Mary and Martha Worship & Serve | Pr Matthew Chang

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To look chapter ten Oh yeah, oh yeah before I

do as well. Uh just came back from missions last Sunday.

Uh in the logs, no, I know that before me

there was a team from Unpounded when as well, who

you guys are? Whoo who was the one? Who? Oh

yeah yeah yeah yeah, how was it? Enjoyed it so far? Liiktoba? Right?

Yeah yeah yeah, so part fronts send their regards to

you guys as well, some of you. You know, I'm

sure it was a very interesting, interesting uh mission treat

for you guys. The music, you know, it's like I

struggled with the music because they don't need a sound

crew one and know the because they only go one setting.

Max and you guys were the lucky ones. Okay, I

caused I was the invited guess you know. I had

to sit right at the front end now beside the speaker,

am I I was wearing my Apple Watch. My Apple

watch keep ringing and unhealthy sound level. Unhealthy sound level,

unhealthy sound level, you know, like oh my goodness is

like ah, I had to like stuff a big tahoe

just to just to number the tecourse it was getting

to hurt, but it was really awesome. Uh, you know,

I have fun with them. How many of you have

you've been to Indonesian mission trip with ours team before?

Only I know there's one group? How many ones? Okay? Great,

so I may when before. I'm sure it was fun, right,

very fascinating. I tell you these guys are on fire man,

I really they they they are so I mean, they

are very big heart. Their hearts of worship is so simple.

I highly encourage you guys to go and join the

mission treap. Really every year I always tell people, Uh,

once a year, at least once a year, go for

a mission trip local overseas. Go for one mission trip.

It's gonna do wonders for your own half, for your

own soul, for your own perspective of life as well. Okay,

it's very fantastic. So past part front and part Jeffries

and the regards to you guys. Okay, I had on

that last day, I was I was okay for the

four days except for the last day or I had diarrhea.

Really it was so bad. But France, but they can now.

On Thursday, I cannot. On the fourth day, I cannot

before sermon, straight after the summon, then just before flight

takeoff as well. So like I was like, oh, it

was really hard. But anyway, let's go to the word

right now, right, let's cleanse all this all right, turned

with me to Luke chapter ten, and I'm gonna read

here from verse thirty eight. Okay, I'm sure you you

guys are quite familiar with this passage. Okay, Now, verse

thirty eight. He has a title that says Mary and

Martha worship and sir. Okay, you guys are quite familiar

with this. Now that's read it says, now it happened

as they went that that he, meaning Jesus, entered a

certain village, and a certain woman named Martha welcome him

into the house. And she had a sister called Mary,

who also sat at Jesus' feet and heard his word.

But Martha was this stricted with what with not the

thought okay, with much serving, And she approached him Jesus

and said, Lord, do you not care that my sister

has left me to serve alone? Let me rephrase, let

me read this again, I underlying this rainpart. Lord, do

you not care that my sister has left me to

serve alone. Therefore, tell her to help me. Very important, okay?

And Jesus answered and said to her Martha, Martha, you

are worried and troubled about many things, but one thing

is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part which

will not be taken away from her. All right? So

I have some slightest as well, But before I do,

I just want to ask one main question. Okay, which

is the next light? What's the question? Who was Martha

really upset with? Oh? You know how many of you

get into domestic fights before, with your spouse, with your

husband before. Sometimes you get confused. Now are you upset

with me? Are you say? With the kids? I said,

with your boss? Why does it feel like you're scolding me?

You know how many of you know what I'm talking about?

You know what I'm talking about. Right now, we have

obviously a situation here. Right now I'm gonna ask a

very clear question here. Who is Martha really upset with? Who?

Says Mary? Okay? Why the rest? Are you all? Have?

You have the Hall York? Your neighbors accountable? Like they

don't raise their hand, you better raise their hand? Sid

Who says Mary, who says someone else? Who Jesus who

says Jesus, Ah, this all theological students are, All theological

students are Bible seminary students. Or it must be Jesus,

love can be married. Now, why do you say, Jesus, Martha?

Mary is the one not putting her legs and her

hands into the plow, isn't it? But why Jesus? Because

the sentence reveals her frustration, isn't it? The sentence reveals

the frustration. Let's look at what I know. You read

it a few times. Let's read it again. What did

you say? He says here in verse forty lord addressing

she's talking to Jesus or not to marry Lord? And

the first thing is not Mary is not doing anything?

What did she say? Do you not care? Before she

addresses Mary, she already came to the conclusion, or at

least the presumption that do you not care? Because she

felt like Jesus not Caresn't It initially starts with Mary

not working? Then after this she feels like, Jesus, your damna.

But you're not intervening, you're not helping, you're not making

things better, and you clearly know that I'm here, I'm hurting,

I'm suffering, you know, so the prayer becomes all the

conversation becomes Lord, do you not care? Actually, can just

simplify it? You know, if you simplify the whole thing

and just say, Lord, do you not care? Okay, do

you not care? Then my sister has left me to

serve alone, left me, you know, serf alone or victimizing

herself in cal you know, you know, you know, had

to remind Jesus you don't care. You look at me

right now, I'm alone, I'm serving alone, I'm suffering. Yeah,

we try to tell God how we feel and tell God, hey, God,

you're not doing your job, you know? And then which

part betrays her? Someone? What did she do next? Was

it a question or an instruction? He was an instruction?

You don't instruct the person in all that you don't bother,

you know, you instruct the person that your attention and

frustration and director towards. Isn't it Therefore? Why tell her? God?

You need to tell her? Oh, that's the gist of

the story, isn't it? Get me? Right? Therefore, God, you

tell her? So what is this whole story about? How

is it about prayer. How many of you know what

I'm talking about? Sometimes we come before God, isn't it huh?

Come before God? We come before God that God, I

have a prayer in it. Sometimes our prayer needs are

seems that prayer needs until you go a bit deeper,

and then you start to realize what you are saying,

what you are feeling. Then it betrays you to realize

that you are not really having problems. You're having a

problem with God because God doesn't answer, God not doing anything.

And then you play God, I'm sore, I'm so, I'm sore.

I'm sure heard, I'm so victimized. You're not answering anything.

Nor then our prayer turns into what telling God what

to do? Oh. So, the danger although we are entering

into a time of fasting and praying, I'm afraid that

many of us, including myself, that you know, the other

danger is that, of course the first part is not praying. Now.

The other danger is that we pray for the wrong things.

There will approach prayer completely wrong. Then you realize that

you get enter into prayer frustrated and come out even

more frustrated. True or not true? Not, But we want

to be able to also, of course, you know, Jesus

comes and it's very comforting, you know, towards what they

call it, towards our Martha as well. So what Jesus said,

you said you are worried and troubled about many things.

All these stems from one thing starts to be beginning

of something being troubled. Okay, about many things troubled, and

many things being vexed, and many things. It is being

what do they call it? What do they call it? Annoying?

But yet at the same time there is the problem

of being having too many things at the same time.

It's a quality and a quantity problem as well. Okay,

sometimes you don't have quantity. Sometimes you can be frustrated

with a very specific problem, and sometimes you have a

very specific problem. But it's also overwhelming. So how many

of you're not talking about? Sometimes the days can be

just overwhelming. It's just like one after another after another

after another. Sometimes I give you three problems in a row.

You're like overwhelming? Ready, you know how many? You know

what I'm talking about? No, no, no, you don't have

an overwhelming day before. Sometimes you can have an overwhelming day,

isn't it. So it's both the trouble and with many things.

But Jesus specific said one thing. There's one thing, not

just thing. One thing. So the goal that Jesus wants

us to take us it's not just to remove the problem,

but to singularize it into one thing. Do you know

that one thing that matters that is needed? And then

I eventually get us to choose that one thing. To choose.

Her means is not telling God to do, but us

to choose. It's not God's responsibility, but prayer results in

my responsibility. Amazing, you know what I'm saying or not,

it's amazing at this conversation now, it's not turning. It

starts off with what they call it matha telling God

what to do. But Jesus replies that choose one thing

and you get to choose it. That's what prayer is

meant to be. Okay, that's the whole massaturity kidding something

there or not. You're caught something there or not. What

I'm telling to you, I'm trying to unpack to you guys,

is that prayer is very powerful. A prayer in fact,

is actually one of our greatest warfarees is used in warfare,

but it is actually itself is the warfare every day.

Your biggest better is not getting here to k l

getting there to your workplace, trying to get your family

sorted yesterday is one of the better. You're better is

trying to enter into prayer, into a prayer mode. Okay,

So now let's go a bit deeper. Okay, let's go

be let's go to the next slight. What do we

have the next slight? Ah, Martha's problem. Martha's problem is

that she's worried and troubled about many things. But it

is not a problem. It's not a problem of the heart.

She loves God. That's why Jesus is in the house.

Many of you here are here because you love God.

You say, yes, I want to love God. I love God.

I want to be here on a surfing as well.

But a lot of times we lack not heart, we

lack wisdom. And Martha is the same thing as well.

She lacks wisdom in the same case. Have you heard

about the parable of the ten Foolish Virgins? That ten

foolish virgins are is meant for who believers or non believers?

It's she meant for believers. Actually, so why is it

taking said you can follow Jesus, but yet because of

the lack of wisdom, you make poor choices. I don't

have to remind you if you look through the Bible,

how many characters in the Bible have made poor choices.

I mean that doesn't mean that you're a Christian, that

you're exempted and or known. There is the need to

meet wise and good choices in life as well. So

it's not a heart problem. A lot of us what

we're going through, it's not a heart problem. It is

a wisdom problem. And a lot of times is the

problem of differentiating what is important versus immediate. Aw sometimes

you do a lot of things that are immediate like

a factor. Oh, you keep doing doing doing, But sometimes

because of that, you get when you have more than

one thing to do, you learn are you able to

priority times or see through what it's really really really important? Yes,

serving is important, But yet are you gonna have Jesus

all the time? No? Isn't it? Sometimes listening is more

important than talking. Okay, and spiritual versus pragmatism as well. Okay,

let's go to the next line. Okay, how many times

have we said this prayer is a luxury, praise a

luxury here. We've gotta find time to find to pray.

You don't have time to pray and energy to pray.

Busy and actually, to be honest, you guys have big responsibilities.

I understand. I'm totally understanding. And a lot of times

you don't have the time, you don't have the energy.

But also you don't find a fulfillment in prayer, and

because of that, you find prayer to high a cost

to pay. There is a saying you know that when

you know that without a clear vision, okay, everything becomes

a cost too high to pay. Okay, without a clear vision,

everything becomes a cost too high to pay. If I

tell you that you need to lose weight, but you know, no,

I know, I'm saying a lot of different things. You know.

We just had our ex business community devotion two days

ago or three days ago on Thursday, and I was

teaching about sharing about from the Book of Problems. You

always hear these four keywords, isn't it always hear Number

one knowledge, You hear about the word understanding, You hear

the word about wisdom, and you hear the word discernment

Karna in the Book of Proverbs, get understanding, get wisdom,

get get get you read a book or keep talking

about that. But what's the difference between these four knowledge, understanding,

wisdom and discernment. A lot of us know that we

need to honor our parents, Troy, not you know you're

told to honor your parents. Okay, maybe maybe use another example.

This one is better. You know that you need to

come to office in time. This is not even more.

And actually we had someone in the devotion share that

you know, this person knows that she needs to come

on time. They start work at nine, but they need

to show up at eight thirty. We know that, but

then they don't have an understanding. They come up, they

come in late, and they didn't come in at eight thirty.

They came at nine, and she and the person notices

that her colleagues are treating her not so nice. And

the reason why she found out later is when she

comes in late, everybody has to cover for her. Sheep.

She impacts everybody's other people's responsibility, things, and everything else

as well. Perceptions happens. So from her knowledge and because

of her consequences affecting other people, she begins to understand.

Understanding is more than no way. Understanding is understanding consequences,

implications and impact you. Now she begins to understand why

she needs to come in time. Then, but does she

do it? She still didn't do it. There is the

lack of wisdom. You know you understand, but are you

skillfully managing your time? Because wisdom is not just showing

up on time and all wisdom is making sure the

night before you don't watch your Netflix ahanging. So you

look at a person. Why you don't you don't watch

it so late? No, I just need to answer my life.

So you live. You look at the person. The person

is living skillfully correct or not leaving skillful living whit.

Wisdom is not like well, I go around talk some

deep deep stuff. You know. Real wisdom is live or

the person that is wise making wise choices. You don't

drink coffee at nine o'clock at night, you know you don't.

You know. Make sure that you know that your surrounding

is prime for sleep. You eat healthier foods, You manage yourself,

you wake up earlier as well. You realize that you

don't do quiet time railwad at night, you do it

in the morning. You may continually make wise decisions. You

know what I'm saying, so from knowledge, you get into

understanding because but then you begin finally you realize that

understanding heaps down enough, it hits so deep until you

realize it it's gonna affect your survival, your success and survival

in life. Then you begin to make wise choices in

your life. You eat wisely right now, eat healthier food.

You start to go for a longer walks. Already you

don't don't do what you you don't smoke, you do

whatever it is, ready living wisely. The fourth onest one discernment.

Discernment means you know where, you know how to measure something. No,

if a person tells you something, you know how to

measure and you ask where is it coming from? And

where is it going? And That's what I'm saying. So,

if a person tells me and quotes me scripture, this

person is doing something wrong and stuff like that. You

know he telling me or a quoting me scripture of

what this person is doing wrong. And I listen, and

I listen, and I measure is this really in accordance

to the world of God? Then I begin to ask,

why is this person telling me this thing? And he

could be quoting scripture, He could be telling me things.

He could be putting online things about things, and I

realize this guy has been hurt before I can tell you.

Because of that, I realized that you can be quoting scripture,

but if you're coming from a place of bitterness and hurt,

I have to reject it because I know whatever did

you say is taking me to a bad place. Ah.

So you have discernment. So that's why you discern the

people that come into your life as well. A discerning

person is not just they don't all the times, they

know the people around them as well. That's why you've

got to be careful who you allow in your life.

You're going to take care in your in your life,

your children, whether they associate with good people and bad

friends as well, because you know where they come from

and likely where they are going as well. So you

need discernment as parents, makes sense or now so we

need what knowledge? Understanding, wisdom and discernment makes sense. It's

a good framework. So when you read the Book of Proverbs,

it's always around these areas. Why I know, okay, you

always so the Bible always say what get knowledge? You

don't nor Meally they say yes knowledge, but always get understanding, understanding,

get understanding, get wisdom, you know, get don't you saying

all this comes from the Lord? Now a lot of

times when we come into prayer, we have knowledge, but

we like understanding. We like understanding. We don't have the understanding,

we don't have the wisdom, we don't have the discernment

as well. Pray, pray, prayer, and then you just simply

apply the Bible verse, you know, when to a tree,

I get the God hear my prayer, and then just

simply claim money you got. I mean right, we are,

we are knowledgeable in the spirit, but like understanding that

you know, sheep like sheep that know they're hungry they

need to eat, but they don't know where to get

their food from, like understanding, which is very very very

sad as well. But we don't want to be like that, okay.

And so what happens when you lack understanding? How many

of you when you pray you find it unfulfilling? You know,

I say, you find filling when you get into prayer.

And I said, okay, I'm gonna pray right I'm gonna

pray right now. Maybe you pray in your car and

you're like, oh, how do I prayer? Then you start

to it's gonna even listen to me. It's the day

I didn't even leave my right very well. Last night

I spent like two three hours talking bad about someone

and ah, talking about my boss, talking about this. I

don't know even not gonna listen. Maybe God sees all

my problems readily. I know I pray. I feel even

more guilty right now. You know, I pray for this

for so long already. Maybe how do I even know

that God is going to respond to me as well?

How many of you know what I'm talking about? No, oh,

you have great prayer life. Oh yeah, great prayer lives.

You know. The funny thing is a lot of you

think that a great people are pray for one hour

to three hours five hours. I've been reading books on

prayer well or recently, like people from George Miller. Even

know George Miller's from Bristol, if you know, Okay, also

books from C. S. Lewis, you know, screw Tail Leapters,

Letters of Malcolm and some other books. I've been curious.

I'm like, I do these great people how their prayer

life is? And you know what I found They struggle

with the same things like you and I. They struggle

with doubt that George Miller's, Oh don't they sometimes they

have on that day itself because they have George Miller

has an orphanage, about three hundred plus student kids, no

food and all three hundred plus. Oh we prayed last night,

So no prayer then walk time in the money, He wrote,

not yet. I don't know what I should pray right now.

Maybe I should just go out for a walk right now.

He just got out for a walk. Then somebody, somebody

will handed him some money, and thank you God. That's

his prayer, Thank you God. Simple. And I realized his

prayers are just simple, stop simple, stop, simple stock, very

simple prayers and a lot of simple a lot of simple,

common struggles like you and I, not some deep theological

Oh I pray, pray, prayer as if like you're gonna

unlock some mystery and or some reward coming out when

you pray properly. No, no, no, no, no, it's very simple God,

He's just prayer. God, help me God. I need this,

Oh God, if you'll be very good, if you can

take a baby? Is knee pain right now? Oh God?

This person is hungry? How how you know, just like

a simple compensation. That's the prayer, simple one and a

it's not something Oh no, no, very simple? What this?

To my surprise? WHOA? Then I realized the key is

not so much about lung. It's just the belief I

need to pray. I just need to pray because my

help comes from nowhere else about God. I mean, right,

I got nowhere else to go. I just pray on it,

and I just talk talk talk. Okay. So a lot

of times we get into all this problem. You don't

know what to expect during prayer. You don't know what

to expect, you don't know how to pray, you don't understand,

and you don't even know what to expect after prayer,

after prayer, okay, how you come out like? Okay, I

did my ritual, I did my things, but how does

it actually impact me or not? Okay? So I hope

to give you to give us some tools today that

will help us to pray a bit better. Okay, that's

been very, very very practical. Okay, let's go to the

next line. Let's go to some to give you some tools.

I need to identify your that dialer mathers your problems.

The common practices that we do that helps us to

have a very poor prayer set up. Okay, and a

lot of people, all of us do that. I also

reguilty of it. First of all, inconsistent timing, very port

uh consistency in timing. How many of you plan your

prayers every day? Some yes, great? Tell me of you

like you tried to plan but then it didn't work out.

You get and you pray when you pray when you're

there's an urgency and there's alarming, you know, and then

when someone tells you to pray, like, how dare you

ask me to pray? Right? You'll be praying right now? Okay,

So we don't we don't plan our prayers. Okay, we

try to most of the time go by feelings and

then and that's the problem. That's one of the mag

major major problems you need. If I can give you

a very important tape, is that you've got to plan

your prayer. Consistency trumps and far outweighs all the quality. Prayer.

Consistency is far more important, and that is what most

of the people, the great people Josh Muller as the

ways that consistency is far in a way great better

benefits consistency. You know why consistency is more powerful because

the battle into prayer is not during the prayer. It's

always before a prayer. The worship of Abraham is not

when he was trying to you know, the challenge for

Abraham when God asked him to offer Isaac. It's not

just at the point where he needs to offer Isaac

and then you know he took the knife and hold

it up there. The challenge for Ibraham was the journey

of bringing Isaac. Yeah, that was the challenge. Did you

know if you read the books I've been read. I've

been doing studies on the Book of Kings, first Kings

and second Kings. Some of you like to read the

Book of Second King, First King, Second Kings. No, don't

like that. When you read that, you realize that there's

so many kings, you know, and then go after we

go to the second Kings that you're like, wow, suddenly

you got Samaria, God Judah got Israel. God Judah is

like what happened in the world. But basically the separation

between Judah and Israel happened for because of one guy,

this king called Jerald Boem. You know what did he do?

Because when they're separated, what did he do? He put

two golden calfs, one in the North and one in

the south. Because at the south, where Judah is right,

their capital was Jerusalem, and in Jerusalem was the appointed

place of worship for everyone. But the North and the

South are fighting, then the Northern Kingdom have a problem.

Every time they have to go to worship, they have

to go to enemy territory to worship. So it becomes

a political problem, you know. So instead, I don't want

my people to go there. So one day they're gonna

backstap me, you know. So what they do, Let me

introduce to you a new place of worship maybe instead

of you know, amang, you know, we multiply somewhere convenient

beside them. You know. You know, they put two golden

calves and tell people you don't have to come all

the way down to Jerusalem to worship anymore, and put

one calf there. I want to put there, you can go. Convenience.

It's like you know, having grab ready, you know, so

people stop going down there to worship at the enemy territory.

You get me right. It was a political convenience. But

when he did that, all the kings sin, you know,

the not not not not, the nation, all the kings.

I think it was about twenty plus kings. All of

them sin and failed because of this two idolatry for

so many years, and because of the convenience. But you

don't realize that worship and prayer is actually fighting through

the convenience. The flash in all that. You know, if

this mean this main thing that I've been reading about.

You know this book by C. S. Lewis, He wrote

about the screw Tech letters. You can read in the

first chapter, and he has this guy. This is a

conversation between a senior devil okay and a junior devil.

Senior devil and junior devil. The junior devil in name

is Wood okay, worm Wood Okay. So the junior devil

has assignment this older guy. And this older guy has

not been going to church. It's an unbeliever. But one

day he has I'm paraphrasing or adding a building. He's

saying that situationally, this guy, it's having a crisis. He

started he was sitting in the park. You start to

think that, hey, maybe there is more to life than this,

and where am I going? He start to ponder is

their heaven and the hell, and the junior devil who's

been assigned to him starts to get very scared. Oh no, no, no,

this guy is having a moment of spirituality, you know.

Oh no, he's going to go to the enemy side,

going to seek God. And so what does the junior

devil's plan was maybe to give argument and say that

God does not exive, God does not care. But then

the senior devil comes and say that, oh, you are

such an amateur, amateur devil, amateure, junior devil. No, you

never get humans to think and to reason. If what

I mean right, If you get them to think and

to reason deeper and to try to buy into your argument,

they will even lean even further. But you must understand

humans never equate thinking and doing. But it's very theological brave.

They think in terms of not right and wrong. They

think in terms of labeling. People don't think about right

and around. They think that about who and they I

belong to this group and belong this group. So what

he's saying, instead, your best attack to this man who

is at the verge of having a moment of spirituality.

Maybe he's going to a church and going to ask

a pastor for advice. Your best attack is what to

appear out, and it's the devil. Ah scare you. What's

the best attack of the devil? Lunch? Get him hungry

and as he sees and he's get hungry and he eats,

get a bit more tastes of the practical, the pragmatism

of the world. It's already gets him that maybe have

a newspaper, a job, maybe someone waking, having a nice

lady across the table winking, and he you know, they

don't feel good about himself anymore. Enjoy a bit of lifeline,

you know, or maybe giveing hi. Maybe a problem and

all he's not. Children called him he gonna be a problem,

or they did. Now comes there and become a rescue ready,

then you've won the trick. Nii I would say, even

my hommation. Most of the time, that enemy's greatest tool

is the world. Always the world. It doesn't kind to

scare you. It's always the virtue of pragmatism and materialism.

Materialism isn't just about you wanting money, you're wanting more carties.

There is a big problem that materialism is also believing

that the physical world is true, and it's the only

thing that matters. I only believe when it's going to

be happening now. I only believe when I can see

it happening tomorrow. You only live life based on what

you can understand. See, there is no such thing as

the spiritual that is the true heart of materialism. You

know what I'm saying? No, why go to see this

pastor right now? And what is What can be more

fulfilling than a nice subway lunch and a nice mechademia

COOKI or maybe some of you like you know, Oh,

maybe I want to eat my favor of one time

me right now? What can be more for feeling than

seeing a guy who might not understand me? Then to

go and watch Fantastic for right now? What can be

more for feeling than waking half an hour early than

you know? Binging? You know the next I know? I

know tonight and not watching you know that? What's the

latest new Netflix? Wednesday? And know whatever they when I

don't know what is the people are watching you know

Wednesday or all kinds of things are watching. Oh, it's

the tools of pragmatism and immediate gratification to take you

away to sweep you away. You don't see what I'm saying.

And I say this because all of us go through

it true or not. All of us. It's if I

can read through last night what you did, it's true

or not. All of us go through. All of us

are having these invasive thoughts without you knowing it. That's

the number one two of the devil. While he is

slipping away, and he gives you enough, and he just

watches you flowing, flowing, do do do do do do do,

and you can't. And he realized that you can't help yourself.

You can't saying, en, you can't help yourself. That's why

I say you have to plan. And you must understand

that you are not just a physical being. You are

a spiritual being. Turn to your neighbor and say that

wake up. You are a spiritual being. Can turn to

the other neighbor saying no, no, get a wake up. Now,

you are a spiritual being. You get mean? Right? Am

I making sense? Am I going too fast? You're all

making sense? Or no? This is very important because if

I tell you another forty day fast and pray you okay,

I drag your feet, you know. But the first part

about making room for God is believing that we are

all spiritual beings. And to make room for God, we

have to take awate space from the physical. Yeah, take

away space on the physical. And you have to be

spiritually practical, not physically factical, spiritually practical. But first of all,

you gotta set time because if you don't set time,

everything else will flood in. Now, so you understand the

wisdom right now now I'm telling you, and now I

give you the knowledge, but not I give you the

understanding why you need to set the time. But now

will you have the wisdom to do it or not?

You know what I'm saying. Now, you know you need

to have set time. But do you understand now? But

will you have the wisdom to do it or not?

It's another thing, makes sense, okay? Next one we venues ware?

Do you pray most of us prayer when they're sleeping

after you scroll through it Flix? I mean, I honestly

tell you I have a very bad heavy of scrolling

as well. My son knows. Okay, you know what, we

watch a lot sometimes it's next thing, watch a lot

of Cily Cat videos. You know, my son that he

enjoys it as well. We watch a lot of Cily

Cat videos. Know it's like all these nonsense are very bad,

very very very bad. Okay, and sometimes watch all these things,

you know, okay, and then you pray when you're lying down,

you're in your very nice orthopedic in a pillow, you know,

and you're like, and thank you God, such peaceful and

you sleep ready before you even pray a single thing. Ready,

the peace of God just came over me. You know,

I was still, and I would be still and know

God and know it's the wrong kind of steal. You know,

you're laughing. How many times you did it? Maybe? Is

it just me? Or you guys did it before? You

don't have come out and repent right now? How many?

You know? You know what I'm talking about, right, okay?

So we are we are. We have venue's awkward postures,

you know, like some of us like to pray in

the toilet, you know, Noah or some of you are marry,

are like whyondering why am my husband or not? People

like to spend so much time in the toilet one

you know, it's supposed to be a holy century becomes

a holy century for them right now? You know, spend

so much time there you know, and it's I need

strength right now. I pray, you know, but as well

I pray physically, I pray for other things. Suddenly you

hear something. No, you're laughing. I tell you. There's so

many reported people men pray in the toilet. I tell you, women,

I don't know. I don't know, but maybe you confess. Okay,

we pray for them. Okay, anyway, we have venues, Okay,

awkward postures, you know. Please Okay, Uh, pick a place,

pick a place, desonated place. I try to do it

at night when my kids are sleeping. I'll do my

place in the dark or close major they can see me.

Just pray, Okay. I want to be honest with you.

I'm not the most consistent prayer. I have my flesh

and I battle with it. I honestly I do. I do,

uh and uh. And I want to say to encourage myself,

and I want to say it to also the encourage

material because actually getting to prayer is the battle. Actually,

the most imperment is to get into the prayer. It's real,

it is a struggle. So many things that will stop

you just believing that prayer will make a difference. That's

the battle. Okay, find find a player. I would highly

encourage at the very least sit, don't lie down, sit

with a table or not just sit. Put your hands together.

If there's something magical, but putting your hands together. You

know your chuck cra comes in together. No, okay, you

know why you put your hands together in all the

times or now they have they Actually you used to

have the sanctuary and the monks that you have prayer beats.

You know what that prayer beats? Okay, what do they

do with the prayer beats? Go power? No. The idea

of the prayer baits or putting their hands is that

so that your whole be center into one part, which

is your prayer. Because as much as you like to

think it, you pray with your body as well. You mean,

right with your heart. You believe if your mouth you'll confess.

Which gets me to the next point is that I

know I'm jumping A few things are when you pray,

I want you to verbalize it as much as possible.

I know it's very hard to verbalize hundred percent of

the time because sometimes it's just it's so deep and

it comes out with her. But I encourage you to

verbalize at least fifty percent of your prayer. You know

why because a lot of times you don't know what

you ought to pray. Sometimes you like you know, but

when you have to say, when you have to articulate

your mind and your body converges into an agreement, you

can't mean right, you have to say it. That's what

A lot of times when when it comes to people,

so I'll tell them pray, I want you to verbalize it.

And you realize that you when you say struggling all

you like a lot of people struggle and not because

lack of war, cap it not the struggle because of

the integrity of your prayer. Is it true in my

heart that what I'm saying now it almost feels like

your body and your words are holding you accountable and all.

And you say it, and there's more fear when you

verbalize it. And you have to get into that place

to verbalize it and say what I'm saying, it's important

to do. To do that, the enemy wants you to

stop using it. He read that you use your mouth

to complain about someone rather than to pray. Verbalize it.

There's a difference even in even when you complain about

someone you know, theree the difference when you put in

your heart when you say out, there's a difference in it.

There is a difference. It's another level of sin and

wickedness gives me from your heart is one thing. But

when you say in the same in prayer as well,

you have sincerity. But confession is even more powerful. There's

a discipline of prayer and the same why I'm saying, okay,

so maybe it can go to the next light. You know,

next light, plan your prayer, set a time, remove distraction. Verbalized, really,

really learn to verbalize everything that you have. I know

sometimes you feel like some of your words you don't have.

It's okay, it's okay. God, help me to verbalize. And

you realize that when you start to verbalize, your prayer

start because you are not just feeling, you are saying

and you're witnessing. It takes you to a place that

you didn't imagine. I need to confess this or I

need to declare this. Some of you you hardly give

thanks to anything. When you're like, well, I need to

give thanks. When you say it, something changes. All know

what I'm talking about here, You guys, okay to pray

it Okay, what else is there consistency over your feelings? Okay,

I mentioned before. I want to emphasize on that last part,

pushing through in prayer. Okay, Now it sounds legalistic, but

it applies. I do it for myself that when you pray,

set a time for prayer. I know it sounds counterintuitive,

but at this one I came for myself and that

because I just want to go in deeper into prayer.

I just put a clock there. I say at least

ten to fifteen minutes, ten fifteen minutes, and I begin

to just close my eyes and begin to pray. And

sometime I tell my son, so I pray at thisat

ten minutes because I want to not just prayer, I

want to enter into prayer. You see, this is a

very important part about prayer. A lot of times we

don't know what we ought to pray. We don't know

what we ought to pray. You don't even know what

you want. It's even pleasing to God. I want to

pray for job. I want to pray for this. Then

the very flash immediately it's like Martha asking God. You know,

but you don't know what you ought to ask. You

ask for the wrong things. And God is a good God.

He loves you, but he will not give you bad things.

You can mean right when God, When someone loves you,

there's only one thing they care about. You're good, not

your feelings. You're good. Okay. When you say you love someone,

you care about their good. When someone truly loves you,

they are willing to give their life for your ultimate good.

So love must come with the clear separation of good

and evil. Man, they cannot be love without a separation

of good and evil. Light versus darkness. You can I'm

saying that ultimately for your good. Okay now, and so

when we pray call it, we must be able to

what they call it. Uh. Okay, let me let me

rephrase this again. We don't know what we ought to pray. Okay,

let me get this on. When you go to the gym,

I mean, if you go to a gym, Okay, what's

your go go go to the gym. I want to

get healthy, isn't it? But Jim, you've got different goals

or so I also go to the gym. Okay, No,

it's consistently it seems nice. You can tell my body shape, man, ha,

just kidding, just kidding, Yeah, but you know, like there's

one thing that you learn and most of you will

know that if you want to build strength, okay, you know,

let's say, for example, you're aiming for you can do

you do all the way until six and the seven

you're struggling, you truly build your strength and your muscle

on the last one, Corona, when you struggle, when you're

like when you're like when you're when you're like, well

halfway and you're like you cannot really, then you're like

that last how many? Do you know what I'm talking about? Ah?

Your coach will always tell you that that last one.

If that's the case, what's the purpose for rep? Number

one until six to get to the last one? Always? Always?

You know, you don't why I'm getting it ready? Life

is like that. I want to know you think that

one to six is the main cause? Is the goal? No.

One to six is to get you to empty yourself

and to make room for God. That's why you got

to make time. That's why you got to set the

time and push you. You think when you come before

the pray God, it's like God, this is why I

want to pray, pray paper and you pray papay, and

I was like, oh, I don't even know what I

want to pray. I don't know you're going to hear this.

That's when you stay in prayer, not you give up

in prayer. That's where you stay because maybe, just maybe

God says that all right, now there's finally room. There's

finally room. All your plans, all your hopes, all your desires,

all the things that you've been telling God, Martha, you know,

complaining telling God what to do and not complaining about Marry,

complaining about everything and know how the world should run.

And now she turned to the seasons as well, you're

done tired ready. You don't even know we have they

can last push. There's where faith matters. Oh no, no.

And you stay there and you begin to be silent

and your prayer ten minutes past fifteen, money passed, all

the things, all all the people you need to prayer.

Then you start to pray, God, what is your will?

What am I really really afraid of? You know what

really really matters God? You know what I mean? Right? That's

when you get there, not set one to six seven,

eight night. That's when you're like, oh no, okay, God,

I'm scared. And then you start to realize if you're

real scared, I'm scared that where you take me may

cost me too much. Then you begin to say, then

you start to then you start to wrestle again. Oh never.

Then I realize, God, I can't plan out of this,

I can't manage all this, But I know that you

love me. So I'm praying that God, you will have mercy.

And if it comes and come, this thing comes, you know, Adi,

I want to let you know whatever that you pray for,

and you'll ask whatever that comes into your life. God

cares for you. Yeah, I don't know why it comes,

but you gotta be ready. And then when God plays

something before you, you go in boldness and you say, God,

all you will be done. I know one thing about

the God, that God is always good. The last day

of your breath as well, you will also say that

God is good. God is good. God is good. He

is love and those who and He who loves me

seeks my good gives me a hope and a future.

And when you gave out everything, ready you surrender yourself

to the mercy of God. Ready you come out of

prayer realizing that you changed that it's not telling God,

but I have changed. I'm beginning to choose faith. Sometimes

now when you go you go to work, instead of

saying something or not bickering or you know, watching a

bit more Netflix and stuff like, you realize that I

just prayed, I just I just encountered faith and connection

with God. So there's not just knowledge, there's an understanding

deep inside my soul. Now I want to be wise.

So coming out of prayer, you become a wiser person,

and you want more of that. You want more of that.

I don't want to make choices just based on the physical,

but on the spiritual. And you become and you become

get you, and your life becomes changed by it. Maybe

you have health problems and everything as well, your prayers

all long, but then eventually you just not whatever it is,

your will be done, My pain, my suffering, my last

pay you. But help me to see you before me

and live life according to what you have given me.

Everything in life is according to the mercy of God. Really,

really according to the mercy of God. Amen. That's why

you got to post true set a time When I

said a set of time in the duration. Sometimes you

don't realize how you said eight ten minutes, ready, have

you finish a prayer? Then I say, at another ten minutes,

prayer again, But then you say, hey, I finished everything

but still got five minutes. That's where I tell you

stay in your prayer. You'll be surprised how much it

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