Question and Answers (Sexual Immorality) Bishop Joel Duncan Williams 27th Oct 2024

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Please, you raise your hands and a microphone will come

to you.

There's one here, all right, Please go ahead, please, I

don't understand by mastability, you don't understand wonderful please you

see you you see if we're we're at a good dude.

If you understand, that doesn't mean he has to understand

that he wants depart understanding and clarity. Do you understand

that saying so with this one, Bishop will take it

up that he had no be sure, will take it

that he has an example he used yesterday.

He is well invested in the area of oh.

The fruitfulness you the masturbation example, the white world. So

but this one he wants to know. So unless you

er us more m hm, yes, so visual. He wants

to understand what masturbation is.

So masturbation is when you you sexually pleasure yourself, when

you you you you you touch yourself.

I think that's a big English too. He can't that's

turn he wants some.

Like he wants to picture it.

Not picture, but as you are explaining, he wants to

know it will be if you say to yourself, he

can't touch his chest and that's will happen.

You understand he can't even touch his ears.

So maybe if you tell him when you touch your

penis you use either so annoying oil, anything, and you

go back and forth for some time and dr plates

it want something like that.

That's something like that.

That's is masturbation. Also, also when I was in when

I was in high school, we went from missions in Mexico,

and when we were coming back from the missions. I

don't know how the conversation started, but I was at

the back of the bus and I saw that all

my friends had guarded at the front of the bus

around a particular appearance. So I went to the front

and when I got there, they were talking about masturbation,

and the parent was telling us, the students that masturbation

is not a bad thing, but what is a bad

thing is what you think about. So he was saying

that if you masturbate and you think about a woman

or a man, it's bad. But if you think about

just a white war, it's okay, Yes, let's face the war,

or think about a cloud or grips or apple. But

if you think about a woman or a man, it's

a bad thing, and it's nearly destroyed the whole class

as a matter of fact, one of the students got

expelled for masturbating in class because the parents said it's

not a bad thing, so he had no fear. He

had no, he had no and it's really rigged have

work in our class now. Masturbating is a bad thing.

Whether you are having peer or in peer thoughts, it's

it's a bad thing, period, and it's something that you

should didn't you shouldn't entertain, or you shouldn't allow to

happen or come in your life, because if you allow it,

it can mess you up for a very long time.

I used to have a problem with masturbation, and it's

a friend of mine who taught me, and it became

a major problem for me, and our father had to

take me through deliverance and also how to teach me

how to stop it. And by God's grace, I no

longer have that problem. I no longer have I need

to understand it now I no longer have that Thank you.

Okay, there's a person here. Then after we come to

the emerald, iright, been sure? Yes, I would like to

know what the Bible mean when it says and her

breast was satisfied.

So you are referring to yeah, you are referring to

songs of Solomon, and that scripture is men specifically, specifically, Ah,

let your fountain wife be blessed with the rewards of

fidelity and rejoice in the wife of your youth. So

that scripture is reserved specifically for married couples, married men,

and married women, and so. Verse eighteen talks about who

should the brass satisfy a wife to her husband and

her husband to a wife, not the other way around. Yeah,

not boyfriend, girlfriend and not and not and not beloved.

I've explained. No, we are talking about sexual immorality. We

are talking about sexual immorality. Next question, Amra, please yes.

So somebody wants to know what to do about a

situation concerning her friend. So her friend has confided in

her about his struggle with sexual immorality, and she's realized

that she's unable to advise him for him to change

because the more she talks is not doing anything. She

wants to confide in somebody older so the person can

counsel him. But then if she does that, he's going

to lose trust in hair and he doesn't want to

talk to somebody older. So what can she do to

solve that problem.

Thank you.

I'm going to let Reverend James and Reverend Francis answer

this question. But there's something I want to tell you.

When I also had a problem in masturbation and it

was time for me to tell somebody, I also said

my friend. I didn't say myself. I said my friend

has a problem. And the person I told was a prophet,

So I told I told the prophet that my friend

has a problem. Then he went for about five minutes

and came back and he said, the lawd said, it's

not your friend, it's you. So please be careful when

we are using my friend, my friend, my friend. I

know you may be shy, but say that thing, say

say that thing. Do you understand when when when you

when you say it, When you say it and you

confront it boldly and you say the truth first level

of solution, and not just that it gives you confidence

and authority to fight it. Do you understand it gives

you confidence and authority to fight. So I know that

in a big gathering like this it might be difficult

to say yourself. But after the service, you can meet

one of the pastors the reverence. You can even come

to me and confide in me and will help you.

So over to you ge Latin, thank you the sure.

So I believe that it's it's we are not to

look good before our friends. Okay, as Christians, I was

saying it in the first that we expected to be

the certain light. So the first thing is that I

want to help a brother or sister. Telling another with

the right mind that you want the person to help

this brother of yours is the good motive. And even

if that friend of yours feels betrayed, don't think about

that the person that friend of yours come and thank

you so for me still go ahead and talk to

anotherly person. And I believe that the elderly person is

very mature. You know how to go about it. I've

heard a lot of people coming to me to say

that Reverend James or Pastor James, my friend is so

and so they're doing this. And I don't want to

tell anybody because if I tell somebody like they trusted

in me and they told me and all the time,

there's a way I go about it, they'll get it.

We are past us, so definitely when it comes up,

we know how to go about it. So don't don't

feel betrayed. Don't feel that your friend will feel betrayed

that you told an elderly person. You get it, and

and I believe that the person will be helped.

Thank you. Okay, follow up, there's another question.

Actually, so somebody wants to know what to do about

several guys telling her that they are all sexually attracted

to her. I remember in the first service we mentioned

that it's not of yourself. Even if you dress decently,

there are still people who have certain ideologies you can't control.

But she says, every time she posts a picture of

herself or every time they see her, it's not just

one person. Several different guys just tell her, oh, I'm

sexually attracted to you. She wants to know what to

do about it.

Please. Is this person married?

No, the person is, The person is not married, and

the person is she's twenty twenty.

Yes, and the person is sexually practicing sexal No.

People are telling the person that they are sexually attracted

to her.

Yes, I understand. I'm asking because you know the person.

Yes.

Yes, is the person engaging in the activity already?

No? Not yet? Wonderful? Oh sorry I said not yet? Sorry,

So forgive me. Yeah, it's not not yet. I meant sorry.

Oh I think that I would saying something in the

first service. No matter how you dress, beautilizing the eyes

of the beholder, you can wear for and somebody who

still see you and feel attracted to you, you can wear.

I mean, you can go and hide in a hole

and somebody will still be attracted to you. You ask yourself.

They are certain pout that you see. They look very nasty,

very dirty, but still they have their love. Once you

get it, and it's not bad when people are are

sexually attracted to you. But you see what makes it bad.

It's when you have that motive of also intentionally enticing

them to be sexually attracted to you. It becomes a problem.

It's it's that's a very serious thing. So everyeople are

coming to you for for example, Have people are fifty

years and they see me and they say, Charlie, they

love you, they love me? Hello, yes, yes, and I'm

being I mean yes yes, not I'm not and not

only Ghanna out of Ghanna. Have people don't see me

and they look at me.

Please take your time and take your time, take your time.

Please, you see pastor James or you sure you're able

to see however we are, we're able to God is

protecting your husband for you. You see, he mentioned that

some people are even outside Ghanas and they love him

and they are attracted to him. So some of you are

thinking like, how is that even possible. In the acts

relating to sex, they mentioned that now people have fulm

sex and all that that's what the woman wanted to

do with pastor James.

Do you understand, So.

It's like, it's not like you have to be physically

present with a person.

You can be anywhere and they will track you.

So this thing we are doing here is for you

to know the dynamics and know how you.

Will deal with it. So he's on course.

So you have people coming and sexually attracted to you

and all of that. The only thing is that if

you are doing it on purpose to gain their attention

so they'll be sexually attracted to you, that is a problem.

But you don't have any bad motive. I mean, you're

a dressing or you're having your own dressing, living your life,

and people are it will always be there no matter

how dirty how ugly you are, you still have people

in love with you. Don't forget that people's pets are

the chimpanzees. Hello, I should break it down. You see

how ugly sheppanzi is. Understand that people have their as

their pets. That means that no matter how ugly you are,

somebody is still attracted to word to you. You get it.

So understanding that way and don't see it that's a

bad thing. But when you have the bad motive, a

bad motive to entize them, then it becomes something else.

And I think that when you have more people coming

to you telling you talent, I'm sexually attracted to you. Also,

you can prayer about it that God close their eye,

close their eyes so that they are not sexually attracted

to me. Amen, Marnatha.

Okay sometimes.

Okay, So can I move on a question? Yes, okay,

thank you Bishore. So someone is asking she a friend

told her right, that's in a case where in a

case where say you have your family has a history

of not being able to give birth when when the

women get married, right, someone then advised that why don't

you give birth before you know married, because that's what

that one it happens. But the woman, the woman and

that family get married, they're able to give birth. So

the advice to the person was engage in pre married

to our sex so that you can have your children

before you get married.

Right, So what would we say to that's wonderful.

So in the case where the person is dealing with

a generational case where they are fighting the spirit of

barrenness and they have been advised to engage in pre

marital sex, it is ninety nine point nine percent spiritually

and physically proven that if you engage in pre marital sex,

you still will not have a child because the problem

is the spirit of barrenness. It's not the spirit of

barrenness against marriage or the spirit of barrenness before marriage.

Is the spirit of barrenness. Now, the easy way to

solve a problem, I want all of you to hear me.

The easy way to solve a problem when people bring

you advice is to compare it to the word of God.

What does the Word of God say about this advice

that is being brought to me? And the Word of

God says that we should not engage in premarital sex

because there are all kinds of complications and things that

you do. For instance, the child is born out of wedlock.

There's a case that goes with that. There they are

certain things that hang over the child's life of whatever

because they were born out of wedlock. David said, my mother,

my mother conceived me in sin. That means he was

born out of wedlock. So there are so many cases

and problems that go with premit our sex and having children.

So the best thing to do is to wait to

be married and then try and God can use you.

And I'm prophesying to whoever asked that question that God

will use you to break that case in your The

other thing is that people think that it is.

Sexual act that brings children.

Children are gifts from God. So if you engage in

it thinking that you give Beth, you are having the

wrong mind. It is God who give children. If God

has not given it to you, don't think that you

can work your own way out and habits.

Hello Amen, Amen, So to your question earlier on Emerald,

so yes. So first, the Salonians of the five verse

trainy four the Bible said that abstained from all appearance

of evil. It appears sometimes your mind might not even

think of it that, but it appears to be that

kind abstain. So now everyone would think, oh, you are

beautiful this I'm.

Abstain and the other when you read.

When you read James, I want to pull up that

scripture as well so we get better understanding.

James.

For seven, the Bible said that, so humble yourselves before God.

Rasis the devil and he will flee from you if

you don't give in. They would know eventually. Go amen,

So that will help, Yes, consistency, it breaks resistance.

Amen.

Yes, there's a question. I'm coming to that, okay, and

work past the James said. Please, if you are married,

know that God gives children, but you performing your sexual

activities is very important.

Do it.

You can't be lying down with the person and say

that God do it and as you are doing it,

God will perform the miracle through the activities.

Is that okay?

So someone can't take a literally that I'm just lying

with my wife.

God will do it. No, do it? Please? Yes, any

time anywhere you are to do it. There's no timeline, okay,

So I'm very glad.

Then we come to our pastors and bishops HAVERI so

this question is very important to me. And my question

is our fetishes. When I say fetishes, I mean when

I say break it down fetishes. I mean in firsts

a head to sacking, hear liaking, so you could stimulate

the activity of sex.

Okay, So I wanted to ask.

The scripture and two if it is done in the

confines of marriage. So perhaps you want to have intercourse

with your wife and maybe the only maybe one of

the ways she gets into the mood is by you

maybe fingering hair or tacking hair toes and the other

the other things people do. I wanted to know, is

it right?

And yes? So that's my question.

Please is someone answering like no, one wonderful?

Please? They have released this question to me.

So yes, okay, I think so.

My friend.

M please are you answering? You are answering the question that.

I want to ask.

No, we have to help answer.

I was just.

Okay.

So in my class, we're discussing in decent dressing. In

the class I was in, we're discussing in decent dressing,

we're saying, for instance, showing your stomach, how is it

enticing someone like a man showing his chest.

Some find it enticing.

It may be indecent, but I mean seeing a man's

chest maybe for me back in the day was problematic.

But maybe it's not problematic. So what what will we

say is indecent dressing? We know that it is what

will entie someone sexually, that is what is indecent. But

we're having a little banter about it, and so we

want to get some clarity.

To answer the first question. And Reverend quick who is

going to take that up. I just want to say

that being married does not mean that you are you

cannot be sexually a mora. Like for instance, when I

was marrying and I was going through counseling, our counselor

told us that these are gray acts. When I say

gray acts, things you do not practice in your your

your marriage sexually, they are gray acts. You don't do them.

So just because you are married doesn't mean that you

can you can masturbate, or you can do this, or

you can do that. It is still sexually i mora.

Whether you are practicing it with your wife or not,

it's still sexually a mora.

Please answer the question, yes, please. I think Bishop mentioned

some of them. But in the confines of marriage, if

you are asking forcripture, the scripture talks about in our

sex that you are, that's not the area God has

prescribed for us to have sexual intercourse. So if you

are engaging in in our sex, it's not the right way,

but people still do it because they are married. If

you want people want a scripture to back their fantasis,

it's a fantasy. It is something that you have watched

and you want to practice if you want to feel

okay thinking that if the Bible has said it, then

I would do it. With the things that he's mentioning,

sacking somebody's tools and some of the things. If I

mentioned the people who scream some of the there is

why he said fetishes, they are wilder things. People wants

to be beating, people want to be handcuffed, do you understand,

And people want to do a lot of things to

to get to whatever climax they have to get to please.

With those things, we cannot give you a verse that

will help you to continue doing it. But if you're

going to take somebody's daughter that you want to take,

or stat that heir through such humiliations and pains that

one in the confides of marriage, I think you would

you would manage yourself there. But it's not advisable to

kill someone in the process of you enjoying yourself. That

the scripture speaks about in now that's not the right way,

but the other. But they have to understand that the

Bible was is that our body is the temple of

the Holy Spirit.

Do you understand?

So what you are doing to the temple, if it

is appearing to be evil, abstain please, saying if it's

appearing because some of the even styles that you would

do at home, those who are even married. Sometimes when

you are you want to do it. You look that

this one, it's like it's evil. You want to kill

somebody's daughter, you want to kill somebody's son.

Please abstain.

Ray, We cannot give you a vest for your friend

to continue. It's not your friend. You're asking for yourself. Okay,

Like as you getting married, you there are some stars

you want to do. So I think with those things,

yeah yeah, so you with Dustin, see me let me

show you certain things. Yeah, brief, you are certain things.

Just also add to what Reven could be saying, most

of these things come about maybe when you engage yourself.

Maybe in pornography movies. You see all of these things

in them, so it makes it look normal. You know,

when you watch pornography movie, all of these things we

are talking about. You see them in them, you know,

so if you're not careful, it has a way of

letting you see. That is okay. But all that they're

doing is act good. It's an act, you know, it's

an Whatever they're doing there in that pornography movie is

an act.

I mean, how can they an my human being.

Stay on a person for hours?

So they're no my human No.

What I'm saying is this, no, like you see, people

can do two millions fives then that you like, like

an hour?

No, man, humans have not Please how many of you

believe they are there?

Now? There?

If you have not seen something, yes, it's not, it's not.

It's not anyone who on viagra and the rest people

are strong. So if you have not met setting you

and you are maybe around to five means it's okay.

Don't generalize, don't ever looking for but who stay one hour?

Like the way I said somebody money? Hey, how does

it feel to have somebody like that? Mind from it?

Please?

When you get married, yeah, find out your husband can

see me too. There are ways you can go for

more than two minutes or five minutes. There's a question here,

and it's very less all pay attention with the person

needs real help. Said that, please keep me an animals.

So I have a friend who has been suffering from

sexual immorality, and she has been ripped three times, but

she keeps getting involved with the same people. It's been

going on for years. It's been going on for years.

She's not getting any better. She also got involved with

a girl a year ago. Ever since she hasn't been

the same. Now she has stopped, but she still thinks

the same. But according to her, she grew up in

an environment where she got exposed to it by her

father and as a child she thought it was no

and has grown up to practice and has grown up

to practice. See, she's losing herself day by day and

being abusing herself. She needs help and as a friend,

this is the best I can do for her. And

the exposure said that, I mean by her father bringing

in different women.

She needs help. Please really? Okay? Sorry? Please?

Really?

You wanted to ask a question and answer?

Oh?

Please?

Okay okay? And you you're confusing me. Are you asked

about the indiscent dressing?

Yes? Please? You said that? Is it good? Oh? Sorry?

I want you please?

So I was asking about I was asking about what

what would classify with descent?

Yes, because, oh, okay, I think it's very simple. Please

pull up the definition for indecent. Oh no, I'm just

using it to say something. Please, I'm just you needing

to say something. M You see people feel, People feel

based on location and environments and things that are timed

as indecent. So there's some there are certain things, okay, pleasecribing.

Okay, So indecent means not conforming with generally accepted standards

of behavior, especially in relation.

To sexual matters. Wonderful.

So right now, there are some places that I can

remove the shirt I'm wearing and it's not being indecent there.

And there's some.

Places, not even the beach like normal settings, because of

how they dress. There are some places in countries. When

you visit the place, the rate at which and the

things that people wear when you have you are not

from that place, it will confuse you. You will think that, hey,

why are they dressing this way? But to them it

is normal. So when you come to the world's standard,

indecent is really classified according to geographic let me say geographically.

But when you come to biblically, you have to understand

that indecent. It's what is no modesty in your dressing

and your presentation. Sometimes you that you the way you've dressed,

you know that you are appearing evil to certain people,

And I say evil, it's it's you know that as well.

You see yourself in the mirror and you say, wow,

I'm looking hot. So you have seen yourself before going out,

you know. And I thought passages. One other time we

came to visit to our paint if you remember, yes,

we came to visit to your paint anyway in school

and when we're going out that since we're seen before

going out, it was.

It was like they have not dressed. Do you understand?

It's like shot shot shot tight. And I thought passages

that I'm not having to paint again. So if you

remember those time, we will call you and you will come.

I I you have sat. I'm saying to me it

is indocent, but to them it's the norma and every

day where that biblically, it's not right. It's not modest,

it's not covering you. And if it is not covering you,

it is not decent. So if you are, you are

showing your stomach and your novel and things are appearing,

and it's like you know it.

Do you understand?

And people intentionally, those who pump their breasts, they intentionally

hip it and puts on it. And the intentional work

can they be set so as you are doing it,

and you're doing that like you know it yourself, you

get So it's like that and if they want to

justify that, it's not right. It's indecent and biblically it

is not encouraged. That's why the Bible said that teach

the women to dress modestly, say that those who are

married teach the younger ones. You understand, So we teach

people how to dress modestly even if you are when

you are when you get married. There are certain things

you wear, and that's sent things you don't wear, the

a certain things you wear in the bedroom, the accentings

you don't wear in the bedroom. So all these things

are done. Please you said yes, so please please do

you understand?

Yes?

So, I don't want to give some of the examples

of maybe if you wear this, it's indecent. No, it's

generally if as it is, we can't we can't keep it. Please,

I heard there is time and the main series they've closed,

but it is raining, so we cannot release you now.

So let's pick one or two questions then, h yeah,

the question I read it will be answered, It will

be answered.

How does sexual immorality impact individuals mental emotional?

If you can, if you can, if you can't speak louder, How.

Does sexual immorality impact in the just meant emotional wellbeing?

Mental wellbeing?

How does sexual immorality impact individuals mental and emotional worldbeing?

Okay, please do so.

For instance, when I when and what I'm going to

say sounds funny, but it's not funny. When I when

I was having my problem with masturbation, it affected me

so drastically that one day I thought of severing my

my organ I thought of severing it because I was like,

this thing is not going to stop as long as

this thing is there, so let's just remove it and

then I'll be free. Thankfully I didn't, But so it

really affects people's state up and the first thing that

affects you is the guilt. The first thing that affects

you is the guilt. Then the second thing that will

affect you is the sin, then the condemnation of it.

So you condemn yourself for this, and sexual immorality has

led to people taking their lives. Sexual immorality has led

to people taking their lives. And So to answer your question,

can it affect you yes? Does it affect you yes?

Will it affect you yes? So the best thing is

just to abstain from it and and not get involved

in it at all. Yeah, please go and say, I

think truthfully, when I was going to marry, you know,

I was saying the first service stabited for twelve years,

two thousand and two to two thousand and fourteen, before

I met the woman I wanted to marry. Now, say,

when we're about marrying, the counselor says, you're going to

do tests. When we got there, I was afraid. They

said we do HIV something something something test, and I

told her to do it first because in my mind

is it? My mind was not right. In fact, I

was very guilty, and I felt that, no, I've contracted

one of those you get because apart from you can't

you must have better. I feel that that is before

I realize you're sleeping with other things. Hello, so that

the room is quiet, you'll be sleeping with other things?

Is it? The twelve years. I said that are scared.

Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. So the twelve us.

Wonderful.

We are brothers in Christ. Yeah, nobody understands.

So please. So we have quite a number of questions

coming up. Yes, so that we've not answered the first one.

So please if we can answer the first one, and

please there's another question here. The president said that we

said sex it's for married people. What if you are

engaged and you're about to get married and you have

sex is a right.

I'll never forget when I was getting married, my wedding

I believe was on a was it on Saturday Friday?

It was on a Friday. If somebody's so so shouting Thursday,

why are you the one who married? I know who

it is? Iad voice. So we had to sign the

register before I married because it was a holiday, and

on the holiday they don't sign register. So I remember

when I signed the register. Then somebody told me that Charlie,

now you have the license, so don't wait for tomorrow.

Do everything today. And I laughed and in my head

I said, no way. Just because you are engaged doesn't

mean you can't do what's married people do until you

are married before God, don't engage yourselves because you see

something you don't understand, something you don't understand, like for me,

for me as a pastor like this, I deal with

a lot of women. And you see that if my

wife was in town, she'll be sitting down in one

of the chairs waiting for me to finish what I'm doing.

You'll see that you'll give me a very long distance.

She won't come close to me and be sitting close

trying to pop her ear into what I'm listening to,

into what I'm discussing. And one of the reasons why

she doesn't do that is because when I was courting

her to get married, I never did anything with her.

I didn't kiss her, I didn't touch it. The first

time I kissed her, it was on on the altar

when they said you may now kiss the bride. That

is when I kissed my wife for the first time.

Do you understand so so so so when you engage

in certain things, women are emotional beans. When you engage

with in certain things before the right time, you are

setting yourself up for failure. Because if you touch her

before your wedding and she now sees you with other women,

she will start thinking that, ah, what is he doing

with those women? Because you didn't you you couldn't abstain

and you couldn't hold yourself from doing it with her.

What stops you from doing it with other women? And

it will cause a very huge problem in your marriage.

No trust? No, no, what's the word I'm looking for.

I'll live it at trust? No trust? And people have

to work back the trust years and years and years

and years. And doesn't mean that if if your wife

or your husband breaks your trust, you shouldn't work back

and trust them again. No, you should. You should. It's

a godly thing. Two, it's a godly thing to try

and make the homework. If it doesn't work, it's another situation.

But it's a godly thing to try and make the homework.

So we should strive to try and make our homes work.

You understand, okay?

So please the first question? Yes, yes. So for the

first question, the person needs to be taken through deliverance

number one and then number two you need counseling. So

it would be very advisable that I know you want

to be unanimous. It to be very advisable that after

after the service, you come and see me and let

me know that I am the one going through this situation.

I will help you. I will help you go through prayer,

I'll help you get counseling. I'll even counsel you myself

to help you get out of that situation. Because I

was also in a situation like that. Not the same thing,

but like I said, I also had a challenge with

with with masturbation. And also I also had a challenge

with pornography because when I was very young, When I

was very young, another bishop's son introduced me to pornography,

and I'll never forget the first day they showed me pornography,

I said, hey, what is this? What is this me?

I thought that we are all the same, and the

guy said, no, no, no, no, we are not the same.

Women are different from men. Like her brother was asking,

what is masturbation? Very innocent, I was very innocent, and

they sports the whole thing for me. They sport. They

took my innocence in one day, less than one day.

That time, internet wasn't even working properly, but they still

found a way to take my innocence. Now their Internet

is rampant. I may even head of Internet cafee anymore.

I don't think.

I don't think on our phones now.

Those days we used to have internet cafe, busy Internet.

I used to go to busy Internet to do my

own work. A second, Yeah, it's closed down. It's not anyone. Oh,

I see so so they are very they are they

are very serious things. So please get help. We are

here to help you. Don't feel shy. Get the help Collins.

Please and if if, if it's if you don't want

anybody knowing it is you. You with and then time

Bishop when maybe he's he's not here, maybe you may

feel like coming to see him.

No, not even that a lot of people come and

see me after service, nobody will know that it's you.

Nobody will know that it's you. So I want to

help you. You don't need to tie me when I'm

walking out, or when I sit in my car ah

or you see me standing somewhere. No, a lot of

people come and see me at the service. So unless

I start shouting, nobody will know that it is you.

And when you come to our shout. So now maybe

I'll do No, I'm just I'll do it. So please

feel free. Please feel free.

With the one who send the anonymous message, please kindly

make sure two things that the person needs to go

through deliverance, the personals who needs to go through.

Counseling, publica counseling.

So if you can tell your friend to make time,

I think we can help you reach out to Bishop

in that regard. So Collina, I'm coming to you this

one Bishop has answered it better. I want to read

so that the person who knows that when you send

a message read it that. During the circle time we

were talking about how kissing can lead to sex. So

what if you kiss a person you are about to marry,

or you kiss a person and you don't have sex,

It's like you've kissed the person you didn't have sex,

is it right? Or you kiss the person that you

are going to get married to, is it right? I

think Sham has said that already, so please go ahead.

But one thing I want you to understand is that

we are not saying don't kiss because it will lead

to sex. We are saying don't kiss because it can

lead to sex. Just because you kiss somebody one time

does not mean that it will be sex. It's maybe

the second time or the third time. So we advise

you to stay away from it period. Do you understand

what I'm saying. It's like those of you that work

with the automatic so kata. We don't tell you to

stay away from the blade because it will cut you

to catch you. We tell you to stay away from

the blade because it can catch you and if it

cuts you, you will be severely damaged. So we advise

you to watch the blade and stay away from the blade,

and not to work with the blade when you are

sleepy or you you god forbid, have taken in drink

and you are drunk, because it can cause you to

do something that will permanently damage you. So kissing is

Kissing is not a bad thing in marriage, but before

marriage it's it's It is like starting the car. You

have started the car, the engine is on, all lubricants

in the engine are flowing, and the shock observers and

the pistons are firing on all levels. And then you

say that you say that, no I'm a man. Oh no,

I'm a woman. So no, no, no, no, it doesn't

it doesn't work that way. It doesn't work that way.

You are this yourself by the time you realize you've

done an unfortunate thing, and you will feel sad and guilty.

After let's appreciate Bishop. So the Bible said that flee.

So some of the things we don't say. You are

prayer warrior, you prayer, you flee. So please that asexual

immorality more than an issue of uncontrolled sexual desire. Yes,

so it sexual immorality more than an issue of uncontrolled

sexual desire.

Yes it is. Sexual immorality is not just okay, we

are sorry. We are dining with sexual immorality. So yes,

it still is. You're quite good reader.

A question againsexual immorality more are done.

Sexual desire?

Yes? So your your sexual your sexual desire. James answered

the question. I believe that it's it's not more than

That's what I would say. It's not more than because

sexual immorality stems from having sexual desires. So for me,

I think that that is that is it? Sexual immorality

is That is? It is the start.

It's not it's not more than an issue of uncontrolled

It's not more than sexual desire. All right, So please,

we have a number of questions that you have sent

in and because of time, please it's now one o

eight and we've exceeded at time. Like I told you earlier,

we are not in a hurry to finish. We are

going to continue actual immorality next week Sunday, both First

Service and second Service. So please keep the questions coming

and we would make a lot of time to answer

your questions. But before we do that, I think there's

just one more ask. Then, please make sure you have

your offerends entices ready so that you can't you don't go.

Home with it. Thank you very much, Bishop.

Reverends. I just wanted to contribute to the question our

sister asks concerning the impropered dressing. Look seventeen one to four.

Let's read something there. It is that Jesus said, maintain

one to four. He's go ahead, okay, okay. Then he

said to the disciples, it is impossible that no offenses

should come, But then I would love the king James,

King James would.

Be really good. Yeah, okay, and ivy.

Okay.

One day Jesus said to his disciples there will be

always be temptations to sin, But what sorrow awaits the

person who does the temptations tempting. Sorry, it will be

better to be thrown into the sea with milestone hang

around your neck than to cause one to these little

ones to fall into sin, So watch yourselves. If another

believer saints rebuke that person, then if there is repentance,

forgive a man. I believe that this tells us exactly

what it is that we need to look at. Temptations

shall always come, but the Bible for basis it says

we should run, we should flee from it, we should

run away from it. So the moment you start seeing

the thing coming, the best is to run away. It

can be in church. You can have sex in this horle.

It's possible, but the only the only reason why you

can't do it is when you have people around. The

only reason why you can't do it is because there

is somebody that is watching you. So you flee from

environments that would take you, flee from things that will

cause you to do.

Things that are not right.

Amen.

All right, so let's cla for ourselves. Let's appreciate.

Adam said something that I want to add first and foremost,

when nobody is watching you and nobody can see you,

God is watching and God can see you, so never

forget that there's always somebody watching. Amen.

Amen, Please let's appreciate our wonderful panel