Sermon
Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk - 1 Peter 1:13-2:3
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Go along, that's 1 Peter chapter 1, and that's on page 1217 of the Church Red Bibles.
1 Peter 1 chapter mention
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Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober,
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set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming.
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As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance.
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But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do, for it is written,
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Be holy, because I am holy.
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Since you call on a father who judges each person's work impartially,
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live out your time as foreigners here in reverent fear.
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For you know that it is not with perishable things, such as silver or gold,
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that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors,
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but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect.
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He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake.
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Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him.
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And so your faith and hope are in God.
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Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth,
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so that you have sincere love for each other,
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love one another deeply from the heart.
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For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable,
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though or through the living and enduring word of God.
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For all people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field.
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The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of the Lord endures forever.
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And this is the word that was preached to you.
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Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind.
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Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk,
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so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.
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Now that you have tasted that the Lord is good.
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Thank you, Dan.
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Good morning, everyone.
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Pleasure to be with you again this morning.
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Before we begin, let's just go to the Lord in a word of prayer.
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Our Father in heaven, we thank you for the freedom that we have to gather in your name without interruption,
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without fear of harassment or persecution.
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Help us not to take that freedom for granted, Lord,
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but help us to use it in this very moment to lift our voices and lift our hearts and lift our minds
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to be elevated in our worship.
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Holy Spirit, we ask that you would continue to direct us in our worship,
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and we ask that you would help me as I, as an imperfect vessel, bring your perfect word.
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So whatever has to be said of you, Lord, may it be lifted up.
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May my own words be forgotten, but may your words live forever.
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We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
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About ten years ago, Seneca and I were still dating,
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and I took a trip with her and her family to visit her dad's relatives in Wisconsin,
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in the middle part of the U.S., and we took a day trip to see Lake Michigan,
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which is basically a large ocean in the middle of America.
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And on the shore, Seneca's dad picks up a rock, and he turns to me and he says,
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how many stones can you skip across the lake?
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Now, unknown to me, Seneca's family had an in-joke,
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that only men who could do a certain number of skips across the lake
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would be worthy of marrying one of their daughters.
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So naturally, I accepted the challenge, stone skipping, not marriage,
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and based on nothing more than testosterone and male ego,
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proceeded to do my worst.
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And I really mean that.
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Inconsequential as it was in the end,
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I portrayed myself as being good at doing this particular thing
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I'd been challenged to do, skipping stones.
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I was not good.
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It became obvious by my efforts that I was not good at doing this thing.
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You see, I talked a big game, even for something so trivial,
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but I couldn't back it up.
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Thankfully, a few months later, Tim exercised a kind of mercy
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and graciously allowed me to marry his daughter,
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so at least that went in the right direction in the end.
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But basically today, Peter is telling us,
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let's not just talk a big game,
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but let's walk the walk, let's back it up.
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So last week, we learned that we were shielded,
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that we're being kept,
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that our inheritance is guaranteed,
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that if you follow Jesus Christ and you submit to him,
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you can call yourself a Christian.
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This week, we're going to start looking at the way we ought to live
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because we're Christians.
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So we don't just talk the talk, we walk the walk.
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And we're going to look at three things that we ought to see in our lives,
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that we ought to model out for other people.
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If you have one of the handouts, it's in front of you.
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Otherwise, feel free to take notes.
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Firstly, we're going to see that we ought to be holy.
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Secondly, that we ought to be reverent.
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And thirdly, that we ought to be loving.
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So we ought to be holy, reverent, and loving.
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Let's jump into the first one.
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I actually want to start by looking at verses 15 and 16,
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this idea of what it means to be holy.
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So Peter writes,
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Just as he who called you is holy,
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so be holy in all you do.
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For it is written, and he quotes the Old Testament,
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Be holy, because I, the Lord, am holy.
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Now that verse is the anchor of this whole section.
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So underline it, draw a circle around it,
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write something in the margin.
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The first reason that we ought to live lives
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that are good and righteous and God-honoring
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is that God himself is holy.
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Now, holy is a mysterious-sounding word.
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For some reason, I always think of incense
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when I hear the word holy.
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It's probably just my background.
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Maybe some of you think that too.
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But it's not really a mysterious idea.
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As we were just singing about,
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holiness basically means being set apart from sin
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or being set aside from sin.
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So God is holy because God is perfectly without sin,
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completely separated from sin.
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He has nothing to do with sin
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because of his very nature.
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The prophet Isaiah, in his vision,
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had a vision of God sitting on his throne
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and angels hovering around him
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and covering their eyes
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because they couldn't look upon the holiness of God
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and singing,
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Holy, holy, holy is the Lord.
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And like us, Isaiah knew he was a sinner.
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And he knew that sinners cannot enter
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into relationship with the holy God
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unless that holy God reaches out
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and does something.
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Ultimately, he did that by sending his own son.
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To pay the penalty for that sin.
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Your sin, my sin,
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and the sin of all who would follow him.
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One writer puts it this way.
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How hateful must sin be to God
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for him to punish it
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with the death of his own son.
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And because that holy God reached out,
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because that holiness led him to conquer sin
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and bring us to him,
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God tells us here,
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through his servant Peter,
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be holy,
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for I am holy.
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You call yourself my child?
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Act like it.
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God calls us to be different from the world
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because he is different.
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So how do we act like it?
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Well, verse 13
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tells us to have minds that are alert
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and fully sober.
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It doesn't necessarily come across
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very clearly in the translation
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we're using this morning,
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but other translations say this,
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prepare your mind for action.
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Prepare your mind for action.
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Get ready.
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That's an interesting idea.
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The phrase actually goes back
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to this practice
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when you were going on a long journey,
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on camel or on horseback,
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that you would actually tie up your robe
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around your waist
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so that it wouldn't dangle
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and trip either you or the horse up,
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which would end very badly
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for both of you.
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Basically,
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it's like getting ready to run a race.
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For instance,
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Alex ran in the New York City Marathon.
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Was it last year?
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Yeah, last year.
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And before he started the race,
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he made sure he was dressed appropriately
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to run in the race.
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He didn't go to the starting line
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and try and run 26 miles
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wearing a full suit of medieval armor
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and carrying a 50-pound bag of spuds.
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That's an image for you, isn't it, Alex?
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So we're to make sure
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we have the right clothes on,
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that we have those things on us
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that means we can run this race.
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We're to make our minds,
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Peter says,
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alert and sober,
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free from intoxication,
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free from anything
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that's going to cloud you
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and prevent you seeing the truth.
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This hope,
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this grace,
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Peter says,
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that will truly be ours
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when we go to be with Jesus.
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We have to make sure, friends,
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we're not wearing anything
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or carrying anything
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that we shouldn't be.
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Look at verse 14.
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As obedient children,
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do not be conformed
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to the evil desires you had
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when you lived in ignorance.
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That word desires,
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another way to put it
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would be lusts.
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Lusts.
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What was it you lusted after
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before you became a Christian?
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For me, it was my career.
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It was ambition.
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And still something
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I have to watch out for.
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Just like we were singing
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and just like Sam was talking about,
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this isn't a once and done process.
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These are things you must learn
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to do throughout your life.
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And one thing I've had to learn to do
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is when I look at the next promotion
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or the next competition for promotion,
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I have to think carefully,
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why do I want this?
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Is it because I want more money?
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Is it because I want more position?
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Power?
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Authority?
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A better pension?
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That last one is true,
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but that's okay.
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I have to think carefully.
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Do I want to do this
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because it glorifies God?
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And I can do it in such a way
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that actually points others
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towards Jesus.
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By being the best civil servant
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I can be.
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By being the best teacher,
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the best mechanic,
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the best student,
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the best father,
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the best mother,
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whatever it is.
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I've had to tie up that loose end
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to keep watch on it
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because it still might trip me up
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if I don't watch it.
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That was my former ignorance,
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one translation puts it.
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Before,
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I didn't know any better.
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I was lost,
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dead in my sin,
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Paul says.
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But now,
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God is my father.
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I do know better.
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Because I talk the talk,
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I have to walk the walk.
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So what is it that trips you up?
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What is it that you tend to struggle with?
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And I could mention lots of things here,
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but here's just a few.
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Just completely random thoughts.
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Maybe they hit home,
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maybe they don't.
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Are you addicted to comfort
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or entertainment?
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In your spare time,
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do you automatically glue yourself
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to your iPhone
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or Netflix?
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Or do you open your Bible
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and you read and listen
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to what the Lord has to say?
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How about this?
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This happened to me this morning
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when I was driving here.
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When someone calls you out
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on something bad
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you've done or said.
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In this case,
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it was the driver
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who came across the intersection.
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Is your first reaction
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to get your back up?
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To get defensive?
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Well, I did the right thing.
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I don't know what that guy's problem is.
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Or do you freely admit your fault?
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Do you freely admit,
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I can do better
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and humble yourself?
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How about this one?
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I've seen a lot of this lately.
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When you're on social media,
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when you're on Facebook,
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Twitter, whatever,
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do you use that freedom of speech
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that we were just praying about
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to spread anger
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and to spread outrage?
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You know,
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the roads in this country
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are disgrace.
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It's disgraceful
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what the government is doing.
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I swear,
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disgraceful is the most popular word
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in Irish people's lexicon.
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Or do you use
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that freedom of speech
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to point others
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towards the tender love of Jesus?
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Do you use a platform
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of speech
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not to push an agenda
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or grind an axe,
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but to actually demonstrate
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what it looks like
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to be a Christian?
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In other words, friend,
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do you look any different
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from the world around you?
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Are you holy
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in the things that you do?
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Do you have a desire
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to grow in this holiness?
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And again,
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you won't get this perfect
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because we're all imperfect.
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But what path are you on?
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Do you blend into
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the background
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of self-absorption
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that the rest of the world
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seems to be mired in?
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One writer put it this way,
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if you were put on trial
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for being holy,
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would there be enough evidence
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to convict you?
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As with all things,
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don't look to your own efforts.
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Yet not I,
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but Christ in me.
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Look to Christ.
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Look to Jesus
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who set aside
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his heavenly rights
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and his heavenly dwelling
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and he made himself nothing
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to become the suffering servant
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who would set you free.
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Jesus didn't come into the world
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so that we would look
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like the rest of the world.
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Jesus came into this world
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that we would be set apart
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from this world.
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So don't just talk the talk.
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Walk the walk as well.
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So we ought to be holy.
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Secondly,
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we ought to be reverent.
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Verse 17.
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Since you call on a father
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who judges each person's work impartially,
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live out your time
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as foreigners
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here in reverent fear.
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Have you ever said this?
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You can't judge me.
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Only God will judge me.
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You're absolutely right.
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He will.
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He'll ask you,
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first of all,
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what did you say about my son?
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Who did you say he is?
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And if you call upon him
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as Lord Jesus,
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he'll ask you,
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what did you do
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in my son's name?
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Jesus said that every person
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will have to give an account,
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friends,
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for every idle word
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and every idle thought
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that they've ever uttered,
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that they've ever thought.
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You could nearly put it this way.
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Because you're a Christian,
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live your life
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in such a way,
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this reverent fear,
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that you show the proper respect
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and deference
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towards God.
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Because Peter says
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he's an impartial judge.
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He'll ask you to give an account
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for being his servant.
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And that's pretty much
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what reverent fear means.
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Having an appropriate sense
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of who God is
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versus who we are.
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Not trembling,
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not cowering in a corner
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like you're terrified of,
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I don't know,
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spiders,
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the dark,
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heights,
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whatever the case might be.
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It's not that kind of fear.
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It means
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respecting the difference
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between us
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and God.
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Honoring him
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and living lives
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that honour him.
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I'll illustrate this
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with a personal example.
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My dad and I
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were very close.
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I loved him
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and I respected him.
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And he'd tell me
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and illustrate to me
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what to do
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in order to show
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that I actually was
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part of this family,
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that I would prove myself
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to be part of this family.
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And I respected that.
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I respected his direction
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and his advice
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and his opinion.
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And I remember once
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when I was going through
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a fairly long period
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of unemployment,
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I was naturally
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pretty depressed.
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If you've been unemployed,
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you understand that feeling.
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I was depressed
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and discouraged
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and I was sort of
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venting this to dad
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on the telephone.
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And he said,
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it's all right, Dan.
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You're an Usthäzen.
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You'll get there.
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You're an Usthäzen.
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You'll get there.
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Now, he wasn't just telling me
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to sit back
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and let it happen.
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He was saying
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that he saw
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certain qualities in me
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that he saw in himself,
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saw in his brothers,
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saw in his father,
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saw in his grandfather,
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things like hard work
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and perseverance
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and determination.
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What he was saying was,
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keep going.
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Keep going
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towards the prize.
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Remember that you're my son
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and my son
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ought to run the race
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in such a way
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that he'll cross
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the finishing line.
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That's basically
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what Peter is saying.
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You call yourself
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God's child.
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Do you run the race
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in such a way
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that you will cross
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the finish line?
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And this reverend fear,
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like I said,
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it's not because
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we're terrified of God.
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That's not what it's about.
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It's because we know
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what he's done for us.
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Look at verses 18 to 19.
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God redeemed us.
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That means he ransomed us,
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bought us,
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not with currency,
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not with euro
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or pounds
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or whatever's going to exist
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after Brexit comes through,
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not with silver
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or gold,
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Peter says.
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You know the old saying,
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you're worth your weight
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in gold.
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No, you're not.
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You're worth
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much more than that
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to God
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because the price
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that had to be paid
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for your sins
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and for my sins
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was the precious
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blood of his son.
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That was the only thing
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that could clear the debt.
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So high was that price.
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And that's what Jesus meant
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when he said
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on the cross,
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remember this,
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he said it is finished.
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Not it has begun,
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not the down payment
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has been made
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and now you can enter
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into a monthly variable
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installment arrangement.
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It is finished.
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In Greek,
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tetelestai,
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it's what they used
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to stamp
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on the deed
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of a house
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or a mortgage
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to show you
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that the debt
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had been paid
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completely.
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The debt is discharged,
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paid in full,
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nothing left
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to be collected,
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final payment made.
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I lived my life
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in a certain way
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because I revered
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and I respected
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my dad.
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And I wanted to honor him
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by the way I lived.
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So how much more
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ought I honor a God
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or live a life
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that honors a God
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who sent his son
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and completely eradicated
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my sinful debt?
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Verses 20 and 21,
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it is through God's own son
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that we believe.
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This son who was chosen,
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the literal word there
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is foreknown,
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before the ages began.
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If you were here last week,
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you might remember
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we talked about this idea
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of being foreknown.
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God's desire
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to be intimate
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with us
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goes back to
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before creation itself
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and in the same way
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the son
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was foreknown
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by the father.
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So think about this.
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Despite
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our sin,
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the father
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was pleased
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to crush
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his son,
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Isaiah tells us,
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to bring us
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into relationship
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with him
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based on
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the same relationship
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that the father
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has
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with his son.
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And now you and I,
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if we declare
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that Jesus is Lord,
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Paul tells us,
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we
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are children
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of God
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and fellow heirs
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with Christ
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in his kingdom.
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And despite
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the fact that
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Jesus was perfectly
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divine,
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totally united
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with the father,
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he submitted
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to the will
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of the father.
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He revered
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and respected
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the father
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even though he was
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and is fully divine
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and deserved everything
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with his divine
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trappings and surroundings.
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He deferred
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to this plan
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to save
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lost people.
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See,
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being himself
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God,
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friends,
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Jesus knew
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the only way
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that these people
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can come into
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relationship with God
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is if God
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reaches out.
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And so in full
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agreement with
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this plan
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that was set
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in motion
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before the ages
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began,
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he voluntarily
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accepted this role.
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Taking on human form,
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he became like us.
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He gave us the perfect
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example of reverence
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by submitting himself
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completely
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and totally
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to the will
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of the father.
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And because of
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his submission,
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he was able
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to declare,
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it is
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finished,
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complete,
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done.
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friends,
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we ought to
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be reverent
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by honoring
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God's will
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for our lives.
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So we have to
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ask ourselves,
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does my life
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honor God?
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When I stand
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before him
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and he asks me
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that question,
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Dan,
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what did you do
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with your life?
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What did you do
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with this freedom
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that I gave you?
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What will I
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submit as evidence?
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Will I
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say I did
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things my own
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way?
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I looked
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to my own
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strength,
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Lord.
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I did the
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best I could.
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I spent all
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my time
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on my iPhone.
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I had to
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tell people
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about what
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was going
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on with
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the national
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roads
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infrastructure.
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You know
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me,
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Lord.
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Or will
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I say,
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Lord,
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I honored
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you because
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I sacrificed
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myself daily
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like your
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son did.
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Will I
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be able
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to say I
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walked the
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walk?
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You might
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ask how do
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we do that?
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Well,
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Peter tells
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us,
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our last
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point.
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Because we're
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Christians,
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we ought to
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be loving.
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Verses 22
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and 23.
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Now that we
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have purified
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ourselves by
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obeying the
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truth,
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that means
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now that we're
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saved,
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now that we're
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believers,
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so that we
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have sincere
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love for one
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another,
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that means
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we're saved
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into a
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fellowship of
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believers,
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not just by
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ourselves,
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we're saved
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into a
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church.
-
Because of
-
these things,
-
we ought to
-
love one
-
another deeply
-
from the
-
heart.
-
We use that
-
word love
-
a lot.
-
We say it to
-
our spouses,
-
to our
-
parents.
-
The highlight
-
of my day
-
is when Jack
-
or Alice
-
comes up to
-
me and
-
says,
-
I love you
-
daddy.
-
I think that
-
puts a
-
smile on
-
every parent's
-
face.
-
Some of us
-
love our
-
wives cooking,
-
maybe a
-
little too
-
much,
-
speaking for
-
myself.
-
We can be
-
both meaningful
-
and casual
-
in the way
-
we use the
-
word love.
-
love.
-
But this
-
love,
-
that Peter
-
refers to,
-
is grounded
-
in nothing
-
casual,
-
in nothing
-
flippant.
-
It is
-
grounded in
-
the precious
-
love of
-
Jesus.
-
We should
-
love one
-
another deeply
-
because we
-
have been
-
born again.
-
We have
-
been resurrected
-
with Christ
-
into new
-
life.
-
We've heard
-
the good
-
news that
-
Christ came
-
into this
-
world to
-
save sinners
-
among whom
-
we are
-
chief.
-
And this
-
good news,
-
this word,
-
Peter says,
-
is imperishable
-
seed.
-
It doesn't
-
die.
-
It just
-
lives.
-
And you
-
see,
-
friends,
-
this is his
-
point.
-
Everything
-
in this
-
world is
-
eventually
-
going to
-
fade away.
-
Your
-
career,
-
my career,
-
my ambitions,
-
your bank
-
account,
-
your favorite
-
political party.
-
We're like
-
grass,
-
verse 24,
-
and all our
-
glory is like
-
the flowers of
-
the fields.
-
They look
-
good for a
-
season.
-
Maybe they
-
even yield
-
a little bit
-
of fruit
-
in their
-
season.
-
But eventually
-
they wither
-
and they
-
fall.
-
And none
-
of it lasts
-
forever.
-
The only
-
thing that
-
does,
-
Peter says,
-
is the
-
word of
-
the Lord,
-
the reality
-
that Jesus
-
conquered death
-
and sin
-
and opened
-
the gate so
-
that all who
-
call on the
-
name of the
-
Lord would
-
not die
-
but would
-
live forever.
-
And that's
-
the point,
-
friends.
-
You don't
-
have to have
-
it all figured
-
out before
-
you come to
-
Jesus.
-
Jesus came.
-
He didn't
-
go straight
-
to the
-
righteous or
-
the self-righteous
-
or the
-
religious or
-
people who
-
had their
-
lives all
-
together.
-
He went
-
into the
-
home of a
-
prostitute.
-
He went
-
and sat
-
with tax
-
collectors,
-
which is
-
obviously near
-
and dear to
-
my heart.
-
He went
-
and spent
-
time with
-
the most
-
lowly people
-
in society.
-
He didn't
-
go to the
-
people who
-
had it
-
figured out.
-
He went
-
to the
-
people who
-
needed a
-
savior,
-
people like
-
you and
-
me.
-
Now look
-
at the
-
first two
-
verses of
-
chapter 2
-
and then
-
we'll
-
finish.
-
This is
-
the application.
-
Verse 1,
-
therefore,
-
now that I've
-
told you
-
that,
-
here's what
-
you do.
-
Now that I've
-
told you all
-
these things,
-
this is how
-
you walk
-
the walk.
-
Peter says,
-
rid yourselves
-
of all malice
-
and all
-
deceit
-
and all
-
hypocrisy,
-
envy and
-
slander of
-
every kind.
-
Rid yourselves,
-
Peter says.
-
Pick it up,
-
bundle it
-
up,
-
and throw
-
it away,
-
as far as
-
you can
-
throw it.
-
And the
-
things he
-
says speak
-
for themselves,
-
so I won't
-
unpack each
-
one in
-
detail.
-
Instead,
-
think about
-
things like
-
this.
-
Again,
-
just some
-
random
-
thoughts.
-
Malice.
-
When someone
-
disagrees with
-
you,
-
or maybe
-
even gives
-
you feedback,
-
or constructive
-
criticism,
-
them,
-
when it
-
looks like
-
they're not
-
in your
-
sight,
-
do you
-
desire to
-
cut them
-
out of
-
your life?
-
How about
-
deceit?
-
When there's
-
something you
-
stand to
-
gain,
-
job,
-
money,
-
position,
-
whatever the
-
case might
-
be,
-
when you
-
stand to
-
gain something,
-
do you
-
tell people
-
what they
-
want to
-
hear,
-
so that
-
you get
-
it?
-
Hypocrisy.
-
Are you
-
sitting here
-
right now
-
thinking,
-
I really
-
hope so
-
and so
-
is paying
-
attention,
-
when there's
-
something God
-
is trying to
-
tell you?
-
How about
-
envy?
-
When somebody
-
else gets
-
recognized for
-
their gifts,
-
maybe even
-
in the church,
-
maybe even
-
gifts that you
-
have,
-
gifts of
-
teaching,
-
music,
-
leadership,
-
whatever the
-
case might
-
be,
-
when someone
-
else gets
-
recognized for
-
those things,
-
do you envy
-
them for it?
-
Do you resent
-
them for it?
-
Or slander?
-
If you have a
-
problem with
-
someone in
-
this church,
-
and because I
-
know people,
-
people always
-
have problems
-
with each
-
other,
-
if you have
-
a problem
-
with someone
-
in this
-
church,
-
do you go
-
and talk to
-
them about
-
it face to
-
face?
-
I've been
-
really meaning
-
to talk to
-
you about
-
something,
-
something in
-
my heart,
-
I need to
-
talk to
-
you about,
-
or do you
-
just gossip
-
behind their
-
back?
-
You see,
-
if I call
-
myself a
-
Christian,
-
friends,
-
Peter puts
-
these in
-
the negative,
-
if I call
-
myself a
-
Christian,
-
but my
-
behavior isn't
-
loving,
-
then,
-
frankly,
-
I'm not
-
acting like a
-
Christian.
-
I might be
-
talking the
-
talk,
-
but I'm not
-
walking the
-
walk.
-
I'm focused
-
on my own
-
glory,
-
and all the
-
glories of
-
this life,
-
my career,
-
my money,
-
my house,
-
everything like
-
that,
-
but ultimately,
-
they all fade
-
away,
-
they all fall
-
and die.
-
God's glory
-
is forever,
-
because you
-
see,
-
Jesus came
-
and there
-
was no
-
malice in
-
him.
-
He didn't
-
come and
-
condemn the
-
world.
-
He came to
-
save the
-
world.
-
He didn't
-
come and
-
spread deceit,
-
but he told
-
people the
-
truth about
-
God.
-
He wasn't
-
hypocritical,
-
but he
-
perfectly obeyed
-
the will of
-
his father
-
on the road
-
to Calvary.
-
He was
-
jealous for
-
nothing,
-
except his
-
sheep.
-
He slandered
-
nobody,
-
but spoke to
-
others in
-
love.
-
He didn't
-
seek to
-
glorify himself,
-
he sought to
-
glorify the
-
father.
-
And we look
-
to that example
-
of love as a
-
way to honor
-
God in our
-
lives, to put
-
other people
-
before ourselves.
-
The apostle
-
John puts it
-
this way,
-
we love,
-
because he
-
first loved
-
us.
-
It really is
-
that simple.
-
We love
-
because he
-
first loved
-
us.
-
This simple
-
idea, verse
-
2 calls it
-
the spiritual
-
milk, it's
-
pure.
-
It's just
-
like a baby
-
nursed by
-
his mother.
-
Depending on
-
that milk for
-
life, so
-
too our
-
spiritual life
-
depends on
-
this truth,
-
depends on
-
modeling out
-
this holy,
-
reverent,
-
loving nature
-
of Jesus
-
Christ.
-
Imperfect
-
as it will
-
be, because
-
we're not
-
perfect, we're
-
all fallen.
-
But because
-
he came, and
-
because he
-
first loved
-
us, we
-
ought to
-
love one
-
another.
-
It's the
-
entire reason
-
we're saved,
-
that love is
-
the great
-
truth of
-
God's
-
gospel.
-
You see, we
-
need to keep
-
our minds
-
focused,
-
friends, on
-
this simple
-
truth, and
-
meditate daily
-
on the word
-
of God, which
-
reminds us of
-
his love.
-
love.
-
That's why
-
Psalm 1
-
says that the
-
blessed person
-
who delights
-
in the law
-
of the Lord,
-
who delights
-
to know the
-
things of
-
God, reflects
-
on it day
-
and night, and
-
he or she is
-
like a tree
-
planted by
-
streams of
-
living water
-
which bear
-
fruit.
-
Peter writes,
-
this is how
-
we grow up
-
in our
-
salvation.
-
It's how we
-
mature as
-
believers, and
-
you're never
-
mature enough.
-
It doesn't
-
matter if you've
-
been a Christian
-
for 30 years,
-
it doesn't
-
matter if you
-
grew up in a
-
Christian family,
-
or you became
-
a Christian
-
last week,
-
there's always
-
room for us
-
to mature.
-
This process
-
is ongoing.
-
This process
-
will take the
-
rest of our
-
lives, and
-
we'll just get
-
a small glimpse
-
of what it
-
looks like,
-
until we go
-
and be with
-
him forever.
-
And think
-
about this,
-
every time you
-
have one of
-
these little
-
battles, these
-
things that
-
trip you up,
-
these things
-
that just
-
happen to
-
you in life,
-
these opportunities
-
to demonstrate
-
love, and
-
holiness, and
-
reverence, every
-
time you have
-
one of those
-
moments, and
-
you actually
-
choose the
-
right path, do
-
the God
-
honoring thing, do
-
the loving thing,
-
do the holy
-
thing, hang
-
on to those
-
moments, and
-
hang on to
-
how you think
-
can feel in
-
those moments,
-
because you're
-
going to feel
-
like that for
-
the rest of
-
eternity, when
-
you go to be
-
with God.
-
So be
-
encouraged, you
-
will fall, but
-
he who began a
-
good work in
-
us, will bring
-
it to completion
-
in the day of
-
Christ Jesus.
-
This love is how
-
we come to
-
understand and
-
appreciate the
-
depth and the
-
greatness of God
-
and his
-
character.
-
love.
-
We simply
-
have to love
-
one another.
-
And we do
-
this, verse
-
three, because
-
we have tasted
-
the sweetness
-
of the Lord's
-
goodness.
-
In other
-
words, because
-
we have come
-
to Christ, we
-
have seen the
-
goodness of
-
Christ, we
-
have seen his
-
love, seen
-
his holiness, seen
-
his reverence.
-
In love, God
-
reached down to
-
us, and in
-
love, we ought
-
to reach out to
-
each other.
-
Jesus said it
-
as usual, most
-
simply and most
-
profoundly.
-
A new commandment
-
I give to you,
-
love one another.
-
As I have
-
loved you, so
-
also are you
-
to love one
-
another.
-
And by this, all
-
people will know
-
you are my
-
disciples, if you
-
love one another.
-
Because of what
-
he's done for us,
-
friends, we ought
-
to mimic Christ.
-
Because he's
-
holy, set
-
apart from sin,
-
we ought to be
-
holy.
-
Because he was
-
reverent and
-
honoured the
-
Father, so
-
ought we do
-
the same.
-
And most of
-
all, because he
-
first loved us,
-
we ought to
-
love one
-
another.
-
Now after we
-
finish, we're
-
going to sing,
-
and we're going
-
to go to the
-
Lord's table
-
together.
-
And as we go
-
to the Lord's
-
table, we
-
remember the
-
sacrifice of
-
Jesus.
-
We remember
-
the Lamb
-
without blemish,
-
whose body
-
was broken
-
for us.
-
So when we
-
break the
-
bread, we
-
remember this
-
sacrifice where
-
Jesus was
-
broken.
-
When we take
-
the wine or
-
the juice, we
-
remember the
-
sinless Messiah
-
whose blood was
-
shed for us.
-
And we
-
remember the
-
one who
-
shows us
-
holiness,
-
reverence,
-
and love.
-
I don't know
-
your individual
-
circumstances,
-
but you do,
-
and the
-
Lord does.
-
So we'll
-
pray before we
-
break bread
-
together.
-
But ask
-
this, this is
-
what I'll be
-
asking him.
-
Lord, help
-
me to be
-
holy.
-
Help me to
-
be reverent.
-
Help me to
-
love the people
-
in this church
-
the way you
-
love them,
-
and the way
-
you love me.
-
Amen.
-
Let's pray.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Father, we
-
give you
-
all due
-
glory and
-
praise for
-
what you
-
have done
-
for us
-
by setting
-
aside your
-
heavenly
-
privileges and
-
becoming nothing
-
like us,
-
so that through
-
your death and
-
resurrection you
-
would be
-
ascended to
-
the highest
-
place.
-
We thank
-
you, Lord,
-
for giving
-
us your
-
word which
-
is so clear
-
and so
-
profound
-
and so
-
simple.
-
We ask
-
you, Lord,
-
to help
-
us in our
-
daily lives
-
with those
-
things that
-
can trip
-
us up.
-
Help us
-
to be
-
honest with
-
ourselves.
-
Help us
-
to see
-
those things
-
which don't
-
honor you,
-
those things
-
we have to
-
be putting
-
to death,
-
and help
-
us to
-
simply get
-
rid of
-
them,
-
to model
-
out instead
-
the holiness
-
that you
-
have, Lord,
-
that you
-
hate sin,
-
that you
-
are apart
-
from sin,
-
and help
-
us to do
-
that by
-
revering who
-
you are
-
and respecting
-
who you
-
are and
-
what you've
-
done for
-
us and
-
realizing that
-
our own
-
efforts count
-
for nothing
-
and that
-
ultimately it
-
was only
-
because of
-
the perfect
-
submission of
-
your son that
-
we are able to
-
come to you.
-
So help us to
-
be humble as
-
we live out
-
these lives and
-
try and be
-
holy and help
-
us most of
-
all, Lord,
-
to be loving
-
because we
-
know of faith,
-
hope, and
-
love, the
-
greatest of
-
these is love.
-
We pray,
-
Lord, that you
-
would really give
-
us a heart
-
for each
-
other, that
-
you would
-
melt our
-
hearts of
-
stone, that
-
you would
-
give us hearts
-
of flesh in
-
you, and
-
that day by
-
day you
-
would help
-
us to grow
-
in this pure
-
spiritual milk
-
that is the
-
word, that
-
you came for
-
people like
-
us, not for
-
perfect people,
-
but that you
-
reached down
-
into a world
-
of darkness,
-
and you came
-
to those who
-
needed you the
-
most, ourselves
-
included.
-
So as we
-
come together
-
around the
-
table, Lord,
-
we pray that
-
we would
-
remember these
-
truths, and
-
we pray that
-
you would give
-
us a real
-
sense of
-
your presence
-
here this
-
morning, and
-
that in all
-
things, we
-
pray we would
-
say and do
-
and think
-
everything for
-
your glory.
-
So be with
-
us for the
-
remainder of
-
our time
-
today.
-
We ask all
-
this in
-
Jesus' name.
-
Amen.
-
I'm going to
-
ask the
-
musicians to
-
come back
-
up, and
-
we're going
-
to sing
-
When I
-
Survey the
-
Wondrous
-
Cross, because
-
all that's
-
left to do,
-
when you
-
compare
-
yourself to
-
a holy
-
God, when
-
you compare
-
yourself to
-
what he's
-
done for
-
us, all
-
it's left
-
to do is
-
to look to
-
Christ and
-
to sing songs
-
of worship and
-
to give him
-
glory and
-
praise.
-
So let's
-
stand together
-
and sing.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.