Sermon
Pure - Gay & Christian?
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It's on page 1147.
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Okay, 1 Corinthians chapter 5, verses 9 to 13.
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I have written to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people,
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not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral,
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or the greedy and swindlers or idolaters.
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In that case, you would have to leave this world.
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But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother,
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but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler.
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With such a man do not even eat.
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What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church?
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Are you not to judge those inside?
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God will judge those outside.
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Expel the wicked man from among you.
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Let me go down to chapter 6.
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I'll start at verse 9, 9 to 13.
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Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God?
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Do not be deceived.
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Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes,
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nor homosexual offenders, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards,
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nor slanders, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
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And that is what some of you were.
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But you were washed, you were sanctified,
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and you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ
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by the Spirit of our God.
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Sexual immorality
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Everything is permissible for me, but not everything is beneficial.
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Everything is permissible for me, but I will not be mastered by anything.
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Food is for the stomach, and the stomach for food,
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but God will destroy them both.
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The body is not meant for sexual immorality,
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but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
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Amen.
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Thanks very much, Ian.
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Well, I encourage you to take notes.
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If you've got your new sheet, there's a space on the back.
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If not, there should be another sheet that was handed around,
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or a pen at the front.
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Feel free to get it,
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and to get yourself a Bible if you haven't got one.
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There's plenty at the back,
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and you can follow through.
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Before we start this morning,
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I want to say a couple of things.
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First, that I'm aware when dealing with the subject of homosexuality,
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there are a variety of views and experiences.
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So, you may find that as we go through this morning's talk,
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there will be times you may agree,
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and there may be times you disagree.
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And so, I'm just saying that up front.
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So, if you've got questions afterwards,
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to come and talk to me,
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and to encourage you to come to our follow-up discussion this evening.
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The second thing that I want to say is that I am a learner.
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I don't know all the answers,
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and nor do I pretend to.
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Trying to understand our sexuality is a very complex matter.
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And I speak to you not as a physician,
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or as a psychologist,
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but simply as a learner and teacher of God's Word.
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And that is where we want to base our thinking
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and our study this morning.
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That as we come together,
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we want to hear what God has to say about ourselves,
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how He has made us,
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and how we are called to live in His world.
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So, let's pray as we ask for God's help.
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Our Father God, we thank you so much that you have given to us your Word,
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so that we know how to live,
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and how we have been made.
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That we are not just placed here on earth,
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trying to make it up,
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and trying to figure it out by ourselves.
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But you have shown us very clearly.
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And we ask, Father, that by your Holy Spirit,
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that you would help us to understand,
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and to apply it to our lives,
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and to our thinking.
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If we come with any thoughts and any views,
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that we would submit them right now to your Word.
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That you would shape our minds,
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and our thinking,
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so that we become more and more like Christ.
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Loving one another,
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caring for one another,
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and serious with the issues that you are serious with.
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So please help us,
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we ask in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Well, over the last 20 years,
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Ireland has changed from a conservative religious culture
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to a more liberal, irreligious culture.
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The bedrock of Irish society,
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the heterosexual marriage,
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is no longer foundational.
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Increasingly, we meet people who are living together
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with the same sex,
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and hardly a week goes by
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without some big-named celebrity coming out.
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But with all the changes in our culture,
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there still seems to be a lot of confusion about homosexuality.
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Last year, I had to attend the funeral of my aunt.
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And as with most funerals,
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it's the opportunity to meet relatives and friends
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that you haven't seen in years.
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And at this funeral,
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I was looking forward to meeting my cousin.
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As far as I remember,
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I had only ever met him once.
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Of course, we had had many family gatherings in the past,
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and everybody had always been invited,
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except John was always absent.
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Leading up to the funeral,
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we were told that John was gay,
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and was living with his partner for the last 20 years,
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and they were now happily married.
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Now, the question I had was this.
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Why did nobody know?
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Why was it all kept a secret for so long?
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You see, with all the changes in society,
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it seems that people still don't know
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how to handle homosexuality.
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Those within the gay community
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very often fear rejection and isolation,
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and have to deal with being ostracized and marginalized.
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Those outside the gay community,
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it seems, are uneducated in their understanding.
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And they often appear homophobic in their attitudes,
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and in the jokes that they share.
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But that's my experience.
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Let me try and make it a little bit more personal for us.
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What would you say, or what would you do,
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if your son came home one day from school
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to tell you that he was more attracted
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to the other boys in his class than the girls?
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What would you do if a woman and her gay partner
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arrived in church saying,
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they follow Jesus, they love reading their Bible,
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and they would love to be involved here?
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What would you do?
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You see, these are no longer questions for others
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in another place.
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These are questions for us.
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And so we come this morning to hear
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what the Bible has to say about homosexuality.
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Well, I think there are three broad responses
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that the church gives
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to the change in our culture.
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Firstly, there are those in the church
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who will say,
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condemnation.
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Read your Bible, they say,
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and they'll quote verses like Romans 1, verse 24.
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God gave them over in their sinful desires
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of their hearts to sexual impurity.
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Men committed indecent acts with other men
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and received in themselves
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the due penalty for their perversion.
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Homosexuality, they say,
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is God's judgment.
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Such people need to be put out of the church.
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They need to be reminded
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of how they have violated God's commands.
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Second, and in response to that attitude,
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there are those in the church
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who will say, acceptance.
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Homosexuality is just as much a part of society
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as heterosexuality.
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So we need to grow up
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and we need to get on with it.
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Lisa Miller, who is a theologian
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and a commentator said,
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speaking about the Bible,
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a mature view of scriptural authority
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requires us, as we have in the past,
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to move beyond literalism.
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The Bible was written for a world
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so unknown to our own,
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it's impossible to apply its rules
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at face value to ours.
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In other words, it's saying
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we can't take the likes of Romans seriously.
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Those texts were for another age.
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They don't apply to us anymore.
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Well, I don't know about you,
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but neither of those views settle with me.
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I don't think either of those views are an option.
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Both are a distortion of Scripture
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and both misunderstand how we handle Scripture.
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So we need a third way.
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And the third way I'm going to call
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a gospel way.
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And we're going to look under it
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in two ways.
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First, God's good design
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and then God's great hope.
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So we start with God's good design,
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who we are.
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First of all,
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we must see ourselves
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as human beings
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created in God's image.
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Back in Genesis 1,
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verses 26 to 27,
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it says this,
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Then God said,
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Let us make man in our image,
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in our likeness.
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So God created man
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in his own image.
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And in the image of God,
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he created him.
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Male and female,
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he created them.
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You see,
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all too often,
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we are grouped or categorized
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according to our sexual orientation.
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On the one hand,
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there is the gay community
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and people get lumped there.
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And then there are others
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who are in the straight community
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and they get lumped there.
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We find our identity in a group
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and with people
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who we perceive to be like us.
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But that's unhelpful
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because we first need to see ourselves,
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not how we see ourselves
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or how other people might see us,
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but how God sees us.
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You see,
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we were created by God
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in his likeness.
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We are his image bearers.
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So no matter who we are,
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what background we come from,
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we are his image bearers,
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every single human being.
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Now as we'll see in a minute,
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that image has become distorted
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by our choices
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and the choices of others.
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And it is God's purpose and plan
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that that image is restored fully in us.
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But as one writer helpfully put it,
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God's primary desire
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is not that we should become heterosexual,
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but that we would become more like Christ.
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We were created like God,
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we are to become like God,
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So it's only by looking to God
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and seeing who he is
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that I can really understand who I am.
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So God views us
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and God sees us as unique individuals,
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people who are made in his image,
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in his likeness,
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who are equally loved,
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and we must be treated as such.
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Our first identity
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is that we are made in his image.
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So that's who we are.
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And second,
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well how should we live?
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Well God has shown us
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how we should live
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in relationship with each other.
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Because we are made in God's image,
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we are relational beings.
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God is a relational being.
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The Trinity,
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Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
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They are at one together,
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they relate together.
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And we were made
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for the same intimacy,
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primarily with the triune God.
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But also,
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with each other.
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And we are told
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how that should be expressed.
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And we've been looking at that
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over the last few weeks
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in 1 Corinthians chapter 7,
1 Corinthians 7 chapter mention
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as we've been looking at
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marriage and singleness.
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And in 1 Corinthians 7,
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we see God's purpose very clearly.
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That marriage
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is always between a man and a woman
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in an exclusive,
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committed relationship.
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friendship.
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And sexual intimacy
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is part of God's
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good design for marriage.
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And one of the primary reasons
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for that
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is procreation.
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God has designed
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the man and the woman
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so that they can have
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children.
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Children who can work together
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to grow up
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to serve and love God
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and live under God.
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Man and another man
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and a woman
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with another woman
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can't have children.
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It's not part of God's design.
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So marriage is very clearly
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a part of his
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creation order.
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Singleness,
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on the other hand,
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is also encouraged,
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as we saw that
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in chapter 7,
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but without
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sexual intimacy.
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Relationships
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between single people
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are to be encouraged
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and to be encouraged
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across the sexes,
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but without
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engaging in
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sexual activity.
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to unite yourself
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with someone sexually
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outside of marriage
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is to be going
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against God's
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good design.
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So God, again,
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has not only shown us
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who we are
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made in his image,
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he has shown us
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how we should live
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in relationship
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with each other
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and how we should live
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in his world.
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So for all of us,
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whoever we are,
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there is either
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marriage,
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which is always
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heterosexual,
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always between a man
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and a woman.
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Or,
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there is singleness,
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which is either
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heterosexual,
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you stay in your own,
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or homosexual.
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Now,
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let me try
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and explain that
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a little bit more
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as we think
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of homosexual
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behavior
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and homosexual
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orientation.
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You can just
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go back one,
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that's all right,
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saviour.
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You mightn't have
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this on your notes,
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it's just an extra
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homosexual behavior
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and homosexual
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orientation.
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We've got to
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distinguish
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between the two.
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Homosexual orientation
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is to be
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attracted to
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someone of the
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same sex.
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Homosexual behavior
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is to be
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sexually active
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with someone
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of the same sex.
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Now,
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as we have seen,
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sexual intimacy
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is only to be
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expressed
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within the context
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of God's
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design
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for marriage.
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So the Bible,
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we discover,
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is always
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negative
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to homosexual
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behavior,
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but it never
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condemns
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or judges
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homosexual
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orientation.
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Because the issue
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in Scripture
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is not
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homosexuality,
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but purity.
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The Bible
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does not
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say
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straight
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sex
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is
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good,
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but gay
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sex
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is bad.
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It doesn't
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say that.
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Now,
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what the Bible
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says is,
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in Ephesians 5,
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verse 3,
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there must
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not be
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a hint
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of sexual
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immorality.
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You see,
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whatever our
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orientation,
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we are all
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called
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to purity.
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So if you
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are married,
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listen to this
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from Hebrews
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13,
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verse 4.
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Marriage
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should be
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honored by
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all,
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and the
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marriage bed
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kept pure,
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for God
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will judge
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the adulterer
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and the
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sexually
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immoral.
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If you
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are single,
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whatever your
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orientation,
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listen to this
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from 1 Timothy
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5.
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Treat younger
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men as
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brothers,
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and younger
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women as
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sisters,
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with absolute
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purity.
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You see,
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to be made
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in God's
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image is
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to reflect
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God's heart
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for purity.
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Behavior
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is what the
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Bible talks
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about,
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not
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orientation.
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So we've
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got to be
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very clear
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about the
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differences
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there.
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But let's
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move on
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as to
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why we
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struggle.
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struggle.
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And that's
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a sensible
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question to
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ask.
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Why do we
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struggle with
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our sexuality?
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Christians who
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have a
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homosexual
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orientation
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often talk
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about unwanted
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desires and
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share of their
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struggles to
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remain sexually
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pure.
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Richard Kirker,
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who was part
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of the gay and
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lesbian Christian
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movement in
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Britain,
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he said
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this,
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it would
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be very
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cavalier and
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capricious of
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God who
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created people
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in a certain
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way and
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then instructed
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them that
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they are
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forbidden from
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fulfilling all
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the potential
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they have been
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given.
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In other words,
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he was saying,
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if God made
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me this way
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with homosexual
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feelings,
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then I must
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be able to
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express it
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sexually.
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Well,
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I don't think
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God has made
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us that way.
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apart from
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scripture,
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scientific and
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medical research
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has shown that
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homosexuality is
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not genetically
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or biologically
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determined.
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You see,
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we all live in
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a fallen world
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and as a result,
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all of our
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sexuality,
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whoever we
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are,
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is all
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flawed.
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None of us
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relate to each
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other the way
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that we ought
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to,
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we don't live
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the way God
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intends,
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and we don't
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behave according
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to God's
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word.
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The Bible
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is crystal
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clear that
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while we have
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all been made
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in the image
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of God,
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that image
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has been
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distorted.
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And a
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distorted
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sexuality can
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be put down
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to,
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very simply,
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our wrong
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choices on
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our own
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part,
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but equally,
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our sexuality
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can be
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distorted
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because of
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another person's
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wrong choice
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towards us.
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So if
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people have
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suffered
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sexual abuse,
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it is going
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to have an
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effect on
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their behavior
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and their
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outlook on
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their relationships.
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It's also
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true that for
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those who
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have grown up
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within a
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family where
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there has
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been one
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parent or
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there's been
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people coming
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in and out
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of the
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relationship,
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that that
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also creates
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behavior.
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Contrary to
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common thought,
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there is
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not a
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gay gene.
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Homosexuality
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is a
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choice within
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our control
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or it's
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a learned
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behavior
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outside of
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our immediate
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control.
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I have a
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book here
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and as
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we are
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stuck for
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time,
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we could
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take a
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long time
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to look
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at those
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issues.
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This one
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is called
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Walking
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with Gay
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Friends
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and there's
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a very
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helpful
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chapter on
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here called
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Nature.
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Nature.
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Or nurture
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which will
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take that
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whole issue
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through a
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little bit
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more.
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Did God
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make me
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this way
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or is it
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because of
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outside influences
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and experiences
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that makes me
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the way that
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I am?
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So I just
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hold that up
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as something
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that you
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want to
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have a
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read of.
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So I
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think this
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will help
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us better
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understand
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homosexuality,
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who we are,
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we're made
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in God's
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image,
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how we live,
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the relationships
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that he has
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given us,
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but why we
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struggle.
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We live
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in a
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fallen
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and broken
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world,
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and we
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make choices
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ourselves,
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but because of
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others' choices
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towards us,
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it can have an
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effect on our
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behavior and
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our thinking.
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So what is
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God's great
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hope?
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Well, I think
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there are three
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ways that we
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can respond
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equally to
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this.
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things.
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And the
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first is
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this.
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First, we
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are not
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called to
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stamp out
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homosexual
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behavior.
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We are
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called to
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preach
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Christ.
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Paul has
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made it very
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clear that it
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is God's
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business to
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judge those
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who are
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outside the
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church.
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Have a look
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at 1
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Corinthians
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chapter 5,
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verses 9
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to 10.
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Chapter 5
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starts out
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where it
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says in
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verse 1,
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it's actually
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reported that
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there is
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sexual immorality
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among you.
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And we
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continue in
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verse 9.
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He says,
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I have
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written to
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you in
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my letter
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not to
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associate
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with
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sexually
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immoral
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people,
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not at
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all meaning
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the people
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of this
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world who
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are immoral.
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In other
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words,
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not meaning
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those who
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are not
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Christians,
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or the
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greedy,
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or swindlers,
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or idolaters.
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In that
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case,
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you would
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have to
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leave this
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world.
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Verse 12,
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what business
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is it of
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mine to
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judge those
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outside the
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church?
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You see,
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it is not
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our calling
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as Christians
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to enforce
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a certain
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moral behavior
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and to
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remove
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ourselves
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from people
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who engage
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in immoral
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practices.
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If that
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were the
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case,
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he is
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saying,
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we would
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just have
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to leave
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the planet.
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We'd
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have to
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go and
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live on
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planet
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Mars or
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something.
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Rather,
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what our
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concern should
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be as
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Christians is
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not the
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behavior of
-
those who
-
are not
-
Christians,
-
but the
-
behavior of
-
those who
-
are Christians.
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We should
-
be concerned
-
about the
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calling of
-
the Christian.
-
And the
-
primary calling
-
of the
-
Christian is
-
to reach
-
out with
-
the gospel.
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And Paul
-
made it very
-
clear in
-
chapter 1
-
verse 17
-
that God
-
had sent
-
him primarily
-
to preach
-
the gospel.
-
That was
-
why he was
-
here.
-
One writer
-
put it like
-
this,
-
people need
-
a reason to
-
live a changed
-
life,
-
and we can
-
give them
-
that reason.
-
God has
-
not called
-
us to be
-
the moral
-
police for
-
this world.
-
He has
-
called us
-
to preach
-
the good
-
news about
-
his son.
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The biggest
-
problem that
-
the non-Christian
-
world has
-
is the fact
-
that they
-
are not
-
Christians.
-
Their
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behavior is
-
a secondary
-
issue.
-
The real
-
problem is
-
that they
-
don't know
-
Jesus.
-
Therefore,
-
we can say,
-
the gospel
-
is central.
-
so often,
-
we can
-
focus on
-
the external.
-
We can
-
see people's
-
behavior,
-
and we
-
want to
-
change their
-
behavior.
-
We want
-
to make
-
them different
-
kind of
-
people.
-
But the
-
real issue
-
is the
-
internal.
-
It's the
-
heart,
-
and it's
-
only the
-
gospel that
-
can penetrate
-
deep into
-
people's
-
hearts and
-
bring about
-
the change.
-
Unless people
-
are changed
-
on the inside,
-
they're never
-
going to change
-
on the outside.
-
So our
-
first response
-
as Christians
-
is always
-
to be
-
introducing
-
people
-
to Jesus.
-
The second
-
response,
-
then,
-
is this.
-
We are not
-
called to
-
ignore
-
homosexual
-
behavior.
-
We are to
-
seek ongoing
-
transformation.
-
Now,
-
when Paul
-
wrote to
-
the Christians
-
at Corinth,
-
and we
-
must remember
-
that this
-
is a letter
-
written to
-
a church,
-
to those
-
who are
-
Christians,
-
and we
-
see all
-
the behavior
-
that was
-
going on,
-
and he
-
was aware
-
as he
-
wrote the
-
letter that
-
there was
-
sexual
-
immorality
-
of all
-
kinds that
-
was going
-
on at
-
the church.
-
But look
-
at the way
-
in which he
-
starts his
-
letter.
-
Go back
-
to chapter
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one,
-
verse
-
two.
-
You
-
think of
-
all the
-
issues that
-
we've
-
looked at
-
that were
-
in the
-
church,
-
and all
-
the problems,
-
and this
-
is how he
-
starts in
-
verse two.
-
He says,
-
to the
-
church of
-
God in
-
Corinth,
-
to those
-
sanctified in
-
Christ Jesus,
-
called to be
-
holy,
-
together with
-
all those
-
everywhere who
-
call on the
-
name of our
-
Lord Jesus
-
Christ,
-
their Lord
-
and ours.
-
I find it
-
quite incredible
-
that he doesn't
-
just launch
-
into a big
-
tirade,
-
condemning
-
every immoral
-
behavior.
-
Instead,
-
he starts
-
off by
-
reminding them
-
of the
-
gospel.
-
He starts
-
off by
-
reminding them
-
of their
-
life with
-
Christ.
-
He's telling
-
them that
-
you've been
-
sanctified,
-
which means
-
you've been
-
set apart
-
for Christ.
-
You belong
-
to Christ.
-
You were
-
called to
-
be holy.
-
you're
-
different.
-
In other
-
words,
-
because of
-
who you
-
are,
-
because of
-
what Christ
-
has done
-
in your
-
life,
-
this is
-
how you
-
should
-
live.
-
And that's
-
where he
-
starts his
-
letter.
-
So when we
-
get into
-
the nitty-gritty
-
of the
-
issues in
-
chapter 5,
-
he gives
-
very clear
-
instructions
-
that the
-
Christian,
-
the believer
-
who persists
-
in sexual
-
immorality,
-
the Christian
-
who is
-
unrepentant,
-
that person
-
should not
-
be ignored.
-
So in
-
chapter 5,
-
verse 11,
-
he says,
-
but now,
-
well, let's
-
pick it up
-
from verse 9,
-
just so you
-
get the flow
-
of thought
-
again.
-
He says,
-
I have
-
written to
-
you in
-
my letter
-
not to
-
associate
-
with
-
sexually
-
immoral
-
people,
-
not at
-
all meaning
-
the people
-
of this
-
world who
-
are immoral
-
or the
-
greedy,
-
the swindlers
-
or idolaters.
-
In that
-
case,
-
you would
-
have to
-
leave this
-
world.
-
But now
-
I am
-
writing to
-
you that
-
you must
-
not associate
-
with anyone
-
who calls
-
himself a
-
brother,
-
calls himself
-
a Christian,
-
but is
-
sexually
-
immoral
-
or greedy,
-
an idolater
-
or a
-
slanderer,
-
a drunkard
-
or a
-
swindler.
-
With
-
such a
-
person,
-
do not
-
even
-
eat.
-
Verse 13,
-
God
-
will
-
judge
-
those
-
outside,
-
expel
-
the wicked
-
man
-
from among
-
you.
-
In other
-
words,
-
you have
-
a
-
responsibility
-
to the
-
believer
-
in the
-
church
-
who is
-
unrepentant.
-
And it's
-
saying here,
-
I think,
-
in a wider
-
context,
-
that Christ
-
is not
-
content to
-
leave us
-
where we
-
are.
-
We have
-
to take
-
our sins
-
seriously,
-
whatever that
-
is,
-
and we
-
are to
-
seek
-
ongoing
-
transformation.
-
So with
-
that in
-
mind,
-
grace is
-
required.
-
When we
-
become
-
Christians,
-
our
-
behavior
-
doesn't
-
change
-
overnight.
-
As soon
-
as you
-
turn to
-
Christ,
-
it doesn't
-
mean to
-
say that
-
you are
-
now a
-
perfect
-
person.
-
Our
-
position
-
before
-
God
-
changes.
-
He
-
now
-
sees
-
us
-
as he
-
sees
-
Christ,
-
blameless
-
and holy
-
in his
-
sight.
-
But the
-
transformation
-
of our
-
lives is
-
ongoing.
-
And so
-
often we
-
seem to
-
get it
-
round the
-
wrong way.
-
We say,
-
change your
-
behavior and
-
then come
-
to Christ.
-
Get your
-
life sorted
-
and then
-
you can
-
come to
-
Jesus.
-
That's
-
wrong.
-
It's
-
terribly
-
wrong.
-
We come
-
to Christ
-
first as
-
we are,
-
whether we
-
are homosexual
-
or heterosexual.
-
And God
-
in his
-
goodness
-
will bring
-
about the
-
change in
-
our lives.
-
We are
-
all sinners.
-
We all
-
fail and
-
we all
-
fall.
-
Therefore,
-
we need to
-
be able to
-
extend God's
-
grace to
-
one another
-
as we
-
seek the
-
transformation
-
of our
-
lives.
-
So
-
behavior
-
doesn't
-
change
-
overnight.
-
There is
-
a process
-
and therefore
-
grace needs
-
to be in
-
operation.
-
third
-
then,
-
we are
-
not
-
called to
-
make
-
homosexual
-
behavior
-
the worst
-
of sins.
-
We are
-
to welcome
-
all
-
sinners.
-
Look at
-
1 Corinthians
-
6,
-
verses 9
-
to 10.
-
Let's
-
read from
-
there.
-
chapter 6,
-
verse 9.
-
Do you
-
not know
-
that the
-
wicked
-
will not
-
inherit
-
the kingdom
-
of God?
-
Do not
-
be deceived.
-
Neither
-
the sexually
-
immoral,
-
nor idolaters,
-
nor adulterers,
-
nor male
-
prostitutes,
-
nor homosexual
-
offenders,
-
nor thieves,
-
nor the
-
greedy,
-
nor drunkards,
-
nor slanderers,
-
nor swindlers,
-
will inherit
-
the kingdom
-
of God.
-
Now,
-
can you see
-
that list
-
that is there
-
before us?
-
Homosexual
-
behavior
-
is just
-
one in a
-
list
-
of sexually
-
immoral
-
sins.
-
It's not
-
the only
-
one.
-
And then
-
when we
-
look at
-
the sexually
-
immoral
-
sins,
-
that is
-
in a
-
broader
-
list
-
of other
-
sins,
-
of slanderers,
-
of swindlers,
-
and drunkards,
-
and greedy.
-
There's a
-
whole lot
-
of behavior
-
that is
-
contrary to
-
God's
-
good design.
-
Not being
-
generous
-
with your
-
money
-
is just
-
the same
-
as sleeping
-
with someone
-
of the
-
opposite
-
sex.
-
Speaking
-
against
-
somebody
-
else's
-
character
-
is the
-
same
-
as looking
-
at porn.
-
God
-
doesn't
-
distinguish
-
things here,
-
and nor
-
should we.
-
They are
-
all grouped
-
together.
-
Cy Rogers,
-
who is a
-
Christian
-
teacher,
-
somebody who
-
seeks to
-
help and
-
encourage
-
those who
-
struggle with
-
homosexuality,
-
he says
-
this,
-
it's not
-
heterosexuality
-
that gets
-
us into
-
heaven,
-
it's a
-
relationship
-
with Jesus.
-
When we
-
stand before
-
God,
-
he's not
-
going to
-
ask you,
-
are you
-
heterosexual,
-
or are you
-
homosexual?
-
He's going
-
to ask,
-
do you
-
love Jesus?
-
So it's
-
not about
-
avoiding
-
particular
-
sins,
-
it's about
-
coming as
-
sinners the
-
way we
-
are to
-
Christ,
-
which is
-
what Paul
-
seems to
-
be applying
-
in verse
-
11.
-
He says
-
to them,
-
of all the
-
people that
-
were made,
-
this is what
-
the church
-
was made
-
up of,
-
all these
-
kinds of
-
people that
-
we read
-
in verse
-
9.
-
And he
-
says in
-
verse 11,
-
that is
-
what some
-
of you
-
were.
-
This is
-
the way
-
you used
-
to live.
-
But when
-
you came
-
to Christ,
-
something
-
happened.
-
Finish off
-
verse 11,
-
but you
-
were washed,
-
you were
-
sanctified,
-
you were
-
justified in
-
the name of
-
our Lord
-
Jesus Christ
-
and by the
-
Spirit of
-
our God.
-
You see,
-
we are not
-
told to
-
come to
-
Christ with
-
our lives
-
sorted out.
-
We are to
-
come to
-
Christ so
-
that our
-
lives can
-
be sorted
-
out.
-
And he
-
explains how
-
the gospel
-
begins to
-
take effect
-
in people.
-
He reminds
-
them,
-
he says,
-
look,
-
you were
-
washed.
-
In other
-
words,
-
you have
-
been given
-
a new
-
purity.
-
Christ has
-
come to
-
you,
-
he has
-
cleaned
-
you,
-
he forgives
-
you of
-
your sin,
-
and in
-
place of
-
that,
-
he gives
-
you the
-
purity of
-
Christ.
-
Our
-
sexual
-
impurity
-
is
-
replaced
-
with
-
Christ's
-
purity.
-
You
-
are
-
washed,
-
you're
-
clean.
-
And then
-
he tells
-
them,
-
you are
-
sanctified.
-
We've
-
been given
-
a new
-
purpose in
-
life.
-
Christ has
-
come to
-
you so
-
that you
-
can finish
-
your old
-
life and
-
you can
-
begin a
-
new kind
-
of life.
-
We're set
-
apart,
-
that's what
-
sanctified
-
means.
-
You've
-
got a new
-
purpose in
-
life.
-
You now
-
follow God's
-
design for
-
sexuality,
-
sexuality,
-
not your
-
own.
-
Now start
-
living it.
-
And he
-
says you
-
were justified.
-
In other
-
words, we
-
have a new
-
position.
-
Christ has
-
come to
-
us.
-
He has
-
exchanged
-
places with
-
us.
-
He's taken
-
on all
-
our sexual
-
immorality,
-
every thought
-
and every
-
word and
-
every deed,
-
and he
-
suffers the
-
penalty that
-
we deserve,
-
and in its
-
place, we
-
are given a
-
new standing
-
before God.
-
We are
-
not
-
homosexual
-
or
-
heterosexual.
-
We are
-
children of
-
God.
-
That is our
-
true identity,
-
loved and
-
treasured by
-
him.
-
So you
-
can see
-
here that
-
he's reminding
-
them that
-
you are
-
welcomed as
-
sinners.
-
You are
-
welcomed with
-
all your
-
immoral
-
behaviour.
-
You were
-
introduced to
-
Jesus who
-
gives you a
-
new purity,
-
a new
-
purpose,
-
and a
-
new
-
position in
-
life.
-
That means
-
that all
-
hate-speak
-
is out.
-
We are
-
not to be
-
people who
-
walk around
-
with placards,
-
as is seen
-
on the news
-
from time
-
to time,
-
shouting,
-
God hates
-
fags.
-
We are
-
not to be
-
people who
-
look down
-
and feel
-
superior to
-
those with
-
a homosexual
-
orientation.
-
what about
-
the jokes
-
you make
-
amongst
-
your
-
friends?
-
What about
-
put-down
-
comments that
-
you may say
-
to your
-
classmate,
-
you're
-
gay?
-
For the
-
Christian
-
community,
-
that is
-
unacceptable.
-
There is
-
no room to
-
reject or
-
isolate
-
anyone.
-
We are
-
called to
-
welcome
-
everyone,
-
just as
-
Christ has
-
welcomed us.
-
so I'd
-
like us
-
to think
-
through
-
a couple
-
of things
-
and I
-
just leave
-
these comments
-
with you.
-
What is
-
there within
-
your sexuality
-
that you
-
struggle with?
-
Is there
-
anybody that
-
you know
-
who is
-
gay?
-
Do you
-
know anybody
-
who struggles
-
with homosexuality?
-
how do you
-
relate to
-
them?
-
What do
-
you say?
-
How do
-
you behave?
-
Is there a
-
different way
-
in which you
-
can approach
-
the person?
-
How can
-
you help
-
them?
-
Just as
-
much as
-
Christ has
-
come to
-
us to
-
help us.
-
May God
-
help us
-
to apply
-
his word
-
as we
-
seek to
-
live as
-
his people
-
in this
-
world.
-
Let's pray
-
together.
-
We've been
-
talking
-
through a
-
number of
-
issues over
-
these past
-
weeks and
-
so I just
-
want to say
-
if there is
-
anybody here
-
who wants
-
to talk
-
through further
-
any of
-
these issues
-
in a more
-
private manner
-
either with
-
myself or
-
with Kirstie
-
then please
-
do speak
-
to us and
-
it will be
-
held in
-
complete
-
confidentiality.
-
Our
-
Father God
-
we thank
-
you so
-
much that
-
we are
-
your
-
creation.
-
we are
-
part of
-
your
-
wonderful
-
design.
-
We are
-
your
-
image
-
bearers.
-
We were
-
made
-
like
-
God
-
and it
-
is your
-
desire
-
that we
-
would become
-
more and
-
more like
-
Christ
-
and thank
-
you that
-
one day
-
if our
-
trust is in
-
the Lord
-
Jesus
-
we will
-
become
-
like Christ
-
we will
-
be like
-
him.
-
we will
-
struggle no
-
more.
-
We won't
-
struggle about
-
our sin.
-
We won't
-
struggle with
-
our sexuality.
-
Everything
-
will be put
-
in order
-
and your
-
design will
-
be stamped
-
across our
-
lives and
-
across our
-
world.
-
Please help
-
us to live
-
as your
-
people.
-
Help us to
-
submit to the
-
authority of
-
your word.
-
Help us to
-
bring grace
-
to one
-
another.
-
Help us
-
not to
-
ignore the
-
sin that we
-
see around
-
us.
-
Help us to
-
bring forgiveness.
-
Help us to
-
speak Christ
-
into each
-
other's lives.
-
To help
-
each other
-
to go on
-
living the
-
pure life
-
that you
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have called
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us to
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live.
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And we
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pray that you
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would help
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us to be
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lights shining
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for you
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in what
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is still
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very much
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a homophobic
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culture and
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society.
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Help us to
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bring your
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love.
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Help us to
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bring Christ.
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Help us to
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be your
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people.
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In Jesus'
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name.
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Amen.
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We're going
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to sing
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together our
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closing song.
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It's in
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Christ alone
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my hope is
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found.
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That is where
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we all find
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our refuge.
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That's where we
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all find our
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peace.
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That is where
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we find our
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hope.