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Do it Anyway | Pastor Palan
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You're listening to a message to go from at church.
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We hope this message will light up your tea this morning.
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Being missional is not just for professionals. It is for
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every one of us. And being missional means doing everything
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as unto the Lord, not just when you go and
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preach outside there, but everything that we do, we have
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to do it as unto the Lord. So let's turn
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to closures, Chapter three, verses twenty three to twenty four.
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Closure Chapter three, verses twenty three to twenty four. And
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all the rate words that I've highlighted, I want you
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to say it. Okay ready, are you ready? Want to go?
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And this whatever? It is not like what young people.
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You know, when you talk to your young parents, say
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something to you young people, they use it whatever they
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want to be American now whatever you know. So I'm like,
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that's not the whatever, Okay, the whatever? Here is everything? Okay,
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ready one more time and you do do it. Ah,
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let's say it again. One two three. It's not about man,
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It's about the Lord. Knowing that from the Lord you
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will receive what how many of you like reward? A
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lot of you got no hands dysfunction, Okay, all of
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us like reward. Tell me, if you don't really like reward,
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you must have had a bad life. All the rewards
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you get must be miserable ones. That's why you don't
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like reward. But I love reward. I like reward. I'm
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looking for the day where I will see you receive
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from man and what you receive from the Lord is different. Now,
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do you understand what you receive from man sometimes doesn't
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last forever. But what you receive from the Lord is
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for internity a man, and so reward of what inheritance
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for you, sir the Lord Christ. We have a great boss.
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This boss doesn't use you. He wants to prosper. You
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say prosper. So when you have this kind of boss,
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how should you serve? You know? Nowadays, uh I was
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just telling you the first service. I say, we have
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lost this idea of faithfulness to a company. You know.
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I have a neighbor uncle Chinese uncle and same company
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fifty years, same company. He has never left to another
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company in his life, same company. So I said, Uncle,
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I have to learn from you, la, how you ta
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han same company? Because nowadays young people when they see
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their boss the boss face not so nice, they change company.
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Uncle worked fifty years. Nowadays they work fifty hours then
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change companies or maybe fifty days. Like give them chance.
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I don't try it with it. Am I speaking to
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anyone here? Do you understand what I'm saying? I mean,
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if the company is not good, then I understand now.
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But some of them they just change jobs for a paycheck.
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You know, they don't see the purpose. They don't see
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the calling. They don't see that. When they pray, they say,
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God gave me this job, but fifty days later God
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gave another job. Do you think God is fickle minded?
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Don't use God's name in Vena. See. I work with people,
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so I know they work with people. They also know,
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but they don't say because they love you. I say,
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because I love you and I don't need to be here.
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Do you understand my life is easier? I just say it.
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Problem is yes, But I have to speak the truth. Huh.
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We have to understand. If God places in a place,
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it is for us to make the place better, not
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make it worse. Romans says Ah. Beforehand, God knew where
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to place. You know, I am not in Malaysia because
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my great grandfather came here. God knew that I need
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to be in Malaysia. You think I got no offer
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to move from this country. You don't think that many
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of these people cannot go to other places. Tomorrow I
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can go to another country. We're a better offer, with
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a better salary, with a better work. But is that God? Question? Is?
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Is that God's will? But if God has called you,
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it's not wrong. Please don't don't get me wrong. But
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it has to be God, not our greed. I say
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this again. It has to be our God and not
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our greed. It has to be a call to glorify Him. There.
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If God opens the door for you to migrate to Australia,
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is so that you can make Australia better, not your
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pocket better. Oh, we will invite this pasta to our church.
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But that's the truth. Because you're a missionary. Go and
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get a good pay. It is not wrong to get
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good pay, but it's for you to make that place better,
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for you to be a light in that place. So
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go when God opens the door for you. But if
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it is God, then stay there. Don't love from Australia,
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jump to America because better currency, and then from America
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jump to euro better currency. And then inside Europe you
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say I go to the UK better the best currency pound.
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We are not let by currency, my difference, we are
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led by Christ. See. I love these young people, Benji Shell.
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I mean, Japan is not an easy place. You guys
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need to pray for them. If you have to take
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out your savings, go and visit them, you know how.
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I've been a missionary.
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I know.
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You know how amazing it is when you have someone
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from home come bring some white coffee or whatever they like,
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not what you like, so they can make it at
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home and then drink while you're in Japan, but for them,
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you know, like teams from Malaysia visit us in Nepal,
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they bring chia chong fun, pinangue and chalk with y'all
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freeze it, they deep freeze it. They pack it in
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you know the you know, the sidop home boxes and
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bring it with them. Because my wife's favorite food is
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Peenang tea chong fun, not the Hong Kong Hong kong.
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When I'll see how you know, so it is the
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Peenian Okay. It has to have the author down sauce
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in it. Ah oh, and I have peanut butter in it,
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you know, Rachel, you see you you know what is heaven?
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You know, so should I preach it? But when they come,
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our heart is so filled with joy. So sometimes you
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don't even know why you're making a mission trip. Now
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I just told you. You mean you think, hey, yeah,
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seven days? What can I do? I tell you God
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can do miracles in seven minutes. Don't talk about seven days.
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It's not about us, It's about Him. Everything that we do,
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we do it as unto the Lord. So, as I
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was preparing this message many years now, I want to
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tell you this. Most of my messages most I won't
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say every message. Ninety percent of my message is my devotion.
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Devotion means God has to deal with me first before
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I bring it. And this is one of the devotions
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that I almost do it every other year Closis three,
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twenty three to twenty four, because I have to constantly
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check my heart for who am I doing it? For me?
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Or for the Lord? And I came across a poem.
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Now you look at me, you think this phela eggo.
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I will read poem, but I love poems because I
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am a thinker. I like to think why the persons
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say what he say? Okay, I do not immediately make
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a conclusion. So the way I am design is like that.
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That's how my brains works. And so I found a
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poem that was written on the wall of orphanage in Calcutta,
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where one of the most famous missionaries of all time,
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someone that I really admire, comes from a country where
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Pastor Sandra spent some time many years ago. You know
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what is that country? Albania. You know who I'm talking about,
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Mother Thrasade, because they were the first service. Pity these
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fellows who have listened to me mas for the second time.
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But I'll tell you different stories. And so she wrote
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this poem and is perfectly explains what I'm sharing today.
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So my message today's entire poem. Okay, So I will
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read one part and you will read the answers can
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because church need to be alive, not only one for
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the talk. You also have to talk. I give you
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a question, you give the answer. Amen. Are you okay? Ready?
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You got your paper and pan out? I haven'entitled this
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message with the title of the poem. Do it anyway?
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Don't your neighbor say do it anyway? If it is
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your wife, love me anyway, tell her that, tell her
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tell her so if it is your wife if it
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is her husband, Sorry, no, it's a wife. I got confusory.
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If it is the wife, the husband say, I love you.
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Where's your wife working? Serving? We praise the Lord Lord.
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You know after one day of marriage. Yeah, after one
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day of marriage, we need a lot of love for
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the spouse. I mean if you understand what I just said.
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For those of you have been married for many years,
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you understand because please explain, okay, before you get married,
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when you go for dates and all that, your partner
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would never know the smells. You see, they are laughing.
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All the married for us will know. But after one
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day of marriage, you finally know how your spouse smells.
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Do you understand what I'm saying? Nobody understands anything. Don't
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dare to sailor. I speak the truth again. After one
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day of marriage you need to and especially because when
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you go on dates, they all have make up. After
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the first night, when the makeup comes out, when the
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wedding clothes go off, the reality comes, you know, the
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anti nightgowns, the coma with the bajiklawa. I hate that thing.
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I tell you I My wife came back one day
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with that thing and she say very easy, a very weird,
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very windy. Go hold yeah the old you know it
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looks like it looks like a tongue to me. Hey,
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one brother agrees. Finally, he has been kepting it in
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his heart for a long time. He wanted to tell,
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but they're not tell. He worried after the banana leave
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got poisoned, so he never told. But today he finally
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I found a preacher who told the truth. This auntie ones,
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all your wives, listen to me. Your husbands are not
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telling the truth. Don't torture them with this badja klawa. Okay,
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I know he's windy for you, but for them different
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men will come huh oh like a curtainer. Take this
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one bag lack number one. Remember you don't go to
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my jokes. I come to the message. Do it as
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unto the Lord, not just to please your husband. Whatever
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you do, you are doing it as unto the Lord.
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First thing, the poem says this, if you're going to
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be the missionary that God calls you to be, you
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need to know this. Next life, people are often unreasonable.
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She should know that by now illogical and self centered?
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Say self centered. This is all human beings, regardless of color,
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race and language. When you go out drive in Malaysia,
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you already know this right, All you need to know
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is take your car out. Okay, they're unreasonable elogically you know.
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You push signal you want to come out, You put signal.
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You're telling friend, please, I'm coming out. The follow will
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come in, especially care, especially care. They just eat for pinniplers.
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They don't eat. They poor pinning, very kama. Okay. The
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only polite human beings I've ever met in Malaysia is
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Rahah anybody from Sarawah. They never haunt you and they
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will give space. And we call them natives. Bar bye,
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rick hate aunts. Hey, they got more manners than all
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of us put together. And then the funny thing is
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God sticker, be patient with me. God is still working
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on me. Pona. God is working. I want to give
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you five four minutes three. God is working. What God
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is working? Tell me what is working. You should start
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working with the word of God in your life. You know,
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That's why I advise people. You put all this Christian
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sticker and then you behave like that. Uh. If it
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is in the menu, you should be on the table.
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If it is in the word of God, it should
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be in our life. So what's the answer. You can
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never be a missionary if we don't learn the art
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of forgiveness. France, I want to tell you this, Christianity
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is centered around forgiveness. If there's no forgiveness, there's no Christianity.
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There are certain religions they say they are a religion
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of peace, but they do not understand what is forgiveness.
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You know, after the French sorry, the France Olympics fiasco,
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there was a Muslim preacher who put there, what's wrong
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with you Christians? They just insulted your God, insulted your prophet.
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Your prophet is our prophet. We feel angry. Why you
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never do anything? You know, I already agree, you know,
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just want a troll on fire, you know what. The
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frenchier and then October I'm going to France to speak
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and I'm not thinking maybe take out the Eiffel Tower.
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I was telling I'm brown anyway, I just need a jungle. Dearoney,
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mumble Board don't understand saying angry, but that's the normal
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reaction of a fleshly human being. Anger. So one morning
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I was doing my devotion, same thing. Go back and
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revisit Collasions three, because Colosion three is Paul telling the
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church in Colisee how to live a new life in Christ,
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how to follow Christ. Remember Christ's safe, follow me in everything,
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not only the things that we like. And one of
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the things that Christ did the last act before he
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breathed his last breath, is forgive them, Father, forgive them,
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for they do not know what they're doing. Are you serious, Jesus,
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They exactly knew what they were doing. They nailed you
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to the cross. But Jesus was forgiving things that they
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never knew. They don't know that they're nailing the Son
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of God. They don't know that they're nailing the creator
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of the universe. They don't know they were nailing the
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Holy One. Friends, Jesus, say follow me. Someone said, forgiving
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is one of the most difficult things. Yes, I tell start.
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You know. You see, I grew up under a Baptist pastor.
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Obviously I've never been to outside of a Baptist church
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in my life. I mean when I say never been,
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means you know, be part of a church. But for
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us our home church in Klis, Ex Church. Okay, most
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of our young people we always sent to ex Church
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for the last twenty plus years, and so this is
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my second home. But I've always only been in a
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Baptist church, never outside of a Baptist church. And my
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pastor was very old, and so I wanted to help him.
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He was doing some ministry. I was ready to pass
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on the church to my next generation of leaders. I
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called him in. I told my next generation of leaders,
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please take care of them him and you know, try
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to create something for him to bless him. He's in
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his seventies. But the dear old man did something that
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really broke my heart, and he broke the church. I
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was so upset and angry. Here I am trying to
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help you. You come and do something to subbortuch whatever.
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And you are a pastor, you are a spiritual father.
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For me, it's like a father going into the son's
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family and destroy the son's marriage. Do you understand what
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I'm saying? Very painful. It took me a long time,
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every time see him, money angry, every time see him
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on the slap, until the Lord had to ask me
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one day, would you slap your father? He said, I
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love my dad. I love my dad to bits. But
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he passed away many many years ago. You know when
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I couldn't afford to bless him. It was an amazing man.
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My dad was just an amazing man. You know. I
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had a great dad. And so when that question, when
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the Holy Spirit asked me, Jesus, he's not a perfect pastor,
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la he did He's he's full of mistakes. I everything
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I learned from him was what I should not do
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as a pastor. And I'm very thankful to him because
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I don't have to make the mistakes, and so why
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do I need to hold that grudge? I cannot say
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anything good about him during that time, anybody mentioned the
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name on Hea or the kind of fire goes. Have
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you seen Timo Movino? You see Timo Movia when they
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get angry and the wind all come out, and that
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lie until the Lord had to bring me to that place.
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How far have you strayed away from? Looking like Christ?
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Was so difficult for me. I'm taking more time on
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this point because this is the most difficult one, and
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this is the beginning. This is the foundation of all
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Christian faith. We all have to learn to forgive. You
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know why the Malaysian Church is so effective with the
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majority people because we cannot forgive. We are so afraid
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of them. We still think about May thirteen, nineteen sixty nine,
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the year I was born. So you're not even born
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whenever we have talked about them. Ah ye, lazy one,
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ah stupid one. My dear Malaysians. If we don't forgive,
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we are far away from Christ. Are you here with me?
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We can come to church, we can sit sing all
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kinds of songs we want to sing. But if we
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don't learn to forgive, we are far off from Christ,
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and we are far off from our missional call. We
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are far off from being a sort and a light.
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I pray today, something happens in your heart. Amen. Then
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the second line says this next night. If you're kind,
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people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
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You're doing it as unto the Lord. When you'd work
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properly in your company, people will say you borday, try
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port whatever else. Yeah, I don't know what you guys
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use okay, because they're only used to seeing you this.
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All these workers change company, but you stay there. You
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work hard, you want to bring a change. You be
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kind to your boss. They say this one trying to
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find promotion next year. That's why kind to the boss.
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I want to say this to you. There's a lot
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of negative voices, but listen to the voice of Christ.
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Be kind anyway. You know there's a Malay saying Wu
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duang this palet batu. I want you to be not
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wu dang lobster. Make it bigger, because that's what Jesus
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would want you to be. Okay in English pron behind
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the rock, But I'm asking you, Jesus is the rock.
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Wha this one prettcher are? But behind Jesus be a lobster.
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I mean the things that we come out with praise
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the Lord. Lunestime I told in the morning service, I
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stopped being kind to young Chinese girls. I tell you
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why I always help all these aunties because the aunties
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are slightly okay, slightly, because they were so scared they
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see a ball Indian floor. You see why. I tell
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you why. It was one time I'm jogging, I saw
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this Chinese girl fall down line, so you know I
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want to do I'm thinking like my child lie. You know,
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I wanted to pick up in Pinanga Indian fellow next
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to a Chinese girl and she cried to long means
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are humum poso? Because every Indian. That all they can
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think is, you know, snatchtive against her. Nobody think they
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are nobody think nobody things, Nobody things. He's a pastor,
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he's a professional nobody. After that, I got very upset.
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Ready I see any young Chinese go fall down. I
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just pray me, Lord, help her, please, you do it yourself.
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You be kind to her. This is how we become racist. La.
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We are not kind to people. We're only kind to
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our kind. Ouch. But the antiser, Auntie's okay, here, auntieasy.
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They're slow, they cannot long, very fasten reaction slow. So
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I come ready. First thing, I say, I'm pastor, I'm pastor.
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The thing I'm plaster. There is or can speaking and tease.
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They don't know what is pasta, So I say, bou
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box moves, box moves. They also never heard before, some
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of them, you know, they had never heard what is
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BOXU moves? Ever is OK? You can speak or can
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means must be a good guy like h yours no
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speach andese mess a good guy. So they let me
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kerreyla even not the thing I carry and run off.
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But God had to deal with me. Now, I help
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the young Chinese girls as well, but limited life. You know,
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I only do it when my wife is around, you know,
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and tire change me. You know, need macho massa massa one.
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I got help the little little thing fall down on
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all you get up yourself round, Well you're young, you
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just get up yourself. Do you know what I'm saying? Saying?
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Unless you fall from first floors, I can flow then yeah,
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but I still need to learn to be kind more
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and more, just like all of us here, kind in
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the office, kind in school, college. But I'm very kind
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to work us. When I see Indonesian Bangladeshi, uhh, I,
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my heart goes out for them. I love children seriously,
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you can have. I know I brought him next to me.
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My eyes will be on the child. You know what
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I'm saying, I'm not bothered about I'm diplomatically not correct
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for me. The vvi ips are these little ones. That's
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that's how my heart works, That's how my attention goes
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because I want them to know I'm not too big
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that they cannot approach me. Because my Jesus was like that.
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Because sometimes we think we are so big, we only
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talk to the big people. These little ones who wants
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to get a high five from you. I want to
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say hello to you. You know, in my church's there's
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a culture. Every Sunday after I preach, there's a long
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line of kids who come to give me a hub
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because my church knows. That's my greatest reward after a
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hard day's work. Because my church is ninety nine percent Chinese.
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You know, all these kids, none of them call me pastor,
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they call me uncle. They will give me a hawk.
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Some will give me a kiss with mouth so dirty
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because they're coming from crush. They eat what I don't
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know what the teachers gave. They come and give me
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chocolate here, you know, rad strawberry here, you know, all
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kinds of things. But that's my greatest joy. You know,
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the whole video. The only thing I caught from Osaka
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was Ray. If I'm traveling to Osaka is because of
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a girl. I have to be kind to Michelle and Benji,
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but it's Ray. Let's be kind anyway. Next a right.
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If you are successful, you will win some false friends
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and some true enemies. But my father told me the
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way you defeat the naysay is the people who want
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to see you fall is when you get up. That's
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what my father taught me. That's why from young I
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never give up, no matter what it is, I will
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stick to it until I succeed. Because my dad taught
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me that. Because my dad had nothing. He ran out
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of his house when he was ten because his father
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married a second wife after his mother died. My grandma
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died and he married another one and he didn't want
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to stay in the house. Ten years old, he ran out.
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This is one hundred years ago. When you know one
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hundred years ago, ten years old, you run out. Uh,
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it's not easy. But you know who his friends was, Lobunsiu, Lobunsu.
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I think some of you would know my dad's good
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friend was lowbun To you, Selbunzu likes to mix with
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Indians for some reason. I'm not sure why, Okay, And
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so my dad was one of his friends. So my
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dad made it in business ten years old. So he's
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a self made man. He knows what is heart life,
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and so he taught me this. He taught all his sons,
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four sons. All of us are taught to continue going
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until we succeed. Surrender is never a word that we like.
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We're thought light that way. But that's what the Word
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of God also teaches us. We still go the extra mile.
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We don't give up easily. We succeed. It's not wrong
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to be successful. You see Chinese people, they are thought
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to succeed one but the new generation, I don't know.
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I'm sorry. I have to tell you the truth because
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I grew up with the older generation, the fathers, and
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don't give They got money, but they won't give anything
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to their sons on until the last days. Am I right, sister?
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That is Chinese? Two day's Chinese? Eh, very different because
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you forgot your ancestry. Really, you forgot that you came
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to survive. You forgot that you your ancestors had to
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row a boat across the ocean to get here. You
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now all Asia. But maybe you don't fly Asias. Well,
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you fly Qatar Live Star in the air. I'm sorry,
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I'm very diregon because my family is all Chinese. We
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have a lot of Chinese in my family, so you
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cannot bluff me. You can bluff Chinese fellow, you cannot
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fly an Indian fellow who knows Chinese. So I want
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to tell you the truth. I think we have to remember.
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I think I'm also speaking to our Indian brothers and sisters.
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We all came to survive in this country. We work hard,
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but we have come to a place where we are
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not training our children how to survive. That's my greatest fear,
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because we need to learn how to survive. The days
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and times that we're living in is no longer from
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head notes. We need to learn how to So I
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raise your children. Teach your children how to survive, how
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to succeed. Don't pemper your child. M h. If you
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look at me, she like Albert, she go back you
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going to teach you. Don't pemper me. Teach me to
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survive a man. I raised my only daughter, only child
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to survive, and so it is important for us parents
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to constantly know what God wants us to do for
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our children. Next one, if your honors and frank people
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may cheat you. But listen, friends, what is dancer? Because
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you're doing it unto the Lord. But I tell you
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this one. Malaysians don't do well because we Malaysians are
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be very nice people. Malaysian very nice people. Know she
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honestly be a very nice people. We don't speak as
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it is. If you have worked with Germans, if you
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have worked with Dutch. They tell you straight to your face.
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How many of you work in uh uh non Malaysian
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companies that deal with the Westerners? Can I see your hand?
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Do they tell you straight to your face? Yeah, but
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they're still your friends. Work is work? Is it? You
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go into a bot meeting, they tell you off straight.
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Then after they come out, Hey, my friend, come let's
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go for beer. There are there bowiations, cann run cations.
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Everything must go around the bush. If you tell anything straight,
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they change company.
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Right, So we take that in the church as all
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pastors all don't tell the truth.
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They say it with love. They call it love tactful.
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Let me show you how tactful Jesus was. You brood
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of wipers, you whitewashed tombstone. These are the words that
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you use, you hipocrites are very tachful. Law in Tamil,
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there's a word that I always heard. My mother is
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calling the four sons. My father won't my mother. It's
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called mundum. Any time moves you don't know ah paa
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worse than me, you'll know ah okay, you know brother
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yea God save you. Rivkata Munda means no brains, no hate.
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That means you double stupid, no head and no brain,
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double stupid. You know, last time in school they have
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a song border border do a khalib. You know dua
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kalib means border border. Under said, no, that was a
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song bor border khalib. Yeah, it's mathematics, La brother border
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border do a khali.
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Bry and the Indians said Riva Cutter Mundham shorter, no hate,
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no brains, sorry, no brains and no hate.
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That means no hope. She was very honest. My mom
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was very honest. When we're wrong, she gave it to us.
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My dad he doesn't want to hurt the children's feelings.
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He's always telling stories. Discipline time with my dad was
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one hour story until I have to say, Dad, I
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get it more effectively are She will tell story on stealing.
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He will tell tota until I, oh God, I'm not
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going to steal for the rest of my life because
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I'm not going to go through another lecture on stealing.
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My mother will wake the hell out of us, and
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then after working still call us rugata Mundham, which is
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not fair, you know, but she did. You know, raising
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four sons is not easy. She did a great job.
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She did a great job. My dad too in his
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own way. How many if you have a dad like mine,
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tell story, tell me about it. He put us on
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the right path by telling stories. But Jesus was very honest.
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Where is straight? And I think we as follow us not?
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I think I believe we all the followers of Jesus Christ.
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We need to do things with love, not just simply
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go and score people. But honesty must be there. And
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when you're pastor tell you things honestly, it is for
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our own good. Amen. When parents tell us honestly, it's
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from our own good. And pastors and leaders are placed
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in churches, spiritual heads and spiritual parents to guide us
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with the word and to speak the truth. If we're
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going to be missional, we got to speak the truth.
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How to tell the gospel without speaking the truth? How
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are you going to bellow hello, Kenna? It will be false.
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Teaching truth is truth. The truth will set you free.
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So in the church we have to have that mindset.
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The truth sets us free. And I want to pray
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that all fear of men be broken over the leadership
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of the church in Jesus' name, because sometimes we are
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so scared. You say I passed us. Pastors pastor people
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already very hard. Pastor pastors is a nightmare, and I
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have to tell them the truth. And Baptist pastes they're
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all older than me. That's why I got no hair.
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They got white hair, I got no hair. I have
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to tell them the truth. That yo see the face
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when he's Canady. But sometimes I have to tell them
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the truth. Friends, what is Jesus asking you to do
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as unto the Lord? Everything that you do, you do
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it as unto the Lord. Next, what you spend years building,
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someone can destroy over night. What's the answer? You don't
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still stop building because the Bible says you are a builder.
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Bible says you are a builder. In Proverbs it says
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women are builders. Women women in the house, can you
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put up your right hand? Women are builders? But aha,
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there's a catch there. Wise, women build by the foolish
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woman with the same hands. That's down. The strength of
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a family is a woman. The strength of the church
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is also woman by if a church split can also
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be because of uh women? Oops, I forgot passentra as
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woman here? Hello, are you here with me? I'm just
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saying what's in the Bible. I'm not a male chauvinistic person.
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Women are important, so are men. We are all designed
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created to build. So when a man has a woman
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who is a builder, you go very far. Are you here?
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All those who are not married, put up your hand.
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All those men who are not married, put up your hand.
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All those men who don't have girlfriend, put up your hand. Okay,
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parents are looking. Listen. When you pray for a wife,
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pray for a woman who knows how to build. I
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am where I am because of Jesus and a woman
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who knows how to build. Do you understand what I'm saying.
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It's very important. You mess up in that you're not
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going anywhere. Your life is going to be in circles.
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So even if people destroy what you build, you build anyway.
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Some of you. God is speaking to you today. You
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stop building. You say I don't serve in the church
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anymore because I got hurt in the children ministry. You
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hurt my wife sharing yesterday. Man, that woman has been
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hurt like nobody's business. I'm not sure why is she
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married to me anymore? But she kept on going. I
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admire my wife. It's harder to be a pastor's wife
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than being a pastor because they're not even paid, say
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Baptist Church very good because Baptist Church believe buy one
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one free. If you get the pastor, the wife must
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do everything for free, and then complains the more mannable oligabla,
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But she doesn't stop building. I pray and encourage you.
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You don't stop building, not only ministry, but you build
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people just because someone hurt you. You don't stop building people.
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I have been hurt by my very own disciples, but
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I do not stop there. Next. If you find serenity
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and happiness, they may be jealous. Answer be happy anyway.
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I want you to know your Father in Heaven wants
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you to be happy. Any parents don't like their children
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to be happy. You know, we work, We give our
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best to our children so that they can be happy.
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And I want to tell you this, God wants you
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to be happy. I had this idea, what I pastor,
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I cannot cannot what's the word cannot spend on myself?
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I cannot. You know I have to be You know
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I must look poor. That's a lie of the devil.
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Today I leave it. Man, I'm one of the happiest
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guy you can find. You understand I'm saying God has
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blessed me so much. So much. You know, what are
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my hobbies? I dive not from building on in the sea,
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you know. I mean these are things that most pastors
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got no time to do. But I will create some
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time while I'm ministering. Two when I'm in Sabah, I
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will always go for my short dives while I'm preaching.
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So I love diving. I find peace when I go underneath.
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The other thing is I like paragliding. In Nepoll, I
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do paragliding. Okay. The other thing that I love doing
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is bike touring. So for a long time I would
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not buy a bike because I worried. My church members
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say this past are very rich. So I said. When
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I was turned fifty five, I said, I'm going to
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enjoy myself a bit before somebody else pushed me on
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two wheels. I better ride four wheels. Yeah, I better
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use the two wheels. Probably, I got my touring bike
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and went for a tour for a whole week. The
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only thing is my wife doesn't want to join me.
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You know, I told her, no anti dress. You have
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to wear tid leather pants and sit behind me and
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hug me, you know, with jacket with chains everywhere. You know,
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So you say you will be a bachelor for a while,
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go ride yourself. So I go for my rights. But
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I tell you what is amazing. All my life I
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always wanted to fly a plane. Last year one of
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the American friends who came for a mission trip, who
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was a captain of AA American Airlines who runs a
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flying school with his own planes, found out that I
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like it. He's from faith Will, Arkansas. So I go
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to us every year and he has design in a
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cause to train me how to fly for free. Who
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tells you that your God, your father wants you to
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be set all the time. I love my father. I
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love my father's work because he has never ever let
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me down, even the small I've never prayed, you know,
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not once I've prayed. Lord, please help me to learn
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how to fly. You see after you hear everything I
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shared about my happiness. I'm an outdoor guy. You understand
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saying and everything that I wanted to do. God put
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people to do that next life. The good you do
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today people will often forget answer. Biba says. The good
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we do is there what light right make two chapter five,
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verse thirteen, two sixteen. And by the good works that
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we do, people will praise God. Don't stop doing good.
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I'm so happy your send the children to go and
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give up to the workers. You start them young to
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do good. Next, give the world the best you have,
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and it may never be enough. You give your best.
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Some of you don't want to give any more. For Malaysia,
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Am I right? What's the poinder this country give or
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so they don't appreciate. They call us spunda tang. But
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what you know what Jesus is saying, do it as
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unto the Lord? Do it anyway? Last light you see.
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The conclusion is this in the final analysis of everything
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is never about you and the world. It is about
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you and God. Your life in Christ is about you
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and God. Whatever you do, you do it as under
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the lot which you stand with me. Difference Closians three
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twenty three to twenty four is perfectly explained by this
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poem by Mother Rasa. This woman when she wrote this,
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she was about to die. Actually she was really old.
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So when you have lived through your life and you
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look back at your life, she began to answer why
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she did what she did. You understand what I'm saying.
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And when Paul wrote to the church in Close, he
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didn't write what to do. He said, why you're doing it?
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I say this again, he said, why you're doing it.
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When you understand why you are doing what you're doing,
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you will do it anyway. When you understand why are
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you doing what you're doing, you will do it anyway.
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Why are you serfing church, Why you go out and surf,
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why you work for your company, why you love your
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spouse and your children?
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Why you need to honor your parents? Hello, listen, honoring
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your parents? You know why I'm I'm so blessed. I
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left everything and came back home when my mom was
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getting old because I wanted to be with her. She
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had dementia, she forgot who I was. I took her,
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took care of her until her last breath. My wife
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was there all the time, bathing her, changing her pampers.
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And God bless us because ten commandment says honor your
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father and mother. We do it because it's in the world,
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not because our parents are only good and need we
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take care. I want to say this to your church.
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Please take care of your parents. If you can take
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care of them, take care if you need this, because
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physically they cannot, you decend them to a home for
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better care. That's fine. But if you can take care
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of them. You know what, old people are so free,
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dying alone, dying alone. I'm speaking to some children here.
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Listen very carefully. You're one blessing in your life from God.
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Care for your parents, love them, honor them, and God
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will never never hold back from his promises. Your inheritance
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that is due to you will come to you. Amen.
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