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EP 36: Serving at Front Porch
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We're back again on the Grace Church Members Podcast with the
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third installment of our Front Porch Housing Celebration
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series. Today, we're sharing stories
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from several of our incredible volunteers, starting with Katie
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Jacobs, a community leader who supports our residents in a
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crucial way. I also got to talk with Savannah
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Robinson, a high school student and one of our childcare
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volunteers. And finally, Kevin and Mary
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Talley have served as missional residents for about nine months
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and continue to lend their advocacy and expertise to the
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financial coaching program at Front Porch.
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Hope you enjoy these conversations.
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I'm here today with Katie Jacobs, who is a volunteer at
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Front Porch Housing. Katie, thank you so much for
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joining us today. Thank you for having me.
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Absolutely. Well, first of all, we'd love to
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just hear a little bit about your background and the kind of
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work that you're already doing all the time, even outside from.
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Porch. Oh, awesome.
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Well, I'm Katie Jacobs. I'm originally from Saint
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Thomas, Virgin Islands, born and raised.
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I came to South Carolina to further my education so attended
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Clemson University. I received my bachelor's in
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psychology and also a bachelor's in elementary education.
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Later on I got my master's from Webster University in Greenville
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in human resource management and management and leadership.
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So I've been everything from a regular Ed teacher, special Ed
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teacher. I've worked with severely
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emotionally handicapped individual.
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So my whole life mission is to serve others, and I actually
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started the business, Anger Management of the Upstate as a
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result of working at a nonprofit.
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While I was there, people were calling in for classes to meet
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court order requirements and we were turning people away.
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And I realized people were being held in contempt of court for
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something they could not find. So I decided to go down to the
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solicitor's office here in Greenville County and asked what
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do I need to do to become a qualified provider and was told
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what the credentials were needed and experienced.
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I had that, but I needed to get certified in that specific area.
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So I went ahead and got my national certification and anger
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management. And then later on they reached
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back out to me and asked me what I expand to do domestic
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violence. So I added that as well.
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I'd already been certified doing parenting, so I had already been
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teaching those classes originally.
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The goal was to, you know, help solve a problem we saw here in
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our local community with the increase of violent crimes.
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Initially we're going to offer the classes from the courthouse,
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but of course COVID came. We were already offering the
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parenting there. And so I did a hard pivot and
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decided to just step out on faith and said, you know what,
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I'm going to find a brick and mortar and offer the classes
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from there. So literally from 20/19 to
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20/21, it was a search and we're able to open the doors in August
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of 2021. And part of what I wanted to do
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was not just serve in the capacity of meeting court
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ordered requirements, but being able to serve in helping people
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to improve their quality of life and whatever opportunities
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presented themselves, you know, allowing just by faith to say,
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OK, I'm going to accept that opportunity, that challenge.
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And Fort Porch happens to be one of them.
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Yeah, well. Yeah.
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Tell us a little bit about that. How did you get involved with
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working at Front Portage or serving there?
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Well, I actually was had done a presentation with the Greenville
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Society of Human Resource Managers and someone heard me
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speak there and referred my name over.
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And so I had the pleasure of meeting Leanne Calvin and we had
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a meeting and she said this is some of the things we want to do
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within our ministry, helping our residents really transition and
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learn how to acclimate to communal living.
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And so I said sure. And of course, we started with a
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blank slate. Right.
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Sounds about right, yeah. So we, we came up with the name,
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talked about it and we said we'll call our workshops culture
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of kindness. And so we started developing
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topics that and of the issues that we know people normally
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have when you come into communal living, Never known about
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communal living, right? You know, just the common
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courtesies. So we started off with topics
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like nice neighboring. I mean, that might sound very
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simple, but having those topics of what it is like to just be
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considerate of others in shared spaces, right?
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And then we talked about topics like loving thy neighbor.
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Even for those who may not exercise a lot of the common
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courtesies. Sure.
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How do you practically do that to be supportive rather than
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judgmental? And then we expanded on a whole
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lot of other topics that as issues and concerns arised, we
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tackled. We've tackled topics, everything
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from a certain communication, how to be assertive, stating
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your position without being threatening, emotional
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intelligence, understanding, just not from your perspective,
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from other person's perspective, learning about how to understand
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self understanding, how you erase impacts, how you interact
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with others, what things affect you, how much does it affect
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you, how to reflect and use that as a, a, a platform to for
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growth, Having difficult conversations.
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I can go on and on. And a lot of the topics actually
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came from the residents participating in the classes and
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saying I want to learn more about this.
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Yeah, yeah, that's right. And that's so much of what Front
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Porch is doing is like you have this background, you have this
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way that God has given you skills and abilities and
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education and training. And a lot of that does just look
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like faithful obedience, Like let me hold out what the Lord
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has given me and let me steward that for the sake of someone
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else. What what has that experience
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been like for you, Just as you've been able to engage with
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our residents and walk them through some of these topics?
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It's been very interesting because the first class I was
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actually surprised. I can't believe it's over a year
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that I've started doing this. The class had all males in
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there, so that was kind of interesting.
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And here comes this female and it was, I was like, are they
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going to be really open to this? You know?
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But honestly, even though the session was scheduled for an
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hour and a half, how many of the residents stayed over just to
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have conversation? That was amazing to me and that
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they were more than just interested to me.
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It was like a little hunger there to know more to, OK, I'm
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there's nothing wrong with me. I'm just part of this growth
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process. And everybody's a different
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stage or phase in growth. So that has been very
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interesting. But what I think is most
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rewarding is when I attend and then somebody tells someone
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else, say you got to take that class, you got to come on.
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And having others join as a result of the encouragement of
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others. But also I think what's also
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rewarding when a situation is brought to my attention and
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people are open to say, do you mind assisting?
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Can we, there's maybe a a conflict with this particular
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apartment. Do you mind speaking with the
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residents? And whenever that opportunity is
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there, I just jump in and I meet with them.
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And I think with God's grace and mercy, really the fact that it
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does not matter what the age difference is, the gender
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difference is the cultural difference.
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For them to have an open air for somebody who I feel, I guess I
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can't call myself an outsider from outside the walls of your
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everyday daily activities to be open and receptive and then be
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willing to implement it. To me that's so rewarding
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because so many times when someone that appears to be from
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the outside of your community, whatever that is, many people
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are not very open and accepting, much less receiving from
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something from someone outside. So that has been amazing to me
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and the fact that they haven't tired of me yet.
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They haven't, I got tired. They still look forward to the
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classes every 3rd Saturday. Yeah, we really, we we have to
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brag on our residents Like they are committed, they are doing
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the work and yeah, they're coming in ready to receive, you
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know, whatever it is. Like they're just aware of the
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ways they need to grow and they're committed to working on
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those, You know, and it, it does just take a lot of courage, a
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lot of humility to do that. And to your point, I mean,
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depending on the situation that they may be coming from, you
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know, just experiencing hurt from other people.
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And it can be very difficult to trust someone from the outside.
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And in many cases, they they have learned to protect
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themselves by not trusting people.
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So for them to be in a space where they make a choice to step
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forward and to trust someone who's willing to speak in
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encourage on your part to say it, to speak in and to say truth
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and to help them. It is a two way St.
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And both sides are really leaning in towards one another
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to receive good things and to be able to move forward and grow.
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And that's why this works. But it's not easy.
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And we want to, we want to recognize all of that.
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What have been just some of the other wins and celebrations
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you've seen with some of our residents as they've gone
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through these classes and trainings?
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I'm thinking of 1 gentleman in particular.
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He was attended the first class ever that when I started the
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series and he would even every now and then send a text or
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e-mail saying I remember exactly.
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And he would quote and I'm thinking I can't even remember
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Rick verbatim. And you would bring that back to
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my remembrance and that you actually applying it.
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I think those are the real special moments that, you know,
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it makes a difference. But I think what also helps a
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lot for making a difference is showing humanity not coming in
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as I know it all, but sharing some of the challenges and
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struggles that I've had and how I'm sometimes in some things I'm
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still a work in progress and other things I've overcome.
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So speaking from that in that tone, I think also makes a
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difference for them, yeah. And what like a true experience
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of a teacher, you know, that you get to see your student really
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getting it and like applying it 'cause they can just regurgitate
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to you all day long. But when they're able to go and
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put that in their life and they're like, hmm, this worked
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really well. You know, like, that's a
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exciting moment. Those are the moments that
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teachers live for. But then, yeah, also for you to
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come as a student and to recognize we're still learning,
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like we never fully arrive. We're all still growing.
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And that just lends an approachability to our
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residents. And that's encouraging to them
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as they are continuing to pursue all of these things.
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But what do you think is just unique about this work that
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Front Porch is doing what they've taken on?
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I think it's highly unique in that it's one of the few places
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I've ever experienced that to me, ministry has legs.
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When I say it has legs, it's walking it, it's talking it.
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I've been in in places and spaces where you pray about it,
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but you know somebody else is going to do it.
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You might offer moments of time, donate money, but to actually
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take on the holistic approach of not only addressing problems
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that people everyday existence meeting the basic needs, but
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then assisting them in allowing them space and time to grow and
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develop. And when they get strong enough,
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giving them the launching pad to get there.
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Because to me, it has all the components.
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I've, I've participated in other organizations where you have
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portions of those things, but I've not been a part where you
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have it. From literally what I consider
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from the cradle to the grave, you have all components of it
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being there, being a part of not only giving you something, but
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being there to be supportive while you're there, right?
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So yeah, it's ministry with legs and I absolutely love it.
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Good yes no, that's a great way of saying it.
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Ministry with legs and even as we're just thinking about the,
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the parts of being, you know, or if it's the hierarchy of needs,
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whatever framework you want to use, that front porch is really
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working to meet the physical, the spiritual, mental,
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emotional, which is so much of the work that you're doing.
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And, and like, you do have to have all of those things.
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Like if we just hit one of them, that's really great and that's
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valuable, but then we're missing out on all of these other things
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'cause we're whole beings, all of those things are always
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interconnected. And so you can't heal one part
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without healing the whole. And so, and you have to start
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somewhere, you know, you can't do all of it at once.
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And to your point, takes time. The way that this is set up is
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for our residents to have time to work through these things and
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to process them and to practice them.
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That is what contributes to their ability to succeed.
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And then just having support, like we keep using that word,
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but that they have people who are helping them, you know,
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because none of us get to where we are on our own, and we always
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need our community and friends to help us out so well.
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Katie, I'm just so thankful for the work that you're doing and
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just your willingness to be involved in this ministry.
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Really just the ways that you're being faithful again, with what
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the Lord has given you in this space.
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Is there anything else you wanted to say or talk about that
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we didn't get to? I just say, if nothing else, I
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hope Front Porch continues from years to come.
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I want to see 1015 years from now some of the former residents
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come back and become part of the culture of what Front porch is
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of the front porch of tomorrow. Yes, absolutely.
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Well, I can absolutely attest just the blessing that you have
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been to that community and that is always the goal is to have
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sustainable ministry. That's what we're working
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towards is that at some point this thing is just going to keep
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running itself. And so that you're just such a
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key part of all of that, that healed people, help heal other
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people. And that's, that's the good
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work. So thank you so much for being
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with us today. Thank you for having me.
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I'm here today with Savannah Robinson, who is a volunteer at
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Front Porch Housing. Savannah, thank you so much for
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joining us today. Of course.
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So go ahead and tell us a little bit, just what has been your
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experience serving at Front Porch?
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My experience has actually been really good overall.
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I work in the after school program, so I go from three to
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six once or twice a week and just get to hang out with the
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kids. And it's really, I think it's
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the fun part. Like we literally just hang out
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with the kids and play outside and help them do art and
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homework and I really just hang out.
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So it's been really great. The kids are all so sweet and
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fun and a little crazy, but they're good.
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It's fun, that's right. How did you get started to serve
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at Front Porch? So I went to Kenya over the
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summer and I really just had a want to keep serving with kids,
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I guess when I got back and Front Porch was kind of newish
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and I didn't really know much about it, but one of my friends
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was volunteering there every week.
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And so I decided I would try it since I'm a senior and I have
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lots of time. Yeah.
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So I just started going and that's how.
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Yeah, yeah. How it started.
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I just. Kept up with it.
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That's awesome. Yeah.
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What have just been like some of the wins and celebrations that
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you've gotten to see while you've been there?
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I definitely would say actually yesterday was a big win.
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All the kids were really just chill and no one was fighting.
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It was pretty outside. Like the days when the kids are
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really listening and attentive and you can just have a smooth,
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easygoing day was are always a win.
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And personally, when they started remembering my name,
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that was a big win for me because I remembered their name
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from day one. But like I had to keep showing
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up so they would remember mine. And it's just been cool to see
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that relationship with them grow.
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Yeah, 'cause how long have you been serving with them?
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Since September or maybe August. Probably September.
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Yeah, so definitely a few months at this point and there's so
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many serving roles like that is how you really get to build so
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much credibility and when favor with the kids especially because
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they're like, okay, we want to see somebody who is really
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invested in US and is here and I know that that means so much to
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them to like have a familiar face.
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Yeah. What is just unique about Front
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Porch and as you've been serving in childcare, how have you just
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seen some of that? I think for childcare, it's
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really cool what they do because it's a time for their parents to
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like get their house clean, to study for the school that
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they're in, to get work done and all the things.
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And also let the kids have another place to be that's not
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just their house and school. It's not just the same thing
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every day, but it gives them. They get to hang out with these
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other kids that are there and then they get to hang out with
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new faces 'cause there's different volunteers every day.
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So it's just fun for them. But I think it's cool that they
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have that for the kids so that they can for them have something
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else to do, but also the parents can get stuff done when they
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don't have kids running around everywhere.
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Yeah, absolutely. If you haven't had the chance to
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be at Front Porch, it's great. We have this big open courtyard
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and there truly are if, if the weather's good, there are kids
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outside and they are playing and they're having fun and it's
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really great for them. Just that they can be safe, that
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they can have fun and be supervised.
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But childcare is such a huge resource for parents that they
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are able to take that time to take care of other things once
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their kids are home from school and just know that somebody else
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is looking out for their kids and helping develop them,
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helping train them, helping them have fun, making sure that
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they're safe is just such a huge gift.
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So what has been? What has God been teaching you
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as you've been serving at Front Porch?
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I really think for me that I've always thought serving God means
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doing these big, huge things. Like I have a purpose and it is
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just this huge thing that I need to do.
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But when I started serving at Front Porch, it's not this big
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huge thing. It's just this sweet, simple
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thing of just showing up for these kids.
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And I feel like God has really been showing that in my heart
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that to serve him I can just love on these kids.
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And I'm serving these parents by just playing with their kids.
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Like it's not these big, huge things that we have to do.
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And I think it's cool that we get to love on these kids like
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Jesus loves on us because we're just kind of here and Jesus
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still loves us. And some of these kids, they're
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just here and we just get to come up and hang out with them
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and be a safe space for them. And that's just been one of the
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things that's been really evident, I guess, while I've
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been serving. And also just the joy that they
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have. It's very like that childlike
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faith, that childlike joy and getting to see that, especially
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being like in stressful, like times, I guess for me, college,
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like going away, all this stuff. But like these kids are also, I
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don't know, they could have stress, they could have anxiety,
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but they're still so happy and just joyful at all the little
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things. And it makes me want to have
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that too in my own life. Yeah.
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I love what you said that this is just kind of a small thing
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that you're just able to be consistent in.
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And I mean, it's really the case for a lot of serving roles.
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And I think what we would love to encourage everyone listening,
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we would love for people to get involved.
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And it can just look like small little things.
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Whatever it is for you, whatever space you have, whatever gifts
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and talents you have, you can just bring that to bear.
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And whether it's once a week or once every two weeks, once a
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month, just showing up and doing something small.
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And that is how God asks us to serve right as he's like, yeah,
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just be faithful with these little things that I've given
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you. And when all of that's put
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together, like he's doing a work, that's going to create
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movement and blessing upon people, upon front porch
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housing, upon our community. But all that happens just with
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people doing small things. Yeah.
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Why would you encourage other people to get involved and to
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come be a part of this? I definitely think it's very
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worth it for me. At the beginning it was hard to
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like want to show up and want to go 'cause sometimes 3 hours can
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seem like a lot with a bunch of little kids.
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But now I go and like, I want to be there and I want to hang out
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with him. And, but it's definitely just a
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way, an opportunity to serve God and see how he's moving up front
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porch because it's just cool. There's so many different
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varieties of people there and you just get to hear their
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stories and like where they're from, and it's just cool to be
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around all those people. And I would definitely encourage
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students and adults to do it because I served with both and
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we all love it. Hi, my name is Kevin Talley and
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this is my wife Mary and we attend the downtown campus.
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So we had visited and for us to come to Greenville, we had
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visited a couple times here. Mary has a younger sister with a
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family that we care a ton about that we had come to visit.
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And it's hard not to love everything about Greenville, but
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coming from Chicago, we really love the weather and just the
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kindness of of everyone here. So when COVID hit in 2020, we
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had just left here visiting to see if our youngest could go to
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Clemson University and see if we can somehow establish residency
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here, which that was out of the question.
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But it did allow us to fly back the first week of COVID and
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start packing our drawers and getting ready to sell our home.
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And we thought we would come here for about a year and just
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sort of try it out. And here we are.
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What we left in Illinois was a, you know, a decent sized home on
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some acreage that we took care of and we had a lot of fun stuff
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that we raised a family on. And we came here and moved into
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1600 square feet. And that's where we lived for
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almost three years downtown and and we enjoyed it.
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I was able to put on some weight very successfully, but through
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all the restaurants and we got near the end of that second
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lease and we had had a couple conversations with people over
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at Front Porch that said, you know what, you guys ever think
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about helping us just maybe encourage the people with their
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finances. And we went over there and we
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just, they didn't know what they were going to do.
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We had no idea what we were going to do.
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But they were just like, what if you just meet with them and hear
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where they're at financially? And so we did that and several
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weeks later when our lease was up, I came home one day and I
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said, Mary, if we're going to jump in over there.
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And at this time we had started coaching, I don't know several
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people, we're nearing double digits at that point.
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And we're like, well, if we're going to be over there coaching,
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why don't we, instead of renewing this lease, why don't
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we see if they would let us move in so that we could be more
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engaged in the community? And, and, and just getting to
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know everything that goes on over there, all the different
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ministries that go on, all the volunteers, all the staff, all,
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all the, just, all the people that come in, in and out of
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there all the time. And it just allowed us to to
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learn things a lot quicker than if we would have just been
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coming in a day or so a week volunteering.
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We were really drawn to Front Porch because in our mind it was
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the closest thing to the church here in Greenville or anywhere
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really, just everyone supporting one another and loving each
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other right where they're at, meeting them, where they're at,
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and just helping them take the next step.
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And so we were really encouraged by what we saw throughout that
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entire ministry. But we did feel like we had some
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experience with financial coaching and credit building
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that we could potentially offer a hand there.
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So as we started to coach more and more people, we really saw a
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need that they're to duplicate ourselves and to find other
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people who are passionate and committed to, to really dig in
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with us and start standardizing a process to coach these
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residents along from the point that we met them until the time
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they were ready to transition to their next home.
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And I think it's a huge step for the residents, too.
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I mean, most of them are coming out of some kind of trauma and
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for them to open up their lives to us takes a ton.
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And it's not about a math equation.
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It's not a really about finances.
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It's just about walking alongside someone and
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encouraging them where maybe they didn't have that
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encouragement from anywhere else in their life.
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But you know, they come. Many residents come from other
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awesome programs that are getting people back on their
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feet and those ministries are are laying that groundwork and
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planting the seeds and, and we don't know, did did Miracle Hill
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plant the seed? Did did one of the coaches at
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front Porch plant the seed? But that's all that's all we're
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doing with our faith, right? We sometimes don't see the
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blossom. We just, we plant the seed and
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just give someone. I think what we heard a couple
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weeks ago in church is it give them, give them hope because
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that's what regardless of what station people are in life, to,
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to, to give them hope. And part of that hope is having
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financial hope that they can see themselves going back into
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society and, and surviving instead of having to return to
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maybe the elements that created some of the problems that
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started maybe a downward trajectory at some point.
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But they've given more to us than we've given to them by far.
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Once you start pouring into someone, there's probably
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nothing more rewarding in life than to than to to pour into
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them, because then that makes us want to grow more in our faith.
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And as we grow more in our faith and we want to serve more.
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And that's the kind of good things that snowball.
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One, one of the coolest things that we're seeing right now is
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as we have graduates and seeing people have success, we're
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having them come back and give their testimonies, not just
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their faith ride, but their financial.
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And we just had our first one and it was I mean, it's amazing.
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That's, that's someone that's when they enter, they can't look
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you in the eye. They don't want to talk about
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anything. They don't trust another human
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being. We didn't coach them.
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Someone else coached them. Just took a little bit of tidbit
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from them. And she, she got in that
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classroom and spoke to 13 other residents and you could have
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heard a pin drop and you couldn't have written a better
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script for what she wrote or what she said when she just
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shared from the heart. And it's it.
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She has more than hope now. She has a plan.
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It's just that's, that's, that's the most rewarding part.
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And it's even more rewarding to us when it's not, well, none of
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This Is Us. This is all God, but we never
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want to take credit for, Oh, like we coached this for.
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It's so many other volunteers, not just from grace, even other
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churches now that are signing up to coach these people, the, the
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residents. And a lot of them sign up
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because they have a financial background, because they think,
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oh, this is in my wheelhouse. That's 10% of what we do and
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that's what they realize. If someone would have told me
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five years ago I'd be praying in public, let alone praying with
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other strangers, I would have said, no, you got me mixed up
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with someone else. I would have never done that.
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And that's really all we ask is for someone to volunteer, pass
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the background check, be willing to pray with them and encourage
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them and meet with them. That's that's that's really the
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only requirement. We are both prone to be self
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reliant and so we have, we, we went to Front Porch thinking we
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had a plan in place that this is going to work.
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We can do this and that and get an app and plug them into that
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and it'll all be great and they'll just be off and running.
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And God has slowly shown us that we are not capable and we are
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not equipped and we don't have the experience to do what it
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takes to really break into this world with someone with their
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finances was just such a personal part of your life.
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And so he has really been working on us with that, I
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believe, because we want to plan, we want to be in control,
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we want to know what's going to happen from A-Z and everything
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in between. But He's taught us that our
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availability is much greater than our ability.
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And so if we just take a step and we're called to be obedient
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and available and faithful and to to seek him when we're doing
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these kind of things, and then he shows up in a big way and
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it's totally different than what we thought, but it's so much
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better. So I think we're learning that
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to be less self reliant and more God reliant and that being God
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reliant is a lot less stressful. So I think that's what I've
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taken from the last 10 to 12 months.
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I I had a lot of changes to do because I was my picture was
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next to self reliant in the dictionary.
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But more so than even self reliant, just my entire identity
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was tied up and having graduated from West Point, being a
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business owner, being an athlete, being all these other a
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parent, a volunteer running all these different things that we
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always just because we were sort of go getters type A, we went
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out and volunteered for all those things.
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And when people ask me, oh, what's your favorite Bible
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verse? I can Oh yeah, Philippians 413.
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I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
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But if you were looking at a picture on the wall that would
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have looked like me out front with I'm really important in the
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front of my chest with God being like this wind behind me.
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And at the age of 54, I lost a job.
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And it's harder when you're 54 to lose a job.
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And I hit rock bottom very quickly and wasn't totally
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devastating. It was devastating to my ego And
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I had a choice to make. And I I got with some guys a
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little older than me that were way ahead of me in faith.
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Started started in a Bible study and stuff.
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And then if you could change that picture.
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Now I see him out front and we're blessed to have had all
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these experiences that we hope that we can use those
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effectively to just maybe through God's word to speak to
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those people and say, you know what, you know, we've been
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there. We've we've been through some
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really incredibly traumatic things, but they don't define
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us. The good things no longer define
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us any more than the, the bad things, the hurtful things that
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have happened to us because our identity, our identity isn't one
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thing. And that's refreshing.
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And that's where we, we want to spend our time.
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You know, when I lost my job, I was 54, I thought, well, my life
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might be almost half over at 54, so I better get straight.
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So that was a big, that was probably the start of all this
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for me. But that's, that's what we're
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asking for humility and, and guidance.
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And we have met so many incredible examples.
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We can't use names because we'd leave someone out, but there's
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people way beyond us that have been serving for 30-40 years at
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a pace that I'm not sure we could ever do.
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And they're, they're rewarding to be around because you know
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what? They never talk about what about
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them? They're talking about who
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they're pouring into. Moving into front porch was just
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an act of obedience. We've never, ever described it
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as making a sacrifice. We were already living in 1200
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square feet. The only thing I lost was my
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patio with a grill. And if I really wanted to do
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that, I could arrange to get the grill from the clubhouse.
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We never looked at it as a sacrifice.
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We looked at it as an opportunity to do something a
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little bit more intentionally and to be completely sometimes
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submerged into into the community there because it it
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is, it's it's messy, it's not perfect.
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It's it's all the things that but, but there's just so many
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people over there pouring their hearts in into others that their
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their lives are changed. And that's that's where the word
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gets out. But also the word gets out When,
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when a when a couple residents that we could write a book
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already just on the the the experiences we've had and the
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other coaches have had with you don't know when you meet
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someone. I mean, it's, it's super clear
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over there that no one has status.
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The only status that we share is that we're children of God.
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Because whether you live on the 1st floor or third floor, you
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still live in the same building. So it's not any of the things of
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this world that we're competing on.
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We're just trying to be saved and we're trying to get our
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finances straight. And there's a lot of that going
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on in the real world too. But what we found that made what
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all the coaching over there has done, the residents are much
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more open and honest and vulnerable with with us than
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perhaps what most of the people in society and at the normal
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campuses are. And it's just so much easier.
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If someone comes to you and says, this is this is where I'm
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at, is there any way that I can get to that point?
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And then they've never had a positive balance in their
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checking account all their life. And now they're coming to you
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with a 724 credit score, they've given up some of the vices in
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their life and they have two or $3000 in their savings account.
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That's that is life changing for all involved.
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I think something really attractive about being involved
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at Front Porch is just the genuine relationships that you
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develop. I would much rather sit on a
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bench in the common area with someone who's going to be
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completely honest and genuine and real with me that I would
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anywhere else in the world. And we've been able to develop
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some really meaningful friendships where we're praying
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for one another and we're encouraging one another.
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And they're asking what's going on in our life just as much as
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we're looking to see what's going on in theirs.
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And that's really refreshing. And I think that's relationships
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are what matter in this world, not the things, not where you
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live, the car you drive. It's those genuine relationships
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where I know that I could reach out to any of a number of
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residents that we've coached that are now our friends and
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they would be there for me. And I'm hoping that I can always
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be be there for them, whether that's while they're in the
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program or long after they leave.
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We hope you have enjoyed this three-part podcast featuring
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stories of those that work, live, and serve at Front Porch.
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Why did we share this with you? Well, we unashamedly do not want
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you to miss out on the ministry that is happening there.
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In addition, Front Porch Housing is a nonprofit organization that
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needs the support of the entire community, not just Grace
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Church, to be successful. Churches and businesses have
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partnered, but we need many more to effectively serve the 400 on
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site residents. So will you do us a favor and
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share these stories? If you were interested in
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volunteering, please visit the website or grab a few friends
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and coworkers and come for a tour.
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Visit Inspire Coffee in the Clubhouse and soak up all the
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energy of Front Porch. And as you have heard many
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times, housing is just the beginning of holistic care.
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The supportive services offered to each individual and family
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are costly. Residents pay their rent and
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utilities, but monthly donors are critical to the continued
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success of the program. Your monthly donation of 25, a
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hundred, $250, or anywhere in between will help cover
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counseling, transportation costs, health services, and so
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much more. Giving online is easy at Front
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Porch, housing.org, back slash Give.
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Please check the show notes for all these resources and more.
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And a special thanks to our producer, Whitney Manus, for
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these interviews. We'll see you again soon on the
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Grace Church Podcast.