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Loving Your Neighbor 1st Service - Rev James Okine Sunday 28th July 2024

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  1. Oh, can't believe us. Shout at be a man on

  2. to Jesus.

  3. Hale Lujiah.

  4. Look to the ones standing next year, I said my neighbor,

  5. my neighbor. No, I'm not feeling this, I said my neighbor,

  6. my neighbor, this morning, God will surely bless you down.

  7. The person next year, said my neighbor, my neighbor, I

  8. can't feel you this morning. If you can't shake yourself

  9. a little bit, the Lord will do something in your life.

  10. Give your neighbor high five and welcome somebody to church.

  11. Just welcome somebody to church. Hallelujah. In the same spirit,

  12. I want you to help me thank God and appreciate

  13. God for the life of the Father and the past

  14. of Next Generation Church. It's eminens yad, Bishop Nicolas, can

  15. you appreciate God for his life?

  16. Amen? Harlen Lawyer Paul says something.

  17. Paul said that we have many instructors, but when it

  18. comes to a father, we have just one father and

  19. for next year we are privileged to have its eminence,

  20. the Bishop Nicolas Dank Williams as our father. You know,

  21. some of us we have lost our biological fathers and

  22. one thing that spiritual Father always tells us is that

  23. your biological father will tell you where you are coming from,

  24. by your spiritual Father will tell you where you are going. Oh,

  25. can we thank God for the life of a seminars.

  26. For more time? What a blessing, harle lawyer. Amen, and

  27. also helped me.

  28. Thank God for the life of all the pastors or

  29. the shepherds of next generation in church.

  30. Oh, let's thank God for the choir.

  31. You are doing very well protocol or sound with thank

  32. God for your life.

  33. Amen.

  34. You may please be seated, Harly lawyer. How many of

  35. you are prepared for the word of God this morning? Amen? Amen,

  36. this morning. I just want to have a conversation with you.

  37. Last two weeks Paster Quack who came here and started

  38. a very powerful series. The greatest commandment of God, the

  39. greatest commandment, And I remember saying that the greatest commandment

  40. of God is to love the Lord. In Matthew Chapter

  41. twenty two, vers. Thirty six to verse forty. Matthew Chapter

  42. twenty two Ver's thirty six to verse forty, it's a master,

  43. which is the greatest commandment. In the Law verse thirty seven,

  44. Jesus said on to him, thou shall love the Lord

  45. Thy God. With all thy heart and with all thy soul,

  46. and with all thy mind.

  47. Thou shall love the Lord, Die God. Thou shall love

  48. the Lord Die God.

  49. And I remember PASTI saying that one thing that is

  50. very difficult to do is to love God. Hello, one

  51. thing that is very difficult to do is to love God.

  52. We can love every other thing, but when it comes

  53. to loving God, it's a challenge. The last time, I

  54. was telling a group of people that when you're reading

  55. the Bible and come across don't punicate, don't commit adultery,

  56. you should just have me to mind that by default

  57. it is easy to do it. By default, it is

  58. easy to funicate, It is easy to commit adultery, it

  59. is easy to steal.

  60. So anytime you read the Bible and you see don't do.

  61. Something, you should understand that by default it is easy

  62. to do it.

  63. And when you read and.

  64. You get your pleasure, your abilitle to do something, it

  65. means that by default it is difficult to do it.

  66. So when the Bible talks about love the Lord that God,

  67. you should understand that it.

  68. Is very difficult to love the Lord God.

  69. Things that are not difficult to do, you don't need

  70. anybody to tell you you can't do it.

  71. We can't just do it. That's some of you.

  72. It's not easy to just take you a few and

  73. just go on social media. I mean it's easy to

  74. do so here somebody saying two days, it means it's

  75. very difficult to do it.

  76. Write this statement down.

  77. People are one of the great test resources God has

  78. given to man. People are one of the great test

  79. resources God has given to man. We are continuing the

  80. great test commandment of love, and today we want to

  81. talk about loving your neighbor. Loving your neighbor. Guys, see

  82. a lot of times we say we love God, and

  83. that's why we're having in church. We love God, and

  84. that's why we're in the car. We love God, and

  85. that is why we are in protocol. We love God,

  86. and that is why we've come to church. But you

  87. see all these things, that's not necessarily mean you love God.

  88. It doesn't. It doesn't.

  89. Somebody came me up very early this morning, but if

  90. you check what they did last night, you want to

  91. answer yourself just one question.

  92. It's dispressing a Christian.

  93. And you know, I remember to say these things because

  94. I once upon a time found myself in that category

  95. where on Saturday evening you go and chill, you have

  96. a lot of fun in beer bars, in pubs, in

  97. nights clubs, and on Sunday morning and one of the

  98. first classon to come to church. I've been there before.

  99. I've been there before. I remember one of the days

  100. I went to the nights club, so somewhere twenty thirteen,

  101. and when I went to the nights club, in fact,

  102. it was the nights club closed around four year and

  103. I was like a charista. I was in the Metadist

  104. church and I was a four am and I was

  105. WANs to wear a robe, I mean processed with the

  106. reverend minister at seventh of fair service. I couldn't sleep

  107. at four am the Night's club closed. I got to

  108. the house around six eighty. Oh, I tell you, I

  109. tell you the way I was feeling. I just had

  110. to wear my white shirt black try and run away

  111. to church. Did I think I sunk powerfully? I was

  112. a basing at the time. I sunk powerfully. But you see,

  113. nobody did knew where I'd gone the night before. So

  114. you see, coming to church very early in the morning,

  115. that's not necessarily mean you love God. Loving God is

  116. a difficult thing to do. Tell a neighbor loving God,

  117. it's a difficult thing to do.

  118. Yeah, it's a lot of times. We're gonna tell you that.

  119. How is easy? Radio word?

  120. I mean, come to church, pray, even prayer, reading the

  121. Word of God. It's difficult. How many of you have

  122. experienced that. It's very difficult reading the Bible. Take care

  123. of your Bible and reading some allows to it. I

  124. took my Bible and I said I was going to

  125. read the whole of Joshua. I started from chapter one.

  126. By the time I got to chapter two, verse one,

  127. I was asleep. Yeah, these at times I wanted to

  128. be real so that you understand that at times you

  129. also go through So when you're going through it, you

  130. don't you don't feel guilty. You don't feel guilty. Hello, yeah,

  131. you don't feel guilty. Amen. Some of you said, I

  132. will tell it to them. Pray and praying at twelve am.

  133. You wake up at twelve am to pray. By twelve

  134. twenty you are gone. Yeah, tell yourself that talent.

  135. Today. I want to pray.

  136. Hey live me see at the lambs different alarm, eleven

  137. thirty eleven thirty five eleven forty five minutes in Tava.

  138. And when the levin that alarm sound, you snooze it.

  139. The harm many of you have been there before.

  140. Yeah, we snooze it.

  141. We have neighbor too, And especially when it's a rarely

  142. a rainy day. Oh come on, it's too nice. But

  143. it's very difficult. It's it's very difficult. As a people

  144. are one of the great test results God gave to man.

  145. Do they want to look at go to vese? All

  146. right and already there. And the second is like it.

  147. You shall love your neighbor. Ask yourself. You shall love

  148. your neighbor. Ask yourself. So if going to charge earlie,

  149. that's not necessarily.

  150. Mean you love God.

  151. If paying your tithe that's not necess really mean you

  152. love God. If singing in charge, that's not necessarily mean

  153. you love God. And what must I do to show

  154. that I love God? Number one? Loving your neighbor, Loving

  155. your neighbor, loving your neighbor, And you see, to.

  156. Love is difficult.

  157. People gonna stand in front of God at the altar

  158. and say that.

  159. For Richard, for poorer in health and in sickness till

  160. death to us.

  161. And the next minute a week after they go to court,

  162. they go to court. To love is very difficult because

  163. you see, if people are some way, people are some way.

  164. So to love your neighbor, it's a great challenge and

  165. a great task for you to be able to love

  166. your neighbor, because people are naturally some way. Look, people

  167. will hurt you, people will betray you, people would deny

  168. you before friends. People do all sorts of things to you.

  169. And these are the same people God, through his son

  170. jess Christ is telling us to laugh. Last Exander, I

  171. was having a conversation with one of our members and

  172. he said, Referendais, I.

  173. Can't come to church here again.

  174. And I said why, and she said, people have betrayed

  175. me in this church. I trusted them and I told

  176. them my secrets. And the next minute it was all

  177. of us. Not only next year, but even when I

  178. went to the men of the taurium, people had already had.

  179. Dance you.

  180. I said, really said, yes, yes, and some of us

  181. we are hear and people have betrayed us, betrayed us.

  182. So he said, to love your neighbor, it takes a

  183. lot of effort, a lot of efforts, a lot of effort.

  184. It takes a lot of effort. Pastors can hurt you.

  185. Pastess can say things to you. Pastest can insult you.

  186. I have a lot of friends who have started church

  187. because to them. They went to church and the protocol

  188. told them that what they're wearing was very short.

  189. What they're wearing was.

  190. Exposing the certain parts of their bodies, so they start church.

  191. Three ladies came to this church one time and when

  192. they came, the protocol met them at the entrance and said, no,

  193. what you're wearing is not good. Then they took them there.

  194. Was said there was a room somewhere here, you remember.

  195. Then they took them there, and when they took them there,

  196. they convert them with what's the name.

  197. Hescafle whatever and barrassment.

  198. Then they entered into the auditorium, they were shy, they

  199. were barrassed. The next minute they said, do not come

  200. to church again. So I went to them and I asked,

  201. you are new, you have visitors, and they said, oh, Pasta,

  202. actually we're not coming to church. We came to paint

  203. for paint whole week, you, mister Orghana. So this was

  204. the dress we came with for the program. But on

  205. Sunday morning, our our friend came to us as sailfish.

  206. You go to church, and we didn't have anything to

  207. us who we brought this to church and they came

  208. and they were embarrassed by See.

  209. That is who we are. That is who we are.

  210. I was telling you the last time that I find

  211. it very difficult to criticize people because when I checked

  212. my background and where the Lord has brought me from,

  213. I cannot just point fingers to people and criticize them.

  214. I can't.

  215. If really well, we will love people, we have to

  216. have a certain hearts, certain hands. It is I love

  217. your neighbor, ask yourself. Love your neighbor. Your neighbor will

  218. step on your toe. Your neighbor will see a lot

  219. of things against you. Your neighbor would gossip against you.

  220. But what will you do when you hear your neighbor

  221. gossip against you, all insults?

  222. You would you do? Some of us?

  223. I mean, I hasked with our classmates and don't talk

  224. to me again.

  225. Oh no, no, don't, don't, don't talk to me again.

  226. Don't talk to me again.

  227. I remember when I was in JHS, it was the norm.

  228. I mean, what your cobla at that time, that's what

  229. they say. What your cobula. Today we don't have those

  230. things and my clog. I asked you to you, I'll

  231. not talk with you, I mean, but to love people.

  232. It's a critic coughing. We need to be attention to

  233. bet that the ninety Jesus straight times better the nine

  234. says straight times. You ask yourself, how come pitt that

  235. denying Jesus? How come you do look Chapter twenty two, Vest.

  236. Thirty three, Look twenty two three? Take me to look

  237. twenty two best three. But he said to him, Lord,

  238. I am rady to go with you, but to prison

  239. and to death. You see, like some of us. First

  240. afterlt that, I tell I'm with you. I've ever been

  241. with you. I'm commit that to you. I'm commit that

  242. to our work. I'm committed to the way we are moving.

  243. You've ever been my friend. I'm bestie, bestie is forever.

  244. Peter said to Jesus, Lord, I am rated to go

  245. with you, even in prison.

  246. I'll go with you, even in that. I'll go with you.

  247. Look at it, there's thirty four. Look at it, that's thirtyfour, Dan,

  248. he said, I tell you, Peter, the roster or the rooster,

  249. depending on the school you went shall not crow this

  250. day before, for you would deny three times that you know.

  251. That's what you know me. You deny that you know me.

  252. And if I sisty, we'll see what happened in the sisty.

  253. These were not so as who came to Pitter so

  254. a little a little care a little girl.

  255. Came to Peter in verse sixty of the same chapter.

  256. I got it, but.

  257. Peter said, man, I do not know what you are

  258. saying her. This is somebody Jesus peaks from the show.

  259. This somebody Jesus has helped. There's somebody who has seeing

  260. the miracles of Jesus, people being rested from their dad,

  261. people be healed of many sicknesses, since I've been through

  262. all of that. For him, yes, he said, I do

  263. not know what you're saying. These are people can be

  264. people can be way. Yet I do not know. I

  265. do not know what you're saying.

  266. I don't know. I don't know.

  267. One of the days I had I had the problem

  268. with one of the with one of the elders in

  269. the Methodist church. I said something, and he also agreed

  270. to what I was saying, But in front of the

  271. signary he said, he doesn't know what I'm saying. So

  272. I understood when Peter did that to Jesus. We went

  273. to the signary, were called to leaders meeting, and I

  274. came to testify that this.

  275. Is what I was saying. I can't know. It was

  276. left with him to what was.

  277. Saying that, Oh, yes, it's true. This was how we're talking,

  278. this always saying. Now he said no, no, no, no, no,

  279. he doesn't know me. He has never even met me

  280. to talk about a nitting. And you see, this is

  281. where we can find ourselves, can find ourselves. But yes

  282. to Jesus said love your neighbor yourself. Judas went all

  283. out to be tree Jesus. This was somebody who was

  284. the count of the disciples. He was keeping them money,

  285. was keeping them money. If he didn't have any job

  286. to do. Jesus had given him a job to do.

  287. Yet he went ahead to be trade Jesus, to be tree.

  288. Jesus, to sow. You see, he went to sell Jesus

  289. Us a lot of us. That is what our friends

  290. have done to us.

  291. They've sold us before people they're going they talk about us,

  292. they're going to God said by by us. And it's

  293. like the thing that's hurt you so much that you

  294. cannot eaven forgive the person.

  295. You can't. You can't, you can you can't forgive.

  296. I was, like you said myself as an example, last

  297. two years there was an issue that was an issue,

  298. and after I asked you, I told myself that this person,

  299. I'm not anything to.

  300. Do with him. Mm hmmm.

  301. Like some of you have told yourself that this friend

  302. of yours you don't have anything to do with them, not.

  303. Have anything to do with them. I told myself I

  304. would look, I wouldn't want to see them. I would

  305. want to see him. I would want to even seeing

  306. his children. That's how heads I was. Yeah, very hard.

  307. And some of us are parents.

  308. Our fathers don't are not taking care of us, and

  309. our mothers have told us that dad is not taking

  310. care of you, and you've been seeing it at Daddy

  311. can say that is.

  312. Even between mummy.

  313. And you've told yourself that you you don't have anything

  314. to do with daddy again. Some of us also our

  315. mommy is that SADDI are behavior. We've told ourself, I

  316. don't want to have anything to do with mommy again.

  317. I was telling our members in Lego on and Dad,

  318. you see mommy and daddy. God orchestrated it that they

  319. should give bed to you.

  320. But I want to say something very strong here, and

  321. I'm saying.

  322. This to encourage those of you who thought that you

  323. don't have a mother, you don't have a father.

  324. I want to say this thing, and it's very strong.

  325. Even though mommy and Daddy brought you to this world,

  326. God is the one who has the bigger plan for

  327. your life. God is the one who has the bigger

  328. plan for your life. If Mommy and Daddy are not

  329. taking care of you, go to God and God will

  330. send you help us. I've seen it a lot of times.

  331. When I went to invest in level one hundred, my

  332. father died. He was the one paying my fees, and

  333. ask myself how am I going to survive? Because my

  334. mom was not working, No man was coming from anyway.

  335. But God said tell this, So don't get angry at

  336. your mom, don't get angry at your daddy. God will

  337. present to you what you need and God will provide.

  338. What are you talking about loving your neighbor? The church

  339. has become somewhere. So you see the church is not growing.

  340. The church is not growing because why it is in

  341. church that honestly, there is no love church. And story

  342. was one story of a man who went to the

  343. ba ba but before going to the bar. But he

  344. went to church with his wife and while they were

  345. sharing their communion and they were passing the trade and

  346. people were taking the commune. When it got to him,

  347. something happened and the commune pulled all the people on

  348. this line just dicey, study and shorting, are you dombe?

  349. Why what have you put the coming on our way?

  350. What is all this?

  351. He became very embarrassed.

  352. Later on, after church, he went to the beer bar

  353. because you know, out of frustration, he just wanted to

  354. go and drink some beer and just coolest his hat.

  355. When he went to the ber bar, he brought the beer.

  356. He was sapped at the counters. He was sitting there

  357. drinking it. Somebody else came to buy beer and because

  358. of the frustration, what the person was being saved there beer?

  359. He ten't.

  360. And this same and who put the community away in church,

  361. poured the beer away. He merely put the beer away.

  362. All the people in the back keep sorry, sorry sorry

  363. sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry, it's okay.

  364. It's okay. Take that, it's okay. Don't worry.

  365. It's okay, it's okay, seemilar to have been in church.

  366. He was chastised. In the beer bar, they said it's okay,

  367. and amazingly they brought him more beer. He said, it's okay,

  368. it's okay. Even had people come to sit around him.

  369. And to share their beer together with them, to share.

  370. It's not you see, it shouldn't be a surprise. That's

  371. so short. Class are growing down churches. It shouldn't be

  372. a surprise the sucker beds.

  373. Is it coming a great thing? Don church?

  374. See in those places there is love. There is love.

  375. It is that the person is sitting next to you.

  376. If you're not being told to give the person a

  377. high five, to help the person next to you, you

  378. love it as the person his name. You're not. They

  379. don't touch me, don't don't don't sit next to me.

  380. And in church that's where we have discrimination. But people

  381. of God, the next generation check is not a church

  382. with discrimination. It's a church with love. It's a church

  383. with love. It's a church with love. People always in

  384. some way, but you need to develop a character to

  385. help you stand and then deal. That's why God give

  386. us as the fruit of the spirit. In galligation, chatter,

  387. long suffering and deal and write this that man down.

  388. You cannot control.

  389. The actions of people towards you. You cannot control the

  390. actions of people towards you.

  391. What you can control is your reaction. I take you again.

  392. You cannot control people's actions towards you.

  393. What you can control is your reaction. It's your reaction.

  394. So how people behave towards you, You are not control it.

  395. People will insert you. You cannot control it.

  396. People treating a certain way, you cannot control it by

  397. What you can control is your reaction, is your reaction.

  398. At times you can be you can be furious, and

  399. you want to engage, you want to issue your first command.

  400. But as word of God to tell you relax, relax, relax,

  401. and as you see all of us a team, yea,

  402. we are going to be one day become leaders. We

  403. are going to become leaders. You should always have this

  404. in mind, that you cannot control people's action. The only

  405. thing you can control is your reaction, the reaction, your reaction.

  406. Somebody is asking, then if you should love our neighbors,

  407. what am I supposed to do to show that I'm

  408. loving my neighbor? Nor maer one have compassion, have compassion,

  409. Have compassion, have compassion. Matthew chatter nine, invest thirty six.

  410. Matthew Chapter nine, verse thirty six. Matthew nine vestage. The

  411. Bible said, but when he saw the multitudes, he was

  412. moved with compassion for them, because they were weary and scattered,

  413. like sheep having no shepherd. Go to First John chapter seven,

  414. chapter three or seventeen First John chapter threever seventeen.

  415. First John chapter.

  416. Thre save the Bible said, but whoever has these world's

  417. groups and see his brother in need and shuts up

  418. his hat from him, how does the love of God

  419. abide in him having compassion to your neighbor. Compassion, It

  420. is a very serious thing to have. Jesus was moving

  421. passion on them.

  422. A lot of times.

  423. You see our own colleagues struggling, and we have what

  424. they need, we don't. We don't give. And unfortunately today

  425. Nigeria movies and setting.

  426. Preachers you're listening to has made it be.

  427. Your own aunties become which is and wizards, your aunties

  428. and uncles they become which.

  429. Is with us?

  430. So help bring them. You don't want to help them.

  431. Even the dress you wear that now you've stopped wearing.

  432. You cannot even take it and give it to another

  433. person to wear because you have afraid that when you

  434. give it to them to.

  435. Use it against you.

  436. Because you watch some movie and the movie somebody gave

  437. a stranger money and the person became forever poor because

  438. of that. Today we are not helping people. We are

  439. not showing compassion. That knows you can compassion. How many

  440. of us have a lot of dresses we don't wear

  441. in our in our clothest.

  442. You have a lot of dresses we don't wear. A

  443. lot of us. I see we can not isily give

  444. them out.

  445. Before you even give them out, you want to engage

  446. yourself in some twenty one day first, so that when

  447. somebody works, is the person who will not transfer or

  448. riches into something else. It's all because of movies. But

  449. the Lord is telling us. I said, we should have

  450. compassion on people. When people are in it, it should

  451. show messy, help them, help them. This is what when

  452. we do shows that we are laughing at our neighbors.

  453. Some of us we find the love by saying now

  454. I call you, by call you, I check up on

  455. my friends. Oh, I check up on them. I worsapp them, No, no, no,

  456. do you have a friend in this church? You have

  457. a friend who is your friend? The squad, the choir,

  458. everybody in the choir is your friend, most of them.

  459. How many of them have you ever visited in their homes? Yeah,

  460. you don't want me to come to you or you

  461. visit someone.

  462. You see.

  463. We are unable to even visit our own friends people.

  464. We said, yeah, friends, you can't only know what your

  465. friend needs by getting closer to your friend. Last week

  466. is one of the members came to me, the younger.

  467. He's a pastor. My mother is leaving us. My moda

  468. is living us, my moda is it's traveling to where

  469. he said, I don't know. My mother said she's going,

  470. and I said, so, what's going to happen? She said,

  471. I don't know. Then all of a sudden start there crying,

  472. sid there crying, and I said, doesn't mean you don't

  473. know what to do? He said, I don't know. Fourteen

  474. years fourteen years old, and he's the first one. His

  475. siblists are seven and six. He said, Momy said he's going,

  476. she's going.

  477. Where is daddy? I don't know where that is. I've

  478. not even met that day before.

  479. And where's mammy. When Mammy said she's going to the voter,

  480. she's going nobody to take care of us, he started

  481. a cry. He came to stand here cry. But if

  482. you don't have compassion, how can you help such a one?

  483. I mean live in you yourself? You have issues? How

  484. can you leave your issues and will help another? But

  485. you see where you have much forgot your issues and

  486. help other people. That is when the love of God

  487. do a'll see you, Amen number two.

  488. What do you have to do? You need to forgive?

  489. You need to forgive people to show that yes, you

  490. love them. Need to forgive some of us. Something a

  491. friend of us did to us five years ago. We

  492. still remember, but we still remember. We still remember. Unless

  493. you don't see our friend, you will remember. I remember

  494. matth two, Chapter six, matchwo Chatter six Verst twelve.

  495. Matthews B.

  496. Said, I forgive us our debt as we forgive our debt.

  497. You see there's a condition.

  498. God can only forgive you if you're forgiving anybody was

  499. wronged you. He said, forgive us our debt as we forgive.

  500. So until you are forgiven, you cannot be forgiven. Until

  501. you are forgiven, you can't be forgiven. He said, forgive us.

  502. Take me to March two, chapter eighteen, Verse twenty one.

  503. Mar two, ch after eighteen. That's twenty one. The Bible said, damn.

  504. Picters came to him and said, Lord, how office shall

  505. I'm rather saying against me? And I forgive you up

  506. to seven times? And listen to what you said. I

  507. said verse thirty two. Jesse I said to him, I

  508. do not say to you up to seven times, but

  509. afterwards afterwards seventeen times seven. That does not means that countenance.

  510. It means that forgive always, forgive all the time, forgive

  511. all the time, forgive all the time. You see a

  512. lot of times, and when people hurt you and you

  513. keep it in your heart, it's like you have drunk

  514. poison for your own self, like you've drunk some police poison,

  515. expecting the seem to die.

  516. You are.

  517. You have drunk it, and you're expecting somebody else to die.

  518. Unforgiveness it kills a lot. Forgive people. Forgive people. Somebody

  519. is saying about the thing that they keep doing it

  520. to me, they keep hurting me, they keep doing it,

  521. they keep hurting me.

  522. Tell you something, forgive them, Forgive them forgive them. The

  523. greatest goal in life.

  524. Is to accomplish your purpose in life and go back

  525. to the father who created you, which is God.

  526. Holding all these things.

  527. Becomes a load that will not help you to enter

  528. into the kingdom of heavyth. All these things becomes a

  529. load and you cannot use You cannot go with it

  530. because it becomes so heavy, comes so heavy. Who has

  531. wronged you? It's as I'm talking, you should be thinking

  532. through who has wronged me?

  533. Who has wronged me? What's wrong?

  534. Some of us are boyfriends, our boyfriends. Some of Somebody

  535. told me just last week that the boyfriend said should

  536. break up, that she break up, and when she looks

  537. at the investments, the thing she has given to the boy,

  538. it's enough that breaking up will not help them situition.

  539. The guys said, let's break up, the lady also saying, no,

  540. we can't break up. The guys said, let's break up.

  541. The lady said, no, you can't break up. So the

  542. lady came to me, pastor, what should I do? And

  543. I said, breakup, breakup, because it's not by fault.

  544. Breakup.

  545. Then he said, Pasta, if I break up, I can't

  546. forgive the guy. I say you forgive him, because if

  547. you don't forgive him, you'll not be able to have

  548. peace with other men.

  549. Who come to you to propose.

  550. You think that all men has come, like you are

  551. saying in your mind, some of you are saying, all

  552. men has come. All men are the same. They are

  553. the same. They deceive people, they deceive us. All men

  554. are not the same. I am a married man, I

  555. have children, I love my wife. All men are not

  556. the same. Your father is still in love with your mother?

  557. Is a're not it?

  558. I don't know, say taking of you, all men they're same.

  559. If you didn't find the good brand, say all men.

  560. Now that's say amen, forgive people, forgive people, Halle Lawyer.

  561. The last thing, the last thing shepherd people, shapperd people.

  562. So the first one have compassion on people, the second

  563. one forgive people, and the third one shaperd people. In otherwise,

  564. take care of people, take care of people.

  565. Look chapter.

  566. Take me into Matthew, Chapter twenty five, Matthew twenty five,

  567. thirty four to forty. Matt two twenty five ver thirty

  568. four to forty. Let's do this and then we're close.

  569. John twenty one, Sorry, John twenty one, John twenty one,

  570. verse fifteen to seventeen, John twenty one fifteen to seventeen.

  571. We do this and that we're close, he says.

  572. So when they had eighteen breakfast, Jesus said to people, Simon,

  573. son of Jordanah, do you love me more than this?

  574. He said to him, Yes, Lord, you know that I

  575. love you. He said to him, feed my lamps.

  576. In other ways, feed my people, feed my children, feed

  577. my sheep, feed people, take care of people, take care

  578. of people, Take care of people as a church, as

  579. next young church, we need to take care of people.

  580. We need to help people. It is by helping people

  581. that this church can be filled. It has by saying

  582. to the needs of people that this church can become

  583. what God wants this church to become. We can not

  584. sit in our own ways. We can not sit in

  585. our rooms and feeling okay, No, no. God didn't create

  586. men to be loneless. God creat men to be helpless

  587. of men. Hello, God creates what man? He created man

  588. to be? What helpless of men?

  589. Don't sit?

  590. I told Mello and said, I mean, I mean, I'm

  591. an improvet. No, you're not introvet. Don't you yourself? Siata

  592. titles I'm an introvert. You're not an introphant. To odd

  593. has made you to dwell among people. Hello, Amen, tell

  594. yourself from today. I'm not an introvert because God met

  595. me to dwell with people. Rights to your feet, Right

  596. to your feet.

  597. Amen.

  598. Just write this thing down before we pray. Write this

  599. thing down before we pray. The greatest.

  600. Leader.

  601. The greatest leader is one that has the ability to

  602. win people and to influence people. The greatest leader is

  603. one that has the ability to win people and to

  604. influence people. You cannot win people and influence people without

  605. loving people. So what I will say, love people, Love people.

  606. All of us are going to be CEOs tomorrow. All

  607. of us are going to be Some of us are

  608. going to be see you. Some of us are going

  609. to be past us. Some of us are going to

  610. be doctors, lawyers. You cannot be the best version.

  611. Of yourself.

  612. And win the heart of people and influence. God has

  613. asked you to influence without love. Lift up your eyes.

  614. Ask God for strength. Love is the fruit of the spirit.

  615. Ask God for strength.

  616. As God. Tell God, God, this morning, help me, help me,

  617. help me. Father. Will come to you this morning asking

  618. you to help us. Loving one.

  619. Now that we know it's a challenge, but we've come

  620. to you for strength. Left up your voice and pray.

  621. We've come to you for strength. We've come to you

  622. for strength.

  623. This money I hear.

  624. I want to say that past that my love for

  625. Jesus is little. I can't even tell what I really

  626. love Jesus or not. And I want to use this

  627. opportunity to come again and surrender my life. And this

  628. time I want to make your commitment. Already I want

  629. to say past that this is me. Just come, Come

  630. and let me prove with you. There is no time.

  631. Come and let me prove with you. You want to say,

  632. past her, this morning, I want to make this commitment.

  633. I want to really give my life to Jesus. Come

  634. and let's pray. Come and let's pray. Left up your

  635. right and said Father, this morning, I come to you

  636. as your child. I believe in you as my Lord

  637. and personal savior. Help me, let the fruit of the

  638. spirit be in me. Help me to laugh, help me

  639. to laugh, help me.

  640. To forgive in Jesus' name. Amen,