Sermon
The life and faith of Abraham. Part 11 – Oops! I did it again. Genesis 20.
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Well, in um April 2000, Britney Spears
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released a successful pop song called
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Oops, I Did It Again. It's a song about
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how she led a guy to believe she was in
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love with him, but she wasn't. And she
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Did It More Than Once, hence Oops! I Did
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It Again. That's a line that uh if it
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had been written 4,000 years ago,
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wouldn't have been out of place on
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Abraham's lips. Although of course the
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gravity of his failing would seem to
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demand more than a lighthearted oops.
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But he had done it again. A very similar
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scenario had played out when he visited
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Egypt about 25 years earlier. In fact,
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some scholars suggest that perhaps this
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is an account that is is is not a
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separate one, but it's just a repeat and
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maybe the book editors have got a bit
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muddled up and put it in twice. But
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actually on closer inspection you can
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see there are a number of differences uh
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between that account and this occasion.
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So that we can see it was a different
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occasion. And we see by Abraham's own
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admission in verse 13 that this was his
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and Sarah's own practice. There was this
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was their agreed practice. Wherever they
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went they felt threatened. This is what
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they did. So what we have here is a
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repeated failure to trust God. So let's
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begin in our first point. A
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disappointing move.
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The opening words of chapter 20 are a
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bit obscure. From there
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Abraham journeyed and we're left
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thinking from where? Um probably memory.
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Uh the good news translations takes
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takes the liberty of inserting uh memory
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into the text though it's not actually
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there but it's probably where where they
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had been. He'd spent a lot of time in
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that region. They built an altar there.
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So chapter 13:18. So Abraham moved his
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tent and came and settled by the oaks of
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Mamry which are at Hebrron. And there he
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built an altar to the Lord. It was ma at
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memory that the Lord had appeared to
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Abraham and graciously restored Sarah's
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flagging faith. It was at that place
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that he had promised this time next year
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Sarah will be with child. you'll have a
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child and you'll have Isaac. And it was
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there that Abraham had prayed for mercy
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for Sodom. So, it's a fair assumption to
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say it was from that place, his home,
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the place where he was used to
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worshiping the Lord, the place of
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sacrifice
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and meeting the Lord in special ways.
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It's from that place that Abraham moves
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away from. And we observe a similar
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pattern in the earlier parallel account
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back in chapter 12:8. Abraham had
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settled in another place, a place east
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of Bethl. He built an altar there as
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well. He worshiped the Lord there. And
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then this famine hit and he traveled to
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Egypt and the whole disastrous affair
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unfolds there. After they've been found
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out, it would all come to light. Uh, and
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he gets Sarah back. Then in chapter
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13:3, he traveled back to where he' come
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from, back to the altar, back to the
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place of worship. And we noted when we
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looked at that passage, uh, his journey
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which resulted from a lack of faith took
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him away from the promised land, away
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from worship. But once he's been
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restored, he came back and he enjoyed
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renewed worship, renewed fellowship with
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the Lord again. And I do have to wonder
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if something similar is happening in
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this passage again.
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It had this amazing encounter with the
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Lord. He literally whined and dined. the
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Lord and his angels. He'd received
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promises from the Lord. And the Lord had
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shared his very thoughts, his plans with
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Abraham.
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Abraham was allowed to plead for mercy.
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And the Lord heard and agreed, yes, he
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would save Sodom, the whole place, if 10
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righteous were found. But as we saw last
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week, there was only one righteous man,
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Lot. So whilst Lot was saved, Sodom and
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Gomorrah were judged. And you have to
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think, how did that affect Abraham? As
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he woke up, as he saw the smoke rising,
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did he even know if his nephew Lot has
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was still alive when he saw that? What
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was he thinking?
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Perhaps he felt disillusioned.
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Perhaps he felt disappointed. Perhaps he
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even felt disappointed with God that
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this had happened.
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That is speculation. But what we do know
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is right after this has happened, he
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packs up his bags and he leaves that
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place, that special place. He heads back
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in the direction of Egypt. Doesn't go
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all the way, but he moves verse one to
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the NB. That was a hot, dry, parched
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area. And we might want to see some
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spiritual significance in there. Perhaps
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perhaps it is.
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He goes from the place of meeting with
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God to this dry parched land.
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And I I wonder if that is the same for
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us when things don't turn out in the way
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that we thought they would, in the way
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that we hoped,
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when things are tough,
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when things aren't going our way, we're
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struggling, things are hard, what what
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is the natural inclination?
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Some people take a break from church,
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don't we? Oh, I can't I can't face
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going.
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Can I urge you don't do that?
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When things are tough,
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that is precisely when we need to be
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meeting with the Lord and his people all
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the more. Because it's when times are
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tough, we're struggling. We can't pray
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for ourselves. We can't cope. Our
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thinking probably isn't very clear. We
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need to be amongst God's people who can
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come alongside us, love us, help us,
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support us, and pray for us. Retreating
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from church and from God and his people,
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it doesn't help.
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Well, certainly what follows
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in this account would tie in with him
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moving away from the Lord, a distancing
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from the Lord. is still technically in
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the promised land, but it is moving away
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from that safe place into a place that's
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potentially dangerous, the land of the
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Philistines.
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Some habits are good, aren't they? Like
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going for regular exercise, that's a
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good habit if you're in that um that
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habit. Some habits really don't matter
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at all. Whether you have your coffee at
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10 or 11, it's not a big deal, is it?
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But some habits are bad, like eating
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lots of sweets.
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It's been 25 years since his disastrous
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escapades in Egypt, but his old habits
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haven't been left behind. Despite his
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growth in faith and his growth in
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experience of the Lord, when he gets
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into a tight spot, Abraham falls back
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into his old habits of self-rust and
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lack of faith. And that can be the same
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for many of us. We can think we we've
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come so far in our Christian walk. You
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know, we we look back and we think,
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"Yeah, I'm I'm I'm much more mature than
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I used to be."
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And we think we've conquered that
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particular sin. We can strike that one
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off the list. I'm I'm I'm really feeling
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quite holy now. You know, I I I think
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I'm doing all right. And then suddenly,
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there it is out of nowhere. Oops. You
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did it again.
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How utterly disheartening that can be,
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can't it?
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Just when you thought you had outgrown
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that sin, the lustful desire reemerges.
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Your lack of mercy strikes again. The
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pride slips back in. The half truth
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slips out or the anger erupts like a
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damn burst.
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Um, there's a quote that might appear on
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the screen. It was by a British pastor.
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I'd never heard of him. uh but it was it
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featured in a commentary and I thought
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it was quite helpful. A guy called Alan
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Redpath once said, "The conversion of a
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soul is the miracle of a moment. The
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manufacturer of a saint is the task of a
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lifetime." I think that's quite helpful,
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isn't it? [laughter] The the conversion
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of a soul is the miracle of a moment.
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The manufacturer of a saint is the task
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of a lifetime.
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And that's not to excuse our sin and our
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failings.
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But although we are new creatures in
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Christ, we will find that there is this
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old man. The old flesh is still there
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with us. The roots of sin go deep like
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bindweed in your garden. You think
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you've got it all, but it comes back.
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And that's why we are to put to death
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sin. Not tolerate it, not play with it.
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That's why we put on our spiritual armor
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daily. Not just on special occasions,
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not just for Sunday. I'm going to
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church. I need to, you know, look like
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I'm I'm holy. That's why we seek the
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Lord and we keep close to the Lord and
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we ask for his help and his strength at
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all times. And that's also why we need
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to be realistic with ourselves. If you
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know
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that you struggle with a certain thing
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or you have historically struggled with
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a certain thing, it's wise to take
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precautions against it. Don't give
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yourself an inch for you will take the
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mile.
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We'll just have to try and filter out
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the uh exciting music coming from next
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door.
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Uh the point I'm trying to say is we can
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be particularly vulnerable to old sinful
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ways, especially at times of stress or
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or when we began to wander away from a
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day daily close walk with the Lord at
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those pressure points. We can revert
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back to old habits.
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Here when Abraham's in danger, he
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reverts back to his old sinful way of
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doing things. rather than seeking the
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Lord's help, rather than relying on the
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Lord, he tells a halftruth and he falls
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back into [music]
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deception.
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But I suppose it's only fair to ask, did
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Abraham actually have any reason to
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trust God? I mean, had God given him
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given him any reason to trust him
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anyway, or are we being a bit unfair on
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him? But he did. God had given Abraham
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many promises about the future. He just
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promised Abraham and Sarah would have a
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son this time next year. So Abraham
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should know if he's believed that he is
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safe until at least this time next year,
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isn't he? Because he's God's promised
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him a son.
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So he did have reason to think, "Yeah,
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God is not going to let anything happen
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to me at this point." But not only that,
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God has said back in chapter 15:1, "Fear
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not Abraham, I am your shield."
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So Abraham actually had good reasons to
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trust God. But in the face of fear,
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Abraham's faith fails. He heads off in a
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disappointing direction away from God,
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back to his old habits.
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And there's just a reminder there. Don't
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move away from God in difficult times.
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Move towards him. Seek him. Make him
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your refuge and your help. The Psalms
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are full of it, aren't they? You are my
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refuge. Suddenly, when the hard times
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hit us, we forget that and we go, "Whoa,
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I need I need a refuge." He is our
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refuge.
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But as sad as Abraham's move is, I do
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wonder whether it's actually a little
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bit of a comfort for us. For
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who of us
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has not done this
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again and again and again? Who of us
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have not failed time after time?
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If the father of faith could mess up in
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some way, in the same way and yet God is
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still merciful
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and still so full of grace. I know we we
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don't want to downplay sin. We'll see
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that the mess that sin makes. Yet to
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know if if we sin even repeatedly that
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that [music] doesn't mean it's game
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over, that God has given up on us. That
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is a real comfort for those of us who
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have fallen
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again.
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Do not have to despair if you've fallen
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again. There is still grace. Christian,
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your sin does not get the last word.
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So Abraham is heading in a disappointing
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direction away from God and away from
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faithfilled actions. He's gone back to
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the old halftruth and it gets him into
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the same old problems as we'll see in
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the next point, a nighttime encounter.
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One of the big arguments people make
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against God
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is if he is good
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and loving and all powerful, why is
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there so much suffering in the world?
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And that's not an easy question, is it?
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We would probably struggled with that to
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some degree ourselves. Not not quite
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understanding why things are as they
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are. Why doesn't God do something? It's
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it's a hard question and we we have to
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there's no quick easy answer. There are
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answers, but there's no quick and easy
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answer. It needs to be carefully
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unpicked and thought about. There's many
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different factors that are involved in
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the answering of that big question, most
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of which are beyond the scope of this
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morning. But one of the answers is is
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that God allows suffering because it's
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the way he lets us know things are wrong
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in the world. So when we move away from
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God, we move away from truth and
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righteousness and life and goodness
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and we are alerted to that by the things
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that happen. So pain alerts you to an
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issue. If you've got a thorn in your
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foot and you're treading on it, pain,
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it's painful, but that that's a good
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thing in that it alerts you to there's
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there's something wrong and you need to
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deal with it. As CS Lewis said, pain is
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God's megaphone to rouse a deaf world.
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But in that question about God and
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suffering is the assumption that God
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isn't actually doing anything. He's just
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sitting there letting it all happen. And
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I think that is also a wrong assumption.
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God is not completely inactive in the
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world and suffering in in all the things
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that are happening. As our passage
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clearly shows, God does in fact step in
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and restrain people and situations.
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So the sin that we see talked about in
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the Bible, the sin that we see in our
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world, it is horrific. It can be
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absolutely unthinkably awful. And yet
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God doesn't always allow things to be as
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bad as they could be.
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He does work behind the scenes to
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restrain evil and sin. But the thing is,
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unless he specifically reveals that to
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us, we are often completely unaware of
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what God is doing in the world or in our
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lives. Putting the brakes on, stopping
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that, stopping that, stopping that
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because we don't see, we don't see
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everything. We don't have all the
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answers.
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So, Abraham had stopped at Ger.
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Apparently, that was an important city
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on the border between Canaan and Egypt.
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It had a king whose name or perhaps uh
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something title was Aimilec. Uh and by
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this point Abraham was a tribal leader.
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He had a reputation of being wealthy and
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powerful. He was a powerful military
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figure. He's moved into the area and no
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doubt he had a reputation that preceded
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him. And so when Abraham comes visiting
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Aimilec is keen to form some kind of
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alliance with this man. this man who has
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a almost princely status
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and treaties and alliances were often
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cemented by marriage. Unfortunately, as
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we know, Abraham didn't have any
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daughters or sons at all. But thankfully
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for Aimilec, Abraham did have this
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sister. Okay? And that explains why even
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when Sarah is 90 now, Aimilec is still
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keen to take her as his wife. So even if
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we take into account the idea that in
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those days the the lifespan of the
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patriarchs were was stretched out. They
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lived for a lot longer than than we do.
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So by this point Sarah even if we say
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well she's more akin to a woman in her
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late 50s by modern standards she is
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still ah I'm going to get into trouble
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here but she's still quite old. Let's
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say that she's way beyond childbearing
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age and Aimilec had a wife and a harim
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and so he didn't actually need her. Um,
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additionally, unlike in Egypt, there's
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no mention made of her outstanding
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beauty. Um, here I'm sure she was still
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a fine and handsome woman. Um, but this
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seems to be much more of a politically
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motivated marriage. And if she was still
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highly attractive, well, that's just a
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bonus. That's the the cream on the
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cherry on top, isn't it? So, Aimilec
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takes her for his own and Abraham and
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Sarah play along.
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And you have to think, what were they
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thinking
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by their sin? Once again, they
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jeopardize all of the Lord's promises to
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them. Do you see? They've just been
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promised this son, and now they're
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giving her away to be the wife of
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another man.
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Now, God does allow us to sin.
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God does allow us to choose ways which
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take us away from him. People,
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Christians included, often have to live
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with the consequences
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of unwise and sinful choices.
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But from the passage, we see that God
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does at times intervene. This is one of
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those times that we clearly see God
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intervenes in a special way to prevent
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this sin coming [music]
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to to its full fruition.
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So why doesn't God do anything about all
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the bad things in the world? Well, the
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answer is sometimes he does.
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We just don't necessarily know it all
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the time. But here we do. Here we're
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told clearly what's going on. So God
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appears to Aimilec in a dream. And that
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might get us thinking, well, does God
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still um speak through dreams? Well, he
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can. And there are reports of God
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appearing to people or Jesus appearing
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to people in in their dreams even today.
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So, I wouldn't want to say that never
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happens. But we do have to be aware it's
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certainly not common place even in the
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Bible. It's rare. Okay. Um, and if God
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speaks in a dream, it seems to me that
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people know there is something
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significant in that dream. They know
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something has happened. So if you are
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dreaming something and you're thinking,
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"Ah, maybe this is from the Lord, I
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would suggest if you have to ask the
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question, it probably isn't."
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When people receive dreams from the
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Lord, it seems clear the dream is of a
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different order.
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In norm normal circumstances, we have
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God's word and that is God's revelation
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to us. That is where we meet God, where
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how we see God.
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But there might just be rare occasions
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when specific and urgent communication
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is needed as is here. So verse three,
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but God came to Aimilec in a dream by
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night and said to him, behold, you are a
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dead man because of the woman you have
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taken, for she is a man's wife. And we
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see in verse four, the relationship
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hasn't been consumated. And so Aimilec,
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he he acted in a with a clean
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conscience.
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But despite that, God is not happy about
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someone taking another man's wife, even
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in ignorance. Ignorance is is taken into
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account.
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But it doesn't nullify that a wrong has
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been done.
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If you break the law, even if you didn't
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know it was a law, you've still broken
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the law. And marriage is a serious
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business. Our our culture devalues
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marriage.
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Tries to reduce it to a mere piece of
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paper or just a temporary arrangement
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that could be changed on demand. But
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marriage is instituted by God when he
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gave Eve to Adam. And in Mark chapter
Mark 10 chapter mention
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10, we see that a joining takes place
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where God in some way joins two into one
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flesh. I'm pointing this out so that
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young and old here know marriage matters
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to God. It's not just a private thing.
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It's not just a human thing. It matters
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to God.
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So much so that in Aimilec's case to
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keep Sarah would cost him his life.
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That's what sin does.
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It kills.
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Just as God warned Adam, if you eat from
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that tree, you will die. So here, if you
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keep the girl, you will die.
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Why? End of verse three, for she is a
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man's wife.
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If someone is married,
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we need to be aware they are off the
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market.
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Stay away.
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Even Aimilec knew this when he
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challenges Abraham later on. He says
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verse 9, "You did things that ought not
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to be done."
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Perhaps this all seems a bit harsh on
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Aimilec. After all, Aim, he he didn't
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know he was sinning by taking her. But
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actually, what we see here is God's
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grace, real grace to him.
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God warns Aimilec in a dream. That is a
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rare and and great honor in itself. God
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appears to him in a dream. And at this
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point, Aimilec is is ill. So, he needs
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healing. verse 17 because of Sarah. So
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he's in a is is not well but God doesn't
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just leave him to die not knowing
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he appears he tells him what the issue
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is and what will happen and what what to
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do about that. So, so that is that's
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kindness. Aimilec, there's this
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situation. This is what you've done.
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This is the problem. That's what's going
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to happen. And this is what you need to
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do about that. That's grace.
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It's the same for us. We have the
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gospel. And at first, it doesn't seem
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like good news. All people are sinners.
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You think, "Oh, crumbs, that's hard,
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isn't it?" And the wages of sin is
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death. You think, "Oh, crumbs, that's
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really hard." But the gospel is good
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news because God has warned us. And like
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Aimilec, he gives us the chance to
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repent.
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the chance to live.
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And notice, God recognizes Aimilec's
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situation
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and he's been actively working in his
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situation, restraining him from fully
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sinning.
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If you find yourself in a situation and
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it's frustrating and this thing you want
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so much just doesn't seem to be
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happening,
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the relationship that you you're pushing
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for, the job that you think you you
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deserve or should be yours, the the
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house that you you dream about, the
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opportunity that you're going for, and
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you're you're pushing for it, and you're
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pushing for it, and you think, "Why
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isn't God giving me this? What, you
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know, what's going on? What? What's the
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problem here? Pause for a moment and
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consider
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just perhaps God could be intervening to
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restrain you for your own good.
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Perhaps there's things about what
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whatever it is you're striving for that
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you don't know, ramifications that you
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haven't appreciated.
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This isn't an excuse to shy away from
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hard work and persevering and overcoming
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obstacles and doing great things even
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when it's difficult. But but Christian,
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if it feels like the road is constantly
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blocked, it would be wise to pause
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and to seek the Lord about it. Because
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sometimes, like with Balam's ass, God
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sends things to get in the way and
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prevent certain actions.
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So in grace, Aimilec had been warned and
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and now it was time for a response, time
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to take action. And we'll look at that
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in our final point, a daytime encounter.
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Well, clearly this dream would have been
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shocking to Aimilec.
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It hadn't occurred to him that what he
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was doing by taking Sarah was was wrong
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at all. But with the threat of death
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hanging over him, it's hard to imagine
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how Aimilec got any sleep at all that
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night.
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Maybe that contributes to why he got up
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early in the morning. He didn't want to
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delay over this important matter. It
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needed to be dealt with. And do you know
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that reminds us of Abraham in his better
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moments? Do you remember a long time ago
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now? We thought about how Abraham was
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given the command to circumcise all all
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the men in his camp. And we remember we
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saw there um we might have been tempted
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to to just delay that bit. We'll just
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yeah let's just think about that. Let's
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uh take a few days to you know plan that
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one out. But actually we read early in
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the morning he did it straight away.
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Likewise we're going to see when he's
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told to take his precious only son Isaac
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off to sacrifice in Genesis 22:3
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in the morning that there's no delay.
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He's straight at it.
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That's Abraham in his better moments.
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Aimilec here, he knows the Lord has
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spoken and he's quick to obey.
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And there is a challenge there, isn't
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there? Because how often we tarry over
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these things.
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If the Lord is clearly speaking to you
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about something,
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don't delay.
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Take action. If the Lord is calling you
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to repent from some sin
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and you you know it but you you're
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finding it hard, don't delay. If the
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Lord is challenging you about your
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prayer life
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or your Bible reading or your attitude
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to something,
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but you keep making excuses,
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don't delay. If the Lord is convicting
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you that you really should be serving
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him in some way, doing something, you
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hear the call for, you know, I don't
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know, volunteers or whatever, and you
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think, yeah, I probably should, but and
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then you you kind of make your excuses.
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Why are you delaying?
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Aimilec knows he needs to act and so he
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does. He shares the situation with his
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servants or advisers and they take God
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seriously. Why? Because they're afraid.
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They realize we are dealing with a being
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a power that we can't fight against.
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Which is interesting because Aimilec
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confronts when Aimilec confronts Abraham
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later and asks him why you why have you
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done what you did? Abraham says it's
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because he thought there was no fear of
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God in that place and he was afraid of
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the people,
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not God. Do you see that? The irony
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here, the pagans fear God, and God's
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chosen man fears the people, not God.
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I suppose we could make a little link
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back to the spotlight next Sunday
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evening. The idea of living to please
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people. It's it's powerful actually. If
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we don't understand what's going on,
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that can be our master.
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It's important to recognize these
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things.
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If Abraham had feared God more than
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people, he wouldn't have lied. he
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wouldn't have got himself into this
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situation. A Christian, perhaps your
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spiritual life is stalled because you're
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too busy fearing
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people, what they might say, what they
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might what might happen. We're trying to
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please people. Keep that person happy.
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Keep that. I've got to do that because
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that person expects me to do that.
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When what we should be doing is looking
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to our God, beholding him, delighting
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ourselves in him, saying, "He is my God.
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He's my reason for living. Yes, I've got
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to love these people and serve them, but
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first of all, it is God. God first.
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But to make matters worse, it wasn't
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that Abraham came along to his people
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and and had a reason to actually fear
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them. He just assumed. He made the
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assumption. He made a rash and incorrect
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judgment about Aimilec and his people.
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And that maybe is a warning for us, too.
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Just because someone isn't a Christian,
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it doesn't mean they don't have any
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morals.
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doesn't mean they are completely
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corrupt.
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If if if that's our thinking, we're
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going to get very confused when we go
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out into the world and we discover h do
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you know what? There's someone who isn't
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a Christian, but they're actually better
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behaved than some Christians I know. And
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we think, how do I deal with that?
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You know, all people are made in the
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image of God. And though every aspect of
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that has been defaced and is marred and
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is affected by sin. So every aspect of
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our being is affected by sin. And yet
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there is still something of God about
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all people. We have a conscience. We
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have a moral sense.
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And so we shouldn't be surprised when we
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see morality and other good things even
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in those who don't know God.
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Morally it's obvious who comes out on
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top here. It's Aimilec, isn't it? All
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the way. Which is shocking really. You
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know what's at the heart of Abraham's
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failure is he he's not fearing God. He's
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not trusting God. He's underestimated
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his God. He thinks God is not going to
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be able to look after him. He can't
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trust himself to God. He knew the
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promises of God, but he chose not to
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trust in God when he found there was
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disappointments or confusion. Confusion.
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God did things he didn't like or didn't
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understand. and he's like, "Well, I I
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don't know how to deal with that. So, I
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don't know if I can trust God." That can
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be the same for us.
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God's all right for the spiritual stuff,
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but for the real stuff, you know, I
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don't think I can really trust God.
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And when he doesn't trust God for the
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real life issues, but chooses to sin
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instead, that's when it goes wrong for
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him. And when we don't trust God, when
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we won't follow him because we think
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it's a bit scary, a bit dangerous, when
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we take the shortcut, that's not actions
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that come out of faith.
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They come out of unbelief.
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It's embarrassing. Abraham, this great
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figure of the Bible, has been shown up
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by Aimilec, who has comparatively little
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knowledge of God. And when Abraham gives
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his excuses, they all seem rather weak.
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And all he can do is assure aim. Oh, you
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know, this isn't personal. Verse 13, we
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do this everywhere. Well, great. Thanks
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for, you know, letting us know.
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But even after Abraham's weak excuses,
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Aimilec acts with grace. He honors
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Abraham. Presumably, he does that for
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the sake of the God who for some reason
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has chosen Abraham. Aimilec can look at
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this situation and go, "Well, I'm not
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that impressed with Abraham, but I'm
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impressed with his God, so he honors
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Abraham because of his God."
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Verse 14, he blesses him and showers
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Abraham with animals and slaves. He
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allows Abraham to live anywhere he wants
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in the land. He returns Sarah. Aimilec
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even seems to think more about Sarah's
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honor than her own husband does. He
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gives this generous gift of a thousand
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shekels which is so much money that it
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would have taken several lifetimes to to
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earn that amount. Now we're looking at
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that and thinking I don't know really
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how that vindicates Sarah but apparently
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in that culture in that context it did.
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That was to vindicate her so everyone
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would know she is innocent. She did not
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sin here.
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It's funny. It's like this pagan king is
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showing Abraham this is how to live a
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godly life. This is how to live a
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gracious life. I don't know if Aimilec
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was saved, but he certainly had some
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sort of life-changing encounter with God
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and affected what he did.
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But I can't help but think right at this
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point, Abraham's feeling seriously
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red-faced and rebu rebuked.
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After all, he is the recipient of all
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these amazing promises to God. He knows
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kings are going to come from him. But
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right now, this Canaanite king seems to
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be more in line with God than he is.
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Oops.
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But it's it's true, isn't it? God
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chooses to save us. If you're a
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Christian here, God chooses to save us
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not because we are better than other
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people, not because we were morally
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superior, not because we had it all
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together. and he looked at us and said,
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"Oh, they're a thoroughly decent person.
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I'm going to save them." He chooses to
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save us because of his grace.
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And in grace, God still allows Abraham,
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despite his failings, he still allows
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Abraham to bless Aimilec.
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Abraham may have failed, but he's called
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upon to pray. And God graciously hears
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the prayer and heals Aimilec and his
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family. And despite it all, God still
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blesses Abraham through Aimilec.
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I don't know what lapses in faith
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you have
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had in this last week or two.
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I don't know how many times you've gone
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back to your old ways recently.
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I don't know what mess you have made of
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everything.
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Perhaps you've trodden some pretty
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shameful paths. Perhaps you've done
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things no Christian should do.
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And yet there is no situation that God
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cannot redeem.
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There is no situation that God's grace
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cannot penetrate.
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And God is working throughout this whole
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episode in grace upon grace.
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He warns Aimilec about the danger and
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the sin he's in. Amazingly, he calls his
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Aimilec to bless Abraham. Despite
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Abraham's certainly not deserving any
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blessing, he graciously answers
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Abraham's prayer, reaffirming to
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Abraham, despite your failure, Abraham,
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despite you doing these stupid things,
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he graciously answers his prayer. And
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and by that is saying, I'm still your
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God. I will still hear you. I will still
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answer you. It's not that we should ever
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take our sin lightly, you know, Britney
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Spears style. Oops, I did it again. No.
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When we we've seen that when we sin, it
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it messes things up. It hurts people. It
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hurts us. It's against God. We've seen
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the warning God gives. Sin deserves
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death. But when we sin, that doesn't
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have to be the end. For those in Christ,
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despite us not deserving it, there is
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grace upon grace. How amazing that God
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doesn't treat us as our sins deserve.
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How amazing that in Christ we have every
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spiritual blessing.
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How amazing that God sets his love on
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sinners like us. Was Abraham worthy?
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No. Are you worthy?
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No. But how gracious God chooses to set
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his love upon us. How gracious that God
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chooses to use imperfect people like us.
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And in Christ, he even blesses us
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richly. This is God's amazing grace.
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Let's just be quiet before the Lord for
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a few moments. [snorts]
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Father God, perhaps there are some of us
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here who have heard you calling to us,
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Lord. Perhaps we are in places we know
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are not good. Perhaps we have [sighs]
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walked away from you a little bit.
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Perhaps we're frustrated with you in
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some way. Father, I pray that you would
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bring us back to that close walk with
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you. I pray that you would show us grace
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even this morning. I pray, Lord, that we
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might be aware of you calling to us,
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Lord, with those open arms of a loving
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father beckoning us to come back. Lord,
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we pray that we would not stay away,
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that we would not drag our heels, that
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we would not love our sin more than we
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love you. Oh Lord, I pray that we would
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be a people who come joyfully, happily,
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humbly before you with gratitude and
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thanks in our hearts for you are God and
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in you there is life and peace and hope.
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So Lord, we come to you now Lord not
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claiming moral superiority but claiming
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your son. He is our only hope. We thank
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you in Jesus name. Amen.