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Body Language Flirting: How to Know When a Guy Likes a Girl

Christian Advice for Single Christians Podcast

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  1. How do you know when a guy is

  2. flirting with you? What's his body language when

  3. flirting?

  4. Understanding

  5. body language flirting is essential for Christian singles.

  6. What exactly is alpha male body language

  7. flirting? It's basically a collection of all the

  8. nonverbal clues a guy, whether he be a

  9. Christian or not, gives out when he's interested

  10. in a woman.

  11. Just to be clear, not all body language

  12. flirting is a conscious decision on the part

  13. of the single guy, but may in fact

  14. be a conscious decision on the part of

  15. the single guy, but may in fact be

  16. a subconscious behavior. Therefore,

  17. the more a woman knows how a guy

  18. flirts with body language,

  19. the greater her chances of picking up when

  20. a guy is actually interested in her.

  21. Of course, knowing how to tell when a

  22. guy is flirting is an important skill to

  23. have,

  24. especially if there is mutual attraction.

  25. Top body language flirting signs.

  26. Of course, none of these body language flirting

  27. signs will be applicable if you are using

  28. an online site like Christian Mingle.

  29. But let's say you're at a Christian singles

  30. group gathering and there are a bunch of

  31. cute guys, hey, we can dream, right, in

  32. the room.

  33. Here are some body language flirting signs to

  34. look for.

  35. Body language flirting sign number one, smiling.

  36. When a guy flashes you those pearly whites,

  37. well, we hope they're white,

  38. that usually means he's pleased to have you

  39. in his company.

  40. Just make sure he's smiling at you and

  41. not the girl behind you. Have you ever

  42. done that before?

  43. Body language flirting sign number two,

  44. modeling.

  45. What?

  46. Well, behavioral scientists say when someone is body

  47. language flirting,

  48. they subconsciously

  49. model or line up with the behavior of

  50. the person of interest.

  51. Examples here could be having their feet pointed

  52. in the same direction,

  53. crossing or uncrossing their legs,

  54. blinking, cracking knuckles, etcetera.

  55. Body language flirting sign number three, making frequent

  56. eye contact.

  57. Two simple points here. First, all guys, including

  58. Christian guys,

  59. are attracted by sight and have a healthy

  60. appreciation for the female attributes,

  61. including a woman's eyes, face, and figure.

  62. If a guy denies this fact, he's a

  63. liar

  64. and probably not the kind of guy you

  65. want around anyway.

  66. Secondly,

  67. the eyes often give away the heart's intentions.

  68. There are different types of eye contact you

  69. should look out for depending on the personality

  70. of the guy.

  71. If you have a sweet, shy guy on

  72. your hands, he may attempt to sneak a

  73. peek at you without you realizing it.

  74. Then when you turn in his direction, he

  75. may get red faced or quickly look in

  76. a different direction.

  77. The second kind of eye contact is the

  78. kind of guy with confidence and boldness will

  79. practice.

  80. He has no problem making extended eye to

  81. eye contact.

  82. Do you know the type?

  83. Sign number four, grooming self.

  84. This sign includes doing such things as fixing

  85. collars,

  86. pulling up socks, and straightening ties.

  87. This is the male ego's way of preparing

  88. himself for the hunt.

  89. Body language flirting sign number five, strutting.

  90. The guy will stand up straight with shoulders

  91. back and chest out.

  92. Some single gals I know refer to this

  93. ritual as the peacock strut.

  94. Some girls out there are saying, yep. I've

  95. seen that before.

  96. Well, there you have our top five body

  97. language flirting hints that guys will do around

  98. girls they like.

  99. Being aware of these may help any Christian

  100. single girl who is in the market for

  101. a nice Christian guy.

  102. One disclaimer here. If a guy exhibits only

  103. one or two body language hints, don't jump

  104. to hasty conclusions.

  105. Make sure you interpret these cumulatively,

  106. not individually.

  107. Otherwise, you may misinterpret a man's intentions,

  108. which could put you in an embarrassing situation.

  109. Are you a Christian single person with something

  110. to share flirting?