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Is it okay to pursue joy? | Pr Julian Saw

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  1. You're listening to a message to go from acts church.

  2. We hope this message will light up your day.

  3. My question this money is is it right? Is it

  4. okay to pursue joy? Is it right for us? Is

  5. it okay for us to pursue joy? So how many

  6. of you like to be happy? Please put over hands?

  7. Or if you like to be happy or if you

  8. you know, I don't know some of you didn't premisy.

  9. Maybe joy is not one of your priorities.

  10. But you know, as we start off twenty twenty five,

  11. I'm thinking like, what could I have more in my

  12. life this year?

  13. And I think joy is one of them. Joy is

  14. one of them.

  15. And I don't know whether it's an Asian thing or

  16. like growing up in a culture where sometimes having the

  17. having to say that I want more happiness can be

  18. a bit of a taboo.

  19. Have you felt that before? Maybe not?

  20. If you had that, maybe maybe it's a Chinese thing

  21. or a sore family thing. Not lie, it's not like

  22. my parents are like my parents, like my dad. I

  23. come up with a B or C on my report

  24. kind it's like well done, you know, but it doesn't

  25. happen often. You know, good, good student. But I don't know.

  26. Some I think you know, I want to say this

  27. morning that through the word.

  28. Of God, and.

  29. And I'll just I'll just go straight into one of

  30. the verses first John, chapter fifteen, verse eleven. You know

  31. it's the next the next life. So this is the

  32. words of Jesus in a Book of John. Jesus said

  33. this these things I've spoken to you, that my joy

  34. may remain in you and that your joy.

  35. May be full.

  36. So I want to start this morning if you're asking yourself,

  37. can I allow myself to be happy in twenty twenty five?

  38. I want to say that Jesus. The words of Jesus

  39. is this, that my joy may remain in you and

  40. that your joy may be full. Okay, So we're going

  41. to break down this word joy today, super simple, and

  42. we want to understand more of what the Bible says

  43. about joy.

  44. Okay.

  45. So, yes, God wants us to have more joy in

  46. the same way, like how as a parent or as

  47. parents here, I think many of you are moms and

  48. dads here.

  49. You want your child to be happy.

  50. Right right, I'm sure all of us parents, grandparents, great grandparents.

  51. I don't know where there's any great grandparents in the house,

  52. you want your child to be happy, right, But also

  53. as a parent, you know that you do not want

  54. your child to be happy in a sense where they

  55. get like a short.

  56. Term feeling of pleasure.

  57. Right, So I wrote down here parents will not give

  58. into a child's short term feeling of pleasure or contentment

  59. that fades quickly okay, and often comes from immediate gratification

  60. versus a lasting sense of fulfillment and joy.

  61. Right.

  62. So, so as a dad, yes, I want my three

  63. boys to be happy always. That will be like super ideal,

  64. although as humans we know that in this life, in

  65. no way we can constantly be happy.

  66. Right.

  67. And I also don't want to have them think as

  68. they're growing up that they can have very instant gratification.

  69. Right.

  70. You know that things may come easy, and I want

  71. to feel joy immediately and it's not long lasting because

  72. that will be detrimental to who they are as they

  73. grow up.

  74. Right.

  75. So, so, yes, God wants us to be happy. God

  76. wants us to be full of joy, that our joy

  77. may be full, but I believe that He will not

  78. give us this kind of instant gratification. Okay, So let's

  79. explore this word today. And you know this is the

  80. first time I got sole little slides like I usually

  81. have fifty slides. I've got like sixteen today, so it

  82. might be quick then we haven't. We can have no

  83. we can talk about outside later. So if you're new

  84. and not new, please stay back all right again, John

  85. fifteen eleven. And these words come up to me really

  86. from the Book of John and John fifteen and John sixteen.

  87. So these two chapters are of like my key text today, right,

  88. all right, let's go, let's move. So how how I'm

  89. going to do this today. I'm going to split the

  90. sharing the two parts. The first part is I want

  91. to sort of define in the Bible what joy is? Okay, definition,

  92. how does God see it? From the Bible? How does

  93. Jesus use the words? And then the second part, I'm

  94. gonna just give you guys three hours like really simple

  95. things to remember on how we can have more joy

  96. in our lives. Okay, So let's go to the definition.

  97. So what is joy? What is joy? What is joy? So?

  98. Joy number one is a good feeling?

  99. Right, And if you're feeling good today, it's now been

  100. saying the song the Joy of the Lord is my strength. Right,

  101. Joy a good feeling and I want to use sort

  102. of this definition from John Piper because for me it

  103. really is sums up what this definition is. So buster

  104. John Piper say this Christian joy is a good feeling.

  105. There's no doubt, but it is. It is a feeling.

  106. It's a response and emotion that we have to different things. Okay.

  107. It can be from God given gifts, or it can

  108. be from experiences we have that brings out join us.

  109. Okay.

  110. So joy is a feeling. By that I mean it

  111. is not an idea. It is not a conviction. It

  112. is not a persuasion or a decision.

  113. Okay. It is a feeling or I use the words.

  114. Interchangeably here and emotion. So right, joy is an emotional feeling.

  115. So one of the marks of the difference between an

  116. idea and an emotion or a feeling is that you

  117. don't have immediate control over your feelings or your emotions.

  118. You don't have control over how you feel and your emotions.

  119. That's right, right.

  120. You can't snap your finger and decide to feel something. Right,

  121. So let's just establish that foundation Firstla Joy, the joy

  122. that God wants us to experience in our lives in

  123. fullness is not something we can control. It's a feeling,

  124. a response to what happens to us in our lives.

  125. You know, what does this saying the heart wants what

  126. it wants? Is it from the Bible.

  127. It's not a Bible verse.

  128. Okay, some famous celebrities said it the heart wants what

  129. the heart wants. I think it was in response to

  130. it like an affair that this person had, so so

  131. don't quote that, but it rings true in the sense

  132. where when the heart wants something, you know, the heart

  133. wants something like you know Jaden, our youngest child. He's

  134. he's great, I love him, but he's very like determined

  135. to get what he wants.

  136. And as a child sometimes you cannot.

  137. Like what's the word, comprehend or manage how you feel

  138. on the inside. So when he's when he's focused on

  139. getting something, could be this bottle over here, nothing in

  140. the world can stop him from getting the bottle, and

  141. he will cry and and you know if I take

  142. it away from him, he will He just wants it

  143. because that's what the heart wants.

  144. Right.

  145. So, jaw in a sense is a response and an

  146. emotion to things, and in general, that feeling of joy

  147. that we have is just a feeling and emotion. That's

  148. the first definition, Okay, is he number two? Number two,

  149. it's in the soul, So it's a good feeling in

  150. the soul. By that, you know, I'm drawing attention to

  151. the fact that it's not in the body. Okay, it's

  152. not in the body. The body may feel effects of that,

  153. so you might feel like, you know, butterflies in your tummy,

  154. or you feel like you're skipping your steps suddenly and

  155. then or you have a smile, or it could be

  156. tears of joy. But it's something you feel in your soul,

  157. is an emotion, and the body may respond to it.

  158. Right, So you know what this means to me.

  159. I believe that the feeling of joy goes to eternity,

  160. right because joy is not a physical thing. Our flesh

  161. will die one day, one day when we're old and

  162. we live this earth. And if you're a Christian here,

  163. you believe that you go into eternity, into the.

  164. Joy of your maker, our God.

  165. This joy carries on the joy that God wants to

  166. experience you on earth, carries on to His fullness even

  167. in heaven.

  168. Okay.

  169. Third thing about joy, it's obviously a fruit of the spirit, right,

  170. so you know, I think even Jason preached about this

  171. last week Galatians five twenty two. Right, the fruit of

  172. the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness,

  173. and self control. So this third part of the definition

  174. of the movements of the soul are produced by the

  175. Holy Spirit. So therefore the joy in my soul overflowing

  176. towards God is coming from the work of the Holy Spirit. Okay,

  177. let me explain a little bit more. The thing about fruits.

  178. Right. The thing about fruits is, as.

  179. A farmer or someone who likes to do gardening, if

  180. you have ever done that before, the responsibility of the

  181. soul or the farmer or the person putting that see

  182. into the ground.

  183. It that's all they do.

  184. They take the seed, they put into the ground, and

  185. then they care for it by watering and providing fertilizer.

  186. But everything that happens from the sowing of the seed

  187. to the tree growing to the fruit coming out is

  188. almost beyond the control of the sower. Right, So when

  189. you say the fruit of the spirit is actually an

  190. outcome of something that we do first, and then the

  191. spirit to the Holy Spirit gives you this fruit of joy. Right,

  192. So we want to talk a little bit more. Yes,

  193. joy is a feeling. Joy is an emotion, a response

  194. to something we deem as good that happens in our lives.

  195. But how since we cannot control how we feel, what

  196. can we do to sow to bear this fruit of

  197. the spirit, which we call joy?

  198. So just what we're going to break down today? Okay?

  199. So three things? What is joy?

  200. A good feeling and emotion we cannot control. It's in

  201. the soul, not physically, it's in the soul, and it's

  202. the food of the spirit.

  203. Okay.

  204. So I want to bring you two more definitions to

  205. the word joy from what I written a bible okay.

  206. And the next one is this this this statement which

  207. I think will be very familiar to you, and it's

  208. the joy of the Lord.

  209. Okay, the joy of the Lord.

  210. Again, we sang this song, and we we I mean

  211. I I I'm a musician, right, and I love Christian songs.

  212. And this thing that we sing, the Joy of the Lord,

  213. is so common in a lot of our songs. We

  214. sing it, we sing about it a lot. We declare

  215. this to God a lot. We declared this in our

  216. lives a lot. But what does it mean? What does

  217. the joy of the Lord mean? How does it differ

  218. from normal joy?

  219. Right?

  220. So I believe that it's a difference, And I want

  221. to say first that I wrote this down inclination. The

  222. joy of the lot is an inclination of being happy.

  223. So you're inclined or you are you are you have

  224. a response of being happy or glad or joyful in

  225. God okay, or being with God or doing.

  226. Or obeying what he says. So right, the joy of

  227. the Lord is.

  228. When you are happy to be with God, happy to

  229. be in his presence. You rejoice to be in God's presence.

  230. You rejoice when you obey his commandments. When he tells

  231. you to do something. It's like, yes, God, thank you

  232. for this word you've given to me. I'm joyful because

  233. I know that you want the best for me, and

  234. I will respond this way. Right, it can be a

  235. joy comes from reading his word.

  236. Right, So it.

  237. Gives us, like to me, two different categories. One is

  238. as humans we experience joy. The joy can come from

  239. many different things, like today someone gave me a new ferrari.

  240. Am I going to be happy? Confirm?

  241. Right? Like one hundred percent response and joy get into

  242. that car rep that v to help and then you know,

  243. and and but is yeah until the road text come yeah,

  244. then it's like oh man twelve tho.

  245. I mean that's just a very example.

  246. I'm just you know, or it can it come from

  247. small things like you know, suddenly today your kid you know,

  248. comes up to you and gives you flowers. You know,

  249. that breaks joy to your heart. Not so materialistic, right,

  250. Or tomorrow your boss tells you're getting a promotion. Right,

  251. Oh yah, you're getting a pay rise without any change

  252. your job scope.

  253. Oh joy? Yeah, happy? Right, So all those are responses.

  254. We have two things that we dim that will make

  255. us better in our life or bring joy to our heart.

  256. But the Bible also uses this term, which is the

  257. joy of the Lord. Okay, the joy of the Lord.

  258. And to me, this is everything in response to what

  259. God is in our lives.

  260. Okay.

  261. So if you're a Christian here and you're in this room,

  262. I believe we need to have the joy of the Lord. Okay,

  263. So in a sense where like again I go back

  264. to my definition, joy is a feeling and an emotion.

  265. So what if an example, Okay, an example, I don't

  266. have the joy of the Lord, meaning I just don't

  267. want anything to do with God as a person. Oh,

  268. when God tells me to do something like hmm, that

  269. doesn't sound like a good idea, I think I know better, right,

  270. Or or when I read God's word like it doesn't

  271. seem right to me, I think I have a better

  272. view or perspective of life. So that is not having

  273. the joy of the lot.

  274. Right.

  275. The word the joy of the Lord is our strength.

  276. So y'all heard that, right, we sang it. Just the

  277. joy of the Lord is our strength. That is quite loaded.

  278. That's quite loaded. And this exact phrase from what I study,

  279. only comes up in the Bible once, okay, and it's

  280. in context. What it is was in Nahi Maya chapter eight,

  281. So y'all know the book of Nahimaya, right. Nahimaya was

  282. given the responsibility to rebuild the walls, you know. And

  283. after they done rebuilding the walls, Ezra, not as Ra Ezra,

  284. but Ezra, which was Nahimaya's companion, went up to then

  285. rebuild the people in a sense where he took God's

  286. word probably the Torah at that time, and spoke and

  287. read out God's word from the dawn to mid day

  288. to all these people. And what happened to the people

  289. when they heard God's word is they they weep, and

  290. they had sorrow, and they were crying, and they were

  291. they sort of responded in a sense where they were

  292. like sad because.

  293. They were in exile. They did they were far away

  294. from God.

  295. And and seeing the response of the people, Ezra said, this,

  296. don't respond in that way. Rejoice, be glad, make Mary celebrate,

  297. because the joy of the Lord is your strength.

  298. Right.

  299. It is like when as a husband or as a friend,

  300. or as a boyfriend or friend, as a husband, I

  301. disappoint my wife. Right, And then she she tells me

  302. the covenant of marriage is not this.

  303. She reads out God's word.

  304. To me and tells me, okay, all the wrongs I've done,

  305. and my natural response is one of sadness, right, like,

  306. oh man, yes, I've fallen shot of the role of.

  307. Her husband today. Right.

  308. But then she then tells me it's okay, because this

  309. covenant that we have, we should be joyful in it.

  310. We should celebrate, we should rejoice. So our natural response

  311. to our relationship with God should be one that is

  312. rejoicing and one that comes out of joy. So that

  313. is what the joy of the Lord is. But you're

  314. asking me, I can't control how A respond to God, right,

  315. because joys and emotion I can't control.

  316. So what do I do? Right?

  317. So I want to say today that there are things

  318. that we can do and invest into our lives that

  319. can help us respond to God joyfully every time. Okay,

  320. the Word of God says taste and see that the

  321. Lord is good. In the Book of Some, taste and

  322. see the Lord is good. Again, you can't control what

  323. you taste.

  324. Right.

  325. If I give a lemon, she puts it in her mouth,

  326. what's it going to be? Taste sour? Right, so she

  327. can't tell her mind. Put a lemon in my mouth,

  328. It's gonna taste bitter, bitter, bitter, bitter, bitter. Right, it's

  329. gonna taste our So if the Bible says taste and

  330. see that the Lord is good when we taste it,

  331. how do we know that it's good? How how is

  332. our response going to be good? We need to you now,

  333. taste bads to know that God is good, right, so

  334. that we respond in the right manner.

  335. Okay, you know last time, you know, I used to

  336. don't like bitter God. You know, bit the God?

  337. Right, Yes, it's a taste bitters in the name itself.

  338. You know, if you're Chinese, you're fried with egg and

  339. then man, I love that dish. Now, because did something

  340. change to the bit of God? Did the bit of

  341. God becomes sweeter over the thirty years of my life?

  342. Thirty eight years of my life? No, right, it's just

  343. that my taste but changed. La, Now I have a

  344. preference to what I didn't like last time. Right, I

  345. got I got older. Yeah, when you get.

  346. Older, your tongue, your tongue functions differently.

  347. May be true also true, So taste and see the

  348. Lord is good. Our response to God should be enjoy

  349. the joy of the Lord.

  350. Okay.

  351. Another definition that we see often in the Bible is

  352. this phrase that your joy may be full, that your

  353. joy maybe ful. Okay, So we see this only two times.

  354. How Jesus used to it, both in John chapter fifteen

  355. and sixteen. So we'll go through those verses. Now, there

  356. are different translations that bring out different meaning, so that

  357. joy may before. If you look at different translations, you

  358. will say that your joy may be complete. So there's perfection,

  359. there's completion. That your joy may overflow. So imagine if

  360. you've got so much joy that it overflows and like

  361. affects other people. So right, you know that this guy,

  362. his name is Joel Edwards, he goes to Sumunjaya service.

  363. But every time I surf with him right at even

  364. at six thirty or five thirty am, I know I

  365. expect it. Now if I walk into that room right

  366. there will be one guy shouting and like, yay, welcome,

  367. good morning, past Julian.

  368. Are you ready to serve?

  369. And I don't know where he gets his energy from

  370. at that time in the morning. So there's like overflowing

  371. of joy that it affects other people. So that's your

  372. joy me before abandoned joy having so much right, So

  373. the Bible talks about fullness of joy, you know, Psalm sixteen,

  374. verse eleven. You will show me the path of the

  375. life in your presence is fullness of joy. In God's presence,

  376. there's fullness of joy. So if you are having being

  377. law and joy and you need the guests fill up,

  378. go to God's presence at your right hand up pleasures

  379. forever more. Right In Matthew twenty five twenty three, we

  380. also see this. This is a parable and I think

  381. when I read this, you will you will understand well done,

  382. good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a

  383. few things, I will make you ruler over many things.

  384. Enter into the joy of the law.

  385. So I believe we will only fully experience God's joy

  386. when we go into eternity. Right, So, even on earth,

  387. God has given us that fullness of joy. But when

  388. we are fully in His presence, that's when you experience

  389. the fullness of His joy. So imagine just imagine being

  390. in eternity with someone that you don't like. Just think

  391. about a person they don't like most on earth. Can

  392. you think of someone I don't know? Yeah, I just

  393. saw some face in my head straight away.

  394. Which is so funny. Imagine being like.

  395. In that person's presence for the rest of eternity, for

  396. one thousand times one thousand years. Not fun, right, not fun.

  397. And we're going to be in God's presence for eternity,

  398. so taste and see that the Lord is We're gonna

  399. train out these once to love God in this earth. Okay, okay,

  400. So that's the first part the definition of joy. Let's

  401. go into some practical tips on how we can How

  402. do I have more joy? How can I have more

  403. joy in my life, how do I experience.

  404. The joy of the lot more in twenty twenty five.

  405. So, as I mentioned, if you have time after this,

  406. go back and read John chapter fifteen, John chapter sixteen,

  407. those two verses, and my first point is this number

  408. one is remain remain and it comes from John chapter fifteen.

  409. So I won't be reading the whole chapter today, but

  410. if you know John chapter fifteen, and it's actually one

  411. of my favorite chapters in the Bible. It starts off

  412. by Jesus talking about fruitfulness, and he says that yep,

  413. I'm the vine. You are the branches, and my father

  414. is the vine keeper. Right, So Jesus is the vine,

  415. we are the branches, and we need to be connected.

  416. We need to be attached.

  417. We need to remain in the vine. We need to abide,

  418. we need to be part of connected to this main thing. Okay,

  419. So there's what John chapter fifteen is about. Whoever abides

  420. in me and I in him bears much fruit, you know.

  421. So that's John chapter fifteen, and it ends with this

  422. in verse eleven, So we can go to the next verse,

  423. verse nine, ten and eleven with this which I want

  424. to bring up today, as the father loved me, I

  425. also have loved you, abide in my love verse Tand

  426. if you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love.

  427. Just I have kept my father's commandments and abide in

  428. his love. So verse eleven, as you read earlier these things,

  429. I've spoken to you that my joy may remain in you,

  430. and that your joy.

  431. May be full.

  432. So the question is, how do I have more joy

  433. in twenty twenty five? Biblical joy?

  434. Right?

  435. Joy that will is not instant gratification, joy that will

  436. last me? How do I have more joy in twenty

  437. twenty five? John chapter fifteen tells us how. Verse eleven

  438. says these things, I've spoken to you that my joy

  439. may remain in you and that your joy may be full.

  440. So what was Jesus saying these things?

  441. Uh?

  442. It says again, we need to first abide and remain

  443. in Jesus. Okay, I'll break that down a bit. And

  444. then he also says in verse ten, if you keep

  445. my commandments, you will abide in.

  446. My love right.

  447. Okay, So how do we do this in a practical way?

  448. How do we keep on being connected to the vine

  449. which is Jesus right? How do we abide in him?

  450. Or remain in him.

  451. I will give you an example of what I think

  452. works for me. Of course, the word, the Word of

  453. God says that you need to keep his commandments. Means

  454. you need to know God's word and apply God's word. Right,

  455. So in general that's what it is lat Okay, how

  456. does he connect the dry I will explain in a while.

  457. But essentially for Earth to remain and abide in God,

  458. we need to know and read God's word and obey

  459. and keep his word. Okay. So so it starts off

  460. by Earth's reading hopefully every day, you know. But if

  461. you are like me in the morning when I wake

  462. up and read the Word of God, sometimes like right

  463. after closing my Bible and I go and get the

  464. kids ready, I immediately forgot what I read. Like I

  465. don't know, you guys are laughing at me, like this

  466. guy how he got so many eighty in SPM?

  467. You know?

  468. Like if you I read one chapter and I'm like,

  469. I can't remember what I read? How do I apply it?

  470. You know?

  471. So I'll give you a few tips of what I've

  472. been trying to do. But I really believe this will

  473. help us with out joy. Okay, there I give an example,

  474. just just this week, you know Tinny Schad about how

  475. Zach got sick. So our kids got sick over the

  476. last two weeks. I don't know where the same influence

  477. about it was influenced at a So on that Sunday

  478. that got got sick. Sunday night, Micah had a fever

  479. which I think ran up to almost forty forty, so

  480. very high fever. And actually he came into my room

  481. at night and I was sleeping. Then he was sort

  482. of talking nonsense. Then maybe the fever affects how you.

  483. I'm like, don't disturb me trying to sleep. It's like

  484. three am in the morning. Then you said it wasn't

  485. so bright outside. I'm like bright outside. I mean I

  486. didn't even go and check on him. I just just

  487. go and sleep. So he so he slept and then

  488. in the morning we woke up felt it was very

  489. high fever, so.

  490. So he couldn't go to school.

  491. And little did I know, that was the start of

  492. like two weeks of just all our family members taking

  493. them to get sick, like we were playing musical chess.

  494. Who's going to sit on a chair now to get sick?

  495. So you know, each each others took them to get sick,

  496. which you know, if you have kids and they're very

  497. young kids, it's quite challenging when someone is sick in

  498. the house.

  499. Not a very nice thing. Uh.

  500. And too, you know, if they are sick, they can't

  501. go to school. They can't go to school, means I

  502. can't work properly, or Laura and SFF can't work properly.

  503. So it's like not the funnest or best or most

  504. joyful two weeks of my life. Uh, not as dramatic

  505. as what happened to Zach. But we didn't send my

  506. car to the emergency department on Monday night. Cost it

  507. feels very high. Uh and and you know, so so

  508. you know that kind of weak life kind of then

  509. as everyone was getting better, right, you know, just this

  510. couple of days ago, you're gonna send Jayden back to school.

  511. Uh yeah, so that also to restart because Jayden started

  512. school this year. First couple of days, he's oh, getting better,

  513. not crying anymore, you know, drop off time.

  514. Then he got sick.

  515. Then oh, man, restart the drop off drama, the crying,

  516. the putting on the uniform, and I'll save you the

  517. details are okay, but what happened one morning, was after

  518. the drop off, after the whole like tiring drama and

  519. uh crying in the morning, and like, you know, you

  520. want to start your day well, right, you want to

  521. start your day on the right foot. Then I was

  522. in the cab Laura after the drop off, and then

  523. again I was pay the details. But then we had

  524. some disagreement, like he had a disagreement, which I.

  525. Was like, you're ruining the whole day. I am. I

  526. just did my devotion this morning, man, like I thought

  527. it was all going well to the moment the.

  528. Kids wake up until now it's like, oh man, this

  529. is not good. And I had this word in my heart.

  530. You know, I want to share about this, you know,

  531. being joyful. So so so okay, we went our separate

  532. ways to go to work, and then as I was

  533. about to start to work, this.

  534. Verse came to me.

  535. How do I remain connected to the vine when I'm

  536. in situations where like it's impossible to be joyful.

  537. So this is what I do.

  538. I will try and scan in my head what versus

  539. can speak to this situation.

  540. Now, it can be from this morning when.

  541. I read the Bible or anything, and and God just

  542. gave me this, which is Ecclesiastics Chapter four.

  543. Our regally.

  544. Now, though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.

  545. And a cord of trees strends is not quickly broken. Okay,

  546. it's just a verse the Holy Spirit.

  547. Drop in my heart.

  548. And you know, now, even if you don't know the

  549. whole verse, you can just take out your phone and

  550. google it.

  551. Like we live in a time where.

  552. Even if you remember part of the verse, how do

  553. we remin you can just use our phone and google it, right,

  554. or if you haven't memorized, then use that verse to

  555. speak to yourself, to preach to yourself. So I just

  556. did that for a couple of minutes, Like, Okay, I

  557. have a family now, and the word of God says

  558. that too can defend themselves. So me and my wife

  559. Laura are better together. And I just spoke that to

  560. my relationship. And then you know, say, a colt of

  561. tree strands is not quickly broken. Right, So I'm thinking about,

  562. you know, my kids can be part of the pictures,

  563. and I'm saying that, okay, this is good for my family,

  564. and I'm in a great position, and I'm speaking God's

  565. word into my life and then that just builds up

  566. joy in myself to not respond and let something that

  567. will rob me of my joy throughout the day. So

  568. how do you remain in God's word? You use remain

  569. in Christ is use God's word to preach to yourself.

  570. You can do it, you know. It can be what

  571. you read the morning itself. Break it down. If you're

  572. reading my whole chapter, maybe just get one verse that

  573. you think you speaks to you. You can write it

  574. down on a piece of paper, put in your pocket,

  575. and you know, just stick it up and refer to

  576. it la or from memory. Use your brain that God

  577. have gave you to scan through the different scriptures you

  578. have in your mind. Pick up one verse prec to yourself,

  579. use it, pray over it, use it and speak to yourself.

  580. And really that just flipped the tables. How the tables

  581. have turned in that day. It went from like it's

  582. going to be a ruined day, like bad start, bad day,

  583. to one that is one of victory. One that is

  584. one that I know that I'm overcome and overcomer. Okay,

  585. that's point number one. Remain So again going back to

  586. if you remain, if you do these things, the joy

  587. of what Jesus is if we if we abide and

  588. use his commandments. His words, Jesus said that my joy

  589. may remain in you and that your joy.

  590. May be full. Okay, WHOA, Let's go.

  591. Number two. Number two is request request, John sixteen. So

  592. John sixteen is a weird one to me because you

  593. read it, you know it. There's a lot of funny

  594. little questions that the disciples are asking, asking Jesus. But

  595. I'll go to verse twenty three. First, John sixteen, Verse

  596. twenty three. Before this, Jesus was just telling his disciples

  597. the time is coming, you know, when whoever kills you

  598. will do it in the name of God.

  599. Service.

  600. So he's in a way bringing like doom and gloom

  601. to his disciples. And it speaks about how I will

  602. be going away for a while and I'll be returning.

  603. John sixteen or so promises that the Holy Spirit will

  604. be given to us.

  605. Right.

  606. So remember that scripture that says it is to your

  607. advantage that I leave so that the helper can come.

  608. Right.

  609. So that's John chapter sixteen. But John sixteen twenty three

  610. ends with this, and it's the second time Jesus used

  611. the words that your joy may be full okay, And

  612. he says this John sixteen twenty three. And in that

  613. day you will ask me nothing. Most assuredly, I say

  614. to you, whatever you ask the Father in my name,

  615. he will give you Verse twenty four. Until now you

  616. have asked nothing in my name. Ask and you will

  617. receive that your joy may be full. Ask and you

  618. will receive that your joy me before. Remember, Jesus only

  619. use this word that your joy may be full two times.

  620. This is the second time right in the book of John.

  621. So if you take scripture at face value, how do

  622. we have follows of joy?

  623. We need to remember to ask, to remember to pray. Right.

  624. It's so funny because I also experienced this recently, Like

  625. just last week, you know, I was having some difficulties

  626. in work and it was one that wasn't easily easily overcome,

  627. not a direct solution because it deals with like our

  628. local authorities in just so you know, right, if you

  629. do a local authority like man, it's just complicated, it's

  630. not clear what they want. I can't get you approved.

  631. And it was hanging and it was like three different projects.

  632. And that morning when I woke up your remember its

  633. a Friday, I just just was felt I felt a

  634. prompting but the Holy Spirit to pray specifically about this

  635. work that there will be favor, and so I just prayed,

  636. ask God, okay, God, give me victory, give me favor.

  637. And the background story is actually called the local authority

  638. the week ago UH to ask for the status of

  639. this project and he told me in bahasa tola tola

  640. means pusha, so it means I assume that didn't get approved.

  641. So I'm like, what's the point of praying. I already know,

  642. I already know the results. I know what you know.

  643. I mean, given that my bahasa was not the best

  644. or trying to understand what he was saying, you know,

  645. but that's what he said. And I prayed. I prayed,

  646. and I was driving to a meeting and.

  647. I was I wasn't.

  648. I didn't want to go and check the status at

  649. the office that day because I just didn't want bad

  650. news that day. I don't know, It's like, you know

  651. what I want to what's the word detail or postpone

  652. or postpone the bad news actual band news announcement. Right,

  653. they have to report to my client and all this

  654. kind of stuff. So I thought Friday, I want to

  655. chill on a weekend. I'll go next week, right, And

  656. I was driving to a meeting and like it was

  657. nearby the office where I need to check. I felt

  658. just turned I just turned in time someone you know,

  659. extra time. So I turned in and went in. Then

  660. again didn't expect anything because I know I prayed in

  661. the morning. I asked God for a favor. But the

  662. other part of my fleshly part of me was like,

  663. I really know the results. So the guy came up

  664. with the three different letters, and then he was like,

  665. I don't know. It's like Chinese knil when you play

  666. and you play that the cut games right, he opened

  667. the cut, You open the cut slowly to see what

  668. cut you get. I mean, I don't gambo, but Chinese

  669. years coming up. I don't know why to do that.

  670. So it was like the cart is there? Really just

  671. open and see, like why you want to open slowly.

  672. To see all black color? Then you know the spade.

  673. Then he's a nine. I don't know whether you you

  674. get that bad.

  675. It was almost like that, you know, because it was

  676. three different files there, and the guy had to turn

  677. each file.

  678. I don't know.

  679. He late get away, so he turned his file to

  680. write into the file that I've been taking over. So

  681. the first time I was like, that means approof la approof.

  682. It's like, hey, waits something wrong? I like here wrongly

  683. or did they write the letter wrongly? And I was like, oh, man,

  684. there's been approved. Then the next one turned slowly and

  685. it was like approve again. So all three were approved

  686. and I was I was so. I was so joyful.

  687. I was so joyful because what I expected from this

  688. outcome wasn't what it was because God came through. That's

  689. why I believe in my perspective. So I went to

  690. the todder. I was like, thank God, man. I was

  691. praising in the office, the government office.

  692. And uh.

  693. And really this scripture, if you're you want your joy

  694. to be full, you need to remember to ask because

  695. the verse is here. Until now you have asked nothing

  696. in my name. So we need to remember to ask

  697. the Holy Spirit, ask God for our breakthroughth Okay, so

  698. let me let me just do this quick part because

  699. in John chapter sixteen you also see this phrase lah

  700. a little while, a little while, And it's quite weird

  701. because the disciples were asking Jesus or asking among himself.

  702. You know what does Jesus mean by a little while,

  703. because he kept saying these they were confused. And I

  704. want to say that sometimes before we get our answered prayer,

  705. when we feel like everything is not going well, there's

  706. no reason to be joyful. You're asking God, when when

  707. is my breakthrough coming? And all Jesus says is a

  708. little whole What does a little wol mean?

  709. What does a little wou mean? How long?

  710. Five minutes, two minutes, two years, ten years?

  711. When I die one day? When will the breakthrough come?

  712. Jesus actually said this a little while, And I think

  713. it's a tough one to be joyful in those situations.

  714. And I can't tell you that I have the answers,

  715. but I want to read scripture, which is the verses

  716. before the verse that we just read. So John chapter sixteen,

  717. Verse twenty to twenty two. So after Jesus said a

  718. little while trying to explain how he will be gone

  719. for a while and then he will come back, and

  720. instead of bringing clarity, it sort of brought confusion to

  721. the disciples. And then Jesus explained it this way of

  722. almost like what the disciples should expect in their life

  723. Verse twenty most. Actually, I say to you that you

  724. will weep and the man. So it's like most acturely,

  725. like confirm, confirm, this is what's going to happen, That

  726. you will weep and le man, and the world will

  727. rejoice and you will be sorrowful. It's like not what

  728. you want to hear, but your sorrow will be turned

  729. into joy. Right, Okay, So he does promise that a

  730. woman when she is in.

  731. Labor has sorrow.

  732. Because her hour has come, but as soon as she

  733. has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers

  734. the anguish for joy that a human.

  735. Being has been born into the world. I mean, this

  736. is so it's so.

  737. Encouraging for us to know that in the sorrow that

  738. we have, in the anguish that we have, that God

  739. promises joy, just like how a woman who is in

  740. labor will one day experience joy.

  741. Right. Therefore, you now.

  742. Have sorrow, but I will see you again and your

  743. heart will rejoice and your joy and your joy no

  744. one will take from you. So how do we how

  745. do we deal in situations like this when it's just

  746. a little while, when we don't have the answers, when

  747. we're in the midst of the sorrow. I can say

  748. that the Bible also tells us that there's a time

  749. for everything. There are seasons for every activity under the

  750. heaven's ecclesiastic history. A time to be born, a time

  751. to die, the time to plan and the time to uproot,

  752. the time to kill and the time to heal, a

  753. time to tear down, a time to build, a time

  754. to weep, the time to laugh, a time to mourn,

  755. and a time to dance. He goes on, but what

  756. is the position we should take when it's a time

  757. to weep, when it's the time to mourn. How do

  758. we have those situations in the middle of in the

  759. middle of sorrow. So I've got just two points, and

  760. the first one is in John sixteen. The Word of

  761. God says, it is to our advantage that he goes away,

  762. because he will send a helper. He'll send a helper.

  763. So we need to rely on the Holy Spirit in

  764. those moments.

  765. Right. You know, if you don't need help, you don't

  766. need a helper. Right.

  767. God says that he's sending a helper because he knows

  768. that we need help. If we can do everything, then

  769. don't help her out like settle myself. But the reason

  770. Jesus has sent the helper is because there are situations

  771. we cannot handle, and in those times, the Holy Spirit

  772. is there for us. And the next thing I want

  773. to say is this point, which is my last point,

  774. and I just get the band to come up as well.

  775. And it's this word refocus. So three hours right, remain

  776. remain abiding in Him, connected with the vine. Second thing

  777. is requests remember to pray, rely on the Holy Spirit.

  778. And the last hour is refocus. Refocus. You remember what

  779. Jason pushed about last Sunday. It was about Peter walking

  780. on water right step out of the boat and then

  781. he experienced a miracle. But in the midst of that miracle,

  782. he got distracted by the waves and the storm and

  783. they started sinking because his focus was away from Jesus.

  784. He looked at the waves, he looked at the storm,

  785. he looked at the ferocity of the city way he

  786. was in. And this morning, as we are in different

  787. situations that are challenging, can I invite you to refocus

  788. your perspective on what may not be going good and

  789. refocus it on who Jesus is and what he has

  790. said in our lives. Hebrews twelve, verse two this scripture

  791. is amazing. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus,

  792. refocus the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. So

  793. we need Jesus to complete our faith in believing him.

  794. And why because of what he has done, because of

  795. the joy awaiting him. So Jesus had the joy set

  796. out before him. The verse says he and the are

  797. the cross, disregarding its shame. Imagine imagine this verse, like Jesus,

  798. the Son of God is going to go through one

  799. of the biggest tortures, pain, sacrifice ever faced to a person,

  800. and the word joy is in there because of the

  801. joy awaiting him. He and they are the cross, disregarding

  802. its shame. I don't know why this.

  803. Is there, but.

  804. The challenges that we go through, we need to refocus

  805. on that joy set out, that joy awaiting us believing.

  806. I mean, if I can imagine what Jesus was like,

  807. He's I'm gonna endure the cross. They're gonna pierce nails

  808. through my hands and my feet, they're gonna weep me.

  809. And it's not like he can decide to not have

  810. pain in those situations. Right, you know, he's God, but

  811. he's still man. He endured all the pain as a

  812. human should, but he had the joy set out before him.

  813. He had the joy awaiting him.

  814. And I can imagine him in those situations thinking about us,

  815. thinking about how this sacrifice will take away the sin,

  816. will take away all that sickness in humanity, will remove

  817. the darkness, will bring so many people to eternity and

  818. reconciliation with God.

  819. And he's looking at that, and his perspective.

  820. Was that that God the Father has a plan, and

  821. he's refocusing on what awaits him. And therefore he endured

  822. that trial, He endured that sorrow, He endured the cross

  823. disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place

  824. of honor beside God's throne. Think of all the hostility

  825. he endured for simple people, then you won't become wary

  826. and give up. So if I'm not here to say

  827. that all of us are, there are different situations that

  828. we are in and it's maybe difficult and even beyond

  829. you know what I can experience or what I can

  830. help with sometimes or give counsel to.

  831. But the Word of God says, if.

  832. We think of all the hostility Jesus has enjoyed for

  833. simple people, then we won't become weary and give up.

  834. So my encouragement to you this morning as we as

  835. we close and can I invite you.

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