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”Our Conscience” (Part 2) | 13th September 2026

Passage Baptist Church

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  1. Well, good morning. Please take your

  2. Bibles and open them up to Romans

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  3. chapter 14. Please take your Bibles

  4. and open them up to Romans chapter 14.

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  5. This morning we are going to stay in

  6. Romans uh 14 together.

  7. Let's pray and ask the Lord to bless his

  8. word to us. Let's pray.

  9. Lord, I thank you for the words of the

  10. song that we have just sung. He will

  11. hold me fast.

  12. Lord, as I was singing, I was just

  13. recognizing if it was up to me to hold

  14. on to you, I'm so weak and I would let

  15. go. But you hold me fast.

  16. We praise your name for all of those who

  17. have trusted and believed in you as

  18. savior. You hold us. You hold us through

  19. suffering. You hold us through pain. You

  20. hold us and keep us even when we are

  21. prone to wander. Lord, you hold us. And

  22. we thank you for that.

  23. And so Lord, I pray as we hear your

  24. word, use it as a means to hold us.

  25. Use it as a means to keep us close to

  26. you because we need you, Lord Jesus. We

  27. need you this morning. And we pray that

  28. you would speak to us

  29. in your precious name. I pray. Amen.

  30. So this week again we are going to be

  31. speaking about the conscience. We spoke

  32. about the conscience last Sunday. I'd

  33. encourage you to listen to that if you

  34. didn't get an opportunity. And we're

  35. speaking again about the conscience. And

  36. what is the conscience? Well, it's that

  37. sense within us of what we believe to be

  38. right and what we believe to be wrong.

  39. That is our conscience. So, we'll look

  40. at something that we are about to do and

  41. our conscience will tell us that's

  42. wrong. Don't do that. Or we'll look at

  43. something that we're about to do and our

  44. conscience will tell us that's right.

  45. You should do that. And so, there is a

  46. conscience, a God-given conscience, as

  47. we looked at last week, that everybody

  48. has in this room, whether you're a

  49. Christian or not. You have this sense of

  50. that's right and that's wrong. That's

  51. your conscience.

  52. What makes it complicated for us is that

  53. our consciences can be different.

  54. So maybe you're a Christian this morning

  55. and you've been saved. The Holy Spirit

  56. came and he opened up your heart and

  57. your mind and he and he cleaned your

  58. conscience.

  59. And when he cleaned your conscience,

  60. what happens often is that we then have

  61. a a sensitive conscience. So then the

  62. things that we believed were right

  63. before we now think they are wrong. So

  64. every Christian in this room has a

  65. conscience that is renewed by the Holy

  66. Spirit. And every Christian in this room

  67. will agree with their conscience renewed

  68. by the Holy Spirit on the big things,

  69. the primary issues. So we will agree

  70. that Jesus died, he was buried and that

  71. he rose again. We will agree in the in

  72. the virgin birth. We will agree that we

  73. should gather together and worship and

  74. sing and read the Bible. But guess what?

  75. In case you didn't know already,

  76. Christians don't agree on everything. Do

  77. you know that? We don't agree on

  78. everything. We all have clean

  79. consciences before God. But we all have

  80. different consciences.

  81. Not maybe on the primary issues but

  82. certainly on the secondary issues

  83. and sometimes what happens even in the

  84. church is that our consciences on the

  85. secondary issues what happens our

  86. consciences collide. So let me give you

  87. an example and this is going to be

  88. interesting because even naming some of

  89. this this morning you're not going to

  90. like me but that's okay. Let me talk

  91. about this educating our children.

  92. We all have a conscience as to how we're

  93. to educate our children. Now, the

  94. primary issue is solved. The primary

  95. issue is solved. We probably should

  96. educate our children. But how, when, and

  97. where we educate our children, that we

  98. have different consciences on. Some of

  99. us believe that we should send our

  100. children to Catholic schools. So, we'll

  101. send our children to Catholic schools

  102. because maybe, okay, maybe I don't agree

  103. with the religion or whatever, but

  104. there's high moral values. And so I see

  105. the value in sending my children there.

  106. Some of us will send our children to

  107. Church of Ireland schools. Maybe we like

  108. the ethos or whatever and and we say

  109. they don't really push it too much. So

  110. it's okay. I'll send my child there.

  111. Some of us want to send our children to

  112. educate together schools because they

  113. don't push any one religion. They they

  114. speak about them all and so we'll do

  115. that. And some of us want to homeschool

  116. our children because and rightly

  117. speaking, we're we're worried about the

  118. worldview that our children might be

  119. taught in the schools. And so we as

  120. parents want to teach our own worldview.

  121. What happens when all those people are

  122. in the same church?

  123. We have different opinions. We have

  124. different consciences as to what is

  125. right or wrong. What the Lord will allow

  126. us do, what where the Lord will allow us

  127. send our children. So what's the

  128. solution to that? When you have

  129. different opinions and different

  130. consciences within the church of what we

  131. should do on the secondary issues, here

  132. are the bad solutions that you can have.

  133. Bad solution number one, I'll still talk

  134. to the person with a different

  135. conscience and opinion, but we just

  136. won't talk about the hot topics.

  137. Okay? So we'll But that's a bad

  138. solution. That's the Irish solution.

  139. Keep the peace, lads. Just don't talk

  140. about the hot topics. Talk to them, but

  141. don't talk about the hot hot topics. Bad

  142. solution number one. Bad solution number

  143. two, avoid the person and therefore you

  144. won't talk about any topic. So they hold

  145. this conscience, they hold this belief,

  146. I know them, we're in the church, we can

  147. sing together or whatever, but I'll just

  148. stay away from them. Avoid them alto

  149. together. That's a bad solution.

  150. Bad solution number three is maybe I'll

  151. find the church that agrees with me on

  152. this secondary issue and we'll all have

  153. the same agreement. Number one, it

  154. probably doesn't exist that church. And

  155. if they agree with you on your one hot

  156. topic issue, they probably won't agree

  157. with you on the others. So then what's

  158. going to happen to you is you're going

  159. to keep moving and moving and moving and

  160. moving until you finally end up in

  161. heaven where everybody will agree.

  162. So this is complicated.

  163. What's the solution to our complicated

  164. consciences and opinions? The solution

  165. is found in Romans 14.

  166. While we're all arguing and debating as

  167. to what we believe should be done on the

  168. secondary matters, Paul is raising his

  169. hand and says,"I have a better solution

  170. than all of your terrible solutions."

  171. And he's coming to the church in Rome.

  172. And the church in Rome is this

  173. hodgepodge of different people. It's

  174. Jews and Gentiles together. It's

  175. different cultures and different

  176. nationalities. Does that sound familiar?

  177. Different cultures, different

  178. nationalities, all in the same church.

  179. That's us. Paul is saying, "When you

  180. guys get together, guess what? You're

  181. not going to agree on everything."

  182. So Paul puts up his hand in Romans

    Romans 14 chapter mention

  183. chapter 14 and says, "I have a solution

  184. for you."

  185. Romans chapter 14 verse 1.

    Romans 14:1

  186. As for the one who is weak in faith,

  187. welcome him.

  188. But not to quarrel over opinions,

  189. one person believes he may eat anything,

  190. while the weak person eats only

  191. vegetables.

  192. Let not the one who eats despise the one

  193. who abstains.

  194. And let not the one who abstains pass

  195. judgment on the one who eats,

  196. for God has welcomed him. Who are you to

  197. pass judgment on a on the servant of

  198. another? It is before his own master

  199. that he stands or falls,

  200. and he will be upheld,

  201. for the Lord is able to make him stand.

  202. So Paul puts up his hand and we're going

  203. to look at different verses in chapter

  204. 14, but I I want us to focus a lot this

  205. morning on verses 1 to4. Paul puts up

  206. his hand and says, "I have a solution to

  207. these different consciences. What I want

  208. you to notice first in in these verses

  209. is is the two consciences that are

  210. present.

  211. There is the weak conscience and the

  212. strong conscience."

  213. Notice in chapter 14:E1 he says as for

  214. the one who is weak in faith. Now when

  215. he says the one who is weak in faith he

  216. is not saying they are weak in their

  217. saving faith. It's more like he is

  218. saying they are weak in their practice

  219. of faith.

  220. They have a weak conscience or what

  221. another way you could put it is they

  222. have a strict conscience. They're very

  223. strict in what they do in how they

  224. practice their faith. That is the weak

  225. conscience. And Paul talks about the

  226. weak conscience specifically in 1

    1 Corinthians 8 chapter mention

  227. Corinthians chapter 8 when he's talking

  228. about food offered to idols. He says to

  229. the strong people, listen, you need to

  230. bear with the those who have a weak

  231. conscience, who feel like they can't eat

  232. that food. Bear with them. Be patient

  233. with them because they have a weak

  234. conscience. They have a strict

  235. conscience which says I can't eat that

  236. food. My conscience doesn't allow me to

  237. eat that food. So you have to bear with

  238. those who have a weak conscience. So

  239. there are some who have a weak

  240. conscience, a more strict conscience.

  241. And then there are others who have a

  242. strong conscience. And he names the

  243. strong conscience in chapter 15 verse

  244. one.

  245. He continues this whole argument from 14

  246. on to 15 verse one. He says, "We who are

  247. strong have an obligation to bear with

  248. the failings of the weak and not to

  249. please ourselves."

  250. So

  251. all of those who have clean consciences,

  252. who've been cleansed by the blood of the

  253. lamb, we also have sensitive

  254. consciences. We can sear those

  255. consciences. And then what happens to

  256. make it even more complicated, there are

  257. some in the church who have weak

  258. consciences, who are strict in what

  259. they're doing. And there are some who

  260. have strong consciences, who feel free,

  261. much more free to live however they want

  262. before the Lord within the confines of

  263. scripture. So how do these weak and

  264. strong consciences work? Well, it might

  265. work like this for films or movies or

  266. what you watch on Netflix or Prime.

  267. All of us watch something, I'm guessing,

  268. YouTube, Netflix, Prime, whatever. And

  269. all of us can be addicted to it. You

  270. know, Netflix when it finishes and it's

  271. got five, four, three, two, one, and it

  272. flips on to the next show. And then you

  273. keep watching for way longer. And then

  274. it's Saturday night and you know, you

  275. have to wake up for church. you come in

  276. groggy and he starts talking about the

  277. conscience and you feel like oh I watch

  278. watch too much. Well, you have to

  279. determine within your own conscience

  280. what you are going to watch, don't you?

  281. And some of us some of us we have strong

  282. consciences in terms of what we're going

  283. to watch. We're more free in terms of

  284. what we can watch. We're more free to

  285. maybe watch violence or something like

  286. that. We're we're more free. We don't

  287. have as many rules and regulations. We

  288. feel like we're free in Christ to watch

  289. a lot. But to that person who has a

  290. strong conscience, here is what I would

  291. always say. You always need to match up

  292. your conscience

  293. with God's word.

  294. Just because you might be believe it as

  295. right in your own conscience, you need

  296. to match that up with God's word in

  297. terms of what he might say about use of

  298. language, what he might say in terms of

  299. sexual immorality. So you might have a

  300. free conscience, but you always need to

  301. measure that up with God's word, but you

  302. are more free. That's the strong

  303. conscient person. But then there are

  304. those who have a weak conscience. And

  305. they will say something like this. Just

  306. in case I end up watching something

  307. that's bad, I won't watch anything at

  308. all. My conscience actually won't allow

  309. me watch anything at all. That's the

  310. weak conscience.

  311. And to that person, you might say to

  312. them, "Well,

  313. maybe in Christ, God has given you a

  314. little more freedom that you can watch a

  315. a U-rated show or a G-rated show." And

  316. so, so you come up and you you help kind

  317. of push each other's consciences and

  318. measure each other's consciences. And

  319. yet, there is this reality in the

  320. church. We will have some who feel more

  321. free and we'll have some who are more

  322. strict. We'll have different opinions

  323. and different consciences in the church.

  324. And the two opinions that they have, so

  325. that's the two consciences, weak and

  326. strong. And the two opinions that they

  327. have are in relation to food and days.

  328. The food opinion is in verse two. One

  329. person believes that he may eat anything

  330. while the weak person eats only

  331. vegetables. So this was a specific Jew

  332. gentile issue. One person says, "I'm

  333. free. I'm free to eat whatever I want."

  334. And they have a strong conscience. The

  335. other person says, "Well, no, I need to

  336. still o obey these food laws that are

  337. there." And so so so I'm kind of more

  338. strict.

  339. So that's on the food. And then there's

  340. also this reality of the days. Look at

  341. chapter 14:5.

  342. They had an opinion on the days. Chapter

  343. 14:5. One person esteems one day as

  344. better than another while another

  345. esteems all days alike. Each one should

  346. be fully convinced in his own mind. So

  347. when it comes to days, when it comes to

  348. food, one's vegetables, one's all you

  349. can eat. When it comes to days, one's

  350. all the days and the other is like, "No,

  351. only certain days."

  352. So, it might be Sabbath days or Passover

  353. days or whatever remembrance days for

  354. them,

  355. different consciences,

  356. different opinions about food and days.

  357. Now, while we might have different

  358. opinions about the same food and days

  359. that they have, guess what? We have

  360. different opinions about food and days.

  361. We do. We have different consciences,

  362. different things that that allow us. So,

  363. some of us after church, we're going to

  364. go to the golden arches and get all the

  365. Big Macs we like. And some of us will

  366. say, "My conscience just doesn't allow

  367. me do that."

  368. Okay. So, so we have different opinions,

  369. different consciences about what we're

  370. to eat.

  371. We also have different consciences about

  372. what we are to drink.

  373. Again, I I'm going to get myself in

  374. trouble this morning. Let's see what

  375. happens. Alcohol.

  376. We have different consciences about what

  377. Now, if you're not a Christian this

  378. morning, this is going to sound really

  379. weird and strange, but just to let you

  380. know, Christians have opinions on

  381. alcohol.

  382. And so even though we're saved by the

  383. same Holy Spirit, even though he has

  384. renewed our minds and consciences,

  385. you're going to have the decision to

  386. make with your food and you're going to

  387. have the decision to make in terms of

  388. what you eat and what you drink. And

  389. when it comes to drink, you basically, I

  390. think, have have three options. You can

  391. reject the alcohol,

  392. you can redeem it, or you can replace

  393. it. Now the governing principle over

  394. alcohol is this in scripture. We don't

  395. abuse it. So the governing principle

  396. that we should all agree with is we do

  397. not get drunk. That's the governing

  398. principle for every Christian. But then

  399. after that underneath that our

  400. consciences will play out differently.

  401. So one person in the church might say,

  402. "Listen, I have to reject alcohol

  403. and here's why my conscience their their

  404. reasons might be this. Maybe I grew up

  405. in it in an abuse or whatever. Maybe I

  406. abused it myself, but I have to reject

  407. alcohol. That's what some people will

  408. hold in the church." Others might say,

  409. "You know what? I'm going to redeem

  410. alcohol. Here's what I'm going to do.

  411. I'm I'm going to sit down with my

  412. friends and I'm going to have a glass of

  413. wine and and it allows me have a

  414. conversation with my friends after work.

  415. And so they seek to redeem alcohol. And

  416. some might seek to replace it. Say, you

  417. know what? I I really don't care either

  418. way, but when I go out, I may as well

  419. get a Heineken Zero or a Guinness Zero

  420. or whatever and replace it. But still

  421. the other person over on this side will

  422. say I can't even get a can and drink the

  423. zero because my conscience won't allow.

  424. So what's the solution for all those

  425. people with different consciences?

  426. What's the solution?

  427. Well, it's the same solution

  428. that Paul gives to those here in this

  429. passage with the different solutions or

  430. different problems of days and food.

  431. The solution he doesn't present to them,

  432. notice the solution that Paul doesn't

  433. present to them is this. Here's the

  434. solution. Church at Rome, have two

  435. different churches. Have the all you can

  436. eat church and have vegetarian church.

  437. He doesn't give them that option.

  438. But some reason we think that's the best

  439. option. If we don't get along, just

  440. create new churches.

  441. Vegetable church, all you can eat

  442. church. Or the church says, "Well, I

  443. don't feel free. We don't feel free to

  444. split us up like that. So, here's what

  445. we'll do. We'll do different times. The

  446. vegetable guys will meet at 9:00 and

  447. they'll all be happy. and the all you

  448. can eat guys will meet at 11:00 and

  449. they'll all be happy. Isn't it

  450. wonderful? Don't we get on in Jesus? No.

  451. What Paul says is an entirely different

  452. solution than that. He doesn't say leave

  453. so you can get on. He doesn't say change

  454. the time so that you can get on. He

  455. doesn't even say compromise your

  456. conscience so that you can get on. He

  457. doesn't even say that. That's

  458. incredible.

  459. He allows people still hold those

  460. consciences in the same church. So what

  461. is his solution? His solution

  462. is this.

  463. Chapter 14 verse1. As for the one who is

  464. weak in faith,

  465. welcome him.

  466. That's his solution for the church.

  467. Don't change each other

  468. in the intimacy of your own conscience

  469. on these secondary issues.

  470. Open out your arms and welcome each

  471. other.

  472. Don't avoid each other just so you can

  473. avoid the hot topics.

  474. If there are people that you're avoiding

  475. just so that you can avoid the hard

  476. topics, here's here's here's my

  477. challenge to you this morning.

  478. Go and welcome them. Go with open arms.

  479. I'm not sure if this Sunday would be

  480. appropriate. You're like, "Open arms?

  481. Oh, yeah. You know, it draws attention."

  482. But go and welcome them with open arms.

  483. I think we as a church, I actually think

  484. we're quite good at welcoming new people

  485. into the church. I think we're we're

  486. okay with that.

  487. As Jeda says, you are more than welcome.

  488. But are we good at welcoming one another

  489. when we have different consciences and

  490. different opinions?

  491. Do we open our arms out wide to each

  492. other? You should.

  493. If our Christianity is going to mean

  494. anything, do you know why non-Christians

  495. hate the church so much? It's because we

  496. all look like a bunch of hypocrites. And

  497. how do we look like a bunch of

  498. hypocrites? Because we don't allow each

  499. other live within our consciences. We

  500. disagree. We fight. We split. We do all

  501. that kind of stuff. And to the world

  502. that looks foolishness.

  503. Welcome one another.

  504. That's his solution.

  505. And he says, "Welcome one another not to

  506. quarrel or fight over opinions."

  507. The solution is welcome each other and

  508. don't fight over your opinions.

  509. Have you noticed in the church that

  510. Christians tend to have opinions?

  511. We do. We have an opinions about all

  512. sorts of things. And I I wrote them

  513. down.

  514. We have opinions about songs.

  515. Some of us want to sing hymns and some

  516. of us want to sing modern Christian

  517. songs.

  518. We have opinions about the amount of

  519. songs we sing. Some want to come in and

  520. sing only two songs. Others want to come

  521. in and sing 10 songs. We have opinions.

  522. We have opinions about our meetings.

  523. Some think we don't have enough

  524. meetings. Some think we have too many

  525. meetings. Some want to meet on Tuesdays.

  526. someone to meet on Thursdays. Some want

  527. to even meet twice on a Sunday.

  528. We have different opinions on our

  529. meetings. We have different opinions on

  530. what those meetings should be. Some want

  531. only prayer meetings. Some want only

  532. Bible study meetings. Some want only

  533. fellowship meetings. Some want

  534. all-in-one meetings. We have different

  535. opinions. We have different opinions on

  536. membership. whether we should have it or

  537. whether we shouldn't have it and how

  538. members are to serve and how they

  539. shouldn't serve and all those types of

  540. opinions. We have different opinions on

  541. youth club. We have different opinions

  542. on sermons. We have different opinions

  543. on children's ministries. We have

  544. different opinions on Sunday services.

  545. We have different opinions on times of

  546. meetings and how long those meetings are

  547. and how long or short the sermons are.

  548. We have different opinions on Bible

  549. translations and ministry methods. We

  550. have different opinions about chairs and

  551. how many chairs. And we have different

  552. opinions about parking and and the day

  553. away or a weekend away. And we have

  554. different opinions about Christmas

  555. services and Easter services. And we

  556. have all of these different opinions in

  557. this church. And you're probably asking,

  558. Shane, are you talking about me? Yes, I

  559. am.

  560. I took out this morning the pastoral

  561. machine gun and I went to try and shoot

  562. absolutely every single one of you and I

  563. do it in love because I love you.

  564. You're to love one another as Christ has

  565. loved the church.

  566. We have different opinions and the

  567. solution is not avoid one another. The

  568. solution is open up our arms and welcome

  569. each other.

  570. The solution is open up our arms, he

  571. says in verse three, and not despise

  572. each other. The solution is open up our

  573. arms, he says in verse three, and not

  574. pass judgment on each other.

  575. And then the person says,"Well, why

  576. should I do that?"

  577. It just sounds like a lot of work.

  578. A lot of work to get along, doesn't it?

  579. Why should we do it? The end of verse

  580. three, look at what he says.

  581. For God

  582. has welcomed him.

  583. Why should you welcome one another?

  584. because God has welcomed you.

  585. >> Paul has worked really hard in the book

  586. of Romans to make that point that God

  587. himself has welcomed you. In Romans

  588. chapter 1:3, he makes this point that

  589. all have sinned and fall short of the

  590. glory of God. There is not one

  591. righteous, know not even one. And then

  592. he goes to chapter five and says, "But

  593. God has demonstrated his own love for us

  594. in this, that while we were still

  595. sinners, Christ died for us. That even

  596. though we were sinners, God welcomed us

  597. in Christ while we were still sinners."

  598. And then he moves to chapter 8 and says

  599. this, "There is therefore now no more

  600. condemnation for those who are in Christ

  601. Jesus." And then he comes along after

  602. after 11 chapters of this glorious

  603. rendition of the gospel that we have. He

  604. comes to chapter 12 and he says this big

  605. conclusion. Therefore, brothers and

  606. sisters, offer your bodies as living

  607. sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God.

  608. And then he says,

  609. welcome each other as God has welcomed

  610. you.

  611. This is the call for those who have

  612. different consciences. The weak

  613. conscience and the strong conscience.

  614. And from there, as he continues on in

  615. his argument in in chapter 14, I want to

  616. just draw out, we're not going to go

  617. through all the verses. You can read

  618. chapter 14 when you go home today. I

  619. want us to just draw out three

  620. principles in relation to how we live

  621. with our conscience. that sense of what

  622. we believe to be right and wrong before

  623. the Lord.

  624. Principle number one is this. Follow

  625. your own conscience. Look at verse five

  626. again.

  627. One person esteems one day as better

  628. than another, while another person

  629. esteems all days alike.

  630. Each one should be fully convinced in

  631. his own mind.

  632. Do you notice one person says all days

  633. are the same?

  634. Another person says, "Well, I'm

  635. restricted in my days." One day, one

  636. person has a free conscience. One person

  637. has a very strict conscience.

  638. And he says, "Part of the solution is be

  639. convinced in your own mind.

  640. Follow your own conscience. You're not

  641. going to change another person's

  642. conscience necessarily on the secondary

  643. issues. He repeats this again. If you

  644. turn to verse 23

  645. in chapter 14, he says this about the

  646. principle of following your own

  647. conscience. But whoever has doubts is

  648. condemned if he eats because the eating

  649. is not from faith. For whatever does not

  650. proceed from faith is sin. So if your

  651. conscience is telling you don't eat this

  652. thing, don't drink this thing, don't do

  653. this thing, what this is encouraging you

  654. to do is is follow your conscience. That

  655. it might be sin in that instance to go

  656. against your conscience.

  657. So that's the principle, follow your own

  658. conscience.

  659. But the caveat to that is this.

  660. Remember the two great commandments as

  661. you seek to follow your own conscience.

  662. Love the Lord your God and love other

  663. people. So yes, follow your own

  664. conscience, but don't say this is my

  665. conscience and I don't care what God

  666. says or what other people say. No,

  667. follow your own conscience,

  668. but love God.

  669. So measure your conscience up against

  670. God's word. Measure your sense of right

  671. and wrong up against God's word. And

  672. also as you seek to follow your

  673. conscience,

  674. remember to love others and know they

  675. don't have the same conscience as you.

  676. So that's principle number one, follow

  677. your own conscience. Principle number

  678. two, assume

  679. a good conscience.

  680. Assume the best in people.

  681. If I were to critique Christians a

  682. little bit,

  683. I don't think we always assume the best

  684. in people, assume the best in other

  685. Christians.

  686. Assume that they are following their

  687. conscience by just basically their

  688. conviction. We should assume a good

  689. conscience. And here's why. Look at

  690. verse six of chapter 14.

  691. Listen to what he says in assuming a

  692. good conscience.

  693. The one who observes the day observes it

  694. in honor to the Lord. The one who eats

  695. eats in honor to of the Lord since he

  696. gives thanks to God. While the one who

  697. abstains abstains in honor of the Lord

  698. and gives thanks to God. For none of us

  699. lives to himself and none of us dies to

  700. himself. For if we live, we live to the

  701. Lord. And if we die, we die to the Lord.

  702. So then whether we live or whether we

  703. die, we are the Lords.

  704. For to this end Christ died and lived

  705. again that he might be Lord both of the

  706. dead and of the living. What is he

  707. saying? As you look at the other person

  708. and as they follow their conscience

  709. about eating or the days, believe the

  710. best. Look at the person and say they're

  711. doing that to honor the Lord.

  712. Don't always conclude that they're doing

  713. that because they're legalists.

  714. No, they're doing that because they want

  715. to honor the Lord. Don't assume that,

  716. oh, they're doing that because they're

  717. abusing grace.

  718. No, they're doing that because they

  719. believe that that on that secondary

  720. issue, that's the best way that they can

  721. honor the Lord. Believe the best in

  722. people.

  723. Wouldn't that be wonderful if we were

  724. that type of church that just believe

  725. the best in people that that person is

  726. trying their best to honor the Lord and

  727. what they are doing. And so this happens

  728. to us. We have different consciences not

  729. in relation to just what we drink or

  730. what we eat, but we also have different

  731. consciences in relation to days.

  732. So, as Christians, people have different

  733. consciences as to what you're to do as a

  734. family on Christmas Day.

  735. As Christians, people have different

  736. consciences as to what you're to do on

  737. the Sabbath day or the day of rest. We

  738. have different consciences on those

  739. days.

  740. And guess what? It's coming up to

  741. October. Now, again, if you're not a

  742. Christian, this is going to sound weird.

  743. It's an in-house conversation, but here

  744. it is. We're coming up to October. We're

  745. coming up to Halloween.

  746. And Christians have different opinions

  747. about Halloween. Did you know that? We

  748. have different consciences as to what we

  749. should do on Halloween.

  750. And as we think about our different

  751. consciences,

  752. I think we can think about it in those

  753. three ways again.

  754. You can reject, you can redeem, and you

  755. can replace.

  756. Some person in their conscience might

  757. might look at Halloween and say, "It is

  758. far too dark. It seems like it it has

  759. pagan practices in it."

  760. And so they choose within their own

  761. conscience to reject.

  762. You shouldn't laugh at that person.

  763. That is that is a viable option.

  764. in relation to scripture and how they

  765. might see it. They might choose to

  766. reject. The other person within the

  767. church might choose to redeem and say,

  768. "Wait, here's a minute where every

  769. single neighbor calls to my house. And I

  770. have an opportunity to have fun with my

  771. kids and to welcome in all these

  772. neighbors and maybe even share the

  773. gospel. I'm going to redeem this day

  774. because I never get to see my neighbors

  775. anyway. We're always shutting the door.

  776. We're always running away from rain. I

  777. know we had a good summer, but we're

  778. going to run away from the rain soon. We

  779. always run away. We close the doors and

  780. whatever. So maybe you kind of think

  781. Halloween's a chance for me to redeem.

  782. That's a viable option. Or other people

  783. might say, I'm going to replace.

  784. We're going to think of a different

  785. event that we can do with our children

  786. so that they can have fun on the day.

  787. And so what we're going to do is we're

  788. going to replace brothers and sisters. I

  789. actually think all of those options are

  790. quite viable under scripture. It is it

  791. is a secondary issue. Where we get into

  792. problems is when we make that secondary

  793. issue a primary issue.

  794. That's when we get into problems.

  795. And so what are we to do with the person

  796. who wants to reject and the person who

  797. wants to redeem and the person who wants

  798. to replace? What should we do in the

  799. church? We should assume

  800. that each one is doing it to honor the

  801. Lord. Person who rejects, I think

  802. they're doing it to honor the Lord. The

  803. person who redeems, I think they're

  804. doing it to honor the Lord. And the

  805. person who replaces, I think they're

  806. doing it to honor the Lord. And we don't

  807. avoid people on that day. We don't avoid

  808. opinions or hot topics. We engage and

  809. welcome one another. And it's okay. And

  810. I'll say this carefully. It is still

  811. okay, I think, to kind of push each

  812. other's consciences.

  813. Are you thinking about it this way?

  814. Here's why I do it that way. And yet you

  815. end with love.

  816. The third principle then is this. So the

  817. first is follow your own conscience. The

  818. second is assume a good conscience. And

  819. the third is love with your conscience.

  820. Verse 13, it says this. Therefore,

  821. verse 13, chapter 14, 13. Therefore, let

  822. us not pass judgment on one another any

  823. longer, but rather decide never to put a

  824. stumbling block or hindrance in the way

  825. of a brother. I know and am persuaded in

  826. the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean

  827. in itself, but it is unclean for anyone

  828. who thinks it is unclean. For if your

  829. brother is grieved by what you eat, you

  830. are no longer walking in love, by what

  831. you eat, do not destroy the one for whom

  832. Christ died.

  833. So there might be a person who says, I'm

  834. free to eat,

  835. but they might be with the ve person

  836. who's saying only vegetables. They might

  837. be sitting down for a meal. And the

  838. strong person might understand that for

  839. the weak person, this is going to be

  840. really hard if I get a medium rare

  841. steak. This is going to be really hard

  842. for them. So, do you know what the other

  843. person, Christian person does in love?

  844. They say, "Give me the biggest bowl of

  845. vegetables you have." Even though this

  846. person is free to have the medium rare,

  847. they're sitting down with a person who

  848. says, "I'm not free. I can only eat

  849. vegetables." and they say, "Well, give

  850. me the biggest bowl of vegetables, then.

  851. I don't want to be a stumbling block. I

  852. want I want to love this person." Well,

  853. now that person who is strong and eats

  854. the medium rare steak, they shouldn't

  855. have to feel like every time they eat

  856. out just for the sake of this person

  857. that they should get the medium rare.

  858. But there are those occasions where

  859. you're specifically present together.

  860. So, I'll give you an example. We had a

  861. guest speaker coming over for a

  862. conference and he came over and he said,

  863. "Guys," he's from America. He said, he

  864. said, "Guys,"

  865. he said, "I really want to have a

  866. Guinness. I'm in Ireland. I want to have

  867. a Guinness, but he understood that we

  868. were Irish pastors."

  869. And he says, "But I want to make sure.

  870. Are you okay? Would this go against your

  871. conscience? Have you decided not to

  872. drink? Are you okay? or or potentially

  873. would would someone from your

  874. congregation kind of walk past or

  875. something or or would that cause you

  876. harm in any way?

  877. He asked the question. He loved even

  878. though his conscience was free to order

  879. whatever pint he wanted. He loved with

  880. his conscience.

  881. Love one another with your conscience.

  882. That is the principle. Ultimately, what

  883. we want is we want things to be black

  884. and white. Are you a black and white

  885. person? Are you a black and white

  886. Christian? We love things to be black

  887. and white. We would love Paul to say to

  888. one of those groups, just change.

  889. We'd love him to say to the vegetarians,

  890. you can eat all the meat you want. EVERY

  891. ALL THE FOODS ARE ARE clean now. Just

  892. eat. Stop being wasters. Come on. We're

  893. the black and white people.

  894. Give us an answer, Paul. He doesn't. He

  895. says, "You follow your conscience. You

  896. follow your conscience. Stay in the same

  897. church and love each other because of

  898. Christ and the gospel." Isn't that

  899. glorious?

  900. It's glorious.

  901. We are a church that's entirely

  902. different. Different personalities,

  903. different nationalities. We would be so

  904. weak if we just gathered together a

  905. church with our own personalities. We

  906. would be so weak if we just gathered a

  907. church together with our own

  908. nationalities. No. What shows the gospel

  909. is this? That we're all together as one.

  910. Every tribe, every tongue, every nation,

  911. and we worship him even though we're

  912. different. Because one day, guess what?

  913. In heaven, every tribe and tongue and

  914. nation will bow and worship him. Then I

  915. know in heaven we're going to get along.

  916. And until then, let us love one another

  917. with our conscience.

  918. And Paul, he finishes by saying these

  919. wonderful words.

  920. Chapter 15 verse one. This is how he

  921. finishes. Listen to the word.

  922. We who are strong have an obligation to

  923. bear with the failings of the weak and

  924. not to please ourselves. Let each of us

  925. please his neighbor for his good to

  926. build them up. For Christ did not please

  927. himself. But as it is written, the

  928. reproaches of those who approached him

  929. who approached you fell on me. For

  930. whatever was written in former days was

  931. written for our instruction, that

  932. through endurance and through the

  933. encouragement of the scriptures, we

  934. might have hope.

  935. May the God of endurance and

  936. encouragement grant you to live in such

  937. harmony with one another in accord with

  938. Christ Jesus that together you may with

  939. one voice glorify the God and Father of

  940. our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, listen

  941. to this. Therefore, welcome one another

  942. as Christ has welcomed you for the glory

  943. of God.

  944. Brothers and sisters,

  945. what do you do with a person who has

  946. different parenting style than you?

  947. Welcome them as Christ has welcomed you.

  948. What do you do with a person who is a

  949. different personality than you? Welcome

  950. them as Christ has welcomed you.

  951. What do you do with a person who has a

  952. different opinion on different days,

  953. different meetings, different sermons,

  954. different Bible translations?

  955. Welcome them as Christ has welcomed you

  956. and do it all to the glory of God. Let's

  957. pray.

  958. Lord, we thank you for your scriptures.

  959. We thank you for your word.

  960. We pray that you'd help us as your

  961. people to be those who would welcome one

  962. another even when we have different

  963. opinions and different consciences and a

  964. different way of looking at life. May we

  965. love one another well for the glory of

  966. God. Amen.

  967. They are