Sermon
Rick Warren - Withstanding the Winds of Life
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If you pull out your message notes inside your little
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program bag, we're looking at part four of our series
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today on building a better life with the title of
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Withstanding the Winds of Life. Now, during this series, we've
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been looking at two big ideas. One of them is
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that there's a better level of living than simply the
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good life. We call it the better life. Good life's good.
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You're already living the good life, looking good, feeling good,
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having the goods. But the better life is the life
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that's at the next highest level. And now is the
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perfect time to step up to this higher level. After
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all of the storms and all of the winds of
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change that we've been through this past year in our
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COVID pandemic and all the other storms that we've had,
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you've had to adopt to a lot of different things.
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God doesn't want you to resume the same old life,
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but instead he wants to reset a better life, reboot
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to a better life, rebuild, redefine life. restart for a
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new life. So, Farr, we've looked at eight principles, okay?
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We've looked at eight principles for rebuilding your life, and
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today we're gonna look at four more. Now, one of
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the most powerful forces of nature is wind, is wind.
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You know, Kay and I live out in the canyon,
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and we have canyon winds for several months in the year,
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and in the windy season, it's brutal. I remember one
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time we had a giant hurricane about a 15-foot trampoline,
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and the wind came along, and this is a heavy thing,
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and it blew it up against the second floor of
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our house, and in the wind, I had to go out,
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and I couldn't even pull it down. The wind was
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so strong, I had to take it apart one little
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spring at a time to take it apart. Have any
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of you ever lost patio equipment to the wind? Okay,
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you know what I'm talking about. One of the most
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powerful forces of nature is wind. You know, one time
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God actually gave a wind show to Elijah. Look up
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here on the screen. 1 Kings chapter 11, chapter 19,
1 Kings 11 chapter mention
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verse 11. It says this. The Lord told Elijah, go
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out and watch what I can do to a mountain
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with wind. So Elijah watched as the Lord sent a
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great and powerful windstorm to hit the mountain. And it
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hit with such a hurricane force that it split giant boulders.
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And everything was torn loose and coming apart. You know,
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that last phrase could be a description of this last year.
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Everything was coming loose and being torn apart. Everything was
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coming loose and being torn apart. Now, we know that
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winds are very powerful. Can winds knock you off balance? Yeah,
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of course they can. Can winds blow you over? Yeah.
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Can they cause you to fall? Yeah. Can winds blow
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away valuable things? Yeah. You've lost some things maybe from
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the wind. Can winds cause erosion? Yes. Wears things down.
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Can winds force you off course? Yep. You know, your
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head in one direction, the wind. Have you ever had
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to drive in a heavy wind and you just feel
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like it's pulling you over to the side one way
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or the other? It's a very strong force. Can winds
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wear you out? Yes. Yes, winds can wear you out.
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Is it harder or easier to work in the wind?
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It's harder. It's harder. And that's why part of stepping
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up to the better life that we're looking at in
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this series is means learning how to handle, how to manage,
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actually how to withstand the rogue winds of life. You see,
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living a better life, this life we're talking about for
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several weeks, it's not a problem-free life. You still have
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problems in the better life. It's just now you have
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a stronger foundation and you have better skills. Because you
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can handle the problems better in your life. There on
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your outline, Proverbs 10, 25 says this. Storms can blow
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away unrighteous people. But the godly have a foundation that
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keeps them standing firm. The godly have a foundation that
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keeps them standing firm. So that when the winds of
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life come into your life, you're not blown away by
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the problems that you have. Now, the Bible uses wind
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as a metaphor for a lot of different things, both
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good and bad. Both good and bad. And we're going
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to look at some of those metaphors. Before I share
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four biblical principles for withstanding the winds in your life,
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I just want to ask you to consider for just
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a minute a simple question. And the question is this.
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What kind of winds are blowing in your life right now? Okay,
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help me think this through. What kind of winds are
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blowing in your life right now? And I've written down there.
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Are there some winds of change? Are there some things,
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winds of change that have blown into your life? Are
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there winds of opposition? Are you facing some opposition? Physically
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and mentally, emotionally, spiritually. Are there winds of temptation that
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you're facing? Are there winds of conflict? that are causing
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problems in your life? Are there winds of trouble? By
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the way, these terms are all used in the Bible.
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Winds of testing, winds of trouble, winds of temptation. Now
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all of those things that I just mentioned, do you
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know what they have in common? They're all uncontrollable. Winds
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are uncontrollable. And that's what we're talking about this weekend.
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The things that you cannot control in your life. You
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can't control the wind. You never have, you never will.
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And there are relational winds, there are financial winds, there
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are spiritual winds, there are physical winds. These kind of
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things happen in your life. And what all these have
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in common, change, opposition, conflict, trouble, testing, temptation, You can't
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control them. Why? Because they're either involving other people and
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you can't control other people or they're involving circumstances and
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you can't control all the circumstances around you. So what
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I want us to look at this week as we're
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on this journey to moving from the good life to
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the better life is how do I handle the things
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in life that are uncontrollable? That's what I'm calling the
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winds in your life. The rogue winds. the winds that
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cause problems, difficulties, opposition, fatigue, but you can't control them, okay?
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These are all uncontrolled. They're uncontrolled. So what do you
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do with the things in your life that are uncontrollable?
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What does God want you to do with the things
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in your life you have absolutely no control over. You
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know what to do with the stuff you've got control over.
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But this weekend, we're looking at what about the stuff
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that you don't have control over? Well, the Bible uses
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the word withstand. You withstand the winds that come into
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your life. Winds of change, winds of conflict, winds of temptation, testing, trouble,
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all these different things. You withstand them. When I can't
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control a disease, when I can't control another person, when
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I can't control what's going on in my country, when
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I can't control the direction culture is going, when I
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can't control how my spouse acts or reacts, what am
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I supposed to do? The Bible uses the word withstand. Now,
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I've written down a definition here. You might write this down.
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It's on the screen. To withstand means to remain undamaged
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by a destructive force. This is extremely important, so write
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this down. To withstand means to remain undamaged by a
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destructive force. And all through scripture, this word is used
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about things you have no control over. God wants you
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to withstand the darts of the evil one and so many,
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many other areas. All right? Ephesians chapter 6 verse 13
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says this. Put on the whole armor of God so
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you'll be able to withstand in evil days. Circle the
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word withstand. You'll be able to withstand in evil days
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and when they're over, when those evil days are over,
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when those rogue wind days are over, you'll still be standing.
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You'll still be standing. So, since I can't control the
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winds that occur in my life, I can no more
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control the wind. Tomorrow's supposed to be really windy, and
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it'll be windier for the people who are here for worship.
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What do you do? Well, you withstand the winds, the
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destructive winds of life. What I want us to do
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this weekend is look at four passages that talk about
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wind and the antidote to winds by withstanding, all right?
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There are four keys. I'm gonna give you four more
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principles on how to move from the good life to
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the better life. This has to do with the problems
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in your life that you can't control, all right? Here's
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the first key. The first key to withstanding destructive winds
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in your life. Stay connected to my spiritual family. I
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need to stay connected to my spiritual family. God never
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meant for you to face destructive winds, whether it's a
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death or a disease or a detour or a delay
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or a difficulty. God never meant for you to withstand
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the destructive winds of life by yourself, on your own.
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The very first thing God says is it's not good
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for man to be alone. So whether you ever marry
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or not is irrelevant. What I'm talking about is you
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need a spiritual family. You need a spiritual family for
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support so you can stay connected during the rough times
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of life. It is one of the main reasons Jesus
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created his church, to be a family of support. Now
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let's look at a passage on this. Ephesians chapter four,
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verses 11 and following, down to 14. God has given
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his church... God has given his church gifted apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors,
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and teachers to equip God's people for their work of service.
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What's your work of service? That's your ministry. God puts
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you on this earth not to live for yourself, but
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for you to make a difference with your life. That's
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called your ministry. Your work of service is your ministry.
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So God gives these gifted people, apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers,
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to equip you for your work of service so that we,
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in the body of Christ, may be built up together
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until we're all unified in the faith. Now remember, we're
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talking about building a better life. This is about how
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do we build a better life? How are we built up?
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We're built up in the better life together. You're not
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built up for the better life on your own. We're
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built up together until we're all unified in our faith
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and we become fully mature and grown up in our
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thinking like Christ. That's God's goal for you. Then here's
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the goal. Here's the result of it. Then we'll no
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longer be babies tossed back and forth tossed back and forth,
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blown here and there by every shifting wind. We're not
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blown here and there by every shifting wind of teaching
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from deceptive people who lead you into error with lies
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that they make sound like the truth. Now that passage
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has got a lot of stuff in it, so let's
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just tear it apart a little bit at a time. First,
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circle the phrase built up God's church is his tool
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for building you up in the better life. You cannot
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live the better life on your own. You can live
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the good life on your own, but you can't live
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the life that God intended for you on your own.
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You need a spiritual family. And it says in that
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spiritual family, God has gifted certain people to teach you
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and to build you up. I'm one of them. I'm
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a pastor. I'm a teacher. God has gifted me to
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build you up for the better life. My gifts aren't
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for my benefit. My gifts are for your benefit. And
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God has given you gifts and your gifts are not
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for your benefit. Your gifts are for my benefit and
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everybody else too. Our gifts are always for the benefit
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of others. That's how we need each other in the
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family of God. Now, It says that their job, these apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors, teachers,
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guys like me, women like me, it says their job
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is to keep you from being blown away by false ideas.
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Blown away by shifting winds of teaching. What are shifting winds?
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That's something that people believe it this year, and next
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year they believe something else. And next year they believe
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something else. Opinions shift. The truth never changes. If it
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was true 1,000 years ago, it'll be true in 1,000
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years from today. But an opinion changes. Facts actually change.
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You know, nothing is more irrelevant than a 10-year-old science book.
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And nothing is even more irrelevant than that, than a
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five-year-old computer book. They're worthless. You use them as doorstops. Why?
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Because they don't stay current. Because it's not simply truth.
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And they get out of date. And stuff that we
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used to believe, we now know, oh, we don't believe
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that anymore. We know that's not true. We now know.
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Even stuff about biology and about anatomy, things that doctors
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used to think, well, that piece of the body is irrelevant.
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We now know, well, we've discovered a little bit more.
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It's more relevant than we thought. So our job, my job,
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is to help you not be blown away by shifting
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winds of teaching from deceptive people who lead you into
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error with lies they make sound like the truth. Okay,
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let me just say this. I beg you to stop
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watching cable news. I beg you to stop watching cable news.
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I don't care what channel it is. Just stop watching
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cable news. Why? Because they are deceptive. What do you mean?
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They're not telling me the truth? No, they're telling you
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a partial truth. Because now we don't have news anymore.
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We now have opinion. And people will tell you what
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they tell you is true, but it's not the whole truth.
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It's not all the truth. They're only telling you the
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part of the truth they want you to hear. They're
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not telling you all the truth. They're not giving you
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the whole picture. They're giving you partial truth. And partial
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truth means it's partial untruth because it's not the whole
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truth and nothing but the truth. So help me God.
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All right. So it says the first thing we need
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to do is we need to stay connected to our
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spiritual family. These people in the family help us with
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the shifting winds and all the deception that's out there
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and people who are sharing lies that make it sound
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like the truth. God's tool built up is to build
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us up for better life. By the way, let me
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just stop here a minute and say, I'm proud of
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you guys. I'm proud of you. I commend you. Why?
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Because you have stayed connected to the body of Christ.
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In this last year, a lot of people didn't stay connected. Why?
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And they wandered off here and there. And I mean,
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you're here at service. The moment was opened back up.
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You were watching online. I value you. I commend you.
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I praise you for staying connected. Why? Because that's how
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you keep growing. Unfortunately, there are people that the moment
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we stopped having public services, they're gone. And they're never
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coming back. They won't be back at Church White. They
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got out of the habit. So I commend you for
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doing that. Here's the first key to withstand. Stay connected
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to my spiritual family. Here's the second key to withstanding.
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Write this down. Put into practice everything I learn. That's
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the second thing God tells us to do in order
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to withstand the tough winds of life. I need to
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not just hear the word of God. You've been hearing it.
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You've been listening to it online. You've been coming back
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to services since we reopened public services. But more than that,
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You put into practice. You don't just listen to God's word,
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you do it, you obey it, you practice it. And
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that's what helps me withstand stuff I can't control. Here's
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what Jesus said, a very important passage in Matthew chapter seven.
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It's the last words of his famous Sermon on the Mount.
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Matthew 7, 24 and 25, Jesus said, everyone who hears
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these words of mine and puts them into practice, circle that,
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puts them into practice, is like the wise man who
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built his house on a solid rock. The rains came down,
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and the waters rose, and the winds, there's that word,
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the winds blew hard and beat against that house, yet
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it did not fall. That's my goal for you, that
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when the winds blow against you, you do not fall. Why?
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Because it had its foundation on the rock. Now notice,
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when a storm comes, it says three things happen. The
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rains come down, that attacks the roof of your life.
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It says the floods come up from the ground, that
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attacks the foundation of your life. And it says the
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winds blow, that attacks the walls of your life. So
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you're getting from the top, you're getting it from the
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bottom you're getting from the side and it said the
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only way you're going to make it through the rogue
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winds of life the stuff you can't control when you
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get a diagnosis that you can't control if you have
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a special needs child you can't change If you have
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a circumstance or an inability or a disability that you can't...
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You're going to have to live with your entire life.
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As you get old and things change in your life,
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what do you do with those things you can't control? First,
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I stay connected to my spiritual family. Second, I practice
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everything I learn. And it says there, then, because you
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put it into practice, your house... is built on the
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foundation on the rock. Now what's the rock? The rock
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is this book. It's the word of God. And the
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more I build my life on this rock, the more
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solid I'm gonna be. The winds can come at me.
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I can lose a son to suicide. I can have
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a wife get breast cancer. I can have enormous, physical
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problems myself, a brain disorder. I can have criticism. I
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can have all kinds of things that I can't control,
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but they don't devastate me. Why? Because I'm practicing what
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this book says. In John 13, 17, the next verse,
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Jesus says this, now that you know these things, you
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will be blessed if you know them. Oh, it didn't
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say that, did it? Now that you know these things,
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you will be blessed if you what? Do, circle that, do.
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The blessing doesn't come in knowing. Right now, you're knowing.
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Right now, you're learning. I'm teaching you four ways to
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handle things that are uncontrollable in your life. The four things,
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all of these are antidotes to the winds of life.
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You need a strong family, spiritual family to give you support.
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You need a foundation of God's word that you trust,
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when everything else can be changing in your life, now
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that you know these things, you'll be blessed if you
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do them. You know, it occurred to me that some
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of you are new to Saddleback Church. We have used
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these outlines, these message notes, for 40 years. And a
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lot of churches don't use these. You know, you don't
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have anything to write anything down on, but it's one
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of our hallmarks of Saddleback Church and maybe you're new
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to Saddleback and I thought I might just pause here
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as we're getting started back in public worship to remind
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you why we use these things. Because maybe for the
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last year you've been watching the service on your iPhone
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or your Android or whatever and you're not taking notes.
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Now that we're back I encourage you to take notes. Why?
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Here are the reasons. Why do we use handouts? Not
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everybody has a Bible, okay? Number two, it relieves embarrassment
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in finding text. Some of you say, if I said,
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turn to the book of Job, and you go, where's
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that one? Okay, and then you're over there thinking, Job? Oh,
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maybe this is a book about work or something, you know?
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And what's this all about? Haggai, who's Haggai? We're gonna
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look at him in the weeks ahead. It relieves embarrassment
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in finding text. We can cover more verses in less
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time when I put them all out here. We can
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read verses aloud together. We can review what we learn later.
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We can compare multiple translations. We can emphasize key words
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by circling or underlining. We can remember and retain more.
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And we can use it for small group study and discussion.
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I've told you this before. that the United States Air
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Force did a study and said that you forget 90
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to 95% of everything you hear in 72 hours. You
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forget 90 to 95% of everything you hear in 72 hours.
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If you want a statistic to depress a pastor, that's it. Okay,
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because it means I'll spend 20 plus hours preparing to
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teach you You know, a lesson from God's word, realizing
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that by Wednesday you will have forgotten everything except the jokes.
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Unless you write it down. The shortest pencil is longer
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than the longest memory. So what I need to do
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is I need to write it down. Outlines help us
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fulfill James 1.25. Those who look intently into God's word,
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perfect word, that gives us freedom. And continue to do this.
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And remember what they've heard. And then do it. They
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are the ones who will be blessed in what they do.
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You want to be blessed? Notice the four things it
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says you got to do in order to be blessed.
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Four things. First, you look intently into the word of God.
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That's study it. You look at it intently. You don't
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just listen. You look at it intently. And you continue
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to do that. That means you make it a habit.
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And then you remember what you heard. That means sometimes
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you memorize a verse. And we'll do that. You remember
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a verse. And then you do it. That's the practice part.
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He said, they are the ones who will be blessed.
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And these outlines help us do that. All right. With
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those two out of the way, let's get to the
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third and fourth key. And these are even more important
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in understanding how to handle sin. Situations in your life.
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That are out of control. Number three. The third key
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to withstanding wins is this. When it comes into my life.
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Something that I cannot control. Turn my focus. Turn my focus.
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To how great God is. Turn my focus. To how great.
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God is. When I'm going through a situation. I have
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no control over. I need to remember that it may
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be out of my control, but it's not out of
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God's control. Turning my focus to God and his greatness,
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there's a word for that. It's called worship. Anytime you
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turn your focus to the greatness of God, you are worshiping, okay?
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You're worshiping. Worship, listen, worship is the secret. of withstanding.
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Worship is the secret of withstanding the uncontrollable things in life.
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When I go, I cannot control this. I can't do
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anything about it. I need to flip my focus and
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think about the greatness of God and his power and
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how it's not be, it may be out of my control,
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but it's not out of his. I want to put
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a sentence on the screen here that I want you
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to write down. When battered by a wind, don't tell
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God how great my storm is. Tell the storm how
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great my God is. Okay, write that down. When I'm
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battered by a wind, that means something totally out of
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my control. I just can't do anything about it. My
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spouse is having an affair. I can't do anything about it.
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My kids are going crazy. I got a bad health report.
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When I am battered by a wind, don't tell God
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how great my storm is, how great the wind is. Instead,
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tell my storm how great my God is. My God is.
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I turn my focus to how great God is. Worship
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is the secret. to withstanding. Now, there is a beautiful
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example of this in the New Testament in Matthew chapter 8.
Matthew 8 chapter mention
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And the story here is Jesus is out in a
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boat with his disciples on the Sea of Galilee, and
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he's asleep. Now, the Sea of Galilee is a huge,
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huge lake. And it's very easy for, quickly, for storms
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to come up suddenly. In fact, Pastor Tom and I,
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many years ago, in a trip to Israel, went out
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on a boat on the Sea of Galilee, and out
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in the middle of it, all of a sudden, it
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was a beautiful day when we went out, and all
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of a sudden, in the middle of the lake, the
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dark clouds came over suddenly. It started pouring, raining. It
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started getting windy. And I was that excited about being
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in that boat. Okay, because it was like big gale
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winds and choppy waves in the ocean. So here's the
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story that gives us the example of how to turn
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our focus to God and how great he is. Matthew 8,
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verse 24. Suddenly, that's always how storms come. That's always
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how winds come. Suddenly, and they don't warn you in advance. Suddenly,
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without any warning, a violent wind hit hit the lake
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so that giant storm waves swept over the boat and
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threatened to sink it. But Jesus kept on sleeping. This
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is funny, okay? The ship's going like this, tossing and turning.
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There's a little ship out there, a three-hour tour, you know.
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And it's about to capsize. Jesus is not paying any attention.
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He's totally asleep. He's at peace. He's not worried. Jesus
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kept on sleeping. So the frantic disciples woke him up shouting, Lord,
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you must save us. And they didn't say it that calmly.
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You must save us. We're going to drown. Jesus replied,
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why are you so frightened? Your faith is so small.
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Then he simply spoke to the winds. What are the winds?
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The uncontrollable forces in your life. He spoke to the
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winds and the waves of And everything became completely calm.
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What's out of my control is not out of God's control.
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Everything became completely calm. And the men were amazed. And
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they asked themselves, what kind of man is this? Even
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the winds and the waves obey him. Now, this whole
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experience leaves them in awe of Jesus. They're not afraid.
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They're worshiping him. Why? Because they've just seen him have
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power over nature. And if God has power over nature,
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he's got power over everything else. Here's the point. Why
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were they afraid? They're afraid the boat's going to sink.
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Do you really think it's going to sink with Jesus
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in it? If they'd realized who was in the boat
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with them, do you think they would have been afraid?
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They forgot who was in the boat with them. If
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Jesus is in your boat, your boat is unsinkable. It
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isn't gonna sink. If Jesus is in your boat, it's unsinkable.
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So what are you afraid of? Now, worship, when I worship,
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when all of a sudden I've got negative things in
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my life and a lot of stuff I can't control,
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I can't control my salary, it's set by somebody else.
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I can't control other things. All these things that I'm
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worried about. Worship is a way to set your sail
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so that the winds drive you in the direction you
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wanna go rather than a direction you don't wanna go.
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And the direction you wanna go is let the wind
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drive you to Jesus. Let the wind drive you to
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focus on God. Let the pain, let the problem, let
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the stress drive you to get closer to God. And
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when I do that, I'm not gonna have to be afraid.
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That's a choice. Am I gonna worry or am I
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going to worship? All right? Let worship set the sails.
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So that the negative things that happen in your life
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actually drive you further in the direction you want. You
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can't control the wind, but you can control the direction
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of the set of your sail. And a good sailor
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knows that you can take a wind that's totally opposite
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you and still move in the direction you want if
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you set your sail correctly. That's your attitude. That's the
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way you trust. You can't control the wind, but you
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can control the set of your sail. And I do
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that by choosing to worship. Now there's one more, and
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I wanted to spend the most on this, and that
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is the fourth key to withstanding. How do I withstand
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in stuff I can't change in my life that's just there?
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And here it is, number four, very important. Remind myself
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how much Jesus cares. When I am going through a
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period that scares me to death, When I'm going through
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a period I don't like. When I'm going through a
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period I don't want. When I'm going through a period
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that I can't control. I don't just focus on how
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great God is, that's his power. I also focus on
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his love. And I remind myself how much Jesus cares.
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Now there's another boat incident in the Bible. This is
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different than the one we just looked at that teaches
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this truth. of reminding myself how much Jesus cares. In
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Mark chapter six, here's another boating incident out on the
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Sea of Galilee, Mark 46, 47, and 48. It says this,
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another evening, the disciples were out in their boat in
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the middle of the lake, and Jesus was alone on land.
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So he's not in the boat with them this time.
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But Jesus saw his disciples were in trouble Okay, from
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the shore. He could see they're in trouble. Rowing hard
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with their oars because the wind was against them. So
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Jesus decided to walk out to them on the lake.
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This is his famous walking on water miracle. Okay, he
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sees they're in trouble. Background of this story. Jesus had said,
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you guys get on the boat. I want you to
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take the boat up to Bethsaida. It's a three-hour trip.
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up the coast of the Sea of Galilee to get
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to Bethsaida. Nine hours later, they're way off course. They're
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out in the middle of the Sea of Galilee and
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can't even get back to shore. They're way, way off course. Why?
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Rogue winds. And so rather than something that was going
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to be a three-hour trip up the coast, it's nine
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hours and they're dead tired. Now, In this passage I
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just read you, I want you to notice, and I'm
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not gonna go into this in detail, but in those
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few verses I just read, we see six common reasons
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we get fearful. We see all six of them right there. First,
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it says another evening, it's nighttime. They're in the dark.
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Isn't it true that your fears go up in the dark?
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Isn't it true that you get more anxious, you get
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more fearful, When you can't see your way, I don't
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see any way out of this financial problem. I don't
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see any way out of this mess. I don't see
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how we're going to make it through this. When you're
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in the dark and you can't see well, then you
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get fearful. Second thing, they're in the middle of the lake.
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What's that mean? They're far from the safety of shore.
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They feel insecure. When you feel insecure... And you're not
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near safety. You're out in the middle of the lake.
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You get fearful. Then it says they're in deep water.
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They're out of their comfort zone. They're in deep water.
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They're out of their comfort zone. They're not in the
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shallows of life. They're way in over their head. Some
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of you right now are in a situation where you're
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way in over your head. And that's making you nervous.
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It's making you fearful. It's making you anxious. It's making
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you anxious. So it's nighttime, but they're in the middle
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of the lake. They're in deep water. The fourth reason
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they're fearful is Jesus isn't in the boat. So they
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feel like they're all on their own. And when you
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feel like you're all on your own, maybe you feel
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that way right now. This thing that I'm facing, I'm
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facing it all on my own. I'm trying to handle
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it all by myself. I'm sorry. That's why You need
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to share it with your spiritual family and let other
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people pray with you, pray for you, work with you,
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support you. That's why you need a small group. Jesus,
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when you feel like you're on your own. Then it says,
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and the wind was against them. We get fearful when
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we feel opposition. When we feel like opposition is preventing
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our progress. The wind was against them. What's against you
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right now? What? uncontrollable circumstances are against you. And that's
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causing you to feel fearful, okay? And then it says,
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Jesus saw that his disciples were in trouble rowing hard
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with their oars because the wind was against them. They're
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in trouble rowing hard. You know what? They're frustrated and
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they're tired. And you know what? When you get frustrated
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and when you get tired, your fear level goes up.
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Your anxiety level goes up. Now I'm sure many of
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you are identifying with at least one of these things.
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You're in the dark. You feel insecure. You're out of
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your comfort zone. You feel like you're on your own.
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There's opposition preventing your progress when you're frustrated and you're tired.
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You've been rowing all day and you're not making any progress.
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They've been on the lake for nine hours and it
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was only a three-hour trip. Now that's the reason we
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get fearful. But this same passage that I just read
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gives us the three reasons why you don't need to
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be fearful. The three reasons why you don't need to
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be upset on the things that are out of your control.
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And here they are. First thing is it says Jesus
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saw his disciples were in trouble the first reason you
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need to be afraid is that Jesus notices our struggle
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Jesus notices our struggle he pays attention to our struggles
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Did you know that everything you're going through right now,
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there's nothing that Jesus hasn't noticed? He knows what you're
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going through. He pays attention to your struggle. And just
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as he saw his disciples from the shoreline going, they're
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having a hard time rowing and they can't get back
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to shore. They can't get back to safety. He sees
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where you're struggling. He sees where you're straining. Now here's
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what happens. The disciples are unaware that that Jesus is
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paying attention to their struggle, so they get scared. When
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you're unaware, you get scared. When you forget that God
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is paying attention to every problem in your life, then
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you start acting like it's just you. It's not just you.
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You get scared when you're unaware that Jesus is paying attention.
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Never forget that Jesus pays attention To every single detail
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of your life. That's a fear reliever. Job 31 verse
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4 here on the screen says. He sees everything I do.
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And counts every step I take. So I should not
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be fearful. Even in uncontrollable situations. In the winds of life.
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Because Jesus is noticing. He's paying attention. It's not like
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he's unaware. Number two. He doesn't just pay, he's not
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just aware, he cares. That's the second thing. Jesus cares
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about your fatigue and Jesus cares about your frustration. He
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sees his disciples, they've been out there for nine hours
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rowing and they're not making any progress and they're tired
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like you're tired after what's happened all this last year.
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Jesus is not just aware. He cares. He cares. And
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he saw that they were rowing hard. But there's another thing.
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He not only pays attention and he not only cares,
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he does something about it. The third thing we see
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is that Jesus comes to me at my moment of desperation.
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Jesus comes to me. at my moment of desperation. This
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story is actually told in the book of Matthew, in
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the book of Mark, and in another gospel too. It's
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in three different gospels. So Mark chapter 6 says this,
Mark 6 chapter mention
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it was the fourth watch of the night when Jesus
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decided to go out to them. They're out there caught
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in the middle of the lake, walking on the lake.
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It's famous walking on water miracle. Now It says it's
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the fourth watch of the night. Do you know what
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time that is? That's between three and 6 a.m. That's
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the fourth night of the watch. In the darkest time,
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in the loneliest time, they're exhausted, they've been fighting, as
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I said, the storm for nine hours. They're not getting
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anywhere and the storm's blown them way off course. Many
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of you feel that way that COVID and all these
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other factors, these other storms that we've talked about have
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blown you way off course. What does Jesus do when
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you're desperate? He comes out to you. Notice that Jesus
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did not stand on the shoreline and shout instructions. He
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didn't stand on the shoreline and tell them what to do.
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He goes out to the people that he cares about
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He comes to you in your moment of desperation. And
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he goes out to where they are and he intervenes. Friends,
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that's the gospel. A God who intervenes. A God intervenes.
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who becomes incarnate, a God who comes to earth, a
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God who becomes one of us, who takes on all
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our problems and dies on the cross for our sin.
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He didn't shout from heaven new instructions. He comes and says,
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I'll solve the problem that you can't solve. He comes
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out to you. I don't know what you're going through
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right now, but I will tell you this. You may
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feel abandoned right now, but you're not. You are not.
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God is with you. God is with you. And you
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need to open your eyes and see Jesus walking on
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the water, coming to you in your moment of desperation
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between 3 and 6 a.m. in the fourth hour in
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the darkest part of the night. This is the promise
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of Jesus. John 14, look here on the screen. John 14,
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verse 18 says, I will not abandon you. What is
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it about that you don't understand? I will not abandon you.
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I will not leave you as orphans in the storm.
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I will come to you. Will you let him come
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to you today in the problem you're going through? Will
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you stop trying to row and do it all on
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your own power and let Jesus come to you By
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the way, how does Jesus come to you when you're
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buffeted by the winds? When you're buffeted by those uncontrollable
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circumstances you can't change if you wanted to. How does
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he come to you when you're buffeted by winds and waves?
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I'll tell you how he does. Walking on the very
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problem you're afraid of. He walks alone. on the waves,
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they're afraid, I'm gonna lap into the boat and sink
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the ship. He's walking on the water. Why? He's God.
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And you say, how does he do this? Friends, this
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is not hard to understand if you understand that Jesus
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is God. Since Jesus is God, that means he created water.
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He can part the water. He can stop the water.
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He can get water out of a rock. He can
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walk on water. He can do anything he wants to
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with water. He's God. He invented it. Because he's the creator. Now,
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the rest of the story, there's a great sub-story of
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faith and doubt. And it says this. So they see
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Jesus walking out to them in the middle of the night.
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Scares them to death. They think at first it's a ghost.
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And it says, then Peter... He looks out there and
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he sees Jesus walking. He says, Lord, if it's really you,
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tell me to come to you on the water. So
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Jesus said, come on. Come on down. So Peter jumped
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out of the boat, started walking on the water toward Jesus.
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But when Peter looked at the wind, you're always going
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to get in trouble if you stop focusing on God's greatness,
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start focusing on the wind. When Peter looked at the wind,
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he became afraid and he began to sink. So he
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cried out, Lord, save me. And immediately Jesus reached out
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his hand, caught Peter. Why did you doubt? Jesus asked. Okay,
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so you just had a little faith. Why did you doubt?
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And when they climbed back into the boat, the wind stopped.
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Then those in the boat, worshiped Jesus saying, truly you
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are the son of God. Now I think this is
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really kind of interesting here that before jumping out, Peter
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asks for ID. Lord, if it's really you, tell me
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to come be with you, okay? Can I join you? Now,
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Peter is not doubting the possibility of walking on water.
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He just wants to make sure it's Jesus. He wants
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to just make sure that he's really seeing the Lord.
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Peter knew it's safer to be with Jesus out of
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the boat than to be in the boat without Jesus.
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So he goes, I'd rather be out there with him
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on those waves than in here without him. And Jesus says, come.
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And you know what? I am absolutely certain that when
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Peter said, Lord, if that's really you, invite me to
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come walk on the water. I'm sure that pleased the
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heart of God. He thought, that's my boy. He's willing
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to take a risk. He's willing to move against the impossible.
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He's willing to move against the storm. He's willing to
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go against the uncontrollable winds. And I'm sure it pleased
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him so much because that's what faith does. It's a,
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Peter gets the experience of a lifetime because without faith,
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it's impossible to please God. John Ortberg wrote a book.
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If you want to walk on. water, you got to
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get out of the boat. Where do you need to
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get out of the boat post-COVID? Where do you need
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to take a risk that you've never taken before? Now,
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it's interesting, in fact, you might write this down, that Peter,
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as long as he focused on Jesus, he's doing just fine.
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As soon as he starts looking at the problem, he
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starts sinking. You might write this down. When I trust
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instead of think, I walk on water instead of sink.
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When I trust instead of think, I walk on water
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instead of sink. You know what the problem of many
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of you is? You think too much. You overthink everything,
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and that keeps you worried. But when I trust instead
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of think, I walk on water instead of sink. Now, notice,
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Jesus reached down to Peter, and he says, you of
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little faith. Notice, he didn't say you of no faith.
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The guys in the boat were the guys who had
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no faith. Peter had a little faith. He just kind
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of lost some of it. But when Jesus gets in
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the boat, you notice the storm stops because the only
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unsinkable ship in the entire world was that boat at
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that moment. Because Jesus is in it. John 6, 21.
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And after they took Jesus into their boat, they were
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able to reach the destination they'd been trying to head
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for on the shore. Are you getting this? After they
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took Jesus into their boat, they were able to reach
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the destination they've been trying to head for on the show.
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Some of you have been trying to get to a
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certain destination, but you're doing it on your own power.
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You're rowing on your own power. And you're rowing against
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uncontrollable winds. And you're not going to win against uncontrollable winds.
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But you take Jesus in your boat. and you focus
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on his greatness and you remember how much he loves
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you and know that he cares and that he comes
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to you in your deepest need. And they were able
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to reach their destination. That is my goal for you
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in 2021. I want as your pastor who loves you,
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your friend, your buddy, your spiritual coach, I want you
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to reach your destination in 2021. but you're gonna have
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to do these four things we just talked about. Now
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let me conclude by mentioning this. Sometimes God sends winds himself.
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They're not from Satan. Sometimes God sends winds himself in
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order to help you grow. And opposition and problems can
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actually be beneficial to you if you let it grow
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your character. You grow stronger with opposition. You grow stronger
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through difficulty. And opposition can be helpful if you respond correctly.
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A kite rises against the wind. A kite doesn't fly
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with the wind. A kite flies against the wind. And
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the stronger that wind is, the higher the kite can go.
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I have found in my own life that the greater
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the opposition, the higher I can go. The higher I
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can go. Kites rise with the wind. They use the wind.
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They use the opposition to soar even higher. That's what
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I want Saddleback Church to be known for. That's what
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I want you to be known for. Last verse, Psalm 104,
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verse 4. You, Lord, use the winds as your messengers. Hello.
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What is God trying to say to you through your
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uncontrollable circumstances? You use the winds as your messengers. What
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message is God trying to get to you? What is
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he trying to say to you? He's trying to say,
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stay connected to your spiritual family. He's trying to say,
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put into practice everything in this book. Don't just hear it.
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You only get blessed if you do it. He's trying
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to say, focus on my greatness and remember, I will
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never stop loving you. And I care and I see
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and I'm aware, and I pay attention to everything in
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your life, and I will come to you in your
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hour and moment of despair. Just trust me. And if
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you'll let me get in your boat, there is no
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way it's going to sink. Let's bow our heads. Jesus Christ,
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thank you for your word, that it's practical, it's relevant.
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Think that you have given us a church family that
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we may be built up together so that we all
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become fully mature, so that we all become grown up
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in our thinking, and then we'll no longer be spiritual
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babies tossed back and forth and blown here and there
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by every shifting wind. Lord, there's so many shifting winds
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in our society today that are just wrong. They're wrong,
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they're false, they're lies, they're half-truths. And they're led by
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deceptive people who want to lead us into error, that
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they make sound like the truth. Help us to look
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to your word knowing that it will always guide us
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in the right way. Why don't you pray? Say, Jesus Christ,
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you know the winds in my life. You know the
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uncontrollable circumstances in my life. that scare me, frustrate me,
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and fatigue me. Help me to do these four things
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you've told us to do, to stay connected to my
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spiritual family. Help me to put into practice everything I learn.
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Help me to focus on your greatness And to not
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just tell you about how big my problem is, but
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tell my problem how big you are. Help me to
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remember that you will never leave me alone. Thank you
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that you come walking on the water, the thing that
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scares me the most in my deepest need. Amen. Jesus Christ,
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if you've never invited him into your boat, say, Jesus Christ,
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come into my boat today. Be in my heart. Be
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in my life. Be my Lord and be my Savior.
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In your name I pray. Amen.