Sermon
Body Language Flirting: How to Know When a Guy Likes a Girl
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How do you know when a guy is
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flirting with you? What's his body language when
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flirting?
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Understanding
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body language flirting is essential for Christian singles.
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What exactly is alpha male body language
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flirting? It's basically a collection of all the
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nonverbal clues a guy, whether he be a
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Christian or not, gives out when he's interested
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in a woman.
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Just to be clear, not all body language
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flirting is a conscious decision on the part
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of the single guy, but may in fact
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be a conscious decision on the part of
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the single guy, but may in fact be
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a subconscious behavior. Therefore,
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the more a woman knows how a guy
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flirts with body language,
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the greater her chances of picking up when
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a guy is actually interested in her.
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Of course, knowing how to tell when a
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guy is flirting is an important skill to
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have,
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especially if there is mutual attraction.
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Top body language flirting signs.
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Of course, none of these body language flirting
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signs will be applicable if you are using
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an online site like Christian Mingle.
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But let's say you're at a Christian singles
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group gathering and there are a bunch of
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cute guys, hey, we can dream, right, in
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the room.
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Here are some body language flirting signs to
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look for.
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Body language flirting sign number one, smiling.
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When a guy flashes you those pearly whites,
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well, we hope they're white,
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that usually means he's pleased to have you
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in his company.
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Just make sure he's smiling at you and
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not the girl behind you. Have you ever
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done that before?
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Body language flirting sign number two,
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modeling.
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What?
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Well, behavioral scientists say when someone is body
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language flirting,
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they subconsciously
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model or line up with the behavior of
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the person of interest.
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Examples here could be having their feet pointed
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in the same direction,
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crossing or uncrossing their legs,
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blinking, cracking knuckles, etcetera.
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Body language flirting sign number three, making frequent
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eye contact.
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Two simple points here. First, all guys, including
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Christian guys,
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are attracted by sight and have a healthy
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appreciation for the female attributes,
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including a woman's eyes, face, and figure.
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If a guy denies this fact, he's a
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liar
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and probably not the kind of guy you
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want around anyway.
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Secondly,
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the eyes often give away the heart's intentions.
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There are different types of eye contact you
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should look out for depending on the personality
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of the guy.
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If you have a sweet, shy guy on
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your hands, he may attempt to sneak a
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peek at you without you realizing it.
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Then when you turn in his direction, he
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may get red faced or quickly look in
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a different direction.
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The second kind of eye contact is the
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kind of guy with confidence and boldness will
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practice.
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He has no problem making extended eye to
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eye contact.
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Do you know the type?
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Sign number four, grooming self.
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This sign includes doing such things as fixing
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collars,
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pulling up socks, and straightening ties.
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This is the male ego's way of preparing
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himself for the hunt.
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Body language flirting sign number five, strutting.
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The guy will stand up straight with shoulders
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back and chest out.
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Some single gals I know refer to this
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ritual as the peacock strut.
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Some girls out there are saying, yep. I've
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seen that before.
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Well, there you have our top five body
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language flirting hints that guys will do around
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girls they like.
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Being aware of these may help any Christian
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single girl who is in the market for
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a nice Christian guy.
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One disclaimer here. If a guy exhibits only
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one or two body language hints, don't jump
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to hasty conclusions.
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Make sure you interpret these cumulatively,
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not individually.
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Otherwise, you may misinterpret a man's intentions,
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which could put you in an embarrassing situation.
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Are you a Christian single person with something
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to share flirting?