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The Purpose of Pain // Second Chances | Ps Randy Bezet

Lighthouse Church Ireland

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  1. Uh thank you guys so much. You can be

  2. seated at at all of our uh locations.

  3. And so, I'm so honored to be with you

  4. guys. And uh I don't know if we've had

  5. the privilege of of meeting before. Uh I

  6. I was here, I guess, about a year ago.

  7. And so, if we didn't get a chance to

  8. meet, I just want you know I am really

  9. honored to be a part of what God is

  10. doing here. And I just I love your

  11. pastors, Jamie and Ludmila. They are

  12. incredible. Would you Would you show

  13. some honor to your pastors all of our

  14. locations? Come on, give it up

  15. for your lead pastors here, Jamie and

  16. Lud. Uh they really are incredible

  17. pastors and leaders. And maybe you do

  18. not understand how God is not just

  19. blessing Lighthouse Church, but but the

  20. fact that your church has the four

  21. locations and the impact that you're

  22. making all over this this island uh that

  23. that we call Ireland. Uh yes, you guys

  24. are making an impact here. And perhaps

  25. you've been impacted. I hope that you

  26. have. I hope that you have received

  27. salvation. I hope that you have been

  28. encouraged in your spirits. I pray that

  29. God has done miracles in your life

  30. through what God is doing here at

  31. Lighthouse Church. In fact, if you have

  32. been blessed by this church, would you

  33. give the Lord some praise right now? All

  34. of our locations, come on, give him a

  35. praise that is worthy of what he's done

  36. in your life. Yes.

  37. But what's incredible about this church

  38. is that it is much bigger

  39. than what you see and experience at your

  40. own location.

  41. Whether you're here in in uh West Dublin

  42. or North Dublin or or Navan or in

  43. Dundalk, uh what God is doing there is

  44. incredible, but but it's even bigger

  45. than that.

  46. And it's even bigger than Ireland. I

  47. don't know if you know this, but there

  48. was just a conference, a church

  49. leadership and church planters

  50. conference that just happened. And uh we

  51. had some 500 pastors from all over

  52. Europe that were coming to learn and to

  53. be trained. In other words, you guys are

  54. the models for what's happening and what

  55. God is going to do all over Europe. And

  56. so, pastors are coming and learning and

  57. they're being resourced and they're

  58. being trained and sitting back to their

  59. countries of Germany and Romania and

  60. Latvia and and and Barcelona, right? And

  61. all the places and that you are a part

  62. of that. And I just first of all wanted

  63. you to see

  64. that you are a part of something that is

  65. massive.

  66. And I don't mean that it's because of

  67. you.

  68. It is because God has just chosen this

  69. church. And and maybe, you know, with

  70. with Jamie as the leader, I would

  71. probably believe this a lot. This wasn't

  72. probably God's first choice.

  73. Speaking of God of second chances, I

  74. think you could scratch out second and

  75. you'd have to put just chances.

  76. Because I don't know that God was

  77. picking Jamie as the first opportunity,

  78. but but maybe because of blood, he was

  79. higher on the list than he should have

  80. been.

  81. But what I can tell you is that God has

  82. chosen this church.

  83. And by you being a part of it, God is

  84. going to work in your life. And when I

  85. say meet your needs, God is not a Santa

  86. Claus.

  87. He's he's not a vending machine. You you

  88. you you put some money in and then it

  89. comes out what you want. God is

  90. interested in you being whole and

  91. fashioned and formed into what he's

  92. called you to be. And being a part of

  93. this church means that you get to

  94. discover that. I mean, you could

  95. discover those things on your own, but

  96. the reality of it is that's not how the

  97. kingdom of God works. He wants you to be

  98. a part of a church. And I don't mean

  99. church because of a a location,

  100. you know, you you tick a box and I and I

  101. come on a Sunday and oh, I get credit

  102. for that and so I'm going to earn my way

  103. to heaven. That's not what the kingdom

  104. of God is about. It's that God wants to

  105. have relationship with you and he wants

  106. to to know you and he has a vision and a

  107. purpose and a and a plan for your life

  108. and God wants to do that here, but

  109. you're a part of something even bigger

  110. than that.

  111. And that God is using you to resource

  112. churches all over Europe. And I submit

  113. to you that one day we're going to look

  114. back in the beginning moments of what

  115. God is doing in Europe. We're going to

  116. say, "I remember back in 2026

  117. when we were talking about that as a

  118. church. And now when I see the landscape

  119. landscape spiritually of Europe and I

  120. see the revival that is happening and

  121. the renewal that is happening in the

  122. countries that are being uh being

  123. transformed by the power of God, we're

  124. going to remember this was the beginning

  125. of it right here." And I want you to

  126. know that you're a part of it. So when

  127. you serve

  128. and when you give and when you're part

  129. of this, you're not just giving to this

  130. local house, although you are making a

  131. difference here. It's making a

  132. difference all over Europe. And I know

  133. that you've been given some praise

  134. already, but God, he is worthy that he

  135. is using you. Would you give him some

  136. praise again as well for what he's

  137. doing?

  138. And uh God really is the God of second

  139. chances, but I think God uses people as

  140. well

  141. to you to give second chances. In fact,

  142. I played golf with Jamie yesterday. And

  143. we get to the first hole.

  144. And Jamie's teeing off ahead of me and

  145. he hits his tee shot and he hits it so

  146. far left, we didn't even bother to look

  147. for it.

  148. You know what I'm saying? It was a

  149. terrible shot.

  150. And I just felt like, you know, that I I

  151. needed to be gracious like the Lord and

  152. I said, "Jamie, you can have a mulligan.

  153. That's a that's a second chance."

  154. And uh then he hit that one right down

  155. the middle. And so, you're welcome,

  156. Jamie. It would Without me, you would

  157. have lost all the money right there on

  158. the first hole, right?

  159. You know what I love about God is he

  160. takes our mistakes,

  161. he takes our problems and our pain and

  162. our difficulties and he uses them to

  163. give us second chances.

  164. He is a gracious God. Amen.

  165. He is an encouraging God. His His grace

  166. and His encouragement it it never ends.

  167. So, as I'm in this series called the God

  168. of second chances, today I want to teach

  169. you how God uses our mistakes

  170. and the pain

  171. caused by those to teach us something.

  172. In fact, what I want to teach you today,

  173. if you would put that next slide up, is

  174. the purpose of pain.

  175. Would you write that down in your notes?

  176. The reason why God gives us second

  177. chances is so

  178. His grace can be displayed in our lives.

  179. But, there is purpose to the pain. I

  180. don't mind making mistakes. I just don't

  181. want to make the mistake again.

  182. Come on, somebody. You understand what

  183. I'm saying? I don't want to do the same

  184. thing again. I want to learn from it. In

  185. other words, there's purpose in my

  186. mistakes. There's purpose in my pain.

  187. And that's what I want to teach you

  188. about today.

  189. So, my kids, my boys, I I took them on a

  190. on a skiing trip, like snow skiing trip,

  191. in America just a few years ago.

  192. And so, we're there for a few days.

  193. We're skiing. And my my boys are are

  194. pretty like daredevilish. Like they

  195. there was this there was this jump and

  196. they kept hitting this jump on the

  197. slopes and seeing how how big of air

  198. they could catch, right? And I'm taking

  199. it easy. I'm an old man, right? You

  200. know, so I'm I'm trying not to to let

  201. them stir me up to try try to beat them

  202. in competition, right? See who could

  203. jump the highest and the furthest. But,

  204. it's the last day.

  205. And it's the last run down the mountain.

  206. And I thought, I must show these boys

  207. that this old man has still got it.

  208. So, I went fast. I mean, I tucked and I

  209. went. And I'm going fast and I get to

  210. this

  211. lift to this this jump.

  212. And I hit it and I'm going to tell you,

  213. it was amazing. You guys are going to

  214. look at this. Look at Look at Woo!

  215. LOOK AT THAT OLD MAN. I'M CATCHING SOME

  216. AIR.

  217. I'm looking good.

  218. But,

  219. that's not how it ended.

  220. This is how it ended.

  221. Oh, doesn't it hurt looking at it? Like

  222. it makes me like triggered a little bit.

  223. This right here is what you would call a

  224. separated AC joint.

  225. A third degree, mind you. Fourth would

  226. be completely and this one this is a uh

  227. a problem. This is a pain that causes

  228. surgery or it requires surgery.

  229. And so, this this happens and I'm in a

  230. ton of pain. Please take that down. If I

  231. see it anymore, I may not be able to

  232. finish the message, right?

  233. I I come back to uh to to Florida where

  234. I live. I I go see a doctor and he's

  235. like, uh yes, this this is going to

  236. require surgery.

  237. And uh

  238. is that that it's messed up. It's it's

  239. bad.

  240. So, this happens in in January and we as

  241. a church are moving into our season of

  242. prayer and fasting like you guys do in

  243. January.

  244. We're going to we're going to pray and

  245. fast. We're going to fast. We're going

  246. to We're going to say no to something

  247. and we're so we can say yes to God even

  248. in a greater way and we do that here at

  249. Lighthouse Church. Uh we do that at our

  250. church as well as giving God the first

  251. the first of the year.

  252. That's a principle the Bible calls

  253. tithe, which is giving God the first so

  254. that he can bless the rest. But, if he

  255. doesn't have first, that means he's not

  256. in control of the rest. So, if you don't

  257. give him the first, then you don't know

  258. what's going to happen with the rest.

  259. But, if you give him the first, you have

  260. faith and trust in God that he will take

  261. care of everything else. That's true in

  262. your finances. That's why you should

  263. give God your first.

  264. Uh

  265. but, that also is true in life. It's in

  266. everything. It's the the the Bible when

  267. it teaches us principles that it isn't

  268. just specifically that, but it's it's

  269. broader than that.

  270. And that's why I think we should give

  271. God the first part of the year. That's

  272. why we go through a season of prayer and

  273. fasting. That's why you guys do this in

  274. January and I believe you should

  275. participate trusting God I'm giving you

  276. the first of the year and the rest of

  277. the year is going to go better. Anyway,

  278. this skiing accident happens right as we

  279. are about to begin our prayer and

  280. fasting and we're going to kick it off

  281. with a night of worship and miracles and

  282. healings believing God to do great

  283. things. Well, I posted on social media

  284. about my skiing accident and the church

  285. saw this, they started praying for me

  286. that God would heal me.

  287. And the closer that we got to this, the

  288. skiing accident happened on a Friday,

  289. the kickoff was on a Monday. So, it's

  290. just a few days, but but the closer I

  291. get to that meeting on Monday night, all

  292. of a sudden the better my shoulder

  293. feels. Like, wow.

  294. It's feeling really good. And then by

  295. the time we show up to that miracle and

  296. healing service on Monday night, I'm

  297. lifting my hands, I'm praising God, I am

  298. completely and utterly healed by the

  299. power of God.

  300. Now, I still have a massive bump in my

  301. shoulder. I never had the surgery. I

  302. went back to the doctor, he says,

  303. "You're Yeah, you're you're okay. And we

  304. can do cosmetic surgery and and put a

  305. screw in there and bolt that down to

  306. your other so you don't have the bump

  307. there." I was like, "No, I want to leave

  308. that there as a reminder

  309. of how great God is. And Amy says, "It's

  310. more of a reminder of how dumb I am

  311. for trying to keep up with the young

  312. boys, right?"

  313. And listen, let me just say this as

  314. well. I don't know what kind of pain

  315. you're in here today at whatever

  316. location you're at.

  317. But what I can tell you is that God

  318. wants to heal you as well.

  319. He's still a God that does miracles. And

  320. my prayer today is that whatever pain

  321. you're in,

  322. just as the closer I got to that moment,

  323. the more the power of God began to work

  324. in my life until I was utterly healed. I

  325. believe that today, even as you're

  326. listening to this message, that the

  327. power of God will begin to go out and

  328. begin to touch your life. Because I know

  329. that in your life right now today, there

  330. is some relational pain in this church

  331. right now.

  332. Someone has done something to you

  333. and you are hurt by that. I know that

  334. some of you are dealing with financial

  335. pain.

  336. And you're like, "I don't know how this

  337. is going to work out. Like I'm I'm

  338. overextended in my life. I I have some

  339. things that I can't take care of

  340. financially, and there's pain." I'm here

  341. to tell you God's going to do a miracle

  342. today in your life. Even as you're

  343. sitting in a part of this service, some

  344. of you are dealing with some emotional

  345. pain. Maybe you've lost a friend or a

  346. loved one or some situation in your

  347. life, and there's like a a a a grief in

  348. your life and your heart, and there's a

  349. cloud of of of of of grief that is

  350. hanging over you, and I'm here to tell

  351. you God's going to bring healing in

  352. Jesus' name.

  353. Maybe for some of you, you have a

  354. physical pain.

  355. Maybe like my shoulder, you have

  356. something that's ailing you as well, and

  357. I'm here to tell you God's

  358. He's going to heal that pain today.

  359. Somebody say amen.

  360. But can I just tell you here's here's

  361. the real lesson I want you to learn

  362. today. I want you to write this down. I

  363. want you guys put that next slide up.

  364. The greatest lessons in life,

  365. they're almost always taught in the

  366. classroom of suffering.

  367. That's a good place to say amen.

  368. I don't know why you guys are so quiet.

  369. Maybe because you didn't want to hear

  370. that. So,

  371. the greatest lessons in life are always

  372. taught in the classroom of suffering.

  373. We're going to study a passage of

  374. scripture in 2 Corinthians. It's a It's

  375. a portion of the Apostle Paul letter he

  376. wrote to a church at Corinth, which is

  377. you know, modern-day Greece. And he's

  378. writing a letter to this church talking

  379. about this idea of pain. Here we go.

  380. Verses 7 through 10.

  381. He says, "To keep me from becoming

  382. conceited because of these surpassingly

  383. great revelations,

  384. there was given me a thorn in my flesh,

  385. a messenger of Satan to to torment me.

  386. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to

  387. take it away from me, but he said to me,

  388. 'My grace

  389. is sufficient for you.

  390. My power is made perfect in weakness.

  391. Therefore, I will boast all the more

  392. gladly about my weaknesses, so that

  393. Christ's power may rest on me. That is

  394. why for Christ's sake I delight in

  395. weakness and insults and hardships and

  396. persecutions and difficulties for when I

  397. am weak then I am strong. So let me

  398. answer a couple of questions about pain.

  399. Here's the first one, write this down.

  400. Where does pain come from?

  401. And we we have to answer this this

  402. question. Uh and and it's important that

  403. you get it. I'll tell you why in a

  404. moment. Let's look back in verse 7. Paul

  405. says, "There was given me a thorn in my

  406. flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment

  407. me." Notice a messenger of Satan. It

  408. means someone who informs or someone who

  409. announces.

  410. And uh

  411. it it it's kind of think about how how

  412. this affects our lives. People that want

  413. to make announcements or communicate

  414. something to us. Maybe you you've had a

  415. project at work that you were

  416. responsible for and and you bring it to

  417. your team at work and or at at school or

  418. a project you have to do at school and

  419. and you bring it before the class. You

  420. bring it before the the team at work and

  421. and everybody likes it but one person

  422. doesn't.

  423. Right? It doesn't it just bother you?

  424. Like they're like that that messenger of

  425. pain into your life. Like why do we let

  426. the one person rule over all the good

  427. things, right?

  428. Uh what what what about this? Maybe you

  429. post something on social media and and

  430. you're hoping it'll be an encouragement

  431. or a great lesson that you've learned

  432. and so many people enjoy that and they

  433. make comments on your social media but

  434. one person says something and complains

  435. or says something negative. Why do we

  436. let that one get us? That's the

  437. messenger of Satan. Can I tell you

  438. pastors

  439. have people in their church sometimes

  440. that are messengers of Satan.

  441. Now you probably don't have them in

  442. Ireland but we have them in Florida.

  443. Pastor, I just love this church but

  444. Oh, it happens. I think I'm going to

  445. send them over here to Ireland.

  446. Apparently, Pastor James, you don't have

  447. any of those here any of our locations

  448. not just here in West Dublin but in

  449. North Dublin and in Navan and also

  450. Dundalk because because nobody's

  451. responding to that. So I don't know how

  452. you did it, but I'm sending you some of

  453. my messengers of Satan from Florida.

  454. That uh word there, messenger of Satan,

  455. it's kind of like an angel.

  456. And even throughout the Bible,

  457. especially even in the Old Testament,

  458. that word angel is the is the Hebrew

  459. word malak, which means a messenger. In

  460. other words, Satan was originally an

  461. angel, a messenger of God.

  462. But pride entered his life and he was

  463. kicked out of heaven.

  464. And so now he's a messenger of pain.

  465. This is so important. I'm answering the

  466. question, where does pain come from?

  467. You need to know this theologically. God

  468. does not cause pain.

  469. And if you think that you're being

  470. punished by God,

  471. then you have wrong theology. You will

  472. spend your entire life relating to God

  473. in the wrong way.

  474. Thinking you have to understand or have

  475. to earn his love.

  476. You need to understand this that pain

  477. does not come from God. It comes from

  478. Satan. Jesus said it this way in John

    John 10:10

  479. 10:10, "The thief comes to steal, kill,

  480. and destroy, but I have come that you

  481. may have life

  482. and that you may have it to the full."

  483. Satan is a messenger of pain. But back

  484. in our verse in Corinthians, it said

  485. there was given to me a thorn in my

  486. flesh. A thorn is something small. I

  487. want you to know something that often

  488. times it's not just the big moments that

  489. are a problem in your life. It's little

  490. thorns in our life. The the little

  491. things in our lives

  492. that the devil is also a part of that as

  493. well. Just kind of a nagging problem.

  494. Satan just won't leave you alone

  495. sometimes. It doesn't have to be a big

  496. thing. You know how you've been walking

  497. maybe before and you get a little pebble

  498. in your shoe

  499. and you just kind of oh, it'll be okay

  500. and you just keep walking, but you have

  501. to change the gait of your walk and all

  502. of a sudden because of that stone and

  503. and if you didn't stop and take it out

  504. of there and you kept walking that way,

  505. eventually it would cause other problems

  506. in your life. This little thing would

  507. become a big thing.

  508. And that's how the devil works.

  509. He doesn't want to just utterly destroy

  510. your life. He wants to cause little

  511. problems in your life just to get you

  512. focused off of what God really wants you

  513. to accomplish.

  514. So, if pain comes from

  515. Satan,

  516. let me answer this question. Where is

  517. the target?

  518. Like he's going to come at you

  519. somewhere. Wouldn't it be good to know,

  520. right?

  521. Well, let me show you where the target

  522. is. Verse 9 of 2 Corinthians, "The Lord

  523. said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for

  524. you. My power is made perfect in

  525. weakness.'" Everybody say weakness.

  526. Come on, all of our locations, let's all

  527. say it again. Say weakness.

  528. That's a target.

  529. In other words, we all have weaknesses.

  530. We all have blind spots.

  531. Things that we can't see. Places where

  532. you and I are very prone to make stupid

  533. decisions.

  534. How many of you have areas where you

  535. find yourself repeatedly making stupid

  536. decisions? Raise your hand. Come on, at

  537. any of our locations where Okay. I don't

  538. know about other places, but here at

  539. West Dublin, not many people raised

  540. their hands.

  541. Which just simply shows how deceived

  542. they are

  543. at seeing their weaknesses. See, I can

  544. prove it this way. How many of you are

  545. sitting next to someone and you go,

  546. "Man, they are loaded with weaknesses."

  547. Come on, raise your hand if if you see

  548. people. Okay, a lot more hands going up.

  549. Look, problem with most of our

  550. weaknesses is a lot of times they can be

  551. generational.

  552. In other words, you can say things like,

  553. "My mom

  554. was such an angry and a bitter person,

  555. and I hated that about her.

  556. And I find myself

  557. the very same way.

  558. My father never said anything

  559. encouraging to me, and I hated that

  560. growing up. And now I find myself not

  561. being able to say positive things as

  562. well. That I'm always putting people

  563. down."

  564. Look, the only way to overcome those

  565. areas, those weaknesses in your life,

  566. is you have to have the right people

  567. around you.

  568. Look at this verse in Hebrew.

  569. The book of Hebrews 12:1, it says,

    Hebrews 12:1

  570. "Therefore, since we are surrounded by

  571. such a huge crowd of witnesses,

  572. the location you're at there there's a

  573. crowd around. There there are people

  574. around you.

  575. And these people they say it because

  576. we're surrounded by this great crowd of

  577. witnesses, let us strip off the weight

  578. that slows us down, especially the sin

  579. that so easily trips us up. You know,

  580. the area where you're so prone to make a

  581. bad decision, so that we can run with

  582. endurance the race that God has marked

  583. out before us.

  584. I want you to write the word down,

  585. surrounded.

  586. That English word is the Greek word,

  587. you're going to love this, this is the

  588. word echo.

  589. E C H O. What does that mean? That means

  590. you and I need to have the right people

  591. around us that are echoing the things

  592. that we need to hear, not just the

  593. things that we want to hear.

  594. A real friend in your life will look at

  595. you and tell you what you need to hear,

  596. not what you want to hear.

  597. And you may say, "Well, I have, you

  598. know, friends in my life." Well,

  599. do they tell you the things that are

  600. hard to say?

  601. Are they willing to have awkward

  602. conversations with you? Are they willing

  603. to say, "Listen, I don't think you going

  604. out with that guy is the right thing."

  605. I don't think you hanging out with these

  606. these people it's the right thing.

  607. Aren't you likely to end up making the

  608. same bad decision again? And if you

  609. don't have people like that in your

  610. life, you're just going to continue

  611. taking lap around the track doing the

  612. same thing over again. God's the God of

  613. second chances. Oh, well, now he's the

  614. God of the third chances. And now he's

  615. the God of the fourth chances. And yes,

  616. he is, but wouldn't it be better if we

  617. didn't have to take a lap around that

  618. again?

  619. Could it be

  620. that the single greatest obstacle to you

  621. overcoming the pain in your life is you

  622. don't have the right crowd of witnesses

  623. around you.

  624. And I'm just going to tell you that that

  625. church is the best place for you to take

  626. the mask off

  627. and for you to receive from other people

  628. because look, this church is loaded with

  629. some messed up people.

  630. Cuz it starts with your pastors.

  631. Well, not blood. I mean, she's like my

  632. wife. I mean, they probably could have

  633. gotten to heaven without Jesus, you know

  634. what I mean? Like they're just like an

  635. angel, like an angel from the Lord.

  636. Okay, not this other angel we were just

  637. talking about. Okay.

  638. So, our weaknesses, which leads us to

  639. this weakness. Write this down, our

  640. pride.

  641. Our pride. Go back to our verse, verse

  642. seven.

  643. To keep me from becoming conceited,

  644. Oh, Paul had some pride, too.

  645. Because of these surpassingly great

  646. revelations, there was given me this

  647. thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan.

  648. See, a lot of times our pride would say

  649. things like, "I don't need help. I got I

  650. got this."

  651. You ever notice when somebody's trying

  652. to prove something, their voice goes up

  653. an octave? How you doing? I'm doing

  654. good. Man, I don't think you're DOING

  655. GOOD. I GOT THIS, MAN.

  656. IT'S NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL.

  657. RIGHT? ISN'T THAT ISN'T THAT KIND OF HOW

  658. IT WORKS?

  659. WELL, I just want you to know something

  660. that your pride is getting in the way of

  661. you walking in freedom from your pain.

  662. Let me illustrate it with this.

  663. I have have

  664. Dublin's finest right here.

  665. No, it's not Guinness.

  666. That's That's Dublin's finest, right?

  667. I uh I I I I I just I just filled this

  668. glass up with water.

  669. And uh

  670. I don't know. So, this would be uh about

  671. 8 oz maybe. It's I don't If I asked you

  672. how heavy this is,

  673. uh 250 ml,

  674. uh which, you know, for those of you

  675. that are from America that are listening

  676. uh that don't know how many milliliters

  677. that is, maybe 8 oz. It's It's It's that

  678. heavy.

  679. So, if if if I were to ask you how heavy

  680. is this, you would tell me well, it's

  681. maybe 250 ml. That's not that heavy.

  682. But, that's not the real question.

  683. The weight of this is not even really

  684. determined by how much it weighs, but

  685. it's how long I've been carrying it.

  686. Because if I were to hold this for an

  687. hour, it it would probably be no big

  688. deal.

  689. If I started holding this for maybe a

  690. couple of hours, all of a sudden my

  691. fingers would start to tingle.

  692. And then all of a sudden this thing

  693. would start to shake.

  694. Just a little bit.

  695. And then all of a sudden if I held this

  696. for 6, 8, 10, 12 hours or so, all of a

  697. sudden my whole arm would become numb

  698. and I would probably end up dropping

  699. this and I would have made a mistake or

  700. or made a mess all over the place,

  701. right?

  702. And so, when you say things like, "It's

  703. not that big a deal. I got this."

  704. Maybe it's not that heavy at the moment.

  705. But, you're not designed to carry that

  706. stuff alone.

  707. That that's why God wants to help you

  708. carry the pain that you're dealing with.

  709. And that's why God wants you to be in

  710. relationships with other people that

  711. they can help you carry the pain as

  712. well. Because maybe you say it's not

  713. that big of a deal, but I'm telling you

  714. it's going to get too heavy for you to

  715. carry.

  716. And you'll never experience the grace

  717. and the fullness of God when you I GOT I

  718. GOT IT'S NOT THAT BIG A DEAL.

  719. I GOT THIS.

  720. BECAUSE THE Bible says that God opposes

  721. the proud

  722. and he gives grace to the humble.

  723. How does God give grace to the humble?

  724. You guys theologically need to

  725. understand something. This is talking

  726. about how gracious God is. 1 John 1:9.

    1 John 1:9

  727. If we confess our sins to God, he is

  728. faithful and just and he will forgive us

  729. of all of our sins and purify us for

  730. unrighteousness.

  731. Aren't you thankful

  732. for the grace of God?

  733. So, did you know that you can be

  734. forgiven and still not be free?

  735. I'm I'm to say that again. This is very

  736. important because I know a lot of

  737. believers, a lot of Christians, a lot of

  738. Christ followers

  739. that are forgiven, they're just not

  740. free. They're just not whole.

  741. Because of this next verse in James.

  742. Therefore, confess your sins to each

  743. other and pray for each other so that

  744. you can be healed, so that you can be

  745. whole.

  746. As soon as you make a mistake, as soon

  747. as you need a second chance, you just

  748. turn to God, confess your sin and he

  749. gives you a second chance. That may call

  750. you to be free, but it doesn't mean that

  751. you're whole.

  752. You're still carrying something in life

  753. and you need people around you that you

  754. can say, "I need help." And they will

  755. come and they will help you carry this

  756. so that you can be healed, so that you

  757. can be whole, so you can be free, so you

  758. can be in all that God has for you. In

  759. Jesus' name, somebody say amen.

  760. Okay, so this is this is really

  761. important as well. All these points have

  762. been important, otherwise, why am I

  763. saying it, right?

  764. I I want you to write this down. Is that

  765. pain happens

  766. to everyone.

  767. The problem in life is that we look at

  768. other people, right?

  769. And we go, "Man, if I had what they had,

  770. if my life was like theirs, if my

  771. financial situation or my family or my

  772. friends or my marriage or whatever it

  773. is."

  774. You look at it and you go, "Wow, my life

  775. was like that." But what you don't know

  776. is what pain they went through to get to

  777. where they are.

  778. And if sometimes we don't see that, we

  779. only think, "Wow, look at them." And

  780. well, you probably look at your pastors

  781. and you go, "Well, they're you know,

  782. they're like professional Christians,

  783. right? They get they get paid to be

  784. good, you know what I mean?" And you

  785. look at them and you go, "Well, they

  786. don't they don't have problems.

  787. They don't have pain." Let me tell you

  788. something,

  789. your pastors, they they do have pain.

  790. You probably have no idea how many times

  791. they've been up here in this exact spot

  792. preaching the gospel,

  793. leading with a smile and joy on their

  794. face.

  795. But it has no indication that there's no

  796. pain in their life.

  797. I know there has been financial pain

  798. in their life before.

  799. There has been physical pain in their

  800. life.

  801. There's health pain in their life.

  802. There's kid pain in their life. And if

  803. they'd quit having so many kids, maybe

  804. that wouldn't happen. You guys need to

  805. shut the factory down, man. I mean, this

  806. is

  807. This is getting a little unreal.

  808. But, I don't I don't I don't tell you

  809. that for empathy for them.

  810. I tell you that because I need to take

  811. some lenses that you're looking at life

  812. through.

  813. And for you to realize that everyone

  814. faces pain.

  815. But, I want you to know something. The

  816. reason why people like your pastor

  817. and others that have make it through

  818. difficult, painful moments in their

  819. life. The reason why they are the way

  820. they are is because they realize that

  821. the harvest doesn't come to those who

  822. quit.

  823. The harvest only comes to those who stay

  824. engaged in relationship with the Lord,

  825. and they are convinced that God is going

  826. to use their pain, and in spite of their

  827. pain, they're still going to be

  828. victorious in Jesus' name.

  829. In fact, I don't want to give a

  830. prophetic word right now to Lighthouse

  831. Church.

  832. I want you to know the pain that you

  833. have been in for a long time now and

  834. trying to find locations for your

  835. church, starting here with West Dublin.

  836. I submit to you that because you haven't

  837. given up, because you have trusted in

  838. the Lord, because even in the middle of

  839. your pain, you have chosen to trust the

  840. Lord and believe God for great things, I

  841. submit to you a door is opening in

  842. Jesus' name. God is going to provide.

  843. Come on, Lighthouse Church. Give God

  844. some praise for his faithfulness

  845. in painful moments.

  846. Everyone goes through pain.

  847. I want you to see what the Apostle Paul

  848. as he shows us the pain that he went

  849. through.

  850. He says this that five times I received

  851. from the Jews the 40 lashes minus one.

  852. Okay, can we just stop before you guys

  853. listen to this?

  854. I want you to understand that that this

  855. right here is the same beating that

  856. Jesus received.

  857. Remember the Bible says that he was

  858. beaten so bad he was unrecognizable.

  859. That's what the what the what the

  860. prophet said in the Old Testament. Paul

  861. had this five times.

  862. Okay, he had pain.

  863. He said three times I was beaten with

  864. rods.

  865. Once I was stoned. And you go, well, at

  866. least he got some relief.

  867. Sorry, it's just you can't not just

  868. leave that sitting there. You have to

  869. Okay, I'm moving on.

  870. Three times I was shipwrecked. I spent a

  871. night and day in the open sea. I've been

  872. constantly on the move. I've been in

  873. danger from rivers and danger from

  874. bandits, danger from my own countrymen,

  875. and danger from Gentiles, danger in the

  876. city, danger in the country, danger at

  877. sea, danger from false brothers. I mean,

  878. this guy's been through some stuff.

  879. I labored and I toiled and I've often

  880. gone without sleep. I've known hunger

  881. and thirst and I've gone without food.

  882. I've been cold and I've been naked.

  883. Besides everything else, I face daily

  884. the pressure of my concern for all the

  885. churches.

  886. Here's the sauce. This is the sauce

  887. right here, guys. Verse 29. Who is weak?

  888. I do NOT FEEL WEAK.

  889. WHAT?

  890. HOW CAN YOU GO THROUGH ALL OF THAT stuff

  891. and say, I'M NOT WEAK?

  892. IT'S MADE ME STRONGER.

  893. I I don't I don't want to have to go

  894. through all that to prove that I'm

  895. strong.

  896. You know, I don't I don't know about

  897. you, but I I like comfort.

  898. I I do. I like I like being very

  899. comfortable.

  900. But, the reason why there is pain

  901. is I want to finish with this thought.

  902. Okay, we made we made a whole loop. I

  903. told you I was going to teach you this.

  904. Write this down. Here is Here is the

  905. purpose of pain.

  906. Paul says it back in our verse in

  907. chapter 12.

  908. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to

  909. take it away from me.

  910. But, he said to me, "My grace

  911. it is sufficient for you.

  912. My power is made perfect in weakness.

  913. Therefore, I will boast all the more.

  914. I'm I'm going to be excited. I'll be

  915. more glad about my weaknesses so that

  916. Christ's power may rest on me. That is

  917. why for Christ's sake I take delight in

  918. weaknesses, in hardships, and insults,

  919. and in persecutions, and difficulty, in

  920. pain." That's what he's talking about.

  921. "For when I am weak, then I am strong."

  922. You know why Paul was excited about

  923. pain? Cuz he understood the purpose of

  924. pain is that it is in that pain that's

  925. where I really get to see the fullness

  926. of who God really is and the power that

  927. he can exert over my pain whatever the

  928. circumstances are.

  929. So, you got to realize that the purpose

  930. of your pain is to see the magnitude and

  931. the power and the grace

  932. from God.

  933. You don't see that on mountaintops. We

  934. discover those, remember?

  935. The greatest lessons in life, they're

  936. almost always taught in the classroom of

  937. suffering.

  938. Seeing the power

  939. of Christ magnified in our lives

  940. is often times learned and seen

  941. in our darkest and most painful moments.

  942. I've taken my kids to Africa

  943. on mission trips to see a work that we

  944. do there in in Zimbabwe.

  945. And this one moment we got to uh one

  946. trip that we got to go and go to this

  947. uh sanctuary this lion sanctuary, if you

  948. will. Maybe they they get these baby

  949. lions and they rehabilitate them and

  950. help them get to health and then

  951. ultimately they release them back into

  952. the wild. But, they allow you to come

  953. and kind of hang out in the wild with

  954. them. As they're about to release them

  955. in the wild, they they they take them

  956. out of their their habitats and they let

  957. them walk out in the in the jungle,

  958. really, if you will. And they let people

  959. come and walk with them. And so, I did

  960. that with one of my boys and I'm walking

  961. with this lion and having a moment with

  962. him and we get to this tree and he jumps

  963. up in this tree.

  964. And he's standing in this tree or, you

  965. know, sitting in this tree just above

  966. me. And and they tell you when you're

  967. going out walking with these lions that

  968. you cannot show fear.

  969. Well,

  970. they can sense it.

  971. I'm very nervous because look at this.

  972. Look at this lion.

  973. He's that close to me. I mean, he's in a

  974. he's in a position where I am extremely

  975. vulnerable, right? He could He could

  976. jump. He could

  977. pounce on me at any moment. And they

  978. tell you, right, don't show fear and

  979. whatever you do, don't run.

  980. Well, that's the first instinct is to

  981. run, man. This this is lion here could

  982. kill me, right? At any moment. So, I'm

  983. just standing here trying to be

  984. confident.

  985. And nothing happened, as you can tell.

  986. I'm still here.

  987. But, I want you to know the reason why

  988. really I felt confident to not run and

  989. fear didn't overtake me.

  990. It's because of something that you

  991. almost cannot see.

  992. If you were to look in this photo

  993. and look down here, there's a shadow of

  994. a man

  995. and he's actually holding a rifle.

  996. A gun that would shoot that lion with a

  997. tranquilizer and immediately would would

  998. go to sleep.

  999. The reason why this lion would not do

  1000. anything to harm me is because

  1001. it knows that there's someone

  1002. outside of my peripheral vision here

  1003. and notice the eyes of the lion, they're

  1004. not even on me. It's on them.

  1005. Because even though the lion is greater

  1006. than me, there's something greater than

  1007. the lion.

  1008. And too many times in life, we're so

  1009. focused on our pain

  1010. that we can't zoom out enough

  1011. to see the one who can overcome even the

  1012. pain in the devil in our lives. As the

  1013. Bible says that the devil is like is

  1014. like a roaring lion

  1015. looking for someone that he can devour.

  1016. But what you need to understand is that

  1017. there's something even greater than the

  1018. devil who's like a roaring lion. I'm

  1019. telling you it's the Lord that is

  1020. standing in your situation as well.

  1021. And you will never see the Lord in your

  1022. pain unless you can zoom out a little

  1023. bit and realize he's right there with

  1024. you and he's greater than in Jesus'

  1025. name.

  1026. And I submit to you the pain you're

  1027. walking into or you're walking in today

  1028. will be the strength that you walk in

  1029. tomorrow.

  1030. If you surrender it and begin to trust

  1031. the Lord with your pain.