Loving God's family 1 Peter 1v22-2v3

Thanks very much, Connor. We'll have your Bibles open to 1 Peter while I sit up here.

Thank you, Connor, for leading.

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Well, we've already prayed, so let's look at this section in 1 Peter, chapter 1.

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The true story of Jonathan and Alistair Brownlee has captured the minds and hearts of thousands of people.

For those who don't know, Jonathan and Alistair Brownlee are brothers who race and compete against each other in the triathlon.

In their most recent race, Jonathan, the younger brother, was leading.

And as the race was reaching its conclusion, it was obvious that no one was going to catch him.

But with about 100 metres to go, Jonathan was overcome with exhaustion.

He could barely stand, never mind run, wobbling from side to side.

Coming in second was his brother Alistair.

Alistair.

But instead of running past him to claim first spot, he stopped.

He put his arm around his brother.

And while another competitor ran past, he literally hauled his brother to the finish and pushed him over the line.

Alistair sacrificed himself to help his brother finish the race.

That's brotherly love.

Now, if we are Christians, we are to show this same brotherly love to one another.

Look at verse 22.

Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth, so that you have sincere love for your brothers and sisters,

love one another deeply from the heart.

You see, the big theme of 1 Peter is that to live as a Christian in this world is really tough.

It's like we're strangers, outsiders, unwanted, pushed out, ostracised.

If we speak Christian truth, if we stand for Christian values, it means we will face opposition and at times persecution.

And when we face that kind of pressure, the temptation is to just give up for an easier kind of life.

That's why we need the support and the encouragement of brotherly love.

The church, God's family, is that strong supporting arm that carries us along when life gets tough.

It is the support that we need that will get us from this life to our eternal life.

So let's see how we are to love God's family.

First, we are set apart to love each other.

Set apart to love each other.

Verse 22.

Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth.

Purified in this context is to be made clean for a purpose.

When Kirsty and I travelled through Central America years ago, we had to take with us little puri tabs.

You might have had to do the same if you've been overseas.

Because the water is so dirty, you just drop in a couple of puri tabs and it cleanses the water.

Tastes like bleach, but it's still clean.

It becomes purposeful again.

You could drink it.

You could cook with it.

Now if we're Christians, followers of the Lord Jesus, we are made pure.

Look at verse 22.

By obeying the truth.

The gospel is dropped into our lives as the purifying agent.

So as we turn to Jesus, as we trust in Jesus, we are made clean by God.

And here's the purpose.

Look at verse 22.

So that you have sincere love for your brothers and sisters.

We've been purified.

We've been purified.

We've been set apart by God so that we can love the family of God.

Because love is the mark of authentication for the Christian community.

It is the stamp that is on us.

It is the stamp that is on us.

That sets us apart.

That lets the world know that we are Christians because of our sincere love for one another.

We are purified for the purpose of loving each other.

Now, this isn't something that we can achieve by ourselves.

This is something that God does in us.

It is a miraculous work of God that goes on in our life.

It happens in two ways.

First, by the living word.

Look at verse 23.

For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.

If you know somebody who has an exceptional talent, you might say this about them.

You would say they were born to run or born to dance, born to write.

Their talent is part of their DNA.

It's who they are.

It's a natural gifting that just overflows from them.

Well, if we are Christians, we are born again to love by the living word.

Born again to love by the living word.

Look at how the structure goes.

If you look at the very last line of verse 22.

Love one another deeply from the heart for or because you have been born again.

Let me explain what he's getting at here.

You think the birth of a baby is something really quite extraordinary.

The seed from the father fertilizes the egg from the mother and a life begins.

But that life, as in all life, will come to an end.

It will die.

That's what he's saying here in verse 23.

It's a perishable seed.

It will not last.

But in contrast to that, when God gives us new life by his living word, it's imperishable.

When the living word, the truth of Jesus Christ, takes effect in our lives, we are born again to a new and eternal life.

A new life that is a life filled with love.

Our spiritual DNA, when we are, if you like, birthed by God, is to love God's family.

So as people look at us and as we look at our own lives, when God has taken effect in our lives, it's like we're saying we have been born to love one another.

It's a natural gift that God has given to us to be able to love one another.

This living word at work within our lives producing a life of love.

So this setting apart to love each other happens by the living word and second, by the eternal word.

Look at verse 24.

Again, we're giving another explanation.

If we take the end of verse 22, love one another deeply from the heart.

Verse 24.

For or because all men are like grass and all their glory is like the flowers of the field.

The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord stands forever.

Now, to us, this is just kind of like an odd verse that's kind of inserted and it's hard to make the connection about love.

Well, this is a quote that comes from the prophet Isaiah.

Isaiah chapter 40.

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So keep your finger in 1 Peter and let's jump back to the prophet Isaiah and chapter 40.

So keep your finger in 1 Peter and then jump back to chapter 40.

Chapter 40 is a turning point in the book.

It's like the centerpiece of the book.

Chapters 1 to 39 is all about God's judgment on Israel for their rebellion against God.

And as he goes through chapter after chapter, it seems like everything is at a loss for these people.

There's no hope of change.

They've set their lives in a rebellious course and it's going to end in judgment.

There's no hope of change for these people.

And then we get to chapter 40.

And we read verse 1.

Comfort, comfort my people, says your God.

Speak tenderly to Jerusalem and proclaim to her that her hard service has been completed, that her sin has been paid for.

All of a sudden, there's a shift towards hope.

God is saying, there's going to be comfort.

Your sin has been paid for.

So what is the response to all of this?

Well, look down to verse 6 and here's where the quote comes.

A voice says, cry out.

And I said, what shall I cry out?

What's my response to what God is going to do?

All men are like grass and all their glory is like the flowers of the field.

The grass withers, the flowers fall because the breath of the Lord blows on them.

Surely the people are grass.

When we are left to our own devices, there is nothing that we can do to change ourselves.

All we can do is die like the grass or the flowers of the field.

That is what our lives are like without God at work within us.

We cannot change our lives.

We can't make ourselves love people.

All we'll do is wither and die.

Our end will come.

But, look at verse 8 of chapter 40.

The grass withers and the flowers fall, just like we do.

But, the word of our God stands forever.

The word of God, which promises salvation and restoration.

The word which brings about new life.

The word which changes and transforms lives and hearts is not going to fail and will do a work in people's life.

And that's the point that Peter is getting to us by quoting from Isaiah 40.

So, go back to 1 Peter.

Peter is saying to us, left to our own devices, we cannot love each other.

We can't change our sinful lives.

Before, we didn't have the capacity to love one another.

Our hearts meant that we actually ran past our brother and sister.

And we didn't care about them.

But the eternal work of God, the eternal word at work in our life, changes our hearts, transforms our life, and forms a family of love.

So, we have been set apart by God.

We've been given new life by the living word.

We've been given a changed life by the eternal word.

So, that we have sincere love for our brothers and sisters.

It is a radical transformation that God brings about for those who trust in him.

So, first, we are set apart to love each other.

Second, we are called to love each other deeply.

Let's read 1 Peter 1, verse 22 again together.

1 Peter 1:22

Now that you've purified yourselves by obeying the truth, so that you have sincere love for your brothers and sisters,

love one another deeply.

What will it mean for you and for I to love each other deeply?

What will it mean for you to love deeply the person who's sitting next door to you or the person in front of you?

Well, we need to clear out all the unlove in our lives.

Look at verse 25.

The end of verse 25.

And this is the word that was preached to you.

So, the living word, the eternal word that took effect in your life and set you apart to love one another.

Because of that, chapter 2, verse 1.

Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit and all hypocrisy and all envy and all slander of every kind.

There's a program on television called Hoarders.

And I just want you to know that I just don't watch daytime television.

I've just seen it sometime.

TV Hoarders.

I'm sure you've seen it yourself.

It's all about people who can't throw away things.

They hoard everything.

The one that I saw was about a man who lived in a house, two-story house.

His house was so bad that the only space left was the entrance in the doorway and access to one sink in the whole house.

He had to use public toilets because that was all full of rubbish.

Where he slept was like a few inches from the ceiling in the living room because he was lying on top of all his rubbish.

It was an absolute mess.

Now, while we've been set apart for love, the problem is we can store up an awful lot of sinful junk and rubbish in our own hearts.

Where we cannot function as we should as God's people.

So we've got to be ruthless to clear it out.

Look at verse 1, chapter 2.

Therefore, rid yourselves.

Clear out all the sinful junk and all that rubbish that has got stored up in our hearts.

You see, everything that's listed here in verse 1 is opposite to love.

Malice is intentionally causing harm to another brother or sister by the things we say.

Deceit is saying things like, oh, I'm going to pray for you, but having no intention whatsoever of doing so.

Hypocrisy is demanding that people overlook the sin in your life while you remember everybody else's sin.

Envy is not giving praise or thanks or acknowledgement to somebody else because you're jealous of their gifts.

Slander is quietly saying to someone, I wouldn't tell everybody this, but did you hear about?

None of these things actually help or support your brother or sister.

In fact, it crushes them.

This kind of behaviour is like running past your brother or sister, ignoring them so that you get ahead.

It's sinful junk that stops us loving people as we should.

So, let me ask us all this question.

What is it that stops you loving your brother or sister?

Maybe there's somebody you find it hard to love.

What is it that will stop you from loving them?

What's the sin in our heart?

What's that junk that's getting in the way of us loving?

Well, the command is to us all, repent.

Get rid of.

Clear out all the unlove.

Ask God to show you in your life what it is that needs to be rooted out

so that we can love one another.

You see, that is.

Dealing with sin, it's when we think about loving each other,

it's got to start with our heart.

It's a loving action to deal with the sin in our hearts because we get rid of it.

Then we are free to love one another.

So, how do we love each other deeply?

Well, we clear out all the unlove in our life through repentance.

And we crave the word together.

Look at verse 2.

Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk

so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.

When we repent, when we clear out all that sinful junk and clutter in our hearts,

it needs to be filled and replaced with something good and pure and beautiful.

We are to crave pure spiritual milk.

Now, he changes his metaphors here from clearing out something

to drinking in pure spiritual milk.

But have that idea of getting rid of something

and replacing it and filling it with something else.

A newborn baby

craves and longs for pure milk

from her mother's breast.

The cries of a little baby is only satisfied

when they begin to feed.

Because the natural instinct of the little baby

kicks in and tells them

that they need their mother's milk.

And if they don't get that milk,

they're going to die.

They're not going to survive.

And they long for it.

They crave.

They cry out for it.

Now, look at verse 2.

We are to be like newborn babies

that crave pure spiritual milk.

We are to long for that living word.

That eternal word.

That word that changes us and transforms us

so that, middle of verse 2,

that we may grow up in our salvation.

That we would, just like a little baby,

gets the milk and grows up physically,

as we take in of that pure spiritual milk,

we will grow up and mature.

It's the living word that gives us new life.

It's the eternal word that will change us

and transform us.

It's the word, that pure spiritual work,

word, what am I saying?

The pure spiritual word at work in our life

is going to change us

so that we love one another.

In fact,

this craving

is an act of brotherly love

because it is something

that we do together.

Peter's writing here

not just to individuals

but to a church,

to a gathered group of people.

It's plural, verse 2,

like newborn babies

crave pure spiritual milk

so that by it you

together may grow up.

So,

by craving pure spiritual milk

is something

that we do together

as God's people

and that is an act of love.

So, what does that mean in practice?

Well, if you know somebody

within the church family

who's struggling

to live life as a Christian

in this world,

they're up against it

and it's hard.

Or maybe somebody's finding it

really tough

because they've been

standing up for Christian values

and they're getting

knocked for it at work

or in their college

or school.

The greatest act

of brotherly love

is to get alongside

that person,

put your arm around them

and read God's word

with them.

Because helping somebody

to read the word

is helping them

to grow strong

so that they get

to the finish line.

Jump to chapter 4,

verse 8.

He gives us

a little example of this.

Chapter 4,

verse 8.

Above all,

love each other

deeply

because love

covers over

a multitude of sins.

And then he gives

some examples.

But look at verse 11.

If anyone speaks,

he should do it

as one speaking

the very words

of God.

To love one another

deeply

is to speak

the truth of God's word

to one another.

It is passing

on to each other

the pure spiritual milk

that will sustain them

and grow them

and nourish them

and get them

across the finish line.

That is true love.

That is an act

of brotherly love.

So,

how do we love

each other deeply?

We deal,

we repent

of the sinful junk,

the unlove

in our lives,

we clear it out

and we fill

ourselves

with the pure

nourishing word

of God

so that

we can

encourage

and support

one another.

So,

we are set apart

to love each other,

we are called

to love each other

deeply,

and then

last,

we are to love

each other

from the heart.

Verse 22,

again,

1 Peter chapter 1

1 Peter 1:22

verse 22.

2 Peter chapter 2.

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2 Peter chapter 2.

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2 Peter chapter 2.

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Now that you've

purified yourselves

by obeying the truth,

so that you have

sincere love

for your brothers

and sisters,

love one another

deeply

from

the heart

or from

a pure

heart.

Now,

when we think

of heart,

we just think

of that organ

inside our bodies

that's pumping blood

around our body.

But in the Bible,

when the Bible

uses the word

heart,

it's biblical

language for saying

the heart

is actually

the control

centre

of our

personality.

It's the control

centre of our

personality.

So,

whatever's going on

in our hearts

will mean

or affect

how we live

and behave.

So,

whatever captivates

our hearts

shapes our behaviour,

it controls

our desires

and drives

our emotions.

In other words,

the heart

affects

how we act,

how we think

and how we feel.

Now,

if our hearts

have been

captivated by God,

that means

from the overflow

of our hearts

we're going to

love each other.

Let me show you

how this works.

As we drink

in the pure

spiritual milk

of God's word,

so we're

reminded

of how

good

the Lord

is.

Look at

chapter 2,

verse 2.

Like newborn

babies,

crave pure

spiritual milk

so that by it

you may grow up

in your salvation.

Verse 3,

now that you

have tasted

that the Lord

is good.

You see,

as we taste

that pure

spiritual milk,

that living

and enduring

word of God,

it sets off

our spiritual

taste buds

and reminds us,

wow,

God

is good.

In other words,

as we read

God's word,

so our hearts

are being

captivated

by the amazing

goodness of God

towards us.

we're reminding

ourselves,

as Peter

has been doing,

that in love

we have been

chosen

to be God's

people.

That in his

love he has

given us

new birth

and new life

into a

living hope.

In his love

he's given us

an inheritance

that can never

perish,

spoil or fade

and it's being

kept for you

and you are

being kept

for it.

In his love

he has given us

a loving

church family.

All of this

is ours

because in love

God gave

of his son,

the Lord

Jesus Christ,

our true

older brother

who not only

walks with us

but who actually

gave his life

for us.

When Jesus

died on the cross

with his arms

stretched out wide

it is as if

Jesus is putting

his arm around us

removing every

barrier of sin

and death

so that we

can reach

the finish

line.

As we engage

with God's

word,

as we listen

to it,

we are reminded

of how good

the Lord is.

As we look

again and see

what Jesus

has done,

our hearts

are filled

with the

goodness of

God and

from the

overflow of

our hearts

comes a

love for

one another.

You see,

as the word

works in our

hearts,

so we begin

to respond

to the needs

of others.

Rather than

be a people

who are looking

out for number

one,

we actually

stop what

we are doing

in our lives.

We begin to

sacrifice all

our wants

and desires.

We put our

arm around

our struggling

brother and

sister.

We walk

with them

through the

fiery trials

that they're in.

We bring them

back to the

goodness of

God and

we help

them taste

and see

that the

Lord is

good and

their hearts

are filled

with the

goodness of

God and

they are

led to

be people

of love.

Life as a

Christian in

this world is

going to be

tough.

If you

speak out

Christian truth,

if you stand

up for

Christian values,

you will be

hit.

It will be a

struggle.

But the

good news is

we have got

one another.

We have the

love of God's

family to

support us,

to put that

arm around us,

to speak truth

into our lives,

to bring us

to that

finishing line.

Thank God

for one

another.

Thank God

for the

person beside

you.

Thank God

for the

family that

God has

placed you

in to

give you

that loving

support.

Let's do

that now,

as we thank

God for

his love.