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The 7 Churches | Pr Matthew Chang

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  1. You're listening to a message to go from acts church.

  2. We hope this message will light up your day.

  3. I prepared a message. There's actually a few messages I

  4. can get to choose from. And I'm actually been starting

  5. on a series called the Seven Churches from the Book

  6. of Revelations. But I'm not going to go on a sequence.

  7. It doesn't need to be going on sequence. But today,

  8. as I was praying God, which one should I preach on?

  9. I felt like there's a particular one that I wanted

  10. to preach on. So, you know, we pray that you

  11. know you will speak to you. Guys. Turn with me

  12. to Revelations chapter two, and I will read from verse twelve,

  13. and it's about the church in Pergamos. Okay, church in Pergamos.

  14. How many if you have learned about the seven churches

  15. in the Book of Revelations? Hands up? Oh? Okay, I

  16. get about thirty percent. Thirty percent? Okay? Cool, all right,

  17. So let's read first, Okay, Revelations chapter two, Verse twelve. Okay,

  18. it's the title here. It says the compromising Church, who

  19. today is going to be interesting. Readly, you see the

  20. word compromising will be very good? Ready, he says here

  21. verse twelve, and to the angel of the church in Pergamos.

  22. Right these things, says he who has the shark two

  23. edged sword. Okay, now just pause for a while. You

  24. will notice that for every church that uh you know,

  25. the person who is saying this in latter rauch Jesus,

  26. that every time Jesus did reveals himself to these churches,

  27. he describes or gives him a different himself a different title. Okay,

  28. uh some sometimes you know. In the Book of if

  29. you read in the earlier versus, Jesus reveals himself as

  30. the one who holds the seven stars in his right hand,

  31. to the efficiency and then the next one in Smyrna

  32. he holds. He gives himself the title the first and

  33. the last who was there and came to life. But

  34. to the Church of Pergamas, he gives himself the title okay,

  35. as what as the one who has the sharp two

  36. edged sword. Different titles to different churches, and these titles

  37. are very important. There's a title, there is an address,

  38. there is a warning, and there is also an ending,

  39. a farewell or what they call it a call to

  40. response as well. Okay, so this is how the letters

  41. will will be structured, but Jesus calls himself the ones,

  42. the one who has the shop to edged sword. Now,

  43. a lot of times when we talk about shop to

  44. edged sword, we think about cutting, cut, go to world warfare,

  45. yes to their past. Is gonna talk about spiritual warfare, Yes,

  46. it's one. But today the sharp edged sword is more

  47. about not so much about you know, hey, Jesus is

  48. coming to stay in the end means know what Jesus

  49. is talking about is the war with the world. Not

  50. in the sense is that in trying to engage in battle.

  51. But the shop to edge sword has always to do

  52. with one key thing. And what is that division? Okay,

  53. the key word is division. Turn your neighbors say division. Okay.

  54. This is one of the most important ability that God

  55. manifests through his creation to all of us. Even from

  56. the book of Genesis. Did you know that one of

  57. God's glory and his power and the foundation that God

  58. reveals and exhibits even from the Book of Genesis is

  59. the word not to speak, not just to speak, but

  60. the speaking that divides from darkness and lights the heavens

  61. and the heavens, the different heavens, from the lands and

  62. the seas. Notice or not the sun and the moon.

  63. You notice what is happening. There's always a division before

  64. there is a division nothing, there's only chaos. Without division,

  65. there is only confusion. And the same way I'm saying,

  66. if a believer is not able to know the Word

  67. of God and clearly define what we have raining in

  68. your life, it's not revelation but confusion. It's just chaos.

  69. So without division, without parting, you know, separating the land

  70. and the sea, the lights, everything, there cannot be seeds

  71. that grow from the ground. They cannot be life, animals,

  72. living things in the water, birds in the air. You

  73. see what I'm saying that there must be a found

  74. day and the foundation comes from clearly dividing with the

  75. word of God. I under saying what I'm saying. No,

  76. some of you here is how come there's no life

  77. in my life? But this is more I can preach

  78. on the next time. Okay, there must be a very

  79. clear division. So ask your neighbor right now, are you

  80. able to clearly divide things in your life? Turn to

  81. your neighbor right now, seriously, are you able to clearly

  82. divide ten divided by one? It costs so much on

  83. hundred divided by ten costs how much. Don't confuse yourself.

  84. It's very important enough to be able to clearly divide things.

  85. And so when Jesus introduces himself who has the sharp

  86. two edged sword? What he says that I can look

  87. into your life right now, and I can clearly divide

  88. and separate which is true and which is false, which

  89. is light and which is dark? And I can tell

  90. you based on how I separate, I know whether there

  91. is life in you or not. Oh, Scarier. This is

  92. how Jesus comes into your life. A lot of the

  93. last one. He says, Hey, Jesus, you come as our

  94. lord and save you, oh the one who loves us. Yes.

  95. But if he comes into your life and he reveals

  96. himself to the church as the one who has the

  97. two where's the shock two edged sword? What does he

  98. mean as the one who comes to divide? Okay? And

  99. he says, yeah, not coincidence, Let coincidentally Okay. In verse thirteen,

  100. what he says, immediately, I know your works? What is

  101. it about the vision? Okay? Division? Immediately he comes into

  102. the church, he comes into our lives. You know I

  103. know your works? Ready, that's the first thing. Division? Clear? Okay?

  104. How does God divide? Let's look at here, he says,

  105. I know your works and where you dwell, oh, where

  106. Satan's throne is. Ah, we're gonna get into the spiritual stuff. Okay.

  107. And you hold fast to my name and did not

  108. deny my faith even in the days in which Anthropase

  109. was my faithful martyr who was killed among you where

  110. Satan dwells. Now, should I pouse you for a while? Okay,

  111. Let's let me pause your a while. Okay, I think

  112. it's better that I do it lane by line now,

  113. so we see here. Jesus says that he sees their words,

  114. but not only there, but where they're dwelling. Now, it

  115. gives a lot of revelations in it. It's not just

  116. about what Hey, what have you done? It's not just

  117. about Jesus. When he looks and considers your situation, he

  118. then't just look at your fruit. He also consider your circumstances.

  119. You're surrounding as well. Makes a lot of difference. Okay.

  120. A tree is determined a lot by the surrounding. Of course,

  121. you wander the roots to go deep to the fruits

  122. to bear as much as well. But if a tree,

  123. if it's not planted with good water saucers. If it's

  124. planted with a lot of thorns and a lot of animals,

  125. there is always pecking away at the tree. It is

  126. not in a fertile environment. Now the church in Programas,

  127. it's in a unique situation. Okay. Now this is a

  128. good time to introduce the slides. Okay. Can I have

  129. the slight number one? Okay? The church and Programma or programs, Okay,

  130. is a powerful place. When I say powerful, uh, it

  131. has First of all, it's known to be a place,

  132. you know, have nice very nice heels. You know, if

  133. you go to like places in what they call it

  134. in Italy and the rolling hills you know, Olive what

  135. they call it, farms and orchards. You know, program is

  136. a beautiful place. Okay, it's in Turkey, very beautiful place. Uh.

  137. And and you will notice, first of all, a lot

  138. of the this is the the what they call it,

  139. the ruins that they have to stay on this one.

  140. So on the top of these hills are always the

  141. most important structures. And the most important structures are not condos, okay.

  142. The most important structures are the places of government, the

  143. places of worship, and the places of what they call

  144. it congregation for any events. For example, one they have

  145. the theater okay, and they also have the places of

  146. worship now in during the Roman rule okay, and they

  147. are at the pick of their civilization. They have two

  148. religion k two main religion okay. One is their pagan worship. Okay,

  149. officially they have their pagan worship, but the pagan worship

  150. is also divided by nationalities. They have the official the

  151. Roman gods and also they have the also believe in

  152. the Greek gods, but they are actually similar. Okay, I'm

  153. not going to go into that. The Roman gods and

  154. the Greek gods are similar, just have different names. Okay.

  155. So Athena and Diana they're all almost the same, and

  156. Mars and stuff like that. Okay, So I'm not going

  157. to go into that too much time. Okay. That's the

  158. first for the pagan worship. The second worship they hand

  159. it is what they call the imperial cult heard before

  160. it was the imperial cult. The imperial count is another

  161. religion introduced during the Roman time. There is about worshiping

  162. the emperor, so the emperor the king became a religion

  163. and most of the time we have a king. But

  164. it's one thing to have a king and another to

  165. think of the king as a religion. It's a different thing,

  166. you know, very different thing, you know, very very You

  167. can say that, hey, this guy is a dad, or

  168. this guy is a dansy, this guy is a prime minister,

  169. but it's another to think of him as a god.

  170. And because not just to think, but to be officially

  171. recognized in the law as a god or got such

  172. a thing in Malaysia by lawyer, recognized as a god?

  173. You know, got such a thing. You're finding incredible, You're like,

  174. what in the world. But yes, there is this thing

  175. called the imperial cult. And so apart from just pagan worship,

  176. there is also a temple dedicated to the Roman Caesars. Okay,

  177. they will have the human Statute there and you're supposed

  178. to worship and they'll give you an example. Okay, not

  179. all places will have this imperial cult, but the newer cities, okay,

  180. like say, for example, if they plan a new city

  181. is say, for example, like Smirna, which is the second church,

  182. like Jaya, like a Cyberjay. You know, cyberg are unique

  183. because they are very young, is in it. They're not

  184. all like Malacca like Pinang, because they are young, they

  185. are planned by the government, okay, And so a lot

  186. of the culture is set by the government, read by history.

  187. So you can plan the town, you can do everything,

  188. you can organize it. It looks nicer, the parts are nicer.

  189. The culture is organized by them. So the younger cities

  190. will actually have more influence from the government as actually

  191. by the king. So the imperial cut worship would be

  192. stronger than the pagan worship. So and it's so important

  193. to do this, all this imperial cut worship that before

  194. you go to the marketplace to buy things, you want

  195. to go and borrow money, you want to buy a house,

  196. you want to do anything. It's all ending within this

  197. market square. And at that market square, say, for example,

  198. there is an entrance before you go in, and there

  199. will be gods, Roman centurions standing in front there. You're

  200. supposed to gut there. And then there will be a

  201. ball sort of like a two altars okay, two altars

  202. of balls okay, One will be in front of you

  203. will be chuckle, okay, they're making barbecue chicken. You know,

  204. sat run dawn, you know whatever it is there or

  205. just kidding, Okay, but on the other balls powder okay,

  206. but we call it incense. Okay, So before you go

  207. in before the soldiers, you're supposed to take a pinch

  208. of the incense and you do a salt bay mano kidding, Okay,

  209. you take a pinch, and then you're supposed to sprinkle it.

  210. You would, and then you would say Caesar is God.

  211. And then only you show your good will and your

  212. what they call it, your allegiance to the Emperor, then

  213. only you can enter into the market place. That was

  214. how they're actually where they call it implemented all these

  215. things as well. Interesting, So that's how. Because so if

  216. you are not a Roman Roman, if you are not

  217. a Jew, neither one. And because Jews are actually exempted

  218. from doing that, you know, so interesting of all the

  219. people of different nations, are Jews were the only one

  220. exempted from me. But i'll talk about it except exempted.

  221. But if you're not a Roman, if you're not a Jew,

  222. but if you're a Christian, the Christian is like you're stuck.

  223. You know, you're not a Roman, You're not You're you're this,

  224. You're abandoned by your own people. You're stuck. It's like

  225. if I send you to Australia. You're neither Australian, You're

  226. not a Malaysian. You have not embassy, you go no

  227. passport because of Malaysian government won't recognize your passport as well.

  228. Who are you? Then? You are stuck, really stuck. You

  229. know you have an illegal You can't buy, you can't

  230. do anything. You can't even exchange currency. So how would

  231. you live as a Christian at time? Very challenging, isn't

  232. it extremely extremely challenging? Okay, anyways, here's a sound of

  233. things that actually go through so in programam Okay, there

  234. are temples, but not only but Pergrama is not just

  235. only famous for their places of worship. They are famous

  236. for this one, this very big altar of Zeus. You

  237. know you've got the third big chuldren and the slight

  238. very big, oh so big. This is the biggest barbecue pit. Okay,

  239. So you can go to the fourth side next one.

  240. If you see this is at the heel topics are

  241. all the places of worship, all the temple. This is

  242. sort of like a replica architect. Okay. If you look

  243. at the bottom there and you will see the altar

  244. there Okay, and within the court yard. There there is

  245. a big what they call it platform, and on that

  246. platform it's where they offer meat, offer the sacrifices. You

  247. must understand now at that time, man, there is no

  248. jaya grocer, no tesco. Okay. Most of the meat they

  249. are called, they are farmed, they are raised, They are

  250. brought up to the heel first to be offered a sacrifice, burned.

  251. Then only from the hill that are brought down and

  252. dispersed the marketplaces to be sold. Okay, Now talk about

  253. either foods eaten? Now are we able to eat foods

  254. offered to idols? Next? Lesson? Okay, next time I'll talk

  255. about it. How we're going to talk about it because

  256. it's not so straightforward, but it's also very had to

  257. clearly divide how we But when is it eating? Is it?

  258. Is it wrong? When is it when you come down?

  259. Is it wrong? Next time we go ahead on time. Okay,

  260. We've got other things to cover, Okay, But there was

  261. what the Christians were actually dealing with. Okay. So the

  262. myth almost when you buy will come down from the

  263. altar at the ground floor at the marketplaces. Okay, very

  264. very challenging for them to also observe as well. Okay,

  265. but that place where the certainly I cannot remember what

  266. is it called ready or the altar of Zeus? Okay,

  267. it's what they call the seed of Satan. This is

  268. most likely what they referred to when you say where

  269. Satan's thrown is, Okay, and it says there. There was

  270. also a martyr Antipasse. You can go and research on

  271. Google or Wikipedia as well if you find. If you

  272. think that the Bible is in a myth, you will

  273. know that this guy Antipus is a real person. He

  274. was martyred and the way that he died was extremely cruel,

  275. which I will not disclose here because yeah, it's very cruel.

  276. I don't want to obey censored the body. Okay, you

  277. can go and check it out yourself. Okay, who was

  278. killed among you where Satan dwells? But then see the

  279. division happens. It starts there. From verse twelve all the

  280. way to verse thirteen, Jesus commends them and acknowledges what

  281. he sees. There's one part. I see what you do,

  282. and I see the martyrs. I see your challenges where

  283. you are. But then from verse fourteen onwards, Jesus clearly

  284. divines but I also see another side of you. What

  285. is the other side, Jesus say said in verse fourteen.

  286. But I have a few things here against you, because

  287. you have there those who hold the doctrine of Baleen,

  288. who taught Ballach to put a stumbling block before the

  289. children of Israel. What did they do, okay? To eat things,

  290. sacrifice to idols, and to commit sexual immorality. Ah. Thus

  291. you also have those who hold the doctrine of the

  292. nicol license, which thing I hate. Okay. So now a

  293. lot of times we think that God doesn't divide. Hey, God,

  294. I serve in church. I must be good. Ready, I

  295. tell you serve in church as God will still divide

  296. things in your life. Yes, I see you serving in church.

  297. But at home, who are you? What you do sound scarier?

  298. Remember this, God divides, young people. Remember this on your own.

  299. This is who you are. It's not what you are

  300. in church. God divides. You give money to times good.

  301. Even then, God will still divide. He will acknowledge what

  302. you give, but he will also acknowledge what you do

  303. not do. In the dark. God clearly divide. He's a

  304. shark two edged sword, very very important. It's a warning

  305. to all of us to be always be vigilant as well.

  306. Away you see there. First of all, let me talk

  307. about this doctrine of Baylem, which which is where I

  308. want to emphasize the most about how many of you

  309. know the story of Bailm. How may you have heard

  310. of Bailm before? Yes, most of you heard of Baylem before. Now,

  311. I won't go too much on it, but I just

  312. want to give you the the concept and I'm going

  313. to expand from there and then I will stop from there. Okay.

  314. Because of time, Okay, Bayleem was a prophet, very powerful guy.

  315. Not all prophets have a booker. Okay, not all prophets

  316. have a booker. Baylorm didn't have a book. You don't

  317. read the book of Baylorm meanside here Okay, there are profits,

  318. there are people who operate with that gifting. That is

  319. very clearly recognized. And he existed during the time of

  320. Moses as well. Okay, in time of Moses when Moses

  321. and I'll let the people out of Egypt into the wilderness. Okay.

  322. They also encountered many different enemies and people dreaded them.

  323. Of course, they were numerous. And also they used to

  324. have a dread because everywhere they went they were basically overwhelmed.

  325. And the word there was used to describe the Israelites

  326. were like, you know, flocks of cows that will lick

  327. up the grass. There was the word you know, imagine

  328. like you know, half like a million or two million

  329. cows coming to your gattaca, moaning through and just lick

  330. up everything like New Zealand cows. You know, you know

  331. how you might not understanding that. You think cows are

  332. just like dogs are just walking walking. Tell you when

  333. the cows come to your lander when they chew, are

  334. they don't leave your land and your cross the same way?

  335. And want to know you know how they chew? They

  336. just chew it poor and pull. Your land doesn't look

  337. the same anymore one, you know, And I don't know

  338. where you want as any put one, put one, put one,

  339. put one. You know you said it gave me right.

  340. It's a mass one and all you know what I'm saying,

  341. it's a mass one. And you don't like it. You

  342. all you're like, why about? And these are talking about

  343. millions of them? You know, no cows, okay, but we're

  344. talking about the Israelites. But they look at them like that.

  345. It's people of so much of them. And one of

  346. the kings that didn't really dread the Israelites was this

  347. guy called Ballack, And so he heard of this guy

  348. called Balem, who was to say, Hey, I'm not going

  349. to be able to defeat them in war, but I

  350. know that there is some force, there's a God there

  351. is giving them favor. Maybe I can get this guy

  352. who is renowned for his words to go and curse

  353. this Israelian. So what he do He hired Baalem, and

  354. he knew and he hired Balem knowing that Balem had

  355. a weakness. And what was Balem's weakness that even the

  356. world knows, you know, a weakness so clear, so strong

  357. that even the world knows. He's loved for money. He's

  358. loved for money. Okay, go and read it. Okay, go

  359. and read it. I'm not go through to my love

  360. of money. But just to keeping sure, God appeared to

  361. Baylim in the visions, say that you shall not curse

  362. the Israelites because they are my people. Okay, so cut

  363. the shory store they see even a story about him

  364. and the donkey and stuff like that. I'm not going

  365. to go through in there. But three times I think

  366. three of four times, Okay, I'm just checked the numbers,

  367. and number twenty five to thirty one, I think three

  368. the four times Baylim was asked to curse, but Ba said,

  369. I cannot even you give me so much money or so,

  370. I cannot do it because God told me I can't.

  371. My life is more important. But after number thirty one

  372. you start to read they're suddenly out of nowhere. The

  373. children Israel started to get into a lot of trouble,

  374. started to you know, start, and then after that, like

  375. I think about twenty four thousand of them was judged

  376. and died because they were bringing so much idolatry, you know, uh,

  377. you know, into the into the nation and giving them

  378. problems curses so much so, and the root came from

  379. their assimilation and their marriage with the foreign women, and

  380. the foreign women brought in all the foreign gods into

  381. their land, which God prohibited. And these foreign gods are

  382. not just any gods, okay, these are bales, you know,

  383. but ours terrible, terrible worship and practice children sacrifice, humans sacrifice,

  384. all sorts of witchcraft and nonsense. They actually brought in

  385. as well, very very very powerful very very evil stuff

  386. they've actually brought in as well. Okay, So when if

  387. you come back to Revelations chapter two, what does it

  388. mean here? In verse fourteen, it says that who talk

  389. because you have you have those who hold the doctrine

  390. of Baalim, who taught Baala to put a stumbling block

  391. before the children of Israel. What does it mean to

  392. post the main block? What is the thing that we

  393. want to learn? We see, but Balem couldn't curse the

  394. Israelites because God wanted him not to. Cannot. I don't

  395. have the authority to do it. Yeah, I mean right,

  396. But he loved money so much. He was revealed later

  397. that it was Baalim doing. I can't curse you, but

  398. I can get the Israelites to curse themselves. Okay, So

  399. I wonder maybe give a statement here and also ask

  400. a question at the same time. Some of you, Hey,

  401. the devil is is Is the devil out there to

  402. curse me? He can't. There are things that the devil

  403. can't do without the permission of God. Don't know, you know,

  404. to see what I'm saying. But a lot of times

  405. the devil will put you in the position that you

  406. curse yourselves. Turn to your neighbor and say this, don't

  407. curse yourselves today the lesson will be, don't curse yourselves.

  408. How why this is an important concept and a how

  409. do we, as you know, in the times of Moses

  410. as believers, as people say from Egypt, get don't get

  411. into a position of cursing ourselves. And now as we

  412. move forward and this time we're imperm how are the

  413. Christians save by God but also in the position of

  414. endangering themselves cursing themselves. It's not always the enemy's fault

  415. in a way, it is, but we are the ones

  416. cursing ourselves. You all you know what I'm saying. What

  417. are we doing to curse ourselves? So the cursing comes,

  418. you disobey God and you bring a curse. But how

  419. exactly did you disobey God? How is it that you

  420. are actually tempted? How are the peoples in actually programam

  421. actually tempted? With the same teaching? And how does it

  422. apply to our lives as Christians? Right now? You see

  423. the struggle of the Christians in program are the same

  424. as us. Why is the struggle the Christians are tired?

  425. It's not lack of doctriner. They are tired. They are tired.

  426. Why is tiring you? Why they're tired because tired of

  427. always being different from the world. It's tiring one and all.

  428. After a while, I was like, oh, I can't do this,

  429. I can't do that. Oh I can't do this, I

  430. can't do that. Everything can. Also I was like, oh,

  431. I feel like I'm missing out or tiring one and all.

  432. After a while, it gets like, is this the abundant

  433. life that we are called to? Every time I have

  434. to separate ourselves, divide, divide, divide after one gets very

  435. tiring one and all. It's like, oh, my dad told

  436. me counters the church can or they justid? The Bible

  437. said why? And so when you're tired, the world will

  438. start to introduce the teaching of bailim and that what

  439. they call the Nico Latans. And what did they introduce? Syncretism? Okay,

  440. turn your neighbor says syncretism. You know why syncretism. Syncretism

  441. comes from the word synchronizing, synchronizing with the world. It's

  442. like you tired to use your own data and you

  443. decide to go on the world's WiFi. Can I have

  444. a WiFi password? Please, I need to sink with the world,

  445. you know, tiring in all expensive, in a costlyier to

  446. do your own way, you know. But you want to

  447. sync with the syncretism. It's taking God's truth and synchronizing

  448. with the world's convenience, the gospel plus convenience. Hey, doing

  449. all this adulters this give me right? So balon be

  450. the same thing. Hey, Moses saved you. Is it safe

  451. you save your regular These women, they are no harm

  452. to you. They are also daughters. Can give you many

  453. children children. At that time I look at as resources are.

  454. Now this we look at children are as expenses are

  455. at that time. My children are our resources. Are more

  456. children good? Can take care of my can tell my

  457. chicken and my cow and my lending know they are

  458. they are they got go arrow I one and all

  459. Now this way look at them as negative arrow I

  460. won and no more children. That's why they have like

  461. ten eleven, twelve children and one are like, oh, this

  462. is labor force. Free labor. Don't to go a platform

  463. work permit money, okay, free labor force more children, better

  464. get more. We've got the time. They can marry even better. Still,

  465. this is a teaching in the world. Hey, take from

  466. the local one and take from overseason one or so

  467. sinkling with the woman, practice the thing after with my Hey,

  468. eat your food or solar God's Hey, how can they

  469. get to enjoy more one? How can they can do

  470. more one? Hey every Sunday? You still need to do that? Hey, well,

  471. you know certain foods you cannot eat on. Hey. When

  472. you mile if, then you start to realize that there

  473. are a lot of things you miss out because you've

  474. been dividing so much. No no, yes, yes, no no.

  475. Then they tell you why you've been missing up and

  476. you start to get even more tired. And now after

  477. they you get fed up, and then you start to like,

  478. let's merch. Let's merch with the world. So today I

  479. want to talk about how we are merging with the world,

  480. especially I'm not talking about the world. I'm just talking

  481. about us as a church, how we as Christians have

  482. merged with the world, have lost our key core beliefs

  483. as a Christian nowadays, and then merged with what the

  484. world as, especially in terms of our feelings and the

  485. convenience that we want. How much time do I have? Okay, good,

  486. let mean, let's do this. Everybody Okay, let's turn to

  487. that slight that table. Okay, so not this one, the

  488. next one, this one, don't have time for cover. Talk

  489. about it next time. Okay. So I call the first

  490. groom it's like you're in a relationship. I call it

  491. the dating phase. It's a Christian You start on the date.

  492. You know it's a new couple. You start to date. Okay,

  493. but then if I have a daughter, I would don't

  494. want to hear them. My daughter is dating a guy

  495. for ten years and never get married. If a guy

  496. wants to walk from my daughter and you know it's

  497. serious about relationship, I want to know your business plan.

  498. You plan to marry my daughter? You don't plan to

  499. marry my daughter? Don't even think about dating? All the

  500. fathers and mothers agree the rest? No Ah, Hey please, hey,

  501. well the fathers and mothers are what is happening? Okay? Yeah,

  502. you're okay? The guy to day your daughter for ten

  503. twenty years okay, thirty years, not marrier, no commitment? Okaya,

  504. your daughter for forty fifty years old? You don't even

  505. get a weddinger. Okay? No O care right, ladies? Are

  506. you okay with there? Ah? Guy date you for twenty

  507. thirty forty years No okay, okay, or so talk about anything,

  508. anything except talk about marriage. Canna, oh God like that one.

  509. I will say bye bye, no, no, no, no thank you.

  510. I will tell my daughter to forget about him. Makes

  511. sense or not. That's the dating phase. But you must

  512. always have what settling down, A maturity, the fullness of

  513. what marriage is supposed to be, a marriage, not just

  514. getting married, but a successful, a blessed marriage as well. Okay.

  515. The first phase, it's what we call dating, where you

  516. are very romance driven, entertainment driven. Hey, dating either when

  517. you first fell in love before you married, of course

  518. exciting you know, hey, you know I just found like

  519. he likes me, oh she likes me? The talk and

  520. the fields like wow, so nice? What can I do?

  521. You don't even thinking about having you do? You know?

  522. Maybe some of you do, but you know I think,

  523. yeah about Hey, what movies should we go? Hey? You know?

  524. What food should we eat? You know, all the things

  525. that you want to do as a young couple. Okay,

  526. But and your worship begins like whoa I love these music?

  527. Yeah?

  528. Ex church man, awesome? You know when we have a

  529. full band? So nice, you know, what the song so good?

  530. Well you're singing Bethel song, Heales song song, wow, whatever

  531. song you're saying, Ah, thank you so much, you know,

  532. really connecting with me in my own home as soon

  533. when I play the music. Whoa, that's my favorite song. Oh, listen,

  534. so so nice. When they need to grow older radio

  535. and then church becomes smaller and white the younger, and

  536. then all the talent has let has left you on

  537. go and in other places ready okay because God demand.

  538. Then you're like, hey, I don't know why that the

  539. worship here in the church are different radio. I come here,

  540. I cannot worship her see the same song, maybe play

  541. a bit differently. Maybe you don't have the skill that

  542. like what you like. Then you're like, ah, I don't

  543. feel like worship the word that is being thrown around

  544. most of the time. I don't feel like worship. So

  545. hard to worship her. I tell you the word heard

  546. and don't feel that worship doesn't exist in the Bible. Never.

  547. Once you know no such thing, wan to know no

  548. such thing doesn't mean it appears in your mind, means

  549. it's bigger. I'm sorry to break it to your world.

  550. Doesn't mean it appears in your mind or you feel

  551. like it means it's b bigle one to know. It's

  552. never appeared once in the Bible. Tell me once you

  553. feel like worship. When I mean this, I'm not I'm

  554. not borrowing people, I'm not working people. I'm telling you

  555. from my own learning experience where I have to grow

  556. as a believer. So I realized that also when I

  557. went to missions in I tell you, no guitar, no lyrics,

  558. open air worship children, ten o'clock in the morning, under

  559. the hot sun. No only lyrics. They sing and the

  560. children cry. And I'm talking about your children. I'm talking

  561. about fourteen fifteen year old teens.

  562. You know.

  563. Ah, we do house visitation, fifteen houses in the morning,

  564. just fifteen houses. Every house we went to, we sing

  565. the same song, no guitar. Everybody memorized the lyrics. They

  566. sing like, oh, okay, you got praying, Okay, come all right,

  567. before we gotta pray for you, we're gonna start worsh

  568. there's the shows for five adults are singing like, oh,

  569. I tell you such a now we don't see it. No,

  570. it's just four five fifty year old season. Oh come,

  571. there's single. There's the show. I was, Yeah, come down,

  572. let's prey anty. Don't need to think about which song

  573. should we pick? Which you want talking to my heart?

  574. Oh this one connect to me. No, all such thing one.

  575. People they worship because it's right to invite God's presence.

  576. You get me, right to make you feel good? Where

  577. God such thing one? People? No such thing one and

  578. not your worship, because it's right to invite God into

  579. the midst into your lives. That's what worship is about.

  580. So when worship initially starts to be fleshy and emotional

  581. cicis we grow, you start to divide what worship really is.

  582. It's about reverence. Reverence replaces everything, your comfort, your convenience,

  583. your feelings, your past, and your preferences. Goza, it's about reverence.

  584. You get me right. If you are going to see

  585. the king or the Prime minister, doesn't matter what you

  586. dress before in the past twenty years. You have to

  587. dress right before to see the Prime minister the king

  588. as well, doesn't mental your passion. Now you sure the

  589. way you ought to with reverence, Worship is the same

  590. way as well. Reverence And I tell you one of

  591. the most reverent thing you can do is to raise

  592. your hands nowadays, and when I go to places, I

  593. touch people. When you worship, please raise your hands, please

  594. offer and don't put it down. Don't be holding a coffee.

  595. Don't do that. Imagine if you have a five year

  596. old son and talking to you, when you're talking seriously

  597. and holding a cup of coffee or maybe something. You know,

  598. the kid is this distraction? You know it, you know it.

  599. You go to interview, do you do that? Don't do that.

  600. The interview will not take you seriously. You want so

  601. your body is what representing what is going on in

  602. your mind as well. Reverence people, reverence and it's about

  603. God centered not about you anymore. You can remember. This

  604. is the rest sensitive. So you have children, I have

  605. children as well worship. I will tell my children I

  606. don't care, it's about God. You're busy or not busy.

  607. You want a tord Trampton. It's about God. You have

  608. to teach them that not gonna show reverence to God.

  609. It's very hard to show reference in your own house.

  610. Wanting know your children nyficult, and that's one of the

  611. biggest battle we have with a parent. It's very hard

  612. to teach the children reverence in it to listen, but

  613. we have to. Okay, worship is not about songs, but

  614. it's about truth. I won't hear. Did you know that

  615. the hymns are when we're written? Now, what were they

  616. written in Himsa? How come for one? Stanzas second stanza?

  617. Third got four versus one? And you know why they

  618. were worship written like that? It's not about music and

  619. all because at that time they noticed the preachers noticing

  620. that when they were worshiping or they're listening to the

  621. word of God. Right, a lot of people were walking

  622. out the church, taking a small doing all these things

  623. as well. They won't stay anymore. And so because of that,

  624. a lot of Christians who came to the church during

  625. Jonathan Edward's time, okay they didn't know they come to church,

  626. but they don't know anything about Christ at all. So

  627. these people this for Father's what did they do? Say? Okay,

  628. they don't to listen to the world. I'm going to

  629. put the word into the song. So the hymns actually

  630. are theological teachings to teach the people the world of

  631. God by singing. Ah. Now, when you check the hymns

  632. out actually talks about birth of Christ. What Jesus has

  633. done how he paid for our since Christs will return again?

  634. Did you know that the hymns were to teach us

  635. bibical truths about God? Now we're talking more about Hey,

  636. this is how I feel. I feel like a rain

  637. in the ocean. I'm not saying it's wrong, but it

  638. has to be more than that makes sense. We have

  639. gone very far. We have gone very very far. Aware,

  640. but Scod's still device. Remember, no matter what, God's still divide.

  641. When there's no division, there's only chaos in worship as well.

  642. You must clearly find what is true worship and what

  643. is not true worship. If you don't do that, even

  644. in your worship, you have confusion. Imagine a chaotic worship.

  645. You know how down this is while we have chaotic worship? Okay, everybody, Okay,

  646. so far am I talking sense here? I'm not getting

  647. everybody quiet? Doesn't doesn't make sense? You want chaotic worship? Oh? No,

  648. we want clarity? Okay? Second one Bible study, minimal engagement. Ah,

  649. now this we have so bless her. I feel like

  650. today I had a tough day. Tough day, JPD, Can

  651. you find me a good YouTube message that would inspire

  652. me right now, and then I notice your blood pressure

  653. has been feeling a bit low and you've been sleeping

  654. very late. I would suggest to you this guy who

  655. speaks on this to tell you about this AI can

  656. minister to me. And that's how AI will minister to

  657. you next time. Can you not a I will integrate

  658. into everything and will be your personal minister. You get

  659. to choose the kind or ministry that will serve you,

  660. not what not what you need to hear. Okay, there

  661. will be the kind of Bible study, okay, inspirational talks

  662. rather than scripture. But when you settle down and you

  663. realize that, hey, have I read through the Bible? You know?

  664. Can I give you one tip? A lot of people say, hey,

  665. pastor ask me this question, heyse of what I don't

  666. claim to know the word like crazy. A lot of

  667. people ask that, hey, how do you study and all

  668. the word card. A lot of people say, oh, massive revelation,

  669. or think that you must watch certain teaching series or

  670. go to these classes class. Yes they are youthful, but

  671. the key most important thing for you, as and they

  672. give you A tip for everyone who really wants to

  673. learn the world of God is to read the Bible

  674. many times. If you say, for example, if you're reading

  675. the Book of James, some of you will read then

  676. or take your time, speak to me, oh I cannot

  677. squeeze the coconut or nothing come up after they get discouraged,

  678. you know, oh yeah, so hard. That's why I don't

  679. want to do bat but study so hot. I pray

  680. that in orders this Sunday someone will talk about James.

  681. Maybe if they're one, then maybe give you a bit

  682. of revival. But you don't do like that my advice.

  683. I'm not saying this is the only way. I'm just

  684. saying that one of the ways is to read James

  685. many times, many times. If you can do it doing

  686. reading one day, finish, then really a second time, then

  687. really a third time within the spand a few days

  688. read it true highlighted, second highlighted, read it many times

  689. until you know all the Book of Jim's so clearly inside.

  690. Then you meditate it's totally opposite that then what you're thinking.

  691. That's the key, because it has to appear in your mind.

  692. Now it's like it's it's like you're watching TikTok again

  693. and again and again. It's in your mind it's stuck.

  694. It has to be worked like that where the Bible

  695. has to stick in you, not because it's fuels inspirations.

  696. It's stuck in you. Then wherever you go you are

  697. literally meditating in and out of your door of your house.

  698. When you wake up, when you see that it is

  699. stuck in you, there is what to know the work

  700. God is. It's stuck in you. That's the key. So

  701. if I can suggest a strategy, if you really are

  702. serious about the work God, really many times, many many times,

  703. change your strategy of it, really many times until it

  704. stick to you. Some of you remember the funniest jokes

  705. and funniest videos because you know what. You keep watching it,

  706. you put it on safe watch it later. All these

  707. things we will do for the favorite videos, but we

  708. will never do it the Bible. If you really want

  709. to do a difference and tell me next time, maybe

  710. I come. Maybe you know, next time, maybe after I

  711. will retreat that next time if I see you guys,

  712. are you tell me it makes a difference thing? Oh

  713. but I actually read it second time, third time, and

  714. I stick to it. And then realize when you go

  715. through something, before you think about bad things, before you

  716. think about what you want to. Suddenly the Book of

  717. James comes. Now, the book comes alive. You know. Oh yes,

  718. you tell me out because it's stuck in you. You

  719. say what I'm saying now, you don't need when you

  720. are at that level, you don't need some big time

  721. preacher and teachers to call and tell you something. It's

  722. totally different now, okay everybody, okay, so far let me

  723. copy quickly rap it up. Okay, faith experience, you're seeking

  724. fuel goal emotions. Oh fulgo is when the preacher preaches

  725. a good message, then my faith grow. That's where you start.

  726. But faith actually grows when you go through trials. That's

  727. when you recognize, hey, I went through the same thing,

  728. but I'm different Now. I no longer whine and complain

  729. and ask why it's I used to. I have a

  730. bit more hope now, I believe more. Now I stay now,

  731. I will come regardless of how. Now. That's when your

  732. faith grows. That's you have myselna. There is when your

  733. faith grows. You knoww there is why when you go

  734. through difficult when you still come, that's faith. That's when

  735. it grows. You know, say what I'm saying. If you

  736. are married, you only come home when you feel like it,

  737. when you love your wife or your husband. Now got

  738. such thing when you come back home. Some husbands and

  739. wives are just stay in the car because they're fighting.

  740. They don't want to come down from the car. My god,

  741. that one. You start off maybe like that, like because

  742. you're so emotional. But after a while you realize that

  743. marriage and making it work is more than just my emotions.

  744. I come down, I still sit at the table, even

  745. though I don't agree. I will still come. But after

  746. a while I realize we make it work, we work

  747. it up, and my marriage grows because you did what

  748. is right, not what you feel. Community engagement, ah, god,

  749. chie events, it's about your enjoyment. Hey, first thing, what

  750. can I get out of this missions conference? About other people?

  751. What about me? Nothing to do with me? Never to

  752. do with me. How many of you like? How many

  753. of you as parents are? I speak to yellow young family?

  754. You love to attend many many, many many many birthday parties? One?

  755. How many of you love kids? Birthday parties? One? You like? One?

  756. Too many? Ready some of the parties like about too

  757. many McDonald's. Ready, too many happy meals for me? Already,

  758. way too many already, I also get hired one. You

  759. know some of you are laughing. You'll have a guilty smile. Hairhird,

  760. my wife, don't get angry. I know why A s

  761. that you're true. But since when it's the birthday party

  762. about you? Never about you? Isn't it never about you?

  763. It's about other people. Church event's not right about you.

  764. Want to know, when you grow stronger and more mature,

  765. it's never about you. It's about others. So when you

  766. become more discipleship focused, you realize committee engagement is about

  767. serving arthers. When Christ came to anything was about him

  768. feeding his needs. No, he's title when he first came

  769. to earth, what was his title? Meeking, his title was

  770. the servant king. Turned to your neighbors said, Christ is

  771. the servant king. That was his title people, not mee king,

  772. you know, servant king. He came to serve one and all.

  773. He came to the the to turn wine. Now the

  774. water into wine was about me, about people. He came

  775. to visiting all the different towns was about him, about people.

  776. So you go to all the events of the day

  777. about you know, it's about pe. Your difference you're showing

  778. up makes a difference you like it or not, because

  779. you see yourself differently, you must ever change your mindset

  780. of people. I'm not saying that you are thinking you're

  781. walking to the air. I'm the massa. I'm here to

  782. be a blessing to my brothers. I talk and I serve.

  783. I watch out for the kids, even I just eat

  784. happy men. Also I watch lie. You know then you

  785. will have your After you serve a day, you will

  786. have your twelve basket day as well. God's portion will

  787. always be there for you. Prayer, life, prayer for personal desires.

  788. But instead of prayer and personer, it's about not just

  789. about me. Hey, you have family prayers are hey, sons

  790. and daughters. Every day you must pray about me and

  791. pray for me and pray for me. You talk, tell

  792. them to your parents, tell them to your children. No,

  793. you are saying what do you need? What do you need?

  794. That?

  795. It's always serving others come to prayer service and never

  796. about you. Want to know. Yes, I'm not saying that

  797. we cannot pray for people. Yes, it's a howd of ministry,

  798. prayer for wonder, but when you come your number added

  799. up today is about serving others. Midor a close view

  800. of love. Focus on romantic feel good love, ah, how

  801. I feel. But your love in church it's not so

  802. much about you know you feel good, hair, your tick, dogs,

  803. whatever picture. Your love in the church is defined by

  804. how much you and I sacrifice for one another. Community

  805. is not driven by the number of pictures on our instagramm.

  806. Community is defined by how much you actually sacrifice your

  807. time to visit one of those who was sick to

  808. give to the church sacrificially. When was the last time

  809. you sacrifice something for the bigger for the bigger body

  810. of chriss Okay, growth, move on. Church involvement participates in

  811. fand activities. Involvement is not just about serving. Serving it's good,

  812. make no mistake about it. But true church to be

  813. rooted in the church, true routing in the church. It's

  814. about the discipleship. Doesn't mean that the boyfriend that comes

  815. into my house and help to wash the d good.

  816. But until you want to marry my daughter, you're no business.

  817. You know. I don't care how good of a quality

  818. of a boyfriend you are. I don't care if you're

  819. driving a nice car, I don't care you watch the DeSUS,

  820. Oh good life. You do live, but not eventually. If

  821. you become my son in law, good lad But if

  822. you just pend to marriage, just do I have fun?

  823. Only get out? You must have commitment, You must have

  824. accountability people, true or not? Makes sense or not? Do

  825. you raise your son just to have fund and then

  826. just to be a customer in your house? No, your

  827. son and your daughters will bear responsibility and commit themselves.

  828. What time are you coming back? Have you done your

  829. study or not? Everything you require from your son and daughter,

  830. from your mom and your dad is accountability. Why is

  831. it not in the church? So the true thing is

  832. never just serving. It's always about this apple. Always make

  833. no mistake, always, but there is always the one thing

  834. that everybody leave. Everybody want to escape. I want to

  835. do everything. I want to serve, but I don't want

  836. to be disciple. I don't want to be accounting. If

  837. you met a boyfriend and girlfriend, be careful, very very careful.

  838. I want to know your plans. Are you plan to

  839. get married my daughter or not? That is where you

  840. tell me you're serious. Fathers and mothers agree on huh.

  841. If you got boyfriend girlfriend like that, you very be careful, ladies, guys.

  842. If a woman and a guy like that come in

  843. your life. Are talk to me okay? You taught to

  844. your parents? Are we have to do do diligence okay.

  845. We hope you've been blessed by this message. For more

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  848. that this week is going to be a good week

  849. ahead for you. God bless