Questions and Answers ( Sexual Immorality) Part 3 Bishop Joel Duncan-Williams 3rd Nov 2024

So please, This question says that please, I hear when

you have sex with someone you become spiritually tied to them.

So how do you know you are spiritually tied? And

please what are the spiritual diseases? You say? So please?

Their question is on the screen, so Bishop is handrying

this one.

As soon as you don't have to know how you

know is that you didn't.

As soon as you sleep.

With someone, you are sexually or you are spiritually tied

to the person, and it's a sole tie. And also

know that what God use this to recognize marriage is sex.

So you go around sleeping with people, you are married

to those people you are sleeping with. So some of

you right now you have fourteen wives, and certain sister

has seven husbands. And then what you also should not

forget is that on the same line as so ties,

you sleep with whoever the person has slept with. So

you think you are sleeping with one, you are actually

sleeping with four people because the sole tie has not

been cut and they slept with three people, so when

they come to bed it is four plus you, so

making five, and you inherit all the problems, all the

bad things from those people.

You inherit it as well.

So spiritual diseases are all kinds of anything relating to spirituality,

anything relating to spirituality. A pastor, I'll mention the name

an action pastor. He went to pray for someone and

the person said that they were seeing skeletons in their dreams,

and the skeletons were saying, do you know why we die?

Do you know why we die? So the pastor went

to deliver the person from this encountess. After delivering the person,

when the person got to end slept, the skeletons.

Started are being do you know why we die? Do

you know why we die?

So he had to call for another pastor to also

pray for him. So, spiritual spiritual diseases you inherit them quickly,

and spiritual diseases come faster than STDs. SDDS may take

some time to work. For instance, is it that twelve

or fifteen years? I believe HIV can be in your

blood twelve or fifteen years and you will not know.

You will not know, nothing will show that you are

HIV positive. And condoms do not prevent its. Whoever told

you that condom prevents its lie to you. They're void

in a condom. The holes, the holes in a condom

are bigger than the HIV virus. The HIV virus is

small and the holes are big, so the virus can

still contact you whether you are using a condom or not.

That's why even those promoting the condom tell you that

abstinence is best. So that thing that you are using

the condom so you are protected.

Also, condoms bust, the bust.

Wonderful. So please, there's another question.

So one answer is so that we can have quite

a number of questions. So please, what we should be

saying the condom is all brands. Those of you that

I think that there's a brand that is better, it's

all brands.

Amen.

So please, there's this question. The President said that.

Please, how does drug addiction lead to sexual activity? That please,

how does drug addiction lead to sexual activity?

One thing? Yeah, One thing that drags do.

Is that they stimulate sexual desires. So once you take

a drag like cocaine or cocaine is an opioid. So

when any opioid you take, it will spark sex. It

doesn't matter the kind of drag you take. What's the word, hallo, hallo,

hall Yeah, it's Jens hallelu Halley.

But I give it to science.

I need that allocynogens.

So when I take her step, you take you like

mushrooms you like. One day. I love Gammy Bass. I

love it.

So one day a friend of mine came to see

me and she was eating Gammy beass. So she said,

she's going to the bathroom and comping. She left the

Gammy best. Then she was chewing it like it was

Gammy bass.

She take one queue, it takes two Q. The way

the girl was chewing that.

I said, hey, this thing must really be nice. So

I I because one year I nearly mentioned.

The message name. One day I'm saying this is coming

for this.

One day I traveled with my with my wife and

another guy who was basically like my Huma ra two

yeah to a certain states. And when we got there

how to borrow a paste car. So when I borrowed

the past car, immediately I opened the glass compartments there

was a Gammy bed day has hitting.

The half is for me.

So I took it and I was going to eat it.

Then my wife said, let me check. So when she

checked she read them back. She said, no, this is

not a Gammy bell. This is THHC infused gammy bay.

So if you take this thing, it's marijuana, you are

you are taking yeah?

Yeah, so so.

So I ate half of the gammy Bay and then

all I saw is that my my, my, I said, spinning.

Yes, my world was telling as next spinning. Then the

next thing, that's the next thing, that's the next thing.

That The next thing that made me know that no,

that's a problem is that she Derek came and looked

at my face and told me that that is something.

Is wrong with you. I say, hey, what is wrong

with me? So they let it.

Didn't know I'm taking the gammy bell, so she thought

everything was normal, said she was talking to me.

I was irresponding, and I was just there like that.

Now what you see is that that's the first and

the last time that I will ever eat a Cami

bear with THHG inside by You see that the first

time it took me on our waist, I didn't know

what I expected by the second third time, When.

You take it, it will arouse different things in you.

Like people take drugs alcohol to enhance their sexual places,

so that like people take belts and beat each other,

how that arouses use None of my business, but people

do it. So there are all kinds of stimulations and

one of one of the major things that caused sexual

stimulation is drugs.

Is drugs. It's drugs and when you when you when you.

Take it, like rebend date to say that after drinking

alcohol you want to have sex because that's what that's

what it does to you.

It makes you emotion it makes you learn, and then

you want to show that to lean on, lean on me.

So I've answered that question, I believe, So okay, please

there we come to somebody at that questions online, Oh sorry,

please marry, thank you for sure.

Yes, So there was on the issue of sexual abuse,

you know, being a cause of sexual immorality. So like

if you've had sexual you've been sexually abused before, right,

you are more likely to.

Be sexually immoral. How how does one.

Handle the situation where you know, in your house there's

a lot of activity that encourages, you know, sexual abuse.

So maybe you're a child, but then you have uncles

and aunties around, you know, touching you inappropriately, you have

sexual scenes on the TV, you know, and maybe even inappropriate.

Exposure by your parents. Right, who would you speak to?

So one of the answers in the class was that

if maybe it's your mom who's the cause, you can't

speak to your dad about it. If it's the other

way around, you can't speak to your but they may

not take it well, you know how so how how

then do you handle.

You know, some a situation like that?

Thank you?

Mm hm.

I preson believe that you have to be very strong.

You know. This week one lady called, she said, you

said that, oh, why why you guys talk your own

let it?

Oh, yeah, she's here. And when she called me, she

said that Reverend Dames my my auntie. I'm still with

my auntie and she's gone for a phone round and

my auntie's brother has come to the house and he's

hugging me that she mean appropriately, And I don't know

whether to talk to my mother.

Because my mother wilsn't take it. On a different note.

Then I said that you know, there you go about it,

And I said, call your mother and tell your mother that, oh,

this uncle of mine has come and he's hugging me

and trying to do a few things.

I don't really understand what he is trying to do.

Mommie, what does it mean?

And mommy.

If you tell what it means, what.

Should I do to prevent it? You get it. I

believe that everybody hass away to go some of these things.

First of all, you always ask somebody you can talk.

There's always somebody you can't talk to.

Somebody you believe you can't share everything about yours too.

I feel like you cannot talk to momy. You cannot

talk to men you're talking about lesson and if the

person is very much you on, the person will know

how to work about it.

That's what I mean. Yes, you can't even talk to

your pastors.

That is, if you believe that this past the gods

that pastes, you can't talk to them about some of.

These dings like theatre.

I need them.

All the revue business are capable to handle such a situation.

So you just come and then will be able to

tocomes and some of these days.

And also if maybe you're dressing also allows people to

feel like touching you in their house changes because some

people are told you wear a bump shots walk around

you know the ad gentlemen, you were shoe or stomach

or whatever spaghetti dress and then people are around you

have to change the way you dress and the way

you behaveor to and I think that need to help

stop some of these things.

When is the way time or what time is it

the persons going to the relationship or marriage?

Yes, and then the seconds during your discussion.

I don't like discussion talking about the fuck you can past,

but then.

That situations where.

Their business then their business amounting that or use them

as as samples.

In the same right. And I want to know if

it's a bad thing because.

I feel like I get that they're trying to say

people that they are not alone in the situation.

But then again, if they are present in change and

they're using.

Yeah, if you're present church and you're using your stories examples.

Issue, Okay, So let me say this. They are certain

they are very sensitive issue that fast. You know, as

a past that you need to understand that the assitive

issues that cannot come out, you understand. I just alive

this an example and I said, the person is here.

I've never mentioned the person's name, and the example I

used is an example which is not sensitive. Okay, Now

they are pastors who can even walk to the person.

Is that this this lady gave gave to me as

I've seen a lot.

I've seen a lot.

Even pastors have mentioned then I'll give you the number

or anything. Coffee came to see me coffee is not true. Yeah,

we've seen a lot of that.

You get it. Yes, So I believe that.

There are very sensitive issues that past us are not

allowed to break out.

But then the game. If a pastor happens to use.

Your case as an example without mentioning your name, I

will say that, don't be offended because you see there

are certain times as the first is preaching. I'm not

saying that that is the case all the time, but

as the pers sise preaching, it can be inspired to

use setting examples of some of them members without mentioning

their names, to to bring clarity to what he's saying.

And for me, I always use myself as an example.

That one.

You like it, but when we use it as an example,

you don't like it. How many of you like my examples?

You like it, but I don't like You don't want

me to use yours?

Wonderful amen, you say, adding a letter, yeah, please.

One one is so that we will not we will

not have to So the first question you don't want

to answer the first question please, you said at what time?

No, she said when that entire relationship?

Like what time relationship?

Yeah, so when you are ready to get married a

year or two, if it is small than that, you

will have a lot of sexy.

We did there.

Yeah, you are not guaranteed. But what you are saying

that some of you you are fourteen years, fifteen years,

sixteen years, and you want to.

Enter into a relationship you have and we ask you,

what time do you want to get myself when I'm

thirty and you started at fourteen, So you like you've

had sixteen years experience, and it's likely most of the

relationship that is more than three or four years. Most

most of them, it's likely you are not even going

to marry the person. So like you're moving from one

to the other so you can abstain, keep yourself. Then

you are when you are ready to get married, you

know that you are maturely enough, you are prepared.

Then you enter.

So like when you're in esse chess, when you're in

jay chess, when you're in the university, you are not ready.

You want to sleep around, and some of us you use.

There being the relationship as a as an excuse to

continue extra curricolor active. It is so please when you

are let's say a year to the thing, or two

or sometimes six months, it depends. Some people can even

use three months get married, but it depends on the

some of just like six months and all that.

You go through all that, but if it is if

you are not ready within a year or two, it's

likely you will not survive.

It's likely.

Yes, people can also say that we can Okay, that's

why you need more counseling. Like so when you are

like the last bishops mention that if you see someone

and you're interested, let him know.

Then we know that when we know.

That these two people, there will be there will be guidelines,

people will guide you, there will be accountability and all that,

so that it helps you to also work in the

right path.

Please.

Yeah.

So to also add to that, there there's another aspect

of it. What will also lead you into going into

a relationship. Sometimes all peer pressure. We see your friends

in a relationship, so you also feel I also have

to be in a relationship.

So it also becomes.

I don't know where you are in, but because you've

seen your friends, it's like a normal things what everybody

is doing.

So let me also do it.

If you don't do it means you're not past like

you are cold, you are you are late, you are

like you don't yet, you are John. You don't know

whatsappen you know. Ah, So you don't enter because you

see people inmits. So to prevent all this sexual morality,

you don't enter because somebody is in a relationship. It's

not em by all missing that you have to enter

because that it's peer pressure and you are surrounded around it,

maybe in school or maybe on campus.

You see your eminis there in essages telling my girl

do this for me.

So all of those things also put pressure on you

so that you also go into it, and it to

lead you to several things that we are discussing about

sexual moratu. So don't be pressured by what you see

around your friend. Yes, they're doing it, they're going out,

they're receiving gifts.

Yeah, you know.

So it looks nice to you. It looks so nice

to you, but they are dangerous to them. But in

the sight of it, yes, it will not help you.

So please Cobb put this one on the screen, said

that it's for questions. In one he said, I one,

why do people struggle with sexual sin. Two, if you

have sex with someone you are not married to, doesn't

really impact your spiritual life. Three, it's sexual immorality like

any other sin. Four is it good for a Christian

man and a late and lady to practice sex in

a relationship? And then I say, M sequels, what can I.

I think that you really tell? It was the congression already.

I'm yes like you.

Question one. Let's leave the question one too.

If you have sex with someone you are not married

to doesn't really impact your spiritual life.

Question three a.

Sexual immorality like any other scene. So it's especial saying, okay,

is it good for a Christian man and lady?

So I want to just give you a scripture first

sixty eighteen. He says that play sexual immorality everything.

That a man does outside the body.

But he commits, and you will commit sexual immorality, says

a cast he's own body.

I answered you, I've answered the question. Hello, I've answered

the question all right?

Thank you?

All right?

So please can you put the question so we get

an answer to it?

So that lately I've noticed my younger brothers have been

exposed to settin explicit material on social media.

It's not porn, but it has.

A lot of sexual undertones. So this one admits that

they remove themselves. They address they wear a lot than

even porn comma, and it is obviously meant for older people.

They've been exposed to it for so long that they've

reached the point where they see it as normal.

But I disagree.

How do you suggest I handled the situation? So please,

there are a lot of people who say that we

want movies that has a lot of sex scenes. It's

the younger out of pop. It is, yes, and there's

that they have some they call soft porn, so they

want to watch porn, but they want to feel good.

That's why they say that we want movies that has

a lot of sex scenes. Please. They are related, yeah,

brothers and sisters. The question is on the screen.

And even with this that we're even talking about lately,

when you go even on the social media, you go

on Facebook, you go on TikTok in Instagram, you see

ladies dress a certain way, posing a certain way, and

then it sents certain signals to you. The way they addressed,

they just want to show you something. You see, they

are showing you the things and then you realize that

once you see it, it takes you to the nest.

Then it takes you to the nest, then take you

to the nest your interest. So that's what it's put

into this person's brothers. They've seen something, so once you flip,

it continues. Now, one thing is that when you are

on Instagram or TikTok or whatever social media and you

what is particular thing. They noticed that you like things

like this, so they keep sending them to you. Anytime

you enter that you'll show them to you because they

see that you keep staying on it. So whilst you're

on it, they keep sending you new ones. And you

are advancing and you are increasing. Then you have your

medica and you have your degree in it.

So how do you suggest I handle the situation?

So how you suggest to handle the situation? I don't

know what age is.

The person at the moment.

He said that his younger brothers, the younger brothers.

Their younger brothers, but they have access to phones.

They have access to phones, and so how how is

it going to just handle the situation? Because the person.

Wants to help, So I'm saying that they have access

to phones. So the person can speak either to the

parents about the situation, because I believe that he has

spoken to them, but they didn't listen.

No, it's no to them.

It's a normal moving So now go beyond you just

speaking to them.

Go to the parents and then let the parents know

about what the younger brothers are doing and see if

help will come. If help does not come, move further.

So maybe somebody that they are you say, they are

people that, like you asked. I don't know whether it's

shaw or no, like you have certain reverence or respect for.

So you can speak to such a person that they

can call them and then explain to them that I

will talk to them about this thing that you're doing

is leading you on dangerous grounds, so it will not

help you.

So I believe sad people will.

Be able to speak to them and will be able

to Yes, some people that they have respectful, they have

revered or do you want to listen to them?

So you have tried your best, they have not listened

to you. Go to your parents.

If they are still misbehaving, there's there's still somebody that

they revered, that they have respect for, that they can

talk to, and then you'll give to them.

I believe they can.

Help, So please, can we appreciate candel We are going

to take our titan offering. This is the last one.

He said that how do you have sex by the

influence of your peers?

How the way you're all saying how how it's like

that's less pleasers.

You have a lot of experience. How do you have

how do you have sex by the influence of your peers?

One thing our father always says that what you feed

the most close the most you know.

I started drinking alcohol because all my friends way back

in shs three we're drinking at all. So we go

to we go for parties, and then the requests for

per and all of that, our requests for month. Then

it was James super what did what was this? Then

a point time they gave me goddess pack? What did

not really look like did is sweet? At the end

of the day, I got drunk. The next minute I

was drinking another one. By the third day, third time,

I was drinking free bottles. Now, when you are in

the midst of certain group of people and Daddy is

alive automatically, where you don't guard your ear, guard your gates,

you'll be influenced, usually be influenced, so you can always

have sex through p pressure.

The first time I have sex was because I had pressure.

From my friends ches three. Wow.

Yes, my friends all had girlfriends and they were looking,

you'll go out with them? Come tell you it be

this start defined, this one good, this one is okay.

Some people are saying you started late. Okay, okay, and

that is it. And all my friends were into into

this very deeply.

You get it.

They got me the girlfriend. Okay, yeah, they got me

the girlfriend. Guys can be helpful something you have to wat.

They got to the girl friend before I realized we

had it.

We had sex.

That was the day I finished my final exches.

Wow.

And in two months the lady came and said, missed

my period. Yes, yes, so now at times yes, yes.

Yes, this is a I miss my pros like your

first in secondary scho.

She knows of this story. So fear pressure. I mean,

they can always push you an influence into our sex.

They always, they always, they always do the first time

I smoke friends, okay, all the things I did which

were bad friends, okay, you're getting so. Definitely, if you're

setting group of friends, there some of you you are

in sad groups. Okay, your friends come and they show

you movies, show your new skills, new styles, show you

pornographic pictures, tell you that, Charlie, let's go meet this emp.

Let's go meet this man is giving me money, you'll

help you and all of that.

Once you find yourself inside groups and you don't cart

yourself by taking yourself out, gradually influence chall said something,

perversion begins.

Perversion.

Heymen, let's appreciate God for such a time as this,

And please, let's appreciate Reverend James, Reveren Francis and Bishop

Jewel that can Willians for their knowledge and understanding. The

Lord has used them to give us please less oppression.

As they take their seat, God bless your sir