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Heaven Rules Our Conduct | Elder Ang Peng Hoe

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  1. You're listening to a message to go from acts church. We hope this message

  2. will light up your day. So today I just want to teach. I

  3. just want to teach on it. I pray that it gives us a better

  4. understanding because when it comes to forgiveness, it talks about our conduct, and

  5. why I say our conduct, thinking that our forgiveness is something that only the

  6. Lord has to do for us, not not a responsibility on our end.

  7. The Lord has to forgive me for the wrongs that I've done. No,

  8. it's if you read the Lord's Prayer, which is what we're going to read

  9. in a short whilst time, the part on forgiveness is actually a reciprocal prayer

  10. that means you do something and then the Lord will do it for you.

  11. And so if you read Matthew Chapter six, the Lord's Prayer, you can

  12. you can read the entire prayer if you want, and all of us probably

  13. have memorized it by heart, especially if you're from certain denominations. Definitely you

  14. memorize it. But but I'm going to emphasize today on Versus twelve to fifteen,

  15. okay, us to fifteen, which is the part that says and forgive

  16. us our debts, as we forgive our debts, okay, And verse the

  17. teen says, and do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from

  18. the evil one, For yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory

  19. forever aimed. Verse fourteen says, for if you forgive men their trestpasses,

  20. your heavenly father will also forgive you. And verse fifteen says, but if

  21. you do not forgive men their trestpasses, neither will your father forgive your tresspasses.

  22. Okay, stay with me, okay, as I as I go trade.

  23. We call this the Lord's prayer. Well, at at least part of

  24. the Lord's prayer. You'll know the studying part. But technically it's a prayer

  25. that the Lord never really needed to use himself. I mean, it's funny,

  26. right if Jesus pray our Father who art in heaven and no, especially

  27. this request when it comes to forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.

  28. I mean, well, maybe the second part, as we forgive our

  29. debtors. I can imagine Jesus praying that, because we know that when he

  30. went through the crucifixion, when people were speating at him, and and and

  31. laughing at him, and they drove nails through his flesh. He did say,

  32. Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do, So

  33. the second part could be applicable. However, he could not have said the

  34. first part of the petition because I think everyone, at least believers will all

  35. agree that Jesus was redoubt sin and therefore he never needed to say forgive me,

  36. because he was the spotless and the blameless son of God. That makes

  37. sense, okay. But the closer for us, of those of us who

  38. live, if we are drawn closer to the Lord Jesus day by day,

  39. you will realize that every day you need to say, God, forgive us

  40. our debts, because if Heaven really rules in our lives, then it is

  41. it's important that Heaven must rule our conduct. It must rule how we carry

  42. ourselves, especially when it comes to our relationship we've God. And this actually

  43. tells me a number of things about what prayer is, what true prayer is,

  44. because we will realize this. Firstly, true prayer always includes the word

  45. forgive as well as the word give. Because if you analyze your prayers,

  46. and I mean I do that, sometimes analyze my daily prayers. You realize

  47. that you use the word give more than you ever use the word for given.

  48. God, give me this, give me that, Give me that girl,

  49. give me that man. Give me, give me the riches and the

  50. glory. Give me that good job. If you know, it's a lot

  51. of give me. Give me bread, give me health, give me comfort,

  52. give me money, give me please, give me job. Is a

  53. give me, give me, But a good prayer will always go from give

  54. to forgive. And this tells us also that we are to bring to God

  55. the needs of our soul as well as the needs of our body, because

  56. when we ask for things, usually for our physical needs, but forgiveness is

  57. really something that is just beyond our physical needs. It's a need of our

  58. soul. It's a need of our inner being. So it tells me also

  59. that I must constantly remember this what I desire, especially when it comes to

  60. give and forgive. What I desire and what I deserve are two opposite things.

  61. Okay, I will explain every statement that I make. I will explain

  62. what I desire and what I deserve are two opposite things. Let me explain

  63. this. No, we are all sinners, and when we say to God

  64. give me, we must immediately remind ourselves that we do not deserve to be

  65. given anything. Actually, that's the reality of it, and this is why

  66. when we say give, because of how undeserving we to receive anything from God,

  67. we must say forgive straight away. After that, let's look at it

  68. from another perspective. Okay, and see which is more important. Which is

  69. more important to you our obligation to God as our heavenly father, or should

  70. the focus just be his obligation to us. If God is my heavenly father,

  71. he has an obligation to feed me, to clothe me. And that

  72. is why I need not worry about what I need to eat, why I

  73. need to dream what I need to put on, because God is under an

  74. obligation as a father. God has claimed me, claimed us as adopted children,

  75. his sons and his daughters, and so now that is his obligation to

  76. feed and to clothe his children, and we can claim that we can claim

  77. that from the Lord. But if I only think of his obligation to me

  78. as my father and not mine to him, then you realize that this entire

  79. prayer is very one sided. Right, So what is our obligation to God?

  80. Well, in reality, our obligation to God is to live a holy

  81. life because he is a holy God. Our obligation to God is to live

  82. a perfect life. That's because he is a perfect God. And that's why

  83. Scripture says that we are being perfected for this very, very purpose. And

  84. that is why we need to say forgive, because we can't possibly do any

  85. of this by ourselves, and forgiveness for me is the key that unlocks a

  86. lot of brick truths in our lives. So let's understand the prayer that Jesus

  87. taught his disciples, especially the petition with a condition attached to it. And

  88. many people have actually difficulties over this condition because it says, forgive us our

  89. debts, as we forgive our debts. But I'll start with the first part

  90. first. Okay, let's start with this statement forgive us, this phrase forgive

  91. us, because even this phrase sometimes presents a bit of a difficulty for Christians.

  92. Okay, I'm going to paint you some pictures of how believers or Christians

  93. can sometimes behave because some Christians think it is bad to pray forgive us our

  94. sins. They feel that it's like you're promoting in theority complex or guilt complex,

  95. that it will always cause them to always be digging around their own inner

  96. being to look for the sins and the things that are causing them to It

  97. will eventually end up causing them to doubt their faith. That's why they don't

  98. like to talk about forgiveness of sin. What they want instead is to get

  99. them away from all sense of guilt. And they want to always be in

  100. the joy and peace and never think of sin and only think of salvation.

  101. So sometimes they have that in mind, know, don't have to seek for

  102. forgiveness once for all, that's it. But then on the other hand,

  103. they are also Christians who think they do not need to pray the Lord's prayer.

  104. And this is why because when they come to Christ all they in their

  105. minds they think that everything is wiped out, wiped out clean, and you

  106. don't have to worry about anything anymore moving forward, and you can live gloriously

  107. in a lot. Okay, so let's let's study the Lord's prayer. Why

  108. do we think Jesus gave us the Lord's prayer? Okay, that's the first

  109. question we have to ask. Why did he give us the Lord's prayer?

  110. And let me begin by saying that I think the Lord's Prayer was given to

  111. the disciples to follow Christ. In fact, I don't think I'm quite confident

  112. it was for that very reason, as a guide to show how to depend

  113. on God. Because you realize this, He didn't give it to the crown.

  114. He called his disciples to him. And you go back and read the

  115. scripture Matthew chapter six. He called the disciples. So these were his disciples.

  116. He congregated them, And is it teach us to pray? And he

  117. was telling them how to do it? Makes sense? So I take it

  118. that he taught the Lord's prayer to those or us who are following him as

  119. his disciples, a prayer of how we should conduct ourselves towards God and towards

  120. one another. Okay, so now there are the two extremes that must be

  121. We must be careful to avoid the two extremes. And it is quite similar

  122. to what I just highlighted just now. One is this idea, this idea

  123. that there will never be any more need for confession or forgiveness in a Christian's

  124. life. I think that it's quite an extreme view, and I don't believe

  125. you'll find it in the Bible, because it is to Christians that the Apostle

  126. John when he wrote the letters in One John, he says, if we

  127. confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and

  128. to cleanse us from all and righteousness. So it is extreme to say that

  129. once you become a Christian your sins are forgiven. That means that from then

  130. on there's no more need for confession, no more forgiveness is required. Some

  131. people take that stand. But if we again read what the Apostle John wrote,

  132. he's talking about if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just

  133. to forgive us. It's an ongoing thing. And then he goes on to

  134. says, actually, if you read one genre, he goes on to say,

  135. if any of you claim to not have sin, you're a liar.

  136. It's quite strong, no one joint. So I think it's it's hard for

  137. us to take that view that once you become a Christian you never need to

  138. confess anymore. Okay. The other thing is this, that's the other extreme,

  139. because some believers seem to be very uncertain about their selves, and they

  140. can be as uncertain as one Sunday to another Sunday. You know, they

  141. can come to church on Sunday, praise the Lord, hallelujah, sing a

  142. few songs maybe, you know, confess their scenes there, and then it

  143. comes to Monday, and then they did something wrong on Monday, and then

  144. they are like, am I still a Christian? After doing something wrong?

  145. And then they come back on a Sunday to get the recharge to get back

  146. their assurance. So it's almost like they're in their out. They don't have

  147. this assurance that they are God's children. So these are two extremes I feel

  148. neither of which is biblical. No, but I've gone through both in all

  149. honesty, haven't you gone through those times when you in your mind's like one

  150. save always say, are going to ask for forgiveness anymore? Because I'm spotless

  151. and I'm blameless. No, and I can do most, I can do

  152. whatever I want. It is it will automatically be white clean. I don't

  153. have to keep on confessing my wrongs. And then suddenly when there's the conviction

  154. that comes like, oh no, you still need to confess. And then

  155. when we confess and then we feel better, and then when we wrong,

  156. make the wrong mistakes and then then were like uncertain about our faith again,

  157. and then we go back to confessing, and then after that we did something

  158. wrong, and it's like the back and forth, back and forth. There

  159. are two extremes. I don't think any of it is biblical, because on

  160. the one hand, there are those who say, I'm finished with sins all

  161. together since I became a Christian. I don't need to keep coming back as

  162. a miserable sinner. And then there are those who are at the other end,

  163. who say, I never know whether I'm a Christian or not because I've

  164. seen yesterday and then undid all the good work and I've got to start all

  165. over again. I believe neither of this are the biblical positions. So what

  166. is the biblical position on seeking forgiveness? Have we ever thought about that?

  167. Because we can't be living the I don't need forgiveness altogether? Neither can be

  168. Can we be living the Am I really forgiven or not? Because every day

  169. as I seem to need confession. Okay, let me take you to some

  170. parables. Okay. In particular, there was a story in which you can

  171. actually get from the Gospels. Of all the gospels talk about the moment before

  172. Jesus instituted the Lord's Supper, there were some things that was happening. Matthew

  173. chapter twenty six, Mark chapter fourteen, Luke chapter twenty two. But I'm

  174. going to take a story from John chapter thirteen one to thirty eight, and

  175. you will remember this story, and I hope he draws some light to our

  176. understanding, because this was a story where Jesus wanted to wash the feet of

  177. the disciples. Who was the disciple Peter? So it was Peter. So

  178. Jesus stopped the towel and said, Peter, I want to wash your feet,

  179. and then Peter tried at first to refuse, right, remember that,

  180. and then Jesus says, if I don't wash you, we can be friends.

  181. Don't read the scripture. That's what he actually says. He literally said,

  182. you can have no part with me, which means we can't have fellowship

  183. together. So then Peter swung to the other extreme no that he says,

  184. well, washed me all over, and then Jesus gently told him that he

  185. didn't need washing all over now since he had already been washed. But there

  186. was the dirt he picked up on his feet, And we understand that maybe

  187. we might not. Okay, but back in those days in the Middle East,

  188. they all wear sandals. Okay, where sandals they walk everywhere. So

  189. what gets dirty is actually their feet. That's why before going into a person's

  190. house, what happens, since they will usually washed the slaves. We actually

  191. washed the slaves. Let me tell you that he's the one that washes the

  192. feet of the people. And no, Jesus wanted to clean that part the

  193. feet to keep the fellowship between them, and I believe Jesus was saying something

  194. clearly about forgiveness. You see, a Christian who has been born again and

  195. comes to Christ has been washed all over. Right, that's the symbol of

  196. what baptism. It is baptism. So we've been washed all over through the

  197. waters of baptism, washing from hate to toe. They have been washed clean.

  198. They are clean through the word of God. We believe that, and

  199. that's why part of our Christian doctrine is not just go and make disciples,

  200. but also to baptize them. To baptize them, that's part of our initiation

  201. steps into the faith. But as they walk through life, they are going

  202. to be picking up what the on their feet. They will still need to

  203. get a daily washing, and Jesus is saying, I want to wash your

  204. feet. Let me do that. If I don't wash your feet, we

  205. can't be friends. We can't have fellowship. In other words, I believe

  206. Scripture teaches us that if a Christian sins and Christians do right and doesn't get

  207. forgiven, what they stand to lose is the fellowship with the Lord. They

  208. lose their joy in prayer, they lose their life of worship, they lose

  209. their desire to share Crist with other people. It is this that Jesus was

  210. bordered about, and it is this that the Lord's Prayer is about, a

  211. daily cleansing to keep your fellowship with the Lord pure, simple and sweet and

  212. clean, to allow Heaven to rule our conduct every day of our lives.

  213. Does that make sense? Does that makes okay? But we must okay,

  214. let's take no, no, let's take note of some words that the New

  215. Testament uses for sin so that we get a better idea of the context of

  216. the Lord's prayer. I told you I'm going to go a little bit deep,

  217. but understand that we need that daily washing, the feed so that we

  218. can keep the fellowship with the Lord. Okay, some of the words for

  219. sin. The first word is this word called anomia, which just means sheer

  220. lawlessness, someone who doesn't recognize any rules for life. That's whever he or

  221. she wants. Okay, sounds like sin. The second word that we see

  222. throughout the Bible, Okay, that the English just translates sin. The second

  223. word is parabasis, which means to step over or trespass, or to step

  224. over a line thing of a fans with a sign ass keep out, and

  225. then you go and step over. Word. Well, that's that's the word

  226. para basis. Okay. Now, I just want to highlight these two words

  227. are not in the Lord's Prayer. Okay. The third word is a word

  228. called harmasha, which someone words may be quite familiar with because I remember one

  229. of the homes we thought on this the word for sin, which is just

  230. it just means to miss the monk. Okay, you miss the monk,

  231. you fall short of your target. That is the word used in the Lord's

  232. Prayer that we see the concise version in Luke. There's a shotter Lord's prayer

  233. in Luke. It uses that word hamasha. The fourth word is parapoma,

  234. which means to you can like you're falling on an icy road. You sleep,

  235. you did something. It's almost like accidentally to do something that you had

  236. no intention of doing, but it's still it's still led to something that was

  237. wrong eventually. And this is the word that you see in the second part

  238. of the Lord's Prayer, where it's not part of the Lord's prayer, it

  239. is part of the teaching where it says, for if you forgive men their

  240. trespasses, your heamily father will also forgive you. But if you do not

  241. forgive men their trespasses, neither will your father forgive your trespassers. That was

  242. the word paruptoma the faith and the last word I want to highlight, and

  243. it's the word that is used in Matthew chapter six, the part of the

  244. Lord's Prayer itself is this word called feel or FEELI markay. I'm not I'm

  245. not a Greek scholar, so I I can pronounce it forppy. But this

  246. just means that your debts what you owe. That is the word that is

  247. used in the Lord's Prayer in Matthew, which I believe is a prayer for

  248. believer us. Okay, so the word that's is actually a clearer translation because

  249. it is not so much about trespassing. I know some versions of the English

  250. Bible translates forgive us our trespasses, but the NKGB I believe gives a slightly

  251. clearer translation is just forgive us our. That's so basically when you talk about

  252. that's it's almost like falling short of your target, not doing what we should

  253. have done, and therefore it is us owing God something. Am I still

  254. making sense? Think of it as a debt that means you're owing God something

  255. because you did not do something. Actually, this forgiveness is for what we

  256. call sins of omission. That means the things that you did not do,

  257. rather than sins of commission the things that you go in do to others.

  258. Let's try to explain it, sir, stay with me. Let me try

  259. to explain this to your Have you ever felt that you have left something undone

  260. which you know you ought to have do it? No, at the end

  261. of the day, it's like, oh, what a fulfilling day. And

  262. then something because I don't know, I don't know if there's any Christian who

  263. would there saying no, I get to the end of every day and I

  264. can say that I have done every single thing that I'm supposed to do,

  265. or every single thing that I ought to have done. In fact, I

  266. believe that many things that we did not do but we should have done.

  267. I really believe that when anyone walks closely with Jesus, the more you think

  268. of the things that you have done. Maybe it could be the messages that

  269. I should have send to someone. Maybe it could have been I should have

  270. visited so and so who is not well instead of sitting now and watching YouTube.

  271. I don't know. It could be any one of these things, because

  272. the more you look at your life, the more you realize the things that

  273. you did not do that you should have done. It could be I did

  274. not say a kind word to Sam, or I don't know, Stephen forgot

  275. to take the trash out when he was supposed to take the trash out.

  276. So the Lord's prayer is not so much concerned with the bad things you did.

  277. The bad things you did definitely will spoil a relationship with the Lord,

  278. and you need to repent. Okay, all of us who accept that.

  279. But the Lord's prayer here is actually the emphasis includes the good things that you

  280. did not do, and this gives a whole different perspective the good things that

  281. you did not do. This is important because what is essentially the consequence of

  282. that is it can spoil your friendship with God. God wanted you to do

  283. this thing. He wanted you to write that letter. He wanted you to

  284. go and cheer that person out. He wanted you to go and tell someone

  285. about him, and you didn't do it, and you owed him that.

  286. So Jesus is essentially reminding us to get our debts paid. Now we are

  287. to do that every day with the Lord. Get the accounts straight with him,

  288. and go to baits straight and write in him. Stay with me,

  289. let's take it even deeper and hopefully we get even more clarity. I hope

  290. you'll get where I'm going with this. Jesus once told this parable in Luke

  291. chapter seventeen seven to ten about a servant who was plowing a field. Okay,

  292. servant plowing a field, minding sheep, and then he came in and

  293. he was going to sit down and chill, but his master said, bring

  294. my meal first. Okay. So a servant working hard all day plowing the

  295. field, wanted to sit down after work, but the master says, bring

  296. my meal first, so the serone had to go on and bring the meal.

  297. You might have said, wow, so unreasonable and demanding. This servant

  298. has worked all day and then now you go and make him get your meal.

  299. But you think not that what Jesus went on to say in that parable

  300. in that teaching, he says, do you think that servant should be thanked

  301. for doing that extra thing for his master? Question mark? And then he

  302. was answered no, because when he has he has done all that he is

  303. commanded. He has only done his duty. Okay, makes sense. In

  304. the same way, when you obey Jesus, you should also say that we

  305. are also unprofitable servants who have simply done a duty, because this is a

  306. parable of the unprofitable servant. Sometimes we all think a very strong the words,

  307. but Jesus is saying, he's only done what he's supposed to do.

  308. Did he bring profits? And that's the word that I want to highlight,

  309. unprofitable, because when we have done our best for God and we get to

  310. the end of the day in that to God for what we haven't done,

  311. we are still unprofitable. We simply cannot outgive God. That's the reality of

  312. it. He has still done more for us than he ever got back from

  313. us, and therefore we are still in that we still fall short, and

  314. that is why we need to pray to God for forgiveness daily. We need

  315. God's forgiveness in our lives. Our conduct towards God is one that is constantly

  316. seeking his pardon, constantly seeking his mercy and his grace, because what we

  317. really deserve is actually his judgment. Therefore, it is when we do this,

  318. when we seek the lords forgiveness, it puts us right in fellowship we've

  319. got because we allowed him to wash our feet, then he rules our conduct.

  320. Does that make sense? That is the first part. Only forgive me

  321. because some of us I told you we struggle with I need to sick forgiveness.

  322. Why do I need to stick forgiveness for already? One time means cover

  323. all, and then the other one is like, oh I see forgiveness today,

  324. Then today I feel bad and I see forgiveness. That to that,

  325. let's let's understand it what that means. And why is it that we need

  326. to sick forgiveness daily? Because daily we are in debt to the Lord.

  327. And that's why we're saying, Lord, for give us our debts to you.

  328. That is why it's something that I always, until today encourage people to

  329. pray the Lord's Prayer daily daily, because you want to get your account straight

  330. with the Lord every day. Lord, I want to be in fellowship with

  331. you tomorrow morning. So I'm going to Lord forgive me my debts when I

  332. we come the morning, Lord forgive me my debts. That makes sense.

  333. So, now that we have established that every believer needs to seek the Lord

  334. forgiveness, I think that's clear. Now comes the condition as we forgive our

  335. debtor. Now you thought the first part was difficult, well, this subsequent

  336. phrase in the Lord's Prayer has also caused a lot of difficulty for people because

  337. it's probably the most difficult thing to do. Initially, we probably thought seeking

  338. forgiveness from God daily is the hardest thing to do. But now we are

  339. told that God will forgive us only if we forgive others that even harder.

  340. Most of us understand that the Gospel of Christ is free forgiveness. Science we

  341. think free forgiveness, free grace, no conditions, no bargains, no contracts.

  342. Doesn't God say that if you repent and believe, you are forgiven?

  343. No in our minds. Yet here we are in the Lord's Prayer being told

  344. to do something for someone else before God will forgive us. Almost feels like

  345. I have to work for my salvation. I never thought of that. Isn't

  346. this going Isn't this God going right against the principle of free grace and saying

  347. I won't forgive you your sins until you have been out and done something for

  348. someone else. Is it not putting a condition to forgiveness? Think about dinner.

  349. Think about it again. We must always be reminded that the Lord's Prayer

  350. is not a prayer for the unbeliever, and he was never meant to be.

  351. It is a prayer for Christians, for the believer, a daily prayer

  352. for the follower of Christ. Remember that. Don't forget that context. What

  353. then, does the condition mean? Does it mean that God has laid down

  354. a law that unless we pass forgiveness on, he won't forgive us. Well,

  355. I don't think it is that God can forgive us science we always think,

  356. oh we don't pass on, then God cannot forgive us. I don't

  357. think it's is that he can't forgive us if we do not meet the condition.

  358. I think it's a case of he won't, that's a difference. The

  359. real reason why he doesn't forgive those Christians who don't forgive others is very simple.

  360. It doesn't feel like it. I know when I say that, you're

  361. like what he does not want to. It is the feelings of God that

  362. actually matters here. Let's let's study another parable, and this is the parable

  363. that Jesus shared with Peter. Okay, And in this parable, I'm sure

  364. y'all are familiar with it. Jesus was asked, how many times should we

  365. forgive a person? In which I believe we can draw some truth into this

  366. particular matter is from Matthew chapter eighteen, verses twenty three to thirty five,

  367. and it's basically the story that there was a king, a very general.

  368. He told his parable, a king, in his generosity and pity, forgive

  369. this man of millions of dollars okay I'm paraphrasing. And then he heard that

  370. same man whom he forgive forgave went out and threw a fellow man into jail

  371. for a much smaller sum okay, maybe four thousands of dollars. So the

  372. king was angry and said, I take back my forgiveness the words of Jesus,

  373. teach us how God feels about your unforgiveness. You see, God is

  374. my father, so I think I know how he feels because I am also

  375. a father. Imagine me, Okay, none of your parents accept the couple,

  376. Maybe Steven and Sai a week and start imagining. Amen. Amen,

  377. Okay. So if you have say you have two children, okay, and

  378. your children come to you and they said that can I have a suite?

  379. And then you give Yeah, you give both one suit each, okay,

  380. And then you found out after that that one of them stole the suit from

  381. the sibling at the street, at both the suits and then came back to

  382. you and asked that can I have another suit? What would you say,

  383. Stephen? Parenting one on one, what would you say to that child?

  384. Would you give the child another suit? I mean you'll probably say you're not

  385. getting another suit from me. I am actually very upset with what you did.

  386. Right. Why would you be angry because one of the children did this.

  387. It's actually for a very simple reason, because you don't want your child

  388. to grow up like that. And if you were to go on indulging a

  389. child behaving badly, he or she will grow up being naughty, being selfish,

  390. eventually being a klaptomanic. I don't know someone who likes to steal things.

  391. Right. God wants us to grow up and be more like him,

  392. and he wants us to be forgiving as he is forgiving. If he were

  393. to forgive you each day your dad's and you will not forgiving others, he

  394. would actually be encouraging you to go on behaving like that. And he's not

  395. that kind of father. He would be naturally upset with you. And if

  396. you are not prepared to forgive others their debts to you, then he is

  397. not going to forgive yours. You would be angry. Now I can totally

  398. understand that it makes sense in this context as well, right, because God

  399. is just telling us how he feels about us, and he's talking about his

  400. children, he's talking about Earth's believers. Christians, do you expect him to

  401. go on wiping out your debts if you don't wipe out other people's debts.

  402. If he were to go on doing that, he would be doing you harm.

  403. He would not be destroyed. He would actually be destroying your character.

  404. And God is not that kind of father. Jesus stated what his feelings are,

  405. and I can see his reasons for it. You see, an unforgiving

  406. person does not know what he is asking for when he says forgive. When

  407. he comes to God and say forgive, if you are unforgiving, he doesn't

  408. know what it really means. And unforgiving person will not appreciate forgiveness even if

  409. he gets it, And unforgiving person will be made more unforgiving if he is

  410. forgiven. Under those circumstances. God's will for us is to grow up to

  411. be more like him. Forgive seventy times seven times. That's what he's said.

  412. In other words, be like your heavenly father, because daily we go

  413. to him and confess, right, and we believe that daily he wipes off

  414. our deaths. Right. God will not forgive your dad's at the end of

  415. each day if you are not learning to be like him. Otherwise it would

  416. not be good fathering and it would be bad discipline. I know it's strong,

  417. but God is not all about thirty bears, and so I mean he

  418. is. He is a father, and a father disciplines and a father teach

  419. us. If we carry on in life with a conduct that never forgives,

  420. then my only hope for each and everyone overseas that we never sin. And

  421. that's not easy. Right to sum this up in towards forgiving forgiven, that

  422. is the law for Christians. This is not a hate matter. It's actually

  423. a heart matter, and therefore it's a heart matter. I know it's hard,

  424. and I know sometimes no it's easy, you know, to say,

  425. give us this day, our daily break. There is no conditions attached to

  426. that request. God will give us death for the asking. But here God

  427. says, I can't give you this just because you are asked, not unless

  428. you first forgive. Therefore, if I'm praying this prayer while holding on to

  429. grudges, while holding on to bitterness, while holding on to resentment, while

  430. holding on to jealousy, I'm literally asking God not to forgive my own debt

  431. to him. I know our heart's cry will still always be God. This

  432. is such a difficult thing to do. Forgiving others seems almost impossible, especially

  433. when we conclude that the other person has wronged me, that this nation has

  434. wronged me, that this military has done us all wrong, and we deserve

  435. better and we deserve to hold it against them. They owe us something and

  436. they can't pay up and I'm not going to just let go of that that.

  437. I know it's hard, but many of us live in that constant tug

  438. of war in our lives. No, we need the daily forgiveness from God.

  439. But yet it is so hard to release the forgiveness to others. But

  440. I want you all to remember this always always come back to this. Jesus

  441. forgave us on the cross. Let's bring it all back to the us,

  442. if you put it all in perspective. I wonder if we ever realize how

  443. difficult it is for God to forgive us, if we think that it's so

  444. hard, it's so hard for us to forgive others. I know it is.

  445. You know I've held on I've held on to grudge for a long time.

  446. I've seen family members who have held on to grudges for years that kids

  447. and nothing good ever comes from me. But it's real. But let's put

  448. it into perspective. Do you ever realize how difficult it is for God to

  449. forgive us? You see, with us, if I can't forgive my neighbor,

  450. or I can't forgive this relative, or if I can't forgive this person

  451. who has said something bad against me, is usually my pride is usually myself

  452. is usually my reputation on my rights, and I have got to go and

  453. crucify myself to forgive the other person, literally like a lord, this is

  454. my cross. But we've God is not that though we've got. It's got

  455. nothing to do with right. Why is it so difficult for God to actually

  456. forgive us? I tell you why. Because of his purity, because of

  457. his holiness, because of his goodness. He just cannot bear sin. Think

  458. of what sin does to God and he hates sin. How difficult it is

  459. for God to forgive sin. How does he get around this difficulty of our

  460. sin our debts? He gets around it by paying them for me. That

  461. is the only thing that makes it possible for God to forgive my debts.

  462. You see, the word forgive in the Hebrew language me two things. It

  463. means to remain or to cancel a debt, and it also means to pay

  464. for It's one the one way or the other. To cancel the debt or

  465. to pay for it. I mean some of your loans, like co co

  466. work in a bank. Well, one way to wipe out the dead is

  467. either it's canceled from the bank or someone pays it, pays it up right

  468. now, imagine this with me in the Middle East. Say you're in the

  469. marketplace back then when this was all written. If you're in debt, what

  470. happens is your dad is actually say you owe this shop something. Then your

  471. dad is actually your your name is written on a piece of paper and then

  472. you pin it up in the marketplace for everyone to see. That means I

  473. owe this person this amount of money. Well, it's an other incentive as

  474. well to pay up faster because your name is stuck on the guy's shop.

  475. But even man is actually willing to pay your debt and cancel it for you.

  476. What he does is he will come along, he will take out that

  477. thing, he will fold the piece of paper over and he will write his

  478. name on it, and then he will pin it back on the post.

  479. Basically, he's canceling it, put a nail on it, and write his

  480. own name on that. Cross out his own name on that sheet of paper,

  481. and then your dad's are done. In Colosions, Chapter two, verse

  482. fourteen, he actually says Paul actually says that God has in Christ taken the

  483. bond of debts which was written against us, and nailed it to the cross.

  484. He has finished it and written across it is none under but the name

  485. of Jesus forgive us our debts. I know it is so difficult for God

  486. to forgive us, as it is for us to forgive others. But the

  487. difficulties will resolved at the cross, and every act of forgiveness is actually written

  488. in the blood of Jesus. Finally, I pray that you all know because

  489. and you all experienced this and discovered this. Is there anything like the joy

  490. of forgiveness, the joy of knowing that it is over and it is done

  491. with, knowing that the person who has forgiven you will never mention it again,

  492. Knowing that this person loves you, Knowing that he would actually slaughter the

  493. fattened calf for you, knowing that he will actually put a ring on your

  494. finger, knowing that he would actually put shoes on your feet and put a

  495. rope on your back and bring you home. That's forgiveness. That is what

  496. the Lord did for us, and that's what he does for us every single

  497. day when we go to him and say, Lord, forgive me my dad's

  498. that I owe you. Forgive me, not just for the things that I

  499. did against people, forgive me for the things that I did not do which

  500. I should have done, and he wipes it clean. You know, I

  501. can't imagine a conversation that God the Father and Jesus, who sited right next

  502. to him can have. No. Some days, maybe God the Father will

  503. pick up a name. No, this person, this person has done a

  504. lot of call a bad rapshet Okay, all sorts of things, did a

  505. lot of bad things in life. And all Jesus is going to do is

  506. show his nail pierced hands and wrist and tell God the Father, I don't

  507. know what you're talking about that because it's all done. It is all finished,

  508. and I paid the price, I canceled the death. Are we ready

  509. to appropriate and to receive this forgiveness as we learn to forgive others. We

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