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EP12: Why is Prayer a Discipleship Issue?

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  1. Grace Church members, welcome back to the podcast.

  2. I'm Chris Rivers. One of your host and I'm really

  3. glad to join you today. If you're a first-time listener,

  4. we're excited. You joined us.

  5. The goal of this resource is to address discipleship issues in

  6. the life of Grace Church and discuss how to be more fully

  7. devoted to God. I have to say, I was really

  8. encouraged by this interview. You're about to here with Ryan

  9. Donnell, and Scott Mozingo. Mostly because it gave me a

  10. template for what sir Successful prayer.

  11. Looks like we unpacked prayer as a formative practice and explore

  12. how prayer can serve. As a barometer to what we truly

  13. believe about. God, the gospel and our

  14. Salvation stick around to the end because Ryan gives us a

  15. model for praying. The Lord's Prayer you won't want

  16. to miss it. Okay, let's jump into this

  17. interview. Ryan's good to see you today.

  18. It is he yeah, it's got good morning.

  19. Chris. Good morning Scott.

  20. Well, Ryan wants to just jump in.

  21. Love to learn a little bit about you.

  22. Your journey here at Grace and what do you even do here?

  23. Yeah, that's a good question. I've gotten that a lot, it's

  24. changed over time but right now I'm a worship minister.

  25. So I say I play songs and Lead music and Try to welcome people

  26. into worship and our services, they're singing and prayer and

  27. all of that. And then recently I've gotten to

  28. do some part-time work in videography.

  29. So I'm on the video team now. Okay, then I'm on a couple of

  30. different teams like that do projects for the church like not

  31. of prayer. Good Friday.

  32. Service has sort of special services stuff and yeah and

  33. you've been a Grace for a while. Yeah.

  34. Lydia. My wife and I came to Grace in

  35. 2009, summer 2009. So, I've been here a while and

  36. yeah, we worship mostly at the Pelham campus and my wife serves

  37. in Mosaic there and kids are in the Ministries there and you're

  38. still a student. Right?

  39. Right. Still student.

  40. People ask. Are you done with school yet and

  41. but they've been asking that for Almost 10 years, what are you

  42. studying? So right now I'm studying at the

  43. University of Geneva in Switzerland and their Systematic

  44. Theology program. They have a Ph.D program there

  45. that they let you study at a distance.

  46. So I get to travel for courses and conferences and stuff like

  47. that, but it's allowed me. Part-time flexibility to work

  48. and study at the same time and University of Geneva.

  49. Just fit the bill. What do you eventually hope to

  50. do? Yeah, I mean I'm trying to just

  51. follow the lord and Trust, whatever you want to do with me.

  52. That's the true. But spiritual sounding answer.

  53. I really do want to be able to teach in an academic setting and

  54. right and I'd love to be in a setting where I could help equip

  55. people who want to be in Ministry but also engage people

  56. who are not Christians at all and the academic contexts of

  57. secular universities, allow that to happen to have a conversation

  58. about Jesus and and the church and that type of thing in the

  59. context of pluralism and secularism and disagreement and

  60. I don't think I just want to be Salt and Light there.

  61. Ryan will speaking of bringing things into our world.

  62. I want to talk about prayer from your perspective just how have

  63. you grown in your understanding Of prayer.

  64. And what is the passion for you? It's a great question.

  65. I mean, I think for me, I don't think this is crazy different

  66. from most people, I think, when you become a Christian, the Holy

  67. Spirit, your your ushered into a conversation between God and God

  68. and God, and I don't mean that there are three Gods, but when

  69. you become a Christian On the first, you know, sort of cries

  70. of your heart. Paul says it in this way and

  71. Galatians 4:6 that. He says the spirit, the Holy

    Galatians 4:6

  72. Spirit, cries Abba, Father, and one of the first things, you

  73. know, when you have the Holy Spirit, is that Jesus is your

  74. brother. And God, is your father, and

  75. that's a prayer like your response of faith is a prayer.

  76. It's a response to God and Here, all of a sudden in relationship

  77. with him, you know. So as a baby Christian, I was

  78. like, I was 10 years old but nobody had to tell me.

  79. This is what it feels like, because you just you're like,

  80. well, I know, I just, I know God.

  81. Now I I sense his presence. So, like you have these

  82. immediate desires and emotions to talk to God, you don't have

  83. to be convinced that he's in the room.

  84. You're just You're aware but as you get older and as I got

  85. older, you know, figuring out how to grow and and develop

  86. practices is a different thing. And so I think like for most

  87. people times of suffering pain, doubt those would always be

  88. crucibles. You know, crushing pressing

  89. moments, squeezing me and, you know, I'd cry out to God.

  90. Pray in those in those times. But, but really developing

  91. habits, or a practice of the presence of God through prayer

  92. is not something that I could say.

  93. Yeah. This is really, I'm really

  94. developing and growing in this. So I think there's natural

  95. intuitions when you become a Christian.

  96. You're like, yeah, course, I want to be with God, but there's

  97. so many other things that can shape you and distract you from

  98. that that if you don't have developed habits and practices

  99. and the Community and a trellis, if you will to help your your

  100. plant, your your, your Vine of praying to grow, then it's not

  101. going to happen or I'll get choked out.

  102. So I think that happened for me over time and I got to a point,

  103. I think a lot of Christians do when they're like, I missing I'm

  104. missing the fullness of the kind of life with God, that I feel

  105. like I'm supposed to have. And yeah, prayer was kind of one

  106. of those check engine light moments things from me when it

  107. was highlighted that I think I'm actually like fading away from

  108. the kind of life with God, that was meant to have Ryan.

  109. That's great. Make the connection for us

  110. between prayer devotion. Why do you think this prayer

  111. habit, ritual? Like whatever you have learned

  112. and your Discovery? Why is it such a discipleship

  113. issue? For us as members of our church.

  114. That's a great question. I think I think there's positive

  115. answers and negative in the sense that I think.

  116. One of the things that prayer as a discipleship issue is crucial

  117. for us in terms of our understanding or approach to

  118. what Christianity is. You know, if a disciple is a

  119. learner or an apprentice of Jesus, then it's not just

  120. learning about content. Like you would read a book on a

  121. shelf, it's about learning to practice a way of life and to

  122. live with Jesus. It's about being in his presence

  123. in all the corners of your life. So prayer.

  124. Highlights what you really think the gospel gives you.

  125. Okay, I'm gonna try to say this as forthrightly and clearly as I

  126. can, but a lot of people in our church or who attend and in

  127. America think that God is a resource to get something else.

  128. Besides God, So how do we say that?

  129. I'll tell you, we think that Jesus is a channel to get us to

  130. a place called heaven. Which if you fill that out,

  131. maybe so that I can have endless days without pain or crying or

  132. tears. Now, do we all want that?

  133. Of course we do, but which is the priority, is it a mortal

  134. existence from day to day? Like it's just an infinite

  135. sequence of days? Is that is that actually your

  136. God? Actually probably is like for a

  137. lot of people where the absence of suffering, right?

  138. You're just the apps. It's like we think of Salvation.

  139. Only in negative terms, like just subtracting sin, right?

  140. From the equation, or subtracting death, and suffering

  141. from the equation, or subtracting the problems in my

  142. life or, or, and it's not to say that they're not problems of

  143. course, they are. We all believe that look through

  144. that, but I think if that's all you do, you never actually get

  145. to what is the Christian Gospel? Which is that the best thing

  146. that God can give you is God self?

  147. Like the best thing you get with Christianity is God.

  148. That's what makes God God, is he's the best.

  149. But for example, Tristan, I were talking about John 3:16.

    John 3:16

  150. We supposed to learn that for Fusion right now.

  151. Now call him out so you better be working on that tea and I'll

  152. tease. Good translation says this is

  153. how God loved the world. Not he loved it so much but this

  154. is how God loved the world. He gave.

  155. What did he give? What could he give?

  156. What would be the best gift? God could give John says his own

  157. heart, or the son, who's in his own heart?

  158. He gave us his son, his one, and only son his unique son, whoever

  159. believes in him, will not perish, but have eternal life.

  160. And I said, well what is this eternal life stuff?

  161. You know, is that something that's better than God?

  162. Like is that a is that actually the real better gift?

  163. That's a good stead of Jesus and his I mean I can't nothing's

  164. better than God like he knows enough to and well, nothing's

  165. better than God was like, right? So what is this eternal life

  166. stuff? And I was like, actually later

  167. in John chapter 17 when Jesus is praying to the father.

    John 17 chapter mention

  168. He says this is eternal life, the life of the age or It's that

  169. they may know you and Jesus Christ and you've sent.

  170. So actually this is another way of saying I'm giving you life

  171. with me giving you my self and I think prayer highlights to me

  172. when I am starting to forget that.

  173. The best thing quote-unquote that I get as a Christian is God

  174. not something else. And when I start to to lose this

  175. sense that I get to live my My life with God's presence every

  176. day by his holy spirit. Then I'm already starting to

  177. move my focus on something else. So I think it kind of challenges

  178. us with. Well, what do you think the

  179. gospel really is? What do you think it really

  180. gives you? You think it gives you something

  181. better than God? So that's, that's one approach,

  182. I think the other thing in terms of thinking about that word,

  183. discipleship, what forms shapes us teaches us?

  184. Apprentices us because we oftentimes think that

  185. Christianity or or being a disciple is like it's this

  186. formation practices that we have to take on as something

  187. additional to our life that we're not doing already and

  188. there's two things about that. Like, I've heard this from other

  189. other teachers recently as well as just that you're already

  190. doing stuff, you already have patterns and rituals you don't

  191. call them rich. Jules, you know you already when

  192. you get in your car, There's four things that you do

  193. immediately. I mean they're different for

  194. everybody, or when you wake up in the morning you either check

  195. you check something on your phone.

  196. First, you turn your alarm off. If you make a cup of coffee,

  197. right? You do your Wordle, you,

  198. whatever your thing is, right. Everybody has a thing.

  199. Well, that's, those are discipling practices, just

  200. around something else that may or may not have anything to do

  201. with the Lord, but you're already ingrained in rhythms and

  202. right now. You're practicing away.

  203. Your you have habits and rhythms whether they're intentional or

  204. not and prayer challenges us to go.

  205. Am I actually developing or working or yeah, training and

  206. habits that put myself in God's presence and remind me that he's

  207. with me and I'm with him every day and So the threat right now,

  208. I think is that we're more trained and discipled by

  209. algorithms from Google and then we are by the Holy Spirit or

  210. anything, from the history of Christianity, or spiritual

  211. mentors, or the Bible. So, let me make a big

  212. observation but a couple things together and tell me if I'm

  213. headed down the right path here. So part of the question about

  214. Why do we struggle with this discipline?

  215. Why do we neglect? It seems to exist around the

  216. idea of how do I know it's working?

  217. Like if I'm praying for other people, you know, how do I know

  218. God, hears my prayers? How do I know my prayers

  219. effective? But it feels like the prayers

  220. and praying for other people and praying for things is skipping

  221. the most important step that you just talked about.

  222. So we talk about devotion Devotion to God Devotion, to

  223. others, two great Commandments. I don't think of people.

  224. A lot of people think about prayer.

  225. As Devotion to God as much as they think about praying for

  226. other people, as a sign of Christian, you know, discipline,

  227. obedience and love you. I love you.

  228. I want to pray for you. I want to care for you, but it

  229. seems like if that's more of our starting point.

  230. And we haven't cultivated this appreciation that God is the

  231. gospel in a way that I really enjoy a part of that

  232. appreciation, is by communing with him through prayer, right?

  233. Then the second part of that equation, Asian praying for

  234. others is going to struggle. Yes.

  235. Does that make sense? Can you elaborate a little bit

  236. more on that baby? Yeah, I know.

  237. I completely agree. I mean, of course like, you

  238. know, I heard recently, you know, the reason why we pray for

  239. people's because we love them, right?

  240. You know, and when you can't do for them, something that you

  241. wish you could do then you ask for somebody to do that thing.

  242. That's that actually can't. So you go to God and say, Could

  243. you do this? Because I can't and I love this

  244. person. That's not a bad impulse, but it

  245. does remind me of. So I got a quote that wasn't

  246. going to be very long, but I got a quote Dietrich Bonhoeffer on

  247. this. But in his little book life

  248. together, he starts by talking about community and he one of

  249. his main points is you can't and you actually don't as a

  250. Christian have Community with other persons or other

  251. Christians apart from Jesus Christ and you start to distort

  252. your relationship with others unless you see it in and through

  253. Jesus Christ. So I do think that the skipping

  254. of yeah, I don't I'm not really talking to God because I need

  255. communion with him. I'm trying to get him to be a

  256. cosmic vending machine for some problems right now, that

  257. actually already distorts your relationship with other people,

  258. right? Even when you're praying for

  259. this right? You know, so you're just your

  260. orientation can get Is distorted, that's not the spoken

  261. motivation obviously not. But what you're saying is apart

  262. from some healthy rhythms, we already have other rhythms in

  263. our life that we may not recognize as rhythms and we fall

  264. into that thinking because we are swimming in a world of

  265. consumerism vending machine type.

  266. Yes the ology. Yes, our are your economic like

  267. James K, Smith talks about this a lot but your economic This is

  268. our discipling. You so much everyday, your

  269. buying habits, right that use, you can't help but start to

  270. think about your relationship with God.

  271. In those types of free market capitalist terms and when it

  272. comes to your relationship to other people sometimes sometimes

  273. you feel guilty. They feel like I'm actually

  274. trying to twist God's arm to do something that he doesn't want

  275. to do in my intercession for somebody else.

  276. And this is just a well that's just wrong.

  277. I mean, you don't and that's why the orientation.

  278. Godlike. And this will get to this, but

  279. hopefully the The Lord's Prayer it starts by going, like, you

  280. actually are a good father, you're a good good father.

  281. Like the song says, and you really are bringing the life of

  282. Heaven to the Earth, and I really want your reality but you

  283. want your will to be done. We're actually on the same page

  284. about that. Yeah.

  285. But that completely changes your prayers for other people.

  286. And rather than just this like I'm desperately hoping that God

  287. would care a fraction as much as I do about.

  288. Out my loved one. No, no.

  289. Like of course, you're going to throw it one pair because of

  290. that, and then you're going to go try to do it yourself unless

  291. you think of God differently and then you'll, you'll realize that

  292. you're praying with God and you're praying with Christ.

  293. And you're offering up prayers that are completely in line with

  294. the desires of all these Spirit. Yeah.

  295. So let's go back to this idea of nothing is better than God.

  296. Okay, I really, I really want to double tap on that, but I want

  297. you to Help us answer the question.

  298. Like how would you encourage our church towards this?

  299. So sometimes I think it's similar to a marriage where you

  300. actually really do love the person that you married and you

  301. really do want to be with them. Even if you guys frustrate each

  302. other sometimes, but in order to remind yourself and the other

  303. person of the intimacy you really do, have you have to cut

  304. some things out and you have to To carve out some space and

  305. time. So Jesus said, when you pray and

  306. you go into your closet or you go into this little cabinet room

  307. and pray that you know, Tyler sentences is an incredibly great

  308. Insight because you're you have to carve out a space for this

  309. and that's what something like the night of prayer has done for

  310. our church body, it it carves out a specific time and space to

  311. Give ourselves to the structure, the words, the Rhythm, the the

  312. life and the truth of the Lord's Prayer as a as a trellis as a

  313. form as a way to enter into God's presence and let it shape

  314. us. It's a gift, right?

  315. It's not it's a gift from from Christ himself to say, look,

  316. this is a way to be with me and learn what it feels like and

  317. looks like to be with me and be on the same page.

  318. With me and so are not of prayers have helped to do that.

  319. I mean, there's teaching there's prayer, there's intercession,

  320. there's just being in God's presence and and letting that be

  321. a pause to realize, and remember that.

  322. Yeah, actually God's the God, we worship.

  323. And, and because he's good, we don't have to doubt that because

  324. of who we see in Jesus Christ and so we can bring the worst

  325. parts of our life to him. Must broken pieces.

  326. He can handle that. And we can also celebrate and,

  327. and he'll he rejoices with us with the great thing.

  328. You know, the triumphs, we can bring it all to him.

  329. And as a community, we do that, you know, the Lord's Prayers

  330. prayed in the plural. So so our night of prayers is

  331. one of the structures that helps bring us back to 0, right?

  332. Christianity is about life with God and How does the structure

  333. of the Lord's? Prayer itself.

  334. Orient Us in this Focus towards God first.

  335. Mmm. I mean, this is nothing new but

  336. because it does start with our father who is in heaven and the

  337. prayer to how would be your name or Sanctified?

  338. Be your name scientific. I'll do is we say in Spanish

  339. that your name would be treated his.

  340. Holy seen as holy received his holy, it's a, it's a complex

  341. way. Of saying.

  342. I'm actually good. I want to take care of you.

  343. I love you. I'm a good God.

  344. Everything that I share with you is out of an abundance of gift,

  345. its Grace upon Grace, and to come back to his name as his

  346. character. It's who he is.

  347. It's it's his character not just revealed in the abstract and

  348. like a list or a laundry list of attributes.

  349. It's his name is identified with freeing Israel from slavery.

  350. In Egypt. And, and of course, that goes

  351. back to the point we made earlier, is, like, why did he

  352. free him in the first place? Well, yeah, to get rid of

  353. Oppression, but it actually says so that they may worship me.

  354. Like, he's trying to save him, so that they can have this

  355. intimate encounter this worship life of worship with God.

  356. So, I think out of the gate, the first line is inviting you to

  357. see God differently. And what about the, Father, how

  358. should we think about God as father?

  359. Yeah, so father this is not obvious but I do think it's

  360. important to say father has different connotations for some

  361. people that that's like oh that's a metaphor of a good

  362. parent and for others it's that's actually a metaphor for a

  363. terrible parent. So it is a human, it is an

  364. anthropomorphic or, you know, for a title it is an analogy.

  365. But I think it's important to Go.

  366. Well, how does Jesus go? Let's go back to Jesus and Let

  367. Jesus show us who the father is. And so, first and foremost, the,

  368. the father is the one with whom Jesus has always been and a

  369. great way to kind of shape how you think about God as father.

  370. It would be to go back to John chapter 17 when which is this

    John 17 chapter mention

  371. extended prayer from Jesus and it's just Just full of trust and

  372. life and love. And so that should shape how we

  373. think about God, the father is in and through Jesus.

  374. So we pray the Lord's Prayer. Rowan Williams says on our knees

  375. next to Jesus. So I don't think you should just

  376. go straight to father and go, well, whatever, I think about

  377. that good or bad. That's probably what it is.

  378. We should go to Jesus and go. Why don't you teach me?

  379. What it means to pray to God, the father and we'll know that

  380. we're saying Abba in the way that his holy spirit does.

  381. One of the things is not is that God's not mail?

  382. So to call god father doesn't mean he actually has gender.

  383. That's that's not what it's saying.

  384. It's saying a whole lot of other wonderful, beautiful incredible

  385. things, but it is, it's a title with, with great comfort and

  386. great meeting and great provision.

  387. But, but I would just It's a, let's go to Jesus and learn how

  388. he thinks about God, his father, and it starts with him being the

  389. source and cause of all good, life, and gift and provision in

  390. love. Then, how does the notion of

  391. Kingdom a kingdom? Come thy will be done on Earth

  392. as it is in heaven. How does that idea?

  393. Connect just keeping it simple devotion to God, verse and then

  394. Devotion to other people and interceding, for other people,

  395. is there a connection there, all absence Kingdom?

  396. So, when we talk about Kingdom, you know, in the ancient world,

  397. like most of the time Kings had bad connotations, especially for

  398. Americans as well. It's like, well, that's

  399. everything you everything you would associate.

  400. Monarchy with would be like oppression, you know,

  401. colonialism slavery. All these terrible, you know,

  402. tyrants totalitarian regimes. That's what you think of with

  403. kingdoms and Reign and Rule. You don't have any good

  404. connotations with that, as a good Democratic American.

  405. So it goes back Back to well, what type of King are we talking

  406. about here? And the kind of Kingdom that

  407. Jesus brought that he said, was the heart of the father was a

  408. kingdom who became king through a crown of thorns, not a crown

  409. of gold like he became king through suffering.

  410. The first placard that he gets over his head as king of the

  411. Jews is on a cross, right? So not on a Gold Label.

  412. So the kind of Kingdom were talking about.

  413. That is the heart of the father is one where the highest go

  414. slow. It's the one who sends, you

  415. know, the father loved the world in this way, he gave his only

  416. son. So this is completely reshaping

  417. and hopefully restoring what we think about the father and his

  418. kingdom. And then it's not a kingdom,

  419. that's abstracted from The Real World, which is why we're

  420. talking. Talk to pray, your kingdom, come

  421. your will be done on the Earth as it is in heaven.

  422. It's not to keep Heaven away, its to invite the life of

  423. Heaven, into your own life, and your own heart, and your own

  424. family into your world and to your city.

  425. And so, you can know right from that verse that.

  426. God, actually, his design is to bring the life of heaven and his

  427. kingdom to the Earth. And that's of course, what Jesus

  428. did. But And I always whenever I pray

  429. that prayer, always turn it. You Know, Myself and I say may

  430. your kingdom come your will be done in me as it is in heaven.

  431. And then, I say, also in my family and the life of my wife

  432. and my church, and I know that I'm praying with the will of

  433. God, I know that because that's the prayer Jesus came he to

  434. pray. So, I think keeping Kingdom in

  435. some other world is false. It's an error or making God

  436. aloof. And so abstract that he doesn't

  437. really care. Are no no that's not the kind of

  438. father who dealing with and it's definitely not the kind of

  439. Kingdom that Christ brought so apart from the Lord's Prayer,

  440. what are some other ways that we can keep God?

  441. Prayers to God communion with God big.

  442. What are some other models? You mentioned the high Priestly

  443. prayer. John 17.

  444. What are some other ways that we can really cultivate this

  445. Devotion to God through prayer? Again not to diminish, the

  446. intercession for others but really as as fuel for that,

  447. intercession for us. Yeah, yeah so I think of

  448. intercession as work like, you're doing real work for that

  449. person. Like in Acts, you know they

  450. appoint the deacons and then I say so that we can keep doing

  451. the Devotion to the word and prayer because they think it's

  452. real work prayer is work. Like, Luther thinks it's sweaty

  453. difficult work to pray and it does real things.

  454. So you're serving people. When you pray for them, you're

  455. actually doing work for them before, the Throne of God, when

  456. you pray, but I say that to say that.

  457. Yes, you can follow that in Paul, for example, his the

  458. examples of his prayers, in the Epistles are doing work for the

  459. people that he's writing to that comes out.

  460. Yes, you can track with the prayers of Jesus.

  461. All there's tons of different Encounters of Prayer in the New

  462. Testament that you can draw from but I think one of the easiest

  463. answers just to be sure. For is for the last two thousand

  464. years and then before that the prayer book of the Bible is the

  465. Psalms. And so when I don't know what to

  466. pray, I pray the Lord's Prayer but the Lord's Prayer Luther,

  467. said it penetrates the Psalms and the songs penetrate The

  468. Lord's Prayer. So, I go to the Psalms because I

  469. know that I will have access to the full range of emotion of

  470. tragedy and celebration all there and It's always going to

  471. challenge me. It's going to catch me off

  472. guard, it's going to say things that I don't expect and it's

  473. going to connect with my my life in a real earthy human way.

  474. And so, I think one of the best ways to learn to pray with more

  475. than just the Lord's Prayer is to get in the Psalms, and it's

  476. okay, if you're like, pray phrase and you're like, okay, I

  477. think I know what that means. Yes, God.

  478. That's what I want to say. And then go to the next phrase

  479. ago. I don't know what this means.

  480. God. Yeah.

  481. But I want to go to the next line, that's okay.

  482. But I think that's a great and there's all kinds of books and

  483. resources for that. But I think the Psalms are a

  484. gift to us. Well, this has been great Ryan

  485. so at the end of the day, what would success look like?

  486. So I think I want to say that especially to somebody who's

  487. discouraged about praying right now, they are getting all this

  488. and they're like, this is so foreign to me.

  489. And I feel sad about that. I think that just tells you that

  490. you really do. Love God.

  491. Even though discouragement says, I want something that I know I'm

  492. supposed to be enjoying right now but I'm not there, I think

  493. that's okay. And so to that person I want to

  494. say you already have a successful prayer life.

  495. What do I mean by that? Jesus is your prayer like, Jesus

  496. is already. He already has scars on his

  497. wrists. And in his side that plead for

  498. you, they pray for you every day and they are fully Hebrews says

  499. heard Jesus Christ. He uttered cries and tears and

  500. groans for you already to the father and they've been

  501. completely hard and the Holy Spirit is always groaning always

  502. praying always As with you always already communicating

  503. your needs and they're already being accepted.

  504. So, the good news is, there is a secure sense in which your

  505. prayer life is already acceptable.

  506. Like, no matter how bad it is, and that's the, that's the

  507. gospel. You already have communion with

  508. God, God's party with you, you know, that's who Emmanuel is

  509. Jesus, you know, he's God with us.

  510. So I think that's the Starting place to grow their.

  511. I think would be the first two words that come to mind are

  512. presence, and participation. So presence is when you sense

  513. and experience when you are living into a greater awareness

  514. that you're with God, and God is with you and that you take that

  515. into your presence to the rest of the world, you you sense?

  516. You know, as I'm doing this Labor.

  517. This work, this act of service or my job, my vacation, my

  518. family life, I'm with God and God is with me, the more you

  519. pray, the more you'll be aware of that.

  520. You'll be living with God and experiencing his presence.

  521. You'll be bringing his presence into all the corners of your

  522. life and you're also more present to other people and you

  523. can be present to them, you can love them, you can bring their

  524. presence into into. Your prayer life, your

  525. conversation with god. And so I think presence is a

  526. part of and then participation the word participate, what I'm

  527. trying to get at there is, you know, just participating in the

  528. conversation with god but you actually going to be

  529. participating in what he does in the world so it's very fruitful.

  530. So Jesus is test for whether or not you're remain in him and

  531. John's language and 14 and 15. I think of if your remaining in

  532. him and his words Are in you is that you're going to produce a

  533. lot of fruit? It's gonna be fullness.

  534. Yeah, okay. So you're gonna you're going to

  535. have joy and you're going to be doing the things that Jesus did

  536. and you're going to be doing the work.

  537. You're it's going to look like the father's will and Kingdom

  538. coming in your life as in heaven.

  539. And there will be real practical visible concrete.

  540. Expressions to that, like, feeling less lonely feeling

  541. more. Are experiencing more joy having

  542. the energy to to meet the needs of other people, being able to

  543. embrace moments of pain and tragedy.

  544. Because you at the bottom of all of that, you have a deeper hope.

  545. So you're going to be able to cry with people when you want to

  546. and feel their their wounds because, you know, God can be

  547. there too and God is there. You see what I'm saying?

  548. So it helps you be present in all the moments God's calling

  549. you to be present to be that kind of person.

  550. Person. I think that goes back to what

  551. it means to be a disciple of Jesus.

  552. Well. Thank you.

  553. I think we'll have some great resources.

  554. You've got some good ideas of some, some books maps and

  555. different things that can help. People will put those in in the

  556. resource section. In the show notes, I have one

  557. request. Want to put you on the spot

  558. here, okay, as you close us is okay.

  559. Chris, if I close this out today solutely, then I would love to

  560. hear the Lord's Prayer and you get to pick the language because

  561. you're okay. Your trilingual so Spanish or

  562. French. Close this out with the Lord's

  563. Prayer. Okay.

  564. I can't I can't pray the Lord's Prayer in French yet.

  565. You interesting brake parts of it in Spanish.

  566. Obviously do it for an English but I'll throw in some tongs.

  567. Okay, go for it. Our father in Heaven, by the

  568. take it, that's a no Cielo santificado sea, Tu nombre.

  569. God, we ask that your Holiness and presence your goodness and

  570. fullness of it would be felt by your people today.

  571. They'd be felt by us. God, I pray that we would not

  572. shame or dishonor or treat as common who you are and what

  573. you've done. And we don't want to do that

  574. with our lives or with our speech today.

  575. So I pray that as people look at our lives that they see that.

  576. Your name is good and it's wholly and it's embodied in the

  577. life of Jesus and we just want that knowledge and that reality

  578. to be extended through us. So we ask that your name would

  579. be Sanctified and God we asked that your kingdom would come and

  580. that your will would be done on the earth as in heaven.

  581. Not just in the future but inaugurated now Guy.

  582. We recognize that that's going to be through suffering and

  583. trial in pain. The kingdom doesn't always

  584. especially often times. It does not look like luxury and

  585. comfort and wealth and safety but it looks like heartache and

  586. tragedy. I pray that as we meet each

  587. other in moments of pain that we would be reminded that that is

  588. not contrary to your kingdom coming but that you can come in

  589. and through those moments and so you send us into those moments

  590. today. I pray that we not resist them

  591. or buffer them or distract ourselves with other things, but

  592. be able to be present other people in their pain today.

  593. And God we ask that you would provide for our needs.

  594. God, give us today, the daily bread that we need Meet our

  595. needs are Necessities. That are real, that cause

  596. anxiety, but we pray to you. Knowing that you're good, that

  597. you love to give good gifts to your children.

  598. So we can ask you for all that we need for ourselves and for

  599. those around us. God, we pray that you would

  600. better, though, not with avocados, as we forgive us our

  601. sins, as we are in the process of forgiving others.

  602. This forgiveness is a two-way street, God, and Can't resist

  603. that. So as we receive your

  604. forgiveness, we ask that you would Channel it through US

  605. towards others. Just drain us of the bitterness

  606. that sometimes we walk around with towards other people in our

  607. life, whether it's our spouses, our kids friends, co-workers.

  608. God, we ask that you would, yes, forgive us our sins.

  609. As we forgive those who sin against us and God guide us away

  610. from Temptation and trial. I was not the fall into It or

  611. just do stupid things that make us stumble into moments of

  612. weakness and vulnerability that are our own fault.

  613. Lord, let us not be tempted by our own desires.

  614. So, Lord train our desires. Help us crave, what is good so

  615. that we can overcome evil. And in that last part guy, we

  616. just ask that knowing that you have overcome The evil of the

  617. world. We ask that you would help us

  618. resist evil that you would help us resist evil actions and the

  619. works of those who are doing evil.

  620. Knowing that or Jesus, you came to deliver to save us from evil,

  621. and from all of its effects. And the end the final day, the

  622. final analysis, you really will and darkness and death and evil

  623. will be no more God. We want to bring that hope into

  624. the rest of our day today. And so we ask for it in and

  625. through you, Lord Jesus. I agree.

  626. Thanks. Well, as we wrap up today's

  627. conversation, we want to thank you for joining us.

  628. We believe that discipleship is the process that one engages in

  629. when they repent believe and follow Jesus.

  630. And there's no better way to engage in the process of

  631. discipleship than in community. So we want to encourage you to

  632. share this episode with someone and discuss this discipleship

  633. issue together. Ask for their feedback and any

  634. takeaways they receive be prepared to reciprocate and

  635. approach their feedback with a willingness to learn and apply

  636. this This is a great way to move towards this discipleship issue.

  637. If you have questions or want access to any additional

  638. resources to help you, dive deeper into this subject, be

  639. sure to check out our podcast page located in the show notes.

  640. Thanks for joining us today and we look forward to joining you

  641. on the next episode.