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A Life Worthy

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  1. Last Sunday was so sweet. I

  2. think we had 23 baptisms last week.

  3. I love watching God move. I love the

  4. way that he surprises us with— whether it's a white dog or 4

  5. extra baptisms. I love that he moves the way that he

  6. moves. Amen. I

  7. have to go all Pastor Wayne on you for just a second. He used to

  8. do this all the time. He would go, something would hit him, and

  9. he would stop in the middle of what he was doing and just give us

  10. a sidebar, a teaching. When we have moments like what just

  11. happened in our worship, where we just kind of want to live and

  12. dwell in that Jesus be the name, there's such a sweet

  13. anointing in that. And sometimes you don't really know what

  14. to do with that. And it isn't that you have to do anything in it.

  15. We don't always have to do something. But what I would

  16. encourage you to think about in thushe moments, there is a

  17. word in scripture in Hebrew, and it's H-O-S, and it's hush.

  18. And it is a time between times. And by definition, it is a

  19. place where we can lay before him. We can lay before him.

  20. And one of the specific reasons for that time, like when

  21. that pregnant pause, when you don't really know what— it

  22. says that we can go before him and we can ask questions. And

  23. we can ponder, and we can get answers from him in thushe

  24. moments. And so I encourage you, when the Holy Spirit

  25. begins to move like that, and you begin to feel that

  26. quietness in your spirit, take just a moment and go, God,

  27. what are you trying to say to me? Lord, I really need an

  28. answer here. I need your direction in this. And trust that

  29. if you will get before him in thushe moments, in that

  30. silence, and allow him to speak, you just might get the

  31. answers that you've been looking for. He offers

  32. us a time between times when we don't necessarily know what

  33. to do, but he does. So I encourage you in

  34. that, just to grab hold of that, because I do believe that there's a

  35. teaching spirit in this house today. I believe that there is an

  36. anointing in this house to learn and go deeper and to

  37. grow in today. And so we're gonna step into that in just a

  38. second. I just wanted to thank the Lord for the 23 that

  39. were back there Thank you to all of you who were baptized last week for

  40. your participation in that. I wanted to share with you that I'm no

  41. longer angry with all of the people who are posting their beach pictures

  42. right now. And I expect,

  43. since I'm sure all of them are watching the service this morning, 'cause we—

  44. bring me a seashell and that will be proof that you

  45. watched today.

  46. And it can't say Walmart.

  47. There needs to be some sand on it, people. Anyway, the

  48. other thing I wanted to share with you, a lot of people already know this,

  49. but I felt like I should share it with you. We are not going to

  50. have Fall Fest this year, not the way that we have in the past.

  51. I'm not a huge proponent of Halloween or

  52. all of that. Y'all do whatever the Lord convicts. But for me, you know

  53. what I wanna celebrate? I wanna celebrate the family. So on the

  54. 24th, rather than on Halloween night, Yeah. On the

  55. 24th of October, it's a Saturday, from 10 to 2, we are

  56. gonna have Family Fest. And we are going to have—

  57. Rob and Critter are digging a pit out there. They're gonna kill something and cook

  58. it. And it's gonna be fabulous. We're gonna

  59. have a plethora of desserts brought in by the ladies of

  60. the church. We're gonna have inflatables for the kids. There's gonna be a

  61. basketball tournament. There is, because Justin loves competition,

  62. he is doing a— What's it called, guys? A tailgate

  63. competition. And there are prizes in that. He's gonna share

  64. more about that next week. But I just wanted to encourage you to mark

  65. that day. Come spend time with the family, and let's just enjoy

  66. one another because that's my heart. I would love to spend some time

  67. with you sitting across, preferably across a

  68. coconut pie, but we'll just put that out there. Anyways, a

  69. couple of Wednesday nights ago, Pastor Ronnie brought a message in

  70. on the Wednesday gathering. And when he had finished, And when he finished teaching,

  71. I could not wait to get up to him and go, I want you to

  72. teach that again. I need you to teach that again.

  73. It was water to me. And speaking of a teaching

  74. spirit, may he make our hearts— the Word says that he awakens

  75. us morning by morning to be taught of him. May this be one of

  76. thushe mornings this morning, Pastor Ronnie.

  77. Thank you.

  78. Good morning. Good morning. I'm glad all of you are here

  79. since you, like me, were not invited to go with the rest of

  80. the family for Fall Fest.

  81. We call this season at our house Left Behind.

  82. And yes, in case you're wondering, I have Dropped a few

  83. pounds of hair.

  84. I actually, considering how much hair I had to begin with, I should

  85. maybe say a few grams. But yeah, Friday the gal

  86. was going, well, let's try it. Would you like to try it a little tighter

  87. this time? And I went, well, sure, why not? I did not know what

  88. tight was. Now I

  89. do, but I've been assured that it will grow back. So we'll

  90. see. What are you doing, Doug? Yeah,

  91. I'm— Doug is down there bragging about his beard.

  92. All of his hair fell down here.

  93. Yeah.

  94. I don't even know what that was, and I don't want to hear it.

  95. Yes, Barbie was referring to a couple of Wednesday nights ago

  96. when I taught. What she failed to say was

  97. she also said, you won't even have to study.

  98. It doesn't work that way.

  99. And I'm glad it doesn't work that way. Yeah.

  100. And as I was Yeah, I was

  101. teaching in the 2nd chapter of

  102. Colossians and I got hung up. I got hung up on a

  103. passage that we'll look at briefly here.

  104. But rather than it being the launching point, as I was

  105. looking through the scriptures and studying the scripture about

  106. unity, I came across

  107. another place that I got hung up.

  108. Unity has always been a key for me.

  109. I don't know exactly. I can't point back to the point where it went,

  110. oh, this is going to be a theme for your life and for your

  111. ministry. But it basically always has. And certainly for

  112. the 32 and a half years that I was the pastor here,

  113. unity was really a goal, was really a focus

  114. with me. But as I went

  115. through Ephesians chapter 4, verses 1

    Ephesians 4:1–6

  116. through 6, where it talks about unity, I

  117. was caught up by another phrase. And the

  118. phrase that I was caught up by— well, I'm

  119. going to put the passage up here. And

  120. normally I ask you to stand, but I don't

  121. want to— don't want you to do that today. I

  122. want you to read through it with me, but in

  123. your mind. Don't necessarily say it out

  124. loud, okay? As a prisoner for the Lord,

  125. then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the

  126. calling you have received. Be completely

  127. humble and gentle; be patient, bearing

  128. with one another in love. Make every

  129. effort to keep the unity of the Spirit

  130. through the bond of peace. There is one

  131. body and one Spirit, just as you were

  132. called to one hope when you were called,

  133. one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God

  134. and Father of all, who is over all and

  135. through all and in all. Father, I thank You for Your

  136. presence in this place. I thank You for the Holy Spirit

  137. who brings life where there's death. And

  138. I pray that today You would touch dead

  139. places in us and breathe life

  140. on them. In Jesus' name.

  141. Amen. I grew up with the teaching— and some of you may have as well

  142. depending on if you were brought up in church and if you were brought up

  143. in the certain kind of church. I grew up with the teaching that

  144. the opposite of a kingdom life is a

  145. worldly life. Worldly was about as

  146. bad as you could get in the camp

  147. that I grew up in. And the first thing that

  148. I began to think once I read this passage, and I'll connect it here in

  149. just a minute, was, what does it mean to be worldly?

  150. What does that even mean?

  151. And we tend to think of worldliness

  152. in terms of outward issues.

  153. Sexual immorality is the first thing that comes to mind in our culture and in

  154. many cultures, maybe not all, but certainly in ours, first thing that

  155. comes to mind. But there are other things as well

  156. that are outward. When I was growing up, I

  157. grew up in a place where I was taught, you know,

  158. if you're smoking, you're going to hell. Smoking will send you to hell. Now

  159. about 20 years later when I came back to the Lord and quit

  160. smoking,

  161. the teaching had shifted a little, you know. Oh, can you

  162. smoke and go to heaven? Yes, you can, and you'll get there quicker.

  163. Yeah, exactly.

  164. But smoking, drinking alcohol,

  165. not soda, but alcohol,

  166. bad language. I was telling Michelle

  167. this week, I said, my— I never really heard my dad cuss.

  168. Never really heard him use any of those kind of words.

  169. But I did often wonder what she

  170. meant. Because we all

  171. have things that happen to us.

  172. Worldly amusements. I can't roller

  173. skate because I couldn't go to that

  174. worldly place and learn how to roller skate.

  175. Remember, I did finally get to go bowling and I'm pretty

  176. good. Not that good.

  177. But, and let's see, there was something else I was going to

  178. say about worldly amusements. Hmm? Movies.

  179. Movies, yeah. First, I wasn't ever allowed to go to the

  180. movies. I could watch the Million Dollar Movie at 10

  181. o'clock on TV, but I wasn't ever allowed to go to movies

  182. until John Wayne came out with The Alamo. And my dad took me

  183. and we put on our coats and our ties and we went to the— I

  184. don't even remember what it was called, but it was

  185. downtown on Fifth Avenue. And as we were sitting there

  186. waiting for the movie to start, I'll never forget my dad

  187. sitting next to me and going, Ronnie Allen, we're never

  188. going to do this again. It's the only time this is ever

  189. going to happen. I've never heard a sermon that went quite

  190. this far, but a former elder who used to go here named

  191. Rodney Boyd, I remember before they started coming here,

  192. the last church he had been to, and I think probably the

  193. last sermon he heard at the last church, and this may be why

  194. it was— they stopped going there, was a sermon about men

  195. wearing short sleeves. It was a sermon about, you know,

  196. these men, they needed to cover those arms up.

  197. Muscles. These muscles. Sorry, gals. Yeah,

  198. I don't know what that was all about. Some of these

  199. things are debatable as to whether or not they are

  200. worldly.

  201. But what is not debatable is that just

  202. because one doesn't do these things doesn't mean that they're not worldly.

  203. 'Cause you can do those— you cannot do those things and you can,

  204. you can still be quite worldly. Yeah. I

  205. grew up thinking being a Christian was about what you did not do.

  206. But as I got older and began to read the Bible more, I began to

  207. learn that there was a whole lot in there about what you're supposed to do,

  208. what you actually should do. And if you actually do the things that you're

  209. supposed to do, it's a whole lot easier to not do the things that you

  210. don't do— not supposed to do because You don't have time to do

  211. it. Right.

  212. Yeah.

  213. Jesus made it very clear that there are internal— that it's the

  214. internal matters that matters the most.

  215. And so we'll go deeper about what's worldly and identify such things as

  216. greed. You can't look at somebody outwardly and know if they're greedy or not.

  217. Rich people are greedy. Poor people are greedy. Yeah. In-between

  218. people are greedy. You can't tell.

  219. Anger. I mean, we all get angry, but there—

  220. Paul talks about fits of anger. And

  221. we'll have fits of anger and not control them. That's

  222. the way the world settles things. That's not how God does

  223. it. Anger that we hold on to.

  224. Paul said, don't let the sun go down on your anger.

  225. Jealousy. You know, sometimes people

  226. think of pastors as they got it all together and they really,

  227. really got that. And of course, a pastor would never be jealous.

  228. Go to a pastors conference and see how

  229. they talk in the side rooms about the guy who's got the biggest church. Right.

  230. That's right. Yeah. Yeah.

  231. Divisiveness often disguised as

  232. holiness.

  233. Well, I don't know if anybody heard me say that.

  234. But divisiveness often disguised as holiness.

  235. We don't need them here. We don't want— one

  236. part of the body saying to another, I don't need you.

  237. Yeah. Proverbs— in fact, Proverbs 6:19 says

    Proverbs 6:19

  238. divisive— a person who is divisive is one of the 6

  239. things that God hates.

  240. Slander often wrapped up in gossip, often

  241. wrapped up in prayer requests.

  242. You know, if you know that Somebody needs prayer,

  243. pray for them. Why don't you just pray for them?

  244. You know, and gossip, how do you stop gossip? You stop gossip by

  245. stopping it. When it comes to

  246. you, don't take it to somebody else. What do you

  247. think about this? You know, this is— you just stop it.

  248. That's how that works.

  249. Hard-heartedness. I'm not going to spend too much time on

  250. this. These are things that can in fact

  251. point to being worldly. But God—

  252. those are the don'ts. God has called us to

  253. something so utterly other

  254. than being worldly. Something called

  255. kingdom life. And it's defined by what we—

  256. by what we are and by what we do.

  257. And God has called us to experience and practice something that

  258. in the Greek is called koinonia. Now that's an

  259. Anglicized version of the Greek word.

  260. So you want— you're not going to find it in your New

  261. Testament likely unless you've got a Greek New Testament. Yeah.

  262. But the word is usually translated over into English and it's mentioned

  263. some 20 times in the New Testament. And it's usually translated

  264. as fellowship. But this fellowship

  265. goes far beyond hot dogs and

  266. hugs in the foyer and high fives and

  267. ballgame scores. It goes far beyond that. Most of the

  268. fellowship we know is defined by a common

  269. cause. You know, go Vols!

  270. Roll Tide!

  271. Oh, I thought you said, go God. You said, roll Tide.

  272. My hearing. Yeah. But

  273. those are the kinds of things that we have as a

  274. common cause or common belief, especially if we've

  275. got a belief that's a minority opinion and we find another

  276. clump of people who have that same belief. I mean, we've got our tribe now.

  277. Wow. Because we believe that. Yeah. Or

  278. an interest. A golf fellowship is a

  279. fellowship. It actually is.

  280. But it's not koinonia. None of these things are

  281. koinonia because they will all

  282. pass away. The hot dog will

  283. pass away. Don't think about that much.

  284. The balls, the tide, the

  285. teams all pass away.

  286. Yeah. Golf will even pass away

  287. someday. Koinonia actually has a

  288. couple of ways that it works. On a vertical plane,

  289. it is a deep communion with Christ,

  290. with Jesus. Do you know Jesus?

  291. Not, do you know about Jesus? Or do

  292. you not smoke and chew? You know,

  293. do you know Jesus? That's the essence

  294. of things.

  295. Not, I'm not religious, I just love

  296. the Lord. Well, that's a great phrase and hopefully it's true, but you're

  297. probably religious. Hmm. As well.

  298. Because it's true that Christianity is supposed to be a relationship, not a religion.

  299. But the thing is, religion is a lot easier than relationship.

  300. We prefer religion because when it

  301. comes to religion, all I got to do is take care of my stuff.

  302. That's all I got to do. Take care of my stuff. When it comes to

  303. relationship, that's a

  304. lot harder. That's work.

  305. The word koinonia is not used in the Old Testament, and it's not because

  306. it's— the Old Testament wasn't written in Greek. It's not

  307. used because it wasn't available before Christ.

  308. Right. This is something that opened up and was

  309. made available to us, to have koinonia. And like I say,

  310. on a vertical plane, it's deep communion with God, with Christ.

  311. On a horizontal plane, it is the

  312. bond between believers, a

  313. bond based firmly on Christ. Christ is my firm

  314. foundation, the rock on which I stand, something

  315. that does not pass away.

  316. And it is made perfect by love. Amen.

  317. It is the prime outworking of a kingdom

  318. life. It is

  319. what Jesus meant when He said, they will know

  320. you're My disciples because you love each other,

  321. because you love one another.

  322. If asked to list the most important elements in

  323. the Christian life, Aside from

  324. Christ, he's obviously where it all starts. But if asked to

  325. list the most important elements in the Christian life after Jesus,

  326. many would list matters related to doctrine,

  327. what you're supposed to believe,

  328. standing on current issues. I can't believe that

  329. person is a Christian and they and they

  330. vote for that person that I didn't vote for. Or, I can't

  331. believe that that person is a Christian and they don't think that's wrong.

  332. Or, they do think that's wrong.

  333. Or they might list certain areas of focus

  334. in terms of what we're supposed to do as

  335. Christians. Or maybe they'd list

  336. fulfilling religious duties, etc. Ephesians

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  337. chapter 4 is one of the foundational

  338. chapters that defines what the church is supposed to be,

  339. how we're supposed to be, what it's all about.

  340. This is how you live a life worthy of the calling

  341. that you have received.

  342. I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.

  343. Okay. If that's all He said, then we'd be left to our own

  344. devices to go, oh, this is a worthy life, or, this is

  345. not a worthy life, and this is— No, He didn't leave it to

  346. chance. He said, let me tell you what that is. Let me tell you how

  347. you do that. Be completely humble

  348. and gentle.

  349. That's something I've got to work on. Something I've been working

  350. on. Yeah. You know, I've been told

  351. a number of times in my life that I

  352. intimidate people. And I think,

  353. I'm 5'8. How could I

  354. intimidate somebody? But apparently, you know, I have

  355. a certain way of speaking sometimes and I have a

  356. certain look. You know, maybe give people sometimes.

  357. And Michelle has pointed out to me

  358. that I need to do something about that. And I'm trying.

  359. I really am. I mean, I've been thinking about it

  360. and trying.

  361. Humble, gentle, be patient.

  362. Bearing with one another in love. Make every

  363. effort to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

  364. That's how you live a life worthy of the calling that you have

  365. received. And now when it

  366. comes to yourself, you know, it's kind of easy to

  367. maybe fool yourself into thinking, hey, I got this. I'm humble.

  368. Let me tell you how humble I am.

  369. I'm gentle. What do you mean I'm not gentle? You know,

  370. I'm patient. I gave you 12

  371. seconds to change your mind.

  372. But of course, these things only matter and they only come

  373. out in relation to others. Yeah.

  374. Bear, bear with one another in love and make every

  375. effort to live in the unity of the Spirit.

  376. I think I'd rather just be religious.

  377. This is hard. Right.

  378. But why? Why should we do this? Because there is one body

  379. and one Spirit. And one

  380. faith, one baptism, one Lord, one

  381. hope that you were called to when you were

  382. called. One God and Father of all,

  383. who is over all and in all and through all. And one

  384. isn't always the loneliest number. That's right. And if you don't

  385. get that reference, ask your parents or your grandparents.

  386. One is the number of unity.

  387. Well, okay, we heard that. That was pretty intimidating.

  388. What's the value though? I mean, what do you get?

  389. Well, unity— when I taught on this

  390. a couple of Wednesday nights ago, I told I told the

  391. people, I said, I was going to say unity is very

  392. underrated. I wrote that down in my notes and then I went,

  393. very is such a lame word. I mean, you know,

  394. nobody uses that anymore. I will use extremely.

  395. And I went, that is exactly the same word as very.

  396. And then the Lord dropped a meaningful adjective

  397. in my heart. Wow. Unity is foolishly

  398. underrated. Foolishly.

  399. We hear sermon after sermon about everything from

  400. evangelism to purity to how to get your miracle.

  401. And I'm not saying that any of those are wrong,

  402. but we rarely hear on a

  403. sermon about how to biblically live a life worthy

  404. of the calling that you've received,

  405. which seems to be a pretty important thing.

  406. And therefore, because I think in large part

  407. because of the imbalance in that teaching-wise,

  408. we willingly sacrifice unity for these other things. Yes.

  409. We willingly sacrifice and will cast aside those who

  410. aren't with us on these other things.

  411. And we're like Esau who will— who sold his

  412. birthright, something he couldn't see, for a bowl of

  413. stew, something I want right now.

  414. Yes. And the Scripture calls him ungodly. So

  415. what is unity worth? Okay, we may not be able to necessarily

  416. see it. And let me just say that when I say unity, I'm not talking

  417. about unanimity. I'm not talking about agreeing about everything.

  418. I'm talking about a life lived with others that is humble,

  419. gentle, patient, bearing with one another

  420. in love, making every effort to keep the

  421. unity of the Spirit and the bond of peace. That's what I'm talking about.

  422. Yeah. Psalm

  423. 133: Behold how

  424. good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity. For there

  425. the Lord has commanded His blessing, life forevermore.

  426. Eternal life resides in unity.

  427. And what is eternal life? Well, Jesus defined it in

  428. John chapter 17, verse 3. He said, Now this is

    John 17:3

  429. eternal life. This is pretty clear as you can

  430. get. This is eternal life, to know You.

  431. The only true God and Jesus Christ whom you have sent. And

  432. the psalmist says that resides where we dwell

  433. together in unity.

  434. The chapter I was teaching out of on that night, Colossians

    Colossians 2 chapter mention

  435. chapter 2, I got hung up. I got hung—

  436. actually, Wayne had taught a couple of weeks earlier and he got hung up

  437. and didn't get very far in his chapter. And I thought, well, cool, I can

  438. do that. And so I got— and we're both

  439. from the '60s, so we understand hung up. And we—

  440. but I got hung up, and I got hung up on this. Paul says, my

  441. goal, my goal in writing

  442. to the Colossians and all of the people that I've not met personally,

  443. my goal is that they may be encouraged in heart and

  444. united in love so that they

  445. may have the full riches of complete understanding

  446. in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely Christ,

  447. in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and

  448. knowledge. I kind of went,

  449. wow! Wow! Being brought together in complete

  450. unity, all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. That's

  451. worth something! Yes. I do believe.

  452. And later on in Colossians 3, Wayne taught that

  453. chapter this last Wednesday. I'm going to go there in just a minute,

  454. but it says

  455. in verse 14, it says that regarding the

  456. virtues, all of the virtues, the things that we go, okay,

  457. that's good stuff. It says that love

  458. binds them all together in perfect

  459. unity.

  460. One more. John chapter 17. Jesus praying on

    John 17 chapter mention

  461. the night before He went to the cross, praying for us. He says, I'm not

  462. just praying for the people in this room, Father. I'm praying for

  463. those who are going to come to believe on Me through

  464. their message. I have given them the glory that You

  465. gave Me, that they may be one as We are one, I in them

  466. and You in Me, so that they may be brought to

  467. complete unity then the world will know that you

  468. sent me and have loved them even as you've loved me.

  469. How many of you know someone who won't have

  470. anything to do with the faith or with Christianity

  471. or won't go to church or just is an unbeliever

  472. because of what they saw in the church? Yes.

  473. Because of something that happened in church. I'm not asking you to raise

  474. your hand, but I'm— because I know all of you know somebody who

  475. fits in that description. And Jesus says, if we'll

  476. live a life worthy of the life we've been called to, if

  477. we'll do what He's talking about here, then the

  478. world will know. They'll know Jesus came from God.

  479. They'll know that God loves them. Amen.

  480. Well, now wait a minute, preacher. Are you asking us to compromise

  481. what we believe?

  482. Hmm. Yes

  483. and no. And it also

  484. depends on what you're talking about. Because you see, there are

  485. certain things that are essential

  486. in the faith. And all of them connect

  487. directly to Jesus Christ. Yeah. The essentials

  488. all connect directly to Him. Who He

  489. was, who He is, why He came, that He died on

  490. the cross for our sins, that God raised Him from the dead

  491. for our justification. Those are essential

  492. things. Other things are important.

  493. But— and I did write this down because this is

  494. something that hopefully will get written in here.

  495. Important does not equal essential. Right.

  496. We don't do well in this country, in our culture with

  497. nuance. We want a soundbite.

  498. We want something that we can just go, oh yeah, there it is. I got

  499. that. You know, how many of you had a What Would

  500. Jesus Do bracelet?

  501. I had one. Yeah. How many did you

  502. have? Many. Many.

  503. Yeah. You know, the only issue with— the only problem that I found

  504. with that is that when I would look at that bracelet and think, oh, what

  505. would Jesus do? More often than not, what I came up with was,

  506. What do I really want to do? Yeah, I could see Jesus doing that, you

  507. know. And then

  508. I do that because, hey, what would

  509. Jesus do? You know.

  510. We like sound bites. And

  511. rather than necessarily thinking things through. And what is

  512. important, what is essential, we all have to.

  513. That's right. Yeah. But what is important

  514. to one may not be important to another.

  515. You say, well, now Paul said to watch your life and doctrine closely.

  516. Yeah, let me give you that complete quote. Watch your life and

  517. doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do,

  518. you will save both yourself and your hearers. Well, there it is right there. Well,

  519. but you know what's not right there? Watch their life

  520. and doctrine closely. Watch their

  521. life and doctrine closely. It's watch your life and doctrine closely.

  522. Jesus had a lot to say about people who felt like it was

  523. their job to watch their life and doctrine closely.

  524. You know this passage. You know where I'm going. Do not judge or you too

  525. will be judged. For in the same way you

  526. judge others, you will be judged. And with the

  527. measure that you use, it will be measured to you. If those last

  528. 2 phrases don't just scare you straight,

  529. then there's no straight in you. Yeah.

  530. The way you judge is how you're going to be

  531. judged. And I, you know,

  532. this has kind of 2 sides to it. Because I—

  533. it's not just a warning that says, well, don't be

  534. judgmental because you're going to get that back at you, but it's also

  535. another side that says, hey, if you don't judge—

  536. that's what I want. That's what I need.

  537. I don't know about you, but I need that. Amen.

  538. With the measure that you use, it'll be measured to you. Nowhere

  539. does God rebuke anyone for being too merciful!

  540. Right. Nowhere does God rebuke

  541. anyone for being too forgiving, for being

  542. too tenderhearted, for being too kind! And

  543. then as soon as Jesus said this, He also went

  544. on to talk about, well, you know, it's pretty

  545. easy to see that speck in your your brother's

  546. eye, but you're looking through a log in your

  547. own. It might be one of your specks. I don't

  548. know. Romans 14, that chapter is

  549. foundational in my walk with God, has been

  550. foundational in my life and my walk with God.

  551. And I would encourage you to read Romans 14.

  552. and go through it. I'm not going to unpack it

  553. this morning. I'm going to mention one

  554. verse, but I would encourage you to do that.

  555. And now it's talking about issues of the day and

  556. issues of the culture. And so it might be things that we could just

  557. pass off as, oh, well, that was for then. This is— but I believe

  558. that the principle that Romans 14 is bringing

  559. is an eternal principle. And

  560. it's contained in this one verse.

  561. Who are you to judge someone else's servant? This is Paul talking!

  562. To their own master servants stand or fall, and they will

  563. stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand. If the Lord

  564. can make me stand, He can make anybody stand.

  565. Because I know Right. I know me.

  566. As an adult, hopefully you can understand that

  567. you can only control the decisions and

  568. actions of one person.

  569. Even as a parent, I mean, as a parent, we kind of think for a

  570. while that we can control some others, but we find out we're disabused of that

  571. notion pretty quickly.

  572. Yeah. And children consider it appropriate to complain.

  573. Well, Johnny gets to do it. Mary gets

  574. to do it. Why is it that I'm

  575. not the one who gets any of that?

  576. Paul says over in 1 Corinthians 13 when he's talking

  577. about love, I used to act like a child.

  578. But now that I've become a man, I put away

  579. childish ways. Yes.

  580. Yet we're willing to take a stand on

  581. certain issues or positions to the exclusion

  582. of others who are not where we are

  583. and not about what we are about

  584. and such things. You know, when I was younger, I used to

  585. think that anyone who disagreed with me was wrong.

  586. And now that I have gotten older, I know that anyone

  587. who disagrees with me is someone who disagrees

  588. with me.

  589. Right. And it may be that I'm right and they're wrong. It

  590. may be that they're right and I'm wrong. It may be that we're both right.

  591. I don't know how that works, but, you know, there's the

  592. sovereignty of God and free will of man. You know, there are a lot of

  593. things I don't understand. And probably the most likely thing is

  594. we're both wrong. Hello.

  595. But we're willing to take these things and we're willing to

  596. exclude others. And so we forfeit

  597. unity. We forfeit koinonia.

  598. We forfeit the life to which we are

  599. called, something so completely

  600. other than worldliness.

  601. You should, of course, not compromise on any conviction

  602. God has given you. If God has

  603. convicted you of something— I remember Wayne telling a story

  604. about Don Finto one One time the pastor up at

  605. Belmont was preaching

  606. one Sunday night and he

  607. apparently after Sunday evenings, he would go home and have ice cream. My

  608. kind of man. He'd go home and have ice cream.

  609. And one Sunday night he went home and he

  610. started to get his ice cream and the Holy Spirit said, what are you doing?

  611. He said, well, I'm I'm having ice cream. You don't,

  612. you don't really care if I— do you?

  613. Caused a conviction in his heart. Now that didn't make

  614. me stop eating ice cream. But if it

  615. made— but if Romans 14 at the end

  616. says, whatever is not from faith is sin. Right.

  617. So for Don, that was going to be a sin.

  618. I could give other examples, but that's enough. If you have a

  619. conviction, it's for you. It is for you, and

  620. you need to keep— and it may be something that nobody else thinks, well, what

  621. in the world's wrong with that? Whatever is not from faith is

  622. sin. So it's for you. And I'm not saying

  623. compromise that. What I'm saying is don't tie it up in a package and put

  624. it on your brother's back and go, here, you carry this too. That's right.

  625. That's right. There are

  626. conflicts that exist. I'm getting close to closing

  627. here, guys. So there are conflicts that exist in our world

  628. that are completely irreconcilable.

  629. There is no way to bring them together.

  630. And I used to think, how's this going to work,

  631. God? I mean, we get to heaven and there are going

  632. to be people there who

  633. killed other people's loved ones who are

  634. there, or, you know, you bulldozed my house,

  635. you ruined my life. How is that going to get reconciled?

  636. And yet When we are before the throne,

  637. all of those matters will just be forgotten.

  638. The answer to how they're going to get reconciled

  639. is the answer: Jesus.

  640. He's how they'll get reconciled.

  641. Wayne taught last Wednesday from Colossians 3, and he focused on

  642. on 2 verses. And these are the 2 verses he

  643. focused on. Since then you have been raised

  644. with Christ, set your hearts on things above,

  645. where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds

  646. on things above, not on earthly

  647. things. And then he

  648. emphasized, you do it! You do it! This isn't

  649. something That the Holy Spirit makes you do. It's

  650. something you do. You take your mind and set it up there.

  651. Down here we have differences that seem so important,

  652. but there our minds are set on things

  653. that cause these divides to just, just fade away.

  654. And we can already, we can

  655. already be there if we will do that, if we'll set our

  656. minds there rather than on this

  657. here. My mom and dad are over there.

  658. My dad was a pastor. He couldn't do anything without my

  659. mom. Uh,

  660. And through the years, I saw them,

  661. uh, I saw them be despised.

  662. I saw them be, uh,

  663. betrayed. I saw them be

  664. hurt a bunch of different levels,

  665. most of it in church. Uh,

  666. But I also saw them deal with

  667. those things. I mean, they had

  668. their moments for sure, but

  669. them deal with those things

  670. with humility, with

  671. kindness, with patience,

  672. bearing with those who

  673. offended. Seeking the unity

  674. of the Spirit in the bond of

  675. peace.. And when my dad died,

  676. it was— it's been 18 years ago

  677. now. Whew. My

  678. mom passed away before that, but when my dad died, I put together a

  679. slideshow for the viewing. And the last

  680. slide that I put on there had a picture of my dad

  681. He had a haircut about like mine.

  682. And he had 1916 to

  683. 2008. And then I, for

  684. some reason, I wrote, a life well lived.

  685. And I think that's kind of the same thing as a

  686. life worthy. Yeah.

  687. What a glorious day that will be. We

  688. used to sing an old hymn, Sing the wondrous love of

  689. Jesus, of his mercy and his grace. In

  690. the mansions bright and blessed, he's prepared for us a place.

  691. Let us then be true and faithful.

  692. Something serving every day. Just

  693. one glimpse of Him in glory will the

  694. toils of life repay.

  695. What a glorious day that will be. But if we are willing

  696. to not impose our personal convictions, our personal

  697. ideas, our personal— the important things—

  698. On others and be completely humble and gentle,

  699. patient, and bear with one another in

  700. love, then

  701. we can come to complete unity. And the blessings

  702. that are over there, we can bring down here.

  703. Amen. The healing that's

  704. over there, Can be brought down here. That's,

  705. that's something worth doing. That's a life

  706. worth living. Would you stand with me? Those

  707. who are going to pray with people, come.

  708. Whether you're worldly or whether you're

  709. kingdom-minded, life in a fallen world is

  710. hard. And if you have something that you need

  711. Prayer with, prayer for these brothers and

  712. sisters are here. And I want you to just come and

  713. ask them to pray with you. Engage in some

  714. fellowship. Okay? We're going to worship.

  715. If you don't need to come, worship with us for a few minutes.