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The Model Life: Adaptability, Part 1

CCC West Covina

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  1. Take your Bible if you would please, and turn to 1st

  2. Thessalonians chapter 5. As we look at verses 12 to 15

  3. this morning, and as you're turning, I'm reminded of a of a

  4. parable written by Karen Maines that she entitles A Brawling

  5. Bride. She paints A vivid scene

  6. describing A suspenseful moment in a wedding ceremony.

  7. Down front stands the groom in a spotless tuxedo, handsome,

  8. smiling, full of anticipation, shoes shined, every hair in

  9. place, anxiously awaiting the presence of his bride.

  10. All the attendants are in place, looking joyful and attractive.

  11. The magic of moment finally arrives as a pipe organ reaches

  12. full crescendo and the stately wedding March begins.

  13. Everyone rises and looks toward the door for their first glimpse

  14. of the bride. Suddenly there is a horrified

  15. gasp. The wedding party is shocked.

  16. The groom stares in embarrassed disbelief.

  17. Instead of a lovely woman dressed in elegant white,

  18. smiling behind a lace veil, the bride is limping down the aisle.

  19. Her dress is soiled and torn, her legs seems twisted, ugly

  20. cuts and bruises cover her bare arms.

  21. Her nose is bleeding, one eye is purple and swollen, and her hair

  22. is dishevelled. Does not this handsome groom

  23. deserve better than this? Asked the author.

  24. And then the clincher. Alas, his bride.

  25. The church has been fighting again, calling the church a

  26. bride. Paul says these words in

  27. Ephesians 5. Christ loved the church and gave

  28. himself up for her to make her holy and clean so that he could

  29. give her to himself as a glorious church without a single

  30. spot or wrinkle or any other blemish being holy and without a

  31. single fault. That's the plan, to present a

  32. beautiful bride unscathed, spotless, blameless to his

  33. Father in heaven. And positionally that is true.

  34. That's exactly what's going to happen.

  35. But practically everyday life is a lot different in the life of

  36. the bride. Instead of being spotless, she

  37. is filled with anger and bitterness, infighting,

  38. quarreling, arguing, conflict, unresolved happening all the

  39. time, making her a bride that's completely dishevelled and

  40. unlike the bride that will be presented to his Father in

  41. heaven. It is true that the bride does

  42. survive the blows of the world. All the things the world froze

  43. at. The bride she she can handle.

  44. But it's the infighting that makes the bride so unattractive.

  45. Puritan Thomas Brooks once penned these words.

  46. He said for wolves to worry lambs is no wonder, but for

  47. lambs to worry one another, this is a natural and monstrous.

  48. So Paul in his own way is going to address how the church is to

  49. function, to show that the model life is one that adapts to each

  50. and every situation with the leadership and with the

  51. membership, so that the fellowship of the bride, the

  52. fellowship of the church, is all that God designed it to be.

  53. And so Paul pins these words in First Thessalonians chapter 5,

    1 Thessalonians 5:12

  54. verse 12 by saying this. But we request of you, brethren,

  55. that you appreciate those who diligently labor among you and

  56. have charge over you and the Lord, and give you instruction

  57. that you seen them very highly in love because of their work.

  58. Live in peace with one another. We urge you, brethren, admonish

  59. the unruly, encourage the faint hearted, help the weak.

  60. Be patient with everyone. See that no one repays another

  61. with evil for evil, but always seek after that which is good

  62. for one another and for all people.

  63. Fall very simply sums up how we as brethren behave and react and

  64. adapt to those who lead us and to those around us, so that the

  65. Church can be that which God designed it to be.

  66. So the model life is not just one of abstinence in chapter 4,

  67. verses 1 to 8, or aspiration in chapter 4, verses 9 to 12, or

  68. anticipation in chapter 4, verses 13 to 18, or alertness

  69. chapter 5, verses 1 to 11, but adaptability, flexibility, the

  70. ability to get along one with another within the body of

  71. Christ. And so he requests, He said that

  72. in chapter 4 verse #1 as well. He appeals to them, first of all

  73. in their relationship to the leadership and then in the

  74. relationship to one another. Now, whether there was conflict

  75. in the church, we don't necessarily know, but we know

  76. that the Church of Thessalonica was a young church, and so those

  77. who led in the church were young in the Lord.

  78. They weren't mature men who had been around and seasoned in

  79. their lives and walk with the Lord over a period of time.

  80. They they were young like everyone else was young in the

  81. Lord, in the church. And so these men, young and the

  82. Lord were appointed by Paul to lead in the church, doesn't call

  83. them elders, but he says they do have charge over you.

  84. So they have some kind of leadership responsibility and

  85. maybe there was conflict between some of the members in the

  86. church. So he gives them exhortation as

  87. to how it is you are to respond to the leadership.

  88. And then he gives them exhortation on how you are to

  89. respond to the membership one one another.

  90. And then he says this is how the fellowship of the church will be

  91. all that God wants it to be. So when it comes to the

  92. leadership, in verses 12 and 13, he gives 3 exhortations, 3

  93. responses, three ways that you are to deal with them.

  94. Number one is appreciation for the person.

  95. Number 2 is admiration for his position and #3A preservation of

  96. the peace. First of all, he says there

  97. needs to be an appreciation for the person.

  98. Look what he says. He says very clearly in verse

  99. 12, We request of you, brethren, that you appreciate those who

  100. diligently labor among you and have charge over you in the Lord

  101. and give you instruction. The reason you appreciate them

  102. is because of the fact that they labor among you.

  103. They lead you, and they look after you.

  104. That's why you appreciate them. And the word appreciate means to

  105. to know intimately. And it's really interesting

  106. because Paul is exhorting the church to know the leadership

  107. intimately. Usually the leaders are exhorted

  108. to know the church intimately, but here the church is exhorted

  109. to know the leadership intimately.

  110. He puts a responsibility on the church to appreciate those who

  111. lead them, who are over them in a way that they would know them

  112. in an intimate manner. And so he puts the

  113. responsibility of the church to know them and to appreciate

  114. them. Why?

  115. Number one is because they diligently labor among you, not,

  116. not over you, but but among you that they're working hard in the

  117. word. They're working hard to, to, to

  118. treat you in a way that honors the Lord.

  119. They're working hard at at leading you in in the proper

  120. way. It it was used to Paul earlier

  121. in chapter 2 when he said these words in verse #9 for you

  122. recall, brethren, are labor and hardship.

  123. How working night and day so as not to be a burden to any of

  124. you. We proclaim to you the gospel of

  125. God. He says, you know, brethren, how

  126. we worked hard among you. In fact, in chapter 2, we talked

  127. about the model leader. He says, you know this about us.

  128. You know that about us. You are witnesses about us.

  129. You know us intimately because this is how we behaved among

  130. you. And so now he's telling the

  131. church at Thessalonica to appreciate those who lead them,

  132. who labor among them, that they might understand their

  133. responsibility in terms of their walk with the Lord.

  134. Now, I've been around a long time, and I've seen a lot of my

  135. friends and colleagues in pastoral ministry go through

  136. churches unbelievably fast simply because they did not

  137. sense any appreciation from those they led.

  138. And there are various reasons for that, and I understand that.

  139. But I'm a firm believer that you work through those situations

  140. that that you stay long where you're at, that you just don't

  141. come and because of conflict or because of somebody who's

  142. irritated with you or doesn't like you, you end up leaving

  143. because you can't get along with people.

  144. No, you need to work through those situations.

  145. I'm a firm believer that every pastor needs to stay in one

  146. church and one church only. I'm a firm believer that I don't

  147. think you ought to change churches to churches.

  148. I think that's wrong. I think that's instability for

  149. the people. I think it's not good for the

  150. church. You need to stay where God has

  151. called you to minister. But even with some of those men

  152. who stayed a long time, they were running out of the church.

  153. Take for example, Jonathan Edwards.

  154. He was the the author of the Great Awakening, the the

  155. greatest revival in American history, probably the greatest

  156. theologian of his day. He pastored the same church for

  157. 23 years. So you're a part of this church

  158. and in the 1700s, and you have Jonathan Edwards as your pastor,

  159. and he's the greatest theological mind of his day.

  160. He's preaching and teaching, working hard, laboring among you

  161. to teach you the truth of God's Word.

  162. And in the 23rd year of his ministry, the people ran him out

  163. of the church, ran him out. They were done with them in the

  164. end of this ministry, teaching a dozen Indians the simple gospel

  165. message. The church that he pastored for

  166. 23 years did everything they could to soil his reputation so

  167. no one would hire him as their pastor.

  168. Think about that. The greatest theological mind of

  169. the 17th century or the 1700s was booted from his church.

  170. It gets worse. Move to the 1800s, You had the

  171. greatest preacher, whoever lived, the Prince of Preachers,

  172. Charles Spurgeon. He was a part of his church for

  173. over 30 years. He was so popular, he was so

  174. great, that when he was done preaching, they would edit his

  175. sermons, put them on every ship that left England so that the

  176. world would hear the gospel message preached by the Prince

  177. of Preachers. Think about that.

  178. How long would it take a ship to leave England, to get to where

  179. you live? You'd be waiting weeks, months

  180. to hear that message that was preached by Spurgeon.

  181. But that's what they did. And they ran off all these

  182. copies and they put them on the ships and they moved them out

  183. all around the world. Here he was pastoring the church

  184. in England, and after 30 years of ministry, the Baptist Union

  185. voted him out. And you know who the final vote

  186. was? It was his associate pastor, who

  187. just happened to be his very own brother.

  188. And he was booted out after all those years of ministry simply

  189. because of a stand on truth and his uncompromising conviction of

  190. the on the word of God. Think about that.

  191. You see, it's one thing for a man to be in a church for two or

  192. three years and move on. It's nothing for a man to be in

  193. church for a long period of time, 2 decades, 3 decades, 4

  194. decades and the church rise up and say we're done with you, you

  195. got to go. And Paul says to those in

  196. Thessalonica, I I want you to appreciate those who labor among

  197. you. I want you to know them

  198. intimately. I want you to value them.

  199. I want you to realize the task before them.

  200. You see, one of the one of the problems with with laboring

  201. among the people is not so much the work involved, it's the

  202. loneliness involved. I tell people all the time,

  203. listen, you want to go into the pastorate, that's great.

  204. But I want you to know you must learn to love loneliness to be a

  205. pastor, to be any kind of leader worth any salt.

  206. You must learn to love loneliness because you're

  207. isolated, you're on an island, you're going to make decisions.

  208. Leaders are decision makers. You make a decision.

  209. People are not going to like the decision you made.

  210. There'll be up in arms against your decision.

  211. So you can't make decisions on basing what you do to please

  212. people. You do it based on pleasing the

  213. Lord and, and sometimes you're going to make decisions that

  214. people are not happy with, but it requires great loneliness.

  215. Paul experienced that. Remember over in Second Timothy

    2 Timothy 1 chapter mention

  216. chapter 1, Paul says these words.

  217. He says to Timothy, You are aware of the fact that all who

  218. are in Asia turned away from me. Here's the apostle Paul all

  219. right, and all those in Asia turned away from me, among whom

  220. are fragilis and homogeneous. The Lord grant mercy to the

  221. House of onociferous, for he often refreshed me and was not

  222. ashamed of my chains. In other words, there were those

  223. who deserted him because they were ashamed of Paul and ashamed

  224. of the fact that he was in prison.

  225. But not onosiferous, whose name means bringer of prophet.

  226. Onosiferous one to bring prophet to Paul.

  227. So he says these words. But when he was in Rome, verse

  228. 17, he eagerly searched for me and found me.

  229. The Lord grant to him to find mercy from the Lord on that day.

  230. And you know very well what services he rendered at Ephesus,

  231. Paul says as he's riding away in this Mamertine prison in Rome.

  232. Everybody in Asia has forsaken me, but there is one guy on

  233. Luciferous who searched for me and found me.

  234. The Lord granted mercy to his household, but Paul was isolated

  235. because he was in prison. Look what it says earlier in

  236. chapter 4. Later in chapter 4, he says in

  237. verse #9 make every effort to come to me soon, For Demas,

  238. having loved this present world, has deserted me and gone to

  239. Thessalonica. Demas deserted him, He left him.

  240. Demas was a disciple of the apostle Paul, but there were so

  241. many people that would desert him and leave him isolated.

  242. And the later it says this in verse #16 at my first offense,

  243. no one supported me. No one but all deserted me.

  244. Everybody left me. I was all alone.

  245. May it not be counted against them.

  246. This, this is so good. Listen.

  247. But the Lord stood with me and strengthened me so that through

  248. me the proclamation might be fully accomplished, and that all

  249. the Gentiles might hear, and I was rescued out of the lion's

  250. mouth. The Lord will rescue me from

  251. every evil deed, and will bring me safely to His heavenly

  252. Kingdom. To him be the glory forever and

  253. ever. Amen.

  254. So here's Paul at the end of his ministry, and he's in this

  255. memory team prison in Rome, and he's talking to young Timothy

  256. because Timothy needs to be prepared for the fact that he's

  257. going to be deserted. He's going to be left alone.

  258. It's going to happen. If you're going to lead, this is

  259. what takes place. But know this, that the Lord

  260. stood with me. The Lord will always stand with

  261. the leader who stands alone, and the Lord will stand with that

  262. man and rescue him as he rescued the apostle Paul and

  263. strengthened him to God be the glory.

  264. And so you got to realize that the labor in the ministry is not

  265. so much the, the preparation, the counseling, the teaching,

  266. the late hours. The Paul would say to those in

  267. in Ephesus. I labored day and night with

  268. tears. Acts Chapter 20, verse #31

    Acts 20 chapter mention

  269. Because I wanted you to hear the gospel.

  270. And that's that's hard work, that's labor, that's strenuous

  271. work. But but the hardest work is when

  272. your friends desert you and they leave you and they walk away

  273. from the ministry and they want nothing to do with you anymore.

  274. And Paul experienced that all the time.

  275. And so Paul says, and 1st, that's the way it's five.

  276. I want you to appreciate those who, who labor among you.

  277. And then he says this. Not only do they labor among

  278. you, he says, but he says they have charge over you in the

  279. Lord. They have charge over you in the

  280. Lord. In other words, they stand

  281. before you. They, they stand ahead of you.

  282. Why? Because they're examples.

  283. They're leaders. See all, all, all leaders are,

  284. are examples. I, I want you to appreciate them

  285. because they set themselves up as standing before you as

  286. examples that they're, they're leading you.

  287. You can't, you can't lead unless you're, you're in front.

  288. And so that they're in front, so you can see their lives.

  289. That's just so important. That's why Paul told Timothy in

  290. First Timothy 412. Timothy, I know you're young,

  291. but let no man look down upon your youth, but be thou an

  292. example in your life, in your love, in your, in your faith, in

  293. your, in your purity, in your devotion.

  294. Make sure you set yourself up as an example for everyone to see,

  295. because that's the power of leadership.

  296. It's influence, it's impact, right?

  297. You know what? This has fathers, right?

  298. You can, you can tell your children all kinds of things,

  299. but if you don't lead by example, then they're not going

  300. to follow. You have to lead by example.

  301. You have to show them the way to go.

  302. Just can't tell them the way to go.

  303. You got to show them the way to go.

  304. And this is what this is what Paul does.

  305. He says, look, they are those who who stand before you, they

  306. lead you, not only the labor among you, but but they lead

  307. you, they're in front. And so learn to know them

  308. intimately. But that's just so important.

  309. Let me give you an example. Number of years ago, a lady came

  310. up to me after our first service and she says, you know, I, I've

  311. heard you talk about your wife over the years and say things

  312. about her. But but I've been coming to the

  313. church for a long time, but I've never ever seen your wife.

  314. So I just am curious as a pastor, why is that I never see

  315. your wife? I said that's a great question.

  316. I said my wife, she works in the two and three-year old in the

  317. first service. That's why you don't see her.

  318. I said I assume you only come to the first service.

  319. She said yes, I just come to the first service.

  320. I said if you would come to the second service you would see her

  321. sitting down front with me. I said better yet, you could go

  322. to the first service and serve alongside of her in the twos and

  323. threes. Then you would know her

  324. intimately and then you could come and worship beside us in

  325. the second service and you would see her.

  326. Or even you could come on Wednesday nights.

  327. Do you come on Wednesdays? She says no.

  328. I said, well, if you came on Wednesdays, you would see her in

  329. the Bible study. You would see her here.

  330. I said it's important that you ask the question because as a

  331. leader, if you don't see my wife, there is a problem.

  332. As an elder, if you don't see my wife, that's the problem, right?

  333. Why? Because you need to see how we

  334. interact, how we worship together, how we pray together.

  335. You need to see the physical affection that we have one for

  336. another that provides an example.

  337. You need to be able to see my children.

  338. Why? Because it's the leader.

  339. You're in a bubble, right? And everything about the leader

  340. is magnified in the bubble. And so you have to be able to

  341. say, look, follow me as as I follow Christ.

  342. And so as people look into the bubble, everything is magnified

  343. and bigger than than normal. But you must be able to see the

  344. leader's wife and you must be able to see the leader's

  345. children because you want to know how he functions at home,

  346. right? Does he lead his family?

  347. Are his children in submission to his authority that he follow

  348. his leadership right. Why because they are set before

  349. you. They are examples, Paul says I

  350. want you to appreciate these men Why?

  351. Because they labor among you and they lead you.

  352. They're in front of you. Watch their lives, see their

  353. lives, because you have to examine their lives and examine

  354. them in light of the Scripture and, and to see the man's wife

  355. and to see the man's children and see how he interacts with

  356. them. Because that's the essence of

  357. leadership, right? Because if a leader's

  358. effectiveness at home is minimized, then the ministry in

  359. the church will never be maximized.

  360. It will always be minimized. People need to be able to see.

  361. And so therefore I told the lady, I said, that's a great

  362. question that holds me accountable and I want to be

  363. accountable to you for that. That's great.

  364. But I said, if you come to the second service, my wife will be

  365. right down here with me sitting right here and you won't miss

  366. her and you can, I'll introduce her to you.

  367. And a couple of weeks later, she decided to come to the second

  368. service and I introduced her to my wife.

  369. She didn't get involved in serving at all, but she just

  370. came to 1 service. And that's OK, at least at least

  371. she came, right? But you see that that just

  372. reminded me of the accountability that elders have

  373. that leaders have in the church to make sure that they are out

  374. front leading the way in their marriage with their children,

  375. seen by the people of the church, so that the church can

  376. observe the leadership of the man in his family.

  377. That is so incredibly important. And Paul says these men are out

  378. in front. Appreciate them for their way

  379. they lead you. Appreciate them for the way they

  380. labor among you and pre appreciate them.

  381. Thirdly, simply because they looked after you.

  382. He says they they give you instruction.

  383. In other words, they put into mind those things you need to

  384. know. That's very important.

  385. Appreciate them because they're going to correct you, they're

  386. going to instruct you, they're going to teach you.

  387. The reason you appreciate your leaders is because they want to,

  388. they want to feed you the word of God.

  389. This is so important. You see these, these are new

  390. believers, right? And, and, and, and Thessalonica.

  391. Well, what did new believers need?

  392. What, what does your baby need? You, you, you have a newborn

  393. baby and the baby comes out and, and, and what is the most

  394. important thing your baby needs? Your hugs.

  395. Nope. Your kisses.

  396. Nope. A new blanket, a new car seat, a

  397. new stroller, a new bed. Those are all great things, but

  398. that's not what they need them. What do they need the most?

  399. They got to eat. If you don't feed them, they're

  400. going to die. If you don't hug them, they're

  401. still going to live as long as they're fed.

  402. If they have the bat, a terrible one wheeled stroller, they'll

  403. still survive, right? If you don't kiss them, they're

  404. still going to make it to the next day.

  405. But if you don't feed them, they're dead.

  406. You got to feed them. That's what babies need.

  407. And Paul says you appreciate them because they're going to

  408. instruct you. They're going to put in the in

  409. the into your mind the things you need to know in order to

  410. live the way you need to live for the glory and honor of of

  411. the king. And so you appreciate them for

  412. that. So many times people are

  413. unappreciative of the fact that a leader would come to them and

  414. and confront them on an issue or talk to them about an issue and

  415. they get offended. But they only care for your

  416. soul. They're looking out for you.

  417. They want what's best for you and your family.

  418. So Paul says appreciate them. Appreciate the person because he

  419. laborers among you. He he leads you, he's out in

  420. front and he looks after you. He looks after your soul.

  421. That's why he instructs you and teaches you and put things into

  422. your mind so you'll understand the way to go.

  423. So there's needs to be an appreciation for the person and

  424. then an affirmation of his position.

  425. Look what he says. He says these words in verse 13

  426. and that you esteem them very highly in love because of their

  427. work, their position, what it is they're doing.

  428. There needs to be an elevation of them because not the person,

  429. but because of their position, because the word God has put

  430. them that that that's that's where they're at.

  431. Esteem them very highly because of the work that God's given to

  432. them. No, no, Remember Paul in Acts 23

  433. when he spoke out against Agrippa.

  434. Remember what he says in Acts 23 verse #5 he says, I was not

  435. aware, brethren, that he was the high priest.

  436. For it is written, you shall not speak evil of a ruler of your

  437. people. Paul apologized because he

  438. didn't know that Ananias was the the high priest.

  439. He spoke rudely to him. If God thinks that speaking

  440. rudely to an unbelieving ruler or official is wrong, what do

  441. you think he thinks about those in the church who speak evil of

  442. those who lead in the church? Think about that.

  443. So Paul apologized, I was wrong. This is God put him in the

  444. position, God has him there, and I was wrong to speak rudely to

  445. him. Well, how much do you think it

  446. would be in the mind of God if you were to speak rudely, rudely

  447. of those that God had placed in the position of leadership in

  448. the church? He says esteem them highly for

  449. their work's sake. What are they doing?

  450. They're they're in the work of the Lord.

  451. They're they're serving the Lord.

  452. A A number of years ago, John MacArthur was asked why he loved

  453. the church. And so he began to to write the

  454. reasons why he loved the church on a napkin in a restaurant.

  455. And the very first thing he wrote was this.

  456. He says #1 I love being a pastor because the church is the only

  457. institution Christ promised to build and bless.

  458. Christ is only doing one thing in the world.

  459. I know that might be shocking to say, maybe sounds a little

  460. oversimplified, but it's actually the truth.

  461. Christ is only doing one thing in the world, and that is He is

  462. building His church. God is through the Holy Spirit

  463. under the Lordship of Jesus Christ, calling out of people

  464. for His name. The part of history that matters

  465. is the redemptive part. All the rest of human history is

  466. simply backdrop. It's Decor.

  467. It's the staging for the real drama, which is the drama of

  468. redemption and how exhilarating it is to be in the middle of

  469. that, to be a part of the only thing that Christ is doing in

  470. the world and that is building his church.

  471. If I want to be at the epicenter of what God is moving, then I

  472. need to be in the church. God's purpose in the world is to

  473. call to Himself a redeemed people who will live to the

  474. praise of His glory, to build His church, to build the body.

  475. And there is no greater calling possible, conceivable than to be

  476. a servant of Christ and under shepherd in the church.

  477. It is of great comfort and great encouragement and great joy and

  478. produces great gratitude in my heart that God has given me a

  479. small part to play in the work of Christ, to build His church.

  480. I wouldn't, he says, stoop to do anything else.

  481. What a statement. I'm in the epicenter of what God

  482. is doing this. God's only doing one thing.

  483. He's only involved in one building project, the church.

  484. That's it. Why would I do anything else?

  485. Why try to accomplish anything else?

  486. I'm involved in doing what God Himself is building.

  487. He loved the church. He loved being a pastor of the

  488. church. So for 50-6 years he remained

  489. the pastor at Grace Community Church until God called him

  490. home. That was his mission in life.

  491. That should be the the the the church's leaders response and

  492. everything. I love being a pastor because

  493. this is what God is doing in the world and I'm at the center of

  494. it. This is so great, so grand.

  495. What? Who can do anything better than

  496. this? That's why it says if any man

  497. desires the office of an elder, he desires a noble work, a noble

  498. work. Why?

  499. Because you're involved in the building project of the Lord God

  500. Almighty. And therefore Paul says, I want

  501. you to to admire these these people for their work's sake,

  502. for the position that God's given to them.

  503. You might not like the person, but admire the position of the

  504. person that's there. Appreciate the person, get to

  505. know him, get to understand them, get to know his family.

  506. Appreciate that person, but admire his position because God

  507. has placed him there. And then he says a presentation

  508. of the of the peace. He says these words so good.

  509. Live in peace with one another, live in peace, maintain peace.

  510. The unity that you have in Christ, you're at peace with God

  511. because you have the peace of God.

  512. Therefore, manifest that peace one toward another by

  513. endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit and the bond of

  514. peace. Ephesians 4, three, because

  515. that's what we do. This is how you preserve the

  516. peace. How?

  517. By by admiring the position of the leader and appreciation the

  518. person who leads and therefore there needs to be a preservation

  519. of the peace. You know Satan is is is at work

  520. in the church in the series you did when we did it now is it was

  521. a whole series of 15 weeks series, 17 weeks series on the

  522. church and that the church is a playground of the enemy of God.

  523. It is Satan wants to destroy the testimony of the church.

  524. If he can get you bickering and arguing and, and, and looking

  525. down on one another and, and, and being upset with one

  526. another. If, if, if he can get you doing

  527. that, he can mar the testimony of the church.

  528. There's a warfare going on. That's why Paul says over in, in

  529. Romans 12, these words he says in Romans 12 verse number #9 he

  530. says let love be without hypocrisy.

  531. In other words, no hypocritical kind of love.

  532. Don't come on Sunday and act one way and then go on Monday and

  533. act another way. Your love needs to be genuine

  534. and needs to be sincere. So when you come to church and

  535. you gather with the people of God, make sure that that what

  536. you're demonstrating in your facial expressions, in your

  537. words, in your, your relationship with one another is

  538. true and genuine, not fake and phony.

  539. We got a lot of fake people in the church today.

  540. They come and they put on a on on their Sunday face on Sunday

  541. morning, but their Sunday evening face is not one you want

  542. to see because it's diametrically opposed to the one

  543. you saw on Sunday morning. Say, let love be without

  544. hypocrisy. A poor one is evil.

  545. Clean to what is good. Be devoted to one another in

  546. brotherly love. Give preference to one another

  547. in honor, not lagging behind in diligence, fervent in spirit,

  548. serving the Lord, rejoicing in hope, persevering in

  549. tribulation, devoted to prayer, contributing to the needs of the

  550. Saints, practicing hospitality. Bless those who persecute you.

  551. Bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice.

  552. Weep with those who weep. Be the same mind toward one

  553. another. Do not be haughty in mind, but

  554. associate with the lowly. Do not be wise in your own

  555. estimation. Associate with the lowly.

  556. You ever notice that we come to church?

  557. Who do we associate with? Our friends, our friends.

  558. We we, we sit with our friends, we talk to our friends.

  559. And then there are people that sit alone all by themselves who

  560. kind of come in and and go out without anybody ever talking to

  561. them and imposter. Make sure you associate with the

  562. lowly, those who are not the high position people who would

  563. be good if if every one of us was to, to pinpoint someone

  564. sitting by themselves, coming to church by themselves, leaving by

  565. themselves and going after them and said, Hey, just want to

  566. introduce myself to you. I'd like to take you to lunch

  567. today if you're you're available.

  568. Just so that we can get to know one another.

  569. I don't want you to feel like you're all alone here at the

  570. church. Associate with the with the

  571. lowly. It goes on to say, do not be

  572. wise in your own estimation. That's just so good.

  573. We, we just think ourselves are so grand.

  574. Don't we think of ourselves that way?

  575. We think we are so cool. We are so unbelievable.

  576. And Paul says, you know what, you've overestimated who you

  577. are. Don't think that way.

  578. Think in a lowly, humble manner. Having said all this, I want to

  579. conclude with these words. I have been your pastor for just

  580. about 31 years, and in those 31 years, I want to let you know

  581. that I have never, ever been under appreciated.

  582. I've never been undervalued. I have never been treated

  583. inappropriately in 31 years. That is a testimony to you as a

  584. church and your commitment to verses 12 and 13, the First

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  585. Thessalonians chapter 5. Not one time in 31 years have I

  586. ever wanted to go anywhere else. Not once, not one time in 31

  587. years have I ever been discouraged.

  588. Not once. Why?

  589. Because there's something about the church that you have

  590. exemplified. So when my wife and I, I were

  591. away this week on our anniversary getaway, I have to

  592. get up early in the morning and and I would study.

  593. I begin to write down certain things that I have seen in our

  594. church, never been under appreciated, undervalued or

  595. under admired for that matter. But I have witnessed first hand

  596. your submission to God's message and His authority.

  597. I've witnessed that. I've seen that in you.

  598. I, I've seen you embrace the message, as hard as it may be

  599. for some of you, but to embrace it and say, this is God's word,

  600. this is his authority. And, and you're willing to

  601. submit to the authority of God in your life.

  602. It's not me you're submitting to.

  603. It's, it's the word of God that you submitted to.

  604. And so I sit as your pastor for 31 years and, and, and I see

  605. your submission to the message of God and its authority in your

  606. life. Are you perfect at it?

  607. None of us are. But do you want to move in that

  608. direction? Absolutely you do.

  609. That's why you're here. And then I, I I've also

  610. witnessed your adoration, your adoration for our Master and his

  611. glory. You love the Lord, you love him.

  612. Do you love him perfectly? No.

  613. Do you love him sometimes, like Peter?

  614. Yeah. And Peter said, Peter, do you

  615. love me? Yeah.

  616. I kind of like you a lot, but you love the Lord.

  617. And so for 31 years I have witnessed the the church's

  618. Christ Community Church's adoration, adoration of the

  619. Master for his glory. So the Bible says let there be

  620. glory in the church. You don't want Ichabod written

  621. across your church. The glory of the Lord has

  622. departed. In other words, there's no

  623. manifestation of God's presence within the assembly.

  624. So I've sat back and, and I and I have watched not, not just

  625. your submission to the message and it's authority, not just

  626. your adoration to the Master and His glory, but I've also

  627. witnessed your demonstration of your maturity as you seek to

  628. grow in your walk with the Lord each and every week.

  629. I, I am truly a blessed man. I, I could, I could say as, as

  630. Paul would say in, in First Thessalonians chapter 1, I

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  631. could, I could say, I give thanks to God always for all of

  632. you making mention of you in our prayers constantly bearing in

  633. mind your work of faith and labor of love.

  634. Is that fastest of hope? And you excel still.

  635. All the more so as I talk about leadership in the church, as I

  636. talk about your response to the leadership in the church.

  637. I've experienced that. I've seen it in action.

  638. I've witnessed that. And I am.

  639. I am so blessed to be here. I am honored to be your pastor.

  640. I am honored that you've allowed me to come week after week after

  641. week after week. I am honored that you sit and

  642. let me repeat things over and over and over and over again,

  643. week after week after week after week.

  644. But I am truly a blessed man. God has done exceedingly,

  645. abundantly above all that I could ever ask or think.

  646. And I'm grateful to you as a church.

  647. I'm grateful that the Lord has allowed me to be here and be

  648. your pastor and will continue to be here for as long as I can

  649. breathe. I can still stand up.

  650. My mind is still right, but I am blessed and I just want to say

  651. thank you. Thank you for fulfilling First

  652. Thessalonians 512 and 13 because that's what you do.

  653. And I would be, it would, it would be wrong for me not to let

  654. you know how God has used each and everyone of you in my life.

  655. And for that I will always be grateful to the Lord.

  656. So today, I applaud you. I thank you for your willingness

  657. to do what God's Word says. Let me pray with you, Father, we

  658. thank you for today. I thank you that I can be here.

  659. I thank you, Lord, that I had the opportunity to be here, that

  660. 31 years ago you opened the door for this to happen.

  661. And through all the years, people have come and people have

  662. gone and, and they continue to come and they continue to go.

  663. But you've sustained the ministry, You have maintained

  664. the ministry. You have done great and

  665. wonderful things in the lives of people.

  666. We could focus on the negatives. That doesn't do you any good.

  667. But to focus on all the positives and to realize what

  668. you're doing is, is fabulous. You've healed marriages, You've

  669. changed lives. You've saved souls.

  670. You have brought rebellious children home.

  671. You have answered prayer, You have done so many things, but

  672. what I am thankful for, Lord, is that what you have done in the

  673. lives of your people, they would grow to maturity in Christ and

  674. wanting to grow even all the more.

  675. For that I'm grateful and I thank you and praise you for

  676. what you have done and what you are doing and what you are going

  677. to continue to do because of who you are.

  678. So we thank you Lord, anticipate your soon return.

  679. Until that time, may we be found faithful in our service of the

  680. King in Jesus name, Amen.