Sermon
You Just Sinned... Now What_ (No Ads)
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You've just sent again. The exact thing you promised God
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you would never do is the exact thing you just did.
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Maybe you lost your temper and cursed at your family.
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Maybe you lied to protect your reputation or drank so
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much that your friends do not even recognize who you
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are anymore. Whatever it was, the moment the action is over,
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the voice in your head says that you have finally
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gone too far. It tells you that your apologies are
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fake because you keep committing the exact same sin week
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after week. You feel hopeless because you literally do not
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know how to break this cycle. You do not know
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what to do next. Every Christian goes through this exact struggle.
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But what you choose to do right now while you
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are still feeling guilty is incredibly important. You have two choices.
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You can run away and hide from God, which will
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only make things worse. Or you can choose to turn
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back to Him and find real healing. You tripped and fell,
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but you do not have to stay on the ground. Today,
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we are going to look at the exact steps you
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must take right now to stand back up, break the
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cycle of sins, and return to God without fear. The
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second you realize that you just committed another sin, you
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will feel ashamed. After that, your first instinct is usually
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to hide. This is not a new reaction. We can
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look all the way back to the very first time
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humans sinned. When Adam and Eve broke the only rule
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God gave them, they ran away from Him. They gathered
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leaves to cover themselves, and they hid among the trees.
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Then the man and his wife heard the sound of
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the Lord God as he was walking in the garden
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in the cool of the day, and they hid from
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the Lord God among the trees of the garden. We
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do the exact same thing today. When you sin, you
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probably stop reading your Bible. You probably avoid praying. You
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might skip church for a few weeks because you feel
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too guilty. You hide because you assume God is furious
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with you. But hiding is the most dangerous thing you
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can do right now. When you hide in the dark,
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your shame only grows stronger. Sin is like a mold
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or a fungus. It thrives in dark and isolated places.
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The moment you pull away from God, You are stepping
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away from the only source of light and healing that
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can actually clean you. God did not scream at Adam
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and Eve when they hid. He walked into the garden
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and looked for them. He pursued them. God is pursuing
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you right now, not to punish you, but to restore you.
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You must fight the urge to hide. One of the
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biggest reasons we feel so destroyed after we sin is
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because we think we shocked God. We think God had
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very high expectations for our daily behavior, and we just
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let him down completely. We picture God sitting in heaven,
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shaking his head, completely disappointed because he thought we were
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stronger than this. This is a terrible misunderstanding of who
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God is and what God knows. God is not surprised
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by your sin or that you failed. Before you were
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even born, God knew every single mistake you would ever make.
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He knew the exact sin you just committed, and He
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still chose to love you. He still chose to send
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Jesus to die for you. The Bible tells us that
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God understands exactly how fragile we are, for He knows
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how we are formed. He remembers that we are dust.
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He knows you are a human being living in a
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broken world with a mortal body that is drawn to temptation.
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This does not make your sin acceptable, but it means
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your sin does not change his core view of you.
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He knows you are completely dependent on his grace. When
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you realize that God already knows your deepest weaknesses, you
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can stop pretending to be perfect. You can just admit
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that you are weak. and you need his help. Right
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now you are feeling terrible, but it is incredibly important
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to understand where that feeling is coming from. There are
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two different voices that will speak to you after you sin.
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One is the voice of guilt from the enemy. The
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other is the voice of conviction from the Holy Spirit.
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If you confuse these two voices, you will stay trapped
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in a cycle of failure. Guilt is an attack on
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your identity. guilt says you are a horrible person guilt
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says you are broken and worthless guilt tells you that
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you are too dirty to talk to god guilt points
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at your past and tells you that your future is
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ruined the goal of guilt is to push you further
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away from god and drive you into deep despair guilt
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makes you want to give up completely conviction is entirely
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different Conviction is an attack on the action, not your identity.
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Conviction says what you just did was wrong, but it
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is not who you are. Conviction points to the cross.
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Conviction hurts, but it is a good kind of hurt.
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It is like a doctor setting a broken bone. The
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pain is there, but the pain brings healing. Conviction draws
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you toward God. It makes you want to run to
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Jesus to get the wound clean. If the voice in
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your head is telling you to hide, to quit, or
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that you are a fake Christian, That is guilt from
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the enemy. You must reject it. If the voice in
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your head is telling you that you messed up, but
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you need to go to your Father for forgiveness, that
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is the Holy Spirit. Follow that voice. It will lead
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you back home. You are watching this because you feel
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a deep sense of sorrow over what you did. You
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hate the fact that you sinned. You might even feel
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exhausted and entirely frustrated with yourself. You need to know
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that your frustration is actually a wonderful sign. It is
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proof that you belong to God. Think about how the
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human body works. When you catch a virus, your body
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temperature rises. You get a fever. A fever feels miserable.
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You sweat, you shiver, and your whole body aches. But
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a fever means your immune system recognizes the disease and
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is fighting back. In the spiritual realm, sin is the disease.
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If you were spiritually dead, you would not care about
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your sin. People who do not know God can sin
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all day long and sleep perfectly fine at night. They
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enjoy it, but you feel sick over it. The Holy
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Spirit living inside of you is reacting to the sin,
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causing you to feel spiritual pain because you were not
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designed to live in the dark anymore. Your sorrow over
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your sin is absolute proof that your spirit is alive.
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Do not let the enemy convince you that your struggle
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means you are fake. Your struggle is proof that you
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are in the family of God. Many of us treat
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our walk with God like a streak-tracking app. We think
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we need to build up a perfect streak of good days.
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We go three days, five days, maybe two weeks without
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falling into our specific temptation. We feel strong. We feel
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like God is finally proud of us. But then a
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moment of weakness comes and we fall. The streak is broken.
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The counter resets to zero. When this happens, a very
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specific lie enters our minds. The lie says that because
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we broke the streak, all of our previous progress is
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completely destroyed. We feel like we are starting from the
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very bottom all over again. Because the record is ruined,
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we often figure we might as well just keep sinning.
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We give up the fight. This is a terrible deception.
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God does not measure your spiritual growth by consecutive days
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of perfection. He measures your growth by the direction of
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your heart. If a toddler is learning to walk, they
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will take three steps and then fall down. When they fall,
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the parents do not look at them and say they
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have to start learning to walk all over again. The
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parents celebrate the three steps and then help the child
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stand back up. The child is still learning to walk,
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even when they fall. Your progress is not erased just
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because you stumbled. The days you spent seeking God, the
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moments you said no to temptation, the prayers you prayed,
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they all matter. They were all real. Do not let
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one moment of failure convince you that the whole journey
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is ruined. Get back up. The only way you lose
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all your progress is if you refuse to stand up again.
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When we feel terrible about our sin, we often try
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to create our own punishment. We feel so guilty that
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we think it is wrong to ask for forgiveness immediately.
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We decide that we need to feel miserable for at
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least two or three days. We think we need to
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prove to God that we are truly sorry by punishing ourselves.
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We think this is humility. We think this shows God
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how seriously we take our sin. But this is not
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humility at all. This is actually a form of spiritual pride.
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When you punish yourself, you are secretly saying that the
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sacrifice of Jesus on the cross was not enough to
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cover this specific sin. You are saying that the blood
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of Jesus needs a little bit of help from your
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personal suffering. Feeling bad does not wipe away your mistakes.
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Only the blood of Jesus can do that. God does
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not want your self-imposed punishment. He wants your heart. When
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you delay your repentance, you are just wasting time that
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you could be spending in fellowship with your Creator. Do
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not wait until you feel clean enough to talk to God.
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You will never be clean enough on your own. You
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must come to Him while you are still dirty so
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that He can be the one to clean you. Your
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reaction to your own sin is deeply connected to how
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you picture God in your mind. Close your eyes and
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think about where God is sitting right now. Many people
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usually imagine God sitting on a giant throne in heaven,
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surrounded by blinding golden lights. In this picture, God is
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a distant and strict king. He is looking down at
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you from high above with a stern expression. He is
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examining your record and looking at every single mistake you
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just made. If this is how you see God, your
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response to sin will be pure fear. You will act
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like a terrified servant. You will try to hide from
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His holy light. You will try to argue that your
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actions were not that bad. You will beg Him not
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to punish you. And you will live in constant fear
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of being struck down. But the Bible offers a very
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different picture for those who have put their faith in Jesus.
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Because Jesus took the punishment for our sins, we are
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no longer just servants standing far away from a terrifying throne.
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We have been brought into the family. You need to
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stop picturing a distant throne in the clouds and start
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picturing a living room. Picture God sitting on a comfortable couch.
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There is an empty space right next to Him. He
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is your Father. He is waiting for you to come
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sit with Him. When you sin, you are not a
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worthless servant breaking the rules of a strict king. You
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are a child who has made a mistake. and hurt
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your father. A child does not bow down in terror
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to a distant ruler. A child simply walks up with
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tears in their eyes and says they are sorry. The
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father does not point a heavy golden staff at you
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in anger The Father simply opens his arms. Shift your
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mindset from the distant throne to the living room. It
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changes how you approach God completely. There is a beautiful
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moment in the Bible that perfectly explains what happens when
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a believer sins. It happened right before Jesus went to
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the cross. He was having a final meal with his
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closest friends. During the meal, Jesus took a towel and
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a bowl of water, and he began to wash the
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feet of his disciples. When he got to Peter, Peter
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was shocked. Peter did not want Jesus acting like a servant.
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Peter told Jesus that he would never wash his feet.
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Jesus told Peter that if he did not wash him,
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Peter could not have a part with him. So Peter,
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always acting extreme, told Jesus to wash his hands and
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his head as well. Peter wanted a whole bath, but
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Jesus gave a very profound answer. Those who have had
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a bath need only to wash their feet. Their whole
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body is clean, and you are clean, though not every
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one of you. In those days, people wore open sandals
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and walked on very dusty, dirt roads. When they went
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to a feast, they had already bathed their whole bodies
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at home. They were completely clean. But the walk to
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the house made their feet dirty. They did not need
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to take a whole new bath. They just needed the
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dust wiped off their feet. Quick update. I've removed older
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so I'll be uploading those old videos to Patreon completely free,
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so you can still listen to them anytime. Thank you
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for being here and for supporting the channel. The Patreon
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link is below. When you gave your life to Jesus,
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you were given a full spiritual bath. Your past, present,
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and future sins were washed away by His grace. You
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were made completely clean in the eyes of God. When
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you fall into sin, you do not lose your salvation.
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you do not need to be saved all over again
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you just need to sit down look at Jesus and
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let him wash your feet he is more than willing
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to do it right after we fail our emotions run
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very high we feel so guilty that we want to
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prove to God that we are serious about changing so
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we drop to our knees and we make grand promises
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we say things like Lord I promise I will never
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do this again I swear I am done with this forever.
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I will read my Bible every single day for three hours.
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I will never look at that thing again. These promises
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feel good in the moment. They give us a false
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sense of control. But they are incredibly dangerous. Why? Because
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you are making promises that rely entirely on your own
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human strength. You are telling God that your willpower is
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strong enough to defeat sin. But if your willpower was
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strong enough, you would not have sinned in the first place.
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When you make these grand promises and then break them
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three days later, your guilt doubles. You feel like a liar.
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You feel completely defeated. Instead of making impossible promises about
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the rest of your life, you need to be honest
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about your weakness. Stop promising God what you will do.
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start asking God for what you need instead of saying
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I will never do this again try praying like this
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Lord I am completely weak I do not have the
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strength to fight this on my own if you do
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not help me I will fall again tomorrow. I need
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your grace. I surrender my willpower to you. Please give
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me the strength just for today to honor you. Jesus
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taught us to pray for our daily bread. He wants
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us to rely on him day by day, moment by moment.
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Stop trying to secure the next 10 years of your
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life with a dramatic promise. Just focus on trusting him today.
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We have talked a lot about the mindset you need
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to have, but what should you actually do in the
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exact moment after you fail? The very first moments are crucial.
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The enemy wants you to sit in silence and drown
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in your shame. You need to take immediate action to
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break that heavy atmosphere. First, speak out loud. The enemy
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operates in the silent spaces of your mind. When you
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speak out loud, you break the silence. You do not
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need a fancy prayer. Just say it with your own voice. Say, Lord,
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I messed up. I sinned, but I know you love
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me and I ask for your forgiveness. Hearing your own
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voice declare your need for God brings the struggle into
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the physical world. Second, change your physical location. If you
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sinned in your bedroom, Get out of your bedroom. When
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you stay in the exact location of your failure, the
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temptation and the shame linger in the air. Moving your
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physical body helps reset your mind. Go walk around the block.
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Look at the sky. Remind yourself that the world is
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big and God is even bigger. Third, do not dwell
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on the details of the sin. our minds naturally want
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to replay the failure over and over again we analyze
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it we wonder why we did it but focusing on
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the sin just keeps your mind trapped in the gutter
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you must force your mind to look at something else
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open a bible app and read a psalm out loud
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put on an audio bible and just listen to the
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words you must replace the dark thoughts with the light
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of truth immediately if you can win the next five
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minutes after a failure you will stop a spiral of
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depression from taking over your day. There is a very
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common trap that people fall into right after they mess up.
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It is the trap of spiraling downwards. It happens because
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we feel so bad about the first mistake that we
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figure the entire day is ruined. We say to ourselves, well,
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I already broke my promise. I already messed up. I
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might as well keep going and start over tomorrow. The
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enemy loves this logic. He loves to convince you that
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since you tripped, you might as well throw yourself completely
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down the stairs. But think about how ridiculous this is
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in any other area of life. If you drop your
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phone and it gets a small scratch on the screen,
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you do not take a hammer and smash the entire
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phone into pieces. You pick it up and you are
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more careful next time. If you get a flat tire
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on your car, you do not get out and slash
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the other three tires. You fix the flat tire and
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keep driving. Do not let one moment of weakness become
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an excuse for rebellion. The first sin might have been
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a moment of weakness. The second sin is a calculated choice.
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Stop the bleeding immediately. It does not matter if it
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is the middle of the day. You do not have
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to wait for the sun to come up tomorrow to
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start fresh. The mercy of God is available right now
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at this exact second. You can draw a line in
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the sand right where you are and refuse to take
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another step in the wrong direction. One of the main
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reasons we keep falling into the same sins over and
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over again is because we try to fight them in secret.
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We are terrified of what people would think if they
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actually knew our struggles. We want everyone at church to
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think we have our lives perfectly put together, so we
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keep our failures locked inside a dark room in our hearts.
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But as we discussed earlier, sin loves the dark. When
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you fight a secret battle, the enemy has the upper hand.
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He can isolate you. He can whisper lies to you.
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And because you are alone, there is no one there
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to tell you the truth. God designed us to need
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each other. He designed the church to be a place
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of healing, not a museum for perfect people. The Bible
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gives us a very clear instruction about how to find
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true healing. Therefore, confess your sins to each other and
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pray for each other so that you may be healed.
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The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
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Notice that it says, we confess to God to be forgiven,
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but we confess to each other to be healed. There
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is a profound psychological and spiritual release that happens when
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you look another human being in the eye and admit
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your struggle. The secret loses its power over you. You
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do not need to stand on a stage with a
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microphone and tell the whole world, but you do need
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one person, someone who will not judge you, but will
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not let you stay comfortable in your sin either. Reach
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out to them. Send a text message right now that
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simply says, I am struggling with something and I need help.
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That one small step of courage can break the chains
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that have held you for years. If you want to
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stop repeating the same mistakes, You have to be honest
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about how you are getting into these situations. Nobody falls
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into a hole by accident every single day. Eventually, you
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have to realize that you keep walking down the street
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where the hole is. You need to look closely at
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your environment. What leads to your failure? Temptation usually follows
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a predictable pattern. It is rarely random. It happens when
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you are too tired, too lonely, or too stressed. It
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happens when you have your phone in your room late
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at night. It happens when you hang around certain people
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who pull you down. If you truly want to honor God,
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you must be willing to make uncomfortable changes to your environment.
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You cannot pray for God to deliver you from temptation
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while you are actively walking into the places where you
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know temptation lives. If you struggle with eating too much
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junk food, you do not leave cake sitting on your
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kitchen counter. you throw it away. If you struggle with
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things on your digital devices, you need to put harsh
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limits on them. This is not a lack of faith.
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This is wisdom. The Bible tells us to flee from
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youthful passions. Flee means to run away quickly. It does
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not mean to stand there and see how strong you are.
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Recognize the patterns that lead to your failure. Cut off
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the source before the temptation even has a chance to grow.
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Make it incredibly difficult for yourself to commit the sin.
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Guard your heart by guarding your environment. Many people approach
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fighting sin with the wrong strategy. They use the strategy
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of subtraction. They try to completely remove the bad habit
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from their lives, leaving a giant empty hole in their
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daily routine. They sit on the couch, staring at the wall,
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gripping their hands together, just trying as hard as they
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can not to do the bad thing. This strategy always
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fails because if you empty a space in your life,
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something else will naturally rush in to fill it. If
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you do not fill it with something good, the old
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bad habit will come rushing right back. often stronger than before.
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You cannot defeat darkness by fighting the dark. You can
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punch the air in a dark room all day long
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and it will still be dark. The only way to
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remove darkness is to turn on a light. You must
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use the strategy of addition. Do not just focus on
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stopping the bad behavior. Focus on starting new, healthy, spiritual behaviors.
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You have to crowd the sin out of your life.
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If you spend time reading the Word, if you spend
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time serving other people, if you fill your ears with
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good teaching and worship, your heart begins to change. The
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more you taste the goodness of God, the less the
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garbage of the world appeals to you. When you fall
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in love with Jesus on a deeper level, the things
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that used to tempt you start to look cheap and pathetic.
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You do not stop sinning just because you hate the sin.
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You stop sinning because you have found something vastly superior.
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Focus your energy on knowing God more, and the desire
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for sin will naturally begin to starve to death. If
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you still feel hesitant to go back to God right now,
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you need to hear the story Jesus told about a
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young man who ruined his life. It is the story
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of the prodigal son. This young man went to his father,
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demanded his inheritance early, and left home. He traveled to
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a distant country and wasted all the money on wild living.
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He sinned deeply. He rebelled completely. He eventually ran out
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of money and found himself feeding pigs, wishing he could
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eat the garbage the pigs were eating. In that moment
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of absolute rock bottom, he realized his mistake. He decided
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to go back home, but he did not expect to
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be treated like a son. He rehearsed a whole speech.
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He planned to beg his father to just let him
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be a hired servant. He felt too unworthy to be
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called a son again. He started the long walk home,
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completely covered in dirt and smelling like pigs. But while
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he was still a long way off, his father saw
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him and was filled with compassion for him He ran
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to his son, threw his arms around him, and kissed him.
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notice what happens here the father saw him from a
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distance that means the father had been watching the horizon
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every single day hoping his son would return and when
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he saw him he ran in that culture older men
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did not run it was considered undignified but love does
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not care about dignity the father ran through his arms
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around a boy who smelled like pig garbage and kissed
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him the boy tried to give his rehearsed apology speech,
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but the father interrupted him. The father immediately called for
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the best robe, a ring for his finger, and sandals
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for his feet. He threw a massive party because his
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child was home. This is exactly how God feels about
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you right now. You might feel dirty. You might have
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a speech prepared about how unworthy you are. But God
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is watching the horizon. He is ready to run to you.
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He wants to wrap His arms around you and put
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a robe of righteousness on your shoulders. He is not
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disgusted by you. He is thrilled that you are looking
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back toward home. When you fail, the enemy will tell
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you that your usefulness in the kingdom of God is
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officially over. The enemy says that God only uses perfect
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people with spotless records. He will tell you that you
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should just sit quietly in the back row for the
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rest of your life because you have messed up too
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many times. If you read the Bible, you will quickly
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discover that this is a total lie. The Bible is
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filled with broken people that God restored and used to
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change the world. Look at David. David was a man
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after God's own heart, but he committed adultery and arranged
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a murder to cover it up. It was a massive,
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devastating failure. But David repented deeply. God forgave him, and
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David went on to write many of the psalms we
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still sing today. Look at Peter. On the night Jesus
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needed him most, Peter denied even knowing Jesus. He did
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it three times. He swore curses and said he had
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no idea who Jesus was. When the rooster crowed, Peter
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wept bitterly. He felt like an absolute failure. But after
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Jesus rose from the dead, he made a special point
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to restore Peter. Jesus did not fire Peter. He reinstated him.
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Just a few weeks later, Peter stood up and preached
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a sermon where thousands of people gave their lives to God.
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God is an expert at bringing beauty out of ashes.
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He specializes in taking broken things and making them strong.
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Your failure does not disqualify you from the love of God,
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and it does not disqualify you from the purpose God
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has for your life. In fact, your struggle can become
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the very thing that helps you connect with other broken people.
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Once you receive the grace of God for your own mess,
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you become a perfect ambassador to share that grace with
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others who are hurting. Your story is far from over.
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God is just starting a new chapter. You have a
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choice to make right now. You can accept your fate
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as it is and walk back into the darkness. You
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can listen to the voice of guilt and isolate yourself
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from the only true source of hope. Or you can
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acknowledge your weakness and agree with the conviction of the
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Holy Spirit. You can choose to believe that the blood
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of Jesus is infinitely more powerful than the sin you
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just committed. Do not wait. for tomorrow. Do not wait
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until you feel better. Come to God exactly as you
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are right now. Speak out loud. Tell Him you are sorry.
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Let Him wash your feet. Reach out to a friend
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and bring your struggle into the light. Throw away the
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impossible promises and just ask for the strength to honor
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him today. You are entirely loved. You are completely known.
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The God of the universe sees every flaw, every failure,
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and every hidden wound in your heart, and he says
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that you are his child. Stand back up. The path
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ahead is clear, and you do not have to walk
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it alone. Your father is running down the driveway to
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meet you. Let him hold you and let us start
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walking forward again together. If this message encouraged your heart
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