Sermon
Redirect & Reflect | Jason Martin
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You're listening to a message to go from axt church.
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We hope this message will light up your tea.
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I've been speaking in Clang. There was a couple of messages.
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It was just about stuff that I'm going through. Okay,
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stuff that I'm going through. Y'all may not be going
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through it. Okay, maybe not relevant, Okay, but it's anxiety.
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It's anxiety. Or how it even started was I've been
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going through I think a month back or something. I
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was going through a phase where I just felt like,
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or lack of better word, yuck. Have you felt like
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that before? Like you don't know what's wrong, But it's
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just like, man, I'm like frustrated things are not going
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my way. I'm like I need to get out of
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this rut, you know. And then I was like, Hey,
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this is not the way to be feeling. How do
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I get out of this? And then of course, first
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of all, I asked why am I feeling this way?
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Because if you do not understand why we are feeling
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that way, then we cannot address it and then we
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cannot get out of it. Right. So when I thought
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about it, and I realized that it was because I
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was going through different seasons in my life, I had
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no control of the outcome. Okay, things at work, things
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at home. I can only do so much. But the
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rest it's up to God to take control, you know.
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So I had no control, and because of that, that
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cost anxiety, you know. But most of us you say, hey,
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are you an anxious person? No, I'm not anxious person.
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But we it will somehow manifest in our life on
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whether we know it or not, you know, and we
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have to take stock of it. Because once I identified it,
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then when I realized that, hey, okay, then I know
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the route. I can know how to tackle it. So
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one of the first smons that I was speeching was
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about Daniel. So Daniel was a marketplace guy in the Bible.
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He faced mission impossible. So he's one of his He
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faced multiple mission impossible. Right, So I was thinking, hey,
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that's a good place to start, right, because I'm facing
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mission impossible at work, at home and stuff like. So
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Daniel good place start. And when I started reading, I'm like, man,
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I got nothing to complain because his mission impossible was impossible.
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When King nebuok Nasa had a dream, you had to
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tell King Nebu what his dream was. And then what
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does the meaning of it? You know, if not, you
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will be killed. So I was like, wow, would you
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be ancient in that situation? Would you be how would
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you feel in that situation? No? But fast forward, we
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know that God appeared to Daniel because Daniel was faithful.
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Daniel went to him and God revealed and because of that,
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Daniel was able to answer the king and he was
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then promoted and rewarded. So there was the first part.
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So that message maybe one day I'll share it. That okay,
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But there's not a message. So subsequently I was like, okay, wow, Daniel,
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quite a good I mean, go to God and God
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w solve your problems. Kept on thinking there has to
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be what should I go to God for to fix
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my anxiety? No, how come Daniel was not feeling anxiety?
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Maybe he was. The Bible didn't say maybe he was,
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Maybe he wasn't. So that's where I wanted to start today.
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So the first slide, I think very familiar verse. We
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have read about it multiple times and we're quite familiar
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with it. If you've been in church, don't worry about anything. Instead,
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pray about everything, tell God what you need, thank him
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for what he has done. Then you will experience God's peace,
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which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will God
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your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.
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How many of you we all have read this verse before. Okay,
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So when I read this verse, right, I was like
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a lot of times when I read the Bible. I'll
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be like, the Bible is quite funny in a way.
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When you are scared, they say fear not. I'm like, dude,
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that's not helping. I'm scared. You tell me fear not?
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Is it? I'm anxious? Don't be anxious. You know, it's
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like how or how do I do this? You know?
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So don't be anxious. Instead, pray about everything and tell
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God what you need and thank Him for all. Yes done? So,
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like okay, fine, right, but when you're anxious, is it
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easy to pray? Is it easy to pray? For me?
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It isn't not, because right I start praying, then my
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mind will go back to the thing that is causing
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me anxiety. And for some people, great you are able
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to tune in to God and when you pray and
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then God lifts your anxiety. Or for me, right, it
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was very difficult to pray. It takes effort. It doesn't
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come by chancelle. It takes effort. So praying is one thing, right.
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The second part is you have to give thanksgiving. Is
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it easy to be grateful when you're anxious? So it's like, okay,
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I will force myself thank God for this, Thank God,
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You're a good God, and stuff like that, you know,
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and it kept on. I mean, I did what this
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verse said when I say, okay, God, But there must
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be a way that I can pray, or there must
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be a way that enables me to give thanks easily.
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So I started studying even further, okay, into that, and
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so today it will be addressing before before I go
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into the title, right, it's addressing anxiety. But do you
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all know what is anxiety? What is anxiety? Worry? Stress? Okay,
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next light, this is a anxiety. I'm sure you all
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didn't expect that this is anxiety. How many of you
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all have watched this show Inside Out too? I think
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it's a brilliant movie. It's I tell you, a brilliant
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movie where they take complex theories and they make it
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so simple that even kids can understand. But when you
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watch it, if you haven't watched it, I encourage you
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to go watch it because it will help you discover
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your emotions, why you're feeling such ways, and help you
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then maneuver your way. So this is anxiety. So the
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first inside out right, anxiety wasn't there. So the I
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give you all a bit. It's a bit of a spoiler. Okay,
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it's a bit of a spoiler. So inside Out is
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about this girl called Riley. Right, So Riley, the first
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inside out was when she was a kid. So when
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she has a kid, you only got four emotions, happy, sadness, anger,
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and what's the last one? Uh? Hey, was it fear
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or disgussa no? Discuss was? Yeah? I think there was
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only four emotions, right, And then when she grew up
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to become a teenager, suddenly anxiety came in. Anxiety came in.
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And then when anxiety introduced itself to the rest of
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the emotions, you know, how did she introduce She said
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that I'm here to protect Riley from dangers she can't see.
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And that's what anxiety is, you know, it is anxiety
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in itself. It's not bad. It is an emotion. Emotions
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are not good or bad. They are just emotions. It's
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whether we allow emotions to control us then and it
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becomes into the driving seat. That's when we have a problem. Okay,
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So I wanted to give us a definition of anxiety.
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So anxiety is an emotion caused by the brain's reactions
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to situations, not the situations themselves. Okay, reactions to situations.
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That means something is about to happen. Your brain is triggered,
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but you're not in the situation yet. You know it's
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about maybe about to happen or something you fear, You worry,
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you're concerned, and that's what triggers anxiety. So if you
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don't have anxiety, it's also a problem because you'll be
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a tiger coming up to you. You'll be like, chill man, No,
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I'm not. I don't anxiety. You know, it casts all
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my anxiety. We you know, it's it's it's not that
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anxiety is. It's when anxiety is in the driving seat,
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that's when it's a problem. Okay. So I wanted to Yeah. So,
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and most of us, or some of us, are wired
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this way. Some of y'all are really positive people, and
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so you don't have a you always look at a
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positive side of things. But for me, sometimes I'm I
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will always look at what if, what if? And my
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mind sometimes works like this next light. Okay, some people,
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y'all are like the heart. You always can see the good,
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you know. But for me, sometimes I will look at
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the bad and I will take a magnifying glass and
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blow it up. I'll blow it up like bigger. And
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you know that one bad thing can outweigh all the
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good things, you know. That's why the Bible says be
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anxious for nothing, but in all things, pray and give thanks.
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When you give thanks, you are magnifying God's goodness in
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your life instead of magnifying the problem. So that is
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how sometimes our minds are wired. But we need to
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rewire them. Okay, we need to rewire and if not right,
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you know what will happen when we focus on them
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when we magnify the problem. Do you think we are
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able to solve it? Because sometimes it's like, Okay, I
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have a problem. I will just keep on thinking about it.
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I'll magnify it until I find a solution. So what
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happens next night? You roominate and you catastrophice. So I
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know it's a lot of big words for after after
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large service, but funnily room ironically ruminate you know the
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way the word ruminate comes from from a cow? So
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how many stomachs there's a cow? Have four? All right? Awesome?
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So you know your biology right. So when a cow
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eats grass, it swallows it. It goes into stomach one okay,
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and then he regurgitates, comes out to the mouth, choose
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it again, goes into stomach too, and then after a
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while he read gurgitates again. You again go into stomach tree.
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Same it goes to the stomach for So that's why
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when you look at a cow, right, they're walking around now,
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they're always chewing. You're like, why did cowgo chewing gum
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or what? It's like? You know, But what the cow
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is doing is ruminating on the grass. You are trying
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to extract as much nutrients from the grass as possible.
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When you ruminate on the negative, what are you doing?
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You're trying to extract as much negativity as possible from
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that worry. It is not helping you. It will cause
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your blood pressure to go up, it will cause your stress
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levels to go up, will cause your hat to drop.
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You will cause everything adverse adverse effect, and then finally
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you will get testrofice. You know what a catastrifices. Okay,
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how many of y'all, y'all had an ache of pain
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in your body and you google? Okay, when you google, okay,
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majority of the time it catastrophiced. Right, You're like straight
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away like, oh, I have to write my wheel now,
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I won't be tomorrow, I won't be around really, you know,
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and stuff like that, because that's what happens when we
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ruminate on the negative, and we focus on the negative,
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and we keep on causing that to feed us our
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outlook will be on worst case possible. We're always living
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on the worst case possible, and that's how we get tastrophiced. Okay,
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So that was why I was feeling yuck in a nutshell,
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that was why I was feeling youck, because hey, I
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keep on ruminating on things that were negative subconsciously. It's
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always happening day after day after day. And although that
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day nothing happened to me, but because I kept on
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ruminating from things from past, I've kept on feeling feeling
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worse and worse. And that is not how we were
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called to live. We are called to live as overcomers, right,
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we shouldn't be living under the situation, but we should
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be living over and beyond because Christ is with us man.
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So the title for today's summon, okay, is this next,
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we have to redirect and we have to reflect. When
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we ruminate, when we catastrophize, when we focus on the negative,
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when our eyes are only looking at the negative, that's
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where we are focusing on. But the Word of God
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says that we need to redirect our thoughts and reflect act. Okay,
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So the key text for today next is this. So
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this time was Philippians for six to seven. I'll tell
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you right, Philippians four. There is so much of nuggets
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of truth there, and a lot of times even myself
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included when I read the verses from Philippians. You read
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all these verses, I will always take it as piecemeal.
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I'll just take it. Wow, this worse. I proclaimed this
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verse and that's about it, and then stally, I proclaim
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another verse from Philippians for you know, but when I
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read it together, it's all connected. So this is verse eight.
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You've finished reading six and seven. Six and seven is
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be anxious for nothing, but in all things, by prayer
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and supplication, make your requests known to God. Right, So
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verse eight, he says, and now, dear brothers and sisters,
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one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true
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and honorable and right and pure and lovely and admirable.
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Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.
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Keep putting into practice all you have learned and received
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from me, everything you heard from me and saw me doing.
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Then the God of Peace will be with you. Okay,
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so you can see. First all tells us be anxious
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for nothing, tells us to pray and give thanks. And
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then he says, you have to fix your thoughts on
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what is true. It is connected, it is connected. You
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cannot give thanks if you're focusing on the negative. So
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he says, to fix your thoughts on what is true, honorable,
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right and pure, lovely and admirable. Okay, So there will
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be three points. So the first point is this, we
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need to focus. Okay, it's like your camera, your camera,
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or if those of us who are above forty we
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have our eyes now have to focus like now I'm
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like uh, or you see right? All these it's like
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severe case of like having to focus. But but there's
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the thing. We have to focus because you focus right
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takes effort. You have to concentrate, you have to zoom in.
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It doesn't happen by chance. One you know, when if
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you went to the optometrice recently, you know they will
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I don't have a hot air balloon at the end,
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they will asked you to try and focus until you
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see that hot air balloon as clear as possible. It
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takes effort on you know, it will take effort. So focus.
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We have to give attention effort to put one particular
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subject or situation or person at the center instead of another.
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So if we are focusing on the negative, we cannot
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be focusing on God because we are like one track.
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That's why they say don't use your phone and drive,
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you know, I mean, although I was caught also doing that,
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But there is a reason for it, because one thing
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will get more of your focus than another. And ultimately,
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if we focus on the negative, and we say that's
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why for me, it was difficult to when I was
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going through a difficult situation, the verse just said pray
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and give thanks, But I didn't change my focus. I
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had to first fix my thoughts on what is true.
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So focus. I was mentioned right to give attention effort
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to one particular subject, situation, or person rather than another
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right and next slide, So one Peter five was eight
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be alert and of sober mind your enemy. The devil
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prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour.
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The moment you lose focus is when you can be distracted.
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And when you are distracted, the devil is waiting to pounds.
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He will sow seeds of doubt, so seeds of fear.
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Because we have moved our focus from the truth to
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what if. And when we focus on what if, suddenly
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a problem becomes bigger than God. And most of the
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time when we are thinking about the problem, right, we
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are not thinking about God. Have you realized it? Yay?
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So we have to be aware of that next life.
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Second Corinthians ten. We are destroying sophisticated arguments and every
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exalted and proud thing that sets itself up against the
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true knowledge of God. And we are taking every thought
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and purpose captive to the obedience of Christ. So thoughts
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need to be taken captive. It needs to be taken captive.
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It means you have to be responsible for your thoughts.
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Have you seen your thought snowball right? All the time?
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All the time? You will snowball. Suddenly it's the end
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of the world, you know, But that's how it is,
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Like why do some kids commit suicide when they fail
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an exam? Because for them that is the worst case scenario.
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And that thought then says that I'm useless on my
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parents will love me or whatever it is, I will
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never amount to anything. And ultimate the comments was like,
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but if you took captive and say that, hey, I fail,
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it's like, all right, I fail? What do I need
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to do to get pick myself up and move on?
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There is always a choice in our thoughts. We have
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to always choose our thoughts, and then our life always
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follows the direction of our thoughts. If you have positive thoughts,
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you'll be hating in the direction which God wants you
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do it. If you have negative thoughts and then you
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keep on asking that, hey, how come I how come
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my life always this? Whoe is me? I'll just sit
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down here and eat worms, you know, But you keep
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on thinking stuff like that, you know. So we have
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to fix our eyes, fix our mind or what is true?
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Next life? Focus on the truth? What are the facts?
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What is what is fake? What are the facts? And
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what is fake? Because things that have not happened are
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not facts, but most of the time we look at
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them as facts. And it's not wrong to plan. It's
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not wrong to plan. I'm not saying don't plan. I'm
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a I will plan or so. And I'm also catastrophizing
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because I'm telling you I'm sharing all this because this
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is what I'm going through. So if it applies to you,
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then great. If you are a positive, if all of
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you all here are positive, always focusing in your eyes,
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your thoughts are the true, then it's a reminder. Okay,
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But but this is my journey, so I have to
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focus my eyes on the truth, you know. Like, for example,
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when I was going through a stuff at work, right, yeah,
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I'm like, oh, man, I think you know, what's the
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worst can happen? You know, I'm sidelined or people don't
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appreciate what I'm doing or stuff like that. You know,
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I do it so much of things. But then now
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because there's a new boss, there's a change of direction.
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You know, things are beyond my control, you know, and
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then my thoughts starts spiraling. But the fact is, what
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is the fact. I'm in my job and I shed
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a testimony that God gave me this job. That is
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the fact, that fact that's not changed, and it means
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that God wants me here, you know. Sometimes right the facts,
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we want new facts. But our facts are our testimonies
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that has been there. That's why it is always good
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for us to keep track of our testimonies. Do we
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keep track of our testimonies? You know? It's like, I'm
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not a journaling person. La, Okay, how many are y'all
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love to journal? All right? I remember last time when
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Exchange was like big into journaling. I'm like, I don't
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know what to write, La, what to write? You know,
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and stuff like that. But then I knew the heart
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behind journaling is to keep track, is to remember of
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God's goodness, as to remember that, hey, God, you have
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brought me through the seasons. So what I've done if
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y'all don't like generaling, A simple hack that I did
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was I every time I get a testimony, I will
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open my notepad. I'll just put down a date and
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I'll just put down, oh, this happened to me, So
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it's under my testimony tab. So it's like three words forwards.
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That's all is needed. One And when I read it back,
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all the memories come back. Then, so I don't need
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word by word what happened, you know, but that helps me.
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And when I look back now I have testimonies all
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the way back from twenty fifteen, which I have never
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you asked me to recall what happened now, I don't.
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But when I look back, I'm like, oh, thank God,
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praise God for this, you know. And this is because
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sometimes we forget the facts. We forget what God has
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done in our lives. We forget that we have gone
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through the value of the shadow of death, and the
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Lord was our shepherd then and he will be our
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shape but tomorrow. But instead we focus on what is fake,
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and we focus on what is fake. That's when you
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listen to the news, or you go for lunch with
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your colleagues, and what I was you all discussed during
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lunchtime suddenly becomes facts. I have encountered these few times,
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you know, because I was talking to one of my colleagues,
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so so he was supposed to be one of my
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new project leads. So I was talking. He said he
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want to go lunch with me because he just took
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over the project. So I'm reporting to him. So I said,
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you want to go for lunches to catch up. So
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when I went to college, uh met up with him.
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Right before I met up with him, when when he
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was supposed to take care take up the project, right,
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all my colleagues and other friends and all that, allan
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should dive. And you know, because this guy, he's a
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lot of politics. You know, he would like the backstep,
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you know, those kinds of things. So I was like, okay,
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I mean for me, it's like I will just go
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and work on you. It's just just do what I
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need to do. When I sat down and I had
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lunch with him, right, he actually said right, because he
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wanted to catch up on work and stuff like Jason,
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actually right, I have no problem with you at all.
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It's like, oh okay, good. I'm like, why how do
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you read the experts say good? Yeah, no problem. You
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know your work is good, ideas are good. Everything good.
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But you know, before I work with you, people were
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saying different things. So what was saying as fairt fake
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became facts. And the same thing applied with me to
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him as well, because I told him the same thing.
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I mean I didn't. I don't want to tell him
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the exact same thing. Not very wise. Your exercise wisdom.
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But I just say that honestly, it's great working with you.
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I feel you give clear direction and you are able
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to champion for us. So what both of us took
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as facts will actually fake. It was hearsay planted by
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different people around us, and then we took it as facts.
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And that cost unnecessary anxiety, you see, it costs unnecessary anxiety.
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But when we focus on the facts, then God will
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deliver us no matter what. You see, the fact was
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Daniel was a prisoner of war. The fact was he
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was in one of the most evil empire at that time, right,
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But the fact is he was still God. For Daniel,
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the fact to him was he is still God. That's
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no matter what, whether I'm a prisoner or a prince,
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whether I'm in prison or the palace, God is still God.
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And because of that, he overcame the impossible. So don't
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allow our situations to form our facts. Our facts come
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from the word of God. Don't let the circumstances or
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the situations that we have taint our truth. Right next,
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like Jesus said to the people who believed in him,
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you are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to
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my teachings, and you will know the truth, and the
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truth will set you free. When you know the truth,
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the truth will set you free. You see, when I
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knew the truth that God has placed me in this
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company no matter what, that truth set me free. It
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doesn't matter who my boss is. The same way as Daniel.
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It doesn't matter whether he was a prisoner or he
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was a prince. The truth will set you free and
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will allow you God to use you for his glory. Right, Okay, next,
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So first one was focused on the truth, right and focus.
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The next one is focused on what is honorable, right,
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and pure. So the truth we know is the word
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of God. Honorable, right, and pure are all characteristics of God. Right,
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it's characteristics of God. And when we focus on God,
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we will do what is honorable. So the truth is
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maybe by law he is wrong, But what's the honorable
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thing to do? Somebody has wronged you? Okay, for example,
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that is the truth. Somebody wrong me. What's the honorable
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thing to do? What is the right thing to do?
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What is the pure thing to do? You know? Sometimes right,
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we take the truth and use the truth to whack people.
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And you use the truth to whack people, but you
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see God was honorable, He's a true God, that he's honorable,
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right and pure right. And when we do that, right
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we God. Well, God's characteristics will shape the way we think. Okay,
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So the verse Psalm one hundred and thirty nine, search me,
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O God, and know my heart, Test me and know
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my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you,
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and lead me along the path of everlasting life. When
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I read this versa, I was like, Wow, anxious thoughts
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are actually offending to God? Are actually offensive to God.
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You realize that when we are anxious, it means that God,
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you are not enough. I need to take matters into
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my own hands, and I don't have control, and that's
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why I have anxiety. That's why this verse search me,
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Oh God, and know my heart, test me, and know
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my anxious thoughts. And when we do that, when we
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see God, who is honorable, right and pure, and He
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reveals and says that, hey, anxiety, you are having anxiety.
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That's why he did to me, because I was like,
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why am I feeling this way? But God said, reveal it,
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You're having anxiousness. And then for me, right, I masked
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anxiety or anxiousness as critical thinking. How many of your life?
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I think I used to take pride like I'm a
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critical thinker. No, I'm a critical thinker. I can see
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for see what what needs to do, what might go wrong,
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what could go wrong, and stuff like that. You know,
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how do we respond react? And stuff like that? Again
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is not wrong. But if then if that is our
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source of truth, if our critical thinking is our source
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of truth instead of the word of God is our
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source of truth, that is what will lead to anxiety.
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Because when I say, oh, I'm a good critical thinker,
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I'm like, okay, so I don't have to refer to this,
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you know. I was like, I will just ruminate in
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my mind, ruminate into my mind. But once I reach
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a day end, then I will get that strificed, like
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woe is me that? But then when we have anxiety, say, God,
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search me and know my heart, reveal what is it
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that is offensive? Are we putting our trust in God? No?
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And only then he will lead us along the path
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of everlasting life. Anxiety always leads to death. Your anxiety
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leads to life, and not because you're like all these
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worst case scenario know, it's like very negatively, You're like, uh,
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was there, but what we want is peace. What we
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want is peace. We know that God is in control.
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His plans are yes and amen, and I will stand
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on his truth right. And finally, the last one focused
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on what is lovely and admirable? So our thoughts are
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they building us up or tearing us down? Are they
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building other people up or tearing other people down? Because
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when we are anxious, right, we are usually in fight
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or flight. Moon, you will try to protect yourself at
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all costs, and when you do that, everyone else is
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collateral damage. But when we focus on the truth, focus
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on what is honorable, right, just pure, lovely and admirable,
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we are looking We are treating people the way God
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wants us to treat people. Love God and love men.
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It's very easy to love people when times are good.
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I'm not sure about you, but when you're anxious, especially
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people closest to you, how often do you snap at them? Like? Hey,
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what are you thinking about? Nothing? Don't listen to me?
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You know everything? Okay, okay, you know? How are you
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feeling good? It's like you feel I mean, is that
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lovely and admirable? Lovely and admirable is benchmark by other people?
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If other people evaluate your actions. Are your actions lovely
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and admirable because that is how you are treating them,
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all right? And the worse is thanks. So don't use
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abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful,
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so your words will be an encouragement to those who
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hear them. When you are anxious, it is very difficult
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to be encouraging. Right next verse, May God give you
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more and more grace and peace as you grow in
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your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord. So when
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you have more and more grace and peace, your anxiety
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goes down. When your anxiety goes down, your gods are down.
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That's when you will open. You won't put up walls
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against people. You will be peaceable right towards other people.
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And even as I draw to as a close right now,
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When I was preparing this message to share in ex clang,
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I think it was somewhere last month. So I was
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preparing this message on to share on Sunday. Then on Saturday, right,
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I felt God was testing me somehow, So tell you
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a story. So it was a Saturday, so went out
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with uh, yeah, So my wife is Jessica different Jessica
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of course, and my two kids, so we went to
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Sunday Pyramid and check out the new wing. You know,
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have you all check out a new wing? Quite happening.
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So when there was shopping the whole day because uh,
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somebody's buy clothes and stuff like that for my wife's
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sister's wedding. So when we were there for many many
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hours after okay, so twursd they end trying to buy shoes.
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So we went to the USC in the US to
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buy shoes, so for my young going. So the young one,
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he was testing the shoes. Finally we got the size.
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I got it great. So I told the guy, Okay,
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I'll take the shoes, uh, and then can pack it
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for me. I'm gonna pay for it. Okay. Then Sally,
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the guy he was collecting the other shoes that we're trying,
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he's like Sally, like Alama, what happened? That shoe was
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full of water. Part of the shoe was full of water.
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So my kid, okay, yes, which one if y'all know.
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If y'all know, so, so I have shared different experiences, right,
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So one of my kids, uh, out of some frustration
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with the brady or whatever, he went emptied his water
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bottle into one of the shoes. Woul do you feel anxious?
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I'm like so normal to all these radio like so
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I was like, man, okay, so what did you. Then
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found out that when checked my son, true enough he
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did it. So we had to pay for that shoe.
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We had to pay for that shoe because he's damage.
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But the people were kind enough to say that I'll
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give you all this counter for despair. Okay, So paid
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for the shoe, went out. I told Jess, I say,
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can you take them? I really need to take a walk.
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You're not like, give them some Indian loving or something.
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It's like I was like, I was like, up here, really,
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it's like and then there wasn't something viral or I
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needn't take a walk okay. And this is the same
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time I'm preparing this someone, you know. So when he
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says be anxious for nothing, prayer and give time something
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like easy to say, an you know it, he's easy
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to say, easy to say. Then it says, okay, fix
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your thoughts on what is true, Like in the world
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is true, the shoe is wet, that's the truth, you know,
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that's the truth. So I took a walk in the
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whole mall just to I needed to clear my mind,
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And yeah, I was this verse was playing because how
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can I preach something on a Sunday and not leave
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it on a Saturday. So that's why I say, I
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felt like I was testing me, you know. So I
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was like, so, what is the truth in this scenario?
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What's the truth? The truth is that my kid is
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a child of God, has a great brand for him,
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and God will use him. Because that's the truth. What
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is the honorable thing for me to do? What is
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the right thing for me to do? What's the just
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thing to do for me to do? You know, there
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will be consequences, but how do I do it in
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an honorable way? How do I do it in a
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lovely and admirable way where instead of disciplining not actually
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it won't be disciplined. Really, if you take it out
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in anger, it is revenge, you know, It's like revenge
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And is that admirable? No? You know, it will just
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distance him away from me. So all these thoughts are
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going through this mind, my mind, you know, in terms
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of it. And this was prepared for me. I was
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preparing for this message is like stuff that I'm going
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through outside work and other stuff. Now in this scenario.
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So when I focus on that and I say, hey, God,
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you are a good God. You know, we prayed for
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a son. You gave us a son. He's healthy. You
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have a plan for him, you know. And right now
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we do not know why this is happening, but we
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put out trusting you, and I had to continue holding
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on to the promises of God instead of magnifying the bad.
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If I continued magnifying the bad, nothing good would come
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out of it. Right, So cut the long story shot. Yeah,
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I had to discipline him, but we took the shoe home.
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The other shoe and then that one was a It
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was a pink colored Nike shoes. Yeah, I was like
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to get home. And then after writing instantly just try
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to try it on. You actually can feel like, yeah, okay,
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your Christmas present, you see, right, when you focus on
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what it's good, right, you can just laugh about this.
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It's not the end of the world at that point.
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When you when I saw the shoe full of water,
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I felt like the end of the world. You know,
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you will feel like, oh man, this you cannot think
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beyond that ready. You're fixated on that thing, are you?
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Sometimes you have to take a step back to fix
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our thoughts. Why it's true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, admirable,
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and then the God of Peace will be with after
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I came back from a walk on peace, right, Okay,
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you know, and which comes to the the That's why
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this one's like back. That's why the verse. May God
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give you more and more grace and peace as you
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grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus a lot.
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We have to grow in our knowledge of God, and
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then He will give us more peace. You have to
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focus on the truth and grow more and more, and
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then you will have peace. And that's why my last
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line when as I get extreme up, if you know God,
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you know peace. If you have no God, then you
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will have no peace. So this afternoon, I don't know
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what your circumstance is. I don't know what your situation is.
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It might be really bad, or it might be something
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that is beyond your control. But the truth does not
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change that God is still God and God is in control.
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So this afternoon, even as we just worship him, let's
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focus our thoughts or what is true, what is honorable, right, pure, lovely,
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and admirable, and let not magnify the problem. Let's say, God,
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you are more than in me. Right, let's stand, let's worship.
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