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The Covenant Family

Grace Fellowship Church

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  1. We're going to be reading from Genesis chapter

    Genesis 29 chapter mention

  2. 29. We'll start reading in verse 31, where we

  3. left off last week, and then we will be reading

  4. through chapter 30 to verse 24, starting in chapter

  5. 29, verse 31. Now the Lord saw that Leah was

  6. unloved, and he opened her womb, but Rachel was

  7. barren. Leah conceived and bore a son and named

  8. him Reuben. For she said, Because the Lord has

  9. seen my affliction, surely now my husband will

  10. love me. Then she conceived again and bore a

  11. son and said, Because the Lord has heard that

  12. I am unloved, he has therefore given me this

  13. son also. So she named him Simeon. She conceived

  14. again and bore a son and said, Now this time

  15. my husband will become attached to me because

  16. I have borne him three sons. Therefore he was

  17. named Levi. And she conceived again and bore

  18. a son and said, This time I will praise the Lord.

  19. Therefore she named him Judah. Then she stopped

  20. bearing. Now when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob

  21. no children, she became jealous of her sister.

  22. And she said to Jacob, give me children or else

  23. I die. Then Jacob's anger burned against Rachel

  24. and he said, am I in the place of God who has

  25. withheld from you the fruit of the womb? She

  26. said, here is my maid Bilhah. Go into her that

  27. she may bear on my knees that through her I too

  28. may have children. So she gave him her maid,

  29. Bilhah, as a wife, and Jacob went into her. Bilhah

  30. conceived and bore Jacob a son. Then Rachel said,

  31. God has vindicated me and has indeed heard my

  32. voice and has given me a son. Therefore she named

  33. him Dan. Rachel's maid, Bilhah, conceived again

  34. and bore Jacob a second son. So Rachel said,

  35. with mighty wrestlings. I have wrestled with

  36. my sister, and I have indeed prevailed. And she

  37. named him Naphtali. When Leah saw that she had

  38. stopped bearing, she took her maid, Zilpah, and

  39. gave her to Jacob as a wife. Leah's maid, Zilpah,

  40. bore Jacob a son. Then Leah said, How fortunate!

  41. So she named him Gad. Leah's maid Zilpah bore

  42. Jacob a second son. Then Leah said, Happy am

  43. I, for women will call me happy. So she named

  44. him Asher. Now in the days of wheat harvest,

  45. Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field

  46. and brought them to his mother Leah. Then Rachel

  47. said to Leah, Please give me some of your son's

  48. mandrakes. But she said to her, Is it a small

  49. matter? for you to take my husband? And would

  50. you take my son's mandrakes also? So Rachel said,

  51. Therefore he may lay with you tonight in return

  52. for your son's mandrakes. When Jacob came in

  53. from the field in the evening, then Leah went

  54. out to meet him and said, You must come in to

  55. me, for I have surely hired you with my son's

  56. mandrakes. So he laid with her that night. God

  57. gave heed to Leah, and she conceived and bore

  58. Jacob a fifth son. Then Leah said, God has given

  59. me my wages because I gave my maid to my husband.

  60. So she named him Issachar. Leah conceived again

  61. and bore a sixth son to Jacob. Then Leah said,

  62. God has endowed me with a good gift. Now my husband

  63. will dwell with me. because I have borne him

  64. six sons. So she named him Zebulun. Afterward,

  65. she bore a daughter and named her Dinah. Then

  66. God remembered Rachel, and God gave heed to her

  67. and opened her womb. And she conceived and bore

  68. a son and said, God has taken away my reproach.

  69. She named him Joseph. saying, may the Lord give

  70. me another son. Let's go to the Lord in prayer.

  71. Father, we come to you at this time and we come

  72. to your word. Father, we ask that you would bless

  73. richly the ministry of your word. Father, let

  74. us be edified and sanctified, built up, changed

  75. and transformed. by your spirit as he works in

  76. and through your word in our lives. Father, we

  77. ask that you would use your word to pierce the

  78. hearts of unbelieving men, to draw them unto

  79. yourself. Lord, we thank you for the word of

  80. God. We ask that you would be in our midst at

  81. this time. We ask these things in Jesus' name.

  82. Amen. You may be seated. We come to this passage

  83. at the end of chapter 29. and the first half

  84. of chapter 30, and we immediately come to it,

  85. and many of us think, wow, there's really some

  86. issues going on with this family. It's a sad

  87. story in many, many ways. We find the women in

  88. the story dissatisfied. with themselves, their

  89. circumstances, with their children in a sense,

  90. and with their husbands. We find the man willing

  91. to compromise himself for the sake of pleasing

  92. his wives and for the sake of supposedly procuring

  93. that which God has promised. But we also see

  94. that this story is very beautiful in another

  95. way. It's ugly, brothers and sisters. It's clear

  96. and obvious. It's up front. We can't miss it.

  97. And we're going to deal with a lot of that today.

  98. But this story is incredibly beautiful as well.

  99. Because what we have here is God and His grace

  100. and in His mercy working in the midst of... this

  101. ugliness, working in the midst of this family

  102. to bring about his purposes, to bring about his

  103. plans, to bring about the Lord Jesus Christ,

  104. and to bring about the church, brothers and sisters.

  105. So we are going to have mixed emotions as we

  106. come to this text. I want to ask a question before

  107. we proceed any further. God made a promise to

  108. Jacob in chapter 28. And it was the same promise

  109. that he made to Abraham and to Isaac. I want

  110. to read in chapter 28 when God meets with Jacob

  111. at Bethel. Listen to these words. Then Jacob,

  112. starting in verse 10, then Jacob departed from

  113. Beersheba and went to Haran. He came to a certain

  114. place and spent the night there because the sun

  115. had set. And he took one of the stones of the

  116. place and put it under his head and he laid down

  117. in that place. He had a dream. And behold, a

  118. ladder was set on the earth with its top reaching

  119. to heaven. And behold, the angels of God were

  120. ascending and descending on it. And behold, the

  121. Lord stood above it and said, I am the Lord.

  122. the God of your father Abraham and the God of

  123. Isaac. The land on which you lie, I will give

  124. it to you and to your descendants. Now, right

  125. now, Jacob has no descendants, brothers and sisters.

  126. He has no children. He has no wife when God makes

  127. this promise to him. Your descendants will also

  128. be like the dust of the earth. And you will spread

  129. out like the West and the East to the East and

  130. to the North and the South. And in you and in

  131. your descendants shall all the families of the

  132. earth be blessed. Now, before I get to my question,

  133. I want to remind you of something. We mentioned

  134. that there's four dimensions to this promise

  135. that God made to Abraham. There's the dimension

  136. that God is making a promise specifically to

  137. the patriarch. He did the same with Abraham.

  138. He's doing the same with Jacob. God would bless

  139. Jacob himself as a man, his household. God would

  140. bring about the nation of Israel. They would

  141. spread out. They would be a multitude. They would

  142. be a large people. But God would bring the Messiah.

  143. He would bring Christ in and through Jacob as

  144. well. And then he would bring the church. He

  145. would bless the nations. By saving sinners, brothers

  146. and sisters, and establishing the church throughout

  147. the world, throughout the ages until his return.

  148. How would God in this story, in Genesis chapter

    Genesis 29 chapter mention

  149. 29 and chapter 30, take further steps in accomplishing

  150. that promise? That's the question we have to

  151. consider today. In the establishment of Jacob's

  152. family with Leah, Rachel, and the two maidservants,

  153. we see God building a family. We see God taking

  154. further steps to accomplish and bring about his

  155. purposes. How exactly do we see this in the text

  156. today which we read? Well, first, By opening

  157. Rachel's womb, but I apologize, by opening Leah's

  158. womb as he sees her affliction. We see this in

  159. verses 31 through 35. What is Leah's affliction?

  160. What is the root of her issues? Well, she has

  161. disordered affections. She inordinately desires

  162. and longs and craves the regard of her husband

  163. and disregards God and his pleasure for her.

  164. However, we also see that she is in a broken

  165. home that is terribly dysfunctional. She's secondary

  166. in a sense in her relationship with Jacob. It's

  167. a relational affliction in a sense. She's longing

  168. for something from her husband that she cannot

  169. get in and from her husband in a sense. She's

  170. looking for a satisfaction that only God can

  171. provide. She's overlooked. She's unseen. She's

  172. unloved. She's invisible in a sense. Nobody recognizes

  173. her. Nobody sees her. But all the while, God

  174. sees her. God knows Leah. She is before his face.

  175. Yet this doesn't help her until a little bit

  176. later. God is compassionate to her and he blesses.

  177. We see this in verses 31 through 34 of chapter

  178. 29. God opens her womb and makes her fruitful

  179. and gives her children. It carries the idea that

  180. God hears Leah's cries, her affliction, her pain.

  181. God sees her hardship and her heartache and God

  182. acts. to bring relief in her life. He's compassionate

  183. and merciful towards Leah. And eventually, we

  184. see that Leah praises the Lord. In a sense, her

  185. affection and her love and her praise move beyond

  186. her husband to the Lord. We see this in verse

  187. 35, and she conceived again and bore a son and

  188. said, This time I will praise the Lord. Therefore

  189. she named him Judah. Then she stopped bearing.

  190. So we see that God is progressing and advancing

  191. his sovereign purposes by opening Leah's womb.

  192. What's the significance of the name Judah, brothers

  193. and sisters? Who would come from the tribe of

  194. Judah? The Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ himself

  195. would rise from the tribe of Judah. God is working

  196. towards his purposes and bringing about his purposes

  197. in Christ. But we also see that God takes further

  198. steps in advancing and fulfilling his promise

  199. to Jacob by opening. Rachel's womb as he remembers

  200. her. We see this in the last part of the section

  201. we read in Genesis chapter 30, verses 22 through

    Genesis 30:22–24

  202. 24. We read this. Then God remembered Rachel

  203. and gave heed to her and opened her womb. So

  204. she conceived and bore a son and said, God has

  205. taken away my reproach. She named him Joseph,

  206. saying, may the Lord give me another son. The

  207. first thing we notice about this portion is that

  208. God remembers Rachel. Now it's not as though

  209. God forgot Rachel. It's not as though God had

  210. neglected to think about Rachel. But when the

  211. Bible uses this language, God remember, it's

  212. intending to communicate something that is special.

  213. It describes a unique divine act that is carried

  214. out in covenant faithfulness and in providential

  215. timing. So if you remember, God remembered Noah.

  216. God didn't forget Noah after the flood started.

  217. No, God acted in covenantal faithfulness and

  218. providential timing to start the recession of

  219. the waters. He was bringing about his purposes.

  220. He was acting distinctly and uniquely in covenant

  221. faithfulness towards his people. The same thing

  222. is said with regards to Abraham and Sarah. And

  223. the same thing is referred to in Exodus chapter

    Exodus 2 chapter mention

  224. 2, where God remembers his people who are in

  225. bondage. It's the decisive, covenantal, faithful

  226. act of God on behalf of his people. That's what

  227. we find taking place here. But it also says that

  228. God hears Rachel, which implies That she has

  229. been crying out to God. She has been crying out

  230. to God to be merciful to her, to take her shame

  231. and reproach away from her. We can look back

  232. on these circumstances and these situations,

  233. and we can look at them somewhat humorously at

  234. times. We can look back and we can see these

  235. situations, and brothers and sisters, we can

  236. look with a proud heart and look down on our

  237. forefathers and the matriarchs of our faith.

  238. We can look back almost in an unfeeling sense

  239. as well, where we don't realize this was their

  240. life. Brothers and sisters, Rachel, her pride

  241. in life. was destroyed by barrenness. Her value

  242. and worth in that culture was a shame culture.

  243. They heaped shame on women for that. Brothers

  244. and sisters, she felt the weight of this and

  245. she felt the relief of this when God opened her

  246. womb and gave her a son. When Joseph was born,

  247. she cried out to God. And then God heard her

  248. prayers and God acted on her behalf. Just as

  249. God heard and saw with regards to Leah, God hears

  250. and God sees and God acts with regards to Rachel

  251. as well, brothers and sisters. We find something

  252. really important about the character of God in

  253. all of this. Leah and Rachel both stand in a

  254. long line of godly women who are taught to wait

  255. upon the Lord, who are dependent on the Lord

  256. to open their womb and to accomplish his purposes

  257. in and through. Think of Sarah, the matriarch

  258. of the faith, Abraham's wife. Think of Rebecca,

  259. Rachel, Leah. We could think about Hannah. You

  260. know the grief and the mourning and the pain

  261. that Hannah expressed in her prayer of lament,

  262. which Eli overheard. Do you remember that, brothers

  263. and sisters? We could think about Elizabeth in

  264. the New Testament, the mother of John the Baptist.

  265. They were dependent on God to perform and to

  266. act and to work on their behalf. God saw them.

  267. God heard them and God acted. Now, there's another

  268. way that we see that God brings about the further.

  269. of his promise and his purposes in this text.

  270. Not just by opening Leah's womb, not just by

  271. opening Rachel's womb, but also by overruling

  272. the sin and the schemes and the plans of men

  273. and women. These individuals in this family,

  274. God overrules them. It's so clear in this passage.

  275. When we look at this passage and we see the ugly

  276. side of it, what do we see in this text? Brothers

  277. and sisters, we see anger. We see jealousy, envy,

  278. rivalry, and competition. We see disordered loves.

  279. We see sexual immorality. and infidelity. We

  280. see godlessness in a sense among the patriarchal

  281. family of Jacob. We see sinful desires. We see

  282. sinful actions. We even see superstition with

  283. the mandrakes, which we'll speak on in a moment.

  284. That was a fruit that was associated with fertility

  285. in that culture. They were trying to leverage

  286. superstition to get what they wanted. However,

  287. in the midst of all of this, we see God bringing

  288. about his purposes by overruling it, superintending

  289. these situations, circumstances, sin and transgressions

  290. and broken relationships to bring about his sovereign

  291. purposes. Think about Rachel and Leah's carnal

  292. schemes to obtain children and marital affection.

  293. They couldn't get what they want, so they thought

  294. they would take another path. Think about Sarah

  295. and Hagar, the same reality. could not produce

  296. and get what she wanted. She did not wait on

  297. the Lord as she ought to. So she resorts to the

  298. arm of the flesh and gives Hagar to her husband.

  299. We find the exact same thing with Rachel in the

  300. first several verses of chapter 30. Rachel wants

  301. children. Rachel cannot have children. Therefore,

  302. she gives her servant Bilhah to her husband so

  303. that she can have children through Bilhah. She

  304. got a surrogate, in a sense, to obtain that which

  305. she wanted. She was scheming in her carnality

  306. and in her flesh, brothers and sisters. She was

  307. resorting. to the flesh to get what only God

  308. could give to her. And we might think, well,

  309. Leah will learn from Rachel. Leah will learn

  310. from Rachel not to do these foolish things to

  311. resort to the arm of the flesh, but she doesn't.

  312. She does the exact same thing. She gives her

  313. servant, Zilpah, Jacob. Why? Because she has

  314. desires that she wants met. She wants children.

  315. She longs for that which only God can give. Then

  316. we get to this mandrake episode or this manipulation.

  317. And we'll read this starting in verse In verse

  318. 14, we read this. Now in the days of the wheat

  319. harvest, Reuben went and found mandrakes in the

  320. field and brought them to his mother Leah. Then

  321. Rachel said to Leah, please give me some of your

  322. son's mandrakes. But she said to her, is it a

  323. small matter for you to take my husband? And

  324. would you... Take my son's mandrakes also. So

  325. Rachel said, Therefore, he may lie with you tonight

  326. in return for your son's mandrakes. When Jacob

  327. came in from the field in the evening, then Leah

  328. went out to meet him and said, You must come

  329. in to me, for I have surely hired you with my

  330. son's mandrakes. So he lay with her that night.

  331. So we have these two women. Who are seeking to

  332. leverage superstitious things to increase their

  333. fertility and their chances of having children.

  334. Why? To get ahead of the other one, brothers

  335. and sisters. They're trying to outdo the other

  336. one. Sinful, vain. prideful advancement within

  337. the home and the family. That's what's going

  338. on in this home and Jacob, the patriarch's life.

  339. Using and utilizing magic in a sense with the

  340. mandrakes, most likely, that's not absolute,

  341. but most likely that is what is taking place.

  342. Now it doesn't work out the way that they think.

  343. Rachel thinks that if she can get the mandrakes,

  344. she will have children. However, Leah is the

  345. one that God opens her womb and gives her children.

  346. It's almost as though the Lord is saying, your

  347. plans and your purposes cannot thwart my promise.

  348. Your plans and your purposes, your schemes, your

  349. agendas cannot stop my grand and my glorious

  350. gospel purposes, which I will accomplish in my

  351. perfect sovereign will, which I will bring about

  352. according to my purposes. What is the inevitable

  353. result? They cannot stop. the promise according

  354. to God's purposes. And God uses their sinful

  355. actions to accomplish his sovereign purposes.

  356. It is clear that the God here was accomplishing

  357. his purpose according to His perfect, holy will.

  358. It is not being accomplished by the fallible,

  359. finite purposes of men. They are being used by

  360. God to bring about His ends. They are not the

  361. ends. Everybody in that home, in the patriarchal

  362. household, has their own intentions, brothers

  363. and sisters. Jacob has his, Leah has hers, Rachel

  364. has hers, and the maidservants have theirs. In

  365. all of those carnal schemes and sins and transgressions,

  366. God is working a single unified plan to bring

  367. about his purposes and his plans for these individuals,

  368. for Israel, for Christ, and for the church. God

  369. is bringing all of that out of this. We have

  370. such a low, such a little view of God all too

  371. often, brothers and sisters. Think about these

  372. individuals. These were emotionally driven events

  373. and circumstances. But out of it, did they see?

  374. Did they see beyond their circumstances? Possibly

  375. at times we see glimpses of that. With Leah praising

  376. God. with them thinking about themselves and

  377. their children with relation to God. Jacob saying,

  378. I am not God. Rachel praising the Lord because

  379. he's taken away. Yes, but brothers and sisters,

  380. over and above all of that is a transcendent

  381. and a glorious and a majestic God who is not

  382. caught up in the schemes of men. And he's bringing

  383. about his purposes. He transcends the troubles.

  384. and the trials and the hardships that catch us

  385. up and stop us, that hurt us so bad. Brothers

  386. and sisters, they don't stop his purposes. They

  387. don't stop his plans. He continues in his sovereignty

  388. and his power. It's clear that God governs and

  389. rules. over and through their sin to bring about

  390. his good sovereign purposes. In Proverbs chapter

    Proverbs 19 chapter mention

  391. 19, we read this. In Proverbs 19, we read this

  392. in verse 21. Many plans are in the man's heart,

  393. but the counsel of the Lord will stand. Brothers

  394. and sisters, God's decretive purposes will come

  395. about. They are established and they are ordained.

  396. We are fallible and find that he is infinite

  397. and he is eternal. We read in Genesis chapter

    Genesis 50 chapter mention

  398. 50, this famous verse at the end of Joseph's

  399. life, starting in verse 18. Then his brothers

  400. also came and fell down before him and said,

  401. Behold, we are your servants. But Joseph said

  402. to them, Do not be afraid, for am I in God's

  403. place? Meaning, am I God? Am I sovereign? No.

  404. Am I judge? No. As for you, you meant evil against

  405. me, but God meant it. The evil, the evil the

  406. brothers intended against Joseph, God meant that

  407. evil for good in order to bring about this present

  408. result to preserve many people alive. God is

  409. in the business of bringing good out of evil,

  410. brothers and sisters. God is in the business

  411. of bringing good out of bad. God is in the business

  412. of bringing good things out of hard and terrible

  413. and difficult things, brothers and sisters. That

  414. is the hope of the Christian, that God uses the

  415. hard things in their lives for his glory and

  416. for their good. In Acts chapter 2, we have the

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  417. ultimate demonstration of God bringing good.

  418. out of evil. We read this in Acts chapter 2,

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  419. starting in verse 22. Men of Israel, listen to

  420. these words. Jesus the Nazarene, a man attested

  421. to you by God with miracles and wonders and signs

  422. which God performed through him in your midst,

  423. just as you yourselves know, meaning they know

  424. these things to be true. They witnessed them.

  425. This man, delivered over by the predetermined

  426. plan and foreknowledge of God, you nailed to

  427. a cross by the hands of godless men and put him

  428. to death. But God raised him up again, putting

  429. an end to the agony of death, since it was impossible

  430. for him to be held in its power. The most tragic,

  431. according from a human perspective, the most

  432. evil, the most tragic thing that has ever occurred

  433. on planet earth, the son of God who took on flesh,

  434. who never sinned, who never broke God's law,

  435. the purest man that ever walked the face of the

  436. planet, that man was killed and murdered on a

  437. cross horribly. Evil. terrible, bad, yet God

  438. brings glorious and redemptive good out of that

  439. evil and that bad, doesn't he? He brings the

  440. resurrection. He brings the defeat of death.

  441. He brings the forgiveness of sins. He brings

  442. the pardon, the free pardon of sin for those

  443. who would trust in Christ. He brings all of that

  444. out of evil. that came upon the Lord Jesus Christ.

  445. And it's clear in this text that God did, in

  446. fact, bring about and progress his purposes.

  447. You say, well, in our text, in Genesis chapter

    Genesis 29 chapter mention

  448. 29 and 30, what exactly did God advance? What

  449. exactly did God do to further his promise and

  450. to bring about further fulfillment in Jacob's

  451. life. Well, what is he doing? He's building the

  452. nation of Israel, brothers and sisters. How many

  453. names do we have? We're missing one, Benjamin.

  454. He would be born a little bit later. Out of this

  455. mess, God has brought about Reuben. Simeon, Levi,

  456. Judah, Dan, Naphtali, Gad, Asher, Issachar, Zebulun,

  457. and Joseph. God promised to bring a nation from

  458. Abraham, didn't he? And what do we find? God

  459. establishing a people. What do we find beyond

  460. that in this text? Well, Hone in on one of those

  461. tribes that has come from this mess, Judah. Who

  462. would come from Judah, brothers and sisters?

  463. What would come about? What would be accomplished

  464. through the lineage, the royal lineage of Judah?

  465. Well, the Messiah, the Lord Jesus Christ. The

  466. one who would come and take on flesh and be born

  467. of a virgin. The one who would live a perfect

  468. life unto the law of God. The one who would die

  469. on the cross and raise on the third day. The

  470. one who would ascend to the Father's right hand

  471. and return in power and glory. The one who would

  472. accomplish redemption and time in history. He

  473. would come from Jacob through Leah and through

  474. Judah, brothers and sisters. God is bringing

  475. about, his further purposes. And there's even

  476. more. We might think, well, that's it. But he

  477. also brings about Joseph. Now why is Joseph significant

  478. to the story of redemption? Well, in Joseph,

  479. from Rachel, God is providing a means of preservation

  480. for Israel. If Joseph hadn't been sold into slavery,

  481. if he hadn't ascended and rose to power and been

  482. the second in command, brothers and sisters,

  483. the sons of Israel would have been destroyed

  484. in the famine. God preserves his people and brings

  485. them into Egypt and prepares the way for the

  486. Exodus, the wilderness, and to bring them back

  487. into Canaan, the land of promise. Do you see

  488. how God is working his purpose and his plan?

  489. God is advancing his redemptive purposes in the

  490. world. It's abundantly clear in the text. God

  491. accomplishes his purposes in this world in such

  492. a way and in such a manner, and we see this,

  493. that he makes his people learn to wait upon him.

  494. God accomplishes his good purposes. He acts according

  495. to his good pleasure. He is faithful to his promises.

  496. But brothers and sisters, in all of these things,

  497. he does them so that his covenant people have

  498. to learn to trust him so that they are forced

  499. to wait upon the Lord. Isn't that what we see

  500. with Leah and Rachel? They were forced to deal.

  501. with the providence that they had been dealt.

  502. They were forced to accept their providential

  503. circumstances. They were taught to submit to

  504. God and his purposes, God and his plans, God

  505. and his providence in such a way that they would

  506. learn the folly of resorting to the arm of the

  507. flesh. That's what God is working into our lives.

  508. God works in our lives and brings about his purposes

  509. in Christ and the church in our lives today in

  510. such a way that he teaches us as his people to

  511. wait upon him. He's teaching you to trust him.

  512. He's teaching you to accept the providences of

  513. your life. He's teaching you to cry out in dependence

  514. and reliance upon him in your difficulty. And

  515. he's teaching you the folly of resorting to the

  516. arm of the flesh to try and get and obtain that

  517. which only he can do. The means that the believer

  518. is to lay hold of is that of prayer and the word,

  519. brothers and sisters. The means, the weapons

  520. of our warfare. are not carnal in nature. They

  521. are spiritual in nature, brothers and sisters.

  522. So God is teaching us to mortify the arm of carnality,

  523. of fleshliness, of worldliness, of manipulation,

  524. of all of those things, and to lay ourselves

  525. bare before him and to trust him and his goodness.

  526. in his grace, in his mercy, his sovereignty,

  527. his providence, and his promise that he is doing

  528. all of these things for our good. So God brings

  529. about his purposes in such a way that we are

  530. forced to learn to wait upon him. It's hard to

  531. wait, isn't it, brothers and sisters? We get

  532. antsy. We get real antsy if we're honest. We're

  533. called to calm ourselves and to cast ourselves

  534. over and over into the good hands of a loving

  535. father who has given Christ to die for sinners.

  536. No matter the situation, cast yourself into the

  537. loving arms of the Lord who is sovereign. And

  538. he's also teaching us in this waiting to rightly

  539. order our affections and our longings. What was

  540. he teaching Rachel and Leah? I would say a significant

  541. lesson that he had for them was that their true

  542. satisfaction had to come from the Lord. They

  543. could not look for ultimate satisfaction in their

  544. husband, in their spouse. They could not look

  545. for ultimate satisfaction even in children. Where

  546. must they find their real hope? Where must they

  547. find their real contentment, their lasting joy?

  548. Where must their affections fully and finally

  549. rest supremely in their heart and their life?

  550. On the Lord of glory, brothers and sisters. Supremely

  551. upon him and beyond anything in this earthly

  552. life. There are so many good and blessed things

  553. to enjoy and to find joy and to... to have pleasure

  554. and to find satisfaction in this life, brothers

  555. and sisters. That is how God has designed it.

  556. So many good things. But if those things, if

  557. those things become the ultimate source of satisfaction

  558. in your life, then it will begin to lead you

  559. to misery and grief and heartache. and sadness.

  560. Why? Because they're becoming an idol and being

  561. exalted over God who ought to have all of your

  562. affections no matter what. Good things loved

  563. too much can become bad for your heart, brothers

  564. and sisters. That's what we find in this text.

  565. As you wait in this life, find your true satisfaction.

  566. In God himself. But we also see that God accomplishes

  567. his purposes in such a way, in a sovereign way,

  568. but he also does it in such a way that man always

  569. remains responsible and accountable. We look

  570. at this text. And there are growing movements

  571. today that are encouraging polygamous relationships.

  572. And do you know some of the texts that they will

  573. go to? They'll go to the patriarchs. They'll

  574. twist and pervert many other texts. But they'll

  575. go to this text as well. Brothers and sisters,

  576. just because God uses and works through and governs

  577. something does not mean that he endorses or that

  578. he approves of their methods or their means necessarily.

  579. That's exactly what we find in this text. Sin

  580. rises from the creature, never from the creator.

  581. God governs. Those realities. He rules over.

  582. He rules over and in and through those realities

  583. to bring them to his intended sovereign purposes.

  584. But nobody, nobody ever slides. We can't say,

  585. well, God uses that. Therefore, he doesn't. Answer

  586. for that. He's not accountable or responsible

  587. for that because God brought good out of that.

  588. Brothers and sisters, every single human being

  589. will stand before the Lord Jesus Christ at the

  590. judgment seat. Every single one. Jacob, Leah,

  591. Rachel. The maidservants, you, me, every human

  592. being will give an account before the risen and

  593. glorious judge of all the earth. And you will

  594. either stand in the righteousness of Christ or

  595. you will stand on your own two feet. There's

  596. no passives. Amen. are under the sovereignty

  597. and providence of God. But all men are responsible

  598. for their lives and their actions, brothers and

  599. sisters. Every single one. They don't get a pass

  600. because it's not explicitly condemned. We find

  601. that God holds all men accountable. But we also

  602. see that as morally accountable creatures or

  603. people that God has made in this world, we find

  604. and we see that there are blessings and dangers

  605. to the right and wrong use of created things,

  606. means, ordinances, and realities. One of the

  607. most abundantly clear things in this text is

  608. the dysfunction, the brokenness, the misery,

  609. and the chaos that comes from casting off God's

  610. good design for marriage. Why were they so miserable?

  611. Because they were making choices that were sinful.

  612. They were casting off God's good design for them.

  613. But we also know from the scriptures, specifically

  614. the book of Proverbs, that if we make wise decisions,

  615. generally speaking, Because we live in a created

  616. order and a created world and we are creatures

  617. in this world and God has designed the world

  618. a certain way, certain things will come about.

  619. There will be flourishing likely. There will

  620. be life. There will be blessing, fruitfulness,

  621. and many other things, brothers and sisters.

  622. If you cast off what God has said, And God has

  623. declared to be good in his word. You can fully

  624. and completely expect to suffer for that. If

  625. you say, I don't care. I'm going to live how

  626. I see fit. God will discipline you. God is not

  627. mocked as Galatians. tells us. If you choose

  628. to live in a way that is opposed to God's good

  629. designs and God's good purposes, regardless of

  630. how hard it may seem, hardship and pain will

  631. come into your life. Issues will come from it.

  632. But brothers and sisters, the glorious promise

  633. of that Is it for the believer, even when they

  634. make bad decisions? God uses that for their good.

  635. So if you make good decisions according to God's

  636. revealed will, we ought to expect and to look

  637. and believe that good things will come as a result

  638. of those in our lives. There's blessings and

  639. dangers that we find. in this text. Our decisions

  640. have real consequences. Our actions are meaningful.

  641. They're not paper houses in a sense where they

  642. really don't mean anything. God has created a

  643. world of means and he expects his people to rightly

  644. use those means. So brothers and sisters, Make

  645. good decisions for the glory of God based upon

  646. the revealed word of God to bring glory to his

  647. name and expect good from those realities. Now,

  648. we see the gospel in this text as well. When

  649. we think about this, we don't just see it in

  650. the fact that God is bringing it about, but we

  651. see it in the fact that you and I, As the people

  652. of God are the afflicted ones, we are those who

  653. are disheartened and cast down. We are those

  654. who need the compassion and the mercy and the

  655. grace of God in our lives. And we are those who

  656. are in need of a gracious God to condescendingly

  657. and graciously provide a redemption for us. And

  658. we see that he has. provided that redemption

  659. in Jesus Christ. The Lord is abundantly good

  660. and kind and faithful to his people. We see the

  661. gospel in this text.