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EP227: Lucas Pulley & Unique Expressions of Church

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  1. One issue that the normal church model has is we listen to the pastor and we need to be listening

  2. to the Holy Spirit and find out what He has for us personally, along with listening to the pastor

  3. and listening to somebody that's, you know, studied and spent the week really digging into

  4. the Word of God, but we need to integrate that into our own lives. And really, that's all I've

  5. been doing. Welcome to the Church Digital Podcast. Through this podcast, we'll talk about the

  6. technological innovations within the church. But more than tech for tech itself, we'll address

  7. deeper questions. Is disciple making possible digitally? How should we approach the digital

  8. mission field? Can a biblically grounded church operate in digital space? Oh, and where does

  9. the metaverse fit into all this? Whether you're a big or small church, an established church

  10. or a startup church plant, the Church Digital's goal is to help churches like yours learn to

  11. be a multiplying church, digitally and physically. Our heart? That churches like yours will discover

  12. a newfound focus on disciple making that will revolutionize your church. And now, here's your

  13. host, Jeff Reed.

  14. All right. Hey, everybody. Welcome to episode 227 of the Church Digital Podcast. I have been

  15. looking forward to this conversation, this conversation right here for a very long time. It was, you know,

  16. I feel like I should like maybe draw it out longer, tease it, but we're just going to get right into it

  17. right here. So I was interviewing, we got Lucas Pulley, executive director from Underground Network

  18. here in Florida, specifically the Tampa area and others. So I was interviewing Lucas Pulley,

  19. talking about that verse in micro. Yeah. We were talking about DAOs. Yeah. We were talking about DAOs and

  20. blockchain. Yeah. It was the most all over the place conversation through Leadership Network, maybe

  21. maybe three or four months ago. And he mentioned the words dungeon and dragon church. And just right then,

  22. I was like, okay, I cannot have this conversation today because we don't have enough time for it. But dang it,

  23. we're going to come back because I want to explore what the idea of Dungeons and Dragon Church could

  24. look like. And so we were emailing kind of after the fact and Lucas was nice enough to connect me with

  25. Andy Corson. And so Andy, welcome to the show as well. And we're going to get into Dungeons and

  26. Dragons Church. But then I discover Andy's also run a Bible at the bar, like church at a bar. And all of a sudden,

  27. I'm just, my mind is getting blown by all these different expressions of church and how church can

  28. look different in a physical building, in digital space, in a bar, in a Dungeons and Dragons game.

  29. Like this is just, once again, this is a conversation that I really, really wanted to

  30. have. So gentlemen, Lucas, Andy, thank you all for jumping on the show here. It's going to be great.

  31. Our pleasure. Thanks for having us. Awesome. So Lucas, why don't you just a big picture up front

  32. here? Underground, you know, I mean, obviously we do a lot with Rob Wagner, Casey Underground. You guys

  33. were ahead of them on this, maybe the impetus a little bit for some of their mindset. So talk to

  34. us a little bit about Underground, Tampa Underground, what you guys are about.

  35. Yeah, Network of Microchurches, we want to empower the priesthood of all believers, just everyday

  36. disciples to discern their calling from the Lord, their destiny to be a witness to the unreached,

  37. to the lost and the poor. And when they have some clarity about that from the Lord to actually go and

  38. plant and develop an expression of the church in a simple way among those people that can be

  39. contextualized and meaningful and fully empowered in an intentional community among those people.

  40. So we just have a little network here in Tampa of around 100 of those microchurches in like a

  41. decentralized network. And I have the grace of a vantage point of being able to serve a lot of those

  42. leaders and help them get off the ground or remove barriers along the way. And as the as the director

  43. of the network and and being able to see some of them plant develop and progress. But gosh, I don't I

  44. honestly don't remember how long it was ago, Andy, that we we connected. But but Andy was in the

  45. Tampa Bay area, he and his wife have been kind of missional experimenters for a long time and

  46. and connected with the underground many, many years ago. And, and they've been, you know, you say Bible

  47. at the bar, and I'll let Andy talk about it. But that his his formal microchurch was Bible at the bar. But

  48. they were doing all kinds of experiments, expressions of the church underneath that, that like general

  49. label, general moniker, and, and, and reaching a lot of people in a lot of pockets of places that, again, the

  50. church would never be reaching, we would often never see or know. But because that's not the point, you're

  51. just empowering the priest of all believers to be the church among the people, and let them go, let them be

  52. free. And, and, and do their thing. And, sadly, it was about maybe a few months ago that that their

  53. the Corson family moved to the Tampa area and went up to Ohio. And we've been weeping ever since. But

  54. I'm happy for him to be on the podcast, be able to tell some of their story.

  55. Well, that's what I was, there's this thing called digital. I don't know if you've ever heard of this

  56. before. Digital is the capacity of connecting people across long distances together. Like you're

  57. literally talking right now to Andy. It's it's like, we're not on the Oregon Trail anymore. We can still

  58. stay in connection. We can still be friends. Oh, so good. I Andy, like I would love so as a former

  59. tamper underground the end or whatever the phrase is, and I really want to get into the, like the heart of

  60. some of these unique expressions. Let's just back up to you. Like, what's your heart? What what what

  61. brought you to do things like Bible at the bar and Dungeons and Dragon Church and all these other

  62. what what makes you want to explore some of that space?

  63. Yeah, I used to be in bridge and road construction for like 17 years. And a lot of the times when I was

  64. growing in my faith, you know, kind of wondering, was I supposed to be doing more? And God's like,

  65. no, they need Jesus in construction. And so I stayed there and did my thing and just,

  66. you know, sought him and grew. And it came to a point where he told me, OK, it's time to step out

  67. of the boat. I mean, it was we'd gone on a mission trip. I led some students down there and that was

  68. kind of the word for them. And then about a month later, he goes, that was for you, too.

  69. And it was like I had a good, solid career with a good, bright future. And he's he's like, no, it's it's

  70. follow me and wouldn't say to what it was just follow me. And plenty of reassurance, plenty of

  71. reassurance that it was his voice and that he was telling me that and that that it was biblical. It made

  72. sense. That's what he was calling me to. And so I did. I gave my notice and and he still didn't tell me

  73. what it was for. And about a month or two later before I left, he started showing me some of the

  74. groups I'd be reaching out to. And having been in construction and I loved motorcycles my whole life.

  75. I'm a big nerd. It's a I'm a I'm a weird guy. I'm very strangely wired because the groups I fit into

  76. you don't usually hang out together or at least you don't realize that they do.

  77. And so the bar community, the biker community and the gaming community were kind of where God was

  78. leading me to reach out to. And so I just started looking at ways to plug in and reach out to those

  79. people and and just listening for his leading, which some days you wonder and ended up getting a job at

  80. the local Harley shop, which shouldn't have happened. I'm not a mechanic by any means. I'm really not a

  81. sales guy. So I ended up working there as a sales guy for a year, which again, I mean, every one of

  82. these are God's stories of I mean, I had to put on the application and explain in the interview why I

  83. left my job, which is because God told me to. So a lot of fun and they hired me anyway. So again,

  84. total God thing, no sales experience, nothing like that.

  85. You left your previous good job because God told you to. This sounds like a durable employee. Let's hire

  86. them. They may have thought you had really good access to the drugs, man, like that. So that's

  87. some high quality stuff you must have. And so it kind of grew from working at the Harley shop. We

  88. worked every weekend. And so me and one of the other guys started doing a Bible study on Sunday

  89. mornings for work. And it just kind of grew from there. That's where Bible at the bar, we would meet

  90. at the outside bar behind the Harley shop and do Bible study. And, uh, it just kind of started there

  91. before to turn. Wait, wait, wait. You, you, you did, you did church at the bar behind the Harley shop

  92. behind the Harley shop. It's so awesome. I love this story. That's incredible. It started with me and

  93. one other sales guy. And when I left, we had about a dozen people there and I was more preaching than

  94. Bible study, but yeah, it was awesome. I was able to go and, uh, talk to, they had a writer's edge

  95. class every weekend for new writers to get their certification. And we'd show up early and give

  96. them donuts and they let me share what we were doing. And yeah, it was awesome. I literally sit

  97. at the bar and preach there. So like what I would imagine being in such a public space right behind

  98. the Harley shop, lots of exposure, lots of people seeing what was going on, like walk in,

  99. walk in traffic. Like maybe tell me some of the stories of what was happening as a result of, of, uh,

  100. Bible in the bar.

  101. Yeah. Uh, a lot of the outreach was to that, uh, group of bikers. I got to know, uh, people in

  102. different clubs and people at the Harley shop. Cause again, I worked there for a year

  103. and, um, had, had one girl, um, that was taking the class, come over and use the restroom at the

  104. restaurant there. Cause it's connected to a restaurant. And as she's walking back, she just,

  105. uh,

  106. just stopped and started saying,

  107. just started singing for us. Just praise God, you know?

  108. Yeah. So just, yeah, just awesome opportunities for people to, uh, just experience Christ,

  109. even just in walking by and in hearing that, uh, uh, that a fellow biker that speaks their language,

  110. uh, is following him is one of the things, one of the reasons I'm called to the biker community

  111. is in the bar community is because you can't offend me with your language. I worked in construction

  112. for 17 years. I've heard it. I've, I've told the jokes before, you know, for God kind of clean my,

  113. clean my mouth a little bit, but you're not going to offend me. You're not going to offend me by

  114. drinking in front of me. God's, you know, clean, cleanse me from all of that stuff.

  115. To where I'm able to kind of in a nonjudgmental way, meet people where their walls are down

  116. because a lot of people won't come to church. They're fine. Christ like, uh, perfect example

  117. was, uh, my sales manager at the Harley shop. He was tough, big beard, X army, big truck,

  118. Harley with the big ape hangers, the whole, you know, the whole picture, uh, just, uh, just the cool

  119. guy. And he told me that one day he came in and he goes, Andy, you'd be proud of me. I went to church

  120. last, uh, week for Easter. It's like, awesome, man. That's great. He goes, I didn't go in. I'm like,

  121. okay. He says, yeah, I sat in the parking lot for 15 minutes and then I went home.

  122. He, he could not bring himself to walk in the door. Wow. But we could have a conversation on

  123. that sales floor. We could talk surrounded by motorcycles that we could talk about Christ.

  124. We could talk about the fact that I told him in an interview that I left my job

  125. because God told me to, you know, you're, you're drawn to attention here. We talk about how doing

  126. these unique expressions of church, we reach different types of people than the types of

  127. people that are in the buildings and in your, in your story of your friend in the parking lots,

  128. a prime example of that, where, um, they're not, they literally, for some reason, cannot go

  129. into the building. Did, did he actually give like, and I don't want to get like deep into trauma or

  130. anything, but like, was he just a, a D church guy hurt? Like, what was the thing that was keeping

  131. him from going in? Yeah. He, uh, I don't remember anything specific. Uh, he actually, it was funny

  132. because he, um, he ended up coming to this thing called, uh, alpha. I don't know if you've ever heard

  133. of that. Okay. So we had that at our church, uh, Baylife church there in Brandon. And so I was telling

  134. him about it and him and his girlfriend actually came and we met in the student center. And so I

  135. joked that you had to go through the student center first before you go into the big church

  136. because I got him that far. It was kind of those baby steps. And then he actually, yeah, he actually

  137. attended, uh, uh, the wedding of my wife and I, which was in the, the main sanctuary. So I joked

  138. that I got him into that, got him into church. So I got him in, it took you getting married to get

  139. him into church, but we had just tons of really cool conversation, especially during the alpha

  140. things. It was, you know, he brought stuff up again. Like, what did you mean when you said God

  141. spoke to you and you're never going to have that conversation until you've built a little

  142. relationship and they feel comfortable to be able to ask you that. And it was awesome to

  143. be able to share and just have a conversation with them without him feeling like he's walking

  144. into somebody else's house. He's walking into a place where they're probably going to judge

  145. him and look down on him. And he's uncomfortable. Like anytime you go into a new place, you don't,

  146. even from church people, when you walk into a new church, you don't know where anything

  147. is, you don't know what time things, you know, where, if there's childcare, what's the process.

  148. So it can be nerve wracking. And for somebody that doesn't attend church, they have no idea.

  149. That's beautiful. Tell me, Lucas, let me ask this. Like, okay, so you've got Bible in a bar,

  150. Tampa underground. Like what's the percentage of, let's, let's use the phrase maybe over the top.

  151. What's the percentage of, of unique expressions like this compared to the guy that wants to reach

  152. his gated community or his, his neighborhood or, you know, his workplace? Like, is there a,

  153. is there a strong percentage towards really these very creative driven ideas or is it more,

  154. I want to use the word safe, but it's not, you know, more typical, which you would see in a micro

  155. expression.

  156. Yeah. I think in our, in our network and again, um, not by design and we have plenty of, uh,

  157. friends, like, uh, a city network friends that don't look this way. Um, but it just so happens

  158. that in ours, um, the majority of micro churches are very unique out of the box.

  159. Really? Um, experimental and they look a little bit more, um, risky or, uh, unsafe. Like it would be

  160. over half. Um, and it would be under half that just look like, um, very accessible, you know,

  161. like house church in a living room or, um, or something, or something similar like that, you know? Um,

  162. so, uh, again, that's not necessarily that that's, I don't think there's necessarily anything like

  163. good or bad, wrong or right. Just descriptively. That's just how our community has come to look.

  164. And, um, I do think we sort of see ourselves in a, as a, as a broad community, we sort of see ourselves

  165. as experimenting on the edge of the future and, and trying to like solicit learning to, to feedback

  166. into the church at large. Um, like we're just experimenting both for the sake of the kingdom

  167. in our own city, but also to learn things to maybe that the broader church would, um, uh,

  168. would find a gift, you know, um, certainly true of, true of Andy too. And, um, and I think,

  169. I think a big part, like even him, just hearing him talk a second ago about Bible at the bar

  170. and him talking about language, like he could speak their language. And, um, um, you know,

  171. I think that's part of what has fueled a lot of our really unique expressions is our value for

  172. contextualization. And, and therefore we don't really necessarily have like a broad, we don't really

  173. have like a, uh, a default or broad vision for microchurch that everybody is sort of trying to

  174. fit into at first and then maybe divert from, but the base here is nothing.

  175. Every, all the microchurches look totally different and we've intentionally not tried to give kind of

  176. like a foundation or a starting point and given people like total, which can be paralyzing. It

  177. has its pros and cons. It can be kind of paralyzing, but given people sort of like total freedom to let

  178. the church that exists in their midst kind of be formed around their own calling and gifting and

  179. what, and their own language. And that's our value for contextualization. And it's similar to the,

  180. you know, I can't wait for Andy to, you know, mention some about the little Dungeons and Dragons

  181. ministry experiment that, that he was doing here. But again, I just feel like so much of that's

  182. contextualization. Like the way that he, he's able to reach a group of people because he knows he's

  183. wired similarly to them. He knows how to speak their language. He knows how to kind of like fit into the

  184. culture. And more than that, he actually knows how to go about ministry, like community, talking about

  185. spiritual topics, go like creating some kind of discipleship strategy that makes sense in that

  186. culture. And just even hearing like, yeah, we sit at a bar and there's some preaching there. There,

  187. there might be people who on, who are listening to the podcast, hear him say, for a while, we stopped

  188. doing Bible study. And instead, like I was preaching every week and they might think in their head,

  189. well, that was a bad idea. Like they, they, they should just be doing discovery Bible or something,

  190. discovery Bible study or something like that forever. But the thing is for that community of people,

  191. like sitting at a bar together, like Andy's making choices, discerning with the spirit about what

  192. these people want and in what way and in what language and probably what he's saying in a sermon

  193. would never be said in a traditional church or something, you know, like the, just the, the

  194. stories, the illustrations, like it's just stuff that's going to make sense for that group of people.

  195. And the dungeons and dragons thing is going to be going to be like a similar thing. It's like,

  196. even if we could convince these pockets of people to come back to a prevailing model form of the

  197. church, bikers, Harley Davidson guys, dungeons and dragons crew, even if we could convince these

  198. pockets of people to come back to the prevailing model of the church, which by the way, we won't,

  199. but even if we could, even if we could, we still have the problem of not being able to communicate

  200. in a way that makes sense to them and is meaningful to their story. We don't know the illustrations or the

  201. metaphors that make sense for them. And that's why like empowerment of missionaries, like Andy,

  202. like he's, he's like, Hey, I'm wired to kind of be in the lives of these kinds of three groups of

  203. people. That's exactly right. And I just love hearing Andy and missionaries like him talk about

  204. their own stories because you can kind of see how they're making decisions or like communicating about

  205. things that nobody else would because it's not intuitive to them. It's the, it's the, it's the

  206. activated indigenous missionaries. So, um, I just love it. It's like, Andy, you don't even like mean

  207. to be highlighting some of that stuff, but it's like stuff that I'm, that I'm catching and I really

  208. appreciate it. How does this, how does this multiply contextualization? Like Andy, so you,

  209. you understand, uh, the, you know, the, the biker you're literally working at, at a Harley Davidson

  210. bike shop. Like, are you, and you're, you're pouring into individual people, the, the boss and

  211. whoever, some of the stories you've talked to, um, like, are you gaining insight? Are you developing

  212. leaders to, to take over and to multiply into other areas? Are you focused on your one bar and really

  213. just developing that? Like what, what's the, the bigger scope of, of where, um, Bible in a bar is

  214. going or would go? Yeah. Um, funny thing is not that clever. I didn't come up with like an amazing,

  215. uh, a way to go about this and, you know, four point scheme and all this. And in fact, I think we

  216. need to be careful being too clever and just be contrite and listen to God. And that needs to be our

  217. message to the people as well. You know, one, one issue that the normal church model has is we listen

  218. to the pastor and we need to be listening to the Holy spirit and find out what he has for us

  219. personally, along with listening to the pastor and listening to somebody that's, you know, studied and

  220. spent the week really digging into the word of God, but we need to, uh, integrate that into our own

  221. lives. And really that's all I've been doing is, uh, just, again, I was working at the Harley shop and we

  222. worked every Sunday. So, Hey, you know, we really, we need Jesus before we go into this place. It was

  223. not an easy place to work and not necessarily the culture, but just as an employee in sales

  224. doesn't jive with me. So it was, it was frustrating. It was tense. So it was important that we spent some

  225. time in God's word before we went into work. Um, the, the D and D study came about because a buddy of

  226. mine went to a game shop quite a bit. We played magic, the gathering, which is a nerdy card game.

  227. Um, we played D and D again, that's just part of who I am and what I enjoy. And those are the people

  228. that we were around. And when I started getting back into magic, the gathering, my daughter had

  229. asked me to show her how to play. She was in high school. I found a shop near work. I walked in,

  230. asked the guy to show me how to play, catch me up. And while I was standing there, I look over

  231. and there's all these tables set up and people just come in and they hang out and play and just wait

  232. for somebody to hang out with. And God's like, nobody's reaching them. It's like, Oh, okay. And

  233. from that moment, again, I was part of the, okay, these are some of the people you'll be reaching.

  234. So it wasn't like, okay, I need to find a way to, to really come up with a great ministry model.

  235. It was, I hang out at a game shop. My buddy hangs out at a game shop. I played,

  236. taught him to play magic. Hey, we should do a Bible study in the shop. And so number one,

  237. I asked the owner, I think that's important. Part of kind of the model of Bible at the bar

  238. at this point is talk to the owner, get permission before you just start meeting somewhere.

  239. For several reasons. Number one, it's respectful and you're going to be taking up their space.

  240. They know what you're doing. Your first line of outreach is the owner and employees. And now

  241. when people ask or have questions, they'll be able to talk about it, which means they may ask you more

  242. questions and it's, it just opens doors there. But we just started doing a Bible study there,

  243. met up about once a week. And then after we finished the, I think that we started with Ephesians.

  244. And after that, I was like, okay, what do you want to do? And he's like, let's do first Kings. I'm like,

  245. okay, sounds great. This is different. This is different. He's younger. He was like 18 or I think he was 20 at the time.

  246. And like, that's not your normal, Hey, let's study this book, this book, you know? And so I was like, okay. Cause you know,

  247. encourage them. Heck yeah. So then I started thinking about, okay, first thing we need to do is kind of backstory,

  248. you know, set the stage. Cause the first verse is King David's dying. Like, okay, there's a lot going on here.

  249. He's only the second King of Israel and he's on his deathbed. Like this is the transition of authority.

  250. There's a lot going on, not just to mention all the spiritual, but just, and in doing a backstory,

  251. it made me think of D and D and just building that world building. And so we started doing it as a D and D style Bible study.

  252. We, we pulled character sheets and every character that came up, any name that came up, we're like, okay,

  253. we need to do a character sheet for this person. So we need to find basically like every place in the Bible

  254. that mentions them or their family line and what decisions they're making and why. Like one of my favorites is,

  255. is alignment. You have basically nine different choices for, for people's alignment for your character.

  256. And it's largely based on why you make decisions. What's your motivation? What is your drive?

  257. And in studying the Bible this way, like I went deeper and got to know characters in a way that I never had before.

  258. Even in studying the Bible deeply, I never compiled all that and really wanted to know like,

  259. why is this person doing this? What's their drive? What is their reasoning?

  260. And in doing that as well, I can talk to somebody that plays D and D and say, yeah, this character,

  261. I think, you know, they're, they're probably a lawful neutral and start talking about why.

  262. And they're going to understand that character better than most people that go to church,

  263. just because of that concept and that understanding of the D and D world.

  264. And, uh, I, I, I can't tell you how many people came up while we're sitting there with the player's

  265. handbook and the Bible and they go, that's a combination I've never seen before.

  266. Yeah. What was the, was the business owner? I mean, I'm guessing he was open to it. Was,

  267. was it good for business? Was it bad for business? Like what, was he concerned about the win?

  268. I'm just, I'm curious the business perspective of what he gained or he or she gained by doing this.

  269. So the game shops are largely about people hanging out. So it really didn't detract from any of his

  270. business unless they had an event or something. We always, uh, were conscientious of where we sat

  271. and, uh, kept that in mind. Um, but he came up to us the one week and he's like, you guys are doing

  272. a Bible study, right? I was like, yeah. He goes, you can put a flyer up on the wall if you want on

  273. their little bulletin board. So we were able to do that. And then after a couple of weeks,

  274. he's, he came back over and he's like, uh, um, he's like, Hey, somebody was in here the other day

  275. asking if, um, we had, we do a Bible study here. Do you have a flyer or something? Like who does

  276. that? Who goes into a game shop asking about a Bible study? Like somebody heard something and it's

  277. amazing again, that somebody walked into his shop and is asking his employees about a Bible study.

  278. Usually they're not going to be thinking about that in the least. And now it's kind of right there in

  279. front of them. And we, we frequent that shop. People know us. People would walk up while we're

  280. doing the Bible study and be like, Hey, what are you guys doing? Or they'll just come up and start

  281. talking and we'd stop what we're doing and have conversation. And, but those relationships are what

  282. give us the opportunity to share in ways that we wouldn't be able to otherwise.

  283. That's, that's beautiful. How, what Lucas, what, what percentage I'm curious here? Um,

  284. cause it's funny, I've done some, let me back up maybe a little bit and I'm going to go all the

  285. way back to like 2006 here because I actually, I don't, you guys are probably familiar with like

  286. a hot topic or a PacSun kind of like the head shop that was around back in the day. And so the,

  287. the Christian version of that was called C2A. It was based out of California. Um,

  288. and there were dozens of them in California and actually I bought an owned one. We ran it out of

  289. West Palm beach, Florida. And, uh, so it was, uh, it was literally at the mall at Wellington green,

  290. uh, which was a popular mall out on the West side of West Palm. And, uh, it's back when malls were a

  291. good thing. Unlike maybe today, back in the day when the economy was stable. Um, but I, I, we literally,

  292. we saw a hundred kids, a hundred students give their life to Christ in, in a brick and mortar

  293. mall where, um, we, we, we sold. And when I say Christian shirts, you're probably picturing like

  294. the Budweiser thing that was like really popular in the nineties and two thousands. These were like

  295. cool designs. Like, and it was more like, you're more likely to see skulls and, and, um, you know,

  296. just a much more graphic, uh, image. Uh, but we trained our kids how to like share Jesus,

  297. the employees on how to share Jesus while they're sharing, selling the shirt. And, uh, and so through

  298. that, uh, we just, we literally saw over a hundred kids come to Christ and maybe the three years that

  299. that business ran somewhere along the way, Obama said the word recession and the economy crashed.

  300. And so we never, but it was funny. We actually, we had, um, we actually had like investors on the hook,

  301. uh, to open more C2 eights in, uh, Miami in Tampa, in Orlando,

  302. um, in, in, in a number of areas scattered across the state of Florida and just the economy,

  303. everything kind of crashed after the fact. The reason I bring all this up is, is my story.

  304. I actually like bought the property, uh, at least the property. I was the business owner,

  305. um, in Andy story, which is intriguing. He doesn't have near the overhead because he does not

  306. running either of these businesses. He's working with people in, in that space.

  307. What's maybe describe some of the, the tensions, uh, pros and cons of, of both, uh, is it, are you

  308. working with anyone currently that's owning the business as opposed to working with others that

  309. are already owning the business? Like what does that relationship look like in 22?

  310. Yeah. For Bible at the bar, for what we do, again, it's, it's not a complicated model. It is,

  311. this is something that anybody can do. I do it in, uh, like at an outside bar at the Harley shop,

  312. or, uh, my wife did it at a coffee shop. Um, I did it at a cigar shop, uh, the game shop,

  313. because those are places where we go. I was actually reaching out to, uh, trying to reach out

  314. to some of the guys at the Harley shop that smoked cigars and ended up at the cigar shop and met some

  315. Christian guys. And we started a Bible study there. Um, but a lot of it is again, just asking permission,

  316. um, just to make sure that you're not invading their space. You want to come in with, yeah,

  317. you want that permission because again, so they know what's going on. It's, it piques their interest,

  318. but you also want to respect that it's their building. It's not ours. And, you know, Christians

  319. can, you know, the after church crowd, the worst tippers and the worst customers we want to, we need

  320. to change that to where everywhere that we frequent, like when we did the coffee shop one, like we're

  321. going to, we're going to buy the product. We're going to be the best tippers. We're going to be

  322. respectful. We're going to be loving. And like, if you can't live it out while you're studying the

  323. Bible, go back home into your Bible study till you're ready to, to, to talk about it out in the

  324. open, which that that's a big part of Bible at the bar is, uh, doing it out in the open. Cause another,

  325. uh, heart of Bible at the bar is uniting the body of Christ because we tend to get, uh, art in our

  326. church and focused in our church. And Sunday mornings, we had people from four or five different

  327. churches coming and we do our Bible study and then we'd all go to our home churches.

  328. So being able to have these discussions out in public so that people can hear, because we agree

  329. on like 90% and we need to be able to talk about that and grow in that. And we need to be able to

  330. talk about the 10% that we don't, and we need to be able to do all of that out in the open, not kind

  331. of behind church doors till we all agree. And then we go out and we're right. And we need to tell them

  332. that they're wrong. Instead, we need to have these actual discussions within earshot of, of people.

  333. And we need to be discussing and wrestling with things and so that they can hear and go, they don't

  334. think that they know everything. They're struggling to follow the Lord. And, and that's what it looks

  335. like. That's, that's not what I thought. I thought they have it all together and they hate me because

  336. I'm wrong because I think differently. Just, just from the Tampa underground, like bird's eye. I know

  337. you were asking like, do, do we have others in the network that don't just engage a space that they

  338. don't own, but do we actually have some folks that actually own the, that stand on the other side of

  339. that relationship? And we do, Jeff, I know, I know, you know, John Dangler, you know, they've got

  340. well-built bikes. Um, and so they, they don't own the property that, but they, the, but they own the

  341. business and they're, you know, leasing the property and all that kind of stuff. And then we,

  342. there's a guy named Derek, um, that, um, owns a, a chain of coffee shops in, in Tampa. That's a part

  343. of the underground. And he does it very much from the motivation of being incarnationally engaged

  344. with the, the people who frequent the coffee shops. And, um, and, uh, so, yeah, I mean, I think there

  345. are pros and cons to those doing it one way or the other. And, uh, you know, we're kind of talking

  346. about third places. It's not entirely like the shirt, the t-shirt, um, store, the C28, that's not

  347. totally a third place, but maybe some of those kids were treating it like a third place. You know,

  348. they were going and hanging out there, not just grabbing a shirt and buying it and leaving. Um,

  349. but yeah, I mean, from, from Andy's point of view, if you don't own it and you're just jumping in and

  350. you're trying to build a relationship with management and, um, and then you're just trying to like pop up

  351. and do ministry as a, um, you know, as a, as a, as a client, as a customer, it's faster. Um,

  352. and you don't have, I do think there are, there's sometimes there's some weird kind of power dynamics

  353. might not be the right word, but like there's, you're not on the same tier of relationship when

  354. you're, um, relating with somebody as a business owner or business manager and they're the customer.

  355. Sometimes there's like, oh, there's some weird power dynamics or transactional relational dynamics

  356. there. And it's easier as just like the, a customer with other customers kind of convening in a space,

  357. in a bar, in a coffee shop, um, at a gym, at a CrossFit gym or something like that. Uh,

  358. so there's some pros there to like being, being on the same kind of tier. So there's less barriers

  359. relationally and it, maybe it's a little faster, but on the other side, like being the, we have a lot

  360. of people who are going about it from the perspective of not, uh, of, uh, building third

  361. spaces, owning, managing, generating businesses in third places. Um, it really comes down to calling,

  362. like people just feel called to do different things. And, um, and, but the people who are on

  363. that side, they're making trade-offs. There are, there's real pros and cons to that other side.

  364. Um, the pros are, you kind of have that proverb stuff. Like when, when the, when the righteous

  365. prosper, the whole city rejoices, you know, that's, that's, um, I think that's proper Proverbs 10,

  366. 10. Like they, they, as business owners, they actually get to contribute at a city level with

  367. other civic leaders and like chamber of converse and business, and they get to steward their resources

  368. and their network of business relationships in a way that's alternative to the way of the world.

  369. Um, and so there's a huge benefit there. Um, the way that they use their profits can be really

  370. prophetic. The way that they design their space and their policies for their space can be really

  371. prophetic to the watching world. So they can have a much bigger impact on a city than somebody who's

  372. just popping up in a third place for six months and, uh, trying to build some relationships. Um,

  373. but again, uh, the, the, the overlap between re, um, religious affiliation and kind of evangelism

  374. stuff and also like a business place and some of the politics that can get involved there. Like

  375. that'll probably get dicey, increasingly dicey over the next five or 10 years. Um, and you know,

  376. people just embracing that diciness and complexity, it comes, it comes at a cost, you know,

  377. and it's something that people have to consider.

  378. I was curious, Lucas, like what's the, if you may not even know this, but what's the

  379. percentage of conversations that where people are like, no, I don't want you to do a Bible study

  380. in my business. Like I, I would imagine that's been increasingly so, but I'm just curious what

  381. your take would, we haven't heard that many examples of that. It certainly happened. It certainly

  382. happened, but, um, there's not a lot of examples. We have many, we have much more examples of business

  383. owners being open to it and friendly to it. Um, uh, a counterpart to Andy's, um, Bible at

  384. the bar. We also have a beer and Bible, uh, and they're in, they're in all the bars that

  385. they've kind of, uh, uh, um, propped up in the management has been very happy to have them

  386. and, um, and, um, and coffee shops where stuff has happened. Schools. I mean, it's a different

  387. thing. It's not for profit, but when we, there, when there's little, um, microchurch discovery

  388. Bible studies or prayer groups or stuff that pop up in schools, again, that's a thing where

  389. you kind of imagine there's going to be some resistance. Um, there has been in a couple

  390. places, but a lot of openness. Uh, um, so I don't know if that's just a grace of the area

  391. thing, like maybe, uh, or a geographic thing or a political thing. I don't know what that

  392. is, but that's just our experience. Maybe if you're in a, in a, a much more post-Christian

  393. city, maybe you're in somewhere up in the Northeast or something like that. Um, you might have a

  394. little bit more difficulty around that, but, um, we haven't seen it too much. I don't know

  395. about you, Andy, if you've had some, some experience, cause I know your wife was doing coffee shop

  396. stuff too, coffee shop, shop ministry. So I don't know if either one of you have run into

  397. any situations where an owner was like, please don't do this. I'm uncomfortable with it.

  398. No, we've never had any issues. And honestly, I think, I think with, you know, the media and

  399. all of even Christian media, uh, talking about the, the, the issues that we have and, and, uh,

  400. persecution that we experience, I think we're afraid. I think we're way more afraid than we

  401. should be. And, you know, really just, uh, when I was in construction at one point, I was

  402. like, you know, I should take my Bible to work and just have it on my desk. Cause, and I would

  403. go in early and read my Bible while I ate my breakfast before work and just having it on

  404. the desk, you know, was an opportunity for discussion. And there was a point where there

  405. was a difficult discussion, but there was an opportunity for it. And, you know, we were,

  406. we, I have a relationship with all those guys because we work together all the time. And

  407. again, it gave an opportunity there. And when you're going into somebody's business, again,

  408. if we can go in respectfully and we can add to their business, because if I'm doing a Bible study in

  409. your business, that means me and several people are going to come and give you business. And number

  410. one thing, I want to be a good tipper and be respectful and caring. I'm going to clean up.

  411. My area is going to look better at when I leave than when I got there. We need, you know, I want

  412. to show the love of Christ while I'm there. If, if I'm not doing that while I'm studying the Bible,

  413. I'm sending an opposite message. So that's super important. And so again, I've never had any issues.

  414. In fact, the, the cigar shop that we met at, and they're still meeting at, uh, the, one of the

  415. managers that was working there has started coming to our group after he left. And the, my last week,

  416. um, his girlfriend gave her life twice. Like it's awesome.

  417. Very, very cool. Listen, this is, this has been phenomenal. I'm, I'm really intrigued. Um, Andy,

  418. your goal of, of, of trying, trying to reach, what'd you say it was? It was, it was gamers. It was

  419. bikers. And what was the third group? Uh, the bar community, the bar bakers, uh, bakers,

  420. not bakers, bikers, bars, and, and, and gamers. Like what, what, uh, um, what a unreached people

  421. group. Uh, and it's just an incredible upper opportunities there and love, love your, your

  422. heart. Um, going after all of this, Hey, uh, I have an ulterior motive in bringing you all together

  423. for, for this podcast. And so let's see where this is going. I, I would love some advice. And so,

  424. uh, and actually Andy, I'm going to connect you to this person because he's in your neck of the woods.

  425. Uh, Joey Santos is, um, uh, global integration pastor or something like that for Christ church

  426. up, up right outside of Cincinnati, I believe. And, uh, and so Joey's a friend, uh, Joey reached out

  427. to me and he said, Hey, um, you know, cause I evidently I do a lot of work in the metaverse,

  428. or at least that's what I'm told. And so Joey asks me, he says, Hey, um, I'm thinking about doing,

  429. I'm thinking about opening a, a metaverse, a virtual reality bar, um, in, in the world called

  430. VR chat, which is like the, the red light district of virtual reality. Essentially he's opening up,

  431. uh, or wants to open up a virtual reality bar in the, the red light district, the wild, wild west,

  432. where, where pretty much anything goes, there's no parental controls. Um, and for him, he's wanting

  433. to do, um, not church services out of the bar, uh, but relationally connect in this virtual reality

  434. bar. Now, you know, virtual reality bar actually is a thing. It's a million dollar business,

  435. um, in this space because it runs off of memberships. Uh, they have licensed to ship

  436. alcohol across state lines. Uh, so there's some legitimacy to this business and they also run

  437. back rooms in virtual reality where things don't, or things happen that maybe, you know, shouldn't

  438. happen, uh, things that may or may not be illegal and are illegal. And so as a result of this,

  439. there's some stuff here with the, the virtual reality bar, of course, we don't want to get

  440. into. Uh, but what I'm really intrigued at is his desire to create a community space that's not called

  441. church and to draw people into it. And, um, long story short, we're looking for partners to, to kind

  442. of come in and to be part of this as we've, it's funny, as I've talked with churches, some churches

  443. love the idea. Some churches are incredibly offended at the idea of opening a bar and instead want us to

  444. open a coffee shop, which ironically, uh, difference between a beer with a foam top and a latte, it's

  445. probably just a little different colorization. So I think maybe we can build both. Uh, we could

  446. get into it maybe, but, but the idea is, man, what if, what would it be like to, to start to create

  447. some, some of these expressions, some of these experiences, some of these locations, um, in this

  448. space, not for church services, but for relationally connecting. Um, and so I've got two

  449. out of the box thinkers on this podcast. Uh, I would love some insight. Like what are y'all

  450. thinking? Is this a good idea? Is this a bad idea of your virtual reality or not? What, what advice

  451. would you give for someone like Joey and I who are interested in exploring this space?

  452. Um, I do not know a whole lot about virtual reality. I, uh, fairly low tech over here. I still

  453. even use, uh, paper character sheets half the time. I do like that. I can still, uh, play with

  454. my friends on down in Florida on D and D, but I think if your desire is to, to take Christ's

  455. places and that's where he's leading you. Absolutely. I think, uh, some of the difficulties or traps

  456. is to feel like you have to figure out how to fit in and be a part of them. And it, that's

  457. not what we're called to do. We're not called to, um, basically sin so that we can get close

  458. to sinners. You know, Christ had no problem getting close to sinners and he didn't water down

  459. the truth. He didn't change the message for it to be comfortable. He, he just loved them. He,

  460. he went where they were and, and loved them there and made himself available. Uh, he went where his

  461. father told him to go. I think that's key because, uh, you know, if I was writing Jesus's mission,

  462. it would have looked way different. Uh, one of my favorite stories is the woman at the well,

  463. because it says that Jesus had to go through Samaria to get to Jerusalem, but no good Jewish

  464. boy goes through Samaria to get to Jerusalem. You go around Samaria, but Jesus had to go through

  465. Samaria because his father told him to go through Samaria and it wasn't for an awesome, huge revival

  466. where he was going to talk to tens of thousands of people. It was to meet a woman that was an outcast

  467. in her own town that was, it was the last place and he should not have been talking to a woman in public.

  468. It's like everything about it was a, was a screaming sign of no, don't do this. But his father said,

  469. go here and talk to this woman. And because he spoke to that woman and cared her for her, where she was

  470. in the mess that she was in and didn't pull any punches. Like he gets, just lays it out for,

  471. but in a loving way because he can speak in the way that she needs and she goes and brings the whole

  472. city back. So just again, following God's lead and just, uh, being available and, and presenting the word

  473. of God. Yeah. You know, we don't have to apologize for it and we don't have to change it or, or dress

  474. it up. We just have to present it. And those that he's called will come. Great reminder. Lucas,

  475. what, what about you? Yeah. I mean, I think it's, uh, I think anybody who has like an incarnational

  476. missionary mind, like we, we don't invite the people where we are. We go to where people are.

  477. And when, when we go there, we're trying to find proximity and presence and trying to earn a hearing

  478. so that we can proclaim the gospel in, in relationship with people. Anybody who has that

  479. mindset would be like, yeah, a hundred percent. If there's a bunch of people living their lives

  480. majority digitally, and they start deciding socially that they like to hang out in these like VR bars,

  481. then yeah, let's go there and let's connect with a hundred percent. So I, I, I liked in general,

  482. the theory and the philosophy of the idea, like as a, as a missionary missiologically. Um, I think my

  483. one, because I don't know that world, I think my one catch point would be like, do third places in

  484. physical space mirror third places in digital space? Like, is that like, because we wouldn't

  485. necessarily Christians shouldn't, um, we shouldn't decide how people should gather and then try to

  486. convince them how they should gather and then incarnate. We actually try to observe how they are socially

  487. already gathering. And then we kind of embed because it's, it's easier that way instead of trying to

  488. like design our own sociology to invite them into. So there's a part of me that wonders like, man,

  489. the way third places work in the, and I hope your audience understands that language, like just

  490. social spaces work in the, in, in the physical world, we're always thinking like coffee shops,

  491. bars, gamer clubs, um, CrossFit gyms. Like these are, these are decent third place options to

  492. incarnationally engage. I don't think it will long-term be a one-to-one in the virtual world. That's an,

  493. that's just a gut thing. Like that's intuitive of me. Like, I'm not sure if it's just going to overlay to,

  494. like how people want to spend their social connective time in the virtual world will be

  495. coffee shops, bars, CrossFit gyms, or whatever. Like, I think if we just sit back and observe

  496. how, how people spend their time in virtual world, they might actually enjoy socially connecting in

  497. virtual space differently than how they connect in physical space. But it sounds like you've already

  498. said it's like a million dollar industry. So that there's already some traction there and people

  499. are starting to gather that way. So I think like, great, a hundred percent. I'm just curious,

  500. like long-term, the 10 year metaverse future, how do people actually connect, convene and connect

  501. socially in digital space? I think it'll be different. Um, I wonder if it's a little bit more

  502. like, if you think, um, um, uh, my Minecraft and Roblox, like it feels like people, like people are

  503. actually convening around missions or building things. And like, like they go to the same place

  504. to build something together or to tear something apart together. And, but they're talking to each

  505. other the whole time. There's, they're socially connecting. They're not sitting their characters

  506. down at a bar, but they're doing something together. So I wonder how that'll look in the future.

  507. I, I think it's mixed, uh, to be honest, and it may be too soon to tell, which is one of the reasons

  508. why we're wanting to experiment with it. And let's, let's be real. It's this pennies compared to

  509. actually building an actual bar or building an actual, a hundred, a hundred percent. But the truth,

  510. yeah, but you're, you're not wrong. I mean, like I've, I've got friends that are doing pop one,

  511. which is like a fortnight and virtual reality, uh, pop population one video game, and they're doing

  512. Bible studies in pop one. Uh, I've got friends and so it's all around. We were going to use this term

  513. a lot, engaging in digital metaverses, engaging around shared experiences. And so a lot of it is

  514. being on mission. And, and some of those experiences do seem to be in a virtual reality bar. Uh, and so

  515. who's going to win? What does it look like long-term? I don't know, but, uh, it's, it's going to be fun

  516. figuring it out. Um, well, gentlemen, thank you for this podcast, Andy. It's been a pleasure

  517. meeting you. I'm going to get you connected to Joey. You'll get an email with this here in a little

  518. bit. And he will, he'll love, uh, some of the stuff that you're talking about. That's right up his

  519. alley. And, uh, and Lucas, sir, it's, it's always great to hear from you and excited. Uh, it's,

  520. it's funny. Like I, and we're considering moving out of Miami and, uh, Tampa and Orlando with my

  521. family have been kind of going back and forth about the, the future locations. And there's,

  522. there's some churches in the Tampa area. Don't tempt me like this, Jeff.

  523. Don't. It's, it's, it's been talked about summer 2023. We're relocating somewhere. I really think

  524. so. So we'll, uh, we'll, we'll, we'll stay in touch, but definitely excited. Yeah. I'm going to

  525. start fasting. I'm going to start fasting. Well, cool. Hey, but we're, we're going to land the plane.

  526. So, uh, gentlemen, thank you for this for Andy, for Lucas. This is Jeff with the church, digital

  527. digital church network. Thanks for jumping on the podcast and we'll see you next time. Y'all good day.