians,

  46. then we will not be missional in the way that we need to be missional.

  47. Churches can't be formed by gathering together the Christians in the community.

  48. There aren't any.

  49. There aren't any.

  50. People need to be one to faith in Christ.

  51. And you're reading this, right?

  52. You can see how culture's changing.

  53. I remember just a couple years ago thinking,

  54. the Supreme Court is going to declare same-gender marriage as the law of the land,

  55. and that's actually going to be the law in the state of Alabama.

  56. I remember thinking,

  57. how is that going to go down?

  58. In Mississippi and in Alabama,

  59. same-sex marriage is going to be legalized.

  60. So if we want to live in America we wish it was,

  61. or it once was,

  62. or something else,

  63. we can play those games,

  64. or we can live in the culture in which God's put us in,

  65. which, by the way,

  66. is just an awesome time to be a Christian.

  67. You know why it's an awesome time to be a Christian?

  68. Because the darker the culture gets,

  69. even dim bulbs like me,

  70. and perhaps like you,

  71. actually appear to be light, right?

  72. So it doesn't take really that much to be a light in a very dark place.

  73. So those of us who never consider ourselves that our life could ever make any difference for Jesus,

  74. guess what?

  75. The very simplest things now will make you a radical follower of Jesus in our culture.

  76. And I'm going to suggest one of those in this brief Sunday school,

  77. I was going to say Sunday school hour,

  78. you know,

  79. the abbreviated hour.

  80. So,

  81. you know,

  82. sometimes what the Bible tells us to do is pretty simple.

  83. And that's what we're going to read in this passage.

  84. The passage says that God is having a party,

  85. a big party,

  86. and he wants,

  87. he has his eye on people who are unwanted.

  88. He wants unwanted people.

  89. He wants the unwanted to come to his party.

  90. And he wants you to bring them.

  91. That's not that hard to understand, is it?

  92. Pretty simple concept, right?

  93. God's having a big party.

  94. There's people he wants there,

  95. and he wants you to bring them.

  96. And if you do that,

  97. you're on mission,

  98. and you're actually a really radical Christian.

  99. So let's look at the passage,

  100. and I'll give you a chance to,

  101. I could have you stand,

  102. but you have coffee some of you.

  103. By the way,

  104. if you want to go out and get more coffee,

  105. anytime,

  106. or stand up,

  107. or walk around the back to stay,

  108. I'm not going to be the least bit disturbed.

  109. So just make yourself at home for the next hour,

  110. and we'll enjoy this time together.

  111. So if you can,

  112. go ahead and stand,

  113. just as we give our attention to the Word of God.

  114. And we're looking at Luke 14.

  115. Now in Luke 14,

  116. Jesus is at a dinner party,

  117. and it's not a very warm affair.

  118. In fact,

  119. the first verse says that

  120. Jesus went to dine at the house of a ruler of the Pharisees.

  121. So you can,

  122. you know,

  123. he's kind of in the lion's den there,

  124. isn't he?

  125. And it says they were watching him carefully.

  126. So you get the spirit of what is taking place there.

  127. He's under scrutiny.

  128. We're going to pick up the account at verse 12.

  129. And notice sort of the chutzpah of what Jesus does,

  130. because what he's about to say,

  131. he says to the host.

  132. You know,

  133. usually you're kind of conciliatory towards the host.

  134. But this is what Jesus said.

  135. He said also to the man who had invited him,

  136. when you give a dinner or a banquet,

  137. do not invite your friends or your brothers

  138. or your relatives or your rich neighbors,

  139. lest they also invite you in return and you be repaid.

  140. But when you give a feast,

  141. invite the poor,

  142. the crippled,

  143. the lame,

  144. and the blind,

  145. and you will be blessed because they can't repay you.

  146. You will be repaid at the resurrection of the just.

  147. When one of those who reclined at table with him

  148. heard these things,

  149. he said to him,

  150. blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God.

  151. But Jesus said,

  152. a man once gave a great banquet and invited many.

  153. And at that time for the banquet,

  154. he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited,

  155. come for everything is now ready.

  156. But they all alike began to make excuses.

  157. The first said to him,

  158. I have bought a field and I must go out and see it.

  159. Please have me excused.

  160. And another said,

  161. I have bought five yoke of oxen and I go to examine them.

  162. Please excuse me.

  163. Another said,

  164. I have married a wife.

  165. I can't come.

  166. So the servant came and repeated these things to his master.

  167. And the master was angry and said to his servant,

  168. go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city

  169. and bring in the poor,

  170. crippled,

  171. blind,

  172. and lame.

  173. Servant said,

  174. what you have commanded has been done.

  175. There's still room.

  176. And the master said to the servant,

  177. go out into the highways and hedges.

  178. In other words,

  179. go further out.

  180. Now this is Pharisees.

  181. This is a Jewish deal here.

  182. This is a Jewish crowd.

  183. What is Jesus actually saying at this point?

  184. Go out and invite who?

  185. Gentiles.

  186. Ugh.

  187. Ick.

  188. So he says,

  189. go all the way out and compel people to come in,

  190. that my house may be filled.

  191. For I tell you,

  192. none of those men who are invited

  193. shall taste my banquet.

  194. But this is the reading of God's holy word.

  195. Let's pray.

  196. Father,

  197. we don't want to be hearers of the word only.

  198. We want to hear it.

  199. We want you to teach it to us.

  200. We want to be stunned by it.

  201. And we want our hearts and minds engaged.

  202. But then we want it actually to show up in our lives.

  203. We want your,

  204. the fact that you included us in the great feast

  205. to just blow us away afresh.

  206. We pray this in Jesus' name.

  207. Amen.

  208. All right.

  209. Do be seated.

  210. Listen,

  211. hospitality.

  212. We're going to talk about hospitality.

  213. Hospitality is an ancient path.

  214. Jeremiah says,

  215. thus says the Lord,

  216. stand by the roads,

  217. look,

  218. and ask for the ancient paths,

  219. where the good way is,

  220. and walk in it,

  221. and find rest for your souls.

  222. Jeremiah 6.16,

  223. write that down.

  224. Isn't that a great passage?

  225. Stand by the roads,

  226. and look,

  227. and ask for the ancient path.

  228. The well-worn path.

  229. The ancient path is the way of life.

  230. And so hospitality is one of those.

  231. Hospitality is an ancient path.

  232. And let me tell you something.

  233. Hospitality matters.

  234. Hospitality changes people's lives.

  235. Hospitality is what it means to be a Christian.

  236. Hospitality has tremendous impact.

  237. Hospitality is personal.

  238. It's deeply personal to me.

  239. It's why I am a pastor.

  240. Hospitality is a pastor.

  241. When I was in,

  242. when I finished high school,

  243. a pastor and his wife invited me,

  244. I grew up in Miami,

  245. and they invited me to live in their home

  246. in Upper Glade, West Virginia,

  247. in the heart of Appalachia.

  248. Less than half the people in the community

  249. had running water.

  250. And so for two summers in a row,

  251. I went up,

  252. and matter of fact,

  253. when I got there the first summer,

  254. after three weeks,

  255. the pastor left for a month,

  256. and I was the pastor of the church.

  257. I was 17 years old.

  258. And so I lived with this family for two.

  259. I mean,

  260. I saw things I've never seen since.

  261. But I learned something about what it meant

  262. to be a follower of Jesus,

  263. even certainly amidst the poor.

  264. Poor people would come.

  265. They'd have a fire in their little shack

  266. or their trailer or something

  267. and lose everything,

  268. and they'd knock on the door

  269. of the pastor's house.

  270. And I saw his wife go,

  271. you know,

  272. she didn't go down to the church

  273. to get some old furniture people had donated.

  274. She'd walk into her children's bedroom,

  275. unload their dresser,

  276. and walk it out the front door

  277. and give it to people.

  278. I saw her take their couch

  279. and just give it away.

  280. I mean,

  281. it was just an astounding tutorial

  282. in what it might look like

  283. to be a follower of Jesus

  284. in that place and time.

  285. You know,

  286. my wife and I spent a portion of our honeymoon

  287. in Gadsden, Alabama.

  288. Now,

  289. don't ask why.

  290. You might be surprised

  291. to find that Gadsden's

  292. a great honeymoon hotspot.

  293. But on our honeymoon,

  294. my wife had a dear friend from college

  295. who was supposed to sing in our wedding,

  296. and she fell off the radar,

  297. and finally my wife got in touch with her

  298. just days before the wedding,

  299. and she said,

  300. I'm not coming

  301. because she had entered into a lesbian relationship

  302. and was filled with guilt and shame.

  303. And so on our honeymoon,

  304. happened to be,

  305. she was from Meridian, Mississippi,

  306. so we were kind of in the neighborhood

  307. by being in Alabama,

  308. and my wife called her,

  309. and she came and spent a couple days

  310. in our hotel room on our honeymoon with us.

  311. That was an introduction to hospitality,

  312. and it made a big difference

  313. in her life

  314. and the way her story would play out.

  315. A couple,

  316. maybe a month,

  317. six weeks ago,

  318. we were in northern New Jersey,

  319. Diane and I,

  320. and we went to a church

  321. that we were there

  322. trying to initiate it 36 years ago.

  323. Again,

  324. right when we got married,

  325. we went to New Jersey

  326. three weeks after we were married

  327. and started working on this church start.

  328. And so 35 years later,

  329. we went back to this little,

  330. and it's just a little church

  331. with less than 100 people,

  332. and so we knew that nobody would be there

  333. that had been there that long ago.

  334. And when we walked in,

  335. and somebody said,

  336. is this your first time?

  337. And we said,

  338. no,

  339. we've been here before.

  340. And they said,

  341. when did you,

  342. when's the last time you were here?

  343. It was 35 years ago.

  344. We're kind of,

  345. casual visitors.

  346. And every 35 years.

  347. So,

  348. we went,

  349. they said,

  350. oh,

  351. well,

  352. then you must know Valerie,

  353. Valerie Marquetta.

  354. Of course,

  355. we were just stunned.

  356. And,

  357. and they pointed out who Valerie was,

  358. and we went over,

  359. and she just began to,

  360. to weep.

  361. Because,

  362. 35,

  363. 36 years ago,

  364. Valerie came and sat

  365. in church next to us.

  366. She was a Catholic girl

  367. in northern New Jersey,

  368. and she lived with her boyfriend,

  369. and he was abusive.

  370. And as we got to know her,

  371. we invited her to come live with us,

  372. at least trying to get her

  373. to leave this horrible situation

  374. she was in.

  375. And,

  376. and then even when we left there,

  377. and we moved to,

  378. went away to a graduate school,

  379. Valerie came and stayed with us.

  380. And she told us there,

  381. you challenged me

  382. when I came to your place

  383. in Mississippi,

  384. and,

  385. and I gave my life to Christ.

  386. Hospitality.

  387. See,

  388. it makes a difference

  389. in people's lives.

  390. We hadn't seen her in 35 years.

  391. I won't forget what she said

  392. as we were crying

  393. and hugging each other

  394. at this reunion.

  395. She said,

  396. this is what heaven

  397. must feel like.

  398. when,

  399. when people you've long

  400. lost touch with,

  401. suddenly you're,

  402. you're,

  403. you're back together.

  404. The power of hospitality.

  405. When we were,

  406. in some of the earlier days

  407. of our church,

  408. I remember there was a girl

  409. who was a waitress

  410. at a local restaurant.

  411. She was a friendly kid

  412. and got invited to play softball

  413. because our,

  414. our church did this softball thing then.

  415. She was a good player,

  416. so she showed up,

  417. so then she came to church,

  418. so then she met Jesus.

  419. Okay?

  420. Um,

  421. and she lived with a guy

  422. and because she met Jesus,

  423. she moved out

  424. and really within a month

  425. she had relocated

  426. to somewhere else in Florida

  427. kind of to start her life over

  428. because she was a Christian now.

  429. Um,

  430. and,

  431. and so guess who started

  432. coming to church when she left?

  433. Well,

  434. the guy that she used to live with,

  435. um,

  436. was kind of,

  437. thought it was fairly remarkable

  438. that not only had her life changed,

  439. but she had met somebody

  440. more wonderful than him.

  441. And,

  442. um,

  443. he could hardly understand that.

  444. And,

  445. uh,

  446. so he walked into church

  447. and,

  448. and he got converted

  449. and he came

  450. and,

  451. and he was going,

  452. wanted to go to law school

  453. and his,

  454. um,

  455. uh,

  456. living situation

  457. had been disrupted.

  458. Um,

  459. so he,

  460. uh,

  461. he had nowhere to go.

  462. So,

  463. so he came to live with us

  464. for about four months

  465. and,

  466. uh,

  467. we remained good friends

  468. for,

  469. uh,

  470. many years.

  471. Uh,

  472. went off to law school

  473. and,

  474. you know,

  475. so it was,

  476. it was kind of fun.

  477. My little son,

  478. you know,

  479. in the bottom bunk

  480. and this,

  481. this guy in his early 20s

  482. in the top bunk,

  483. they were roommates

  484. for a while.

  485. Well,

  486. in,

  487. in November,

  488. he will be the speaker

  489. of the Florida House

  490. of Representatives.

  491. Um,

  492. so,

  493. uh,

  494. hospitality is very personal,

  495. uh,

  496. deeply personal to me.

  497. It's,

  498. uh,

  499. had a shaping influence,

  500. uh,

  501. in my life.

  502. I want you to know

  503. that hospitality

  504. is our heritage.

  505. From the 2nd century

  506. to the 16th century,

  507. any traveler

  508. in the Western world

  509. would spend,

  510. uh,

  511. every day

  512. of their journey

  513. scanning the horizon

  514. in search of one thing.

  515. What would they be looking for?

  516. As you traveled along,

  517. you would spend,

  518. um,

  519. every day

  520. looking for one thing.

  521. You would be looking

  522. for a church

  523. or more,

  524. most,

  525. more likely

  526. a monastery,

  527. uh,

  528. because that's

  529. where you would stay.

  530. That's the only place

  531. you could stay.

  532. It's the only place

  533. that most lodging places

  534. were houses of ill repute.

  535. Or,

  536. um,

  537. and,

  538. uh,

  539. this was the only place

  540. where you could find

  541. safety

  542. and,

  543. uh,

  544. and food

  545. and rest.

  546. Everyone knew

  547. the church was a place

  548. where strangers

  549. were welcomed

  550. as guests.

  551. Did you know that?

  552. This is our heritage.

  553. This is what the church,

  554. um,

  555. did for hundreds

  556. and hundreds

  557. and hundreds of years.

  558. The vocation

  559. of hospitality

  560. is deeply embedded

  561. in the historical DNA

  562. of the church.

  563. Perhaps you've heard

  564. of the rules

  565. of Saint Benedict.

  566. Um,

  567. and,

  568. and here,

  569. here's one of them,

  570. the holy rule.

  571. All guests

  572. who present themselves

  573. are to be welcomed

  574. as Christ.

  575. For he himself

  576. will say,

  577. I was a stranger

  578. and you welcomed me.

  579. Once a guest

  580. has been announced,

  581. the superior

  582. and the brothers

  583. are to meet him

  584. with all courtesy

  585. of love.

  586. All humility

  587. should be shown

  588. in addressing

  589. a guest

  590. on arrival

  591. or departure.

  592. By a bow

  593. of the head

  594. or by a complete

  595. prostration

  596. of the body,

  597. Christ is to be adored.

  598. Did you hear that?

  599. They believed

  600. that when anyone

  601. showed up

  602. at their door,

  603. um,

  604. that was Jesus.

  605. Jesus was showing

  606. up at their door

  607. and the way

  608. they treated the guests

  609. was the way

  610. they treated Jesus.

  611. In a sense,

  612. you couldn't say

  613. you love Jesus

  614. if you didn't love

  615. the guests

  616. that he brought

  617. to your door.

  618. Um,

  619. the abbot

  620. shall pour water

  621. on the hands

  622. of the guests

  623. and the abbot

  624. with the entire community

  625. shall wash their feet.

  626. Isn't that wild?

  627. Well,

  628. this was the,

  629. um,

  630. um,

  631. the church,

  632. um,

  633. at its heart

  634. is a community

  635. of welcome.

  636. Philip Haley

  637. wrote a book

  638. called

  639. Lest Innocent Blood

  640. Be Shed.

  641. Uh,

  642. I really recommend it.

  643. It's about the,

  644. uh,

  645. a French Huguenot

  646. community

  647. called Les Chambons.

  648. Now,

  649. the Huguenots

  650. you might not,

  651. um,

  652. be entirely aware of

  653. are,

  654. if you,

  655. um,

  656. adhere to,

  657. uh,

  658. the reform faith,

  659. reform theology,

  660. um,

  661. then the Huguenots

  662. are our forebears.

  663. Um,

  664. we don't have

  665. Huguenot churches

  666. because they were

  667. all slaughtered.

  668. The ones that weren't

  669. slaughtered,

  670. um,

  671. were up in the hills.

  672. They were in more rural,

  673. out-of-the-way places

  674. like this town.

  675. Um,

  676. but Huguenots

  677. were experts

  678. at,

  679. um,

  680. hiding,

  681. right?

  682. They,

  683. they had to hide

  684. for their lives.

  685. And so during,

  686. uh,

  687. Philip Haley

  688. wrote,

  689. wrote that,

  690. that he was so distressed

  691. studying World War II

  692. and the,

  693. and the inhumanity

  694. and the,

  695. the,

  696. the,

  697. um,

  698. industrialization

  699. of death.

  700. And,

  701. um,

  702. it,

  703. you know,

  704. he said he was

  705. emotionalist.

  706. He was,

  707. um,

  708. callous to it all.

  709. And,

  710. um,

  711. and,

  712. and then suddenly

  713. he began reading

  714. about this small town

  715. he'd never heard of

  716. and he said

  717. the strangest sensation

  718. happened.

  719. There was,

  720. there was moisture drops

  721. hitting,

  722. um,

  723. the book,

  724. the,

  725. the materials

  726. in front of him

  727. and he realized

  728. he was weeping.

  729. Uh,

  730. because he discovered

  731. the town of Le Chambon

  732. and the,

  733. the story of Andre

  734. and,

  735. and Magda Trachma,

  736. the,

  737. um,

  738. uh,

  739. Protestant pastor

  740. and his wife

  741. who organized

  742. their entire community

  743. to hide Jewish children.

  744. They saved thousands

  745. of Jewish children,

  746. uh,

  747. during World War II.

  748. And the Nazis

  749. would come

  750. and look for them,

  751. um,

  752. and,

  753. uh,

  754. I,

  755. I think they,

  756. they ultimately

  757. found one.

  758. Um,

  759. they were,

  760. they were experts

  761. at this.

  762. And,

  763. uh,

  764. they imperiled

  765. their whole community.

  766. Matter of fact,

  767. when the Nazis came

  768. ultimately to arrest

  769. her husband,

  770. the pastor,

  771. um,

  772. and he was arrested,

  773. um,

  774. Magda said,

  775. um,

  776. they knocked on the door

  777. and,

  778. they,

  779. they were coming

  780. to take him away

  781. and,

  782. uh,

  783. and she said,

  784. well,

  785. you are not going

  786. to take him away

  787. until you sit down

  788. at my table

  789. and you eat.

  790. It is dinner time

  791. and guests at my table,

  792. uh,

  793. are going to be fed.

  794. So she had the Nazis

  795. sit down

  796. and she fed them

  797. before they took

  798. her husband away

  799. because she was

  800. in charge of her house.

  801. Um,

  802. just great.

  803. You know,

  804. if you go to Yad Vashem,

  805. uh,

  806. in,

  807. uh,

  808. in Israel,

  809. there is a place

  810. of honor

  811. for,

  812. um,

  813. these are,

  814. these are our,

  815. this is our heritage.

  816. This ought to be

  817. the,

  818. uh,

  819. a height of,

  820. uh,

  821. of incredible joy

  822. that this is our

  823. historical,

  824. um,

  825. legacy.

  826. So here's our challenge

  827. in our day

  828. is that our neighbors

  829. are still wandering

  830. just like they have

  831. for all of history.

  832. Um,

  833. but they're not looking

  834. anymore for the church,

  835. are they?

  836. Uh,

  837. like people once did,

  838. um,

  839. as a place of refuge,

  840. a place of safety,

  841. a place of welcome.

  842. They're not looking

  843. any longer,

  844. um,

  845. for the church.

  846. And what's even sadder

  847. is that all too often

  848. we're not looking for them.

  849. Um,

  850. and we're not open,

  851. uh,

  852. to,

  853. to welcome them.

  854. Um,

  855. so we must

  856. recover this ancient path.

  857. It's the lost vocation

  858. of,

  859. uh,

  860. hospitality.

  861. Now,

  862. almost everybody here

  863. has,

  864. has,

  865. uh,

  866. seen the musical

  867. Les Mis.

  868. And you remember

  869. at the very beginning

  870. when Jean Valjean

  871. is,

  872. uh,

  873. has been set,

  874. uh,

  875. free,

  876. but he has,

  877. no one will take him in,

  878. right?

  879. Where does he go?

  880. He goes to a monastery,

  881. right?

  882. See,

  883. that's the very picture

  884. of what we're talking about.

  885. That's where people went,

  886. that there was nowhere else

  887. for them to go.

  888. And you remember

  889. what the priest sings

  890. in the Broadway version.

  891. Um,

  892. come in,

  893. sir,

  894. for you are weary

  895. and the night is cold

  896. out there.

  897. Though our lives

  898. are very humble,

  899. what we have,

  900. we have to share.

  901. There's wine here

  902. to revive you.

  903. There is bread

  904. to make you strong.

  905. There's a bed

  906. to rest till morning.

  907. Rest from pain

  908. and rest from wrong.

  909. Wouldn't that be awesome

  910. to have

  911. right across the doorway

  912. of,

  913. of,

  914. uh,

  915. of our churches?

  916. Um,

  917. come in,

  918. child,

  919. for you are weary

  920. and the night

  921. is cold out there.

  922. Our lives are humble,

  923. but what we have,

  924. we have to share.

  925. There's wine

  926. to revive you,

  927. bread

  928. to make you

  929. strong.

  930. So this is the mission

  931. of Southwood Church.

  932. Um,

  933. it's,

  934. uh,

  935. it's to having

  936. experienced the welcome

  937. of Jesus,

  938. right?

  939. Experience grace.

  940. Then you extend

  941. the welcome

  942. of,

  943. uh,

  944. of Jesus.

  945. So let's talk

  946. about that together.

  947. Hospitality,

  948. the,

  949. the,

  950. the,

  951. the main characters

  952. we're going to talk

  953. about in Jesus' parable

  954. and the first is

  955. we have the host,

  956. the yearning host.

  957. Um,

  958. so the recovery

  959. of the vocation

  960. of hospitality

  961. begins with the conviction

  962. that God is a host

  963. who wants his house filled.

  964. He has,

  965. uh,

  966. set up a great feast

  967. and,

  968. uh,

  969. um,

  970. and the church then

  971. is to be that community

  972. of welcome.

  973. So Luke 14

  974. is,

  975. is this,

  976. uh,

  977. fascinating tableau

  978. because Jesus

  979. is at this tension

  980. filled,

  981. a Sabbath dinner party

  982. with the most conservative

  983. religious leaders

  984. who are watching him.

  985. And Jesus first

  986. criticizes the guests.

  987. We didn't read this,

  988. um,

  989. part of the passage,

  990. but Jesus criticizes

  991. the guests

  992. because they seek

  993. the places of honor

  994. and then he criticizes

  995. the host.

  996. So Jesus is really not,

  997. um,

  998. Jesus apparently

  999. is not a southerner

  1000. because no good southerner

  1001. would act,

  1002. um,

  1003. this way.

  1004. Um,

  1005. he,

  1006. he,

  1007. he not only

  1008. criticizes the host

  1009. but,

  1010. you know,

  1011. then he criticizes

  1012. the other guests

  1013. because,

  1014. you know,

  1015. the guests for seeking

  1016. the place of honor

  1017. and the host

  1018. because he's invited

  1019. the socially prominent.

  1020. Nobody is eating.

  1021. The tension is,

  1022. uh,

  1023. palpable

  1024. and one,

  1025. um,

  1026. good fellow decides

  1027. that he's going to

  1028. ease the mood

  1029. and he stands up

  1030. and says,

  1031. well,

  1032. well,

  1033. blessed is everybody

  1034. who's going to eat

  1035. bread in the kingdom

  1036. of God.

  1037. In other words,

  1038. what he's really saying

  1039. is,

  1040. now,

  1041. blessed are the likes

  1042. of us who are

  1043. essentially shoe-ins

  1044. at the feast in heaven.

  1045. We're all going.

  1046. We're all,

  1047. uh,

  1048. going to the feast

  1049. so it's,

  1050. it's good with all of us.

  1051. Now,

  1052. Jesus can't,

  1053. just can't let it go,

  1054. right?

  1055. And,

  1056. and so he tells a parable

  1057. and in his parable

  1058. he says there's a man

  1059. of immense wealth

  1060. and he,

  1061. um,

  1062. puts on a sumptuous feast

  1063. and the invitation list

  1064. is lengthy

  1065. but when the day is come

  1066. and the meal is ready

  1067. he sends his servants out

  1068. to inform everyone,

  1069. uh,

  1070. that it's time to come

  1071. to the feast.

  1072. But what do they say?

  1073. They have a whole bevy

  1074. of excuses,

  1075. um,

  1076. right?

  1077. Uh,

  1078. and,

  1079. and they decline

  1080. but he's adamant

  1081. his house is going to be filled

  1082. so he sends them out

  1083. to bring the poor

  1084. and the lame

  1085. and the nobodies

  1086. and compel them to come in

  1087. and even that doesn't fill the house

  1088. so he does the unthinkable.

  1089. Um,

  1090. Jesus says

  1091. he actually sends them out

  1092. to gather Gentiles

  1093. and even bring them

  1094. um,

  1095. into his house.

  1096. So what's the picture

  1097. we have of the host

  1098. in our parable?

  1099. The host is,

  1100. uh,

  1101. Jesus portrays God

  1102. as passionate.

  1103. Um,

  1104. he is going to share

  1105. his fullness

  1106. with the hungry

  1107. and that is the story

  1108. of the Bible.

  1109. The story of the Bible

  1110. as it unfolds

  1111. is God,

  1112. uh,

  1113. God as the desirous host.

  1114. Look,

  1115. consider the whole story.

  1116. What is creation?

  1117. Creation is God,

  1118. um,

  1119. showing his,

  1120. um,

  1121. creative genius

  1122. and laying out

  1123. this,

  1124. this,

  1125. um,

  1126. this spread

  1127. of beauty

  1128. and art

  1129. and creation

  1130. and food

  1131. and the bounty

  1132. and inviting

  1133. and then creating us

  1134. um,

  1135. to come to his,

  1136. to fill his,

  1137. um,

  1138. to fill his house

  1139. and enjoy the feast

  1140. that he's created.

  1141. That's creation itself.

  1142. We know in the wilderness,

  1143. um,

  1144. God feeds his people.

  1145. God's always feeding people.

  1146. The Bible revolves around eating.

  1147. That's something we can get excited about,

  1148. isn't it?

  1149. Um,

  1150. and,

  1151. and so in,

  1152. in the wilderness,

  1153. he's,

  1154. he's giving them bread,

  1155. right,

  1156. from heaven.

  1157. He's giving them meat,

  1158. quail from heaven.

  1159. He gives them shelter

  1160. from the hot sun

  1161. in,

  1162. uh,

  1163. in the day.

  1164. He keeps them warm

  1165. in the,

  1166. the cold nights

  1167. in the wilderness.

  1168. The prophets,

  1169. uh,

  1170. love to describe

  1171. the coming glory

  1172. in,

  1173. in terms like these

  1174. from Isaiah.

  1175. On this mountain,

  1176. the Lord of hosts

  1177. will make for all peoples

  1178. a feast of rich food,

  1179. a feast of well-aged

  1180. wine,

  1181. of rich food,

  1182. full of marrow,

  1183. of aged wine,

  1184. well-refined.

  1185. Um,

  1186. for many of the people

  1187. in our church,

  1188. that's their life verse.

  1189. They love reading

  1190. about all that wine.

  1191. Um,

  1192. so,

  1193. here we have it.

  1194. Um,

  1195. in the New Testament,

  1196. what do we,

  1197. um,

  1198. what do we get?

  1199. Jesus usurps the role

  1200. of the wedding host

  1201. and makes the best wine.

  1202. He feeds thousands

  1203. of people.

  1204. Um,

  1205. he eats,

  1206. uh,

  1207. with the notorious

  1208. and gets in trouble

  1209. for it.

  1210. He initiates

  1211. the Lord's Supper.

  1212. He tells us

  1213. that God is a welcoming,

  1214. um,

  1215. father who,

  1216. when his wayward children

  1217. comes home,

  1218. he throws a big barbecue,

  1219. right,

  1220. for all the,

  1221. all the community

  1222. to attend.

  1223. Um,

  1224. and he says

  1225. that all of creation

  1226. is headed

  1227. for a great wedding

  1228. celebration,

  1229. a great,

  1230. um,

  1231. feast.

  1232. Um,

  1233. and regularly

  1234. in churches,

  1235. what do we do?

  1236. We invite people

  1237. to come forward

  1238. and,

  1239. uh,

  1240. and taste and see

  1241. that the Lord is good

  1242. and taste the bread

  1243. and,

  1244. uh,

  1245. and drink the wine.

  1246. God is the host.

  1247. He is,

  1248. uh,

  1249. he is this,

  1250. um,

  1251. lavish,

  1252. um,

  1253. generous,

  1254. welcoming host.

  1255. Now,

  1256. we will never be

  1257. the practitioners

  1258. of hospitality

  1259. until we experience

  1260. personally

  1261. this welcoming

  1262. heart

  1263. of,

  1264. uh,

  1265. of God.

  1266. Um,

  1267. so have you,

  1268. um,

  1269. have you experienced

  1270. God welcome you?

  1271. Do you know

  1272. what it's like

  1273. to go to God's house?

  1274. And,

  1275. and,

  1276. and,

  1277. you know,

  1278. in our church

  1279. when we go forward

  1280. for communion

  1281. we,

  1282. we encourage people

  1283. to come,

  1284. um,

  1285. with their hands

  1286. out like this

  1287. because it's a way

  1288. for us to say,

  1289. uh,

  1290. we don't bring anything.

  1291. We don't bring

  1292. righteousness to this.

  1293. We don't have any

  1294. merits to come to this.

  1295. We haven't provided,

  1296. um,

  1297. the food at this meal.

  1298. You know,

  1299. in our church,

  1300. um,

  1301. I take people out

  1302. to lunch,

  1303. um,

  1304. all the time

  1305. and,

  1306. uh,

  1307. when I take out

  1308. particularly the successful,

  1309. the wealthy,

  1310. the,

  1311. uh,

  1312. those people,

  1313. I always pay for it

  1314. and I have to be

  1315. really quick.

  1316. Um,

  1317. and they are always

  1318. bothered by that.

  1319. Um,

  1320. because they,

  1321. they have an idea

  1322. that,

  1323. um,

  1324. that,

  1325. um,

  1326. they're the provider,

  1327. the church is the recipient.

  1328. They give,

  1329. the church receives.

  1330. Um,

  1331. they're the have,

  1332. the pastor is the have not.

  1333. Um,

  1334. and,

  1335. uh,

  1336. and,

  1337. and they're always

  1338. bothered.

  1339. And one of the things

  1340. they'll often say is,

  1341. we'll have to do this again.

  1342. And I say,

  1343. no,

  1344. no,

  1345. no,

  1346. we're not.

  1347. And,

  1348. uh,

  1349. and you're not going to

  1350. get the satisfaction

  1351. of you,

  1352. um,

  1353. um,

  1354. uh,

  1355. paying,

  1356. uh,

  1357. because this is the way

  1358. it works in the family

  1359. of God.

  1360. It's called grace.

  1361. You contribute nothing.

  1362. Um,

  1363. something is given to you

  1364. that you don't pay for.

  1365. And,

  1366. uh,

  1367. and if you can't even

  1368. stand it at a lunch,

  1369. how can you,

  1370. um,

  1371. uh,

  1372. how can you,

  1373. how can you understand

  1374. it as a way of life?

  1375. Um,

  1376. we don't pay God back.

  1377. Um,

  1378. that's not the motivation

  1379. for Christian living.

  1380. Um,

  1381. we have to experience,

  1382. listen,

  1383. there's all sorts of people

  1384. go to church in North America

  1385. who profess faith in Jesus

  1386. who could recite the,

  1387. um,

  1388. Westminster Confession of Faith

  1389. and Ugaritic.

  1390. Um,

  1391. but that doesn't mean

  1392. you've ever had the experience,

  1393. uh,

  1394. uh,

  1395. you've ever experienced grace.

  1396. Doesn't mean that,

  1397. um,

  1398. you really know the love of God.

  1399. Um,

  1400. that you've ever been,

  1401. you know,

  1402. my,

  1403. my,

  1404. uh,

  1405. my favorite verse in the Bible

  1406. is when the prodigal son

  1407. came home

  1408. in all his shame

  1409. and all his filth

  1410. and all his rebellion.

  1411. Not only did his father

  1412. run out to him,

  1413. but the Bible says

  1414. his father what?

  1415. He kissed him.

  1416. He kissed him.

  1417. Him.

  1418. Your life changes

  1419. the day you experience

  1420. the kiss of the father.

  1421. You can be a follower of God,

  1422. a believer in the Bible,

  1423. and never have experienced

  1424. the kiss.

  1425. Um,

  1426. the kiss of,

  1427. uh,

  1428. of,

  1429. of God.

  1430. And to consider the price

  1431. of the feast,

  1432. you know,

  1433. this is my body

  1434. broken for you.

  1435. That's the price.

  1436. He provides it.

  1437. He provides the meal

  1438. for his children.

  1439. This welcoming,

  1440. I bet you sing

  1441. in,

  1442. in your church

  1443. from time to time,

  1444. oh,

  1445. I'm running to his arms.

  1446. That song,

  1447. right?

  1448. And the riches

  1449. of your love

  1450. will never,

  1451. you know,

  1452. the,

  1453. the riches of your love

  1454. will always be enough.

  1455. Oh,

  1456. I'm running to your arms.

  1457. It's such a beautiful

  1458. visual picture

  1459. of children,

  1460. um,

  1461. um,

  1462. running into,

  1463. uh,

  1464. the welcome

  1465. of the father.

  1466. My wife and I went

  1467. on a road trip

  1468. a couple years ago

  1469. up I-95

  1470. through,

  1471. uh,

  1472. Georgia.

  1473. And before you get

  1474. to Savannah,

  1475. there was an exit

  1476. we took,

  1477. and we went to find

  1478. a restaurant

  1479. because Southern Living

  1480. had talked about it.

  1481. Uh,

  1482. the Old School Diner,

  1483. it was called.

  1484. It was Ben Affleck's

  1485. favorite restaurant

  1486. during the filming

  1487. of some movie

  1488. and of course

  1489. what Ben does,

  1490. I do.

  1491. And,

  1492. um,

  1493. so,

  1494. um,

  1495. we drove and drove

  1496. and drove and drove

  1497. and finally got

  1498. to a dirt road

  1499. and you turn down

  1500. the dirt road

  1501. and,

  1502. um,

  1503. and there's just a,

  1504. uh,

  1505. uh,

  1506. and,

  1507. and really a shack

  1508. with about five shacks,

  1509. you know,

  1510. added on to it

  1511. and,

  1512. uh,

  1513. and the most bizarre,

  1514. uh,

  1515. tableau

  1516. because there's,

  1517. it's not,

  1518. there's no paved parking.

  1519. Um,

  1520. the whole area

  1521. around the restaurant

  1522. is covered

  1523. with carpet

  1524. torn out of mobile homes.

  1525. Um,

  1526. the carpet's

  1527. the whole ground

  1528. and,

  1529. uh,

  1530. and so as we pulled

  1531. into this place

  1532. thinking,

  1533. you know,

  1534. what is this

  1535. gonna be like,

  1536. out the door

  1537. barrels

  1538. Chef Jerome

  1539. and he runs

  1540. up to the car

  1541. and as he's running

  1542. out towards us

  1543. he goes,

  1544. my family,

  1545. my family,

  1546. my family is here

  1547. and he wraps us

  1548. in his arms

  1549. and he says,

  1550. get on in here,

  1551. get on in here.

  1552. He said,

  1553. I threw the hush puppies

  1554. on when I saw you

  1555. coming down the lane.

  1556. Now there was a welcome

  1557. um,

  1558. and,

  1559. uh,

  1560. it was a beautiful picture

  1561. uh,

  1562. of,

  1563. um,

  1564. uh,

  1565. a beautiful gospel

  1566. picture.

  1567. Um,

  1568. listen,

  1569. we wanna have churches

  1570. that reflect

  1571. the yearning host

  1572. uh,

  1573. who wants his,

  1574. um,

  1575. party filled.

  1576. Diane and I went

  1577. to a church

  1578. in Los Angeles

  1579. where,

  1580. um,

  1581. we,

  1582. uh,

  1583. they met in a school

  1584. and,

  1585. uh,

  1586. we had to park

  1587. a number of blocks

  1588. away in a parking

  1589. garage

  1590. and,

  1591. uh,

  1592. it was,

  1593. it was an incredible

  1594. experience

  1595. because when you got

  1596. out of the car

  1597. somebody was standing

  1598. there and said,

  1599. walk over that

  1600. stairway to that

  1601. guy in the green

  1602. shirt,

  1603. you know,

  1604. and when you got

  1605. to the stairway

  1606. a guy in the green

  1607. shirt said,

  1608. go down the stairwell

  1609. and at the bottom

  1610. you'll see a guy

  1611. in a green shirt

  1612. and at the bottom

  1613. he said,

  1614. go down this alley

  1615. to the end,

  1616. see that guy in the

  1617. green shirt down

  1618. there,

  1619. go to him

  1620. and that went

  1621. to about seven

  1622. different guys

  1623. in green shirts

  1624. all the way

  1625. till we got

  1626. into the,

  1627. and,

  1628. uh,

  1629. and their warmth

  1630. and their welcome

  1631. continued all the way

  1632. through the,

  1633. uh,

  1634. experience there

  1635. so much so

  1636. that when we went

  1637. forward for communion,

  1638. uh,

  1639. the,

  1640. the man who served

  1641. us was so,

  1642. um,

  1643. warm that my wife

  1644. took a picture

  1645. of him

  1646. and I was like,

  1647. no,

  1648. don't do this to me,

  1649. I'm a PCA pastor

  1650. and,

  1651. um,

  1652. um,

  1653. but it was that,

  1654. uh,

  1655. you know,

  1656. we were blown

  1657. away,

  1658. uh,

  1659. and,

  1660. and wrote the

  1661. pastor later,

  1662. so there we go,

  1663. we got it,

  1664. hospitality,

  1665. this is our

  1666. heritage,

  1667. our father

  1668. is a welcomer

  1669. and,

  1670. uh,

  1671. we have been

  1672. welcomed

  1673. and so we

  1674. welcome,

  1675. so second,

  1676. I want you to

  1677. see the guests

  1678. that,

  1679. uh,

  1680. that,

  1681. they come to

  1682. the party,

  1683. with me,

  1684. the guests,

  1685. to re-engage

  1686. this vocation,

  1687. we've got to

  1688. believe that those

  1689. outside the church

  1690. are the father's

  1691. desired guests,

  1692. Jesus says to

  1693. those gathered

  1694. in the dinner

  1695. party,

  1696. when you give

  1697. a dinner,

  1698. don't invite

  1699. your friends

  1700. or your family

  1701. or your rich

  1702. neighbors,

  1703. Jesus' day

  1704. was like our

  1705. own,

  1706. society was

  1707. stratified by

  1708. class,

  1709. it was all

  1710. about who

  1711. you knew,

  1712. and everybody

  1713. wanted to

  1714. socialize with

  1715. the beautiful

  1716. and the wealthy

  1717. and the important

  1718. and the successful

  1719. because social

  1720. engagements establish

  1721. your status,

  1722. and to get

  1723. anywhere you need

  1724. a network,

  1725. and you only

  1726. practiced

  1727. hospitality,

  1728. the purpose

  1729. of hospitality

  1730. ultimately

  1731. was to get

  1732. something out

  1733. of it,

  1734. got it?

  1735. So Jesus

  1736. is saying,

  1737. invite those

  1738. who offer

  1739. you nothing,

  1740. right?

  1741. It reminds me

  1742. of selfies

  1743. actually today,

  1744. you know,

  1745. when people

  1746. take selfies

  1747. and post them

  1748. online,

  1749. it in many

  1750. ways is about

  1751. establishing

  1752. their status,

  1753. they show

  1754. themselves in

  1755. beautiful restaurants,

  1756. they show

  1757. themselves in

  1758. New Zealand

  1759. on incredible

  1760. vacations,

  1761. if they happen

  1762. across a celebrity,

  1763. they take a

  1764. picture with

  1765. the celebrity

  1766. because it's

  1767. sort of like

  1768. saying,

  1769. look at me,

  1770. I'm with so-and-so,

  1771. I'm important.

  1772. So it was,

  1773. so it was,

  1774. so it is

  1775. with socializing.

  1776. So Jesus

  1777. says,

  1778. actually hang

  1779. out with people

  1780. who offer you

  1781. nothing,

  1782. invite the people

  1783. at the bottom

  1784. of the pile,

  1785. invite the poor

  1786. and crippled

  1787. and lame

  1788. and blind,

  1789. and one of the

  1790. reasons Jesus

  1791. says to invite

  1792. them is

  1793. because they'll

  1794. actually come,

  1795. when the rich

  1796. host invites

  1797. the well-off

  1798. to his party

  1799. in the parable,

  1800. what happens?

  1801. Nobody shows

  1802. up, right?

  1803. I've got a new

  1804. marriage,

  1805. one of them

  1806. says,

  1807. I've got new

  1808. property,

  1809. I've got new

  1810. oxen,

  1811. I've got to

  1812. go work out.

  1813. And then you

  1814. remember the man

  1815. interrupts and

  1816. says,

  1817. oh,

  1818. blessed is

  1819. everyone

  1820. because we'll

  1821. all be at

  1822. the feast.

  1823. And Jesus

  1824. says,

  1825. no,

  1826. no,

  1827. you won't

  1828. be at the

  1829. feast.

  1830. Do you realize

  1831. what Jesus

  1832. is saying

  1833. to these

  1834. people?

  1835. He's telling

  1836. them,

  1837. you're not

  1838. God,

  1839. you're not

  1840. going to be

  1841. at the feast.

  1842. You do not

  1843. belong to him.

  1844. I mean,

  1845. he counters

  1846. what that guy

  1847. says right

  1848. in the dinner

  1849. party.

  1850. Do not

  1851. invite Jesus

  1852. to your

  1853. dinner parties.

  1854. It will not

  1855. be a casual,

  1856. delightful,

  1857. social engagement.

  1858. He tells the

  1859. people in the

  1860. dinner party,

  1861. no,

  1862. no,

  1863. you're not

  1864. responding.

  1865. I'm right

  1866. here.

  1867. I'm right

  1868. here inviting

  1869. you.

  1870. And you

  1871. will not

  1872. come.

  1873. You are

  1874. too self-sufficient

  1875. to respond.

  1876. The accomplished,

  1877. the busy,

  1878. the successful,

  1879. the achievers

  1880. are too full

  1881. to realize how

  1882. hungry they

  1883. are to run

  1884. to the feast.

  1885. Jesus is

  1886. blessed are the

  1887. poor in spirit.

  1888. They will come

  1889. to the feast.

  1890. But the middle

  1891. class in spirit

  1892. are too self-sufficient

  1893. to need mercy

  1894. and to need

  1895. charity

  1896. and to need

  1897. Jesus.

  1898. Philip Yancey

  1899. was traveling

  1900. in Eastern

  1901. Europe and he

  1902. was talking to

  1903. a prostitute

  1904. and he asked

  1905. her, he said,

  1906. do you know

  1907. that Jesus

  1908. actually talked

  1909. about prostitutes?

  1910. And she didn't

  1911. really know that

  1912. and he said,

  1913. do you know

  1914. that Jesus

  1915. said there are

  1916. more prostitutes

  1917. in the kingdom

  1918. of God

  1919. than there

  1920. are rich

  1921. people?

  1922. And he said,

  1923. why do you

  1924. think,

  1925. why do you

  1926. think Jesus

  1927. said that?

  1928. He asked this

  1929. to a prostitute

  1930. and this is

  1931. what she said.

  1932. Did,

  1933. she said,

  1934. you know,

  1935. there are more

  1936. prostitutes than

  1937. there are religious

  1938. conservatives

  1939. is actually what

  1940. he said.

  1941. And she said,

  1942. well,

  1943. everybody has

  1944. someone to

  1945. look down on

  1946. but not us.

  1947. We are at the

  1948. low.

  1949. Our families,

  1950. they feel shame

  1951. for us.

  1952. No mother nowhere

  1953. looks at her

  1954. little girl and

  1955. says, honey,

  1956. when you grow up,

  1957. I want you to be

  1958. a good prostitute.

  1959. Most places,

  1960. we are breaking

  1961. the law.

  1962. Believe me,

  1963. we know how

  1964. people feel about

  1965. us.

  1966. People call us

  1967. names,

  1968. whore,

  1969. slut,

  1970. hooker,

  1971. harlot.

  1972. We feel it,

  1973. too.

  1974. We are the

  1975. bottom.

  1976. And sometimes

  1977. when you are

  1978. at the low,

  1979. you cry for

  1980. help.

  1981. And when we

  1982. cry for help,

  1983. Jesus comes.

  1984. And when he

  1985. comes,

  1986. we respond.

  1987. She said,

  1988. maybe that's

  1989. what Jesus

  1990. meant.

  1991. When you're

  1992. at the low.

  1993. So,

  1994. we have to

  1995. admit that we

  1996. look at non-Christians

  1997. with contempt

  1998. and we look at

  1999. the poor

  2000. with disdain.

  2001. It's just in us.

  2002. If you're

  2003. successful,

  2004. it's in your

  2005. DNA.

  2006. People,

  2007. no,

  2008. we don't say

  2009. this out loud,

  2010. but inside we

  2011. think that

  2012. most people are

  2013. poor because

  2014. they choose to

  2015. be poor because

  2016. they aren't as

  2017. disciplined and

  2018. didn't work as

  2019. hard as we

  2020. have.

  2021. I like to say

  2022. in our church,

  2023. if you have

  2024. anything you

  2025. have,

  2026. it isn't

  2027. because you

  2028. worked hard

  2029. for it.

  2030. God gave

  2031. it to you.

  2032. You know,

  2033. most people

  2034. have a wealthy,

  2035. comfortable lifestyle

  2036. because they

  2037. were born in

  2038. the United

  2039. States of

  2040. America.

  2041. If you were

  2042. born in the

  2043. 13th century

  2044. on a hillside

  2045. of Peru,

  2046. you probably

  2047. wouldn't have

  2048. lived to the

  2049. age of one.

  2050. You didn't

  2051. choose where

  2052. you were born.

  2053. If you have

  2054. anything,

  2055. it's the gift

  2056. of God.

  2057. Jesus wants

  2058. people at the

  2059. party that we

  2060. do not want

  2061. at the party.

  2062. His guest list

  2063. for the party

  2064. is completely

  2065. different than

  2066. our guest list.

  2067. Jonah,

  2068. remember,

  2069. would rather

  2070. run the

  2071. opposite way

  2072. than to go

  2073. preach to

  2074. Assyrians

  2075. because he

  2076. knew God,

  2077. because he

  2078. knew the

  2079. grace of

  2080. God,

  2081. because he

  2082. knew the

  2083. kind of

  2084. God that

  2085. God would

  2086. actually like

  2087. these people

  2088. that he

  2089. despised.

  2090. He knew

  2091. what God

  2092. would do.

  2093. He knew

  2094. that God

  2095. would convert

  2096. these people

  2097. and it

  2098. would ruin

  2099. the good

  2100. people of

  2101. God to

  2102. have those

  2103. people.

  2104. He was

  2105. right.

  2106. When I

  2107. was in

  2108. seminary in

  2109. Jackson,

  2110. Mississippi,

  2111. I used to

  2112. preach on

  2113. weekends in

  2114. Utica,

  2115. Mississippi.

  2116. There were

  2117. 11 people

  2118. when I

  2119. started there.

  2120. We had

  2121. the Spirit

  2122. of God

  2123. moved and

  2124. we grew

  2125. to 17.

  2126. And so

  2127. we decided

  2128. to have a

  2129. revival.

  2130. That's what

  2131. you call it.

  2132. You don't

  2133. call it

  2134. an

  2135. experiencing

  2136. expressing

  2137. grace

  2138. weekend.

  2139. If you're

  2140. in Utica,

  2141. Mississippi,

  2142. it's a

  2143. revival.

  2144. And they

  2145. have kind

  2146. of a

  2147. comedy

  2148. agreement.

  2149. because the

  2150. Methodists

  2151. will go to

  2152. the

  2153. Presbyterians

  2154. and Baptist

  2155. revival.

  2156. They all

  2157. go to

  2158. each other's

  2159. revivals.

  2160. So we

  2161. said we're

  2162. going to

  2163. have a

  2164. revival.

  2165. And have

  2166. a preacher

  2167. come in

  2168. and have

  2169. special services.

  2170. So I went

  2171. all around

  2172. the town

  2173. to put up

  2174. posters to

  2175. announce our

  2176. revival.

  2177. They hadn't

  2178. had one at a

  2179. Presbyterian

  2180. church in

  2181. 20 years.

  2182. and I

  2183. remember

  2184. asking a

  2185. old lady

  2186. in the

  2187. church,

  2188. you know,

  2189. I said,

  2190. you know,

  2191. there's that

  2192. place right

  2193. when you get

  2194. off the

  2195. highway and

  2196. you pull

  2197. into town

  2198. and it

  2199. seems like

  2200. there's a

  2201. lot of

  2202. cars out

  2203. there.

  2204. Would

  2205. that be a

  2206. good place

  2207. to put a

  2208. poster up?

  2209. And she

  2210. said,

  2211. Pastor,

  2212. you can't

  2213. go in

  2214. there.

  2215. What if

  2216. somebody sees

  2217. you in

  2218. there?

  2219. That's not

  2220. the kind

  2221. of place

  2222. for a

  2223. pastor to

  2224. go,

  2225. not in

  2226. that

  2227. place.

  2228. And she

  2229. said,

  2230. ain't no

  2231. kind of

  2232. people in

  2233. that place

  2234. would want

  2235. to come

  2236. to our

  2237. church

  2238. anyway.

  2239. And I'm

  2240. not sure

  2241. we'd want

  2242. those folks

  2243. in our

  2244. church

  2245. anyway.

  2246. So all

  2247. I know

  2248. is Jesus

  2249. has a

  2250. different

  2251. guest list

  2252. than we

  2253. do to

  2254. his party.

  2255. So let

  2256. me finish

  2257. then.

  2258. What's the

  2259. last part

  2260. of understanding

  2261. this text?

  2262. It's not

  2263. to know

  2264. the host,

  2265. this yearning

  2266. host.

  2267. He's going

  2268. to have his

  2269. house filled.

  2270. He's going

  2271. to fill

  2272. his house

  2273. with people

  2274. that we

  2275. wouldn't

  2276. have on

  2277. our guest

  2278. list.

  2279. And then

  2280. what's our

  2281. role?

  2282. To be

  2283. the welcoming

  2284. servants.

  2285. The welcoming

  2286. servants.

  2287. The ones

  2288. who are sent

  2289. out to

  2290. scour the

  2291. countryside

  2292. until the

  2293. house is

  2294. full.

  2295. Our

  2296. calling is

  2297. to summon

  2298. our neighbors

  2299. to the

  2300. feast.

  2301. You think

  2302. evangelism.

  2303. I can't

  2304. do evangelism.

  2305. I don't

  2306. know how

  2307. to do

  2308. apologetics.

  2309. I can't

  2310. talk to

  2311. agnostics

  2312. or atheists

  2313. or give

  2314. proofs for

  2315. Christianity.

  2316. I don't

  2317. have a

  2318. good tongue.

  2319. I can't

  2320. answer their

  2321. arguments.

  2322. I'm telling

  2323. you, what

  2324. does the

  2325. Bible say

  2326. to do?

  2327. Feed

  2328. them.

  2329. Welcome

  2330. people.

  2331. Welcome

  2332. them into

  2333. your home.

  2334. Welcome

  2335. them into

  2336. your life.

  2337. This is

  2338. what God

  2339. says to

  2340. do.

  2341. He's having

  2342. a party

  2343. and he

  2344. wants you

  2345. to bring

  2346. people.

  2347. Is that

  2348. so hard?

  2349. God's

  2350. having a

  2351. party and

  2352. he wants

  2353. you to

  2354. invite your

  2355. friends to

  2356. go to the

  2357. party.

  2358. This is the

  2359. forever party.

  2360. This is the

  2361. big party.

  2362. This is a

  2363. great party.

  2364. Most of us

  2365. find it pretty

  2366. easy to invite

  2367. people to

  2368. our parties.

  2369. And so the

  2370. problem is our

  2371. hospitality of

  2372. course is

  2373. warped.

  2374. Our hospitality

  2375. is more

  2376. Martha Stewart

  2377. than Jesus.

  2378. It's

  2379. entertainment and

  2380. menus and

  2381. table settings

  2382. and southern

  2383. living.

  2384. And it's

  2385. often about

  2386. our looking

  2387. good and

  2388. our feeling

  2389. good about

  2390. what kind

  2391. of performance.

  2392. But

  2393. hospitality,

  2394. the word

  2395. actually is

  2396. philoxenia in

  2397. the Greek,

  2398. which means

  2399. the love of

  2400. strangers.

  2401. That's what

  2402. hospitality means.

  2403. The love of

  2404. strangers.

  2405. Hospitality is

  2406. welcoming strangers

  2407. into your life,

  2408. your home,

  2409. and your church.

  2410. It's offering

  2411. food,

  2412. rest,

  2413. warmth,

  2414. conversation,

  2415. safety,

  2416. and peace

  2417. to people.

  2418. So how do

  2419. we offer

  2420. hospitality to

  2421. strangers?

  2422. Real quick,

  2423. here's the

  2424. application.

  2425. Offer

  2426. hospitality to

  2427. Christians,

  2428. first of all.

  2429. And my

  2430. notes is offer

  2431. hospitality to

  2432. strange Christians

  2433. because some

  2434. Christians are

  2435. incredibly strange.

  2436. And,

  2437. you know,

  2438. in your church

  2439. there are people

  2440. you don't know

  2441. and there are

  2442. people you don't

  2443. really want to

  2444. know.

  2445. Okay?

  2446. There are people

  2447. in this church

  2448. that you will

  2449. not like,

  2450. that you

  2451. will not be

  2452. drawn to,

  2453. you're not

  2454. really the

  2455. people you

  2456. want to

  2457. hang out

  2458. with.

  2459. So when the

  2460. Bible says

  2461. to offer

  2462. hospitality to

  2463. strangers,

  2464. well,

  2465. a lot of

  2466. them are

  2467. right here.

  2468. They attend

  2469. this church

  2470. already.

  2471. They may

  2472. as well be

  2473. believers.

  2474. They're,

  2475. you know,

  2476. I'd ask,

  2477. is your small

  2478. group welcoming?

  2479. Are you on

  2480. the welcoming

  2481. team?

  2482. I don't know

  2483. if you have

  2484. a greeting

  2485. time in your

  2486. church,

  2487. but,

  2488. you know,

  2489. after church,

  2490. in our church

  2491. we have like a

  2492. ten minute

  2493. rule,

  2494. we emphasize,

  2495. you cannot

  2496. talk to your

  2497. friends for the

  2498. first ten minutes

  2499. after church.

  2500. That's a worthy

  2501. thing to do,

  2502. to get together

  2503. and talk to your

  2504. friends,

  2505. but there's too

  2506. many people you

  2507. don't know to

  2508. talk to.

  2509. And God sends

  2510. somebody to

  2511. this place,

  2512. to his house,

  2513. he wants them

  2514. welcomed here.

  2515. And you never

  2516. have any idea

  2517. who is walking

  2518. through the doors

  2519. on any given

  2520. week here,

  2521. do you?

  2522. You have no idea.

  2523. Do you know I've

  2524. been to church here

  2525. one time?

  2526. one time,

  2527. about four years

  2528. ago,

  2529. and on Sunday

  2530. morning,

  2531. standing outside

  2532. by those bank

  2533. of windows there,

  2534. I encountered a

  2535. woman who was a

  2536. member of our

  2537. church,

  2538. and she was living

  2539. in Mississippi.

  2540. She left her

  2541. husband,

  2542. fled her marriage.

  2543. I didn't even know

  2544. about that until

  2545. after she was gone.

  2546. and she came

  2547. to Huntsville

  2548. to visit a relative

  2549. and came to church

  2550. that Sunday,

  2551. the one Sunday

  2552. that I've ever

  2553. been here,

  2554. and we crossed

  2555. paths at

  2556. Southwood Church,

  2557. and we had a

  2558. very significant

  2559. conversation right

  2560. outside.

  2561. You have no idea

  2562. who's going to be

  2563. here this morning.

  2564. God is sending

  2565. people here every

  2566. week,

  2567. and he wants you

  2568. to welcome them.

  2569. And it's a

  2570. beautiful thing.

  2571. Listen,

  2572. it's not Will's

  2573. job to build

  2574. this church.

  2575. Jesus said,

  2576. I'll build the

  2577. church.

  2578. The gates of hell

  2579. will not prevail

  2580. against it.

  2581. And it's just the

  2582. most fun to watch

  2583. him do it,

  2584. and to realize

  2585. it's not our

  2586. responsibility.

  2587. We can't do it.

  2588. People are going

  2589. to walk in this

  2590. church today.

  2591. So, you know,

  2592. got it,

  2593. hospitality to

  2594. Christians.

  2595. Second is

  2596. hospitality to your

  2597. neighbors.

  2598. believers.

  2599. Jesus was always

  2600. eating with people.

  2601. You don't have to

  2602. preach to them.

  2603. Most people are not

  2604. argued into the

  2605. kingdom.

  2606. They are loved into

  2607. the kingdom of God.

  2608. Rosaria Butterfield

  2609. was a

  2610. lesbian.

  2611. She was a PhD.

  2612. She was a professor

  2613. at Syracuse.

  2614. She had tenure

  2615. there.

  2616. She was

  2617. considered the

  2618. national expert

  2619. in gay and

  2620. lesbian studies.

  2621. She lectured at

  2622. all the different

  2623. Ivy League schools.

  2624. She was writing a

  2625. book on

  2626. why do

  2627. Christians hate

  2628. gays.

  2629. In the course of

  2630. researching it,

  2631. she got vile

  2632. communication from

  2633. Christians, which was,

  2634. of course, her whole

  2635. point.

  2636. But she also got a

  2637. letter from a

  2638. Presbyterian pastor

  2639. in her town that

  2640. intrigued her with

  2641. its tone and

  2642. everything else.

  2643. She decided to sit

  2644. down and talk with

  2645. him.

  2646. It sparked a long

  2647. friendship.

  2648. She found herself at

  2649. his dinner table

  2650. repeatedly.

  2651. It says,

  2652. he initiated two

  2653. years of bringing

  2654. the church to me,

  2655. a heathen.

  2656. I had seen my

  2657. share of Bible

  2658. verses on placards

  2659. at gay pride

  2660. marches.

  2661. The Christians who

  2662. mocked me on gay

  2663. pride day were

  2664. happy that I and

  2665. everyone I love were

  2666. going to hell.

  2667. That was as clear as

  2668. the blue sky.

  2669. But that's not what

  2670. Ken did.

  2671. He did not mock.

  2672. He engaged.

  2673. So when his letter

  2674. invited me to get

  2675. together for dinner,

  2676. I accepted.

  2677. My only motive was I

  2678. thought this would be

  2679. good for my research.

  2680. But something else

  2681. happened.

  2682. Ken and his wife and

  2683. I became friends.

  2684. They entered my world.

  2685. They met my friends.

  2686. We did book exchanges.

  2687. We talked openly about

  2688. sexuality and politics.

  2689. They did not act as if

  2690. such conversations were

  2691. polluting them.

  2692. When we ate together,

  2693. Ken prayed in a way I

  2694. had never heard before.

  2695. His prayers were

  2696. intimate and vulnerable.

  2697. He repented of his

  2698. sin in front of me.

  2699. So as powerful an

  2700. advocate for the

  2701. biblical teaching on

  2702. sexuality in our

  2703. country today is

  2704. Rosaria Butterfield.

  2705. And it's all because of

  2706. what?

  2707. Hospitality.

  2708. Hospitality.

  2709. Hospitality to our

  2710. neighbors.

  2711. Hospitality to those we

  2712. go to church with.

  2713. And last, hospitality to

  2714. the poor.

  2715. We are to give

  2716. preference to the

  2717. broken and needy.

  2718. Corrie Ten Boom, you're

  2719. familiar with.

  2720. She and her family hid

  2721. Jews in Holland until

  2722. somebody ratted them out

  2723. and they were

  2724. discovered.

  2725. And when the Nazis came,

  2726. they said to our father,

  2727. he was a watch

  2728. repairman, Casper Ten Boom,

  2729. and he had been doing it

  2730. for years in this

  2731. community.

  2732. He was one of the most

  2733. respected people in the

  2734. community.

  2735. I think he was 80

  2736. years old or something

  2737. like that.

  2738. And they knew he

  2739. wouldn't last long.

  2740. In fact, when he was

  2741. ultimately taken away,

  2742. he died within two

  2743. weeks.

  2744. He was just a frail

  2745. old man.

  2746. And so the Nazis

  2747. didn't want the Dutch

  2748. turning against them by

  2749. taking this venerated

  2750. elder man away.

  2751. So they said to

  2752. Casper Ten Boom,

  2753. just tell us you'll

  2754. stop hiding Jews.

  2755. That's all you have to

  2756. do.

  2757. We will not take you

  2758. away.

  2759. We will leave you here.

  2760. Just tell us you'll

  2761. stop.

  2762. That's all you have to do.

  2763. And he said,

  2764. if you leave me here

  2765. and tomorrow there's a

  2766. knock on my door

  2767. and there are people who

  2768. are seeking refuge,

  2769. then I will open my door

  2770. and I will welcome them in

  2771. and I will feed them

  2772. and if need be,

  2773. I will hide them from you.

  2774. He said,

  2775. why would I do that?

  2776. He said,

  2777. because I am a Christian.

  2778. That's what Christians

  2779. have always done.

  2780. That's what Christians

  2781. still do.

  2782. We've received the

  2783. welcome of the Father.

  2784. He feeds us

  2785. with his own body

  2786. and blood.

  2787. He kisses us

  2788. the most unworthy

  2789. and when you experience it,

  2790. you express it.

  2791. Let's pray.

  2792. Father, may it be so.

  2793. May it be so in the

  2794. Cortese house

  2795. and in the Cortese life.

  2796. May it be the experience

  2797. of us that

  2798. we find ourselves

  2799. at your table

  2800. the least worthy

  2801. and we just

  2802. can't get over it

  2803. and we pray this

  2804. in Jesus' name.

  2805. Amen.

  2806. For more information,

  2807. visit us online

  2808. at southwood.org.

  2809. information,

  2810. visit us online

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