Sermon
”Our Conscience” (Part 2) | 13th September 2026
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Well, good morning. Please take your
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Bibles and open them up to Romans
Romans 14 chapter mention
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chapter 14. Please take your Bibles
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and open them up to Romans chapter 14.
Romans 14 chapter mention
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This morning we are going to stay in
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Romans uh 14 together.
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Let's pray and ask the Lord to bless his
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word to us. Let's pray.
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Lord, I thank you for the words of the
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song that we have just sung. He will
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hold me fast.
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Lord, as I was singing, I was just
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recognizing if it was up to me to hold
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on to you, I'm so weak and I would let
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go. But you hold me fast.
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We praise your name for all of those who
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have trusted and believed in you as
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savior. You hold us. You hold us through
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suffering. You hold us through pain. You
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hold us and keep us even when we are
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prone to wander. Lord, you hold us. And
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we thank you for that.
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And so Lord, I pray as we hear your
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word, use it as a means to hold us.
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Use it as a means to keep us close to
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you because we need you, Lord Jesus. We
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need you this morning. And we pray that
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you would speak to us
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in your precious name. I pray. Amen.
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So this week again we are going to be
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speaking about the conscience. We spoke
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about the conscience last Sunday. I'd
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encourage you to listen to that if you
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didn't get an opportunity. And we're
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speaking again about the conscience. And
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what is the conscience? Well, it's that
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sense within us of what we believe to be
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right and what we believe to be wrong.
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That is our conscience. So, we'll look
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at something that we are about to do and
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our conscience will tell us that's
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wrong. Don't do that. Or we'll look at
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something that we're about to do and our
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conscience will tell us that's right.
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You should do that. And so, there is a
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conscience, a God-given conscience, as
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we looked at last week, that everybody
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has in this room, whether you're a
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Christian or not. You have this sense of
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that's right and that's wrong. That's
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your conscience.
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What makes it complicated for us is that
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our consciences can be different.
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So maybe you're a Christian this morning
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and you've been saved. The Holy Spirit
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came and he opened up your heart and
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your mind and he and he cleaned your
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conscience.
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And when he cleaned your conscience,
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what happens often is that we then have
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a a sensitive conscience. So then the
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things that we believed were right
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before we now think they are wrong. So
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every Christian in this room has a
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conscience that is renewed by the Holy
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Spirit. And every Christian in this room
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will agree with their conscience renewed
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by the Holy Spirit on the big things,
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the primary issues. So we will agree
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that Jesus died, he was buried and that
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he rose again. We will agree in the in
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the virgin birth. We will agree that we
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should gather together and worship and
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sing and read the Bible. But guess what?
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In case you didn't know already,
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Christians don't agree on everything. Do
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you know that? We don't agree on
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everything. We all have clean
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consciences before God. But we all have
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different consciences.
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Not maybe on the primary issues but
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certainly on the secondary issues
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and sometimes what happens even in the
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church is that our consciences on the
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secondary issues what happens our
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consciences collide. So let me give you
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an example and this is going to be
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interesting because even naming some of
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this this morning you're not going to
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like me but that's okay. Let me talk
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about this educating our children.
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We all have a conscience as to how we're
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to educate our children. Now, the
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primary issue is solved. The primary
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issue is solved. We probably should
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educate our children. But how, when, and
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where we educate our children, that we
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have different consciences on. Some of
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us believe that we should send our
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children to Catholic schools. So, we'll
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send our children to Catholic schools
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because maybe, okay, maybe I don't agree
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with the religion or whatever, but
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there's high moral values. And so I see
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the value in sending my children there.
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Some of us will send our children to
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Church of Ireland schools. Maybe we like
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the ethos or whatever and and we say
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they don't really push it too much. So
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it's okay. I'll send my child there.
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Some of us want to send our children to
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educate together schools because they
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don't push any one religion. They they
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speak about them all and so we'll do
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that. And some of us want to homeschool
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our children because and rightly
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speaking, we're we're worried about the
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worldview that our children might be
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taught in the schools. And so we as
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parents want to teach our own worldview.
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What happens when all those people are
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in the same church?
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We have different opinions. We have
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different consciences as to what is
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right or wrong. What the Lord will allow
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us do, what where the Lord will allow us
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send our children. So what's the
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solution to that? When you have
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different opinions and different
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consciences within the church of what we
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should do on the secondary issues, here
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are the bad solutions that you can have.
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Bad solution number one, I'll still talk
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to the person with a different
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conscience and opinion, but we just
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won't talk about the hot topics.
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Okay? So we'll But that's a bad
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solution. That's the Irish solution.
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Keep the peace, lads. Just don't talk
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about the hot topics. Talk to them, but
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don't talk about the hot hot topics. Bad
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solution number one. Bad solution number
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two, avoid the person and therefore you
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won't talk about any topic. So they hold
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this conscience, they hold this belief,
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I know them, we're in the church, we can
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sing together or whatever, but I'll just
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stay away from them. Avoid them alto
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together. That's a bad solution.
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Bad solution number three is maybe I'll
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find the church that agrees with me on
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this secondary issue and we'll all have
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the same agreement. Number one, it
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probably doesn't exist that church. And
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if they agree with you on your one hot
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topic issue, they probably won't agree
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with you on the others. So then what's
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going to happen to you is you're going
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to keep moving and moving and moving and
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moving until you finally end up in
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heaven where everybody will agree.
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So this is complicated.
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What's the solution to our complicated
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consciences and opinions? The solution
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is found in Romans 14.
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While we're all arguing and debating as
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to what we believe should be done on the
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secondary matters, Paul is raising his
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hand and says,"I have a better solution
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than all of your terrible solutions."
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And he's coming to the church in Rome.
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And the church in Rome is this
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hodgepodge of different people. It's
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Jews and Gentiles together. It's
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different cultures and different
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nationalities. Does that sound familiar?
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Different cultures, different
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nationalities, all in the same church.
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That's us. Paul is saying, "When you
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guys get together, guess what? You're
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not going to agree on everything."
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So Paul puts up his hand in Romans
Romans 14 chapter mention
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chapter 14 and says, "I have a solution
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for you."
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Romans chapter 14 verse 1.
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As for the one who is weak in faith,
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welcome him.
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But not to quarrel over opinions,
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one person believes he may eat anything,
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while the weak person eats only
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vegetables.
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Let not the one who eats despise the one
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who abstains.
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And let not the one who abstains pass
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judgment on the one who eats,
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for God has welcomed him. Who are you to
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pass judgment on a on the servant of
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another? It is before his own master
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that he stands or falls,
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and he will be upheld,
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for the Lord is able to make him stand.
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So Paul puts up his hand and we're going
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to look at different verses in chapter
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14, but I I want us to focus a lot this
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morning on verses 1 to4. Paul puts up
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his hand and says, "I have a solution to
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these different consciences. What I want
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you to notice first in in these verses
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is is the two consciences that are
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present.
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There is the weak conscience and the
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strong conscience."
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Notice in chapter 14:E1 he says as for
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the one who is weak in faith. Now when
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he says the one who is weak in faith he
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is not saying they are weak in their
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saving faith. It's more like he is
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saying they are weak in their practice
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of faith.
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They have a weak conscience or what
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another way you could put it is they
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have a strict conscience. They're very
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strict in what they do in how they
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practice their faith. That is the weak
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conscience. And Paul talks about the
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weak conscience specifically in 1
1 Corinthians 8 chapter mention
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Corinthians chapter 8 when he's talking
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about food offered to idols. He says to
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the strong people, listen, you need to
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bear with the those who have a weak
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conscience, who feel like they can't eat
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that food. Bear with them. Be patient
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with them because they have a weak
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conscience. They have a strict
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conscience which says I can't eat that
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food. My conscience doesn't allow me to
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eat that food. So you have to bear with
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those who have a weak conscience. So
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there are some who have a weak
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conscience, a more strict conscience.
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And then there are others who have a
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strong conscience. And he names the
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strong conscience in chapter 15 verse
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one.
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He continues this whole argument from 14
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on to 15 verse one. He says, "We who are
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strong have an obligation to bear with
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the failings of the weak and not to
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please ourselves."
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So
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all of those who have clean consciences,
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who've been cleansed by the blood of the
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lamb, we also have sensitive
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consciences. We can sear those
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consciences. And then what happens to
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make it even more complicated, there are
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some in the church who have weak
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consciences, who are strict in what
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they're doing. And there are some who
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have strong consciences, who feel free,
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much more free to live however they want
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before the Lord within the confines of
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scripture. So how do these weak and
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strong consciences work? Well, it might
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work like this for films or movies or
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what you watch on Netflix or Prime.
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All of us watch something, I'm guessing,
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YouTube, Netflix, Prime, whatever. And
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all of us can be addicted to it. You
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know, Netflix when it finishes and it's
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got five, four, three, two, one, and it
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flips on to the next show. And then you
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keep watching for way longer. And then
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it's Saturday night and you know, you
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have to wake up for church. you come in
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groggy and he starts talking about the
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conscience and you feel like oh I watch
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watch too much. Well, you have to
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determine within your own conscience
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what you are going to watch, don't you?
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And some of us some of us we have strong
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consciences in terms of what we're going
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to watch. We're more free in terms of
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what we can watch. We're more free to
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maybe watch violence or something like
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that. We're we're more free. We don't
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have as many rules and regulations. We
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feel like we're free in Christ to watch
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a lot. But to that person who has a
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strong conscience, here is what I would
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always say. You always need to match up
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your conscience
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with God's word.
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Just because you might be believe it as
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right in your own conscience, you need
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to match that up with God's word in
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terms of what he might say about use of
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language, what he might say in terms of
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sexual immorality. So you might have a
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free conscience, but you always need to
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measure that up with God's word, but you
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are more free. That's the strong
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conscient person. But then there are
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those who have a weak conscience. And
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they will say something like this. Just
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in case I end up watching something
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that's bad, I won't watch anything at
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all. My conscience actually won't allow
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me watch anything at all. That's the
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weak conscience.
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And to that person, you might say to
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them, "Well,
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maybe in Christ, God has given you a
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little more freedom that you can watch a
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a U-rated show or a G-rated show." And
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so, so you come up and you you help kind
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of push each other's consciences and
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measure each other's consciences. And
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yet, there is this reality in the
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church. We will have some who feel more
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free and we'll have some who are more
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strict. We'll have different opinions
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and different consciences in the church.
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And the two opinions that they have, so
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that's the two consciences, weak and
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strong. And the two opinions that they
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have are in relation to food and days.
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The food opinion is in verse two. One
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person believes that he may eat anything
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while the weak person eats only
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vegetables. So this was a specific Jew
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gentile issue. One person says, "I'm
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free. I'm free to eat whatever I want."
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And they have a strong conscience. The
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other person says, "Well, no, I need to
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still o obey these food laws that are
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there." And so so so I'm kind of more
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strict.
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So that's on the food. And then there's
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also this reality of the days. Look at
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chapter 14:5.
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They had an opinion on the days. Chapter
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14:5. One person esteems one day as
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better than another while another
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esteems all days alike. Each one should
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be fully convinced in his own mind. So
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when it comes to days, when it comes to
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food, one's vegetables, one's all you
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can eat. When it comes to days, one's
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all the days and the other is like, "No,
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only certain days."
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So, it might be Sabbath days or Passover
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days or whatever remembrance days for
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them,
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different consciences,
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different opinions about food and days.
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Now, while we might have different
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opinions about the same food and days
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that they have, guess what? We have
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different opinions about food and days.
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We do. We have different consciences,
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different things that that allow us. So,
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some of us after church, we're going to
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go to the golden arches and get all the
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Big Macs we like. And some of us will
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say, "My conscience just doesn't allow
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me do that."
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Okay. So, so we have different opinions,
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different consciences about what we're
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to eat.
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We also have different consciences about
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what we are to drink.
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Again, I I'm going to get myself in
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trouble this morning. Let's see what
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happens. Alcohol.
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We have different consciences about what
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Now, if you're not a Christian this
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morning, this is going to sound really
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weird and strange, but just to let you
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know, Christians have opinions on
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alcohol.
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And so even though we're saved by the
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same Holy Spirit, even though he has
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renewed our minds and consciences,
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you're going to have the decision to
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make with your food and you're going to
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have the decision to make in terms of
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what you eat and what you drink. And
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when it comes to drink, you basically, I
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think, have have three options. You can
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reject the alcohol,
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you can redeem it, or you can replace
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it. Now the governing principle over
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alcohol is this in scripture. We don't
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abuse it. So the governing principle
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that we should all agree with is we do
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not get drunk. That's the governing
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principle for every Christian. But then
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after that underneath that our
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consciences will play out differently.
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So one person in the church might say,
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"Listen, I have to reject alcohol
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and here's why my conscience their their
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reasons might be this. Maybe I grew up
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in it in an abuse or whatever. Maybe I
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abused it myself, but I have to reject
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alcohol. That's what some people will
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hold in the church." Others might say,
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"You know what? I'm going to redeem
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alcohol. Here's what I'm going to do.
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I'm I'm going to sit down with my
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friends and I'm going to have a glass of
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wine and and it allows me have a
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conversation with my friends after work.
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And so they seek to redeem alcohol. And
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some might seek to replace it. Say, you
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know what? I I really don't care either
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way, but when I go out, I may as well
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get a Heineken Zero or a Guinness Zero
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or whatever and replace it. But still
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the other person over on this side will
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say I can't even get a can and drink the
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zero because my conscience won't allow.
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So what's the solution for all those
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people with different consciences?
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What's the solution?
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Well, it's the same solution
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that Paul gives to those here in this
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passage with the different solutions or
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different problems of days and food.
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The solution he doesn't present to them,
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notice the solution that Paul doesn't
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present to them is this. Here's the
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solution. Church at Rome, have two
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different churches. Have the all you can
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eat church and have vegetarian church.
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He doesn't give them that option.
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But some reason we think that's the best
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option. If we don't get along, just
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create new churches.
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Vegetable church, all you can eat
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church. Or the church says, "Well, I
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don't feel free. We don't feel free to
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split us up like that. So, here's what
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we'll do. We'll do different times. The
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vegetable guys will meet at 9:00 and
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they'll all be happy. and the all you
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can eat guys will meet at 11:00 and
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they'll all be happy. Isn't it
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wonderful? Don't we get on in Jesus? No.
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What Paul says is an entirely different
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solution than that. He doesn't say leave
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so you can get on. He doesn't say change
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the time so that you can get on. He
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doesn't even say compromise your
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conscience so that you can get on. He
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doesn't even say that. That's
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incredible.
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He allows people still hold those
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consciences in the same church. So what
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is his solution? His solution
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is this.
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Chapter 14 verse1. As for the one who is
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weak in faith,
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welcome him.
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That's his solution for the church.
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Don't change each other
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in the intimacy of your own conscience
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on these secondary issues.
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Open out your arms and welcome each
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other.
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Don't avoid each other just so you can
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avoid the hot topics.
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If there are people that you're avoiding
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just so that you can avoid the hard
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topics, here's here's here's my
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challenge to you this morning.
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Go and welcome them. Go with open arms.
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I'm not sure if this Sunday would be
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appropriate. You're like, "Open arms?
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Oh, yeah. You know, it draws attention."
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But go and welcome them with open arms.
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I think we as a church, I actually think
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we're quite good at welcoming new people
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into the church. I think we're we're
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okay with that.
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As Jeda says, you are more than welcome.
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But are we good at welcoming one another
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when we have different consciences and
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different opinions?
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Do we open our arms out wide to each
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other? You should.
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If our Christianity is going to mean
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anything, do you know why non-Christians
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hate the church so much? It's because we
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all look like a bunch of hypocrites. And
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how do we look like a bunch of
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hypocrites? Because we don't allow each
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other live within our consciences. We
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disagree. We fight. We split. We do all
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that kind of stuff. And to the world
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that looks foolishness.
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Welcome one another.
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That's his solution.
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And he says, "Welcome one another not to
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quarrel or fight over opinions."
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The solution is welcome each other and
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don't fight over your opinions.
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Have you noticed in the church that
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Christians tend to have opinions?
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We do. We have an opinions about all
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sorts of things. And I I wrote them
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down.
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We have opinions about songs.
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Some of us want to sing hymns and some
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of us want to sing modern Christian
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songs.
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We have opinions about the amount of
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songs we sing. Some want to come in and
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sing only two songs. Others want to come
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in and sing 10 songs. We have opinions.
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We have opinions about our meetings.
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Some think we don't have enough
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meetings. Some think we have too many
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meetings. Some want to meet on Tuesdays.
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someone to meet on Thursdays. Some want
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to even meet twice on a Sunday.
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We have different opinions on our
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meetings. We have different opinions on
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what those meetings should be. Some want
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only prayer meetings. Some want only
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Bible study meetings. Some want only
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fellowship meetings. Some want
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all-in-one meetings. We have different
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opinions. We have different opinions on
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membership. whether we should have it or
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whether we shouldn't have it and how
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members are to serve and how they
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shouldn't serve and all those types of
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opinions. We have different opinions on
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youth club. We have different opinions
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on sermons. We have different opinions
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on children's ministries. We have
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different opinions on Sunday services.
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We have different opinions on times of
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meetings and how long those meetings are
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and how long or short the sermons are.
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We have different opinions on Bible
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translations and ministry methods. We
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have different opinions about chairs and
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how many chairs. And we have different
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opinions about parking and and the day
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away or a weekend away. And we have
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different opinions about Christmas
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services and Easter services. And we
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have all of these different opinions in
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this church. And you're probably asking,
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Shane, are you talking about me? Yes, I
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am.
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I took out this morning the pastoral
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machine gun and I went to try and shoot
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absolutely every single one of you and I
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do it in love because I love you.
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You're to love one another as Christ has
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loved the church.
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We have different opinions and the
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solution is not avoid one another. The
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solution is open up our arms and welcome
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each other.
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The solution is open up our arms, he
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says in verse three, and not despise
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each other. The solution is open up our
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arms, he says in verse three, and not
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pass judgment on each other.
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And then the person says,"Well, why
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should I do that?"
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It just sounds like a lot of work.
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A lot of work to get along, doesn't it?
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Why should we do it? The end of verse
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three, look at what he says.
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For God
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has welcomed him.
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Why should you welcome one another?
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because God has welcomed you.
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>> Paul has worked really hard in the book
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of Romans to make that point that God
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himself has welcomed you. In Romans
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chapter 1:3, he makes this point that
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all have sinned and fall short of the
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glory of God. There is not one
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righteous, know not even one. And then
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he goes to chapter five and says, "But
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God has demonstrated his own love for us
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in this, that while we were still
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sinners, Christ died for us. That even
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though we were sinners, God welcomed us
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in Christ while we were still sinners."
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And then he moves to chapter 8 and says
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this, "There is therefore now no more
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condemnation for those who are in Christ
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Jesus." And then he comes along after
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after 11 chapters of this glorious
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rendition of the gospel that we have. He
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comes to chapter 12 and he says this big
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conclusion. Therefore, brothers and
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sisters, offer your bodies as living
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sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God.
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And then he says,
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welcome each other as God has welcomed
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you.
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This is the call for those who have
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different consciences. The weak
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conscience and the strong conscience.
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And from there, as he continues on in
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his argument in in chapter 14, I want to
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just draw out, we're not going to go
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through all the verses. You can read
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chapter 14 when you go home today. I
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want us to just draw out three
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principles in relation to how we live
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with our conscience. that sense of what
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we believe to be right and wrong before
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the Lord.
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Principle number one is this. Follow
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your own conscience. Look at verse five
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again.
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One person esteems one day as better
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than another, while another person
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esteems all days alike.
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Each one should be fully convinced in
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his own mind.
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Do you notice one person says all days
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are the same?
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Another person says, "Well, I'm
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restricted in my days." One day, one
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person has a free conscience. One person
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has a very strict conscience.
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And he says, "Part of the solution is be
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convinced in your own mind.
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Follow your own conscience. You're not
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going to change another person's
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conscience necessarily on the secondary
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issues. He repeats this again. If you
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turn to verse 23
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in chapter 14, he says this about the
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principle of following your own
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conscience. But whoever has doubts is
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condemned if he eats because the eating
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is not from faith. For whatever does not
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proceed from faith is sin. So if your
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conscience is telling you don't eat this
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thing, don't drink this thing, don't do
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this thing, what this is encouraging you
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to do is is follow your conscience. That
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it might be sin in that instance to go
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against your conscience.
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So that's the principle, follow your own
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conscience.
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But the caveat to that is this.
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Remember the two great commandments as
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you seek to follow your own conscience.
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Love the Lord your God and love other
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people. So yes, follow your own
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conscience, but don't say this is my
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conscience and I don't care what God
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says or what other people say. No,
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follow your own conscience,
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but love God.
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So measure your conscience up against
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God's word. Measure your sense of right
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and wrong up against God's word. And
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also as you seek to follow your
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conscience,
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remember to love others and know they
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don't have the same conscience as you.
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So that's principle number one, follow
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your own conscience. Principle number
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two, assume
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a good conscience.
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Assume the best in people.
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If I were to critique Christians a
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little bit,
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I don't think we always assume the best
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in people, assume the best in other
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Christians.
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Assume that they are following their
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conscience by just basically their
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conviction. We should assume a good
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conscience. And here's why. Look at
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verse six of chapter 14.
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Listen to what he says in assuming a
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good conscience.
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The one who observes the day observes it
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in honor to the Lord. The one who eats
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eats in honor to of the Lord since he
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gives thanks to God. While the one who
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abstains abstains in honor of the Lord
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and gives thanks to God. For none of us
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lives to himself and none of us dies to
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himself. For if we live, we live to the
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Lord. And if we die, we die to the Lord.
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So then whether we live or whether we
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die, we are the Lords.
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For to this end Christ died and lived
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again that he might be Lord both of the
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dead and of the living. What is he
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saying? As you look at the other person
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and as they follow their conscience
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about eating or the days, believe the
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best. Look at the person and say they're
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doing that to honor the Lord.
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Don't always conclude that they're doing
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that because they're legalists.
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No, they're doing that because they want
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to honor the Lord. Don't assume that,
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oh, they're doing that because they're
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abusing grace.
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No, they're doing that because they
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believe that that on that secondary
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issue, that's the best way that they can
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honor the Lord. Believe the best in
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people.
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Wouldn't that be wonderful if we were
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that type of church that just believe
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the best in people that that person is
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trying their best to honor the Lord and
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what they are doing. And so this happens
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to us. We have different consciences not
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in relation to just what we drink or
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what we eat, but we also have different
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consciences in relation to days.
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So, as Christians, people have different
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consciences as to what you're to do as a
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family on Christmas Day.
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As Christians, people have different
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consciences as to what you're to do on
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the Sabbath day or the day of rest. We
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have different consciences on those
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days.
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And guess what? It's coming up to
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October. Now, again, if you're not a
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Christian, this is going to sound weird.
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It's an in-house conversation, but here
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it is. We're coming up to October. We're
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coming up to Halloween.
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And Christians have different opinions
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about Halloween. Did you know that? We
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have different consciences as to what we
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should do on Halloween.
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And as we think about our different
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consciences,
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I think we can think about it in those
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three ways again.
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You can reject, you can redeem, and you
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can replace.
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Some person in their conscience might
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might look at Halloween and say, "It is
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far too dark. It seems like it it has
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pagan practices in it."
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And so they choose within their own
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conscience to reject.
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You shouldn't laugh at that person.
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That is that is a viable option.
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in relation to scripture and how they
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might see it. They might choose to
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reject. The other person within the
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church might choose to redeem and say,
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"Wait, here's a minute where every
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single neighbor calls to my house. And I
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have an opportunity to have fun with my
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kids and to welcome in all these
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neighbors and maybe even share the
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gospel. I'm going to redeem this day
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because I never get to see my neighbors
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anyway. We're always shutting the door.
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We're always running away from rain. I
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know we had a good summer, but we're
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going to run away from the rain soon. We
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always run away. We close the doors and
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whatever. So maybe you kind of think
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Halloween's a chance for me to redeem.
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That's a viable option. Or other people
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might say, I'm going to replace.
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We're going to think of a different
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event that we can do with our children
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so that they can have fun on the day.
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And so what we're going to do is we're
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going to replace brothers and sisters. I
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actually think all of those options are
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quite viable under scripture. It is it
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is a secondary issue. Where we get into
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problems is when we make that secondary
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issue a primary issue.
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That's when we get into problems.
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And so what are we to do with the person
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who wants to reject and the person who
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wants to redeem and the person who wants
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to replace? What should we do in the
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church? We should assume
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that each one is doing it to honor the
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Lord. Person who rejects, I think
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they're doing it to honor the Lord. The
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person who redeems, I think they're
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doing it to honor the Lord. And the
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person who replaces, I think they're
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doing it to honor the Lord. And we don't
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avoid people on that day. We don't avoid
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opinions or hot topics. We engage and
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welcome one another. And it's okay. And
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I'll say this carefully. It is still
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okay, I think, to kind of push each
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other's consciences.
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Are you thinking about it this way?
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Here's why I do it that way. And yet you
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end with love.
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The third principle then is this. So the
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first is follow your own conscience. The
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second is assume a good conscience. And
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the third is love with your conscience.
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Verse 13, it says this. Therefore,
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verse 13, chapter 14, 13. Therefore, let
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us not pass judgment on one another any
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longer, but rather decide never to put a
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stumbling block or hindrance in the way
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of a brother. I know and am persuaded in
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the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean
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in itself, but it is unclean for anyone
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who thinks it is unclean. For if your
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brother is grieved by what you eat, you
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are no longer walking in love, by what
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you eat, do not destroy the one for whom
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Christ died.
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So there might be a person who says, I'm
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free to eat,
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but they might be with the ve person
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who's saying only vegetables. They might
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be sitting down for a meal. And the
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strong person might understand that for
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the weak person, this is going to be
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really hard if I get a medium rare
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steak. This is going to be really hard
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for them. So, do you know what the other
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person, Christian person does in love?
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They say, "Give me the biggest bowl of
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vegetables you have." Even though this
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person is free to have the medium rare,
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they're sitting down with a person who
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says, "I'm not free. I can only eat
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vegetables." and they say, "Well, give
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me the biggest bowl of vegetables, then.
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I don't want to be a stumbling block. I
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want I want to love this person." Well,
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now that person who is strong and eats
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the medium rare steak, they shouldn't
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have to feel like every time they eat
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out just for the sake of this person
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that they should get the medium rare.
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But there are those occasions where
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you're specifically present together.
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So, I'll give you an example. We had a
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guest speaker coming over for a
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conference and he came over and he said,
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"Guys," he's from America. He said, he
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said, "Guys,"
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he said, "I really want to have a
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Guinness. I'm in Ireland. I want to have
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a Guinness, but he understood that we
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were Irish pastors."
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And he says, "But I want to make sure.
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Are you okay? Would this go against your
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conscience? Have you decided not to
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drink? Are you okay? or or potentially
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would would someone from your
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congregation kind of walk past or
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something or or would that cause you
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harm in any way?
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He asked the question. He loved even
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though his conscience was free to order
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whatever pint he wanted. He loved with
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his conscience.
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Love one another with your conscience.
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That is the principle. Ultimately, what
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we want is we want things to be black
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and white. Are you a black and white
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person? Are you a black and white
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Christian? We love things to be black
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and white. We would love Paul to say to
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one of those groups, just change.
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We'd love him to say to the vegetarians,
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you can eat all the meat you want. EVERY
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ALL THE FOODS ARE ARE clean now. Just
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eat. Stop being wasters. Come on. We're
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the black and white people.
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Give us an answer, Paul. He doesn't. He
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says, "You follow your conscience. You
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follow your conscience. Stay in the same
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church and love each other because of
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Christ and the gospel." Isn't that
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glorious?
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It's glorious.
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We are a church that's entirely
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different. Different personalities,
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different nationalities. We would be so
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weak if we just gathered together a
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church with our own personalities. We
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would be so weak if we just gathered a
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church together with our own
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nationalities. No. What shows the gospel
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is this? That we're all together as one.
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Every tribe, every tongue, every nation,
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and we worship him even though we're
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different. Because one day, guess what?
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In heaven, every tribe and tongue and
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nation will bow and worship him. Then I
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know in heaven we're going to get along.
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And until then, let us love one another
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with our conscience.
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And Paul, he finishes by saying these
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wonderful words.
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Chapter 15 verse one. This is how he
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finishes. Listen to the word.
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We who are strong have an obligation to
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bear with the failings of the weak and
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not to please ourselves. Let each of us
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please his neighbor for his good to
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build them up. For Christ did not please
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himself. But as it is written, the
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reproaches of those who approached him
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who approached you fell on me. For
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whatever was written in former days was
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written for our instruction, that
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through endurance and through the
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encouragement of the scriptures, we
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might have hope.
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May the God of endurance and
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encouragement grant you to live in such
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harmony with one another in accord with
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Christ Jesus that together you may with
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one voice glorify the God and Father of
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our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, listen
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to this. Therefore, welcome one another
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as Christ has welcomed you for the glory
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of God.
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Brothers and sisters,
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what do you do with a person who has
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different parenting style than you?
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Welcome them as Christ has welcomed you.
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What do you do with a person who is a
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different personality than you? Welcome
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them as Christ has welcomed you.
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What do you do with a person who has a
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different opinion on different days,
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different meetings, different sermons,
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different Bible translations?
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Welcome them as Christ has welcomed you
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and do it all to the glory of God. Let's
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pray.
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Lord, we thank you for your scriptures.
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We thank you for your word.
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We pray that you'd help us as your
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people to be those who would welcome one
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another even when we have different
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opinions and different consciences and a
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different way of looking at life. May we
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love one another well for the glory of
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God. Amen.
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