How to Overcome LUST: 2 Samuel 11:1-27

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on the shoulder.

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that's horrible.

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Okay, all right, So we're.

Going to dive right into the one of the most

famous stories of David's life. I would say the most famous,

obviously is David Goliath, and I would say the second

most famous, I would think would be this story, which

is David and Besheba.

Oh yeah, I did this before, back, you know, back

when I think, uh, you know, thirty years ago, forty

years ago. I think it generally society was a little

bit more biblical literate, biblically literate with regard to the stories.

Of the life. They were sure they were.

Now a lot of people don't know who Samson was.

They don't know, right, you have to explain things more so,

I can't remember. Probably twenty five or thirty years ago.

I did a thing, and I asked people, just say

the first thing that comes to your mind when I

say and I said Samson, and and people said Delilah,

And I said David, and and it was Goliath first,

Bestieva second. Yeah, yeah, And it was that fast, right,

So yep there, yeah, all right, So here we are,

we're going to read about David Beesheba today. David was

a great king, but he was also human, and he

made terrible mistakes and committed terrible sins. And so it

says here in Second Samuel, chapter eleven, verse one, in

the spring of the year, when kings normally go out

to war, David sent joeab and the Israelite army to

fight the Ammonites. They destroyed the Ammonite army and laid

siege to the city of Rabah. However, David stayed behind

in Jerusalem. Late one afternoon after his midday rest, David

got out of bed and was walking on the roof

of the palace. As he looked out over the city,

he noticed a woman of unusual beauty taking a bath.

He sent someone to find out who she was, and

he was told she's Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and

the wife of Uriah the Hittite. Then David sent messengers

to get her, and when she came to the palace,

he slept with her. She had just completed the purification

rights after having her menstrual period, and then she returned home. Later,

when Sheba discovered that she was pregnant, he sent David

a message saying I'm pregnant. Then David sent word to

Joeab send me Uriah the Hittite, so Joeb sent him

to David. When Uriah arrived, David asked him how Joab

and the army were getting along and how the war

was progressing, and then he told Urai, go on home

and relax. David even sent a gift to your Yah

after he'd left the palace, but Uriah didn't go home.

He slept that night at the palace entrance with the

king's palace guard. When David heard that Uriah had not

gone home, he summoned him and asked, what's the matter.

Why didn't you go home last night after being away

for so long? And Yourbiah replied, the ark and the

armies of Israel and Judah are living in tents, and

Joe Ab and my master's men are camping in the

open fields. How could I go home to whine and

dine and sleep with my wife? I swear that I

would never do such a thing. Well, stay here today,

David told him, and tomorrow you may return to the army.

So Uriah stayed in Jerusalem that day and the next.

Then David invited him to dinner and got him drunk,

but even then he couldn't get Urrio to go home

to his wife again. He slept at the palace entrance

with the King's palace guard in the spring of the

year when King's ope, I'm reading it again, that's the

same one.

Oh yeah, so I just skipped down to it.

Yeah yeah, yeah. So then in verse fourteen it says,

So the next morning, David wrote a letter to joe

Ab and gave it to Uriah to deliver. Instructed joe

Ab stationed Uriah in the front, on the front lines

where the battle is fiercest, and then pull back so

that he will be killed. So Joeab assigned Uriah to

a spot close to the city wall, where he knew

the enemy's strongest men were fighting. And when the enemy

soldiers came out of the city to fight, Uriah the

hit Tite was killed, along with several other Israelite soldiers.

Then Joeab sent a battle report to David. He told

his messenger to put all of the news of the

battle to the king, but he might get angry and

ask why did the troops go so close to the city.

They didn't they know there would be shooting from the walls.

Wasn't a Bimelek son of Gibeon killed that thebez by

a woman who threw a millstone down on him from

the wall. Why would you get so close to the

wall and tell him? Eurya the hit Tite was killed too.

So the messenger went to Jerusalem and gave a complete

report to David and the enemy came out against us

in the fields, and he said, and as we chased

them back to the city gate, the archers on the

wall shot arrows at us, and some of the king's

men were killed, including Eurya. The hit tite. Well, tell

Joe ab not to be discouraged. David said, the sword

devours this one today and that one tomorrow. Quite harder

next time, and conquer the city. When you Riya's wife

heard that her husband was dead, she mourned for him.

When the period of morning was over, David sent for

her and brought her to the palace, and she became

one of his wives. Then she gave birth to a son.

But the lord was displeased with what David had done.

You think, yeah, it's pretty horrible.

Yeah, so there's the snowball effect of sin.

So it starts with you know, people always say it

starts with the lust, you know, where David was watching

her take a bath, you know, But that's not really

where it started.

Did it.

No, So it started way out ahead of that.

Yeah, Well, it started when it said there's a time

when king should go off to war, which is where

you started to read. And by the way, that little

hiccup in the middle of the passage was we're reading

from the chronological Bible, and it started in first Chronicles twenty.

It inserted that in there because these are the same stories. Oftentimes,

Chronicles and two Samuel record the same thing. So anyway,

so yeah, it's a time when kings should be off

at war. So the Bible literally includes the fact that

David was at home when king should be at war.

So that's really what the first that's really where it began.

In other words, David was out you could argue and

say comparably outside of God's will because he's the leader

of the nation, he's the leader of the army, and

you know, he's representing God's agenda, and yet he should

be at war and he's not.

And we didn't cover the fact that we skipped over

the passage where God, after David unified the whole nation,

God told him, now go finish the job and destroy

all of the enemies of God's people, destroy them all.

So it was David's job. It wasn't just a thing

that David was doing because he's a mean guy. It

was his job that God gave him. Remember the other

day we talked about how David's told God, God, I

want to build you a temple. I want to build

you a building where a house, because I'm living in

a palace. And God said, no, David, I'm going to

bless you because you want to bless me. But what

we did covers the fact that God said, no, your

job is not to build me a temple. I'll let

your son do it. Your job is to go and

continue to finish wiping out the enemies. And he said,

because you have blood on your hands, I don't want

you to be in the one building my temple, right,

but your job is to be that bloody man. Your

job is to be the one who wipes out the

enemies of God in God's people. And so it wasn't

like this was something that, oh, it's just another Saturday,

you know, all the all the all the guys are

going out and doing it. I should do it too. Nah,

I'm tired. I want to stay home. It's it's not

a pick up softball game, right, this is This was

his job. And then it was that time of the

year it talks about, you know, it's the beginning of

the year. This is This would have been April or

March or April. The Hebrew calendar kind of the beginning

of the year changes a little bit, but it would

in March or April, planting would have been done and

the rains were over, so now it would have been

dry enough that typically the time that you would be

most in danger in a kingdom would be sometime right

after the planting, and then the next time that you'd

be really in danger is rate about harvest time, and

so you can count in the fact that your enemies

are probably on the war path. They're on the way,

and so a good king oftentimes would preemptively take his

bigger army and try to catch the enemy army heading

towards the attack. So bring the attack to them instead

of letting them come all the way and put your

cities under siege. That was the idea. So when it

says it was about that. So it says in two

Samuel eleven, in the spring of the year, when kings

normally go out to war, David sends Joe Ab, his

top general, say hey, you go do it. You know,

he's the greatest warrior in the history of Israel. But

he sends Joe Ab, you know, a surrogate to do

it for him.

So many people probably wonder, you know, how was David

able to see Bethsheba.

This is just a practical answer.

His palace would have been higher, his palace would have

been grander, his palace would have been on a hill.

And then also acknowledging the fact that Bethsheba was wife

to your ride, the Hittite, who was also in the army.

But because Thatsheba's house was right next to David's, it's

also an indicator that he was a very prominent man.

He was a prominent man in the war, because you know,

if you live next to the palace, then you know

it's not going to be a shack, it's going to

be a prominent structure, right and.

So and David and so the city of Jerusalem, the

city of David, the part that he took from the

Jebi sites, is on a slanted part of what is

now modern Jerusalem. You've been to the City of David

part of right, and so the palace was at the

top of that hill and everything in the city was

below him.

And it's smaller than you think.

Yeah, yeah, it's not very big. It's a few hundred

yards wide and less than a mile long. Yeah, wouldn't

you say maybe a half mile long?

Yeah?

Yeah, I would, I would agree with that, yeah, and

the and so yeah, he's so he's elevated already because

that's where you build palaces on top of hills. And

then and he's looking down, so he sees bit about

and then what does he do The sin of him

not being at war, you know, when he's should be

outside of God's will leads to being somewhere.

Where he shouldn't be.

And then that leads to him saying, oh, I'm gonna

go ahead and pursue that which I desire, knowing that

it's wrong. And then you know, he calls Bevan and then.

What does he do.

He leverages his position. So that's a dangerous thing. That's

a warning against all spiritual leaders, right when you when

you are able to leverage your influence to get what

you want. It doesn't have to be a sexual sin.

It could be any sin. It could be a money

sent right, you know, it could be it could be

anything where if you're a leader in a position of

a nonprofit organization and the heck listen, this applies to

bosses leveraging their influence, right, And so anyway, Well.

The Bible pretty much sums it up that there's only

three kinds of sins. The lust of the eyes, the

lust of the flesh, and the pride of life. Right,

so you're looking at at at lust is one of

the things that we leverage our power for. It's stuff money,

We try to leverage our power forward to get get around.

And then the pride of life is is fame. Right,

So those are the pretty much those are the three sins. Yeah,

everything falls into those those categories.

And I would say also the pride of life and

my you could probably include some self selfish driven things

as well, right, and self promoting, self gaining, right, yes, yeah,

fame and so anyway, so then then after then, after that,

then what happens is then he acts on his desire,

he forces Bethsheba, uh, based on his influence. You know Bethsheba.

We were just left to assume that she probably has

no choice. Now she could have been a co conspirator

in it.

Yeah.

Well, when when people come and give David bad news,

he kills them, right, so, so just bad news. Right,

So when she gives him the bad news of no,

I'm not sleeping with you, what would happen, right, So

this was a rape. Yeah, yeah, there's no other way

around it. Sometimes people point, well, she was taking a

bath on the roof. Everybody took baths on the roof, right,

They didn't have bathrooms and showers, and so that would

have been the place, a place that there was an

expectation that you had a certain amount of privacy on

the roof of your home, right. And so she wasn't

out there, I don't believe trying to tempt David. She

was just doing what you do. And you're supposed to

look away. And a lot of those cultures, you know,

you and I've been in places before where where their

sense of modesty is a little bit more flexible than ours.

And and and so the idea where you know, I've

been in villages before where you know, say, nursing a

baby openly or whatever they're the idea is that the

village just kind of looks away, right, is different than

and and there's kind of a growing expectation in America

that way. But for the most part, culturally, it's still

a surprise. Yeah, yeah, it's still a surprise. But in

a lot of the a lot of the developing places

we've been to. That's just the thing, and you just

you look away. That's you're supposed to do. And so

the idea would be that you have a right to

privacy on your property and others should away. And David

chose not to.

When we were all in Kenya, they weren't trying to

be immodest to look at us because of nakedness.

It was because we were white as ghosts, right right right,

very curious and so.

Like we would take our shirts off and they would

just you know, like gawk at us. And we had

this room where there was like little uh like spaces

in between the walls and these and these these little

kids would.

Look they were gawking. They were all lined up in

gawking watching.

Us change and and and it was and I realized

very very quickly because then they made comments and said

we as ghosts.

We had little boys, me and Bill, our friend Bill,

and they grabbed our short that we were they thought

we were ghosts, and they grabbed our shorts to check

and see if we were really men. Just they looked

in our shorts to see if we were men. Yeah,

So a very different view than than the way that

you know, our sense of modesty. So there's I don't

think that there's any indication that Beshiba was doing anything inappropriate. Yeah,

but David certainly was. He was on the prowl, you know,

he was. He was probably bored with being a successful warrior.

He's a little tired. Maybe his joints are hurting. He's

got a sore necker, so he has rotator cuffs hurting, right,

and he decides, hey, you know, I want to stay home.

I just I don't want to go out today. And

they're going to Aman, by the way, so Rama Raba.

I wonder if he was a good swimmer at this time.

Rabba is modern day Aman, Jordan. Oh, and you can

see Jerusalem from Aman, which is pretty amazing at nighttime,

the lights of Jerusalem you can see from a man.

It's not very far. And so just across the Jordan

River aways maybe sixty miles or so, I think it's

one hundred miles to drive it, but it's like sixty

five miles across the from mountain to mountain, right, so

you can see it. Because Aman Jordan or Rabba here

would be a lot higher even than Jerusalem, so you're

kind of looking down there. So it's not very far.

This isn't that big of a battle. We're just going

to go and wipe out the Ammonites and Joe ab

can do it. And I think you've got a certain

amount of boredom. And there is something about that that

we are men are supposed to work. We're supposed to work,

and it's hard to get into sin when you're actually working, right, right,

But he's not. He's throwing off his responsibilities and uh,

he's get he's overly confident in his power and in

his might. And it's interesting because yesterday we just read

I don't trust in war horses and chariots and that

kind of stuff. But today he's trusting in his war

horses and chariots, right, And that's where he goes off

the rails.

And isn't And what's I think it's the Book of James.

What says sin leads to more sin and sin.

When ith book at James, Yeah, and.

It leads to death, right and so and so what

happens is the snowball rolling down the hill gets bigger.

He's out of God's will, He's somewhere where he shouldn't be.

He acts upon his desires and then what does that

turn into? It turned in turns into manipulation of your riyah.

He calls Uryah back, and then it turns into murder

eventually before before it turns into murder. You know what

that one of the most convicting things about this entire

story is that he actually hands Uriah his own death sentence.

Because Uriah is so noble, so the Bible goes out

of its way to say Uriah wouldn't go home.

He has so much character. He says, Oh, my men

are something man, What a guy?

What a man?

He says, I'm not going to go home and be,

you know, be with my wife and my kids and or.

You know, indulge in the luxury and the joys of

my home when all of my fighting buddies are still

stuck out intentsime, right, So.

I will sleep at the gates. So he sleeps at

the gates on the ground I'm assuming, right, and then

or you know, maybe on a maybe on a bench

or something. And then then David tries to get him drunk.

Even and even in a state where he's not even

necessarily controlled by his you know, morality compass, he still

doesn't go home.

And so this man is.

A good good man and uh, and then David's like, hey,

he's such a good guy. I'll just go ahead and

send a sealed envelope with my seal by his own hand.

At any time.

You Urray could have broken the seal and read it right, right,

but you're right I didn't because he's a good man.

And then Joe Ab, you know, he knows something's fishy.

He knows something's dirty when Uriah hands him a letter

and then Joeab opens it and it says kill you rriyah.

You know, Joe Ab is like, oh, something's going on here,

which is why he sends the message back and says, hey,

when the king.

Gets mad because people died, because people.

Died, let him know there was a high cost for

his letter. But tell him you're that I did the job.

Your Rayah is dead. And then and then what does

David do.

Oh oh, now I understand, Well, tell him, don't be discouraged.

I know you lost some men, but you know, but hey,

his word was carried out. It's a it's a terrible, terrible,

terrible Uh. What progression of sin?

Right?

And and sin always goes farther than you meant for

it to go right? Right? Was that that old song Sam,

I'll take you farther than you want to go and

keep you longer, and you want to stay, It'll cost

you more than you want to pay.

That's right, right, that's right.

Here's a life application study. Note. In the episode with Bethsheba,

David allowed himself to fall deeper and deeper into sin,

which is what happens you spiral. You ever hear somebody say,

what happened? How did I get here?

Right?

I've had so many people tell me that, and then

it's just a series of bad choices. So it says

one David abandoned his purpose by staying home for more.

Two he focused on his own desires. Three, when temptation came,

he looked into it instead of turning away from it.

What a good phrase. Four he sinned deliberately. He did

it on purpose. Five he tried to cover up his

sin by deceiving others. Six he committed murder to continue

the cover up, and eventually David sin was exposed and

it was punished. The consequences of David sin were far reaching,

affecting many others. David could have chosen to stop and

turn from evil at any stage along the way, But

once sin gets started, it's difficult to stop. The deeper

the mess, the less we want to admit having caused it.

It's much easier to stop sliding down a hill when

you're near the top than when you're halfway down. The

best solution is to stop sin before it starts. You know,

that is full of rich stuff.

Oh yeah, it's.

Easier to stop at the top of the hill than

it is halfway down.

You know, this is I've compared this before to Genesis

chapter two, where you know, it's the it's the Temptation

of the Garden where it starts with you know, just

just a just a what doubting God's work? Right, doubting God?

Basically right?

Right, you know, just to say half God said? Did

God really say? You know, did God really say that

you're supposed.

To be at war?

Right?

Is it really necessary to be where God told you

to be to do? Yeah? Can't you bend the rules?

And that's where it starts in the garden, And that's

where it starts here, And the progression really is the same.

So well, hey, that's a that's a lot and that's uh,

there's a lot packed in there. I'm sure we can

probably do a whole series on just that one chapter,

couldn't we Yeah, you know, several weeks. That could be

a four week series right there. So anyway, well, hey,

we'll continue on in the story because next podcast we

get a confrontation from the prophet of God.

Here it comes, Yeah, here it comes. We'll see then

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