Define the We | What Are We | Pastor Scott Thomas

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kicking off a series called what are we

it's February it's relationship time and

so we're going to talk about that how

you know that's a loaded

question if you never had anybody ask

you that well then just take my word for

it's a loaded question it it

identifies and

defines identifies and

defines relationships

every relationship needs to be

defined if you don't know what the

relationship is for then you put you you

Verge on abusing that relationship

you've got to identify it parental

relationship sometimes you got to notify

your kids Define that my goal is not to

be your friend my goal is to raise you

in the right way some days you will not

like me that's okay I love you God bless

you

amen that eat your peas right so you you

got to have the

you got to Define friendships you you

got to Define you got to define the

authority you got to know the roles that

you play certainly in dating certainly

in marriage we need to know what those

are it's a clarifying question it it

gives purpose it gives Direction it

defines roles that are to be played it

creates expectations boundaries how

we're going to communicate how we treat

other

people all of these things change based

on the definition of of the relationship

what are we when Caleb and Liz were

dating Caleb had brought Elizabeth over

to the house several times and we like

we like fell in love with

Liz and so I had a very clarifying

conversation with my son and I said we

need to

talk and what's up and I said you need

to understand something do not screw

this up

I had to notify him we have decided that

we like her more than

you if you mess this up we're moving you

out and moving her in do you understand

we just need to get all that clear right

now we we had to clarify in fact it it

is funny we I mean we did have that

conversation by the way but but but all

that being said they were over at the

house had been I don't know how many

times they'd been there but Liz was

settling into our heart I think we were

settling into her heart something like

that we're like fungus we grow on people

and so so she was settling in with her

they were leaving the house one night

got to the out to the vehicle and Liz

looked at Caleb and she goes okay I need

to know something what are we cuz she

needed to know is this going any further

how much am I to lean into this how much

weight do I put on this that we're

sharing what's your perspective I'll

share with you mine it's crazy important

to clarify your your relationships and

your dating for dating couples and for

married couples we're going to talk

about this today three keys to

identifying what are we it's important

to have this but but before I get to the

three keys I I I need to make sure that

you

understand that we need to understand

the me before we try to handle the

we I'll get to the what are we in just a

minute but I need to ask you a question

who are

you because you got to get you defined

before you try to get the wi defined cuz

if you don't know the i in the middle of

the wi that means somebody else is going

to run your life for the rest of your

life you got to know who you are and you

need to know especially who you're not

and this identification these I having

these boundaries these borders these

things set up are healthy for your heart

and for your life if I don't get me

right then I'll never get we right and

so we've got to put this in in context

because it's possible that if I don't

have me down right I start making wrong

expectations of

you now because I'm not sure who I am

I'm expecting you to make me happy I

expected you to do this do

this and I'm expecting things out of you

that you were never intended to fulfill

in my life and now here I'm crying I'm

mad I'm pointing the finger I'm blaming

there's all kinds of drama in the place

and I'm the victim and like no you just

crazy you just that's all you're just

crazy cuz no one could do that you got

to know you so that you can actually

have some health going forward so here's

the question why are you

here why are you here what what is the

purpose of you here in 2000 why weren't

you born in the

1700s oh can we just thank God that we

weren't born in the 1700 like yeah why

why were I was born in the 1900s but but

what what why why here why now the Bible

tells me you're you're you're made in

the image of God you're fearfully and

wonderfully made the Bible tells me in

the book of Psalm chapter 8 that you've

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been crowned with Glory and Honor you've

got talents gifts and abilities that

have been wired inside of you how you

see things your perspective all of that

is such a god-ordained thing and the

world was missing something until you

got

here God saw a deficit and you were the

answer he put up inside this world he

didn't put you here to be common he

didn't put you to here put you here to

to be another he put you here to be

unique and identifying who you are and

where you're supposed to go and what

you're supposed to do it's going to make

you different on purpose you need to get

used to being

different this is God's word it has to

do with purpose in your life purpose is

the reason that something exists you

need to identify that before you start

asking questions of who are we I need to

identify who am I that is foundational

to this there's there's a lot of folks

that have attempted to identify that

purpose that reason for existence do a

lot of things through through money

through through notoriety I'll build

I'll build my name in business we we try

a lot of things in order to fulfill this

empty spot but the truth is only purpose

will fulfill that and that stuff is not

purpose it's a byproduct of purpose it's

not purpose itself nothing wrong with

that stuff but if that's what you're

looking at to fulfill you it's always

going to come up empty do you know

there's so many people that have the

money they have the businesses they have

the notoriety they have it all and

they're still as empty as they can be

they can't sleep at night the

relationships are falling apart they

would trade it all right now for one

night's sleep do you understand that we

need to look at their lives and let's

learn something you don't have to make

all the mistakes yourself you can

actually learn from a

mentor and so let's look at lives you

want you want to go Bible the guy named

King Solomon

King Solomon this is David's son King

David's

son God approached Solomon one day and

said Solomon what do you want from

me how you like the idea of God giving

you a blank check and asking you to fill

that in or you just here here's a j what

do you want Solomon I want

wisdom so I can lead your people God

said ding ding ding ding ding ding ding

ding ding ding ding not only did you get

behind the door number three he like he

gave him every door I'll give you the

and with it comes everything else and

God loaded him down Solomon began to

gain so many things he had this crazy

Acumen for knowing how to run life

business guy amazing he owned the entire

international trade route throughout the

Levant that goes around the

Mediterranean all the way through Israel

went up into Mesopotamia down through

Egypt into Africa he set up toll booth

stations through all of that area that

if you're going to work this trade route

with anything you have you got to pay

the price on every location he was a m

in well so that when he built God a

temple he lined the walls with

gold billions he put into building God a

temple billions the man had money he had

business Acumen he was over the top so

much so that the Queen of Sheba she goes

I got to go see this man hey and so she

comes all the way up from Africa I got

to go see this man's wealth I got to see

how he does stuff and she was like Blown

Away shocked looking at everything she

said the half hasn't even been told

how amazing this is he's got all this

going King Solomon listen oh yo no it's

just relation he had 700 wives in 300

side pieces do you hear what I'm telling

you he had

a, women he was trying to keep up with

that was not wisdom that was not wisdom

right

there I got one Puerto Rican y'all pray

for your boy that's all I got to

say BTO

and I love you honey I love you she

she's not here today because she were

preaching in Atlanta she spoke this this

past weekend in Atlanta so she didn't

leave me that's why she's not here but

I'm pray for your boy a thousand

women do you understand how big that

closet how the how many shoes We're

talking

about that was that was a mess Solomon

had it all and watch

this he comes to the end of his life and

in the Book of Ecclesiastes which he

wrote the last chapter the closing

verse here's Solomon's assessment on

life money business Fame

women all of it here's what he says

chapter 12:

13 here now is my final conclusion help

me with this fear God and obey his

commands

for this is everyone's

Duty he said I'm going to take it all

and boil it right down to one idea you

want to know what your role your goal

your mission your purposes in

life honor God with your

life and do what he said to do and

everything else you desire will come

with it you can get it on your own and

you can pay the price because there is a

tax that will be required on the other

end or you can do it God's way and God

said I know how to bless you and add no

sorrow with it do it God's way get God's

results it kind of sounds like seek

first the kingdom of God and his

righteousness and the stuff will be

added you were designed you were created

listen to me in God's image Genesis

chapter one man you and I we were

designed in God's image which explains

exactly why your purpose cannot be

fulfilled with aart from God you have to

be connected to him to experience the

fullness it's him that opens doors it's

him that closes doors it's him that

makes crooked places straight it's him

that promotes your name it's him that

gives right it's him that directs all of

that ladies and gentlemen he can see

down the road he knows who you need to

be connected with and who you need to

avoid like the

plague and he has a way of leading

shaping and designing all that knowing

Jesus is a is essential in life because

he decides my values my convictions he

tells me when to say yes his word tells

me when to say no there's some people

that you need to say no to that you

might have said yes to I've done that

right there's some people that I said no

to that I wish I'd said yes to He he'll

he'll direct us in that there's

boundaries that he puts in my life and

that's how he directs and and and Jesus

when he's involved like that he leads

every are of your life because the word

becomes primary and the wisdom of that

word begins to direct your heart and

holy spirit is inside that helper

guiding and leading because I've made

Jesus my focus now he's leading in the

focus areas of my life My Career

Education the interest that I'm involved

in he leads with my friends the right

one's in the wrong one's out I'm

likeminded I'm aligned with them we have

common goals together we're pushing my

future my future my decisions my dreams

the direction for my life he leads in

all of those things and he is not one

one who is limiting your life he is one

that is setting your life up God has no

problem with you having all kinds of

amazing blessing flowing everywhere so

that you can be a blessing but the way

you get it the way I get it decides if

we're living in purpose or

not that purpose will save you from

self-inflicted

wounds now I'm no longer living in drama

trying to act like it's all good I I'm

no longer tripping in life taking hits

that I never should have gone through

sleepless nights that I never should

have encountered because I'm doing it

his way in fact let me just put it this

way and I want you to say this loud with

me say this loud with me here it is

Jesus is the foundation of your entire

life would you read that with me say it

loud Jesus is the foundation of my

entire life one more time Jesus is the

foundation of my entire life you see

then after I know who I am and the

purpose I'm here to honor God and to

fulfill his will and everything is going

to come behind that once I know that now

I'm ready for now what are

we I got to establish that before I can

go

forward based on that I want to talk to

you now about these three ways to

identify that relationship or that

situationship you're in whatever you

want to call it I don't if it's if it's

a marriage that's all good it's all good

it's all where are the married folk in

the place all the married folk let me

see married folk okay there's some

people loud and proud about that that's

nice where the where the successfully

sensationally single people were the

sensationally single people yeah very

good very good anybody engaged where

these where the engaged folks some of

y'all engaged you're no longer in

neutral you're move okay that's good

that's good yeah love that anybody just

desperate thirsty like you just look

like I'm don't don't raise your hand

don't raise your hand don't raise your

hand

whatever the case may be I want us to

get in here what are we how do I Define

clarify this relationship number one we

got to go in a hurry number one it's

defined by that two people you and the

one you're connected to actually have

personal relationships with

Jesus this is question number one and I

can tell you now if you're in a in a

relationship I don't care if it's if

it's a business partner if if it's if

it's a a spouse if it is a a dating

relationship if the other person does

not have a relationship with Jesus you

got a messy situation on your

hands that's not my opinion that's Bible

life rule number one let's just lay this

one out if you're looking for a new

tattoo this is a good one right here put

this one on here we go 2 Corinthians

chapter 6:14 look at this here's what it

says do not be yolked together with with

unbelievers for what do righteousness

and wickedness have in common or what

Fellowship can light have with Darkness

now let me lay something out

here I got a lot of people in my life

that don't know Jesus and I love them

right we're we're we're not higher

mightier better than anybody that's not

what I'm

saying but this is to I I I have a lot

of acquaintances and people that I would

do things for to help them

but if I'm going when I talk about

relationships I'm talking about that

person that you have given access to

your heart that has the ability to to

move to shift to influence who you are

and where you're going those are

different and that's what this word is

talking about when when when you're

you're yolked together we're doing it

side by side we're connected and we're

to be going in the same direction I I

want Cindy serving Jesus so he can fix

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her it's my message I'll preach it like

I want

to I'm I'm so bold when she's not here

she's coming back you know no no no no

watch watch watch watch watch watch she

wants me serving

Jesus because when I get out of order my

attitude goes sideways I get the

priorities of Life mixed up and I put

the church ahead of her put the church

ahead of family I have a this thing

called conviction where Holy Spirit runs

through me and I feel like the lowest of

lows like this is bad this is wrong you

need to go repent to your wife you need

to apologize you need to fix this and

man whenever that hits you just can't

you can't just shake that off he has a

way of gnawing on you and he's like the

The Hound of heaven and like he he's

after you right he's always on you and I

find myself going to C like Cindy look

I'm I'm so sorry I'm so sorry my

attitude this past week has just been

horrible I know I've been difficult to

be around she goes yes like don't don't

amen me right now I'm trying to get this

out I want her hearing from God she

wants me hearing from God because he's

only going to continue to strengthen the

health of our relationship that's why

it's important that we understand I I

need a spouse who can look me in the

face and say I know today's a big day

I'm pray praying for you God is with you

Scott God's going to give you wisdom and

direction today you're going to make

great decisions I need the one that I

love that knows me the most to look me

in the face and speak faith and life

into me sir nothing like that in the

world I I I know what it is I know what

it is to go home after a you've got to

be kidding me kind of day I've had news

hit that was Heavy go home make it to

the couch lay my head in my wife's lap

and she lay hands on my head while I am

crying and she's praying over

me that ladies and gentlemen is a

special

place I need her knowing Jesus and she

needs me knowing Jesus so that we can

actually live and have this life I she

wants my mind shaped by the Bible I want

her to walk in the wisdom of Heaven I I

I need I need her to be able to handle

anger and pressure biblically

you ever been around someone who didn't

know how to handle it she doesn't need

me putting holes in the walls she needs

me breathing deep Breathe Stretch Shake

let it go see she she need she needs

sorry I I'm sorry she needs me she needs

me handling that under the covering of

God Holy Spirit lead me she she she has

no problem following as long as I'm

leading with him as the head of my life

and the world word is directing this is

how it works together honoring Jesus the

attitude is good full of Hope joy we go

through tough times but we have a hope

that God is good going to bring us out

you need that in your business

relationships if you're in partnership

with somebody you need a business

partner who believes in Jesus like you

believe in Jesus that we can walk this

through together you need that in your

friendships you need it in your dating

life it's across every intimate

relationship who are we you better know

Jesus individually so that there's hell

and there's power going forward this is

fundamental this is fundament if you

don't believe me ask somebody who has

been married to a

non-believer they love them tremendously

and I I love that but it's it's tough

when we have two sets of

convictions Pastor Rick come come help

me if you

would don't be

unequally yolked this is my brother if

we're going into business together I

need a dude that we're aligned we see

the same thing we're praying over some

stuff we still have some different

decisions and different different

opinions about it but we fight for that

unity and we work it out doesn't mean

everything is easy but we're fighting

together we have the same conviction the

same Bible the same Holy Spirit leading

Our Lives if I get out of order I can

repent to him he receives it because he

knows what repentance is like we share

that back and forth but if we're

unequally

yolked that means I'm pulling this way

he's pulling that way ladies and

gentlemen what kind of marriage is this

all

right what what what kind of yeah why

are you dating at this level all

right run forest

run don't you get married in this no but

he looks good he don't look that good he

don't look that good

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worship the Bible says how good and how

pleasant it is for brothers to dwell

together in unity there's a commanded

blessing on

Unity but when we're yoked

unequally thank you that ain't

glorifying God and it's causing pressure

and heartache and pain on me and I'm

praying prayers I never should have had

to pray that's right and I'm stressed

out over stuff I never should have been

stressed

over because I didn't know who I was and

I walked into a place letting somebody

else run my world I I can't go

there ladies let me just kind of help

you with this you got that guy and he

looks good and I'm going to talk to the

ladies about this because the Bible says

that when a when when when a when a lady

and a and a man are getting together

that she is coming under the covering of

the man's life that that that's Bible

not my opinion that's Bible so don't get

mad at me but but you got some questions

you need to ask him start with this one

um do you have a

job that's probably a good place to

start if you ain't got a job are you in

school like you going

somewhere do here's another one do you

live with your

mama follow-up question your

Grandmama are you still married

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I've lived in P County a minute I know

what I'm talking

about are you over your last

situation are you a Cowboys fan I mean

there there I'm sorry I shouldn't have

gone there there's there are some things

that are just

like watch watch watch watch here's the

first two questions here's the first two

questions you got got to ask number

one tell me about your relationship with

Jesus right all right tell me what

that's

like do do you talk do do you know him

when did you invite him into your life

I'm not looking for a rock star you

don't have to have the book of Hebrews

memorized the Book of John is fine

Hebrews is kind of difficult but but

like

like do you have a relationship with

Jesus and then oh yeah because I'm

telling you guys will tell you anything

we we we'll tell you anything

yeah yeah that's awesome that that is

awesome uh what church do you go

to second question oh I I I I go to Free

Life Chapel cuz he drives by it on the

way to work he knows what it looks like

oh really tell me this what's the

pastor's

name that one right there that one

stumps a lot of people they know a

church name they just don't you want to

find somebody who is

legit again no rock stars there's no

such thing as a rockstar believer we're

all working it out we're all taking our

steps there's no superstars in this but

man just please be in the race just just

be headed somewhere with him because

that answer how he comes out determines

if there's going to be a second date or

not because why would I get stuck in a

tug and pull situation when I know

here's what's going to happen the only

way for the stress to leave a situation

where we're unequally yolked is for me

to give up and follow follow

you ladies and gentlemen you don't give

up your purpose for anybody you don't

walk away from who God made you to be or

his plan for your life for

anybody we hold on to that and by the

way let me just put this out there this

is important for marriages too it's

important for marriages too we need to

ask the question again what are we

doing what are we doing been married for

15 years we need to visit this question

who are we what's this life about what's

this marriage all about the kids are

about to leave we're going to hit year

20 of being married year 202 of being

married kids are going to be gone you

and me looking face to face who are we

what's happening in us where are we

going are we on the same page are we

United you got to know that there's

something you you got to have this

conversation again and again and again

don't let your home get stuck you got to

keep talking about Jesus Don't Let Jesus

be a weird Topic in your house no when

it come time to pray don't have three

kids fall over fainting because oh my

God somebody's praying in the house that

ought not be the situation like like

we're we're we're moving we're we we we

attend church we know what it is to pray

we don't have it all together we have

issues but man we're God conscious we're

God aware and we're doing the best we're

moving towards him is our marriage

Christ honoring is it is it encouraging

our faith is are are we living in that

if it's not then repent and reset change

it say from this day on there's some

things that we got to reset number one I

want to go really quick how do you know

the question of what are we you got to

are we both committed to Christ number

two are we in pursuit of Christ

together one thing to know Jesus another

thing to be after

Jesus are we pursuing him this is an

important question you got to keep move

keep your faith growing I'm glad that

when you got married seven years ago

that you were both Believers but we

should be stronger Believers in year

number seven than we were when we first

started I should have found a place to

serve in the church and our our

conversation about Christ should be

growing and I've got I've got I've got

this this group I'm I'm I'm advancing my

understanding with stronger men and

stronger women make stronger families we

should be getting better and stronger

and advancing and my son should start

his marriage to the place that I peaked

out he gets on my shoulders and keeps on

going so we keep dialing up every

generation it gets better and gets

better unequally yolked how how can how

can two

people be a part but still be pursuing

the same thing unless Jesus is the goal

Pastor Rick would you help me again I'm

going to work you out

today if you'll stand over there by the

get to

our now watch

this the word of God this is the goal

for my

life and this is the goal for his life

there it is wh there it is wh there it

is I want to do business with this

guy but as opposed to just pursuing him

I've got to keep pursuing this

word as opposed to pursuing me he's got

to keep pursuing the word

and as long as Jesus and his purpose and

his word and his way and his character

and his wisdom and his will is what is

I'm after and what he's after it only

advances both of us and it brings us

together I need you to understand

something thank you very much I need you

understand

something when you go into a dating

relationship you might not be aware of

this there's three of you all dating not

two

when you said I do it was really we

do because you all got married in front

of somebody and I don't know how big the

crowd was if it was two people or if it

was 2,000 people but they were witnesses

as you all made vows to

God and the three of you entered a

covenant because the three of us are

together I don't have the right or the

authority to divorce my

wife I made lifetime vows to that woman

before him right he heard it and the way

that this works is when his voice and

his wisdom continues to guide lead and

direct this house this wisdom doesn't

come out of Scott this wisdom doesn't

come out of Cindy this wisdom flows from

him and as long as we keep our heads

faed towards him he brings us closer

together Jesus is not the problem in

your

relationships no no no no I know I know

you got 99 problems but Jesus ain't

one no so we keep moving towards him

Ephesians chapter 2 says that we're Made

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Alive together with Christ in other

words there should be something where

I'm encouraging Cindy's walk she's

encouraging my walk I'm a better

Christian because of my wife she should

be a better believer because I'm in her

life all of this matters as we move

forward here's the third and final

Point how do I ask the question the

clarifying question what are we number

one the individuals in the relationship

have to have a personal relationship

with Jesus number two we mutually have

to be growing together in that

relationship that right there those are

clarifying if you're not it's time to

reset repent hit some new strides this

third one how do you know what are we

who are the people you're doing life

with all right all

right you need Christian friends the

right friends in your life ladies and

gentlemen voices determine choices right

the voices in your life are planting

thoughts and ideas that you would never

have come up with you ever been doing

really good until you got around that

one person and they said it was a

horrible idea they said something

terrible and you asked what

time some of yall will get that

later that's terrible what time we doing

that yeah let's go we there's there's

some things that I wasn't even thinking

about that all of a sudden

dang I need Cindy right now Cindy right

now she preached this weekend in a

women's event and some of of her

girlfriends from college they all still

stay they're close friends they're

they're married they all serve in Jesus

families their kids we're aunts and

uncles to all those kids

Cindy's with those girls right now and

she's having the time of her life and do

you know why I'm good with that and why

I encourage her to go see your girls cuz

then ain't none of them tried to talk

her into divorcing

me they ain't know they none of those

girls going oh girl I am done with this

situation oh my God marriage ah I don't

need my wife hearing that stuff I need

somebody going that's my man herc ules

Hercules I I need I need to like she's

hanging with some girls who are all

about their boo so she's loving this so

when she comes home she goes where's my

boo I'm like I'm right here girl I'm

right here like like that's I want that

in her

life when when when I'm when I spending

time with my boys I don't need to be out

with guys who are jacked up and angry at

marriage and oh my God these kids I

can't believe this and dang look at her

she looks good I don't need you

attracting my attention to places it

doesn't need to be I need the right

people in my life the right guys in my

life the people that surround you the

people that you choose to influence your

home your dating relationship your

business relationships those voices are

going to have massive

impact on what your future looks like

who are

we do I know my

purpose based on that I qu qualify and

disqualify oh I like you you look good

and you love Jesus

H I'm going to serve him you serve him

we'll walk this out together oh now

we're going to serve him together and

grow together I'm liking this let's get

the right voices in our life and

Surround ourselves with the right people

so we're hearing these things that are

encouraging and planting ideas of

strength and repentance and love and

humility and protection and honor are

building inside this home so that I'm

insulated in what is pleasing to God

with my

life the quality of your relationships

determines the quality of your

life relationships go sideways your life

sucketh that's King James in case you're

wondering there's nothing like being

gutted by that you got to know you got

the right voices in your life listen

what the Bible says Galatians chapter

6:2 read this out loud we're almost done

here we go 1 2 3 help carry one

another's burdens and in this way you

will obey the

law I'm here to serve you you're here to

serve me stop trying to do life

alone we're built for Community you were

never meant to do Life by yourself do

marriage alone that's why we put Aroma

out there in the lobby that's not for

you to buy a drink that's for you to get

stuck in line so we can say Hi how are

you what's your

name it's a place of community we want

to get to know you we want to do some

life together there's something in you

that's going to encourage us I hope

there's something in us that will

encourage you we need each other right

it's about Community folks God blesses

in community God leads in community God

elevates in community we need each other

relationships matter that's why we have

to keep looking at who are we and make

sure we're doing it in the right way

Relationships by themselves bring enough

tension but when we're making decisions

that are honoring God based on his

wisdom you can do it right and you can

always come out on top would you stand

to your feet in this room please come

on listen I I've made some I've made

some bad decisions in my marriage

I I've I've gone sideways I've my

attitude oh man I I I've gone through

that and I've had to come back and

repent and I'm

sorry anybody else beside me anybody

just hate repenting hate apologizing

anybody besides me look at a bunch of

liars in church won't even raise your

hand it ain't like you love

it I don't like it I don't like

it but I've been there it's called

relationship and when we enter into this

like listen listen in a couple of weeks

not next week cuz we're going to be da

da da D we're going to be in that but

but in two weeks Cindy's going to be up

here with me and she's going to correct

everything I got wrong and and and and

then we're we're going to start talking

real about some relationships and bring

start laying some things out so we can

who are we we're going to talk about

that but but foundationally we have to

know our purpose and then we got to be

able to qualify where are we in this and

once we get this running then we can

expect every promise from God to flow

into our life let's do it right father

thank you thanks for your word thanks

for your hope hope thanks for your joy

that continues to lead our life we can

so Jack things up but by your grace and

your mercy your wisdom your conviction

Holy Spirit you show us how to get it

back on course again I pray for every

relationship in this room the business

relationships the dating relationships I

I I I pray I pray for the the parent

child relationships I I pray God for the

marriage relationships that God you

would help all of us in this room take

steps forward in you if we need to

things and reset things and move forward

then God let's do that let us start

conversations we've not had in years we

want this home fresh we want it full of

laughter we want it full of vision and

dreams and plans and and and and scaling

going to new levels I I want this

Business Partnership to do what it's

never done before God help us to have

those conversations that it's built on

the focus of you on your principles on

what makes you smile we serve and live

it your pleasure and as long as we do

that everything else comes with it God

help us to live this life that we can

enjoy every blessing from the people you

placed in our life help us to say yes

help us to say no at the right times so

that our lives are guided and led by you

we worship you and we thank you for this

in Jesus name amen we hope you enjoyed

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