Sermon
Faithfulness | Pr Alvin Keng
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You're listening to a message to go from asks church. We hope this message
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will light up your day. I've got some questions for you. You don't
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have to raise your hands to answer, but just think thing. Thing.
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I got some questions for you. First question, how was your twenty twenty
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three? We just started twenty twenty four, So you know, as you
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start the year, then you've got a new resolution. You know, one
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of my resolutions is, and this is how I keep myself comfortable. I
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tell the church what I'm gonna do, so that I got no choice for
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to do it. So one of the things I'm gonna do is I'm gonna
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consistently go to gym. Right and I declared to you because my trainers here,
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So tomorrow morning, tomorrow Monday, I will go to gym in my
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office. I've been quite consistent because I tell the church, and I got
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no choice because after that people ask me persily you win or not? So
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I went, you know, and I can prove. So you know,
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we all want to have resolution. But it's also good to think about last
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year and to reflect how we've done and what has happened so that we can
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us you know, So, how was how was your twenty twenty three?
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Was it good? Was it bad? Did you manage to do what you
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needed to do? Maybe you had a plan in January February? I don't
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know, Maybe you had a goal. Did you manage to do what you
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needed to do? And again I'm not asking questions to me. You feel
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bad, don't feel bad? Please, you know it's questions to think because
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if you didn't manage to do hey, four year, can start again?
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Can try again? You know I wanted to lose weight last year, Tayadi,
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Now I'm doing it. You know? Did you manage to do what
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God asked you to do? Oh? Did God ask you do something?
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Actually saying don't have God didn't say anything? Actually have for the past twenty
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years you didn't say anything. Oh, then maybe you knew ask him really,
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maybe you knew do your devotion ready, because I'm sure God has an
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assignment for all of us one or maybe God did ask you do something.
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But was there anything that distracted you? Now, maybe something happened. Did
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you get stayed off course? Not your fault, No, not your fault.
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You got to stay it. Of course, something happened then you got
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to stay off course? Maybe to go deeper, I will ask were there
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any challenges or discouragements which affected you? You know? The one thing that
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I've learned, well, I'm not very old. I think I'm still quite
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young at the same time, I think or I'm like in between old young.
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I'm not sure. But for the life, for the two, for
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yeah, for the for the two this year, for the year, yeah,
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but by look at him anyway. A discouragements is a very powerful thing.
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Do you know that? Do you know that discouragements can derail you from
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your destiny? Nice quote? Discouragements in your life life can derail you from
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doing what God wants you to do. That it can happen you see how
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maybe your friend's family make decisions that change your lives because they're discouraged. Okay,
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let's use our country for an example. If you're very discouraged, you
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know what's happening in our country? You move on true or not true?
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Again? Now, am I against migration? Am I? No? No,
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no, I'm not against any of these things. But sometimes you got
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to ask yourself why are you doing what you're doing. If you're very discouraged
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in your relationships, you might say enough is enough. Let's change, let's
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quit, let's move on, let's let go, let's give up. Discouragements
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is very powerful. We need to see that. It is very powerful,
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and it's very dangerous. A man, it's very real. Okay, So
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my message today is about faithfulness if you right now, it's faithfulness as we
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move on to this year. It is actually good to reflect on what we
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can do better this year and what we can prepare to whether what might happen?
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Okay, what do I mean by that? Let me make some predictions
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just now in the eight fifteen am. I use the word prophesy, but
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I think that's not the right word to use. So I fix my what
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I'm saying. Let me make some possible predictions that might happen. Friends,
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Can I let you know that this year you will be discouraged, Something is
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going to happen that will affect you. Do you know that this year you're
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gonna get offended one way or another? Maybe right now I'm offending some of
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you ready, I don't know. Do you know that that can happen?
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Do you know that you will face challenges this year? It will happen,
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some predictions it will, It will happen for somewhere else here, we might
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get in a car accident. I was sharing recently that I got in a
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car accident and it was purely my fault. You know, things will happen,
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challenges will happened. But we can prepare. We can prepare. Amen,
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we can't prepare. You can't prepare for a rainy day if you know
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the rainy day is gonna happen. Really, you can't prepare. You can
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prepare your heart, you can prepare your mind, you can prepare resources.
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You can if you already know that people are gonna offend you. Our friends,
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your love one's gonna offend you. Husbands, your wife is gonna irritate
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you wife. Your husband is gonna do something so smart that you be so
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bothered. It will happen, But how do you approach it? Do you
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forgive? Do you move on your love? You still love the person even
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though they made mistake? Right? You patchings up? Do you work on
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the relationship. I had this incident that happened. I'm trying to see if
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I can share it properly or not. I was talking to a young person,
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and this young person it's very simple thing. This one was just telling
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me about how you know, they have friends that are much older. And
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uh, this young person had this friend that uh, you know, the
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young person was helping take care of a cat, you know, and his
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friend came to, uh like take back the cat up because when I came
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back to get a cat and he was very late, really in the house,
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very late, really about child clod midnight not no, no. And
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then the you know, the younger dog like it was just telling me,
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by the way, just telling me like, oh, you know, the
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person came to the cat, and then Sunny sat down and started talking,
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you know, just want to catch up, you know friends. Parents.
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Is twelve midnight? Ready, you know, time to sleep? Ready tomorrow
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got school? This person cannot think it. And then I asked the young
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what do you do? I do know what to do. So I just
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said, now to talk to the personal. Yeah, I'm like, hey,
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your mother nails say anything? My mother sleep? Really my mom like,
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hey, next time, I tell the person go home and sleep.
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And now I told this young person this, I understand why you were stuck.
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It's because, right, you have never decided yet or you haven't decided
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yet that anything happens in your house after twelve is not a good idea.
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You'll catch that because if you have decided, that child may not is the
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you know, no one that I'm not familiar with, not my family member
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will come to my house after twelve. Right, if you really decided,
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when that situation happens, it is easy to easy, easy to just follow
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through your decision, you know what I mean. Once you already decided something,
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it's easy to just follow. True. But because this young person have
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not decided yet, it is a new situation, and you're pressured even more
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so, like, oh know, how what do I do? Am I?
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You know? If I say no, the person's going to get offender,
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you know, and you know all these things, all these questions come.
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Do you know that in life if we have not decided on things in
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our lives and when life happens, we will go at the floor. And
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that's where dangerous, know, because you might go with the wrong floor,
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or you might go and dig the whole deeper. This is what I mean
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by preparation. This year, we need to be faithful. This year is
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a year that is new, right, and challenges are going to come.
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But the question is not the challenge. The question is how are we going
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to respond, the question is what do we need to do to say the
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cost? So today I've got five steps to help us stay the cost as
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we prepare for twenty twenty four. But before that, let's go to scripture
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Matthiel chapter twenty five, verse fourteen to thirty. Are you guys okay?
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Okay, I can see all focusing. Okay, that's good, right,
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So Matthew, chapter twenty five, verse fourteen to thirty, what did you
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say? I'm just going to read it real quickly. For the Kingdom of
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Heaven is like a man traveling to a far country, who called his own
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servants and delivered his goods to them, And to one he gave five talents,
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to another two, and to another one, to each according to his
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own ability, and immediately he went on the journey. Then he who had
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received the five talents went and traded with them, and made another five talents.
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And likewise, he who had received two talents gained tumor also. But
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he who had received one went and dug it in the ground and hid his
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lord's money. After a long time, the lord of those servants came and
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settled accounts with him. So he who had received five talents, came and
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brought five other talents, saying, Lord, you delivered to me five talents.
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Look, I've gained five more talents besides them. His Lord said to
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him, well done, good and faithful servant. You're faithful over a few
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things. I will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy
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of the lord. Take note of this scripture. Okay, takenal this scripture.
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He also he also, who had received two talents, came and said,
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Lord, you delivered to me two talents. Look, I have gained
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two more talents besides them. His Lord said to him, well done,
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good and faithful servant, you have been faithful over a few things. I
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will make you ruler over many things. Enter into the joy of the lawn.
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Huh, same response from the boss, same response, nothing different,
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nothing, the same response. And then what happens later? Then he would
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received the one talent, came and said, Lord, I knew you to
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be a hard man, reaping where you have not sown, and gathering where
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you have not scattered seed. And I was afraid and went and hit your
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talent in the ground. Look there you have what is yours? But his
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Lord answered and said to him, you wicked and lazy servant. You knew
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what I read where I've not sown and gathered where I have not scattered seed.
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Okay. Basically the boss was being sarcastic laugh when he said that,
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Okay, so you to have deposited my money with the bankers and and my
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command, I will have received back my own with interests. Therefore, take
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the talent from him and give it to him who has ten talents. For
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to everyone who has more will be given, and he will abundance. But
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from him who does not have even what he has will be taken away.
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Okay. And the last part, it's not so nice and cost unprofitable servant
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into the Autho darkness, there will be being a national thief. Okay.
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So what can we learn from this scripture? Let me just draw some things
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out from here. Okay. One, this is a parable Jesus used to
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explain the Kingdom of God. Right, meaning, this is a parable that
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Jesus used to explain what is important to God. Your cash that what is
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important to him. Again, what is important to God and what is important
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to us can be very different. And I think as we read the Bible
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more and more we learn that a lot of things that we find important he
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finds not important, and we've got to be very sensitive to that. Okay,
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So based on this, this is why I can get Because the one
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that have five talent and the one that have to talent have the same answer.
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Doesn't mean that the one that has five talent did better than the one
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has two talent. What did you have to use example? Because we will
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see the five and two. But God sees one hundred percent, God sees
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the result. No, God don't see the amount right. In fact,
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from here I also can gather that the expectation is not as high the servant
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with the five talent and the servant t talent, Praise the Lord, they
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go one hundred percent. If you're doing business here, a hundred percent of
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it is very good. Okay. But the one with the one talent,
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what was the response? Of course, we can knock came and say,
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ay you do, but actually the master gave a reference point of expectation.
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You're your catch that. Let me let me explain further, because the master
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said you knew I was say that sarcasm you could have and what could have
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the servant done? Just put the money in the bank earned zero point two
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six percent interests That could have happened, but he didn't even do that.
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He took more effort digging hope, put inside the whole and then coverage.
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That took effort. Right, both also took effort. Put money in the
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bank, digging whole wishildn't. But then the servant decided to dig hold and
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give back the same thing. Didn't use no increase at all. What is
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God expecting of us? He's not expecting a lot. No. I know,
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we celebrate the one hundred percent, but he's saying, hey, even
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if you have put the money here and earn a little bit of interest,
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I will be Okay, that's what he was saying. So that tells me
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that the the buy is very low. Actually, the bow of faithfulness is
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actually quite low. The bath way faithful is quite low. Okash that So
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I've got this statement. Okay, I don't know how it will rall you
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up or not, but I'm gonna say anyway, because I believe something that
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is saying. God actually didn't call us to be successful in life. He
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called us to be faithful. Let me give this perspective to you are.
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Do you know that here a lot of us or a majority of people are
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not successful. We are not successful in the way the world defines success.
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We may not have all the money in the world, we may not be
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the most famous, we may not be the most light person. Not successful.
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But I'm sure a lot of people here are faithful. You'll catch me.
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I'm sure a lot of people here are faithful, faithful, faithful,
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difficult. Also do faithful? Don't get it all right? Also do faithful?
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Not successful, but faithful. And of course you can argue that by
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being faithful, you're sucessful. You got eyes. Okay, let's not go
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there. Okay, I'm just giving this this this top process. What can
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I derive out of this scripture? Just gonna give you some statements? Are
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I think the first point is we shouldn't measure our success upon others. You'll
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catch that. Who was the determining factor? Who was the one that measured
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the success? The master? No, not the servants. No, the
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servants are the servants. The master rewarded both the servants that produce one hundred
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percent the same reward the same compliment, right, because the master decides man.
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Right, So do you think it's fair if we measure our success in
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life to someone else. It's not fair. We're all very different. We
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all are from different backgrounds, different different economic state, you know, different
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experiences, different opportunity. But do you know that God is fair? He's
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just like Actually, he will look at you based on what you have,
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what he has given to you. He won't look at you and anywhere else.
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But men we judge based on a lot of other things, based on
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the external. Let me give you another example. When Samuel was supposed to
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choose another king, right, God said he would come from Jesse, And
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Jesse rolled up all his famous, strong, good looking sons and conveniently forgot
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the last one that not important one. David was not important in Jesse's eyes.
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They had a big party, and he was forgotten. Why he's just
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a shepherd boy. But God saw David, he didn't see the way Samuel
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saw. Samuel was impressed. Oh one of these, right, God say
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no, no, no, no, no, no no no. Then
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Samuel, I God, they're all here, Then asked Jesse, anyone else?
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Got one more? But I think him not important. Now that's how
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God sees it. That's how God sees you. If you think you are
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being forgotten, he has not forgotten. You don't compare yourself with others.
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Measure success, your success to what God and trusted to you. What has
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God and trusted to you today? Your family, your job, what is
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it? Don't compare you and not person, no point, You're gonna be
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very frustrated if you do that. Don't don't, don't, please, don't
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do that, right. Every person is different, and we are running our
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own race. We are we are all running. I'm running my own race,
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but Danny is running his own race, right, And even the Bible
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tolt us not to compare. In short, we shouldn't compare. And if
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you shouldn't covert. You know this work covered? Okay? Covet means like
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you want in hock? Can I think we used to gain? Now you
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gain someone else's things? Not you're coverting it right, So you don't cover
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someone else's life or wife. You didn't get a joke. It's fine covered.
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Someone's wife is inside the tank, commaments la. Okay, anyway,
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you know I use this example just now, and I was quite bold when
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I share with BJA. I'm a bit bolder with bacause my bom so I
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just but yeah, I'm a bit careful to get stolen from me? Can
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I let you know that social media is a good tool. But then the
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problem with social media is the spirit of covetousness that can come out. Because
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if you look at someone else's social media and you start thinking, oh,
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I wish I have dangerous really dangerous ready, there's a discontentment that will come
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out of your heart, and then you chase after something that is not known
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for you, or you chase something that will distract you from what God wants
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you to do. See, God gives us all specific giftings. God gives
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us all a specific call, and we should be faithful to that call.
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The one that had two talents are shouldn't look at the one that have five,
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you know, and the one that have five? You know something,
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we think five got more? Do you know? Some some of us have
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five talents, but we look at the door and say, oh, man,
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I wish I'm doing less. You can feel that way or so any
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form of this contentment, any form of cover thing, is not good.
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It's not good. It's not good. So you've got to be very careful
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because our hearts are receiving, are you guys? Okay? Okay? So
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I'm sharing all these things. Let's go to the five sets. So this
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year, this year, let's look at this year. Let's not look at
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last year. Let's get look at what has happened. You know, if
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all I'm saying and you trusa, don't trust anymore, Let's move forward.
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Can let's move forward? Okay, don't don't, don't compare. Let's start
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afresh. Don't worry about other people. Nothing you're like, nothing to do
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with them. Okay, they are a problem, your problem. Don't need
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to mix the problem. You mix the problem. You got more problem.
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Okay, what's the first thing we need to do. We need to focus
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on the target. We we need to focus on the purpose. We need
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to focus on the goal. I'm trying to put everything in teas Okay,
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but I think I fail. Later you'll find out why. Focus on what
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God asks you to do this year? What is God asking you to do
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this year? Right? Maybe you don't know? Actually pass away. I
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don't really know what God ask me to do? Well? Can I you
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to ask him? I mean, you can ask me, but I may
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not. No, So you know, I believe. I believe God can
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speak to you. You know, That's why I believe. I don't.
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I don't think you need to be super holy you know you know something we
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have this perception or you must be holy Moly, you must don't even know.
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I think if you ask God wherever you're anna actually got for what should
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I do? Is there a goal? Is there a mission that you have
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for me? And it doesn't have to be big? You know, oh
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the mission needs to do this? You know I want no? No,
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no, no, no, don't want to do just ask a lot wise
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it It could be as simple as, hey, can you spend more time
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in your family? You've been working a bit too hart ready can you invest
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in that? It could be Ah, young people I'm talking to you are
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can you be nicer to your parents? Are right? It could be dead
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and then but very Hardlla. Every time I talk to my parents, so
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I feel I want you to get them. No, they don't understand.
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You know, I don't know. You got twenty twenty four to work it
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out. You know what is it? It doesn't have to be anything.
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It is always something that will benefit you and it will always something that will
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help you to be perfect because God wants us to be perfect. Recently,
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I was just talking to all my guys. You remember, I reminded,
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you know, I'm just talking to one of the someone that I've been,
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you know, counseling person in a challenging time. And it was quite funny
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because the person told me, you know, God is speaking to me in
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every area and they're so encouraging, but in this area, I find you
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very difficult. Now I told it. Besides, I said, you know
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what, I think God wants you to deal some stuff in this area because
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this is the difficult area. That at the area not difficult, he say,
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you do, but the one that's difficult, it's the one that he
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wants you to change. Why. He wants to perfect you. He wants
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the completion of your salvation. He wants you to be patient and kind and
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exude the fruits, the fruit of the spirit. That's what God wants,
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right, That's what God wants. So focus on the goal, Focus on
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the target. Amen, Assimila ha so easy, Yes, it is easy.
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I used to not understand the scripture in Matthew, Knock the door and
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it will be open to you. Ask and you will find it. Sorry,
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sick and you'll find it. Ask and you'll get an answer that is
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basically God's promise to you and all of us here that if we ask him,
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he answers. So ask, Oh, but I don't know whether it
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is God's voice or worse voice. Well, let me give you an a
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tape. Read the Bible law anything ah and any voicer that is against the
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Bible. Lah, I tell you confidently it's not from God. Will never
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ask you do something right, there's against his word one. It is always
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aligned to his word. That is our God. This is the yardstick that
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we measure ourselves by. Ask God, ask for yourself, you know,
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And of course we got leadershire a different one. You can you can discussion,
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No, you's sure, not not sure you know things like that.
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But I want to encourage you. Ask God, what is that thing some
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of you you might already know. Actually, yeah, this is the thing
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that I need to do. You know, you might really know anyone you
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know, but you don't want to touch it's okay, okay? Can I
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let you know that Our savior Jesus was also very focused on what his father
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entrusted him with, even when he became hot. Matthew chapter twenty six,
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verse thirty nine says he went a little father and fell on his face and
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prayed, saying, Oh, my Father, if it is possible, let
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this cup pass from me. Nevertheless, not as I will, but as
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you will. Let me try and draw this picture. Jesus Christ, our
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savior, the one that died on the cross, the one that died to
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say, if our sins and give us an you know, redemption to Christ
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had second thoughts. Even Jesus had second thoughts. Even Jesus say that whole
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thing. In mant To twenty six, he was the garden of Gasemane for
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one hour, he praying, Lord, please let someone else do it.
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That was his struggle. In the end he followed true, in the end
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he had the strength. But there's him having second thoughts. Even he had
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second thoughts now, but he's stuck to the goal. Imagine now, if
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Jesus only say, you know what, God, it's okayla, I think
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crucifasion is not something that I want to Maybe he can get one of the
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disciples to do it. I'm out by what would happened. We wouldn't be
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here, I wouldn't be here, You wouldn't be here. We might still
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be dragging bulls to the temple to sacrifice. I don't know. We might
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not have experienced grace. I mean a lot of a lot of you here.
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I'm sure you've experienced Christ in your life. Might not I have happened
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if Jesus had second notes and you follow through the second thoughts, dank God.
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He focused on the target. How about us? Can we focus on
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the target? What is it? What is the target this year? Don't
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look to the left, to the right. Yes, maybe last year we
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do do the same thing, but we were distracted. Hey, hopefully this
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five sets will help us. And I know last week I shared about five
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things to look out for look at OSLA for that. Be careful because you
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know what we want to do. We want to at the end of twenty
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ten, ifore look back and say, praise God, we run our race.
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We did it, guys, we did together. We experience God.
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That's what we want. But now it's the beginning. Okay, it's the
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beginning. Second point, you, guys, Okay, second mond is Tahaden.
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That's why my teas are not very good. Okay, persevere, persevere,
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stay the course right. Very famous was James want to to for my
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brethren, counting all joy When you fall into various trials, knowing that the
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testing of your faith producers patients. But let patients have its perfect work,
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then you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. Hey, if you
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want to like nothing, be happy when you go through a problem. Something
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funny, right, yeah, it sounds funny. You know you want to
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have nothing, You want to like nothing, you want to have everything.
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Ah, when you face regius trials, be happy, rejoice, persist,
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and persevere even if it's difficult. I think the more mature generation understands this
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because I know that this will be a bit too sensitive to bring up.
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But uh, this generation, there are a lot of broken families. But
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I remember my parents' generation. Now how they fight you? So are they
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just two together? One? Of course? Not not ideal? Are it's
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not ideal? Okay, can be better on But I think the understood perseverance,
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you know not? So is it they give up? Not so easily?
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Say? I have known? Can I give you another benefit of perseverance?
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And I do see a lot of business owners here. Do you know
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that you cannot build anything lasting without time and investment? Right? The journey
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can be hard, but if we don't persevere, you might not experience the
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food of it. So perseverance is important, you know when you're doing gym,
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right, I can use Jim examples. Now, I remember, right,
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I remember the first time the first time I did you know? Ever
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Square kind to me. Okay, he gave everybody crazy workouts. He gave
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me a fairly simple workout, and then he actually told me, no,
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you do three sets, right, but if you really cannot, ah,
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you know, I can change on the two. So I'm like, you
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know, can can do it? Okay, you go, can I can
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do it? First set? No problem? Second set okay, third setter.
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I had to rest longer, and I had to think to myself,
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Okay, should I just tell but now that last year I had a heart
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problem and maybe I cannot finish it last set? How Yeah, I'm sure
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you'll understand. Dumb starts coming in. No, I mean we're honest,
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because you know, because I was the last leave for so the first time
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and I'm like, I'm sure you understand now you know? Or maybe I
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bluffy, lah, I say I finish really although I haven't finished it.
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You know, no, you because you have it's painful guys. After that,
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okay, can I tell you I persever it and I complete it,
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or are said, praise the Lord. But do you want to know the
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interesting thing that happened? For seven days? I couldn't stand up properly every
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time I climbed the statsa I wanted to fall. Okay, yeah, persevere.
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Then the next time I did it a little bit easier, right,
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not any easier? Actually, no, huh, Tree says, I'll do
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fall. After that, I regret. So I finished, you know,
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And then I mean, I'm counting to you tomorrow I'm gonna do again.
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I don't know what's going to happen tomorrow. I please pray for me,
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Okay, pray that. As a wife, we gotta persevere. It's not
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gonna be easy, but persevere. Amen. Paul ran his race second Timothy
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four six to eight. Less than to that Paul himself ran his race,
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He says here, for I'm already being poured out as a drink offering,
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and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought the good
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fight. I have finished the race. I've kept the faith. Finally there
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is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the
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righteous judge, will give to me on that day, and not to me
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only, but to all who have loved his appearing. No, I'm when
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I read this scripture, I pray to myself, Lord, please give me
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that, give me that testimony to say, I run my race. I've
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done it, you know, I finished it, and I'm not deviated from
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what even trusted. You know. But as I read or another very interesting
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thing I discovered from a posture, he just like, I've run the race.
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I've did it, all right. And then if you follow on with
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tewod Timothy four nine to sixteen, now and I'll read to you, are
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right, Let's see yeah, second Timothy four. Okay, the title of
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this portion after he said I have run the race is the abandoned Apostle,
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So dramatic, Honor, be diligent to come to me quickly, for Demus
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has forsaken me, having left this present world and has departed for Thessalonica questions
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for Galicia titles for their Maysia. Only Luke is with me. Get Mark
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and bring him with you, for he is useful to me for ministry and
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taiki kas. I've sent to Emphasus bringing the cloak that I left with coppers
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at Truers. When you come and the books, especially the parchments Alexander the
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Coppers faith did me much harm? Whoe made the Lord repay him according to
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his works. You also must be aware of him, for he has greatly
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resisted our words and my first defense. No one stood with me, but
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all forsooed me. May it not be charged against them? Wow? Even
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Bauler was betrayed and hurt by people? Have you been hurt by people?
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Were you hurt by people last year? Did your close friends hurt you?
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Did your love one hurt you? I pray that you have the strength to
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even say, may it not be charged against them? He forgave them,
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He forgave them. In fact, he didn't say, you know what,
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Albert, this guy hurt me out. You know what, let's ax him
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out. Let's not be friend. You know, he didn't do that.
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He forgive me and say kill you go do what are you're gonna do.
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I'm still gonna stick to my guns. I'm still gonna be faiful. What
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you do is not gonna affect me because I'm clear on my target. Right.
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So we gotta be very careful with dis garage mans, because really we
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can be derailed because of discaraieonments because we hear news. You know, I
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was just sharing it. Fifteen. One of the lessons I've learned, which
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is very interest very interesting. Well, I wouldn't say interesting now, but
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I've discovered that now you know, sometimes something or no problem, you can
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talk until a problem. Do you know that? Do you know that?
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Actually? Everything okay? One? But all it takes is one person to
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see one problem and then at one person talk to another person, talk to
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one percent, talk to one person, talk to repersent until fifty percent now
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and then suddenly, oh the ship is sinking. Oh but actually, if
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you look, actually, if I'm outsider, see nothing wrong one nothing wrong.
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Actually, in fact, it's better than what I have experienced. But
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then because of the talk, then becomes really bad. So can I can
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I warn you? Be careful of the talk, be careful of being negative,
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be careful of bad news you hear. I mean, if you want
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a very five verified But if not, I will say, be careful because
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gossip loves to go and gossip can destroy things. Right, It's all about
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perspective. At the end of the day, Amen Paul's side was on the
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lot and his confidence was in him. Where is our confidence today? You
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see, if you receive something from the Lord, if you receive a mission
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from the Lord, and you face discouragements by people along the way, will
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you be able to have that perspective that the people doesn't affect your result at
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the end of the day. That, yes, you might be discouraged.
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Yes, someone even close to you might say what are you doing me?
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Imagine my wife came in and say, Elvin, what are you doing?
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How you exercise? So? So? Are you're not going to be as
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fit as Albert? Don't bother? I read you spend time with us.
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Of course, my wife don't do that, lase she wants me to read
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that fit Albert, I think, what never happened? But hey, you
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know that might happen and you get a yellow Actually, dear, you're right,
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law, Why are you going so dumb going spend so much time exercising?
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Well, I know why. I need to live a healthy lifestyle so
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that I can live longer. Very clear, that's my own goal, right,
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whether or not Elba's there, Whether I'm clear on my mission right?
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Right? And would I get discouraged along the way? I might, But
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I'm trying to find ways to not be discouraged find ways to account myself.
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Let's start using church as example. Hey, guys, if you don't see
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me to horror as we are you exercising, I would definitely have to do
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it. Okay, So Tahan third point, thankful, thankful? I use
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I write that? Please? Okay? James one too, my brethren,
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counting all drawing when you fall into various trials. I put this line here,
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be discourage proof. Okay, what do you mean by that? Pass?
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I mean, well, let's read James one chelve to twenty. Okay,
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James one chelf to twenty. I don't know why I heavy here,
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Yeah, I think okay, right, So Jane's one twelve to twenty.
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So he says here, blessed is the man who endures temptation, for when
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he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life, which the
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Lord has promised to those who love him. Let no one say when he
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has tempted, I am tempted by God. For God cannot be tempted by
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evil, nor does he himself temp anyone. But each one is tempted when
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he's drawn away by his own desires and entice. Then when the desire was
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conceived. It gives birth to sin, and sin, which is full grown,
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brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren. Every
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good gift and perfect gift is from a birth and comes down from the Father
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of Lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning. This
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scripture basically tells you in seventeen that every good gift comes from God and He
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does not give you anything less everything good in your life, whether you believe
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it or not. Maybe this is why I are. Is very important for
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us to have the right perspective in terms of God and us. If we
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have a spirit of conveteousness in our life, no matter what good thing God
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gives you is not enough. No matter what good is happening in life,
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it will never be enough because you're always looking at someone else. But if
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you're looking to God, you will recognize that He has everything good for you,
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that a lot of things that we can be thankful for in your life
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is from Him, and He does not shot change you. How is our
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perspective of God? Amen, let me continue of his own will. He
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brought us forth by the word of truth, that we might be a kind
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of first ruths of his creatures. So, then, my beloved brethren,
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let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath,
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For the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. So
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how do we be discourage? Proof Number one very important? You need to
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be thankful. I'm sure in your life, no matter how bad it is,
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you can give thanks for a few things. Can I share an honest
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story? Well, you know, I'll share the honest story later. Okay,
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let me talk about this. Was we got to be thankful in our
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lives? Are we thankful or not? I'm sure you'll be able to see
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something that God has is doing a life. They say, you know what
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if you know? Actually, I say, don't compare. But sometimes when
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you compare with those who have less than you are, then you're happier and
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very funny, right human beings, you know. But maybe it's good that
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we look at our lives and say, hey, is there anything I can
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be thankful for? Can I give thanks to the house that I have,
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to my kids? You know? Can I share the storyline? So there
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was a period of my life not so long ago, that I was not
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happy in my house, really not happy in my house so much so,
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and it's be for pandemic. I was so not happier that I wanted to
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sell out my house because I didn't have time to do it it up.
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It didn't I mean, I won't tell you where my house is, but
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it's not the best start, okay, it's not the nicest. And dinner
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you start seeing other people spend time on your house and you jealous Stone yo,
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this fellow, you know. And then now you you start thinking a
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lot, I serve you, right, Why can't I renovate my house?
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Why why can't I have money to do? Not? All these things?
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Right? And I really my house was released something that I was not happy
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with, okay, really not happy with. Okay, so I take care
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of but just by BJA, what's the next best thing, say, b
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jna be take a lot of nice spaces, man, right, Maybe I
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can get a condo or something that will look nicer. Then I can invite
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people to my place. You know, I tell you that this contentment of
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the house was so great. Now then I was very serious on selling it
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off and going to be you know. And then I convinced myself, Lord,
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I'm supposed to serve your people here, you know in PJ. Wouldn't
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it be better if I have a house here? So then I can invite
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them to my place? Do homes are all these good things? Friends?
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Can I tell you that was the most foolish thing that I have ever done?
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This before pandemic. My wife she released something. She didn't have any
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uh, she was not she had no peace, but she just followed her
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husband husband pastonma so follower, right follower, Okay, So I go on.
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So for two years, off we search for the best house, of
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the best house the can of I tell you, our friends, thank God,
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thank God, by God's grace, I am old enough to not do
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things too hastily, if you get what I mean, meaning, no matter
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how discontented I am an aller, I will still at least pray than ask
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for peace, because I've been enough. I've been enough trouble not doing that
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to be to be unwise. So for two years we look for the best
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place. For two years, I calculated, friends, After the two years
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of prayer and convincing and talking and figuring out all right, I concluded that
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it was not wise to shift, and that God didn't open the door for
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me to shift, right and I tell you what, and this is something
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that I remember I did today. The day I told my wife, Hey,
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dear, you know what, it doesn't make sense financially, and there's
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no open door. I think we will just stay here. I was still
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not happy in my house. Are we'll just stay here? When I saw
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my wife's face, it looked like two years of stressor left her facer.
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I knew that for two years I've been doing the wrong thing. I caused
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my wife two years of stress because the husband really wanted God to bless him
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and get another house. This before pandemic. Let me tell you the testimony
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they came after. So after that, don't look for housing ja, okay,
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stay in Kla. I settled for whatever I have now. Okay,
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the way of thinking. Do you know that God started to change my perspective
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about my house. He started teaching me about Stewart Chip my house, right,
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nice big house, uh, not renovated. I started noticing he actually
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a lot of parts of my house that I have not used properly. And
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I felt like, hey, even before I think about buying another house,
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maybe I should fully utilize what I have now first, Maybe I should start
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you and I started having ideas on you know, so my perspective change from
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hate to hope, from stress to excitement. Same house, guys, same
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house, steal no money. And I started doing different projects also much and
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I started getting happy, like, oh I us like, for example,
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there's a part of my house that like, for the longest time is just
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okay. Then I don't know why I do And then and then a pandemic
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hit, right, so then we were stuck at home right there. One
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also a test when I share about that data, so, uh, place
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was junk. I decided to I say, hey, I need to do
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something. So I changed you to a garden. So then my house had
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a garden. Please don't go to look at the garden because it's it's not
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a garden. But at that time, he became a garden. At that
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time, I hope things are the same. The house is the same,
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but why is different inside? Right? Inside? Right? And uh?
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And I started doing different things, you know, updating the house, you
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know, and and I started being happier staying there. Let me show you
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the other testimony remind said that it was not financially viable for us to shift,
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right, and I'm like, no, like if we do it,
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we would be in a loss, you know, because we didn't want to
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sell it and we wanted to rent a place. So we thought we ran
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out, but I don't know why until today ran very cheap one but PJ
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aren't very expensive. So even if I did that, we were being a
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loss, you well, being come a more money. And then pandemic hit
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friends, I realized her, thank god I didn't shift. My house is
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big enough that when me and my wife are because if we were to shift
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to PJ, a house wouldn't make sense. We would be staying in a
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condo during pandemica. I realized that, hey, if I'm upstairs too long
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and i'm border, I can at least go downstairs to my living room.
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If I'm in this two room too long seeing my wife and I think I
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need a breeder, I can walk over to the next room and till it
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was big enough. But and I had two kids, know, right,
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every day it was a different project in a different room for them, right,
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And because of that, now we kept our sanity. And I realized,
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wow, Lord, thank god for this house. Because I'm talking to
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different friends they are living in you know, Condosa, and they're already pulling
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their hair, already small, confined area, claustrophobic. I can at least
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go out to my lawn and look at the sky, and you know,
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so, I'm like, thank God, thank god we didn't shaft. I
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figured. If let's say I shifted and pandemic hit, two things will happen
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or might happen. One is, I will be in financial rule and converment.
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Okay, just believe in God and want to do foolish things. Right,
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I'll be in financial rule. The second thing that might happen I'm not
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saying, well, but might happen is I think my marriage might be affected
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because under high stress, right, marriage confirmed canalan, but during pandemic it
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was rare, peaceful. We were happy. In the case is a pretty
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nice place. Lak Okay, thank god God saved me from hitting. Amen.
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We got to learn to be thankful for what we have. Yes,
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you don't have everything. Yes it might not be as perfect as the next
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person. Yes it might not be ideal. But we got to learn to
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be thankful and then we can be discouraged proof Amen. Fourth point, time
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out. We got to learn to take time to reflect and to rest.
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Okay, let me just read some scripture. Now I'll expound on that.
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Psalms fifty five two says, cast your burden on the Lord, and he
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shall sustain you. He shall never permit the writers to remove first bitter five
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five seven says, in the same way, you who are younger, submit
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yourselves to your elders. All of you clothe yourselves with humility towards one another.
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Because God opposes the proud, but shows favor to the humble. Humble
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yourself therefore under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due
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time. Not you live your arminal, He lives you up. So we
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humble ourselves to him. And I love these words. Cast all your anxiety
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on him because he cares for you. Are you anxious today? What is
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causing you to have anxiety? Cast it on the Lord because he cares for
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you. Is your spouse giving you stress? Cast it on the Lord?
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You know? Are you having challenges with your kids? Casting on the Lord
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because he cares for you, because on your own you cannot do it.
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One because in our weakness is made strong. You'll catch that right. We've
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gotta trust in him. But rest is so important. You know, this
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is another thing I've learned, uh uh, living life. Okay, generally
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living life. I've learned that if my body start falling sick, I'm starting
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to feel stressed. Okay, I know he be stressed out, but I'm
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starting feel stress. Or if I notice right that my wife is like on
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the verge of like going to crack it, yea, I will immediately organize
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a holiday, even if it's overnight in kl just to chill. I tell
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you, it does wonders, no for the soul. It does wonders for
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the soul. To rest. Some of us here we might have been going
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on on on on on on on on on NonStop. Why because we need
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to achieve this. We when you do that, when you get this done,
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we need chill, guys, slow down, rest and don't just rest.
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Rest Rest in the lot right, rest in the Lord. Why do
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we need to rest? Why do we need to rest so that we can
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reflect? We need to rest so that we can reflect. We need to
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rest so that we can reflect, so that we can have self introspection.
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Big Weather. It just means that if you're going this direction and then you
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come to a place where you need rest, it allows you to pause to
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see whether you're still hitting the right direction or you need to adjust. But
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if you don't rest, you keep going this direction and then you don't realize
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that you might end up at the cliff. It's very dangerous if you've got
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no rest. That's why even in the Bible, right the Jews, you
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are very big on the Sabbath because the arrest are it's not just rest,
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don't do anything. You know. Okay, they took to the reaction,
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but they are supposed to write because on the seventh day God rested and looked
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at his creature and said, it is good. God rested to do a
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reflection. He stopped working and did a reflection. That is what we need
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to do, right. We need to know that actually we need to rest.
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We need to take a time out. Sometimes don't go all the way
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and then look back and say, where have we? How can we reach
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share? Some marriages can can appear that all the way, all the way
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up, never never checked, and then suddenly reachpeck. I don't know how
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we end up here. You know this something I believe, guys, I
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know it's truer. Nobody get married now, one thing to break up one
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nobody everybody get married, lovely, devon one thing to build a life together.
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But what happened along the way? What happened? People forget, people
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forget or people don't rest together, and then other things come creeping in.
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Before you know it. You look back like, oh no, what happened?
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Be very careful and when you do when you rest, please don't rest
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one time a year. Please don't do that. A bit too late.
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Lah, okay, in the beginning of the year. This the goal all
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the way to the end. A bit too late. Try to have more
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frequent rests. It helps you know, how do you know you need rest?
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Well? When you're studying to for sick you're working really hard, it's
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ending force time to rest. You got to listen to your body right and
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you will help. You will do one that's for you, amen. Fifth
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point and last point toast. Yeah, I'm saying we need to learn to
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praise. You need to learn to celebrate milestones. You know, life is
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heard, really la. You know something, I when I talk to people,
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right and then they come to me and they they I mean, I'm
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okay, they share all their problems. You know, I'm okay, But
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I feel like, can you look at the bright sire, can you is
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there anything not that you can celebrate? You know, it's all about perspectives.
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You know, if you are looking for trouble, you will find your
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one. But if at the same time, if you're looking for celebration points,
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you'll find your one. You know. One of the things I really
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respect a bas kind no matter how bad things are, he can celebrate on
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serious That's that's one thing I'm like, Well, pasta your powerla, somehow
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you can look at the situa and say, praise be to God. This
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is good, you know, and and it's tolf, but it's important for
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us to celebrate. We got to celebrate my molestones. You know, if
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you're a teacher here or if you are in early education, that's why you
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learn what Oh you know, we need to encourage the kids and celebrate your
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milestones so they will keep doing it. Do you know that as adults you
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need to celebrate your milestone so that you keep doing the right thing. Not
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just kids, you also need a celebate your maustone. I don't know,
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are you married, Have you celebrated your marriage milestones? Okay? I know
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our people when they first got together, then they've got monster and all these
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different things. Right when I look at him like, oh my goodness,
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they celebate every other one a bit too much other one. But what about
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those of you who's been married two years? Have you celebrated your moulestones?
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You should? You know. I was talking to a young man and then
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uh, graduate, gonna graduate, And basically he said, hey, you
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know what, I don't want to do my graduation because there's a waste of
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time money. You know, it's a commercial thing that the union want to
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you know, he didn't want to do it at all. And then the
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mother was so distrang can't talk to me. He listened to you. Can
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you appreciate him? Then I look at him like, rather, your graduation
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is for your parents to bowsla. Can you please do it for them?
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You you know they work so hard to put you in college. Give them
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the graduation now, so at least, And I told him, I said,
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you know, my parents are okay, my parents, My dad said
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in the top anyway, my parents, right, I knew the graduation for
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them because I don't put my graduation photo in my house. You don't you
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come my house. You don't see it one But do you know until today
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my graduation photo. My brother's graduate for is all up on my parents' wall
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for everyone to see a reathon they come. It's for them why they want
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to celebrate. It's breaking rights for them. You know, we need to
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learn to celebrate things, right. Isn't it good to that we celebrate so
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we forget? But we need to learn to celebrate this something I also learned
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marrying my wife. Learning to celebrate. We need to celebrate more. It
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is more about perspectives. Okay, what do you see? Do you always
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see doming gloom? It's always doing gloom? This thing happened not good enough?
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Oh you know? Well, don Albert, you know you want what
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was you know the I think it was huh powerlifting under forty yeah, national
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record powerlifting? Do you all know that you're there? Not right now?
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Now you'll know? Okay, I remember asking him like no nothing wanta okay
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for him? Nothing now? No, but it's worth celebrating, right.
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You can tell people know this? How you invite people? Exkate, Hey,
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you want to meet the you know over forty national powerlifting? Masia are
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coming? We see him here and then you'll see who they're right? Do
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we only see dom and groom in our situation or do we see God in
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the picture. One of the most important questions I ask myself every time I
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see trouble God, Are you here? God? What should I see?
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Because I know you see things differently I would see naturally, I will see
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things differently naturally. Other people, when I hear them, they will see
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things differently. But I know you see things differently. I want to see
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how you see. I don't want to see how my neighbor sees. I
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don't want to see how the person that is always complaining sees. Don't scary
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you all life is. Life has enough trouble enough ready. I don't need
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to add more to it. I want to see your way. Amen,
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bless the lot on my soul and all that is within me. Bless His
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Holy name. You can only bless the lot if you're encouraged. If you
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can only bless the lot, if you're thankful. You can only bless the
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lot if you see good. It's very hard to bless the lot if you
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think that God is cruel to you. Salms one or six one or give
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thanks to the Lord for his good, for his mercy and yours. Forever
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you know, God is doing a great work in your lives. I believe
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He is different ones here at different stages of your faith. It's okay,
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right, it's okay. But God is doing something specifically for you. He
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is teaching you something. You are growing. Yes, sometimes it's painful,
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sometimes it's hard. Twenty twenty four hour will be exciting here for all of
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you here, not just me, not just the leadership, everyone here.
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It can be. It can be because God is doing great way in your
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lives. So don't shot change yourself, don't deceive yourself, don't look at
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what other people have and want it right, and don't be wary of doing
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good. Don't be impatient. But trust in God and know that he is
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God. You know the word, know that He's got implies that you don't
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have to do anything, the subscripture and the Baba that says be still and
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know that I Am God. One of the other things that I'm learning now.
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And this is hard for me because I'm a diestyal I get things done
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on. I'm that that person. You know, I will like, oh
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do this, I will do it on. I'm that type. But God
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is teaching me to wait. God is teaching me to Elvin, be still
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and know that, imn God, you don't have to do everything. You
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just need to declare my glory once it happens. That's why he's teaching me
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again. Now it's not a h don't do anything. No, it's like,
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don't be so quick to do something. Don't be so quick, you
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know, be swift to hear first, slow to speak, slow to raugh,
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and then we can overcome challenges. Amen, let's not be impatient.
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Let's trust him and let's know that's God Sums forty six ten. Be still
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and know, damn God, I will be a exalted among the nations.
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I will be exalted in the earth. Why do I say that God is
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doing a deep work in our lives? Well, Romans twelve one to two.
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I beseech you there, for brethren, by the mercies of God,
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that you present your bodies a living sacrifice wholly acceptable to God, which is
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your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be
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transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you may prove what is that
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good and acceptable and perfect will of God. I expound this a little bit
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to you, cause I was sharing this with someone. My understanding of God.
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My understanding of how God works in my life is limited to my experience
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and my understanding of the Word. Similar to all of us here, one
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of the best ways are to grow in data is to experience God more and
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to study His word more. Friends, I'm sorry, there's no other way
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I can be sharing my heart out to you about my experience. You will
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be touched, but you will never fully understand how God is with you until
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you're experiencing yourself. That's why God is wonderful when you see this, because
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he transformed our minds. Every day. He transformed our minds to go.
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I'm excited this year because I'm like, what else are you going to do
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in my life that will show me that you're real and you're bigger, you
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know, and like whise for you, it would be the same. You
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will learn new things this year, like today, I hope you're learning something,
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okay, but it's new. You know, it's not like oh I
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agree, no, no, no, no, it's God's wor's new like
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oh wow, fresh perspective. I'm sure when Pasta shares, when Pasadonia shares
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fresh perspective, you know, I tell you what when he I've never heard
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him preach before, but every time he preached, I'm like, wow,
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mind blown. You know I remember when when when I found out that he's
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going to be the the you know, so like the teens leader pastor.
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Right. I remember sitting with him at a SI bar, right because I
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want to, you know, sussim out talking to him friends. The testimony
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he shot me just confirms one thing. God, this is your man.
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Thank you for choosing him for such a time. Insty, sorry, emotional,
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God, this is your man. Thank you for choosing him for such
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a time, Andsies to have our church. He's the right man for the
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job. I see God in that. God changed my perspective about different things.
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And God can do that for you as well. I pray He will
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do that for you today. Amen. We hope you've been blessed by this
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message. For more information on our church, please visit as church Org.
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going to be a good week. I hit for you. God, bless