Sermon
Turning and Clinging
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I want to be with honor and joy to preach God's word to you. After nearly two years, we have finished the book of Matthew.
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So this morning, turn with me in your Bible for the book of Ruth. If you don't have a Bible, please wave your hand. We'll give you a copy that you can use while you're here and take one with you.
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How did I know what James said?
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Ruth is situated after the book of Judges and before the book of 1 Samuel. And that location between those two books is deliberate and ancient.
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Ruth 1.1 begins, in the days when the Judges ruled, there was a famine in the land.
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If you turn back one page from the beginning of Ruth to the end of the book of Judges, you'll find this summary of what the days of the Judges were like in Judges 21-25.
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In those days, there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own time.
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So then the days of the Judges were lawless times.
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I don't know why that hasn't changed.
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A time when everyone did as they saw fit and did abide by God's word.
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It was a time when there was no king to rule and guide the people of God according to the will of God.
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It is therefore no coincidence that the book of Ruth, which comes right after Judges, begins with that verse, Ruth 1.1, and then ends with a genealogy that says,
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Boaz fathered Obed, Obed fathered Jesse, and Jesse fathered David.
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That's the same King David that we know so well.
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This is one of the main purposes of the book of Ruth, to explain the origin of the Davidic royal dynasty.
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That's why it's preceded by the book of Judges and followed by the book of 1 and 2 Samuel, which chronicle the rise and reign of David.
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We're never told who the author of the book of Ruth is.
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We can't know for sure.
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But Jewish tradition, as recorded in the Babylonian Talmud, holds that Samuel, Prophet Samuel, was the author.
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Some people think that Samuel was too early to have been the author of Ruth, since he died before David ascended to the throne.
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However, since Samuel is the one who anointed David as king in 1 Samuel 16,
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and it was according to Samuel's prophecy that David eventually did rise to the kingship of Israel,
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I personally think that Samuel is as good a guest as any.
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With the man who had anointed King Saul, but later said that God had rejected and has chosen David to be king instead,
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wouldn't he want to explain that to some people?
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Who is this David?
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Perhaps when Samuel got to meet David's family when he went over to anoint him,
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he got to hear this story about his ancestors and decided to pen it for the sake of Progeny.
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But I speculate and digress.
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Whether Samuel is the author or not, the apparent purpose of the Book of Ruth,
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which is to explain the origin of the Davidic dynasty,
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it would date around the time of the Davidic dynasty, which is around 1000, 1000 BC.
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Ruth is a beautiful and compelling love story.
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It is told with remarkable tenderness and artfulness and delicacy.
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It is a literary masterpiece about which Rudolf Alexander Schroeder,
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the 20th century German poet and a five-time Nobel laureate in literature,
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he once said,
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no poet in the world has written a more beautiful short story.
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In this book, you will find no great wars or spectacular miracles.
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God does not thunder from a fiery mountain, nor does he split the Red Sea.
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There are no awe-inspiring building projects like the tabernacle or the temple.
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There are no larger-than-life kings, prophets, priests.
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Ruth is a humble story about two widows
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and how God redeems them from their loss and widowhood
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through Ruth's marriage to Boaz and the birth of Obed.
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But if, for that reason, you deem that, well,
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nothing really important happens in Ruth,
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then you'd be badly mistaken.
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If not for the steadfast love and covenant loyalty of Ruth
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to her to see her husband, Nellon,
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and to her mother-in-law, Naomi,
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there would be no King David.
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And if there's no King David,
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down the line there is no King Jesus,
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the Son of David.
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The very redemption history
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and the plan of God hangs in the balance
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in this humble story of two widows and their small family.
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Our world doesn't celebrate women like Ruth.
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Think about it.
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From a worldly perspective,
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Ruth didn't accomplish very much.
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Some might truly dismiss her as saying
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all she did was get married and have a kid.
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Our world thinks that that's a waste of a woman's gifts and talents
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and that a woman can only realize her full potential
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when she does something other than that.
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This week, while I was studying Ruth,
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I saw a quote from a Bible scholar
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who criticized the book of Ruth
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as a, quote,
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pernicious, exploitative trap.
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Because, according to her,
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it promotes a patriarchal culture
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where women's primary goal is to bear children.
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That's a narrow and cynical perspective.
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But that's how much of our world thinks.
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Our society doesn't celebrate women like Ruth,
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but God does.
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God wrote a whole book in the Bible
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to recount her story
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so that wherever God's words proclaimed
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in the whole world
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that what she has done
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will be told in memory of her.
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Ruth is the only non-Israelite
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who has a book in the Bible named after her.
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Ruth is named in the very genealogy
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of our Lord and Savior, Jesus himself,
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in Matthew 1.
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So let us labor instead
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to have God's perspective
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and not man's perspective
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on these matters.
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I hope that's enough of an introduction
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to wet your appetite for the series.
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This is completely underrated.
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Oh, actually kind of related.
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These illustrated note-take notes,
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notebooks for the book of Ruth.
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I know some of you guys collect these
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and get one for every sermon series you do.
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Elena, of her own court,
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she used her own money
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to purchase some of these
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and she has some extra.
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So if you want some,
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go talk to Elena.
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Can you raise your hand?
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Yes, yes.
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All right.
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And thank her
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because she thought that herself.
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Please, let me read Ruth 1,
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but before I do,
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let me pray and ask God for her.
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Heavenly Father,
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your word is wiser
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and more powerful
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than anything we can imagine
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to come up with ourselves.
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Would you please,
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by your word,
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humble us in our pride,
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exalt your mercy
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and grace and salvation,
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and fix our eyes
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on your son, Jesus Christ,
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our Lord and Redeemer.
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Do that this morning
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in Jesus' name,
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we pray.
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Amen.
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Please stand so we can honor God
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as we read from his word again.
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I'm going to read
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the whole first chapter.
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Let's read the chapter.
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Let's read the chapter.
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In the days when the judges ruled,
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there was a famine in the land,
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and a man of Bethlehem in Judah
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went to sojourn in the country of Moab,
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he and his wife and his two sons.
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The name of the man was Elimelech
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and the name of his wife, Naomi.
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And the names of his two sons
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were Melon and Kilion.
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They were Ephrathites
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from Bethlehem in Judah.
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They went into the country of Moab
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and remained there.
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But Elimelech,
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the husband of Naomi,
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died,
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and she was left with her two sons.
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These took Moabite wives.
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The name of the one was Orpah
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and the name of the other, Ruth.
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They lived there about ten years.
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And both Melon and Kilion died
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so that the woman was left
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without her two sons and her husband.
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Then she arose with her daughters-in-law
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to return from the country of Moab.
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For she had heard in the fields of Moab
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that the Lord had visited his people
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and given them food.
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So she set out from the place
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where she was with her two daughters-in-law
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and they went on the way
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to return to the land of Judah.
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But Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law,
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Go, return each of you to her mother's house.
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May the Lord deal kindly with you
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as you have dealt with the dead and with me.
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The Lord grant that you may find rest,
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each of you,
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in the house of her husband.
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Then she kissed them
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and they lifted up their voices and wept.
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And they said to her,
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No, we will return with you to your people.
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But Naomi said,
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Turn back, my daughters.
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Why will you go with me?
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Have I yet sons in my womb
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that they may become your husbands?
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Turn back, my daughters.
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Go your way.
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For I am too old to have a husband.
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If I should say,
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I have hope,
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even if I should have a husband this night
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and should bear sons,
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would you therefore wait till they were grown?
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Would you therefore refrain from marrying?
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No, my daughters,
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for it is exceedingly bitter to me
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for your sake
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that the hand of the Lord
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has gone out against me.
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Then they lifted up their voices
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and wept again.
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And Orpah kissed her mother-in-law.
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But Ruth clung to her.
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And she said,
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See,
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your sister-in-law has gone back
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to her people and to her gods.
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Return after your sister-in-law.
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But Ruth said,
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Do not urge me
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to leave you
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or to return from following you.
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For where you go,
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I will go.
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Where you lodge,
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I will lodge.
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Your people
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shall be my people
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and your God,
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my God.
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Where you die,
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I will die
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and there will I be buried.
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May the Lord do so to me
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and more also
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if anything but death
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parts me from you.
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And when Naomi saw
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that she was determined
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to go with her,
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she said,
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No more.
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So the two of them
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went on until they came
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to Bethlehem.
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And when they came
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to Bethlehem,
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the whole town was stirred
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because of them.
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And the woman said,
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Is this Naomi?
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She said to them,
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Do not call me Naomi.
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Call me Mara.
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For the Almighty
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has dealt very bitterly
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with me.
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I went away full
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and the Lord
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has brought me back
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empty.
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Why call me Naomi
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when the Lord
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has testified against me
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and the Almighty
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has brought calamity
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upon me?
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So Naomi returned
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and Ruth,
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the Moabite,
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her daughter-in-law
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with her,
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who returned
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from the country
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of Moab
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and they came
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to Bethlehem
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at the beginning
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of barley harvest.
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This is God's
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holy and authoritative
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word.
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Please be seated.
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The story begins
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with an all too
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common tragedy.
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There's a famine
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in the land
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so that a limelight
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decides to up
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and move his family
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out of Bethlehem
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to sojourn
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in the country
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of Moab.
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A cross-country move
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which is fraught
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with risks
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their migrants,
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immigrants.
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Elimelech's
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initial plan
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was to sojourn
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there a temporary
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stay,
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a brief stay
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to outlast
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the famine
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in Bethlehem
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and then to move
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back.
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But one year
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turns to two years,
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two years
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turns to three years.
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For one reason
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or another
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their stay
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gets extended.
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He says in verses
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two to three
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they went into
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the country
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of Moab
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and remained
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there about
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ten years.
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Naomi
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has two sons
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take
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Moabite wives
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and indication
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that they're
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assimilating
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and settling
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down in the country.
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But during
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those ten years
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Naomi's husband
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dies
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then both
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of her sons
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die
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leaving her
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with only
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her two
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Moabite
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daughters-in-law.
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And verse
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five summarizes
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her
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for one's fate
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so that the
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woman
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was left
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without
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her two
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sons
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and her
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husband.
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Most of us
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haven't suffered
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half as much
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as Naomi
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at least
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not yet.
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We can discern
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Naomi's grief
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and bitterness
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in the things
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that she said
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in this passage.
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She says to her
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daughters-in-law
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in verse 13
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Later in
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verses 19
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to 20
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when they
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returned to
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Bethlehem
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the whole town
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is above us.
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Imagine
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someone
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from our
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church
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or someone
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from Boston
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leading
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and coming
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back
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for ten years
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and the
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woman of the
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town
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are wondering
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is this
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Naomi?
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And that's
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probably a
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loaded question
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is this
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really Naomi?
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Can this
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really be the
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Naomi
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who left
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town
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ten years
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ago?
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Is this
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the Naomi
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who left
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with her
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husband
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and two
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sons
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looking for
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better days
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and better
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future?
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What happened?
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Where's her
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family now?
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Her suffering
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has probably
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taken a
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physical toll
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on her body.
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Her wrinkled
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face and her
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white hairs
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probably tell
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the tale of
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the hardship
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and grief
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that she
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endured in
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Moab.
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Can this
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really be
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Naomi?
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Naomi?
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And Naomi
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responds
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curtly.
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Do not
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call me
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now.
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Call me
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Mara
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for the
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Almighty
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has dealt
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very bitterly
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with me.
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The name
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Naomi
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if you have
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footnotes
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in your
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Bible
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it probably
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tells you
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Naomi
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means pleasant.
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To highlight
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the word
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play we
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can translate
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that as
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sweet.
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But she
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says call
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me Mara
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instead which
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means bitter.
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Don't call
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me sweet.
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Call me
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bitter.
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The Almighty
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has made
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my life
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very bitter.
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That old
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me that you
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knew ten
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years ago
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is gone.
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My innocence
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gone.
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My youth
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gone.
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My optimism
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gone.
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My family
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gone.
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Don't call
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me sweet.
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Call me
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Mara.
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Bitter.
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That's my
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name from
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her life.
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Naomi is
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beginning to
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lose her
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very sense
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of identity.
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She's
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going to
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even
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bitter
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her.
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And pay
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attention to
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the way
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Naomi
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speaks of
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God.
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She says
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the hand
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of the
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Lord
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has gone
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out
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against
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me.
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She's
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not wrong.
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She seems
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to have a
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good understanding
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of the
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sovereignty
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of God.
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The Lord
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says in
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Deuteronomy
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32 39
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see now
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that I
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even I
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am he
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and there
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is no
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God
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beside me.
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I kill
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and I
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make alive.
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I wound
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and I
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heal
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and there
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is none
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that can
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deliver out
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of my
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hand.
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And in
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Isaiah 45
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6-7
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I am
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the Lord
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and there
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is no
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other.
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I form
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light and
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create
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darkness.
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I make
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well-being
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and create
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calamity.
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I am
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the Lord
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who does
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all these
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things.
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The Lord
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is in
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control of
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all these
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things of
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both well-being
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and calamity
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and it is
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his prerogative
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to do so
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as the
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creator who
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exercises
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worship over
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all of his
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creatures and
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creation.
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So she
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gets the
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sovereignty of
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God but
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her understanding
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of the
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character of
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God,
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his love,
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his mercy,
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his justice
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is profoundly
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wrong.
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Look at the
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way she uses
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the title of
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God,
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the Almighty
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in verse 20.
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The Almighty
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has dealt
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very bitterly
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with me.
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That title,
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Almighty,
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El Shaddai,
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is a title
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that is the
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key word in
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the book of
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Genesis and
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it's used
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over and
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over again
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in places
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where God
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is making
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covenant
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promises
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specifically of
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fertility.
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I'm going to
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give you a
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people,
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sons and
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daughters,
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progeny.
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So the use
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of the title
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here is quite
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cutting.
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Look at what
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the Almighty
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has done
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for me.
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He's taken
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away my
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husband and
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both of my
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sons.
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See how
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fertile and
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fruitful he's
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made me.
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Now it
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continues in
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verse 21.
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I went
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away full,
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but the
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Lord has
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brought me
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back in
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a day.
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Note the
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symmetry of
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that sentence.
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Naomi doesn't
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say the
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Lord sent
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me away
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full and
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the Lord
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brought me
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back empty.
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No, she
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says I
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went away
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full, but
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the Lord
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brought me
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back empty.
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The fullness
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she once
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had, she
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attributes to
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herself, my
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family, my
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husband, my
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children, I
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went away
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full.
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But all
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her loss, all
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her tragedy, she
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attributes to
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the Lord.
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Bitterness
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and sin
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doesn't have a
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way of skewing
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our perspective,
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okay?
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And we
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see that
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that's in
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full force in
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Naomi's
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perspective.
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What do you
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mean you
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went away
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full, Naomi?
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You
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literally left
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Bethlehem
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because you
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have no
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food to
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you.
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Because of
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the family,
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you left
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empty.
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Oh, you
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mean your
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family, you
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had family
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back then,
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your husband
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and sons
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then, is
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that what
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you mean?
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But what
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do you
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mean that
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the Lord
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has brought
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you back
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empty?
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How rude.
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I don't
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know if
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you've
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ever
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this
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happened.
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It's
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like you
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agreed to
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meet some
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friends at
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the gathering
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and you
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go to the
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gathering and
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your friend's
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calling somebody
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and it's
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like, oh,
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who's there?
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And I was
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like, oh,
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no one's
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here.
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It's like,
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whoa.
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Sorry for
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giving no
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one.
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Ruth is
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right there
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with the
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mother-in-law,
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right?
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And later
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in chapter
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four, the
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woman of
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the town
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will say
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of Ruth,
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your
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daughter-in-law
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who loves
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you, who
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is more
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to you
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than seven
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sons.
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That's the
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kind of
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precious and
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value the
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woman and
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Ruth is.
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She's brought
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Ruth back
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with her to
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this new
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country and
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yet she
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said, no,
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the Lord
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brought me
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back empty.
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Sorry,
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Ruth.
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Our
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griefs and
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sufferings have
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a way of
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making us
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either bitter
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or humble.
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When I was
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a student at
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seminary, I
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attended a
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debate between
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a Christian
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apologist and
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a Christian
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apostate.
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The
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apostate had
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grown up in
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evangelical
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circles.
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He claimed
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to have had a
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born-again
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experience as a
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high schooler,
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went to what
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he calls a
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fundamentalist
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Bible college,
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eventually got a
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Ph.D. in New
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Testament studies
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and became a
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Bible professor,
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but eventually
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he lost his
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faith because,
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according to
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his words,
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he couldn't
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resolve the
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problem of
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evil in his
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mind.
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If God is
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all power from
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all good,
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why is there
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much evil
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in suffering
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in the world?
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He became a
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very vocal
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and famous
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atheist and
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wrote a book
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entitled
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God's Problem,
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How the Bible
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Fails to
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Answer Our
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Most Important
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Question,
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Why We
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Suffer.
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Recounting
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how he
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lost his
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faith because
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he couldn't
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make sense of
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the suffering
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in the world
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in that
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whole book.
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That debate
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that I
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attended was
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on that
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very topic
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of suffering
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and evil
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in the world
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and this
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was part of
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the promotional
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circuit to
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promote that
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very book.
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After watching
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the debate,
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I exchanged
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a couple
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emails with
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him.
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He was
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academic
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whose email
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wasn't hard
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to find.
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Be warned,
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all you
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academics.
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I
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concluded
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the email
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by gently
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nudging him
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and encouraging
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him to
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reconsider the
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book of
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Ruth.
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Because I
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believed then,
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as I still
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do now,
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16 years
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later,
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that it
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offers a
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compelling
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answer to
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the problem
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of evil
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and suffering
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in the world.
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And what
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was interesting
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was that by
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his own
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admission,
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this man
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hadn't
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suffered much
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at all in
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his life.
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And yet,
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he lost his
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faith because
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of other
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people's
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suffering
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that he
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himself had
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never
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experienced.
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But throughout
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the world,
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so often,
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people who
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have suffered
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the most
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find their
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faith in
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God strengthened
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and deepened.
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Our brother
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Daniel Jenkins
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once told me
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about a book
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entitled,
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When Sorrows
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Like Sea
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Billows
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Roll.
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It's a
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memoir written
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by a friend
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of his,
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Brad Franklin.
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It's a
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memoir about
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the sudden
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death of
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Franklin's
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wife,
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who became
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ill and
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died shortly
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after giving
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birth to
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their seventh
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child,
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leading Brad
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Franklin as
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a widower
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and a single
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dad of seven
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children,
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one of them
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an infant.
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Franklin,
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as you can
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imagine,
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endured
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unimaginable
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grief and
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hardship.
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But he
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didn't have
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a crisis
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of faith.
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Instead,
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his experience
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deepened his
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faith and
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trust in God.
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He writes,
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I so
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desperately
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wanted God
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to be glorified
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and healing
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men.
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That didn't
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happen.
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But he was
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glorified in
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ways I
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didn't
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anticipate.
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He says
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he took
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things one
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day at a
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time.
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If you still
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love God
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and want to
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serve him,
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that day is
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a success.
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Whatever else
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happened that
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day, God
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has kept
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you.
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That's a
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good day.
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such a
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study in
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contrast.
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Extreme
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pressure can
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crush and
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collapse rocks
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and mills,
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but that
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same extreme
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pressure also
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makes diamonds.
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Nathaniel
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actually brought
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a copy of the
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book, I
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think, right?
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If you guys
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want to borrow
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it, first
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come first
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to the
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copy.
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Naomi doesn't
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have that
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perspective yet.
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God adjusts
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her perspective
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by revealing
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his faithfulness
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and steadfast
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love and
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mercy toward
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her throughout
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the book,
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and I think
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she gets
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there by
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the end
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of the
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book, but
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she doesn't
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have that
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perspective
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yet.
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And I
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think,
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I was
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going to
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share this
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example.
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The reason
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why her
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perspective
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is so
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skewed is
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because she
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thinks that
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she doesn't
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deserve anything
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that's
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happening to
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her.
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She sees
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herself as
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blameless.
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I don't
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deserve this
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God.
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My family
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didn't do
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anything to
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deserve this.
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And it's
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that mindset
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that ultimately
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leads to
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bitterness,
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isn't it?
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But her
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perspective,
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once again,
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is skewed.
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God has
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specifically
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stipulated when
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he made
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his covenant
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initially with
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Israel,
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that if they
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sin against
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him, that
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he will
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withhold rain
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so that the
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land does
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not produce
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fruit.
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You can
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find that in
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Leviticus 26,
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18 and 20,
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and Deuteronomy
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28, 23, 24.
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There is not
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only a
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meteorological
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reason for the
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famine, but
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there is a
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theological
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reason for the
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famine.
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It's the
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Lord God who
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brings rain and
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makes the
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heavens give
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showers.
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And remember
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during the
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time of the
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judges, the
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lawless times
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when people
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did whatever
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they saw fit
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and were
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following the
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whims of
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their own
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wicked hearts.
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Is it any
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wonder then
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that the
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Lord God
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struck them
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with famine?
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Moreover,
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now you
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should not
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have left
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Bethlehem in
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the first
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place.
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Abraham
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once sojourned
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in Egypt
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because of
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a famine and
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bad things
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happened to
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him there.
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Isaac once
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sojourned
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among the
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Philistines
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because of a
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famine and
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bad things
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happened to
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him there.
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the story
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of the
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patriarchs
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reminded us
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over and
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over again
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that you're
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not supposed
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to leave
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the promised
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land,
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Cain,
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unless the
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Lord himself
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tells you
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to leave.
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You're not
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supposed to
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go to
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Moab.
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Moabites
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are the
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ones who
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refused
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Israel
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passage when
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they came
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out of
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Egypt.
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Moabites
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are the
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ones who
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seduced
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the Israelites
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into idolatry.
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Moabites
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are the
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ones who
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conquered
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and oppressed
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the Israelites
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in Judges 3,
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15-30.
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They're the
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ones of
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whom Moses
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specifically
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said in
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Deuteronomy
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23,
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3-4,
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no
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Abonite
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or Moabite
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may enter
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the assembly
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of the
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Lord,
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even to
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the tenth
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generation.
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None of
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them may
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enter the
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assembly of
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the Lord
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forever
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because they
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did not
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meet you
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with bread
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and with
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water on
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the way
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when you
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came out
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of Egypt
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and because
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they hired
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against you
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Balaam,
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the son of
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Baor,
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from
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Pethor of
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Mesopotamia,
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to curse
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you.
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Naomi's
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family's
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actions are
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far from
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innocent.
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There are
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several
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workways in
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this passage,
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in the names
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of this
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passage.
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The name
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Bethlehem,
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the name
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of the
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town,
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literally
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means the
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house of
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bread or
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the house
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of food.
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It's the
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same word
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in Hebrew.
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So Naomi
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is literally
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leaving the
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house of
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bread to
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the land
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of Moab,
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the land
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that refused
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Israelites'
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bread when
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they were
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coming out
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of Egypt.
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Naomi's
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husband's
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name means
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Elimelech,
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which means
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God is
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king.
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God is
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still king
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there in
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Bethlehem,
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and instead
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of submitting
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to him,
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they are
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moving to
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a land
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that worships
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the god
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Chemosh,
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who is no
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god and
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no king
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at all.
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It's from
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Israel that
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God will
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raise up
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a deliverer.
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He will
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raise up
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King David.
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It's from
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Israel that
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God will
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raise up
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King Jesus,
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and yet,
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here you are
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leaving the
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promise.
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In Amos
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chapter 4,
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verses 6-8,
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the Lord
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said to
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his people,
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I gave
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you lack
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of bread
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in all
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your places,
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yet you
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did not
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return to
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me.
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I also
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withheld
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rain from
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you,
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yet you
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did not
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return to
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me.
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The word
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return is
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the same
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Hebrew word
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that is
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sometimes
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translated as
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repent,
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and that
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key word
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is used
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15 times
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in the
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book of
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Ruth,
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12 times
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in chapter
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1 alone.
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That's
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the point
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of the
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passage.
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Ruth,
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Naomi,
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return from
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Moab to
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Bethlehem.
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That's why
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the passage
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keeps mentioning
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Bethlehem
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five times
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in those
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passages.
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That's
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where you're
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supposed to
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be.
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That's
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where the
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promises of
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God are.
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That's
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where the
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Lord God
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is king
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over you.
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The proper
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response to
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famine is
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not to
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flee,
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but to
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repent,
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to return
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to
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Yah.
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That's
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why verse
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six is
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such a
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turning point
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in this
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narrative.
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Then
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Naomi arose
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with her
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daughters-in-law
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to return
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from the
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country of
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Moab,
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for she
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had heard
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in the
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fields of
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Moab that
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the Lord
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had visited
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his people
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and given
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them food.
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Where
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would the
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Lord visit
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his people
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and give
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them bread?
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In
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Bethlehem,
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of course,
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the house
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of bread,
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she needs
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to return
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to the
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land and
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the people
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that have
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the favor
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of the
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Lord.
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Brothers
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and sisters,
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when you
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fall upon
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hard times,
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when things
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are not
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going your
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way,
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when you
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struggle in
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the loneliness
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of your
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singleness,
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in the pain
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of infertility,
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in the
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nagging effects
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of chronic
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illness,
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do you
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flee elsewhere?
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Or do you
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turn to
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the Lord?
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To whom
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do you
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turn?
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Do you
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try to
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numb yourself
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emotionally
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by refusing
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to confront
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these issues
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and escaping
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to substances
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or to
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shows or
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even to
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your work?
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Do you
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just try to
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tough it out
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or go
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through life
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like a
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zombie
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carried along
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by your
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grief,
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rather than
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carrying your
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griefs and
-
sorrows to
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the Lord?
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When push
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comes to
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shove,
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when the
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lower
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gets to
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throne,
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what are
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the
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functional
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gods
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in your
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life
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that you
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turn to
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for help
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and for
-
rescue?
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There are
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no gods
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at all.
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Is it
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your own
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industry
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and
-
intelligence?
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Your own
-
resourcefulness?
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Is it
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your parents,
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your boss,
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your spouse,
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your boyfriend,
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or girlfriend?
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Do you
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take things
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into your
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own hands
-
by packing
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up and
-
moving to
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Moab
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when the
-
Lord calls
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you to
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stay and
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to pray
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and to
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wait on
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the
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Lord?
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That's the
-
point of
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this passage.
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Even in
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your bitter
-
circumstances,
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return and
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cling to
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the Lord.
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Recall
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what David
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did in
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Samuel,
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2 Samuel
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24.
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David takes
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a census
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that he's
-
not supposed
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to take.
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He's
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supposed to
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trust in
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the Lord,
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not in
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the number
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of his
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soldiers.
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And after
-
recognizing
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what he
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has done,
-
he says
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David's
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heart struck
-
him so
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that he
-
acknowledged
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his sin.
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And
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prophet Gad
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offers him
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three options
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as God's
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judgment.
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Three years
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of famine,
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three months
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of fleeing
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before enemies,
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or three
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days of
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pestilence.
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And David
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says,
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I am in
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great distress.
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Let us
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fall into
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the hand
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of the
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Lord,
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for his
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mercy is
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great.
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But let
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me not
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fall into
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the hand
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of man.
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So he
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chooses the
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three days
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of pestilence.
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I don't
-
want to,
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even for
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three months,
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be pursued
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by men,
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by enemies.
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The Lord
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is merciful.
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I will
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fall into
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his hands.
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Give me
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the pestilence
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for three
-
days.
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And he
-
was correct
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to throw
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his lot
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in with
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the Lord.
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Because
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while the
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pestilence is
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raging in
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Israel,
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it says
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that the
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Lord
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relented
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from the
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calamity and
-
said to the
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angel who was
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working destruction
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among the
-
people,
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is enough.
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Now stay
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your hand.
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How was
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David able
-
to make that
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choice?
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How did
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David know?
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Because David
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knows,
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not just
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theoretically,
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but experientially
-
and viscerally,
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that the
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Lord is
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merciful and
-
gracious.
-
because he
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knows what
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Hosea says
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in 11
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to 8
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when God
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says,
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how can I
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make you
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like Adma?
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How can I
-
treat you
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like Zebulun?
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My heart
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recoils within
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me.
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My compassion
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grows warm
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and tender.
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I will not
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execute my
-
burning anger.
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I will not
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again destroy
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Ephraim,
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for I am
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God and
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not a
-
man.
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A man
-
would pursue
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you to
-
your destruction.
-
God is
-
too compassionate
-
and merciful
-
for that,
-
so he will
-
not do
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that and
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David knows
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that about
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him.
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So he
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says,
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I'll take
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the best
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of us.
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Hasn't
-
God done
-
enough to
-
prove himself
-
worthy of
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our trust
-
and hope?
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What
-
shall we
-
say to
-
these things?
-
If God
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is for
-
us,
-
who can
-
be against
-
us?
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He who
-
did not
-
spare his
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own son,
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but gave
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him up
-
for us
-
all,
-
how will
-
he not
-
also with
-
him
-
graciously
-
give us
-
all things?
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If God
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gave his
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only son
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for us,
-
can we
-
expect him
-
to give
-
anything
-
more?
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Is there
-
anything
-
more God
-
can give
-
to prove
-
his love
-
for us?
-
His
-
steadfast
-
love for
-
us?
-
Has he
-
not proven
-
that he
-
is trustworthy
-
and worthy
-
of our
-
world?
-
Can we
-
say,
-
as Job
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said,
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though you
-
slay me,
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I will
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yet hope
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in you.
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I will
-
yet trust
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in you.
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Where
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our brothers
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will say,
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if the
-
Lord strikes
-
you one
-
day with
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dementia,
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and you
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can't
-
remember
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any of
-
the new
-
things you're
-
learning,
-
you can't
-
form any
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new memories,
-
and you
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can still
-
say to
-
the people,
-
well then,
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I will
-
rely on my
-
old memories
-
to praise
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the Lord.
-
Well then,
-
I can't
-
remember any
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new things
-
I've learned
-
about my
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God,
-
but I
-
will then
-
relearn that
-
same thing
-
over and
-
over again
-
and praise
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Him.
-
Where
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are my
-
sisters who
-
say,
-
when you
-
get into
-
a car
-
accident,
-
and you
-
become a
-
quadriplegic,
-
and you
-
still say,
-
well,
-
I cannot
-
raise my
-
arms to
-
worship God,
-
yet still
-
I lift up
-
my soul
-
and my
-
heart to
-
Him,
-
and praise
-
Him,
-
because He
-
is worthy
-
of it.
-
those are
-
diamonds that
-
are precious
-
to the Lord
-
God.
-
And so,
-
Naomi turns
-
back,
-
and that
-
brings them
-
to a fork
-
on the road,
-
because now
-
her two
-
daughters-in-law,
-
Lord Phi and
-
Ruth,
-
have to make
-
a decision
-
about whether
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they will go
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with her
-
or not.
-
And
-
even though
-
Naomi tells
-
them to go
-
back and
-
find rest,
-
go find a
-
husband,
-
go back to
-
your mother's
-
house,
-
help her
-
find a
-
husband,
-
ask her
-
to find a
-
new husband
-
for you.
-
They say,
-
no,
-
we will
-
return with
-
you to
-
your people.
-
It's a
-
hard and
-
cheap scene.
-
Lots of
-
mutual affection,
-
care,
-
and tears.
-
But Naomi
-
insists,
-
turn back,
-
my daughters,
-
why would
-
you go with
-
me?
-
Have I
-
yet sons
-
in my womb
-
that they
-
may become
-
your husbands?
-
Turn back,
-
my daughters,
-
go your
-
way,
-
for I'm
-
too old
-
to have
-
a husband.
-
If I
-
should say
-
I have
-
hope,
-
even if I
-
should have
-
a husband
-
this night
-
and should
-
bear sons,
-
would you
-
therefore wait
-
till they
-
will grow?
-
Would you
-
therefore refrain
-
from Mary?
-
See what
-
she's saying?
-
Daughters,
-
if you
-
throw in
-
your lot
-
with me,
-
you forfeit
-
your future.
-
there is
-
no prospect
-
for marriage
-
and happiness
-
and progeny.
-
Children,
-
if you
-
stay with
-
me,
-
off you
-
come.
-
Orba is
-
smart.
-
She knows
-
a hopeless
-
case when she
-
sees one.
-
So she
-
leaves,
-
she kisses
-
her mother
-
and nod
-
it by
-
and goes.
-
She's too
-
young to
-
throw away
-
her life
-
like that
-
and idealism
-
and loyalty.
-
And then
-
Naomi says
-
to Ruth,
-
see look,
-
your opa,
-
your sister
-
is gone.
-
Verse 15.
-
She has
-
gone back
-
to her
-
people
-
and to
-
her gods.
-
Return
-
after your
-
sister-in-law.
-
That's what
-
it says
-
in verse 15.
-
Ah,
-
now we
-
really see
-
what's at
-
stake.
-
Once again
-
the word
-
return
-
is significant
-
here,
-
there are
-
two possible
-
returns,
-
not one.
-
You can
-
either join
-
Naomi's
-
return to
-
Bethlehem,
-
to her
-
people and
-
to her
-
god,
-
or you
-
can join
-
Orba's
-
return to
-
Moab and
-
to her
-
people and
-
to her
-
gods.
-
The first
-
return is
-
repentance.
-
The second
-
return is
-
apostasy or
-
regression.
-
But Ruth
-
is an
-
ex-bornary
-
woman.
-
He says
-
in verse
-
14,
-
Orba
-
kissed her
-
mother-in-law
-
get by,
-
but Ruth
-
clunged her.
-
Mentioned
-
this in
-
Charles and
-
Shirley's
-
wedding recently.
-
By the way,
-
Charles and
-
Shirley are
-
married now.
-
You guys
-
get that.
-
Thank you.
-
That word
-
clunged is
-
the same
-
Hebrew word
-
that is used
-
in Genesis
-
2.
-
2.
-
24 to
-
describe the
-
marriage of
-
them.
-
Therefore,
-
a man shall
-
leave his
-
father and
-
his mother
-
and hold
-
fast to
-
his wife,
-
and they
-
shall become
-
one flesh.
-
Hold
-
fast.
-
That same
-
word is the
-
word cling,
-
to clean.
-
It's the
-
word that's
-
used in Isaiah
-
41.7 to
-
refer to a
-
metal worker,
-
welding metal
-
together,
-
that one
-
flesh union.
-
Ruth is
-
saying,
-
When I
-
married your
-
son Malam,
-
I left my
-
people and
-
my gods
-
behind.
-
That old
-
me is
-
gone.
-
I may
-
have vowed
-
to Malam
-
until death
-
do us part.
-
And even
-
though death
-
has parted
-
us, and
-
my burial
-
obligation is
-
fulfilled, I
-
still have an
-
obligation to
-
you as my
-
mother-in-law.
-
I have thrown
-
in my love
-
with your
-
people and
-
with your
-
God, and
-
I am not
-
leaving.
-
For where
-
you go, I
-
will go.
-
Where you
-
lodge, I
-
will lodge.
-
Your people
-
shall be my
-
people, and
-
your God, my
-
God.
-
Where you
-
die, I
-
will die, and
-
there will I
-
be buried.
-
May the
-
Lord do so
-
to me, and
-
more also, if
-
anything but
-
death parts
-
me from
-
you.
-
That's a
-
marriage.
-
Forbearer
-
for worse,
-
for richer
-
for poorer,
-
in sickness
-
and in
-
death.
-
That's why
-
Baraz later
-
called Ruth
-
a woman of
-
kindness, in
-
chapter 3,
-
verse 10,
-
to hear the
-
word.
-
which means
-
steadfast love
-
or loving
-
kindness, the
-
same word
-
associated with
-
the Lord God
-
himself in
-
verse 8, the
-
word used to
-
describe the
-
eternal character
-
of God.
-
In Exodus
-
34, the
-
Lord, the
-
Lord of God,
-
merciful and
-
gracious, slow
-
to anger and
-
abounding in
-
steadfast love
-
and faithfulness.
-
A constant
-
love, a love
-
that sticks by
-
you through
-
thick and thin.
-
This is an
-
extremely selfless
-
and sacrificial
-
act on
-
loose part.
-
Notice that
-
Ruth himself,
-
loose part
-
doesn't think
-
that she has
-
great prospects
-
back in
-
Bethlehem.
-
She doesn't
-
say, I'll
-
go where
-
you go,
-
where you
-
have food,
-
I'll have
-
food, where
-
you thrive,
-
I will thrive.
-
No, she
-
says, where
-
you die, I
-
will die.
-
For you're
-
buried, I
-
will be
-
buried.
-
That's what
-
awaits her
-
in Bethlehem.
-
Bethlehem.
-
That's what
-
she says.
-
And yet, she
-
says, I will
-
throw in my
-
lot with
-
the eye,
-
because the
-
Lord is
-
merciful and
-
gracious.
-
That's
-
exactly the
-
kind of
-
repentance that
-
the Lord
-
seeks from
-
all of us.
-
Remember,
-
Ruth is a
-
Moabite,
-
and the
-
narrator will
-
not let you
-
forget that
-
throughout the
-
book.
-
Again and
-
again, he
-
will refer to
-
Ruth as
-
Ruth the
-
Moabite,
-
Ruth the
-
Moabite,
-
Ruth the
-
Moabite.
-
You really
-
have to keep
-
saying that?
-
Can you
-
just, I
-
know I'm
-
a Moabite.
-
I don't
-
want the
-
whole world
-
to know
-
I'm a Moabite.
-
You know
-
how Moabites
-
came to be?
-
In Genesis
-
19, 30 to
-
38, after
-
Lot and
-
his two
-
daughters
-
escape the
-
judgment
-
destruction of
-
Sodom and
-
Gomorrah,
-
they take
-
refuge in a
-
cave.
-
And while
-
living in a
-
cave with
-
no civilization
-
around, the
-
daughters
-
realize, you
-
know, if we
-
sit here, we're
-
just going to
-
get old and
-
die, and
-
there's no
-
hope for a
-
future for
-
us, we
-
need to
-
have kids.
-
And so
-
they decide
-
to take
-
matters into
-
their own
-
hands, and
-
they get
-
their father
-
drunk, and
-
they sleep
-
with him.
-
And it's
-
through that
-
incestuous
-
union that
-
they have
-
two sons,
-
and the
-
first son's
-
name is
-
Moab,
-
who is the
-
father of all
-
the Moabites.
-
It was the
-
Moabite woman
-
who seduced the
-
Israelite man,
-
and led them
-
to idolatry,
-
numbers 25.
-
Yet how
-
gracious and
-
merciful of our
-
God that he
-
receives even
-
Ruth and
-
Moabite into
-
his kingdom,
-
into his
-
assembly.
-
A thousand
-
years later,
-
once again, in
-
Bethlehem, a
-
king will be
-
born as was
-
prophesied in
-
Micah 5, 2,
-
and that
-
king is
-
Jesus.
-
And I
-
mentioned to
-
you briefly
-
earlier the
-
genealogy of
-
Matthew, the
-
genealogy of
-
Jesus in
-
Matthew 1.
-
It only
-
mentions, it
-
only names
-
four women
-
besides Mary,
-
the mother of
-
Jesus, and
-
those four
-
women that
-
he names,
-
they are all
-
Gentiles.
-
All people
-
who had no
-
business being
-
in the
-
genealogy of
-
the Jewish
-
Messiah.
-
All whose
-
people are a
-
symbol of
-
sin and
-
shame and
-
evil and
-
injustice.
-
Why do you
-
think God
-
does that?
-
That's the
-
kind of thing
-
that people
-
will hide.
-
Well, let's
-
leave that one
-
up.
-
The next
-
one.
-
Why does
-
God do
-
that?
-
It's as if
-
he's inviting
-
us.
-
Where have
-
you been,
-
friend?
-
What is
-
your family
-
history?
-
What are
-
the skeletons
-
in your
-
closet?
-
What are
-
your sins
-
and your
-
shame that
-
you carry
-
every single
-
day and
-
you don't
-
know whether
-
you'll be
-
received in
-
Bethlehem or
-
not, in
-
the house of
-
bread or
-
not, in
-
the kingdom
-
of God
-
or not,
-
and you
-
come with
-
fear and
-
trembling.
-
And yet
-
when you
-
come, you
-
find that
-
God has
-
made a
-
way for
-
you in
-
Jesus
-
Christ by
-
sending that
-
promised king
-
and that
-
he died on
-
the cross to
-
pay for
-
your shame,
-
pay for
-
your sin,
-
so that
-
Moabites,
-
Gentile
-
sinners,
-
can come
-
and find
-
salvation,
-
forgiveness,
-
acceptance.
-
That's
-
the amazing
-
story
-
of the book
-
of the book.
-
So brothers and
-
sisters,
-
where,
-
with whom,
-
with what are you
-
throwing in your
-
lot?
-
God, it's
-
always a good
-
idea to
-
throw in your
-
lot with
-
the gracious,
-
merciful Lord.
-
No matter
-
how hard
-
your situation
-
is, even
-
in the
-
bitterest of
-
circumstances,
-
return and
-
cling to the
-
Lord your
-
God.
-
Let's pray.
-
O Father,
-
yes,
-
though you
-
slay us,
-
yet we
-
will
-
hold you.
-
No matter
-
how hard
-
our lives
-
get,
-
no matter
-
how
-
persistent,
-
lingering,
-
and longer
-
our suffering
-
is,
-
O Lord,
-
we will,
-
we will
-
rather be a
-
doorkeeper
-
in your
-
house than
-
dwell in
-
the tents
-
in the
-
quick end.
-
We will
-
rather suffer
-
and wait
-
on you and
-
still throw
-
our lot
-
in with you
-
because you
-
are not
-
like a
-
man.
-
you are
-
gracious,
-
compassionate,
-
slow to
-
anger,
-
abounding
-
in steadfast
-
love.
-
Would you
-
please reveal
-
more of your
-
character
-
to all of
-
us, your
-
children,
-
my brothers
-
and sisters
-
in Christ?
-
God,
-
if David
-
had reason
-
to throw
-
in his
-
love with
-
you,
-
how much
-
more do
-
we would
-
have seen
-
your
-
full,
-
the fullness
-
of your
-
revelation,
-
of your
-
love in
-
Jesus Christ.
-
Help us
-
to trust you,
-
to hope in
-
you,
-
through all
-
our days.
-
In Jesus'
-
name we pray.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
Amen.
-
may