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BETA09: Facebook Groups Best Practices

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  1. Hey, great. We got the beta show here once again with the Church Digital Podcast. Jeff

  2. here, joined once again with Ray DeArmas, digital pastor over at Christ Fellowship Miami.

  3. Ray, thanks for joining us once again. By the way, we've got, if you're noticing, usually

  4. the beta show, it's just Ray and I, and we're talking and vamping about whatever. But for

  5. this one, we decided, hey, let's open it up and let's bring some people on because I'll

  6. just tell you, I don't know a lot about this topic. And so the topic we're talking about

  7. today is, hey, you know what? Facebook groups are a thing. Arguably, I would say it's probably

  8. one of the more effective tools available for creating community in context of church. And

  9. I don't know that we, the church, I don't know that we're using them well. And so I asked

  10. my friend here, Jeanette Yates, who I've had the honor of meeting with once, Tom Pounder,

  11. still haven't met you just saying that publicly. But I asked Jeanette here, hey, I want to have

  12. this conversation about Facebook groups because I don't think we churches are doing it well.

  13. And who do we need to talk to? Who can I talk to that can help us figure out Facebook groups?

  14. And Jeanette, who's over with Text in Church, as the social media manager at Text in Church,

  15. says to me, hey, Jeff, you need to talk to Katie. You need to talk to Julianne. And so

  16. Katie is a professor of marketing over at University of Mobile, and is also a great follow on social

  17. media as well, as she's the founder of Church, the Church Communication Group, and just phenomenal

  18. resources coming out of there, as well as Julianne here, who is with Customer Care and a whole bunch

  19. of other titles and things that she does in context of Church Marketing University. And so we've got three

  20. ladies here in this conversation that know a lot more about Facebook and Facebook groups, social media

  21. marketing. They live in this world. And so I actually, I want to learn something from this conversation

  22. and things to experiment and to kind of try out here in context of how to make our Facebook groups

  23. better, how to make church Facebook groups better. And I know Ray as well. Ray, as we're walking into

  24. this thing, do you, any thoughts here? What are you hoping to learn from this situation?

  25. You know, it's funny, Jeff, about like a year and a half ago, we started our Facebook group for our

  26. church. And I remember Nona Jones was talking about how this was going to be part of the future.

  27. And I really wanted to put emphasis on this, even over our page, because I see the potential for it.

  28. But the hard thing is, is that it's still so new and so fresh that a lot of us don't know what to post

  29. that's different from our page. A lot of us don't know how to get people to interact.

  30. And so that could be a bit of a struggle. And so I'm really looking forward to learning from these

  31. ladies here today, because, you know, especially for what we do at Christ Fellowship, hey, we got a

  32. lot of people watching, but we want that engagement piece to tick up a whole lot too. And I think the

  33. group can definitely help. Awesome. So, hey, we're setting up high praise here. We're looking to learn

  34. something. And so I'm going to put some pressure, by the way, before I put pressure on Jeanette,

  35. I'm always forgetting things. If you've got questions or comments, throw it here in the chat where

  36. you're watching. We're seeing that in the live broadcast and we'll throw it up here through

  37. StreamYard and give access to that. So feel free to comment in and engage with us. But Jeanette,

  38. I stalled enough for you here. We're going to let you start off. Give me something. Practical advice,

  39. best practices, Facebook groups. How do we make this stuff better?

  40. So, first of all, I just want to say there's a lot you can do as a church with Facebook groups. I am

  41. going to share one way to take it. And I think Katie's probably going to go in a completely different

  42. direction, but that's okay. That's why I have her on here. But, you know, with the churches that I've

  43. worked with personally, like I have been on staff with them, they were really wanting to dive into

  44. Facebook groups, but not really knowing how to start. And so if, you know, and churches, there's

  45. all different sizes, all different types. And so what I suggested for these churches, the churches I was

  46. working with is start with the audience that you already have, which for most of the churches I

  47. was working with, basically their Facebook audience was their members. Like there wasn't too much

  48. engagement beyond that. And so I said, okay, so you're still not having a conversation with your

  49. members online. So let's start with people we already know want to talk to us because they come to

  50. church on Sundays and they're, you know, emailing with us and things like that and texting. Let's

  51. start with them. And so there's a couple of different things you can do. I know a couple of churches that

  52. have a Facebook group for their members. And this would be where you would share not the stuff that

  53. you're sharing on your page necessarily, although you might sometimes, but this is more of like that

  54. personal information. Can you pray for this person? Don't forget where we need volunteers for this

  55. thing, or just engaging with them. Like, what did you think about, you know, today's sermon, you know,

  56. things like that, just having a group for all of your members. And then another church I know that does

  57. something really well is they have a really big women's ministry that does a lot of work in the

  58. community. So they've started, they have a really active women's ministry church group, you know,

  59. Facebook group that's for their church. And of course, that way, one of the things that's really

  60. needed there, I mean, they talk about devotion, they share devotionals in there, they go live in there,

  61. they share recipes, they do childcare, discussion of childcare, things like that. But they also are able

  62. to then, you don't necessarily have to be a member of the church to be invited into that group. Because

  63. if women are chitchatting and having fun, you might be like, Oh, you've got to come in this group,

  64. we're having this great conversation this week about this. And that's an easy on ramp for someone

  65. who might not actually be a member of the whole church, but they, you know, have several friends

  66. that are in this group that are talking. So that is what I suggest for someone who's like, we want to get

  67. started, but we just don't know where and we don't, we don't know how to create a group for the whole

  68. community, necessarily, just start with your members and create a place for them to gather

  69. and have conversation. And of course, as we have said many times this year, this is even more important

  70. in these days and times than it was before. But it's been important for a while. And it's even more

  71. important now. That was said so mellow. This is, it's, it's so important. It's, it's like the,

  72. the church lady from Saturday Night Live, totally serious saying that right now. I totally want to

  73. get into why Julianne has a completely different perspective. I will get there in a second. Let

  74. me ask a follow-up. I'm curious. Is, is it better to do like an, I'm starting out, I'm fresh. Is it

  75. better to do like an all member for the entire church that's broad scope? Or is it better to do like

  76. a specific, like a women's ministry or a young adult, like to, to really drill into more of,

  77. of a tighter demographic? If, if I'm starting out, I'm kind of new at this thing. Give me some advice.

  78. How, what does that first group look like?

  79. So I would ask you, or I would ask the church that's asking this question,

  80. who's already engaging with you online on your Facebook page? What demographic is that?

  81. And start that group. Okay. Uh, that's what I did with one of the churches I worked with.

  82. And the demographic was actually the older people of the church. Um, the ones that spend a lot of time

  83. at home online and they were ready to chit chat. I mean, they commented on every Bible verse I posted

  84. every, any, any random thing they were on it. They were the first comment, the first likes.

  85. I knew they were ready to talk. They want to talk. So I made sure that they had a place to talk

  86. from the very beginning. So that would be my suggestion is like, look, who's already wanting

  87. to communicate with you and go, go reach them, create something specifically for them. And I think

  88. it's Katie that I said might have a different.

  89. Oh, I'm sorry. We're completely fine with, with, we're completely fine with Julianne. No issues

  90. with Julianne. Katie, Katie's got a completely different perspective. So I love that.

  91. I mean, I just, I know, I just know that like she has all, you know, there's like lots of ideas in

  92. there as with Julianne, I'm sure. But lots of random ideas. Uh, yeah. So I actually just recently

  93. became a certified community manager through Facebook. So, uh, that's really exciting.

  94. That's a brand new certification. They just launched and I got to be one of the first people

  95. to become one. I think I'm in like the first, I don't know, 100 or 200. There's not more than,

  96. I don't think 200 people certified to do this yet. So that's pretty cool. Um, so I feel like

  97. I've studied a ton about groups recently, like, uh, just an enormous amount. And first I think

  98. I, Jeanette, I completely agree with what Jeanette says. So I don't really have like an opposing

  99. opinion. Right. But she had another, uh, another, you could take things we can do. Like this is

  100. good. I like to call it Jeanette calls like an internal strategy. Right. Um, and an internal

  101. strategy is good. It works. And that's important. Um, it's something I wanted to establish

  102. before I go into an external, like an outreach strategy is, um, there are many different types

  103. of groups. And so I think when you start a group, you'd be overwhelmed by the, uh, options or the

  104. different possibilities. And so I just think it's really important that we talk about maybe the

  105. different options there are. So there is a public group, which is very much like a page. Uh, I don't

  106. really know why you would ever want to use a public group. Uh, uh, you could, when you can do the

  107. page, I, you know, I, there are some reasons. So the public groups can be monetized. Uh, they've

  108. launched brand partnerships and stuff with public groups. I mean, yeah, that's a great reason

  109. right there making money. Um, but, but for a church, a public group doesn't make a lot of

  110. sense because a closed group or what we call now a, um, private hidden group, they used to

  111. be called closed. Uh, it's now called private and then hidden two different options. Um, there's

  112. either public or private hidden or visible. Okay. So a private hidden group, um, actually

  113. a private visible group, excuse me, you want to create a private visible group. So that

  114. means that it's still searchable. You can still find it on Facebook, but you can't see what's

  115. inside of it unless you join. Okay. So that's what the private means. Like you can't really

  116. see what's going on in there. You can see the members that are in there perhaps. Um, but you

  117. really can't see what's going on inside the group unless you join it. Uh, I think that

  118. the reason you want to use a private visible group is the exclusivity of it. Um, it makes

  119. people want to join it other than just look at it like a page. You don't necessarily have

  120. to like it to see what's going on in there. Uh, like a public group, you can see what's

  121. going on in the public group without joining it. So, okay. So we've got a private visible

  122. group. And then, so we've talked about an internal strategy. I think internal strategies

  123. are great. I had several when I was working at mega church, you could create, like we created

  124. one for the choir. So the choir had 200 numbers in it, which is basically a small church in

  125. and of itself. Um, and they would always talk about like, what are we wearing this Sunday?

  126. Or like, what songs are we singing again? You know, that kind of stuff. Um, and then we

  127. also did like repeating. I think it's really important to do, uh, repeating topics when, when

  128. possible, when it makes sense, when there's enough conversation around something to do

  129. something that's repeating. So for us, uh, we found that like, what can we be praying

  130. for you? Um, asking that every single week inside of our internal communities was really

  131. important. And so it really kept, I think that internal community connected with what was

  132. going on in their lives. And, uh, then obviously we could pray for each other. And that was

  133. great. Uh, I think anytime that we can encourage prayer as a primary strategy, that's what we

  134. should do. So, um, okay. So an external strategy is really, uh, how can we reach people who are

  135. outside of our church? And so there are already tons of community groups created in your community,

  136. um, on Facebook and, you know, a community group doesn't necessarily even have to be a Facebook

  137. group. It could be a page. It could be an Instagram account. Um, but there's already all

  138. these groups created or you can create a group. So either way, if you create a group, um, you do

  139. start to start from scratch. I would find 10 friends and basically you're finding these niche

  140. kind of groups or you're finding neighborhood groups. So there's one here in Sarah land. It's

  141. like the voice of Sarah land or some voices of Sarah land. Um, and so you can join that and like

  142. talk about, you know, what's going on in Sarah land. Um, and usually they're full of trash.

  143. So if you can be a light in the darkness neighborhood group, I think that's what you

  144. should do. Like if you can encourage community and like a happy capacity, even if it's just

  145. limited to like, what's your favorite barbecue restaurant in town or something. I think that's

  146. really good because all we're trying to do in these neighborhood groups is create relationship.

  147. It's all I want you to do. I don't want you to like put out Bible orders every single day

  148. into all of these neighborhood groups. Um, because I mean, Jesus didn't go around like

  149. throwing the Bible at people, right? When he, uh, went to the woman at the well, he just

  150. asked her, you know, about her life and what she needed. And so I think that we need to just

  151. go into these, uh, community groups and maybe you create like a hiking group and every week

  152. you go hiking and you take pictures of your hike and maybe eventually you can invite people

  153. to go on hikes with you. Um, and it's important that we create relationships because obviously

  154. I think we're all in these Christian bubbles, right? I think everybody's like in a big church

  155. bubble. Um, where like, I don't know how I'm supposed to meet other people who aren't Christians.

  156. Right. I get that question a lot. Like how do I meet people who aren't Christian? Um, well,

  157. you have to do things outside of your Christian bubble. Walk outside and go next door or across

  158. the street to your neighbor. Go to your next door neighbor. I don't know. Like there are people

  159. who are far, far from God. I think that we just like maybe, especially in the South,

  160. like we assume that everybody knows Jesus and everybody goes to church. Um, and maybe they

  161. kind of do. I think they're all culturally Christian. Like they all think that they're

  162. Christian. Um, so, you know, finding these opportunities where we can create real relationships

  163. because we can't create relationships. We can't have life change. Life change happens in

  164. the context of relationship. So how can I create more meaningful relationships is always my like

  165. end goal. Right. And I think as a church planter, that's your end goal too, right? Like you just

  166. want to create these relationships that are very meaningful so that people will eventually

  167. ask you about your life because obviously it is different and then they will want to come

  168. to church. Um, and so it's, uh, enjoying your church members, Facebook group, but that will

  169. be, yeah, that'll be the end goal. Right. I want that group, but I'm in the group that they're

  170. already in. Right. Got to meet them where they're at. That's really cool. Okay. So you're telling us

  171. that Christians should kind of take charge in like subcultures that they're already part of

  172. outside of Christianity and saying, Hey, we want to be involved in these spaces as a way to reach

  173. other people. Cause when we were going to talk about groups, I was thinking of it mostly as the

  174. internal strategy part. And you're saying, Hey, Christians have a huge opportunity here to reach out to

  175. people. Yeah. 100%. It's a very old evangelism strategy. I'm not only teaching some like brand

  176. new, like new angelism strategy. I think people think like, ah, that sounds so innovative and wild.

  177. And I'm like, no, it's just like what the church used to do. Like with a basketball league,

  178. you know, or whatever, except for they put their name on it. I don't want you to put your name on

  179. anything. We got so caught up in taking credit for everything that we forgot. Like this was an outreach,

  180. right? You're telling me I can't start like a Royal Ambassadors, uh, Avengers, Marvel group or

  181. something along those lines. Like I shouldn't do that. Actually, if you started an RA like group,

  182. I wouldn't hundred percent because like, okay, my brother was an RA. He's a Royal Ambassador. So

  183. this is very Southern Baptist. I was going to say my line. You're like, you know, I know what

  184. Royal Ambassadors are. Yeah. It's a title. I know. I know. Ambassador, I will do my best to be a

  185. well-informed responsible follower of Christ. Do you have concern for all right now? Do you know

  186. any of this? I know none of it. This is all news. Awana, Awana Julian, is Awana maybe more familiar

  187. with you? Yes. I wasn't in Awana, but yes. Okay. All right. Well, go on, Katie. Go on.

  188. Oh yeah. No. Uh, so yeah, the RA, so, uh, it's funny, you know, RAs and GAs, I was actually super

  189. into Girls in Action. So there's RAs and GAs. Girls in Action was the girls version. My brother

  190. was in the RA Basketball League. Um, so yes, I am very familiar, um, with this. And so, yeah. So,

  191. uh, anyway, you should just create, like, you should just go into groups that you're already in

  192. and, like, figure out how you can, uh, reach out to people. Well, and this brings up a good point.

  193. I'm sorry, Jeff. I know. I need to shut up. I'm sorry. Y'all talk. I told you it's going to get

  194. crazy. Y'all go. But this is on point. I'm staying on topic. But I think this is something that we

  195. really, we really need to be teaching our people members. Yeah. 100%. Because we talk about

  196. discipleship all the time as churches. Yeah. But we do not do a good job of connecting that to

  197. their online presence. Right. And I think that that is something, maybe that's the first Facebook

  198. group you create is like, you know, what it really means to be a, you know, a Christ follower

  199. in real life and online. Like, how does this translate to, you know, we all know the things

  200. that we should, you know, how to let, you know, we, we've taken the, we've done the book studies,

  201. we've done the Bible studies on, you know, how to be a disciple of Jesus in the world, but we don't

  202. always translate that to our online presence. And I think that is something that is so important.

  203. And as part of this conversation, like Katie says, this does not have to be about Bible verses and

  204. gifts that are not helpful. And sometimes don't mean what you think they mean. This, this is,

  205. this is about real connection and real conversation with people where they already are, where we're all

  206. entrenched in 37 Facebook groups about all the things that we love. And there's no reason we can't

  207. connect with people and bring them alongside us and walk alongside them. Yeah. Yeah. And I love that

  208. because I think a lot of times when churches talk about like your online activity, if it's like in a

  209. sermon or whatever, it's always like, you need to unplug or you need to be kind to people. And yes,

  210. like those things are both important, but if we can catch a vision for like, this is actually a place

  211. to do ministry. It is going to be so much more effective. And, you know, I mean, I think we've

  212. probably all been in places where people are like, you need to go where the people are. Well, like,

  213. I'm not the kind of person, you know, just going to say like, I'm a young single woman. I'm not going

  214. to go to a bar and try and start strike up a conversation with someone to tell them about Jesus. I'm not

  215. going to do it, but I can join a Facebook group. You know, that is wise. That is helpful. And then

  216. I can, you know, make relationships that way in a way that is safe. Probably not the way that people

  217. will expect it this direction to go. Sorry. Every time. And I'm so sorry. Yeah. So I actually did have

  218. a woman do that. Actually, Julian, I got a great like comment from somebody in a different group

  219. altogether, not even to mine. Um, and she was like, Katie, I heard about like your idea or whatever.

  220. And I actually joined our neighborhood group and they go on a walk every week or something. This

  221. was before Corona. Um, and she was like, they go on a walk every week. And so I went on the walk

  222. with them and I'm very introverted. And I, you know, I was kind of nervous about it. And she was

  223. like, I went on the walk with them. We had a great time. Somebody sent me home with some homemade

  224. pickles. I got to call my dog. She was like, I think this is the best gospel like conversation and

  225. like possibility that I've had in years. Right. And I was like, yeah, exactly. It's so easy.

  226. Right. Like, I don't know. Just normal human to just show up to things. I don't know. Um,

  227. and just like, and you can do that completely online to begin with. Like, so there's really

  228. no intimidation factor. It's just like being apart and like taking, uh, I don't know, action

  229. to like actually reach them. And you can create an intentional strategy to do that. You don't

  230. have to like, you can do it like a little bit by a little bit before like, you know,

  231. everybody even realizes you're sneaking into all their lives and becoming like really well

  232. known in the community. Um, and so, I mean, that's kind of what I had with church communications,

  233. right? Like I didn't, nobody knew who I was like before 2015. I just snuck in there. Um,

  234. but yeah, I don't know. It's just a great, it's just a different, I think God's really giving me

  235. a heart for that. And I just, I just, we, we just should figure it out anyway. Sorry. I'm stumbling

  236. now. I love this. And for the record, Ray, I want to say that we made it 17 minutes into the beta

  237. show without saying the word discipleship. And then it came up. We, we, we do this. Like

  238. we talk online discipleship, digital discipleship all the time. Like, and it feels like that's like

  239. the, the constant theme through the podcast and the other things that we do. And so kind of, kind of

  240. honest, I'm just going to share a little bit of this idea. It's like, Hey, let's talk about some

  241. other stuff. Let's try to move away from some of the philosophical discipleship. Talk about more

  242. practical things. Hey, Jeff, let's, let's get, you know, more detailed stuff. And so,

  243. hey, let's bring some people together, some women, let's talk about Facebook groups.

  244. What can be more practical than Facebook groups? And even in Facebook groups, we end up talking

  245. about discipleship. And, and, and I'll just tell you, Katie, that, that outward facing strategy,

  246. I talk to digital church planters. I talk digital, Hey guys, let's, let's get involved in,

  247. in the community Facebook groups, meet people through there. I can tell you churches that have

  248. launched when the planner's in another state and he's built his core team off of

  249. Facebook groups in the city that he wants to launch his church into phenomenal strategy.

  250. We talk about it all the time. Never once have I thought, Hey, church needs to launch an

  251. unbranded Facebook group community on a topic and, and, and start the conversations there.

  252. Um, be invite people into the, into that community, completely different approach, honestly, than

  253. anything that I've, I've ever thought on that. So thank you towards that. That that's awesome.

  254. Uh, I got, I got time for one more. Um, somebody, somebody give me, go for it. Julianne, you're up.

  255. I got one super practical tip and it's just this. When you start a church Facebook group, the first

  256. thing is you need one person or some people who own that Facebook group, preferably not the pastor,

  257. but if it has to like somebody who owns a Facebook group. And the other thing is this goes with it.

  258. Turn on post approval because things can get crazy if you don't. And so you have your person or people

  259. who are in charge, have them check it every day or five days a week or whatever. Um, and make sure

  260. that you are attending to that community and that those people are, you know, fostering the community,

  261. starting conversations, responding to people's questions, but you definitely want to have

  262. somebody that's in charge so that we're not just like approving posts once, once a week, you know,

  263. when people no longer have their questions or prayer requests or whatever. Um, and that there's

  264. actual dialogue happening. And I think it goes back to what Jeanette said earlier about like,

  265. figure out who your top fans are, your people who are already online and already want that conversation,

  266. try to draw them in. If they need training, that's fine. Um, but you know, if they can take that on

  267. and kind of help you get the group going and get some momentum, that is key. And that goes for the

  268. branded or the unbranded, like that's something that will work either way. So love it. Let me,

  269. let me ask you on it. That, that was a very good, uh, tip there. So I'm, I'm a pastor. Um, maybe,

  270. maybe I, I feel like I need to overly control this. Um, at what point do I let it go even out of a

  271. staff member, let it go to a volunteer? What, what, what, at what point should I, could I, or do I need

  272. to be involved in it every step of the way? Coach me through here, that owning person, is it a staff

  273. person? Is it a volunteer? What's that transition look like? To quote, just let it go. Yeah. I was

  274. going to say as the, as the pastor, do you control all the conversations that happen in your Sunday

  275. school classes? Ooh, like, do you, because that's what this is. It's, it's something that's a little

  276. more permanent and maybe visible, but that's what this is, is it's the conversations that would happen

  277. in your Sunday school classes or around the potluck or whatever. So after church lunch, right? Yeah,

  278. exactly. You don't even know where those people are going, right? Like they, they could be saying

  279. whatever. So as a pastor, you don't necessarily have to have control over the conversations that

  280. are happening. Now, there could be specific instances where you want a pastor in charge.

  281. For example, if this Facebook group, if you're following the Nona Jones model, where your Facebook

  282. group is your digital campus, you probably want a pastor in charge of that. But if it's just a place

  283. to connect with people in the community, put people obviously who are wise and whose discernment you

  284. trust in there. But at the end of the day, you don't have to control the conversations. You should be able

  285. to participate in them and be available if the people in charge of that have concerns, which will

  286. probably not happen as often as you think it's going to. But otherwise, like, just think about it as

  287. like, you can't be in every Sunday school room at once. You don't have to be in the Facebook group and

  288. seeing all those conversations at once either. So. Well said. I'm totally going to use the Sunday

  289. school line on a regular basis. Now, I'll give you credit for at least the first two and then I'm

  290. probably just going to end up stealing. Perfect. Perfect. At least this is a public record that

  291. Julianne came up with that. Who'd you borrow it from? No, I'm kidding. Hey, this has been a great

  292. time. I've loved it. I've learned a lot. I know from now on that if I'm going to invite three ladies

  293. on a show, I'm just going to leave my mic muted and let you all run because this has been definite.

  294. Somebody just tweeted this. I'll throw it in Facebook tweet. Sorry. Definitely go where people

  295. are. And I think that's really one of the takeaways. Love this idea of external. Love the focus of

  296. internal. Releasing and empowering others that understand the Facebook culture to run with. It's

  297. good stuff. Hey, Ray, any closing thoughts here as we're landing the plane?

  298. Yeah. I loved all the points brought up and especially Julianne, what you talked about with

  299. having the right moderator in place, especially coming out of a very contested election season,

  300. a lot of difficulties where a lot of people want to get very vocal in church or just about different

  301. perspectives that are going on, especially in an era of misinformation where stuff's being spread.

  302. It's important to have somebody who's a moderator and to make sure and confirm with that moderator

  303. what is and what is not allowed. Be very, very clear and flag stuff as soon as you see it and make

  304. sure and kind of walk them through that because it can be very hard. Everybody especially can have

  305. like a different filter on that kind of thing. So make sure you're taking care on that end.

  306. Yeah.

  307. Julianne, were you going to make sure?

  308. I was going to say for sure, like one of the things that we do at work, and I think that this is

  309. actually a good thing for churches too, because we're very intentional at CMU about like developing

  310. community. And so sometimes I'm like, you know, the head and I have other moderators that help me and

  311. we all know like this is a drama free zone. So someone says something that, you know, we have

  312. people of all kinds of theological persuasions in there as far as like they're all Christians, but

  313. Calvinists, Armenians, whatever. If someone says something that could be considered insulting

  314. to another belief, we just decline it and we say, hey, I'm really sorry, but we know that this

  315. conversation is going to go out of control. So we're not going to. So if you just say like,

  316. hey, this is a no drama zone. It's a, it's a place for us to love each other because we are

  317. brothers and sisters in Christ. That works better for your church groups, but you can still be polite

  318. about it. And like another one is like, hey, this isn't for debate. This is for discussing whatever.

  319. So that's right. And, and even on top of that, like things that we've had to deal with in our

  320. groups is folks even trying to like spam us with other internet pastors or, you know, churches or

  321. different things. And so that's where you have to be very clear on what the group is about. And that's

  322. where those group rules are super important at the beginning. And that's where a lot of that

  323. beginning of the group can be very, very crucial.

  324. Yeah. Well, well, well said there. Hey, so, so we're going to land the plane. By the way,

  325. I, I feel like we need to do this more often. Like Ray, I think we need to get like these ladies

  326. together. By the way, if you're not doing the three of you should consider doing like a podcast,

  327. the video stream, something separately. Like it's, it's hilarious. It's fun. It's entertaining.

  328. But we, we need to come up. Like, I want you to become like the, the, the, my communications go

  329. to people. Like I need some more communications love in my life. So we're, we'll have to do this

  330. again. If y'all are willing, of course, let's do this because I'm sorry. What?

  331. You just went to marry Martha to communicate resurrection. So I'm just saying like, clearly.

  332. Okay. I was going to say Katie has a podcast. I mean,

  333. Yeah.

  334. Well, that's actually where I wanted to go because you're great followers. So, so tell the audience

  335. here a little bit here, uh, like how we can find you on online. Jeanette, why don't, why don't

  336. you go first? Where, where can people find you and track, you know, what, what you're doing online?

  337. Okay. So Twitter is my jam. Uh, I do love some Twitter. So feel free to hop over there and follow

  338. me at Jane Iates. I also on Instagram am starting to talk about really what it means to, to be

  339. purposeful with your social media, um, profiles. Um, and I'm not necessarily sharing like, you know,

  340. how to be a good Christian, you know, but just talking about like how to be a person,

  341. like be a real person. And so I'm doing a lot of that on Instagram, which is another place

  342. that you can check, uh, check out that content. Um, giving social media tips just for average

  343. people. Like, you know, think about these things before you post things like that today. I did

  344. one that was like, Hey, remember behind every profile is a person be kind. Um, so I'm also

  345. at Jane Iates over there. Um, so anyway, those are my two. I love that Katie next up. So obviously

  346. podcast, number of things talk, talk about the church communications group. How can people

  347. find all the resources that you're providing online? Yeah, you can go to churchcommunications.com

  348. and find pretty much everything churchcommunications.com slash group. If you're enjoying the group,

  349. uh, we'd love to have you. We have about, I don't know, almost 28,000 church communicators

  350. in there and, uh, just having the ball. Uh, you can also go to katieallred.com. Uh, we've

  351. got an Instagram book out, Instagram posts that worked, uh, just examples across the country.

  352. If you would like to see just some more stuff, uh, about communications, these are actual practical

  353. examples from communicators, just like you. And so, uh, I would love to let you see a copy

  354. of this on Amazon. Uh, you can go to churchcommunications.com slash Insta book. If you would like to pick

  355. up a copy of that. Awesome. Like, like I said, one, one of, one of the great resources for churches

  356. in the communications realm, right over there at churchcommunications.com. Julianne, church

  357. marketing university, nothing to sneeze at either. Tell me a little bit about what you're doing

  358. and how people can follow what's going on there. Yeah. So, um, I, and the, I was joking

  359. earlier on the CCCO, no one knows what that stands for, but I help the team over at CMU with

  360. social and customers and whatever, probably the best place to connect with me and kind

  361. of see what we're practicing in action is, um, the church marketer space group. It's different

  362. than Katie's group. It's smaller. Um, but you can kind of, that's a great place to connect

  363. with me. I spend 90% of my money. I said it's smaller, but mighty.

  364. Well, thank you.

  365. That's, that's awesome. Well, well said. Well, ladies, thank you very much for joining us for,

  366. uh, for, for the stream here, here at the beta show, uh, questions. If you've got them in the

  367. audience, feel free to throw them in. We'll be engaging with the comments later on. If you've

  368. got questions for the church digital to cover here on the beta show, text us at 484-324-8724.

  369. 484-324-8724. I've got a lower third in there somewhere and I forgot to click it. It's been

  370. that kind of week. Hey, so for everybody that's on the screen right now, Ray, Jeanette, Katie,

  371. uh, Julianne, my name is Jeff with the church digital and Stadia church planting. Thanks for

  372. joining us today and we'll see you next time here at the beta show. Spider-Man really? All right.

  373. Y'all have a good day. Bye.