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Rick Warren - How God Blesses Grateful Hearts

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  1. Hi, everybody. Have I told you lately that I love you?

  2. Because I do. Happy Thanksgiving. You know, since this next

  3. week is Thanksgiving, I'm pausing my series on pain so

  4. we can prepare ourselves for Thanksgiving Day. So you know

  5. what I did this last week? I read through, again,

  6. every reference to gratitude and thanksgiving in the Bible. And

  7. there are actually over 400 passages that mention thanksgiving or gratitude. Now,

  8. what I saw in my Bible study were two big ideas. First,

  9. God wants gratitude to be the primary motivation behind everything

  10. we do or say or think. Let me say that again.

  11. God wants gratitude to be the primary motive, the primary

  12. motivation behind everything that we do or say or think.

  13. He wants us to do everything out of thanksgiving and

  14. out of gratitude. The second thing I learned is that

  15. God rewards gratitude. with a long list of blessings and

  16. benefits when we live with this continual attitude of gratitude

  17. or thanksgiving. So today, if you'll get out your message notes,

  18. I wanna share how God blesses grateful hearts, how God

  19. blesses grateful hearts. And I wanna identify a short sample

  20. list of benefits of gratitude, and then I'm gonna give

  21. you a starter list of Bible verses that you can

  22. use on Thanksgiving day, and then we're gonna practice God's

  23. three favorite ways that he loves for us to use

  24. in expressing our gratitude to him. This is what I

  25. call God's love language. Now, let's start by reading the

  26. top two scriptures on the top of your outline. Deuteronomy

    Deuteronomy 28 chapter mention

  27. chapter 28 verses one to eight talks about the importance

  28. of obedience and the blessing that God gives when we

  29. obey his commands. It says this, Deuteronomy 28, one to eight.

  30. If you fully obey the Lord your God, and if

  31. you carefully follow all his commands, all of these blessings

  32. will be yours. And then he gives us a laundry list.

  33. The Lord will bless you in the city and in

  34. the country. He will bless your children as well as

  35. blessing your crops and your livestock. The Lord will bless

  36. your harvest and the food you prepare. The Lord will

  37. bless wherever you go. The Lord will even defeat your

  38. enemies when they attack you. Yes, the Lord will send

  39. his blessing on all you put your hand to and

  40. bless everything you do. Now, God promises these blessings to

  41. us if we do what he tells us to do.

  42. In other words, if we follow his instructions for life,

  43. He says, I'm going to bless everything you do. Now,

  44. this past week, as I was studying what God tells

  45. us to do about the importance of gratitude, you know

  46. what I noticed? That five different times in scripture, God

  47. tells us that gratitude is far, far more than just

  48. saying thank you every so often. No, no. Gratitude is

  49. a constant mindset. You might write that down. Gratitude is

  50. a constant mindset of thankfulness. It's more than just saying

  51. thank you every once in a while to God or

  52. to people. It's an attitude of gratitude that you make

  53. as your lifestyle. God wants us to respond to everything

  54. that happens in our lives with an attitude of gratitude. Now,

  55. what I want to do is read the next verse

  56. aloud together. So everybody look at that. 1 Thessalonians 5.18

  57. from the New Living Translation. And let's read it slowly

  58. aloud together. Okay, ready? Always be thankful in all circumstances

  59. for this is God's will for you. Now, always be

  60. thankful in all circumstances. That about covers everything, right? There's

  61. no loophole there. Always be thankful in all circumstances for

  62. this is God's will for you. Now, If you obey that,

  63. God says, I'm going to bless you in every area

  64. of your life. And notice that he says, this is

  65. God's will for you. God's will for your life. You say,

  66. I want to know God's will for my life. God's

  67. will is that you are always grateful. You're always thankful.

  68. You're always full of the attitude of gratitude. Now, of course,

  69. when God wants us to help us do the right thing,

  70. he always attaches a benefit or blessings to doing it.

  71. I happen to have right now in my library 79

  72. different books on the topic of gratitude. So I've studied

  73. this a lot. 79 different books just on the topic

  74. of gratitude. And what I've discovered is that both scripture

  75. and scientific studies show that having a mindset of gratitude

  76. yields great, great blessings. This is an important message that

  77. I'm I'm going to share with you before Thanksgiving, but

  78. you're going to use it the rest of your life.

  79. This could actually be an entire series of messages. But

  80. let me just breeze through some bullet points. There on

  81. your outline, there's a list of bullet points on the

  82. benefits of the blessings of gratitude. Notice first, gratitude improves

  83. your brain and your physical health. Did you know that?

  84. I don't have time to go into all of these

  85. and talk about it, but doctors say that gratitude is

  86. the healthiest human emotion. It improves your brain, it improves

  87. your physical health. Number two, gratitude creates happiness. If you

  88. wanna be happy, develop a thankful heart. The happiest people

  89. are those who are the most grateful. Number three, gratitude

  90. helps you sleep better. You probably didn't know that. That's

  91. a recent discovery, but the Bible told us that literally

  92. thousands of years ago in the book of Proverbs. Gratitude,

  93. number four, is the antidote to toxic emotions. In other words,

  94. it defeats things like worry and depression and anger and fear.

  95. You can't be grateful and worried at the same time

  96. or depressed and grateful at the same time. It defeats

  97. those toxic emotions. The next one, gratitude improves relationships. You

  98. want better relationships? Become a more grateful man or woman.

  99. You know what, if you express gratitude more to your spouse,

  100. you'd have a whole lot less conflict. And then gratitude

  101. opens the door to people and to other opportunities. I

  102. had a personal example of that I could tell you

  103. this week, but I don't have time to tell you. Gratitude,

  104. when you express gratitude to people, you make friends, it

  105. opens doors, it gives you opportunities. Gratitude, the Bible says,

  106. is the evidence of spiritual maturity. You wanna know if

  107. your spirits are mature? How grateful are you? How much

  108. do you live with the attitude of gratitude? Colossians 2.9

  109. says this, look on the screen. Plant your roots in

  110. Christ and let him be the foundation for your life.

  111. Be strong in your faith, always overflowing with, circle this, thanksgiving.

  112. All right, it is a mark of maturity. The more

  113. mature you are, the more grateful you'll be. And then

  114. gratitude pleases God and it brings his blessing. The Bible

  115. says it's the sacrifice that God loves most, the sacrifice

  116. of gratitude. Now, what has always baffled me about Thanksgiving

  117. Day is how very little actual time is given to

  118. thanksgiving of God. We spend a full day preparing the meal.

  119. We spend several hours watching football and talking and maybe

  120. just hanging out, and maybe one or two minutes thanking

  121. God in prayer because you don't want the food to

  122. get cold with a long prayer. So even though it's

  123. Thanksgiving Day, it's what we do the least of on

  124. that day. So I wanna give you some homework. It's

  125. a homework assignment for Thanksgiving Day with those that you

  126. have Thanksgiving with. Here is a starter list for thanking

  127. God this Thanksgiving. You say, I don't know what to

  128. be thankful for. Well, it's a list of verses, and

  129. what I would encourage you to do is when you're

  130. sitting at the table together, ask everybody around your table

  131. to read one of the verses, okay? And then after

  132. all the verses have been read, you might start a

  133. discussion simply asking, well, which of these verses are you

  134. the most thankful for? And it may be something that's

  135. already been mentioned or maybe something that hasn't been mentioned.

  136. What does God want us to be grateful for? Not

  137. just at Thanksgiving, but all the time. Well, as we

  138. go through this list of verses, and again, didn't give

  139. you any blanks, so just circle the reason in each verse, okay?

  140. Here are some reasons why we need to be the

  141. most grateful people of all people. First, because God gave

  142. us life. God gave us life. Psalm 139, 13 and 14.

  143. You created and formed me. Circle that. You created and

  144. formed me in my mother's body. So I thank you

  145. because you made me. I wouldn't even be alive if

  146. it weren't for God. That's reason enough. Number two, we

  147. can be thankful that we're still alive. Are you glad

  148. you're still alive from a year ago? Ecclesiastes 11, eight says,

  149. be grateful for every year you live. That's another thing

  150. to be grateful for. Number three, we can be grateful

  151. that he saved us. Psalm 13, verse five, my heart

  152. is happy because you saved me. Number four, we can

  153. be grateful because God is good. God is good. Circle this,

  154. I give you thanks because you are good, says Psalm 54,

  155. verse six. Here's another one. I can be grateful that

  156. God answers our prayers. Psalm 118, 21. I praise the

  157. Lord for answering my prayers. And I can be grateful

  158. that he shows us how to live. Psalm 16, verse seven.

  159. I praise the Lord because he guides me. Here's another one.

  160. I can praise the Lord. I can thank God that

  161. he forgives me. Psalm 18, verse one. Tell the Lord

  162. how thankful you are because he is kind and always merciful.

  163. And then number eight. I can be grateful that he

  164. will never stop loving us. Psalm 107, verse eight, give

  165. thanks to the Lord for his unfailing love. Now, I

  166. wanna spend the rest of our time together looking at

  167. what I call God's three favorite ways, God's three favorite

  168. ways for us to express gratitude to him. This last

  169. week in my study of every passage in the Bible

  170. that references gratefulness and thanksgiving, I found at least a

  171. dozen different ways that God tells us to express our gratitude.

  172. He tells us, but I wanna focus on just the

  173. three most mentioned ways because they are mentioned more than

  174. all the others put together. These must be God's favorite

  175. expressions of gratitude because as I said, he refers to

  176. them These three that I'm gonna share today more than

  177. all the others combined. Now, the Bible has a lot

  178. to say about the songs of thanksgiving, the offerings of thanksgiving,

  179. and the cup of thanksgiving. I'm sure you're aware that

  180. we all have as human beings different love languages. Your

  181. love language is different than the language of your spouse.

  182. What makes your spouse feel loved is different than what

  183. makes you feel loved. We like to be told that

  184. we're loved in different ways. That's because we're all different. Well,

  185. so does God. And what I'm going to share with

  186. you today are God's three top love languages. These are

  187. the ones that bring him the most pleasure. So let's

  188. look at the first one. The first habit of expressing

  189. gratitude is this. Write it down. Singing back to God.

  190. singing back to God. Now you may not know this.

  191. Nobody has ever told this to you, but God is

  192. a singing God. Did you know that? The Bible tells

  193. us that God sings. In fact, and here's the shocker,

  194. he sings about you. He sings love songs and joyful

  195. songs about you. Zephaniah chapter three, verse 17 says this,

  196. The Lord your God is with you and he is

  197. your mighty savior. He takes great delight in you, calming

  198. your fears with his love and he rejoices over you

  199. with singing about you. Did you know that verse? God

  200. rejoices over you with singing about you. Now let me

  201. just say this. Think about this. You've never heard God

  202. sing over you. But one day in heaven, you're going

  203. to hear God sing about you. And it's going to

  204. be the most beautiful, joyful sound you've ever heard. I

  205. can't wait to hear pure, perfect joy. We have joy

  206. on this planet. But it's a broken joy. It's an

  207. imperfect joy. When God sings, it is pure, perfect joy.

  208. And you're gonna get to hear God sing over you

  209. one day. That's something to look forward to. Have you

  210. ever listened to a mother calm her baby by quietly

  211. singing to that baby? I could never forget the sacred

  212. moments of listening to my wife, Kay, love our children

  213. with lullabies. I can hear her voice in a soft

  214. voice humming and singing to our babies. That's how God

  215. loves you. God sings. You didn't know that. In fact,

  216. the only reason music exists in the universe is because

  217. God invented it. God is a musical God. Since you

  218. were created in his image you like music too horses

  219. don't like music. They're not created in his image Worms

  220. don't like music. They're not created in his image So

  221. let me show you just a few verses of Scripture

  222. where God tells us to express our thanks to him

  223. through singing Psalm 147 verse 7 sing out your thanks

    Psalms 147:7

  224. to him sing praises and to our God. Psalm 95

    Psalms 95:2

  225. verse 2, let us come before him with thanksgiving, that's

  226. what we're talking about, and sing joyful songs of praise.

  227. Now friends, this is one of the main reasons for

  228. coming together to worship together instead of just watching a

  229. service online. You miss the value of singing praise together.

  230. You may not realize this, but you sing better when

  231. you sing with others, right? Yeah, I don't like to

  232. hear myself sing, but I don't mind singing when there's

  233. 500 or 1,000 other people out there. Colossians 3.16 says this,

  234. sing psalms and hymns and sacred songs, singing to God

  235. with thanksgiving in your hearts. This is the first habit

  236. of thanksgiving that God loves, singing back to God. Are

  237. you doing that? Some of you go, I don't sing.

  238. Some of you say, I can't sing. Some of you say,

  239. I've lost my voice, sir. I never had it. Listen

  240. closely to a pastor who loves you. God loves your voice.

  241. He gave it to you. He gave you your voice.

  242. He wants to hear your voice from you, not somebody else's.

  243. Not you trying to be somebody else. He wants to

  244. hear your voice because he gave it to you. And

  245. if you are embarrassed about singing with your voice, I'll

  246. just be honest with you. You got a pride problem.

  247. You got an ego issue. You need to learn to

  248. accept yourself the way God does. You need to treat

  249. yourself the way God does. God enjoys hearing you sing

  250. praise to him. God wants you to learn to Sing

  251. to him all the time. Look at this verse on

  252. the screen, Psalm 44, 8. All day long we praise

  253. our God. Not just in service at worship on the weekends.

  254. All day long we praise to God. We are always

  255. grateful to him. Now some of us hum more than

  256. we sing. We hum our Thanksgiving song. That's okay. You say, well, okay,

  257. all day long. What about at night? Well, If you're

  258. not going to wake anybody up, sing away. Go right

  259. ahead and sing away. But if you've got a full

  260. house at your home, Psalm 63 verse 6 from the

    Psalms 63:6

  261. message says this. If I'm sleepless at night, I spend

  262. hours in grateful reflection. Why? Because that's not going to

  263. bother anybody. The first habit of gratitude is singing back

  264. to God. Singing back to God. It's one of God's

  265. three favorite ways for you to express your gratitude to him.

  266. Now here's the second habit of gratitude, giving back to God.

  267. Write that down, giving back to God. At Thanksgiving or

  268. any other time, we give thanks by giving back to God.

  269. We give thanks by giving. We give back the first

  270. part of what he has given to us. Let's look

  271. at some scripture on this. Psalm 54 verse six is this.

  272. I will offer a sacrificial offering as a special gift

  273. to thank you, Lord, because you are so good. That's

  274. a thanksgiving offering. We talked about a thanksgiving song, but

  275. the Bible talks about a thanksgiving offering, an offering where

  276. we give to give thanks. You know, about 400 years ago,

  277. a group of Christian believers who were being persecuted for

  278. their faith left Europe and moved to North America in

  279. order to establish a colony that allowed religious liberty so

  280. they could worship God freely. And those original people who

  281. came 400 years ago from Europe were called the pilgrims.

  282. 400 years ago, they established with the Native Americans in

  283. their area, a Thanksgiving day in the fall to give

  284. thanks to God. That's where the whole Thanksgiving Day got

  285. started of the modern days. Now, a lot of nations

  286. have Thanksgiving Days. 150 years later, after the Pilgrims, America's

  287. first president, George Washington, created, at the urging of Congress,

  288. the first national holiday. Thanksgiving holiday. If you'd like to

  289. see Washington's proclamation, just write me a note and give

  290. me your email on a card. I'll be glad to

  291. send it to you this week. You might want to

  292. read Washington's original proclamation. It'll blow your mind what the

  293. President of the United States said about the necessity of

  294. being grateful to God. And it's pretty clear. So that

  295. happened 400 years ago, the first modern Thanksgiving. And and

  296. then 150 years later, the first Thanksgiving holiday for a nation.

  297. But did you know that 3000 years before that, 3000

  298. years before that, God had told the nation of Israel

  299. to establish a Thanksgiving festival every year called the Feast

  300. of Weeks. And they were to celebrate God's goodness and

  301. they were to express their gratitude to God by bringing

  302. him a special Thanksgiving offering. That's 3000 years. before the

  303. modern Thanksgiving day. Deuteronomy chapter 16, verse 10 and 11

    Deuteronomy 16:10

  304. says this. I love this in the TEV version. Celebrate

  305. the harvest festival to honor the Lord your God by

  306. bringing him a freewill offering in proportion to the blessing

  307. he has given you. Do this at the place of worship.

  308. So in the original Thanksgiving day, they were to bring

  309. a gift of thanksgiving to the place of thanksgiving, that's

  310. the temple, it's where they worship. Now, this Thanksgiving offering,

  311. it's been practiced by God's people for thousands and thousands

  312. of years. And we've practiced it here at Saddleback since

  313. our church began 42 years ago. So this week, we're

  314. gonna be doing our annual Thanksgiving offering. It's mentioned many,

  315. many times in the Bible, such as in Psalm 116, 17,

  316. where King David says this, I will sacrifice a thanksgiving

  317. offering to you. Now listen, this is God's second favorite

  318. way of being thanked. He talks about it over and

  319. over and over. The thanksgiving offering is mentioned many times

  320. in scripture. In Psalm 50 verse 23, God says this,

    Psalms 50:23

  321. those people who truly honor me are those, who are they?

  322. Who bring me offerings. To show thanks. Those people who

  323. truly honor me, God says, are those who bring the

  324. offerings to show thanks. And I, God, save those who

  325. do that. It's one of God's favorite love languages. Singing

  326. back to God and giving back to God. Is it our,

  327. you know, examples and illustrations of gratitude. Anytime we give

  328. an offering to God, It actually represents three kinds of gratitude.

  329. It's a 3D gratitude, past, present, and future. When I

  330. give an offering to God, it represents I'm grateful for

  331. God's blessing in the past, I'm grateful for God's blessing today,

  332. and I'm grateful in faith for God's continued blessing in

  333. the future. I thank him for the past, I thank

  334. him for today, and I thank him that he's gonna

  335. keep on taking care of me in the future. Three

  336. kinds of gratitude. So what kind of offering are we

  337. to bring to show our gratitude to God? Well, the

  338. Bible says it over and over and over and over.

  339. We are to give God the first part of our income,

  340. not the leftovers, not, well, I pay all my bills

  341. and whatever's left, I'll give to God. We are to

  342. put God first in our finances. Now, God knows this

  343. is a step of faith, putting him first. which is

  344. why he tells us to do it because it's a

  345. step of faith. God is more interested in your faith.

  346. He certainly doesn't need your money. God doesn't need your money.

  347. He owns it all. The money you've got isn't really yours.

  348. It was somebody else's before yours. It's yours right now

  349. on loan. It'll be loaned to somebody else later. God

  350. just wants to know if you trust him. Now, as

  351. I said, with every principle that God gives us, he

  352. also attaches a promise. There are more promises in the

  353. Bible related to giving back to God than any other

  354. promises in the scripture. Proverbs 3, 9 and 10 is

  355. a good example. Proverbs 3, 9 and 10 says this,

  356. honor the Lord by giving him, circle this, the first part,

  357. circle first part, by giving him the first part of

  358. your income. And here's the promise. That was the premise.

  359. Here's the promise. He will fill your barns and barrels

  360. to overflow with more. God says, Giving him an offering

  361. is not just an act of gratitude. It's an act

  362. of faith. And God always honors faith. So he promises

  363. to bless you back. That's why I said there are

  364. more promises in the Bible attached to giving and generosity

  365. than any other subject. Why? God wants his children to

  366. be like him. God is a generous God. Everything you

  367. have in life is a gift of God's love. God

  368. is the number one giver. God so loved the world

  369. that he gave. You can love God. You can give

  370. without loving, but you can't love without giving. God so

  371. loved that he gave. And if you love God, you're

  372. gonna give. And if you love others, you're gonna give. Now,

  373. he says, here's the promise. Give me the first part

  374. and I'll overflow your barns and your barrels. In other words,

  375. you're gonna get back more than you could possibly give

  376. to me. God has said, you give to me and

  377. I'll give to you and we'll see who wins. Now,

  378. Jesus expanded and extended the promise we just read, Proverbs 3.

  379. by saying it this way in Luke 6, verse 38.

    Luke 6:38

  380. Look up here on the screen. This is from the

  381. New Living Translation, Luke 6, 38. If you give, this

  382. is Jesus talking, if you give, you will receive. And

  383. your gift will return to you in full measure. And

  384. then he says, press down, shaken together to make room

  385. for more. Like you got a bag of beans, you

  386. keep shaking it so it can hold more. Press down,

  387. press down, shake it together to make room for more

  388. and running over. Whatever measure you use in giving, large

  389. or small, Jesus is talking, it will be used to

  390. measure what is given back to you. Do you believe

  391. that verse? Do you believe that if you give, God

  392. will give back more to you? How much do you

  393. trust God? Do you think Jesus is a liar? You

  394. know what I've never understood, friends? I've never understood why

  395. do people trust Jesus to forgive their sins and save

  396. their souls and take them to heaven, but they don't

  397. trust the same Jesus with their finances and the promises

  398. he makes about that. It makes no sense at all.

  399. If you can't trust Jesus with your finances, why do

  400. you trust him for your salvation? Really, this is a

  401. faith issue. How much do you trust God? What we're

  402. talking about, of course, giving the first part back to God,

  403. is called the principle of tithing. Tithing is the old

  404. English word, means 10%. It's not 12%, it's not 20,

  405. it's not 1%. Tithing means the first 10%. If I

  406. make $ 10, the first dollar goes back to God. If

  407. I make $ 100, the first $ 10 go back to God. First,

  408. we give the first 10% of our income back to

  409. God in faith and gratitude, and then he blesses the

  410. other 90%. Look at these last two verses in this section.

  411. Deuteronomy 14, 23. Living Bible. Bring your tithe. That's the

  412. first 10%. Bring your tithe to the Lord. The first

  413. of all you earn. The purpose of tithing is to

  414. teach you to always put God first in your lives. Now,

  415. you may say, well, God's first in my life. Well,

  416. let me see two things. Let me see your calendar

  417. and let me see your checkbook. Because the way you

  418. spend your time and the way you spend your money

  419. tells me what's really first in your life. And then

  420. one of the greatest promises of all, it's the only

  421. promise in the Bible where God says, you can prove

  422. that I exist. It's a good verse for atheists. You

  423. wanna prove God's exist? Tithe. Here's what God says, Malachi 3.10.

  424. Bring your whole tithe, that's 10%, to my storehouse, says

  425. the Lord, so there will be food in my house.

  426. You bring the first 10% on the first day of

  427. the week as an act that God is first. And

  428. what's first day of the week? Sunday, as an act

  429. of worship, You bring it to my storehouse, says the Lord.

  430. You don't give your tithe to your sister or to

  431. some nice organization out there. It belongs to God. It

  432. goes to his temple. It goes to his storehouse. Says, well,

  433. there'll be food in my house. And then he says this,

  434. test me in this. How dare you? Try it. You'll

  435. like it. Test me. Here's the Pepsi challenge verse. Test

  436. me in this and see if I won't throw open

  437. the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing,

  438. you won't have enough room for it. Wow. God says,

  439. this is the way you can prove God exists. Tithe.

  440. All right, tithe. Put him first. And that is God's

  441. second favorite way of being told you trust him, of

  442. being told you're grateful. We sing songs. of thanksgiving and

  443. we give back to God in thanksgiving. Now, both last

  444. week and this week, those of you who came to

  445. worship at one of our campuses, you received the offering

  446. envelope for our annual thanksgiving offerings. It's our annual offering

  447. to God. We do it every year. I told you

  448. last week, I didn't even want you to give last week.

  449. I said, take it home and pray about it because

  450. you really need to thank God and ask God about it.

  451. And I told you, take it home, pray about it.

  452. And if you're ready, you can give your Thanksgiving offering

  453. when we sing in just a minute. But if you

  454. haven't really prayed about it, you can take your envelope home.

  455. You can mail it in during a Thanksgiving weekend or

  456. you can bring it next week. And of course, if

  457. you set up online tithing, like most of us have,

  458. that's what Kay and I have, You can do that.

  459. You can just tithe online. You know, every single week,

  460. you guys, I receive the most amazing letters and testimonies

  461. from people expressing their gratitude to God through generosity. One

  462. recently was from a guy who a number of years

  463. ago was down on his luck and he came to

  464. Saddleback's free clinic and we helped him in his time

  465. of need. And a few years later, He sent a

  466. check and it was for $ 100, 000. Let me read you

  467. just one letter that I received this week. And then

  468. we're gonna give our Thanksgiving offering. Here's the letter. It

  469. says this. It's not addressed to me. It's actually addressed

  470. to you. Dear Saddleback Church. It's from a woman back

  471. in the Midwest. She says, dear Saddleback Church family. I've

  472. been watching online services from my home in the Midwest.

  473. since the onset of COVID in March 2020 to today.

  474. Your services have been a real blessing to me. I'm

  475. often singing and crying alone as I have found inspiration

  476. from the services of Saddleback from week to week. Now

  477. these 20 months have been trying in so many ways.

  478. So the messages about hope, And grace and even pain today,

  479. which was last week, have never been more real. Then

  480. she writes, sometimes I ponder what my real purpose is.

  481. But God has blessed me well financially. So it may

  482. be that part of my purpose is to help you

  483. continue to build your Saddleback Church. She says, I'll probably

  484. never get to worship in the new facility you're in.

  485. although it looks incredible, but my heart will certainly be

  486. with you and be with all of you there. So

  487. continue your fabulous work. And she signed her name and

  488. she sent a check this week for $ 50, 000. This is

  489. a woman who's never even been to our church, but

  490. she says, I want to support the building of Saddleback

  491. Church and all its campuses. Now, right now, as we

  492. begin to look at God's third favorite way of us

  493. saying thanks to him, expressing gratitude to God, I want

  494. to ask the ushers at all of our campuses to

  495. begin distributing the communion elements while I'm speaking. You go

  496. ahead and get up right now and begin passing out

  497. those elements. Now, we said that the first of God's

  498. three favorite ways that he loves to be shown gratitude

  499. is singing back to God. And the second favorite way

  500. that God has is for us to give back to God.

  501. And we've seen the Thanksgiving song and we've seen the

  502. power of the Thanksgiving offering. But now we come to

  503. what's called the Thanksgiving cup. And what we're talking about

  504. is taking the Lord's supper together as an act of gratitude.

  505. God's third favorite way of being told that we love

  506. him is through communion, through the Lord's supper. The third

  507. habit of gratitude is this. Write it down. Communion with God.

  508. First Corinthians chapter 11, verses 23 to 27. Look up

    1 Corinthians 11:23–27

  509. here on the screen. It's not on your outline. It

  510. says this. On the night that he was betrayed, Jesus

  511. took bread and when he had given thanks, he broke

  512. it and he broke the bread and he said, this

  513. is my body, which is for you. Do this in

  514. remembrance of me. Then in the same way, Jesus took

  515. the cup and he said, this cup, is the new

  516. covenant in my blood. And whenever you drink it, do

  517. this in remembrance of me. Now he says it twice,

  518. do this in remembrance of me. Communion is to help

  519. us remember. What's remembering for? So we can be grateful.

  520. Whatever you remember, you can be grateful for. He says,

  521. I've given you this memory tool, communion, the bread and

  522. the wine, the juice and the wafer. I've given you

  523. this communion tool to remember the good thing that I

  524. did for you, the suffering that I did for you,

  525. what it cost me to pay for your salvation. Jesus,

  526. the Bible says this, for whenever you eat the bread

  527. and you drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord's death.

  528. It's a remembering of God's great gift on Calvary, Jesus'

  529. death on the cross. You proclaim the Lord's death until

  530. he comes again. He didn't stay dead. He's coming back again.

  531. That's what Easter is all about. And then the Bible says, therefore,

  532. whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the

  533. Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning

  534. against the body and the blood of the Lord. What

  535. does that phrase mean, an unworthy manner? You know, as

  536. a young Christian, I often wondered and was even a

  537. little worried what that meant. to take the Lord's Supper,

  538. to take communion in an unworthy manner. But I now

  539. believe that taking the Lord's Supper in an unworthy manner

  540. includes taking communion without truly being grateful for all Jesus

  541. paid for with his death on the cross. To take

  542. it in an unworthy manner is to reject the power

  543. of the cross. It is to take communion without fully

  544. understanding and fully accepting and fully being grateful for Jesus'

  545. sacrifice for me. This is Jesus' third favorite way of

  546. us expressing our thanks to him. He gave us the

  547. memory tool of communion. Now you've probably heard that another

  548. name for the Lord's Supper or another name for communion

  549. is the Eucharist. You heard that word, the Eucharist? That's

  550. a Bible term. It's in the Bible. You know, the

  551. New Testament was written in Greek. Eucharist is a Greek word.

  552. You know what it means? Thanksgiving. Eucharist is the Greek

  553. word for Thanksgiving. The communion is to be a model

  554. of Thanksgiving. It's a way we give thanks back to God. First,

  555. through the Thanksgiving song. Second, through the Thanksgiving offering. And third,

  556. through the Thanksgiving cup. 1 Corinthians 10, 16. says this,

  557. is not the cup of thanksgiving for which we give

  558. thanks a participation in the blood of Christ? And is

  559. not the bread that we break participation in the body

  560. of Christ? When we drink from a communion cup and

  561. we eat the bread, we are participating in one another

  562. of God's favorite ways to be told, thank you, God.

  563. By our eating, we are saying, Father, thank you, thank you,

  564. thank you for sacrificing yourself to send your son to

  565. come and die on the cross for our sins so

  566. that we can be forgiven. And we remind ourselves of

  567. the high price that Jesus paid to save us. And

  568. our only response is gratitude. Colossians 2, 13 and 14

  569. says this, we were spiritually dead because of our sins

  570. and our sinful nature. We were dead, separated from Christ.

  571. But God gave us new life. We didn't turn over

  572. a new leaf. He gave us a whole new life.

  573. God gave us new life with Christ. He forgave all

  574. our sins. And he canceled the record that contained all

  575. the charges against us. And he took it and he

  576. destroyed it by nailing it to Christ's cross. That's what

  577. the Bible says. What is our response? to such overwhelming love.

  578. It was 1 Corinthians 15, 57, which says this, how

  579. we thank God who gives us victory over sin and

  580. over death through Jesus Christ our Lord. This is the Eucharist.

  581. This is the cup of thanksgiving. Now, I now want

  582. us to take the elements together, if they've all been

  583. served to everybody by now, as an expression of our

  584. gratitude to God. We have sang, sung together, we've sung

  585. together in Thanksgiving, we have given back to God in Thanksgiving,

  586. and now we're going to drink the cup together in Thanksgiving.

  587. But we have to do it in a worthy manner.

  588. That means you've accepted the gift of salvation in your heart.

  589. Communion means nothing if you haven't already accepted the gift

  590. by faith in your life. And if you've forgotten how

  591. grateful you ought to be for the death of Christ.

  592. That's why we're to take communion, to remind ourselves of

  593. the sacrifice. So I want you to bow your heads

  594. right now. And with your head bowed, I wanna ask you,

  595. have you ever completely fully accepted The gift of God's

  596. salvation by faith. Have you accepted the grace of God

  597. in your life? Have you accepted his forgiveness? Realizing that

  598. you can't earn it, pay for it, or deserve it.

  599. It's just a gift. And have you expressed your gratitude

  600. back to God? If you haven't, say so right now.

  601. In your heart say, dear God, thank you, thank you,

  602. thank you for dying for me. Say that. Thank you

  603. for paying for my sins. Say that. Thank you for

  604. dying on the cross so that I could be forgiven

  605. and that I could go to heaven and so that

  606. I could have a purpose for living. Jesus Christ, I

  607. open my life to you and I give myself completely

  608. to you. And I want to develop these habits of

  609. singing with gratitude, giving back in song, of giving back

  610. financially and of taking communion to remember your sacrifice. I

  611. ask you to accept me into your family in Jesus' name. Amen.

  612. At the end of this message, I'm going to ask

  613. you to let me know about your decision if you did.

  614. But here's my challenge to you, all of you, this weekend.

  615. My challenge is that you'll begin to develop the mindset

  616. and lifestyle and gratitude to God in every aspect of

  617. your life. Now I want you to take the little

  618. wafer right now. The Bible says that on the night

  619. Jesus was betrayed, he took bread and he broke it

  620. and he blessed it and he said, this is my

  621. body which is given for you. Do this to remember me.

  622. As you eat this bread right now, I want you

  623. to say, Jesus, I am so grateful that you died

  624. for me. Eat it and say that in your mind. Jesus,

  625. I am so grateful. that you died for me. Tell

  626. him how grateful you are that he did what you

  627. can't do for yourself. The Bible says in the same

  628. way that Jesus took the cup of the new covenant.

  629. He said, this is the cup of the new covenant

  630. representing my blood. And he said, I want you to

  631. do this to remember me. He said, as often as

  632. you drink it, do this to remember me. As you

  633. drink this little cup right now, I want you in

  634. your own words to express your gratitude to God for

  635. Jesus saving you. Just say it in any way in

  636. your heart that you want to say it. Just say,

  637. thank you, God, for saving me when I could not

  638. save myself. And drink that cup. I hope you're gonna

  639. make these three habits, the habit of singing back to God,

  640. giving back to God, our tithe, and communion with God

  641. through the elements, a regular part of your Christian life.

  642. Colossians 3.17 sums up everything I've been trying to teach

  643. you this weekend. It says this, so now, everything you do,

  644. circle word everything, everything you do or say should be

  645. done in the name of our Lord Jesus with thanksgiving.

  646. Circle that, with thanksgiving to God the Father. So take

  647. out the garbage with thanksgiving. Wash the dishes with thanksgiving.

  648. Pick up the kids with thanksgiving. Go to bed with thanksgiving.

  649. Do everything. Take a shower with everything. God wants thanksgiving

  650. to be the habit of living. It is a mindset,

  651. not simply saying thank you every once in a while. Now,

  652. since that's what that scripture says, let me ask you,

  653. will you commit? Will you personally commit from this day

  654. forward for the rest of your life? Since you know

  655. that God wants everything to be done with gratitude, will

  656. you commit to regularly expressing your gratitude to God by

  657. singing back to him, by giving back to him through

  658. tithing and by taking communion? If so, I want you

  659. to drive a stake in the ground today that you

  660. never forget it. I want you to let me know

  661. of your decision. I want you to pull out a

  662. card in your program and I want you to write

  663. your name and your address on it. Okay, these are

  664. going to come directly to me and I want you

  665. to write two words. I'm thankful. Write your name and

  666. your address and the phrase or email and the phrase

  667. I'm thankful It means you're committing to these habits for

  668. the rest of your life Now if you're not thankful

  669. do nothing Do nothing if you're not thankful But if

  670. you are thankful and you want to thank God in

  671. the ways He likes to be thanked the most in

  672. his love language He did everything for you. You owe

  673. him everything your own life your salvation all those things

  674. we looked at if you if you are a Thankful.

  675. Get out a card, write your name and contact information

  676. on it and write the phrase, I'm thankful. That's it.

  677. The phrase, I'm thankful. Now, as we close, I just

  678. have to mention one more way to show God's gratitude.

  679. And here it is. By telling other people the good news.

  680. By telling other people the good news. When you witness,

  681. when you invite people to church, When you share a book,

  682. when you tell other people about the Lord, you share

  683. a testimony. That is the representation of gratitude. Isaiah 12

  684. verse four says this, thank the Lord, praise his name

  685. and tell the world what he's done. They all go together.

  686. You thank the Lord and you praise his name by

  687. telling the world he has done. Who have you told

  688. about Jesus? Who have you told about the good news?

  689. When was the last time you talked to anybody about

  690. the good news. 2 Corinthians 4.15 says this. This is

  691. a verse that's been a theme verse of Saddleback for

  692. 42 years. 2 Corinthians 4.15, the grace that is reaching

  693. more and more people will cause thanksgiving to overflow to

  694. the glory of God. Why do we keep growing? Why

  695. do we keep reaching out? Why do all our campus

  696. keep moving and getting in bigger buildings and better locations?

  697. Because as more and more people experience the grace of God,

  698. it will cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.

  699. Anytime you invite somebody to come with you to church,

  700. it is an expression of gratitude to God. We're getting

  701. ready to start Christmas season. Next week, we start Christmas

  702. season together. More people are likely to come at Christmas

  703. than any other time. Why don't you plan to bring

  704. somebody with you next weekend for the next part in

  705. our series? I love you. I'm praying for you. And

  706. I thank God for you. I'll see you next weekend.