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When Your Sin Stinks Up the Room | Psalm 51:1–12

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  1. You're listening to The Bible Guys, a podcast where a

  2. couple of friends talk about the Bible in fun, in

  3. practical ways. Morning, good morning. We talked the whole night through.

  4. Good morning. Good morning to you.

  5. Man.

  6. Hey, it's Tuesday, and I did last week on Wednesday,

  7. so I figured why not do.

  8. It on to you? Just made ours switching it up you.

  9. Good morning everybody. I'm Chris, this is Jeff. We're the

  10. Bible Guys, and we are in a brand new series

  11. talking about the prayers of the Bible and some of

  12. them even being dangerous.

  13. Well, all of these are dangerous prayers. Okay, so all

  14. of these are we double dog Dare you to pray

  15. these prayers? That's that's where they are. Have you ever

  16. been is that in the Bible? Are you susceptible to

  17. double dog theres?

  18. I used to be a little bit. Ye yet yeah,

  19. but I mean like we we would Yeah, there was

  20. actually a thing in our little friend group where we

  21. would we would sort of reserve the double dog theres

  22. and we were only allowed so many months, so many

  23. so many a month. But then if you used it,

  24. then you used it right all right then? And then

  25. then the other person was sort of obligated.

  26. Okay, right, so that's so that these are the kind

  27. of prayers we dare you to pray them. Yeah, that's

  28. that's kind of how we're praying.

  29. Well, before we dive into that, we have a segment,

  30. and today is the famous dead Joke competition, So we're

  31. going to decide whether or not you have the best

  32. batch or whether I do.

  33. Yeah, I just read the first one just now.

  34. I actually think that desiree uh used this one twice.

  35. I think I've used I think I've read this before. You. Yeah,

  36. I think I think maybe she she likes this one

  37. when she was when she was googling at her chat

  38. remember it. Okay, here's my first one. I'm terrified of elevators,

  39. so I'm taking steps to avoid them.

  40. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we've heard that one.

  41. We've heard that one.

  42. That's a good one though.

  43. It is very good.

  44. It's a good one. It's better than this one.

  45. Okay.

  46. I told my Peter I needed a break. Now it

  47. won't stop sending me KitKat ads.

  48. Oh that is actually downright awful.

  49. It is one to nothing.

  50. Yeah for sure, it is.

  51. Yeah.

  52. Okay, here we go. I asked the librarian if the

  53. library books. Oops, sorry, let me start over. I asked

  54. the librarian if the library had books on paranoia. She whispered,

  55. they're right behind you.

  56. That's a good one.

  57. It's really good.

  58. That's a good one. That would have been a great

  59. thirty second skit. Yeah, I mean that's a good like

  60. TikTok it's a right scary music.

  61. That's really funny.

  62. Oh, that'd be awesome. Okay, let me see. I tried

  63. to write a joke about a broken pencil, but it

  64. had no point. Oh yeah, okay, to nothing nothing at

  65. this point.

  66. Here we go. I used to be a velcrow salesman,

  67. but I couldn't stick with it.

  68. Okay, it's better than this one shoe salesman until I

  69. got the boot.

  70. Oh actually, I like yours of slightly better better Okay,

  71. all right?

  72. Number four okay, so it's it's two to whirrow and one. Okay,

  73. so we'll call it a tie.

  74. Okay, number four. Uh, what do you call a factory

  75. that makes okay products? A satisfactory I like it.

  76. That's a good one.

  77. I like it.

  78. Very clever. I think so too, very clever. I tried

  79. to start a business selling mirrors. It's something I could

  80. really see myself doing Oh that's good. Okay, Okay, that's going.

  81. But yours is better satisfactory that one. If she'd given

  82. that to me in the previous one, yeah, I would

  83. have gotten a point. But you're you're satisfactory.

  84. Okay, way better.

  85. Here we go beyond satisfactory.

  86. I got hidden the head with a can of soda.

  87. Luckily it was a soft drink.

  88. Oh yeah, was that number five?

  89. Yeah, it was number five.

  90. I tried to organize a hide and seek tournament, but

  91. good players are hard to find.

  92. Oh that's a pretty Yes, that's.

  93. A good one. Okay, I'm winning that one. Yeah, so

  94. it's three one and one. That's how it worked out.

  95. So I win.

  96. Yeah, you win. Yeah, you're the winner. You're the best.

  97. You're the best at the dead joke competition that she wrote.

  98. That's right, that's what we read. I was lucky.

  99. I was lucky enough to receive luck of the draw.

  100. Yeah, I was lucky. It's like car It's like cards,

  101. YATSI or whatever. If you're playing the ever play a

  102. game that requires no skill whatsoever.

  103. Yes, I hate it.

  104. Like YACHTSI is like a game where it just doesn't

  105. even matter. You just roll and whatever happens happens. Yeah,

  106. but we love Yatzi. Yeah, we played at our family

  107. all the time. We still play Yatsi when we do

  108. game night was like Yasi. And then we have this

  109. thing called YACHTI Free for All. It's like a version

  110. of YACHTI that's really complex. That's actually spices it up

  111. pretty much and it does require a little bit of skill.

  112. Well okay, yeah, sounds good.

  113. Yeah.

  114. Well, yesterday, kicking off this new series of dangerous prayers,

  115. we talked about dangerous prayers. God searched me.

  116. Wait a minute, there's no transition.

  117. Do you have a transition for this one?

  118. I was going to say, no, I don't. Actually, don't

  119. you ignored it?

  120. I just ignored it. Yep, all right, well I had

  121. I was going to do a good transition today.

  122. Okay, how about this. Some of those jokes made me sad, Yeah,

  123. some of them. Some of them were stinky, yes, right, yeah,

  124. And when your sin stinks up the room, it makes

  125. you sad. And that's the prayer of So I'm fifty one.

  126. Okay, So yeah, that was a rough one. Rough. That's

  127. why I was just going to say yesterday.

  128. Well you said stink. You changed the direction. I was

  129. just going to go with sad.

  130. Well, the title of the day is when your sins?

  131. I know, but I was going with a sad angle.

  132. I'm sorry. That's all right, okay.

  133. I think you stunck my transition up with your stink.

  134. Okay. The idea, So, yesterday we talked about praying prayers

  135. that ruin your comfort. Particularly God, show me if there's

  136. anything that needs to be changed in my life. Really, yep,

  137. search me and know me, show me. And today it

  138. goes further because in Psalm fifty one, David is confessing

  139. his sin with Bathsheba, and it's a powerful prayer. So

  140. I'll just read it. Here's what it says. In Psalm

  141. fifty one, he says, have mercy on me, oh God,

  142. because of your unfailing love, because of your great compassion,

  143. blot out the stain of my sins, Wash me clean

  144. from my guilt, Purify me from my sin, for I

  145. recognize my rebellion. It haunts me day and night against

  146. you and you alone. Have I sinned? I've done what

  147. is evil in your sight. You'll be proved right in

  148. what you say, and your judgment against me is just

  149. for I was born a sinner, yes, from the moment

  150. my mother conceived me. But you desire honesty from the womb,

  151. teaching me wisdom even there. Purify me from my sins

  152. and I will be clean. Wash me and I will

  153. be whiter than snow. Oh, give me back my joy again.

  154. You've broken me. Now let me rejoice. Don't keep looking

  155. at my sins. Remove the stain of my guilt. Create

  156. me a clean heart, Oh God, renew a loyal spirit

  157. within me. Do not banish me from your presence. Do

  158. not take your holy spirit from me. Restore to me

  159. the joy of your salvation. Make me willing to obey you.

  160. Yeah, that's awesome. You know there, I think that Psalm

  161. fifty one is one of the most powerful psalms in

  162. all of the Book of Psalms. And there's one hundred

  163. and fifty of them.

  164. Yeah, one hundred and fifty psalms. Yeah, and the biggest

  165. book in the Bible.

  166. And I think that I think that it's really a

  167. there's a hang on a second, where is the versus? Yeah,

  168. So people always focus on the creating me a clean

  169. heart of God, which by the way, is also a song.

  170. Yes, right, you know a lot, a lot of these songs.

  171. Obviously, the psalms were songs, there you go. But I'm

  172. talking about modern day songs. Yes, right, so I know,

  173. remember yesterday I referred to the fact that created me

  174. a clean heart. I actually knew two versions of that song, right,

  175. I liked one way more than the other. But but

  176. I sing it all the time.

  177. Right, creating me a clean heart, Oh God, that I

  178. might serve you, created me a clean heart, O God,

  179. that I might be renewed, So phil me and heal

  180. me and bring me back to you. Created me a

  181. clean heart, O God, that I might serve you.

  182. That's that's a song. Yeah. And then and then then

  183. today I should have.

  184. Sung that yesterday. Well that No, that's that's that's today's today. Well,

  185. good news we sang it today.

  186. Yeah. Yeah, because I know two version of this song too.

  187. But even though the people go to this song, this,

  188. this verse a lot, creating me a clean heart of God,

  189. do not banish me from your presence, Do not take

  190. your Holy Spirit from me. I like verses sixteen and

  191. seventeen better. Oh really, yeah, I do, because I think

  192. that I think that the concept of this is a

  193. is a life lesson for all of us, because he says,

  194. you do not you do not desire sacrifice, or else

  195. I would offer one you don't want to burn, offering

  196. the sacrifices you desire a broken spirit. You will not

  197. reject a broken and repentant heart, O God. And so

  198. the reason why I like that concept is because God

  199. wants your repentance and your heart more than anything else.

  200. And so there are people who try to say, you know,

  201. like David, he said, you know, he says he could

  202. have probably offered the sacrifices of a thousand rams of

  203. the snap of a finger. Right, Hey, I'm gonna I'm

  204. gonna give this, you know, I'm gonna write this big check.

  205. I'm gonna make this donation, right, I'm gonna I'm going to.

  206. Give the idea of penance.

  207. Yeah, I'm gonna try it. Yeah, I'm gonna try to

  208. make up for it by saying, you know, all of

  209. these repetitive prayers or I'm going to you know.

  210. Give this money, give this money, whatever it is.

  211. And it's like no, no, no, no, you can do that.

  212. But God doesn't want sacrifice or else. David says, I

  213. give it, but that's not what God wants, So David

  214. knows what God wants. David had all the power to

  215. do whatever he wanted to do. He was rich, he

  216. could have done all the good in the world. But

  217. what he was acknowledging here is that God, I would

  218. do all those things. But I know that's not what

  219. you want. You want one thing. You want a broken

  220. and contrite heart, a repentant heart, and these things you

  221. will not despised. So I think it's an acknowledgment that

  222. there's only one thing that God requires in these moments. Now,

  223. I like to create in me a clean heart of God.

  224. I love it. It's obviously phenomenal. Right, But I think

  225. somebody should write a song about sixteen and seventeen. Maybe

  226. I'll do.

  227. That being broken in spirit yeah yea broken repenting heart.

  228. Yeah, the fact that God only wants one thing and

  229. that is your repented heart.

  230. Yeah. And repent heart isn't I'm sorry, repent heart is.

  231. I'm stopping it and I'm turning to you.

  232. Yes, he's a desire to turn yeah. Yeah. Repent means

  233. literally to turn the other way.

  234. So this this comes after Nathan has confronted David. So

  235. David has had an affair with Bethsheba. Bethsheba was the

  236. wife of one of David's Mighty Men, one of David's

  237. special forces, guys Uriah, and then she gets pregnant, and

  238. so David makes sure that Uriah is killed in battle

  239. so that then he can marry.

  240. After he tries to cover it up another way.

  241. Right, can come home and sleep with his wife. And

  242. so it was. It was just a crazy little season

  243. in David's life, and it winds up defining a big

  244. chunk of the rest of his life. So he his

  245. his concern are just to hide and to cover his reputation.

  246. And then Nathan shows up. He's a prophet of God.

  247. God sent Nathan to go and correct David, and he

  248. tells me the story. Hey, there's this rich man who

  249. lives next door to poor man. Rich man has a

  250. guest come over, and the rich man had so many sheep.

  251. But he goes over and he gets the sheep of

  252. the poor man. And this poor man loved this sheep shep,

  253. and he took care of the sheep, and the sheep

  254. lived in his home and he fed him. He just

  255. had his one lamb, and he loved that lamb. But

  256. the rich man went and got that one poor man's lamb.

  257. He said, he's one of his many many lambs. He

  258. goes and kills that poor man's lamb and feeds him.

  259. And he asked David, what do you think should be

  260. done to that guy? Well, David was a shepherd as

  261. a young man, so this was a perfect story. Yeah,

  262. And David is so ticked off, he said they should

  263. hunt down that guy killing.

  264. Yeah.

  265. And then Nathan says, well, you're the man, right right,

  266. you're the king man. You have anything you want, you

  267. have any woman you want, but you went and took

  268. the one wife of a poor man who is loyal

  269. to your right. And so then judgment came. The baby died,

  270. Bessie was pregnant, the baby died, all those things, and

  271. it was a difficult time in David's life. And it's

  272. from that confrontation somebody who cared enough and had the

  273. courage to confront David with his sin, that David comes

  274. and praise this prayer and his first statement is, have

  275. mercy on me, right, God, I don't deserve you to

  276. forgive me, but you have great compassion. And then he says,

  277. wash me clean of my guilt, blot out the stain

  278. of my sins that blot out. You know, back in

  279. that day, they would when they wrote with ink, they

  280. would you know, dip the pen in the ink, write it,

  281. and if there was a mistake, you try to blot

  282. it out. It was kind of a try to pull

  283. the ink back up off of the parchment or off

  284. the paper with a blotter. It was the closest thing

  285. to an eraser that you and I would use today. Right,

  286. that's what they're trying to do. And he says, God,

  287. but you know, have you ever used a blotter. It

  288. never makes it right?

  289. Yeah, well I've blotted out different things, just probably not

  290. in parchment.

  291. Yeah, you can still see right, right. But he's like, hey,

  292. clean it up as much as possible. Would you clean

  293. it up? And he says, creating me a new heart?

  294. And so it's interesting at first he says, would you

  295. just cover it? Then he's like, could you blot it up,

  296. maybe get rid of as much of it as possible,

  297. And then finally says, would you make a new one.

  298. There's kind of a progression to his prayer here, God,

  299. I have no hope of my life ever turning around

  300. unless you make a new life in me because I'll

  301. go do this again. Probably I'm what kind of a sinner?

  302. Am I? This is kind of where he's coming at.

  303. What was I doing? Why did I do this? And God,

  304. you know I'm a wicked person. Would you forgive me

  305. for this? And then he's repenting of his sin, not

  306. just that he he acknowledges I was born a sinner

  307. and I sin, but that's not an excuse. And he's

  308. asking God to forgive his sin and to make him

  309. a new person. And then, like you said, he also

  310. the one thing that we didn't talk about Verse thirteen,

  311. fourteen fifteen. He says, God, then if you fix me

  312. and change me, I'm not going to just use this

  313. story for me. I'm going to use it to then

  314. I'll teach your ways to rebels. Right, I'll use my

  315. I'm not going to waste this story. I'll use my story,

  316. this broken story, for others to maybe warn them and

  317. unseal my lips that my mouth may praise you. Right,

  318. he's saying, my actions are going to be different as

  319. a result of the fact that you begin to change me.

  320. And then he says, you know, I understand that God,

  321. you know sacrifices are required for sin. He ends verse

  322. nineteen says, you'll be pleased with sacrifices offered in the

  323. right spirit. Right, So the sacrifices are required for the sin,

  324. but they mean nothing without the heart. And so that's

  325. what David is trying to extend to God is my

  326. heart is all for you. And so I think that

  327. that's the issue. Is first the heart has to turn

  328. towards God. Then the behaviors will start to turn towards God.

  329. Because when your heart turns towards God, your want tos

  330. start to move towards God, and your feelings, your emotions

  331. start to move that way, and those things tend to

  332. drive your behaviors. And so as you're saying and then

  333. all the other things, you know, the faith based stuff,

  334. I'm supposed to be doing. Those please you. Then when

  335. my heart is right, but when my heart's not for you, you

  336. don't care about the ritual. Ritual doesn't matter.

  337. Yeah, yeah, And you know this is the sin where

  338. David says, my sin is ever before me, and so

  339. you know, this was a public sin. And the thing

  340. even though that we just briefly mentioned, Nathan, I think

  341. one of the most powerful things about this whole story.

  342. And even when you read this prayer, you have to

  343. you know, sort of you know, receive it in that context. Right.

  344. Nathan actually pointed out David's sin publicly as well. Did

  345. you know it was in the courtyard with the kingdom

  346. And so think about like it's what does that phrase

  347. the emperor's emperor has no clothes or something. Yeah, and

  348. nobody wants to tell the emperor is no clothes. It's

  349. the same thing. It's the idea that like, David has

  350. done this thing, and everybody knows that. Everybody knows that

  351. that he is supposed to be our spiritual leader. He

  352. is the guy. He's a man after God's own heart.

  353. He is a godly man. But he is also the king,

  354. and so other kings we fear because of the wickedness.

  355. David is supposed to be king that we don't fear,

  356. you know, because of wickedness. And yet he's done this

  357. wicked thing, but nobody wants to say anything and fear

  358. that he's going to kill him, like the messengers, Right,

  359. and then all of a sudden Nathan comes along and

  360. he's the prophet of God. Think about the courage that

  361. Nathan had the assignment that God gave to Nathan is

  362. to go and confront David. Well, you know, think about it.

  363. It's like, you're the guy who's going to confront Nathan

  364. or David publicly in front of everybody and point it out,

  365. knowing that he has the power to kill you, and

  366. he has a history of killing people who bring bad news,

  367. and so he when he looks at him and he says,

  368. you are the man. You know, you know this man

  369. should be killed. Well, guess who. Guess who it is.

  370. You're the man. You're the man of the story. You're

  371. the one who did this. And then then he decrees

  372. and then he actually lays out judgment in front of everybody.

  373. And I just think to myself in that moment, we

  374. also can use that as a life lesson for us,

  375. because we also have a choice, don't we When people

  376. confront us, When people approach us in love and they say, hey,

  377. I'm gonna I'm gonna confront you about something. I'm gonna

  378. confront you about something that I noticed in your life

  379. that isn't you know, right, and whether it's right or wrong,

  380. you know that that's that's for a discussion to decide.

  381. That's for God's word to decide. But your reaction is everything,

  382. and you have a choice. You can react like David

  383. did right here, or you can react like all the

  384. other kings of the world might right right, which is

  385. which is, don't tell me what to do, and it's

  386. my life. I'm the king of my world, right, don't

  387. bother me with this. And yet David acknowledge the fact

  388. that you're right, so much so that he actually says

  389. against you verse number four, against you and you alone,

  390. have I sinned? And he's talking about you know, God,

  391. I have done with what is evil on your sight. Yeah,

  392. he's done it before the kingdom. But ultimately his offense

  393. is against God. And that's why David repented, because David

  394. acknowledges this is directly a violation of what God wants

  395. from me.

  396. Yeah, of course he sinned against Rayah. Of course he

  397. sinned against Betsheba. A lot of times we think, well,

  398. as long as it doesn't hurt anybody, that this affair,

  399. as long as it doesn't hurt anybody, whatever, I took

  400. a little bit of this money, I did whatever, as

  401. long as there but these things do hurt people. They

  402. just do, and there's consequences that go way beyond and

  403. so a lot of times we feel like, well, it's

  404. just between me and him, it's not. Ultimately, it's between

  405. you and God. And then the fallout is between you

  406. and people. This is why Jesus said the greatest commandment

  407. is right with God, be right with people. Love God.

  408. Love people. Is because when we realize our sins are

  409. ultimately against God, but they cost people something, They cost

  410. us relationships because whatever. This is why David knows, I

  411. have to go get right with you God before I

  412. can be right in front of my kingdom, before I

  413. can get right with best Jiba whatever. And so there's consequences. Certainly,

  414. they lose this baby, he loses his reputation in some things.

  415. But at the same time God does forgive him, and

  416. God does restore him, and God keeps him in his

  417. role as king, and God continues to use him in

  418. a pretty great way. He wrote many, many more psalms

  419. after this point, a big chunk of the Bible. And

  420. so God did forgive him. And so I don't know

  421. what kind of sins you're carrying in your life, but

  422. I know this God forgave David of murder and of adultery, right,

  423. and it was because of a prayer like this, Have

  424. mercy on me. I've only sinned against you. You don't

  425. just want religious ritual. You want my heart. And so

  426. you know I'm broken and I want you to make me,

  427. make me clean right, make me new again, restore to

  428. me the joy of your salvation, and make me willing

  429. to obey you. So he's acknowledging here in his repentance

  430. not only that God, what I did was wrong, but

  431. I want to go back to where I was with

  432. you spiritually. I want to love you as much as

  433. I used to. I want to be as committed to

  434. you as I was. I realized I've drifted, I've kind

  435. of gotten cold. And then he says, you know, make

  436. me willing to obey you. He understands that real repentance

  437. also means a realignment to do what God says is

  438. right and avoid those things that God says is wrong.

  439. So let's talk about this a minute. We talked about

  440. this one time when we were in the Old Testament

  441. with the Bible Guy's podcast. But the Bible says it

  442. was that time of the year when kings go forth

  443. to war spring you know, in those days, the weather

  444. really had effect on when you would fight and when

  445. you didn't, and they would have to wait till the

  446. rains were over, the crops were planted, all those things,

  447. and then usually that's when kings would go to war.

  448. And so you would be ready, even if you weren't

  449. intending to go to war, like I'm going to go

  450. invade my neighbors, you still would rally your troops and

  451. send them out to protect the borders. Right. So this

  452. was that time there, David, that's who he was. He

  453. was a warrior king. It was time for him to

  454. go to war, and it said the Bible says, this

  455. time he decided to stay back. He sent his generals out,

  456. who were very capable, and he sent them out, and

  457. he stayed back. He didn't do what he was supposed

  458. to be doing. And it was in that time that

  459. he sees Bestsheba, he's bored, he's just killing time, he's

  460. just chilling. Yeah, and he feels like he earned this

  461. little vacation. And in that moment, that was also when

  462. he had his laps of judgment, when he wasn't what

  463. we're supposed to be doing. What he's supposed to do.

  464. It's so funny because it reminds me of, oddly enough,

  465. the sin of Adam and even the Garden, because you know,

  466. there's all these different kind of justifications that happen between

  467. the serpent and Adam and Eve and everything else. But

  468. you can trace it all the way back to the

  469. very first words that came out of the enemy's mouth

  470. when he says, did God really say? Right? And so

  471. what ends up happening is is you start to doubt

  472. or make light of God's word. And when you start

  473. to doubt or make light of God's word, then the

  474. snowball rolls right, and the snowball as it goes down

  475. the hill gets bigger and bigger, because then becomes the justification.

  476. Then comes the rationalization, then comes the disobedience, then the consequences,

  477. then the fallout, and then of course the whole human

  478. race right right, And so it's like it's like the

  479. consequences of what tracing back to one thing, which is

  480. did God really say? Is it really that important? Did

  481. you really mean it? Is that? Is that really the

  482. final authority? And so it's it's the same thing. You

  483. have this entire nation, right who knows about David sin

  484. his his sin is ever before him. It leads to murder.

  485. I mean, we're talking about the snowball has rolled down

  486. the hill and it has destroyed towns at this point, right,

  487. And it all comes down to that simple verse, because

  488. the Bible doesn't waste words, right, and the Bible specifically

  489. tells us It starts that chapter and it says in

  490. a time when kings were supposed to go to war,

  491. David stands back and stays back, and then all of

  492. a sudden, what does he do? He sees Beesheba bathing

  493. on a rooftop and then and it's all because he

  494. immediately stepped out of God's will because it was God's responsibility,

  495. his assignment, and so he wasn't where he was supposed

  496. to be. I would argue, that's God's will, and so

  497. he steps out of God's will and that's what started everything.

  498. Yeah, that's right.

  499. So hey, that's a that's a great perspective on Psalm

  500. fifty one, great conversation. Hopefully we'll see you tomorrow with

  501. another dangerous prayer on the Bible.

  502. Guys,