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Pray Like a Champion - Week 2

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  1. Hello, Go Church family. I'm Lara and I'm with Pastor Matt Haraba.

  2. Hey everybody.

  3. And Gilbert.

  4. Hey Lara.

  5. Hi.

  6. Excellent.

  7. We did this in the first take this time.

  8. Yes.

  9. Praise God.

  10. We're excited to be back with you and we're digging deeper into our series called

  11. Pray Like a Champion.

  12. What a great study. What a great series. I'm really enjoying this.

  13. Me too.

  14. I'm enjoying this too. I'm excited to keep going deeper and deeper in the subject.

  15. And it's really enriching because it's something like most of what we do, very applicable, right?

  16. It's something that we can see what we've been doing or what we haven't been doing to a certain

  17. degree and just apply it further. And like we said, and you know, I keep going back to this,

  18. we want to keep going further and further on this trail of faith that the Lord put us on.

  19. And of course our minds matter. You know, this is what we've been talking about last month.

  20. And to be spiritually minded is life and peace. And we keep experiencing life and peace to a

  21. greater measure. But if we really want to keep going further on this walk, on the right trail

  22. that the Lord is taking us on, we need to stay connected to Him. We need to have the right

  23. communication and we need to be able to hear Him when we want to go further. So

  24. mentioning that, I want to say that this is week two of our podcast series and there's going to be

  25. week two of our Grow Groups as well. So far we've been talking about pray like a champion. Last

  26. week we really looked at the subject of what is a champion's prayer? You know, what does a

  27. champion's prayer look like? And we talked about what is prayer and why do I have to pray?

  28. And we also had some fun discussions in our Grow Groups. Hopefully we got to see ourselves

  29. in the illustration and see where we want to go and how we can go further. And this week

  30. we're actually going to talk about the Grow element of this series, which is how we can become

  31. champion prayers or like Pastor Matt says, champions who pray, right? Just to make it easier.

  32. And before we do that, I'm going to ask Pastor Matt to head to Luke chapter 18. We're going to

    Luke 18 chapter mention

  33. read our key scripture, which is in Luke chapter 18 and we're going to go a little further.

    Luke 18 chapter mention

  34. Yeah, Luke 18, Luke 18 verse one is our key scripture. And Jesus speak a parable to them,

  35. the disciples, to this end, that men should always pray and not faint. We've read that from a couple

  36. of different translations. The Amplified says not lose heart. But we haven't, we've, we've

  37. haven't dug deeper into the chapter. I want to jump down to verse 10.

  38. And I want to look at this picture of prayer together. Verse 10, two men went up into the

  39. temple to pray. The one a Pharisee and the other a publican. Okay, so probably a more modern

  40. translation would say a tax collector. The Pharisee here is the most strict follower

  41. of the first five books of the Bible. So the Pharisees were very strict in their application

  42. of the first five books of the Bible. And then they were proponents of or, or

  43. they were, let's say the, the doctors of the law. They were very aware of everything to do with

  44. God's commandments, not just the 10 commandments, but the 660 some commandments that make up the

  45. Old Testament. So this is a parable. This is a story that Jesus is using to illustrate a point.

  46. And he says, there's two people that are going into the temple for the purpose to pray. The one

  47. is a Pharisee. And when he says Pharisee, we know that this is someone that knows what the Old

  48. Testament scriptures say. So perceived as really religious. Perceived as very religious. Yeah,

  49. very, very much a doer, a practicer. And then we have a tax collector. And he says,

  50. very much a doer, a practicer. And then we have a tax collector and a tax collector is the very

  51. bottom of society. This is someone that has absolute, he's, he's living without a moral

  52. compass at all because he's participating with Rome in occupying the, the, the, the land and

  53. subjugating people to pay taxes to the oppressor, to pay taxes to the oppressor. Yeah. And, but,

  54. but this is an oppressed person who has bought their own freedom by helping the oppressor.

  55. So that's the contrast, right? Two ends of the spectrum. Of course, everything that I just said

  56. is on purpose judging from outward appearance. Right? So this is how people would see it.

  57. Verse 11 says, the Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself. I love the way this is the King James

  58. Bible that I'm reading. And I just love the way it's phrased. The Pharisee stood and prayed

  59. and prayed thus with himself. God, I thank you that I am not as other men are extortioners,

  60. unjust adulterers, or even as this tax collector. Imagine the scene. The Pharisee dressed very nice,

  61. has a great speaking voice, raises his voice and says, God, I'm so thankful that I am not like,

  62. and then lists a bunch of sins or sinners, and then points to this, this actual person.

  63. I'm glad, I'm glad I'm not like these people. I'm not like these people. I'm not like these people,

  64. and I'm not like this guy. This is the Pharisee praying with himself. I love that phrase.

  65. Because is he really praying that God is not involved? Right?

  66. Verse 12, I fast twice a week. I give tithes of all that I possess. So the Pharisee is now listing

  67. what he's not like and what he does. Verse 13, and the publican standing afar off. So the publican is

  68. the tax collector. Sorry. Yeah. The tax collector is standing afar off. So he's off by himself,

  69. would not lift up so much as his eyes to heaven. And he hit his chest and he says, God, be merciful

  70. to me, a sinner. Verse 14, Jesus said, I tell you, this man went down to his house justified

  71. rather than the Pharisee. For everyone who exalts himself shall be abased, and he that humbles

  72. himself shall be exalted. This parable is actually about pride and humility. But in it, we see Jesus

  73. uses these two vignettes, these two pictures of prayer. And the sin consciousness of the tax

  74. collector is not helping him. Right? We have to base our identity on who we are in Christ. But

  75. the religious man, his version of prayer wasn't about God at all. It wasn't what we talked about

  76. what we talked about last week. Prayer is communicating with God, talking to him,

  77. having a conversation with our loving father. This is him. Really, he's talking to everybody

  78. around him. And I kind of wanted to draw attention to that, because when we talk about being a

  79. champion prayer, one who prays, we don't mean that you sound really good when you pray, that you

  80. have a really great articulation, that you impress people. Wow, he really knows how to pray. She

  81. really knows how to pray. Being a champion prayer isn't about how we look to those around us. It is

  82. the connection we make with him. It is how we take his will and bring it to him in prayer,

  83. in a time of talking to him, in a time of communication with him, and release his power

  84. from his word into the now, into our situation. Yeah, that's really good. Honestly, as you're

  85. reading that, I'm thinking about what we've been talking about last week and what we're about to

  86. talk about this week. To be honest, what I see is the Pharisee talking and the tax collector talking,

  87. but what I also see is a man who knows about God, but he doesn't know God. Because if we're going

  88. to be champion prayer, so we've been talking about being a champion, and of course it's not the winner,

  89. or of course we want to pray as victors from a place of victory, but what really stands out to me

  90. about the word champion is we want to pray by aligning, but by being the person that the Lord

  91. relies upon to champion a cause. We want to be the champions of a cause, so we want to carry

  92. a purpose that is greater than ourselves and run with it. That is also the definition, or the second

  93. definition of the word champion. In order to do that, in order for me to align myself with the cause,

  94. it's so much more effective if I align myself with the character of the one whose cause I'm

  95. believing in. If you look at in the natural, great leaders are defined by

  96. how they make their followers feel about them, and how they allow someone to not buy into the person

  97. necessarily, but to buy into the cause. If I look at this from that perspective, I see that

  98. the Pharisee really doesn't align himself with the heart of God. He's saying, first of all,

  99. he's displaying pride. That is, this is who I am, this is what I've done, I thank you that I'm able

  100. to see myself that way. That's not really prayer, that's kind of gloating at some point, that's

  101. bragging. A second thing is that if he knew God's heart, he would know that God desires mercy and

  102. not sacrifice. This is what Jesus says. The Lord is merciful, He cares about people. His whole

  103. purpose is based around people. Everything that he does through Jesus is for people.

  104. Here we have the Pharisee talking about, I'm so thankful I'm not like this person, and that person,

  105. and that person, and look at this guy right here, this tax collector, I'm so glad I'm not like him.

  106. But at least the tax collector is understanding the heart of God. He's like, I thank you, you're

  107. merciful. I'm sorry I'm not this person who I could be, but I'm relying on your mercy. I'm coming

  108. to you in prayer, knowing that you're merciful. That is actually the heart of Scripture. The

  109. Pharisee, supposedly knowing the Scripture, should know that the Lord made a covenant with these

  110. people because of his mercy. Covenant faithfulness is literally the definition of mercy in the Bible.

  111. It's just so important to align ourselves with the heart of God so that we can effectively carry

  112. out the purposes of God. That is really what we wanted to talk about this week, which is,

  113. how do I become a champion in prayer? How do I become a champion in prayer?

  114. How can I develop myself to go there? There are really two things that I'm going to say to that.

  115. Number one is what we just said, which is we have to align ourselves with the cause that we are

  116. championing over our own cause. We need to become or embody the cause that we are championing over

  117. our own cause. We need to embody the cause that we are pushing forward, which is the Lord's things.

  118. Number two is we have to develop certain character traits to become more effective in our prayer

  119. lives. Of course, everything we're going to talk about is based in Scripture. We're going to look

  120. at tons of Scripture. There are four character traits that we're going to cover today. Number one

  121. is we need to be connected to the word of God. If we want to become champion prayers, we need to be

  122. connected to the word of God. Let's read John chapter 15 verses seven and eight together.

    John 15 chapter mention

  123. It says this, if you abide in me, in my words abide in you, you will ask what you desire and it

  124. shall be done for you. By this, my father is glorified that you bear much fruit, so you will

  125. be my disciples. What do we take from this? Jesus is saying that if you abide in me, he is the word

  126. of God, right? He is the word made flesh. That is what Scripture says. Then he says, if my words abide

  127. in you, you will ask what you desire and it shall be done for you. He's basically hinting at

  128. how to be effective in prayer. If my words abide in you, then you can be effective in prayer.

  129. To me, that looks in a sense like if you understand my will, if you really receive who I am

  130. in you and you understand my words, you understand what I'm about, you understand what I've said,

  131. you understand the context and the nature of my words, then you can be effective in your prayer

  132. life. Our desires will match his desires. Yes, that's good. It's also worth noting there, this is

  133. it starts with relationship. He says, if you abide in me, there's a difference between

  134. abiding in something, that means to live, to dwell, to make your home and visiting.

  135. There are places that I have visited before, but then there's a place that I live. It is the place

  136. where all my stuff is. It's the place where my wife has three Christmas trees. It is the place

  137. where the pictures of our kids are all over the walls. It's where my books are. It's where I abide.

  138. We cannot expect to be champion prayers if we visit him. We need to live in him. That's why

  139. what we talked about last week is so important, is developing that relationship where we become

  140. confident in who he is and understand that we should get acquainted with and frequently spend

  141. time with talking to our loving, living Father. Yeah, so good. I really like what Laura just said

  142. and it reminds me of the verse in James chapter four, verse three. James is pretty direct. I like

  143. this epistle and he says this, you ask and you do not receive because you ask amiss, that you may

  144. spend it on your pleasures. Motives matter. It sure does. Motives matter. It's true, we have to

  145. understand the heart of God or the nature of God in order to be effective. If we're connected to

  146. his word and we're aware, it enriches our prayer life. I can talk about that personally for myself

  147. where I've asked the Lord for answers in my life or I've asked him for certain things and he points

  148. me to scripture. This is like, oh yeah, first Peter chapter three, verse seven. It's like, what?

  149. What's this? Start going through the Bible and there are other times where just his words are

  150. just floating in me. So this is the process of meditation. Sometimes I've had conversations

  151. with a few people and they say, oh, how come you just memorized all these verses? It's like,

  152. I didn't memorize these verses. I just value what my Father tells me. And that's like, so it's in me.

  153. It's like sometimes you remember this very inspiring quote that someone says, but the fact is

  154. the word of God, like the word of my Father lives in me. So it's like a reference point in my life.

  155. So if I'm wondering what he wants or what he's thinking or what he's asking for, I can just pull

  156. that word out of my heart. And I know that's his nature. So I know that I can be confident in my

  157. prayer. So that like connected, being connected to the word of God really helps us develop our

  158. prayer. The primary way the Lord is going to lead us is through his word. That's the first and

  159. primary way. And that's how we know his will. And we need to build his word in on the inside of us.

  160. So we abide in him and his words take up residence in us. We learned that at Rehma.

  161. That's right. That's good. The second character trait that I wanted to move onto is the,

  162. is on the subject of righteousness and being aware that we are righteous. So let me,

  163. let me read this verse in James chapter five, verse 16. Again, James says,

  164. confess your trespasses to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed.

  165. The effective fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much. So he talks about the effective

  166. fervent prayer of a righteous man and that avails much. So what does he mean by righteous?

  167. Yes. So, um, second Corinthians chapter five, verse 21 says that God made Jesus to be sin

  168. for me, for you, so that we would become the righteousness of God in Christ. And what that

  169. means is every promise you can find in the word of God about righteous people applies to me,

  170. applies to you. And when we come to this verse in James,

  171. I'm a righteous person. Yep. And so if I'm a righteous person, when I pray, I, my prayer

  172. avails much in English. That's like, okay, what does that mean? But in the, in the language that

  173. that was written in, it says that my prayer makes tremendous power available. Yep. When we read this

  174. verse as with, through the lens of God has made us righteous. That means that when I pray,

  175. I'm not hoping for something. I'm not wishing for something. I'm making tremendous power available

  176. and applying it to a situation. Yep. So I want to quote what you were just quoting,

  177. which is the amplified classic translation of this verse. It says the earnest heartfelt continued

  178. prayer. So that's, that's what we've been talking about praying like a champion, right? So the,

  179. the earnest heartfelt continued prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available,

  180. dynamic in its working. Yeah. That's so good. That's so big. So if I'm aware that I'm righteous,

  181. then I, I'm also aware that this word is true, that the earnest, effective, constant, continuous

  182. champion prayer that I deliver or that I make works active, dynamic power in the world, in my life.

  183. So if I'm aware that I'm righteous, that enables my prayer. So maintaining a, an awareness or

  184. an understanding of my nature. So it's beyond character. It's nature at this point that I'm

  185. righteous helps me be confident that my prayers are being met by the Lord. So the, this, this verse,

  186. I want to read in, in first John chapter three, it says this verse 20, for if our hearts condemn

  187. us, God is greater than our heart and knows all things. Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us,

  188. we have confidence towards God and whatever we ask, we receive from him because we keep his

  189. commandments and do those things that are pleasing in his sight. So if my heart doesn't condemn me,

  190. so if I'm not constantly thinking I'm a sinner, I'm a sinner, I've done this wrong. If I come to,

  191. to God, you know, and I ask him for something, he's going to lecture me or bash me about something

  192. else in my life. But the fact is when I'm confident towards God, I can do what pastor Matt said in,

  193. in the introduction week, which is I can boldly come before God and ask for what I want. And I

  194. know that I'm righteous and I know that because I have this relationship with him, because I have

  195. this right standing with him, that my prayers are being answered, that I can be confident in that

  196. answer. You know why that's key is if you, if you have that question about, well, I don't know,

  197. I don't know, because I, I just haven't been, I haven't been as faithful as I should. I haven't

  198. read my Bible like I should have. If you start condemning yourself, you'll be slow to go to him.

  199. You'll be slow to come bold, you won't come boldly. You'll, you'll like stand outside,

  200. stand outside, maybe I'll wait for a good time or I'll go ask, you know, and maybe Laura will

  201. pray for me because, you know, God always hears her when she prays. But the, this is, this is the way,

  202. this is the way the devil lies to people and keeps them out of champion like prayer because

  203. it has to be based in confidence and that confidence can't be rooted in my works. It has to be

  204. rooted in God's righteousness, which he has made me. Yeah. Praise God. I like the NLT version. Can

  205. I read? Yes. Just the last part. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power

  206. and produces wonderful results. That's right. Wonderful results. That's what we keep going back

  207. to this whole month. Prayer is supposed to bring results as the reason for our prayer.

  208. Oh, that's amazing. So we, we talked about two character traits so far. So being connected to

  209. the word of God and being aware of our right standing or righteousness before God. So being

  210. aware that we have this direct open, perfect relationship, perfect union with him. And that

  211. means that he hears us. So what is the third one? These, these things might not seem like they're

  212. important or what does this have in connection to our prayer life, but we'll keep looking at it.

  213. We'll keep talking about it and you'll see how much this matters. Number three is walking in love

  214. and forgiveness. It's so important. It's so, so important. And actually, let me, let me read this

  215. scripture in Mark chapter 11. There are no people that are close to Jesus who were holding

    Mark 11 chapter mention

  216. unforgiveness. That's right. He's not like that. Yeah. First John chapter four says that he is

  217. love and when we abide in love, we abide in God and he's with us. But what's the difference?

  218. But what's the opposite of that? If we're not in love, we're not in God. Yeah. And he's not with

  219. us. Yeah. Cause he can't be in a place where there is strife and unforgiveness and bitterness and,

  220. and just division because that's not his nature. He has nothing to do with it. He can't be in it.

  221. He can't be in it. So Mark 11 24 through to 26 is really a scripture that is, is so important to

  222. look at because a lot of the time when we study prayer, the prayer faith, applying faith, we look

  223. at Mark 11 23 and 24 and they're, they're, they're amazing. They're so powerful and honestly, they,

  224. they contain so much value and so much power, but they're not disconnected from 25 and 26. And it

  225. says this. So verse 24, therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe

  226. that you receive them and you will have them. And whenever you stand praying, you notice that's

  227. verse 25, it says, and it starts with and, is this is connected. And whenever you stand praying,

  228. if you have anything against anyone, forgive him that your father in heaven may also forgive you

  229. your trespasses. But if you do not forgive neither will your father in heaven forgive your trespasses.

  230. Why, why are they connected? How is this so that my prayers are hindered by unforgiveness?

  231. Well, it's, it's simple. It goes back to what Laura was saying, right? That we have to align

  232. ourselves with the nature of the heart of God. How can I effectively pray and expect results if I

  233. don't align myself with his heart? You know, I can, I can align myself with his will, but I can also

  234. align myself with his heart. Yeah. And you, you can't receive from God in the place of unforgiveness.

  235. It's the, it's as simple as like, if you went to Cyprus, if you went to Larnaca today, you can't

  236. be in, in Lebanon because you're not here. You're there. If you're in the, if you're in unforgiveness,

  237. then you are not in the place of receiving. You are in the place of unforgiveness. And that is the,

  238. that is where you cannot receive because it is, it is foreign. It is distance. It is far from him.

  239. He's not like that. Yeah, that's right. You know, you can't expect to be effective in prayer if you

  240. don't align yourself with his heart. And this is demonstrated in Matthew chapter five, verse 44.

  241. And Jesus is saying this, and this is a big word. I mean, if you, if you're ever, it's easy to hear

  242. it until you really have an enemy, right? Or you really have someone who doesn't like you and

  243. you're dealing with them. And he says this, I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse

  244. you, do good, do good to those who hate you and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute

  245. you so that you may be sons of your father in heaven. So he's saying, pray for those who

  246. spitefully use you. So how could I align myself with the prayer mentality or the prayer heart,

  247. the God wants for me if I don't align myself with the love of God? It's practically impossible.

  248. It's kind of, if you take the idea of disconnecting yourself from his heart and you try to pray,

  249. you know, you start, you start finding yourself praying selfish prayers that might harm other

  250. people. Obviously you can't do that. You know, this is, this is, um, it's kind of an obvious example,

  251. but that's, that's the heart of God in every prayer that you make. It has to be rooted in his

  252. nature, rooted in his cause, rooted in his commandment towards us. What is his commandment

  253. towards us that we love one another as he has loved us. And that is the nature that we are

  254. supposed to adopt. I have the, I have a personal, you know, illustration of the nature of the

  255. heart. I have a personal, you know, illustration about this, which I've shared in the past. And

  256. this is a time when, you know, there's a period of time when I was having really bad dreams,

  257. like terrible, terrible, terrible dreams. And like, it was beyond like the, you know, I had too much

  258. like garlic for dinner kind of dreams. This is way beyond that. And it was really disturbing me for

  259. like, I was up in terrors at night and it would just be so vivid and so, um, so tormenting, you

  260. know, that I don't know what, what word it is. And at some point I got sick of it. I'm like, I woke

  261. up in the morning, I'm, I started talking to the Lord, you know, like, listen, um, what's going on?

  262. I need an answer. How do I deal with this? What do I do? What do I do? And it was one of those times

  263. when I was in that situation. And he talked to me in scriptures, he mentioned 1st Peter chapter three,

  264. verse seven. I'm like, what? Okay, I started reading it and I really don't recall what it was.

  265. And I read it and it says, husbands likewise dwell with them. So wives with understanding, giving

  266. honor to the wife as to the weaker vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of life,

  267. be hindered. I remember at that point in time during that period I was honestly

  268. having a lot of arguments with my wife and I wasn't being a very pleasant

  269. person. Not gonna comment on what she was or wasn't. My job is me you know and

  270. I know that on my part I could have done a lot better in the sense that I could

  271. have not engaged in confrontation, engaged in division, invited strife into

  272. my life or caused bitterness between us and the fact is I did at that moment and

  273. it's so funny because I'm talking to him about bad dreams that are keeping me up

  274. at night and he's talking to me about all these arguments I've been having

  275. with my wife and it made zero sense to me but the fact is they were connected

  276. and my heart at that moment in time is full of bitterness and division and he

  277. can't work, he simply cannot work in your life if you have an open door to the

  278. devil in your life and scripture tells you that you know don't let the

  279. sun go down on your wrath neither give place to the devil. Like your anger, your

  280. ideas of bitterness towards other people, your unforgiveness is an open door to

  281. the devil in your life. It is a position of strife so you are taking yourself out

  282. of the right place like Pastor Matt was describing it and putting yourself in

  283. the wrong place and that is all too real when you are trying to get something

  284. done in prayer and your prayers are getting hindered and hindered and

  285. hindered. That's because you know well I'm not gonna I'm not gonna I'm saying

  286. the opposite way if you are an unforgiveness that will hinder your

  287. prayers. Absolutely. Well that's that's a lot to think about but I want to

  288. mention the fourth trait or the fourth idea so I've been calling a character

  289. traits and I don't think it quite fits but the fourth element of a champion

  290. prayer is this so one who prays like a champion is this. It's being dependent

  291. upon the Holy Spirit. That's right. So the the Bible tells us that well let me

  292. rather than rather than butcher this paraphrase I will just read scripture

  293. which is Romans chapter 8 verse 26. Likewise the spirit also helps in our

    Romans 8:26

  294. weaknesses for we do not know what we should pray for as we ought but the

  295. spirit himself makes intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.

  296. Now he who searches the heart knows what the mind of the spirit is because he

  297. makes intercession for the saints according to the will of God. So a lot of

  298. the time you know we know what we want to pray for we know the will of God we

  299. know the plan and a certain situation. Pastor Matt was mentioning last week

  300. that a lot of the time when we pray and we're asking for an answer we're

  301. expecting it to come through a certain channel or in a certain way and the fact

  302. is why limit God? Right. Why limit him to say well okay I need this resource in my

  303. life so of course obviously the only way is that you bring me money right? Right?

  304. But there are so many other ways to do it. I mean someone could just hand you

  305. what you need rather than the money. There you know there could be a situation

  306. where this whole scenario changes and the whole need is just it disappears.

  307. Like there's so many ways he can work but a lot of the time we are limited to

  308. what we think we know. So we're praying and then we look not at him but we start

  309. looking at a situation that hasn't changed. You know we pray expecting the

  310. doctor's report to be you know negative for something and it's not negative for

  311. something we completely lose heart. We pray by sight you mean. That's right yeah

  312. that's really good. That's really well put yeah so a lot of the time we are

  313. praying but then we're limiting God and a lot of the time we we don't know what

  314. we don't know and that's where being dependent on the Holy Spirit can really

  315. enrich our prayer life. Absolutely.

  316. So this is this is something that you know Pastor Matt and I actually talked

  317. about and there's something that the Lord kind of put in my heart and it's

  318. something that just stuck with me which is when the Lord reveals his word to you

  319. you should say it but when he reveals his heart to you you should pray it.

  320. Which is so well said and I will tell you that this will this will help you

  321. this will help you grow and it'll help you hear more if you'll if you'll do

  322. that because as you pray especially when you start moving beyond yourself in

  323. prayer praying for others sometimes the Lord will will reveal something to you

  324. and you think I'm I should go say this I I need to I need to call this person and

  325. I need to I need to tell them what the Lord told me and then you do that and

  326. hey I just you know I was praying for you and I really got this in my heart

  327. that the Lord really loves you. Okay thanks and the whatever you share with

  328. them the person is like they it doesn't impact them the way it's impacted you.

  329. Oftentimes that's because they're not in a position to hear it and I don't mean

  330. just hey the Lord loved you I'm using that as an example but this is maybe what

  331. needs to change in someone's life and you can't instigate that change but you

  332. can help the Lord get access to them by praying for them. So oftentimes the Lord

  333. will show me something about someone and I won't say anything to them I mean I'm

  334. thinking one example it was a year before I said anything to them I just

  335. prayed about it I prayed that thing about them or for them and that's you

  336. know that the way you phrase it is so helpful to me to have that language of

  337. this is the Lord's heart we're gonna pray the Lord's heart and then sometimes

  338. we get a word a specific word and we want to share that word with them. Yeah

  339. you know and other times it's it seems like this so being dependent on the Holy

  340. Spirit or or having the Lord share his heart with you can sometimes feel a

  341. little negative like feel like I don't I want to be careful with my words that's

  342. the wrong word it's not feeling negative but feeling like a burden you know

  343. feeling heavy-hearted for someone because you just feel there's a lot more

  344. that the Lord has for them than they're doing or they're seeing or they're

  345. receiving right now and that's not a cue for you to complain about them or

  346. complain about the situation or nag about it or look down at them that's

  347. your cue to pray for them. No I think that that is that's an honest portrayal

  348. of kind of the impact on your soul your mind your will and emotions that picking

  349. up the Father's heart for people can have because if people are out of God's

  350. will if they are missing something that he has for them that hurts him and so

  351. you know we want to pray into a place of victory from a place of victory. Yeah

  352. praise God. So let me recap on these four traits or these four points which help

  353. you become more effective in your in your prayer life. Number one being

  354. connected to the Word of God being aware that you are righteous and you have a

  355. perfect relationship with God. Number three walking in love and forgiveness

  356. number four is being dependent on God being dependent on the Holy Spirit to

  357. make your prayer life more effective to supercharge your prayer life and in

  358. closing this week's podcast session that we're just having right now we're gonna

  359. talk about the Bible illustration that we want to share this this week in our

  360. grow groups and we want to talk about and that is in Acts chapter 16 verses 16

    Acts 16:16

  361. through to 34 and that is the story of Paul and Silas in prison. We've talked

  362. about this and we've we've used this illustration many times but it's worthy

  363. of using many times in the beautiful story. The reason we go through these

  364. same scriptural illustrations is because in our grow groups we want you to work

  365. with verses and passages that you already are familiar with and where we

  366. can dig into these stories you already have some context you already know them

  367. and we can see these truths outlined for us. Yeah that's right so the context of

  368. this illustration real quick is this that Paul and Silas were were cast into

  369. prison because Paul cast a demon out of a a what was that woman the young woman

  370. that was basically possessed by a demon who was fortune-telling right and the

  371. person who was who was taking advantage of the situation who was making money

  372. off this fortune teller now lost the ability to make money off this fortune

  373. teller that really annoyed him and you know he pulled his strings and he he

  374. played played these cards where he got Paul and Silas thrown into prison and

  375. they got beaten they got bound very embarrassing very very you know sub you

  376. know substandard very very not not the ideal position to be in and you find

  377. this at that at that moment in time that Paul and Silas were praying in the

  378. prison singing hymns to God and all the prisoners were were there and listening

  379. to them and and then we see miraculous situation happen where where they

  380. miraculously get loosed from these change and loosed the prison doors come

  381. wide open and the story goes on a little further up to verse 34 but what we're

  382. really gonna focus on is this story from the perspective of the character traits

  383. that we see in Paul and Silas throughout the situation you know do we recognize

  384. these four traits that we've been we've been talking about today do you

  385. recognize the the elements of walking in love or forgiveness you know and I could

  386. say that straight up that the fact that they were singing you know the fact that

  387. they were joyful in a jail cell when they got beaten by certain people you

  388. can tell they weren't like bitter and huffing and puffing and grumpy and and

  389. and dealing with things in a certain way they were singing hymns in the middle of

  390. the night when they were beaten probably exhausted and just embarrassed and and

  391. all that but we go on to see other traits you know I will say that we see

  392. these traits beyond the story in Acts chapter 16 but we see this in other

    Acts 16 chapter mention

  393. examples in Paul's life so for example Paul was connected to the Word of God

  394. connected to the Holy Spirit and and and those two elements sometimes work

  395. together and and the example is that there are times when the Holy Spirit

  396. forbid him to go into certain places to preach the gospel instead led him into

  397. other places you know we see that Paul was had the constant revelation of his

  398. righteousness a hint of that is the fact that he he says or he calls himself a

  399. citizen of heaven yeah in Philippians chapter 3 verse 20 and so he lived with

    Philippians 3:20

  400. with these character traits but what we're really gonna talk about during the

  401. girl groups is where do we see those character traits manifest themselves in

  402. this story what I like about this you know when says that they were praying

  403. Paul is in prison he's praying but look his answer affected everyone hmm when

  404. you look at the story everyone including the person responsible for the jail was

  405. affected by the answer to Paul's prayer yeah and they even reminds me of the

  406. story in Acts 27 where they were on they were in the storm right yes well we're

  407. out of time what we're gonna do is is Laura's gonna read out the week to

  408. action that we're gonna carry through our girl groups and through our week so

  409. this week we will write down three verses to pray over you pick the the

  410. listeners a person or a number of people and pray for them so if anyone has a

  411. need in your life we can pick three verses out and pray those verses

  412. intentionally pray for others that's good awesome well if no one told you

  413. yet today we love you we are praying for you and we'll see you next time

  414. thank you for listening to this message we want everyone to experience the

  415. unconditional love of God growing his love and go with his love to the rest of

  416. their world we invite you to connect with us at one of our groups for our

  417. next gathering and if no one told you yet today we love you and believe God's

  418. very best for you