Sermon
EP227: Lucas Pulley & Unique Expressions of Church
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One issue that the normal church model has is we listen to the pastor and we need to be listening
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to the Holy Spirit and find out what He has for us personally, along with listening to the pastor
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and listening to somebody that's, you know, studied and spent the week really digging into
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the Word of God, but we need to integrate that into our own lives. And really, that's all I've
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been doing. Welcome to the Church Digital Podcast. Through this podcast, we'll talk about the
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technological innovations within the church. But more than tech for tech itself, we'll address
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deeper questions. Is disciple making possible digitally? How should we approach the digital
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mission field? Can a biblically grounded church operate in digital space? Oh, and where does
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the metaverse fit into all this? Whether you're a big or small church, an established church
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or a startup church plant, the Church Digital's goal is to help churches like yours learn to
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be a multiplying church, digitally and physically. Our heart? That churches like yours will discover
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a newfound focus on disciple making that will revolutionize your church. And now, here's your
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host, Jeff Reed.
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All right. Hey, everybody. Welcome to episode 227 of the Church Digital Podcast. I have been
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looking forward to this conversation, this conversation right here for a very long time. It was, you know,
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I feel like I should like maybe draw it out longer, tease it, but we're just going to get right into it
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right here. So I was interviewing, we got Lucas Pulley, executive director from Underground Network
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here in Florida, specifically the Tampa area and others. So I was interviewing Lucas Pulley,
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talking about that verse in micro. Yeah. We were talking about DAOs. Yeah. We were talking about DAOs and
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blockchain. Yeah. It was the most all over the place conversation through Leadership Network, maybe
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maybe three or four months ago. And he mentioned the words dungeon and dragon church. And just right then,
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I was like, okay, I cannot have this conversation today because we don't have enough time for it. But dang it,
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we're going to come back because I want to explore what the idea of Dungeons and Dragon Church could
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look like. And so we were emailing kind of after the fact and Lucas was nice enough to connect me with
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Andy Corson. And so Andy, welcome to the show as well. And we're going to get into Dungeons and
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Dragons Church. But then I discover Andy's also run a Bible at the bar, like church at a bar. And all of a sudden,
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I'm just, my mind is getting blown by all these different expressions of church and how church can
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look different in a physical building, in digital space, in a bar, in a Dungeons and Dragons game.
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Like this is just, once again, this is a conversation that I really, really wanted to
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have. So gentlemen, Lucas, Andy, thank you all for jumping on the show here. It's going to be great.
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Our pleasure. Thanks for having us. Awesome. So Lucas, why don't you just a big picture up front
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here? Underground, you know, I mean, obviously we do a lot with Rob Wagner, Casey Underground. You guys
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were ahead of them on this, maybe the impetus a little bit for some of their mindset. So talk to
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us a little bit about Underground, Tampa Underground, what you guys are about.
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Yeah, Network of Microchurches, we want to empower the priesthood of all believers, just everyday
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disciples to discern their calling from the Lord, their destiny to be a witness to the unreached,
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to the lost and the poor. And when they have some clarity about that from the Lord to actually go and
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plant and develop an expression of the church in a simple way among those people that can be
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contextualized and meaningful and fully empowered in an intentional community among those people.
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So we just have a little network here in Tampa of around 100 of those microchurches in like a
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decentralized network. And I have the grace of a vantage point of being able to serve a lot of those
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leaders and help them get off the ground or remove barriers along the way. And as the as the director
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of the network and and being able to see some of them plant develop and progress. But gosh, I don't I
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honestly don't remember how long it was ago, Andy, that we we connected. But but Andy was in the
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Tampa Bay area, he and his wife have been kind of missional experimenters for a long time and
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and connected with the underground many, many years ago. And, and they've been, you know, you say Bible
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at the bar, and I'll let Andy talk about it. But that his his formal microchurch was Bible at the bar. But
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they were doing all kinds of experiments, expressions of the church underneath that, that like general
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label, general moniker, and, and, and reaching a lot of people in a lot of pockets of places that, again, the
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church would never be reaching, we would often never see or know. But because that's not the point, you're
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just empowering the priest of all believers to be the church among the people, and let them go, let them be
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free. And, and, and do their thing. And, sadly, it was about maybe a few months ago that that their
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the Corson family moved to the Tampa area and went up to Ohio. And we've been weeping ever since. But
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I'm happy for him to be on the podcast, be able to tell some of their story.
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Well, that's what I was, there's this thing called digital. I don't know if you've ever heard of this
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before. Digital is the capacity of connecting people across long distances together. Like you're
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literally talking right now to Andy. It's it's like, we're not on the Oregon Trail anymore. We can still
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stay in connection. We can still be friends. Oh, so good. I Andy, like I would love so as a former
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tamper underground the end or whatever the phrase is, and I really want to get into the, like the heart of
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some of these unique expressions. Let's just back up to you. Like, what's your heart? What what what
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brought you to do things like Bible at the bar and Dungeons and Dragon Church and all these other
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what what makes you want to explore some of that space?
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Yeah, I used to be in bridge and road construction for like 17 years. And a lot of the times when I was
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growing in my faith, you know, kind of wondering, was I supposed to be doing more? And God's like,
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no, they need Jesus in construction. And so I stayed there and did my thing and just,
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you know, sought him and grew. And it came to a point where he told me, OK, it's time to step out
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of the boat. I mean, it was we'd gone on a mission trip. I led some students down there and that was
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kind of the word for them. And then about a month later, he goes, that was for you, too.
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And it was like I had a good, solid career with a good, bright future. And he's he's like, no, it's it's
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follow me and wouldn't say to what it was just follow me. And plenty of reassurance, plenty of
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reassurance that it was his voice and that he was telling me that and that that it was biblical. It made
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sense. That's what he was calling me to. And so I did. I gave my notice and and he still didn't tell me
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what it was for. And about a month or two later before I left, he started showing me some of the
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groups I'd be reaching out to. And having been in construction and I loved motorcycles my whole life.
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I'm a big nerd. It's a I'm a I'm a weird guy. I'm very strangely wired because the groups I fit into
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you don't usually hang out together or at least you don't realize that they do.
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And so the bar community, the biker community and the gaming community were kind of where God was
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leading me to reach out to. And so I just started looking at ways to plug in and reach out to those
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people and and just listening for his leading, which some days you wonder and ended up getting a job at
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the local Harley shop, which shouldn't have happened. I'm not a mechanic by any means. I'm really not a
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sales guy. So I ended up working there as a sales guy for a year, which again, I mean, every one of
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these are God's stories of I mean, I had to put on the application and explain in the interview why I
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left my job, which is because God told me to. So a lot of fun and they hired me anyway. So again,
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total God thing, no sales experience, nothing like that.
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You left your previous good job because God told you to. This sounds like a durable employee. Let's hire
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them. They may have thought you had really good access to the drugs, man, like that. So that's
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some high quality stuff you must have. And so it kind of grew from working at the Harley shop. We
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worked every weekend. And so me and one of the other guys started doing a Bible study on Sunday
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mornings for work. And it just kind of grew from there. That's where Bible at the bar, we would meet
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at the outside bar behind the Harley shop and do Bible study. And, uh, it just kind of started there
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before to turn. Wait, wait, wait. You, you, you did, you did church at the bar behind the Harley shop
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behind the Harley shop. It's so awesome. I love this story. That's incredible. It started with me and
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one other sales guy. And when I left, we had about a dozen people there and I was more preaching than
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Bible study, but yeah, it was awesome. I was able to go and, uh, talk to, they had a writer's edge
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class every weekend for new writers to get their certification. And we'd show up early and give
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them donuts and they let me share what we were doing. And yeah, it was awesome. I literally sit
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at the bar and preach there. So like what I would imagine being in such a public space right behind
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the Harley shop, lots of exposure, lots of people seeing what was going on, like walk in,
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walk in traffic. Like maybe tell me some of the stories of what was happening as a result of, of, uh,
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Bible in the bar.
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Yeah. Uh, a lot of the outreach was to that, uh, group of bikers. I got to know, uh, people in
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different clubs and people at the Harley shop. Cause again, I worked there for a year
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and, um, had, had one girl, um, that was taking the class, come over and use the restroom at the
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restaurant there. Cause it's connected to a restaurant. And as she's walking back, she just,
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uh,
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just stopped and started saying,
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just started singing for us. Just praise God, you know?
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Yeah. So just, yeah, just awesome opportunities for people to, uh, just experience Christ,
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even just in walking by and in hearing that, uh, uh, that a fellow biker that speaks their language,
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uh, is following him is one of the things, one of the reasons I'm called to the biker community
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is in the bar community is because you can't offend me with your language. I worked in construction
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for 17 years. I've heard it. I've, I've told the jokes before, you know, for God kind of clean my,
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clean my mouth a little bit, but you're not going to offend me. You're not going to offend me by
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drinking in front of me. God's, you know, clean, cleanse me from all of that stuff.
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To where I'm able to kind of in a nonjudgmental way, meet people where their walls are down
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because a lot of people won't come to church. They're fine. Christ like, uh, perfect example
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was, uh, my sales manager at the Harley shop. He was tough, big beard, X army, big truck,
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Harley with the big ape hangers, the whole, you know, the whole picture, uh, just, uh, just the cool
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guy. And he told me that one day he came in and he goes, Andy, you'd be proud of me. I went to church
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last, uh, week for Easter. It's like, awesome, man. That's great. He goes, I didn't go in. I'm like,
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okay. He says, yeah, I sat in the parking lot for 15 minutes and then I went home.
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He, he could not bring himself to walk in the door. Wow. But we could have a conversation on
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that sales floor. We could talk surrounded by motorcycles that we could talk about Christ.
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We could talk about the fact that I told him in an interview that I left my job
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because God told me to, you know, you're, you're drawn to attention here. We talk about how doing
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these unique expressions of church, we reach different types of people than the types of
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people that are in the buildings and in your, in your story of your friend in the parking lots,
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a prime example of that, where, um, they're not, they literally, for some reason, cannot go
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into the building. Did, did he actually give like, and I don't want to get like deep into trauma or
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anything, but like, was he just a, a D church guy hurt? Like, what was the thing that was keeping
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him from going in? Yeah. He, uh, I don't remember anything specific. Uh, he actually, it was funny
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because he, um, he ended up coming to this thing called, uh, alpha. I don't know if you've ever heard
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of that. Okay. So we had that at our church, uh, Baylife church there in Brandon. And so I was telling
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him about it and him and his girlfriend actually came and we met in the student center. And so I
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joked that you had to go through the student center first before you go into the big church
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because I got him that far. It was kind of those baby steps. And then he actually, yeah, he actually
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attended, uh, uh, the wedding of my wife and I, which was in the, the main sanctuary. So I joked
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that I got him into that, got him into church. So I got him in, it took you getting married to get
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him into church, but we had just tons of really cool conversation, especially during the alpha
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things. It was, you know, he brought stuff up again. Like, what did you mean when you said God
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spoke to you and you're never going to have that conversation until you've built a little
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relationship and they feel comfortable to be able to ask you that. And it was awesome to
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be able to share and just have a conversation with them without him feeling like he's walking
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into somebody else's house. He's walking into a place where they're probably going to judge
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him and look down on him. And he's uncomfortable. Like anytime you go into a new place, you don't,
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even from church people, when you walk into a new church, you don't know where anything
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is, you don't know what time things, you know, where, if there's childcare, what's the process.
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So it can be nerve wracking. And for somebody that doesn't attend church, they have no idea.
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That's beautiful. Tell me, Lucas, let me ask this. Like, okay, so you've got Bible in a bar,
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Tampa underground. Like what's the percentage of, let's, let's use the phrase maybe over the top.
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What's the percentage of, of unique expressions like this compared to the guy that wants to reach
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his gated community or his, his neighborhood or, you know, his workplace? Like, is there a,
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is there a strong percentage towards really these very creative driven ideas or is it more,
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I want to use the word safe, but it's not, you know, more typical, which you would see in a micro
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expression.
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Yeah. I think in our, in our network and again, um, not by design and we have plenty of, uh,
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friends, like, uh, a city network friends that don't look this way. Um, but it just so happens
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that in ours, um, the majority of micro churches are very unique out of the box.
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Really? Um, experimental and they look a little bit more, um, risky or, uh, unsafe. Like it would be
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over half. Um, and it would be under half that just look like, um, very accessible, you know,
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like house church in a living room or, um, or something, or something similar like that, you know? Um,
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so, uh, again, that's not necessarily that that's, I don't think there's necessarily anything like
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good or bad, wrong or right. Just descriptively. That's just how our community has come to look.
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And, um, I do think we sort of see ourselves in a, as a, as a broad community, we sort of see ourselves
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as experimenting on the edge of the future and, and trying to like solicit learning to, to feedback
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into the church at large. Um, like we're just experimenting both for the sake of the kingdom
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in our own city, but also to learn things to maybe that the broader church would, um, uh,
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would find a gift, you know, um, certainly true of, true of Andy too. And, um, and I think,
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I think a big part, like even him, just hearing him talk a second ago about Bible at the bar
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and him talking about language, like he could speak their language. And, um, um, you know,
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I think that's part of what has fueled a lot of our really unique expressions is our value for
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contextualization. And, and therefore we don't really necessarily have like a broad, we don't really
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have like a, uh, a default or broad vision for microchurch that everybody is sort of trying to
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fit into at first and then maybe divert from, but the base here is nothing.
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Every, all the microchurches look totally different and we've intentionally not tried to give kind of
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like a foundation or a starting point and given people like total, which can be paralyzing. It
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has its pros and cons. It can be kind of paralyzing, but given people sort of like total freedom to let
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the church that exists in their midst kind of be formed around their own calling and gifting and
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what, and their own language. And that's our value for contextualization. And it's similar to the,
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you know, I can't wait for Andy to, you know, mention some about the little Dungeons and Dragons
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ministry experiment that, that he was doing here. But again, I just feel like so much of that's
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contextualization. Like the way that he, he's able to reach a group of people because he knows he's
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wired similarly to them. He knows how to speak their language. He knows how to kind of like fit into the
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culture. And more than that, he actually knows how to go about ministry, like community, talking about
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spiritual topics, go like creating some kind of discipleship strategy that makes sense in that
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culture. And just even hearing like, yeah, we sit at a bar and there's some preaching there. There,
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there might be people who on, who are listening to the podcast, hear him say, for a while, we stopped
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doing Bible study. And instead, like I was preaching every week and they might think in their head,
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well, that was a bad idea. Like they, they, they should just be doing discovery Bible or something,
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discovery Bible study or something like that forever. But the thing is for that community of people,
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like sitting at a bar together, like Andy's making choices, discerning with the spirit about what
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these people want and in what way and in what language and probably what he's saying in a sermon
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would never be said in a traditional church or something, you know, like the, just the, the
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stories, the illustrations, like it's just stuff that's going to make sense for that group of people.
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And the dungeons and dragons thing is going to be going to be like a similar thing. It's like,
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even if we could convince these pockets of people to come back to a prevailing model form of the
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church, bikers, Harley Davidson guys, dungeons and dragons crew, even if we could convince these
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pockets of people to come back to the prevailing model of the church, which by the way, we won't,
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but even if we could, even if we could, we still have the problem of not being able to communicate
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in a way that makes sense to them and is meaningful to their story. We don't know the illustrations or the
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metaphors that make sense for them. And that's why like empowerment of missionaries, like Andy,
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like he's, he's like, Hey, I'm wired to kind of be in the lives of these kinds of three groups of
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people. That's exactly right. And I just love hearing Andy and missionaries like him talk about
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their own stories because you can kind of see how they're making decisions or like communicating about
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things that nobody else would because it's not intuitive to them. It's the, it's the, it's the
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activated indigenous missionaries. So, um, I just love it. It's like, Andy, you don't even like mean
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to be highlighting some of that stuff, but it's like stuff that I'm, that I'm catching and I really
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appreciate it. How does this, how does this multiply contextualization? Like Andy, so you,
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you understand, uh, the, you know, the, the biker you're literally working at, at a Harley Davidson
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bike shop. Like, are you, and you're, you're pouring into individual people, the, the boss and
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whoever, some of the stories you've talked to, um, like, are you gaining insight? Are you developing
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leaders to, to take over and to multiply into other areas? Are you focused on your one bar and really
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just developing that? Like what, what's the, the bigger scope of, of where, um, Bible in a bar is
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going or would go? Yeah. Um, funny thing is not that clever. I didn't come up with like an amazing,
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uh, a way to go about this and, you know, four point scheme and all this. And in fact, I think we
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need to be careful being too clever and just be contrite and listen to God. And that needs to be our
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message to the people as well. You know, one, one issue that the normal church model has is we listen
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to the pastor and we need to be listening to the Holy spirit and find out what he has for us
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personally, along with listening to the pastor and listening to somebody that's, you know, studied and
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spent the week really digging into the word of God, but we need to, uh, integrate that into our own
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lives. And really that's all I've been doing is, uh, just, again, I was working at the Harley shop and we
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worked every Sunday. So, Hey, you know, we really, we need Jesus before we go into this place. It was
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not an easy place to work and not necessarily the culture, but just as an employee in sales
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doesn't jive with me. So it was, it was frustrating. It was tense. So it was important that we spent some
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time in God's word before we went into work. Um, the, the D and D study came about because a buddy of
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mine went to a game shop quite a bit. We played magic, the gathering, which is a nerdy card game.
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Um, we played D and D again, that's just part of who I am and what I enjoy. And those are the people
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that we were around. And when I started getting back into magic, the gathering, my daughter had
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asked me to show her how to play. She was in high school. I found a shop near work. I walked in,
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asked the guy to show me how to play, catch me up. And while I was standing there, I look over
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and there's all these tables set up and people just come in and they hang out and play and just wait
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for somebody to hang out with. And God's like, nobody's reaching them. It's like, Oh, okay. And
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from that moment, again, I was part of the, okay, these are some of the people you'll be reaching.
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So it wasn't like, okay, I need to find a way to, to really come up with a great ministry model.
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It was, I hang out at a game shop. My buddy hangs out at a game shop. I played,
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taught him to play magic. Hey, we should do a Bible study in the shop. And so number one,
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I asked the owner, I think that's important. Part of kind of the model of Bible at the bar
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at this point is talk to the owner, get permission before you just start meeting somewhere.
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For several reasons. Number one, it's respectful and you're going to be taking up their space.
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They know what you're doing. Your first line of outreach is the owner and employees. And now
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when people ask or have questions, they'll be able to talk about it, which means they may ask you more
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questions and it's, it just opens doors there. But we just started doing a Bible study there,
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met up about once a week. And then after we finished the, I think that we started with Ephesians.
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And after that, I was like, okay, what do you want to do? And he's like, let's do first Kings. I'm like,
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okay, sounds great. This is different. This is different. He's younger. He was like 18 or I think he was 20 at the time.
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And like, that's not your normal, Hey, let's study this book, this book, you know? And so I was like, okay. Cause you know,
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encourage them. Heck yeah. So then I started thinking about, okay, first thing we need to do is kind of backstory,
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you know, set the stage. Cause the first verse is King David's dying. Like, okay, there's a lot going on here.
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He's only the second King of Israel and he's on his deathbed. Like this is the transition of authority.
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There's a lot going on, not just to mention all the spiritual, but just, and in doing a backstory,
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it made me think of D and D and just building that world building. And so we started doing it as a D and D style Bible study.
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We, we pulled character sheets and every character that came up, any name that came up, we're like, okay,
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we need to do a character sheet for this person. So we need to find basically like every place in the Bible
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that mentions them or their family line and what decisions they're making and why. Like one of my favorites is,
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is alignment. You have basically nine different choices for, for people's alignment for your character.
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And it's largely based on why you make decisions. What's your motivation? What is your drive?
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And in studying the Bible this way, like I went deeper and got to know characters in a way that I never had before.
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Even in studying the Bible deeply, I never compiled all that and really wanted to know like,
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why is this person doing this? What's their drive? What is their reasoning?
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And in doing that as well, I can talk to somebody that plays D and D and say, yeah, this character,
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I think, you know, they're, they're probably a lawful neutral and start talking about why.
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And they're going to understand that character better than most people that go to church,
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just because of that concept and that understanding of the D and D world.
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And, uh, I, I, I can't tell you how many people came up while we're sitting there with the player's
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handbook and the Bible and they go, that's a combination I've never seen before.
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Yeah. What was the, was the business owner? I mean, I'm guessing he was open to it. Was,
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was it good for business? Was it bad for business? Like what, was he concerned about the win?
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I'm just, I'm curious the business perspective of what he gained or he or she gained by doing this.
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So the game shops are largely about people hanging out. So it really didn't detract from any of his
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business unless they had an event or something. We always, uh, were conscientious of where we sat
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and, uh, kept that in mind. Um, but he came up to us the one week and he's like, you guys are doing
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a Bible study, right? I was like, yeah. He goes, you can put a flyer up on the wall if you want on
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their little bulletin board. So we were able to do that. And then after a couple of weeks,
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he's, he came back over and he's like, uh, um, he's like, Hey, somebody was in here the other day
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asking if, um, we had, we do a Bible study here. Do you have a flyer or something? Like who does
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that? Who goes into a game shop asking about a Bible study? Like somebody heard something and it's
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amazing again, that somebody walked into his shop and is asking his employees about a Bible study.
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Usually they're not going to be thinking about that in the least. And now it's kind of right there in
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front of them. And we, we frequent that shop. People know us. People would walk up while we're
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doing the Bible study and be like, Hey, what are you guys doing? Or they'll just come up and start
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talking and we'd stop what we're doing and have conversation. And, but those relationships are what
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give us the opportunity to share in ways that we wouldn't be able to otherwise.
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That's, that's beautiful. How, what Lucas, what, what percentage I'm curious here? Um,
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cause it's funny, I've done some, let me back up maybe a little bit and I'm going to go all the
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way back to like 2006 here because I actually, I don't, you guys are probably familiar with like
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a hot topic or a PacSun kind of like the head shop that was around back in the day. And so the,
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the Christian version of that was called C2A. It was based out of California. Um,
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and there were dozens of them in California and actually I bought an owned one. We ran it out of
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West Palm beach, Florida. And, uh, so it was, uh, it was literally at the mall at Wellington green,
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uh, which was a popular mall out on the West side of West Palm. And, uh, it's back when malls were a
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good thing. Unlike maybe today, back in the day when the economy was stable. Um, but I, I, we literally,
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we saw a hundred kids, a hundred students give their life to Christ in, in a brick and mortar
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mall where, um, we, we, we sold. And when I say Christian shirts, you're probably picturing like
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the Budweiser thing that was like really popular in the nineties and two thousands. These were like
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cool designs. Like, and it was more like, you're more likely to see skulls and, and, um, you know,
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just a much more graphic, uh, image. Uh, but we trained our kids how to like share Jesus,
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the employees on how to share Jesus while they're sharing, selling the shirt. And, uh, and so through
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that, uh, we just, we literally saw over a hundred kids come to Christ and maybe the three years that
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that business ran somewhere along the way, Obama said the word recession and the economy crashed.
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And so we never, but it was funny. We actually, we had, um, we actually had like investors on the hook,
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uh, to open more C2 eights in, uh, Miami in Tampa, in Orlando,
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um, in, in, in a number of areas scattered across the state of Florida and just the economy,
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everything kind of crashed after the fact. The reason I bring all this up is, is my story.
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I actually like bought the property, uh, at least the property. I was the business owner,
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um, in Andy story, which is intriguing. He doesn't have near the overhead because he does not
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running either of these businesses. He's working with people in, in that space.
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What's maybe describe some of the, the tensions, uh, pros and cons of, of both, uh, is it, are you
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working with anyone currently that's owning the business as opposed to working with others that
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are already owning the business? Like what does that relationship look like in 22?
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Yeah. For Bible at the bar, for what we do, again, it's, it's not a complicated model. It is,
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this is something that anybody can do. I do it in, uh, like at an outside bar at the Harley shop,
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or, uh, my wife did it at a coffee shop. Um, I did it at a cigar shop, uh, the game shop,
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because those are places where we go. I was actually reaching out to, uh, trying to reach out
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to some of the guys at the Harley shop that smoked cigars and ended up at the cigar shop and met some
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Christian guys. And we started a Bible study there. Um, but a lot of it is again, just asking permission,
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um, just to make sure that you're not invading their space. You want to come in with, yeah,
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you want that permission because again, so they know what's going on. It's, it piques their interest,
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but you also want to respect that it's their building. It's not ours. And, you know, Christians
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can, you know, the after church crowd, the worst tippers and the worst customers we want to, we need
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to change that to where everywhere that we frequent, like when we did the coffee shop one, like we're
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going to, we're going to buy the product. We're going to be the best tippers. We're going to be
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respectful. We're going to be loving. And like, if you can't live it out while you're studying the
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Bible, go back home into your Bible study till you're ready to, to, to talk about it out in the
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open, which that that's a big part of Bible at the bar is, uh, doing it out in the open. Cause another,
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uh, heart of Bible at the bar is uniting the body of Christ because we tend to get, uh, art in our
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church and focused in our church. And Sunday mornings, we had people from four or five different
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churches coming and we do our Bible study and then we'd all go to our home churches.
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So being able to have these discussions out in public so that people can hear, because we agree
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on like 90% and we need to be able to talk about that and grow in that. And we need to be able to
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talk about the 10% that we don't, and we need to be able to do all of that out in the open, not kind
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of behind church doors till we all agree. And then we go out and we're right. And we need to tell them
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that they're wrong. Instead, we need to have these actual discussions within earshot of, of people.
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And we need to be discussing and wrestling with things and so that they can hear and go, they don't
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think that they know everything. They're struggling to follow the Lord. And, and that's what it looks
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like. That's, that's not what I thought. I thought they have it all together and they hate me because
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I'm wrong because I think differently. Just, just from the Tampa underground, like bird's eye. I know
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you were asking like, do, do we have others in the network that don't just engage a space that they
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don't own, but do we actually have some folks that actually own the, that stand on the other side of
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that relationship? And we do, Jeff, I know, I know, you know, John Dangler, you know, they've got
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well-built bikes. Um, and so they, they don't own the property that, but they, the, but they own the
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business and they're, you know, leasing the property and all that kind of stuff. And then we,
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there's a guy named Derek, um, that, um, owns a, a chain of coffee shops in, in Tampa. That's a part
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of the underground. And he does it very much from the motivation of being incarnationally engaged
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with the, the people who frequent the coffee shops. And, um, and, uh, so, yeah, I mean, I think there
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are pros and cons to those doing it one way or the other. And, uh, you know, we're kind of talking
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about third places. It's not entirely like the shirt, the t-shirt, um, store, the C28, that's not
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totally a third place, but maybe some of those kids were treating it like a third place. You know,
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they were going and hanging out there, not just grabbing a shirt and buying it and leaving. Um,
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but yeah, I mean, from, from Andy's point of view, if you don't own it and you're just jumping in and
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you're trying to build a relationship with management and, um, and then you're just trying to like pop up
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and do ministry as a, um, you know, as a, as a, as a client, as a customer, it's faster. Um,
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and you don't have, I do think there are, there's sometimes there's some weird kind of power dynamics
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might not be the right word, but like there's, you're not on the same tier of relationship when
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you're, um, relating with somebody as a business owner or business manager and they're the customer.
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Sometimes there's like, oh, there's some weird power dynamics or transactional relational dynamics
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there. And it's easier as just like the, a customer with other customers kind of convening in a space,
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in a bar, in a coffee shop, um, at a gym, at a CrossFit gym or something like that. Uh,
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so there's some pros there to like being, being on the same kind of tier. So there's less barriers
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relationally and it, maybe it's a little faster, but on the other side, like being the, we have a lot
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of people who are going about it from the perspective of not, uh, of, uh, building third
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spaces, owning, managing, generating businesses in third places. Um, it really comes down to calling,
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like people just feel called to do different things. And, um, and, but the people who are on
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that side, they're making trade-offs. There are, there's real pros and cons to that other side.
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Um, the pros are, you kind of have that proverb stuff. Like when, when the, when the righteous
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prosper, the whole city rejoices, you know, that's, that's, um, I think that's proper Proverbs 10,
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10. Like they, they, as business owners, they actually get to contribute at a city level with
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other civic leaders and like chamber of converse and business, and they get to steward their resources
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and their network of business relationships in a way that's alternative to the way of the world.
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Um, and so there's a huge benefit there. Um, the way that they use their profits can be really
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prophetic. The way that they design their space and their policies for their space can be really
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prophetic to the watching world. So they can have a much bigger impact on a city than somebody who's
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just popping up in a third place for six months and, uh, trying to build some relationships. Um,
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but again, uh, the, the, the overlap between re, um, religious affiliation and kind of evangelism
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stuff and also like a business place and some of the politics that can get involved there. Like
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that'll probably get dicey, increasingly dicey over the next five or 10 years. Um, and you know,
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people just embracing that diciness and complexity, it comes, it comes at a cost, you know,
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and it's something that people have to consider.
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I was curious, Lucas, like what's the, if you may not even know this, but what's the
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percentage of conversations that where people are like, no, I don't want you to do a Bible study
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in my business. Like I, I would imagine that's been increasingly so, but I'm just curious what
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your take would, we haven't heard that many examples of that. It certainly happened. It certainly
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happened, but, um, there's not a lot of examples. We have many, we have much more examples of business
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owners being open to it and friendly to it. Um, uh, a counterpart to Andy's, um, Bible at
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the bar. We also have a beer and Bible, uh, and they're in, they're in all the bars that
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they've kind of, uh, uh, um, propped up in the management has been very happy to have them
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and, um, and, um, and coffee shops where stuff has happened. Schools. I mean, it's a different
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thing. It's not for profit, but when we, there, when there's little, um, microchurch discovery
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Bible studies or prayer groups or stuff that pop up in schools, again, that's a thing where
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you kind of imagine there's going to be some resistance. Um, there has been in a couple
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places, but a lot of openness. Uh, um, so I don't know if that's just a grace of the area
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thing, like maybe, uh, or a geographic thing or a political thing. I don't know what that
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is, but that's just our experience. Maybe if you're in a, in a, a much more post-Christian
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city, maybe you're in somewhere up in the Northeast or something like that. Um, you might have a
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little bit more difficulty around that, but, um, we haven't seen it too much. I don't know
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about you, Andy, if you've had some, some experience, cause I know your wife was doing coffee shop
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stuff too, coffee shop, shop ministry. So I don't know if either one of you have run into
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any situations where an owner was like, please don't do this. I'm uncomfortable with it.
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No, we've never had any issues. And honestly, I think, I think with, you know, the media and
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all of even Christian media, uh, talking about the, the, the issues that we have and, and, uh,
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persecution that we experience, I think we're afraid. I think we're way more afraid than we
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should be. And, you know, really just, uh, when I was in construction at one point, I was
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like, you know, I should take my Bible to work and just have it on my desk. Cause, and I would
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go in early and read my Bible while I ate my breakfast before work and just having it on
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the desk, you know, was an opportunity for discussion. And there was a point where there
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was a difficult discussion, but there was an opportunity for it. And, you know, we were,
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we, I have a relationship with all those guys because we work together all the time. And
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again, it gave an opportunity there. And when you're going into somebody's business, again,
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if we can go in respectfully and we can add to their business, because if I'm doing a Bible study in
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your business, that means me and several people are going to come and give you business. And number
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one thing, I want to be a good tipper and be respectful and caring. I'm going to clean up.
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My area is going to look better at when I leave than when I got there. We need, you know, I want
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to show the love of Christ while I'm there. If, if I'm not doing that while I'm studying the Bible,
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I'm sending an opposite message. So that's super important. And so again, I've never had any issues.
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In fact, the, the cigar shop that we met at, and they're still meeting at, uh, the, one of the
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managers that was working there has started coming to our group after he left. And the, my last week,
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um, his girlfriend gave her life twice. Like it's awesome.
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Very, very cool. Listen, this is, this has been phenomenal. I'm, I'm really intrigued. Um, Andy,
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your goal of, of, of trying, trying to reach, what'd you say it was? It was, it was gamers. It was
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bikers. And what was the third group? Uh, the bar community, the bar bakers, uh, bakers,
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not bakers, bikers, bars, and, and, and gamers. Like what, what, uh, um, what a unreached people
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group. Uh, and it's just an incredible upper opportunities there and love, love your, your
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heart. Um, going after all of this, Hey, uh, I have an ulterior motive in bringing you all together
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for, for this podcast. And so let's see where this is going. I, I would love some advice. And so,
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uh, and actually Andy, I'm going to connect you to this person because he's in your neck of the woods.
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Uh, Joey Santos is, um, uh, global integration pastor or something like that for Christ church
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up, up right outside of Cincinnati, I believe. And, uh, and so Joey's a friend, uh, Joey reached out
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to me and he said, Hey, um, you know, cause I evidently I do a lot of work in the metaverse,
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or at least that's what I'm told. And so Joey asks me, he says, Hey, um, I'm thinking about doing,
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I'm thinking about opening a, a metaverse, a virtual reality bar, um, in, in the world called
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VR chat, which is like the, the red light district of virtual reality. Essentially he's opening up,
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uh, or wants to open up a virtual reality bar in the, the red light district, the wild, wild west,
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where, where pretty much anything goes, there's no parental controls. Um, and for him, he's wanting
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to do, um, not church services out of the bar, uh, but relationally connect in this virtual reality
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bar. Now, you know, virtual reality bar actually is a thing. It's a million dollar business,
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um, in this space because it runs off of memberships. Uh, they have licensed to ship
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alcohol across state lines. Uh, so there's some legitimacy to this business and they also run
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back rooms in virtual reality where things don't, or things happen that maybe, you know, shouldn't
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happen, uh, things that may or may not be illegal and are illegal. And so as a result of this,
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there's some stuff here with the, the virtual reality bar, of course, we don't want to get
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into. Uh, but what I'm really intrigued at is his desire to create a community space that's not called
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church and to draw people into it. And, um, long story short, we're looking for partners to, to kind
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of come in and to be part of this as we've, it's funny, as I've talked with churches, some churches
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love the idea. Some churches are incredibly offended at the idea of opening a bar and instead want us to
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open a coffee shop, which ironically, uh, difference between a beer with a foam top and a latte, it's
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probably just a little different colorization. So I think maybe we can build both. Uh, we could
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get into it maybe, but, but the idea is, man, what if, what would it be like to, to start to create
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some, some of these expressions, some of these experiences, some of these locations, um, in this
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space, not for church services, but for relationally connecting. Um, and so I've got two
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out of the box thinkers on this podcast. Uh, I would love some insight. Like what are y'all
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thinking? Is this a good idea? Is this a bad idea of your virtual reality or not? What, what advice
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would you give for someone like Joey and I who are interested in exploring this space?
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Um, I do not know a whole lot about virtual reality. I, uh, fairly low tech over here. I still
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even use, uh, paper character sheets half the time. I do like that. I can still, uh, play with
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my friends on down in Florida on D and D, but I think if your desire is to, to take Christ's
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places and that's where he's leading you. Absolutely. I think, uh, some of the difficulties or traps
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is to feel like you have to figure out how to fit in and be a part of them. And it, that's
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not what we're called to do. We're not called to, um, basically sin so that we can get close
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to sinners. You know, Christ had no problem getting close to sinners and he didn't water down
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the truth. He didn't change the message for it to be comfortable. He, he just loved them. He,
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he went where they were and, and loved them there and made himself available. Uh, he went where his
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father told him to go. I think that's key because, uh, you know, if I was writing Jesus's mission,
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it would have looked way different. Uh, one of my favorite stories is the woman at the well,
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because it says that Jesus had to go through Samaria to get to Jerusalem, but no good Jewish
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boy goes through Samaria to get to Jerusalem. You go around Samaria, but Jesus had to go through
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Samaria because his father told him to go through Samaria and it wasn't for an awesome, huge revival
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where he was going to talk to tens of thousands of people. It was to meet a woman that was an outcast
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in her own town that was, it was the last place and he should not have been talking to a woman in public.
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It's like everything about it was a, was a screaming sign of no, don't do this. But his father said,
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go here and talk to this woman. And because he spoke to that woman and cared her for her, where she was
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in the mess that she was in and didn't pull any punches. Like he gets, just lays it out for,
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but in a loving way because he can speak in the way that she needs and she goes and brings the whole
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city back. So just again, following God's lead and just, uh, being available and, and presenting the word
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of God. Yeah. You know, we don't have to apologize for it and we don't have to change it or, or dress
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it up. We just have to present it. And those that he's called will come. Great reminder. Lucas,
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what, what about you? Yeah. I mean, I think it's, uh, I think anybody who has like an incarnational
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missionary mind, like we, we don't invite the people where we are. We go to where people are.
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And when, when we go there, we're trying to find proximity and presence and trying to earn a hearing
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so that we can proclaim the gospel in, in relationship with people. Anybody who has that
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mindset would be like, yeah, a hundred percent. If there's a bunch of people living their lives
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majority digitally, and they start deciding socially that they like to hang out in these like VR bars,
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then yeah, let's go there and let's connect with a hundred percent. So I, I, I liked in general,
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the theory and the philosophy of the idea, like as a, as a missionary missiologically. Um, I think my
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one, because I don't know that world, I think my one catch point would be like, do third places in
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physical space mirror third places in digital space? Like, is that like, because we wouldn't
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necessarily Christians shouldn't, um, we shouldn't decide how people should gather and then try to
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convince them how they should gather and then incarnate. We actually try to observe how they are socially
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already gathering. And then we kind of embed because it's, it's easier that way instead of trying to
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like design our own sociology to invite them into. So there's a part of me that wonders like, man,
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the way third places work in the, and I hope your audience understands that language, like just
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social spaces work in the, in, in the physical world, we're always thinking like coffee shops,
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bars, gamer clubs, um, CrossFit gyms. Like these are, these are decent third place options to
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incarnationally engage. I don't think it will long-term be a one-to-one in the virtual world. That's an,
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that's just a gut thing. Like that's intuitive of me. Like, I'm not sure if it's just going to overlay to,
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like how people want to spend their social connective time in the virtual world will be
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coffee shops, bars, CrossFit gyms, or whatever. Like, I think if we just sit back and observe
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how, how people spend their time in virtual world, they might actually enjoy socially connecting in
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virtual space differently than how they connect in physical space. But it sounds like you've already
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said it's like a million dollar industry. So that there's already some traction there and people
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are starting to gather that way. So I think like, great, a hundred percent. I'm just curious,
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like long-term, the 10 year metaverse future, how do people actually connect, convene and connect
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socially in digital space? I think it'll be different. Um, I wonder if it's a little bit more
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like, if you think, um, um, uh, my Minecraft and Roblox, like it feels like people, like people are
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actually convening around missions or building things. And like, like they go to the same place
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to build something together or to tear something apart together. And, but they're talking to each
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other the whole time. There's, they're socially connecting. They're not sitting their characters
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down at a bar, but they're doing something together. So I wonder how that'll look in the future.
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I, I think it's mixed, uh, to be honest, and it may be too soon to tell, which is one of the reasons
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why we're wanting to experiment with it. And let's, let's be real. It's this pennies compared to
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actually building an actual bar or building an actual, a hundred, a hundred percent. But the truth,
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yeah, but you're, you're not wrong. I mean, like I've, I've got friends that are doing pop one,
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which is like a fortnight and virtual reality, uh, pop population one video game, and they're doing
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Bible studies in pop one. Uh, I've got friends and so it's all around. We were going to use this term
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a lot, engaging in digital metaverses, engaging around shared experiences. And so a lot of it is
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being on mission. And, and some of those experiences do seem to be in a virtual reality bar. Uh, and so
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who's going to win? What does it look like long-term? I don't know, but, uh, it's, it's going to be fun
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figuring it out. Um, well, gentlemen, thank you for this podcast, Andy. It's been a pleasure
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meeting you. I'm going to get you connected to Joey. You'll get an email with this here in a little
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bit. And he will, he'll love, uh, some of the stuff that you're talking about. That's right up his
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alley. And, uh, and Lucas, sir, it's, it's always great to hear from you and excited. Uh, it's,
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it's funny. Like I, and we're considering moving out of Miami and, uh, Tampa and Orlando with my
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family have been kind of going back and forth about the, the future locations. And there's,
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there's some churches in the Tampa area. Don't tempt me like this, Jeff.
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Don't. It's, it's, it's been talked about summer 2023. We're relocating somewhere. I really think
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so. So we'll, uh, we'll, we'll, we'll stay in touch, but definitely excited. Yeah. I'm going to
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start fasting. I'm going to start fasting. Well, cool. Hey, but we're, we're going to land the plane.
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So, uh, gentlemen, thank you for this for Andy, for Lucas. This is Jeff with the church, digital
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digital church network. Thanks for jumping on the podcast and we'll see you next time. Y'all good day.