Sermon
The Demas Dilemma
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I want to invite you to go with me to 2 Timothy.
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If you have your Bibles, it will be on the screen.
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If not, 2 Timothy chapter 4 and verse 6. Amen.
2 Timothy 4 chapter mention
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2 Timothy chapter 4 verse 6. Going to read just
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a few verses there. It's good to see all of you
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today. Welcome our friends and guests. This is
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a place where you can belong, believe and become.
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Amen. And we're excited for what God is doing
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in our midst. But I have a word from the Lord
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today. A simple word. One that God has laid on
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my heart. It reads as follows. As the Apostle
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Paul writes to his son of the faith, Timothy,
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he says, For I am already being poured out as
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a drink offering, and the time of my departure
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is at hand. I have fought the good fight. I have
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finished the race. I have kept the faith. Finally,
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there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness,
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which the Lord, the righteous judge, will give
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to me on that day. me only, but also to all who
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have loved his appearing. How many of you love
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his appearing? Amen. Diligent to come to me quickly.
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Notice verse 10. For Demas has forsaken me. Having
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loved this present world, he has departed for
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Thessalonica. I'm going to stop there. I'm going
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to preach for a few moments here on the thought
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that Demas dilemma, the Demas dilemma. Let's
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pray briefly. Father, we thank you, God, for
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your presence. We honor you, Lord. This is your
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house. It's a house of prayer. It's a house of
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worship. That's what we've come to do. You're
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so good, Lord, that you won't let us leave empty
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-handed. So I pray, God, that your word will
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go forth as the bread of life and will nourish
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every heart and soul in this place to be edified
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and be strengthened. God, anoint us and anoint
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my lips of clay. Put your word in my mouth, God,
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that every word I speak would give glory to you.
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In Jesus' name we pray. Everyone say amen. Amen.
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You can be seated in God's presence. We know
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very little about this man Demas. He appears
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on the pages of scripture with no record about
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where he was from or how he converted to the
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faith. But evidently, this man had a lot going
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for him, including having the privilege of serving
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alongside the Apostle Paul. And just think about
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what an incredible position that must be to tag
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along with the great Apostle Paul, to learn from
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him, his example, and to serve with him. Demas
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was more than just an understudy of Paul, more
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than an apprentice. He had earned enough respect
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that when we first meet him in Philemon, verse
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24, Paul called him my fellow laborer. He is
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mentioned in the same breath as men like Mark
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and Luke. And what an honor that must have been,
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a true testament to his... reputation, and his
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potential. So Demas wasn't just a student, but
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he also was a colleague of Paul, which says something
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about his development, says something about the
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man that he was becoming, that Paul would entrust
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this man to carry the gospel with him wherever
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he went. So although we don't have a lot of record
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about who this shadowy figure is we know that
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if Paul trusted him to preach alongside him and
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called him a fellow laborer he must have earned
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his stripes must have done some things right
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must have had a lot going for him with that kind
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of opportunity you would expect to hear that
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Demas went on to do great exploits for the Lord
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you would expect that Demas went on to perhaps
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establish new works, churches. You would expect
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to hear that Demas went on to maybe write a couple
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of books or strengthen the body, strengthen the
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leaders. You would expect to hear these kinds
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of things about him. At the very least, just
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preach the gospel wherever his outpost was in
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the world. But then we come to Paul's desperate
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words here in 2 Timothy 4 and verse 10 where
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he says, Demas has forsaken me. Demas has forsaken
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me. Now the thing about this writing and the
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timing of it is that Paul was, as we read in
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the prior verses, reflecting upon his state of
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life and where he was. He said, I finished the
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race and my drink is, or he said, I'm about to.
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Drink from the cup of affliction. You know, my
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time of departure is at hand. These are the words
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of a man who's beginning to understand that he's
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at the end of the road. He's sitting in a Roman
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prison cell awaiting execution. And as his ministry
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and his life is sunsetting, he's beginning to
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look around him at the men who he hopes and believes
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are going to take the baton and carry the gospel
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forward without him. So for Paul, this is a very
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crucial moment in time. He's writing as a spiritual
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father. He's writing as an apostle. And he's
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looking around at the men that he had trained
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and mentored, possibly even won to the Lord.
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And he's looking for the next generation, perhaps
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of young believers who are going to take the
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dream and carry it forward. He's looking at...
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his Timothys, and he's looking at his John Marks,
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and his Lukes, and he was also looking for this
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man named Demas. But as he looked around himself,
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even from that prison cell, he looked around
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in the spirit, he looked around at what he had
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available, and he come to realize that Demas
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was nowhere to be found. Just when Paul needed
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him the most. At that crucial moment of transition,
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that crucial passing of the torch of truth, he's
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looking for Demas, the next in line, the next
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preacher of the gospel, the next leader of his
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family, and he can't find him. And he realizes
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that a man with so much potential, so much going
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for him, so much in his favor, come up in the
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right place, had everything. in his favor was
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nowhere to be found. And this must have broken
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his heart to realize that whatever investment
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he had made in this man, we don't know if he
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was a young man, we assume so, was for naught.
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But the question today that I want us to think
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about, and I believe God has laid this message
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on my heart for somebody today here or somebody
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who is watching that. We need to look at this
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example of Demas because I've got some questions
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for him today. I'd like to ask Demas, how does
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someone go from having so much going for him,
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all this promise, all this momentum, all this
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built up anticipation, end up going in the wrong
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direction? How does that happen? How do you go
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from being on the... I mean, he was on the flyer
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with Paul. Aren't those AI flyers getting really
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good nowadays or not? I imagine that if AI was
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there, man, Demas, he ripped up together a nice
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AI flyer with him and Paul. Preaching the next
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revival together. I mean, he was right there
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with him. Can't get any closer. He served with
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him. Labored together with him. So how does someone
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go? From that direction. And make a complete
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180 turn in the opposite direction. So that Paul
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tells us the answer when he writes in that one
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desperate verse. In verse 10 he says the answer
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to us because he had loved this present world.
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Someone say the world. And this is what I call
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the Demas dilemma. The Demas dilemma says this
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to us. That it doesn't matter. How long you've
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been serving the Lord, how many years you have
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in this, or what you know, what you've experienced.
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The Demas dilemma tells us that no matter where
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you are in your faith and your walk with God,
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if we're not careful, no one in this place today,
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no one under the sound of my voice today is without
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the Demas dilemma. Every one today is susceptible.
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Every one of us from the top to the bottom. From
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the first to the last. Every one of us is not
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immune to the demon's dilemma. And this is what
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it is. The demon's dilemma is the friction that
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we feel between the call of God and the pull
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of the world. Somebody say amen. When your commitment
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points one way. but your affections pull you
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another. And I wish I could tell you today that
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the Demas dilemma goes away after some time.
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That if you could just serve God for X number
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of years, the Demas dilemma goes away. I wish
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I could tell you that after a certain milestone,
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that after, you know, you get your Bible college
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degree or... You know, after you get married
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or start a family or after you become a preacher
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or a leader, that the demon's dilemma just wipes
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away. But I've come to tell you that no matter
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who you are, where you are in your faith today,
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we all must guard ourselves to the very end from
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the demon's dilemma. Because the devil's never
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going to give up. Hello, somebody. Can I talk
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to you today like a pastor? Amen. I said the
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devil's never going to give up. Because he understands
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that the bigger they are, the harder they fall.
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He's never going to give up. He's never going
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to stop trying to lure and entice you with something
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that he hopes will replace the calling of God
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and the serving of the Lord in your life. Amen.
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It's never going to stop. It's never going to
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quit. So when you want to follow God's lead,
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you're always going to be faced with the demon's
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dilemma. Is somebody here today? Find themselves
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right square in the middle of it. You're in a
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moment in your life where the demon's dilemma
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has never been more real. As from day to day,
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you're struggling in your faith, in your spirit,
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to stay on the right track with God. And to continue
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serving Him with gladness. To press forward in
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His will. To stay in prayer. To stay in His Word.
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So many distractions. So many allures. So many
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things that can come hoping that the enemy hopes
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will take us away from our ultimate purpose in
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God. And sooner or later, that struggle in your
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heart can lead to double -mindedness, can lead
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to a division of heart. Sooner or later, it starts
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to mess with your mind and the choices that you're
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making and the direction of your life and the
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decisions that you're making. And sooner or later,
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the demon's dilemma. the demon spirit will begin
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to work on you and cause you to even doubt that
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God ever called you in the first place. Cause
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you to second guess his hand, his anointing upon
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your life, upon your family, upon your marriage.
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Starting to wonder if perhaps, perhaps you've
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got it wrong. Or perhaps there's something else
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out there that is better than what you've got
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in here. Well, let me tell you today that the
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devil is a liar. Because there is nothing out
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there in the world that can ever possibly compete
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or compare to what we have in Jesus. Why don't
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you give the Lord a hand praise today? But this
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brings me to a very foundational truth that if
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I have time, I want to just, I want to break
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this down for you. I need to share my heart.
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I don't know if this will be an hour running
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message by the end of it, but I do know this,
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that God has placed a burden in my heart for
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every one of you. Because it's not the will of
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God that you should miss out on your destiny,
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that you should have to give up the things that
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God has called you to live. But here's the foundational
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truth, is that what you love, what you love will
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eventually lead you. Someone say, what I love.
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What do you love? Whatever it is that you love
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will ultimately lead you. You see, love has its
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own laws of physics. It has its own gravitational
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pull. Whatever you love, whatever captures your
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heart, your affection, will eventually pull your
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life in its direction. This applies to every
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aspect of our life. Every aspect of our life,
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whatever it is that we love, or whoever it is
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that we love, will pull us in their direction.
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It applies to relationships, to hobbies, careers,
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ambitions, amusements. In our walk with God,
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whatever it is, whatever we love, will in time
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begin to pull us closer and closer to its proximity.
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To the point to now we are in its orbit. We are
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in its circle. What do we love? What we love,
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think about it for a moment, it gets our attention.
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What you love gets your attention. You know what
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else it gets? It gets your energy. You ever notice
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you don't have to motivate somebody to do something
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they love? Some of you love golf. Amen. I'm not
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here to pick on that. Don't worry. Uh -oh. Don't
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touch the clubs, brother. I'd rather you have
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golf clubs than be other clubs, all right? If
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you're going to be clubbing, you might as well
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be on the golf course. Swing in the club, you
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know what I'm saying? And that's what you love.
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Nobody has to motivate you. If I call one of
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you and say, hey, tomorrow, you know what you're
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going to do? You're going to clear your calendar.
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I had a meeting. I'm going to get myself out
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of it. Why? Because you love that. Hey, that's
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all right. There's some things that you love.
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You'll clear your calendar. It gets your energy
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when you love it. Isn't that right? It gets your
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time. You know what else it gets sometimes? It
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gets your money. Man, I lost you right there,
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praise God. You ever notice? How hard it is to
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pay for things you don't love? Man, it hurts.
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But you notice how easy it is to open up your
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wallet, forget about the cost, and pay when you
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love it? You don't even look at the price tag.
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Huh? The card is going to get approved because
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you love it. Right? No convincing involved. You
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had a 10 -second conversation with yourself,
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and you and yourself came into an agreement.
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You deserve it. Jesus said that wherever your
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treasure is, there your heart will be also. They're
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tied together, inseparable. So it's no wonder
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that the things we love, we're willing to invest
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our time, amen, our energy, our strength, our
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emotion, our money, and we give it no second
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thought because we love it. Now I want to ask
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you a question. What would happen? If we were
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the same way with God. Hallelujah. He'd get your
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attention like nothing else. He'd get your energy
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like nothing else. He'd get your time like nothing
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else. And your money like nothing else. Someone
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say everything. I don't want to get ahead of
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myself here. Let me deal with this. Because,
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you see, your heart is pulling you in a direction
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right now. Even as I speak, your hearts are being
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pulled in competing directions. And there's a
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struggle. There's a friction within yourself.
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That which you want to do, you don't do. And
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that which you don't want to do, you do. Paul
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described it. He said, oh, wretched man that
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I am. Who could deliver me from this body? Because
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I'm constantly being pulled in directions that
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my spirit doesn't really need to go and want
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to go. But what begins to happen is... is that
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as we begin to feed those desires, what it does,
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it just grows the passion and the love for that
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thing. And so one of the things we've got to
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understand, if you're going to serve God, if
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you're going to make it, if you're going to endure
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to the end as a believer, hallelujah, which I
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believe you want to do, amen, it's not enough
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just to get taken out of the world. No, let me
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tell you what true conversion is today. True
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conversion. It's not taking a person out of the
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world, but taking the world out of the person.
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It's not pulling somebody out of the world. That's
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only part of it. But it's to be delivered from
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the love and the passion for the things of the
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world. You can change how you talk, how you act,
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even how you look, but it won't last until you
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change what's in your heart. Until I get my love
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affair with the thing or the world or the things
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of the world out of my heart, then there's always
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going to be this existential threat to what God
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is calling me to do. Until I remove that passion,
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that longing, that allure from my heart and get
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the world out of my system so that all that I
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want is God, then I'm constantly going to be
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in that state of struggle. So I need God. to
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renovate my heart. That's the main issue and
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why people struggle to grow. They want more of
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God, but their heart keeps pulling them towards
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what they secretly love. And today, I believe
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the Holy Spirit has placed this message in my
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heart today for somebody who you've been struggling
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and you've been dealing with that thing that's
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trying to pull you away. And when we hear the
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world, sometimes we think of, you know, just...
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All sorts of things come to mind. But let me
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tell you about this thing that we call the world.
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The love of the world will pull you away from
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Christ. The love of the world. Now, I understand
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we live in this world. We don't live on Mars.
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We live on Earth. Amen? Elon Musk is trying to
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get us to go to Mars. I ain't trying to go there.
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I'm happy right here until I go to heaven. Praise
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God. Amen? This is the world that we live in.
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We live in it. but we can live in it and not
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be of it. Hello, somebody. When the Scripture
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speaks of the world, it's talking about the culture
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around us, the way it thinks, what it values,
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how it lives. It's talking about the system of
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secular society, which more often than not contradicts
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the Word of God. The ideals of the world class
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with the Word of God. Because it's under the
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influence of the God of this world. God with
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a little g. The Bible calls Satan the God of
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this age. The God of this world. And the world,
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since he's the God, little g, of this world,
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that means that what you see in the world is
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value systems, is priorities, is a reflection
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of his kingdom and not God's. That's why the
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church is so important. Amen? Because we're called
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out of darkness into his marvelous light. But
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Satan works to lie, deceive, and enslave people
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in sin. He seeks to twist God's original design
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for every part of life. You look out to the world
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and its principles, its morals, quote unquote,
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its priorities, its values. eventually it starts
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to look like the exact opposite of what God intended
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it to be. Just take marriage, for example. The
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world takes God's original design for marriage
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and it twists it to say that you can marry whoever
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you want. Sexuality, it says you can love whoever
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you want and be and call yourself whatever you
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want. It takes pure things. beautiful things
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that God designed and created for us to enjoy
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as his people and perverts and twists those things
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and calls it success. Are you with me? And calls
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it the good life and calls it whatever it is
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that your heart desires, you can have it. It
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does that with money, with pleasure, with success.
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And this is why John in his writing warns us,
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do not, love the world or the things of the world.
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Somebody say amen today. If anyone loves the
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world, watch what he said. This is important.
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If anyone loves the world, then the love of the
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Father is not in him. He said you cannot love
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the world and its things and claim to have the
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Father's love in you at the same time. You cannot
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have it both ways. Are you hearing me? You cannot
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say, I love the world, whether through your actions,
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through your decisions, through your heart, and
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say, I love God too. You cannot serve. This is
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what the Lord said. No one can serve two masters,
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for he will hate the one and love the other.
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The world is competing for your heart, because
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whoever has your heart will rule your life. And
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Jesus said that your heart cannot serve two masters.
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Whatever you love is what's ultimately going
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to rule you. Whatever you love is ultimately
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going to lead you. Whatever you love is ultimately
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going to define what success is to you. What
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it looks like. And Satan wants us to love the
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things of the world. He wants us to love what
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the world loves so that he can rule and destroy
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God's purpose in our life. And let me tell you
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today. He's not going to show you a picture of
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pain and heartache. Hello. He's not going to
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show you a picture of destruction. He's not going
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to show you a picture of ruin. He's not going
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to show you a picture of calamity. He's not going
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to show you a picture of disease and sickness.
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He's going to show you an enticing picture. He's
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going to show you what you are missing out on.
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He's going to show you of what you could be doing
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if you weren't so involved in church. He's going
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to show you how good life can be if you would
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just dial it back a little bit on your commitment
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to church and to God. Come on. He's going to
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show you what it is that you can have if you
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would just give a little less to the Lord's work
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and a little more to something else. He's going
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to show you what kind of life you can live, whether
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it's a life of comfort, ease, whether it's a
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life of peace. promiscuity, a life of pleasure,
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a life of luxury or success or acceptance by
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the world's standards. He's going to make you
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feel like never before, like a misfit or an oddball
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in this world so that you might feel some kind
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of pressure to fit in to the buddies on the job
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or to your friends at school. He's going to do
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whatever he can to get you to feel like you're
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missing out on something that's out there. And
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then if you just lower your standard a little
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bit and just lower your temperature a little
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bit in the things of God, then you can have maybe
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the best of both worlds and dip your toe into
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a little bit of pleasure and dip your toe into
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a little bit of this and a little bit of that
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until you realize that you're not just dipping
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your toe into a little pool of inviting water,
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but you're dipping your toe into quicksand. And
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the more you dip your toe into that thing, the
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more it'll suck your light into it until eventually
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it suffocates you. I know that this kind of preaching
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is not in vogue in his child anymore, and it's
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not going to get many clicks or likes on Facebook,
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and I don't care about any of that. But because
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I'm your pastor, and because I'm a shepherd,
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and because I love you, I got to tell you, get
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that love from the world out of your heart and
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fall in love with Jesus like you've never loved
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him before. Somebody give God some praise right
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now. Hallelujah. Come on, somebody love him in
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this house. Hallelujah. in this place. Why don't
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you worship him for a few moments if you love
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him? Thank you, Jesus. I love him with all of
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my heart. He's all that I want. You can take
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everything, but don't take my Jesus. You can
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strip me of it all, but I'm still going to. How
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many of you are still going to serve him? I'm
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still going to love you, God. I don't serve you,
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God, conditionally. I don't serve you based on
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what you give me. The Lord gives and the Lord
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takes away. But blessed be the name of the Lord.
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I came into this world and naked I shall return.
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You can't take nothing with you. John breaks
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it down for us. Just give me a few more moments
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of your time. Amen. If I can get a little more
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help on the monitor here. Just a little more
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volume. Hallelujah. Amen. I'm still trying to
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get over that cold, too. Praise God. Don't worry.
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I'm not contagious. Amen. I'm outside that window
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now. Amen. But John breaks it down for us. He
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said, all that is in the world, he says, the
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lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and
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the pride of life is not the Father but of this
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world. It's not of the Father. And he lists them
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for us. He said, this is what entraps people.
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It's the lust of the flesh. It's that never -ending
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pursuit of pleasure and self -gratification.
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If you want it, you can have it kind of mentality.
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Everything is at people's fingertips now. The
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lust of the flesh. And we're battling that right
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now. We're battling that right now. We've never
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lived in such an instant gratification society
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as we live right now. Can I be real with you
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right now? Somebody say, go ahead. I want to
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be respectful with what I say today. But there
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used to be a time that if you wanted to watch
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dirty things, you had to go to dirty places to
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find them. I lost you right when I said that.
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You had to go to dirty places. They would have
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little sections in the liquor store, in the video
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store, little curtain. But now, you don't have
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to go anywhere for that. You know the only place
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you got to go? You're not hearing me right now.
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Nobody's saying nothing. Right here. And for
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those of you that think I'm just talking about
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what men struggle with, I'm talking about the
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ladies too. Because you can spend binging on
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romantic comedies and things and get tired in
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minutes of prayer. But the devil knows if I can
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just hook up with this, I can rob them and cheat
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them out of the blessings of God. The lust of
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the flesh is everywhere now. You had a problem
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with spending and money. My God, Amazon just
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made it worse. I wonder what some of your save
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for later carts look like. Probably got a million
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dollars worth of items and stuff. Saving it for
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later. Huh? I know I'm touching on some toes
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now. But we got a generation. Some of you, look,
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I get it. I get it. Hallelujah. We got a generation
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that needs to understand biblical economics.
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That if my buying this, you know, thing that
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was made somewhere and it gets to my house, you
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know, in three days, if that's my offering money,
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then I can't buy it. If that's cutting into my
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tithe, brother, it belongs to the Lord. I'm going
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to have to save for later. But there's one thing
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to save for later. It's the blessings of God
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right now. It's the goodness the Lord has made.
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Rejoice and be glad in it. The lust of the eyes.
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Oh, whatever it can possess. And the pride of
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life. Oh, the pride of life. Well, we don't like
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talking about that one, but that's the one that
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catches many by surprise. Why? Because they're
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in love with their own image. They're in love
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with who you think they are. Not even who they
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actually are. They're in love with themselves.
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And their status and their recognition. You know,
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Pastor, he didn't even acknowledge me today.
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I put on my special shoes. I parted my hair the
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other direction and he didn't even acknowledge
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me. I thought he was going to sit me right in
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the front with him. And we carry ourselves with
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this sort of aura. We want preeminence. No, no,
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no. Let's humble ourselves. And you say, you
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know, I didn't come here to be recognized. Nothing
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wrong with that. We all need a pat on the back
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sometimes. I'm not saying that that doesn't have
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its place. But the pride of life says, if I don't
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get what I want, hmm, my God. If I don't get
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control or this or that, then, you know, that
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begins to take me away from the things of God.
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This is how the world appeared to Demas. Thessalonica,
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the Bible says, he writes, Paul. It makes me
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wonder what kind of place Thessalonica was. It
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wasn't just a city. It was a hub of luxury, comfort,
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wealth, safety. In other words, it represents
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everything that this world is trying to offer
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us. Oh my God. And when you begin to love these
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things, that affection will systematically erode.
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Your devotion to Christ. It'll make serving him
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harder. It'll make giving a treasury. It'll make
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worship more difficult. Because you've got that
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secret love in your heart. I don't know if Paul
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saw it. Just give me a few more moments. I know
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I keep saying that, but just a little bit more.
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I know Paul, maybe he saw it in Demas' eyes.
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Maybe he saw it the way that I have seen some
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of you in my prayer time. Oh, I feel this in
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my heart today. The way I have seen some of you
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in my personal prayers. I have been calling out
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to the Lord for some of you. Because perhaps
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it's similar to the way that Paul looked at Demas
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when he started noticing. It didn't just happen
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overnight. It wasn't just from one day to the
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next. Demon just said, forget this. I'm out of
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here. I think it was a gradual fade. I think
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it was a process where he noticed things about
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demons. Demon said, you don't worship him the
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way that you used to. You don't hit the altar
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the way that you used to, demon. You're coming
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up with more excuses now, demon. I'm noticing
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that you're changing, and it's not for the good,
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demon. You're allowing things to happen in your
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life. Now you don't have time for God anymore.
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You don't have time to give a Bible study. You
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don't have time to log in for Bible study. You
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don't have time to do this or that. Oh, hello.
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But you've got time for everything else. But
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the little things, the little things, you just
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let that go. Nobody's going to miss me if I'm
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not there. Church won't miss my. They won't miss
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my praise. They won't miss my hand clap. They
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won't miss me on the pew. The church won't miss
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my dollar that I don't give. God will provide
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something else. They won't miss me on that ministry.
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God will raise up something. But let me tell
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you, there's no replacement for Demas. Otherwise,
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why would Paul, if you can come and get ready
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to play, why would Paul be so intent on saying,
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he has forsaken me. He's forsaken me. Having
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loved this present. He's forsaken me. The only
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way to stop loving the world is not to stop loving
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the world. The only way to stop loving the world
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is to love God more. Are you hearing me today?
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Is to love God more. It's falling more in love
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with him than you are with whatever that or whoever
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that is. It's falling in love with him more.
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You see, many are mistaken. They're trying. to
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beat the world out of them, or they're trying
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to, they're trying to erase, delete that desire.
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I'm here to tell you, as long as you got red
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blood flowing through your veins, that desire,
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that lure is probably always going to be there.
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I told you, it doesn't matter how long you've
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been serving, doesn't matter how long you've
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been, it's always going to be there. It's always
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going to be present, your flesh. The answer is
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not saying, well, if I could just stop loving
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that. If I just wouldn't be into that, you're
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fighting a losing battle. Chances are, if it's
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something that appeals to you now, it's going
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to appeal to you five years from now, for the
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most part. And what believers commonly misunderstand
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is that they think they can stop sinning by simply
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convincing themselves to hate that particular
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sin. They say, if I could just hate, if I could
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just hate pornography. I'll stop watching it.
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If it was that simple, anybody can do it. They
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say, if I could just hate it, if I could just
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hate lying or cheating, I would stop doing it.
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If I can hate material things, I'd stop focusing
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on them. My friend, that's only part of it. You
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won't stop simply by trying to stop. Hear me
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today. You won't stop that love. That enticement
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is not going to stop simply because you want
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it to stop or because you're trying to stop.
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The only way is to replace that desire with something
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greater. It's saying, my flesh wants to do this.
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I love God more than I love whatever satisfaction
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could come out of this thing. The choice. is
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what do we love more? And if we would feed that
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love for God, if we feed that desire in our flesh,
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that thing in the world, that will grow. Sometimes
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we wonder how the thing got so big. It didn't
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get so big. How did it become a full -blown addiction?
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How did it become? Because you fed it. You ever
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notice that when you feed something, it grows?
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Don't look at me like that, brother. When you
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feed something, It grows. I can't figure, I can't
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get rid of this problem. I can't get rid of this
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temptation. I can't get rid, I keep going. You
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keep feeding it. Well, why can't I pray more?
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Or why can't I fast? Or why, you know, why am
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I not more involved? And why am I not, because
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you're not feeding. But if you would just begin
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to feed your desire for God. Hallelujah. You
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begin to feed it a little by little. Feed your
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prayer life. Feed the word. Feed it. He said,
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my word. Feed it. Man shall not live by bread
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alone, but by every word that proceeds out of
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the mouth of God. Feed yourself. Feed your spirit.
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And you will starve the flesh. Stand with me
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today. Because remember, what you love, what
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you love will eventually. Help us right now,
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God. Somebody needs God's help right now. I feel
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it in the Holy Ghost. Somebody needs God's help
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right now. You've got things that you've been
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secretly desiring. Things that you've been wavering
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over. And you need to hear the voice of this
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preacher today because God sent me here today
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to wake you up. God sent me here today to tell
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you that my friend, my brother, my sister, whatever
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it is the devil's offering you, it's not worth
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it. It's not worth it. I don't care how many
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times that girl on the job or in the workplace
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winks at you, smiles at you. Brother, it ain't
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worth it. I don't care if she's been sliding
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into your DMs and saying, it ain't worth it.
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If you can't, I'm going to help somebody right
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now. Somebody say, go ahead. If you can't control
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it, cut it off. Pastor, I don't know. I put my
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Instagram on mute and I decide I'm not going
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to. But I just keep going back, and I keep looking
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at the same things. And it just, you know, my
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God, the algorithm just knows me at this point.
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You know, it just knows what I want to see. The
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devil has got to rebuke that algorithm. Things
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just keep coming up, and I just, you know, and
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I can't control it. I thought I had a grip on
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it. I had a good week, but then I fell off the
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wagon the week next. So you know what? So if,
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brother, sister, so if you can't control it,
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cut it off. Well, who said you needed Instagram
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to live a life? I know a lot of people that don't
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have Instagram that are happy. They may not have
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that same struggle. It hasn't affected me that
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way. But you've got to get honest with the Holy
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Ghost today. Stop playing games with the Word
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of God. Say, I can't control it, so I've got
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to cut it off. I can't control myself when I'm
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around that person. I can't control my flesh
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when I'm around that person. I've tried. I've
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tried to reduce it. I've tried to love them for
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my distance. I've tried to do all this stuff,
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but I still can't control it so respectfully.
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You might have to, ah, my God. Every time I go
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there, it brings out the worst in me. Then cut
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it off. For some of you, it could be, hear me,
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brother, it could be anything, anything. And
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it's the Holy Ghost's job to reveal that to you
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right now in prayer what that is. For some of
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you, it's sports. That's your God. You need to
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cut it off. Some other people, they can control
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it. Yeah, you know, I don't mind a game here
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or there. But for you, it's your religion. Cut
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it off. Is this all right, brothers? I feel it.
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Oh, hallelujah. Whatever is interfering with
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your obedience to God. Would you close your eyes
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right there? I feel the Holy Ghost working. God's
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revealing. He's already, through the course of
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this message, has revealed to you what that thing
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is in your life. But right now, we're going to
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pray anyhow because I feel the Holy Ghost just
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beginning to navigate and probe somebody's heart
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today. Probe your heart. Probe your heart. For
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some, it's that spirit of... competition it's
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that jealousy that that that envy in your spirit
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that's you you dress it up you uh you you know
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you doctor it up it doesn't look like what it
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is but deep in your heart you're dealing with
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jealousy and you start sister you're starting
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to hate that other sister because you're jealous
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of what she has or of what he has and so uh and
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that's the way the world works you know the world
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says step on each other and and the dog eat dog
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and all that kind of stuff but that's not What
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a child of God does. That's not what the kingdom
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teaches us. So you might have to get that out
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of your heart. I can't have this in my heart
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anymore. I can't. God's revealing what that thing
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is. He's revealing what that area of disobedience
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is. He's revealing it to you right now with the
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Holy Ghost. Oh, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah,
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hallelujah. Come on.