Controlling The Words That Put People Down | Guided Prayers

Do you ever fall into the trap of compartmentalizing your faith from your everyday life?

It's easy to focus on Jesus on Sundays while the rest of the week feels completely separate.

Perhaps a different version of yourself comes out when you get caught up in gossip, anger, or harsh language that tears people down.

You might think you have control over this, but James 1.26 offers a strong warning.

Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless.

Worthless.

That is the descriptive word James uses to describe our outward faith if we claim to love Jesus while tearing others down with our words.

James uses a clear image here: a rein, the strap used to steer and control a powerful horse.

His point is simple.

Our words carry real power.

You can memorize scripture and know all of the right answers, but if you don't control what comes out of your mouth, your faith is hollow.

Our words directly reflect what is inside our hearts.

Every conversation either shows the love of Christ or misrepresents him.

Let's ask God to help us pull back on the reins of our speech today.

We praise you for showing us what it looks like to speak with grace, and we thank you for teaching us to glorify you in our everyday conversations.

Take a moment to praise Him for the example he set.

Think about your day or week ahead.

Where are you most tempted to lose control of your speech?

At work, online, at home, with family or friends.

Hand those specific spaces over to him right now.

Is there a friend or family member dealing with the painful aftermath of hurtful words spoken against them?

Take a moment to pray that the Holy Spirit comforts them, shields them from discouragement, and brings healing.

Ask God to give them a real sense of His reassurance and peace when human words have let them down.

Forgive us for the times we have let our words run wild, hurting others and misrepresenting your heart.

We hand the reins of our tongues over to you today.

May the words of our mouths be pleasing to you.

Amen.