Sermon
The Purpose of Pain // Second Chances | Ps Randy Bezet
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Uh thank you guys so much. You can be
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seated at at all of our uh locations.
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And so, I'm so honored to be with you
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guys. And uh I don't know if we've had
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the privilege of of meeting before. Uh I
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I was here, I guess, about a year ago.
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And so, if we didn't get a chance to
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meet, I just want you know I am really
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honored to be a part of what God is
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doing here. And I just I love your
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pastors, Jamie and Ludmila. They are
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incredible. Would you Would you show
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some honor to your pastors all of our
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locations? Come on, give it up
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for your lead pastors here, Jamie and
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Lud. Uh they really are incredible
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pastors and leaders. And maybe you do
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not understand how God is not just
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blessing Lighthouse Church, but but the
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fact that your church has the four
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locations and the impact that you're
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making all over this this island uh that
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that we call Ireland. Uh yes, you guys
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are making an impact here. And perhaps
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you've been impacted. I hope that you
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have. I hope that you have received
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salvation. I hope that you have been
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encouraged in your spirits. I pray that
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God has done miracles in your life
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through what God is doing here at
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Lighthouse Church. In fact, if you have
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been blessed by this church, would you
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give the Lord some praise right now? All
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of our locations, come on, give him a
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praise that is worthy of what he's done
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in your life. Yes.
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But what's incredible about this church
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is that it is much bigger
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than what you see and experience at your
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own location.
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Whether you're here in in uh West Dublin
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or North Dublin or or Navan or in
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Dundalk, uh what God is doing there is
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incredible, but but it's even bigger
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than that.
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And it's even bigger than Ireland. I
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don't know if you know this, but there
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was just a conference, a church
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leadership and church planters
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conference that just happened. And uh we
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had some 500 pastors from all over
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Europe that were coming to learn and to
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be trained. In other words, you guys are
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the models for what's happening and what
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God is going to do all over Europe. And
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so, pastors are coming and learning and
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they're being resourced and they're
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being trained and sitting back to their
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countries of Germany and Romania and
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Latvia and and and Barcelona, right? And
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all the places and that you are a part
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of that. And I just first of all wanted
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you to see
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that you are a part of something that is
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massive.
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And I don't mean that it's because of
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you.
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It is because God has just chosen this
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church. And and maybe, you know, with
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with Jamie as the leader, I would
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probably believe this a lot. This wasn't
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probably God's first choice.
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Speaking of God of second chances, I
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think you could scratch out second and
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you'd have to put just chances.
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Because I don't know that God was
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picking Jamie as the first opportunity,
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but but maybe because of blood, he was
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higher on the list than he should have
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been.
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But what I can tell you is that God has
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chosen this church.
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And by you being a part of it, God is
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going to work in your life. And when I
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say meet your needs, God is not a Santa
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Claus.
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He's he's not a vending machine. You you
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you you put some money in and then it
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comes out what you want. God is
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interested in you being whole and
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fashioned and formed into what he's
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called you to be. And being a part of
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this church means that you get to
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discover that. I mean, you could
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discover those things on your own, but
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the reality of it is that's not how the
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kingdom of God works. He wants you to be
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a part of a church. And I don't mean
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church because of a a location,
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you know, you you tick a box and I and I
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come on a Sunday and oh, I get credit
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for that and so I'm going to earn my way
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to heaven. That's not what the kingdom
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of God is about. It's that God wants to
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have relationship with you and he wants
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to to know you and he has a vision and a
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purpose and a and a plan for your life
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and God wants to do that here, but
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you're a part of something even bigger
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than that.
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And that God is using you to resource
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churches all over Europe. And I submit
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to you that one day we're going to look
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back in the beginning moments of what
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God is doing in Europe. We're going to
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say, "I remember back in 2026
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when we were talking about that as a
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church. And now when I see the landscape
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landscape spiritually of Europe and I
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see the revival that is happening and
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the renewal that is happening in the
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countries that are being uh being
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transformed by the power of God, we're
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going to remember this was the beginning
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of it right here." And I want you to
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know that you're a part of it. So when
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you serve
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and when you give and when you're part
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of this, you're not just giving to this
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local house, although you are making a
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difference here. It's making a
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difference all over Europe. And I know
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that you've been given some praise
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already, but God, he is worthy that he
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is using you. Would you give him some
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praise again as well for what he's
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doing?
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And uh God really is the God of second
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chances, but I think God uses people as
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well
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to you to give second chances. In fact,
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I played golf with Jamie yesterday. And
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we get to the first hole.
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And Jamie's teeing off ahead of me and
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he hits his tee shot and he hits it so
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far left, we didn't even bother to look
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for it.
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You know what I'm saying? It was a
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terrible shot.
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And I just felt like, you know, that I I
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needed to be gracious like the Lord and
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I said, "Jamie, you can have a mulligan.
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That's a that's a second chance."
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And uh then he hit that one right down
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the middle. And so, you're welcome,
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Jamie. It would Without me, you would
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have lost all the money right there on
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the first hole, right?
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You know what I love about God is he
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takes our mistakes,
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he takes our problems and our pain and
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our difficulties and he uses them to
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give us second chances.
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He is a gracious God. Amen.
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He is an encouraging God. His His grace
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and His encouragement it it never ends.
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So, as I'm in this series called the God
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of second chances, today I want to teach
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you how God uses our mistakes
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and the pain
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caused by those to teach us something.
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In fact, what I want to teach you today,
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if you would put that next slide up, is
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the purpose of pain.
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Would you write that down in your notes?
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The reason why God gives us second
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chances is so
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His grace can be displayed in our lives.
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But, there is purpose to the pain. I
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don't mind making mistakes. I just don't
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want to make the mistake again.
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Come on, somebody. You understand what
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I'm saying? I don't want to do the same
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thing again. I want to learn from it. In
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other words, there's purpose in my
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mistakes. There's purpose in my pain.
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And that's what I want to teach you
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about today.
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So, my kids, my boys, I I took them on a
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on a skiing trip, like snow skiing trip,
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in America just a few years ago.
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And so, we're there for a few days.
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We're skiing. And my my boys are are
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pretty like daredevilish. Like they
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there was this there was this jump and
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they kept hitting this jump on the
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slopes and seeing how how big of air
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they could catch, right? And I'm taking
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it easy. I'm an old man, right? You
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know, so I'm I'm trying not to to let
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them stir me up to try try to beat them
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in competition, right? See who could
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jump the highest and the furthest. But,
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it's the last day.
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And it's the last run down the mountain.
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And I thought, I must show these boys
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that this old man has still got it.
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So, I went fast. I mean, I tucked and I
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went. And I'm going fast and I get to
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this
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lift to this this jump.
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And I hit it and I'm going to tell you,
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it was amazing. You guys are going to
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look at this. Look at Look at Woo!
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LOOK AT THAT OLD MAN. I'M CATCHING SOME
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AIR.
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I'm looking good.
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But,
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that's not how it ended.
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This is how it ended.
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Oh, doesn't it hurt looking at it? Like
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it makes me like triggered a little bit.
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This right here is what you would call a
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separated AC joint.
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A third degree, mind you. Fourth would
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be completely and this one this is a uh
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a problem. This is a pain that causes
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surgery or it requires surgery.
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And so, this this happens and I'm in a
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ton of pain. Please take that down. If I
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see it anymore, I may not be able to
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finish the message, right?
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I I come back to uh to to Florida where
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I live. I I go see a doctor and he's
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like, uh yes, this this is going to
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require surgery.
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And uh
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is that that it's messed up. It's it's
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bad.
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So, this happens in in January and we as
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a church are moving into our season of
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prayer and fasting like you guys do in
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January.
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We're going to we're going to pray and
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fast. We're going to fast. We're going
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to We're going to say no to something
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and we're so we can say yes to God even
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in a greater way and we do that here at
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Lighthouse Church. Uh we do that at our
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church as well as giving God the first
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the first of the year.
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That's a principle the Bible calls
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tithe, which is giving God the first so
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that he can bless the rest. But, if he
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doesn't have first, that means he's not
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in control of the rest. So, if you don't
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give him the first, then you don't know
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what's going to happen with the rest.
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But, if you give him the first, you have
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faith and trust in God that he will take
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care of everything else. That's true in
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your finances. That's why you should
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give God your first.
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Uh
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but, that also is true in life. It's in
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everything. It's the the the Bible when
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it teaches us principles that it isn't
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just specifically that, but it's it's
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broader than that.
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And that's why I think we should give
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God the first part of the year. That's
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why we go through a season of prayer and
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fasting. That's why you guys do this in
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January and I believe you should
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participate trusting God I'm giving you
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the first of the year and the rest of
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the year is going to go better. Anyway,
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this skiing accident happens right as we
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are about to begin our prayer and
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fasting and we're going to kick it off
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with a night of worship and miracles and
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healings believing God to do great
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things. Well, I posted on social media
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about my skiing accident and the church
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saw this, they started praying for me
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that God would heal me.
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And the closer that we got to this, the
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skiing accident happened on a Friday,
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the kickoff was on a Monday. So, it's
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just a few days, but but the closer I
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get to that meeting on Monday night, all
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of a sudden the better my shoulder
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feels. Like, wow.
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It's feeling really good. And then by
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the time we show up to that miracle and
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healing service on Monday night, I'm
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lifting my hands, I'm praising God, I am
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completely and utterly healed by the
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power of God.
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Now, I still have a massive bump in my
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shoulder. I never had the surgery. I
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went back to the doctor, he says,
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"You're Yeah, you're you're okay. And we
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can do cosmetic surgery and and put a
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screw in there and bolt that down to
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your other so you don't have the bump
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there." I was like, "No, I want to leave
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that there as a reminder
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of how great God is. And Amy says, "It's
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more of a reminder of how dumb I am
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for trying to keep up with the young
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boys, right?"
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And listen, let me just say this as
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well. I don't know what kind of pain
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you're in here today at whatever
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location you're at.
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But what I can tell you is that God
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wants to heal you as well.
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He's still a God that does miracles. And
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my prayer today is that whatever pain
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you're in,
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just as the closer I got to that moment,
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the more the power of God began to work
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in my life until I was utterly healed. I
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believe that today, even as you're
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listening to this message, that the
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power of God will begin to go out and
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begin to touch your life. Because I know
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that in your life right now today, there
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is some relational pain in this church
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right now.
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Someone has done something to you
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and you are hurt by that. I know that
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some of you are dealing with financial
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pain.
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And you're like, "I don't know how this
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is going to work out. Like I'm I'm
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overextended in my life. I I have some
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things that I can't take care of
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financially, and there's pain." I'm here
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to tell you God's going to do a miracle
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today in your life. Even as you're
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sitting in a part of this service, some
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of you are dealing with some emotional
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pain. Maybe you've lost a friend or a
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loved one or some situation in your
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life, and there's like a a a a grief in
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your life and your heart, and there's a
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cloud of of of of of grief that is
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hanging over you, and I'm here to tell
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you God's going to bring healing in
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Jesus' name.
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Maybe for some of you, you have a
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physical pain.
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Maybe like my shoulder, you have
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something that's ailing you as well, and
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I'm here to tell you God's
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He's going to heal that pain today.
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Somebody say amen.
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But can I just tell you here's here's
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the real lesson I want you to learn
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today. I want you to write this down. I
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want you guys put that next slide up.
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The greatest lessons in life,
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they're almost always taught in the
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classroom of suffering.
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That's a good place to say amen.
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I don't know why you guys are so quiet.
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Maybe because you didn't want to hear
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that. So,
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the greatest lessons in life are always
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taught in the classroom of suffering.
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We're going to study a passage of
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scripture in 2 Corinthians. It's a It's
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a portion of the Apostle Paul letter he
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wrote to a church at Corinth, which is
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you know, modern-day Greece. And he's
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writing a letter to this church talking
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about this idea of pain. Here we go.
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Verses 7 through 10.
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He says, "To keep me from becoming
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conceited because of these surpassingly
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great revelations,
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there was given me a thorn in my flesh,
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a messenger of Satan to to torment me.
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Three times I pleaded with the Lord to
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take it away from me, but he said to me,
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'My grace
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is sufficient for you.
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My power is made perfect in weakness.
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Therefore, I will boast all the more
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gladly about my weaknesses, so that
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Christ's power may rest on me. That is
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why for Christ's sake I delight in
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weakness and insults and hardships and
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persecutions and difficulties for when I
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am weak then I am strong. So let me
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answer a couple of questions about pain.
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Here's the first one, write this down.
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Where does pain come from?
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And we we have to answer this this
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question. Uh and and it's important that
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you get it. I'll tell you why in a
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moment. Let's look back in verse 7. Paul
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says, "There was given me a thorn in my
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flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment
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me." Notice a messenger of Satan. It
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means someone who informs or someone who
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announces.
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And uh
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it it it's kind of think about how how
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this affects our lives. People that want
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to make announcements or communicate
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something to us. Maybe you you've had a
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project at work that you were
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responsible for and and you bring it to
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your team at work and or at at school or
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a project you have to do at school and
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and you bring it before the class. You
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bring it before the the team at work and
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and everybody likes it but one person
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doesn't.
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Right? It doesn't it just bother you?
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Like they're like that that messenger of
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pain into your life. Like why do we let
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the one person rule over all the good
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things, right?
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Uh what what what about this? Maybe you
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post something on social media and and
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you're hoping it'll be an encouragement
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or a great lesson that you've learned
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and so many people enjoy that and they
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make comments on your social media but
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one person says something and complains
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or says something negative. Why do we
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let that one get us? That's the
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messenger of Satan. Can I tell you
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pastors
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have people in their church sometimes
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that are messengers of Satan.
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Now you probably don't have them in
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Ireland but we have them in Florida.
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Pastor, I just love this church but
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Oh, it happens. I think I'm going to
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send them over here to Ireland.
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Apparently, Pastor James, you don't have
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any of those here any of our locations
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not just here in West Dublin but in
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North Dublin and in Navan and also
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Dundalk because because nobody's
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responding to that. So I don't know how
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you did it, but I'm sending you some of
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my messengers of Satan from Florida.
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That uh word there, messenger of Satan,
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it's kind of like an angel.
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And even throughout the Bible,
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especially even in the Old Testament,
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that word angel is the is the Hebrew
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word malak, which means a messenger. In
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other words, Satan was originally an
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angel, a messenger of God.
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But pride entered his life and he was
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kicked out of heaven.
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And so now he's a messenger of pain.
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This is so important. I'm answering the
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question, where does pain come from?
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You need to know this theologically. God
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does not cause pain.
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And if you think that you're being
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punished by God,
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then you have wrong theology. You will
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spend your entire life relating to God
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in the wrong way.
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Thinking you have to understand or have
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to earn his love.
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You need to understand this that pain
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does not come from God. It comes from
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Satan. Jesus said it this way in John
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10:10, "The thief comes to steal, kill,
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and destroy, but I have come that you
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may have life
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and that you may have it to the full."
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Satan is a messenger of pain. But back
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in our verse in Corinthians, it said
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there was given to me a thorn in my
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flesh. A thorn is something small. I
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want you to know something that often
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times it's not just the big moments that
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are a problem in your life. It's little
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thorns in our life. The the little
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things in our lives
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that the devil is also a part of that as
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well. Just kind of a nagging problem.
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Satan just won't leave you alone
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sometimes. It doesn't have to be a big
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thing. You know how you've been walking
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maybe before and you get a little pebble
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in your shoe
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and you just kind of oh, it'll be okay
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and you just keep walking, but you have
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to change the gait of your walk and all
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of a sudden because of that stone and
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and if you didn't stop and take it out
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of there and you kept walking that way,
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eventually it would cause other problems
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in your life. This little thing would
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become a big thing.
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And that's how the devil works.
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He doesn't want to just utterly destroy
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your life. He wants to cause little
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problems in your life just to get you
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focused off of what God really wants you
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to accomplish.
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So, if pain comes from
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Satan,
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let me answer this question. Where is
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the target?
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Like he's going to come at you
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somewhere. Wouldn't it be good to know,
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right?
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Well, let me show you where the target
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is. Verse 9 of 2 Corinthians, "The Lord
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said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for
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you. My power is made perfect in
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weakness.'" Everybody say weakness.
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Come on, all of our locations, let's all
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say it again. Say weakness.
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That's a target.
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In other words, we all have weaknesses.
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We all have blind spots.
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Things that we can't see. Places where
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you and I are very prone to make stupid
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decisions.
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How many of you have areas where you
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find yourself repeatedly making stupid
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decisions? Raise your hand. Come on, at
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any of our locations where Okay. I don't
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know about other places, but here at
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West Dublin, not many people raised
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their hands.
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Which just simply shows how deceived
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they are
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at seeing their weaknesses. See, I can
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prove it this way. How many of you are
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sitting next to someone and you go,
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"Man, they are loaded with weaknesses."
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Come on, raise your hand if if you see
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people. Okay, a lot more hands going up.
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Look, problem with most of our
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weaknesses is a lot of times they can be
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generational.
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In other words, you can say things like,
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"My mom
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was such an angry and a bitter person,
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and I hated that about her.
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And I find myself
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the very same way.
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My father never said anything
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encouraging to me, and I hated that
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growing up. And now I find myself not
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being able to say positive things as
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well. That I'm always putting people
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down."
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Look, the only way to overcome those
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areas, those weaknesses in your life,
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is you have to have the right people
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around you.
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Look at this verse in Hebrew.
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The book of Hebrews 12:1, it says,
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"Therefore, since we are surrounded by
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such a huge crowd of witnesses,
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the location you're at there there's a
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crowd around. There there are people
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around you.
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And these people they say it because
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we're surrounded by this great crowd of
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witnesses, let us strip off the weight
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that slows us down, especially the sin
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that so easily trips us up. You know,
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the area where you're so prone to make a
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bad decision, so that we can run with
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endurance the race that God has marked
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out before us.
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I want you to write the word down,
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surrounded.
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That English word is the Greek word,
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you're going to love this, this is the
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word echo.
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E C H O. What does that mean? That means
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you and I need to have the right people
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around us that are echoing the things
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that we need to hear, not just the
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things that we want to hear.
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A real friend in your life will look at
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you and tell you what you need to hear,
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not what you want to hear.
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And you may say, "Well, I have, you
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know, friends in my life." Well,
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do they tell you the things that are
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hard to say?
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Are they willing to have awkward
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conversations with you? Are they willing
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to say, "Listen, I don't think you going
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out with that guy is the right thing."
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I don't think you hanging out with these
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these people it's the right thing.
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Aren't you likely to end up making the
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same bad decision again? And if you
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don't have people like that in your
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life, you're just going to continue
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taking lap around the track doing the
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same thing over again. God's the God of
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second chances. Oh, well, now he's the
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God of the third chances. And now he's
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the God of the fourth chances. And yes,
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he is, but wouldn't it be better if we
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didn't have to take a lap around that
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again?
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Could it be
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that the single greatest obstacle to you
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overcoming the pain in your life is you
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don't have the right crowd of witnesses
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around you.
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And I'm just going to tell you that that
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church is the best place for you to take
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the mask off
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and for you to receive from other people
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because look, this church is loaded with
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some messed up people.
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Cuz it starts with your pastors.
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Well, not blood. I mean, she's like my
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wife. I mean, they probably could have
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gotten to heaven without Jesus, you know
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what I mean? Like they're just like an
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angel, like an angel from the Lord.
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Okay, not this other angel we were just
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talking about. Okay.
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So, our weaknesses, which leads us to
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this weakness. Write this down, our
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pride.
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Our pride. Go back to our verse, verse
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seven.
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To keep me from becoming conceited,
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Oh, Paul had some pride, too.
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Because of these surpassingly great
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revelations, there was given me this
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thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan.
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See, a lot of times our pride would say
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things like, "I don't need help. I got I
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got this."
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You ever notice when somebody's trying
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to prove something, their voice goes up
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an octave? How you doing? I'm doing
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good. Man, I don't think you're DOING
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GOOD. I GOT THIS, MAN.
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IT'S NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.
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RIGHT? ISN'T THAT ISN'T THAT KIND OF HOW
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IT WORKS?
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WELL, I just want you to know something
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that your pride is getting in the way of
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you walking in freedom from your pain.
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Let me illustrate it with this.
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I have have
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Dublin's finest right here.
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No, it's not Guinness.
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That's That's Dublin's finest, right?
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I uh I I I I I just I just filled this
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glass up with water.
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And uh
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I don't know. So, this would be uh about
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8 oz maybe. It's I don't If I asked you
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how heavy this is,
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uh 250 ml,
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uh which, you know, for those of you
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that are from America that are listening
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uh that don't know how many milliliters
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that is, maybe 8 oz. It's It's It's that
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heavy.
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So, if if if I were to ask you how heavy
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is this, you would tell me well, it's
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maybe 250 ml. That's not that heavy.
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But, that's not the real question.
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The weight of this is not even really
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determined by how much it weighs, but
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it's how long I've been carrying it.
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Because if I were to hold this for an
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hour, it it would probably be no big
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deal.
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If I started holding this for maybe a
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couple of hours, all of a sudden my
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fingers would start to tingle.
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And then all of a sudden this thing
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would start to shake.
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Just a little bit.
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And then all of a sudden if I held this
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for 6, 8, 10, 12 hours or so, all of a
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sudden my whole arm would become numb
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and I would probably end up dropping
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this and I would have made a mistake or
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or made a mess all over the place,
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right?
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And so, when you say things like, "It's
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not that big a deal. I got this."
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Maybe it's not that heavy at the moment.
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But, you're not designed to carry that
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stuff alone.
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That that's why God wants to help you
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carry the pain that you're dealing with.
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And that's why God wants you to be in
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relationships with other people that
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they can help you carry the pain as
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well. Because maybe you say it's not
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that big of a deal, but I'm telling you
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it's going to get too heavy for you to
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carry.
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And you'll never experience the grace
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and the fullness of God when you I GOT I
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GOT IT'S NOT THAT BIG A DEAL.
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I GOT THIS.
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BECAUSE THE Bible says that God opposes
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the proud
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and he gives grace to the humble.
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How does God give grace to the humble?
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You guys theologically need to
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understand something. This is talking
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about how gracious God is. 1 John 1:9.
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If we confess our sins to God, he is
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faithful and just and he will forgive us
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of all of our sins and purify us for
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unrighteousness.
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Aren't you thankful
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for the grace of God?
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So, did you know that you can be
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forgiven and still not be free?
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I'm I'm to say that again. This is very
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important because I know a lot of
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believers, a lot of Christians, a lot of
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Christ followers
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that are forgiven, they're just not
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free. They're just not whole.
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Because of this next verse in James.
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Therefore, confess your sins to each
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other and pray for each other so that
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you can be healed, so that you can be
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whole.
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As soon as you make a mistake, as soon
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as you need a second chance, you just
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turn to God, confess your sin and he
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gives you a second chance. That may call
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you to be free, but it doesn't mean that
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you're whole.
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You're still carrying something in life
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and you need people around you that you
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can say, "I need help." And they will
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come and they will help you carry this
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so that you can be healed, so that you
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can be whole, so you can be free, so you
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can be in all that God has for you. In
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Jesus' name, somebody say amen.
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Okay, so this is this is really
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important as well. All these points have
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been important, otherwise, why am I
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saying it, right?
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I I want you to write this down. Is that
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pain happens
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to everyone.
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The problem in life is that we look at
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other people, right?
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And we go, "Man, if I had what they had,
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if my life was like theirs, if my
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financial situation or my family or my
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friends or my marriage or whatever it
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is."
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You look at it and you go, "Wow, my life
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was like that." But what you don't know
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is what pain they went through to get to
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where they are.
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And if sometimes we don't see that, we
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only think, "Wow, look at them." And
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well, you probably look at your pastors
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and you go, "Well, they're you know,
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they're like professional Christians,
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right? They get they get paid to be
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good, you know what I mean?" And you
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look at them and you go, "Well, they
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don't they don't have problems.
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They don't have pain." Let me tell you
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something,
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your pastors, they they do have pain.
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You probably have no idea how many times
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they've been up here in this exact spot
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preaching the gospel,
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leading with a smile and joy on their
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face.
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But it has no indication that there's no
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pain in their life.
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I know there has been financial pain
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in their life before.
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There has been physical pain in their
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life.
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There's health pain in their life.
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There's kid pain in their life. And if
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they'd quit having so many kids, maybe
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that wouldn't happen. You guys need to
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shut the factory down, man. I mean, this
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is
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This is getting a little unreal.
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But, I don't I don't I don't tell you
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that for empathy for them.
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I tell you that because I need to take
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some lenses that you're looking at life
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through.
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And for you to realize that everyone
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faces pain.
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But, I want you to know something. The
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reason why people like your pastor
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and others that have make it through
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difficult, painful moments in their
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life. The reason why they are the way
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they are is because they realize that
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the harvest doesn't come to those who
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quit.
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The harvest only comes to those who stay
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engaged in relationship with the Lord,
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and they are convinced that God is going
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to use their pain, and in spite of their
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pain, they're still going to be
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victorious in Jesus' name.
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In fact, I don't want to give a
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prophetic word right now to Lighthouse
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Church.
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I want you to know the pain that you
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have been in for a long time now and
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trying to find locations for your
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church, starting here with West Dublin.
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I submit to you that because you haven't
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given up, because you have trusted in
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the Lord, because even in the middle of
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your pain, you have chosen to trust the
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Lord and believe God for great things, I
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submit to you a door is opening in
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Jesus' name. God is going to provide.
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Come on, Lighthouse Church. Give God
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some praise for his faithfulness
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in painful moments.
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Everyone goes through pain.
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I want you to see what the Apostle Paul
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as he shows us the pain that he went
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through.
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He says this that five times I received
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from the Jews the 40 lashes minus one.
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Okay, can we just stop before you guys
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listen to this?
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I want you to understand that that this
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right here is the same beating that
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Jesus received.
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Remember the Bible says that he was
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beaten so bad he was unrecognizable.
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That's what the what the what the
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prophet said in the Old Testament. Paul
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had this five times.
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Okay, he had pain.
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He said three times I was beaten with
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rods.
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Once I was stoned. And you go, well, at
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least he got some relief.
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Sorry, it's just you can't not just
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leave that sitting there. You have to
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Okay, I'm moving on.
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Three times I was shipwrecked. I spent a
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night and day in the open sea. I've been
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constantly on the move. I've been in
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danger from rivers and danger from
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bandits, danger from my own countrymen,
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and danger from Gentiles, danger in the
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city, danger in the country, danger at
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sea, danger from false brothers. I mean,
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this guy's been through some stuff.
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I labored and I toiled and I've often
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gone without sleep. I've known hunger
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and thirst and I've gone without food.
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I've been cold and I've been naked.
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Besides everything else, I face daily
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the pressure of my concern for all the
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churches.
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Here's the sauce. This is the sauce
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right here, guys. Verse 29. Who is weak?
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I do NOT FEEL WEAK.
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WHAT?
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HOW CAN YOU GO THROUGH ALL OF THAT stuff
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and say, I'M NOT WEAK?
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IT'S MADE ME STRONGER.
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I I don't I don't want to have to go
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through all that to prove that I'm
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strong.
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You know, I don't I don't know about
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you, but I I like comfort.
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I I do. I like I like being very
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comfortable.
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But, the reason why there is pain
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is I want to finish with this thought.
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Okay, we made we made a whole loop. I
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told you I was going to teach you this.
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Write this down. Here is Here is the
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purpose of pain.
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Paul says it back in our verse in
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chapter 12.
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Three times I pleaded with the Lord to
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take it away from me.
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But, he said to me, "My grace
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it is sufficient for you.
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My power is made perfect in weakness.
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Therefore, I will boast all the more.
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I'm I'm going to be excited. I'll be
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more glad about my weaknesses so that
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Christ's power may rest on me. That is
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why for Christ's sake I take delight in
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weaknesses, in hardships, and insults,
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and in persecutions, and difficulty, in
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pain." That's what he's talking about.
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"For when I am weak, then I am strong."
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You know why Paul was excited about
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pain? Cuz he understood the purpose of
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pain is that it is in that pain that's
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where I really get to see the fullness
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of who God really is and the power that
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he can exert over my pain whatever the
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circumstances are.
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So, you got to realize that the purpose
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of your pain is to see the magnitude and
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the power and the grace
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from God.
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You don't see that on mountaintops. We
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discover those, remember?
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The greatest lessons in life, they're
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almost always taught in the classroom of
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suffering.
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Seeing the power
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of Christ magnified in our lives
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is often times learned and seen
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in our darkest and most painful moments.
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I've taken my kids to Africa
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on mission trips to see a work that we
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do there in in Zimbabwe.
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And this one moment we got to uh one
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trip that we got to go and go to this
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uh sanctuary this lion sanctuary, if you
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will. Maybe they they get these baby
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lions and they rehabilitate them and
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help them get to health and then
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ultimately they release them back into
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the wild. But, they allow you to come
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and kind of hang out in the wild with
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them. As they're about to release them
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in the wild, they they they take them
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out of their their habitats and they let
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them walk out in the in the jungle,
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really, if you will. And they let people
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come and walk with them. And so, I did
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that with one of my boys and I'm walking
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with this lion and having a moment with
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him and we get to this tree and he jumps
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up in this tree.
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And he's standing in this tree or, you
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know, sitting in this tree just above
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me. And and they tell you when you're
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going out walking with these lions that
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you cannot show fear.
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Well,
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they can sense it.
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I'm very nervous because look at this.
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Look at this lion.
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He's that close to me. I mean, he's in a
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he's in a position where I am extremely
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vulnerable, right? He could He could
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jump. He could
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pounce on me at any moment. And they
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tell you, right, don't show fear and
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whatever you do, don't run.
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Well, that's the first instinct is to
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run, man. This this is lion here could
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kill me, right? At any moment. So, I'm
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just standing here trying to be
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confident.
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And nothing happened, as you can tell.
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I'm still here.
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But, I want you to know the reason why
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really I felt confident to not run and
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fear didn't overtake me.
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It's because of something that you
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almost cannot see.
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If you were to look in this photo
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and look down here, there's a shadow of
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a man
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and he's actually holding a rifle.
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A gun that would shoot that lion with a
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tranquilizer and immediately would would
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go to sleep.
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The reason why this lion would not do
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anything to harm me is because
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it knows that there's someone
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outside of my peripheral vision here
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and notice the eyes of the lion, they're
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not even on me. It's on them.
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Because even though the lion is greater
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than me, there's something greater than
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the lion.
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And too many times in life, we're so
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focused on our pain
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that we can't zoom out enough
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to see the one who can overcome even the
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pain in the devil in our lives. As the
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Bible says that the devil is like is
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like a roaring lion
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looking for someone that he can devour.
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But what you need to understand is that
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there's something even greater than the
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devil who's like a roaring lion. I'm
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telling you it's the Lord that is
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standing in your situation as well.
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And you will never see the Lord in your
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pain unless you can zoom out a little
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bit and realize he's right there with
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you and he's greater than in Jesus'
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name.
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And I submit to you the pain you're
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walking into or you're walking in today
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will be the strength that you walk in
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tomorrow.
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If you surrender it and begin to trust
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the Lord with your pain.