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EP5: Why is Death and Dying a Discipleship Issue?
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Hey there, my name is Chris rivers and I want to thank you
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for joining us for the grace church members podcast.
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The goal of this resource is to address discipleship issues in
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the life of Grace Church and discuss how to be more fully
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devoted to God in this episode, Scott Mozingo.
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And I chat with Matt Kelley, who serves as one of Grace Church
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has staff, governing elders, and you can find him also helping
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lead worship and some leadership development.
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In this particular interview, we have a fascinating discussion
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around death, the natural burial process and the opportunity that
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we have to care for and disciple members through this unique
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season born out of this idea that the church should take care
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of its people, not only in life but also in death natural.
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Burial is now a practical way for Grace Church to live out
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this Principle. As we discussed why this is such
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a huge discipleship issue. I got really clear on how I can
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move. And share this idea with others
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and I'm hoping that you do as well.
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Be sure to check out our podcast page at Grace Church.
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S c.org /y. Discipleship on this page, you
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can access a transcript of this episode and additional resources
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to help you move. Okay let's jump into our episode
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with Matt Kelly on why death and natural.
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Burial is a discipleship issue. Well Matt good to see you today.
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Scott was ancient good to see you.
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Hey Chris, yeah we're going to have a Conversation about some
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topics that a lot of people have been asking about.
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I was at the lake this past weekend, at my dad who doesn't
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live. Here comes up to me and says we
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sit at the table he says hey man I hear y'all are burying people
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and I was like, yes, exact razy actually got to talk about
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natural burial this weekend. Like it was really great.
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What are we doing as a church? Yeah.
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So several years ago we just start a conversation about what
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does it look like for us to be able to take care of people and
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not just Life, but also through death and burial.
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We knew that we were trying to disciple people from birth until
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the grave, but once we got to the Grave, we were not involved
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and we felt like that was something that we needed to
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explore. And it was a lot of steps that
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happen with our church at the same time.
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But we just decided that we needed to take some steps to
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save. The someone need to be a part
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of. And so we did a lot of research
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and really honed in on an idea of something on natural burial,
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which means it's simple. Its natural exactly.
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What You think it is? It's no embalming.
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The Vault, no casket. You're basically put in a pine
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box or a shroud and you are returned.
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It's very simple process and so it's been something that we are
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just now dabbling in. We're on year one of this but it
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has seemed to be a great discipleship tool for us and
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something that we're learning from every day.
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Yeah, every step of this way. So map, a lot of people know you
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as worship It goes hand-in-hand with your work with do a lot of
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work with our young staff in addition to that.
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Yeah, maybe they don't really think about you in this role,
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right? You've had some real formative
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personal experiences and you talk a little bit about why you
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how you got in this game. Yeah yeah so I mean I think
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seven or eight years ago, our church did a series on death and
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if the same time we were looking at that and we did a series on
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that and then we also saw a a documentary on 60 Minutes about
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something called natural. Burial had never really heard
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that but saw that and kind of piqued her interest in the my
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dad who was a pastor in Seneca for a long time.
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He's now retired. He was a part of a burial at a
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place called Ramsey Creek up in Westminster and he came home and
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he buried, actually, a friend of mine that I grew up with that
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died, early. And as he got home, and he
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started explaining it to me about the men, they're taking
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their jackets off all working together, Barry and Matthew
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doing all that. His he described it to me when
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he got done talking about it. I was like, yeah, that's weird.
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Like I say this is weird and he goes actually he goes that was
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very different but it was extremely helpful for Crawford,
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who was the dad, burying his son, he goes.
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And that moment Crawford had all these men around him.
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They were all part of the process.
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He said, we all six men were standing around Berry and
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Matthew. So there were Parts where we
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laughed. We cried, we talked about
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Matthew, we were able to console Crawford.
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He said it was a very communal time and I thought in the moment
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I was like, okay, that's the church, that's what we've been
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missing. That's the piece that is very
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intriguing is to we're in a really dark grief, sometimes,
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dark sometimes joyful, but a grieving time, the church is
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there and the people that you've done live with our they're
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celebrating and crying and remembering and all the people
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that you want with them. They're an active participant in
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that piece and that was the thing that really caught my
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mind. Yeah.
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So that personal story was really catalytic for you.
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It was personally This has been a long process.
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We've been working on this as a church.
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Yeah, I think that, I think I had that conversation.
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My dad 78 years ago. It just started as digging and
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we met with. We just thought we would look
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for some land. We thought we would try to see
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what it looks like to possibly buy some acreage, and we learned
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a lot about the burial process. We've learned a lot about the
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state South Carolina and learned learned a lot about that.
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And then we actually talk to the people at Ramsey Creek, in
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Westminster Kimberly, and Billy, they were the pioneers of
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natural burial. Or green burial timed in the US.
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And the right here in EPs and they're in Westminster South
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Carolina and they are huge proponents and wonderful people
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to work with and a great resource and saved us from a
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thousand troubles. I'm doing this, we'll come back
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to them in just a second because I think there's an interesting
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distinction between maybe what we're doing and what they're
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doing, this will help our audience.
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Yeah. But the thing about story.
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Described the process. Like, what happens when someone
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passes away? Yeah, done this a few times now
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we have. So what just help people And how
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it's not weird. So currently if someone passes
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away, they contact our church and our care Department kicks
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into gear, which is who they are.
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They're great. I Jennifer deal.
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Sarah, Brandon Lee Ann cabin that crew gets to work.
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If someone passes away they call us and then we tell them
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currently we have a partnership with Palmetto Mortuary and right
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now, they are the partner that is able to pick up the body
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transport. You do have to have a burial
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transport permit. There are pieces we're not able
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to do currently. They were very happy to partner
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with us and so they go pick the body up store with us for
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however long we need, you need to do natural burial.
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Within five days is about as far as you go because the minute you
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die, 20 minutes your body starting to Decay.
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Yeah. So they do store the body in a
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freezer for us and then they transport the body to the burial
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area for us. We dig the hole we have
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volunteers currently that go out and dig the hole and get
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everything ready. And get the area ready and set
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and then Palmetto delivers the body for us and then we put it.
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And then when the family gets there, the body is there, it is
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laying on boards, kind of over the whole.
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And then what happens is during the during the service, it's for
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the family gets involved. They actively lower the body
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into the ground. They put dirt on and that's
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where you see family. And the last one I saw,
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grandchildren bearing, the grandma.
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We've had tons of people just write notes on the pot, Box on
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the time volunteers are making these boxes.
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That's right. Yeah volunteers are making the
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boxes. I mean, it is a very active
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thing for people in our church, their active participants of
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burial. This isn't for everybody.
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We're just saying this is an option right in some situations.
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I've heard when someone dies, the funeral home comes in and
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then they just feel like their loved one is just kind of gone
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and we wanted to bring that back in where you are.
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Actively you feel like you were taking care of people that you
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have done life. So people might think probably
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the close proximity Is Graveside service, right?
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Kind of intimacy at the burial site, right?
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But this is even more intimate than all of that you live on the
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bodies in the ground. I mean, a lot of times that
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funerals I've been to when the service is over you leave and
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then they lower the body and you are actively returning them to
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dust, right? You're the active participant
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at. So how did we get to this point?
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What's changed over the last couple of decades?
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Where it feels like like the church has gotten further
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disconnected from the burial process.
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I think just as a natural consequence of there are some
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business pieces that have happened over the years and
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there's some pieces where we don't understand what to do.
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So we've hate to say I was arrested in some ways, right?
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But we don't really know what to do professionals at doing this.
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It's a been a great service to people, but we did feel like for
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us. And it was one thing that
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Kimberly from Ramsey Creek, really challenged us on when we
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were in the room with her, she goes, I mean, This is actually
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what you're supposed to do. Meaning the church, the church.
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She gets the church's. Y'all believe in this.
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Ya'll believe in taking care of people.
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All the way to the end. She goes y'all believe in
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Resurrection. This should be the church.
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This should be what the church is about.
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And I remember when she said that, I was like, man, you're
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right? That is the true answer.
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And I think that is something that is clicked for me.
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And for the people that have been a part of it so far is that
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this is what we as the church or supposed to be doing.
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We're supposed to be we're not supposed to release this.
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Peace, once we get to it, we're supposed to be all hands on deck
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for the next five days. This is when we're a lie to you,
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we rallied to you every other time there's a grief or tragedy
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in your life, why would you not do it in Death?
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Yeah. You know I'm saying right?
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So I think that's the thing that's gotten clear to us is
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it's a great rallying point for us in that too.
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So a nice little gentle rebuke from the folks at ramsbury,
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Chris. Yeah, I mean very catalytic.
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It really was. And she and she didn't say in
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the meantime, she was just like, I mean, of all people.
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Believe in this one of the things is that we have
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integrated. I thought process of burial and
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our minds that we don't even know why.
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We think that we question what we've done for hundreds of years
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and now in the last hundred years, the game has changed.
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It's a fine thing. But now when I present it to
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people, there likes weird, why are we doing that?
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So even friend of mine, who's a pastor Mississippi, he and I
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were talking about it when night, he was tell me what
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you're working on. Is like, well, I've been working
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on this thing called Or burial. And he's a, what does that?
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And I told him and he after about two minutes is like I
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think in Mississippi, you have to be involved.
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I think it's a law as like I guarantee.
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It's not as like I live in South Carolina.
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You live in Mississippi. I guarantee.
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It's not and he goes, no, I think it is.
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I was like, I bet it's not. And so I got an email from him
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at 3:00 a.m., and he just all the email said was, it's not a
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long Mississippi, monk. So, he just said, I went to work
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and started researching and his point was to me later on, He's
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like I assumed things that had to be done and I didn't know and
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so I was just like this what you have to do.
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He said so like I'm not we're not even educated and we've
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integrated things into our lives that we haven't even root truly
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thought through and just adopted.
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And I think of anything just allows her people just to think
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and asks a questions about it and then once again interact
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with the death process, the burial process.
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That's one thing that I think it's a real disruptive idea that
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Oranges those assumptions in an area that people don't want
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think about. So it's fine.
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I'll just do whatever you tell me to do and I'll pay the money
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because I really don't want to engage.
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Yeah, the whole day. I don't want to think about
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death, right? And that was Ramsay.
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Creaks point is, this is actually what y'all believe in
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this is your point that your point is, this is when y'all are
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game, time is in the death process and y'all believe this
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more than anybody. And so we've a little bit
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separate herself from something that we say, we fully put our
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trust in her home. In.
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And so it's a little bit of a disconnect that we want to bring
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back together and reconnect. This explain the difference
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between what they're doing as a relates to Creation care.
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That's a part of it. Yeah, probably.
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So we have three big reasons why just kind of go through those
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reasons why this is really beneficial for our church.
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Yeah, I mean there are different areas and they get real
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technical. There's a difference between
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natural burial and green burial. There's different regulations
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that go on without. There's a different regulations
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that go with creating a cemetery.
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There's are all things that I've learned natural means you're
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returning, green means there's certain things that you're
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trying to do with the land. That there's some conservation
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things that you're working on some of it has to do around the
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way, your bearing or the way, you are preserving, the land and
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ours is not real around that ours is more around the care of
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our people and I don't think there's one more than the other.
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It's just they have a very different focus on what they're
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doing and what they're doing is great and if we didn't have
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this, that's where I'd want to be.
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Great is it Ramsey Creek, but we are being a little bit more
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utilitarian to disciple are people.
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So they're heavy on the environmental Environmental
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Conservation. Yes.
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And we'll talk more about the care for the body.
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Talk about the cost. That is a.
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Yeah, that's part of it. Yeah, one of the main things
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that we looked at was right now, the average, which I would say
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is not at your average, is about 10 grand in South Carolina,
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which I've not heard of one being 10 grand in well, but
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that's what's if you Google it, that's the Google.
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But we are looking right now at 2000 to 2500 dollars.
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So if we have 6,000 members I mean think about that.
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Think about the savings of 8,000, we bury 6,000 people over
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the next 50, 60 years. Think about the money, they get
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saved to do ministry that you're not putting money in the ground
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and it's just a I'm not trying to say it's a financial win but
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it does help you think about if you believe that you can't carry
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this with you. Then there is a piece of the
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yeah, it's a stewardship. It is a straight stewardship
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issue where you're just like, okay, I can do this.
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I believe that I'm not here. I'm going to spend this amount
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of money to get this done at the same time that deploys resources
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for other ministry, right? It is a financial stewardship
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issue. In a major way, there's the
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environmental piece, there's the financial stewardship piece.
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Those are two are secondary to the the piece that you've been
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talking about quite a bit, which is just the care for one another
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as church members, right? Tell us.
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It's a little bit so we've been actively burying.
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Yeah, for about six months. Yeah, and we closed on the land
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and summer of 2021 and we thought we would bury one person
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this year. I would say, through next.
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Summer is like I will probably want what buried, I think, we
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buried five. So it's made us, think about a
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lot and we've been busier than we don't.
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So what have you as far as this benefit of the church discipling
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families. All the way through the burial
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process. Us.
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What have you seen? Have you seen that?
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Really be a benefit. Well one of the very first ones
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was a member in Spartanburg his father passed away and his small
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group, his group of men and his small group helped bury his dad.
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And one of the small group leaders called me or texted me
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on the way home and was like, Hey, when y'all first started
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talking about this, I was like me.
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What are we doing? This is weird.
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He said, but I gotta tell ya. He said I've never been a part
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of anything. What I did today.
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He said, if you have anybody have any questions, you send
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them Spartanburg. He goes, we got a group of men
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out here that are fully on Bored because they were actively
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taking care of that man in Spartanburg who just lost his
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dad and he was like, I've never been able to in a tactile way be
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able to take care of somebody in that moment, the way I did.
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And so we've seen that we've seen people riding them boxes,
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just writing notes, people that I haven't had anybody returned
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from one of the burials out there and not be affected or
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seen the church rally like it and really a lot of them.
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Die words. They're just like man, I've
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never seen. Thing like that but I like it.
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They say it feels right. It feels like what we're
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supposed to be doing. When you go out there, talk to
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us a little bit about the physical.
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What is the price look like? Yeah, this little bit about.
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Yeah, firemen right. Well, it's 12 acres.
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It was an old tree farm and so there's still lots of Holly's
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out there. And so, it's a little bit of a
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mixture of field. Some tree area where there's
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still lots of trees and look at reform area.
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And then there is a really nice cool pasture where we're bearing
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currently. We are the next person in line.
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You're not getting plots, you're not.
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Hey, here's, I'd like to be buried on this tree picking your
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spot. No, you're really nice.
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This is very different. We're not selling pre pretty
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silly. No, I'd like to not do that.
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So, yeah, we're burying kind of in a row and people always ask
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their like wool, how do you know that you're not bearing on
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somebody else? And we do have a software that
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Maps out where people are and then you can go to that
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software. It will basically give you a GPS
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of where that person is buried. And actually when you type in
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the GPS, it'll tell you there will be two area if you want to
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read it through and stuff like that.
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I mean, all that's not fully set up.
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That is stuff that's we're working on right now on.
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And then we will continue to bury out there.
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We've had to do a lot of land kind of planning, which is why
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we tried to slow, play a little bit because we've had to kind of
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re-establish. A rework, some roads that were
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already there. There are some holes that from
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the tree farm that we've had to just we just did a lot of work
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in the last two weeks and so you can drive by it, not even know
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it's there but it's It is not a fancy.
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It's not groomed the graves, are there.
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There is grass that has grown up around them and but there are
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lots out there or there, or they marked.
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Yeah, they are Mark. There's a little stone with the
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name and the birth date, and the burial and the death date, and
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that's it. Probably in a couple of years.
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The way the earth works, the stones will, they'll be gone.
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We're not preserving any of that.
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It's marked right now and you can go find it, but it might be
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at some point that those just the Earth Eats a stone.
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That's kind of how we set it up as we were thinking about this
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podcast and particular, we're trying to focus on the why, why,
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why do we, why is this important?
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So, I mean, what would you want someone to think about God and
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Creation in all of this? Yes, well, I'm saying about that
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this morning and I was reminded of Ecclesiastes which tells us
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we return to dust. I was reminded that we say this
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Earth is not our home and we can't carry it with us.
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So, I was thinking about those two things and then I was
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thinking about, I believe in the resurrection, I believe in those
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things that don't make me. Hold onto this world a man.
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It's hard because I love this world.
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I struggle to not want to call this world, my home and at the
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same time when I go out there, I am reminded that this is looking
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for something in the future that actually will be way more
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rewarding and if I believe all those things then I won't hold.
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The things and I'll be okay. We're just saying you know?
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However, you'll need to bury me under my control.
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I'm good, I'm good for us to roll with this, you know, and
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I'm good for my resources to be left my family to do ministry.
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I'm good for you, not to spend a lot of time and go back.
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And have to remember me a bunch because I'm actually not there.
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And so there are a lot of those things that just feels unique to
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me. The other things you need to me,
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is that it's going to be a unique place where People that
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we have all done Ministry with, for a long time.
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We're going to be buried together.
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They're one of my volunteers, that was digging holes for me.
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He's the one that actually brought that up.
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He said, when I got done digging that hole the other day, I was
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out there and he said I just thought in the moment, he's a
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young guy, 25, two, young kids, and actually 28.
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But two young kids and he's like man I just was thinking the
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other day, he goes men and women that I have done Ministry with.
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I'm gonna be buried with these people right here and I never
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really understood Church cemeteries hundred-year-old
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Archie sees Church, cemeteries laid out there.
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And I was like, why did they do that?
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But it's because the church used to handle, right?
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Death and Burial at the family. The family have a family plot.
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You have all the family together.
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Your church was an active participant in that and it's a
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little bit of returning to that returning.
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To again, this is why this is important for us as a church.
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So, there's a care component, being able to really love each
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other all the way to the very end.
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There is a connection to the temporal nature of this world.
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Yeah. And then I love what you said
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about the resurrection of just being able to look forward to
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something. And it feels like if we
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disconnect, if we pull up, just short in the burial process of
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taking it all the way to the end, that maybe we miss some of
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those key markers that really connect us to God.
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That is, that is so true. It is something where if you
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look at the ministry we're doing it did feel like a disconnect
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for us that we were getting to a certain point even as we that
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strives that Julie Eldred has With seen your honor.
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Then once we get past that, then what do you do?
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Are we as a church obsolete, then I just did not feel right
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to us. Right?
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So we felt like we needed to have a part of it.
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Yeah, it feels like a real healthy.
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Correction of some unintended consequence.
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Yeah, have just developed over the last several decades.
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As we're all a lot more transient, we don't have the
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small rural church with the cemetery plot like this for my
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screw-up with that's right. And this has brought a topic
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back into our mind, but I think is really great.
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Great, right? And I mean the thing is whenever
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somebody comes to us, we always tell them.
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This is an option. We're not saying hey, you got
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our church, you got to do this because for some people, it's
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okay. It's just an option is something
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that we want to give them an option to do.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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So what do people do, if they want to find out more if they
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have questions, if they're interested in volunteering?
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Yeah, it's interesting. We had a meeting the other day
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with just an initial meeting with about a little over 50
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people that came. It said hey we want to volunteer
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everyone from working on the land because the land has to be
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but shocked every six weeks and grass cut and real tactile
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things like that to. We have a group that is
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currently building our caskets. We have a group that is making
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sure routes currently we have not buried anybody in a shroud
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but that is an option and is your over there.
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Either way. They should probably just reach
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out to Jennifer deal who's in charge of our care.
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She has been collecting all those people.
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And then we've got Volunteers running all that.
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We've got volunteers, running the casket building, we got a
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volunteer run in the Shroud building we got volunteers
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digging holes. I mean, it is, it is people
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that, I mean I had a guy the other day just say, hey, thank
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you for letting me serve this way.
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I'm getting to serve people and I didn't know this was going to
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be it, but this has been real rewarding for me, which I
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thought was an interesting take on what he was saying.
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And that's another way they answer the.
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Why question? Chris, that's another reason why
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this is important, is it brings in all these volunteers draw.
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Them in closer to their Devotion to God, by being able to serve
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people in some unique ways. That's right, that's right.
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Yeah. That idea of being able to do
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that with just a handful of other men that I know, and I'm
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getting to serve a family that has lost someone or I'm having
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my very close friends, help me navigate a very hard season.
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I remember my brother passed away many, many years ago, and
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that was just difficult for a family that loses a small.
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A child or a grandparent or this is an option for them to not
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just a financial stewardship option.
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But it's also just a chance to Rally together and care for one
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another in a unique way that we don't always have a chance to do
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that, and you can get plugged into community group, you can do
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life with people and you can get to know people and those are
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great things. And I think this is another way
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for us to rethink what it looks like for us to serve one another
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absolutely in a very, very difficult space.
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That's right. The two young guys right now
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that have dug our Graves for us. They do not know the people, I
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call them and I'm like, hey, we had somebody passed away in our
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church. The funeral is going to be in
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four days and a day later, I'll just get a picture of the whole
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duck. There's no questions there.
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Just like we are just serving the people are just serving
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whoever this family is, we don't need a bunch of details.
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We're ready to go. Yeah, and it's a unique thing.
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Yeah it is. I remember Matt Williams when we
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first started talking about some of this, he told a story to us.
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Some staff and he mentioned, you know, he's trying to cast a
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vision and capture our imagination is just imagine a
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couple that is newlywed and very young in their marriage and
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loses. Their child, think about the
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challenge that, that could be for them financially.
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Think about the challenge, this is a chance for us as a people
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to Rally around a couple like this sin and to do something
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that it. No one would.
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I mean, that's amazing. I mean, I remember what he told
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me that story and I was just imagined the way that we can
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love people really well. And I'm just really excited to
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see what happens as we do this month after month, year after
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year. And we have maybe you could I
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know you shared the first person that passed away and buried.
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But have we buried children have?
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I mean, could you talk a little bit more about that or how?
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Because we have other people that we bear we do we have not
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buried any children yet, it's all been people that are later
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and seasons in life which for all those a lot of them have
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been a little bit of a rejoicing.
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Yeah it's the time of suffering is over.
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And so those have not been as I mean I would say as tragic.
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Yeah. But that's still been unique in
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a different kind of Celebration. We have talked about like I said
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we have 12 acres, we have talked about setting up an area,
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possibly for a young life, lost a stillborn, a memorial or
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having an area to walk through something like that.
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And that's something an idea that we're looking at in the
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future. Once we get our feet under
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syllabus more, what we're doing, I mean death.
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And on all forms. It's not just it's not just the
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end and so we want to be ready for all of them.
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If we can just looking forward, somewhat going to have a chapel
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and put a chapel, we do, we would like to have a chapel out
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there. Like I said, we have the land
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for it. We have some equipment out there
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that has some people have been real gracious with us and
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donated, some very nice equipment for us to work the
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land. But the next thing we do need is
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we probably need a chapel Barn structure for us to have a
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service. We would love and it's great.
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It's not far from our Provost or camp.
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It's so we're able to do a service there if we need to and
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then come out there. But if we could have one area
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for people to Rally to and do a little service and then do the
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burial, it would be the ideal that we would want.
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If you're listening, that's not something you're interested in
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talking to and helping with Kelly.
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But yeah, conversation love to have a conversation with you.
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Matt commission us as leaders. For those of us in this
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audience, how would you want us to speak about natural barrier
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of someone asked us about this? Of course.
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Now they have a resource. That they can have a
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conversation with Rod, but how would you want us to speak about
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this? What would be some tips or just
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some things to equip us and having conversation with people
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about this, I think one of the ideas is that the idea around we
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want to be we want to be discipling are people from birth
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into death. We want to be a part of every
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stage of life and all the way into death.
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And so I think that's that's a little bit of a different
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language. We always talk about discipling
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people in your thinking about during the lifetime but One of
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the major things you can do to disciple, the family is help
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them bury their loved ones. And I think that was something
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that we were not a part of that, we aren't saying that we have it
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all figured out but we knew we needed at least take a step and
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get in the game and that's what this is.
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It's another way to disciple. Our people, we're disciple, are
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people that are losing their loved ones.
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And then the people that get to serve are being discipled,
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there's the part of it. Yes.
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So I had a guy that's building caskets for us right now and he
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wrote down crying the other night.
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Just told me. Thank you for him building
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caskets. He was grateful that he got to
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be a part of it and he does not know these people.
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He is just doing it to serve them and he was he called me
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crying talking about it and I was like meant.
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Thank you. You're the one actually serving
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these people and you're thanking me for the opportunity.
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I was like you're the one actually doing the work but the
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thing is that guy's being discipled like there's something
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happening God's working in his heart, the way way, this is
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going where he is getting to serve people with nothing in
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return. He's just getting ready to help
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these people in a very dark time, and he's grateful for it
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and God's using that to the disciple him.
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So Chris, it seems like death is something, obviously, it's an
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uncomfortable topic. It is.
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And it feels like it's something that to be endured.
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And I think just changes the conversation because it's
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inevitable. It's not something that has to
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be feared. If you are a follower of Jesus
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and believe in the resurrection, believe in the new heavens and
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new earth, so it seems like it's an opportunity to reclaim and
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Something back and disciple, and help people Embrace, instead of
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indoor, that's give anything. So, the point, I think that the
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church, you know what, I hear Matt say is the church,
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normalizing the conversation and actually bringing the truth and
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the hope that we all talked about.
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But this is like a physical embodiment different way of
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expressing that hope which I think is going to be real
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powerful for our church. Yeah.
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Ever, how long we get to do it? That's right.
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Yeah. Well man, this has been great.
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Matt appreciate it. I mean, is there anything else
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you want to leave with? Us know, I'm grateful for this
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opportunity and I'm excited about how this disciples are
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people in future. I mean that's what it is.
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Really that's great. Well thanks again.
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Thank you. Thanks Matt.
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