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Prayer // LEVEL UP | Ps. Alin Nedelca
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And today, it's a great day to be in
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church, and that's because we are in
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this series called level up.
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And if you're looking at the screen and
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you're thinking, "What's up with this
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bulky computer from the '90s, maybe even
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late '80s?" Wait until you see the next
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picture.
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Anyone remember the original Super Mario
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game? Well, I do. I remember playing it
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more than 30 years ago, going into my
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cousin's house cuz I didn't have a Sega
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game at that time. I was in there every
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single day. And in the Mario game, you
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would level up by overcoming different
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obstacles, and the purpose of doing all
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that was actually to find the real
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princess, right? Because the game was
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full of fake princesses. Well, guess
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what? In the same way, leveling up in
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our journey towards God, it's about
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discovering and getting to know who God
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really is. That's why we started this
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series called level up. And in first
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week of our series, we talked about the
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importance of the word of God. And we
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mentioned that we need to be in the word
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of God, and the word of God has to be in
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us. Why is that important? Because the
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word of God it's alive and active. And
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active means that it has the power to
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activate faith in our life so that we
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can believe God and embrace his
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extraordinary purpose for our life. That
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was week one. Now, last week, Pastor
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Jamie, which is our lead pastor, brought
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an incredible message on the power of
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worship. And he gave us a few ways on
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how we can level up when it comes to our
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worship before God, but he mentioned
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that worship is not about the tradition
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or a religion. Worship it's about a
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person, right? In fact, he said that
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worship it's about the person of Jesus
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Christ who gave his life for us so that
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we can experience his salvation, his
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freedom, his grace, and all the great
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things that he has for our lives.
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Now, if you haven't been here the
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previous 2 weeks, that's okay. You can
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always go on our YouTube channel, which
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is Lighthouse Church IE. You can check
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up the messages there, or we are on
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Spotify as well. Now, this week I have
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the privilege of talking about the topic
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called prayer.
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Prayer. And then next week, as we wrap
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up our series, make sure you come back
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because it's going to be crucial as
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we're going to talk about the power of
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service. Because what's the point of
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knowing the word of God, accumulating
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knowledge, what's the point of even
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worshipping God, praying to God if we're
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not going to put into practice
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whatever he tells us to So, make sure
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you come back next week and even you can
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bring a friend with you.
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But before we go into today's message, I
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want to ask you this.
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Do you remember learning how to swim?
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Now, if Yeah, there you go. One person
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does. Now, if you know how to swim,
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swimming feels completely natural for
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you. But if you don't know how to swim,
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there's almost nothing more unnatural
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except maybe for flying. Now, I remember
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how I learned how to swim as a child,
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and it was terrifying. Probably that's
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why I remember it so well. So, why was
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it Was I terrified? Because I didn't
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learn to swim in a swimming pool like
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some of you present here today. I
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learned to swim in this place.
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Now, don't get fooled by the beauty of
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this lake because as beautiful as this
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lake is is as dangerous as it can be.
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And by the way, this is a lake back home
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in my hometown in Romania. And believe
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it or not, this is the same lake in two
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different seasons of the year. From
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January up to May, it has this color
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which is like the turquoise, which
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happens to be my wife's favorite color.
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And then in summer, it turns into this
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beautiful green color. But as I've said,
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as beautiful as it looks like is as
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dangerous as it can be. Why am I saying
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that? Well, I remember growing up that
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at least for 7 years in a row, 7 years,
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at least one person drowned in this lake
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and their bodies were never found. True.
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And that's because underneath this lake,
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it's actually a mine with all sorts of
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galleries. And because of the galleries,
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there's all sort of currents. Now, with
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that in mind, one day, my sister and her
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best friend decided that they're going
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to take me to this lake and teach me how
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to swim. And you all know what that went
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from. So, what they did, I was probably
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seven or eight at that time. So, I was
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like pretty skinny, light as a feather,
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not as I am right now.
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But so, they they would take me, they
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would throw me in the water, I would go
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underneath, and I had to make myself
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back up on the surface of the water. So,
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I was like desperate swimming like a
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desperate puppy. They were having a
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ball, a laugh, and I was desperate. But,
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one time my sister's friend threw me in
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the water, went down, and to their
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surprise,
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I didn't came back up.
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And I remember what happened so vividly
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as if it was yesterday. So, I'm
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underneath the water, I've actually
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opened my eyes, and I looked behind, and
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it felt like something was dragging me
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towards the deep of the lake. Now, when
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that happened, I started desperately to
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use my hands, to use my feet, but all of
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the sudden, I see two hands and a head,
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and of course, it was my sister's friend
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grab me, pull me back up on the surface
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of the water. Now, I'm looking at my
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sister's face, and she's panicking,
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she's freaking out. I'm looking at her
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friend's face, he's the same, but I was
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mortified
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because I actually thought that's going
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to be the end of Alain.
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And Alain lived until he was seven and
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died drowning into the lake. Now,
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obviously, after my experience, I was
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afraid for a while to go back into the
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water,
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but thank God for my dad, who eventually
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teach me how to swim.
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Now, when it comes to swimming, swimming
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requires something that every one of us
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resist if we want to be teach how to
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swim, and that is surrender.
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Surrender. If we want to be taught how
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to swim, and we need to
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be taught by a parent, not a sibling,
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right? By someone who already knows what
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they're doing, maybe even
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an instructor. But in order to be able
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to do that, we need to surrender to
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their teaching. Now, why am I telling
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you this story? Because if we want to
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level up in our prayer life, and if we
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call ourselves, some of us followers of
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Jesus, then we need to surrender to
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Jesus to teach us how to pray. Now, if
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you're here today and you don't consider
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yourself to be a Christ follower, and
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maybe you're even thinking, "I've never
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prayed. I don't know how to pray. I
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don't even know what I believe in God."
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That's okay. You're very welcome in this
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place. But what if What if prayer isn't
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about having all the right words?
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What if it's simply about willing being
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willing to take the very first step and
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say, "God, if you're there, I want to
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know you." I remember I prayed this very
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same prayer for the first time when I
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was interested in God, and to my
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surprise, he answered.
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Now, coming back to those of us who do
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pray,
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most of us approach God because we want
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him to make us feel comfortable. Am I
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right? We want him to keep us on the
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land. I mean, why go in the dangerous
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lake and swim? So, when we pray, we come
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up with our plans, our list, right?
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We come up with our list, our plans, our
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preferences,
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our agenda. But Jesus teaches us to pray
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differently. In fact, one day while
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Jesus was praying, one of his disciples
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finally had the courage to ask on behalf
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of the group and said, "Lord,
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teach us how to pray." This is in the
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Gospel of Luke. "Lord, teach us how to
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pray."
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Now, isn't that interesting? Out of all
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the things that disciples could have
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asked Jesus to teach them, they said,
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"Teach us how to pray."
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They didn't ask Jesus to teach them how
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to perform miracles,
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not even healings, and not even how to
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turn the water into wine. How sad is
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that? I'm just joking. Out of all of the
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things they said, "Lord, teach us how to
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pray because we want to pray the way you
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pray." So, get ready because I believe
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that Jesus is about to teach all of us
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how to pray. And in fact, we should be
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happy about that. Why? Because if we're
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honest for a moment,
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very few of our prayers ever seem to get
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answered anyway.
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I mean, it turns out that the remote
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control and the car keys were exactly
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where you left them, right? And as
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indeed, you did find a parking space on
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the way to church today. Maybe you
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prayed about it, but guess what? So did
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other several hundred people found a
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parking space,
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and they didn't pray about it.
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But what about the other kind of
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prayers? The prayers that you might
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consider a miracle,
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or maybe something big.
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Occasionally, you get a yes.
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But sometimes,
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you just get nothing.
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And perhaps you're here today, and a
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series of those nothings convinced you
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that there's nothing to prayer. Prayer
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is just a waste of time.
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It just doesn't work.
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Now, to your surprise, you might be
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right in some ways because some prayers
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that most of us pray, naturally,
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they don't work.
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At least not in the way we want them to,
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but in spite of that, Jesus prayed.
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Jesus prayed. And not only that, but he
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taught his followers how to pray as
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well.
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So, why the disciples looked at Jesus
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and the way he prayed,
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they've noticed something different.
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They noticed that his prayers were
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intimate.
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They were passionate,
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honest, and compelling.
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So, watching him pray, the disciples
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became dissatisfied,
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and I think that even frustrated
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with their prayer life. Why? Because
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think about their experience. I mean,
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they prayed.
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They Their parents prayed. Their
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grandparents prayed. Yet, when Jesus
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walked the earth, Israel was still under
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Roman occupation.
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And before the Romans were the Greeks,
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and before the Greeks were the Persians,
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and before the Persians, the Assyrians,
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and before those, the Babylonians. So,
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seeing Jesus prayed, I think the
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disciples might have come to the
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conclusion
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that maybe they've been doing it wrong.
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That's why they've said, "Lord, teach us
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how to pray."
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Now, in the classic way of Jesus doing
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and saying things, you need to love
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Jesus. Instead of teaching his disciples
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how to pray first, he taught them how
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not to pray.
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And if you're not a Christ follower
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here, or you maybe even became cynical
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towards Christianity, you're actually
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going to like this part. And that's
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because Jesus confronts religious
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hypocrisy.
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And he says in the Gospel of
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Matthew chapter 6, he says, "And when
Matthew 6 chapter mention
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you pray, do not be like the hypocrites,
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for they love to pray standing in the
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synagogues and on the street corners to
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be seen by others.
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Truly, I tell you, they have received
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their reward in full."
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You need to love Jesus, and that's
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because Jesus had zero tolerance for
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pretenders.
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Jesus had zero tolerance for people
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acting holy.
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God isn't impressed by polished prayers
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coming from inauthentic hearts.
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These people wanted attention, and guess
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what? They got attention, but from the
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people,
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not from God.
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And then from here, Jesus shifts the
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focus, and he says, "But when you pray,
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which leads us to a few important
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questions.
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When do you pray?
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Why do you pray?
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Where do you pray?
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I think it's worth giving our attention
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to these questions.
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Jesus says, "But when you pray, go into
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your room, close the door, and pray to
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your father who is unseen.
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Then your father who sees what is done
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in secret
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will reward you."
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Now, if you grew up in church and
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thinking that church is the only place
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where God can actually hear your
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prayers, but Jesus says that God can
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hear you anywhere.
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He can hear you at home, on the way to
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work, in your car, on the lowest, on the
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train. And not only that he can hear
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you, but he sees you.
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And as he sees you, he will reward you.
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With what? With his presence. When your
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prayers are coming from the bottom of
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your heart, God sees that. That means
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that when you pray,
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next slide, please.
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When you pray, you should use your own
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words.
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Right? You can speak honestly.
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You can pour out your heart.
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Jesus goes on to say, "And when you
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pray, do not keep on babbling, right?
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Like pagans, for they think they'll be
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heard because of their many words."
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Don't babble like the pagans means don't
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use the same words. Why? Because
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repetition doesn't move God. Perfect
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prayers don't move God, and Lent doesn't
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impress God, either.
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In fact, Martin Luther, who's known to
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be the father of Reformation, and that's
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because he believed in authority of
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scripture over church and human
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authority, and he actually emphasized
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what the scripture teaches that
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salvation comes by faith alone, which is
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a response to the grace of God. When it
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comes to prayer, he said that the fewer
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the words,
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the better the prayer.
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And what Jesus says next explains why we
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don't need a lot of words, or even the
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perfect words. In fact, what he says
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next pulls out the rug out of underneath
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the reason why many of us pray in the
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first place. Look at what he says. He
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says, "For your father knows what you
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need before you ask." Your father knows
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what you need before you ask.
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Now, as you look and read that,
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the next question comes up, right? If
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God already knows,
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why pray?
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Have you ever wondered that?
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And I think that's exactly the question
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that Jesus wanted his disciples to ask.
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He's got them where he wanted them to
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be, and maybe
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he's got you and me exactly where he
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wants us, too.
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Because God doesn't allow us to In fact,
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he does allow us to go to get to a point
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where we say, "God, I don't know how to
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do this on my own." And when you get to
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that place, he doesn't leave you
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wondering. He actually teaches you. And
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from here, we're going to look at four
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ways
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that we can level up into our prayer
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life. And the very first one is this:
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When you pray,
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if you want to level up in your prayer
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life, then you should realize that
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you're not praying into the air,
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you're praying to a
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person.
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And Jesus goes on to say in our passage
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in verse 9, he says, "This, then, is how
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you should pray.
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Our Father in heaven."
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Now, that raises an important question,
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isn't it?
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Does calling God Father mean God is
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male?
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Why not heavenly mother?
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Or heavenly being? Or heavenly deity?
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Those are fair questions because Jesus
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himself taught that God is spirit.
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The disciple John, who knew Jesus
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intimately, he said that God is love.
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So, why does Jesus tell us to pray our
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father?
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What is Jesus doing?
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I think that Jesus is inviting us into
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something much deeper than a concept.
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There's no special formula when we pray.
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In fact, the Apostle Peter, who was
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right there when Jesus taught the
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disciples about prayer, he would later
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write in his letter and he would say,
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"Cast your cares on him
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because he cares for you."
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Don't cast your cares on him because
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he's powerful, even though that's true,
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but because he cares for you.
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That means that prayer is relational.
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Not only that, but prayer is personal
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and prayer is intimate.
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I'm going to be vulnerable for a second.
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My relationship with my earthly father
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hasn't been the best while he was still
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around.
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And after he passed away, I became a
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Christ follower, which was 16 years ago,
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and I remember people telling me that
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when you pray to God, and I've seen in
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scripture, that when you pray to God,
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you should address him as your heavenly
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father. Now, because my relationship
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with my earthly father hasn't been the
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best,
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I honestly struggled for a good amount
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of time
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to address God as my heavenly father.
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And maybe you're here today and you can
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relate to that.
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Maybe the relationship you've had with
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your father hasn't been the best,
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either. In fact, maybe the relationship
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you have right now with your father is
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not that great or intimate.
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Well, the good news is that your
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heavenly father knows that.
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And not only that he knows that, but he
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appreciates that and he's willing to
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enter into that tension
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with you as he did with me to just talk
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about it.
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But if Jesus was right, and I think he
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was,
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we might not be able to level up in our
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prayer life if we don't see God as our
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heavenly father.
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Think about that
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as you go into your week. And then from
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there Jesus continues. He says that our
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father in heaven, hallowed be your name.
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Here is the part we often skip. Hallowed
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be your name, which uh simply means holy
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is your name.
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When we pray, as we sang,
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God the God of who created the universe,
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the galaxies, the stars, the mountains
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and the oceans, when we pray, we should
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actually pause and acknowledge whom we
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are addressing.
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The great God who has no equal. The
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creator of the universe. Yes, he's
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intimate, he's close, he's personal, but
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in the same time he is infinite.
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And when we rush past acknowledging who
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God is, we might actually reduce God
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when we pray to a good luck in charm.
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Right? Or maybe to a last glance in the
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mirror before we leave the home.
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Or even to a wish me luck before an exam
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or a project that we have maybe to
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finish.
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That's why what comes next in what Jesus
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says is the place in prayer where we
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recenter.
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What comes next is the purpose of
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prayer, and with the purpose of prayer
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comes the second way we can level up in
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our prayer life, and that is when we
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pray, we should pray with a pattern.
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What does it mean to pray with a pattern
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when Jesus says it? He said, "Your
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kingdom come,
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your will be done on Earth as it is in
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heaven."
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Now, you might be looking at that, and
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you're thinking, "Hold on a second.
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His kingdom? What about my kingdom?
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What about my family? My job? My lack of
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job? My health? My fears? My bills? My
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son who's struggling? My daughter who
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won't talk to me? What about me?"
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To which I really think that Jesus is
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smiling and saying, "That's already
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covered.
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Remember, your father in heaven sees
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that and knows what you need before you
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even ask.
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It's so easy to forget that part.
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So, with this in our mind, when we
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recognize that we're addressing our
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heavenly father, what else is it to say
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except that God, you first.
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Your agenda first. Your kingdom first.
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Your will first. My kingdom can wait.
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Maybe the purpose of prayer is not to
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impose our will to God.
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Maybe the purpose of prayer is to
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surrender
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our will to God.
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And why am I saying this? Because Jesus
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modeled this himself. This wasn't
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something that Jesus only taught. He
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modeled it. This is how he prayed.
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Remember the Garden of Gethsemane? Just
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hours before he was arrested, Jesus
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said, "Father, I dread this. There's
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nothing in me about this that I'm
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looking for." But then, he prayed the
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words that changed history.
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He said, "Not my will,
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but yours be done."
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Have you ever wondered what hung in the
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balance of this prayer?
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Or more importantly, who hung in the
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balance? You did.
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I did. The entire world did.
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Jesus' surrender to his father's will
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actually opened the way for our
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salvation.
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And guess what? Jesus is inviting us to
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pray
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as he prayed.
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According to him, if we approach prayer
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with any other posture than surrender
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to God's will, maybe we're missing the
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point. So, we pray, "Your kingdom come,
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your will be done
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on Earth as it is in heaven."
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Right here.
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Right now. I pray your kingdom come,
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your will be done in my life, in my
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marriage, in my family, in my workplace,
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in my relationships, with my influence,
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wherever I have responsibility,
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may heaven begin right here.
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Do you know what? Why does this even
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matter?
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I tell you why. Until our will is
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surrendered to God's will, what's the
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point of praying anyway?
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Because if my name is Jimmy and I want
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God to give me gimme
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right?
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I'm not really seeking God.
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I'm just trying to use him.
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I see God as a vending machine or a nap
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that exists to solve my problems.
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How many of you know that God is better
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than the ChatGPT app?
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Not that the app is wrong or bad, but
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God is better.
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Do you know it's so easy when we think
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that God, you know, is just there to
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fulfill our own needs. It's so easy to
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come with this objection and arrive at
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this conclusion. If there is a God,
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then he should answer my prayer.
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And if he doesn't, maybe
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God isn't even there.
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And honestly, that's understandable.
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Only when we see God as someone who
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gives us what we want, when we want, or
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we see him as a divine healer with when
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we need a miracle,
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or we see him as a lifeguard who's ready
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to jump into action when we drown, like
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my sister's friends.
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But what if God is more than that?
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What if his plan
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includes you,
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but is bigger than you?
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What if his plan involves you, but it
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doesn't revolve around you?
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Do you know what's funny? As humans, we
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end up in so many messes, and then most
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of the time our prayers sound like,
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"God, get me out of this place." Right?
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Have you ever behaved your way into a
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situation you didn't want to be in, and
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then ended up praying your way out of
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the very situation you got yourself
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into?
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I did. In fact, the most recent one is
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at the beginning of the year when I
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wanted to change our car.
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Now, bear with me for a second. At the
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beginning of the year, I thought that
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we're going to change our car from a
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manual one to an automatic one as I
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wanted my precious wife to start
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driving. So, I've done a bit of a
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research and I have found a Range Rover
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car. Beautiful car, isn't it? It wasn't
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like a new car. It was like 2017, wasn't
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that expensive, probably around 12
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grand. And I contacted the guy, went to
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see the car, I liked the car, I put a
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deposit on the car, and then in 1 week
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time went to collect the car. So, I'm
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driving the car back home and after 3
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weeks of having the car, one day on the
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way to work, I'm hearing a noise and the
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car stopped working.
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Now, what happened? The recovery came,
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brought it to a garage, and guess what?
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The engine of the car it's toasted.
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Now, one thing I didn't tell you is that
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the way I paid for the car was actually
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cash.
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Not with a bank transfer. I mean, why
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would you do that, right?
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So, obviously, I knew I shouldn't do
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that. I had that knowledge on the
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inside, don't do that. But yet, I went
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for it. And once I found myself in the
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mess, I catched myself praying. God,
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help me. Rescue me. Save me. What am I
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going to do? I loaned even the money.
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And now the money to fix the car cost
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more than the half of the price of the
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car.
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Now, does God answer these kind of
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prayers? Sometimes, he does.
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But his heart,
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even for me cuz I'm speaking to me even
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though I have the mic, his heart is to
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help us to avoid having to pray the kind
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of prayers by be beginning our everyday
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surrendered
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to his will.
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Now, with that being said, you might ask
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yourself,
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having
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prayer request, is it okay? Is it okay
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to have prayer requests? Is it okay to
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pray for certain things or situations or
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other people? Absolutely. You can pray
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about all the things that are near and
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dear to you. As the Apostle Peter said,
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he said, "Cast your cares upon him, for
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he cares for you." And from here,
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actually, Jesus tells us to pray for
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three specific things, which actually
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covers most of our needs. And with that
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comes the third way to level up in our
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prayer, which is to pray with precision.
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And Jesus invites us to pray for three
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things: for provision, for pardon, and
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for protection. And the old star would
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be
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And pardon is the forgiveness side. Now,
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when it comes to provision, he says that
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when you pray, you should pray, "Give us
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today our daily bread."
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And when you pray like that, you're
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actually declaring, "God, I need you.
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I depend on you."
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And this is so important because we live
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in a country like Ireland where
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generally speaking, I mean, generally
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speaking, you we don't get into trouble
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because of our lack,
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we get into trouble because of our
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access
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or access, sorry.
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And it's so easy to take things for
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granted,
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right? And because of that, we expect
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things,
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we feel entitled to things, and we
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become ungrateful for things. Now,
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what's antidote to that, you might ask?
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Well, I think the antidote is found in
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God's word again in the Old Testament
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and something that the book of Proverbs
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teaches. And you know, I dare you to use
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these verses right here as a prayer to
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pray with and see what happens. But it
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says, "Keep falsehood from me." We can
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deal with that, right? "Give me neither
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poverty nor riches, but give me only my
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daily bread." That right here is not
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really a Western prayer, isn't it?
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But why is he saying to pray like that?
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"Otherwise, I may have too much and
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disown you and say, 'Who is the Lord?'
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or I may become poor and steal and so
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dishonor the name of my God."
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The reality is that we're not just
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vulnerable when we have too little,
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we're also vulnerable when we have too
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much.
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Too little could tempt us to steal. Too
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much could tempt us to forget God.
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I mean, surely you've heard or know of
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someone who no longer needed to trust
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God and no longer maybe even had time to
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come for church and prioritized the
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things of God because they became
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successful and self-sufficient.
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Now, is it wrong to be successful? Oh,
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no, absolutely not. But it is wrong when
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you forget the one
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who made you successful.
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Right? So, I dare you to pray these
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prayers.
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Now, we go to the next part that Jesus
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invites us to pray, which is to pray for
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pardon, for forgiveness, right? And he
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says, "And forgive our debts as we have
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also forgiven our debtors."
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Now, that right here, that's a serious
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prayer.
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Why is it serious? Because
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if you don't only pray but act in
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accordance to it, that means that you
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might when you're praying that what
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you're actually saying is this,
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"I surrender my need to get even." When
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you choose to forgive. "I surrender my
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right to hold on to the offense.
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And I surrender my desire to make them
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pay."
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Now, if you're a Christ follower in the
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room, you don't have any option or any
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other option.
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In fact, let me say in in a more kind
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way. If you're a Christ follower in the
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room, you don't have an option.
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Because you have received forgiveness
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from God, you are called to extend
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forgiveness to others. We don't forgive
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because people deserve to be forgiven.
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We have received grace, and therefore,
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we extend it as well.
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Now, if you're here and you're not And
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by the way, yeah, forgiveness, it's
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evidence that we follow Jesus.
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But if you're here and you're not a
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Christ follower, not a Jesus follower,
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here is the harsh reality for you.
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Forgiveness is difficult.
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But unforgiveness is difficult, too.
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So, choose your difficult.
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And the trick with unforgiveness is
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this, when you refuse to forgive, you're
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allowing someone who hurt you to keep
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controlling you.
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Yes, they might be out of your life
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physically, but they're still
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influencing your emotions, your peace,
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your joy, your relationships, and even
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your future.
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So, choose your difficult.
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But let's be honest for a second. To ask
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God to do something for us
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that we are unwilling to do for others,
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that kind of creates a distorted picture
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of God, isn't it? And it reduces God to
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a cleaning product.
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How many of you know that prayer is more
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than getting God to clean up our mess?
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Prayer brings us into alignment with
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God. That's uh When it comes to
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forgiveness, forgiveness, it's a posture
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of surrender.
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So, would you maybe consider
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even this week or the next week or next
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month to forgive the person
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that maybe you have to forgive? Would
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you consider doing that? It's in your
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own benefit. And that doesn't mean that
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you need to restore the relationship
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with that person, because forgiveness
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and reconciliation is not the same
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thing. Sometimes that's not That
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actually might not be even wise or
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healthy. Maybe you need to keep the
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distance. But, would you be willing
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maybe to to release that person so you
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can get healed from the inside out? And
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if you can do it,
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I want to invite you to surrender that
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to Jesus.
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Because forgiveness, actually, it's
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surrender to our heavenly Father.
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At the third thing, Jesus talks about
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protection. We can pray for protection.
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Protection from what?
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He says, "And lead us not into
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temptation."
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Let me make it a bit more personal, and
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lead me not into temptation.
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Now, do you pray like this?
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Do you pray like this?
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Cuz you can't be planning to lead
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yourself into temptation, and then pray
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not to be led there.
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Right?
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Jesus says, "And lead us not into
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temptation, but deliver us from the evil
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one." Now, the definition of this term
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deliver actually means to preserve or to
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rescue one from danger.
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Now, if we're honest, when we lead
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ourselves into temptation, what we're
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actually saying is this, "Well, it's not
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that dangerous." Right?
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How many of you know that sin will take
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us further than we want to go?
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Sin will keep us longer than we want to
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stay
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and cost us more than we want to pay.
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But, the good news is this, that there
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is a way, there is a path that can lead
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you away from temptation, and there is a
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path that can deliver us from the evil
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one. And that path is not called
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discipline, even though it requires
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discipline, it's not called just
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self-control,
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even though it requires self-control,
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the path that can lead us away from
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temptation, it's saying yes to Jesus'
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original invitation, "Follow me."
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Why is Jesus inviting us to follow him?
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Because he knows what we're going
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through. In fact, the author of the book
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of Hebrews says about Jesus that we do
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not have a high priest, which is Jesus,
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who is unable to empathize with our
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weaknesses, but we have one who has been
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tempted in any way, just as we are, and
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yet he did not sin. So, because he can
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relate to our going through, the next
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verse says that we can actually approach
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God's throne of grace with confidence
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so that we may receive what? Mercy and
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what? Grace to help us in our time of
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need.
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But do you pray like that? And lead me
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not into temptation.
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And number four, the last fourth way
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that we can actually that can actually
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help us to level up in our prayer life
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is that we can actually pray in power.
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Pray in power.
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What I mean by that? Well, James, the
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brother of Jesus, was pretty close to
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him as he was his brother. He would
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later write in his letter and he would
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say in the book of James chapter 5, says
James 5 chapter mention
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that the the prayer of a righteous
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person is powerful and effective. Elijah
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was a human being even as we are.
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But look at this. He prayed earnestly
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that it would not rain and it did not
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rain on the land for 3 and 1/2 years.
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How crazy is that? Do you want to know
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what's even more crazier?
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Powerful prayer it's available to
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ordinary people like you and me. Why?
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Because Elijah was a human being.
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Even as we are. He had emotions.
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Scripture talks about at some stage he
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had some fears. He was afraid of a woman
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even.
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So he had doubts, he had fears, yet he
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prayed.
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And it did not rain for 3 and 1/2 years.
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Now you might look at this and you might
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get stuck on this word righteous and you
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might be thinking that righteous means
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that you need to be perfect. But
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righteous doesn't mean you need to be
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perfect and actually what makes you
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righteous is that when you when put your
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trust in Jesus and in his sacrifice at
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the cross, scripture teaches that God
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made Jesus to be seen for us so that we
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come we can become the righteousness
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the righteousness of God in Christ.
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That's why our prayers have power. And
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that's why we should actually believe
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that God still hears, that God still
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open doors, that God can restore
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relationships, that God can provide,
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that God can intervene, and that he can
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save people.
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So, pray in power.
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So, before we wrap up this message,
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let's look again at the four ways that
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can actually help us to level up in
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prayer. When you pray
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when you pray, it's good to pray.
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Not if you pray, but when you pray,
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right?
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Pray to your heavenly Father who knows
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you, loves you, and has a an
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extraordinary purpose for your life. Not
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only that, but pray with a pattern. Say,
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"God, your kingdom come, your will be
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done in this situation, in my family, in
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my life." Number three, pray with
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precision.
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Use specific prayers.
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We're actually encouraged to pray for
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what? For provision,
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for pardon, which is forgiveness, for
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protection. You can actually play pray
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for your close family who maybe don't
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know God and they're desperate without
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hope.
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They can't see the light at the end of
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the tunnel. You can pray for that
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believing
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that your prayers are powerful,
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that we can actually pray in power.
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Now, can you imagine
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what God could could do in you,
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through you, and around you, if you
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leveled up in your prayer life and pray
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like that.
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Imagine waking up even tomorrow morning,
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and instead of carrying everything
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yourself,
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you bring everything in prayer to your
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heavenly Father, who cares for you.
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What if prayer could be more than
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something we do when life gets
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difficult?
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What if prayer can become the place we
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go every day?
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Every day to find peace,
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to find direction, to find strength and
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confidence
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in God.
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With that being said, let's stand and as
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the band will lead us into a last song,
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into a response time,
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what better way to respond other than to
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pray together?
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So, I'd love for us to pray out loud all
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together the prayer that Jesus taught
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us,
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the Lord's Prayer. And if you grew up
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praying this prayer, and maybe even been
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abused of the many times you've been
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asked to be prayed, and it had no effect
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in your life, I challenge you to pray
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this prayer right now with me.
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With the
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thought that
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you're not just repeating words,
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but actually you're addressing your
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heavenly Father,
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who knows you.
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This is an invitation
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to declare his greatness,
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to surrender to his will,
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and to acknowledge our dependence on
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him.
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So, if you're comfortable, repeat after
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me. So, I'm going to say it first, you
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wait until I finish, and then you're
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going to repeat. You ready? Here we go.
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Our Father in heaven,
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hallowed be your name.
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Your kingdom come.
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Your will be done
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on Earth
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as it is in heaven.
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Give us today our daily bread.
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And forgive our debts
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as we also have forgiven our debtors.
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And lead us not into temptation,
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but deliver us from the evil one.
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For yours is the kingdom
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and the power
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and the glory forever.
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Amen. Amen.