Sermon
Reflections on Love - Part 1
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So last week, okay, so I gave you an update. You know, we've had this,
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we've been having this goal.
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We're trying to raise some money for the upcoming move, which,
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you know, hopefully will be sometime likely in October, but we're going to do
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some remodeling and stuff like that.
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So we've been collecting pledges, doing some fundraising to get our ducks in
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a row so we can move into this building in downtown Snoqualmie.
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And I let you know, our goal is to raise $350,000, which is, we think enough.
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Like, it's hard to tell in this current environment how much things will cost.
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But it's like that's a sum of money that we think could be enough to kind of
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get our cafe built out and get our upstairs where we hope to have church built
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out and do all the remodel stuff and to cover the move and stuff like that.
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So our goal was to raise $350,000.
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Last week, I let you know that our pledges were up to like $214,000.
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And I'm happy to say this week, the updated number from 214 is 293,525.
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So that's really a lot of progress towards 350. that's 84%. I did the math.
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It's actually 83.86, but I'm calling it 84%. So I'm really happy about that.
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And if you still want to be a part of that, you know, I think we've made substantial
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progress, you know, but that last 16% of getting towards that goal,
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if you want to partner with us to be a part of that, we'd love to have you.
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I know some people have been still thinking about it and I understand no pressure,
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but I'm really thankful, you know, I'm really thankful, honestly,
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because I think I said a couple weeks ago when we were talking about this,
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like that we just have super generous church.
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And I've seen that in this process as well. So thank you all.
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And just keep this whole project in prayer. You know, we're,
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I keep saying they're going to start digging and they will. They're now permission to dig.
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We are basically, our builders are like, when we finish our current job,
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we're coming to you, which is really clear, you know?
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So there's a lot of clarity going on and I'm feeling it as well.
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So that's what's happening.
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We have to survey the property. That's happening on Thursday because they have
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to set the things a certain distance from the property lines.
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And so we're getting all that done. And that's $3,000. Great. Wonderful.
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Somebody gets out. I want to draw a line for $3,000.
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And there is a job for that. So somebody is going to come out and do that for us.
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And yes, so we're praying about that, doing some various things.
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But I wouldn't be surprised if maybe there's some large hole,
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even larger holes being dug by next week.
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But we'll see. We really can't put a precise pin in it. but it is moving forward.
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So all that is to say, thank you and it's going. It's great.
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So we wrapped up a series last week called Forward in Faith and that's where
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we've been talking about this building and this whole...
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But now we're just able to go back into the Bible and think about things a little bit more.
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And as I was considering what I wanted to teach, you know, summertime's a little,
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there's a lot of vacations and people are around.
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But I was just like, just saying, okay, you know, God, what do we need to hear?
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And what are the things that we should focus on? And I actually was going to
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do something else, but then it felt like the Lord just made it clear that,
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no, we need to just talk about love.
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And so I'm calling this message and then the one that's going to be kind of
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a second part of this next week called Reflections on Love. And I'm setting
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the bar very low because it's just some reflections about love, right?
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And that's, I mean, that's honestly like, I think love is funny.
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I think it's really, we would all, anyone who's been around the Bible and been
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around church and spent some time getting to know Jesus, everybody knows that
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love is so central to the Christian faith.
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I mean, it is kind of right at the heart of what we could think about what it
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is to practice and to be a person who is following after Jesus.
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It's to be a person who loves with the love that he demonstrates and the love
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that he gives and the love that he is welling up and forming within us.
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Jesus was, if we read the Gospels, Jesus was obsessed with love in a way that
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really bothered people, actually. in a way that bothered the people that he
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was teaching to, the Pharisees and the religious people.
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He understood love for God and for neighbor,
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that is to say God and people, to be the whole goal of all the commandments,
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of all religious observation, the whole goal of what the prophets were after
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and what God was proclaiming in the world in the Old Testament.
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He talks about that in Matthew 22, 36.
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You have a familiar passage to all of us, I'm sure. He says,
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teacher, which command in the law is the greatest?
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That's the Pharisees asking this question. And he said, well,
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this is it. Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.
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This is the greatest and most important command.
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And the second is like it, love your neighbor as yourself.
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And all the law and the prophets depend on these two commands.
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So any response to God, any listening to his word, any obedience to him,
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like it's summed up and really under this umbrella of loving God and loving other people.
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The whole goal of the commandments given in the Old Testament.
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And I would say by extension, Jesus' commands. We see that very clearly in his teaching.
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It's all about love.
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Paul later, I mean, Paul, you know, this kind of the great theologian who helped
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form and shape our ideas about what it means to follow Jesus,
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particularly as non-Jewish people.
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He explains in the book of Romans, he says, Love does no wrong to a neighbor,
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therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
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You know, law prohibits us from harming others, from harming ourselves,
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from harming God, from dishonoring Him.
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And Paul just says, but if we love, we're never going to come close to those
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violations. We're never going to offend God. We're never going to offend people
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because love just doesn't do that.
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And so love, by virtue of what it is, it never violates the law.
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In fact, it fulfills the law.
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If we're wondering what the good life is, and if we're wondering how we ought
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to be in the world and how we ought to pursue maturity and satisfaction,
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if we want to know how to honor God, how to keep a clean conscience,
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how to make much of our lives, how to live significant lives, impactful lives.
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Love is always the answer. It's consistently through and through out scripture.
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It is the answer. It's at the heart of everything, right at the center of all
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Christian instruction is the call to love.
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And in fact, every time I was doing like some word studies on love and just
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going through, you know, different epistles, that is Paul's letters to the church.
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And every time he's giving instruction, he always wraps it up.
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Just love each other. You know, that's the shorthand for all of these things
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that I'm telling you to do.
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It's actually just love each other. Love God. Love others.
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But it's funny because though we, I think, all realize that love is central
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to Jesus' teaching, I'm not sure if people in the church, I'm not sure if Christians,
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I'm not sure if I oftentimes think about love.
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I don't reflect on love enough. I don't consider how important it is.
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I just sort of take it for granted.
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We like to pay attention to spiritual things, novel things. We like to pay attention
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to churchy things, cultural things, what people should or shouldn't be doing.
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We like to pay attention to scripture and we like to pay attention to what we're
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doing in our lives and concerned about that. It's like, these are all good things.
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They're valuable things. But I'm not sure if all of us, and myself included,
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spend too much time thinking about how love is playing out in our lives.
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I'm not sure if I do that enough.
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And that's actually not really surprising. I mean, if we read the New Testament,
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yeah, Paul is always telling us we should love.
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Jesus is always telling us we should love. But Paul is also saying.
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You know, he's giving a little slap around saying, okay, look,
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this is obviously a failure to love.
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There's anticipated failure to love.
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That's why Paul tells the Corinthians in 1 Corinthians 13, that famous passage on love.
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He says this, if I speak human or angelic tongues, I do all these spiritual
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things, but I don't have love. I'm just a noisy gong and a clanging cymbal.
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If I have the gift of prophecy and I understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
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and if I have all faith so that I can move mountains, but I don't have love, I'm nothing.
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And if I give away all my possessions, and if I give over all my body in order
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to boast, but I do not have love, I gain nothing.
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See, Paul, in the vibrant, Holy Spirit-filled ministry going on in the early
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church, He could see the problem that we experience and continue to experience
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today, that that problem was starting off there.
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People would jump into this Jesus stuff head church, this church stuff head first.
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They would be so excited and their lives would be changed and they'd be like,
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I'm going to die for Jesus and I'm going to give away all my stuff and I'm going
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to prophesy in the name of the Lord.
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I'm going to be filled with the Holy Spirit and using these gifts.
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And Paul could see that and he says, that's great, that's wonderful.
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But he understands our tendency, the tendency of the early church and our tendency
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to lose sight of what matters most.
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And it's not doing all these things, but it's holding love at the very center.
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He says, we could do all of these
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things, all these things which are commendable and good and valuable.
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And if we lose sight of love, then we just lose sight of the whole thing.
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The wheels come off. The project fails.
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We have to, and we have to always hold to this. We measure Christian maturity in love.
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Without love, there is not fullness. There is not maturity.
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And so, yeah, that's why I thought it would be good this morning to think about
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love and to tell you some things you already know. That's my intent.
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I will tell you nothing you don't already know this morning.
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Very likely, unless this is all entirely new to you, right?
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But I don't think so. If you've been around the church and if you've,
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you know, studied the Word of God, I'm sure you've heard lots about love.
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But I just want to remind us and to remind us of things that are important when it comes to love.
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And with that in mind, I want us just actually to pray because of course,
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we're not just doing a mental thing like we're asking the Lord to shape our
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hearts and to teach us what it is to love. So would you guys just pray with me?
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Holy Spirit, we welcome you in this morning. God, there's nothing novel in what I'm gonna say today.
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There's nothing new. There's nothing surprising. Lord, it is the same gospel, your love revealed.
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That we are just leaning into. And we want to know more of you.
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And we want to hear more from you. And we want to have a vision for what it
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means to be people of love.
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And so, Lord, we just come. We are seeking your work. And we're asking you to work and to shape us.
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In Jesus' name. Amen.
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All right. So, I've just got three points, three things I want to share.
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Again, things you already know. And the first is this, God is love. God is love.
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I think the starting point for making sense of the centrality of love in the
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life of a Christian is to understand this fact that God is love.
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It's what John tells us in 1 John 4.
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John explains this remarkable fact, God is love. And that's just his very character.
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It's his nature. It's who he is.
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John says this, he says, Dear friends, let us love one another,
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because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
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The one who does not love does not know God, because God is love.
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God is love. Dallas Willard, my favorite, comments on this passage, and he says this.
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He says, Love is not a faucet to be turned on or off at will.
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God himself doesn't just love me or you. he is love.
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He is creative will for all that is good.
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That's his identity and explains why he loves individuals, even when he's not pleased with them.
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And I love that little phrase. It's a really helpful idea for me to kind of
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wrap my mind around what it would mean that God is love.
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He says this. He says, God is creative will for all that is good.
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It's such a helpful way to conceptualize God's love.
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God's love for me and for you, it looks like is endless, consistent,
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constant, creative will for the good. That is, he wants to see good come into the world.
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He wants to see his creation restored to its original goodness as he made it
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before sin spoiled things.
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And so his engagement in the world, it's about his will.
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He desires fundamentally to see things transformed and be made good again, to flourish yet again.
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To relate to God is to know a person who is constantly wanting to see your peace
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and your joy and your flourishing, like, true, spiritual, created, purpose fulfilled.
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He wants your good. And who is constantly working in the world,
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in your life, to bring about good.
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We think about the ways that, like, in the Old Testament particularly,
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like, God has understood.
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Like, and I think of just like Joseph's story, like when, when he's,
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I think it's, I think it's Genesis 50 after he comes back from,
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from Egypt and he explains to his brothers that they intended this thing for
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evil, but God intended it for good.
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God intends good in the world and he works with people to bring about good. He is creating good.
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He is creative in his good love as God's demonstrated.
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It's not, it's not merely about his feelings towards you. And I think this is
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hard because in our culture, in our society, we have romantic notions of love,
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and they tend to be sort of just about inward feelings.
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But God's love towards you is actually about his will for your good.
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And sure, because he wills your good, he also has thoughts and affections and feelings.
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I really actually don't. I cannot speak to God's feelings. I don't know the
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nature of how he feels. But, of course, he would how all of those feelings were
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because he wills your good.
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Like, you can't will the good of someone and hate them at the same time.
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Those two things simply don't go together.
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There is this love and affection that comes along. And for all those,
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like, the feelings followed.
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I think Willard is right. If we understand God's love as his will for our good,
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that actually helps us understand how he can love us even when he's not pleased with us.
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You know, like my children are not always making me.
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Happy. And in moment by moment terms, you know, sometimes they scream and yell
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and then they, I know my kids, I know pastor's kids.
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Who'd have thought? Sometimes they are obstinate and difficult.
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And yet I love them because I'm always, I mean, I think anyone who's a parent
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would say this, you will the good of your children.
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And so that brings you back when you are, you know, momentarily frustrated,
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your love, because you have this will for your good, it can replace and it comes
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back and your feelings follow after that will for their good.
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And it helps us to understand how God can love us even when he's not pleased
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with us. Because God is love.
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He always wants what is good for us.
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And John actually goes on, he explains that actually that will for good,
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God's will for good actually has a specific object and a specific goal.
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He explains how this love is expressed in particular.
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So he goes on in verse 9, he says, God's love was revealed among us in this way.
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God sent his one and only son into the world so that we might live through him.
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And love consists in this, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent
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his son to be an atoning sacrifice for our sins.
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God's love for you and for me and for this whole world and for everything that exists,
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his will for creative good, his will to bring about good and restoration in
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the world is revealed, as John explains,
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in his action, his intervention in the world of sending his one and only son
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into the world that we might live through him.
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There is no good for me or for you outside of that, but all the good and all
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of God's creative will and all of his love is available to us in that promise and in that gift.
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The gospel is the good news that God is love. He is creative will for your good,
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and he is being expressed in and realized by him sending his son, Jesus Christ.
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God is making a way for your good, for your salvation, for your redemption in
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and through Jesus Christ over and against all the other things and all the other
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things we put our hope in that end up not satisfying us.
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God is saying, actually, you can have this wonderful, blessed,
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good life through Christ.
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See, Jesus, God looks at you and me and all of fallen creation and being loved,
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he asked himself, how can we create good in the midst of all of this brokenness?
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And his answer is he loved us and sent his son to be an atoning sacrifice for our sin.
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So all of our brokenness, it's restrained, it's restored, it's taken away.
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The guilt, the shame, all of those things are taken away because of what Jesus
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has done on the cross and goodness is secured for us in him.
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He brings good from brokenness.
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Second thing that you know, but I'd like to remind you of about love,
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is that love is unconditional but not unconditioned.
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So God is love, right? He is, and His love is unconditional.
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We know this, we believe this. I think conceptually it makes sense.
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But I just want to clarify some things because there does come a little bit
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of turbulence as we think about, well, what does that really mean?
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His love for you, his creative will for your good is perfectly suited to be unconditional.
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He can love you without condition because he is able to bring good from any situation.
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He is the one who is able to work with people and his love, which is his will
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for your good, is dependent on himself and it's not dependent on you.
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It's dependent on his ability to bring good into any circumstance and it doesn't depend on you.
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And so therefore it can be unconditional because God says, no,
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whatever you do, whatever you want. I mean, the gospel is super clear on this.
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The Bible is super clear on this. You are loved as a sinner.
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You were loved not for your potential, not for your ability,
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but because he looks at you and your brokenness and your pain.
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And he says, I can bring good from this.
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And so whatever the worst thing going on in your life, it doesn't make you any
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less a recipient or a beneficiary of God's love.
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His love is not dependent on you deserving his love in any way whatsoever.
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It never has been, it never will be because he loves without reference to our
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loveliness and he loves despite our unloveliness.
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He loves us despite our sin. He wants to bring good in your life despite all
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the obstinance and stubbornness that you demonstrate and that I demonstrate.
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So if you're here wondering, well, does God love me like that?
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Does he love me unconditionally? The answer is yes and definitely.
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God loves you. He loves you on your worst day. He doesn't love you any less.
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He doesn't will your good any
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less on your worst day, even as you're digging the hole that you're in.
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Deeper and deeper. God doesn't say, I don't know, I'm about done with this person.
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No, he continues to want your good. He continues to love you.
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He loves you when you haven't thought about him in months. He loves you when
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you don't pray and you don't read your Bible. He loves you all the same.
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His love for you is unconditional. He loves you even when you don't like him.
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And in fact, he's enacted this plan for your good, the one that John talks about
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in 1 John 4, and the one that John also tells us in John 3.16, this famous verse.
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God loves the world in this way. He gave His one and only Son so that everyone
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who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.
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God sends a gift, an unconditional gift of His Son that anyone who believes
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in Him would not perish but have eternal life.
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He makes a way for your good no matter where you're at, no matter how deep or
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how much sin there is in your life or whatever.
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No matter how much you've opposed him time after time again,
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he makes a way so that you can have good and restoration and eternal life where
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there was only perishing before.
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He desires your good, and he desires that you would not perish but have eternal life.
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But I think it's worth understanding this. Though God's love is unconditional,
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it's not unconditioned.
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He will never stop willing your good. He loves you unconditionally.
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But I think if we walked with Jesus for a little while, we know that to effect goodness,
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for this gift of Jesus Christ in your life to have its effect,
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to bring about goodness, to make a difference in your life, it is conditioned.
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It is conditioned. It's conditioned upon, as John says here,
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upon your acceptance and belief, your trust, you're turning to Jesus Christ.
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God freely gives his life. He gives the means by which you can have goodness and life everlasting.
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He freely gives his life. He freely offers us the means to affect good in our
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lives, but it's conditioned on relationship. That's why we talk about this.
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This reality, like when we come to believe in Jesus, we come into a relationship with God.
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And for relationships to be relationships, there's give and take.
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There's showing up. There's involvement.
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There's self-investment, right?
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God gives himself, and we give ourselves, and in that, the good comes about.
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John Barclay says this. He says, the Christ gift was given to the ungodly in
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the absence of worth, and it was given to all.
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There was no list and no selection determined by who's naughty or nice.
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But it was given in order to transform the human recipients and to establish
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a permanent relationship.
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The receipt of this gift is necessarily expressed in gratitude,
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obedience, and transformed behavior.
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This grace is free. It's unconditional. But it's not cheap without expectations
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or obligations, like all relationships are, by the way.
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Those who have received it are to remain within it. Their lives are altered
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by new habits, new dispositions, and new practices of grace.
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I like how Jesus explains this in John 15, 9.
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It's just like preparing his disciples for his crucifixion, his ascension.
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And he's just like making sure
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that they understand some things in his absence, what they need to know.
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He says this, as the father has loved me, I also love you. Remain in my love.
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You know, God's love is this free gift. It's relationship. It's unconditional to who you are.
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Like you can take it no matter what is going on in your life.
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You can step into it. But the conditioned part is that you're to remain in it.
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If I give you the keys to a new house, you say you have no home,
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you have no place to live in.
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It does you no good unless you move into the house.
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Remain in it. that would be a great way for me to bring about your good potentially, right?
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If I were to give you a place to be, that's why Jesus says, I mean,
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this remain in your love is oftentimes translated in a different translation as abide in my love.
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Like we move into his love. We move into a relationship and then we're to live
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into it. And that's not performative.
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I mean, it's just like it is the substance of the goodness that God is willing for us.
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He sent his son so that we could have this relationship, so that our lives could
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be the venue for his goodness, right?
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But that's just not going to happen unless we're involved in it in some way.
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And so, yes, it's unconditional love because he wills your good no matter what.
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And he sent Jesus Christ for anyone, anyone who would turn to him.
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You can step into it. You can move into this love.
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You can move into this relationship. But with any relationship,
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you are a contributor to it. So it is conditioned in that respect.
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What a glorious condition it is to just be given life everlasting.
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Not on the basis of your goodness, not on the basis of your qualification,
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not on the basis of the fact that you're great at having relationships. Some of us aren't.
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I will not say anything about myself. Love is where you remain. You occupy that place.
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You move into that place. That is the condition of relationship.
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We make our home in the love of God. And it is the most urgent thing for any Christian.
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You know, if you're unsatisfied in your faith, in your relationship,
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like make your home in the love of God.
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Spend your days thinking about it. Consider what it means that he died for you.
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Consider what it means that he loves you. Consider what it means that he sent
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you testimony after testimony of his redemptive power, of his love,
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of his grace, of his kindness.
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Live in that, dwell in that, love in that. I mean, this is part of the practices
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of discipleship that we talk about here, of becoming everyday disciples.
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So many of them are just, one is like, examine your life every day,
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by which I'm just asking you to just consider where God has shown up.
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Consider where he's been faithful, where he's shown you his love.
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We ask you to meet with God every day, to develop a prayer life.
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I think the biggest obstacle to prayer life is what you think prayer is.
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Most people think prayer is just like asking God for things,
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and it can be that. Certainly intercession is part of it.
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But honestly, so much of prayer is just leaning into and reminding myself that I have love to remain in.
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I have a life which has been prepared for me. I have peace and joy and hope
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in my Savior, and that life begins now.
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And I think we get discouraged from that. We don't know how to step into that.
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And I'm not saying it is not difficult.
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And actually, next week, we'll talk a little bit more about, well, how do we do that?
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But we are to remain. We're called to abide. And the final point here,
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and actually, the worship team
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can come on up while we go through this one, it's that love is put on.
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It is something that we do intentionally. I mean, it's something that we're
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called to demonstrate and let, like, as it's going to be sort of an overflow
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of remaining in God's love. But of course, we express it to other people.
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What Paul reminds the Colossian church of in Colossians 3.12 is,
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As God's chosen ones, holy and dearly loved, to put on compassion,
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kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another.
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If anyone has a grievance against another, just as the Lord has forgiven you,
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so you are also to forgive.
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And above all, put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity.
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I think it will be very frustrating to you if you think putting on love is feeling
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certain feelings towards people.
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Because I don't know how to manipulate my own feelings. Maybe some of you guys
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are bitter at it than I am, but I'm not very good at it.
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But if I think of love as, I think what God makes clear is, if I think of love
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as engaging my will to bring about good for others,
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willing the good for others, that's at least a little bit more within my reach.
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Now, can I control my will?
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No, not immediately, but I do think there are ways that I can shape my will
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and I can hone it And we'll talk about all that next week. That's really the
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whole substance of next week.
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But if you're frustrated when it comes to loving other people because you don't
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feel the right feelings or you don't feel them consistently,
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consistency is the big problem, right? We can feel them sometimes, but not all the time.
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What do we do with that? Like, how do we put on love? How do we love others?
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Well, again, I think taking a step back and understanding, well,
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actually loving others is understanding.
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That God has good for them and I can want that good and I can will that good
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and I can work to bring about that good in a way that would make sense.
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D.L. Moody talks about love. He talks about his time studying love and what he came to understand.
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He says this, I took up that word love and I do not know how many weeks I spent
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studying in the passage, the
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passages in which it occurs till at last I could not help loving people.
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I had been feeding on love so long that I was anxious to do everybody good I came in contact with.
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It's not about He doesn't say I just have all these feelings You
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know No I look at people And I say God wants to bring about good in their lives
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And so I become anxious to partake In bringing about good in people He says
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And I got so full of it It ran out of my fingers You take up the subject of
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love in the Bible And you will get so full of it That all you have to do is
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open your lips And a flood of the love of God will flow out,
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Love is not I think putting on a feeling It's not putting on a feeling But it is looking at people,
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and saying, no, Christ died for them just as he died for me.
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Christ will forgive them just as he's forgiven me.
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So I don't look at people as what they are. I don't look at people as how terrible
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they are and all the bad things they've done.
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I actually just look at people as people who are the objects of God's love.
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And so I try to become a person who sees people that way. And that's the first step to putting on love.
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And I think it's freeing to know that I don't need to feel a certain way about
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people, but I can look at them and I can understand, no, God wants good for them.
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And so I can become somebody who is gonna grow in and participate in bringing about good.
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Again, like I don't think I've said anything here that is particularly novel.
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I hope not, I wasn't trying to, but I want us to remember,
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and I just want us to think, and again, we're gonna talk about this again,
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particularly this putting on love and how we see people that way and how we
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train ourselves to be people who are people of love because I do think there's training in this.
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But I just want us to stop and I want us to begin to think about where we began
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and that's that just God is love. God is love.
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You know, that is the bedrock on which we stand, on which we've built our faith and our hope.
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That His love is the means by which we can ever participate in and say that we love other people.
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We love him because he first loved us. He is love and he wants good for us.
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And I think the obstacles to our love are, I mean, it's like,
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you know, Paul talks about how the greatest, there's faith, hope,
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and love, these abiding things and the greatest of them is love.
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But faith and hope are also pretty important.
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Maybe you lack the faith. Maybe you're sitting here and you're saying,
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man, I don't know. I don't know about this Jesus person.
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I don't quite understand.
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I'm discouraged.
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I have questions. I have doubts.
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And, you know, doubts don't disqualify you from the love of God because his love is unconditional.
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And so he can look at you with all of your doubts and with all of your concerns,
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and he can say, well, I can work with that because I can make a way. I can make a path.
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I can make a way forward. No matter where you're at, no matter how long you've
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been there, I can make a way forward to bring you to a place of faith in the
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midst of all your doubts. But that depends on him.
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Some of us just lack hope. Hope is...
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Maybe hope is in short supply for you. And I want to just pray because honestly,
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like for all these things, like they just so depend on God.
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And I can't give you a prescription of how to restore all those things in your
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life, how to have faith, hope, love.
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But I can tell you this, God is love and he is not stingy.
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He's not stingy. And in fact, he gives us what we need when we lack.
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And so I want us to just pause. I want us to pray.
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And then what we're going to do actually is we're going to take communion together.
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And so as the worship team plays, you know, I just want you to grab the elements, juice and bread.
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And what we're doing is we're doing this thing. we are not thinking about how
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great we've done in loving Jesus, but we're thinking about his great love for us.
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We're thinking about the great love, the great consistent love of the Father
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demonstrated by sending his son to take away sins, to die for us,
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and to show us what it is to love,
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to demonstrate that so that we might come in and follow his example and seek
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out his glory and and put him above all else.
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And so, you know, you come in and you may feel guilty.
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Well, this is the promise of forgiveness, right?
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The gospel is that Jesus Christ has forgiven you.
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He sees you on your worst day. He doesn't care where you've been. He can forgive.
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He is the type who forgives. He invites you into relationships.
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If you come guilty, remind yourself of that.
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If you come and you're lacking hope and you're lacking faith, well, you know what?
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Do you have enough faith to just step out, to grab what's on offer,
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to get your eyes upon Jesus and not upon yourselves? And do you have faith enough
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to just sit with the Lord and just say, okay, God, you've said these things are true.
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There's going to be eternal life in you. You've forgiven my sins.
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You invite me into relationship.
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Lord, would you confirm that yet again?
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So could you just take that, take some time with Jesus, whatever you need,
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whatever is in the way, in the way of love. Or maybe you're feeling like on
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cloud nine and you just know the love of God.
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Like, so great. So celebrate that. But come to him with whatever you have. Come straight to him.
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You're called to remain in his love. He proclaims his love to you.
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Would you just seek him out?
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And so as we do that, okay, so I'm going to ask you to do that,
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to sit down and to do that, to take communion on your own. We're not going to do it together.
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You're just going to do it on your own. And once you're done,
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take some time in prayer and join us in worship again.
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So I'm just going to pray for us as we enter into this time.
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Uh holy spirit we welcome you into this place um god we we don't deserve you,
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we're not you're not here um because you're
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so impressed with us god um but you do we're here for you jesus we're here to
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know you god we're here to know your love we're here on the basis of what you've
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done we don't want to have standing before you god because we've earned it we
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we have standing because of your invitation.
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Music.