Sermon
The Backslider
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Proverbs chapter 14 this morning.
Proverbs 14 chapter mention
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You know, as you read through the Proverbs,
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! the Proverbs cover a lot of territory.
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Because the reality is, if you're not going forward,
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you're sliding backwards.
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You know, oftentimes we think we're being static
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or just staying stable.
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But, you know, the reality of life spiritually,
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if you're not moving forward with the Lord,
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you're sliding backwards.
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Because it has to do with our attitude and our spirit
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about the things of God.
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And we understand, we're going to look at this this morning,
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it's something that you ought to be concerned with as a believer.
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In your life, because we're going to look here this morning
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about what it is when the Bible talks about being a backslider.
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You know, you might have something that comes into mind
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when you hear that or that term is used.
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I know it's not something we use very often anymore.
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I remember growing up, it was a term used all the time.
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I mean, it's a good biblical term
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because it's a biblical description of what's taking place.
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And so if you found Proverbs chapter 14 this morning,
Proverbs 14 chapter mention
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let's stand together as we'll read verse 14.
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And then we'll get into the message here this morning.
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And this is what we want to look at here today in verse 14.
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It says,
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Let's pray.
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Heavenly Fathers, we come before you this morning.
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Lord, we're thankful.
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Lord, we're thankful that you love us enough.
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Lord, even when we do backslide,
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Lord, that you will restore.
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Lord, you'll forgive.
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Lord, we pray that you just would be with each one here today.
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Lord, as we look and consider this term,
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this direction that you've given here
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about the backslider in heart.
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Lord, we pray that you would just guide the message,
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give the words to say.
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Lord, help to stir our hearts.
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Lord, we might not just look at others,
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but Lord, that this message might be introspective to ourselves.
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Lord, that we might think about the areas of our life,
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Lord, that need what we're going to speak about here today.
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And Lord, we pray that you just would bless,
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and that, Lord, your spirit would do its work here today in a mighty way.
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And Lord, we ask it all in your precious name.
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Amen.
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May we be seated.
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You know, we understand that term backslider, you know.
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And we find that a backslider is going to be described in this verse very clearly
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because this verse sets two very different men in contrast.
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Because it talks about a backslider, and it also talks about a good man.
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And we're going to talk about what it's referencing there
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and what makes the difference in that
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because that's important to understand.
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Again, because it shows that the same law holds for both
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because it talks about something very particular,
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and that's what's in the heart.
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You know, your heart
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is where everything takes place.
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You know, we talk about the heart.
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I'm not talking about your physical little ticker that keeps you alive.
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When the Bible's speaking about here in heart,
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it's talking about the core of who you are.
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It's speaking about why are you, you?
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You know, and we understand that a backslider
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and what he's been feeding on makes a difference,
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and what a good man is filled with
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is what the Lord puts within him.
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You know, I want you to understand
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that oftentimes we think we mention backslider.
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Here, you think of all sorts of people.
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You know, how many can think of somebody
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who used to serve the Lord who doesn't anymore?
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Who was faithful and then is not faithful?
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You know, we can always think about those,
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but I want you to consider today
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as we go through this
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and talk about what the Bible has to say
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about being a backslider.
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You know, you can be a backslider
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that's faithful to church.
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You can be a backslider
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that might read your Bible every day.
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Because we're going to look and see what he means
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because it's greater
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than some of the things that we try to contrast it to.
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We try to elevate ourselves
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because I'm not like such and such,
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that therefore I'm not a backslider,
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I'm not this.
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I want you to understand
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that even every believer
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can backslide in their life.
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because if you're not moving forward,
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you're going backwards.
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And we're going to consider that here this morning
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because we understand something
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because a backslider suggests
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that there had been a time in the past
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when something had caused forward progress
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to take place.
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You know, that's the only way you can slide backwards
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if you're moving away from where you once were.
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So you've had to arrive someplace
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in order to go backwards.
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to move away from.
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That's what it's talking about there,
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to withdraw from.
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And so we know and understand,
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I want you to,
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I'm going to make something clear
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at the beginning here
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because when we talk about a backslider,
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we know that the starting point
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is the moment somebody calls upon Jesus for salvation.
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because you cannot backslide from God
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if you're first not God's child.
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You know, I want you to understand,
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we're not talking about the wicked of the world,
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we're talking about those
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who have been washed and redeemed
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by the precious blood of Jesus Christ.
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Because that's two different people.
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When he's talking about a backslider here,
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I want you to understand what he's looking at
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and what he's comparing to
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because that forward progress of salvation
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happens every time somebody comes
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to know the Lord as their personal Savior.
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At that moment, you have made progress,
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you've been made a new creature in Christ,
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you've been changed,
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you've been transformed.
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Backsliding is moving from that.
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And we're not talking about losing your salvation.
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We're talking about things that keep or hinder
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your relationship with God.
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That fire and that zeal
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that you might have once had in your life.
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You know, that forward progress
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as a new creature in Christ,
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and as we walk with him,
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a walk that's designed to move forward
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and to be conformed to his image.
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You know, you think about this for a moment.
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Go back in the Old Testament
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to Jeremiah chapter 8 for a moment.
Jeremiah 8 chapter mention
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Because here, Judah is seen as an example of this.
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They've been established by the Lord,
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his people that were to be obedient
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to the word of the Lord,
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and yet they started out that way.
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Yet we see them slide back,
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and in the days of Jeremiah the prophet,
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he makes this declaration.
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He says, why then is this people of Jerusalem
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slidden back by a perpetual backsliding?
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They hold fast deceit.
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They refuse to return.
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You know what?
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God's talking about a heart problem
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that's taking place.
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A heart problem within that's causing a problem.
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They move from following the Lord
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to holding to deceit.
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You know, they were deceiving themselves.
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You know, we see that a lot.
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You know, people are good at deceiving themselves.
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That deception that there's something that they're not.
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You know, matter of fact,
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we have people that even promote it.
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You just tell yourself you're that,
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and it'll come to fruition.
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You know what you're doing?
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You're deceiving yourself.
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Because who you are is what Christ has made you.
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Christ transforms you.
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He changes you.
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He makes you a new creature in Christ.
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And we understand that people can deceive themselves, though,
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and even a believer can be deceived.
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You know, because we understand
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that our decisions always have impact.
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Every decision, everything you hold to priority
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and deprioritize in your life
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makes an impact.
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Those things will alter the course of life.
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Proverbs chapter 1 tells us this in verse 31,
Proverbs 1 chapter mention
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You know, I want you to understand,
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even as a believer,
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the decisions you make will impact your life.
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Being a believer doesn't insulate you
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from the result of sin.
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You know, just because you're a believer,
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if you break the law, guess what?
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You're going to pay the penalty.
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Here on this earth,
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you're going to have consequences.
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As a believer, we ought not.
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But, you know, sadly, that's not always the case
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because of exactly what we're going to look at here today,
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this dynamic of being a backslider.
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So I want you to understand,
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we're going to look at here today,
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what causes a believer to slide
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and what is the fix?
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You know?
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It's one thing to identify a problem.
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You know, the other thing is,
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is how do you fix it?
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You know?
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A complainer is somebody who comes with a problem.
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You know?
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Anybody can complain.
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But if you come with a problem,
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you ought to come with,
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hey, I've been thinking about this
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and here's a few suggestions or ideas
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on how to fix it.
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You know what?
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God tells us what happens when we're a backslider,
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but he also tells us how to get it fixed.
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How to resolve the issue.
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Because let's look at the cause here this morning.
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Notice what the text tells us here,
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the backslider in heart.
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It begins by simply having less faith,
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less love,
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less zeal.
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You know?
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I want you to understand,
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this message isn't about somebody else,
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it's about me and about you.
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Because I want you to understand,
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the preacher isn't exempt
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from what I'm talking about this morning.
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Because it's easy for our heart
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to grab a hold of things
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and be distracted by many things.
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And we have to guard our heart.
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I want you to understand,
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most of us will never walk away
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from the Lord altogether.
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But if we're honest,
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every one of us has drifted at some point
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since we were saved
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and needed to be restored.
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Because you know why?
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Each of us have a tendency
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to be filled with our own ways.
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Our own desires,
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our own thinking.
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It begins when a believer declines
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in any degree.
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You know, by having less faith.
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Don't trust the Lord
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in exactly what He said.
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You know, this is a big issue
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in our life as a believer.
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Because you can know
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what God's Word says,
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and you know what you ought to do,
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but you consciously say,
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fill in the blank,
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I can't because.
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Or worse yet,
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I won't because.
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You know what happens?
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You begin to slide back.
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You begin to slide,
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to withdraw from the Lord.
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It creates a barrier.
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When we understand that dynamic,
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it begins when we decline
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with less faith,
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less love for the Lord,
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less zeal in our walk for the Lord.
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You know, think about Hebrews chapter 3
Hebrews 3 chapter mention
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for a moment.
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Look at Hebrews chapter 3.
Hebrews 3 chapter mention
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It tells us in verse 12,
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it tells us,
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it says,
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take heed, brethren,
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lest there be any of you
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an evil heart of unbelief
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in departing from the living God.
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But exhort one another daily
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while it is called day,
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lest any of you be hardened
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through the deceitfulness of sin.
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You know what?
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None of us are exempt.
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The devil wants to get you distracted
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from the Lord.
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He wants to create a barrier.
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He wants to create a separation.
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Now I'm not talking about
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losing your salvation.
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I just want to make that clear.
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I'm talking about a hindrance
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in relationship.
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Because we understand this
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on a practical level all the time.
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We all understand the reality
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of conflict in the family.
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Things that are unresolved
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cause a conflict in the family
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that cause a separation
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of fellowship.
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Until that's resolved,
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it cannot be in the fellowship
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designed the way it was intended.
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It doesn't change the relationship,
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but it definitely changes
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the fellowship.
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That's the dynamic
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when we have with salvation,
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with God,
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to understand the deceitfulness
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of sin.
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You know,
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Galatians,
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Paul tells him,
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you did run well
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who did hinder you
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that you should not obey
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the truth.
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Because I want you to see here,
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notice his name here,
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the backslider.
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It means he stopped
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pressing forward.
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Have you ever considered
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nobody slides up?
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You know,
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we never hear this,
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he's an upslider.
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That just don't happen,
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does it?
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We slide down.
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We slide down,
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going away.
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You know,
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I want you to understand,
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it results in going backwards.
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You'll notice something.
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Look at Philippians chapter 3
Philippians 3 chapter mention
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for a moment.
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Because here we find
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the Apostle Paul.
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And he tells him here,
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at the church at Philippi,
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and he says this,
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and he says,
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brethren,
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I count not myself
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to have apprehended.
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Now notice,
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but this one thing I do,
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forgetting the things
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which are behind
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and reaching forth
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unto those things
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which are what?
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Before,
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now notice verse 14,
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this is a key.
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What's he say?
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I do what?
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I press towards the mark
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for the prize
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of the high calling of God
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in Christ Jesus.
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Think about this
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in contrast for a moment.
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What's Paul saying
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in his life?
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He says,
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I must continually do what?
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Press forward.
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Because if you're not
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pressing forward,
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guess what?
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You're sliding backwards.
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That's the reason
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we have to understand
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the picture here.
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He had to keep moving forward
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for if he did not,
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he would begin
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to slide backwards.
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The same as with
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my life and yours
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when we stop
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pressing forward
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to the high calling
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of Jesus Christ,
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and we can stop
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for all sorts of reasons.
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You know,
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sometimes we get complacent.
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Some very simple things.
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Complacency,
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I'm happy where I'm at.
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Let me put it another way.
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Well,
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I'm comfortable
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where I'm at.
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The Christian life
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ought to always be
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I'm never comfortable
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with where I am with God.
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There's always things
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God's working on
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in my life.
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that God's developing.
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The Bible tells us
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that we're to be
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conformed to His image.
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You know what?
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That takes a lot
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in our life,
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that sanctification
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that takes place.
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It's moving forward
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in that
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to allow God
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to continue to work
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and to guide.
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Complacency,
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you know,
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that less zeal.
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Or to look at ourselves
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first, you know.
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When you look at yourself,
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you know what you're doing?
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You're loving God less.
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Because you know,
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one of the problems
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we find in our world today
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is people say,
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love yourself.
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Fill yourself
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with yourself.
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You know what God tells us?
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We need to be filled
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with His Spirit.
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Because that's what
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enables us to walk.
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That's what enables us
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to press forward.
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That's what enables us
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to live
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as God desires
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for us to live.
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Now,
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I want you to see here
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as we understand
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that, you know,
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sometimes
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it might be
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just not trusting
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or obeying
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the Lord
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in an area
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of your life.
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That's called
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less faith.
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When you know
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what God wants
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for you to do
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and what you ought to do
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but you're more concerned
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about what everybody else thinks
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or what you have thought
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about it
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instead of what God
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thinks about it.
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Like I said,
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this is going to get
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personal this morning.
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Because I want you
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to understand
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I'm not preaching
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at you,
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I'm preaching
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with you.
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Because you know what?
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This is just
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as big a problem
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in my life
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as it is yours.
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We need to understand
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the picture
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and the importance
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of this
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because sometimes
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we're held back
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when the truth
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of scripture
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doesn't fit
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what we have thought
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or considered
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and we resist it
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rather than submit to it.
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You know what you're doing?
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You're sliding backwards
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because you created
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something that's in conflict
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between you
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and your Savior.
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And notice
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where it starts.
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It starts,
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notice it,
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look back at our text,
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he said the backslider
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in what?
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Heart.
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I want you to understand
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backsliding begins
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in the heart.
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It begins within you
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and what you think
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and consider
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and how you trust God.
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Backsliding doesn't begin
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by an action
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that takes place.
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It takes place
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within the heart.
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You know,
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Proverbs chapter 4
Proverbs 4 chapter mention
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and verse 23
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tells us this,
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keep thy heart
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with all diligence
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for out of it
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are the what?
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Issues of life.
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You know,
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as a believer,
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you don't have
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an action problem
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as much as you have
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a heart problem.
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Because the one thing
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I've learned in life,
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what people love
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and desire,
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they find a way to do.
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They will change,
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they will put away things,
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they'll put things off,
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they'll do all sorts of things
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for something
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that they desire to do,
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what their heart
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is pushing them,
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where their heart
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is placed.
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They will put that
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as a priority.
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It starts in the heart
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of an individual.
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individual.
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We know,
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you know,
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when we understand
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this picture
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of a physical heart,
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you know,
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we know that heart trouble
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is always serious
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whether it's your physical heart
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or the heart
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that the Bible talks
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about within you.
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You know,
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that's the reason
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the psalmist
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tells us this
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in Psalm 139.
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He says,
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search me,
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O God,
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and know my what?
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Heart.
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Try me
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and know my thoughts
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and see if there be what?
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any wicked way
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in me
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and lead me
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in thy way
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everlasting.
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You know what David's asking
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here?
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A very simple question.
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Lord,
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is there anything
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that's causing me
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to withhold
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or to draw back
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from you
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that needs to be dealt with?
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Let's give you a clue.
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That's a dangerous question
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because if you pray
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and ask God that,
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he's going to show you
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some things.
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You're going to have
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to make a decision.
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What are you going
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to do with it?
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Are you going to stay
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where you are,
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sliding back away,
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or are you going to
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press towards the mark?
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To press forward
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into what God would have.
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You know,
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high blood pressure
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is called the silent killer
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because it often
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has no symptoms.
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You know,
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for many people,
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the first sign
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is a heart attack.
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You know,
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I want you to understand
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a heart that's cooled
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from the things of God
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is going to slip away
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from Christ.
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And I want you to understand
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this idea of backsliding
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it's all good
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until it isn't.
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It's kind of like
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a heart attack.
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It was all good
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until it wasn't.
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You see people today,
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well,
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they were such a follower
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of Christ
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and all of a sudden
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this devastating thing
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comes out about them.
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You know what?
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That slide to that
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happened a long time
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before that.
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They didn't wake up
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one day.
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You know,
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in my lifetime,
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I've seen guys
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and preachers,
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once I went to school with,
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I had personal friends
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who left their wives.
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If you would talk to them,
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you would think
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they were godly.
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Everything was on track.
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Things were going good.
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But you know what?
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That decision
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to what happened
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didn't happen in a day.
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It happened
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when their heart
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began to backslide
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away from the thing
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slowly,
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slowly,
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slowly,
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and then it's manifest.
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Just like our physical heart,
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you can have a lot of things
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going inside
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that everything looks good
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until it isn't.
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You know,
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spiritually,
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in the life of a believer,
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that's exactly what happens too.
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Looks good,
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looks good,
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looks good.
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I want you to see here
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the course of what causes it
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because this is important
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because notice here
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what it says.
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We find these dynamics.
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It also says
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the backslider in heart
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shall be filled with what?
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His own ways.
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It's not hard to find people
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to say this is the way
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I think it ought to be.
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This is the way
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I think it ought to be done.
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I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I.
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Instead of saying,
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Lord, how do you want it done?
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How does it need to be done?
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What's your response to this?
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Because those things
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begin to happen
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in a,
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when we fill it up
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with our own ways.
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You know,
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oftentimes that might just be
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a preoccupation
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of something.
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You know,
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maybe it's business
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or social life
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or entertainment.
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And what it is,
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it begins to move in
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and to crowd out
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the things of God.
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To move away
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from the things of God.
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You know,
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that's the reason
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Jesus warned
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in Mark chapter 4
Mark 4 chapter mention
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talking about,
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you know,
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sowing.
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And he talks here
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about sowing
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among the thorns
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such as hear the word.
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And the cares of this world
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and the deceitfulness
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of riches
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and the lust
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of other things
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entering in,
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choke the word
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and it becometh unfruitful.
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You know,
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he's describing somebody
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looking after their own way.
-
You can know the truth
-
and still look to your own way.
-
To say,
-
what do I want to do?
-
How do I want to do it?
-
What do I expect?
-
You know what?
-
The heart gives an accurate report.
-
You know,
-
how many of you ever looked
-
at the little report
-
on your phone
-
that tells you
-
how much you used it each day?
-
How many hours
-
you looked at it last week?
-
How many didn't know
-
your phone tracks that?
-
Your phone tracks it.
-
It can tell you
-
how much time
-
you spent looking at it.
-
I encourage you
-
to look at that
-
for a moment
-
and then consider
-
something else
-
when you say,
-
I don't have time
-
to pray
-
or to read the Bible.
-
Half what you look at
-
on your phone,
-
if not more,
-
is probably not worth
-
really looking at.
-
Call it doom scrolling.
-
Really,
-
it's wasting time
-
assuming
-
those things.
-
Look at this slide
-
for a moment.
-
Who knows what this is?
-
Hey,
-
it's in the back.
-
It's a cuckoo bird.
-
There's an interesting thing
-
about a cuckoo bird
-
because they're one
-
of the few birds
-
that don't nest.
-
What they do
-
is they find a nest
-
of another bird,
-
kick one of the eggs out
-
and put their egg in.
-
Then they allow
-
the other bird
-
to hatch
-
their young'un.
-
And you know
-
what the young'un does
-
as soon as the young'un
-
gets hatched?
-
He turns around
-
and boots the other chicks
-
out of the nest
-
that he might consume everything.
-
You know what?
-
Today,
-
I think we have
-
a lot of cuckoo birds
-
in our life
-
that have put things
-
in our life
-
that begin
-
to consume
-
our life
-
that kicks out
-
the things of God.
-
We need to be careful
-
because remember,
-
where does it begin?
-
In the heart
-
of an individual.
-
Secondly,
-
we find
-
self-justification.
-
You know,
-
one of the things
-
of backsliding
-
is when you start
-
to defend sin
-
and start calling it
-
by kinder
-
and gentler names.
-
You know,
-
we understand this
-
in today's society.
-
Society loves
-
renaming things,
-
you know.
-
It's an alternative lifestyle.
-
You know,
-
we understand
-
the big things.
-
You know,
-
think about what
-
Isaiah chapter 5
Isaiah 5 chapter mention
-
tells us.
-
He says,
-
Woe unto them
-
that call evil good
-
and good evil
-
that put darkness
-
for light
-
and light
-
for darkness
-
but that put bitter
-
for sweet
-
and sweet
-
for bitter.
-
You know,
-
Proverbs 28
-
tells us,
-
He that covereth
-
his sin
-
shall not prosper
-
and whosoever
-
confesses
-
and forsaketh
-
them
-
shall have mercy.
-
Let's go back
-
to our modern
-
euphemisms
-
that we use.
-
You know,
-
oftentimes people
-
will start talking,
-
I'm just processing.
-
It's a good name
-
for gossip.
-
I'm just telling you
-
about what somebody
-
else did to me
-
so I can process this.
-
No,
-
you're gossiping
-
about something.
-
You know,
-
greed gets re-masked
-
in business,
-
I'm just building
-
my brand.
-
I mean,
-
we're masters
-
at moving things
-
to where it
-
some way
-
becomes
-
acceptable.
-
You know,
-
you think about
-
today,
-
there's people,
-
we have a generation
-
who's seeking
-
and looking
-
for answers
-
and you know
-
what the world
-
tells them?
-
Don't turn to God,
-
turn to self.
-
You know,
-
you have people
-
that say,
-
well,
-
I didn't come
-
to church today
-
because I need
-
some little self-care.
-
You know,
-
I want to do
-
what I want to do.
-
That's my time.
-
You know,
-
they may be a believer
-
but you know
-
what it is?
-
They're starting
-
to slide.
-
It may be subtle,
-
it may be small,
-
but it's definitely
-
something that takes place.
-
You know,
-
indulgence.
-
Where little matters
-
give way
-
to known sin
-
and one sin
-
leads to another.
-
You know,
-
we have a great example
-
of this in the Bible.
-
David.
-
David was a man
-
after God's own heart
-
but when he began
-
to slide back
-
from the things of God,
-
not doing what
-
he was supposed to do,
-
doing what God
-
had instructed him
-
to do,
-
taking care of the things
-
God had told him
-
to take care of,
-
he gets caught up
-
in adultery.
-
I want you to understand
-
the David and Bathsheba
-
thing wasn't
-
a moment decision.
-
It began
-
in David's heart
-
a long time before that.
-
And then the ramifications
-
always take you farther.
-
He ended up
-
having
-
a faithful man
-
killed.
-
And when Nathan
-
the prophet
-
came and pointed out
-
to David,
-
David was mad
-
and then Nathan
-
looked at him
-
and said,
-
well,
-
it's you.
-
You know,
-
David had a decision
-
to make right there.
-
He knew he had
-
slid away from God
-
but yet we find
-
David said,
-
Lord,
-
I've sinned
-
against you.
-
When we understand
-
the ramifications,
-
the indulgence
-
that brought that away.
-
You know,
-
in Psalm 32
-
it tells us this,
-
when I kept silence,
-
my bones waxed old
-
through all the roaring
-
all my day long.
-
For day and night
-
my hand
-
was heavy upon me
-
and my moisture
-
has turned into
-
the drought of summer.
-
Say,
-
you know what happens?
-
When sin of indulgence
-
happens,
-
it begins to dry up
-
your life.
-
You slid into a desert.
-
And we see this happening
-
but I want you
-
to understand
-
that this is the slope
-
that we go down.
-
We begin to indulge
-
but you know what?
-
If you're a child of God
-
there's another thing
-
going to happen
-
and that's called
-
chastisement.
-
Correction.
-
God's going to correct you.
-
You know,
-
one of the things
-
I've learned
-
that if you don't see
-
God correcting somebody,
-
you might begin to wonder
-
are they really
-
a child of God?
-
Because you know what God
-
does to His children?
-
He corrects them.
-
They get correction
-
in their life.
-
The Lord will chastise
-
His own.
-
You know,
-
Hebrews chapter 12
Hebrews 12 chapter mention
-
makes it clear.
-
It's often when
-
our backsliding
-
we begin to eat
-
of the bread
-
of our own making,
-
we begin to think
-
that the things of God
-
are dead
-
or are not what we think
-
because we don't have
-
a relationship with Him
-
and we understand
-
the consequences
-
become both personal
-
and relational
-
to everybody else
-
around us.
-
You know,
-
Hebrews chapter 12
Hebrews 12 chapter mention
-
tells us this,
-
For ye have forgotten
-
the exhortation
-
which speaketh unto you
-
as unto children.
-
My son,
-
despise not thou
-
the chastening of the Lord,
-
nor faint when
-
thou art rebuked of him
-
for whom the Lord
-
loveth,
-
he chastens
-
and discourages
-
every son
-
whom he receiveth.
-
You know,
-
oftentimes this is the point
-
the backslider
-
begins to look
-
elsewhere.
-
You know,
-
oftentimes today
-
I think we have
-
a lot of people
-
that are upset.
-
You know,
-
one of the terms
-
that I just,
-
I'm not quite sure
-
settled on how to deal with
-
is this whole thing
-
today of church hurt.
-
I've been church hurt.
-
I think it's another
-
one of them steps
-
of victim mentality
-
because if your relationship
-
to God
-
is based on a preacher,
-
you've got a problem.
-
Or some church
-
didn't do
-
what I expected it to do.
-
You know,
-
I want you,
-
I'm just going to put it
-
this way and put it out there.
-
To me,
-
oftentimes it becomes
-
selfishness
-
when it affects
-
our relationship
-
to God.
-
I'm not saying
-
those things don't happen,
-
but I want you
-
to understand
-
that that's
-
that person's sin.
-
God gives us things
-
that we ought to do
-
in those moments
-
and how to walk
-
through that.
-
And we need
-
to be obedient to it.
-
We don't have time
-
to get into all that
-
this morning.
-
You know,
-
you can start over
-
in Matthew chapter 18.
Matthew 18 chapter mention
-
That'll give you
-
a good starting point.
-
But I want you
-
to understand
-
that often
-
when the backslider
-
begins to look elsewhere,
-
they consume things,
-
then try to compare
-
and they try to contrast
-
and they try to
-
self-justify.
-
You know,
-
it's like being
-
a restaurant critiquer
-
and all you ever do
-
is just taste,
-
never feed on things.
-
You know,
-
we live in a generation
-
today,
-
there's a lot of people
-
tasting on the things
-
of God,
-
but never feeding
-
on the Word of God.
-
You know,
-
a backslider,
-
when all these things
-
are left unchecked,
-
where does it end?
-
You know,
-
oftentimes we think
-
of backsliders,
-
we think of apostates,
-
you know.
-
Let's use Judas
-
for an example.
-
You know,
-
Judas walked with Jesus
-
for three and a half years.
-
Nobody had a clue
-
what was going on
-
in his heart.
-
He looked right,
-
he smelled right,
-
he talked right,
-
he dressed right,
-
he...
-
Ever thought about something?
-
Judas went out
-
and preached the gospel
-
to people.
-
He helped Jesus
-
feed people.
-
It's very likely
-
when you read
-
through the gospel
-
that the disciples
-
were sent out
-
with the ability
-
to heal people,
-
it's very likely
-
that Judas might have
-
even healed somebody.
-
You know,
-
the Bible doesn't
-
tell us that,
-
but being as the disciples
-
were given that,
-
when Jesus sent them out
-
to cast out devils
-
and to heal
-
and to take care
-
of things,
-
you know,
-
that Jesus enabled them
-
to do,
-
Judas had all
-
the right attributes.
-
Then he openly
-
forsakes the Lord.
-
His forward progress
-
was in profession only,
-
never in the heart.
-
You know,
-
when we understand
-
that people will sometimes
-
put on a good show
-
and depart from,
-
you know,
-
John tells us this,
-
it says,
-
they went out from us
-
because they were not of us.
-
For if they'd been of us,
-
they would have no doubt
-
continued with us.
-
But they went out
-
that they might be made manifest
-
that they were not all of us.
-
When it comes to church,
-
remember one of the things
-
that Brother Ammon,
-
most of you here
-
might not remember
-
Brother Ammon,
-
the preacher before me,
-
but he always had
-
on his back of his door
-
of his office,
-
he said,
-
through these doors,
-
some are going,
-
be thankful for both.
-
And we sometimes had,
-
some people had a hard time
-
understanding that,
-
but you know what?
-
Sometimes there's people
-
who are putting on a show,
-
they're going to do nothing
-
but cause you a problem.
-
Sometimes you're just as thankful
-
to see them walk away
-
and not cause a problem
-
than they are to stick around
-
and cause a problem.
-
And if you hold to the truth,
-
you know what happens?
-
Oftentimes those people self-weed.
-
Take care of themselves.
-
You need to be thankful for it.
-
But I want you to understand the cure.
-
The cure is very simple.
-
The only way to regain ground
-
that's been lost in a slide
-
is to return to the Lord.
-
You know, think about
-
what John tells us very simply.
-
Here in 1 John 1 and verse 9,
-
he says,
-
if you confess our sins,
-
he is faithful and just
-
to forgive us our sins
-
and to cleanse us
-
from all unrighteousness.
-
Now let me give you
-
a little biblical context.
-
This is not a salvation verse.
-
1 John is not talking
-
about salvation.
-
The book of 1 John
-
is talking about
-
our fellowship with God.
-
If you doubt what I say,
-
you can go ahead and read it.
-
The theme is fellowship.
-
Fellowship is different
-
than relationship.
-
You can be related to somebody
-
and have no fellowship.
-
The thing is,
-
you can have fellowship
-
and not be related.
-
Sometimes people have fellowship
-
with evil that ought not.
-
I want you to understand
-
that if we come to God,
-
He is always faithful
-
and just to forgive us our sins.
-
Why?
-
Because what Christ did
-
on the cross of Calvary
-
covered everything.
-
It's just and right
-
to forgive us our sins
-
because of what He has done.
-
Not by what we do
-
or what we've accomplished,
-
by what He's accomplished.
-
Confess it.
-
Don't cover it up.
-
Come to Him.
-
You know, press forward.
-
Come towards Him.
-
You know,
-
I want you to understand,
-
Jesus is waiting for you.
-
He hasn't moved.
-
If your relationship
-
has changed with the Lord,
-
you know what?
-
He didn't go anyplace.
-
He bled backwards.
-
Press towards the Lord
-
and acknowledge those things
-
that you've done
-
that hindered you
-
in your walk with the Lord.
-
You know,
-
you think about
-
the prodigal son,
-
that picture.
-
You know what?
-
He had to come to Himself.
-
He had to come to the place
-
that He realized
-
and knew that He had sinned
-
and that He had sinned
-
against God.
-
He had sinned
-
against His Father.
-
You know,
-
David,
-
when he's confessing to God
-
in Psalm 51,
-
you'll find
-
he didn't have
-
an easy road.
-
You know,
-
he asked God
-
and he longed
-
for the restoration
-
of the joy
-
of His salvation.
-
God's Spirit within him
-
to fill him,
-
to control him,
-
to impact his life.
-
Think about the story
-
of the prodigal son.
-
You know what?
-
The Father,
-
there's a great picture of God
-
because when you return,
-
you know what?
-
He's ready to meet you.
-
Not to beat you up,
-
not to beat you down,
-
not to tell you
-
all the things you did wrong,
-
but to tell you,
-
welcome home.
-
God wants you
-
to return to Him
-
because I want you
-
to understand
-
He's willing
-
to give the supply.
-
Look back at our text
-
here this morning.
-
Notice this.
-
It says,
-
and a good man
-
shall be satisfied
-
from himself.
-
Notice this man.
-
He's good.
-
I want you to understand here
-
the implication
-
from this verse
-
is he's not good
-
of himself.
-
He's good
-
by the grace of God
-
that God,
-
the one who is good,
-
is lives within him.
-
He is not good
-
of his own merit,
-
but he's good
-
in the sense
-
that he has the one
-
that's good
-
that dwells within him
-
because he's satisfied
-
from himself,
-
not with himself.
-
Jesus made it clear
-
when he was talking
-
in Mark 10
-
where he says,
-
why callest thou me good?
-
There is none good
-
but one,
-
that is God.
-
He's satisfied
-
from himself,
-
not with himself.
-
He's good
-
because God
-
has made him new
-
and he's filled
-
with the Holy Spirit,
-
the one that is good.
-
You know,
-
I want you to understand
-
at the moment of salvation,
-
you become God's workmanship.
-
Ephesians chapter 2
Ephesians 2 chapter mention
-
tells us this,
-
for we are his workmanship
-
created in Christ Jesus
-
under good works
-
with God hath before ordained
-
that we should walk
-
in them.
-
Let me ask you a question.
-
How many have ever gone
-
to a car show
-
with old antique cars restored?
-
It's like going.
-
You like looking at the cars
-
and you appreciate
-
but you know what?
-
The true appreciation
-
isn't the car itself.
-
The true appreciation
-
you'll find
-
when you're looking at those
-
is the appreciation
-
of the craftsman
-
who rebuilt it.
-
In our life,
-
I want you to understand something,
-
it's the craftsman
-
that's rebuilding you
-
that makes the difference
-
and deserves the honor.
-
We are his workmanship.
-
He took that which is broken,
-
distant from him
-
and brought it in,
-
cleaned it up
-
and is restoring it.
-
Back in place
-
what he intended.
-
You know,
-
the interesting thing,
-
I'll just add this
-
about car shows
-
and things.
-
Oftentimes,
-
the cars you see there
-
look better than they did
-
when they were new
-
because the craftsman
-
had better intention
-
to detail
-
on it
-
than even the original maker.
-
You know what?
-
God,
-
when Jesus comes in,
-
he pays attention
-
to every detail.
-
He's going to
-
work through
-
every little nuance.
-
Is this individual
-
satisfied from himself?
-
His joy is not
-
in the circumstances
-
of life,
-
but in the one
-
that saved
-
and restored him.
-
It's not dependence
-
upon the praise
-
of others.
-
He is secure
-
as a child of God.
-
He is filled
-
instead with faith
-
and hope
-
and love,
-
rejoicing in a good conscience
-
and a great testimony.
-
This morning,
-
I want you to consider
-
where you are
-
in your life
-
and your walk
-
with Christ.
-
One,
-
do you know
-
him as Savior?
-
Because if you never
-
began a walk
-
with Christ,
-
all the things
-
we talked about today
-
don't make a difference.
-
You can't backslide
-
in sin
-
if you were never
-
his child.
-
You're already
-
a slave to sin.
-
You're already
-
in your trespasses
-
and sins.
-
If you don't know
-
Christ as your Savior,
-
I'd encourage you
-
to say,
-
Lord,
-
today I recognize
-
who you are,
-
who I am,
-
and what you've done
-
for me.
-
And the Bible says,
-
whosoever shall call
-
upon the name
-
of the Lord
-
shall be saved.
-
That's the starting point.
-
But if you know
-
beyond a shadow
-
of a doubt
-
there was a time
-
that you could draw
-
a circle around
-
and say,
-
I know this is when
-
I called upon Christ
-
to save me,
-
recognizing I was a sinner.
-
The question is,
-
what are you doing forward?
-
What are you pressing
-
for?
-
Are you being obedient
-
to the things of God?
-
You know,
-
the first step of faith
-
is to be properly baptized.
-
You know,
-
you can be improperly
-
get wet.
-
We won't get in deep
-
on that one today.
-
To understand that
-
God has a means
-
and a way
-
and a purpose
-
for baptism.
-
It has to be done
-
under His authority
-
and His picture,
-
His image.
-
There's a lot of elements
-
of it that needs to be done.
-
And sometimes people
-
stumble at that.
-
The first step
-
of obedience.
-
That's just the beginning
-
of pressing
-
towards the mark.
-
To press towards the mark
-
is to say,
-
Lord,
-
I want to allow You
-
to transform
-
and change my life
-
and when I slip away
-
I need to come
-
and confess
-
and forsake those things
-
and say,
-
Lord,
-
I seek
-
and desire
-
for You
-
to restore me
-
once again.
-
Turn You away.
-
This morning
-
are you pressing
-
towards the mark?
-
Mark.
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You're not
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the big backslider.
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You're not
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the David
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at this point.
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You're not
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the Judas.
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But you know
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the majority
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of people
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fall into
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the third category
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of being
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a backslider
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in heart.
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This morning.
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Pressing towards
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the mark?
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Being filled
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with the Spirit
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of God?
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Or is your heart
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being filled
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with yourself?
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What about you
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today?
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His heads are bowed
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and eyes are closed?
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I spoke to you
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about some things
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in your life.
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There's a lack
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of faith.
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There's a lack
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of just moving
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forward
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in the things
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of God.
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You know,
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maybe you say,
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well,
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my relationship
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to God
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has kind of
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plateaued.
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You know what
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you need to ask,
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Lord?
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What do I need
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to deal with?
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What's hindering
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this going forward?
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What's causing
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me to slide
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backwards?
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What place
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of faith
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do I need
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to take?
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What step
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of obedience
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do I need
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to put
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into action?
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Lord,
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what thing
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do I need
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to do away
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with that's
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distracting and
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filling me
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with things
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that shouldn't
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do today?
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Heavenly
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Fathers,
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we just give
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a commitment
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time here,
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Lord,
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to think
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and consider
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on this
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reality
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of the
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backslider.
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Be restored
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to you
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as we come
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and we confess
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and forsake
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those things
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to you.
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Lord,
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that the joy
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of our salvation
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may be restored.
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A zeal,
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a drive for you,
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trusting you
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day to day,
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hour by hour,
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minute by minute.
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Each heart today,
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Lord,
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I pray that your
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spirit would just
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work.
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Lord,
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I pray that they
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would be obedient
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to what the spirit
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tells them today.
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And Lord,
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we ask it all
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in your precious name.
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Amen.
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As heads are bowed,