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Fasting and Prayer | Pr Matthew Chang
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You're listening to a message to go from axt church.
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We hope this message will light up your day.
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So today what I'm gonna do is to teach us
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and to go through together collectively seven key UH seven
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key UH fasting prayer points that we can actually go
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through together, and then to pray for ourselves. Because as
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I was thinking about what to you know, what to
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preach about, you know, I just felt the need from
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UH in an direction from the Lord, to teach. Not
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everybody understands or not everybody fully UH is able to
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all they say get into the heart or prayer yet
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And sometimes it's not because you don't have the heart,
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but sometimes you don't know how to begin as well.
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So today's our role will be we're gonna the road.
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The objective today is to equip everyone. We sort of
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a mindset of how to pray, you know, during this
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fast and prayer. How should we begin? First? How do
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I pray for myself in a way there I don't
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feel like I'm so needy, I'm so you know, trying
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to bargain with God. You know, when I pray, I
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don't know whether I'm praying the right way. You know
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what I'm saying what I'm saying. You know, sometimes you
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feel like you're hitting and missing. You know, you know
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what I'm talking about, you know, yeah, you know you're
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you're here like you're feeling him is And sometimes when
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you had a bad day or when I pray like that,
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you know, I ought to pray when I'm doing it.
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In day number nine and number ten, it's like, oh,
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you know, Jesus asked the forgift, but this guy just
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cut me in the front of me and I was like,
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m m, you don't feel like it, you know. So
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today we're going to go into specific prayer and I'm
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trying to put it into order. Okay, So in some
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parts and then after when I go through all this
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at the end, what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
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get every one of us to begin to pray, to
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start to begin to go through all this to pray
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some of it. I might pray some of it. I'm
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gonna get you guys to pray as well. It's gonna
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hope it doesn't take that long, Okay. So the first one, okay,
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the first point that we want to get everybody to pray, okay,
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is too fast and to pray that we will humble
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ourselves before God. That's the first thing before when you
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pray for anything else, before you start to Hey, God,
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these are my prayer. Needs you do your routine. The
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first thing we ought to fast and to get into
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is to humble ourselves. Okay, I'm going to read some
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scripture here Ezra chapter eight, verse twenty one. Then I
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proclaim a fast there at the river of Ahavah, that
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we might humble ourselves before our God to seek him,
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to seek from him the right way for us and
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our little ones and all our possessions. And then James
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chapter four, verse ten says, humble yourselves in the sight
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of the Lord, and he will lift you up. Okay,
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so let's remain there. There's nothing more important in prayer
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and in fascinating anything that you do than your posture. Yeah,
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I mean right, God knows your need ready, but it's
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your mannerism, your posture, and your position. And a lot
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of times when we come into fastening and prayer, we
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I think we struggle to humble ourselves because humbling, it's humbling,
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you know, it's not about a lot of times humbling
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it's not about you. And so when you begin to pray,
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What do you say, God? You know I really have
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a problem. No, you even have a problem. You don't
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even say that you're than God. It's not about me.
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It's not by my pain. It's not about whatever I'm
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going through. You already know. You already know, ever since
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I woke up until now, you already know what I
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go through. But Lord, I revere you, and I fear
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you more than anything else. And so Lord helped me
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to humble myself. Now it is not about me, Okay,
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it's not about me, and I fear you and want
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to humble myself because I know if I don't get
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this right, I miss the whole day, I miss the point.
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So help me to fear you first, Help me to
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humble myself before you, so that I might seek you,
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you know, seek from you what is he say the
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Bible saying the right way for us? Then I might
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know what is right, not what is mine. You got
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mean right, You fear and you humble God because I don't.
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It's not just about my pain. I want to get
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what he is right, because you know everything. I want
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to know what is right. I want to know what
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is your way so that I might be blessed so
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that I might pray and ask for the right thing
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for my family, for my children, and all that I
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possess as well, you get, I mean right, That's why
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it is right. What's very wise? He proclaimed. A fast
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at the river ariver means it's a place where everybody gathers.
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Everybody goes to okay, everybody goes through okay. But when
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they find you know that they don't just fast what
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they eat, you know, They're fast what they drink as well,
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you know. And they will have a river flowing before them,
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and they will refuse to drink, and they will stay here.
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And then what even though there's a flowing river, even
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if I first I will I will fast. There is
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humbling you know, you mean right, what you want and
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what you need is flowing before you. I choose to fast. Okay.
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So what are you going through right now? Into your
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as you're going through your fast and prayer, are you
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humbling yourself in the Lord? Are you seeking the Lord?
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I put a few prayer points here as we go
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through later for some of these here as we humble
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ourselves before the Lord. The key thing is to when
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we a road here to humble our hearts to remove
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all prideful thoughts? What are prideful thoughts? The prideful thoughts
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are not very obvious when you know there's a thing.
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You know. Prideful thoughts are not very obvious when you know.
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They are very hidden. They are very self righteous, they
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are very they seem very holy, seem very moral, since
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very virtuous. But yet it's rooted in a law of pride.
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And the first thing that you have to admit before
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God is that, Lord, I can't even begin to search myself,
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you get, I mean, right, I don't even know. I
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don't even know. Sometimes when I think that this whole
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week I'm right, I could be completely wrong. And so Lord,
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right now I'm gonna bring everything maybe I've spoken to someone,
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maybe the way that I even bring up a prayer,
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maybe the way that I've conducted my behavior. All of this,
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Lord is open for examination. I'm saying. You know, you
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don't You don't close the case, you know, but said Lord,
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whatever that I thought and what I've bad there, I'm
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opening it up. Open up all the cases. You know,
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a lot of times we just want to close the case.
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You know that was done? Ready close, kise God, God,
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the receipt is still there. God is saying, no, it's
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not none. But if you are humble enough that you
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will open up the case, said God, open it up.
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You know I'm not. I know I don't need you,
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don't need the permission, but I want you to open
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it up. I want you to search me. Okay, search me?
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Is I know when you don't done your job ready
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most of the time you want to tell your boss
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I'm done ready. You know if you if you, if
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you're my boss, if you really trust me, you don't
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have to check like you just trust me like we
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always treat God like you trust me like God. You
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know I'm I'm you know I've been serving for you,
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I've been doing this. You trust me like that. I'm right?
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But is that how we approach God. The way we
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approach it is not like hey, because based on our
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previous merit, you know, the way approach God is God.
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I want to get this right. I fear you, and
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I want you to open up whatever my thoughts and
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whatever that I done, search me through or maybe you
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know I have a fight with my wife, and then
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my spouse again, and then with reconcile already done ready,
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But then God said, yeah, you think you did, but
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you didn't do it the right way. You strong arm
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the person, you blackmailed, the person you emotionally, it manipulated
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the person, you lie, you cheated. You know, God deals
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with you. You get mean right. God wants you to
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be fully pure and pure clean. Okay, So we ask
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God to remove all prideful thoughts, and that begins by
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willing to open up our hearts and our past as well.
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Teach me true dependence, okay, teach me to truly learn
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to depend, not just to say that I depend, but
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do I really depend on you? You get mean right?
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You know that's why they come to the river and
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I will not drink. Lift me up in your time,
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not so that not let not not let let myself
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not let my words and my my heart want to
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live myself up before people. Sometimes you want to tell
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people say, hey, no we have here, we are successful,
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or you know we are better. You know we want
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to lift up. We want to. Another way is to
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validate ourselves. We want to you know, prop ourselves up
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before before people and before God as well. But God
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says it's not yet time. This is not yet time.
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You don't leave yourself up. You think it's time. No,
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it's not your time. We want to rush ma. We
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want to think that we are settled a redeemer. We
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got it downe redeemer. But it's no, don't know. It's
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not according to your time, to our time there. But
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but it's according to God's time. Which it's very powerful
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when you say no, God is according to your time.
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You get me right. It's like you know sometimes when
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you when you when you try to what they call
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it discipline a child or reprimand a child right. Sometimes
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one of the things that you know they do is
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that they want to get out of the room as
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quickly as possible. You know, you know what I'm talking about.
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You're like laughing away that they want to get out
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of the room as fast as possible. How many of
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you want to get in the review? You want to
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sit in the room for as long as you want. No,
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you want to get out of the room as fast
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as you want, one and all. But then when you
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realize that you are completely wrong, and if you get
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out of that room before you are before you before
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time or when everything is done properly, properly, you miss
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out your opportunity for growth, you know, for real change,
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for real success. You know you're not say what I'm saying. No,
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when you get out of the roomans I just want
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to get out of know, you know, But I say, no, Lord,
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I know that I'm wrong, I'm not. I need to
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humber myself. So don't let my flesh lead me out
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of that room and lead me and pull me out
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this time when it is premature. But let me stay there,
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let me humble myself. And really, you know, it says
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I'm listening to you, that I might meditate, that I
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might reflect the Lord, that you will teach me. And lastly, say,
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let me not be wise in my own eyes. Don't
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let me feel like i'm you know, sometimes it's good
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and that at the end of the day that you
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doubt a bit of yourself. You know, God, I prayed
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the right way there. Tomorrow I'm not tomorrow I'm gonna
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seek again. God desires that type of earnestness. You know
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that you you think you hear the word of God
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and you turn to say, I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm
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gonna pray again tomorrow. I think I heard I think
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they could be true. Again, but I'm going to pray again.
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Then after that you're saying, I'm gonna, hey, you know,
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maybe I will check with my spouse, maybe I will
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check with someone about me. This is true because you
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know you are so earnest to purify your heart and
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what you hear from God to test whatever that you
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hear as well, and God honors you for that. You know,
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you got mean right not to say that, Hey, you know,
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it's not the case where you are trying to say that,
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hey God, you help me, okay, And then you know
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you and God, and then you try to bargain. We've
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got whether God tests you, you know, and whether you
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test God whether he's able to keep his promise. There's
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a different, different kind of test when you earnestly seek
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desire from God's confirmation like Gideon did you know with
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the with the fleets and it's like God, because I'm
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just so afraid to hear wrongly. And God honors you
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for that because you have a clean heart. Okay, everybody, Okay,
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so far. That's how you begin your prayer before anything else,
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Before you think you know how to pray for someone,
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what you ought to prayer. First thing is fast humble
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ourselves before God. Secondly, if fast for repentance and renewal,
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before you talk about other people, talk about yourself, airs
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join not Chapter three, verse five. So the people on
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Ninevah nine or nine believe God, okay, believer they say
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they believe, Okay, then proclaim a fast and put on sackcloth.
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From the greatest to the least of them. This is
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the thing, you know, believe. It's an entire process. It's
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not a one time moment. If you believe, you will
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keep on believing. If you believe, you will keep on repenting.
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If you believe, you will keep on confessing. If you believe,
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you will continue committing continuous one another, continue, continue, continue,
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And so the product of the people on Ninavainva was
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one of the most wicked towns, very wicked one a
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if you know about the religion and what they practice
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is very very evil. But yet God, even to a
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town like that, God showed mercy, you know, to Senna
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and send Jonah next time with your teacher to send
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Johnah to go and preach. And he had one of
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the greatest evangelists evangelistic rally ever. You know, people go,
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I feel like a stadium and he preacher, we unwillingly
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are uninvited that in the middle of the city are
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converted the whole city. You know, no one has ever
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done that before. You know, whole city are faster. You know,
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whole city are turned or converted the government in one day.
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You know. It's like the greatest reality evangelistic rally ever
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by a guy who was unwilling. You know, it was
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so unwilling, you know. Okay, But then he says that
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the people believe. And when you believe, you fast, you
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believe your heart follows it as well, you believe you
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will repent. In First Semuel, chapter seven, verse six, he says,
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they're so they gather together and mispaer and drew water. Okay,
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get Misspi is a very important place, if you know,
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if you read the Old test all the way from
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Abraham all the way to King David, it's a very
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important place. Okay. And now they drew water and pour
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it out before the Lord. Like I said, what did
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that mean? They're not gonna drink, We're gonna throw the water.
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We're gonna pour it out whatever that we think that
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we have, whatever that we desire. When you put out Lord,
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it is meaningless. It is not. First we'll pour it
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out and we said, Lord, we're going to fast, and
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he says that and they're faster that day and say
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that we have seen against you our scein dealing with
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how sin is more important than anything else. You get
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what I'm saying. No, that's the first thing that we
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that that's the second thing that we all need to
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focus on when we're fast. And then when the prayer points,
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when we talk about fasting for our repentance and renew will.
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I know I'm going a bit deeper, and I want
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to take you guys a bit deeper. I want to
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take you guys for that. You know, when you go
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into daily you're not like, oh, I'm just gonna pray
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little book. It's good, it's a good start. But I
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want to take you guys a bit deeper so that
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when you're like, say, hey, when you're fasting, you're not
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just fas a meal is an achievement. You know when
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you're fast that you really okay, I know what exactly
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I need to pray? Now, you know you can. You
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are fully equiped. You know what to do. What do
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you what do you pray? Say you pray and say, God,
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please expose and forgive my sins. God, have mercy. Okay,
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have mercy on me. I say it starts with humility.
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Only a humble person will ask for mercy from God. Okay,
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renew my weary spirit and make it respond. The thing
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comes from you, know, repentance comes from my heart and
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not knowing just that you're wrong, in knowing that you've
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been doing wrong, and you've being one. You've been insisting
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on this own way, and you come to realize that
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your heart has not changed. You need the change of heart.
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And you realize that, hey, God, you know what I've
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been trying to do. I've been trying to do, but
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I have not responded. Something is wrong with my heart.
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My heart has grown desensitized from responding. Ready, you get
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me from desensitized? Right? You know some of you are
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struggling with lust and least seeing with all these things,
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with material possessions, you know, with your own dreams and
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your own desires. And then you hear one time, yeah,
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I all do, but then your life doesn't reflect it.
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I realized that, hey, my heart is not responding. So Lord,
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please give me, give me renew my heart, make it
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respond I don't want a heart. They just hear, but
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they don't respond. They say, God turned my heart fully
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and cleanse me from inside out, from within, or just
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do not just validate my what I myself from what
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I do, but better for my inside out? Do I
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sincerely want to do that? Okay? So far number three? Okay,
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fasting for hunger for more of God, hungering for more
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of God, changing of my appetite, my desires, and my dreams.
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Isn't it You repent and you asked the Lord I
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want to turn away, But any of you are willing
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to change, to ask for a different epetite? Okay, to
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hunger for more of God, it's one thing. But to
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change my appetite, my desires, and my dreams. Some chapter
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sixty three verse says, Oh God, you are my God.
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Early will I seek you? My soul thirst for you,
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My flesh longs for you in a dry and thirsty
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land where there is no water. And Matthew chapter six
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vers tree, but sik first the Kingdom of God and
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his righteousness, and all these things shall be added on
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to you. Okay, So what does it? What does it
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actually reflect in terms of your prayer? Point First, of
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all deepen my hunger. It's not that you A lot
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of that's were just connected to be a good Christian.
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You know, you know what I'm saying. If I'm not
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saying this a bad thing, if you if you try
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and understand pass out what I'm trying to really mean,
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all of us are just okay to do become a
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good creature. We think we're just I don't know, I
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don't know. Instagram Christian? You know like that you get
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mean right? We appear like you know, we appear like
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a Christian, sound like a Christian, and but it's not there.
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You know. It's like, you know, you're happy you have
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a girlfriend because you can now you're a boyfriend. You
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can announce on the Instagram right now. But how is
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a relationship with that person? You know? You know what
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I mean, right? Do you really know that person? You know?
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You get I mean right? And it's like, do you
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really hunger for God? Coming to church doesn't mean you're
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ungry for God? No, by the way, you know I'm saying,
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you know, it's very important, doesn't mean that you you know,
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if you're married, come back to your house doesn't mean
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you're in love with your wife. You know, some of
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you are like, oh, I'm facing my wife. You know,
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it's the walk of I don't know why the walk
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of it, but it's like, you know, it's the same thing.
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Some of you are laughing away, But it's true. It's true.
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It's true, isn't it? But are you hungering for more
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of God? What do you desire for God? And if
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you don't want, like when you desire for God? What what?
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Why is that you want? You know? What is your priority?
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What you know? What is important to you? You know
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sometimes like hey, you know if you missed out? You know?
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Sometimes I know this is something that I always try
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to ask myself and you know, I mean, you know,
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like for example, like you know sometimes hey, when you
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the things that you watch on your phone? Are you
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always watching a certain thing? I also catch myself, I'm
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the things that why I do? And I was like, okay,
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I have to intentionally listen to you know, intentionally, I
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tell my heart what is more important? Listen to a
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sermon you know, or read the Bible. Have a routine
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that you know, you stick to a routine that no
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matter what you do, that you will always get the
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first things first okay, depend on your hunger. When you
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read a word and you get stuck. You know, a
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lot of people say, I don't understand, but is your
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hunger for God so much that you don't stop there?
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A lot of people just stop there, you know. And
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then they because first of all, I feel they did start.
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Most of the people they struggle with Bible reading because
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they reading the lasting and after the day. If you
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read so many messages or the whole day, and someone
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sends a message, you know, just before you sleep, but
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chances are you're not going to read it as an investment.
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You're gonna think it's a spam, you know, and sometimes
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some of you you read the Bible, might it might
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look like a spam to you. You know. In other words,
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I don't understand, and you're not gonna pursue it. You're
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not gonna pursue it. You're not gonna think about it,
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you're not going to meditate upon it. And then you
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realize how about other people can get so much and
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you don't because you don't, you don't labor for it.
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You realize that oh if I, if I, if I
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have to understand it, I have to go and learn
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up a lot of other different skill sets or different
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you know, different understanding from background. Yeah do it? You mean? Right?
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That's how people who are passionate about any job they do,
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they do it as well. I know. People entrepreneurs are there.
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For example, they are an engineer and decide to go
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into agriculture. Right, they might not not know zero about agriculture,
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but because they are so they see their ambitionis success.
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Even they are not involved into it, they will learn it,
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you all, and it becomes so much better than anyone
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else you know in that field, even though they don't
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have a background in there. It's because why, because of
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their passion and their desire, nothing is going to stop
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them and they become so they become an expert, not
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by accident but by intention. Okay, And so in the
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same way as well, you know, are we you know,
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willing to deepen our hunger to seek the Lord, to
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understand him the second, to change my worldly desires? How well?
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You do you know that? Do you examine yourself whether
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you have a healthy appytite? Have you ever ask yourself
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do you have a healthy eputite? Do you have a
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good healthy eputite? Because just because everybody is doing It
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doesn't mean that it's a good thing, you know. Okay,
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doesn't mean that sometimes everybody eat hoking me. But then
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you're older, ready and you're your health problem ready, you're
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like it looks good man. There. I was playing basketball.
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Then someone suggested you from my church and I started, hey,
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you know it's ten o'clock ready, you know? And now
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this I don't even eat after like, you know, nine o'clock.
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I try not to that, but my wife knows sometimes
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I do. Okay, I was ten, what should we eat?
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Then the guy was saying, oh, I'm thinking of going
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to our hocking. Me was like, oh my god, the
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forbidden words. Man. Then Calvino is like turn a cross
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and now you know after you had I had a
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pet two hour basketball and sweating, like yeah, what should
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we eat? And this guy is like fifty plus you're
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looking at me. He's like howking me? Me and my
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parents are like what forbidden thing? You just cast out? Man?
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It's like what I was so scared of eating? Hooking good?
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So it's a highs Like I don't know, man, maybe
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we go for tosay or something I said to photos.
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But sometimes it's like, you know, you have desire dosn't
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mean it's right. You know, you know what I mean, right,
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It doesn't mean that, Hey, you like something, Yes it's good,
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but it's not beneficial. You all you can I'm saying, No,
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it's good, but it's not beneficial and not and you
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allow so many good you know, as I taught you
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guys before and all, how the salt loses the saltiness
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when you have too many good things. When your salt
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gets mixed with the sugar, the am mesty, the chalcol,
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the powder, the curry powder, everything, there is not salt anymore,
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and you lose your saltiness. Ready, you can want a
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lot of things, but then you lose what is most important.
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So one of the things that if you're really willing
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to fast forward, would you ask God to change your
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worthy desires the more if you really go deeper God,
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are you you know, are you willing to allow God
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to even shape your dreams? You know, it's like God,
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it's not just my dream. I want you to give
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me good and godly dreams. Powerful, isn't it? God? Give
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me good and God? One of the best prayers you
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can pray for your child, for your children, give them
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good and godly dreams, not just follow anything on Instagram,
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shorts or TikTok you all God give them good and
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godly dream teams. You know, to hear them says I
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want to do this, I want to do that. It's
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one of the most amazing things. We can give them
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good and God these things and feel me with you
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that I might always please you, that I might always
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be a blessing to you. Okay. So Eric ricap is too.
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Fasting for more of God and then changing of our appetites,
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our desires and dreams. There's a verse. I can't remember.
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I thought you was here. I want there's a there's
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a verse about God, you know, filling us with new dreams.
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You know, if if the if the XTIV maybe became
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finny for me. Okay, but don't have to here, okay.
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Number four, Fasting for wisdom. Okay. So now you have repented,
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You're you're you're you're humbling yourself. You're repenting, and you're
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asking God to change your heart and your desires. Now
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is a time when you begin to pray for what wisdom.
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It is right and it's appropriate. In fact, you should
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pray for wisdom before we pray for people. You should
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pray for wisdom, You should pray for understanding, You should
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pray for discernment. These three are different. Another time I'll
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teach you, guys, what is the difference between this three?
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These three are different? Okay, wisdom, understanding and discernment, okay,
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Daniel Chapter nine, verse three. It says that then I
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set my face towards the Lord God to make requests
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by prayer and supplication, with fastings, sack cloth and ashes.
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And then it says that then the Angel appeared before Daniel,
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and he informed me and talked with me, and said, oh, Daniel,
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I have now come forth to give you skill to understand, Okay,
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to understand. Philippians chapter one, verse nine. And this I
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pray that your love may abound. Okay, good that you
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had love may abound more and more. In knowledge and
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in discernment. You are filled with love great. But if
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we are without wisdom, you're without discernment and understanding, we
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will perish. You're not no, you will perish. You can
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have all the love, you can hold, all the good intention,
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good intentions. Uh, But without wisdom, understanding and discimine, you
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will perish. Your house will perish. The things that you
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build will perish. Okay, an I said, but you must
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understand my where I come from. No, no, it's not
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my Do you have understanding? If you have understanding, some
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of these words will not come out of your mouth.
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You guys, if you have understanding and wisdom, you will
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not even begin to do these things and make people
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guess your intention. You know you know what I mean. Right.
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You must build your family with wisdom, understanding, and uh
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and discern one one. And you cannot tell your children
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that say, hey, I'm telling you, no, I'm sitting you.
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I hope you understand, my heart. Children don't understand how
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they understand punishment. Okay, you know it's true. That's why
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when you sometimes when you try to, oh, I hope
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you understand why you always do against And you don't know.
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My mommy is and daddy is hard and me we
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love you so much this thing. And they listen for
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a while and they still repeat one. You need to
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You need to have parents. You need to have wisdom
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and understanding. Teach them clearly right from wrong, not hot.
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You know you teach them right and wrong. You know
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there's this difference of parents are to teach them hot
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you know, no, don't understand hot. Teach them right from wrong,
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clear consequences you get I mean right. God in the
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gunmenent in the God said, if you love me, you
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will obey me. God say that no. If you eat,
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if it you die, you get me right. You touch
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the fire, you will burn yourself. Don't do it? Clear
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straight you teach them right and wrong, clear consequences, responsibility,
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you're not you didn't watch the close up tomorrow cannot
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go to schooler. But then sometimes we parents will come
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and parash with them. My make up to save you.
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Now you know what I'm talking about. Now we will
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like to rescue them. But remember your parents, your job
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is to teach them right from wrong. This becomes a
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parenting classoray, but it's true. But it's the hardest because
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you see your kids in pain a lot of times
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when they have to learn from consequences and right from wrong.
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It's very difficult. It's very very difficult. That's why a
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lot of times our father's finally easier to do that.
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Mother's finding very hard. That's true, true or not, fathers
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agree with me, Father's hill just let themself follow from
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mother's No. You see mothers always want to keep our
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children safe. It's true you need that, but Father's responded
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to keep them strong. Don't see what I'm saying now,
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teach them right from wrong. But you need both, okay,
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right from wrong. If not, the father will abuse them.
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I don't know what happened to them. You need both, okay,
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but it's very very important. Okay, need fasting for wisdom, understanding,
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and it's someone the same with us as well. You
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don't sometimes, hey, you, what you need in your life
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is not more worship songs and not seriously, you know,
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what you need is not when you're play in the car.
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It's not more. What you need to play in the
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car is teaching and understanding the word of God. So
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in what the prayer points came to reveal and expose
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things in my life and around me. Firstly, open my eyes,
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open my eyes things in my life. Is you want wisdom?
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You need to open your eyes what is happening in
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your life right now? And that's always the hardest thing,
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you know, to see the look inside in you? Right now? Hey,
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am I headed to the right direction? If you're eating wrong?
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You know that, Hey, am I eating wrong? You don't
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need your wife you don't need your mother your father
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to tell you something is wrong in my life to expose.
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And then secondly to things around me, the people that
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you hang out, the things that you watch, things that
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are happening and coluding. Are you naive about it? You
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can't mean, are you like, oh, I don't know what
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is happening. I just go with whatever that I feel
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like today, I feel like doing this. You don't even look,
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and when things happen, you don't understand, you know why
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it's happening. You're becoming like a foolish virgin You can't mean.
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It didn't say at the Evil Virginia, the tenth evil
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foolish Virginia. The problem and the lesson is that they
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were foolish, not because there were bad people, you all,
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but they were foolish. But yet the same calamity and
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horrible and will come to them if they are not wise.
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So we must be loving, but we must also be
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wise people. And you must be aware of this time
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and the season. Someone. You know, when I grow up,
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I hardly read news one not and my dad hated
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really taught me. Well, you know, you just your world
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is just basketball and games. You know, my day is
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like trying to get to read news. You know why
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it's happening around the world. You know, some of us,
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we grow up, we don't read new some of you
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even grow out. Don't know why reading news. I don't care.
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Your news is your TikTok. You don't bother it's why
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it's happening. You don't know why it's happening to your neighbor.
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You don't know what's happening in the church. You don't
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know what is happening. But you got to open your
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eyes because you are still stuck and focus on your own.
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When you don't know what's happening around the world and
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out of ignorance, it leads to foolishness. You know what
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I'm saying. No, ignorance leads to foolishness. Don't be like
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the ten foolish virgins. You know this sounds very very
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very very important. Okay, everybody, Okay, so far huh. Rightly,
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and then to review and expose things in my life
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around me, to rightly divide your word, To rightly divide
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your word. Some of you you're living on all theology.
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You know, if it's all and good, okay, but it's
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all and wrong. I got a problem with that. Okay,
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you got it's always good, it's good. Okay, you've got
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no problem. Okay, you eat rice, you continue eating rice, Okay,
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I've got no problem with it. But if you eat
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hockey me and continue eating hoky, mean, yeah, you gotta
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be checked a bit. You get me. Some of the
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things that you learn you got to re examine. You know,
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you cant re examine a bit, you know, really really
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sometimes you you know what, I don't want to put
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down any one or any passes are sometimes about some
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of the things out that we teach and pass down
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from churches are need to really exact mean one and
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all need to be reaxaciting some people. There's a teaching
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that says that you work hard as a Christian. You
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work hard. Then when you're later, when you're fifteen sixty,
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you start serving. How many are you heard before? It's
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been passed time and being taught before and all. And
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so because of that, you know what happened, and the
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churches are they started losing all the young people. The
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same old seniors are still serving and serving in the
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youth group as well. Because all the people say, I
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work right now, I pour into it. And when I
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grow up already, when I have all the money, then
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I will serve. You think by the time that they
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will give, they will serve and give of the time.
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Very difficult, very very difficult. You had to start young.
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Not you see some of the things they don't do
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by intention one and not you know, really not by intention, man,
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because they see that they perceive the world a certain way, okay,
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and then they pass it down and you don't understand,
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and you just catch it. And because you you we
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were a bit ignorant and lacking understanding, and but things
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pass down into us and it affects generationally, you know,
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and in the community wise as well. Okay, So help
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us God right now to be able to take your
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word and to take the word that even sometimes people,
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to be able to rightly divide. You mean, to rightly
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divide the word, that your truth will prevail in our lives.
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You get me, like truth will prevail. To rightly divide
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your word things that you're taught yourself, things that you've
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been taught before. You must rightly divide your word in
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humility and submission. That people don't go and simply come
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out to your home leaders and say hey, no, no, no,
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no no no. If you do that, you come and
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look for me first before you look at them. Okay,
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I'm gonna have a word with you, okay, okay, with honor,
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respect and love. Okay. But you must in your own
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life and so start focusing. What have you not been
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rightly dividing prayer for a spirit of discernment, especially for
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your own life? Patience patients are very important. Patience and
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go together. Wanna very rarely it doesn't go together? Wana, okay,
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and God if you know why I say, patience and
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demone go together. Okay. A lot of people say they
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are discermined, but they still go get and bling one
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and no, I discern that I will win a hand
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or twenty one. That is why casinos. You see that.
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I know I'm deviating. You know what's the difference between
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casinos and any other informal investment. It's not the risk
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you know it's time you see a you go to
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study here, it's also a risk, you know, true or not,
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you pay more money in your studier than you go
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to casino. No, but why isn't your study a risk?
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Did you are you guaranteed to pass it? Are you
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guaranteed to get a job? You did? Didn't think it's
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raised because maybe your parents told you so, or all
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the world told you so. But you put so much
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money into it. But yet you go to a casino.
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It's different. Why because the one thing that the casinos
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they do is they give it to you. Now. Why
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is time important? Because time because reality I can't rereach now.
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When you go to study, you say, I can earn
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a living in the future, but casino is now. If
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you lost your money, you can get it better now.
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If you got it, you can buy your new tesla. No,
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if you go this, you can go of course tomorrow.
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How reality is power. That's why they don't. They don't
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will by it. They win you by reality with time. Now,
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how many feel like to go to casino you put
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in that you earn it back in five years one
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you would never. It's always now, isn't it. It's the
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promise of now that changes that warps everything around you.
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That's why if sometimes you have a scheme and anything,
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it warps you because it is now. It's not that
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the reaturon is, but it's now. It's the time. Time
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changes your reality. It changes you perceive reality, and it
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changes the way you make decisions. You know. But there's
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another time we talk about finances. Okay, the power of
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time and reality or like sounds like some avengers things already. Okay, okay,
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open and open my understanding to your word. I've talked
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about it before. Let mean, quickly move on and I
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will begin to close. Ready, Fasting for strength number five,
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Fasting for strength against temptation. Okay, Matthew chapter twenty six.
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He says, watch and prayer unless you enter into temptation.
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So it means what means that you can avoid temptation
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when you watch and pray. You don't always have to
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put yourself into a place of temptation. You can watch
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and you pray that you don't enter something. So okay,
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there are two parts. Don't be exposed to temptation or
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entering into temptation is different thing. Temptation is like a
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door or one another gave me. Sometimes you don't you
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don't need to pass through the door. But you don't
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even need to be near the door. You don't need
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to be near the door. You know. They says that
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you know when you the one of the first things
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that actually happened that The early in Genesis are when
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Kine harbored hatred and murderous intent for his brother Abel. Right,
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you know, he actually young. If you read the story,
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I think Genesis chapter four, right before Kine committed the murder,
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it says that God actually counseled him, you know, sheee,
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God actually did a pastoral work with him, you know,
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disciple him, you know, try to disciple him. Hey, what
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are you doing there? You know? And then God reviewed
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to him. Scene is crouching at your door. Scene it
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is crouching at your door means by what you harbor,
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you attract something at the door, but you must resist it.
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You must resist it. Okay. Means a lot of times
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it comes, but we don't have to entertain it. But
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when it comes to the door, it's very dangerous. Al
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Ready it means you're dance, I mean to start courting
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it ready, Okay, we gotta avoid that. We gotta avoid
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coming aggressively knocking and out door. There are things in
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our life we invite. Scene aggressively knocking and your door.
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One an, you don't have to do that one and all.
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You're just putting yourself into trouble. We do that, you know, okay.
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So there are things in our life. We got to
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really be very careful to do that. Okay. So and
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then one more First Corinthians, chapter ten. No temptation has
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overtaken you accept such as is common to men. But
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God is faithful who will not allow you to be
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tempted beyond what you are able. So what this verse
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means that God is intend to give us hope, okay,
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to give us hope, not in every temptation if you
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go into it, if you're always tempted and you have
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no hope, but that's it. Look God, that's the temptation
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that I eat whatever I wander. Ready. Ah, there's always
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hope people, Okay, you don't have to eat every doughnut
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and cheer ros you'll see, okay, not every hockey and
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it comes into my ear. There's always hope. Okay. So
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what are the prayer points? So guard me from sin?
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First of all, put a guard in our lives. Strengthen
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our weak spirit, help us to stand firm and to
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discipline our flesh. Okay, to put our flesh into discipline.
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And that's where sometimes you can prayer. But then you
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can go into a fasting. And but that you keep
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struggling with the same temptation. But in fact, before you
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pray for you got you ought to deal with that first.
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I'm not saying that you're asking you to be perfect,
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but you have to work on it. Okay, we have
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to work on it so that we don't give room
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for the evil one to bed to to to establish
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a foothole in our lives. Number six, This one is important.
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Fasting to seek direction from God. Okay, Fasting to seek
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direction from God. Okay, let's right up to eight. We
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talked about it earlier. I'll go to just Probastrys bite
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the verse six. Trust in the law with all your heart,
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and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways.
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Acknowledge him and he shall direct your path. Okay, now
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that you have wisdom, now that you have understanding, now
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that you are fighting against your temptation, you want to
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ask direction. Isn't it direction what you should do? Direction
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for your work, for your career, or your finances, for
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your family, for your health. How do we ask and
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pray from God? Okay? Firstly, grant me a God live here.
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You want direction. Have a God live here. You get
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me in right one direction? Have a God live here.
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Whom you fear will determine how you behave And say
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what I'm saying now, if you understand the person what
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they fear, you will not understand how they behave. It's
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very powerful one. You know, you want to know a
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person even I always say this, sir. I was in
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the youth camera and then I had a session with
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the campus and how many way you can Yeah, I
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don't I address. I address with the with the guys are,
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but this one I want the ladies to hear. Okay,
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I want the ladies to hear this. How do you?
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And the question I was tackling is how do you
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know this guy or girl is the right one for
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you or it's a good candidate. And I know as
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I'm switching from fasting and do this, Okay, I need
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to teach these you guys very important. Well, why is
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the one of the qualities that you need to look for?
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Actually the first important quality you need to look for
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in a guy or a girl. It's not whether they're beautiful.
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I mean all this, Okay, you guys are attracted to
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but one of the most important thing is look at
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them and ask yourself, are you able to discern what
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they fear in their life? What do they fear? Do
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they feel failure? Do they feel embarrassment? Do they fear
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not having a job? And you see how they react?
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Do they fear their parents? If the fair the parents are,
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it's going to tell you a lot or know. Meantime,
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when you get married you can really observe. But are
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they going to listen to your parentmo or do you
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more when you begin to build your own family? No
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big deal, huge deal. You want to name your child
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this way? But they fear their parents want they might
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name that Shaul, might end up with a different name.
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What do they fear? If they don't fear anyone, you're
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in trouble. If a man, I don't fear anything, I
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only love you. You'd better be You better start walking
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away to the exit door. You better start walking to
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the exit door. You know why is that? Because if
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a man fears nothing, means he responds to no one
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at all. If he fears no one, how are you
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going to reason with him? How are you going to
-
reason with him? You catch him cheating, you catch him
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being unfaithful, you catch him doing anything, How are you
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going to talk and reason with him? People? You can't
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change him one or her. Seriously, here, he is not
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your responsible. You know. People can change, but not because
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of you. Find out what do they fear, not just
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what they say their lives. If they fear God, their
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lives will show it. The most important thing that you
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must look from me is whether they fear God. If
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they fear God, even if he has done wrong, you
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can still reason and find hope, you know, because he
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listens to God and all. You know what I mean, right,
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It's so important, you know, it's so important because you
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will mester out. He will mess up, she will mess up,
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You will mess up your life. One you can't mean right,
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But it's more important. What do you fear? And they
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will steal where you go? If a man fears no one,
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if a lady fears no one and answers to no
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one but tells you, hey, I love you at fture,
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how can you talk and reason and build a family
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with that person? Very difficult one. Now, if it's abusive,
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how are you gonna reason with him? Who can reason?
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Your parents, their parents, their friends, who you're alone? It's
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true enough. So one of the things that you gotta
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look for, what kind of what kind of person. What
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do they fear? Don't talk about all what your passion was,
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your dream? No ask the question what not ask that,
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but you really observe that. What do you feel? What
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kind of answer this? This? Or maybe that's my question
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for my for my daughter that before you finding God
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and what do you feel? I find out your fear
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factor first, you know, I want to know your fear factor.
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Fear factor app you know, not not what tinder is it.
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I'll call it the fear factor. That's okay. It's very
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important to know what they fear. Grant me a godly
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fear and also faith in God. It came out we
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ought to have fear, We ought to fear God because
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we are so fearful. We're so We're not so fearful
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that we run away, you know, we're so fearful that
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we run towards God. You know you can. I'm saying,
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you know because I know that no one else will
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have my good intention apart from God. And I know
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that if I depart from me, if I don't abide Him,
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I may seem like successful, but our perish. So no
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matter what I do, and the only approval that I
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desire more than he is from God. God must approve.
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You can't mean life that godly fear, you know, and
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it's God. And when your children does that, you know,
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I don't care what my friends say, don't care what
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I think. It's nice and all I want to see God.
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What does my man they be think? First, that's right,
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you know what I mean. I sometimes I say, then
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touch you no. But sometimes it comes to a time
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that no. Son and daughter, we want you to make
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your own decision as well. You grow up as well.
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But it begins with the fear of the Lord because
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you allowed you, because you start to allow them to
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make their own decision because you know now their heart
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is pure to want to do what is right. You
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know I'm saying now you know because of that fear,
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now your heart is pure to do what is right.
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And then say Godd, also have faith in God. This
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comes to time, faith in God, that God. When I
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make mistake in life, it's not going to be a checkmate.
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You know, we're gonna make mistakes in life. I would
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you don't make mistakes like we make SI, but it's
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not gonna be a checkmate that we stop moving in life.
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And all a lot of that. So we don't want to.
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Oh God, it's going to be if if I don't move,
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I move and make the rest of check made ready,
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and my life is all gone. I messed up everything ready,
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Please people, God doesn't play chess like that one. Okay.
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God's providence is greater than your mistakes. And so when
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I move as well, I move, and I stand in
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faith as well, the Lord that you will be with me.
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He came in you fear God, but you're also in God,
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and there's power that you continue to step into places
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that are unknown as well. Okay, that's very very important.
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And so with that and guided with fear and also faith,
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you ask God to what drawn up my fears that
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are of the world, ungodly fears, fear of failure. But
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let me draw it also that let me hear you clearly,
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this is what you should be praying. The Lord that
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you will guide my steps and everything that I do,
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guide me as I do. It's just right and wrong, Okay,
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I know. Let me use all my intelligence, oh my
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my energy and my time to do prepare everything that
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I can. Okay, Then instead of when you can do
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from one to ninety nine, you do from one to
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ninety nine instead of waiting at one. God tell me
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to do all the way to ninety nine. No, you
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got away all the way until the nineteen nine until
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that very last. Sha God, I've done, I prepare everything.
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Should I go, I've done it by faith. Ready. If
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you say no, I will say no, But I say
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I will go. You gotta do all your due diligience.
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You get me in like a Locatian. Don't do they
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do digits and just say God, God, if you are there,
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you will fly me all the way there. If there's
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a case is relate only to crawl wis dot to
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go path the wilderness? Ready? You know you got mean right? No,
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you gotta work all the way under the very edge.
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Then you stand by faith. You gotta walk all the
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way to the to the red sea before God passed
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the Red sea. A people, it's very very very important, okay,
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the last one fasting to hear and respond to God's
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calling and ministry. That's so important, isn't it. Some of
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yours are so scared because always about my needs first
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in it. But a lot of times are God said,
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yes you have a good heart, but will you obey?
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Will you listen and obey? So important now because a
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lot of times that we pray for what we want
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to do. First all, we think this is the most important,
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you know, But how many times that we prayer, said God,
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even though I think it's important, it's urgent, I think
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that you know best, let me hear. And sometimes God
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ask us to do their different things. You see Joshua
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when here arrival at the really, uh what the world? One? Jericho? Okay?
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In that Jerichoa, he was preparing to fight, you know, okay,
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but then he saw the Angel of the Lord, and
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the Angel of the Lost says that this is holy ground.
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What does it mean that it's holy ground? It means
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that this battle belongs to the Lord. You know, you're
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not pursuing your gender to win. This war is actually
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God's gender. You think you are in your own mission. No,
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you are. You are just a small point in God's
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overall mission. This is holy crowned, you know, Minsa. Everything
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must be said apart. You cannot bring your sandals. You know,
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you cannot walk in walk day. You want to go
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there it Laksa. You want to go to the Master's
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bedroom there and jump and bring your children. You can't
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do that. One or not because you're in the Master's house.
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You know, you don't do your own jedda. Everything that
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you like to do, all your lifestyle is put away.
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You know. You know what I mean? Right, you are
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in God's realm. You got to conduct yourself and conduct
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after You've got to fall after the Master's agenda. Holy
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ground you all. You know what I'm saying, you know.
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And so it's so important that when we fast, when
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we pray, and we want to enter into the presence
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of God, you must be willing to hear the Master's agenda,
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and Master's agenda for your life. And God said, are
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you willing to listen? And now are you willing to obey?
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That includes for your family, for your business, for your study,
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every part of you. You think you are not the master.
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You are not the mission giver. God is the mission giver.
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You got it all wrong. Well, God is the mission giver.
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What's the vision? God is the one who gives you
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are supposed to tune in and download with your fogy
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or fungie, download it into your life and get it correct,
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you know, not the other way. Okay, So when you
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what do you pray? You say, God reveal my calling
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and sorry, maybe I will read the scripture for extrater
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theting verse two. Okay, he says that, and they minister
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to the Minster Church in antiochy, and the minister to
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the Lord and Fastest, and the Holy Spirit said to
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the whole entire church, now separate to me, barnabash and
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soul for the world to which I have called them.
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So if you desire, God will speak his ministry and
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calling into your life. Okay. And then in chapter ten,
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Verstreet says, I ain't no pleasant to know me, or
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whine came into my mouth, nor did I annoy myself
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at all till three whole weeks were fulfilled. Why did
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he do that? Because you wanted to fulfill the ministry
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that God has given to him? Take him, I hear.
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Nothing else matters but to respond to God's calling. And
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so how should we pray God reveal my calling? How
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many of you are willing to ask for that? You
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know a lot of people say that I want to
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know your calling, but a lot of people are scared.
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You know why, because it changes their plan. It's like
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suddenly you're answering an MCQ question and suddenly got another
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option come up. It was not my part, my plan,
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but it's the right answer, A, B, C, D. Then say,
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oh you are my colleingue God, E that's the right answer.
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You're like, no, I want A A, B, C and D. No,
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you give me an E. But it's the right answer.
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God will not. It must for you to answer this.
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You must, you must. It's very important for us to
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know who God is. It's not about the proper, it's
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not about the mission, but it's about who God is.
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When you understand who God is, the mission is secondary.
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Is God going to ever short change you? You see?
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However going to short you? Does He care about you?
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Does he love you? Has he ever failed to provide
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for you? Then? Why you doubt? Now? You come mean right?
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Who he is has never changed. So why does this
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mission change how you think about him? It's just that
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it is not calling here, but he is still the
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same God. Okay, so God revealed my calling equip me? Okay,
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not just that you're calling equipment. No God, If this
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is like equip me, what do I need to do?
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What do I need to learn to prepare? Some of
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you like, oh, maybe I need to go for missions,
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I need to read the Bible, I need to start,
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you know, going for certain things, you know, learn up
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certain skills. Lord open my ears and Lord strengthened me
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to obey as well. Come, let's stand together. I'm gonna
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recap here and I'm gonna I'm gonna lead all of us. Yeah,
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I know a time is up. I'm going to lead
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us here to teach us how to pray, to teach
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us how to go deeper in the Lord. Amen. So
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the first one is fasting to humble ourselves. Secondly fasting
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for repentance and renewal. Thirdly to fast to hunger for
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moral God to change our appetites, for wisdom and understanding
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and discernment. Fifth for strength against temptation. Number six for direction,
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and lastly to hear and respond to God's calling. I
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know I didn't cover everything. I know some of you
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you'll probably had different needs, but I thought I focus
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on who you are insight first, get your gears and
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your compass right, and once you do, when you set
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things in order. When things are in order, I hope
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that God will minister and give more understanding and clarity
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for you as well.
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