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  1. welcome to Free Life Chapel where we

  2. help you discover and live the free life

  3. in Christ my name is cotti and I'm so

  4. glad that you decided to tune in with us

  5. today if you ever find yourself in the

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  10. what's happening at your church there's

  11. an amazing message in store just for you

  12. I hope you're encouraged where's the

  13. coffee drinkers in the place any any

  14. coffee drink look at

  15. that okay let me ask you this how many

  16. of you drink your coffee black nothing

  17. in it where are those

  18. people there's your coffee drinkers

  19. right there there's your coffee drinkers

  20. right

  21. there some of y'all put like you add

  22. some coffee to your

  23. cream like you're not even sure what

  24. they put in your coffee you just like

  25. what it tastes and they told you it was

  26. coffee so you believed them but the

  27. truth is ain't nothing at Cindy loves

  28. the smell of coffee loves the smell she

  29. cannot stand the taste of coffee we've

  30. I've tried for 30 years I've tried for

  31. 30 years and so it just doesn't work and

  32. for that reason for that reason in our

  33. house I have a

  34. curig because I can make one cup at a

  35. time now I'm not mad at making a pot of

  36. coffee and there's some days that I just

  37. feel like it's that day and so I I will

  38. handle that pot myself but but you

  39. sometimes when you just need that single

  40. cup of coffee it just nothing like

  41. hitting that in fact in the mornings

  42. usually what I do is I wake up and I

  43. kind of make my way to the

  44. kitchen and when I get in there I make

  45. my cup of coffee and it gets my day

  46. going in fact the other day I went in

  47. there and and stumbled my way in there I

  48. can almost do it in my sleep right reach

  49. over grab one of the pods put it in

  50. there close it hit that 12 ounce boom

  51. done I was making a great cup of coffee

  52. the day and I was over in the kitchen

  53. you know you can you can hear the water

  54. heating up and then you can tell him

  55. like here it comes

  56. like and I hear I

  57. hear and here it's

  58. pouring and it was different I looked

  59. over and there was no cup in the

  60. curig I am squirting coffee out

  61. everywhere how you know I woke up quick

  62. I woke up really

  63. quick and man I'm grabbing the

  64. cup the cup was

  65. um was right in the cupboard above

  66. it it just wasn't in position under it

  67. it was so

  68. close but being close wasn't enough to

  69. catch everything that it was pouring out

  70. right it was

  71. close and it had the ability and there

  72. was nothing wrong with the CG it was

  73. working fine it was squirting coffee but

  74. I just wasn't in position to receive

  75. what it was kicking

  76. out I want to talk to you today for a

  77. few minutes about changing your mind so

  78. you can change your life repositioning

  79. some things so that you can actually

  80. receive what it is that God has for you

  81. here's what I want you to understand

  82. when when the curig was spitting out

  83. coffee on the counter it wasn't the cu's

  84. fault and I did not throw away the curig

  85. because it did not work the way I wanted

  86. to I didn't blame the curig I didn't

  87. throw it away in fact I didn't even

  88. stopped drinking coffee because it made

  89. a mess I realized that the issue was not

  90. on the CG's side the issue was on my

  91. side I didn't do my part to receive

  92. everything that it was put kicking out

  93. can I just encourage you with something

  94. today there is nothing wrong on God's

  95. end of what he's pouring out for our

  96. life right

  97. the only issue we have in life is not

  98. being in the right position to receive

  99. everything he's pouring out he is always

  100. giving God's God's good stuff is always

  101. flowing the his Blessing in your life

  102. watch this it's not a lottery God is not

  103. having to redecide every day if he's

  104. going to bless your life God initiated

  105. blessing and walked away from it the

  106. blessing is Flowing

  107. done the way you and I receive is when

  108. we get under where his Blessing is

  109. flowing in other words do it God's way

  110. get God's results the blessing is always

  111. flowing but based on how close we are to

  112. where he's pouring it out determines

  113. whether we get splashed with his

  114. Blessing or whether we get filled with

  115. his Blessing how do you want to be

  116. saturated with the blessing of God in

  117. your life anybody okay good if your

  118. neighbor did not raise their hand tell

  119. them I'm taking yours also I'm just

  120. that's just kind of how we're rolling

  121. here God is always pouring it out in

  122. fact in fact God has released two

  123. Heavenly stalkers according to Psalm

    Psalms 23 chapter mention

  124. chapter 23 goodness and mercy are going

  125. to stalk you all the days of your life

  126. that's what my Bible tells me God has no

  127. problem blessing your life in fact

  128. that's exactly why he sent his son Jesus

  129. to bless to upgrade to increase and

  130. Advance your life but you and I have a

  131. responsibility to get in the proper

  132. position to receive what he has many

  133. times though in my life

  134. maybe you can relate I've made bad

  135. judgments about

  136. God and bad decisions in my

  137. life because I had a wrong

  138. perspective on God and my

  139. situation anybody ever had a bad

  140. attitude that's a good place for

  141. everyone to raise your hand right now

  142. everybody everybody wiggle a toe raise

  143. your hand

  144. something if you didn't raise your hand

  145. it's because you have a bad attitude

  146. right now

  147. we it's amazing how our day how we we

  148. are just so fickle we can be high low in

  149. out up down love it hate it we we can be

  150. all over the place and that's within the

  151. first 10 minutes of the day like like

  152. it's just we're all over the place and

  153. if we're not careful we will begin to

  154. look at God through all that erratic

  155. mindset and we wonder why there's no

  156. Advance we wonder why there's no Victory

  157. we wonder why there's no strength and

  158. foundation in my life when my life life

  159. is all over the place concerning God let

  160. me tell you something I know about you

  161. you have a theology about God everybody

  162. does everybody sees God a certain way

  163. and you have decided or are deciding

  164. again whether he's good and faithful or

  165. whether he's dropped you and failed

  166. you everybody has a Theology and it's

  167. critical for you and I to continue to

  168. build build a proper theology so that it

  169. will hold us in difficult times in other

  170. words we stop blaming the CG and we

  171. start repositioning the

  172. cup we see this perspective shift the

  173. importance of it massive in the Book of

  174. Genesis chapter 29 uh it's a story of a

    Genesis 29 chapter mention

  175. guy named Jacob he sees this beautiful

  176. lady this beautiful girl named Rachel

  177. like dang and and and wants to be with

  178. her and so always like okay y yo I got

  179. to find her daddy and and laan who

  180. happened to crazy as in the Bible days

  181. this was all good like uncle laan look

  182. your girl man she is all that I need

  183. Rachel I need Rachel lean goes all right

  184. I'll give you Rachel but you got to work

  185. for me for seven years work seven years

  186. and you can have her seven years okay

  187. let's go let's go so so laben goes all

  188. right this work worked for me so Jacob

  189. works for seven years and then all of a

  190. sudden wedding day comes

  191. and then there he walks down the aisle

  192. he's so excited he says I do runs back

  193. to the house flips the veil off of

  194. Rachel's head only to find out it's not

  195. Rachel it's Leia her older daughter her

  196. older sister he he laan had shifted

  197. things and he married Leia off instead

  198. of Rachel you talk about a dysfunctional

  199. family he's now married to Leia wait a

  200. minute I signed up and I worked seven

  201. years for Rachel yeah I know but I

  202. needed to get Leia married first

  203. surprise welcome to the

  204. family but but Rachel Yeah well yeah you

  205. can marry her too but I need seven more

  206. years like Laban turned his daughters

  207. into a business do you understand and

  208. Jacob was so enamored so like I got to

  209. have Rachel like dang okay he worked 14

  210. years for Rachel which is nothing I've

  211. been working for 30 years for Cindy so

  212. it it it it happens it happens all right

  213. I'm just saying saying I'm just

  214. saying and and every year has been worth

  215. it Cindy every year has just been better

  216. and better and better I

  217. amen here here's what I want you to

  218. understand Leia is married and that's

  219. what I want to talk to you about Leia's

  220. life for a minute one of the Bible

  221. figures that is most overlooked but has

  222. so much impact that I want us to

  223. understand her story today she she had a

  224. life that was difficult for her to walk

  225. and live in an attitude of

  226. gratitude she went through some tough

  227. stuff had a okay so watch she had she

  228. grows up with a gorgeous sister

  229. according to the Bible Rachel was

  230. beautiful she was beautiful and and and

  231. and as beautiful as she was uh Leia the

  232. Bible gives us some language that tells

  233. us that probably she was not as

  234. beautiful so you got a comparison things

  235. going on with sisters and you got

  236. insecurities stuff going on and and I

  237. this it's tough growing up and then Dad

  238. had to actually trick a man into

  239. marrying Leah because no men were lined

  240. up and now she is the undesired wife of

  241. a man and she's sharing this man with

  242. her sister how you know that they she

  243. was not Puerto

  244. Rican I'm going to tell you something

  245. thing no no no like that's not

  246. happening so now she's she's the

  247. undesired wife her sister is the desired

  248. wife and Jacob and Rachel are always

  249. going on dates and Leah is sitting at

  250. the house like this is going on and now

  251. Leah is trying to win Jacob's attention

  252. win Jacob's Love by giving him

  253. babies I'll birth him men and and as

  254. long as I give him kids he's going to

  255. turn his heart to me and and we see Leia

  256. living this out and and according in the

  257. Bible if you study your Bible for those

  258. of you who understand there are 12

  259. tribes of Israel Jacob was the was the

  260. father of Israel and 12 sons 12 tribes

  261. of Israel Leia produced eight of the 12

  262. like this girl had it going on she was

  263. fertile Myrtle do you understand like

  264. like she's she's having babies but watch

  265. this but her mindset was twisted while

  266. she's having them it's it's a wreck in

  267. fact the Bible gives us insight into

  268. Leia's mindset while she's having babies

  269. she's she had a tragic attitude while

  270. naming her the Bible says her first

  271. son's name was Reuben and she says I had

  272. Reuben and oh he's here good because God

  273. has seen the suffering and the

  274. Affliction I'm going through well praise

  275. the

  276. Lord and then her second son she had

  277. another son named Simeon and Simeon she

  278. said this God has heard that I'm not

  279. loved okay then she had a third son

  280. named Levi and she said this here's what

  281. she said in in the Bible when when when

  282. Levi gets here maybe my husband will now

  283. become close to me like she's so hungry

  284. for approval hungry for acceptance allow

  285. me to be a part I'm suffering I feel

  286. alone I'm pushed out we see Leah

  287. bleeding publically she's pouring her

  288. heart out she was a wreck having babies

  289. and just bleeding emotionally cuz she

  290. was in such pain but her fourth child

  291. something happened on the fourth one she

  292. had a son named

  293. Judah and when Judah came something

  294. flipped between child three and child

  295. four because Judah she she then said

  296. this now I will praise the

  297. Lord I don't know I don't know what if

  298. there was a scenario that flipped

  299. between child three and child four but

  300. I'll tell you what did flip Leah's

  301. mindset she went from woe as me and

  302. throwing pity parties and complaining

  303. and being the victim to all of a sudden

  304. now I will pray praise the Lord her her

  305. situation was the same don't miss this

  306. don't miss this her situation did not

  307. change her circumstances were still bad

  308. it was wrong but her life shifted

  309. because she changed her perspective on

  310. life she went from her

  311. situation to God's goodness she changed

  312. her mind and do you know what we have in

  313. the Bible in Genesis

    Genesis 29:35

  314. 29:35 Leah here's some Bible trivia for

  315. you Leah is the very first person

  316. recorded in history to praise

  317. God the very first one Judah his name

  318. means

  319. praise the very first one to praise

  320. God can I tell you something

  321. circumstances do not decide your life

  322. right if they do you'll live owned and

  323. you'll live as a victim for the rest of

  324. your life keep whining and keep crying

  325. all of us are going through it baby deal

  326. with it we've all had our hearts broken

  327. we've all been dropped we've all been

  328. attacked we've had things said about us

  329. we've had wrong done to us going through

  330. things that no one understands we've had

  331. bad news from the doctor we've dealt

  332. with some stuff that has hurt and dug

  333. deep and we all go through some has

  334. anybody had that perfect life that you

  335. never had one issue in your life because

  336. I would just encourage you keep living

  337. it's coming it's called life we we don't

  338. control the circumstances that's why

  339. it's critically important that you can

  340. control your mind while you're in the

  341. circumstance because if you're not

  342. careful you can derail in the middle of

  343. even a good situation I I grew up in a

  344. time frame when we didn't have a whole

  345. lot we didn't have much we we I lived in

  346. the time when we used to go to our

  347. neighbors and borrow stuff anybody know

  348. what that's like like you had to go go

  349. get this from the neighbor's house yeah

  350. okay good I grew up wearing hand me-

  351. Downs some of y'all don't even know what

  352. a hand me- down is so when I was really

  353. really young my mama made my clothes I

  354. didn't wear Armani I wore my mommy

  355. that's what I wore she she made she made

  356. my little jumper outfits and all that

  357. kind like I that she made my clothes and

  358. then I started wearing hand-me-downs

  359. hand-me-downs means somebody else wore

  360. it out before you got the chance to put

  361. your hands on it and so all my new shoes

  362. the bottoms were already scuffed up on

  363. them all my I've got pictures of me

  364. playing t-ball t-ball in a pair of zipup

  365. boots and that's what I was that's what

  366. we had that's what I did we didn't know

  367. we were poor until somebody told

  368. us we didn't we didn't we didn't have a

  369. pot if you don't get it just ask

  370. somebody older than you they'll

  371. understand like the situation was bad

  372. but we were so

  373. happy life was

  374. good we laughed our family was together

  375. and and and and God supplied because our

  376. neighbor had it amen

  377. and that's just how we

  378. lived and then and then at the same time

  379. you can see people who seem to have it

  380. all they got the money they got the job

  381. they got the three cars they they got

  382. the and and there's nothing wrong with

  383. having that stuff but I've seen people

  384. in that scenario that have no joy and no

  385. peace and complaining and life is

  386. falling apart and they're losing why

  387. because circumstances and things do not

  388. determine the strength and the hope and

  389. the joy of your life it's how you see

  390. life are you under it or on it are you a

  391. victim or a Victor which one is it who

  392. who are you are you living out here and

  393. you're mad because nothing that God has

  394. for you seems to be working or are you

  395. living where it's being poured out and

  396. you're being filled every day of your

  397. life Paul tells us how to change our

  398. perspective the book of Colossians

    Colossians 2 chapter mention

  399. chapter 2 veres 6 and 7 check this out

  400. so then just as you received Christ

  401. Jesus as Lord continue to live your

  402. lives in him rooted and built up in him

  403. strengthened in the faith as you were

  404. taught and overflowing with

  405. thankfulness how is it that I live my

  406. life strong I don't just accept Jesus I

  407. pursue Jesus when you said yes to Jesus

  408. ladies and gentlemen that was just the

  409. beginning you've not arrived that's not

  410. the Pinnacle It's Not Over You Don't

  411. Coast from this point on no no no if

  412. you're going to live this blessed life

  413. this Abundant Life this life of Victory

  414. this life properly positioned you and I

  415. have to as Paul said continue in him

  416. that means I got to keep showing up that

  417. means I do things oh here we go here we

  418. go whether I feel like it or

  419. don't that means I decide my way into

  420. feelings instead of feeling my way into

  421. decisions it means I start doing what I

  422. know I need to do not what I feel like

  423. doing

  424. so I show up on Sundays because it's the

  425. Lord's day and I will bless the Lord in

  426. I will be in the house I don't have to

  427. Red decide every week because it's what

  428. I do I will show up and I will worship

  429. God and sometimes I'll even feel like it

  430. but I'm going to worship nonetheless why

  431. because I need Scott needs to hear

  432. himself worship and call God your name

  433. is the highest your name is the greatest

  434. I need to hear me say those things it's

  435. good for Scott to say those words I need

  436. to serve I need to give I need to pray

  437. it's me continuing in my faith and do

  438. you know what that does for me the Bible

  439. says I'm rooted I'm stronger and I'm

  440. overflowing in

  441. thankfulness you want to live stronger

  442. in life do the right thing set them in

  443. motion get in position so that

  444. everything God is pouring out can hit

  445. your life and your feelings are optional

  446. that's what makes us

  447. adults anybody go to work and you don't

  448. feel like

  449. going hands down but you went

  450. anyway hands down and they gave you a

  451. paycheck at the end of that week look at

  452. that you did something you didn't feel

  453. like and didn't want to do but it still

  454. paid

  455. off I need you to understand the same

  456. thing operates spiritually when I show

  457. up and I do maybe not what I feel like

  458. but what I need to do because he's good

  459. and he gave it all my life has been

  460. changed I'll bless the Lord at all times

  461. his praise will continually be in my

  462. mouth my soul will make her boast in the

  463. Lord The Humble will hear thereof and be

  464. glad oh magnify the Lord with me and let

  465. us exalt his name together and if you

  466. feel like it that's a

  467. bonus but we do it anyway somebody shout

  468. anyway perspective matters Jesus and

  469. Bible become my f focus and then change

  470. happens in my lifestyle so now I start

  471. identifying God's grace in the middle of

  472. my grief I'm going through grief but

  473. waves of grief brings waves of grace and

  474. I realize he's good I recognize that

  475. there's still strength in the struggle

  476. the struggle doesn't leave but I'm

  477. stronger than the struggle I'm good I'm

  478. coming out I don't live in bitterness

  479. Envy blame I'm not living in that in

  480. that in that situation where I'm just

  481. angry ladies and gentlemen if you're

  482. living there it's going to kill you it

  483. will drain you will eat you from the

  484. inside out you're not made to live that

  485. way you got to get your mind above it

  486. you can't live under the feeling under

  487. the emotions so that it's running your

  488. life you got to change your mind so you

  489. can change your world change your focus

  490. from you to Jesus from the problem to

  491. the promise from this to that and when

  492. you change your mind you start to

  493. outlive it despite the circumstance come

  494. on Leah come on Leah and know the

  495. circumstances are still bad and you're

  496. still dealing with Rachel in the house

  497. and you're still dealing with things

  498. with Jacob he's a he's not the husband

  499. that he should be but get your head

  500. above it Leia do not live as a victim

  501. for the rest of your life change your

  502. mind now I will praise and I will

  503. worship God when you get your mind above

  504. it everything starts to flip turn and

  505. change in your life that's what this

  506. what it tells me before gratitude is an

  507. action it's first a perspective

  508. if you don't have the right perspective

  509. you'll never be grateful right that's

  510. true how you see something decides how

  511. you'll

  512. respond you ever gone to a restaurant

  513. with somebody and they ordered food that

  514. you can't

  515. stand like oh my God are you ordering

  516. that like oh go and they sit there and

  517. they eat it in front of

  518. you your response if Cindy doesn't like

  519. something she goes like like that that

  520. that's her Pat response like but you

  521. know I'd appreciate if you wouldn't do

  522. that while I'm eating like I just

  523. ordered that I'm going to eat that like

  524. that doesn't

  525. work like how you see something decides

  526. how you respond to

  527. it politics like like okay like like

  528. that that I I get that the Dallas

  529. Cowboys like like there's some things

  530. that I'm sorry oh I came out didn't it

  531. but but but how

  532. you how you see things determines how

  533. you respond watch this

  534. church many of you years ago could not

  535. stand the the idea of church you you

  536. push back you're like I'm out I'm free

  537. I'm I'm out and look where you are today

  538. you're sitting in church and you're

  539. listening to things about God and you're

  540. hearing music sung about him and you're

  541. posturing your heart you keep showing up

  542. I'm telling you ladies and gentlemen

  543. you're doing better than you think you

  544. are because you're moving towards him

  545. and it's a perspective change so the

  546. real question is not are you grateful

  547. the real question is what do you see in

  548. life if attitude and feeling are

  549. controlling my perspective if I'm just

  550. riding the wave of feelings then that

  551. means God is going to be moody in your

  552. life God is going to be unpredictable

  553. and unreliable and can I tell you

  554. something it's impossible to trust a god

  555. like

  556. that because he might he might not be

  557. faithful he might he might not be true

  558. but if faith and his word are

  559. controlling your perspective not the

  560. circumstance

  561. then God is good right and God is

  562. faithful and and that means god is aware

  563. of what's going on and God is Not only

  564. involved God is working for me even in

  565. the silence he's working and when you're

  566. serving that God it's irrational not to

  567. trust that

  568. God it's all based on perspective one

  569. makes me suspicious of God the other

  570. makes me trust him with everything I've

  571. got we have to make sure that our

  572. perspective is proper Leah changed her

  573. mind about God and it changed both her

  574. life and her Legacy listen to

  575. me I found something just the other day

  576. that i' never seen before in the Bible

  577. and I'm so excited to share it with you

  578. and if you already knew this then please

  579. don't tell me you already knew cuz I'm

  580. already excited about it but I got to

  581. show this thing to you watch this watch

  582. this the first three children that Leah

  583. had she was self-focused again I told

  584. you she had she had nine kids eight of

  585. them were Sons for the eight tribes but

  586. watch this nine kids her first three she

  587. was self focused Ruben her first son she

  588. said I'm suffering her second son Simeon

  589. she said I'm not loved the third son

  590. Levi she said I am alone and then

  591. everything changed with that fourth kid

  592. everything changed her perspective on

  593. life changed she stopped living under

  594. the circumstance and got on top of it

  595. because her fourth child's name was

  596. Judah Judah means praise and because she

  597. went god-focused Leah said this in in in

  598. Genesis she says this now I will praise

  599. the Lord something shifted not her

  600. circumstances because when you read the

  601. Bible her situation stayed the same but

  602. she started seeing it different she

  603. stopped living outside of what God was

  604. pouring out and got back in position to

  605. receive what he had now her fifth child

  606. he was name was issachar it means means

  607. reward her sixth child was zebulun his

  608. name means honor her seventh child

  609. finally she had a girl named Dina means

  610. I have been Avenged number eight was Gad

  611. which means good fortune number nine was

  612. Asher which means happy ladies and

  613. gentlemen after she decided now I will

  614. praise the Lord reward honor Revenge

  615. Good Fortune happy all took place in her

  616. life and gave her a brand new world that

  617. she was living in that was not under the

  618. circum stand but ruling and reigning on

  619. top of it but that's not all it gets

  620. good

  621. her oh that's bad English but I'll go

  622. Paul Harvey on you the rest of the story

  623. here is what here's what I need you to

  624. understand Leah's Legacy is missed by

  625. most people today we don't understand we

  626. should be celebrating Leia because

  627. listen to this Judah her fourth son who

  628. it all changed when she got to number

  629. four his name means praise and later on

  630. whenever Jacob was handing out blessing

  631. and speaking over his son just before he

  632. died he said that the tribe of Judah

  633. will be like a lion which means every

  634. enemy that rises against Judah Judah

  635. will consume them any enemy that attacks

  636. Judah from behind Judah will stand

  637. strong and destroy the lion of the tribe

  638. of Judah all the through through through

  639. Judah judah's lineage then produced a

  640. man named David this little boy killed a

  641. giant one day with a sling and he worked

  642. his way up and all of a sudden God

  643. positioned him to become the king of all

  644. of Israel and then through King David's

  645. lineage came a a boy and a girl named

  646. Mary and Joseph and they had a son named

  647. Jesus and it was through through David's

  648. lineage that Jesus comes on the scene

  649. and can I remind you he is called the

  650. son of David he is our savior he is the

  651. king of kings and in Revelation he is

  652. called the Lion of the tribe of Judah

  653. who rules and Reigns in all authority

  654. ladies and gentlemen here's what I'm

  655. telling you Leah is the matriarch of our

  656. faith so this Christmas before you start

  657. saying thank God for Mary I need someone

  658. to give some love to Leah today and

  659. thank God somebody overcame their

  660. situation and didn't live under it but

  661. changed her mind and got on top of it so

  662. that we can live in this Legacy his name

  663. is Jesus and I've got news for somebody

  664. today you're not living your life by

  665. yourself you don't live in a vacuum

  666. you've got to get your head above the

  667. situation because there's a legacy

  668. coming behind you your kids are watching

  669. your family is watching nieces and

  670. nephews and brothers and sisters are

  671. watching and somebody in your family has

  672. got to rise above it and set a new

  673. Legacy as for me in my house we will

  674. serve the Lord get on top of the

  675. situation no more victims in this house

  676. no more small living no more small

  677. thinking I know it's bad and the

  678. circumstances are bad but circumstances

  679. do not determine my life my mind my joy

  680. my praise my hope my strength my present

  681. my future my promise my king My Savior

  682. My Joy his faithfulness Mercy grace

  683. truth it's all on my side I've got a

  684. Reason To Praise

  685. Him somebody sh out change your mind

  686. change your mind change your

  687. mind can I tell you something crazy

  688. about this story you Leah's

  689. name means

  690. weary I'm

  691. tired situations have worn me

  692. out any ever been tired from fighting

  693. life stuff news

  694. circumstances

  695. finances doesn't matter if you're single

  696. if you're married if you're

  697. desperate we all go we all get

  698. weary but Leah learned I can't allow my

  699. name or my condition to make me live

  700. under everything God promised I can have

  701. and I'm changing my theology I'm calling

  702. God

  703. good I judge that he is good and if I'm

  704. going through it he's going to make it

  705. for make it work for my good and His

  706. glory I will come out the other side of

  707. this stronger and better oh I got news

  708. for somebody the year is not over he can

  709. still turn some things around in your

  710. life in this year before you get to a

  711. new calendar I'm telling you right now

  712. your mind can change your family can

  713. change your circumstance can change

  714. because when you change your mind it

  715. starts changing everything around you

  716. here's what I need you to know the Bible

  717. is fighting for your

  718. mind so is the enemy of your

  719. life cuz whatever controls your mind

  720. controls your

  721. world you change your mind you change

  722. your world and as long as you and I are

  723. flopping the Bible says a doubl minded

  724. person is

  725. unstable in all their

  726. ways I'm up I'm down I'm in I'm out it's

  727. good it's bad I love I hate and we we

  728. can't figure out why life isn't

  729. strong I'm going to tell you something

  730. it's going to sound a little bit

  731. crazy but do you know what it was that

  732. established my faith like I had never

  733. had it strengthened

  734. before was when Cindy and I lost our two

  735. kids when we lost Isaiah and

  736. Gabrielle that

  737. hit rocked

  738. me it rocked

  739. me I'm a pastor at that time I'm

  740. preaching God's power his ability to

  741. heal his faithfulness his goodness and

  742. two of my babies

  743. died you want to talk about a conflict

  744. of

  745. circumstance where I'm trying to

  746. declare this

  747. when stuff around me doesn't look right

  748. doesn't feel

  749. right you're not looking at somebody

  750. who's just had it easy and it's all been

  751. good oh no I've cried I've had real

  752. conversations with God but can I tell

  753. you it was the

  754. continuing that Paul talked

  755. about I'm going to go back to church

  756. today not because I feel like it but the

  757. last thing I need to do is run from God

  758. in this mess instead of to God

  759. I got to get back where he is again

  760. because when I look over the landscape

  761. of my life the only hope I have of even

  762. making it through is if I've got two

  763. handfuls of Jesus because if I lose him

  764. I've lost everything and so I know what

  765. it was to stand in church lift hands

  766. feel empty in my head and my heart and

  767. sing worship to God while my heart was

  768. screaming no but I had to keep moving

  769. and it was in those moments of just

  770. pressing and trusting and pressing and

  771. and talking to him and crying and

  772. letting my heart bleed that I begin to

  773. feel his comfort and his love and his

  774. strength he began to heal me from the

  775. inside out and you're looking at a man

  776. right now who's got scars all over him

  777. and I can tell you I love him today like

  778. I have never loved him in my life and

  779. because of the pain I went through I can

  780. tell you this I feel that my faith today

  781. is standing on a firm foundation that is

  782. not up and down and in and out it's not

  783. circum substantial I love you and I hope

  784. you love me but if you leave me today

  785. I'm good baby because I'm loved and I'm

  786. he's the one that I love is holding me

  787. and you and I can both live with that

  788. assurance and that strength that

  789. regardless of what happens in your

  790. nation in your family on your job in

  791. your relationships you can know that

  792. everything is going to be all right

  793. because the one I'm looking to is the

  794. one who's actually holding me I can't

  795. live outside of his BL are you kidding

  796. me this is the only way I get through

  797. get back under where he's being poured

  798. out there's nothing wrong with his

  799. blessings there's nothing wrong with his

  800. strength his hope his healing his Joy

  801. his love his grace his Mercy his promise

  802. his power it's flowing continually stay

  803. under the spout and let him fill your

  804. life with every good and perfect gift

  805. would you stand to your feet in this

  806. room

  807. [Music]

  808. refocus your

  809. mind your attitude onto God's goodness

  810. not what you see or feel but on his word

  811. in fact Philippians CH 4:8 tells us this

  812. look at this here's what it

  813. says fix your thoughts on what is true

  814. and honorable and right and pure and

  815. lovely and admirable think about things

  816. that are excellent and worthy of praise

  817. why because God's word is telling you

  818. what you think about is what you'll

  819. become whatever controls your focus

  820. Masters your life I've got to make sure

  821. he's the focus of who I am and where I'm

  822. going I need distractions of

  823. righteousness I've got to set some

  824. things in motion that I don't have to

  825. decide based on the circumstance I've

  826. just decided I'm in church on Sundays I

  827. have decided I will worship God I have

  828. decided I'm serving I'm honoring him I'm

  829. giving I've if I don't it's the way that

  830. he holds me when I get handfuls of him

  831. so God focused

  832. life it redefines my life and my

  833. situations I I I call it something

  834. different same situation I just Define

  835. it differently God is good he's going to

  836. bring me through number two when you

  837. have a god-focused life he keeps you

  838. strong in tough times you're stronger

  839. than the issue you're coming through

  840. everything's going to be all right and

  841. number three

  842. you grow unshakable

  843. faith that you take the hits in life

  844. that would have rocked you years ago but

  845. today even when I don't understand him

  846. God is good nothing can steal my victory

  847. as long as I'm focused on him in this

  848. room today there's some people that are

  849. struggling been through some stuff going

  850. through some stuff right now taking some

  851. hits bleeding in some areas of your life

  852. I get it life is tough it's it's not

  853. made for the faint quite honestly life

  854. is above your pay grade to

  855. handle you were not built to handle life

  856. without

  857. Jesus God would have been an idiot to

  858. create you and I and to be able to do

  859. anything outside of him no he made us to

  860. know him therefore he creates us and

  861. there's a plug that he pulls out of our

  862. life something's missing something's

  863. missing and we try to put everything in

  864. that plug except for him but the moment

  865. I come back to him I realize he's

  866. everything I want he's everything I've

  867. always needed and I'm living stronger

  868. than I should and my struggling and my

  869. wrestling is less because he takes the

  870. battle the battle is not yours the

  871. battle is the Lords here's what I'm

  872. trying to tell you today folks change

  873. your mind reposition your mind

  874. reposition your life so you can receive

  875. everything he has father I pray for my

  876. friends in this room for all those that

  877. are are watching online today that are

  878. in a struggle for their

  879. life they're they're they're they're

  880. they're they're wrestling with day in

  881. and day out the emotional turmoil the

  882. hits seem to be piling up on so many

  883. levels like Leah feels stuck in a

  884. situation and there's no hope

  885. out so God here's what we've decided

  886. since we can't change our circumstances

  887. we choose to change our mind and I will

  888. put my mind on you I will set my mind on

  889. things above not on things below I I

  890. have determined that the Giants I'm

  891. looking at are not bigger than the

  892. promise that you made to me we can take

  893. this land we can overcome we can have it

  894. all today we will renew our mind we will

  895. set it higher than the situations in our

  896. life because we trust you it's not in

  897. how strong I am it's not my education

  898. it's not my money it's not my networking

  899. it's my hope my faith and my trust in

  900. you that makes any of this worthwhile so

  901. today God I pray for my friends that are

  902. struggling in this room that are in a

  903. painful scenario I pray you challenge

  904. them to lift their mind above it and

  905. show them what it is to stand strong in

  906. the middle of it only for you to elevate

  907. them above it and bring them through it

  908. today God I pray for marriages today God

  909. I pray for business owners today I pray

  910. for moms and dads and kids I pray for

  911. the singles I pray for all of those

  912. today God who are in that place of

  913. struggle and difficulty and I pray you

  914. would Elevate them and let them feel

  915. that hope and strength that only Heaven

  916. can give Infuse them with the reminder

  917. that you're here that you love them that

  918. you're fighting for them that we've

  919. never been alone not one day and if we

  920. will change our mind and begin to say

  921. now I will praise the Lord everything

  922. can change in our life today God I

  923. declare that over your people bless them

  924. love them heal them strengthen them make

  925. them greater than the issue they're

  926. going through so that it becomes a

  927. Hallmark trophy in our lives that if you

  928. did it once before you can do it again

  929. you're faithful and you're good we thank

  930. you for this today in Jesus name amen

  931. amen amen amen

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