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The Backslider

Plains Baptist Church

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  1. Proverbs chapter 14 this morning.

    Proverbs 14 chapter mention

  2. You know, as you read through the Proverbs,

  3. ! the Proverbs cover a lot of territory.

  4. Because the reality is, if you're not going forward,

  5. you're sliding backwards.

  6. You know, oftentimes we think we're being static

  7. or just staying stable.

  8. But, you know, the reality of life spiritually,

  9. if you're not moving forward with the Lord,

  10. you're sliding backwards.

  11. Because it has to do with our attitude and our spirit

  12. about the things of God.

  13. And we understand, we're going to look at this this morning,

  14. it's something that you ought to be concerned with as a believer.

  15. In your life, because we're going to look here this morning

  16. about what it is when the Bible talks about being a backslider.

  17. You know, you might have something that comes into mind

  18. when you hear that or that term is used.

  19. I know it's not something we use very often anymore.

  20. I remember growing up, it was a term used all the time.

  21. I mean, it's a good biblical term

  22. because it's a biblical description of what's taking place.

  23. And so if you found Proverbs chapter 14 this morning,

    Proverbs 14 chapter mention

  24. let's stand together as we'll read verse 14.

  25. And then we'll get into the message here this morning.

  26. And this is what we want to look at here today in verse 14.

  27. It says,

  28. Let's pray.

  29. Heavenly Fathers, we come before you this morning.

  30. Lord, we're thankful.

  31. Lord, we're thankful that you love us enough.

  32. Lord, even when we do backslide,

  33. Lord, that you will restore.

  34. Lord, you'll forgive.

  35. Lord, we pray that you just would be with each one here today.

  36. Lord, as we look and consider this term,

  37. this direction that you've given here

  38. about the backslider in heart.

  39. Lord, we pray that you would just guide the message,

  40. give the words to say.

  41. Lord, help to stir our hearts.

  42. Lord, we might not just look at others,

  43. but Lord, that this message might be introspective to ourselves.

  44. Lord, that we might think about the areas of our life,

  45. Lord, that need what we're going to speak about here today.

  46. And Lord, we pray that you just would bless,

  47. and that, Lord, your spirit would do its work here today in a mighty way.

  48. And Lord, we ask it all in your precious name.

  49. Amen.

  50. May we be seated.

  51. You know, we understand that term backslider, you know.

  52. And we find that a backslider is going to be described in this verse very clearly

  53. because this verse sets two very different men in contrast.

  54. Because it talks about a backslider, and it also talks about a good man.

  55. And we're going to talk about what it's referencing there

  56. and what makes the difference in that

  57. because that's important to understand.

  58. Again, because it shows that the same law holds for both

  59. because it talks about something very particular,

  60. and that's what's in the heart.

  61. You know, your heart

  62. is where everything takes place.

  63. You know, we talk about the heart.

  64. I'm not talking about your physical little ticker that keeps you alive.

  65. When the Bible's speaking about here in heart,

  66. it's talking about the core of who you are.

  67. It's speaking about why are you, you?

  68. You know, and we understand that a backslider

  69. and what he's been feeding on makes a difference,

  70. and what a good man is filled with

  71. is what the Lord puts within him.

  72. You know, I want you to understand

  73. that oftentimes we think we mention backslider.

  74. Here, you think of all sorts of people.

  75. You know, how many can think of somebody

  76. who used to serve the Lord who doesn't anymore?

  77. Who was faithful and then is not faithful?

  78. You know, we can always think about those,

  79. but I want you to consider today

  80. as we go through this

  81. and talk about what the Bible has to say

  82. about being a backslider.

  83. You know, you can be a backslider

  84. that's faithful to church.

  85. You can be a backslider

  86. that might read your Bible every day.

  87. Because we're going to look and see what he means

  88. because it's greater

  89. than some of the things that we try to contrast it to.

  90. We try to elevate ourselves

  91. because I'm not like such and such,

  92. that therefore I'm not a backslider,

  93. I'm not this.

  94. I want you to understand

  95. that even every believer

  96. can backslide in their life.

  97. because if you're not moving forward,

  98. you're going backwards.

  99. And we're going to consider that here this morning

  100. because we understand something

  101. because a backslider suggests

  102. that there had been a time in the past

  103. when something had caused forward progress

  104. to take place.

  105. You know, that's the only way you can slide backwards

  106. if you're moving away from where you once were.

  107. So you've had to arrive someplace

  108. in order to go backwards.

  109. to move away from.

  110. That's what it's talking about there,

  111. to withdraw from.

  112. And so we know and understand,

  113. I want you to,

  114. I'm going to make something clear

  115. at the beginning here

  116. because when we talk about a backslider,

  117. we know that the starting point

  118. is the moment somebody calls upon Jesus for salvation.

  119. because you cannot backslide from God

  120. if you're first not God's child.

  121. You know, I want you to understand,

  122. we're not talking about the wicked of the world,

  123. we're talking about those

  124. who have been washed and redeemed

  125. by the precious blood of Jesus Christ.

  126. Because that's two different people.

  127. When he's talking about a backslider here,

  128. I want you to understand what he's looking at

  129. and what he's comparing to

  130. because that forward progress of salvation

  131. happens every time somebody comes

  132. to know the Lord as their personal Savior.

  133. At that moment, you have made progress,

  134. you've been made a new creature in Christ,

  135. you've been changed,

  136. you've been transformed.

  137. Backsliding is moving from that.

  138. And we're not talking about losing your salvation.

  139. We're talking about things that keep or hinder

  140. your relationship with God.

  141. That fire and that zeal

  142. that you might have once had in your life.

  143. You know, that forward progress

  144. as a new creature in Christ,

  145. and as we walk with him,

  146. a walk that's designed to move forward

  147. and to be conformed to his image.

  148. You know, you think about this for a moment.

  149. Go back in the Old Testament

  150. to Jeremiah chapter 8 for a moment.

    Jeremiah 8 chapter mention

  151. Because here, Judah is seen as an example of this.

  152. They've been established by the Lord,

  153. his people that were to be obedient

  154. to the word of the Lord,

  155. and yet they started out that way.

  156. Yet we see them slide back,

  157. and in the days of Jeremiah the prophet,

  158. he makes this declaration.

  159. He says, why then is this people of Jerusalem

  160. slidden back by a perpetual backsliding?

  161. They hold fast deceit.

  162. They refuse to return.

  163. You know what?

  164. God's talking about a heart problem

  165. that's taking place.

  166. A heart problem within that's causing a problem.

  167. They move from following the Lord

  168. to holding to deceit.

  169. You know, they were deceiving themselves.

  170. You know, we see that a lot.

  171. You know, people are good at deceiving themselves.

  172. That deception that there's something that they're not.

  173. You know, matter of fact,

  174. we have people that even promote it.

  175. You just tell yourself you're that,

  176. and it'll come to fruition.

  177. You know what you're doing?

  178. You're deceiving yourself.

  179. Because who you are is what Christ has made you.

  180. Christ transforms you.

  181. He changes you.

  182. He makes you a new creature in Christ.

  183. And we understand that people can deceive themselves, though,

  184. and even a believer can be deceived.

  185. You know, because we understand

  186. that our decisions always have impact.

  187. Every decision, everything you hold to priority

  188. and deprioritize in your life

  189. makes an impact.

  190. Those things will alter the course of life.

  191. Proverbs chapter 1 tells us this in verse 31,

    Proverbs 1 chapter mention

  192. You know, I want you to understand,

  193. even as a believer,

  194. the decisions you make will impact your life.

  195. Being a believer doesn't insulate you

  196. from the result of sin.

  197. You know, just because you're a believer,

  198. if you break the law, guess what?

  199. You're going to pay the penalty.

  200. Here on this earth,

  201. you're going to have consequences.

  202. As a believer, we ought not.

  203. But, you know, sadly, that's not always the case

  204. because of exactly what we're going to look at here today,

  205. this dynamic of being a backslider.

  206. So I want you to understand,

  207. we're going to look at here today,

  208. what causes a believer to slide

  209. and what is the fix?

  210. You know?

  211. It's one thing to identify a problem.

  212. You know, the other thing is,

  213. is how do you fix it?

  214. You know?

  215. A complainer is somebody who comes with a problem.

  216. You know?

  217. Anybody can complain.

  218. But if you come with a problem,

  219. you ought to come with,

  220. hey, I've been thinking about this

  221. and here's a few suggestions or ideas

  222. on how to fix it.

  223. You know what?

  224. God tells us what happens when we're a backslider,

  225. but he also tells us how to get it fixed.

  226. How to resolve the issue.

  227. Because let's look at the cause here this morning.

  228. Notice what the text tells us here,

  229. the backslider in heart.

  230. It begins by simply having less faith,

  231. less love,

  232. less zeal.

  233. You know?

  234. I want you to understand,

  235. this message isn't about somebody else,

  236. it's about me and about you.

  237. Because I want you to understand,

  238. the preacher isn't exempt

  239. from what I'm talking about this morning.

  240. Because it's easy for our heart

  241. to grab a hold of things

  242. and be distracted by many things.

  243. And we have to guard our heart.

  244. I want you to understand,

  245. most of us will never walk away

  246. from the Lord altogether.

  247. But if we're honest,

  248. every one of us has drifted at some point

  249. since we were saved

  250. and needed to be restored.

  251. Because you know why?

  252. Each of us have a tendency

  253. to be filled with our own ways.

  254. Our own desires,

  255. our own thinking.

  256. It begins when a believer declines

  257. in any degree.

  258. You know, by having less faith.

  259. Don't trust the Lord

  260. in exactly what He said.

  261. You know, this is a big issue

  262. in our life as a believer.

  263. Because you can know

  264. what God's Word says,

  265. and you know what you ought to do,

  266. but you consciously say,

  267. fill in the blank,

  268. I can't because.

  269. Or worse yet,

  270. I won't because.

  271. You know what happens?

  272. You begin to slide back.

  273. You begin to slide,

  274. to withdraw from the Lord.

  275. It creates a barrier.

  276. When we understand that dynamic,

  277. it begins when we decline

  278. with less faith,

  279. less love for the Lord,

  280. less zeal in our walk for the Lord.

  281. You know, think about Hebrews chapter 3

    Hebrews 3 chapter mention

  282. for a moment.

  283. Look at Hebrews chapter 3.

    Hebrews 3 chapter mention

  284. It tells us in verse 12,

  285. it tells us,

  286. it says,

  287. take heed, brethren,

  288. lest there be any of you

  289. an evil heart of unbelief

  290. in departing from the living God.

  291. But exhort one another daily

  292. while it is called day,

  293. lest any of you be hardened

  294. through the deceitfulness of sin.

  295. You know what?

  296. None of us are exempt.

  297. The devil wants to get you distracted

  298. from the Lord.

  299. He wants to create a barrier.

  300. He wants to create a separation.

  301. Now I'm not talking about

  302. losing your salvation.

  303. I just want to make that clear.

  304. I'm talking about a hindrance

  305. in relationship.

  306. Because we understand this

  307. on a practical level all the time.

  308. We all understand the reality

  309. of conflict in the family.

  310. Things that are unresolved

  311. cause a conflict in the family

  312. that cause a separation

  313. of fellowship.

  314. Until that's resolved,

  315. it cannot be in the fellowship

  316. designed the way it was intended.

  317. It doesn't change the relationship,

  318. but it definitely changes

  319. the fellowship.

  320. That's the dynamic

  321. when we have with salvation,

  322. with God,

  323. to understand the deceitfulness

  324. of sin.

  325. You know,

  326. Galatians,

  327. Paul tells him,

  328. you did run well

  329. who did hinder you

  330. that you should not obey

  331. the truth.

  332. Because I want you to see here,

  333. notice his name here,

  334. the backslider.

  335. It means he stopped

  336. pressing forward.

  337. Have you ever considered

  338. nobody slides up?

  339. You know,

  340. we never hear this,

  341. he's an upslider.

  342. That just don't happen,

  343. does it?

  344. We slide down.

  345. We slide down,

  346. going away.

  347. You know,

  348. I want you to understand,

  349. it results in going backwards.

  350. You'll notice something.

  351. Look at Philippians chapter 3

    Philippians 3 chapter mention

  352. for a moment.

  353. Because here we find

  354. the Apostle Paul.

  355. And he tells him here,

  356. at the church at Philippi,

  357. and he says this,

  358. and he says,

  359. brethren,

  360. I count not myself

  361. to have apprehended.

  362. Now notice,

  363. but this one thing I do,

  364. forgetting the things

  365. which are behind

  366. and reaching forth

  367. unto those things

  368. which are what?

  369. Before,

  370. now notice verse 14,

  371. this is a key.

  372. What's he say?

  373. I do what?

  374. I press towards the mark

  375. for the prize

  376. of the high calling of God

  377. in Christ Jesus.

  378. Think about this

  379. in contrast for a moment.

  380. What's Paul saying

  381. in his life?

  382. He says,

  383. I must continually do what?

  384. Press forward.

  385. Because if you're not

  386. pressing forward,

  387. guess what?

  388. You're sliding backwards.

  389. That's the reason

  390. we have to understand

  391. the picture here.

  392. He had to keep moving forward

  393. for if he did not,

  394. he would begin

  395. to slide backwards.

  396. The same as with

  397. my life and yours

  398. when we stop

  399. pressing forward

  400. to the high calling

  401. of Jesus Christ,

  402. and we can stop

  403. for all sorts of reasons.

  404. You know,

  405. sometimes we get complacent.

  406. Some very simple things.

  407. Complacency,

  408. I'm happy where I'm at.

  409. Let me put it another way.

  410. Well,

  411. I'm comfortable

  412. where I'm at.

  413. The Christian life

  414. ought to always be

  415. I'm never comfortable

  416. with where I am with God.

  417. There's always things

  418. God's working on

  419. in my life.

  420. that God's developing.

  421. The Bible tells us

  422. that we're to be

  423. conformed to His image.

  424. You know what?

  425. That takes a lot

  426. in our life,

  427. that sanctification

  428. that takes place.

  429. It's moving forward

  430. in that

  431. to allow God

  432. to continue to work

  433. and to guide.

  434. Complacency,

  435. you know,

  436. that less zeal.

  437. Or to look at ourselves

  438. first, you know.

  439. When you look at yourself,

  440. you know what you're doing?

  441. You're loving God less.

  442. Because you know,

  443. one of the problems

  444. we find in our world today

  445. is people say,

  446. love yourself.

  447. Fill yourself

  448. with yourself.

  449. You know what God tells us?

  450. We need to be filled

  451. with His Spirit.

  452. Because that's what

  453. enables us to walk.

  454. That's what enables us

  455. to press forward.

  456. That's what enables us

  457. to live

  458. as God desires

  459. for us to live.

  460. Now,

  461. I want you to see here

  462. as we understand

  463. that, you know,

  464. sometimes

  465. it might be

  466. just not trusting

  467. or obeying

  468. the Lord

  469. in an area

  470. of your life.

  471. That's called

  472. less faith.

  473. When you know

  474. what God wants

  475. for you to do

  476. and what you ought to do

  477. but you're more concerned

  478. about what everybody else thinks

  479. or what you have thought

  480. about it

  481. instead of what God

  482. thinks about it.

  483. Like I said,

  484. this is going to get

  485. personal this morning.

  486. Because I want you

  487. to understand

  488. I'm not preaching

  489. at you,

  490. I'm preaching

  491. with you.

  492. Because you know what?

  493. This is just

  494. as big a problem

  495. in my life

  496. as it is yours.

  497. We need to understand

  498. the picture

  499. and the importance

  500. of this

  501. because sometimes

  502. we're held back

  503. when the truth

  504. of scripture

  505. doesn't fit

  506. what we have thought

  507. or considered

  508. and we resist it

  509. rather than submit to it.

  510. You know what you're doing?

  511. You're sliding backwards

  512. because you created

  513. something that's in conflict

  514. between you

  515. and your Savior.

  516. And notice

  517. where it starts.

  518. It starts,

  519. notice it,

  520. look back at our text,

  521. he said the backslider

  522. in what?

  523. Heart.

  524. I want you to understand

  525. backsliding begins

  526. in the heart.

  527. It begins within you

  528. and what you think

  529. and consider

  530. and how you trust God.

  531. Backsliding doesn't begin

  532. by an action

  533. that takes place.

  534. It takes place

  535. within the heart.

  536. You know,

  537. Proverbs chapter 4

    Proverbs 4 chapter mention

  538. and verse 23

  539. tells us this,

  540. keep thy heart

  541. with all diligence

  542. for out of it

  543. are the what?

  544. Issues of life.

  545. You know,

  546. as a believer,

  547. you don't have

  548. an action problem

  549. as much as you have

  550. a heart problem.

  551. Because the one thing

  552. I've learned in life,

  553. what people love

  554. and desire,

  555. they find a way to do.

  556. They will change,

  557. they will put away things,

  558. they'll put things off,

  559. they'll do all sorts of things

  560. for something

  561. that they desire to do,

  562. what their heart

  563. is pushing them,

  564. where their heart

  565. is placed.

  566. They will put that

  567. as a priority.

  568. It starts in the heart

  569. of an individual.

  570. individual.

  571. We know,

  572. you know,

  573. when we understand

  574. this picture

  575. of a physical heart,

  576. you know,

  577. we know that heart trouble

  578. is always serious

  579. whether it's your physical heart

  580. or the heart

  581. that the Bible talks

  582. about within you.

  583. You know,

  584. that's the reason

  585. the psalmist

  586. tells us this

  587. in Psalm 139.

  588. He says,

  589. search me,

  590. O God,

  591. and know my what?

  592. Heart.

  593. Try me

  594. and know my thoughts

  595. and see if there be what?

  596. any wicked way

  597. in me

  598. and lead me

  599. in thy way

  600. everlasting.

  601. You know what David's asking

  602. here?

  603. A very simple question.

  604. Lord,

  605. is there anything

  606. that's causing me

  607. to withhold

  608. or to draw back

  609. from you

  610. that needs to be dealt with?

  611. Let's give you a clue.

  612. That's a dangerous question

  613. because if you pray

  614. and ask God that,

  615. he's going to show you

  616. some things.

  617. You're going to have

  618. to make a decision.

  619. What are you going

  620. to do with it?

  621. Are you going to stay

  622. where you are,

  623. sliding back away,

  624. or are you going to

  625. press towards the mark?

  626. To press forward

  627. into what God would have.

  628. You know,

  629. high blood pressure

  630. is called the silent killer

  631. because it often

  632. has no symptoms.

  633. You know,

  634. for many people,

  635. the first sign

  636. is a heart attack.

  637. You know,

  638. I want you to understand

  639. a heart that's cooled

  640. from the things of God

  641. is going to slip away

  642. from Christ.

  643. And I want you to understand

  644. this idea of backsliding

  645. it's all good

  646. until it isn't.

  647. It's kind of like

  648. a heart attack.

  649. It was all good

  650. until it wasn't.

  651. You see people today,

  652. well,

  653. they were such a follower

  654. of Christ

  655. and all of a sudden

  656. this devastating thing

  657. comes out about them.

  658. You know what?

  659. That slide to that

  660. happened a long time

  661. before that.

  662. They didn't wake up

  663. one day.

  664. You know,

  665. in my lifetime,

  666. I've seen guys

  667. and preachers,

  668. once I went to school with,

  669. I had personal friends

  670. who left their wives.

  671. If you would talk to them,

  672. you would think

  673. they were godly.

  674. Everything was on track.

  675. Things were going good.

  676. But you know what?

  677. That decision

  678. to what happened

  679. didn't happen in a day.

  680. It happened

  681. when their heart

  682. began to backslide

  683. away from the thing

  684. slowly,

  685. slowly,

  686. slowly,

  687. and then it's manifest.

  688. Just like our physical heart,

  689. you can have a lot of things

  690. going inside

  691. that everything looks good

  692. until it isn't.

  693. You know,

  694. spiritually,

  695. in the life of a believer,

  696. that's exactly what happens too.

  697. Looks good,

  698. looks good,

  699. looks good.

  700. I want you to see here

  701. the course of what causes it

  702. because this is important

  703. because notice here

  704. what it says.

  705. We find these dynamics.

  706. It also says

  707. the backslider in heart

  708. shall be filled with what?

  709. His own ways.

  710. It's not hard to find people

  711. to say this is the way

  712. I think it ought to be.

  713. This is the way

  714. I think it ought to be done.

  715. I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I.

  716. Instead of saying,

  717. Lord, how do you want it done?

  718. How does it need to be done?

  719. What's your response to this?

  720. Because those things

  721. begin to happen

  722. in a,

  723. when we fill it up

  724. with our own ways.

  725. You know,

  726. oftentimes that might just be

  727. a preoccupation

  728. of something.

  729. You know,

  730. maybe it's business

  731. or social life

  732. or entertainment.

  733. And what it is,

  734. it begins to move in

  735. and to crowd out

  736. the things of God.

  737. To move away

  738. from the things of God.

  739. You know,

  740. that's the reason

  741. Jesus warned

  742. in Mark chapter 4

    Mark 4 chapter mention

  743. talking about,

  744. you know,

  745. sowing.

  746. And he talks here

  747. about sowing

  748. among the thorns

  749. such as hear the word.

  750. And the cares of this world

  751. and the deceitfulness

  752. of riches

  753. and the lust

  754. of other things

  755. entering in,

  756. choke the word

  757. and it becometh unfruitful.

  758. You know,

  759. he's describing somebody

  760. looking after their own way.

  761. You can know the truth

  762. and still look to your own way.

  763. To say,

  764. what do I want to do?

  765. How do I want to do it?

  766. What do I expect?

  767. You know what?

  768. The heart gives an accurate report.

  769. You know,

  770. how many of you ever looked

  771. at the little report

  772. on your phone

  773. that tells you

  774. how much you used it each day?

  775. How many hours

  776. you looked at it last week?

  777. How many didn't know

  778. your phone tracks that?

  779. Your phone tracks it.

  780. It can tell you

  781. how much time

  782. you spent looking at it.

  783. I encourage you

  784. to look at that

  785. for a moment

  786. and then consider

  787. something else

  788. when you say,

  789. I don't have time

  790. to pray

  791. or to read the Bible.

  792. Half what you look at

  793. on your phone,

  794. if not more,

  795. is probably not worth

  796. really looking at.

  797. Call it doom scrolling.

  798. Really,

  799. it's wasting time

  800. assuming

  801. those things.

  802. Look at this slide

  803. for a moment.

  804. Who knows what this is?

  805. Hey,

  806. it's in the back.

  807. It's a cuckoo bird.

  808. There's an interesting thing

  809. about a cuckoo bird

  810. because they're one

  811. of the few birds

  812. that don't nest.

  813. What they do

  814. is they find a nest

  815. of another bird,

  816. kick one of the eggs out

  817. and put their egg in.

  818. Then they allow

  819. the other bird

  820. to hatch

  821. their young'un.

  822. And you know

  823. what the young'un does

  824. as soon as the young'un

  825. gets hatched?

  826. He turns around

  827. and boots the other chicks

  828. out of the nest

  829. that he might consume everything.

  830. You know what?

  831. Today,

  832. I think we have

  833. a lot of cuckoo birds

  834. in our life

  835. that have put things

  836. in our life

  837. that begin

  838. to consume

  839. our life

  840. that kicks out

  841. the things of God.

  842. We need to be careful

  843. because remember,

  844. where does it begin?

  845. In the heart

  846. of an individual.

  847. Secondly,

  848. we find

  849. self-justification.

  850. You know,

  851. one of the things

  852. of backsliding

  853. is when you start

  854. to defend sin

  855. and start calling it

  856. by kinder

  857. and gentler names.

  858. You know,

  859. we understand this

  860. in today's society.

  861. Society loves

  862. renaming things,

  863. you know.

  864. It's an alternative lifestyle.

  865. You know,

  866. we understand

  867. the big things.

  868. You know,

  869. think about what

  870. Isaiah chapter 5

    Isaiah 5 chapter mention

  871. tells us.

  872. He says,

  873. Woe unto them

  874. that call evil good

  875. and good evil

  876. that put darkness

  877. for light

  878. and light

  879. for darkness

  880. but that put bitter

  881. for sweet

  882. and sweet

  883. for bitter.

  884. You know,

  885. Proverbs 28

  886. tells us,

  887. He that covereth

  888. his sin

  889. shall not prosper

  890. and whosoever

  891. confesses

  892. and forsaketh

  893. them

  894. shall have mercy.

  895. Let's go back

  896. to our modern

  897. euphemisms

  898. that we use.

  899. You know,

  900. oftentimes people

  901. will start talking,

  902. I'm just processing.

  903. It's a good name

  904. for gossip.

  905. I'm just telling you

  906. about what somebody

  907. else did to me

  908. so I can process this.

  909. No,

  910. you're gossiping

  911. about something.

  912. You know,

  913. greed gets re-masked

  914. in business,

  915. I'm just building

  916. my brand.

  917. I mean,

  918. we're masters

  919. at moving things

  920. to where it

  921. some way

  922. becomes

  923. acceptable.

  924. You know,

  925. you think about

  926. today,

  927. there's people,

  928. we have a generation

  929. who's seeking

  930. and looking

  931. for answers

  932. and you know

  933. what the world

  934. tells them?

  935. Don't turn to God,

  936. turn to self.

  937. You know,

  938. you have people

  939. that say,

  940. well,

  941. I didn't come

  942. to church today

  943. because I need

  944. some little self-care.

  945. You know,

  946. I want to do

  947. what I want to do.

  948. That's my time.

  949. You know,

  950. they may be a believer

  951. but you know

  952. what it is?

  953. They're starting

  954. to slide.

  955. It may be subtle,

  956. it may be small,

  957. but it's definitely

  958. something that takes place.

  959. You know,

  960. indulgence.

  961. Where little matters

  962. give way

  963. to known sin

  964. and one sin

  965. leads to another.

  966. You know,

  967. we have a great example

  968. of this in the Bible.

  969. David.

  970. David was a man

  971. after God's own heart

  972. but when he began

  973. to slide back

  974. from the things of God,

  975. not doing what

  976. he was supposed to do,

  977. doing what God

  978. had instructed him

  979. to do,

  980. taking care of the things

  981. God had told him

  982. to take care of,

  983. he gets caught up

  984. in adultery.

  985. I want you to understand

  986. the David and Bathsheba

  987. thing wasn't

  988. a moment decision.

  989. It began

  990. in David's heart

  991. a long time before that.

  992. And then the ramifications

  993. always take you farther.

  994. He ended up

  995. having

  996. a faithful man

  997. killed.

  998. And when Nathan

  999. the prophet

  1000. came and pointed out

  1001. to David,

  1002. David was mad

  1003. and then Nathan

  1004. looked at him

  1005. and said,

  1006. well,

  1007. it's you.

  1008. You know,

  1009. David had a decision

  1010. to make right there.

  1011. He knew he had

  1012. slid away from God

  1013. but yet we find

  1014. David said,

  1015. Lord,

  1016. I've sinned

  1017. against you.

  1018. When we understand

  1019. the ramifications,

  1020. the indulgence

  1021. that brought that away.

  1022. You know,

  1023. in Psalm 32

  1024. it tells us this,

  1025. when I kept silence,

  1026. my bones waxed old

  1027. through all the roaring

  1028. all my day long.

  1029. For day and night

  1030. my hand

  1031. was heavy upon me

  1032. and my moisture

  1033. has turned into

  1034. the drought of summer.

  1035. Say,

  1036. you know what happens?

  1037. When sin of indulgence

  1038. happens,

  1039. it begins to dry up

  1040. your life.

  1041. You slid into a desert.

  1042. And we see this happening

  1043. but I want you

  1044. to understand

  1045. that this is the slope

  1046. that we go down.

  1047. We begin to indulge

  1048. but you know what?

  1049. If you're a child of God

  1050. there's another thing

  1051. going to happen

  1052. and that's called

  1053. chastisement.

  1054. Correction.

  1055. God's going to correct you.

  1056. You know,

  1057. one of the things

  1058. I've learned

  1059. that if you don't see

  1060. God correcting somebody,

  1061. you might begin to wonder

  1062. are they really

  1063. a child of God?

  1064. Because you know what God

  1065. does to His children?

  1066. He corrects them.

  1067. They get correction

  1068. in their life.

  1069. The Lord will chastise

  1070. His own.

  1071. You know,

  1072. Hebrews chapter 12

    Hebrews 12 chapter mention

  1073. makes it clear.

  1074. It's often when

  1075. our backsliding

  1076. we begin to eat

  1077. of the bread

  1078. of our own making,

  1079. we begin to think

  1080. that the things of God

  1081. are dead

  1082. or are not what we think

  1083. because we don't have

  1084. a relationship with Him

  1085. and we understand

  1086. the consequences

  1087. become both personal

  1088. and relational

  1089. to everybody else

  1090. around us.

  1091. You know,

  1092. Hebrews chapter 12

    Hebrews 12 chapter mention

  1093. tells us this,

  1094. For ye have forgotten

  1095. the exhortation

  1096. which speaketh unto you

  1097. as unto children.

  1098. My son,

  1099. despise not thou

  1100. the chastening of the Lord,

  1101. nor faint when

  1102. thou art rebuked of him

  1103. for whom the Lord

  1104. loveth,

  1105. he chastens

  1106. and discourages

  1107. every son

  1108. whom he receiveth.

  1109. You know,

  1110. oftentimes this is the point

  1111. the backslider

  1112. begins to look

  1113. elsewhere.

  1114. You know,

  1115. oftentimes today

  1116. I think we have

  1117. a lot of people

  1118. that are upset.

  1119. You know,

  1120. one of the terms

  1121. that I just,

  1122. I'm not quite sure

  1123. settled on how to deal with

  1124. is this whole thing

  1125. today of church hurt.

  1126. I've been church hurt.

  1127. I think it's another

  1128. one of them steps

  1129. of victim mentality

  1130. because if your relationship

  1131. to God

  1132. is based on a preacher,

  1133. you've got a problem.

  1134. Or some church

  1135. didn't do

  1136. what I expected it to do.

  1137. You know,

  1138. I want you,

  1139. I'm just going to put it

  1140. this way and put it out there.

  1141. To me,

  1142. oftentimes it becomes

  1143. selfishness

  1144. when it affects

  1145. our relationship

  1146. to God.

  1147. I'm not saying

  1148. those things don't happen,

  1149. but I want you

  1150. to understand

  1151. that that's

  1152. that person's sin.

  1153. God gives us things

  1154. that we ought to do

  1155. in those moments

  1156. and how to walk

  1157. through that.

  1158. And we need

  1159. to be obedient to it.

  1160. We don't have time

  1161. to get into all that

  1162. this morning.

  1163. You know,

  1164. you can start over

  1165. in Matthew chapter 18.

    Matthew 18 chapter mention

  1166. That'll give you

  1167. a good starting point.

  1168. But I want you

  1169. to understand

  1170. that often

  1171. when the backslider

  1172. begins to look elsewhere,

  1173. they consume things,

  1174. then try to compare

  1175. and they try to contrast

  1176. and they try to

  1177. self-justify.

  1178. You know,

  1179. it's like being

  1180. a restaurant critiquer

  1181. and all you ever do

  1182. is just taste,

  1183. never feed on things.

  1184. You know,

  1185. we live in a generation

  1186. today,

  1187. there's a lot of people

  1188. tasting on the things

  1189. of God,

  1190. but never feeding

  1191. on the Word of God.

  1192. You know,

  1193. a backslider,

  1194. when all these things

  1195. are left unchecked,

  1196. where does it end?

  1197. You know,

  1198. oftentimes we think

  1199. of backsliders,

  1200. we think of apostates,

  1201. you know.

  1202. Let's use Judas

  1203. for an example.

  1204. You know,

  1205. Judas walked with Jesus

  1206. for three and a half years.

  1207. Nobody had a clue

  1208. what was going on

  1209. in his heart.

  1210. He looked right,

  1211. he smelled right,

  1212. he talked right,

  1213. he dressed right,

  1214. he...

  1215. Ever thought about something?

  1216. Judas went out

  1217. and preached the gospel

  1218. to people.

  1219. He helped Jesus

  1220. feed people.

  1221. It's very likely

  1222. when you read

  1223. through the gospel

  1224. that the disciples

  1225. were sent out

  1226. with the ability

  1227. to heal people,

  1228. it's very likely

  1229. that Judas might have

  1230. even healed somebody.

  1231. You know,

  1232. the Bible doesn't

  1233. tell us that,

  1234. but being as the disciples

  1235. were given that,

  1236. when Jesus sent them out

  1237. to cast out devils

  1238. and to heal

  1239. and to take care

  1240. of things,

  1241. you know,

  1242. that Jesus enabled them

  1243. to do,

  1244. Judas had all

  1245. the right attributes.

  1246. Then he openly

  1247. forsakes the Lord.

  1248. His forward progress

  1249. was in profession only,

  1250. never in the heart.

  1251. You know,

  1252. when we understand

  1253. that people will sometimes

  1254. put on a good show

  1255. and depart from,

  1256. you know,

  1257. John tells us this,

  1258. it says,

  1259. they went out from us

  1260. because they were not of us.

  1261. For if they'd been of us,

  1262. they would have no doubt

  1263. continued with us.

  1264. But they went out

  1265. that they might be made manifest

  1266. that they were not all of us.

  1267. When it comes to church,

  1268. remember one of the things

  1269. that Brother Ammon,

  1270. most of you here

  1271. might not remember

  1272. Brother Ammon,

  1273. the preacher before me,

  1274. but he always had

  1275. on his back of his door

  1276. of his office,

  1277. he said,

  1278. through these doors,

  1279. some are going,

  1280. be thankful for both.

  1281. And we sometimes had,

  1282. some people had a hard time

  1283. understanding that,

  1284. but you know what?

  1285. Sometimes there's people

  1286. who are putting on a show,

  1287. they're going to do nothing

  1288. but cause you a problem.

  1289. Sometimes you're just as thankful

  1290. to see them walk away

  1291. and not cause a problem

  1292. than they are to stick around

  1293. and cause a problem.

  1294. And if you hold to the truth,

  1295. you know what happens?

  1296. Oftentimes those people self-weed.

  1297. Take care of themselves.

  1298. You need to be thankful for it.

  1299. But I want you to understand the cure.

  1300. The cure is very simple.

  1301. The only way to regain ground

  1302. that's been lost in a slide

  1303. is to return to the Lord.

  1304. You know, think about

  1305. what John tells us very simply.

  1306. Here in 1 John 1 and verse 9,

  1307. he says,

  1308. if you confess our sins,

  1309. he is faithful and just

  1310. to forgive us our sins

  1311. and to cleanse us

  1312. from all unrighteousness.

  1313. Now let me give you

  1314. a little biblical context.

  1315. This is not a salvation verse.

  1316. 1 John is not talking

  1317. about salvation.

  1318. The book of 1 John

  1319. is talking about

  1320. our fellowship with God.

  1321. If you doubt what I say,

  1322. you can go ahead and read it.

  1323. The theme is fellowship.

  1324. Fellowship is different

  1325. than relationship.

  1326. You can be related to somebody

  1327. and have no fellowship.

  1328. The thing is,

  1329. you can have fellowship

  1330. and not be related.

  1331. Sometimes people have fellowship

  1332. with evil that ought not.

  1333. I want you to understand

  1334. that if we come to God,

  1335. He is always faithful

  1336. and just to forgive us our sins.

  1337. Why?

  1338. Because what Christ did

  1339. on the cross of Calvary

  1340. covered everything.

  1341. It's just and right

  1342. to forgive us our sins

  1343. because of what He has done.

  1344. Not by what we do

  1345. or what we've accomplished,

  1346. by what He's accomplished.

  1347. Confess it.

  1348. Don't cover it up.

  1349. Come to Him.

  1350. You know, press forward.

  1351. Come towards Him.

  1352. You know,

  1353. I want you to understand,

  1354. Jesus is waiting for you.

  1355. He hasn't moved.

  1356. If your relationship

  1357. has changed with the Lord,

  1358. you know what?

  1359. He didn't go anyplace.

  1360. He bled backwards.

  1361. Press towards the Lord

  1362. and acknowledge those things

  1363. that you've done

  1364. that hindered you

  1365. in your walk with the Lord.

  1366. You know,

  1367. you think about

  1368. the prodigal son,

  1369. that picture.

  1370. You know what?

  1371. He had to come to Himself.

  1372. He had to come to the place

  1373. that He realized

  1374. and knew that He had sinned

  1375. and that He had sinned

  1376. against God.

  1377. He had sinned

  1378. against His Father.

  1379. You know,

  1380. David,

  1381. when he's confessing to God

  1382. in Psalm 51,

  1383. you'll find

  1384. he didn't have

  1385. an easy road.

  1386. You know,

  1387. he asked God

  1388. and he longed

  1389. for the restoration

  1390. of the joy

  1391. of His salvation.

  1392. God's Spirit within him

  1393. to fill him,

  1394. to control him,

  1395. to impact his life.

  1396. Think about the story

  1397. of the prodigal son.

  1398. You know what?

  1399. The Father,

  1400. there's a great picture of God

  1401. because when you return,

  1402. you know what?

  1403. He's ready to meet you.

  1404. Not to beat you up,

  1405. not to beat you down,

  1406. not to tell you

  1407. all the things you did wrong,

  1408. but to tell you,

  1409. welcome home.

  1410. God wants you

  1411. to return to Him

  1412. because I want you

  1413. to understand

  1414. He's willing

  1415. to give the supply.

  1416. Look back at our text

  1417. here this morning.

  1418. Notice this.

  1419. It says,

  1420. and a good man

  1421. shall be satisfied

  1422. from himself.

  1423. Notice this man.

  1424. He's good.

  1425. I want you to understand here

  1426. the implication

  1427. from this verse

  1428. is he's not good

  1429. of himself.

  1430. He's good

  1431. by the grace of God

  1432. that God,

  1433. the one who is good,

  1434. is lives within him.

  1435. He is not good

  1436. of his own merit,

  1437. but he's good

  1438. in the sense

  1439. that he has the one

  1440. that's good

  1441. that dwells within him

  1442. because he's satisfied

  1443. from himself,

  1444. not with himself.

  1445. Jesus made it clear

  1446. when he was talking

  1447. in Mark 10

  1448. where he says,

  1449. why callest thou me good?

  1450. There is none good

  1451. but one,

  1452. that is God.

  1453. He's satisfied

  1454. from himself,

  1455. not with himself.

  1456. He's good

  1457. because God

  1458. has made him new

  1459. and he's filled

  1460. with the Holy Spirit,

  1461. the one that is good.

  1462. You know,

  1463. I want you to understand

  1464. at the moment of salvation,

  1465. you become God's workmanship.

  1466. Ephesians chapter 2

    Ephesians 2 chapter mention

  1467. tells us this,

  1468. for we are his workmanship

  1469. created in Christ Jesus

  1470. under good works

  1471. with God hath before ordained

  1472. that we should walk

  1473. in them.

  1474. Let me ask you a question.

  1475. How many have ever gone

  1476. to a car show

  1477. with old antique cars restored?

  1478. It's like going.

  1479. You like looking at the cars

  1480. and you appreciate

  1481. but you know what?

  1482. The true appreciation

  1483. isn't the car itself.

  1484. The true appreciation

  1485. you'll find

  1486. when you're looking at those

  1487. is the appreciation

  1488. of the craftsman

  1489. who rebuilt it.

  1490. In our life,

  1491. I want you to understand something,

  1492. it's the craftsman

  1493. that's rebuilding you

  1494. that makes the difference

  1495. and deserves the honor.

  1496. We are his workmanship.

  1497. He took that which is broken,

  1498. distant from him

  1499. and brought it in,

  1500. cleaned it up

  1501. and is restoring it.

  1502. Back in place

  1503. what he intended.

  1504. You know,

  1505. the interesting thing,

  1506. I'll just add this

  1507. about car shows

  1508. and things.

  1509. Oftentimes,

  1510. the cars you see there

  1511. look better than they did

  1512. when they were new

  1513. because the craftsman

  1514. had better intention

  1515. to detail

  1516. on it

  1517. than even the original maker.

  1518. You know what?

  1519. God,

  1520. when Jesus comes in,

  1521. he pays attention

  1522. to every detail.

  1523. He's going to

  1524. work through

  1525. every little nuance.

  1526. Is this individual

  1527. satisfied from himself?

  1528. His joy is not

  1529. in the circumstances

  1530. of life,

  1531. but in the one

  1532. that saved

  1533. and restored him.

  1534. It's not dependence

  1535. upon the praise

  1536. of others.

  1537. He is secure

  1538. as a child of God.

  1539. He is filled

  1540. instead with faith

  1541. and hope

  1542. and love,

  1543. rejoicing in a good conscience

  1544. and a great testimony.

  1545. This morning,

  1546. I want you to consider

  1547. where you are

  1548. in your life

  1549. and your walk

  1550. with Christ.

  1551. One,

  1552. do you know

  1553. him as Savior?

  1554. Because if you never

  1555. began a walk

  1556. with Christ,

  1557. all the things

  1558. we talked about today

  1559. don't make a difference.

  1560. You can't backslide

  1561. in sin

  1562. if you were never

  1563. his child.

  1564. You're already

  1565. a slave to sin.

  1566. You're already

  1567. in your trespasses

  1568. and sins.

  1569. If you don't know

  1570. Christ as your Savior,

  1571. I'd encourage you

  1572. to say,

  1573. Lord,

  1574. today I recognize

  1575. who you are,

  1576. who I am,

  1577. and what you've done

  1578. for me.

  1579. And the Bible says,

  1580. whosoever shall call

  1581. upon the name

  1582. of the Lord

  1583. shall be saved.

  1584. That's the starting point.

  1585. But if you know

  1586. beyond a shadow

  1587. of a doubt

  1588. there was a time

  1589. that you could draw

  1590. a circle around

  1591. and say,

  1592. I know this is when

  1593. I called upon Christ

  1594. to save me,

  1595. recognizing I was a sinner.

  1596. The question is,

  1597. what are you doing forward?

  1598. What are you pressing

  1599. for?

  1600. Are you being obedient

  1601. to the things of God?

  1602. You know,

  1603. the first step of faith

  1604. is to be properly baptized.

  1605. You know,

  1606. you can be improperly

  1607. get wet.

  1608. We won't get in deep

  1609. on that one today.

  1610. To understand that

  1611. God has a means

  1612. and a way

  1613. and a purpose

  1614. for baptism.

  1615. It has to be done

  1616. under His authority

  1617. and His picture,

  1618. His image.

  1619. There's a lot of elements

  1620. of it that needs to be done.

  1621. And sometimes people

  1622. stumble at that.

  1623. The first step

  1624. of obedience.

  1625. That's just the beginning

  1626. of pressing

  1627. towards the mark.

  1628. To press towards the mark

  1629. is to say,

  1630. Lord,

  1631. I want to allow You

  1632. to transform

  1633. and change my life

  1634. and when I slip away

  1635. I need to come

  1636. and confess

  1637. and forsake those things

  1638. and say,

  1639. Lord,

  1640. I seek

  1641. and desire

  1642. for You

  1643. to restore me

  1644. once again.

  1645. Turn You away.

  1646. This morning

  1647. are you pressing

  1648. towards the mark?

  1649. Mark.

  1650. You're not

  1651. the big backslider.

  1652. You're not

  1653. the David

  1654. at this point.

  1655. You're not

  1656. the Judas.

  1657. But you know

  1658. the majority

  1659. of people

  1660. fall into

  1661. the third category

  1662. of being

  1663. a backslider

  1664. in heart.

  1665. This morning.

  1666. Pressing towards

  1667. the mark?

  1668. Being filled

  1669. with the Spirit

  1670. of God?

  1671. Or is your heart

  1672. being filled

  1673. with yourself?

  1674. What about you

  1675. today?

  1676. His heads are bowed

  1677. and eyes are closed?

  1678. I spoke to you

  1679. about some things

  1680. in your life.

  1681. There's a lack

  1682. of faith.

  1683. There's a lack

  1684. of just moving

  1685. forward

  1686. in the things

  1687. of God.

  1688. You know,

  1689. maybe you say,

  1690. well,

  1691. my relationship

  1692. to God

  1693. has kind of

  1694. plateaued.

  1695. You know what

  1696. you need to ask,

  1697. Lord?

  1698. What do I need

  1699. to deal with?

  1700. What's hindering

  1701. this going forward?

  1702. What's causing

  1703. me to slide

  1704. backwards?

  1705. What place

  1706. of faith

  1707. do I need

  1708. to take?

  1709. What step

  1710. of obedience

  1711. do I need

  1712. to put

  1713. into action?

  1714. Lord,

  1715. what thing

  1716. do I need

  1717. to do away

  1718. with that's

  1719. distracting and

  1720. filling me

  1721. with things

  1722. that shouldn't

  1723. do today?

  1724. Heavenly

  1725. Fathers,

  1726. we just give

  1727. a commitment

  1728. time here,

  1729. Lord,

  1730. to think

  1731. and consider

  1732. on this

  1733. reality

  1734. of the

  1735. backslider.

  1736. Be restored

  1737. to you

  1738. as we come

  1739. and we confess

  1740. and forsake

  1741. those things

  1742. to you.

  1743. Lord,

  1744. that the joy

  1745. of our salvation

  1746. may be restored.

  1747. A zeal,

  1748. a drive for you,

  1749. trusting you

  1750. day to day,

  1751. hour by hour,

  1752. minute by minute.

  1753. Each heart today,

  1754. Lord,

  1755. I pray that your

  1756. spirit would just

  1757. work.

  1758. Lord,

  1759. I pray that they

  1760. would be obedient

  1761. to what the spirit

  1762. tells them today.

  1763. And Lord,

  1764. we ask it all

  1765. in your precious name.

  1766. Amen.

  1767. As heads are bowed,