Sermon
The Covenant Family
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We're going to be reading from Genesis chapter
Genesis 29 chapter mention
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29. We'll start reading in verse 31, where we
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left off last week, and then we will be reading
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through chapter 30 to verse 24, starting in chapter
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29, verse 31. Now the Lord saw that Leah was
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unloved, and he opened her womb, but Rachel was
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barren. Leah conceived and bore a son and named
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him Reuben. For she said, Because the Lord has
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seen my affliction, surely now my husband will
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love me. Then she conceived again and bore a
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son and said, Because the Lord has heard that
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I am unloved, he has therefore given me this
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son also. So she named him Simeon. She conceived
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again and bore a son and said, Now this time
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my husband will become attached to me because
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I have borne him three sons. Therefore he was
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named Levi. And she conceived again and bore
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a son and said, This time I will praise the Lord.
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Therefore she named him Judah. Then she stopped
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bearing. Now when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob
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no children, she became jealous of her sister.
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And she said to Jacob, give me children or else
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I die. Then Jacob's anger burned against Rachel
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and he said, am I in the place of God who has
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withheld from you the fruit of the womb? She
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said, here is my maid Bilhah. Go into her that
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she may bear on my knees that through her I too
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may have children. So she gave him her maid,
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Bilhah, as a wife, and Jacob went into her. Bilhah
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conceived and bore Jacob a son. Then Rachel said,
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God has vindicated me and has indeed heard my
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voice and has given me a son. Therefore she named
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him Dan. Rachel's maid, Bilhah, conceived again
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and bore Jacob a second son. So Rachel said,
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with mighty wrestlings. I have wrestled with
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my sister, and I have indeed prevailed. And she
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named him Naphtali. When Leah saw that she had
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stopped bearing, she took her maid, Zilpah, and
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gave her to Jacob as a wife. Leah's maid, Zilpah,
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bore Jacob a son. Then Leah said, How fortunate!
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So she named him Gad. Leah's maid Zilpah bore
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Jacob a second son. Then Leah said, Happy am
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I, for women will call me happy. So she named
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him Asher. Now in the days of wheat harvest,
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Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field
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and brought them to his mother Leah. Then Rachel
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said to Leah, Please give me some of your son's
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mandrakes. But she said to her, Is it a small
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matter? for you to take my husband? And would
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you take my son's mandrakes also? So Rachel said,
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Therefore he may lay with you tonight in return
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for your son's mandrakes. When Jacob came in
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from the field in the evening, then Leah went
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out to meet him and said, You must come in to
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me, for I have surely hired you with my son's
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mandrakes. So he laid with her that night. God
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gave heed to Leah, and she conceived and bore
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Jacob a fifth son. Then Leah said, God has given
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me my wages because I gave my maid to my husband.
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So she named him Issachar. Leah conceived again
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and bore a sixth son to Jacob. Then Leah said,
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God has endowed me with a good gift. Now my husband
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will dwell with me. because I have borne him
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six sons. So she named him Zebulun. Afterward,
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she bore a daughter and named her Dinah. Then
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God remembered Rachel, and God gave heed to her
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and opened her womb. And she conceived and bore
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a son and said, God has taken away my reproach.
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She named him Joseph. saying, may the Lord give
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me another son. Let's go to the Lord in prayer.
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Father, we come to you at this time and we come
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to your word. Father, we ask that you would bless
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richly the ministry of your word. Father, let
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us be edified and sanctified, built up, changed
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and transformed. by your spirit as he works in
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and through your word in our lives. Father, we
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ask that you would use your word to pierce the
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hearts of unbelieving men, to draw them unto
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yourself. Lord, we thank you for the word of
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God. We ask that you would be in our midst at
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this time. We ask these things in Jesus' name.
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Amen. You may be seated. We come to this passage
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at the end of chapter 29. and the first half
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of chapter 30, and we immediately come to it,
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and many of us think, wow, there's really some
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issues going on with this family. It's a sad
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story in many, many ways. We find the women in
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the story dissatisfied. with themselves, their
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circumstances, with their children in a sense,
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and with their husbands. We find the man willing
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to compromise himself for the sake of pleasing
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his wives and for the sake of supposedly procuring
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that which God has promised. But we also see
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that this story is very beautiful in another
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way. It's ugly, brothers and sisters. It's clear
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and obvious. It's up front. We can't miss it.
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And we're going to deal with a lot of that today.
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But this story is incredibly beautiful as well.
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Because what we have here is God and His grace
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and in His mercy working in the midst of... this
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ugliness, working in the midst of this family
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to bring about his purposes, to bring about his
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plans, to bring about the Lord Jesus Christ,
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and to bring about the church, brothers and sisters.
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So we are going to have mixed emotions as we
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come to this text. I want to ask a question before
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we proceed any further. God made a promise to
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Jacob in chapter 28. And it was the same promise
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that he made to Abraham and to Isaac. I want
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to read in chapter 28 when God meets with Jacob
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at Bethel. Listen to these words. Then Jacob,
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starting in verse 10, then Jacob departed from
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Beersheba and went to Haran. He came to a certain
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place and spent the night there because the sun
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had set. And he took one of the stones of the
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place and put it under his head and he laid down
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in that place. He had a dream. And behold, a
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ladder was set on the earth with its top reaching
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to heaven. And behold, the angels of God were
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ascending and descending on it. And behold, the
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Lord stood above it and said, I am the Lord.
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the God of your father Abraham and the God of
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Isaac. The land on which you lie, I will give
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it to you and to your descendants. Now, right
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now, Jacob has no descendants, brothers and sisters.
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He has no children. He has no wife when God makes
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this promise to him. Your descendants will also
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be like the dust of the earth. And you will spread
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out like the West and the East to the East and
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to the North and the South. And in you and in
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your descendants shall all the families of the
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earth be blessed. Now, before I get to my question,
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I want to remind you of something. We mentioned
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that there's four dimensions to this promise
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that God made to Abraham. There's the dimension
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that God is making a promise specifically to
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the patriarch. He did the same with Abraham.
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He's doing the same with Jacob. God would bless
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Jacob himself as a man, his household. God would
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bring about the nation of Israel. They would
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spread out. They would be a multitude. They would
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be a large people. But God would bring the Messiah.
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He would bring Christ in and through Jacob as
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well. And then he would bring the church. He
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would bless the nations. By saving sinners, brothers
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and sisters, and establishing the church throughout
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the world, throughout the ages until his return.
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How would God in this story, in Genesis chapter
Genesis 29 chapter mention
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29 and chapter 30, take further steps in accomplishing
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that promise? That's the question we have to
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consider today. In the establishment of Jacob's
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family with Leah, Rachel, and the two maidservants,
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we see God building a family. We see God taking
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further steps to accomplish and bring about his
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purposes. How exactly do we see this in the text
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today which we read? Well, first, By opening
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Rachel's womb, but I apologize, by opening Leah's
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womb as he sees her affliction. We see this in
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verses 31 through 35. What is Leah's affliction?
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What is the root of her issues? Well, she has
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disordered affections. She inordinately desires
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and longs and craves the regard of her husband
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and disregards God and his pleasure for her.
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However, we also see that she is in a broken
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home that is terribly dysfunctional. She's secondary
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in a sense in her relationship with Jacob. It's
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a relational affliction in a sense. She's longing
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for something from her husband that she cannot
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get in and from her husband in a sense. She's
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looking for a satisfaction that only God can
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provide. She's overlooked. She's unseen. She's
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unloved. She's invisible in a sense. Nobody recognizes
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her. Nobody sees her. But all the while, God
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sees her. God knows Leah. She is before his face.
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Yet this doesn't help her until a little bit
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later. God is compassionate to her and he blesses.
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We see this in verses 31 through 34 of chapter
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29. God opens her womb and makes her fruitful
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and gives her children. It carries the idea that
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God hears Leah's cries, her affliction, her pain.
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God sees her hardship and her heartache and God
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acts. to bring relief in her life. He's compassionate
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and merciful towards Leah. And eventually, we
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see that Leah praises the Lord. In a sense, her
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affection and her love and her praise move beyond
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her husband to the Lord. We see this in verse
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35, and she conceived again and bore a son and
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said, This time I will praise the Lord. Therefore
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she named him Judah. Then she stopped bearing.
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So we see that God is progressing and advancing
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his sovereign purposes by opening Leah's womb.
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What's the significance of the name Judah, brothers
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and sisters? Who would come from the tribe of
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Judah? The Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ himself
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would rise from the tribe of Judah. God is working
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towards his purposes and bringing about his purposes
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in Christ. But we also see that God takes further
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steps in advancing and fulfilling his promise
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to Jacob by opening. Rachel's womb as he remembers
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her. We see this in the last part of the section
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we read in Genesis chapter 30, verses 22 through
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24. We read this. Then God remembered Rachel
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and gave heed to her and opened her womb. So
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she conceived and bore a son and said, God has
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taken away my reproach. She named him Joseph,
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saying, may the Lord give me another son. The
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first thing we notice about this portion is that
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God remembers Rachel. Now it's not as though
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God forgot Rachel. It's not as though God had
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neglected to think about Rachel. But when the
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Bible uses this language, God remember, it's
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intending to communicate something that is special.
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It describes a unique divine act that is carried
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out in covenant faithfulness and in providential
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timing. So if you remember, God remembered Noah.
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God didn't forget Noah after the flood started.
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No, God acted in covenantal faithfulness and
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providential timing to start the recession of
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the waters. He was bringing about his purposes.
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He was acting distinctly and uniquely in covenant
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faithfulness towards his people. The same thing
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is said with regards to Abraham and Sarah. And
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the same thing is referred to in Exodus chapter
Exodus 2 chapter mention
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2, where God remembers his people who are in
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bondage. It's the decisive, covenantal, faithful
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act of God on behalf of his people. That's what
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we find taking place here. But it also says that
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God hears Rachel, which implies That she has
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been crying out to God. She has been crying out
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to God to be merciful to her, to take her shame
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and reproach away from her. We can look back
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on these circumstances and these situations,
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and we can look at them somewhat humorously at
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times. We can look back and we can see these
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situations, and brothers and sisters, we can
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look with a proud heart and look down on our
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forefathers and the matriarchs of our faith.
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We can look back almost in an unfeeling sense
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as well, where we don't realize this was their
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life. Brothers and sisters, Rachel, her pride
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in life. was destroyed by barrenness. Her value
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and worth in that culture was a shame culture.
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They heaped shame on women for that. Brothers
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and sisters, she felt the weight of this and
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she felt the relief of this when God opened her
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womb and gave her a son. When Joseph was born,
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she cried out to God. And then God heard her
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prayers and God acted on her behalf. Just as
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God heard and saw with regards to Leah, God hears
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and God sees and God acts with regards to Rachel
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as well, brothers and sisters. We find something
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really important about the character of God in
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all of this. Leah and Rachel both stand in a
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long line of godly women who are taught to wait
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upon the Lord, who are dependent on the Lord
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to open their womb and to accomplish his purposes
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in and through. Think of Sarah, the matriarch
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of the faith, Abraham's wife. Think of Rebecca,
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Rachel, Leah. We could think about Hannah. You
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know the grief and the mourning and the pain
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that Hannah expressed in her prayer of lament,
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which Eli overheard. Do you remember that, brothers
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and sisters? We could think about Elizabeth in
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the New Testament, the mother of John the Baptist.
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They were dependent on God to perform and to
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act and to work on their behalf. God saw them.
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God heard them and God acted. Now, there's another
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way that we see that God brings about the further.
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of his promise and his purposes in this text.
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Not just by opening Leah's womb, not just by
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opening Rachel's womb, but also by overruling
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the sin and the schemes and the plans of men
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and women. These individuals in this family,
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God overrules them. It's so clear in this passage.
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When we look at this passage and we see the ugly
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side of it, what do we see in this text? Brothers
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and sisters, we see anger. We see jealousy, envy,
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rivalry, and competition. We see disordered loves.
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We see sexual immorality. and infidelity. We
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see godlessness in a sense among the patriarchal
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family of Jacob. We see sinful desires. We see
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sinful actions. We even see superstition with
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the mandrakes, which we'll speak on in a moment.
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That was a fruit that was associated with fertility
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in that culture. They were trying to leverage
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superstition to get what they wanted. However,
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in the midst of all of this, we see God bringing
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about his purposes by overruling it, superintending
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these situations, circumstances, sin and transgressions
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and broken relationships to bring about his sovereign
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purposes. Think about Rachel and Leah's carnal
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schemes to obtain children and marital affection.
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They couldn't get what they want, so they thought
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they would take another path. Think about Sarah
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and Hagar, the same reality. could not produce
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and get what she wanted. She did not wait on
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the Lord as she ought to. So she resorts to the
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arm of the flesh and gives Hagar to her husband.
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We find the exact same thing with Rachel in the
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first several verses of chapter 30. Rachel wants
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children. Rachel cannot have children. Therefore,
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she gives her servant Bilhah to her husband so
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that she can have children through Bilhah. She
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got a surrogate, in a sense, to obtain that which
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she wanted. She was scheming in her carnality
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and in her flesh, brothers and sisters. She was
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resorting. to the flesh to get what only God
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could give to her. And we might think, well,
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Leah will learn from Rachel. Leah will learn
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from Rachel not to do these foolish things to
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resort to the arm of the flesh, but she doesn't.
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She does the exact same thing. She gives her
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servant, Zilpah, Jacob. Why? Because she has
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desires that she wants met. She wants children.
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She longs for that which only God can give. Then
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we get to this mandrake episode or this manipulation.
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And we'll read this starting in verse In verse
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14, we read this. Now in the days of the wheat
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harvest, Reuben went and found mandrakes in the
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field and brought them to his mother Leah. Then
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Rachel said to Leah, please give me some of your
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son's mandrakes. But she said to her, is it a
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small matter for you to take my husband? And
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would you... Take my son's mandrakes also. So
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Rachel said, Therefore, he may lie with you tonight
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in return for your son's mandrakes. When Jacob
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came in from the field in the evening, then Leah
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went out to meet him and said, You must come
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in to me, for I have surely hired you with my
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son's mandrakes. So he lay with her that night.
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So we have these two women. Who are seeking to
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leverage superstitious things to increase their
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fertility and their chances of having children.
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Why? To get ahead of the other one, brothers
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and sisters. They're trying to outdo the other
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one. Sinful, vain. prideful advancement within
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the home and the family. That's what's going
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on in this home and Jacob, the patriarch's life.
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Using and utilizing magic in a sense with the
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mandrakes, most likely, that's not absolute,
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but most likely that is what is taking place.
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Now it doesn't work out the way that they think.
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Rachel thinks that if she can get the mandrakes,
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she will have children. However, Leah is the
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one that God opens her womb and gives her children.
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It's almost as though the Lord is saying, your
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plans and your purposes cannot thwart my promise.
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Your plans and your purposes, your schemes, your
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agendas cannot stop my grand and my glorious
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gospel purposes, which I will accomplish in my
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perfect sovereign will, which I will bring about
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according to my purposes. What is the inevitable
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result? They cannot stop. the promise according
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to God's purposes. And God uses their sinful
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actions to accomplish his sovereign purposes.
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It is clear that the God here was accomplishing
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his purpose according to His perfect, holy will.
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It is not being accomplished by the fallible,
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finite purposes of men. They are being used by
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God to bring about His ends. They are not the
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ends. Everybody in that home, in the patriarchal
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household, has their own intentions, brothers
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and sisters. Jacob has his, Leah has hers, Rachel
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has hers, and the maidservants have theirs. In
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all of those carnal schemes and sins and transgressions,
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God is working a single unified plan to bring
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about his purposes and his plans for these individuals,
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for Israel, for Christ, and for the church. God
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is bringing all of that out of this. We have
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such a low, such a little view of God all too
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often, brothers and sisters. Think about these
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individuals. These were emotionally driven events
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and circumstances. But out of it, did they see?
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Did they see beyond their circumstances? Possibly
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at times we see glimpses of that. With Leah praising
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God. with them thinking about themselves and
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their children with relation to God. Jacob saying,
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I am not God. Rachel praising the Lord because
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he's taken away. Yes, but brothers and sisters,
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over and above all of that is a transcendent
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and a glorious and a majestic God who is not
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caught up in the schemes of men. And he's bringing
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about his purposes. He transcends the troubles.
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and the trials and the hardships that catch us
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up and stop us, that hurt us so bad. Brothers
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and sisters, they don't stop his purposes. They
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don't stop his plans. He continues in his sovereignty
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and his power. It's clear that God governs and
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rules. over and through their sin to bring about
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his good sovereign purposes. In Proverbs chapter
Proverbs 19 chapter mention
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19, we read this. In Proverbs 19, we read this
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in verse 21. Many plans are in the man's heart,
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but the counsel of the Lord will stand. Brothers
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and sisters, God's decretive purposes will come
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about. They are established and they are ordained.
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We are fallible and find that he is infinite
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and he is eternal. We read in Genesis chapter
Genesis 50 chapter mention
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50, this famous verse at the end of Joseph's
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life, starting in verse 18. Then his brothers
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also came and fell down before him and said,
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Behold, we are your servants. But Joseph said
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to them, Do not be afraid, for am I in God's
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place? Meaning, am I God? Am I sovereign? No.
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Am I judge? No. As for you, you meant evil against
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me, but God meant it. The evil, the evil the
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brothers intended against Joseph, God meant that
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evil for good in order to bring about this present
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result to preserve many people alive. God is
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in the business of bringing good out of evil,
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brothers and sisters. God is in the business
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of bringing good out of bad. God is in the business
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of bringing good things out of hard and terrible
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and difficult things, brothers and sisters. That
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is the hope of the Christian, that God uses the
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hard things in their lives for his glory and
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for their good. In Acts chapter 2, we have the
Acts 2 chapter mention
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ultimate demonstration of God bringing good.
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out of evil. We read this in Acts chapter 2,
Acts 2 chapter mention
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starting in verse 22. Men of Israel, listen to
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these words. Jesus the Nazarene, a man attested
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to you by God with miracles and wonders and signs
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which God performed through him in your midst,
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just as you yourselves know, meaning they know
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these things to be true. They witnessed them.
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This man, delivered over by the predetermined
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plan and foreknowledge of God, you nailed to
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a cross by the hands of godless men and put him
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to death. But God raised him up again, putting
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an end to the agony of death, since it was impossible
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for him to be held in its power. The most tragic,
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according from a human perspective, the most
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evil, the most tragic thing that has ever occurred
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on planet earth, the son of God who took on flesh,
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who never sinned, who never broke God's law,
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the purest man that ever walked the face of the
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planet, that man was killed and murdered on a
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cross horribly. Evil. terrible, bad, yet God
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brings glorious and redemptive good out of that
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evil and that bad, doesn't he? He brings the
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resurrection. He brings the defeat of death.
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He brings the forgiveness of sins. He brings
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the pardon, the free pardon of sin for those
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who would trust in Christ. He brings all of that
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out of evil. that came upon the Lord Jesus Christ.
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And it's clear in this text that God did, in
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fact, bring about and progress his purposes.
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You say, well, in our text, in Genesis chapter
Genesis 29 chapter mention
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29 and 30, what exactly did God advance? What
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exactly did God do to further his promise and
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to bring about further fulfillment in Jacob's
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life. Well, what is he doing? He's building the
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nation of Israel, brothers and sisters. How many
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names do we have? We're missing one, Benjamin.
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He would be born a little bit later. Out of this
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mess, God has brought about Reuben. Simeon, Levi,
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Judah, Dan, Naphtali, Gad, Asher, Issachar, Zebulun,
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and Joseph. God promised to bring a nation from
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Abraham, didn't he? And what do we find? God
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establishing a people. What do we find beyond
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that in this text? Well, Hone in on one of those
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tribes that has come from this mess, Judah. Who
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would come from Judah, brothers and sisters?
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What would come about? What would be accomplished
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through the lineage, the royal lineage of Judah?
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Well, the Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ. The
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one who would come and take on flesh and be born
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of a virgin. The one who would live a perfect
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life unto the law of God. The one who would die
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on the cross and raise on the third day. The
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one who would ascend to the Father's right hand
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and return in power and glory. The one who would
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accomplish redemption and time in history. He
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would come from Jacob through Leah and through
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Judah, brothers and sisters. God is bringing
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about, his further purposes. And there's even
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more. We might think, well, that's it. But he
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also brings about Joseph. Now why is Joseph significant
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to the story of redemption? Well, in Joseph,
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from Rachel, God is providing a means of preservation
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for Israel. If Joseph hadn't been sold into slavery,
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if he hadn't ascended and rose to power and been
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the second in command, brothers and sisters,
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the sons of Israel would have been destroyed
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in the famine. God preserves his people and brings
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them into Egypt and prepares the way for the
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Exodus, the wilderness, and to bring them back
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into Canaan, the land of promise. Do you see
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how God is working his purpose and his plan?
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God is advancing his redemptive purposes in the
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world. It's abundantly clear in the text. God
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accomplishes his purposes in this world in such
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a way and in such a manner, and we see this,
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that he makes his people learn to wait upon him.
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God accomplishes his good purposes. He acts according
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to his good pleasure. He is faithful to his promises.
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But brothers and sisters, in all of these things,
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he does them so that his covenant people have
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to learn to trust him so that they are forced
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to wait upon the Lord. Isn't that what we see
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with Leah and Rachel? They were forced to deal.
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with the providence that they had been dealt.
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They were forced to accept their providential
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circumstances. They were taught to submit to
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God and his purposes, God and his plans, God
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and his providence in such a way that they would
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learn the folly of resorting to the arm of the
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flesh. That's what God is working into our lives.
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God works in our lives and brings about his purposes
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in Christ and the church in our lives today in
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such a way that he teaches us as his people to
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wait upon him. He's teaching you to trust him.
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He's teaching you to accept the providences of
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your life. He's teaching you to cry out in dependence
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and reliance upon him in your difficulty. And
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he's teaching you the folly of resorting to the
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arm of the flesh to try and get and obtain that
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which only he can do. The means that the believer
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is to lay hold of is that of prayer and the word,
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brothers and sisters. The means, the weapons
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of our warfare. are not carnal in nature. They
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are spiritual in nature, brothers and sisters.
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So God is teaching us to mortify the arm of carnality,
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of fleshliness, of worldliness, of manipulation,
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of all of those things, and to lay ourselves
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bare before him and to trust him and his goodness.
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in his grace, in his mercy, his sovereignty,
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his providence, and his promise that he is doing
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all of these things for our good. So God brings
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about his purposes in such a way that we are
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forced to learn to wait upon him. It's hard to
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wait, isn't it, brothers and sisters? We get
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antsy. We get real antsy if we're honest. We're
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called to calm ourselves and to cast ourselves
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over and over into the good hands of a loving
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father who has given Christ to die for sinners.
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No matter the situation, cast yourself into the
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loving arms of the Lord who is sovereign. And
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he's also teaching us in this waiting to rightly
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order our affections and our longings. What was
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he teaching Rachel and Leah? I would say a significant
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lesson that he had for them was that their true
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satisfaction had to come from the Lord. They
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could not look for ultimate satisfaction in their
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husband, in their spouse. They could not look
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for ultimate satisfaction even in children. Where
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must they find their real hope? Where must they
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find their real contentment, their lasting joy?
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Where must their affections fully and finally
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rest supremely in their heart and their life?
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On the Lord of glory, brothers and sisters. Supremely
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upon him and beyond anything in this earthly
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life. There are so many good and blessed things
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to enjoy and to find joy and to... to have pleasure
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and to find satisfaction in this life, brothers
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and sisters. That is how God has designed it.
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So many good things. But if those things, if
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those things become the ultimate source of satisfaction
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in your life, then it will begin to lead you
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to misery and grief and heartache. and sadness.
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Why? Because they're becoming an idol and being
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exalted over God who ought to have all of your
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affections no matter what. Good things loved
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too much can become bad for your heart, brothers
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and sisters. That's what we find in this text.
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As you wait in this life, find your true satisfaction.
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In God himself. But we also see that God accomplishes
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his purposes in such a way, in a sovereign way,
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but he also does it in such a way that man always
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remains responsible and accountable. We look
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at this text. And there are growing movements
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today that are encouraging polygamous relationships.
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And do you know some of the texts that they will
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go to? They'll go to the patriarchs. They'll
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twist and pervert many other texts. But they'll
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go to this text as well. Brothers and sisters,
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just because God uses and works through and governs
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something does not mean that he endorses or that
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he approves of their methods or their means necessarily.
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That's exactly what we find in this text. Sin
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rises from the creature, never from the creator.
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God governs. Those realities. He rules over.
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He rules over and in and through those realities
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to bring them to his intended sovereign purposes.
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But nobody, nobody ever slides. We can't say,
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well, God uses that. Therefore, he doesn't. Answer
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for that. He's not accountable or responsible
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for that because God brought good out of that.
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Brothers and sisters, every single human being
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will stand before the Lord Jesus Christ at the
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judgment seat. Every single one. Jacob, Leah,
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Rachel. The maidservants, you, me, every human
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being will give an account before the risen and
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glorious judge of all the earth. And you will
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either stand in the righteousness of Christ or
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you will stand on your own two feet. There's
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no passives. Amen. are under the sovereignty
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and providence of God. But all men are responsible
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for their lives and their actions, brothers and
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sisters. Every single one. They don't get a pass
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because it's not explicitly condemned. We find
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that God holds all men accountable. But we also
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see that as morally accountable creatures or
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people that God has made in this world, we find
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and we see that there are blessings and dangers
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to the right and wrong use of created things,
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means, ordinances, and realities. One of the
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most abundantly clear things in this text is
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the dysfunction, the brokenness, the misery,
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and the chaos that comes from casting off God's
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good design for marriage. Why were they so miserable?
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Because they were making choices that were sinful.
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They were casting off God's good design for them.
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But we also know from the scriptures, specifically
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the book of Proverbs, that if we make wise decisions,
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generally speaking, Because we live in a created
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order and a created world and we are creatures
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in this world and God has designed the world
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a certain way, certain things will come about.
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There will be flourishing likely. There will
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be life. There will be blessing, fruitfulness,
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and many other things, brothers and sisters.
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If you cast off what God has said, And God has
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declared to be good in his word. You can fully
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and completely expect to suffer for that. If
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you say, I don't care. I'm going to live how
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I see fit. God will discipline you. God is not
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mocked as Galatians. tells us. If you choose
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to live in a way that is opposed to God's good
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designs and God's good purposes, regardless of
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how hard it may seem, hardship and pain will
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come into your life. Issues will come from it.
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But brothers and sisters, the glorious promise
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of that Is it for the believer, even when they
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make bad decisions? God uses that for their good.
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So if you make good decisions according to God's
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revealed will, we ought to expect and to look
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and believe that good things will come as a result
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of those in our lives. There's blessings and
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dangers that we find. in this text. Our decisions
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have real consequences. Our actions are meaningful.
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They're not paper houses in a sense where they
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really don't mean anything. God has created a
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world of means and he expects his people to rightly
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use those means. So brothers and sisters, Make
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good decisions for the glory of God based upon
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the revealed word of God to bring glory to his
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name and expect good from those realities. Now,
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we see the gospel in this text as well. When
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we think about this, we don't just see it in
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the fact that God is bringing it about, but we
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see it in the fact that you and I, As the people
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of God are the afflicted ones, we are those who
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are disheartened and cast down. We are those
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who need the compassion and the mercy and the
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grace of God in our lives. And we are those who
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are in need of a gracious God to condescendingly
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and graciously provide a redemption for us. And
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we see that he has. provided that redemption
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in Jesus Christ. The Lord is abundantly good
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and kind and faithful to his people. We see the
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gospel in this text.