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  1. Today's reading is from Philippians chapter 1

    Philippians 1:3–11

  2. verses 3 to 11. I thank my God every time I remember

  3. you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always

  4. pray with joy because of your partnership in

  5. the gospel from the first day until now. Being

  6. confident of this, that he who began a good work

  7. in you will carry it on to completion until the

  8. day of Christ Jesus. It is right for me to feel

  9. this way about all of you since I have you in

  10. my heart whether I am in chains or defending

  11. and confirming the gospel. All of you share in

  12. God's grace with me. God can testify how I long

  13. for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.

  14. And this is my prayer. that your love may abound

  15. more and more in knowledge and depth of insight,

  16. so that you may be able to discern what is best

  17. and may be pure and blameless for the day of

  18. Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness

  19. that comes through Jesus Christ to the glory

  20. and praise of God. The word of the Lord. Hey,

  21. if I were to ask you to write a little note,

  22. a Thanksgiving note, if you will, and if I were

  23. to say, hey, write down five or ten things on

  24. this little note card I've got for you about

  25. things that you are thankful for, what would

  26. you write down? Now, before you answer that,

  27. I dare say I can guess what you might write down.

  28. Some of you would write down, I'm thankful for

  29. family or for friends. I'm thankful for my home.

  30. I'm thankful for my health. People would definitely

  31. put health on there. They would say, I'm thankful

  32. for food on the table, for a job. Maybe there

  33. was something special that happened this year.

  34. Like maybe you have a new grandchild. I'm thankful

  35. for that. Maybe you went on a vacation. You could

  36. say, I'm thankful for that. And those are all

  37. really, really good things to put on your thank

  38. you note. But what if I handed that same thank

  39. you note to the Apostle Paul? And I said, Paul,

  40. I want you to write down on this piece of paper

  41. all the things that you are thankful for. You

  42. know, I wonder what he might write down. And

  43. you might be wondering, what a strange question.

  44. Why is he wanting to know what the apostle Paul

  45. would write on a thank you note? Well, the reason

  46. is that we have been actually studying Paul's

  47. life over the last few weeks. If you don't know

  48. anything about Paul, I'll just give you a little

  49. quick rundown. About 2 ,000 years ago, Paul was

  50. a great persecutor of early Christianity. He

  51. wanted to stamp it out. But then he had an encounter

  52. with the risen Jesus and his life changed completely.

  53. And so we have been trying to study like, what

  54. did that life change look like? And what was

  55. Paul's personality like? What was his attitude

  56. like? What were his travels like? And today I'm

  57. asking, what was his heart like? What kind of

  58. things would Paul write down in his little thank

  59. you card? Well, the funny thing is, we don't

  60. actually have to wonder about that. Because Paul

  61. already wrote not just one, not just two, but

  62. 13 thank you notes that we can look at. And of

  63. course, I'm talking about the 13 letters of Paul

  64. that we have in our New Testament. You see, sometimes

  65. we forget that most of the New Testament is male.

  66. And most of it is Paul's mail. It's letters that

  67. he sent to churches. He sent letters to churches

  68. like the church in Rome. He sent it to the church

  69. in Corinth, Galatia, the church in Ephesus, in

  70. Philippi, which we just read a letter that he

  71. wrote to Philippi, and Colossae, and Thessalonica.

  72. He sent a couple of letters to them, but he also

  73. sent letters to friends and coworkers. He sent

  74. a couple of letters to this guy named Tim. He

  75. sent one to a guy named Titus and somebody else

  76. named Philemon. And so, yeah, it turns out that,

  77. you know, Paul wrote a lot, a lot of letters

  78. that fills up our New Testament. And here is

  79. the thing. If you read Paul's letters, there

  80. is a word in Greek that comes up again and again

  81. and again. And that word is Eucharistio. Eucharistio.

  82. And in English, that translates into, I give.

  83. Thanks. I give thanks. And in some form, that

  84. word shows up 25 times in the 13 letters that

  85. Paul wrote to people, which actually means that

  86. Paul was exactly the type of person who loved

  87. to write thank you notes to people. In fact,

  88. it was so important to Paul to write these thank

  89. you notes that he often would put his thank you

  90. right at the very beginning of his letter. So,

  91. for example, in Paul's letter to the Roman church,

  92. he writes this right off the top. He says, first.

  93. I thank my God through Jesus Christ for all of

  94. you. Or in his letter to Corinth, right off the

  95. bat, I always thank my God for you. Or even in

  96. today's letter, the letter to the Philippians,

  97. right out of the gate in Philippians 1, 3, Paul

  98. is like, I thank my God every time that I remember

  99. you. So basically, The common format of Paul's

  100. letters is to say, dear church or dear friend,

  101. and then say, I thank my God for you. I thank

  102. God for you. Now, there is one notable exception,

  103. and that is the letter that he wrote to the church

  104. in Galatia. In that letter, he doesn't write,

  105. you know, dear church, you know, I thank my God

  106. for you. In that one, he writes, dang it, church.

  107. What's wrong with you? And he's got some beef

  108. with Galatia. You go home and you can read it

  109. and you can see what that was all about. But

  110. actually, the thing is, even that proves the

  111. point. Because whenever Paul doesn't start with

  112. thanksgiving, we're like, something's wrong.

  113. We notice it by its absence. But here's what

  114. caught my attention this week as I was thinking

  115. about today. And that is not the amount of times

  116. that Paul goes around giving thanks, but it's

  117. the type of thing that Paul thanks God for. In

  118. fact, I would say if I was to take Paul's thank

  119. you note and put it alongside your thank you

  120. note or my thank you note, they would be very,

  121. very different thank you notes. And you would

  122. say, well, what do you mean? Explain. Well, that's

  123. exactly what we're going to do this morning.

  124. This morning, we're going to open up and take

  125. a look at some of Paul's thank you notes. And

  126. we're going to see the kind of things that Paul

  127. was thankful for. As always, I gave you some

  128. little teaching notes here that you can kind

  129. of use to follow along and see what we can get

  130. out of this. All right, let's start with this.

  131. One of the things that Paul almost always seems

  132. to... thank people for is he was always thankful

  133. for signs of growing faith signs of growing faith

  134. in people just read through his letters and you

  135. will see it again and again and again okay let's

  136. take for example that letter to the romans i

  137. thank my god through jesus christ for all of

  138. you because you're say it with me Faith is being

  139. reported all over the world. Or how about this

  140. one to Ephesus? Ever since I heard about your

  141. faith in the Lord Jesus, I have not stopped giving

  142. thanks for you. Or this letter that he wrote

  143. to Colossae. We always thank God because we have

  144. heard of your, say it with me, faith in Christ

  145. Jesus. Or how about this one to the Thessalonians?

  146. We ought always to thank God for you because

  147. your faith Faith is growing more and more. Or

  148. he wrote this one letter to his buddy Philemon.

  149. He says, I always thank God as I remember you

  150. in my prayers because I hear about your love.

  151. What? Ah, no, he's there. And your faith in the

  152. Lord Jesus. Faith, faith, faith, faith, faith.

  153. When Paul sees faith. growing in people when

  154. he notices that people are changing when he sees

  155. that they're learning to trust jesus or that

  156. their faith is starting to affect the way they

  157. live he says that is cause for celebration that

  158. is cause for thanksgiving and that is interesting

  159. because i'll just speak for myself that is not

  160. usually the kind of thing that i'm including

  161. in my thank you notes to people We usually thank

  162. God that someone got a job, right? Paul thanks

  163. God that someone is learning to trust Jesus.

  164. We thank God that someone got better. They were

  165. sick and now they're better. Paul thanks God

  166. that somebody's becoming more patient. You know,

  167. we thank God that our kids are doing well in

  168. school. Paul would thank God that our kids are

  169. learning to pray. We thank God that, oh, great,

  170. you got your first home. Paul would thank God

  171. that somebody is becoming more generous, right?

  172. Paul gives thanks when he sees that lives are

  173. being changed because of the gospel. For him,

  174. that's... what he gives thanks for that's what

  175. he celebrates a person's becoming more loving

  176. they're becoming more forgiving they're becoming

  177. more prayerful they're becoming more generous

  178. they're becoming more rooted in christ his thank

  179. you notes are just chock full of this stuff you

  180. cannot miss it but this is actually really important

  181. to note paul is not giving thanks for perfect

  182. faith or flawless faith in people no no no just

  183. reads Say his letter to the Corinthians. The

  184. Corinthian church was a complete mess. They were

  185. divided. They were arguing. They were mishandling

  186. things like sex and money and leadership. And

  187. yet, and yet, before he corrects them about all

  188. their misdeeds, again, how does he start? He

  189. says, every time I think of you, I thank God

  190. for your lives. There's no end to what has happened

  191. in you. Dot, dot, dot. Yet. Yet I have a serious

  192. concern that I need to bring up with you. And

  193. this is remarkable, right? Paul can see everything

  194. that's still wrong there. But notice, he says,

  195. but I see God is at work here. And he doesn't

  196. thank God for perfect faith. What he's thanking

  197. God for is a growing faith. A sign that lives

  198. are... being changed. So if Paul was filling

  199. out a little thank you card, a little Thanksgiving

  200. card today, he would probably give thanks to,

  201. oh, there's that person who is struggling, but

  202. they're praying. Or there's that marriage that

  203. is really, really hard, but it's healing. Or

  204. there's that teenager who's got a lot of questions,

  205. but they're leaning into Jesus. Or there's someone

  206. with that old habit that keeps coming back, but

  207. you know what? This time, they're getting help.

  208. Or there's someone who was always afraid to serve,

  209. but you know what? They finally said yes. Or

  210. he may even say this. There's someone who came

  211. to church for the very first time this morning.

  212. There's someone who prayed for the very first

  213. time this week. Or there's somebody who opened

  214. their Bible for the first time in years. It doesn't

  215. look dramatic necessarily, but Paul would say,

  216. write that down, write that down and give thanks

  217. for that because any movement toward Jesus is

  218. a cause for gratitude. So I just want to say

  219. this Thanksgiving, don't just think of the good

  220. things that have happened in your life, but think,

  221. where have I seen God changing someone's life

  222. for the better, even in a little way? Where have

  223. I seen? faith growing and have i stopped to thank

  224. god for that that's what paul's thank you cards

  225. look like so paul gave thanks for growing faith

  226. signs of growing faith but there's something

  227. else that keeps showing up in paul's thank you

  228. list again and again not just signs of growing

  229. faith but people who join People who join in.

  230. So yeah, Paul writes, thank you, God, that their

  231. faith is growing. But he also says, thank you,

  232. God, that I am not in this alone. I'm not in

  233. this alone. People have joined in. And Paul had

  234. a word for that. And his word for that was partnership.

  235. Partnership. Listen again now to the opening

  236. of the letter to the Philippians. I thank my

  237. God every time I remember you because of your,

  238. say it with me. partnership in the gospel from

  239. the first day until now. Now that word partnership

  240. is another Greek word, obviously. And that word

  241. is koinonia, koinonia. And it means, it means

  242. participation. It means sharing. It means being

  243. in it together. And I think we understand this

  244. concept because whether it's raising a family

  245. or taking on a big project, Maybe you've taken

  246. on a big project in life or you're just trying

  247. to get through a tough time. You know how important

  248. it is to have people in your corner, to have

  249. people who are in it with you. And for Paul,

  250. that big project was the gospel, spreading the

  251. gospel of Jesus. And Paul... doesn't therefore

  252. just say, thank God that the Philippians are

  253. really, really nice people. No, he says, thank

  254. God that you have joined me. You've partnered

  255. with me in the work of the gospel. You have shared

  256. the burden. You have shared the cost. You're

  257. sharing the mission with me. And that partnership,

  258. by the way, it wasn't just a nice feeling. They

  259. prayed. but they also gave and they also sent

  260. help. Look, he says more than once, you know,

  261. you sent aid to me when I was in need. Same kind

  262. of thing shows up in other letters Paul wrote.

  263. So for example, when he's writing to Philemon,

  264. he says, I always thank God when I remember you.

  265. I pray that your partnership with us in the faith

  266. may be effective. Thank God for partnership.

  267. Thank God. for shared work. You know, you read

  268. Paul's letters and you keep coming across this

  269. word fellow, right? My fellow workers, my fellow

  270. soldiers in the faith, my fellow prisoners for

  271. the faith. Paul's ministry was never a solo act.

  272. People opened their homes to him. They gave money.

  273. They traveled with him. They sent help to him.

  274. They prayed for him. And so Paul gives thanks.

  275. For people who share the work. Paul's thanksgiving

  276. lists are not just things. They are people. He's

  277. thanking people for the way they share. Thank

  278. you, God, for Timothy who shared the work. Thank

  279. you, God, for Epaphroditus who shared the work.

  280. Thank you, God, for Philemon or for Priscilla

  281. or for Aquila or for all these people who join

  282. in. And I gotta tell you, I can relate to Paul

  283. on this. I feel the same way because I look around

  284. this church and I get to see all the people.

  285. who are partnering with us in ministry. People

  286. who lead, people who pray, people who give, people

  287. who cook, people who welcome, people who set

  288. up chairs, people who take down chairs, people

  289. who are downstairs, even right now, you know,

  290. working with our children, teaching our children,

  291. people who visit the sick, hungry people, people

  292. who feed hungry people, right? There's people

  293. who show up all the time here at Trinity Streetsville.

  294. That means a lot to me, but I know for you personally,

  295. you probably can think of people who have partnered

  296. with you. Who partnered with you in your faith?

  297. Who was the first person to invite you to church?

  298. Who taught you to pray? Who's teaching your kids

  299. to pray? Who encouraged you? Who sat with you

  300. when your life started to fall apart? Who answered

  301. your questions? None of us. None of us. Follow

  302. Jesus alone. So if your Thanksgiving notes are

  303. going to look anything like Paul's, then you'd

  304. be thanking God for the people who've said, you

  305. know what? I'm in this with you, right? You're

  306. not alone. Let's do this together. So Paul gives

  307. thanks for the signs of growth. He sees in people.

  308. That's number one. Secondly, he gives thanks

  309. for people who join in. But there's one more

  310. thing I want to talk about this morning. And

  311. that is that Paul. also gives thanks for the

  312. wider impact of the gospel. You see, Paul looks

  313. beyond the people and he looks beyond the churches

  314. and he sees the effect that it's having on the

  315. world and he gives thanks for that. Paul calls

  316. this impact fruit. Fruit, right? The gospel gets

  317. planted somewhere. It starts to grow. Love starts

  318. to increase. Communities form. And pretty soon

  319. there are ripples and the world now is being

  320. changed. The world is being impacted. And Paul

  321. says, thank God for that. You can hear it in

  322. his letter to the Romans. First, I thank my God

  323. through Jesus Christ for all of you because your

  324. faith is being reported all over. The world.

  325. The world? Yes, the world. You can hear it in

  326. Colossians where he says, he says that you're,

  327. no, where's my Colossians one? I thought I, no,

  328. I guess I didn't put it up there. Sorry. And

  329. in Philippians, the one we read this morning,

  330. Philippians, Paul says that he prays that their

  331. love will keep growing so that they will be filled

  332. with, again, there's that word, fruit, the fruit

  333. of righteousness that comes. from Jesus Christ.

  334. Fruit, right? So Paul gives thanks whenever faith

  335. ripples outward and whenever it starts to make

  336. a difference in the world. So again, if Paul

  337. were writing the thank you note this morning,

  338. he wouldn't just talk about the things that he's

  339. thankful for. And he wouldn't just talk about

  340. the people that he's thankful for, but he would

  341. be thankful for the impact. that the gospel and

  342. you and the church are making in the world. Thank

  343. God, Paul would say, when lonely people are finding

  344. community here. Or thank God when hungry people

  345. are getting food and a warm meal here. Or thank

  346. God when young people are finding a purpose.

  347. And notice Paul, he never says... You know, look

  348. at what we did, everybody. Look at the impact

  349. Trinity Streetsville is making. Nobody says,

  350. look what God did. Thank God for the impact.

  351. He's not proud of this. He is thankful for this.

  352. And we are so used to giving thanks when something

  353. good happens to us. But Paul, he gives thanks

  354. when something good happens through us. We give

  355. thanks when our circumstances change for the

  356. better, but Paul gives thanks when the world

  357. is changed for the better. Do you see how different

  358. it is? Do you see how different Paul's thank

  359. you lists are? His thank you cards don't look

  360. a lot like mine and probably don't look a lot

  361. like yours. He gives thanks when he sees signs

  362. of growing faith in people's lives. He gives

  363. thanks for people who share in the work of ministry.

  364. And he gives thanks whenever the gospel bears

  365. fruit in the world. In other words, you could

  366. put it this way. He gives thanks for personal

  367. maturation. He gives thanks for community participation.

  368. And he gives thanks for world peace. transformation.

  369. Now, as I come to an end, I want to say something.

  370. And it occurs to me that Paul was a pastor. And

  371. as a pastor, he was writing these thank you notes

  372. to his churches. And so I am also a pastor. And

  373. I thought, you know what, I should put my money

  374. where my mouth is. And I should write a little

  375. letter of gratitude to you. This morning, this

  376. is a little outside my comfort level. I'm not

  377. usually the touchy -feely kind of guy. But anyways,

  378. I wrote you a little note. And I, you know, Paul

  379. gave me a bit of a template. So here goes. Here

  380. goes. To all God's holy people in Christ Jesus

  381. at Trinity Streetsville, grace and peace to you

  382. from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

  383. I thank God every time I remember you. I thank

  384. God. for the signs of growing faith among you,

  385. for people asking questions, for people taking

  386. their first steps, for people coming back to

  387. prayer after not praying for a while, opening

  388. their Bibles, coming to Alpha, for people who

  389. are being baptized. I give thanks for every big

  390. and little way that you are growing. I thank

  391. God for your partnership in the gospel. For the

  392. countless ways that you give and serve and pray

  393. and welcome and teach and encourage and lead

  394. and care and simply show up for one another.

  395. For the people who said, sure, I can help before

  396. realizing exactly what they had agreed to. I

  397. give thanks that we are all in this together.

  398. And I thank God for the impact being made through

  399. you. For children. and young people who are finding

  400. a place to belong, for newcomers who are finding

  401. community here, for people being fed and cared

  402. for and prayed for and encouraged from here to

  403. Honduras, for the ways the love of Jesus is reaching

  404. beyond these walls. I give thanks for that. We

  405. are not a perfect church. I don't think that's

  406. news to anyone. There are places we still need

  407. to grow. And things we still need to learn, but

  408. Thanksgiving's a good time to be grateful. And

  409. for all that God is already doing, I give thanks.

  410. So Trinity, for the faith growing in us, for

  411. the partnership shared between us, and the impact

  412. being made through us, I thank my God every time

  413. I remember you. Signed, Robbie Herkmans. Now,

  414. all right. Now don't laugh, actually, because

  415. guess what? Now it's your turn. Now it's your

  416. turn. You see, when you leave this morning, you're

  417. going to get something at the door. You are going

  418. to get an envelope and a blank card. And I would

  419. like you to do what Paul did, what I did to write

  420. a thank you note. But I want you to do it in

  421. a different kind of way this year. Okay, more

  422. like Paul. I want you to write a note to someone

  423. to say thank you for a sign in their life, or

  424. not thank you, hold on, to thank God for a growing

  425. sense of faith that you see in their life. Someone

  426. who you've noticed is becoming more loving or

  427. more patient, forgiving, whatever. Maybe it's

  428. someone that you've noticed who is just like

  429. taking those first steps toward Jesus. Just write

  430. to them. Write to them. Say, I thank God for

  431. the signs of growing faith that I see in you.

  432. And then, yeah, go on from there. Or, like Paul,

  433. you could write one like this. Think of someone

  434. who's been there for you. Someone who showed

  435. up for you, especially in your faith journey.

  436. Someone who prayed for you. Someone who carried.

  437. part of the load for you. Maybe it was someone

  438. who serves with you on a team here at Trinity

  439. or another organization. You know, someone who

  440. just showed up for you when you couldn't do it

  441. alone. And write them a note. And it could start

  442. with these words. I thank God for all the ways

  443. you joined in when I needed you. And then go

  444. from there. Or think of someone whose life is

  445. making an impact. right? Someone who's bringing

  446. hope, someone who is serving and who's giving,

  447. and they're making a difference. It's making

  448. a difference. They may not know it's making a

  449. difference, but it's making a difference in their

  450. family or their workplace or their community

  451. or their neighborhood or whatever. And write

  452. them and say, I thank God for the difference

  453. you are making. And then go from there, right?

  454. These are the kind of things Paul thanked God

  455. for. And these are the kind of things we can

  456. thank God for. And a few suggestions. I just

  457. want to remind you as you take one of these home

  458. and write it. First, thank God, right? Thank

  459. God. Adopt Paul's language to actually thank

  460. God for these people rather than just thanking

  461. these people. It's one thing to say, thank you

  462. for this thing you did to me versus saying, I

  463. thank God that he put you in my life. So you

  464. could support me, dot, dot, dot, dot, dot. It's

  465. actually a significant theological shift because

  466. what it does is it acknowledges that God is the

  467. one who is ultimately behind it all. So thank

  468. God. Thank God. Secondly, you can just keep it

  469. short, right? I mean, Paul wrote the whole letter

  470. to Romans. You do not need to write Romans, okay?

  471. Three sentences might be enough, but write it.

  472. down. Put their name on it. You know, you don't

  473. even have to lick the envelope. You just have

  474. to tear the thing and it sticks down. It's so

  475. easy for you. And then the third thing, this

  476. is the third thing, send it or give it to them.

  477. Don't just take it home and put it beside your

  478. Thanksgiving leftovers only to discover when

  479. Ash Wednesday rolls around, right? No, gratitude

  480. needs to be expressed. Right? Someone may have

  481. no idea that you see the growth that's happening

  482. in their life. Someone may have no idea how important

  483. their presence was to you. And someone may have

  484. no idea that the small thing that they are doing

  485. is actually bearing fruit. So tell them. Tell

  486. them. And send it. That's what Paul did. So this

  487. Thanksgiving, by all means, yeah, give thanks

  488. for your family, for food, for your friends,

  489. for your job, for the vacation you took. It's

  490. all good. But maybe also, Look for a little room

  491. on the page to give thanks for some things we

  492. might overlook. Who is growing? Who is joining

  493. in? And who is making an impact? Write it down.

  494. Tell someone. And give all the thanks to God.

  495. Amen.