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EP019: Church Anywhere & Discipleship
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Hey everybody, welcome to the Church Digital Podcast. My name is Jeff and I am excited that
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y'all are here today. This is episode 19. By the way, can you believe we've done 19 of these
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episodes? I just, on a personal note, I just wanted to tell y'all, I hope that this has been
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a beneficial resource for you all. It's been great having these conversations, digging deep
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into what church online can be, what church online should be, and hopefully these resources,
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not only in the technical aspects, but in the ministry side, in the small group, biblical
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community, the discipleship aspect of church online. Hopefully this has been a rewarding
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benefit for you, and it's making your ministries better. By the way, we are not slowing down.
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The next couple months are going to be phenomenal, and I'm really excited to continue this podcast
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and bring you all into these conversations as we discover what's working at church online,
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how people are seeing success, and how God is blessing the ministry of church online's across
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the country. Well, cool. We've got a great episode here at episode 19. We're going to be digging in
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talking about discipleship in context of Church Anywhere. This is our third week talking about
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Church Anywhere. As you may remember, Church Anywhere is a program that's set up by First Capital
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Christian Church that really utilizes their online campus as a way to cluster and gather people together
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in the physical space. They're literally doing micro locations in office workspaces, in prisons,
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in hospital rehab centers, in homeless centers, in after-school centers, even in homes, gathering people
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together to watch the broadcast, to do Bible studies, to grow together in the physical space, as well as
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watching and processing things through the Church Online broadcasts. And they've seen some phenomenal
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results of it. We've talked about it in past podcasts, but as many as 450 people scattered across this small
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town in Indiana, Court in Indiana, have watched and are part of these Church Online locations. And it's
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phenomenal to see this ministry happen. But the challenge before First Capital Christian is how to
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create a disciple who can in turn create disciples. As that ministry has grown, as many as 16 micro locations
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that are meeting in a given week, they've grown past the ability to have staff. So we've got to empower
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volunteers to do that. How do you take a volunteer, how do you take in a church attender, how do you take a
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consumer and groom that person to the point that they are now a disciple who can create a disciple? And it's
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that discipleship process that I want to dig in. What's the material? What's that conversation? What does that
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look like? That span of time where you take someone who was an outsider to the church, may not truly
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understand, and then groom them to the place where they are a disciple who's now capable of leading
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others to Christ and leading others to a deeper relationship with Christ through discipleship.
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And so that's the core of the conversation today. And to dig in, here's what we're going to do. We're
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going to bring in Tyler Sampson, once again, from First Capital Christian. He's the engagement pastor over
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there at First Capital. We're going to bring in Ray DeArmis, who is the online pastor of Christ Fellowship
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Miami and a dear friend, of course. And we're also going to bring in Jared Kirkwood. Jared is the pastor
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in charge of this discipleship material called Rooted, which is based out of Mariner's Church. Now,
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here's what's interesting. Jared is a pastor at Mariner's Church. Some of you may remember back in
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episode nine and 10, Eric Geiger, lead pastor at Mariner's Church, was on this podcast. It was a
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complete coincidence that we're going back to Mariner's for this. We were interested in having
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this conversation on discipleship at First Capital Christian. Come to find out that First Capital
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Christian has based their discipleship pathway off of this material called Rooted, which is distributed
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and managed here in the United States by Mariner's Church out in California. So we're going coast to
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coast here, conversations in Miami, talking with a church in California about how people in Indiana
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make disciples. Online church is phenomenal. I love what we're seeing here. So ladies and gentlemen,
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I bring to you this conversation of discipleship in context of church online. Jared Kirkwood from
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Rooted, Tyler Sampson, Engagement Pastor at First Capital, Ray DeArmis, Christ Fellowship Miami,
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and myself, Jeff, with the Church Digital. Hope you all enjoy this, and here you go.
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So Rooted's a 10-week small group experience that helps people within the church get connected to God,
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the church, and ultimately to discover their purpose. We use Rooted at Mariner's as a tool to help
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anybody who comes to our weekend service that's looking for their next step. This is not only an
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assimilation tool, but it's a generator of small groups. It's a cultural baseline. It's the way in
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which we create shared experiences and common language so that everybody who comes to our church
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that says, how do I get involved? They go through Rooted. At the other side of that, that Rooted group
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becomes a life group. That life group has a rhythm of serving and praying and these other rhythms that
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exist within the Rooted material. That helps them understand what does it look like to be equipped for
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group life at Mariner's. And so now part of my role is overseeing Rooted at Mariner's, but also
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equipping the roughly 800 churches that are using Rooted all across the country. And so I spend a large
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part of my day doing coaching calls, coming alongside churches that are trying to figure out how to
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implement Rooted within their context. And then we run various training retreats and all that kind of
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stuff throughout the year. Awesome. And so that's Mariner's Church, by the way. That's Eric Geiger. If you
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want to go back to episode, I want to say it was nine and 10, the famous Geiger, we're bringing in some
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more people from Mariners. And honestly, like that wasn't intentional. The real reason we brought this
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podcast together was because we were talking about First Capital Christian and how they've created this
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discipleship process that takes a volunteer and creates an opportunity to create a disciple who's comfortable with
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leading and doing more discipleship. A disciple is creating a disciple. And we're seeing that happen in
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context with First Capital's Christian Church Anywhere program. A couple episodes ago, episode 17, we were talking with
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Cindy and Brad, Brad Reed, my brother from another mother, who are volunteers, who are basically campus pastors
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at these Church Anywhere programs. Cindy leads a Hodgkin's Rehab Center, I think, that sees like 40
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people a week coming together to experience church. And that church is, or in that rehab center is basically
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conference room or community center. And Brad is part of a church service for, man, it was, I felt like it was
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anywhere between 30 to almost 300 people sometimes. About 350. Yeah. And so just depending upon what week
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it is and whether the prisoners can all come together or not. But that's a phenomenal thing when you think
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that, you know, First Capital Christian is empowering these people to basically go out and be the spiritual shepherds
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responsible for it for these souls at at these these locations. And so I wanted to explore a little bit more of
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this. And Tyler, you guys have been using at First Capital, you've been using the rooted material for for a while
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now, right? Yeah, yeah, we, we went through it as a staff and a elder group first. We call our elders
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shepherds. So if I slip up and say shepherds, know that that's the same thing as elders. But we went
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through it as staff and shepherds first and loved it. And then we launched our first group, I would say
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probably a year and a half ago. So we've been doing rooted for about a year and a half, two years.
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How's that experience gone for you, Tyler? Like, what does that what does that felt like? What is
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that? What what have you seen come from that? Oh, man, it's been amazing. I love it. It was really
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hard at first. So we did it at the 10 week experience during workday. The first time we did it just
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because of scheduling and it was just staff. So that made it a little difficult to motivate yourself to
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want to stop for an hour or two during a workday. But man, it was it was so rewarding.
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Specifically, there's a prayer experience that really stands out that every time I've done it,
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I feel like I've got a different God telling me something out of it, even though I've done
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rooted multiple times now. And I've heard about that prayer time, even from from other people that
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have gone through it and seeing how that's really has had an impact in people's lives. Before we go
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any further, let's let's stop and kind of just pick this apart. Because the word discipleship,
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I mean, I can say that to probably 10 different people, what does discipleship mean? And I'll
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probably get back 15 answers, because it just it's so varying at levels. And so, you know, Jared,
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as somebody who's written this discipleship material that that's really used as the framework,
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the way that you guys have created it at Mariners, kind of this front door to leading towards groups and
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other community and things. You know, how do you guys at Mariners define discipleship?
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Sure. So just to clarify, while I have done lots of writing and contribution to rooted, I didn't
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originate this program. It actually comes from a partner church of ours in Kenya, which is a big
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part of our story. So, you know, the funny thing about trying to make disciples is an intentional
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conversation that really points back to the gospels about what does it mean to follow Jesus. And I think
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you said it really well, Jeff, that disciples make disciples. So it's not a what conversation as much
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as it's a how. So it's a real strategic conversation about, okay, so how and how on earth do we help
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the average person become more like Jesus? And a part of that is an entire conversation around
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church strategy. What is it? What are the markers of a Jesus follower? It's a leadership development
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conversation. There's a maturity conversation. So there's a lot of stuff that goes into how do we
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help someone become more like Jesus, right? In America, that's usually a Western approach, which is
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about intellect and knowledge informing our behavior. If I can learn enough, it should inform how I live my
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life. Well, we all know, and Romans 7 is a good validation for this, that I can know what is right and
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still do what is wrong. So there's got to be more than just an intellectual approach to understanding
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what does it mean to follow Jesus. And for us at Mariners, for years, we had great small group
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programs, we had lots of, you know, adult education, we had classes, we had great opportunities for people
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to grow in their understanding of God, hoping that that would be would really help inform their behavior
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to become more like Jesus. But what we learned from our partners in Kenya was that it's more of an
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experiential model that leads to the true kind of behavioral change, which then of course, knowledge
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and intellect is all wrapped up into that. But if we aren't going to the places that Jesus went, doing
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the things that Jesus did, we aren't actually becoming more like Jesus, we're just thinking more
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like Jesus. So we found this program that they were doing over 10 years ago, we met them through our
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partnership. And we said, Hey, could we kind of translate this and bring it back into to contextualize
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it really to what it would look like to use for our church in Southern California. And they said,
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sure. So we brought it back, did it at Mariners, and we taught it. And it was more like a small group
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model with a curriculum that was sort of fueling it. And quite frankly, it just didn't work. So we went
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back to them and said, what did we do wrong? And they said, you did everything wrong. So they said,
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well, we'll come back and we'll help you figure out how to do it. We spent the next year or two after
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that. This is around 2008, nine, 10, right around in there, where they started helping us understand
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more of a, for lack of a better generalization, an Eastern approach, which ties in much more
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experiential learning than just intellect and understanding. And so that really informed the
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way in which we wanted to approach discipleship at Mariners. And so since then, Rooted has been a
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program that hinges on these experiences. And Tyler mentioned the prayer experience already.
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We would also talk about the serve experience be an element where we need, as a group, we need to go
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out and serve our community so that we can go be a part of what Jesus is doing in our city, be a part
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of the story that God is writing in our neighborhoods, right? We'd also would include sharing our story as a
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critical component of that. So one of the things that I think the Western church has, you're either really
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good at it or you don't do it, which is evangelism, right? Sharing our own story, you either do it because
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you're seeing your pastor loves evangelism and it's hardwired into your DNA, or you don't do it because
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it's really hard. Well, what Rooted does is it helps people see that evangelism doesn't have to be
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telling my testimony. It can actually be talking about what God's doing in my life right now,
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and leads me to my family or my workplace or neighborhood and allows me to share my story
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of what God's doing in my life today, right? A little different than how we typically talk about
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evangelism. So as you can see, when we approach discipleship, we want to come from an experiential
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angle that allows people to intermingle intellect and experience so that we might actually think like
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Jesus, but also do things more like he did, hoping that we develop more integrated spirituality in our
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life rather than just simply knowledge-based. I've worked in churches personally that have been on
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both sides of that coin, that have been very evangelical-driven where we're out there,
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we're witnessing, we're sharing. I've worked with churches that do the, hey, let's invite to the
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service, let the lead pastor do the witnessing, but your job is just to get them in the pew.
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And I've worked with churches that are very grow-oriented where it's not necessarily evangelism
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as much as, hey, when a person outgrows the evangelical church, they're going to come over
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and just take part of what's over here. We get our growth when churches just want to get more in a
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growth. And there's obviously, there's pros and cons to all that. Some churches would say that there's a
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difference between discipleship and small groups, some churches that would say it's the same. I'm just
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curious as a guy who works so much in context of coaching and helping churches through this,
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like, what's your opinion on all this? What is the role of discipleship in groups? What's that
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relationship look like?
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Sure. It would be very difficult to separate the two out as if they're mutually exclusive.
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But I do believe that those of us who are growing to become more like Jesus would have a very difficult
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time doing it outside of community. Community is a critical element to being a part of following
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Jesus. And so you saw Jesus build it with his disciples. You saw those apostles then do that
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with their communities. You saw Paul travel around the ancient Near East building churches that were
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communities that were sharing things. They were praying for one another. They were working together for
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the good of the city. So a small group has become our approach to ensure that to become more like Jesus,
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I have to do it with others, right? That's also discipleship. The problem though is that most churches
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that I've worked with, and to be honest, it was our own church a number of years ago, that most small
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groups turn into cul-de-sacs. They become, to make it actually a little bit of a sadder phrase, most small
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groups become support groups. They become places in which we spend time together so that I can
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talk about my problems, I can be, you know, I can vent my frustrations, and I can receive prayer that I
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kind of need for my people. But a support group is not what I saw Jesus create with his disciples.
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I saw him activating people who are following Jesus and saying, we're going to go and do something.
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This is going to be about us, but it's also going to be about, actually, it may be better said is it's
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going to be God's work within us, but also God's work through us to benefit those around us.
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So, you know, what do you guys think?
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No, that's solid, Jared. You know, and I've even seen this in my own small group, where when
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challenge is presented in small group, it seems like folks want to take a step back,
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as opposed to embracing the challenge, and taking a step forward in their faith. And so what are some
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ways that you guys encourage folks to take a step forward? Because it almost seems like small groups
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tend to be the pathway that we introduce new Christians who are obviously like the most excited
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people about growing in their faith. At least that's, that's been my experience. So they're willing to
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like take those big leaps early on. Whereas the people who've kind of been coddled in church,
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or they've been in church for a while, I'm just here to receive and I'm just kind of here to just
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check things out. And so how do you guys kind of wrestle with that tension?
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Yeah, great question, Ray. So part of it is, within Rooted, which becomes our, it's our cultural
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baseline, where we're going to help you understand what does it look like to be equipped for life
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in community to really be in a life group at our church. And so there are these seven rhythms. And
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I'd actually love to hear Tyler talk about how this has been expressed at First Capital. But
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in these seven rhythms, we're going to create some habits that your group is going to eventually do
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together once you graduate Rooted. So when you move on to become a life group, you're not going to forget
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everything you learned in Rooted. Instead, you're going to use it as a launching pad for the things
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that we did together. Like that prayer experience, we're going to continue to pray together, both in
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our group, but we're going to set aside extended periods of time to pray for our city, for our neighbors.
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We might do a prayer walk, we might get out into our city, and truly pray for the government or for
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our school district or whatever that may be. We're going to not just talk about those areas of sin or
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struggle in our life. We're going to pause for a moment, have a moment of honesty, and then I'm
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going to ask my group to pray for me to experience spiritual freedom in whatever that area is in my
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life. So with everything that we talk about, these rhythms are not just things that we're trying to
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seek to understand. We're truly developing a practice that's going to be something we do together
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in community. So serving is another good example of that. We don't just study serving or study the poor
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in the marginalized. We're going to invite groups on a reoccurring basis to go out into the city and
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they're going to go serve together. Good. So that one right alone is actually a great example of a
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group that has fighting as they're drifting towards, and it's a natural drift. This is actually something
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that Eric Geiger talks about. Churches naturally drift towards complexity. Small groups naturally drift
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towards inward focus. So we need to introduce outward focused invitation for them so that they
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might be able to go into the community and see that the world really is bigger than just them
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and that Jesus cares for people beyond just who's right in front of them. So again, we want to invite,
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we want to try to help them step outside of what they're normally comfortable with. And that breaks down
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some of that support group type things that start to take place in a group.
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Oh, go ahead, Tyler.
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Yeah, I think that the struggle in churches, period, is to get out of that inward mindset. So imagine how
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much harder that is to facilitate online. Whereas, I mean, you watch church online a vast majority of
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time as a consumer. The typical person that I talk to that joins us online does not get on there to be
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like, man, I hope this church fills me up so I can go talk to my neighbor about Jesus later. That's not
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how that works. And so what we have tried to do by using the rooted material, we thought that that would
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be a really good way to start moving towards the outward focus rather than just the inward focus.
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And so we're actually doing rooted online with a group of 10 people right now. It's kind of like
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the guinea pig for it. But it's been amazing to see how that has shifted that small group mindset of
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inward focus to outward focus. I would love to hear how you are approaching those group experiences like
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prayer, like serve. How are you doing that with your online community? Because this is so intriguing to me.
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Sure. Yeah. So I'll hit the prayer one first. We met on a zoom call for the first hour and we prayed
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together. So we went through some guided prayer from the group leader. Actually, I'm not leading this
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one, which is really cool to be able to just kind of sit and observe and participate. So the group leader
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was, uh, let us through some guided prayer. We prayed on the zoom call and then we just left the zoom call
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open. Um, and, uh, we told everyone to, uh, either set an alarm on their phone, but keep their phone out of
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reach. Um, so like they know when to come back or like go take a walk and pray while you're walking, uh,
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whatever you feel comfortable with. But then we, we broke off for another hour, um, came back and broke
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our fast together at the very end. So we finished off by praying. Um, obviously we weren't in the same
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room eating together, but we were watching each other on zoom eat, which is a super weird thing to do.
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Um, but yeah, so it was, it was basically the exact same as how you could do it in person. Um,
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just without being able to touch someone. Um, as far as the serve experience, we gave them three
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options. You could serve, um, someone in your neighborhood. You can serve with, uh, your
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community. So for example, like a soup kitchen or something like that. Um, and then, or you could
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serve, um, a specific person. So that could be a family member. It could be a friend. Um, and we gave
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them those three options and came back the next week and just talked about what, how, what we did to
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serve. So we couldn't do that as a group because of the, uh, the physical distance between us, but we were
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all on the same page of what type of service that we were doing. And so that's, that's incredible,
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Tyler. Did you then, you've been in groups, both physical and then now this online one,
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I would love to hear some of the contrast of what you felt like really worked, what didn't work,
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um, between being someone together, serving together and praying together versus when you
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were able to do this through zoom. Obviously it is, uh, more personal. Um, if you are seeing them
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face-to-face, uh, and being able to touch them and, and, um, and be in their physical presence.
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But with that being said, technology, uh, has continued to advance to a point where I, um,
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I don't know in the, uh, most of these people in the group, I'm not, I don't have personal
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relationships with outside of online yet. I still know them as friends and as, as people that
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I'm close to. Um, and so while it's not exactly the same, it is really good for specific types of
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people that do not interact well, um, in person. So you just, Tyler, you just wrapped up this group,
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right? Uh, one more week. I knew it was, I knew it was right around here. So when this airs,
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you've wrapped it up. Um, what, what's the next step for, for the group in, in your application at
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first capital, you got six, eight people all over the country. Like where are they going?
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We're going to be a small group. Um, and we're going to do that through a Facebook group. We'll
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do it through, uh, obviously text messaging, calling and things like that. Um, but we are also
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on Marco Polo, um, which I don't know if you guys know what that is. Yeah. But, um, it, because of
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the time differences and things like that within the group, it makes it a lot easier to, um, not have
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to be live, um, when we meet. And so, um, moving forward, I think that's the route we will go.
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I don't know if you remember, Jeff, we had someone that I told you was going to be from London in the
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group and the time difference just killed him. And so something like Marco Polo could really help that
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out with, um, moving forward. And here, here's my question because once again, Geiger groups point
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towards inward systems point towards complexity. Uh, I probably would have that as a tattoo if I was
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getting tattoos back in the day. Cause he just would say that so much. I love him for that.
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Uh, at what saddleback online to offline and Tyler, you know, this, like they, they push people out of
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their online groups, like six to nine months at that. Hey, I'm glad you could be in this group.
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It's time to birth something different. And there is, there is an aggressive strategy, not saying it's
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right, not saying it's wrong, but there's an aggressive strategy towards them towards, okay,
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Hey, we're going to go birth something over here. So it's, it's really, let me help you with
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these finishing touches, but we're, we're training you to go do that. At first capital, have you wrestled
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with something like that? What, what does that look like over there with you guys?
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Yeah, they, they have, um, a little thing called church anywhere that they can, uh, that they can
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start. Um, that's, that's pretty much kind of what we're training them up to do is, is to one,
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find their purpose. Uh, so, uh, Jared, you don't know a whole lot about church anywhere, but it's,
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it's very passion and purpose based. Um, we, we try to empower someone that like when
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they have this purpose, when they have this passion, for example, the person with the Huntington's
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disease rehab center, she worked there. Um, so she had a passion for these people. So we
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said, Hey, let's help you go in and do this. And so through rooted, people are finding their
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purpose, finding their passion. Um, we're using the serve experiences to give them exposure
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to church anywhere. So many of our rooted groups, um, in person or online are serving within church
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anywhere groups outside of our, um, our physical location. Um, so their serve experience could be
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like, I'm going to go create a meal for, um, our homeless shelter, um, church anywhere. Um, and so
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we're, we're giving them that exposure and we've already seen, uh, probably 30, 40 people that have
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either jumped in a church anywhere location as a volunteer or began to lead one.
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And so, um, I, I, I, I'm excited to meet with my team after this and share some stories of what you
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guys are doing out there. Cause it's, it really is incredible. And this to really speak to something
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here, you know, we're working with lots and lots of churches and, and a lot of them are asking this
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online digital strategy kind of thing. And we've yet to really hear a story of a church utilizing
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rooted in this way. That's been this impactful and effective. And so Tyler, I'm going to be calling
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you up soon to get some more wisdom from you. Cause this is amazing. This will be a huge blessing
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to so many churches. So well done.
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Awesome. So we're going to expect to see lots of little rooted communities,
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a lot of studies popping up all over the place. And out of the 16 micro locations are currently
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running, uh, going to get some rooted going on in, in some of the prisons. You know, Brad mentioned,
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I would love that. Yeah. That's a Bible study. Is he doing rooted with them?
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He's not, but, um, I, we, we've been in talks of figuring out how we can get that it within,
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uh, like obviously the kids one, it wouldn't work, things like that. But, um, for specific
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locations where the people will be there, um, I absolutely think we can get it in there.
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We do have some churches that have used rooted in a prison environment. We created a specific
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format for them because you can't have any kind of hard binding or wire or anything like that. So
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we created a glue bound for them so that they could do that. And it's been really pretty amazing.
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We even have some global stories of some global partners who have used it in prison systems down
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in the Dominican Republic. And I've seen some really remarkable life change stories of like
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300 men in a prison of 500 go through rooted 300 baptisms. It's just remarkable stuff that we've
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been able to see, uh, God. And it's not because there's any magic sauce in the curriculum, right?
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It's, it's really is God's hand. This is such a beautiful picture of God's favor utilizing this
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thing.
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Both of these things we're talking about church anywhere and rooted are very simple. Um, it's,
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it's already stuff that we're called to do as Christians. Um, it's just putting it into
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practice. And it's, it's, it's a, um, a strategy to actually put that into practice.
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That's it. That's it.
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It's interesting to me. Uh, and, and, and Jared, you said this came from, from Kenya. Um,
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and I know like I've, I've experienced with the Timothy initiative, which was, uh, David Nelms
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out of India, I think somewhere out in that area. Um, why, and I just, maybe it's a two minute
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conversation, but why is it that the, the international curriculum has this effect and
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usefulness here in America? What is there, is there something about the culture here? Like
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what, what, what are the things that we're sensing and struggling with here where, where maybe
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it's not as, as comfortable? Well, that's a pretty, that's a huge question that I don't
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want to pretend I'm any kind of expert in responding to, but I can say that I think one
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of the saddest things in the history of the church as of late has been the West to the
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rest kind of mentality, as if America knows everything and we can inform the rest of the
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world on how to follow Jesus. Right. I think that kind of arrogance has done the damage,
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you know, it's done a lot of damage in America. And so there's been a really beautiful shift
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in an openness and a recognition that maybe we don't have everything figured out. And there
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are brilliant people globally. I mean, there are some amazing things happening all around the
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world that now we're finally willing to listen and to open our hands and say, okay, maybe we
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don't know everything. And so that doesn't mean that you have to do it exactly the way that
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they did it, but it is more of a posture of learning and listening that I think the church
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in America is now way more open to than it ever has been. Well, in my lifetime, at least.
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And so I am, I am so grateful now that we live in a generation that's looking to our global
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partners to say the church globally is more important than just simply the church in America
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getting better. And so it becomes a mutually beneficial relationship when we choose to listen
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and to learn rather than to try to inform and to teach in every environment we're in.
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That's good. Jared, as, as obviously folks are, are looking to, you know, expand, I mean,
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how does Rude help them kind of come to an understanding of, hey, listen, so there's a big
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difference between creating disciples and creating leaders at your church, because some folks try to
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lump them all in the one, in the one thing, like, are we creating new small group leaders or are we
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creating, you know, people who are closer to Jesus? Like, how is all this working out and how is
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Rude helping people kind of clarify those conversations? Sure. So this is a little bit of
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the shifting gears, right? And kind of the conversation, but we would say that you cannot
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have a conversation about discipleship or helping people become more like Jesus and separate out
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leadership development. If we're becoming more like Jesus, that means we're influencing others,
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which means we're becoming a leader, right? So there's, there's just a, it's all encompassing in
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one way. And so what I love a lot about Rude, it is that you see people get their first glimpse of
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what it means to serve and to, to be involved in some things. And so they start to tap into that passion.
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A lot of what Tyler's saying about people recognizing that they do have experience or
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passion or love for nursing facilities or, you know, whatever it is, the prison system,
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that's a really beautiful thing where people start to tap into how God has hardwired them
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and then utilizing their experiences and then getting a chance to serve the kingdom of God in that way.
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Well, that's leadership development, right? So within Rooted, we're giving people a chance to
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try some things on and to develop some leadership skills. But another thing that we're starting to do
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is we ask people to consider if you want to really be involved in any ministry of Mariners,
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we want you to be as best a leader as possible. And I know in our church, the very best leaders are the
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people who facilitate Rooted because it gives you within 10 weeks, a really good chance to lead a
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discussion, deal with crisis, learn to defer, deal with conflict. You've got to lead experiences.
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There are so many things that you're going to do in a 10 week window that will equip you to be a great
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leader anywhere in our church. And I can say that actually as the former high school pastor of our
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church, the very best volunteers I had in high school ministry were people that I led through Rooted
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that I then intentionally asked them to be involved in student ministries.
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They were well equipped to be a part of our student ministries program. So, and I would imagine that if
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you ask Tyler that same question, you're going to see those who have facilitated Rooted are uniquely
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equipped to lead anywhere within the church. Awesome. What challenges or what advice would
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you kind of give to somebody who's starting out in groups and trying to do this from a discipleship
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perspective? Yeah. Communication throughout the week is very key. That's key in person for any small
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group too. But it's, it's a lot easier to forget that you have an online small group on like a Monday
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night. So constant communication to keep it in the forefront of people's minds is huge. We haven't
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really faced very many issues. It's been a really, really good and surprisingly good experience for us so
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far. One of the absolute craziest stories that I've ever had in ministry came out of this rooted thing. So I think that
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my view is very skewed because of how insane this was that came out of it.
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Well, you're going to share that story now. So you can't set it up.
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We alluded to it on, on the podcast with Randy and I, but one of the people, so the Rooted
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online group that we did, you were only allowed to join it if you were from the online campus only.
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So like you couldn't just be in our location and join it online.
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One of the ladies, I mean, my care team has talked to her multiple times. Like we know who she is,
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but I've never met her physically before. But she joined the, the rooted group online.
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And, um, we quickly found out that she, she was struggling with some, some anxiety and depression.
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And, um, she became very comfortable with us. Uh, like we, we became a family to her, um, even though
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it was online. And, uh, she reached out a couple of weeks ago and said, um, she can't take it any
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longer and she was going to take two bottles of pills. Wow. So it, yeah, we, she reached out to the group
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and said that. So, uh, immediately we kind of sprang into action. Um, because of church anywhere, um,
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I have a good relationship with several of the sheriffs in our area, um, because we're in their prisons.
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So I was able to call his personal cell phone. He, uh, he traced her phone number to get her location.
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Um, we talked to her on the, uh, the entire time that, uh, the paramedics were coming and, um, and now
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she's okay. Um, and I, I don't say this to sound arrogant, but she literally texted us the next day
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and said, thank you for saving my life. Um, and so that would have never, ever happened had she not
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decided to join this rooted group. I mean, I would have known her from like seeing her on the online
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campus, but that was it. Um, and so now we specifically are able to pray for her. We have
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people from out of state that are wanting to come and visit her driving five or six hours because
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they're in this group with her. Um, so it was just a, an absolutely humbling experience to be a part of
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that. That's awesome. Wow. You know, so often we hear when we're talking about church online, it's not real
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community. It's, it's not real. It's, it's, it, there's no relationship aspect to it because you're not
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breathing the same air, um, conversate like stories like that. And I wanted you to tell that again,
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like that, that, that redefines what church online is. That would, that would have been a very real
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suicide. And now she has an extremely real testimony to share. Wow. Um, because of that.
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Very cool. Ray. Um, and I know you're doing a deep Christ fellowship. Miami's got a lot of groups
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going down there, your online pastor there. Um, man, what, what feedback, what, what, what experience
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in context of, of groups and doing things like what, what are the groups look like there at Christ
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fellowship? So some of our more successful groups have actually done something like rooted in that
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they did foundations. I mean, Jeff, you know, you're aware of this, you helped establish this,
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you know, before, before you went on to some different things. And yeah, that's Timothy initiative,
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by the way, I mentioned that earlier. We, we, with David Nelms permission kind of rewrote that.
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So, but go ahead, Ray. We tweaked it and we adapted it, which actually gave people a good
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intro in the spiritual disciplines, but it also gave people a great introduction in the small group
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ministry, which was huge. And so, you know, for us, that was very helpful early on and helping
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establish a pattern for many of these groups. And so hearing this, you know, it's great to hear how
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rooted is being used over at first capital, but also over at Mariners. And the fact that this kind
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of structure it's, it's proven true that people need an introduction to not just spiritual disciplines,
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but really rhythms of the faith and just a better understanding of what it means to be a Christian
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and how that affects their personal lives on the day to day and giving them the simple tools of how
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to break that down.
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Man, this is, this has been great. I'm just looking at the table of contents here. Who is God? How does God
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speak to us? Where is God in the midst of soft suffering? There is an enemy. How can I make the most
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of my life? Part one and part two. How does God view money? Why and how should I tell others? Why is the
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church important? Like that's, and so that's, that's your nine of 10 week, you know, stuff there. And so
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taking people through that. And then with, with the adage of now that you know, this go and, and take
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someone else through that, that, that duplication process, training somebody, training for trainers,
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you know, just, just that approach of helping somebody understand it and then empowering them and
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challenging them and holding them accountable to, to go as well. Um, that's an exciting thing. And so,
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man, Jared, thanks for, thanks for doing this. Sounds like this materials had a, had a, a lifelong
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impact or at least a long impact with you guys, even outside of when you were at, at Mariners, right?
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So, yeah, absolutely. This, this thing, it really is by God's grace, transforming not only our church,
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but a lot of the churches that we're working with. There's something to be said about,
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the, the American approach to lowering the bar and trying to make things as easy as possible to be
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involved. Rooted is quite frankly, the opposite, right? It is raising the bar and it is asking people
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to do things that are in, in some cases, well outside of their comfort zone. It's demanding of
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their time and their resources. It asks a lot of people, but we found a direct correlated relationship
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to the lower, the lower, the bar we, the lower we brought the bar of discipleship, the lower the impact
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we saw. And so we just started raising the bar higher and higher and higher. And people continue
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to exceed our expectations, no matter how high we place it. Um, and that beyond just the table of
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contents, it really is a remarkable thing to see people rise to the occasion and take a risk experience
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like going out and serving or praying or sharing their story or leaning into honesty and confession
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through that strongholds week. When we get outside of our comfort zone, that is really where God wants
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to write the best stories in our life. We cannot go on an adventure if we're going to stay in our own
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comfort zone. And so those, and those kinds of things, everybody wants to live a great story,
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but no one really knows how to go do that. Right. That's why we love the entertainment industry right
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now is somebody else is living a great story and we get to pretend like we're part of it,
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but really following Jesus, there is no greater story than that. And so when we take people and say,
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Hey, let's go actually do the things that Jesus did. It blows their mind that they look back and they
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go, I actually am living a pretty courageous story right now. So I'm really excited about, I'm excited
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about any church that's leaning into this kind of discipleship conversation. That's about spiritual
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growth. And it's about people becoming more like Jesus. I really could care less if people use
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rooted or not. Cause if what they're, if they're, whatever they're doing, if it's making disciples
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that are living this way, praise God, I'm so excited about that. I just know that I've had a front row
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seat to rooted and it's been a pretty impactful part of my story. And we get to see some pretty amazing
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things, both in America and around the world. So I'm really grateful for you guys giving me some time
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to talk about this. So Tyler, I'll be talking to you soon, my friend. Yeah.
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Well, Hey, we're going to, we're going to wrap here. Tyler, any 20 seconds, closing thoughts
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before we land the plane? I got nothing, man. Got absolutely nothing. Three weeks of talking
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about church anywhere on this podcast and the guy's out of gas. All right, Ray, you got anything?
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It's just a wonderful thing to hear how it's happening. Discipleship is taking place online
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and people are growing in their faith and they're being sent out to make an impact in their communities.
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And so for those of you churches that are still on the fence, this is possible. This is something that can
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happen. You've, you've heard it here. You've seen it over the past couple of weeks. If not, go back
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into the archives and check out some of the other stuff that's going on with church anywhere.
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It can happen for you too. Yeah.
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Jared, you got any closing thoughts before we go?
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Two quick things. If you are interested in rooted, experience rooted.com is the website to find all
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information for the pastor that's looking to implement rooted. And then Tyler, you might be interested
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to know that we have just released an app. So there's a digital version of the rooted workbook.
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Yes. Email me. I'll get you a code.
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I'm going to tell you to do that. So well done. I don't have to say.
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Yeah. We're really excited about it. It's, it's still in version one. There's lots of great things
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that we want to do. You know, I'm, I'm, I'm pressing our app developer guys to help us on
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the connectivity piece to it so that a group could go through it and they could have a,
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a feed or a wall or some kind of a social connectivity piece to it.
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So we're moving that way right now. It's a, it's a platform to go through the workbook and
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there's some great features involved, but we're working on that connectivity thing that I think
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will help the church online even better. So good things to come.
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That's good to know that that app is going to make, especially in the digital realm,
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it's just going to make it a lot less clunky. I mean, it's a, it's a, I'm making fun of the book.
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I'm not making fun of the book. It's a big book. I get it. I get it. It's good stuff.
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I don't, I like as a former bookstore owner, like I don't, I don't get anybody giving me books
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anymore. I just don't. Cause like, you know, Amazon and iPad. And so when, when Tyler's like,
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Hey, let me mail you this book. I'm like, wow, somebody still out there is using paper. That's,
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that's awesome. Hey, so we're good. We're going to wrap here. This has been the,
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the end of a three week conversation about church anywhere which I really believe is,
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is the future model of what church is going to look like. I think churches will continue to,
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to operate the way they are. The mega church is going to get bigger,
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but I think the smaller churches are going to get smaller and you're going to see more and more of
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these volunteers pop up and start to lead at the micro level. And, and so I hope you've enjoyed
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this three week deep dive in as, as we've talked about, um, about the, the, the serving,
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the volunteering, about the leadership and about the discipleship of what's involved here. And so
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Tyler, man, thanks for, thanks for your patience, um, going through all of this for three weeks.
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Uh, Jared, uh, man, thanks for jumping on this and I'm excited to see that app. I'm excited to see
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where rooted goes. And, uh, I know that already in the amount of time since I've been exposed to it,
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I've already been recommending it and passing it on to other pastors and churches that I'm working
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with and helping to go through, um, these steps. So man, I pray that the ministry there with rooted
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and, uh, with, um, Mariners and in general continues to go well, Ray, uh, man, I feel like I see all the
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time. So we'll just continue to see each other. That's awesome. No big deal. Hey, but this has been
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the church digital podcast. Uh, thanks for being here and hope to see you next time.