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Prayer // LEVEL UP | Ps. Alin Nedelca

Lighthouse Church Ireland

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  1. And today, it's a great day to be in

  2. church, and that's because we are in

  3. this series called level up.

  4. And if you're looking at the screen and

  5. you're thinking, "What's up with this

  6. bulky computer from the '90s, maybe even

  7. late '80s?" Wait until you see the next

  8. picture.

  9. Anyone remember the original Super Mario

  10. game? Well, I do. I remember playing it

  11. more than 30 years ago, going into my

  12. cousin's house cuz I didn't have a Sega

  13. game at that time. I was in there every

  14. single day. And in the Mario game, you

  15. would level up by overcoming different

  16. obstacles, and the purpose of doing all

  17. that was actually to find the real

  18. princess, right? Because the game was

  19. full of fake princesses. Well, guess

  20. what? In the same way, leveling up in

  21. our journey towards God, it's about

  22. discovering and getting to know who God

  23. really is. That's why we started this

  24. series called level up. And in first

  25. week of our series, we talked about the

  26. importance of the word of God. And we

  27. mentioned that we need to be in the word

  28. of God, and the word of God has to be in

  29. us. Why is that important? Because the

  30. word of God it's alive and active. And

  31. active means that it has the power to

  32. activate faith in our life so that we

  33. can believe God and embrace his

  34. extraordinary purpose for our life. That

  35. was week one. Now, last week, Pastor

  36. Jamie, which is our lead pastor, brought

  37. an incredible message on the power of

  38. worship. And he gave us a few ways on

  39. how we can level up when it comes to our

  40. worship before God, but he mentioned

  41. that worship is not about the tradition

  42. or a religion. Worship it's about a

  43. person, right? In fact, he said that

  44. worship it's about the person of Jesus

  45. Christ who gave his life for us so that

  46. we can experience his salvation, his

  47. freedom, his grace, and all the great

  48. things that he has for our lives.

  49. Now, if you haven't been here the

  50. previous 2 weeks, that's okay. You can

  51. always go on our YouTube channel, which

  52. is Lighthouse Church IE. You can check

  53. up the messages there, or we are on

  54. Spotify as well. Now, this week I have

  55. the privilege of talking about the topic

  56. called prayer.

  57. Prayer. And then next week, as we wrap

  58. up our series, make sure you come back

  59. because it's going to be crucial as

  60. we're going to talk about the power of

  61. service. Because what's the point of

  62. knowing the word of God, accumulating

  63. knowledge, what's the point of even

  64. worshipping God, praying to God if we're

  65. not going to put into practice

  66. whatever he tells us to So, make sure

  67. you come back next week and even you can

  68. bring a friend with you.

  69. But before we go into today's message, I

  70. want to ask you this.

  71. Do you remember learning how to swim?

  72. Now, if Yeah, there you go. One person

  73. does. Now, if you know how to swim,

  74. swimming feels completely natural for

  75. you. But if you don't know how to swim,

  76. there's almost nothing more unnatural

  77. except maybe for flying. Now, I remember

  78. how I learned how to swim as a child,

  79. and it was terrifying. Probably that's

  80. why I remember it so well. So, why was

  81. it Was I terrified? Because I didn't

  82. learn to swim in a swimming pool like

  83. some of you present here today. I

  84. learned to swim in this place.

  85. Now, don't get fooled by the beauty of

  86. this lake because as beautiful as this

  87. lake is is as dangerous as it can be.

  88. And by the way, this is a lake back home

  89. in my hometown in Romania. And believe

  90. it or not, this is the same lake in two

  91. different seasons of the year. From

  92. January up to May, it has this color

  93. which is like the turquoise, which

  94. happens to be my wife's favorite color.

  95. And then in summer, it turns into this

  96. beautiful green color. But as I've said,

  97. as beautiful as it looks like is as

  98. dangerous as it can be. Why am I saying

  99. that? Well, I remember growing up that

  100. at least for 7 years in a row, 7 years,

  101. at least one person drowned in this lake

  102. and their bodies were never found. True.

  103. And that's because underneath this lake,

  104. it's actually a mine with all sorts of

  105. galleries. And because of the galleries,

  106. there's all sort of currents. Now, with

  107. that in mind, one day, my sister and her

  108. best friend decided that they're going

  109. to take me to this lake and teach me how

  110. to swim. And you all know what that went

  111. from. So, what they did, I was probably

  112. seven or eight at that time. So, I was

  113. like pretty skinny, light as a feather,

  114. not as I am right now.

  115. But so, they they would take me, they

  116. would throw me in the water, I would go

  117. underneath, and I had to make myself

  118. back up on the surface of the water. So,

  119. I was like desperate swimming like a

  120. desperate puppy. They were having a

  121. ball, a laugh, and I was desperate. But,

  122. one time my sister's friend threw me in

  123. the water, went down, and to their

  124. surprise,

  125. I didn't came back up.

  126. And I remember what happened so vividly

  127. as if it was yesterday. So, I'm

  128. underneath the water, I've actually

  129. opened my eyes, and I looked behind, and

  130. it felt like something was dragging me

  131. towards the deep of the lake. Now, when

  132. that happened, I started desperately to

  133. use my hands, to use my feet, but all of

  134. the sudden, I see two hands and a head,

  135. and of course, it was my sister's friend

  136. grab me, pull me back up on the surface

  137. of the water. Now, I'm looking at my

  138. sister's face, and she's panicking,

  139. she's freaking out. I'm looking at her

  140. friend's face, he's the same, but I was

  141. mortified

  142. because I actually thought that's going

  143. to be the end of Alain.

  144. And Alain lived until he was seven and

  145. died drowning into the lake. Now,

  146. obviously, after my experience, I was

  147. afraid for a while to go back into the

  148. water,

  149. but thank God for my dad, who eventually

  150. teach me how to swim.

  151. Now, when it comes to swimming, swimming

  152. requires something that every one of us

  153. resist if we want to be teach how to

  154. swim, and that is surrender.

  155. Surrender. If we want to be taught how

  156. to swim, and we need to

  157. be taught by a parent, not a sibling,

  158. right? By someone who already knows what

  159. they're doing, maybe even

  160. an instructor. But in order to be able

  161. to do that, we need to surrender to

  162. their teaching. Now, why am I telling

  163. you this story? Because if we want to

  164. level up in our prayer life, and if we

  165. call ourselves, some of us followers of

  166. Jesus, then we need to surrender to

  167. Jesus to teach us how to pray. Now, if

  168. you're here today and you don't consider

  169. yourself to be a Christ follower, and

  170. maybe you're even thinking, "I've never

  171. prayed. I don't know how to pray. I

  172. don't even know what I believe in God."

  173. That's okay. You're very welcome in this

  174. place. But what if What if prayer isn't

  175. about having all the right words?

  176. What if it's simply about willing being

  177. willing to take the very first step and

  178. say, "God, if you're there, I want to

  179. know you." I remember I prayed this very

  180. same prayer for the first time when I

  181. was interested in God, and to my

  182. surprise, he answered.

  183. Now, coming back to those of us who do

  184. pray,

  185. most of us approach God because we want

  186. him to make us feel comfortable. Am I

  187. right? We want him to keep us on the

  188. land. I mean, why go in the dangerous

  189. lake and swim? So, when we pray, we come

  190. up with our plans, our list, right?

  191. We come up with our list, our plans, our

  192. preferences,

  193. our agenda. But Jesus teaches us to pray

  194. differently. In fact, one day while

  195. Jesus was praying, one of his disciples

  196. finally had the courage to ask on behalf

  197. of the group and said, "Lord,

  198. teach us how to pray." This is in the

  199. Gospel of Luke. "Lord, teach us how to

  200. pray."

  201. Now, isn't that interesting? Out of all

  202. the things that disciples could have

  203. asked Jesus to teach them, they said,

  204. "Teach us how to pray."

  205. They didn't ask Jesus to teach them how

  206. to perform miracles,

  207. not even healings, and not even how to

  208. turn the water into wine. How sad is

  209. that? I'm just joking. Out of all of the

  210. things they said, "Lord, teach us how to

  211. pray because we want to pray the way you

  212. pray." So, get ready because I believe

  213. that Jesus is about to teach all of us

  214. how to pray. And in fact, we should be

  215. happy about that. Why? Because if we're

  216. honest for a moment,

  217. very few of our prayers ever seem to get

  218. answered anyway.

  219. I mean, it turns out that the remote

  220. control and the car keys were exactly

  221. where you left them, right? And as

  222. indeed, you did find a parking space on

  223. the way to church today. Maybe you

  224. prayed about it, but guess what? So did

  225. other several hundred people found a

  226. parking space,

  227. and they didn't pray about it.

  228. But what about the other kind of

  229. prayers? The prayers that you might

  230. consider a miracle,

  231. or maybe something big.

  232. Occasionally, you get a yes.

  233. But sometimes,

  234. you just get nothing.

  235. And perhaps you're here today, and a

  236. series of those nothings convinced you

  237. that there's nothing to prayer. Prayer

  238. is just a waste of time.

  239. It just doesn't work.

  240. Now, to your surprise, you might be

  241. right in some ways because some prayers

  242. that most of us pray, naturally,

  243. they don't work.

  244. At least not in the way we want them to,

  245. but in spite of that, Jesus prayed.

  246. Jesus prayed. And not only that, but he

  247. taught his followers how to pray as

  248. well.

  249. So, why the disciples looked at Jesus

  250. and the way he prayed,

  251. they've noticed something different.

  252. They noticed that his prayers were

  253. intimate.

  254. They were passionate,

  255. honest, and compelling.

  256. So, watching him pray, the disciples

  257. became dissatisfied,

  258. and I think that even frustrated

  259. with their prayer life. Why? Because

  260. think about their experience. I mean,

  261. they prayed.

  262. They Their parents prayed. Their

  263. grandparents prayed. Yet, when Jesus

  264. walked the earth, Israel was still under

  265. Roman occupation.

  266. And before the Romans were the Greeks,

  267. and before the Greeks were the Persians,

  268. and before the Persians, the Assyrians,

  269. and before those, the Babylonians. So,

  270. seeing Jesus prayed, I think the

  271. disciples might have come to the

  272. conclusion

  273. that maybe they've been doing it wrong.

  274. That's why they've said, "Lord, teach us

  275. how to pray."

  276. Now, in the classic way of Jesus doing

  277. and saying things, you need to love

  278. Jesus. Instead of teaching his disciples

  279. how to pray first, he taught them how

  280. not to pray.

  281. And if you're not a Christ follower

  282. here, or you maybe even became cynical

  283. towards Christianity, you're actually

  284. going to like this part. And that's

  285. because Jesus confronts religious

  286. hypocrisy.

  287. And he says in the Gospel of

  288. Matthew chapter 6, he says, "And when

    Matthew 6 chapter mention

  289. you pray, do not be like the hypocrites,

  290. for they love to pray standing in the

  291. synagogues and on the street corners to

  292. be seen by others.

  293. Truly, I tell you, they have received

  294. their reward in full."

  295. You need to love Jesus, and that's

  296. because Jesus had zero tolerance for

  297. pretenders.

  298. Jesus had zero tolerance for people

  299. acting holy.

  300. God isn't impressed by polished prayers

  301. coming from inauthentic hearts.

  302. These people wanted attention, and guess

  303. what? They got attention, but from the

  304. people,

  305. not from God.

  306. And then from here, Jesus shifts the

  307. focus, and he says, "But when you pray,

  308. which leads us to a few important

  309. questions.

  310. When do you pray?

  311. Why do you pray?

  312. Where do you pray?

  313. I think it's worth giving our attention

  314. to these questions.

  315. Jesus says, "But when you pray, go into

  316. your room, close the door, and pray to

  317. your father who is unseen.

  318. Then your father who sees what is done

  319. in secret

  320. will reward you."

  321. Now, if you grew up in church and

  322. thinking that church is the only place

  323. where God can actually hear your

  324. prayers, but Jesus says that God can

  325. hear you anywhere.

  326. He can hear you at home, on the way to

  327. work, in your car, on the lowest, on the

  328. train. And not only that he can hear

  329. you, but he sees you.

  330. And as he sees you, he will reward you.

  331. With what? With his presence. When your

  332. prayers are coming from the bottom of

  333. your heart, God sees that. That means

  334. that when you pray,

  335. next slide, please.

  336. When you pray, you should use your own

  337. words.

  338. Right? You can speak honestly.

  339. You can pour out your heart.

  340. Jesus goes on to say, "And when you

  341. pray, do not keep on babbling, right?

  342. Like pagans, for they think they'll be

  343. heard because of their many words."

  344. Don't babble like the pagans means don't

  345. use the same words. Why? Because

  346. repetition doesn't move God. Perfect

  347. prayers don't move God, and Lent doesn't

  348. impress God, either.

  349. In fact, Martin Luther, who's known to

  350. be the father of Reformation, and that's

  351. because he believed in authority of

  352. scripture over church and human

  353. authority, and he actually emphasized

  354. what the scripture teaches that

  355. salvation comes by faith alone, which is

  356. a response to the grace of God. When it

  357. comes to prayer, he said that the fewer

  358. the words,

  359. the better the prayer.

  360. And what Jesus says next explains why we

  361. don't need a lot of words, or even the

  362. perfect words. In fact, what he says

  363. next pulls out the rug out of underneath

  364. the reason why many of us pray in the

  365. first place. Look at what he says. He

  366. says, "For your father knows what you

  367. need before you ask." Your father knows

  368. what you need before you ask.

  369. Now, as you look and read that,

  370. the next question comes up, right? If

  371. God already knows,

  372. why pray?

  373. Have you ever wondered that?

  374. And I think that's exactly the question

  375. that Jesus wanted his disciples to ask.

  376. He's got them where he wanted them to

  377. be, and maybe

  378. he's got you and me exactly where he

  379. wants us, too.

  380. Because God doesn't allow us to In fact,

  381. he does allow us to go to get to a point

  382. where we say, "God, I don't know how to

  383. do this on my own." And when you get to

  384. that place, he doesn't leave you

  385. wondering. He actually teaches you. And

  386. from here, we're going to look at four

  387. ways

  388. that we can level up into our prayer

  389. life. And the very first one is this:

  390. When you pray,

  391. if you want to level up in your prayer

  392. life, then you should realize that

  393. you're not praying into the air,

  394. you're praying to a

  395. person.

  396. And Jesus goes on to say in our passage

  397. in verse 9, he says, "This, then, is how

  398. you should pray.

  399. Our Father in heaven."

  400. Now, that raises an important question,

  401. isn't it?

  402. Does calling God Father mean God is

  403. male?

  404. Why not heavenly mother?

  405. Or heavenly being? Or heavenly deity?

  406. Those are fair questions because Jesus

  407. himself taught that God is spirit.

  408. The disciple John, who knew Jesus

  409. intimately, he said that God is love.

  410. So, why does Jesus tell us to pray our

  411. father?

  412. What is Jesus doing?

  413. I think that Jesus is inviting us into

  414. something much deeper than a concept.

  415. There's no special formula when we pray.

  416. In fact, the Apostle Peter, who was

  417. right there when Jesus taught the

  418. disciples about prayer, he would later

  419. write in his letter and he would say,

  420. "Cast your cares on him

  421. because he cares for you."

  422. Don't cast your cares on him because

  423. he's powerful, even though that's true,

  424. but because he cares for you.

  425. That means that prayer is relational.

  426. Not only that, but prayer is personal

  427. and prayer is intimate.

  428. I'm going to be vulnerable for a second.

  429. My relationship with my earthly father

  430. hasn't been the best while he was still

  431. around.

  432. And after he passed away, I became a

  433. Christ follower, which was 16 years ago,

  434. and I remember people telling me that

  435. when you pray to God, and I've seen in

  436. scripture, that when you pray to God,

  437. you should address him as your heavenly

  438. father. Now, because my relationship

  439. with my earthly father hasn't been the

  440. best,

  441. I honestly struggled for a good amount

  442. of time

  443. to address God as my heavenly father.

  444. And maybe you're here today and you can

  445. relate to that.

  446. Maybe the relationship you've had with

  447. your father hasn't been the best,

  448. either. In fact, maybe the relationship

  449. you have right now with your father is

  450. not that great or intimate.

  451. Well, the good news is that your

  452. heavenly father knows that.

  453. And not only that he knows that, but he

  454. appreciates that and he's willing to

  455. enter into that tension

  456. with you as he did with me to just talk

  457. about it.

  458. But if Jesus was right, and I think he

  459. was,

  460. we might not be able to level up in our

  461. prayer life if we don't see God as our

  462. heavenly father.

  463. Think about that

  464. as you go into your week. And then from

  465. there Jesus continues. He says that our

  466. father in heaven, hallowed be your name.

  467. Here is the part we often skip. Hallowed

  468. be your name, which uh simply means holy

  469. is your name.

  470. When we pray, as we sang,

  471. God the God of who created the universe,

  472. the galaxies, the stars, the mountains

  473. and the oceans, when we pray, we should

  474. actually pause and acknowledge whom we

  475. are addressing.

  476. The great God who has no equal. The

  477. creator of the universe. Yes, he's

  478. intimate, he's close, he's personal, but

  479. in the same time he is infinite.

  480. And when we rush past acknowledging who

  481. God is, we might actually reduce God

  482. when we pray to a good luck in charm.

  483. Right? Or maybe to a last glance in the

  484. mirror before we leave the home.

  485. Or even to a wish me luck before an exam

  486. or a project that we have maybe to

  487. finish.

  488. That's why what comes next in what Jesus

  489. says is the place in prayer where we

  490. recenter.

  491. What comes next is the purpose of

  492. prayer, and with the purpose of prayer

  493. comes the second way we can level up in

  494. our prayer life, and that is when we

  495. pray, we should pray with a pattern.

  496. What does it mean to pray with a pattern

  497. when Jesus says it? He said, "Your

  498. kingdom come,

  499. your will be done on Earth as it is in

  500. heaven."

  501. Now, you might be looking at that, and

  502. you're thinking, "Hold on a second.

  503. His kingdom? What about my kingdom?

  504. What about my family? My job? My lack of

  505. job? My health? My fears? My bills? My

  506. son who's struggling? My daughter who

  507. won't talk to me? What about me?"

  508. To which I really think that Jesus is

  509. smiling and saying, "That's already

  510. covered.

  511. Remember, your father in heaven sees

  512. that and knows what you need before you

  513. even ask.

  514. It's so easy to forget that part.

  515. So, with this in our mind, when we

  516. recognize that we're addressing our

  517. heavenly father, what else is it to say

  518. except that God, you first.

  519. Your agenda first. Your kingdom first.

  520. Your will first. My kingdom can wait.

  521. Maybe the purpose of prayer is not to

  522. impose our will to God.

  523. Maybe the purpose of prayer is to

  524. surrender

  525. our will to God.

  526. And why am I saying this? Because Jesus

  527. modeled this himself. This wasn't

  528. something that Jesus only taught. He

  529. modeled it. This is how he prayed.

  530. Remember the Garden of Gethsemane? Just

  531. hours before he was arrested, Jesus

  532. said, "Father, I dread this. There's

  533. nothing in me about this that I'm

  534. looking for." But then, he prayed the

  535. words that changed history.

  536. He said, "Not my will,

  537. but yours be done."

  538. Have you ever wondered what hung in the

  539. balance of this prayer?

  540. Or more importantly, who hung in the

  541. balance? You did.

  542. I did. The entire world did.

  543. Jesus' surrender to his father's will

  544. actually opened the way for our

  545. salvation.

  546. And guess what? Jesus is inviting us to

  547. pray

  548. as he prayed.

  549. According to him, if we approach prayer

  550. with any other posture than surrender

  551. to God's will, maybe we're missing the

  552. point. So, we pray, "Your kingdom come,

  553. your will be done

  554. on Earth as it is in heaven."

  555. Right here.

  556. Right now. I pray your kingdom come,

  557. your will be done in my life, in my

  558. marriage, in my family, in my workplace,

  559. in my relationships, with my influence,

  560. wherever I have responsibility,

  561. may heaven begin right here.

  562. Do you know what? Why does this even

  563. matter?

  564. I tell you why. Until our will is

  565. surrendered to God's will, what's the

  566. point of praying anyway?

  567. Because if my name is Jimmy and I want

  568. God to give me gimme

  569. right?

  570. I'm not really seeking God.

  571. I'm just trying to use him.

  572. I see God as a vending machine or a nap

  573. that exists to solve my problems.

  574. How many of you know that God is better

  575. than the ChatGPT app?

  576. Not that the app is wrong or bad, but

  577. God is better.

  578. Do you know it's so easy when we think

  579. that God, you know, is just there to

  580. fulfill our own needs. It's so easy to

  581. come with this objection and arrive at

  582. this conclusion. If there is a God,

  583. then he should answer my prayer.

  584. And if he doesn't, maybe

  585. God isn't even there.

  586. And honestly, that's understandable.

  587. Only when we see God as someone who

  588. gives us what we want, when we want, or

  589. we see him as a divine healer with when

  590. we need a miracle,

  591. or we see him as a lifeguard who's ready

  592. to jump into action when we drown, like

  593. my sister's friends.

  594. But what if God is more than that?

  595. What if his plan

  596. includes you,

  597. but is bigger than you?

  598. What if his plan involves you, but it

  599. doesn't revolve around you?

  600. Do you know what's funny? As humans, we

  601. end up in so many messes, and then most

  602. of the time our prayers sound like,

  603. "God, get me out of this place." Right?

  604. Have you ever behaved your way into a

  605. situation you didn't want to be in, and

  606. then ended up praying your way out of

  607. the very situation you got yourself

  608. into?

  609. I did. In fact, the most recent one is

  610. at the beginning of the year when I

  611. wanted to change our car.

  612. Now, bear with me for a second. At the

  613. beginning of the year, I thought that

  614. we're going to change our car from a

  615. manual one to an automatic one as I

  616. wanted my precious wife to start

  617. driving. So, I've done a bit of a

  618. research and I have found a Range Rover

  619. car. Beautiful car, isn't it? It wasn't

  620. like a new car. It was like 2017, wasn't

  621. that expensive, probably around 12

  622. grand. And I contacted the guy, went to

  623. see the car, I liked the car, I put a

  624. deposit on the car, and then in 1 week

  625. time went to collect the car. So, I'm

  626. driving the car back home and after 3

  627. weeks of having the car, one day on the

  628. way to work, I'm hearing a noise and the

  629. car stopped working.

  630. Now, what happened? The recovery came,

  631. brought it to a garage, and guess what?

  632. The engine of the car it's toasted.

  633. Now, one thing I didn't tell you is that

  634. the way I paid for the car was actually

  635. cash.

  636. Not with a bank transfer. I mean, why

  637. would you do that, right?

  638. So, obviously, I knew I shouldn't do

  639. that. I had that knowledge on the

  640. inside, don't do that. But yet, I went

  641. for it. And once I found myself in the

  642. mess, I catched myself praying. God,

  643. help me. Rescue me. Save me. What am I

  644. going to do? I loaned even the money.

  645. And now the money to fix the car cost

  646. more than the half of the price of the

  647. car.

  648. Now, does God answer these kind of

  649. prayers? Sometimes, he does.

  650. But his heart,

  651. even for me cuz I'm speaking to me even

  652. though I have the mic, his heart is to

  653. help us to avoid having to pray the kind

  654. of prayers by be beginning our everyday

  655. surrendered

  656. to his will.

  657. Now, with that being said, you might ask

  658. yourself,

  659. having

  660. prayer request, is it okay? Is it okay

  661. to have prayer requests? Is it okay to

  662. pray for certain things or situations or

  663. other people? Absolutely. You can pray

  664. about all the things that are near and

  665. dear to you. As the Apostle Peter said,

  666. he said, "Cast your cares upon him, for

  667. he cares for you." And from here,

  668. actually, Jesus tells us to pray for

  669. three specific things, which actually

  670. covers most of our needs. And with that

  671. comes the third way to level up in our

  672. prayer, which is to pray with precision.

  673. And Jesus invites us to pray for three

  674. things: for provision, for pardon, and

  675. for protection. And the old star would

  676. be

  677. And pardon is the forgiveness side. Now,

  678. when it comes to provision, he says that

  679. when you pray, you should pray, "Give us

  680. today our daily bread."

  681. And when you pray like that, you're

  682. actually declaring, "God, I need you.

  683. I depend on you."

  684. And this is so important because we live

  685. in a country like Ireland where

  686. generally speaking, I mean, generally

  687. speaking, you we don't get into trouble

  688. because of our lack,

  689. we get into trouble because of our

  690. access

  691. or access, sorry.

  692. And it's so easy to take things for

  693. granted,

  694. right? And because of that, we expect

  695. things,

  696. we feel entitled to things, and we

  697. become ungrateful for things. Now,

  698. what's antidote to that, you might ask?

  699. Well, I think the antidote is found in

  700. God's word again in the Old Testament

  701. and something that the book of Proverbs

  702. teaches. And you know, I dare you to use

  703. these verses right here as a prayer to

  704. pray with and see what happens. But it

  705. says, "Keep falsehood from me." We can

  706. deal with that, right? "Give me neither

  707. poverty nor riches, but give me only my

  708. daily bread." That right here is not

  709. really a Western prayer, isn't it?

  710. But why is he saying to pray like that?

  711. "Otherwise, I may have too much and

  712. disown you and say, 'Who is the Lord?'

  713. or I may become poor and steal and so

  714. dishonor the name of my God."

  715. The reality is that we're not just

  716. vulnerable when we have too little,

  717. we're also vulnerable when we have too

  718. much.

  719. Too little could tempt us to steal. Too

  720. much could tempt us to forget God.

  721. I mean, surely you've heard or know of

  722. someone who no longer needed to trust

  723. God and no longer maybe even had time to

  724. come for church and prioritized the

  725. things of God because they became

  726. successful and self-sufficient.

  727. Now, is it wrong to be successful? Oh,

  728. no, absolutely not. But it is wrong when

  729. you forget the one

  730. who made you successful.

  731. Right? So, I dare you to pray these

  732. prayers.

  733. Now, we go to the next part that Jesus

  734. invites us to pray, which is to pray for

  735. pardon, for forgiveness, right? And he

  736. says, "And forgive our debts as we have

  737. also forgiven our debtors."

  738. Now, that right here, that's a serious

  739. prayer.

  740. Why is it serious? Because

  741. if you don't only pray but act in

  742. accordance to it, that means that you

  743. might when you're praying that what

  744. you're actually saying is this,

  745. "I surrender my need to get even." When

  746. you choose to forgive. "I surrender my

  747. right to hold on to the offense.

  748. And I surrender my desire to make them

  749. pay."

  750. Now, if you're a Christ follower in the

  751. room, you don't have any option or any

  752. other option.

  753. In fact, let me say in in a more kind

  754. way. If you're a Christ follower in the

  755. room, you don't have an option.

  756. Because you have received forgiveness

  757. from God, you are called to extend

  758. forgiveness to others. We don't forgive

  759. because people deserve to be forgiven.

  760. We have received grace, and therefore,

  761. we extend it as well.

  762. Now, if you're here and you're not And

  763. by the way, yeah, forgiveness, it's

  764. evidence that we follow Jesus.

  765. But if you're here and you're not a

  766. Christ follower, not a Jesus follower,

  767. here is the harsh reality for you.

  768. Forgiveness is difficult.

  769. But unforgiveness is difficult, too.

  770. So, choose your difficult.

  771. And the trick with unforgiveness is

  772. this, when you refuse to forgive, you're

  773. allowing someone who hurt you to keep

  774. controlling you.

  775. Yes, they might be out of your life

  776. physically, but they're still

  777. influencing your emotions, your peace,

  778. your joy, your relationships, and even

  779. your future.

  780. So, choose your difficult.

  781. But let's be honest for a second. To ask

  782. God to do something for us

  783. that we are unwilling to do for others,

  784. that kind of creates a distorted picture

  785. of God, isn't it? And it reduces God to

  786. a cleaning product.

  787. How many of you know that prayer is more

  788. than getting God to clean up our mess?

  789. Prayer brings us into alignment with

  790. God. That's uh When it comes to

  791. forgiveness, forgiveness, it's a posture

  792. of surrender.

  793. So, would you maybe consider

  794. even this week or the next week or next

  795. month to forgive the person

  796. that maybe you have to forgive? Would

  797. you consider doing that? It's in your

  798. own benefit. And that doesn't mean that

  799. you need to restore the relationship

  800. with that person, because forgiveness

  801. and reconciliation is not the same

  802. thing. Sometimes that's not That

  803. actually might not be even wise or

  804. healthy. Maybe you need to keep the

  805. distance. But, would you be willing

  806. maybe to to release that person so you

  807. can get healed from the inside out? And

  808. if you can do it,

  809. I want to invite you to surrender that

  810. to Jesus.

  811. Because forgiveness, actually, it's

  812. surrender to our heavenly Father.

  813. At the third thing, Jesus talks about

  814. protection. We can pray for protection.

  815. Protection from what?

  816. He says, "And lead us not into

  817. temptation."

  818. Let me make it a bit more personal, and

  819. lead me not into temptation.

  820. Now, do you pray like this?

  821. Do you pray like this?

  822. Cuz you can't be planning to lead

  823. yourself into temptation, and then pray

  824. not to be led there.

  825. Right?

  826. Jesus says, "And lead us not into

  827. temptation, but deliver us from the evil

  828. one." Now, the definition of this term

  829. deliver actually means to preserve or to

  830. rescue one from danger.

  831. Now, if we're honest, when we lead

  832. ourselves into temptation, what we're

  833. actually saying is this, "Well, it's not

  834. that dangerous." Right?

  835. How many of you know that sin will take

  836. us further than we want to go?

  837. Sin will keep us longer than we want to

  838. stay

  839. and cost us more than we want to pay.

  840. But, the good news is this, that there

  841. is a way, there is a path that can lead

  842. you away from temptation, and there is a

  843. path that can deliver us from the evil

  844. one. And that path is not called

  845. discipline, even though it requires

  846. discipline, it's not called just

  847. self-control,

  848. even though it requires self-control,

  849. the path that can lead us away from

  850. temptation, it's saying yes to Jesus'

  851. original invitation, "Follow me."

  852. Why is Jesus inviting us to follow him?

  853. Because he knows what we're going

  854. through. In fact, the author of the book

  855. of Hebrews says about Jesus that we do

  856. not have a high priest, which is Jesus,

  857. who is unable to empathize with our

  858. weaknesses, but we have one who has been

  859. tempted in any way, just as we are, and

  860. yet he did not sin. So, because he can

  861. relate to our going through, the next

  862. verse says that we can actually approach

  863. God's throne of grace with confidence

  864. so that we may receive what? Mercy and

  865. what? Grace to help us in our time of

  866. need.

  867. But do you pray like that? And lead me

  868. not into temptation.

  869. And number four, the last fourth way

  870. that we can actually that can actually

  871. help us to level up in our prayer life

  872. is that we can actually pray in power.

  873. Pray in power.

  874. What I mean by that? Well, James, the

  875. brother of Jesus, was pretty close to

  876. him as he was his brother. He would

  877. later write in his letter and he would

  878. say in the book of James chapter 5, says

    James 5 chapter mention

  879. that the the prayer of a righteous

  880. person is powerful and effective. Elijah

  881. was a human being even as we are.

  882. But look at this. He prayed earnestly

  883. that it would not rain and it did not

  884. rain on the land for 3 and 1/2 years.

  885. How crazy is that? Do you want to know

  886. what's even more crazier?

  887. Powerful prayer it's available to

  888. ordinary people like you and me. Why?

  889. Because Elijah was a human being.

  890. Even as we are. He had emotions.

  891. Scripture talks about at some stage he

  892. had some fears. He was afraid of a woman

  893. even.

  894. So he had doubts, he had fears, yet he

  895. prayed.

  896. And it did not rain for 3 and 1/2 years.

  897. Now you might look at this and you might

  898. get stuck on this word righteous and you

  899. might be thinking that righteous means

  900. that you need to be perfect. But

  901. righteous doesn't mean you need to be

  902. perfect and actually what makes you

  903. righteous is that when you when put your

  904. trust in Jesus and in his sacrifice at

  905. the cross, scripture teaches that God

  906. made Jesus to be seen for us so that we

  907. come we can become the righteousness

  908. the righteousness of God in Christ.

  909. That's why our prayers have power. And

  910. that's why we should actually believe

  911. that God still hears, that God still

  912. open doors, that God can restore

  913. relationships, that God can provide,

  914. that God can intervene, and that he can

  915. save people.

  916. So, pray in power.

  917. So, before we wrap up this message,

  918. let's look again at the four ways that

  919. can actually help us to level up in

  920. prayer. When you pray

  921. when you pray, it's good to pray.

  922. Not if you pray, but when you pray,

  923. right?

  924. Pray to your heavenly Father who knows

  925. you, loves you, and has a an

  926. extraordinary purpose for your life. Not

  927. only that, but pray with a pattern. Say,

  928. "God, your kingdom come, your will be

  929. done in this situation, in my family, in

  930. my life." Number three, pray with

  931. precision.

  932. Use specific prayers.

  933. We're actually encouraged to pray for

  934. what? For provision,

  935. for pardon, which is forgiveness, for

  936. protection. You can actually play pray

  937. for your close family who maybe don't

  938. know God and they're desperate without

  939. hope.

  940. They can't see the light at the end of

  941. the tunnel. You can pray for that

  942. believing

  943. that your prayers are powerful,

  944. that we can actually pray in power.

  945. Now, can you imagine

  946. what God could could do in you,

  947. through you, and around you, if you

  948. leveled up in your prayer life and pray

  949. like that.

  950. Imagine waking up even tomorrow morning,

  951. and instead of carrying everything

  952. yourself,

  953. you bring everything in prayer to your

  954. heavenly Father, who cares for you.

  955. What if prayer could be more than

  956. something we do when life gets

  957. difficult?

  958. What if prayer can become the place we

  959. go every day?

  960. Every day to find peace,

  961. to find direction, to find strength and

  962. confidence

  963. in God.

  964. With that being said, let's stand and as

  965. the band will lead us into a last song,

  966. into a response time,

  967. what better way to respond other than to

  968. pray together?

  969. So, I'd love for us to pray out loud all

  970. together the prayer that Jesus taught

  971. us,

  972. the Lord's Prayer. And if you grew up

  973. praying this prayer, and maybe even been

  974. abused of the many times you've been

  975. asked to be prayed, and it had no effect

  976. in your life, I challenge you to pray

  977. this prayer right now with me.

  978. With the

  979. thought that

  980. you're not just repeating words,

  981. but actually you're addressing your

  982. heavenly Father,

  983. who knows you.

  984. This is an invitation

  985. to declare his greatness,

  986. to surrender to his will,

  987. and to acknowledge our dependence on

  988. him.

  989. So, if you're comfortable, repeat after

  990. me. So, I'm going to say it first, you

  991. wait until I finish, and then you're

  992. going to repeat. You ready? Here we go.

  993. Our Father in heaven,

  994. hallowed be your name.

  995. Your kingdom come.

  996. Your will be done

  997. on Earth

  998. as it is in heaven.

  999. Give us today our daily bread.

  1000. And forgive our debts

  1001. as we also have forgiven our debtors.

  1002. And lead us not into temptation,

  1003. but deliver us from the evil one.

  1004. For yours is the kingdom

  1005. and the power

  1006. and the glory forever.

  1007. Amen. Amen.