Sermon
Is Hinge a good dating site for Christians?
Publisher transcript
Transcript
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So, you're a Christian and you're wondering if
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Hinge is the right place to find that
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special someone who loves Jesus as much as
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you do.
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It's a fair question.
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Navigating the world of online dating as a
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believer can be tricky.
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You don't wanna swipe your way into some
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weird faithless fling,
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but you also don't wanna limit your options
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to a super niche gospel centric app where
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every profile pic looks like a church directory
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photo.
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You know the ones I mean. The awkward
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side hug pics from the mission trip?
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Yeah. No thanks.
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But, hey, Hinge promises to be the dating
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app designed to be deleted, and it's all
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about finding real relationships.
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Sounds pretty good. Right?
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But is it Christian friendly enough to help
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you find a Proverbs 31 partner or someone
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who knows the story of Jonah wasn't just
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a guy on an extended beach vacation?
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Let's dive in and figure out if Hinge
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is a dating blessing or if you're better
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off finding love elsewhere,
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preferably with someone who can name at least
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three of the disciples.
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Spoiler alert, one of them is not Paul.
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The basics. What is Hinge all about?
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Before we get all judgmental,
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you know, like when your grandma gives you
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that look when you're not at church on
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Sunday,
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let's break down what Hinge is all about.
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The app stands out because it focuses on
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creating connections, not just casual hookups.
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Unlike Tinder, which can sometimes feel like a
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shallow pool of bad decisions,
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Hinge tries to make sure you're actually chatting
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with people who are serious about finding love.
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You answer fun prompts like, what's your biggest
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pet peeve? Or what's your most irrational fear?
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Spoiler, mine is turning into Lot's wife after
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one too many glances back at x.
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This leads to deeper, more meaningful conversations,
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you know, like asking if your match is
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more of an early riser like Noah or
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if they're a bit of a procrastinator like
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Jonah.
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But what makes Hinge particularly interesting for Christians
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is its flexibility.
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You can be as open about your faith
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as you wanna be. You can include your
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religious beliefs in your profile,
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which means you don't have to randomly drop
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Jesus is my homeboy into your opening line
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like a holy curveball.
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So far so good. Right?
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Is Hinge actually Christian friendly?
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Now here's the big question.
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Is Hinge really the place for Christians looking
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for love?
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Let's not sugarcoat it. Hinge is not specifically
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designed for Christians.
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You're going to run into a variety of
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folks with different beliefs,
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you could very well end up matching with
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someone who's more into spirituality
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than the Bible
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or someone who checks the Christian box but
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hasn't been to church since Easter five years
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ago.
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Oof. We've all met that guy.
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That said, Hinge does let you filter your
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matches by religion
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so you can specifically search for people who
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identify as Christian.
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You can narrow it down to meet people
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who, you know, actually know what a psalm
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is and won't refer to the Bible as
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just some really old book.
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It's not as targeted as a site like
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Christian Mingle, but it gives you some leeway
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to make sure you're not getting set up
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with random agnostic
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who thinks church is just a quaint place
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to get married.
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And while Hinge doesn't scream Christian dating app,
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you're not alone if you choose to use
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it.
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Tons of Christians from all denominations
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are on Hinge, Hinge, mixing it up with
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the rest of the world. So it's kind
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of like finding a solid group of friends
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at a wedding where you only know the
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bride. A little awkward at first, but could
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turn into something fun.
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Pros and cons for Christians on Hinge.
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Let's break it down a bit more. What
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are the perks and the pitfalls of being
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a Christian using hints?
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Pros, religious filters.
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You can search specifically for Christians,
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which means you're not stuck explaining to someone
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what a quiet time is or why you're
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spending your Sunday morning in church instead of
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brunch.
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Real relationships.
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Hinge's vibe is more about meaningful connections than
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just hookups.
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If you're serious about finding someone who wants
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to settle down and maybe raise a couple
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of kids who know their Sunday school songs,
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you're in the right place.
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Flexibility.
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You can talk about your faith in your
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profile or in conversation.
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Whether you wanna ease into it or proudly
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declare,
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Jesus is my everything,
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you've got the freedom to be as open
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as you want.
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People are there for relationships.
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Unlike some other apps,
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Cough, Tinder Cough,
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Hinge attracts people who are actually looking for
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something long term.
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So if you're on a mission to find
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someone who shares your values and is serious
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about commitment,
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Hinge might be a good option. Cons,
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not specifically Christian.
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Hinge is for everyone, which means you're going
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to meet people with different values.
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Be prepared to do a bit of sifting
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through profiles because not everyone is going to
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be a fellow bible lover.
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You might get matched with someone who prefers
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meditating with crystal instead of praying to the
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creator.
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Casual Christianity is a thing.
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Just because someone says they're Christian, doesn't mean
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they're practicing.
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Raised Christian or I think my grandma was
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Christian, might be what they really mean.
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Stay sharp out there.
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The secular
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swipe world.
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You may still encounter the same kind of
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superficial interactions you would on any dating app.
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Just because Hinge markets itself as the anti
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Tinder doesn't mean you won't find folks who
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are more into Netflix and chill
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than Netflix and Proverbs.
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Final verdict.
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Should Christians use Hinge?
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So is Hinge a good dating site for
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Christians?
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It really depends on what you're looking for.
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If you're someone who wants to find a
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relationship,
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someone to attend bible studies and youth group
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pizza nights with, Hinge might just be a
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good place to start.
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But if you're looking for a super targeted
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Christian only experience,
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you might find yourself missing out on a
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more curated pool of fellow believers.
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The key with Hinge or any dating app
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really is to stay true to yourself and
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your values.
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Don't be afraid to put your faith out
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there. Ask questions about what someone believes and
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be upfront about what you're looking for.
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That way, you'll find someone who's equally committed
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to their faith and you.
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In the end, Hinge offers a little bit
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of everything. And as long as you're clear
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on what you want, it could be a
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great tool to help you meet that special
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someone.