Sermon
Let Love Abide
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Amen. You may be seated.
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Kiddos, you are excused to your King's kids' classes.
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And as they are on their way, would you open up your Bibles to John chapter 15.
John 15 chapter mention
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! We're going to be looking at verses 1 through 17 this morning.
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It's on page 1071 of your pew Bible.
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Earlier this summer, Jenny, Mary, our youngest daughter,
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and I, we visited some dear friends in the state of Washington.
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The Tullys, many of you know the Tullys.
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They're doing well.
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Well, one particular day, we decided to go berry picking.
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So we went to this berry farm.
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And they had a variety of berries.
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They had blueberries.
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They had blackberries.
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And not only did they have raspberries,
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they had a variety of different kinds of raspberries.
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It was amazing, the options that they had.
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But what was most remarkable was how heavy laden the raspberry vines were.
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I mean, they were just wanting to give of their fruit.
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They, it was, you just felt this heaviness of fruit
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as you're walking through aisle after aisle of raspberry vine.
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You'd pick two, put in your bucket,
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and then you'd pick two, and you would eat them.
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They should weigh you going in and going out
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because you eat a lot on the way.
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It was, there was much fruit,
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much abundant fruit.
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Brothers and sisters in Christ,
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we are to bear much fruit in Christ.
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We are to be fruitful
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with a different kind of fruit than raspberry fruit
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because we abide in a different kind of vine
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than a raspberry vine.
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We've come to a passage that is familiar to many people in the room.
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Jesus says, I am the vine.
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For some of you in the room, this may be new.
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So I'm going to ask and answer two questions from this passage.
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How do we as Christians bear fruit?
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And what fruit are we to bear?
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Is there a particular fruit
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that the Lord Jesus is eager for us to bear?
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So how do we bear fruit?
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Well, you're going to see it's by abiding in Christ.
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And what particular fruit are we to bear above all else?
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To love one another.
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We love one another by abiding in Jesus.
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So let's dig in.
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Let's look at this first question.
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It's going to be answered from verses one through eight.
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So how do we bear fruit?
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Let me just read that for you.
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Jesus says in 15.1,
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I am the true vine.
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And my Father is the vine dresser.
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Every branch in me that does not bear fruit,
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He takes away.
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And every branch that does bear fruit,
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He prunes that it may bear more fruit.
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Already you are clean because of the word
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that I have spoken to you.
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Abide in me and I in you,
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as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself
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unless it abides in the vine.
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Neither can you unless you abide in me.
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I am the vine.
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You are the branches.
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Whoever abides in me and I in him,
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he it is that bears much fruit.
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For apart from me, you can do nothing.
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If anyone does not abide in me,
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he's thrown away like a branch and withers.
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And the branches are gathered,
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thrown into the fire and burned.
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If you abide in me and my words abide in you,
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ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you.
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By this, my Father is glorified
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that you bear much fruit
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and prove to be my disciples.
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Notice there's an emphasis.
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There's something repeated throughout this passage.
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It's bear fruit.
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Verse 2,
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And he prunes that it does not bear fruit.
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He prunes those who do bear fruit
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so that they bear more fruit.
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Verse 4,
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Cannot bear fruit,
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but implied you bear fruit if you abide in him,
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Jesus.
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Verse 5,
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He it is that bears much fruit.
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For apart from me,
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you can do nothing.
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You can't bear fruit.
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Look down at verse 8,
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By this my Father is glorified
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that you bear much fruit
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and so prove to be my disciples.
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This passage is about bearing fruit.
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And what we have here
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is what's called an extended imagery.
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It's almost like a parable.
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But unlike a parable,
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where parables tend to tell stories,
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this is just an extended image.
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And we have four characters in this image,
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four kind of like pieces of this image.
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We have the vine,
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and we have the branches,
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and we have fruit,
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and we have a vine dresser.
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And so I just want to be clear,
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make sure we're all on the same page
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in terms of what this fruit bearing
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that Jesus is talking about really is.
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What he's talking about is Christian growth.
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He's talking about change.
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He's talking about producing things
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that pleases him.
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It's about transformation.
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It's about sanctification,
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if you're familiar with that term.
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It's the process of becoming more and more like Jesus.
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Now, just to be clear,
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you don't become more fruitful
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in order to be saved.
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It doesn't work that way.
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First, you are cleaned.
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You're cleansed.
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You're made right through the blood of Jesus.
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You're saved in order to bear fruit.
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It's very important to get that sequence right.
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But in order for us to answer the question,
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how do we bear fruit,
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not only do we have to know
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what these parts are in this extended imagery,
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we need to know how they relate to one another.
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So, let's start with the vine.
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Jesus says in verse 1,
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I am the true vine.
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Jesus says in verse 5,
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I am the vine.
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Now, you may be thinking,
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man, Jesus is an awesome teacher,
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so culturally relevant.
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He knows his audience.
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He knows he's an agricultural society
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that uses a lot of grapes of the vine
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for drinking wine
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and loving on grapes.
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And one could say,
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well, he's just a very effective communicator,
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and you would be right.
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But there's actually more going on here.
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When Jesus says,
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I'm the true vine,
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this is what he's saying.
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Anybody seen a Western?
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Cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching.
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There's a new sheriff in town.
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Ever seen anything like that?
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When Jesus says, I'm the true vine,
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it's kind of like,
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everybody, there's a new vine in town.
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But the old vine is gone.
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The new vine is here.
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Because if you read Isaiah chapter 5
Isaiah 5 chapter mention
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and Psalm chapter 80,
Psalms 80 chapter mention
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you're going to start realizing
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one of the themes throughout the Old Testament
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is that God's old people, Israel,
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he called them the vine.
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But the thing about Israel
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that brought about God's judgment
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again and again and again
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is that they were a fruitless vine.
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They didn't trust God.
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They didn't become the people
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he wanted them to be.
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And so God judged them.
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And so now here Jesus is walking in
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and he's like,
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there's a new vine in town.
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So what we're talking about here
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is this are hints of the new covenant
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of Jesus coming and establishing a new way
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in which God will relate with his people,
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a new people who are in Christ
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and who will now abide in that vine
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and produce fruit.
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So there is a little bit more going on here
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than just very kind of savvy teaching.
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Jesus is making a claim.
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The fulfillment has come.
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The true vine is here.
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And this vine is no other than
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the great I am incarnate.
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The new vine is on the scene
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and he's the source of life.
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The vine is the basic source of life
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for a grape vine.
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For grapes to grow,
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a branch needs to be attached to the vine.
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And so what Jesus is doing here,
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among other things,
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he's setting up a relationship.
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So we move from Jesus is the vine
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to now talking about the branches.
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In verse 15, 5,
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Jesus looks at his disciples
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and he's very clear.
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He's like,
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let's just get these straight guys.
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I'm the vine,
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you're the branches.
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And that applies to every Christian in the room.
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You are not the vine.
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You're a branch.
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I'm not the vine.
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I'm a branch.
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And what this means is
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there is a dependent relationship
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that Jesus is getting,
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establishing through this extended metaphor.
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He wants us to realize that we need him.
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The branch
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is dependent on the vine,
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not the other way around.
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What Jesus is getting at here
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with this particular image
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is a picture of dependency.
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Look what he says in verse 4.
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Abide in me and I in you,
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as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself.
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Look at verse 5.
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I am the vine,
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you are the branches.
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Whoever abides in me and I in him,
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he it is that bears much fruit.
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For apart from me,
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you can do nothing.
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You can do nothing.
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And the context is,
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you cannot bear fruit
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apart from me.
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Does anybody else have the same
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default position I do
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when I wake up in the morning?
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I wake up in self-dependent mode.
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Self-abiding mode.
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I wake up,
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my systems come on,
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beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep.
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And I'm like,
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what do I need to get done?
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What's next?
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Let's get it done.
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And I wake up in a posture
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of thinking that
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I am the source
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of the life
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and of the power
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I need for that day.
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And it couldn't be further
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from the truth.
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And what Jesus is saying here
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is it's like,
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let's be clear.
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Every morning you wake up,
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you wake up dependent on me.
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I'm the vine,
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you're the branch.
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It's this vitally
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dependent relationship.
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Here's where I'm going to want
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to land you later in the sermon.
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We can just,
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we can wrap it up right here.
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And you can start
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every day this week
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with a confessional prayer
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that goes something like this.
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Jesus, today I confess you
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as the vine.
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You're the great I am.
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I'm a branch.
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Today I need you.
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That's how it starts.
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Every day.
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You're recognizing
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the reality of things.
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I define humility
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as living in reality.
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You're just living
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in the reality
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of the way things really are.
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And what Jesus is saying,
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if his word is abiding in us
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from this passage,
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it's he's the vine,
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we're the branches.
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We're going to live
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in that reality.
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And reality is our friend.
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That's good
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to recognize
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that.
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He is the source
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of the life
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power
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we need
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to bear
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the kind of fruit
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that pleases
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him.
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I just want to say
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it one more time.
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Brothers and sisters,
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you cannot produce
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the fruit
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that Jesus is calling
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you to here
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without abiding
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in Jesus.
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You can't do it
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on your own.
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This is humility.
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humility.
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This is at the heart
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of a dependent
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relationship
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with the living God.
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It's in order
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for us to connect
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and abide
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in Jesus.
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We must
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humbly
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come in
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to him.
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We need
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him.
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You know,
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anybody see
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any mums on sale?
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A lot of mums.
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If I came up
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to your door
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and I had mums
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in a pot
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on my left hand
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and a bouquet
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of roses
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in the right,
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which would I
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be giving you
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that is alive?
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The mums.
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Because the roses,
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they're as good
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as dead.
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They've been cut
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off from the vine.
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It just
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doesn't matter
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before they wither.
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Not the mums.
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They're connected
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to life.
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They produce
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beautiful,
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multicolored
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blossoms.
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Which brings me
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to the fruit.
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So,
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Jesus is the vine.
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We're the branches.
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There's a vital
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dependent relationship
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of us on him
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that's marked
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by humility,
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dependence,
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and now
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the fruit.
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Bear fruit.
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Bear more fruit.
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Bear a lot of fruit.
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Bear fruit
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that glorifies
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my Father in Heaven.
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Be fruitful.
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What kind of fruit?
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Well,
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in verses 9
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through 17,
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Jesus is going
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to narrow in
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on a particular fruit.
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But not exclusively.
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There's all sorts
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of fruit
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that the Lord Jesus
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wants us to bear.
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fruit.
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And we can
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generally categorize
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them in two ways.
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There's
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personal fruit.
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Think of
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the fruit
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of the Spirit.
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Galatians 5,
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22
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through 23.
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The fruit
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of the Spirit
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is love,
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joy,
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peace,
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patience,
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kindness,
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goodness,
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gentleness,
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faithfulness,
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and self-control.
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These are
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Spirit-produced
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fruit
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in us
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that pleases
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God.
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And they all
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have this
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relational aspect
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to them.
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When you are
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bearing the fruit
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of the Spirit,
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you are doing
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good to a church.
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but there's
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also
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another kind
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of fruit
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in its
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ministry
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fruitfulness
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where we
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are ministering
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to one another
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and it
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is
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fruitful.
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People
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are
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experiencing
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change
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because of it.
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They're being
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built up.
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They're being
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saved.
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They're being
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sanctified.
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They're given
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hope.
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They're helping
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to endure
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hard things.
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So we have
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the vine,
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Jesus,
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and I'm about
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to talk to you
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about the
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vinedresser
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who's God
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the Father.
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Do you know
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who is the
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power,
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the pulsating
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power of God
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that is present
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in you
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in order to
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produce
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this fruit?
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It's the Holy
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Spirit.
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It's what Jesus
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says.
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He was just
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talking about
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him in
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chapter 14
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and he's
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going to
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talk about
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him more
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in chapter
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16.
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He's
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personal.
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The Holy
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Spirit's not
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an it.
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He's a who
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and he's
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present and
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he empowers.
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He brings
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peace.
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And he's
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the one that
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is going to
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be bearing
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fruit in us.
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He
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was given
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in large
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part so that
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we would
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obey Jesus'
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commands.
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God's
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So we
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have the
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vine,
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Jesus,
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the source
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of life.
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We have
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the branches,
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us,
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who need
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his life.
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The fruit,
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that fruit's
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not your
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fruit.
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If you
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begin bearing
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fruit by the
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Holy Spirit
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and you're
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like,
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look at me,
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look how
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self-controlled
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I am.
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You're making
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a terrible
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mistake
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because you
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should have
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an asterisk
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on that.
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You should
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have a
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footnote
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on that
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that says
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something like
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this.
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I was
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really lacking
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self-control
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and then God
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by his Spirit
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produced this
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self-control
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in me
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as I was
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abiding
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in Christ's
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word.
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Changed
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me.
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And that's
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the kind of
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fruit that
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brings glory
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to God
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the Father
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because there's
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no question
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who brought
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about this
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change in
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you.
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So we
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have the
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vine,
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the branches,
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the fruit,
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and now the
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vine dresser.
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Look at
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verse 1.
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Jesus says,
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I'm the true
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vine.
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Cha-ching,
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cha-ching,
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there's a new
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vine in town.
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And my
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Father is the
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vine dresser.
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What is a
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vine dresser?
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It sounds
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fashion-related.
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It's like a
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vine farmer.
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A vine dresser
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is a person
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who tends
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vines.
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And look
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what this
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vine dresser
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does in
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verse 2.
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Every branch
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in me that
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does not
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bear fruit,
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I think
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Jesus right
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there is
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speaking of
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people who
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profess him
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but aren't
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necessarily
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truly Christians.
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Every branch
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in me that
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does not
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bear fruit,
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he takes
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away.
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The vine
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dresser
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takes away.
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And every
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branch that
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does bear
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fruit,
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dun,
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dun,
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dun,
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he prudes.
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that it
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may
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bear
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more fruit.
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Look down
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at verse
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6.
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If anyone
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does not
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abide in
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me,
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he is
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thrown away
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like a
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branch
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and withers.
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And the
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branches are
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gathered
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by who?
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the vine
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dresser.
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Thrown
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into the
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fire and
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burned.
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That's a
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sober
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warning.
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It's the
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kind of
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thing that
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goes something
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like this.
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If you're a
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professing
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Christian and
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you're like,
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I agree with
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everything you
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say,
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Pastor Mike.
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I agree.
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I need to
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be fruitful.
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That's right.
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It's possible
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you can leave
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here and
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think that
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was an
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okay sermon.
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And I
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agree with
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what he
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said,
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but you
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do not
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bear
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fruit.
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You don't
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abide in
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Jesus.
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There's
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warning
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here.
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If you're
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not being
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fruitful,
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you're
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in danger.
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You need
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to ask
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some hard
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questions.
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Am I
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genuinely
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saved?
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Have I
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been born
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again?
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it's
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this
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really
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healthy
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step
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just to
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be
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able
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to
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make
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sure
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that
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you
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belong
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to
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Jesus,
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that you're
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in the
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faith.
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But what
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the vine
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dresser also
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does,
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it not only
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addresses
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fruitlessness,
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he prunes
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the fruitful.
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He makes
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the fruitful
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more fruitful
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because he is
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glorified by
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those who
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bear much
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fruit.
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fruit.
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He wants
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us to
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bear fruit.
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So our
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father loves
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us with
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the pruning
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shears,
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that we
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be more
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fruitful for
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his glory,
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that we
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can give
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him the
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credit for
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what he's
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doing in
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our lives.
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So now the
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question we
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have is,
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well,
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how do you
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bear fruit?
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We know
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the different
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pieces of
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this extended
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metaphor,
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how do you
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bear fruit?
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Well,
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it's the
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word abide.
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You abide
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in the
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vine.
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The fruit
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that is
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born in
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you is
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not your
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fruit,
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it's the
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fruit of
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God,
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the Spirit.
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So how
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do you
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abide in
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the vine?
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Well,
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it's here
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in the
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text,
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it's in
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verse 7.
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We see,
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if you
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abide in
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me and
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my words
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abide in
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you,
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those just
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aren't like
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Bible
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memorization
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abiding in
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you,
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what those
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are,
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you're actually
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doing the
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words of
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Jesus.
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You're
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acting on
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them.
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You're
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obeying his
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commands,
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chapter 14.
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They're
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abiding in
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you.
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They're
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making a
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difference.
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And again,
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you don't
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abide in
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his words in
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order to be
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saved.
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No,
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you've been
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saved to
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abide in
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him.
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It's this
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really interesting
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relationship that
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our obedience to
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Jesus actually
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helps us
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stay
-
abiding in
-
Jesus,
-
trusting him,
-
loving him.
-
And so,
-
his words
-
abiding in
-
us is not
-
just a pile
-
up of
-
memorized
-
scripture.
-
It's you
-
being a doer
-
of the word,
-
not just a hearer
-
of the word.
-
And then we
-
pray.
-
If you
-
abide in
-
me and
-
my words
-
and you
-
ask whatever
-
you wish
-
and it will
-
be done
-
for you.
-
And that
-
whatever you
-
wish is
-
qualified by
-
his words
-
abiding in
-
you.
-
You're
-
going to
-
want what
-
he wants.
-
Of course
-
he's God
-
the Father.
-
I'm like,
-
yeah,
-
you got it.
-
You want
-
to bring
-
glory to
-
my name?
-
Sure.
-
Let's do
-
it.
-
So we
-
abide by
-
faith,
-
by obeying
-
his words,
-
and by
-
asking God
-
frequently
-
to do
-
things
-
for his
-
glory.
-
That's what
-
it means to
-
abide.
-
And now,
-
let's ask
-
the second
-
question.
-
What fruit
-
are we to
-
bear?
-
We've
-
answered the
-
first question.
-
How do we
-
bear fruit?
-
Will we
-
abide in
-
Christ?
-
Now,
-
what fruit
-
are we to
-
bear?
-
Verses 9
-
through 17.
-
Let me read
-
them.
-
As the
-
Father has
-
loved me,
-
so have
-
I loved
-
you.
-
Abide in
-
my love.
-
If you
-
keep my
-
commandments,
-
you will
-
abide in
-
my love,
-
just as I
-
have kept
-
my Father's
-
commandments,
-
and abide
-
in his
-
love.
-
These
-
things I
-
have spoken
-
to you,
-
that my
-
joy may
-
be in
-
you,
-
and that
-
your joy
-
may be
-
full.
-
This is
-
my
-
commandment,
-
that you
-
love one
-
another as
-
I have
-
loved you.
-
Greater
-
love has
-
no one
-
than this,
-
that someone
-
lay down
-
his life
-
for his
-
friends.
-
You are
-
my friends
-
if you
-
do what
-
I command
-
you.
-
No longer
-
do I
-
call you
-
servants,
-
for the
-
servant
-
does not
-
know what
-
his master
-
is doing,
-
but I
-
have called
-
you
-
friends.
-
For all
-
that I
-
have heard
-
from my
-
Father,
-
I have
-
made
-
known
-
to
-
you.
-
You
-
did not
-
choose
-
me,
-
but I
-
chose
-
you and
-
appointed
-
you that
-
you should
-
go and
-
bear fruit
-
and that
-
your fruit
-
should abide
-
so that
-
whatever you
-
ask the
-
Father in
-
my name,
-
he may
-
give it
-
to you.
-
These
-
things I
-
command
-
you so
-
that you
-
will love
-
one another.
-
What's
-
interesting
-
about verses
-
9-17 is
-
Jesus uses
-
a lot of
-
the same
-
language as
-
he does
-
in verses
-
1-8,
-
but he
-
narrows
-
the focus.
-
In
-
verses
-
1-8,
-
he starts
-
generally.
-
In
-
verses
-
9-17,
-
he gets
-
more
-
focused.
-
So for
-
example,
-
in
-
verse 9,
-
he talks
-
about
-
abiding
-
in me,
-
and then,
-
or earlier,
-
abiding
-
in me,
-
and in
-
verse 9,
-
he's now
-
talking about
-
abiding
-
in my
-
love.
-
That's a
-
movement
-
from general
-
to specific.
-
And then,
-
where he's
-
been talking
-
about bearing
-
fruit,
-
in 16,
-
he starts
-
talking about
-
bearing a
-
particular kind
-
of fruit,
-
to love
-
one another.
-
Now,
-
notice how
-
Jesus talks
-
about this
-
love.
-
In verse
-
9,
-
he says,
-
as the
-
Father has
-
loved me,
-
so I
-
have loved
-
you,
-
abide
-
in my
-
love,
-
dwell in
-
my love,
-
reside in
-
my love,
-
do my
-
love.
-
love,
-
it's like
-
a chain
-
reaction
-
that we're
-
seeing happen
-
here.
-
It's God
-
loves the
-
son,
-
and then
-
the son
-
loves his
-
disciples.
-
And so
-
there's a
-
chain reaction
-
of love
-
going on
-
from father,
-
son,
-
to disciple.
-
Another way
-
that you can
-
talk about
-
it is,
-
it's like
-
a multi-leveled
-
waterfall,
-
waterfall,
-
where you
-
have this
-
life-giving
-
water flowing
-
over the
-
top of a
-
waterfall.
-
Jenny,
-
Mary,
-
and I,
-
a few
-
years ago
-
went to
-
this
-
wonderful
-
state park,
-
Yosemite.
-
And they
-
had this
-
massive
-
waterfall
-
that had
-
multi-levels
-
on it.
-
And so
-
water would
-
rush over
-
the top
-
of these
-
boulders,
-
and then
-
it would
-
pool,
-
and then
-
there was
-
not enough
-
volume to
-
be held,
-
and so
-
it overflowed
-
down on
-
another
-
waterfall
-
into another
-
pool,
-
and then
-
that overflowed
-
because there's
-
so much
-
water coming
-
over,
-
and that
-
overflowed
-
into another
-
pool,
-
and it just
-
kept on
-
going because
-
there was no
-
end to the
-
flow.
-
No end.
-
And so
-
what we
-
have here
-
is
-
is a
-
love
-
cataracts,
-
a love
-
flow,
-
a love
-
fall
-
from God
-
the Father
-
to God
-
the Son,
-
and from
-
God the Son
-
to His
-
disciples.
-
Do you
-
see it?
-
It's a
-
chain reaction.
-
It's a
-
multi-segmented
-
love fall,
-
and the
-
way
-
that we
-
abide
-
under the
-
love fall
-
of Jesus
-
is by
-
abiding
-
in His
-
word.
-
We
-
position
-
ourselves
-
under
-
His
-
love fall.
-
It
-
doesn't
-
earn
-
His
-
love.
-
It
-
positions
-
us
-
to
-
experience
-
the
-
goodness,
-
the joy
-
of it,
-
the joy
-
of obedience,
-
the joy
-
of being
-
filled up,
-
the joy
-
of doing
-
what we
-
know is
-
to be
-
pleasing to
-
God.
-
God,
-
and He
-
uses His
-
own
-
example
-
in verse
-
10.
-
If you
-
keep my
-
commandments,
-
you will
-
abide in
-
my love,
-
just as I
-
have kept
-
my Father's
-
commandments
-
and abide
-
in His
-
love.
-
He knows.
-
He knows
-
the goodness,
-
which makes
-
verse 11
-
really
-
interesting.
-
These
-
things I've
-
spoken to
-
you,
-
that my
-
joy may
-
be in
-
you.
-
What joy?
-
The joy
-
of abiding
-
in His
-
Father's love
-
by obeying
-
Him.
-
That my
-
joy may
-
be in
-
you.
-
I want
-
you,
-
disciple,
-
to experience
-
the joy
-
of obeying
-
me
-
underneath
-
my love
-
fall.
-
I want
-
to fill
-
you up.
-
I want
-
you to
-
experience
-
that joy
-
to the
-
full.
-
I want
-
you to
-
experience
-
all of
-
my goodness
-
and that
-
requires
-
you to
-
be trusting
-
me by
-
obeying
-
my word.
-
The love
-
of Jesus
-
for us
-
is like
-
Niagara.
-
So the
-
love fall
-
falls from
-
the Father
-
to the Son
-
and from
-
the Son
-
to us.
-
It fills
-
us to
-
the full
-
even to
-
overflowing.
-
And so
-
now we
-
read verse
-
12.
-
This is
-
my
-
commandment.
-
That you
-
love one
-
another as
-
I have
-
loved you.
-
You see
-
what's
-
going on?
-
Father to
-
Son,
-
love.
-
Son to
-
the
-
disciple,
-
love.
-
Disciple to
-
disciple,
-
love.
-
It's a
-
love fall
-
vertically,
-
horizontally.
-
God loves
-
us,
-
Father,
-
Son,
-
and then
-
we are
-
like
-
His love
-
is amazing.
-
I want
-
to obey
-
Him and
-
I want
-
you to
-
experience
-
the same
-
brother,
-
sister in
-
Christ.
-
I want
-
you to
-
experience
-
His
-
goodness.
-
He
-
commands us
-
to bear
-
this fruit.
-
It sounds
-
strange.
-
This is
-
my
-
commandment
-
that you
-
love one
-
another as
-
I have
-
loved you.
-
We've
-
heard this
-
before in
-
13,
-
34,
-
through
-
35.
-
A new
-
commandment
-
I give
-
to you
-
that you
-
love one
-
another just
-
as I have
-
loved you,
-
you love
-
one another.
-
And by
-
this,
-
this love,
-
all people
-
will know
-
that you're
-
my disciples.
-
This is,
-
this is the
-
high,
-
high,
-
high fruit
-
of the
-
Spirit,
-
the first
-
one,
-
love.
-
And it's a
-
certain kind
-
of love.
-
It's not
-
loving like the
-
world loves.
-
Look at
-
verse 13.
-
13.
-
It's a
-
gospel love.
-
Verse 13,
-
greater love
-
is no one
-
than this,
-
that someone
-
lay down
-
his life
-
for his
-
friends.
-
Jesus spoke
-
that just
-
hours before
-
he would be
-
hanged on a
-
cross.
-
He knows
-
what he's
-
talking about.
-
And we are
-
to love one
-
another with
-
this kind
-
of gospel
-
love which
-
is sacrificial
-
in its
-
nature.
-
it's a
-
love
-
empowered by
-
the Spirit
-
that wants
-
others to
-
experience the
-
fullness of
-
their joy in
-
the waterfall
-
of Jesus.
-
Let me try
-
to put it
-
this way.
-
The kind
-
of love
-
that we're
-
talking about
-
that distinguishes
-
Christians from
-
everybody else
-
is sacrificial.
-
It means
-
giving yourself
-
for the good
-
of someone
-
else.
-
It means
-
that you
-
suffer like
-
Christ,
-
you suffer
-
loss like
-
Jesus in
-
order that
-
someone else
-
would experience
-
Christ's
-
exalting
-
gain.
-
It's that
-
kind of
-
love.
-
And when
-
you have a
-
church,
-
a bunch
-
of regular
-
people who've
-
been filled
-
by the Holy
-
Spirit,
-
who are
-
abiding in
-
Jesus,
-
who are
-
loving people
-
one another
-
this way,
-
that gets
-
noticed.
-
And we get
-
to say things
-
like, yeah,
-
that's not
-
me.
-
I would not
-
love people
-
like that.
-
That's
-
because of
-
what God
-
is doing
-
in us.
-
this is
-
the command.
-
This is
-
the high
-
premium
-
fruit that
-
we are to
-
be bearing.
-
It requires
-
cost.
-
It requires
-
discomfort.
-
It means
-
inconvenience.
-
It means
-
doing things
-
that you
-
normally
-
wouldn't do,
-
moving towards
-
people you
-
normally
-
wouldn't move
-
towards.
-
But that's
-
just Jesus
-
in a nutshell.
-
Jesus.
-
Jesus.
-
Jesus.
-
Jesus.
-
Jesus.
-
In verses
-
14 and
-
15,
-
you may
-
have
-
noticed
-
this
-
language
-
where
-
you are
-
my friends
-
if you
-
do what
-
I command.
-
No longer
-
do I call
-
you servants
-
for the
-
servant does
-
not know
-
what his
-
master is
-
doing,
-
but I
-
have called
-
you friends
-
for all
-
that I
-
have heard
-
from my
-
father I
-
have made
-
known to
-
you.
-
What is
-
this servant
-
to friend
-
kind of
-
shift going
-
on here?
-
It's a
-
similar shift
-
that we saw
-
in verses
-
1 through
-
8 where
-
Jesus is
-
like
-
the new
-
vines in
-
town,
-
new covenant
-
is rocking.
-
This is
-
a new
-
way in
-
which God
-
himself is
-
relating to
-
his new
-
people in
-
Christ.
-
No longer
-
servants,
-
friends.
-
That's
-
incredible.
-
This
-
gospel love
-
that we see
-
in verse
-
13,
-
it's a
-
love that
-
makes friends.
-
God,
-
through
-
Christ,
-
made you
-
an enemy
-
into his
-
friend.
-
He wants
-
to be with
-
you.
-
He wants
-
you to be
-
with him.
-
He wants
-
you to
-
bear all
-
to him,
-
to give
-
everything you
-
got,
-
to trust
-
him fully,
-
to bear
-
your soul
-
to him.
-
he loves
-
you as
-
a friend.
-
It's a
-
different way
-
in which
-
God relates
-
with us.
-
It's a
-
new covenant
-
way of
-
relating with
-
God's
-
people.
-
But,
-
look at
-
verse 16,
-
you did not
-
choose me,
-
but I
-
choose you,
-
and pointed
-
you that
-
you should
-
go and
-
bear fruit.
-
He's like,
-
just be
-
clear,
-
I'm still
-
calling the
-
shots.
-
He is our
-
master and
-
friend.
-
We didn't
-
choose him,
-
he chose us,
-
and he chose
-
us to bear
-
much fruit.
-
The high
-
premium fruit
-
of loving
-
one another.
-
there's
-
this
-
aspect of
-
prayer,
-
so that
-
whatever you
-
ask,
-
the Father
-
in my
-
name,
-
he may
-
give it
-
to you.
-
This is
-
just kind of
-
reiterating
-
what he
-
said in
-
verse 7,
-
it's how
-
we abide,
-
it's how
-
we trust
-
him,
-
we obey
-
him,
-
and we
-
pray,
-
God,
-
would you
-
help me
-
to love?
-
Help me
-
to love
-
others as
-
you have
-
loved me.
-
I'm going
-
to give
-
you some
-
practical steps
-
in a second,
-
but what I
-
just want you
-
to see is
-
that in
-
this section
-
here,
-
we can
-
answer the
-
question,
-
what kind
-
of love,
-
what kind
-
of fruit
-
does God
-
want us
-
to bear?
-
Is it
-
particular?
-
Yes,
-
it's love,
-
love for
-
one another.
-
It separates
-
us from
-
everybody else.
-
But I'll
-
tell you
-
what,
-
if you're
-
not loving
-
others,
-
you've
-
actually got
-
an abiding
-
problem.
-
Do you
-
see how
-
that works?
-
If you're
-
not bearing
-
the fruit
-
of love,
-
it raises
-
the question,
-
are you
-
abiding
-
in Christ?
-
So if
-
you're having
-
a hard time
-
loving others,
-
maybe you
-
need to ask
-
a more basic
-
question.
-
Are you
-
abiding
-
in Jesus?
-
Are you
-
obeying
-
him?
-
Are you
-
praying to
-
him?
-
There's two
-
questions.
-
How do we
-
bear fruit?
-
We abide
-
in Christ.
-
What fruit
-
are we to
-
be bearing?
-
Love for
-
one another.
-
We've seen
-
how this
-
has moved
-
from general
-
in 1A to
-
specific in
-
9 through
-
17.
-
And here's
-
Jesus,
-
just hours
-
away from
-
laying his
-
life down
-
for his
-
friends,
-
for us,
-
and of all
-
the things
-
that he could
-
have said
-
at this
-
moment,
-
he exhorts
-
us to
-
a vital
-
dependence
-
in him
-
so that
-
we would
-
bear the
-
fruit of
-
loving one
-
another.
-
That's how
-
much that
-
means to
-
him.
-
That's how
-
much it
-
means to
-
him that
-
we'd be
-
loving one
-
another.
-
It's the
-
high premium
-
fruit.
-
So the
-
question that
-
I want to
-
close out
-
with is
-
how do we
-
apply this
-
to our
-
lives?
-
I have
-
three prayers
-
for you to
-
pray by
-
way of
-
application.
-
The first
-
prayer I
-
call the
-
abiding
-
prayer.
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I've already
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hinted at
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this.
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It's taking
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John 15
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5 and
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making it
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a confession.
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Jesus,
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you are
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the vine.
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I am a
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branch.
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I need
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you.
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It's
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humble.
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It's
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dependent.
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It's
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allowing
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his words
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to abide
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in you
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and to
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pray it.
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Trust
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him.
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It's a
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great way
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to start
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your day.
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It takes
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10 seconds.
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In fact,
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you can
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pray that
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prayer
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wherever
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and whenever
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throughout
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the day.
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You have
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a hard
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phone call
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to make.
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Oh,
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Lord Jesus,
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you are
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the vine.
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I am
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the branch.
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I need
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you.
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Would
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you help
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me to
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have this
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conversation
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in love?
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It may
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be hard.
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You can
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do this
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wherever
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and whenever.
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But this
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is the
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first.
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This is
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where you
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start.
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It's
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confessional.
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Could you
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imagine if
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we're doing
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that every
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day together?
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We're all
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seeking to
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abide in
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the vine.
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it orders
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your loves.
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Second,
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the loving
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prayer.
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If you
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turn to
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Ephesians
Ephesians 3 chapter mention
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chapter
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3,
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there is
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this triune
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prayer that
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is just
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phenomenal
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that the
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apostle Paul
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prays for the
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Ephesian
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church and
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you just
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got to see
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what he
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prays.
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I do
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know where
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Ephesians
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is in
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my
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Bible.
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Listen to
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this prayer
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he prays.
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For this
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reason I
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bow my
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knees before
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the Father
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from whom
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every family
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in heaven
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and earth
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is named
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that according
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to the
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riches of
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his glory
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he may
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grant you
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to be
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strengthened
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with power
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through his
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spirit in
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your inner
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being so
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that Christ
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may dwell in
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your hearts
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through faith
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that you
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being rooted
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and grounded
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in love
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may have
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strength
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to comprehend
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with all the
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saints
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what is the
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breadth and
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length and
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height and
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depth and
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to know the
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love of
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Christ that
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surpasses
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knowledge that
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you may be
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filled up with
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all the
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fullness of
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God.
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That's
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fullness of
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joy.
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It's that
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Ephesians 3
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14 through
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19 prayer that
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you pray for
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yourself first
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day by day.
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Oh God
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would you
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Father
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pour out
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your spirit
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on me
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that Christ
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would dwell
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in my heart
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by faith
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that I
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would know
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your great
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love for
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me in
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Christ.
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Would you
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help me to
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experience that
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bear witness
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to my
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spirit that
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I am
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your son
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beloved.
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And from
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there do you
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know what you
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do?
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You pray the
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same for your
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brothers and
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sisters.
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that God
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the Father
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would pour
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out his
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spirit on
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my spouse,
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on my
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life group
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brothers and
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sisters,
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on my
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ministry team
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folks,
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on the
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leaders of
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our church
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that they
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would experience
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the fullness
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of God's
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love.
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love.
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It's a way
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the word of
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Christ abides
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in us and
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we pray it.
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The loving
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prayer.
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The last
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prayer is the
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pruning prayer.
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prayer.
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This is when
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you're experiencing
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the pain of
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your loving
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Father's
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pruning shears.
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He's exposing
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things that
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grieve him.
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Unfruitfulness.
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He's wanting
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to remove it
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because he
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loves you.
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Unloving
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thoughts,
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unloving
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actions,
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unloving
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speech.
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And when
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he's exposing
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it, it can
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be very
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painful.
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You know
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the song we
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sing,
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thank you
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for saving
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me?
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Thank you
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for pruning
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me.
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What can
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I say?
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It's because
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he loves
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you.
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And when
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he's in the
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midst of
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pruning
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you, you
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say things
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like, thank
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you, thank
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you Father,
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would you
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train me in
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this so
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that I may
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share in
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your holiness,
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that I may
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yield a
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peaceful fruit
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of righteousness,
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Hebrews 12.
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We can
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pray that
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for one
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another.
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Brother, I
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think you're
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being pruned
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by your
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loving Father.
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Let's pray.
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Sister, let's
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pray.
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This is good.
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Ouch, but
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good.
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Three prayers,
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the abiding
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prayer, the
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loving prayer,
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the pruning
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prayer.
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Pick one.
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Start praying
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it this week.
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How do we
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bear fruit?
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Well, we
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abide in
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Christ.
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His word
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abiding
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us, we
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pray.
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What fruit
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are we to
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bear?
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Love one
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another.
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It's the
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high premium,
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high premium
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fruit.
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And it
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brings glory
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to the
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Father when
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we bear
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much fruit.
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And you
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know what
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else it
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does?
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It proves
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that we are
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the disciples
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of Jesus.
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Let's pray.
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God, thank you
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so much for
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these words
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of Jesus.
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Father, we
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need your
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help even
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in abiding
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in you.
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Thank you for
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the clarity,
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Lord Jesus,
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you give us.
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And would you
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make us a
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church that
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is more and
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more filled
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to the full
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with the
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spirit,
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the love
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of God,
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bringing that
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into our
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experience
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and overflowing
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to others.
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In your name
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we pray.
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Amen.