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No Turning Back: The Cost + Beauty Of Real Discipleship, Luke 9:51-62

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  1. to today Um the heart that I would like

  2. to go after is the concept of no turning

  3. back What does disciplehip look like

  4. when we look at the cost and the beauty

  5. of the realness that Jesus gives us so

  6. much of what we've talked about that

  7. people are

  8. coming relooking at the way of Jesus

  9. culturally in our city and across the

  10. globe in a fresh way is because the

  11. secular story is failing The secular

  12. story is trying to define meaning and

  13. purpose with no need for

  14. God True disciplehip starts with finding

  15. our purpose our identity and our meaning

  16. in the way of Jesus

  17. And what we're doing this year is saying

  18. how can we relook at this in a way that

  19. disrupts our comforts disrupts our our

  20. assumptions and takes us into a standard

  21. that's not possible by striving and in

  22. human

  23. strength the first thing I want to talk

  24. about is what does it look like to be

  25. followers who flinch you and I how do we

  26. flinch when we really look at what Jesus

  27. has on offer we want to follow him You

  28. wouldn't be here this morning if you

  29. weren't interested in following Jesus

  30. But convenience is the great decetor of

  31. modern life Everything we do with our

  32. entire life is built on how do we move

  33. towards greater convenience how do we

  34. get closer to our office in LA until we

  35. put it in our living room or wherever we

  36. put it how do we get more convenient in

  37. terms of schooling how do we get more

  38. convenient in terms of like life how do

  39. I get my community group more

  40. conveniently located to me

  41. but the contemporary cultural

  42. context is that we live in a culture of

  43. absolute convenience distraction and

  44. comfort Everything is designed to

  45. minimize our commitments Ghosting is

  46. normal Long-term sacrifice feels

  47. optional When it comes to following

  48. Jesus we tend to want a version that

  49. fits around our schedules rather than

  50. one that interrupts our lives

  51. And Jesus demonstrated a lifestyle where

  52. he was always willing to be interrupted

  53. because he was always walking with an

  54. awareness of the spirit of God on his

  55. life That he was carrying something that

  56. caused people to take notice and be

  57. desperate for what he had But he would

  58. give the challenge Do you know what this

  59. costs

  60. and if I'm honest I'm

  61. continually humbled by the reality that

  62. I don't

  63. really take account of what it costs

  64. When I

  65. do it's not convenient It's not easy

  66. It's just

  67. glorious It gives pain a

  68. purpose It gives waiting a purpose

  69. It gives process a

  70. purpose This isn't about coming to

  71. church It's about becoming someone It's

  72. about someone who's being formed into

  73. the image of Jesus while a culture

  74. around us is trying to form us whether

  75. intentionally or unintentionally into

  76. something or someone

  77. else So we want to invite you today

  78. What's on offer what hope does the

  79. secular worldview offer you from a

  80. secular perspective hope is grounded in

  81. several things Human progress

  82. self-fululfillment and personal meaning

  83. community and compassion legacy and

  84. memory What does that mean number one

  85. human progress The secular perspective

  86. the secular worldview is belief in

  87. science technology and education to

  88. improve

  89. life And guess what you get all of that

  90. in the Christian way of life too The

  91. idea that humanity can solve its own

  92. problems through innovation and

  93. cooperation is not just a part The

  94. Christian view allows that to to take

  95. some effect to the secular worldview

  96. That's the

  97. ultimate that we can solve our own

  98. problems Secondly self-fulfillment and

  99. personal me meaning that live your truth

  100. and follow your heart mantras are not

  101. just a hope it's the

  102. hope Purpose is self-defined You define

  103. your purpose Therefore you are living

  104. under the weight of discovering and

  105. achieving your purpose that has to be

  106. found in some sort of career or some s

  107. sort of relationship or some sort of

  108. creativity or some sort of impact Do you

  109. feel the

  110. weight to put your hope in achieving

  111. some of those things our city does it

  112. more than anywhere else Number three

  113. community and compassion Many secular

  114. people find hope in helping others and

  115. building a better world together which

  116. is a good moral standard Social justice

  117. equality and kindness become the moral

  118. beacons And then there's legacy and

  119. memory Leaving a mark in the world being

  120. remembered well or contributing to

  121. something bigger than

  122. yourself Those are all

  123. noble but I would just argue a contrast

  124. from the way of Jesus

  125. Funny enough it doesn't

  126. conflict It

  127. just

  128. contradicts And how does it do

  129. that the Christian worldview in the way

  130. of Jesus is says this "Hope is not

  131. abstract It's a

  132. person Jesus is the risen one from the

  133. dead who's conquered sin death and the

  134. grave and provides life and hope that's

  135. eternal not temporary."

  136. So secondly hope is eternal not

  137. temporary It reaches beyond death Third

  138. hope is given not earned It doesn't

  139. depend on our strength but God's

  140. strength and his grace His grace is

  141. literally what strengthens and empowers

  142. us That's what we've been given We don't

  143. earn it And fourthly hope is anchored in

  144. truth Not the truth that I've determined

  145. but a truth that I've submitted to

  146. that's bigger than myself and a bigger

  147. story This isn't wishful thinking hoping

  148. that it works but it's living a promise

  149. that has been tested and

  150. timetested over and over and over the

  151. generations And the way of Jesus and the

  152. gospel of the kingdom is the same today

  153. than it was thousands of years before it

  154. And it begins with the beginning of the

  155. human story So if you're crafting an

  156. idea of what is this what does this

  157. secular worldview look like what's on

  158. offer the secular worldview is a hope It

  159. offers a hope until life falls

  160. apart But the gospel the gospel offers a

  161. hope because our lives fall

  162. apart What kind of hope do you

  163. want disciplehip to Jesus in a secular

  164. age that's what we're going after It's

  165. it's a for it's a counter formation in a

  166. world that's constantly shaping us away

  167. from God Disciplehip is the intentional

  168. process of being reformed into the image

  169. of Jesus It's not believing in

  170. him It's becoming like him in thought

  171. and heart and lifestyle amidst the

  172. culture that's pulling the other

  173. way So the secular age says this you're

  174. to your own

  175. authority Jesus says deny

  176. yourself take up your cross and follow

  177. me

  178. I kind of like the secular age when they

  179. when we get to certain things and I just

  180. want us to be real with that I would

  181. rather me be my own authority I like how

  182. that feels better than take up your

  183. cross That means die every

  184. day and follow somebody else and trust

  185. that it'll work out

  186. better I would like to say that I can

  187. just feel it out I can kind of look at

  188. the options and I'll make a decision

  189. because I'm really good at that in like

  190. every other

  191. way You want to tell me like I'm not

  192. great with cars but if you want to tell

  193. me exactly what I should do I'll be like

  194. "Great You just give me the information

  195. I still think I'm going to make a better

  196. decision than you You tell me all your

  197. options on how to make crepes great I'm

  198. going to make it better than you After I

  199. see all the options and I watch a few

  200. YouTube videos I'm going to choose the

  201. best one that's right for me." And it'll

  202. probably be right for you too You can

  203. decide I don't care

  204. Mine's better I We can do that and it's

  205. okay on a lot of things that are just

  206. based on preferences But your

  207. preferences are not going to fill the

  208. void of meaning and purpose And

  209. Christians have to discover this aresh

  210. daily like everybody else because we're

  211. so in process and we still want to look

  212. at Jesus on what do you have on offer

  213. today and so I pick up my my daily bread

  214. and I go what do I need to hear from

  215. Jesus today and I and I think I'm

  216. scrolling through all the different

  217. options in my devotional resources or my

  218. books or even the scriptures And it's

  219. one of the reasons why we encourage you

  220. yes when you know you need to go

  221. somewhere in his word or you need a

  222. worship song that you know ministers to

  223. your soul go there But you know what you

  224. also need you also need the what's next

  225. on my commitment to allowing God's word

  226. to wash over me that I didn't decide I

  227. needed to hear today Why because I've

  228. just stepped a foot forward going I know

  229. that if I'm just doing this based on my

  230. preferences I'm only going to get my

  231. preferences and I'm never going to get

  232. the full offer of what he has for me And

  233. so I want to invite you in your

  234. disciplehip

  235. You will get your preferences taken care

  236. of and and most of those are

  237. fine But where is it that you're

  238. allowing things to disrupt you where

  239. you're committed to a way that's even

  240. when you don't feel like it even when I

  241. don't feel like reading numbers or

  242. Leviticus Even when I don't feel like

  243. praying today Even when I don't feel

  244. like Sabbath Even when I don't feel like

  245. sitting in silence and solitude and

  246. listening to the Lord and journaling and

  247. letting his voice wash over me when I

  248. would really just need a break I really

  249. just need to kind of chill which really

  250. means numb and check

  251. out This isn't rules This is this is

  252. about how can I allow a story that's

  253. bigger than me that I'm trusting myself

  254. to that's not based on my preferences

  255. And I'm only on the first one And that

  256. was meant to take 10 seconds So you're

  257. your own authority It sounds good

  258. Doesn't work I suck as my own

  259. authority The good news of the gospel is

  260. how's that working for you being your

  261. own

  262. authority jesus welcomes you He loves

  263. you He's shown you that there's a story

  264. that you can trust Truth is relative But

  265. Jesus says "If you hold to my teaching

  266. you'll know the truth Success is

  267. everything." But Jesus says "Blessed are

  268. the poor in spirit the persecuted the

  269. peacemakers Happiness is the ultimate

  270. goal says the secular age But Jesus says

  271. "Seek first the kingdom of God and his

  272. righteousness God is optional

  273. Spirituality is a vibe." But Jesus says

  274. "I'm the way I'm the truth and I'm the

  275. life." So as secular age disciplehip

  276. looks like resisting cultural narratives

  277. that pull you away from kingdom values

  278. Practicing spiritual disciplines not

  279. just to feel better but to be formed

  280. Living in community that reminds you who

  281. you are in Jesus and nothing else

  282. Carrying the presence of God into work

  283. into school into your social media

  284. accounts everywhere And suffering well

  285. with purpose knowing hope isn't in

  286. comfort but in Jesus So think of it this

  287. way Disciplehip what we're going after

  288. is a disruptive disciplehip that's a

  289. slow quiet rebellion against the gods of

  290. this age

  291. slow quiet rebellion against the gods of

  292. this age Just like that I love that I

  293. don't know who said that It wasn't me

  294. but I like it I need

  295. that We're going after slow quiet

  296. rebellion against the gods of this

  297. age Can you feel the timeless power in

  298. that it doesn't matter if you get

  299. dropped in first century

  300. Judea 13th century

  301. France 21st century Los

  302. Angeles a slow quiet rebellion against

  303. the gods of this age just

  304. works Make that the decree of your life

  305. So here's some practical anchors for

  306. disciplehip today Maybe this is just the

  307. whole message Geez Okay that's supposed

  308. to be my intro Scripture over scrolling

  309. Sabbath over hustle silence and solitude

  310. over the digital noise kingdom community

  311. over individualism prayer and dependence

  312. over

  313. self-sufficiency mission and message in

  314. a

  315. world that may be post-Christian but is

  316. very spiritually

  317. hungry So if disciplehip in this moment

  318. of our culture means resisting the pull

  319. of comfort of self and of distraction

  320. what does that actually look like in

  321. real life how do we move from theory to

  322. obedience from admiration to actually

  323. following Jesus and Jesus doesn't leave

  324. us guessing And here's what he says in

  325. Luke

  326. 9 When the days drew near for him to be

  327. taken up he set his face to go to

  328. Jerusalem And he sent messengers ahead

  329. of him who went and entered a village of

  330. the Samaritans to make preparations for

  331. him That was common in his practice send

  332. guys ahead make way his entry into an

  333. area But the people verse 53 did not

  334. receive him because his face was set

  335. towards Jerusalem We'll talk about what

  336. that means What does his face set

  337. towards Jerusalem mean it's talking

  338. about his focus It's talking about what

  339. he was looking towards where he was

  340. going where he was headed but a whole

  341. lot more than that In verse 54 it says

  342. "When his disciples James and John saw

  343. it these guys are called the sons of

  344. thunder at different portions of

  345. scripture

  346. They said "Lord do you want us to tell

  347. fire to come down from heaven and

  348. consume

  349. them?" And it wasn't a

  350. joke It just sounds so silly when we say

  351. it

  352. today until you watch the news in the

  353. exact same part of the world It's not so

  354. funny anymore I'm not making fun of you

  355. guys for laughing It is I laughed the

  356. first time I read too I'm just saying

  357. like it's really it's a chuckle until

  358. you go and it's still

  359. happening and before we go over

  360. there It's the human

  361. condition And you know

  362. why it's

  363. because the differences in their

  364. faith were marginal

  365. same

  366. father similar

  367. histories But then there's a a strife a

  368. divide a wound doesn't get dealt with

  369. and the generations pay a precious

  370. price Jesus turns and rebukes them and

  371. they went on to another village Put that

  372. aside for a second Then the cost of

  373. following Jesus in the next few verses

  374. As they were going along the road

  375. someone said to them "I'll follow you

  376. wherever you go." Talking to Jesus And

  377. Jesus said to him "Foxes have holes and

  378. birds of the air have nests but the son

  379. of man has nowhere to lay his

  380. head." To another he said "Follow

  381. me." But he said "Lord let me first go

  382. and bury my father." And Jesus said

  383. "Leave the dead to bury their own dead

  384. But as for you go and proclaim the

  385. kingdom of God."

  386. It's amazing to me the world doesn't get

  387. more offended at

  388. Jesus Every everyone paints a picture of

  389. Jesus that we all can love

  390. Jesus And I know that history Christians

  391. have misrepresented him

  392. brutally

  393. constantly daily I cringe at another

  394. Christian who's trying to represent

  395. Jesus And at the same time I don't see

  396. any of the people that aren't fully

  397. following Jesus or maybe are skeptics or

  398. atheists or whatever they are they never

  399. they never lean into quoting these

  400. things of

  401. Jesus They never go you know Jesus just

  402. said "Lead the dead to bury their own

  403. dead." And another said "I'll follow you

  404. Lord." Verse 61 "But let me first say

  405. farewell to those at my home." Jesus

  406. said to him "No one who puts his hand to

  407. the plow and looks back is fit for the

  408. kingdom of God." Okay so before we get

  409. into kind

  410. of messing ourselves up from this why

  411. why don't we just kind of acknowledge

  412. the fact that two things are happening

  413. here jesus is getting rejected in a

  414. place that he's going that he should

  415. have been rejected and Jesus still went

  416. there The Samaritans and the Jews had a

  417. longstanding divide Everyone's expecting

  418. him to get rejected and he still goes

  419. What does that demonstrate about his

  420. gospel and his

  421. message it's for the people that reject

  422. him

  423. Secondly what's happening here with

  424. these people that are saying they want

  425. to follow him but then he's reminding

  426. them where he's going and they give him

  427. a couple of but first I want to do this

  428. or

  429. that Jesus is going to show

  430. them to be a true disciple and to really

  431. follow me To understand the fullness of

  432. what I have on offer you're going to

  433. have to understand rejection on a deeper

  434. level And you're going to you're going

  435. to have to understand the

  436. cost You're going to have to reshape

  437. priorities and you're going to have to

  438. look deep within your

  439. soul I've given this example but I

  440. haven't read this specific example

  441. Dietrich Bonhaofer there's a movie about

  442. him that's out right now He was a pastor

  443. in Germany during World War II and he

  444. had a moment of decision It was the fall

  445. of 1939 and Bonhaofer had just been

  446. offered a position uh in the United

  447. States to leave all the danger of Nazi

  448. Germany behind and he could have stayed

  449. in America preached and lived a

  450. relatively comfortable

  451. life and many of his friends

  452. did And one evening he sat with his

  453. friend Ibar Beth don't judge my German

  454. in a quiet dimly lit room The weight of

  455. decision was heavy The tension was real

  456. And on one side Bonhaofer had a clear

  457. mission to confront the evil of the Nazi

  458. rule On the other hand he had a safe

  459. escape the comfort and security of life

  460. in America And isn't that still a

  461. dynamic that we have

  462. today is the American dream about

  463. comfort and security or is it

  464. about or is it about

  465. risk and pursuing a different kind of

  466. freedom we've established a comfortable

  467. freedom a secular

  468. freedom But the beauty of what we have

  469. on offer

  470. here has to go beyond We have to go

  471. beyond the secular and into the

  472. sacred And so Bethy says this Dietrich

  473. think of all the good you could do in

  474. America You could write you could speak

  475. you could influence thousands of people

  476. from a safe distance Why return to

  477. Germany now the danger is real You'll be

  478. walking into the heart of evil Think of

  479. your own

  480. life And Bonhaofer pauses his eyes

  481. reflecting a deep resolve as he stares

  482. out the window at the cold dark

  483. night And he says "I understand your

  484. concern

  485. Ebart But you must know this I cannot

  486. stand by and do nothing The call of

  487. Jesus is not about

  488. safety It's about

  489. obedience It's about following him

  490. wherever he leads no matter the cost

  491. I cannot turn

  492. away I cannot turn away from my brothers

  493. and sisters in Germany The cost of

  494. disciplehip is not an abstract concept

  495. It's something I must live out I cannot

  496. follow Jesus and remain safe while my

  497. people

  498. suffer If I'm to follow him I must set

  499. my face toward the suffering of this

  500. world even if it means my own death

  501. Bethy looks at him silenced by the

  502. weight of his

  503. words Bonhoffer stands up walking

  504. towards the window his back to his

  505. friend that he spoke softly almost to

  506. himself And then he says

  507. this When Christ calls a man he bids him

  508. come and

  509. die If I chose safety I choose comfort

  510. over mission I betray my Jesus and I

  511. cannot live with

  512. that So this is the absolute essence of

  513. this passage in Luke 9 The cost of

  514. setting your face towards the mission of

  515. Jesus Jesus didn't come to this earth to

  516. comfort us or to give us security He

  517. came for redemption sacrifice and

  518. transformation

  519. All of a sudden when we really seek what

  520. our hearts crave it's not

  521. safety it's

  522. mission Because we know that this world

  523. doesn't have safety on offer And so what

  524. it does offer is can you give up your

  525. safety for something that's worth giving

  526. he understood that true disciplehip

  527. demands the focus on Jesus not our own

  528. safety or desires He returns to Germany

  529. and within a few years he's arrested for

  530. his involvement in the resistance

  531. against Hitler He spent time in prison

  532. and on April 9th 1945 he was executed by

  533. the Nazis He lost his life but in

  534. following Jesus he set his face towards

  535. something

  536. eternal the tension today and the

  537. connection to what is on

  538. offer Are we when we're faced with

  539. comfort do we lean into the calling when

  540. we're faced with safety do we lean into

  541. sacrifice our modern secular culture

  542. urges us to choose comfort to retreat

  543. from conflict and to prioritize our

  544. personal

  545. fulfillment Jesus calls us to set our

  546. faces towards a different way a way of

  547. obedience a way of mercy a way of

  548. sacrifice So the question

  549. is sit with

  550. this Will we follow Jesus to hard

  551. places will we endure

  552. rejection discomfort and the challenges

  553. of being a disciple in a secular world

  554. will we choose him even when the world

  555. says it's easier to turn

  556. away will we choose the ease of

  557. discomfort the ease of disciplehip or

  558. will we choose will we choose a

  559. disciplehip that actually has meaning

  560. sacrifice and purpose So what do we do

  561. about it okay I'm going to crash land

  562. this thing It's going to be

  563. fun His face towards

  564. Jerusalem What was Jesus doing with

  565. that it wasn't it wasn't just the death

  566. he was focused on We know that he's

  567. going to the cross And last week we we

  568. celebrate his resurrection The language

  569. there from Jesus when he set his face

  570. towards Jerusalem involves the ascension

  571. and the resurrection It wasn't just

  572. about this darkness going to death that

  573. doesn't lead to life The Christian death

  574. always has hope because it's never

  575. connected to to just a the end the

  576. hopelessness of death It's always

  577. connected to the life the ascension and

  578. the

  579. resurrection We never just talk about

  580. death

  581. It's why we can sing about lambs and

  582. blood and be happy about

  583. it It's why we can chuckle at James and

  584. John and their evil murderous thoughts

  585. because we know that they're going to

  586. get

  587. it They're going to be

  588. transformed His resolve wasn't just

  589. about enduring death and suffering And

  590. it was fueled by the joy set before him

  591. by the glory of his ascension and the

  592. victory that would bring us home Our

  593. motivation for disciplehip is fueled and

  594. has to be fueled by hope Has to be

  595. fueled by hope It's not just a duty So

  596. what this actually means of him setting

  597. his face towards Jerusalem it's a

  598. resolved determination This Hebrew idiom

  599. of setting his face is all about making

  600. a firm unwavering decision It's like

  601. Jesus is saying "I'm locked in." He was

  602. laser focused He's committed to the path

  603. ahead Even though he knew it would lead

  604. to suffering in the cross Jerusalem

  605. always meant the cross When he says

  606. towards Jerusalem it means he's going

  607. somewhere He's going to give his life

  608. He's going towards the sacrifice It's

  609. symbolic It's the city of destiny Jesus

  610. wasn't just going to Jerusalem for a

  611. festival He was going to fulfill his

  612. mission Suffer die and rise

  613. again So in Luke's gospel everything is

  614. headed towards this passion narrative

  615. And third the prophetic fulfillment It's

  616. a turning point Jesus is stepping into

  617. his role as the suffering Messiah

  618. foretold by the prophets and it's a

  619. journey of obeying the voice and the

  620. obedience of the father's will So in

  621. this larger passage it's all about from

  622. even from actually chapter 9 to 18 Luke

  623. is going all in on

  624. disciplehip And what I want to invite us

  625. today is how how are you holding

  626. something back from this way of life

  627. from real disciplehip real following of

  628. Jesus really

  629. becoming someone that's been transformed

  630. Now I'm not doing this in a way that

  631. many of you in the room have given your

  632. lives to this And some of you just need

  633. to be reminded what you've given your

  634. life to is worth it

  635. This isn't like this slap in the face

  636. like you're all a bunch of fakes We

  637. wouldn't be here The church would not

  638. exist with a bunch of fakes What what we

  639. do though is we exist despite the fact

  640. that we can't do any of this perfectly

  641. We can't strive our way into achieving

  642. this And so the only heart posture today

  643. is how do I go allin again and for some

  644. of you it's how do I go allin for the

  645. first time

  646. full surrender no excuses eyes fixed on

  647. the

  648. mission And why did these people of

  649. Samaria not not receive him well there's

  650. some deep Jewish and Samaritan tensions

  651. we don't have time to go into And uh

  652. what you need to know is that that Jesus

  653. was willing to go to the people that

  654. would reject him because they were

  655. invited

  656. to And there is a moment in his ministry

  657. where the Samaritan woman responds and

  658. there is hope in that village Jesus does

  659. never writes anyone

  660. off The seeds are there and they're

  661. included And so the gospel doesn't allow

  662. the Jews to write people off Doesn't

  663. allow them to not be included in the

  664. invitation So I just want to land with

  665. three things The parallels to modern

  666. life What prevents us here in Los

  667. Angeles from living this out why can't

  668. we do this what is what's what's holding

  669. us back in our

  670. fears first is our

  671. focus Our focus Second is our

  672. offense Third is the cost Focus Offense

  673. And the cost And that's how we'll

  674. land Jesus's focus was clear His face

  675. was set on the

  676. cross Modern example Look at an American

  677. athlete We're

  678. obsessed Our Olympic trials I mean even

  679. what you see with youth sports is

  680. absolutely insane The focus we give to

  681. that If we could train our kids in

  682. disciplehip the way that we train them

  683. in athletic pursuits that are going to

  684. lead to like eighth grade medals and

  685. maybe an interest from a college coach

  686. at a division three school or even you

  687. go D1 and give like 80 hours a week and

  688. then you make no money from that

  689. whatsoever in your entire life and the

  690. 0.01% that are now in the NIL deals or

  691. whatever it is It's just outrageous Our

  692. system's

  693. insane and I love watching it because

  694. I'm flawed and I'm part of the

  695. culture But what's the spiritual

  696. parallel to that kind of focus what's

  697. the kingdom focus and kingdom purpose

  698. it's when people don't understand the

  699. priorities in your life It's when you

  700. stop compromising stop

  701. entertaining every version of self and

  702. sin Whatever that whatever that is I'm

  703. not here to tell you your sin I'm here

  704. to tell you if you're like me my natural

  705. inclination is myself And so that always

  706. leads me to a place where I end in guilt

  707. and shame And I want to be set

  708. free when I stop compromising and stop

  709. stop entertaining those selfish pursuits

  710. and I'm I'm realigned with my God-given

  711. destiny and my God-given dreams It's

  712. going to confuse some people in your

  713. life Sometimes it looks like

  714. separation But the separation when we

  715. pull away from the way of the world

  716. isn't so that we go do our own thing

  717. It's so that we can then

  718. assimilate and demonstrate a

  719. counterculture Secondly the offense They

  720. didn't receive

  721. him Modern people their priorities you

  722. can see them shifting away from the Lord

  723. Maybe you choose sobriety purity

  724. forgiveness or even you've just you've

  725. chosen to to consistently be in this

  726. community or another one Suddenly people

  727. were you were close to may have judged

  728. you separated themselves from you I know

  729. many of your testimonies of finding

  730. Jesus involved the

  731. people even family members that that are

  732. still with you They didn't cut you off

  733. completely but it was like the closeness

  734. was fractured in some way

  735. My wife's beautiful story that she

  736. shares often is one where her family

  737. didn't cut her off but it it like had a

  738. effect where it took decades to

  739. restore what was severed when she chose

  740. Jesus

  741. Decades It's a

  742. cost It's a

  743. cost I watched her friendship shift

  744. There's a

  745. cost I watched the directives of where

  746. she was aiming her career shift There's

  747. a cost I've watched many of you that

  748. have had successful careers make major

  749. changes in the way you did things

  750. because you realized the way that your

  751. career was pulling from you was not

  752. conducive to what your heart said you

  753. had to surrender There's a cost

  754. Some doors in life are going to close

  755. when you open your heart to the way of

  756. the

  757. kingdom Sometimes we confuse closed

  758. doors is bad bad doors bad

  759. door and we don't realize who closed the

  760. door Thirdly the cost Let the dead bury

  761. their own dead

  762. I wish I had time to flesh it out more

  763. but the audience reading this gospel in

  764. the original audience would have

  765. understood that this guy's making

  766. excuses He's not just doing what he has

  767. to do to honor

  768. family He's doing what's convenient for

  769. him The language is that he's not just

  770. going back for a funeral He's going back

  771. for this elongated optional thing that

  772. he doesn't have to do And Jesus is

  773. reading right through it and say "You're

  774. just making

  775. excuses." And so Jesus just cuts to the

  776. chase Let the dead bury their own dead

  777. Who's the

  778. dead he's not talking about the father

  779. that

  780. died He's talking about the man's own

  781. soul

  782. As we close I want you guys to just

  783. think

  784. of the ways that our hearts make

  785. excuses I'm going to put up on the

  786. screen seven excuses that keep us from

  787. fullness I just want you to try to

  788. identify where's my life in

  789. this The first is the busyiness

  790. excuse I'm with you

  791. My life is

  792. busy I've got so many responsibilities

  793. amazing things God gave me all my

  794. children He gave me this this role in

  795. church He's given me so many amazing

  796. responsibilities but they they take time

  797. and I'm just really busy And I would

  798. never tell God maybe

  799. later But maybe that's how I'm

  800. living If Jesus is is asking you how can

  801. I take the fullness can I how can I

  802. weigh the cost is there anything that

  803. you're holding on to that he's asking

  804. you just to surrender your grip

  805. on what are your your

  806. goals your personal brand building that

  807. you're not even aware is taking

  808. precedence There's always a reason to

  809. delay radical obedience

  810. There's a hustle culture that glorifies

  811. busyness as a badge of

  812. honor Would you join me in giving the

  813. maybe

  814. later excuse to the Lord

  815. secondly I see this everywhere in the

  816. church

  817. It's a guilt and shame that you've got

  818. to get your life your spiritual life and

  819. your practical life together first

  820. before you can be used before you can

  821. have be someone that really lives on

  822. purpose Really living out the true

  823. disciple stuff You compare to everyone

  824. else and you're really just taking

  825. yourself out And Jesus isn't taking you

  826. out You're taking yourself out I need to

  827. get my life together first translation

  828. Once I finish therapy once I clean up my

  829. habits once I find a better friend group

  830. once I get married once I finish

  831. school but first but first but

  832. first And Jesus

  833. says "Let me take your mess Let me use

  834. your mess Let me take your unfinished

  835. business Let me take your unfinished

  836. soul Let me finish this piece of artwork

  837. that I've started in

  838. you You're trying to clean yourself

  839. up and he wants to show you off He wants

  840. to show you off while he cleans

  841. you No one wants to see your finished

  842. work They want to see the mess of their

  843. process so they can find themselves in

  844. the

  845. story Get rid of the I need to get

  846. myself together first excuse Thirdly

  847. what will people think of me

  848. translation If I get serious about

  849. Jesus people I've worked so far so hard

  850. with maybe you're in the industry maybe

  851. you're a teacher maybe maybe you've

  852. worked hard in your neighborhood and and

  853. you're just like not sure when can I

  854. take that next step to actually be real

  855. and raw with what who I am and what I'm

  856. like and what I believe and who I'm in

  857. love

  858. with The fear of social rejection is

  859. real Many of you could lose your jobs

  860. lose your influence lose your

  861. projects lose your

  862. friendships There's a cost Don't let

  863. anyone say there's no cost in the modern

  864. day There's a massive

  865. cost We give you the what will people

  866. think of me excuse

  867. Father Last few What about the excuse I

  868. still want to experience some things in

  869. life first

  870. i've given you my life

  871. Jesus Of course after I travel after I

  872. build my dreams after I work myself to

  873. death and barely keep myself together

  874. then I'll take my relationship seriously

  875. then I'll take my family seriously then

  876. I'll take my spirituality my disciplehip

  877. seriously Now hey I get it Some of you

  878. are like your calling like is medicine

  879. and you're in the middle of a two-year

  880. program where they own you I'm not

  881. talking about that Grace on you as you

  882. get through that I'm talking about after

  883. that when you said "Oh it'll be better

  884. after that." And then it's

  885. not And part of it was the reality of

  886. the two years And part of it was you

  887. haven't learned to actually fully go

  888. allin

  889. How about those of us that aren't really

  890. ready to sacrifice comfort they're

  891. constantly looking down the line of the

  892. other options because we're we think in

  893. the back of our mind this is supposed to

  894. be easier Why is this so

  895. hard why are these doors keep closing

  896. why don't I find some easier ones and

  897. Jesus is simply saying "Disciplehip

  898. isn't convenient

  899. Comfort is often the God we worship

  900. without realizing

  901. it How do we sacrifice the God of

  902. comfort

  903. today last two Those of you where your

  904. faith is so personal that you don't need

  905. community and you're resisting maybe

  906. because you've been hurt maybe because

  907. you have a mindset of how you're wired

  908. that just doesn't fit in well with

  909. community and you're just keeping the

  910. community of Jesus lovers and followers

  911. at bay and not going all

  912. in I just want to I just want to welcome

  913. you and challenge you in the most loving

  914. way possible It's just not possible to

  915. live the full calling of your life

  916. without being ingrained in a deep

  917. vulnerable known community that you know

  918. them and they know

  919. you Jesus can have access to my

  920. Sundays but there are certain things

  921. that are just off off limits Some of his

  922. deeper relationships some of it's career

  923. some of it's finances some of it dating

  924. some of it's politics Jesus doesn't call

  925. for partial

  926. allegiance We give you our allegiance

  927. today

  928. Jesus Finally Jesus we follow you on our

  929. on your terms and not

  930. ours Would you stand with me

  931. and as you

  932. stand

  933. just whether you need to put it on your

  934. lips or you just want to identify it in

  935. the deep core of your

  936. soul where are the

  937. excuses that are costing you the

  938. fullness of the hope on

  939. offer holy Spirit we invite you to

  940. disrupt our disciplehip this morning

  941. Disrupt our comforts

  942. I feel that some in the room just need

  943. the comfort of God not the world The

  944. comfort of

  945. God You've done well You've served well

  946. You've lived well This isn't this isn't

  947. a harsh rebuke for some of you It's it's

  948. acknowledging that you've chosen well

  949. And you can look at the forefront of

  950. your life your legacy the generations

  951. coming after you and say "This is why we

  952. do what we do This is why I've lived my

  953. life the way I've lived it This is why

  954. I've prioritized the way I have This is

  955. why I've given the way that I have Some

  956. of you just need this morning to be

  957. reminded of fresh It's all worth it It's

  958. all going to be worth it And it's all

  959. worth it right

  960. [Music]

  961. now Others are still holding on to

  962. things

  963. tightly And some of these

  964. excuses just need to be put to

  965. practice How do you step into a

  966. disciplehip that says "These excuses

  967. will no longer define me

  968. Thank you Jesus for your example your

  969. timeless examples of calling

  970. out not sugarcoating what you have on

  971. offer not of comfort but of the cost

  972. Thank you that we do

  973. not worship a

  974. grave We worship a resurrected

  975. savior that's put death in its

  976. place and has given us a hope a life a

  977. purpose and a meaning that no other

  978. worldview has on

  979. offer to invite you to respond in

  980. worship with this team Our our prayer

  981. team if you guys could go ahead and come

  982. up on my left your right and as we

  983. worship and respond I just want to

  984. invite you If you want someone to just

  985. pray with you about one of the areas

  986. that you want to sacrifice to the Lord

  987. one of the excuses that you know that if

  988. you're being honest with yourself you

  989. need to put before him and you just want

  990. to partner with someone to do that Our

  991. team would be absolutely honored to pray

  992. with you

  993. And those of you that are just sitting

  994. and responding in your seat that's fine

  995. as

  996. well I just feel like some need to

  997. respond by stepping forward today They

  998. need to say it out loud and they need to

  999. have someone else No one here is going

  1000. to judge you repeat and talk about it

  1001. later This is just between you and God

  1002. but with an accountable partner that

  1003. wants to pray with

  1004. you Some of you need to go home and call

  1005. someone and say "I've been making

  1006. excuses The Holy Spirit's just

  1007. pinpointed something in my

  1008. life There's a deeper cost that I want

  1009. to

  1010. give We give you permission and we

  1011. respond with surrender We love you in

  1012. Jesus

  1013. name Amen Feel free to respond in

  1014. worship We are