Sermon
3 Ways To Destroy a Good Church - Pastor Matthew Stucky | Stedfast Baptist Church
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All right, well, it's great to be here
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at Steadfast Baptist Church.
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And I've actually preached here a couple of times before.
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And for those of you that have been here for a long time,
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you might remember that,
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but it was actually way before Pastor Shelley
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was actually the pastor.
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And so going back like nine years, 10 years,
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a really long time ago.
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And it's great to see some of the same faces
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and just seeing a lot of new people as well.
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I mean, the church has really grown since then.
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And I just want to thank first Pastor Shelley
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for just giving me the chance to be here today.
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But not only just that,
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I think most of you are kind of aware of my story
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and everything that happened at Verity Baptist Church.
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And the thing is when you become a missionary,
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you know, you're going away from secular work, you know,
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and the thing is I didn't go on deputation.
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I didn't go around to a hundred churches begging for money.
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And so when everything blows up at your church
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that is sort of helping you or kind of not really,
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it kind of leaves you in a pretty desperate situation.
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And you know, honestly, Pastor Shelley and I,
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honestly, we didn't meet each other
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or know each other that well from the U.S.
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I mean, one time I think in Sacramento we met
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and talked just very briefly, one time in Arizona.
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And, you know, but he really reached out to me
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to be a friend to me.
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And the thing is everybody will say that you're,
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they're your friend, but you know,
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actions speak louder than words.
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And quite honestly, he reached out to be my friend
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and I just want you to know what kind of pastor you have
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because honestly, a lot of people are gonna say
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a lot of things about your pastor and they already have,
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they already do, they criticize this church,
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but it's like on a personal level,
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he reached out to me to be a friend
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when honestly I just didn't have anything to offer.
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And that is the kind of pastor you have.
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So you should be very thankful for this church,
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stay dedicated, stay faithful, you know,
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because you do have a great church,
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you have a great pastor and a lot of people here
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that love God.
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Now, we're here in Matthew chapter 16
Matthew 16 chapter mention
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and the name of the sermon is
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Three Ways to Destroy a Great Church.
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Three ways to destroy a great church.
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Notice what it says here, verse number 13.
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When Jesus came into the coast of Cesarai, Philippi,
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he asked his disciples saying,
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whom do men say that I, the son of man, am?
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And they said, some say that thou art John the Baptist,
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some Elias, and others Jeremiah's are one of the prophets.
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He sayeth unto them, but whom say ye that I am?
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And Simon Peter answered and said,
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thou art the Christ, the son of the living God.
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And Jesus answered and said unto him,
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blessed art thou, Simon Barjona,
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for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee,
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but my father, which is in heaven.
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And I say also unto thee that thou art Peter,
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and upon this rock I will build my church.
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And notice the next phrase,
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and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.
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Now, I think oftentimes we're kind of reading the Bible
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and there's a lot of language,
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we kind of just read over it
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and don't really stop to think about it.
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I mean, that's kind of a strong statement, isn't it,
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that the gates of hell
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will not prevail against the church?
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Now look, we don't believe in one universal church,
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what we believe in is local churches.
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So this is a promise given to a local church
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like Steadfast Baptist Church.
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What the Bible is saying is that when you're serving God,
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you will have persecution, you will have fights,
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yea, and all that will live godly in Christ Jesus
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shall suffer persecution, not just the individual,
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but also the churches that are doing something for God.
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But the Bible promises the gates of hell
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will not prevail against that church.
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Look, this church has been protested.
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I mean, this church has had bank accounts shut down.
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I mean, it's like I always give the wrong location
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for this church.
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I always say, Hearst, Texas, you know,
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I'm living in the past.
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I mean, you were like all over the place,
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going from area to area, taking off YouTube,
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taking off all these social media platforms.
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I mean, there's persecution.
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There's a fight, but I look around
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and it seems like the church is still going strong.
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It seems like you're still soul winning.
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I mean, and the salvation numbers,
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let me just check here.
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Year to date, 6,698.
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I'm not sure if it's that state side here or is that?
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I mean, that is a lot of salvation.
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I mean, we're talking like 700 salvation per month.
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I mean, it seems like the gates of hell
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are not prevailing against it.
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But unfortunately, if you are a church
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that is doing something big for God,
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you are one of the few.
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And what that means is Satan will greatly attack
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those churches that are doing something big for God,
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because quite simply,
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there's just not a lot of great churches out there.
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And this is one of the great churches
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that exist in this world
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where there is gonna be a battle
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every single day until the end.
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Now go to your Bible to 1st Corinthians chapter 10.
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1st Corinthians chapter 10.
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Now look, a sermon like this
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is always important at a great church
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because honestly, great churches come
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and great churches go.
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There can be churches that are great churches
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and they last for a while
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and then they just fall apart.
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I mean, in fact, I believe my sending church was like that.
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I believe they were once a great church.
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I think they once really stood
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for their name Verity of Truth.
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But I wouldn't say that in 2026.
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Now the thing is that church still has a building.
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They still have people that show up,
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but they're not like they used to be.
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And the thing is there is only a small minority
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of truly great churches in this world.
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Now look, I'm thankful for all of the Baptist churches
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throughout the world that have a soul winning program
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and they do a little bit of soul winning every week
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and that's great.
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Because if I lived in that area,
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I'd be happy to have a church that was right on the gospel
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and I could join for soul winning.
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You know, there's a difference between, you know,
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seven or eight people out of a church
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this size going soul winning weekly
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versus most people going soul winning.
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There's a huge difference.
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It's not the same at all.
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There's truly a small group of great churches
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that exist in this world.
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The Bible says here in 1 Corinthians 10 verse 12,
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But God is faithful who will not suffer you to be tempted
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above that you are able,
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but will with the temptation also make a way to escape
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that you may be able to bear it.
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Now on the direct context,
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we're talking about the individual
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and the Bible is saying take heed lest ye fall
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because many people do fall.
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But you could also apply this to a church
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and you could say to a great church,
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hey, you know what?
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We've seen other great churches kind of fall apart.
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So take heed lest ye fall.
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Make sure that this church doesn't fall apart.
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Now the great thing about this
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is God does give us a template
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on what you need to do as a church
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to stay strong, to stay zealous
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and still be a great church five years from now,
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10 years from now, 20 years from now.
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The Bible actually tells us.
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Now go to Revelation chapter two, Revelation two.
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Now, you know, part of why I'm preaching this sermon
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is, you know, when I went to the Philippines,
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it was only a couple months after that
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that this church went through a pretty big trauma, right?
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I mean, there's just no other way to say it,
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but the old pastor was just with prostitutes
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and honestly, you probably know more details than me,
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but pretty major and grievous sins.
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Not just small sins, but major sins.
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And you know, here's the truth.
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Outwardly, everybody was trying to encourage
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this church to keep going,
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but you know what a lot of people were thinking,
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including myself?
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I don't know if this church is gonna last.
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I'm just being honest to you.
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I was like, I mean, is everyone just gonna move away
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from this church because it was so bad eight years ago?
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I mean, it was horrible.
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It's like, is this church even gonna last?
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And of course publicly, everyone's trying to encourage,
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but I'm just saying, this is what people thought
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about this church eight years ago.
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And so I wanna show you what the Bible actually says
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about what actually destroys a great church
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because that was major sin, major problems.
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And then afterwards, I mean, people are getting kicked
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out of this church left and right.
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It's like from an outsider's perspective,
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it's like, what is going on there?
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See, one thing you gotta understand
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is if a leader becomes very corrupt,
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that means there's gonna be a lot of issues
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within the church.
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And see, the one great thing this church did
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is actually just put all the information out there,
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hit rock bottom, don't hide anything, let it be known.
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You say, why?
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Because then you can start to rebuild.
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When churches hide information,
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it's just gonna make it a million times worse.
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You're never gonna recover.
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It's like, you can just hit rock bottom,
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it's embarrassing, it's horrible, just admit it,
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just let it out, and then you can start to rebuild.
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But unfortunately, a lot of churches don't do that.
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This church did it correctly
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and started the process of rebuilding.
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And honestly, I remember just being shocked years ago,
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it's like, whoa, the church is like twice as big.
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Cause honestly, I was not sure
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this church was actually gonna last back then.
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Now in Revelation chapters two and three,
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the Bible gives us seven different churches
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and five of these churches
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have at least one thing negative mentioned about them.
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These five things mentioned in Revelation chapters two and three
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can kind of be categorized in three different ways.
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Okay?
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And the first one is with the outward focus, okay?
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Referring to preaching the gospel
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and getting people saved.
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Here's what it says in Revelation two, verse one.
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On to the angel, the church of Ephesus, right.
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These things say,
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if he that holdeth the seven stars in his right hand
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who walketh in the midst of the seven golden candlesticks,
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I know thy works and thy labor and thy patience
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and how thou canst not bear them which are evil
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and thou has tried them which say they are apostles
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and are not and has found them liars
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and has borne and has patience
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and for my name's sake has labored and has not fainted.
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Now this is referring to a legitimate and real church
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and it's not just a legitimate and real church that existed
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but this is a good church.
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It's not a Pentecostal church.
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It's not a Catholic church.
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It's not a church preaching a work salvation.
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According to the Bible,
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this is a legitimate and bona fide church
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and it's not an old bad church.
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I mean, there's good things about it.
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He compliments it
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but then he's gonna criticize it in verse four.
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Nevertheless, I have somewhat against thee
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because thou has left thy first love.
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So he rebukes them for leaving their first love.
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You say, well, what's the first love?
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Well, verse five, remember therefore
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from whence thou art fallen and repent
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and do the first works
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or else I will come into thee quickly
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and will remove thy candlestick out of his place
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except thou repent.
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So the Bible mentions the first love in verse four
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and it mentions the first works in verse five.
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So there is a connection between the works and the love.
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Now look, when a church starts,
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it's often gonna start with very few people.
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Maybe the pastor and his family,
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maybe 15 people, maybe 20 people.
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So what do you have to do when a church starts?
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You have to go out and bring people in.
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Even churches that are not fundamental Baptist churches
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are gonna have some form of evangelism or outreach
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or whatever they call it to bring people in
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because they don't have members.
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And of course a church like this,
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I mean, they hit the ground running soul winning,
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soul winning, soul winning.
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You know, we started a church in Melbourne, Australia
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and we've been going for about four months
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and they had soul winning events before that going on.
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They're not a big church at this point,
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but they're at 152 salvations for the year so far.
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And of course, you know, Australia's not the Philippines
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but I'll tell you, man, they are dedicated out there
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and they're going soul winning every Saturday, every Sunday.
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I mean, they are hitting the ground running,
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doing whatever they can, going to malls,
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doing, going to parks, doing everything they can
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to preach the gospel.
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And the thing is when you see churches
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that maybe aren't as big as Steadfast Baptist Church
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or maybe are not as receptive of areas
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if they're zealous for soul winning,
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we're like, man, that church is awesome, isn't it?
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Right now, yeah.
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Because your love is shown by the works that you do.
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And what is the big work that comes to serving God
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and at a local church?
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It's going out and preaching the gospel.
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See what the Bible is saying about this church is
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they used to love soul winning,
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but they've left their first love.
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That doesn't necessarily mean
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that they don't have any soul winning at all.
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But it means it's no longer their first love.
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Do you understand the difference?
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Because a church can have a soul winning program every weekend,
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but their main focus is on the children's program,
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on Sunday school, on the Christian school,
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or on activities, or on the music ministry.
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I mean, there's plenty of Baptist churches
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that exist in the world.
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They have a soul winning program,
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and I'm thankful for that,
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but that's not their first focus.
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It's not their first love.
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They would pour their energy and time into other things,
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but not into soul winning.
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Look, you don't reach 6,000 plus salvation
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unless your first love is soul winning.
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And it's like other money this church has been blessed
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with this church is like, hey, you know what?
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Let's just support missionaries
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to get a lot of people saved.
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Why?
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Because the first love of this church
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is wrapped around the first works
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referring to soul winning.
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Go in your Bible to Matthew 28.
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Matthew 28.
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And I want you to understand a difference
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because I don't know,
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I feel like people just don't think about this sometimes,
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but people could compare two different churches.
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Church A and Church B, okay?
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And Church B would be steadfast in this example.
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And Church A is just a normal IFB church.
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And look, I've been IFB
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since before the new IFB existed.
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I got saved from someone from the IFB,
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so I have a lot of love for the IFB.
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And when I'm in town traveling or whatever,
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I will look for an IFB church to go to.
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And there's a lot of good churches in America.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Look, you go to other countries,
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there's just not a lot of adequate churches.
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There's not a lot of churches that are right on salvation.
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The Philippines is one of the most saturated countries
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with missionaries, but you know what?
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When you talk to our members,
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they'll say we can't find a church
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that's right on the Gospel in our area.
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It's crazy.
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But in America, this is really the one country I would say
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where there's solid churches anywhere you go.
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There's other churches.
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I'm sure in the Dallas, Fort Worth area,
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there are probably other churches that are solid
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and decent churches that are right on salvation
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and have a soul winning program.
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But the way I'm defining it,
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I wouldn't label that necessarily as a great church though.
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I do think the amount of great churches
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is a very small amount.
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And people say, well, you know,
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church A is a soul winning church
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and steadfast is a soul winning church.
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But church A is nice.
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They don't fight with anybody.
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They get along with everybody.
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They never preach against anyone.
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So therefore, both soul winning churches,
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church A is nicer,
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therefore A is greater than steadfast.
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Isn't that kind of the logic people use?
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But wait a minute,
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isn't there a difference between getting
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10 salvations in a month versus 500?
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Look, I'm thankful for the churches
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that get 10 salvations in a month.
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I think it's great.
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But let's not act like these things are equal or the same.
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There's a huge difference between going out
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and just spending your time on missions trips
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and supporting missionaries
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and soul winning every single week
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versus about an hour once a week on Saturdays,
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more focused on visitation
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than actually preaching the gospel.
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And look, if churches are super zealous on soul winning,
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even if they're wrong on a lot of doctrines,
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I say, hey, you know what?
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That's a soul winning church.
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Praise God for that.
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Because that is the number one sign
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we can see for a church.
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Is it a great church?
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How many people are they getting saved?
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Imagine you had a church that was right on the rapture,
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right on all end times prophecy,
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against Zionism, right on everything.
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But they didn't really do any soul winning.
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Is that a good church?
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No, and in many ways that might be a really bad church
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because it's gonna gather together
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a lot of people that love God to do nothing.
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See the number one most important thing
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is going out and getting people saved.
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And what the Bible said is
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your first love and first works are connected.
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So who are the greatest churches in the world?
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The ones doing the most work.
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Who are the greatest Christians in the world?
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The ones doing the most work.
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Who has the most love?
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The ones that are doing the most work.
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And the problem in Revelation two,
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this church, it's not a bad church,
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but it's lost its first love.
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It's lost its main focus.
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This can happen for a lot of different reasons.
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One reason is simply because as time goes,
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your church grows and you know,
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you start just putting focus on other things you never did.
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And then all of a sudden,
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your focus is no longer on the first works.
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Or churches can backslide.
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I mean, whatever, there's a lot of different reasons.
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But what the Bible's saying is,
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hey, your outward focus is the number one thing
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you gotta make sure is correct.
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It's the most important thing.
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It's the first thing mentioned in Revelation chapter two,
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leaving your first works, leaving your first love.
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Bible says in Matthew 28, verse 18.
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Now here the Bible speaks about teaching all nations.
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Now when this was written,
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the idea of a missions trip was pretty different
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than it is today.
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I think the primary application here
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is getting churches started.
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And of course, we want great churches started
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all throughout the world.
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But in our modern day,
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we can reach all nations via different methods.
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You reach it via social media.
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You reach it via OM or however you pronounce that TV.
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OM, OME, OME, I don't really know,
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but you reach it via doing missions trips.
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Right, I mean, there's many ways that you can reach.
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But what the Bible's saying is that,
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hey, you know what, all of us, every church,
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every person, our focus ought to be to go out
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and get people saved.
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Go to Mark 16, Mark 16.
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Bible says here in verse number 15,
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and he said onto them,
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go ye into all the world
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and preach the gospel to every creature.
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And the Bible says,
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hey, you know what, first go ye, ye being plural.
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This is a command given to every single Christian,
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every single saved person in the world.
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Now look, are there rare exceptions
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where people might have health situations
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and they cannot go out soul winning?
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Yeah, absolutely.
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You know, we have people at our church that are elderly
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and the idea of them going out for hours
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is not really something that they're gonna be able to do.
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And you know, obviously there's exceptions,
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but look, those are exceptions.
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Most of us in this room looking around,
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you have the health to go out and preach the gospel.
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You have the ability to go out and preach the gospel
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and get people saved.
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And the Bible's saying, hey, go ye into all the world
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and preach the gospel to every creature.
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You say, well pastor,
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when can I retire from soul winning?
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Well, I mean, you can retire
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when every single person has heard
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a clear presentation of the gospel.
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No, this church has reached a lot of people,
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but do you honestly believe
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that everybody in this area has heard the gospel?
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And look, I would say keep going soul winning
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until everybody saved, which is never gonna happen,
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but at least looking at this verse,
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until every single creature,
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every single person has heard the gospel.
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And until that happens, we're not done.
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Then the Bible says in verse 16,
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he that believeth in his baptized shall be damned,
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but he that believeth not,
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or he that believeth in his baptized shall be saved,
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my bad, accidental heresy coming out.
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He that believeth in his baptized shall be saved,
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but he that believeth not shall be damned.
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Now, a lot of times people can get confused by this verse.
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Obviously people that believe in baptismal regeneration
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would use this verse.
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Well, notice, it does, I mean,
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the Bible says he that believeth in his baptized
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shall be saved.
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The thing that damns you is not believing,
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it says at the end of the verse.
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It could literally say he that believeth in his baptized
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and goes to McDonald's later today
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and reads the Bible 50 times shall be saved.
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That's not a false statement,
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but that's not saying you have to do all of those things
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in order to be saved.
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So the question would be,
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why does Jesus word it this way?
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Cause it is a bit different, right?
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And I believe the reason why is,
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number one, he's not trying to teach his closest followers
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how to get to heaven.
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They already know it.
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I'm not coming here today preaching a salvation sermon.
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I assume you already know that.
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I assume you're already saved.
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What he's doing is reminding them,
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hey, you know what, let's get him saved and baptized.
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Let's bring them in, why?
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Because you want a church like this
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to not just be 200 people or 300 or 400,
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but just grow and grow and grow and grow.
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And honestly, that's something all of us can be reminded of
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because when we go soul winning,
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it's hard to bring people in.
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It takes effort.
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It takes energy.
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It's not easy.
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Now, the great news about this
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is we're not doing this in our own power.
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It says in verse 20,
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and they went forth and preached everywhere,
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the Lord working, notice this, with them.
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See, the Bible says that when you go soul winning,
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the Lord works with you.
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And look, a lot of people would be offended by this,
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but the Lord does not work without us though.
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The Lord works with us.
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God doesn't get anybody saved
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without us going out preaching the gospel.
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We go out, we don't get anybody saved in our own power,
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but you know what, God's not gonna get anybody saved
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without us going out and preaching the gospel.
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He's given to us the ministry of reconciliation.
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It is our job to go out and preach the gospel
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and get people saved.
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And when we do that, the Lord works with us.
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Go to Acts chapter one, Acts one.
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Why didn't this church fall apart eight years ago?
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Because this church stayed very zealous with soul winning.
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The one thing that I am thankful for about this church,
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even with all those problems,
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there was definitely a soul winning attitude
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at this church though.
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You know, when I visited, it seemed like people
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were really into preaching the gospel and going soul winning.
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But it's like, here's the thing,
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if this church had stopped going soul winning
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or stopped making it the main focus,
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this church would have fallen apart.
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Now it doesn't mean that it wouldn't exist.
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I mean, you could have a church
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where the sign and the name
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is just not accurate for the church,
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like I don't know, Verity or whatever.
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I mean, you could have been called steadfast
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and not have really been steadfast.
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There could have been 30 people showing up
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or 40 people showing up,
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but you know what, it wouldn't have been the same
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as what you have today.
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Bible says here in Acts one, verse six,
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when they therefore were come together,
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they asked of him saying, Lord,
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will thou at this time restore again the kingdom to,
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will thou at this time restore again the kingdom to Israel?
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And he said unto them,
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it is not for you to know the times or the seasons
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which the Father hath put in his own power,
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but ye shall receive power
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after that the Holy Ghost has come upon you,
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and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem
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and in all Judea and in Samaria
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and on to the uttermost part of the earth.
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That Jerusalem here, though it is literally Jerusalem,
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the application to a local church is the Cedar Hill area
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or Dallas Fort Worth, all the surrounding areas.
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That's kind of your Jerusalem that you're trying to reach
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that is in driving distance, preaching the gospel.
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And then it mentions in all Judea.
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So even outside of just this local area,
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you could think of all of Texas, right?
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Maybe you have soul winning events,
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you go to trips and get people saved
-
and somewhere else in Texas and in Samaria,
-
you could think of the US
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and on to the uttermost part of the earth,
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it's everywhere.
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Now, obviously one church cannot fulfill this.
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This church alone could not do that.
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The only way this happens is if we do get churches
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started in a lot of locations
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and of course in the modern day,
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you do missions trips to what was at Barbados,
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just a week ago or whatever, Mexico City,
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in the last month or so, something like that.
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And so you do these things to reach people
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and you just kind of slowly spread out.
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Look, these are the final words of Jesus
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before he goes up to heaven.
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Imagine you were saying your final words,
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passing on information to your kids.
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Whatever you say is gonna be what you consider
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to be the most important thing.
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I mean, have you ever been with somebody
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on their deathbed before, maybe a relative?
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It's like they are putting out information
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that they consider really important.
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One of my greatest memories of my life
-
is just a couple years ago,
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I got to be with my dad just right before he passed away
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and just my dad was just giving me valuable information
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and just sharing things with me
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cause he was mentally, completely there.
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And it's like when somebody is on their deathbed,
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they're passing on what they consider to be
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the most important information that there is.
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So what is the information that Jesus passes on?
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Preach the gospel, get people saved.
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I mean, it's really that simple.
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Go out, preach the gospel and get people saved.
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Go back to your Bible to Revelation chapter two.
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Now here's the thing about this.
-
IFB churches, pretty much every single one of them
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would claim that their main focus is to get people saved.
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Well, your actions don't really bear that out.
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It doesn't seem like that's really what you believe
-
because you're not doing that.
-
But see, they get this mindset, well, wait a minute,
-
we kind of have this roundabout system
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where if we start a Christian school,
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if we start a Bible college in a roundabout way,
-
we'll end up getting more salvations
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than just by going out every week
-
and zealously preaching the gospel.
-
That's what they believe.
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It seems like what they believe.
-
Now what I believe is by and large,
-
they're too lazy to go soul winning.
-
And so they kind of have this excuse,
-
well, this is just our method to reach people.
-
But we do have a soul winning program.
-
We do have a visitation schedule on Saturday
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where you can preach the gospel.
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Look, I'm thankful for those churches that do that,
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but 10 salvations a month is not that many.
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I mean, look, our church in Australia is not a big church.
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They're in the 20s or 30s on a normal Sunday.
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152 salvations, you know what that's called?
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A lot of soul winning, a lot of work.
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I mean, all the churches that you can think of,
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new IFB churches, and some are smaller,
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but they're getting a lot of people saved.
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If you say, how?
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Because they're zealously preaching the gospel.
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That's why.
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Yet a lot of churches, they go soul winning,
-
but you can't really say that that is
-
the first love of the church.
-
It's not the main focus or the main purpose of the church.
-
Number one is when you lose your outward focus,
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that will destroy the church.
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It might still exist in name,
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but it's not gonna be the same.
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And actually go to 2nd Timothy chapter two,
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2nd Timothy two.
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Number two though, is your inward focus.
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And as a church, you need a strong inward focus
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of hard preaching, the right doctrine,
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dealing with issues and problems,
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kicking people out when necessary.
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To be strong outwardly, you need to be strong inwardly.
-
Here's what it says in 2nd Timothy chapter two, verse 20.
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2nd Timothy chapter two, verse 20.
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But in a great house, there are not only vessels
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of golden of silver, but also of wooden of earth,
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and some to honor, and some to dishonor.
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If, if a man therefore purge himself from these,
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he shall be a vessel unto honor,
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sanctified in meat for the master's use,
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and prepared on to every good work.
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So if you want your first love
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and the first works to match up,
-
it's not just focusing on the outside,
-
you need to have a strong inward part as well.
-
Now look, this is true as an individual.
-
It's also true as a church.
-
I remember when I first started going soul winning,
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and I knew that I needed to talk to people
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about the gospel.
-
But you know, I was a college student.
-
I had a lot of issues in my life, you know,
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by no means was I a super zealous Christian.
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And I started to preach the gospel,
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and I just thought to myself, you know,
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man, I don't really have any boldness.
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I'm not doing a great job.
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And I just came to the realization that, you know what,
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if I was more right with God,
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then I would be more effective.
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So I was like, man, I don't really want to stop
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watching these movies.
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I don't really want to stop listening to this music,
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but I want to get people saved.
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And so going soul winning is what changed me.
-
See, a lot of people have this attitude,
-
you know what, I'm going to be a zealous soul winner
-
when I feel like it, when I'm spiritual,
-
or I'll start reading the Bible every single day
-
once I reach that point.
-
But here's why that's wrong,
-
because your emotions follow your actions.
-
Got these churches or people that will say,
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just follow your heart.
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That's about the worst advice you could ever give somebody.
-
What in the world, man?
-
A lot of people marry a bunch of idiots and bozos
-
because they're following their heart.
-
They've watched too many Hollywood movies
-
like the notebook or whatever the recent ones are.
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And then people could be married
-
and they just follow their heart to getting a divorce.
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And then they got their friends just cheerleading them
-
saying, man, you know, dump that zero,
-
get yourself a hero.
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Just as garbage.
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Why? Because people are following their emotions.
-
They're following their hearts.
-
And see, by going soul winning and just doing it,
-
that's what changed me.
-
You might be in this room today
-
and you're not an avid soul winner or you've never gone.
-
Well, here's the thing.
-
Instead of waiting to feel like it, just do it
-
and that will change you.
-
But the Bible is showing you to be effective.
-
You need, be effective outward.
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You need to have a strong inward.
-
Here's what it says in Revelation 2, verse 12.
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Revelation chapter two, verse 12.
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And in the angel of the church in Pergamos, right,
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these things sayeth he which hath the sharp sword
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with two edges, I know thy works and where thou dwellest,
-
even where Satan's seed is, and thou holdest fast my name
-
and hast not denied my faith, even in those days wherein
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Antipas was my faithful martyr who was slain among you,
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where Satan dwelleth.
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But I have a few things against thee,
-
because thou hast there them that hold the doctrine
-
of Balaam, who taught Baelic to cast a stumbling block
-
before the children of Israel,
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to eat things sacrificed unto idols
-
and to commit fornication.
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See what God is saying here, here's a church
-
and they're allowing false doctrine
-
to just creep into the church
-
and nothing's being done about it.
-
Now the thing is, you're welcome to attend a church
-
and have different beliefs, but once you cross that line
-
and you start trying to teach your beliefs
-
to people at church against what the church is teaching,
-
you've overstepped your bounds.
-
It's not like at this church,
-
you must believe in a post-trib rapture to attend.
-
But if you're attending the church,
-
you can't teach your other version of the rapture
-
against what the church is teaching.
-
And what's happening in this church is
-
they're allowing this doctrine of Balaam
-
to permeate the church.
-
And here's the reality about most Baptist churches,
-
they never deal with any problems, ever.
-
They never kick anybody out of church, ever.
-
Look, I wish, I wish you could operate a church
-
zealously soul winning and never kick anybody out
-
and never have to rebuke people,
-
rebuke false doctrine or deal with problems.
-
Let me tell you something, as a pastor,
-
you have a lot of issues when you run a church.
-
And the thing is, every single church will have issues.
-
Here's the difference.
-
Some churches will just admit it and deal with it
-
and some will just cover it up.
-
I mean, how many churches are there
-
where there's pedophilia going on in the churches?
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And they don't tell anybody about it.
-
They don't make it known.
-
It's like, man, if somebody gets kicked out of the church
-
for some massive and grievous sin,
-
why would you not warn people?
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Because you're embarrassed about it.
-
You wanna keep your reputation.
-
It's like just admit it, what took place,
-
but churches don't do this.
-
And churches will allow people to be at the churches
-
and teach doctrines opposite of the church,
-
but they don't kick them out.
-
They don't deal with it.
-
Look, I've been at churches before
-
where during soul winning time, the pastor pairs you up
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and you might get paired up with someone
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that believes salvation by grace through faith.
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You might get paired up with someone
-
that believes repentance of sins for salvation.
-
It's a disaster.
-
And of course, you know, you're trying to be,
-
I mean, it's the best church in the area.
-
You're trying to be a blessing.
-
You don't wanna cause problems.
-
You wanna motivate people to go soul winning.
-
It's kind of a rock and a hard place.
-
I honestly don't even know what the best advice is.
-
I mean, at my old church that I went to a while back,
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you know, in West Virginia,
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there was a guy that grew up at the church
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and he was the piano player.
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And it was obvious from a country mile away
-
that the guy was a homo.
-
I mean, it was super, super obvious.
-
I mean, when we had people that visited the church,
-
that's like the first thing they would look at me and say,
-
you know, is that person a homo?
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And I'm like,
-
I mean, you could tell just based on his profile picture
-
on Facebook.
-
I mean, it was super obvious.
-
And I talked to the pastor about it several times
-
because I got paired up with the guy soul winning before
-
and I put up with it a couple of times
-
and you know, I told the assistant pastor,
-
I said, hey, you know what?
-
Next time I need to be in a group of three.
-
It's like, I don't wanna be alone with this guy.
-
I was giving the guy a ride because he was a teenager
-
and it's just like, I don't wanna be alone.
-
It's like, you can pair me up in a group of three.
-
I don't wanna be alone with the guy.
-
And I talked to the pastor about it
-
and honestly, just see, just see, just see, just see,
-
just see, just see, just see.
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Nothing was done about it.
-
The guy's no longer the church
-
and he's come out as an obvious homo.
-
It's like, well, that's not a shock.
-
I mean, there's one time.
-
I mean, I was going soul winning
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with his father at the church.
-
And his father was kind of sympathetic to the homos.
-
Even though he didn't think his son was a homo,
-
but secretly he probably realized my son's a homo.
-
And so we were at the door.
-
I'm the silent partner and it's obvious to me
-
that the guy at the door is a homo.
-
He's clearly a fag.
-
He's clearly a queer.
-
It's super obvious to look at him.
-
And then of course he asked the question,
-
well, what about homosexuals?
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What happens to them?
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And I'm the silent partner.
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I'm not trying to cause problems.
-
And the father who actually has a homo as a son,
-
he kind of gave an answer and he said,
-
about how anyone can believe on Christ and get saved.
-
And he's like, that's the way that I stand on it.
-
But brother Matthew over here,
-
he has a different opinion about the homos.
-
Why don't you tell them your opinion?
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I'm like, what in the world?
-
And so of course I'm not ready for this question.
-
I'm not trying to cause World War III
-
at our local church.
-
And I just said, well, there's no example
-
in the Bible of a homosexual going to heaven.
-
And I just left it at that.
-
I was like, I don't know what else to say in this situation.
-
I mean, I've had 15 years to think about it.
-
I still don't know what I would have said.
-
It's like it is what it is.
-
But see, the thing is churches will have issues at them,
-
but they don't deal with them.
-
They will have doctrines come to the church
-
and people are gonna be teaching other doctrines.
-
They don't say anything about it.
-
Other churches just let it be known and deal with it.
-
And then from an outsider's perspective,
-
you look at that church like, what is wrong with that church?
-
They're kicking out people left and right.
-
The difference is other churches
-
just aren't kicking people out
-
when doctrines of Balaam and false doctrines are being taught.
-
Bible says here in verse 15,
-
So has though also them that hold the doctrine
-
of the Nicoladians, which thing I hate.
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Repent or else I will come into thee quickly
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and we'll fight against them with the sword of my mouth.
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So we see that the issue in the church in Purgamos
-
is they're not dealing with the issues on the inside.
-
Verse 18, we also see this with the church in Thyatira.
-
And under the angel of the church in Thyatira right,
-
these things say at the Son of God
-
who hath his eyes like unto a flame of fire
-
and his feet are like fine brass.
-
I know thy works and charity and service and faith
-
and thy patience and thy works
-
and the last to be more than the first.
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Notwithstanding, I have a few things against thee
-
because thou suffers that woman Jezebel
-
which calleth herself a prophetess
-
to teach and to seduce my servants
-
to commit fornication
-
and to eat things sacrificed on idols.
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And I gave her space to repent of her fornication
-
and she repented not.
-
Behold, I'll cast her into a bed
-
and them that commit adultery with her
-
into great tribulation except they repent of their deeds
-
and I'll kill their children with death
-
and all the churches shall know
-
that I am he which searches the reins and hearts
-
and I'll give unto every one of you according to your works.
-
See, the Bible mentions this woman here
-
in Revelation 2, this Jezebel
-
who's just teaching to commit fornication
-
and to eat things sacrificed on the idols.
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And look, in many churches throughout the US and the world
-
there's women inside the church that are running that church.
-
They're letting it be known how things are gonna go.
-
They're going out and giving their opinions.
-
Look, the Bible says it's one person that leads a church.
-
It's a man and look, women going in
-
and just teaching things opposite of what the church teaches
-
that has to be dealt with.
-
But from the looks of it online
-
a lot of churches don't deal with it.
-
They just let anything take place.
-
Now there's a lot of topics in terms of problems
-
inside a church I could focus on.
-
Go to Matthew 5, let me show you here the first one.
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And I'm just gonna show you things
-
that I see as issues in 2026.
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One of them is justifying divorce.
-
Because the Bible mentions idolatry.
-
Quite honestly, this is not the Philippines.
-
There's just not a whole lot of idolatry in America
-
compared to other countries.
-
It's like whenever you hear people
-
preaching idolatry in the US
-
it's often the symbolic idolatry, the idols of the heart.
-
It's like, you know, in the Philippines
-
and in some other countries in the world
-
you got bigger issues than the idols of the heart.
-
You got literal idols everywhere.
-
So let's make it more applicable
-
because there's not idols around every corner here in Texas.
-
Right?
-
But there are pastors justifying divorce
-
around every corner in Texas.
-
Here's what it says in Matthew 5, verse 31.
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It has been said,
-
whosoever shall put away his wife
-
let him give her a writing of divorcement.
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But I say in you that whosoever shall put away
-
his wife saving for the cause of fornication
-
causeth her to commit adultery
-
and whosoever shall marry her
-
that his divorce committed adultery.
-
Now notice in this verse
-
there's two different words mentioned.
-
Fornication and adultery.
-
It stands to reason if they were the same
-
it would just use the same word.
-
But it doesn't.
-
Because fornication is what you do before you're married
-
and adultery is after.
-
So the Bible's saying you can get a divorce
-
except for fornication.
-
What it's saying is kind of like the example
-
of Joseph in the Bible.
-
Where basically he's getting married
-
and he finds out that Mary's not pure.
-
And it's like, well, wait a minute.
-
It's like, you know,
-
this is the woman that I want to spend my life with
-
and she's not pure.
-
I mean, she slept with someone because she's pregnant
-
and he says I want to get a divorce.
-
See that would be except to be for fornication.
-
But see, after you're married,
-
if adultery takes place, say pastor,
-
can you get a divorce if your spouse cheats on you?
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No.
-
And look, don't make a railing accusation
-
that I am justifying adultery.
-
It's not justifying adultery,
-
but the fact is you don't divorce
-
for adultery taking place.
-
You stay married according to the Bible.
-
And the reason you have to preach this hard
-
is because many marriages have a lot of problems.
-
Many marriages have a mess.
-
Many marriages have adultery taking place.
-
And then of course, you know what people do?
-
They go from adultery and then they lessen that any form.
-
You know, if you looked at something dirty online,
-
you committed adultery in your heart.
-
So you committed adultery,
-
therefore you can get a divorce.
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It's like, no, the Bible says except to be
-
for fornication.
-
Now go in your Bible to Judges 14.
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Judges 14.
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But honestly, I feel like a bigger problem in 2026
-
than justifying divorce is justifying separation.
-
Because the thing is, if you suggest to someone
-
or say it's okay to get separated,
-
you know what that is?
-
You can pretend like you didn't tell them to get divorced,
-
but you know what's gonna take place
-
six months down the line.
-
They are going to get divorced.
-
Look, every marriage in this world has difficulties.
-
I love my wife.
-
I have a great marriage.
-
I'm blessed with the wife and the kids God gave me,
-
but I would be lying if I said my wife
-
and I have never had fights, never had problems.
-
I'd be lying if I said everything is just perfect
-
all the time.
-
That's not the way marriage works.
-
But when you get married, it's for better or worse.
-
And look, how many things do you have to add after
-
for better or worse?
-
In sickness and health?
-
Rich or poor?
-
I mean, how many things do you have to add
-
until you say, okay, it's forever?
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No matter what, you do not get divorced.
-
And when you justify separation,
-
it is just going down the line of getting divorced.
-
Look, there's a lot of verses that have been used
-
to talk about this idea of separation.
-
Let me just show you stories.
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And look, I understand stories
-
are more circumstantial evidence,
-
but I'm not sure if they've necessarily been preached
-
as much.
-
Let's just see a few examples of marriages
-
where they separate and let's see what happens.
-
The first example is with Samson.
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Judges 14 verse 15.
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And it came to pass in the seventh day
-
that they said unto Samson's wife,
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entice thy husband that he may declare unto us the riddle,
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lest we burn thee and thy father's house with fire.
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Have he called us to take that we have?
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Is it not so?
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And Samson's wife wept before him and said,
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thou dost but hate me and love us me not.
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Thou hast put forth a riddle unto the children of my people
-
and hast not told to me.
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And he said unto her, behold,
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I have not told it my father nor my mother,
-
and shall I tell it thee?
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Now look, this story does not make Samson
-
look very good.
-
He's like, man, if I didn't tell my mom
-
and my dad this riddle, why would I tell my wife?
-
I mean, that's what he says.
-
It's kind of like, wait a minute.
-
I thought when you got married, two became one
-
and the closest person in this world ought to be your spouse.
-
But he says, if I didn't tell my mom and the dad the riddle,
-
why would I tell you?
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Look, there's already problems in this marriage, okay?
-
Verse 17.
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And she wept before him the seven days
-
while their feast lasted.
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And it came to pass in the seventh day that he told her
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because she lay sore upon him
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and she told the riddle to the children of her people.
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And the men of the city said unto him
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the seventh day before the sun went down,
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what is sweeter than honey
-
and what is stronger than a lion?
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And he said unto them,
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if you had not plowed with my heifer,
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you'd not found out my riddle.
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That's probably more marriage advice there.
-
Don't call your wife an animal.
-
Probably not the best thing.
-
So he's like, I care about my mom and my dad
-
more than my wife, calls his wife after an animal,
-
and then it says in verse 19,
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and the spirit of the Lord came upon him
-
and he went down to Escalon and slew 30 men of them
-
and took their spoil and gave changes of garments onto them
-
which expounded the riddle and his anger was kindled
-
and he went up to his father's house.
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Translation, he went home to cry to his dad about it.
-
Right?
-
Now usually we think of the wife going home to mom
-
and dad to cry about it, because that's more common.
-
In this story though, the strongest man,
-
when it says he went up to his father's house,
-
is saying he went home to cry and complain
-
about it to his parents.
-
But Samson's wife was given to his companion
-
whom he had used as his friend.
-
Now look, what happens in the story is,
-
it's a bad marriage, he shouldn't have married her,
-
but they did get married.
-
What happens, they separate.
-
Doesn't tell us how long,
-
but it's to the point that her father
-
gives his daughter onto somebody else.
-
Look, everybody in the story is bad.
-
Every single one handled everything horribly.
-
And look, this is circumstantial,
-
but you're seeing a story where they separate during problems
-
which everybody has in marriages
-
and what ends up taking place.
-
Well, chapter 15, verse one came to pass
-
within a while after in the time of wheat harvest
-
that Samson visited his wife and the kid
-
and he said, I will go into my wife into the chamber,
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but her father would not suffer him to go in.
-
And her father said, I barely thought
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that thou had us utterly hated her,
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therefore I gave her to thy companion.
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Is not her younger sister fairer than she?
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Take her, I pray, instead of her.
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I mean, this is pretty wild.
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You read stories in the Bible
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and it's like, man, some of these cultures
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and some of these people, it's like, it's pretty crazy.
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It's like, well, if you liked her,
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then you're gonna like her younger sister, right?
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She's more attractive, the younger sister's fairer.
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It's like, okay.
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Verse six, then the Philistines said,
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who have done this?
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And they answered, Samson, the son-in-law of the Timnite,
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because he had taken his wife and given her to his companion.
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And the Philistines came up
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and burnt her and her father with fire.
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For circumstantial evidence,
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does it seem like separation worked out very well
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for Samson and his wife?
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Did they come back stronger than ever?
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Did a couple months away from each other
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just fix all the problems?
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No, it seems like it's a million times worse.
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And the other story you could look at
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that I'm not going to for sake of time
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is in my opinion, probably the worst chapter
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in terms of just worse than Genesis 19,
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Judges 19 is pretty violent.
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It's crazy.
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I mean, Judges chapter 19,
Judges 19 chapter mention
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it's like she gets attacked by a bunch of sodomites,
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bisexual, LGBT throughout the night and ends up dying.
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But how did that start?
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It started because she left her husband.
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So the two stories that we see here of separation
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did it in well.
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So why would you think,
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besides the verses that tell you not to separate,
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why would you think separating from your spouse
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would end up making things better?
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Doesn't seem to do that in the Bible.
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Now go in your Bible to Proverbs 22.
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Proverbs 22.
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Look, it sucks that a lot of people have miserable marriages,
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but it doesn't change the fact
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that you made a vow to God forever.
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That's what the Bible says.
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You get married and you stay married.
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Now again, if there are some people that get married
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and they want to keep the marriage going
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and then their spouse leaves the marriage
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and they can't do anything about that.
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But what the Bible teaches is you get married,
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you stay married and if it doesn't work out
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and they leave you, you got to stay single
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as long as that person is alive.
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Quite honestly, this is an issue
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that's actually pretty big in the Philippines
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because it is the only country in the world,
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unless you consider Vatican City a country,
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where divorce is illegal.
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And I used to think that was a good thing,
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but honestly it just leads to a lot of problems.
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Why?
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Because people will separate
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and just be living with someone else.
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It's like, well, we're not legally divorced,
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but we've made an agreement.
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Well, I'm sorry, but I don't remember
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God okaying your agreement.
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Now the good thing is I have gone to church members
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that were in that situation.
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I told them, you got to end this
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because you're legally married
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and they did end it and they're great members of this day.
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But I've also had the other happen.
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People that were nice people
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and look, it's very common in the Philippines
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so it doesn't feel bad to people
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where basically they separate,
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they can't legally divorce.
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And so there's something in the Philippines,
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there's an annulment,
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but it's not really the exact same thing here.
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And to get an annulment, it's just very expensive.
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So what happens is when celebrities get married,
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they get married in other countries
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so they can legally divorce.
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Filipino celebrities will often get married
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in America or other countries,
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simply so they have the option
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to get divorced down the road.
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But to the common person,
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they don't have the money for an annulment.
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I don't know the exact price
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but we're probably talking more than $20,000.
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It's not something that the average person over there
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can really pay for.
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So basically an annulment in the Philippines
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is pretty similar to a divorce here
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even though it's called an annulment.
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And so what takes place is people get married,
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their marriage is a mess,
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they leave each other
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and then they both hook up with somebody else.
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And often people will say that they're divorced.
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It's like, no man, you're not really divorced.
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I know you made an agreement
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but you're legally married.
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And of course nobody's justifying divorce
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but at least if you get divorced and remarried
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it's not something that's perpetual living in adultery
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with the person that you're staying with.
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And so unfortunately there'll be people
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that are living in open adultery
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and it's like I've had to come to them
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and look, people that were nice people,
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people that are even soul winners
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that said, hey, this is what the Bible says.
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It's like you can't be at our church if you're doing this.
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It's like you have one week to get this figured out.
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You have to end this.
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And of course if somebody's already living with someone
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they don't normally end it.
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They end up sticking with that person.
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But there's no grounds for divorce.
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There's no grounds for separation
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and plenty of these people in this world
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have bad marriages but you know what?
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You get married, you stay married.
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And here's the great thing though.
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When you invest time and energy into something
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you know what normally takes place?
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It normally gets better.
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Look, the first couple years of marriage
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are generally pretty difficult for people.
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You get married to someone
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and look, you got two sinners that are together
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all the time and it's like guess what?
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Your personalities will get on each other's nerves
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sometimes.
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And look, if you had a pastor justifying divorce
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during those times you could easily leave
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that person during a down moment
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when if you would just wait it out
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it would get a million times better.
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And so no, there's no grounds for divorce,
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no grounds for separation.
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Something I have in my notes but you know
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not really going into too much is just this general idea
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of taking away the authority from the father
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when it comes to somebody getting married.
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I'm thankful that I have the authority
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when it comes to my daughter getting married
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who is still very young.
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You know why?
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Because I see a lot of women making stupid
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emotional decisions when they're in love
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at the age of 18, 19, 20 years old.
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A lot of people get married to bozos and idiots
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and you want if they had a godly father
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and they listen to their father
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their father would be like hey no
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this is not the right person
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and God gave you a mom and a dad for a reason.
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And yes, fathers do have the right to say no
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that is not the person to marry.
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It's not a good person.
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You know one of the big things I see
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is attacking spanking in 2026.
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Here's what it says in Proverbs 22 verse 15.
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Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child
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but the rod of correction might drive it from him.
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Is that what your Bible says?
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The rod of correction used once every six months
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but not to the point where it hurts them
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shall drive it far from him.
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Is that what the Bible says?
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The Bible just clearly says you know what
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your child is foolish, they need a spanking.
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They need the rod of correction.
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Now I don't necessarily think it matters
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what you use to spank.
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I mean obviously for men we're a lot stronger
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than our wives so I use my hand to spank my kids
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but I know with wives with my wife
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sometimes just having an actual object is helpful
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because the fact she's not as strong as me.
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And so that object can put the fear into those kids
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where it's like once they see that spoon or whatever
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they're just like I'm sorry, let me make it right
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because they're afraid.
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They don't wanna get spanked.
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The Bible is very clear here that guess what?
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You know when you're raising your kids
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when they act bad you need to spank them.
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Now it's crazy to me because when it came
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to just our church getting things taken offline
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the biggest reason I've had videos taken down
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is just things about spanking.
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I couldn't believe it I was like what in the world?
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It's like they got very offended when it's like
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I mentioned a story when I was a kid
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and I was acting up at church and I said
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my dad took me out and gave me the worst beating
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I've ever had in my life.
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And then it's taken down off Facebook,
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taken down off YouTube.
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It's like this is like hate speech or whatever they said
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it's just like the Bible says beat them with a rod.
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And obviously the way people use that today
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might be different but it's like yeah
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my dad gave me a pretty bad spanking.
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It hurt.
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And I said you know what?
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I never disobeyed again.
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Ever since that day you know what?
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And look I grew up in a Protestant church
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so it's pretty boring.
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You know it's kind of like Catholic light you know?
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But it's like I was sitting in church you know
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and I was bored you know I wasn't saved
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and you know obviously the church is just
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you know not that exciting right?
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And so I remember I was just
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I don't remember this I just remember the spanking
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but I guess I was acting up
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and just making noise or whatever.
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And of course you know in a Protestant church
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or a Catholic church it's super quiet.
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There's no noise at all.
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So just acting up a little bit was making noise.
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My dad took me outside during the service
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and gave me a real beating.
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Gave me a real spanking.
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Man I'm thankful I had a dad that did
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what only a very small minority of dads would do.
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Because you know most parents that I see
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when they deal with these issues
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and all of us deal with it you know what they do
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they just you know try the candy solution.
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Or try whatever.
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And it's like I'm not saying every single time
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your kids act up you immediately spank them
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that's your decision to make with your kids.
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I'm not their parent you are.
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But I am saying you see a lot of times
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where parents you wonder do they ever spank their kids.
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Or they give spankings but it doesn't hurt the child.
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So it's like what are you doing?
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It's like you know you're it's just like
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if you're not causing any pain why would that stop them
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from acting up.
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Look folks when you spank your kids guess what?
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They're not gonna die as the Bible says.
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You spank them it doesn't kill them.
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But it should hurt them.
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And I get it your kids will cry
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like it's the worst thing ever.
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And yet two minutes later they're running around
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like nothing happened is that not true?
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And look if you give in to your kids
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you're basically teaching them
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hey every time you don't get your way
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just cry about it, whine about it
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and then nothing will happen.
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It's crazy but see the Bible says
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hey you know what your kids act up
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they need the rod of correction.
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Got a first Corinthians five, first Corinthians five.
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You know one of the big issues with churches
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is they don't practice church discipline.
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Their church becomes a mess it'll be filled full of
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railers and bad people and people teaching other doctrines
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and they never kick anybody out for any reason
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no matter what.
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First Corinthians five verse six
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your glorying is not good know you not
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that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump.
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See the Bible saying here in first Corinthians five
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when you got problems at the church
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it's gonna spread like a cancer.
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It's gonna spread like a virus.
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Look when you have churches that start getting filled
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full of railers eventually everybody at that church
-
becomes like that and nothing's done about it
-
and so it just gets worse and worse and worse and worse.
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And the problem is our end goal is to get people saved
-
but here's the thing if you don't fix things
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on the inside of the church that will affect
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your ability to get people saved
-
and it will drastically decrease how many people
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you end up getting saved over time.
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Go to your Bible to Revelation three, Revelation three.
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Why did this church last eight years ago
-
when it went through the transition?
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Because your pastor was willing to kick people out.
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He wasn't hiding all the issues at the church
-
and quite honestly there were a lot of weirdos
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at this church at the time.
-
And it's not like I knew them that well
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but just from the things they posted online
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it's like what in the world kind of people are here.
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I mean it's like the church had grown
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there's people at the church
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and look there's people that are here
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that were there then and you're great people,
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great members and you love God.
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Yeah there's also a lot of weirdos at the church.
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A lot of weird people.
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And the thing is if you don't deal with those problems
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and not even just weirdos at the church
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just bad people at the church.
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You say what do you do?
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You gotta get rid of them.
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It would have been very easy for your pastor
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to just give an okay to the evangelist
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because that's really embarrassing
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that the evangelist turns out to be bad.
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And just biologists ordain you
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and just your own separate thing and just cover it up.
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Isn't that probably what most churches would do?
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Look you must deal with the problems on the inside.
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Point number one you see in Revelation chapters two
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and three is just losing your outward focus.
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Point number two is losing the inward focus.
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But point three is losing your upward focus.
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And I think that the Bible designed these churches
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in this way so we can kind of remember it,
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the outward, the inward, the upward.
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Notice what it says in Revelation three verse one.
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And on the angel of the church and sardis write,
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these things sayeth he that hath the seven spirits
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of God and the seven stars.
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I know thy works, that thou hast the name
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that thou livest and art dead.
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So the Bible's referring to a church
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that has a good reputation.
-
They have a name, they're kind of alive,
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they're kind of doing some things,
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but they're actually dead.
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They're not the same.
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So the Bible's basically talking about a church
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that would still be considered a great church
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and have a good reputation, but they're falling apart.
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I can't help but just think of Verity Baptist Church.
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I just can't.
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It just is what it is.
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Because they still had the Red Hot Preaching Conference.
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They still had a name.
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They still had a reputation.
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I can say today that all the zealous people
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that were a Verity Baptist, they're not there anymore.
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Now look, most people stayed at that church,
-
but why is it all the zealous soul winners left?
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It's kind of like before that took place,
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I'm in the Philippines, so I don't really know
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what's going on.
-
And there's a lot of great people that left that church
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over the course of a couple years.
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And I'd be like, man, that's crazy.
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And every time I was told, man,
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they just started to backslide.
-
They got covetous or whatever.
-
But as it starts really adding up,
-
you're just kind of wondering what's going on.
-
Because there are people that were great members.
-
And then they just kind of slowly leave.
-
And here's the thing, I mean,
-
when everything happened six months ago or whatever,
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I mean, there were still great people at the church,
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not today.
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They all left.
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It says in verse two, be watchful and strengthen
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the things which remain that are ready to die
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for I have not found thy works perfect before God.
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Remember therefore, how thou hast received and heard
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and hold fast and repent.
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If therefore thou shalt not watch,
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I'll come on thee as a thief
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and thou shalt not know what hour I'll come upon thee.
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That was a few names even in Sardis
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which have not defiled their garments
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and they shall walk with me in white
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for they are worthy.
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See the Bible says here in verse four,
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when a church goes through this process of falling apart
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and becoming a bad church or just an ordinary church,
-
there will still be great people that will remain
-
because you're kind of wondering,
-
is there a better church in the area?
-
I've invested years, I've invested time.
-
Look, if this church fell apart, you know what?
-
There'd be people that would leave
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over different time periods
-
and there'll still be great people years from now
-
because you're kind of wondering,
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is there a better church in the area?
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And what the Bible said here in verse one is,
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they have a name.
-
They have a reputation.
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See once you reach a level of success,
-
it's very easy to kind of stop focusing on God.
-
This is how I want you to understand this
-
because honestly this is the main one
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I've thought about over the last year
-
and I can say this that as a pastor
-
who preaches very regularly,
-
I just don't really get nervous
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when I get up to do public speaking.
-
And it's not because naturally I don't get nervous,
-
it's just because I've done it a lot of times
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and so you get used to it.
-
When you first start preaching, you're very scared.
-
You're like, God, please let lightning
-
strike this church building.
-
I don't want to get up there to preach.
-
And then all of a sudden you gotta get up there and preach.
-
And so you're really relying on God.
-
You have a strong upward focus
-
because you know you have to rely on God.
-
But as you start to get some success and experience,
-
it can be very easy to stop relying on God as much.
-
The same is true for a church.
-
See, when a church is not going great
-
or when a church is starting out,
-
man, you are praying to God,
-
God, please send me more people.
-
God, please help us.
-
But as a church reaches a certain level of success,
-
it's kind of easy to stop focusing on God
-
and just thinking that you got it covered.
-
That you're perfectly fine.
-
Now it's not just here in Revelation 3
-
and verses one through four.
-
Notice what it says here in verse 14.
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Verse 14.
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And on the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write,
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these things say at the amen,
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the faith, one true witness,
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the beginning of the creation of God,
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I know thy works that thou art neither cold nor hot,
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I would thou work cold or hot.
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So then because thou art lukewarm
-
and neither cold nor hot,
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I will spew thee out of my mouth.
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Because thou sayest, notice this,
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I am rich and increase with goods
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and have need of nothing.
-
You've had it perfectly figured out, church.
-
And notice not that thou art wretched
-
and miserable and poor and blind and naked.
-
Just this attitude, hey, I'm rich, I'm powerful.
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I have need of nothing.
-
See a lot of churches could be focusing
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on getting a nice building
-
and once they get it, it's like I've reached,
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I've reached the point.
-
I've arrived.
-
I've said this to people over the first seven years
-
of our church in the Philippines in hindsight,
-
I'm actually thankful for everything that took place
-
because when I started, I felt like I had to scratch
-
just to survive, scratch and claw just to keep going
-
and just say, man, God, I'm just gonna keep going
-
and trust in God and God did bless the church.
-
And you know what, I warned our members
-
and things are going better
-
than they ever have at our churches.
-
But it's like, as I said to my church,
-
I said money can be a big blessing.
-
It can also be a big curse
-
because that could be the beginning
-
of the downfall of a church.
-
You can never lose this attitude
-
just trusting in God to build your church
-
because once you do, I mean, the church might exist in name,
-
it's not gonna be the same.
-
I mean, we've seen this with people as individuals,
-
they might start going to church,
-
they have a lot of problems in their life,
-
they're trying to rely on God
-
and then all of a sudden they get a job
-
and then they quit going to church.
-
I remember somebody I brought to church in Sacramento
-
and they were not working,
-
the mom and their kids are just kind of
-
living off the government
-
and I got the son saved
-
and the mom eventually got saved as well,
-
they came to church, they got baptized
-
and then I'm trying to get them to start working, right?
-
Cause they've learned a little bit,
-
they're there for a couple of months,
-
they're reading the Bible
-
and I would give them a ride to church
-
and I was just talking to them about
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you need to start working,
-
stay faithful to God, start working.
-
And I remember the mom got this job interview
-
and she's just like saying,
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hey, can you pray that I'll get this job?
-
I said, sure, you know, pray for you to get the job.
-
And she calls me, she got the job, she's super excited.
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Never saw her ever again at church
-
because of course the job said you gotta work Sunday
-
and it's just like, you stop relying on God.
-
And look, when you stop relying on God,
-
everything can fall apart.
-
Now go back to Matthew chapter 16, Matthew 16.
Matthew 16 chapter mention
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Look, I believe steadfast Baptist church is a great church.
-
I think it's an awesome church.
-
I mean, honestly, I didn't know what the salvation numbers
-
we're gonna be, but I'm like, man,
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this is bigger than I expected.
-
I mean, this is a lot of salvations.
-
And you say, well, pastor, you know,
-
what about everything else?
-
Well, there's a lot of great things at the church,
-
but you know, the number one thing I focused on
-
is salvation.
-
So whatever you want, it's all about the fruit.
-
That is the proof of how great of a church you are.
-
That is the number one proof.
-
And you can look at it at total salvations,
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salvations per person,
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percentage of the people going soul winning.
-
All those metrics matter,
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but they're all centered around soul winning.
-
That's what matters with the church.
-
But a great church is not guaranteed
-
to be a great church 20 years from now.
-
Because look, these churches in Revelation chapters
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two and three, are they great churches today?
-
Well, obviously along the lines, it just stopped, right?
-
They're not great churches now.
-
They weren't one time.
-
And two of these churches,
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there's nothing negative about them,
-
but it doesn't mean that they just kept going strong.
-
Here's the thing, the Bible's promise is
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the gates of hell will not prevail against a great church.
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No matter how many protests,
-
no matter how many bank accounts you get shut down from,
-
no matter how much social media blocks you,
-
a great church is not gonna be stopped
-
due to persecution.
-
The only thing that's gonna stop your church
-
is if you allow things to stop your church.
-
Now honestly, this sermon kind of has two main ideas,
-
and that's kind of the first idea,
-
but honestly the reason why I'm preaching it,
-
that was all introduction.
-
I don't have much left to preach,
-
but that's not the main point of the sermon.
-
You know, something I've heard a lot
-
over the last year or two years.
-
And a lot of it came from Verity,
-
but other churches as well,
-
where they had all these problems at their church
-
and people leaving, and you know whose fault it was?
-
Pastor Anderson, Pastor Shelley,
-
sometimes me, kind of rising the charts
-
of being a villain.
-
But it's kind of like these churches
-
are trying to destroy us.
-
It's like man, you know, and look,
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I was told to me that by going public with the information
-
before I'd actually gone public,
-
it was gonna cause people to leave churches.
-
It's like, well, how is that my fault?
-
Like what in the world?
-
But here's the thing, if the gates of hell
-
will not prevail against the church,
-
that's doing something for God.
-
Do you really think one sermon preached against it
-
is gonna cause everybody to leave
-
in the church to fall apart?
-
Look, if a church is right with God
-
and there's no problems, it doesn't matter what comes at it.
-
It's gonna keep going.
-
Look, I wish, I wish I had the power
-
to get people to quit going to churches.
-
That would be a pretty cool power.
-
I mean, I would use that power.
-
I don't have the power to do that.
-
And honestly, one sermon
-
doesn't have the power to do that as well.
-
Look, you know, if five years from now,
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Pastor Stanley and I hated each other's guts,
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but we're still doing the same work
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and still zealous for soul winning and heart preaching,
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nobody would leave this church
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and nobody would leave soul winning Baptist church.
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Nobody would.
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Why?
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Because it's the best church?
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Somebody preaching a sermon against you
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is not gonna cause people,
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and that's not why people left your church.
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It's not because somebody exposed the problem.
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How is the person exposing the problems
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the one causing it?
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No, the problem is the problems.
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I mean, church is the pillar and ground of the truth.
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So by preaching the truth,
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how can you blame someone if it's true?
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No, what's wrong is when your church changes.
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When your church stops being zealous soul winning,
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it stops dealing with the issues inside the church.
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It stops relying on God.
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That's what destroys a church.
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But what I did not read in Revelation chapter two and three
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is a blame on the new IFB or some pastor
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for people leaving your church.
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What's the issue of the church of Corinth?
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Oh, some of the pastor preached against
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the sin in the church.
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Isn't that ridiculous?
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What's the problem in the church of Glacier?
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Well, because somebody pointed out
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they're allowing work salvation in the church.
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Is that person to blame for that?
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No, I'm pretty sure what's to blame
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is the fact that you're allowing work salvation.
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And look, there's a lot of churches
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that have lost a lot of members.
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And by the way, you know,
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even great churches lost members as well.
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But the thing is, you know,
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great churches lost a lot of members
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that honestly in a way is a blessing.
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Cause honestly, you see a lot of these people online
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it's like, man, you know,
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they can go start their own church.
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It's like, we don't necessarily want them at our church.
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But you can't blame somebody
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preaching a sermon against you
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for why your church is falling apart.
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I mean, if there's truth to what they're saying,
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then fix the issues.
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That's why people are leaving.
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It's not because of some pastor
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that preached against you.
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But I'm telling you, I've heard this, you know,
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just many times just inside people
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that were at the church and ended up leaving
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how literally after services,
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they'll sit around at some sort of fellowship
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and just complain and criticize
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the new IFB, Pastor Anderson, Pastor Shelley,
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and they are to blame for their church falling apart.
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I mean, I'm dead serious in this.
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You know, honestly, I've lost a lot of friendships
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over the last six, seven months.
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I keep trying to remind people,
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you realize I'm not the one that stole money, right?
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I'm not the one that stole the money.
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So why are you mad at me?
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You're not mad at the church that covered it up.
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You're not really that mad at the pastor that was doing it,
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but you're mad at me.
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It's like, what in the world?
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And what you realize in life,
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people believe what they want to believe.
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It's sad, but it's the truth.
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People believe what they want to believe.
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And look, you know what?
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If you want a great church
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that will actually deal with problems
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and be zealous on soul winning
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and give you good doctrine and pre-chart against sin,
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this is the church to be at in Texas.
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It's an awesome church.
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It's a blessing to be here.
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And look, I want this church.
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I hope to be able to come here more often in the future,
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but I want this church to be here five years from now,
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10 years, 20 years, going stronger than it is today.
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Let's close in order prayer.
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Dear Heavenly Father,
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thank you for allowing us to be here today
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and ask you to help us to apply this sermon
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to our lives, God, and help all of us as individuals
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at this church to be a blessing and help this church,
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ask you to help this church remain strong
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and all great churches around the world, God,
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help us just to deal with issues at the church,
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be zealous for soul winning,
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but always remember to rely on you.
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We pray this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.