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Speak Jesus | Celina Tan
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The title of my sharing is called speak Jesus. Okay,
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So for those of you parents who have kids in
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X Kids, you might must be thinking speak Jesus. Isn't
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this the theme for EX Kids this month as well? Yes,
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it is okay? And I was one of the writers
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for EX Kids curriculum for this particular month. So as
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I was preparing the lesson for EX Kids for the
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past few months, you know, for them to have one
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month worth of lesson to run every Sunday, I was
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just reflecting and I was just reading the Word of God,
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and the itself really spoke to me, and I was
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like thinking, Wow, these terms speak Jesus is so relevant
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not only for the young children, but it's also relevant
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to us as an adult as well.
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Yeah. So the question is why we speak Jesus? Right?
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Where we know we.
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Talk about the words speak is the word that comes
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for from our mouth, right, And the question to all
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of us here is that how are we using our speech?
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How are we using our tongue to speak? How are
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we using our mouth to deliver message to the people
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that is around us? So do our words build someone up?
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Or do our words destroy someone?
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Right?
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So this is really a very important question for us
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to reflect because we talk every day, right, we see
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people every day we talk. But how do we talk?
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You know, that's our our way of talking. Help to
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encourage someone? Or every time we open our mouth, right,
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people will leave the conversation feeling defeated, feeling broken, feeling
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you know, discourage.
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Which one are we? Right?
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So in line with the team of ex church that
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all may know. Okay, So we want to come in
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the position of being able to speak Jesus, to speak
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his name with faith, to proclaim his truth with love,
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and to share his message with the world so that
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everyone will come to know the saving knowledge of Christ.
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All right.
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So in this world we are filled with different noises, right,
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We constantly hear different thing right, So let us be
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the agent to be used by God to be the
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right voice. Okay, not just noise, but be the right
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voice to the people that is around us, all right.
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So the message is The key text for this message
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is from Psalm seventy one, verse fifteen. All right, So
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if you had brought your Bible with you, let's turn
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to p seventy one, verse fifteen.
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Okay, So just give me some time, okay.
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So we're going to read quite a number of scripture today,
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so just bear with me, okay. So reading from seventy one,
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verse fifteen, I'm going to read from the NLT.
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Okay.
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So the scripture says, I will tell everyone about your
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righteousness all day long. I will proclaim your saving power,
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though I am not skilled with your words. And then
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the next one Haberkull two fourteen.
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Okay.
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So Habercul two fourteen says that for the earth will
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be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the
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Lord as the waters cover the sea. So this is
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the two key text that we're going to look into
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as we shed about the word of God. Okay, So
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what are we going to use our mouth with? And
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what is the purpose that we're going to use use
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our mouth with? All right, So let's look at the
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first point, the power.
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Okay.
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So just now all of us have watched the video
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that Passasandra has shed, Okay about bringing our own bible.
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Why why is it so important to own a bible,
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a physical bible, right and not just a digital bible.
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And why is it that is it only Pasta wants
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us to spend money just to buy a bible, that's it.
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No, but to read it. Right.
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If we can read the newspaper, we can read, novels,
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we can read, you know, whatever things that we are reading,
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we need to spend even more time reading the Word
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of God because that is the food that will fit us.
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That is the very element that will help us to grow.
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That is the very word that will help us to
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change our life and turn our life around. Right, So
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this morning we're going to look into to how the
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word help us to grow as a person even as
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we speak. So first of all, we're going to look
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into problems Chapter eighteen, verse twenty one. Okay, so Problems
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eighteen twenty one. Here it says that death and life
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are in the power of the tongue, and those who
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love it will eat its fruit, all right. So the
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scripture is very clear about the power of our words,
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and the immense power means that our words hope very
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strong power.
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Right.
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We always say is that you know the strongest weapon
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is not the knife nor the gun. The strongest weapon
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is our word. You know. Yeah, we know that the
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gun or the knife you just hit someone with it,
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you will kill the person. But our words is the
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same as well. Okay, So it is really powerful. So
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just as I mentioned just now, your word can either
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bring someone up or it can bring someone down.
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Okay, it can even bring life or death.
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So we read the news enough to know that how
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verbal abuse will cause people into depression and eventually kill themselves.
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Right, So that that is how powerful it is.
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So we need to be very mindful of its power,
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and we need to be very mindful that every time
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we speak, we need to be aware of the choice
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of words we use. Okay, when we talk about speaking
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Jesus right, it simply means we choose to speak words
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that give life. We choose to speak words that encourage.
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We choose to speak words that uplift and point others
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to the truth of the Gospel. And our speech should
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reflect the love and grace of Christ, offering hope to
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those who are lost, hurting, and in need. So how
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can we do that. It's by constantly feeding ourselves with
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the Word of God. Because if we don't fit ourselves
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with the word of God, we won't know how we
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can speak that will reflect the love and grace of Christ. Right,
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so it's really important. And another scriptures in James chap
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the Three Words three to six, it says that indeed
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we put bits in horses mouths that they may obey us,
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and we turn their whole body. Look also at shapes.
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Although they are so large and are driven by fierce winds,
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they are turned by a very small rather wherever the
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pilot desires. Even so, the tongue is a little member,
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and both great things. See how great forests a little
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fire kindles, and the tongue is a fire a world
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of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members
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that it defouls the whole body and sets on fire
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the cost of nature, and it is set on fire
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by Hell. So similarly, this scripture also tells us that
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our tongue can either lead us into righteousness or it
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can cause destruction. Okay, our tongue is not the biggest
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organ in our body, right, it's very small only, But
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imagine how powerful it is that the Bible even emphasized
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that it can either cause us into righteousness or it
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can cause us destruction. So Jamie illustrated, where is very
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clearly you know a small the fire is only started
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by small sparks. Right, the fire doesn't come with a
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great fire. It's just a small spark. You use the matches,
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you just like small sparks. It will go into big fire.
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Same goes to our word, all right, The same goes
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to our words. Okay, so let's not use our word
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to ignite conflict, but use our word to spread peace.
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Okay, So speaking.
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Jesus involved using this power to direct the conversations. Okay,
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every time you speak to someone, use the opportunity to
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direct people towards God's truth, bringing light and grace into
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every situation. Okay, So consider the impact of the words
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spoken to someone who is struggling. So imagine you try
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to have a conversation with someone who is struggling. Okay,
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So if you are the person is struggling, and you
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come on too hard with the person with your word,
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just imagine what kind of impact it will bring to
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that person.
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But if you.
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Turn it the other way around, your simple and sincere
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expression of encouragement, you probably just go to the person
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and just say that, Yeah, it will be all right,
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I'm here with you.
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Let's pray.
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Imagine how the person will feel, or you just go
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to the person, how you so simple? You so don't
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know me? You know you imagine what the person will
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feel when you just say that such a simple thing.
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Or so you can make a mistake and the person
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was like, am I useless? Or word? Or when you
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go to a person even though you very much wanted
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to say that so simple? Also you don't know where
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you just go there? It's fine, everyone made a mistake.
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Let's correct it together. How will that person feel?
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Right? The difference? So let's remember that.
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You know, when we show encouraged to someone, right, we
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will be able to uplift their spirit. We are able
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to renew their strength. We will be able to remind
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them that hey, this world is not so cruel after all.
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That is still love. And what kind of love do
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we want to bring to people? God's love? Okay, so
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just remember that. So, as a believer of Christ, we
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are called to be intentional with our speech.
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Right, people always say that I words is cheap.
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Hello, we as a believer, our words are not cheap
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because our words are able to buy someone's salvation. You know,
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our words are able to lead someone towards God. Our
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words are able to help to set people free by
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offering the hope the grace.
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That is from Christ. Amen.
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So just remember when you speak, all right, bring about
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the hope the love to the people. So as I
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was writing this, you know, I was preparing this sermon.
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As I was writing, this particular statement that I've heard
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recently came to my mind. And it's something that I
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constantly remind myself as well. So you can look on
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the screen, Okay, in this particular code, I put that
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someone's mother because I heard it from two percent who
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say that the mother told them this. It says, if
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you have nothing good to say, don't say at all.
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You know, sometimes when we are in a situation, right,
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when people share something, they struggle, Right, it's very normal
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for us to react, you know, and say not so
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good things. And when we react, every word that come
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up from our mouth it is just not right. So
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when every time I wanted to do when in a
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moment of hit the anger or argument, especially in my workplace,
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I wanted to say something, I was being reminded of
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this statement. If you have nothing good to say, don't
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say at all, and that helped me to hold my tongue. Okay,
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it helps me not to say anything bad.
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Okay. So I also wanted to share with you.
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A story about how words kind of like destroy my
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life when I was younger.
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Okay.
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So a lot of people say that, aya, it's just word, Okay,
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how much can it hurt someone?
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Right? So I grew up in an Asian family, okay,
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and every Asian here will know this, okay.
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And the day I was born, I was constantly being
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told that I am ugly. Not I am not beautiful.
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It's basically I am ugly.
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Okay.
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So my grandma from the day I was born until
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I come into understanding, she will always go around telling everyone, hiya,
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this is my granddaughter. She's very ugly, you know. So
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I grew up thinking that I'm very ugly. Yes, So
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I grew up thinking I'm very ugly. I grew up
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not having the confidence. I grew up not wanting to
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mingle with people because I thought that I'm ugly.
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All right.
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So because she said so much, no amount of things
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that other people told me will be able to.
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Change my mindset. And my parents being Asian too. They will.
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They are not the kind of person will give word
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of affirmation. All they did was, it's okay, don't bother
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what your grandma said. Don't bother what your grandma say.
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That's all they say. So in my heart it's like
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Grandma said, I'm ugly, and you tell me don't bother
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what grandma said?
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So who should I believe in? Right?
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So I grew up not having any confidence. And it's slowly,
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it slowly kind of like kills my desire of one thing,
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to do anything, to even dress up. So, okay, all
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my kids were thought all gone being eaten by termite.
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I think the term I also thinking that I'm ugly
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enough to eat it up, if you for those who
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know me, sis, I was young, I dressed like a boy.
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I don't grow long hair, I don't like to wear dressed.
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I will just be just like my brother, running around
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like a boy, climbing trees and all those whatnot. Because
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Grandma said I'm ugly, why should I behave like a girl? Right,
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So I just behaved like in whatever way that I like.
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So you can imagine the severity of the word. But
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how was I being set free? I was being set
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free by the word as well. It's by the word
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of God.
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You know.
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I accepted Christ when I was fourteen, and that was
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when I started going to church and I started hearing
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the word of God. Okay, So at that time I
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kind of like read a lot. Okay, I only chose
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a few books to read because it's easier to my understanding. Okay,
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from my priorsone I think I told you all that
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I grew up my English not so good. So I
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only chose certain book in the Bible that I read
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that I can't understand. So one of it is from
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the is the Book of Some. So I read it
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because I like it. You know, it's like how David
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wrote the Book of Some. It's really very edifying. So
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when I was reading, I came about this.
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Scripture that says that you are fearfully and wonderfully made.
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And when I read that rite, I'm like, it's just
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another story. Why should I believe?
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And as I was reading.
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As I was reading and I was growing up, I
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went to conferences, you know, I went for church service.
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Somehow a lot of time when I was struggled with
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my confidence, this scripture came up and I remember very clearly.
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There was one I can't remember was a conference or
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a Sunday service. These bussers shed this word and the
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buss said very clearly, the Lord says that you are
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fearfully and wonderfully made. And what God said is good.
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No one can deny it. And God and the person
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said that if you are struggling with self image, remember
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that you are God's creation and God say it's good,
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no one can deny it. And after that he gave
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an auto call and went for prayer, and I received
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my breakthrough.
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And every time I struggle with.
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My self image, I tell myself that, hey, Selena, you
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are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God.
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No amount of uglyness that humans say will be able
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to deny God's creation. And that is how powerful the
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world of God is is able to set people free
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as well. So that is something I want to remind
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all of us that you know, sometimes we may speak
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freely our own words, and a lot of times when
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we speak freely with our own words were destroying people.
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But when we speak kindly and we couple it with
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the word of God, we are building people. So remember
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that the word of God is powerful, okay. Inas much
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as our own word is powerful, God's word is powerful
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as well. So the next scripture that we're gonna talk
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we're going to look into, is that how powerful is
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the spoken words, especially the words that come out from
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the mouth of God. From some of the tree was nine,
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he says, for he spoke, it was done, he commanded,
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and it stood.
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First.
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God's words are powerful and alive. So when he speaks,
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things comes into existence. So we read from the Book
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of Genesis, right, how did the whole universe came into existence?
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Did he say that God went into his work room
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and he created no, right, every single thing. He says
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that he spoke and it came to life. He spoke
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and it came into existence. So the same power is
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at work where we declare his words and speak in
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the name of Jesus. When we declare his name, he's
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teaching his promises. We are aligning our words with his will, okay,
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and allowing his.
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Power to work through us.
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So every time we speak his word, we are aligning
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with his will and allowing the power to flow in
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us and true us as we deliver up to other
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people or even for ourself.
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So our words were spoken.
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In faith and in truth can bring about real change
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in the life of others. So maybe you can reflect
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upon yourself, when was the last time you declare God's
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word over your own life and you see changes, especially
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over your some difficult situation that you may have, and
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you witness a transformation. If you have not experienced such,
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I encourage you to do so from today onwards, because
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it's the same thing that I.
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Tried and it happened. You know.
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For those of you who follow ex ampug you know Instagram,
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y'all would have seen my testimony about the healing that
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I went through.
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Okay, I shed before that. You know.
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I found a growth in my body and I was
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so worried that it is you know, some some weird
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sickness I have, or cancel whatsoever. And I was so
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worried and I do not know what to do, you know.
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I was so worried that the doctor will give me
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a bad report. I was so worried that I need
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to go through surgery. And I was remembered of all
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the testimony other people shared, and I do the same
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for myself. I declare over my own body every single
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day that Lord your word says in Isaiah fifty three,
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verse five. By your stripes, I am healed by your stripes.
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I am made whole by your stripes. You know I'll
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be set free. And I declare it every single day
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until I received the doctor's report, and every single day
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that I have to or every single year that I
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have to go for a full up check. Right because
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I worried. You know, we sang right. Speak to your worry,
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pray to your doubt. Our God will never fail, and
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true enough, he never fail.
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So I just want to encourage you.
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You may be praying for healing, you may be praying
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for provision, you may be praying for peace. Speak the
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name of Jesus over your situation or maybe your family member.
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It's the same thing.
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When my dad got a stroke, I was so worried
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and I do not know what to do. I speak
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the Word of God over him. I say that, Lord,
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you need to heal him. Lord you need to make
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him mobile once again. Lord, you need to make him
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able to stand and walk. Lord, you need to make
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him be being able to be independent.
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He came to church.
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Y'all seeing him, I don't think y'all will be able
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to tell that he's actually a strong patient. Right, So
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that is what I do. I have nowhere to turn to.
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I speak the name of Jesus over my situation. And
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because of that, you know, I have testimony to testify.
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So we as a believer, we have the privilege and
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responsibility to speak the word of God in area of
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our situation. So, church, I just want to encourage you.
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Don't think that you are at the day end that
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you have you know, it's basically that's it.
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No, you still have God, you still have the Word.
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That's why it's very important for us to read the
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word of God, because if not, you will not know
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how to speak his word over your situation. You will
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not be able to declare He's worth over your situation.
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Memorize the scripture. And if you're like me, finding it
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hard to memorize by reading, go and listen to all
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the children ministry song.
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Okay, all those that sing on the scripture.
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You were sure remember when you know how I remember
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that all the whole book in the Bible, I sang it,
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the books of the Bible.
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You know how I.
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Can remember the whole something the tree I sing it?
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You know how can I remember the twelve Disciple?
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I sing it. Okay.
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If you ask me to just read like that, I cannot. Okay,
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I sing it. You know, that is how I deposit
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the word of God into me. But that doesn't mean
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that you only go to the song and then you
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don't read the weather because the songs it's only a
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portion of the scripture. But you still have to read
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the Bible in context, Okay, don't take the text out
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of the context. You still need to read from A
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to Z Genesis all the way to Revelation to know
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what is God's plan and his purpose for us.
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Okay, all right?
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So what else it tells us about the power of
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the world of God. In March chapter four wards thirty nine,
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you know, this is the one that we always talk about.
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When the when the disciples was out in the sea
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and the wind and the wave hit, you know, hit them,
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and they were so scared, and they called.
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Jesus, Jesus, how care?
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How come you can still sleep in the midst of
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a storm? And what did Jesus did? He woked up,
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and he say do and he rebuilt the wind and
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say that peace be still, and the wind ceased and
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there was a great come.
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Okay, so we can see that.
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You know, even Jesus exercised his authority over the nature
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by simply speaking the word, and the wind and the
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wave obey his command, and that demonstrates the power of
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speaking Jesus in faith, we can do so too.
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Okay.
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So when we speak in alignment to God's will, things
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will come to pass. The Lord will answer, whether it
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is your personal challenge, whether it's a community issues, whether
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it's your company situation, or whether you're praying for the
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nation Malaysia or your own nation. All right, believe that
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his power can bring peace and transformation. And all you
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need is just faith. Because in Mattel seventeen, verse twenty,
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it says that you know, with faith as small as
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a mustard seed, when you say to this mountain, move
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from here to there, it will move and nothing will
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be impossible. Right, And that is what is stated in
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the world of God, is not what is.
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Stated by me. Okay. So Jesus taught us that, you know,
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as long as we have faith as small as a
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muster seed, we need to exercise it and.
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We will be able to accomplish great things. Okay, So
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what is this in this scripture? What does the mountain
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symbolize us. Okay, It symbolize things that is insurmountable challenge
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in our life. You know, something is symbolize the challenges
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that nothing we do will be able to change. Just
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like what I mentioned to you just now, my dad's sickness,
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my own sickness. You know, I'm not a doctor. I
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can't do anything. Maybe I can't go and see a doctor.
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But the doctor can need do what the doctor can do?
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What else can what else can the doctor and myself do?
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Nothing? Right?
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All I need to do is hang on to Jesus
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in faith, okay, and continue to practice my faith field
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speech over my life. Okay, So instead of declaring defeat,
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we need to declare victory in Jesus name. You know,
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in Chinese, every single thing that we face, every single
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problem we face, right, we always say say or miss
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a dialog. Okay, we need to change our speech. When
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you face a situation, you have to tell yourself, with
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Christ by my side, there is victory. No matter how
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difficult it is for you to believe that is victory.
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You have to believe that is victory.
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Right when I enter into my current company, all I
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see was dry bones. All I see was date and
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I'm like, what did I land myself in this job?
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But I pray every single morning.
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I say that, Lord, I do not know how, but
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I know that I can hold on to you to
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give me the eye, give me the wisdom to settle
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the situation that I'm required to settle in my workplace.
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And the testimony that I didn't share here, I think
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was that two months into the job, my founder praised
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me in the board, in the in the management meeting
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that we just want to thank Selena for helping us
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to solve all the issue that we didn't manage to
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solve for the past many years. Was it my was
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it my experience? Was it my own capability? It's not
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because when I went in, I look at the situation.
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I'm my Lord, I have no idea how to do this,
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But God gave me the idea how to do it.
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And that is a testimony. So when my boss said that,
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me being me, I turned to him.
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I pray to Jesus every day and that was it,
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and I say thank you. That's what I do, okay,
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because seriously, I have no idea what to say but
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to thank God for it. So remember, when you have
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a situation remember this tag line that is very famous.
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Push pray until something happened. Prayer is speaking Jesus, speaking
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his word, okay, and aligning with his will. So understanding
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there is power in our spoken words and speaking in
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the name of Jesus, how are we going to use
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our words responsibly?
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Okay?
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So the practice when we look at Matthew chapter twelve,
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verse thirty four, okay, the word says for out of
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the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
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Okay. So in Matthew twelve thirty four, okay, ah. Where
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is my book of meth too? Okay.
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So here it says that in Menteal telve, the twelve
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worse thirty four, I'm going to continue for whatever is
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in your heart determines what you say. A good person
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produces good things from the treasury of a good heart,
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and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury
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of an evil heart. And I tell you this, you
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must give an account on Judgment Day for every idle
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word you speak.
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Okay.
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So when I read this scripture, I was reminded what
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I learned in my diploma in it.
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Okay.
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In it, there's a term called garbage in garbage out
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It basically meant that the not good thing goes in,
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the not good things will come out right. So in
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this scripture tells us whatever we posit inside our heart,
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it comes out from our mouth eventually. So you may
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think that, yeah, whatever I do in secret, right, I
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keep that positing in my life. Nobody will know one
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trust me, it will come out eventually. Because whatever garbage
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we put in is whatever garbage will come out. So
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our words is a reflection of what is in our heart.
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So if our hearts are full of love, compassion, and righteousness,
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our words will naturally reflect those qualities. So on the contrary,
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our hearts are feeling bitterness. If our hearts are feeling bitterness, anger,
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or malice, our words will reveal that as well. So
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when we talk about speaking Jesus, we must first ensure
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that our hearts are aligned with His right and this
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means nurturing a relationship with Him through prayer, to scripture,
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to worship, and allowing his love and truth to feel
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our hearts and overflow into our speech. So again it
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comes back to the word of God. So my question
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to all of us here is that what have we
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been feeding our hearts with right? What are we storing
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in our hearts word of God or garbage? If it's garbage,
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it's time. It's time for us to do the talks now,
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all right. So if we've been feeding ourselves with the
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things of the world, okay, how you know, we can
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go to a lot of seminers or talks that taught
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by the gurus of this world on how to you know,
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talk to people, it will not be as good as
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what we learn from the word of God. Because why
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we need to align ourselves with the word of God
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if we want to see power to transform okay, the
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power to transform life and to win our loved one
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to Christ.
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Okay.
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So having the right contact in our hearts doesn't mean we.
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Are able to speak it right too, okay.
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So sometimes we we will have a lot of we
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will we have the truth in our hearts. We have love,
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we have compassion, we have you know, all the good things.
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But how we deliver it sometimes also is a challenge, right,
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because sometimes we can be we call it a quick tongue.
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What is it? We're very fast in the way we talk.
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So it's like we talk right. We always say that
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it when it comes straight from our mouth and never
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go through our brain before it comes out from our mouth.
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Okay.
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So having all these good things also we also need
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to exercise on how we deliver it. So sometimes we
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can have too much righteousness that we fail to show love,
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or sometimes we can too much compassion that we fail
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to speak the truth. Does that mean we do not
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have all this? We have, but it's not balanced. So
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what the Bible teaches on this? In Effesion four fifteen,
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it says that speaking the truth in love may grow
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up in all things into him who is hate and
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the Christ. Okay, So when we talk about speaking Jesus,
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it's not just proclaiming the truth, it's also about doing
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it with love. We need to make sure that it
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is balanced. Okay, it's not one more than the other.
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So imagine this truth without love can be hush and alienating,
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while love without truth and be weak and effective.
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Okay.
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So imagine that you when when you need to correct someone,
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you have the truth and you love that person and
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you want to make sure that this person know that
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it makes a mistake. But you go straight into the
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person that and just straightway tell the truth so eagerly
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to correct the person that you forget to show compassion.
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Imagine how the person will feel. Right, imagine you, Okay,
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I come and correct you as something. I'm so eager
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to correct you that I've forgotten to show compassion. You
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will sure say that, Wow, this Selina's word is so
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sharp that it kills me.
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Right, But does that mean I don't love you?
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I still love you, but I've forgotten to show compassion
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when I speak. But on the on the flip side,
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I love you so much that I I'm afraid that
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when I tell you the truth it might hurt you.
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So I sugarcoat every single thing. After finish a conversation,
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you still have no idea what I'm trying to tell you,
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and you are still thinking, Hm, maybe Selena is accepting
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that I can still continue making the mistake, right, does
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it you know?
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Does it fulfill the purpose? No? It doesn't. Okay.
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So when we speak, Jesus, when we talk to someone,
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we must ensure that our words are seasoned with love okay,
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reflecting Christ his character, but at the same time able
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to bring about the truth to.
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Someone as well.
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Okay, So always remember truth that is spoken with love
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will the impact will be positive and healing, bring about
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spiritual maturity and reconcilation, okay, And when we do it
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the right way, it will bring about a good change.
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Okay. All right.
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So in James Shep the Tree, verse seventeen to eighteen
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says that but the wisdom that is from above is
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first pere them, peaceable, gentle, willing to yield full of mercy,
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good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. Now, the fruit
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of righteousness is sold in peace by those who make peace.
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So just now we talk about balancing both truth and love,
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and we know that it is not easy. So we
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really need to depend on God to give us the
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wisdom to know how to speak, okay. And wisdom plays
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a pivotal role in our speech. And the wisdom that
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we need is pure, peace loving and full of mercy.
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And this kind of wisdom can only come from God,
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all right. So remember that when we speak, it should
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promote peace and understanding and not division and conflict.
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Okay. And we need to speak with heavenly wisdom, okay.
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We need to become the peacemaker, using our words to heal, reconcile,
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and build others, solving seeds of righteousness as well.
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Okay.
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So to be an effective witness for Jesus. Let's start
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that positing our life with the things of God. Okay,
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exercise love and wisdom as we speak, okay, and the
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word we speak, we'll be able to edify someone, live
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them up and result in many coming to know the
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saving knowledge of Christ.
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Amen. All right.
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So again, like I say, if you do not know
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how prayer is number one. Number two is to read
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the word of God. You know, a lot of times
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we can we can imitate how Jesus speak, right, we
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can imitate how the how he correct Okay. Of course
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sometimes we know that you know, the way Jesus talk
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is also very sharp, but that requires wisdom as well.
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So what we can do is that before we have
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conversation with someone, pray and say that you know, God,
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give me the words, grant me the wisdom, and help
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me to understand. You know, when I have a conversation
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with someone, how should I speak it? And one of
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the things that I learned, you know recently, is that
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when you speak to someone, don't keep on talking with me.
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Okay, bye bye, you go back, all right. Even though you.
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Are speaking a lot of words of love, encouragement and whatnot,
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it will not help another person if you do not
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stop and listen. You know, when we speak Jesus, it
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comes hand in hand with listening as well. When you
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have a conversation with someone, remember this. Listen to what
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the person has to say. Listen with the intent of understanding,
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not the intent of trying to reply or correct or
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fight back. Listen with the intent of understanding. And when
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you understand, and when you listen, that is when you pray, Lord,
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what is it that you want me to pick up
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from this conversation that I will be able to speak
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to this person to help this person to grow. It's
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the same thing when you speak to your pre believing
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friend friends who do not know Christ. Lord, what is
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the one thing that you want me to pick up
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from this conversation that when I speak, I will be
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able to direct this conversation to share your love, your hope.
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To this person.
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And God will show you one and it will always
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result in either you sharing the Gospel to this person
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or it will result in you end in the conversation
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with a prayer for this person, and you will realize
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that soon this person will come to you.
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Can you help me? Can you pray for me? And
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eventually you will slowly see this person coming to know
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the Lord. Amen. All right.
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So that is the practice, okay, So always remember that
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pursued your life with the things of God. Speak in
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a conversation that brings about love and truth that is balanced, okay,
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And pray for the wisdom of God even as you speak.
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All right?
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And what is the point and what is the purpose
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for me sharing about these two points here? It leads
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to the purpose, all right, which is from Mattel twenty eight,
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verse nineteen to twenty. And this scripture is no stranger
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to all of us, is basically about the great commission. Okay,
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go therefore and make disciples of all nations.
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Okay.
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And that is our command and that is our mission
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to go out and make disciples of all nations. So
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when we speak and our conversation, we need to always
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remember this. Will my word bring someone to Christ? Will
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my word be able to show people the love of Christ?
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Will my convert stasion be able to bring about hope
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to someone? So remember our mission and our mandate is
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to speak Jesus until all nations hear his name. Maybe
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in every single conversation you keep on talking about Jesus
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and Jesus. People will say that heyo you Jesus free
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is it?
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It doesn't matter.
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It doesn't matter because after all, we are all followers
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of Christ. We need to talk about our biggest cycle,
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our Jesus. Right, So if we say that we are
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a follower of Christ, we shouldn't be ashamed of his name.
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You know, in every single conversation that we have, we
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can always bring about his name for good purposon not
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using his name to score someone. Okay, so remember when
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we talk, we need to share about his name. So
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in the early days, the early disciples, after they received
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this commission, they really take it on seriously.
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They really take it on body.
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They really go out and proclaim the name of Jesus
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despite persecution. If during that time I'm so difficult, the
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disciple can do it our time. Now, it's not as
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difficult back then, Why can't we do it?
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Let's do it. It's not that difficult.
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Right.
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So if let's say me being two treatments in my
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new company, I can share it with the founder of
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the company, say that all I did was because of Jesus.
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I'm caller. I probably may cause myself to lose my job,
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but I don't care. Okay, who's my biggest boss is Jesus? Right?
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If I can do it, all of you can do
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it too. You know, all of you can do it too.
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Just proclaim because a lot of things that is in
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our hand today, it really is not a result of
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our heart work, is really a blessing from God. You
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think that you have a job now is because of
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your heart work, it's not.
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It's a blessing from God.
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You think that you have a house now it's a
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result of your heart work, it's not.
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It's a result of God's blessing to you.
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Whatever we have in our hands now, even the fact
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that we can stand here today and breathe. Do you
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think it's a result of our heart work of keeping
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taking care of our health?
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Partially?
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Yes, but it's a result of God's grace towards us.
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So whatever we have in our hands belongs to Jesus.
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So are we going to use it to share it
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with the people that is around us? Maybe you say that, yeah,
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my life, my life is a wreck, is heavoc It's
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a result of God's grace towards you as well, So
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that you can come to Him and say that Lord,
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here I am use me, take me and heal me
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and set me free. You know, the Lord doesn't put
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us into a situation just so that he enjoys seeing
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us suffer. It's not it's so dead. We will run
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back to him. Remember the story of the prodigal Son,
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so that we can run back to him again. Maybe
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our prayer today may not be answered immediately, but continue
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to press on and trust him. So that is something
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that we can hold onto. So are we going to
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just go out there to just to share that, Ah,
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my life is good because of Jesus, does it No?
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The message that we need to deliver in together, hand
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in hand with our testimony, is the message of salvation.
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When you share your testimony, already share with the person
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as well. For God so love you that he gave
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his one and only son so that you can have
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eternal life.
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John three sixteen.
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If you cannot remember the whole Bible, at least remember
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John Tree sixteen. For God so loved the world that
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he gave his only begotten son, that whoever believed in
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him will not perish, but have everlasting life. And that
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is the reason, that is the message of salvation that
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we need to carry out in our conversation so that
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people will know that they are loved. They do not
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need to seek love anywhere else because our God is
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loved and God's love is the foundation of everything we proclaim. Right,
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And when we speak Jesus, we are declaring his love,
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his grace to the people that is around us, so
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that they will be able to accept Him and inherit
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eternal life.
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Amen.
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All right, So that is the whole giessus of why
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when we speak is important. So if people were to
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tell you that word is cheap, it's not. Use your
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word wisely, use your word with purpose.